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Lady Family Mortuary, located at 555 Fair Oaks Ave, Arroyo Grande, CA, 93420, is a trusted and compassionate funeral home that has been serving the community for many years. The mortuary is dedicated to providing exceptional service, guidance, and support to families during their most difficult times. With a commitment to excellence and a passion for helping others, Lady Family Mortuary has established itself as a premier funeral home on the Central Coast.

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The Lady family has a long history of providing funeral services to the Arroyo Grande community. With a legacy of compassion and care, the mortuary has built a reputation for being a trusted and reliable partner in times of need. The staff at Lady Family Mortuary takes pride in their work, ensuring that every family receives personalized attention and care. From the initial consultation to the final farewell, the mortuary's team is dedicated to making the funeral planning process as smooth and stress-free as possible.

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Carol Ann Grimes - October 05, 1943 - April 25, 2024

Departed: 04/25/2024 (Arroyo Grande)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Carol Ann Grimes.

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Bruce Harold Summers - December 12, 1962 - April 21, 2024

Departed: 04/21/2024 (Arroyo Grande)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Bruce Harold Summers.

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John Quincy Phipps - March 06, 1949 - April 17, 2024

Departed: 04/17/2024 (Arroyo Grande)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for John Quincy Phipps.

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Austin Grove Petry Jr. - December 16, 1951 - April 08, 2024

Departed: 04/08/2024 (Arroyo Grande)

Obituary Preview: Austin was born in York, Pennsylvania, to parents Phyllis and Austin, Sr., Petry(predeceased). He has an older sister, Beverly, and younger brother, Daniel. Austin has a niece, Christina, and her family who live in Santa Ynez and two nephews, Derek and Brent, and one Granddaughter, Kylie.

Austin, Jr. lived in Japan long enough to be influenced by Japanese culture while his father was stationed there in the1950’s. Transferred to the Vandenberg Air Force Base, the rest of Austin’s youth was spent there, and attended Cabrillo High School in Lompoc. He was a wrestling star for their team.

During the summer after graduation, he learned to sail while working at Lopez Lake and the sailor was in him the rest of his life.

Austin went into the Air Force in 1972-1975, narrowly escaping Viet Nam. He was a Fire Fighter Specialist, trained and stationed at Vandenberg to fight jet fuel fires and crashes.

After the service, he worked at Diablo Nuclear Power Plant in San Luis Obispo until he was offered a sought-after position at California Men's Colony as a Correctional Officer. He had a distinguished career for 30 years. He was well-respected by fellow officers, as well as the inmates. Austin was a wonderful Dad to children Candy and Farrell and involved them in camping, hiking, and sailing as youngsters. Farrelll preceded Austin in death, 2022. Candy resides in Colorado, but was there, holding her father’s hand to the end in the hospital.h5fb

Austin’s Harley Davidson moniker was “Scooter Tramp”, riding motorcycles since his mid-teen years. He rode several Harleys over his lifetime and rode all over the United States and even transcontinental three times. Silly as it sounds, Austin was a champion slow racer: riding his huge Harley, fifty feet within a 3-foot lane without tipping over OR putting his foot down. He won every race, every time he entered.

Austin was also a Scuba diver, using his skills to fix the bottoms of his sail boats, monohull, catamarans, trimarans. He fished and had several recreational diving experiences in the Caribbean and Hawaii.

Austin was a natural at growing avocado trees and using grafting techniques to propagate avocados bigger than softballs; they were delicious. He also had a fondness for cacti, potted beautifully around his home. Austin was a fabulous dancer! From about 1998 he took lessons from numerous dance teachers and never stopped learning, even observing his teacher and classmates taking lessons and dancing when he could not a few weeks earlier. He even took notes!

Austin made the BEST BBQ sauce! And known for his fabulous ribs, tri tips and every other meat or vegetable. He was a “Grill Sargeant”.

Austin was adopted by a feral cat, “Raider”, who loved him very much. The cat was not liked by a roommate at the time, but was a devout Raider’s fan. So Austin named the cat “Raider” so the roommate would take a liking to her.

The most memorable thing about Austin was his deeply committed friendships with many people and especially the “Garage Guys”, friends over many years getting together at each other’s homes. They shared respect, kindness, caring and support during times of life’s troubles, playing pool, laughing, and joking when none. These were the friends who did everything to help Austin this last year when he went through grueling tests, treatments, both with chemotherapy and radiation therapy, for pancreatic cancer which metastasized.

There is a hole in the heart of everyone who ever knew him, and he will be remembered until the day we join him.

He will be cremated, and a Memorial Service is planned in the future at Lady Family Mortuary, 555 Fair Oaks, Arroyo Grande, CA .

