Lakeside Memorial Funeral Home Inc Obituaries

Introduction to Lakeside Memorial Funeral Home Inc

Lakeside Memorial Funeral Home Inc, located at 1340 Union Road, West Seneca, NY, 14224, is a trusted and compassionate funeral home that has been serving the community for years. Their commitment to providing exceptional service and support to families during their time of need has earned them a reputation as one of the most respected funeral homes in the area.

A History of Excellence

Lakeside Memorial Funeral Home Inc has a rich history of providing dignified and personalized funeral services to families in West Seneca and surrounding communities. Their experienced team of funeral professionals has built a reputation on trust, compassion, and attention to detail, ensuring that every family receives the highest level of care and support during their time of need.

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Roger K. Schultz - June 28, 1943 - October 14, 2022

Departed: 10/14/2022 (West Seneca)

Obituary Preview: Roger K. Schultz was born on June 28th, 1943, in Buffalo, New York, to his parents, Marvin and June. Roger grew his family with the addition of his two daughters, Lori and Beth. His children went on to have their own children, giving him the title of the most beloved Papa to his grandchildren Emily, Matthew, Katie, Dylan, Jack, Ryan, Patrick, and Michael.

Putting his all into everything he did was important to Roger. Roger put his all into every new hobby he started, whether it was hockey, baseball, camping, fishing, or hunting. When Roger was not participating in these hobbies, you could find him watching the Buffalo Bills or Sabres game, or even in the Adirondacks, kayaking, hiking. Every summer, Roger and the family would get together at their Chautauqua Lake cottage for quality family time.

Roger was a very hardworking man; he worked for MOOG as the shipping and receiving supervisor for 47 years, from the age of 18. He was also the president of the Orchard Park Chamber of Commerce , organizing the Quaker Arts Festival for many years. He also enjoyed his time working with the Special Olympics. Roger was a very hardworking man who loved his family more than anything. As Roger would say, “I’ll be talking at ya.”

Schultz, Roger K. of West Seneca, NY passed away on October 14, 2022 after a brief illness. Devoted father of Lori (David) Green and Beth Ann (William) McCann; Beloved Papa of Emily (Edward) Green-Swinnich, Matthew and Katie Green, Dylan, Jack, Ryan, Patrick, and Michael McCann; Dear brother of Marilyn Schuster and Dean (Claudia) Schultz; Former spouse of Judith Lanza-Bottoms; also survived by a niece, cousins, and many dear friends. Friends will be received Tuesday 3-7 PM at LAKESIDE MEMORIAL FUNERAL HOME, INC. 1340 Union Rd. West Seneca, NY 14224 716-674-5776. A funeral service will take place at St. Simon’s Episcopal Church in South Buffalo Wednesday at 10:00 AM. Please assemble at church. Flowers or donations to the Adirondack Land Trust in Roger’s memory are gratefully appreciated. Donations and condolences online at www.LakesideFuneralHome.com.

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Stephen J. Mellerski - March 01, 1933 - July 27, 2022

Departed: 07/27/2022 (West Seneca)

Obituary Preview: Stephen J. Mellerski was born on March 1, 1933, in Eden, New York, to his parents, Stephen and Lucy. Stephen was the dear husband to his loving wife, Helen. They were proudly married for 66 years and were blessed with four daughters: Carol, Christine, Barbra, and Debra. He became a cherished father-in-law, grandfather of 7, and great grandfather of 2.

Steve worked at Bethlehem Steel for 39 years. He also spent many years playing his saxophone and other instruments. Several family members, including two of his daughters, were blessed to have him play at their weddings. Steve was also an excellent handyman who could fix just about anything. His handy work can be seen throughout his and his children’s homes. One of Steve’s hobbies was making wine which was a treasured yearly family event. Steve also enjoyed tending to his vegetable garden. He had a powerful passion for the New York Yankees and admired classic cars. Steve was very active at his parish as an usher and a member of the Holy Name Society.

No matter what it was, Stephen found joy in it and seemed to be everybody’s “favorite uncle.” His friends and relatives will always remember his jokes, kindness, generosity, and lighthearted personality.