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Roni Cade Vergne - June 05, 1998 - March 17, 2024

Departed: 03/17/2024 (Arroyo Grande)

Obituary Preview: Cade Roni Vergne, R.I.P. March 17, 2024

Cade was born in La Mesa, California on June 5, 1998 to Angela Robinson and Roni G. Naemi.(siblings Joseph, Angelo and Ron) Soon thereafter, raised by Andrea Naemi-Vergne. Cade was born with an Ultra-Rare Genetic Disease. 8p;12 dup. Later on his diagnosis included - Secondary to Seizures, Macrocephaly, Global Developmental Mental Delayed, Cognitive Impairment, OCD, Separation Anxiety, Bilateral Foot Deformity, Rare Eye Models, Hypotonia and in 2023 Rare form of Cancer to his hip, groin, kidneys, lungs and brain. On March 17, 2024 died at home where he had requested. Cade was enrolled in the Lucia Mar Unified School District Special Day Classes and enjoyed school very much and especially Arroyo Grande High School. We would like to recognize his extensive medical team which included: Amy Webb in Pismo Beach CA, Dr. Bala Bhat in Arroyo Grande, Dr. Michael McGuire in Santa Barbara, Dr. Wesley Schooler in Santa Barbara, Dr. Crompton in Santa Monica UCLA, The Hayashi Group in Pismo Beach, Dr. Igor Galvan and Francis N.P. in Arroyo, Debbie Moore N.P. in Santa Barbara, Mark Corazza in Santa Barbara, Brian De Carlo San Luis Obispo UCLA, and lastly, Cottage Hospital in Santa Barbara. Cade received unwavering support of services from Tri-Counties Regional Center, Dr. Omar Noozad, Coordinators Alfonso Gutierrez, Brian Chapman, Joe Hoeflich. In 2009 Cade was placed in a case study by Emory University in Georgia for his Ultra- Rare Genetic Chromosomes. Later in 2013, Cade's findings was published in the National Proceedings of Science (PNAS). Recognizing and acknowledging Dr. Webb for her support and patient Cade and helping other individuals just like Cade. Organizations included NORDS in Washington, Unique in London and Eurodis in Paris contributed to his care.

Cade grew up in rural Arroyo Grande, California, in a loving home with his brother Joseph and cherished Community. Cade was very active and was hands-on as an advocate for Individuals with Intellectual and Developmental Disabilities. Cade supported Mom in meetings and outings to create awareness for those affected. Cade advocated impacting the improvement for services, medical, education and day-to-day living. Cade helped introduce Senate Concurrent Resolution (SCR108) Author Bill Morning (D) and Co-Author Katcho Achadjian(R). In 2016 the Concurrent Resolution passed unanimously. Cade continued his advocacy by cooking food and distributing to the homeless communities. Cade attended numerous outings in the Community supporting good causes. Cade loved the color red, enjoyed listening to music especially Bruno Mars, news, enjoyed walks on the beach, traveling, fellowship with friends, shopping, video watching, loved year-round Christmas and most of all, riding the Motorhome with Mom. His laughter, his loving smile, his joking around and how he never complained about anything will always be remembered. Cade loved to be loved and loved everyone and forever be missed. Our hero, Cade R.I.P. March 17, 2024 and leaves behind his dog Charlize, dad Ron, Joseph brother and Angelo uncle and ones, friends and family in the Lucia Mar Unified School District. Day of Celebration of Life will be posted on Facebook.

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Rudy L Savala - October 24, 1930 - March 01, 2024

Departed: 03/01/2024 (Arroyo Grande)

Obituary Preview: Rudy Liscano Savala was born October 24, 1930 into a migrant farm labor family, the fifth of 10 children. His parents settled in Pinedale, California when he was 8 years old, and he began, speaking no English, to attend Clovis schools. He was a good student and went on to graduate from Fresno High school while working to help support the Savala family. He had excelled in school thanks to his mother’s encouragement and the mentoring of some special teachers in his life.

After high school, he initially joined the California National Guard saying it was to earn the one or two dollar stipend for attending Guard meetings; however, soon faced with the Korean War draft, he instead joined the Army in 1952. Fortunately, his battalion was stationed in the US occupied section of Germany. He spoke often about how much he liked the German people, his fellow army recruits, and the chance to do some traveling in Europe. It was an opportunity for him to study German, and he was enthusiastic about using his German to make friends in the local population. He said he would have liked to stay and live in Germany, but needed to return to his family in California when leaving the Army.

Back in California in 1955, he worked and attended school at Fresno State College (FSC). He graduated from FSC with a degree in mathematics and physics and a secondary teaching credential. Clovis and Fresno School Districts were blunt at that time about not hiring Mexican Americans, and he was frustrated that he could only act as a substitute teacher. A friend on the FSC faculty encouraged him to go to Berkeley to work at the Lawrence Radiation Laboratory where Dr. Luis Alvarez was hiring data analysts with his academic background to work on the study of particle physics.

It was a heady time for research in physics at Berkeley and he worked with and for many illustrious scientists. At the same time, he was exposed to the beginnings of the civil rights movement, especially Mexican American advocacy. He had been encouraged at FSC to join the young Democrats on campus and thus began a lifelong dedication to democratic policies and voting rights. If you met him in later life, his second question to you would be, “Are you registered”? If not, he could pull out a registration form and sign you up right there.