Mellerski, Stephen J. of West Seneca, NY on July 27, 2022. Beloved Husband of Helen Mellerski (nee Fachko) for 66 years; Devoted Father of Carol (Michael) Walters, Christine Mellerski (Kerry Shearer), Barbra (Paul) Tychinski, and Debra (Thomas) Barth; Loving grandfather to 7 grandchildren and 2 great-grandchildren; Dear brother of Dolores (late Arthur) Szymanski, late Florence (Paul) Piechazek, and late Richard (Terri) Mellerski; also survived by many cherished nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends. Stephen was a Millwright at Bethlehem Steel for 39 years and a proud Army Veteran. He was also a talented musician and an active member of St. John XXIII church. Friends will be received Sunday from 2-7 PM at LAKESIDE MEMORIAL FUNERAL HOME, INC. 1340 Union Rd. 716-674-5776. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held Monday at 10:00 AM at St. John XXIII Church in West Seneca. Online condolences at www.LakesideFuneralHome.com.

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Colleen Mary West - August 29, 1958 - July 17, 2022

Departed: 07/17/2022 (West Seneca)

Obituary Preview: On August 29th, 1958 Colleen Mary West entered the world, accompanied by her twin sister Kathleen. One of seven children, Colleen not only had a large family but a huge heart. The love she had for her family and friends as well as complete strangers knew no bounds. Colleen was also an animal lover through and through.

Family meant everything to Colleen. Her and her late husband, David, were blessed with two children, David and Shannin. Colleen was overjoyed to be a grandmother to her four cherished grandchildren: Katelynn, Jennessa, Elijah, and Alex. Her love and family kept growing when she became a great-grandmother to Kenai, Nazario, Joseph, Dakota, and was to become a great grandmother in the near future. One of the greatest blessings to the West family was being able to have a large family reunion just before Colleen’s passing, giving her one last precious day to spend with her treasured relatives.

Colleen found enjoyment working at TOPS Markets in their deli and cheese shop for many years. Being a lover of cheese, potatoes, and all sorts of other foods, it was a perfect fit for her! In her later years as her health started to falter and she had to begin dialysis treatments, she had to give up some of her favorite treats but never gave up on having a nice bowl of ice cream at night, sometimes even skipping dinner so she could enjoy her favorite dessert. She loved to cook, and one of her favorite dishes to make was deviled eggs.

In her spare time, you could catch Colleen playing Wizard of OZ Magic Match on her phone, listening to some Jim Croce tunes, or adding to her vast collection of snowman figurines and décor. She was truly an amazing and loving woman who will leave her mark on many hearts for many years to come.

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Louis C. Rourke - February 28, 1947 - July 02, 2022

Departed: 07/02/2022 (West Seneca)

Obituary Preview: Louis C. Rourke was a man who adored his family with all of his heart. He was born to Clifford and Constance Rourke in Hartford, Connecticut, and raised in Buffalo, New York, alongside his siblings Mary, Cliff, TK, Patti, and Jon. His fondest childhood memories were of time spent in the kitchen with his brothers and sisters as well as with his extended family at the New England shore. An extrovert through and through, he was friendly & talkative and combined with his love of routine, he was extremely well suited to the military and the civil service.

As a young man, Lou began a course of study at divinity school. After some time in divinity school, he left his studies and began his military service in the United States Army. He served overseas in Vietnam, working with the corps of engineers, where his superiors noted his work ethic, organizational skills, and reliability allowing him to ultimately rise to the ranks of Major. Upon returning home, he continued to serve in the Army Reserves in Schenectady.

In Queensbury, New York Lou worked for the Social Security Administration. Starting as a claims representative he worked his way up to a network administrator and due to his commitment to service, he became the union leader for many years. An avid consumer of knowledge, he voraciously read and absorbed everything he could find pertaining to technology in an effort to self-educate. This led to his career advancement in computer technology. He took pride in this job. You could always count on him to carry around a coveted Social Security office pen which his daughters learned early on not to try to steal. After retirement, he often bragged he was being paid to stay home from two jobs and he loved this time of his life.

Eventually, Lou left New York State and returned to the Cape Cod area he loved so much from his youth. He enjoyed visiting the beaches of his childhood; sometimes with a daughter and daughter-in-law in tow. In Fall River and then Swansea, he was an active member of the community. A core value to serve others drove him to volunteer at both the local library and community College where his passion for reading and sharing knowledge led him to teach in the literacy program there.