While in Berkeley, he was active with the fledgling Mexican American Political Association and found time to marry his wife, Mary, and start a family. A friend, admiring his energy and his passion for politics, suggested he consider the practice of law as a career. The University of San Francisco was offering a special evening law school program for veterans and Rudy was accepted in the program, commuting four nights a week to the University. After graduating from USF, he returned with his family to Fresno. He worked first for the California Rural Legal Association and later as a legislative assistant in Fresno to then Assemblyman, George Zenovich. In 1970, he opened his own office with Armando Rodriguez where he practiced law for over 45 years.

He maintained his civic and political involvement in Fresno over all that time, among other things, serving on Valley Medical Center Advisory Board, as chairman of the Democratic Central Committee, and initiating an education program to stress the dangers of driving drunk. He felt a great responsibility to mentor young attorneys as he had been mentored as a young man, and to be a help and advisor to other young men and the members of his family. He joined the League of Women Voters and the National Organization of Women and received an award for his advocacy to further equal rights and pay for women faculty at CSUF.

He loved to travel and prioritized time with his wife, Mary, to visit many places in Europe, Asia, the Middle East, Mexico, and South America. His travels were a big part of his love of languages. He made great efforts to be able to speak at least a few words in Greek, French, Arabic, Chinese, and Japanese, while polishing his native language, Spanish, and his love of German. It made him very happy when he dreamed in German. He raised some eyebrows as the only non Greek adult in after-school Greek language classes. He was fond of Spanish dichos, sayings, and often repeated one of his favorites to family and friends so that they would remember, going forward: Los tiempos buenos, hay que gozarlos y los tiempos malos, hay que hacerlos mejor

The good times, enjoy them.

And the bad times, make them better.

Rudy leaves his wife, Mary, a son, John, of Santa Barbara, a son, Robert and his wife, Christa, and family in Mill Valley, a daughter, Kathy Castello, and her husband, Paul, in Nipomo, and a daughter, Elizabeth Fordyce, and her husband, Paul, and family in Arroyo Grande. He was “Opa” to eight very special grandchildren: Erica, John Paul, Mateo, Anton, Torin, Jade, Grant and Alison, all of whom he adored. He was the last survivor of his nine siblings and leaves many nieces and nephews, too numerous to name here. Services to be held at St. Paul Newman’s Center 1572 E Barstow Ave., Fresno, CA 93710

Monday April 29, 2024, at 10:00 AM. Reception to immediately follow at the Newman Center Hall

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Dolores Moreno - January 06, 1945 - February 28, 2024

Departed: 02/28/2024 (Arroyo Grande)

Obituary Preview: Dolores Moreno, 79, of Grover Beach, California passed away at Arroyo Grande Community Hospital Wednesday morning, February 28, 2024. She was known as “Lola” by close family members and friends, “Mrs. Moreno” by her students, and “Nana” to her grandchildren and great-grandchild. She was born Dolores Rodriguez January 6, 1945 in Somerton, AZ to Mother Carmen Villaneda Rodriguez and Father Guillermo Rodriguez.

She met husband Santiago Moreno in San Luis, Mexico and married May 20, 1964. In 1969 they moved to Grover Beach, California where they spent their remaining years together until Santiago’s passing in 2015.

Dolores worked for Lucia Mar Unified School District from 1979-2009 in the migrant program and as an ESL (English as a Second Language) teacher’s aide, at Grover Beach Elementary School, North Oceano Elementary School, and Arroyo Grande High School. Dolores deeply cared about her students and their families, and made a positive impact on those around her. She was highly respected and endeared for her gifts of being consistent, authentic, supportive, and patient. In addition to being a teacher, she worked for Bank of America and maintained ATMs on an afterhours on-call basis throughout San Luis Obispo County for many years.

Dolores is deeply missed by her surviving family and played a huge role in shaping who we are today. She took great pride in her children’s accomplishments and interests and enjoyed spending time and traveling with her family, was an amazing cook, loved reading, sudoku, and crossword puzzles, was a great dancer, and she loved cats and music- specifically classic rock and 80’s.

Dolores had eleven siblings. She was preceded in death by siblings Santiago Rodriguez, William “Willy Rodriguez, Francis Rodriguez, Luis Rodriguez, Carmen Valenzuela, Elena Antrez, and is survived by Adam Rodriguez, Isabel Hancock,, Becky Seveces, Robert “Bobby” Rodriguez, and Thomas “Tommy” Rodriguez. Dolores is survived by her children Michael Moreno, Sandra Moreno, Mark Moreno, daughter-in-law Melanie Moreno, Sandra’s fiancé Ken Dennis, grandchildren Jaclyn Compton, Chris Compton, Jillian Nyce and grandson-in-law Kyle Nyce, Xemena Moreno, and Malena Moreno, and great-grandson James Compton.