He was often found taking walks and making dear friends with his neighbors (always with a stash of Hershey’s Almond Nuggets in his pocket). Many who knew him heard him tell-tale of the infamous water balloon fight from his childhood. The Rourke and Greaney kids caused such chaos that the town shut off the public water supply. When he wasn’t busy wreaking havoc, he and the Rourke clan also shared a love of the written word.

In a family of book lovers, Lou was in serious contention for the title of Most Avid Reader. He’d come home from volunteer shifts at the library’s used book store with a pile he’d bought for himself only to donate them back to the same store the next week. His favorite genres were history and historical fiction; he found that reading about the past helped him to understand the present and the future. His attempts to ignite the same fascination about American history in his daughters during family trips were less successful than the annual viewing of the musical 1776.

His love of God reminded him to enjoy life’s little pleasures such as coffee milkshakes, Stewart’s corn chips, a warm slice of pie, and good music. For Louie, good music ranged from hits of the 60s and 70s to traditional Irish melodies to folk songs featuring Bible verses in their lyrics. Despite his predilection for electric guitar, he had an unexpected enthusiasm for ABBA, a classic example of his boundless interests. His daughters’ could always count on him to sing the bass section of Handle’s Hallelujah Chorus despite his insistence that he couldn’t carry a tune. This burst of joy was one of many annual traditions he relished in with his family.

Anyone who spent time with Lou heard him say how much he loved his daughters. His proudest accomplishment was being a father to Nancy, Kate, and Connie and then a grandfather to Zoe. He could usually be found wearing a sweatshirt sporting the name of one of the various colleges his children attended. His love for family extended to a Brittany Spaniel named Suzie. A self-proclaimed dog person, he also tolerated the endless parade of stray kittens that found their way into his backyard.

Louis had a kind heart and a generous spirit. He adored being part of something greater and strove to always be helpful to those in need. He will be remembered for his unwavering dedication to family, community, and country, and missed for his natural ability to brighten anyone's day. We leave with this quote from George Washington’s farewell address which encapsulates the ineffable complexities of Louis Rourke: “I carry with me the hope that [you] never cease to view [my defects] with indulgence, and that, after [a] life dedicated to service with an upright zeal, the faults of incompetent abilities will be consigned to oblivion."

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Facilities and Amenities

The funeral home's facilities are designed to provide a warm and welcoming atmosphere, perfect for families to gather and celebrate the life of their loved one. The spacious chapel can accommodate large crowds, and the comfortable visitation rooms provide an intimate setting for families to share memories and condolences. Additionally, the funeral home offers ample parking, making it easily accessible for all visitors.

Services Offered

Lakeside Memorial Funeral Home Inc offers a wide range of services to meet the unique needs of each family they serve. From traditional funeral services to cremations and memorial gatherings, their experienced team will work closely with you to create a personalized celebration of life that honors your loved one's memory. They also offer pre-planning services, allowing individuals to make arrangements in advance, giving their families peace of mind and financial security.

Cremation Services

Lakeside Memorial Funeral Home Inc understands that cremation is becoming an increasingly popular choice for many families. That's why they offer a variety of cremation options, including direct cremation, cremation with a memorial service, and cremation with a traditional funeral service. Their team will guide you through the process, ensuring that your wishes are respected and your loved one is treated with dignity.

Pre-Planning Services

Pre-planning your funeral arrangements can be a thoughtful and responsible decision, giving your family peace of mind and financial security. Lakeside Memorial Funeral Home Inc offers pre-planning services, allowing individuals to make arrangements in advance, ensuring that their wishes are respected and their family is protected from unnecessary stress and expense.

Community Involvement

Lakeside Memorial Funeral Home Inc is committed to giving back to the community they serve. They participate in various local events and charities, supporting organizations that benefit families and individuals in need. Their team is also actively involved in educational initiatives, providing resources and guidance to help families navigate the funeral planning process.

Grief Support and Resources

Losing a loved one can be a devastating experience, and Lakeside Memorial Funeral Home Inc understands that grief is a journey that requires support and guidance. They offer a range of grief support services, including counseling, support groups, and online resources, to help families navigate their emotions and find healing during this difficult time.

Why Choose Lakeside Memorial Funeral Home Inc?