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Edward A. Klause and Anna (Figueiredo) Klause - December 31, 1932 - February 17, 2024

Departed: 02/17/2024 (Arroyo Grande)

Obituary Preview: Edward A. Klause and Anna (Figueiredo) Klause Edward A. Klause of Arroyo Grande, CA, passed away peacefully on February 17, 2024. He was 91 years old. He joined his wife of almost 60 years, Anna, who passed away on May 21,

2022. Lovingly nicknamed “Bubby” by his family, he was born in Dover, Delaware to Edward and Susan Klause on December 31, 1932. He grew up in Piscataway, New Jersey. He was commissioned in the U.S. Navy in 1951 and served until 1955. His family moved to Pismo Beach, California in 1952. He joined his parents and three younger sisters after his military

service ended. He was an engineering student at Cal Poly in San Luis Obispo. There was no “Bubby” without his “Annie” or “Babe” as they fondly called one another. Anna was born on October 13, 1936 to John and Jessie Figueiredo. She graduated from Arroyo Grande

High School in 1955 and earned her Associate Degree from Allan Hancock College in 1957. Annie was best friends with Bubby’s sister, Dolores, and he was close friends with her brother,

John. The two fell in love and married on September 1, 1962. They settled in Santa Maria, California where Bubby worked at Columbia Record Factory while Annie worked for Bank of America. In 1975, they decided to leave the warmth of the California Central Coast and move to Alaska. It was an amazing adventure, but they felt called back to California a year later and settled in Arroyo Grande, California. Bubby joined his father-in-law who had a welding business in Grover Beach while Annie returned to Bank of America, spending much of her career in management and operations before retiring in 1995. Bubby eventually became the owner of Ed’s Welding

Service, setting up shop at his 5-acre home in Corralitos Canyon in Arroyo Grande. They delighted in living out in the country, watching the quail and the deer roam freely. As their

last name was Klause, Annie LOVED to collect Santa Clauses of all shapes, sizes and forms. Walking into their home was like a visit to Santa’s Village, all-year-round. The nieces and nephews once tried to count all the Santas, but lost count after reaching over 1,000. They even seemed to exemplify Santa and Mrs. Claus with their warmth, generosity and overwhelming hospitality. Annie could always be found in the kitchen, baking cookies, making pies or tasty soups and breads. She loved to decorate cakes and made countless cakes for family birthdays, weddings and special occasions. She loved to sew and was famous for making cloth shopping bags and aprons for family and friends in her later years. Bubby could be spotted outside at his “Santa Maria style” wood grill barbecue which he made himself as a skilled welder. Santa Maria tri-tip and linguica were family favorites at parties. They regularly donated bikes and toys to Marine Toys for Tots and other local holiday programs. They enjoyed traveling around the United States, enjoying the beauty of this nation that they loved dearly. They especially enjoyed camping at various sites throughout California and took their nieces and nephews along for the fun on many occasions. But, at their core, was their commitment to family. There wasn’t anything they wouldn’t do for their siblings and spouses, their nieces and nephews and their great nieces and nephews. Their acts of love were always given with selflessness, humor and overwhelming

joy. Ed is survived by his sisters, Patricia Lewis (Bob) and Nancy Davis, his sister-in-law Dianna Oldham, and numerous nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his wife, Annie, who sadly passed away two years before. He is also preceded in death by his parents, his sister and brother-in-law, Jean and Peter Bonapace, his sister and brother-in-law Dolores and John

Penner, and his brothers-in-law Manuel Figueiredo, John Figueiredo and Claude Oldham. Our family would like to thank the staff from The Oaks in Nipomo who provided care to Bubby and Annie for the past two years. We are so grateful for the love and support from so many

family members, friends and neighbors during this difficult time.

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Julie Ann Kuras - February 01, 1954 - February 07, 2024

Departed: 02/07/2024 (Arroyo Grande)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Julie Ann Kuras.

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Dustin Thomas Richards - June 27, 1985 - January 19, 2024

Departed: 01/19/2024 (Arroyo Grande)

Obituary Preview: Dustin Thomas Richards, 38, of Arroyo Grande passed away on Friday, January 19, 2024. He was born June 27, 1985, in Santa Maria, California, and continued to live on the central coast until his passing. He attended Arroyo Grande High School where he played baseball and graduated in 2003. He attended college and continued his baseball career at Alan Hancock College and Cuesta College. He later became a caregiver for the In-Home Supportive Services program and remained in that occupation until his passing.

Anyone that knew Dustin quickly learned his gentle and compassionate nature. He cared for others deeply and always exemplified unconditional love and a generous spirit. His beautiful soul is forever cherished and he will be greatly missed.

He is preceded in death by his brother John Richards, and he is survived by his mother and father Leslie and Kevin Richards, fiancé Jaimie Matthews, brother Brian Petersen and his wife Ali, sister Dana Schaffer and her husband Mark, niece Mimi, nephews Drew, Brody, Jordan Petersen and his wife Taylor, Joe Richards-Garcia and his wife Kiana.

Dustin’s celebration of life will be held on Saturday, 2/24/24 at 1:00pm at Nipomo Park at the Monterey BBQ pit and gazebo. Food will be provided; we invite you to come celebrate the life of Dustin Richards in one of the places he loved most.

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Virginia Ruiz Wong - April 23, 1950 - January 18, 2024

Departed: 01/18/2024 (Arroyo Grande)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Virginia Ruiz Wong.

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Allan Craig Roske - October 01, 1956 - January 16, 2024

Departed: 01/16/2024 (Arroyo Grande)

Obituary Preview: Allan, “Al”, “Big Al”, “Papa Rock”, “Bapa”, “Uncle Allan”, “Dear Brudder” etc., was home in human form. Before he walked into a room, you’d hear his boisterous laugh echoing throughout the neighborhood, and you’d know that you were about to receive the biggest hug and pats on your back. When he asked you about your life, you could expect the most enthusiastic exclamations of joy or concern or whatever response was exactly what you didn’t realize you needed to hear in that moment. One moment you’d be catching up on the basics of life, and the next he’d be sharing philosophical or spiritual truths that would fill your heart with hope.

Allan Craig Roske was born in Spokane, Washington to Allan Thomas Roske and Donna Nadine Roske (Howell) on October 1st, 1956. As a young boy, Allan enjoyed riding the bus to Spirit Lake High School games where his dad was the coach of the football and basketball teams. As a teenager at Oakmont High School, Allan became a dedicated football player, wrestler, and student body president. When Allan was attending school at Sierra College, he worked as a paratransit bus driver and unknowingly met his future mother-in-law one day, who insisted he meet her daughter. As the story goes, he walked in, smelled the most delicious aroma coming from the kitchen, and put his fingers in a giant pot of spaghetti before introducing himself to Lillian Roske (Baggett). The two were married for 27 years before her sudden passing in 2008. Together they shared a love of music, adventure, and their children.

Allan graduated from CSU Sacramento with a BA in Psychology in 1979. Next, he earned his Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology from California School of Professional Psychology, Fresno in 1985. Allan was a dedicated and caring soul to his many clients and colleagues over the course of his career as a clinical psychologist. His robust career included the establishment of his own private practice, Antelope Creek Counseling, where he provided mental health assessment and support to individuals and families. Other notable workplaces included Atascadero State Hospital, Pacific Health Center Medical Group, Placer County Conditional Release Program, California Men’s Colony, and teaching positions at numerous universities including CSU Sacramento and Chapman College. When he wasn’t providing care to clients, he enjoyed lunchtime runs, stopping to get delicious pastries at La Plaza Bakery on his way home from work at Salinas Valley State Prison, and writing reports in his beach chair while he watched the waves at Montana De Oro. Allan also contributed to psychological research, including the development of the Psychopathy Checklist Revised (PCL-R).

Allan fiercely loved (and loves) his family and friends, and would do anything to offer support, a listening ear, and a message of love. Allan’s greatest joy was being a dad to his children and a “Bapa” to his granddaughters. He often proudly wore a T-Shirt that stated “Nothing Scares Me—I Have Three Daughters”.

Alongside his powerful love for others, Allan was called throughout his life to explore nature, which he saw as a sacred connection to the depths of the soul, God, and each other—to name a few adventures: sea-kayaking, sailing, surfing, hiking, driving his much-envied VW van, adventuring with his ’47 Kenskill Teardrop camper, jamming at Live Oak Music Festival, Baja Ha-Ha’s with Uncle Chuck/Randy, joyous family reunions, time spent at Cave Lake, dancing (which his daughters affectionately referred to as his “noodle dancing”), and of course infinite rides on his motorcycle aka his “FCB” (Fuck Cancer Bike).

In 2011, Allan was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer that metastasized to his brain at the age of 55, and he was initially given a prognosis of 6 months to live. This day marked a shift in Allan’s life, whereafter he was determined to be present for as many days laughing with his loved ones that he could get. With his ever-present strength, determination, and what he referred to as his “happy-go-lucky”, he forged ahead through treatments, eventually finding a clinical trial with UC Irvine Health Chao Family Comprehensive Cancer Center. With the guidance of his oncologist, Dr. Sai-Hong Ignatius Ou, Allan was admitted to a clinical trial of the cancer drug “Crizotinib”, which he and his family recognize as one of the largest factors in him living 12 full years past his original prognosis. Over the course of the last decade, Allan’s dad, Tom, consistently drove him to and from treatment at UC Irvine, which they recently calculated as over 200,000 miles of stories, laughs, naps, wrong turns, tasty food, and love.