Choosing the right funeral home can be a daunting task, but Lakeside Memorial Funeral Home Inc stands out from the rest. Their commitment to excellence, compassion, and personalized service sets them apart from other funeral homes in the area. With their experienced team, beautiful facilities, and range of services, you can trust that your loved one will be treated with dignity and respect. Contact Lakeside Memorial Funeral Home Inc today to learn more about their services and how they can support you during your time of need.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It is usually published in a newspaper, online, or in a funeral home's website to inform friends, family, and community members of the passing.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to honor and celebrate the life of the deceased, while also providing important information to those who knew them. They help to notify others of the passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences to the family.

What information is typically included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, achievements, hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also include details about the funeral service, memorial donations, and other relevant information.

Who writes an obituary?

The obituary is usually written by a family member or close friend of the deceased, with the assistance of a funeral home or obituary writer. The writer should be someone who knew the person well and can provide accurate and meaningful information.

How long does it take to write an obituary?

The time it takes to write an obituary can vary depending on the complexity and length of the notice. On average, it can take anywhere from 30 minutes to several hours to write a well-crafted obituary.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, it is possible to write your own obituary in advance. This can be a therapeutic exercise that allows you to reflect on your life and legacy. However, it's essential to keep in mind that your wishes may not be followed exactly as written.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, usually including only basic information such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary is a more detailed and personalized tribute to the deceased.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication, length of the notice, and other factors. On average, the cost can range from $50 to $500 or more.

Where can I publish an obituary?

Obituaries can be published in local newspapers, online obituary websites, funeral home websites, social media platforms, and other online channels.

How do I submit an obituary for publication?

You can submit an obituary directly to the publication or website where you want it to appear. Be sure to follow their guidelines and deadlines for submission.

Can I include photos or other multimedia in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include photos, videos, or other multimedia elements in an obituary. This can help make the tribute more personal and engaging.

How long will an obituary remain online?

The duration for which an obituary remains online varies depending on the publication or website. Some may keep it available indefinitely, while others may remove it after a certain period.

Can I edit or update an obituary after it's been published?

In some cases, it may be possible to make corrections or updates to an obituary after it's been published. However, this may depend on the publication's policies and procedures.

What if I need to correct errors in an obituary?

If you notice errors in an obituary, contact the publication or website where it was published as soon as possible. They will work with you to correct the mistakes and republish the revised notice.

Can I include charitable donations or memorial information in an obituary?

Yes, you can include information about charitable donations or memorial contributions in an obituary. This can help support a cause that was important to the deceased.

How do I handle sensitive or private information in an obituary?

When writing an obituary, it's essential to be respectful of sensitive or private information about the deceased or their family. Avoid including details that might be hurtful or embarrassing.

Can I use humor or anecdotes in an obituary?

Yes, you can use humor or share anecdotes in an obituary to make it more personal and celebratory. This can help capture the personality and spirit of the deceased.

What if I'm struggling to write an obituary due to grief or emotional distress?

If you're finding it difficult to write an obituary due to grief or emotional distress, consider seeking support from a friend, family member, or professional writer. They can help you craft a meaningful tribute while respecting your feelings.

Can I include quotes or poetry in an obituary?

Yes, you can include quotes or poetry in an obituary to add depth and meaning. Choose pieces that resonate with the deceased's personality or values.

How do I ensure that an obituary is accurate and respectful?

To ensure accuracy and respectfulness in an obituary, fact-check information carefully and avoid including sensitive or private details. Also, proofread carefully before submitting for publication.

Can I use social media to share an obituary?

Yes, you can share an obituary on social media platforms like Facebook, Twitter, or LinkedIn. This can help reach a wider audience and allow friends and acquaintances to pay their respects.

What if I need help writing or publishing an obituary?

If you need help writing or publishing an obituary, consider consulting with a funeral home director, professional writer, or online resource specializing in obituaries. They can provide guidance and support throughout the process.

Can I create a digital archive of an obituary?

Yes, many online platforms allow you to create a digital archive of an obituary. This can serve as a permanent record of the tribute and provide easy access for future generations.

How do I preserve memories and mementos related to an obituary?

You can preserve memories and mementos related to an obituary by creating a scrapbook or memory box. You can also digitize photos and documents for safekeeping and sharing with others.

What if I have questions about writing or publishing an obituary that aren't addressed here?

If you have further questions about writing or publishing an obituary that aren't addressed here, consider reaching out to a funeral home director, professional writer, or online resource specializing in obituaries for guidance and support.