Allan’s love for life, his passion for dreamwork, and his unyielding spirit were his armor. On the days when life felt overwhelming, his motorcycle was his companion and his bearer of lessons about resilience and power of the present moment. He reminded himself and his loved ones to “be here now” on the journey of life. He found solace in the laughter of his children and grandchildren (who were likely laughing at his own wild laugh or ridiculous dad jokes). He found strength and love in the unwavering support and camaraderie of family and friends. Allan’s journey is one of profound love, learning, and legacy. He taught us the value of cherishing every moment, the importance of facing our fears with courage, and the beauty of finding joy in the current moment, no matter what pain it held. His legacy is defined by the love he shared and the indomitable spirit that inspired all who knew him. Allan left us for his next adventure, and the lessons of his life journey continue to guide us. In our hearts, Allan rides on, his spirit free as the open road, his memory a beacon of love, resilience, and the profound joy of living.

Allan was preceded in death by his mother, Donna Roske (Howell), his wife Lillian Roske (Baggett), his mother-in-law Frances Baggett, and numerous treasured aunts, uncles, grandparents, cousins, and friends who surely welcomed him home with loving arms. Allan is survived by his beloved father, Tom Roske; his dear sister Nadine Martinez, his loving children Danielle Roske, Dana Roske, Danielle Wilt, and Thomas Hutchinson; and his sweet grandchildren June Hames, Ariela Hames, Joe Hutchinson, and Sydney Hutchinson. Allan was also a beloved uncle to his nieces and nephews, a devoted and caring cousin, nephew, father-in-law, and friend to many, who he loves dearly.

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Richard Edward Smith - September 01, 1955 - January 11, 2024

Departed: 01/11/2024 (Arroyo Grande)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Richard Edward Smith.

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Thomas Ritchie Lewis - August 22, 1944 - January 09, 2024

Departed: 01/09/2024 (Arroyo Grande)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Thomas Ritchie Lewis.

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William Thomas Beams - August 23, 1941 - January 08, 2024

Departed: 01/08/2024 (Arroyo Grande)

Obituary Preview: William Thomas Beams passed away on Monday, January 8, 2024. Tom was the love of my life and my best friend for over 63 years. He was brilliant and capable of anything and everything. He was a proud man, dedicated, stubborn, optimistic and thoughtful. He was the most generous person I have ever known. He loved giving people presents. He was the best present I ever received. Merrily Beams

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David Edward McKenna - April 17, 1937 - January 05, 2024

Departed: 01/05/2024 (Arroyo Grande)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for David Edward McKenna.

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Deni Elaine Gonzales - June 17, 1951 - January 04, 2024

Departed: 01/04/2024 (Arroyo Grande)

Obituary Preview: ENI ELAINE GONZALES June 17, 1951 January 4, 2024

We are devastated to announce the passing of Deni Elaine Gonzales.

Deni was born on June 17, 1951 in Bakersfield, California to Aldon and Dorothy Rose. She passed away on January 4, 2024. She attended kindergarten and 1st grade in Wasco, CA (1954-57), 2nd & 3rd grade in Burbank, CA (1958-59) and in 1960 her family moved back to Bakersfield where she completed her elementary years and attended South High School.

Deni met her husband Raul (aka Ralph) in 1972 and had four children; Rachel, Christopher, Amber, and Anthony. She followed in her mother's footsteps and embarked on a 30-year career in banking, where she developed lasting relationships with her many loyal customers. After retiring she lived out her golden years with her feet in the sand, surrounded by the sea air. She loved to laugh, sing, dance, play the piano, take family vacations, dress up, and shopping, shopping, and more shopping. Our mother had the gift of creativity and had recently rediscovered a love of crafting and making jewelry. She also had a knack for making beautiful hand painted bottles that her friends and family were so in awe of that she spent most of her time fulfilling their requests.

If you were lucky enough to witness one of her laughing episodes, you would know she had an infectious laugh, and would find yourself laughing along hysterically with her without knowing why. She always made everyone she interacted with feel special. Our mother had an unwavering dedication to her family and friends, and above all, she ensured that her children knew they were adored, cherished, and loved by her.

Deni was preceded into heaven by her mother Dorothy whom she missed dearly and many dear family and friends.

Her family will forever cherish her and live every day to honor her memory. She is survived by her husband Raul Gonzales; children Rachel (Wil) Graham, Christopher (Katie) Gonzales, Amber (Jeff) Chaddick, and Anthony Gonzales; grandchildren Jordan Burris, Savannah Graham, Taylor, Jacob and Brooklyn Chaddick, and Nico Gonzales; great-granddaughter Alaia Burris; brother Arnie (Setsuko) Rose; nephew Alan (Liz) Rose and niece Krissy (Steve) Monighetti; her many Gonzales brothers, sisters, nieces, nephews, and her many Fischenich cousins.

A Memorial Service will be held Friday, February 2, 2024, 11 a.m., at St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Catholic Church, 12300 Reina Road, Bakersfield, CA with a Celebration of her Life immediately following for family and friends at Elements, 3401 Chester Avenue, Bakersfield, CA.

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Carleton Demont Chase Jr - December 18, 1945 - January 01, 2024

Departed: 01/01/2024 (Arroyo Grande)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Carleton Demont Chase Jr.

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Sylvanus "Chuck" Virnig - May 09, 1928 - December 20, 2023

Departed: 12/20/2023 (Arroyo Grande)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Sylvanus "Chuck" Virnig.

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Joao Martins Inacio - April 28, 1941 - December 10, 2023

Departed: 12/10/2023 (Arroyo Grande)

Obituary Preview: Joao Inacio was proceeded in death by son Michael Inacio,and survived by wife of 58 years Durvalina Inacio ,Daughter Rosa,Daughter Durvalina,Son John,Son Eduardo,Daughter Lucia.

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Robert Sean Voorhees - April 21, 1967 - December 03, 2023

Departed: 12/03/2023 (Arroyo Grande)

Obituary Preview: Robert "Sean" Voorhees, 56, of Oceano, California; died suddenly on December 3, 2023.

Sean was born April 21, 1967 to Jackie and Robert Voorhees in Fresno, California.

He is preceded in death by his mother, Jackie Voorhees, father, Robert "Bob" Voorhees and Brother Christopher Gunar Voorhees.

He is survived by his wife Leslie, daughter Maci and sons Zachary, Bryce, Joseph and Sean. He also leaves behind his sister Shell and her partner Aimee as well as numerous cousins, aunts, uncles, nieces and nephews..

Sean loved helping people and enjoyed having fun and celebrating every Birthday, Holiday and event. Christmas was his favorite holiday so it fitting that we celebrate his life at this time of year.

Services will be held at: Lady Family Mortuary in Arroyo Grande, Ca. Celebration of life will be held at Oceano Elks Lodge, 410 Air Park Drive

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Lola Rene Hackley - December 11, 1951 - November 27, 2023

Departed: 11/27/2023 (Arroyo Grande)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Lola Rene Hackley.

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Betty Marie McCluskey - September 03, 1936 - November 26, 2023

Departed: 11/26/2023 (Arroyo Grande)

Obituary Preview: Betty Marie McCluskey passed away peacefully on November 26th 2023 with both her daughters by her side. Betty was born on September 3rd 1936 in Oklahoma. She moved to California to the central valley with her parents in 1940. In 1967 she relocated to the central coast where she spent the remainder of her life in Grover Beach. She is survived by her 3 children Donna Krause of Pismo Beach, Brenda Lester of Grover Beach, Dennis McCluskey of Lemoore, daughter in la Teri McCluskey of Tulare, 10 grandchildren and 18 great grandchildren.

She is now reunited with her parents Harold and Susie Clifton, Her brother Harold Jr, Her loving husband of 70 years Ronald McCluskey, 3 children Ronnie Allen McCluskey, Steve McCluskey and Cheryl Berry.

Graveside services will be held on Friday December 8th 2023 at 2:00 p.m. at Arroyo Grande Cemetery.

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Ward William Lee Jr - August 13, 1946 - November 26, 2023

Departed: 11/26/2023 (Arroyo Grande)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Ward William Lee Jr.

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Carolyn Jane Hoffmann - July 30, 1942 - November 17, 2023

Departed: 11/17/2023 (Arroyo Grande)

Obituary Preview: Carolyn Jane Hoffmann July 30,1942 – November 17, 2023

It is with deep sorrow and much love that the family of Carolyn Jane Hoffmann announces her peaceful passing surrounded by her family, on November 17, 2023 after a lengthy hospital stay. She was also attended by Rev. Alphonse Van Guilder and the blessings of the Church on her day of passing.

Carolyn was a woman easy to love and who granted her love in abundance to others. Carolyn reveled in her roles as wife, mother, and grandmother. She will be missed by all she loved.

She is survived by her husband of 58 years, Daniel, daughters Vicki, Karen, Kathleen, and sons Daniel Jr. and Keith, as well as twelve wonderful grandchildren. Funeral Mass for Carolyn Jane Hoffmann will be: Friday, November 24th at 11:00 AM St. Paul the Apostle Catholic Church 800 Bello Street Pismo Beach, CA

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Funeral Services Offered

Lady Family Mortuary offers a wide range of funeral services to cater to the unique needs of each family. These services include traditional funerals, cremations, memorial services, and celebration of life ceremonies. The mortuary's experienced staff will work closely with families to create a personalized service that honors the life and legacy of their loved one. Whether you're planning ahead or need immediate assistance, Lady Family Mortuary is here to help.

Cremation Services

In recent years, cremation has become an increasingly popular option for families. Lady Family Mortuary offers a variety of cremation services, including direct cremation, cremation with a memorial service, and cremation with a traditional funeral service. The mortuary's staff is knowledgeable about the cremation process and can guide families through the various options available. Additionally, Lady Family Mortuary has its own crematory on site, ensuring that your loved one is cared for with dignity and respect throughout the entire process.

Pre-Planning Funeral Arrangements

Pre-planning funeral arrangements can be a wise decision for individuals who want to ensure that their final wishes are respected. Lady Family Mortuary offers pre-planning services that allow individuals to make their own funeral arrangements in advance. This not only provides peace of mind but also relieves the burden on family members during a difficult time. The mortuary's staff will work with you to create a personalized plan that meets your needs and budget.

Facilities and Amenities

Lady Family Mortuary's facilities are designed to provide comfort and convenience to families during their time of need. The mortuary features a spacious chapel that can accommodate large gatherings, as well as smaller rooms for more intimate services. Additional amenities include a reception area where families can gather after the service, a parking lot with ample parking spaces, and wheelchair accessibility throughout the facility.

Community Involvement

Lady Family Mortuary is committed to giving back to the Arroyo Grande community. The mortuary participates in various local events and charities throughout the year, demonstrating its dedication to supporting those in need. By getting involved in community activities, Lady Family Mortuary aims to build stronger relationships with the people it serves.

Why Choose Lady Family Mortuary?

There are many reasons why families choose Lady Family Mortuary for their funeral needs. Here are just a few: personal attention from experienced staff, affordable prices without sacrificing quality, a wide range of funeral services to choose from, and a commitment to excellence in everything they do. But what sets Lady Family Mortuary apart is its genuine concern for the well-being of each family it serves. The mortuary's staff truly cares about helping families navigate their darkest hour, and it shows in everything they do.

If you're looking for a trusted funeral home that will provide you with compassionate care and guidance during your time of need, look no further than Lady Family Mortuary. Contact them today to learn more about their services and how they can help you honor the life of your loved one.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It is usually published in a newspaper, online obituary platform, or funeral home website to inform friends, family, and community members of the person's passing.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to honor and celebrate the life of the deceased, while also providing important information about their passing to those who knew them. They can also help to notify people of funeral or memorial service arrangements, allowing them to pay their respects.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, an obituary is written by a family member or close friend of the deceased, with the assistance of a funeral home or obituary writer. In some cases, the deceased may have written their own obituary in advance.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also include information about their accomplishments, interests, and personality traits.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or platform it will be published on. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from 100 to 500 words.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a great way to personalize the tribute and make it more meaningful.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Contact the newspaper's obituary department directly to ask about their submission process and any specific requirements they may have. You may need to provide the written obituary, along with payment for publication.

Can I publish an obituary online?

Yes, there are many online platforms and websites that allow you to publish an obituary. These may include funeral home websites, online obituary platforms, and social media sites.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The time it takes for an obituary to be published can vary depending on the publication or platform. For newspapers, it's usually within a few days of submission. Online platforms may publish immediately or within a few hours.

Can I edit or update an obituary after it's been published?

In some cases, yes. If you need to make corrections or updates to an obituary that has already been published, contact the publication or platform directly to ask about their policy on revisions.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies widely depending on the publication or platform. Newspapers may charge by the word or line, while online platforms may offer free or paid options.

What is a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of someone's passing, usually including only basic information such as name, age, and date of death. It is often used when a full obituary is not desired or cannot be published.

What is the difference between a death notice and an obituary?

A death notice is a brief announcement of someone's passing, while an obituary is a longer, more detailed tribute that celebrates the person's life and achievements.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes! Writing your own obituary in advance can be a therapeutic exercise that allows you to reflect on your life and legacy. It can also spare your loved ones from having to write it during a difficult time.

How do I find old obituaries?

You can search online archives of newspapers or visit local libraries to access old newspapers on microfilm. There are also online databases and genealogy websites that specialize in archiving historical obituaries.

Can I reuse an existing obituary template?

Yes! Many funeral homes and online platforms offer pre-designed templates for writing an obituary. You can also find examples online to use as a guide when writing your own.

What if I don't know all the details about the deceased's life?

If you're struggling to gather information about the deceased's life, try reaching out to other family members or friends who may have more knowledge. You can also omit certain details if necessary.

Can I include humor in an obituary?

Absolutely! Humor can be a great way to celebrate the person's personality and spirit. Just be sure to keep it respectful and tasteful.

How do I handle sensitive information in an obituary?

If there are sensitive issues surrounding the person's death or life, it's best to err on the side of caution and avoid including them in the obituary. Consult with family members or a trusted advisor if you're unsure.

Can I include charitable donations in lieu of flowers?

Yes! Many families prefer that donations be made to a favorite charity or cause in lieu of sending flowers. Be sure to include this information in the obituary if desired.

What if I'm not satisfied with the published obituary?

If you're unhappy with the final product, contact the publication or platform directly to express your concerns. They may be willing to make corrections or adjustments.

How do I share an online obituary on social media?

Most online platforms provide easy sharing options for social media sites like Facebook and Twitter. You can also copy and paste the link into a post or message.

Can I create a memorial webpage for the deceased?

Yes! Many online platforms offer tools for creating memorial webpages where friends and family can leave condolences, share memories, and upload photos.

How long will an online obituary remain available?

This varies depending on the platform or website. Some may keep archives indefinitely, while others may remove them after a certain period of time.

Is it okay to write multiple obituaries for different publications?

Yes! You may want to tailor different versions of the obituary for different audiences or publications. Just be sure to keep track of any variations and ensure accuracy across all versions.