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Dixielee Ross - August 11, 1937 - May 05, 2024

Departed: 05/05/2024 (LEBANON)

Obituary Preview: Dixielee Ross, age 86, of Staunton, formerly of O’Fallon and New Douglas, IL, died at 3:05 a.m. Sunday, May 5, 2024 at her residence.

A memorial service will be held at 2 p.m. Sunday, May 19, 2024 at Glenwood Assisted Living, 18192 Renken Road, Staunton, IL.

A full obituary is pending.

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Lilly Mae Smith - November 06, 1942 - April 26, 2024

Departed: 04/26/2024 (LEBANON)

Obituary Preview: Lilly “Mae” Smith (Lemmon) passed away peacefully on April 26, 2024 at the Dammert Care Center in Belleville, Illinois after a prolonged and courageous battle with Alzheimer’s.

Mae was preceded in death by her parents Harley Samuel and Evea Lilly (Furlow) Lemmon, sisters Sharon Kay Lemmon and Betty Lemmon Galbraith, brother-in-law Patrick Galbraith, and sister-in-law Jane Behnken Lemmon.

Mae is survived by her husband Edward L. Smith (of 64 years); brother Harley Dean Lemmon; daughter Jennifer (Larry) Woods, son Mark Smith; three grandchildren Alex Starnes, Hailee Smith-Polites (Justin), Sydnie Smith; and of course, her beloved dog Lucie.

Mae spent most of her life in Marissa, Illinois where she was active in the community, worked at the First National Bank of Marissa, and raised her family. During her 20+year tenure with the bank she worked as a bookkeeper, a teller, and enjoyed taking seniors on bus adventures. During her years in Marissa she was an active member of the Marissa Presbyterian Church where she volunteered as a treasurer and custodian.

Mae and Ed enjoyed the outdoors spending many summers camping at the Marissa Rec Area and traveling to Scottsdale to visit her sister Betty and brother-in-law Pat. She prided herself in keeping a well kept home, an occasional cup of coffee (6 or 7 cups a day), more than an occasional cigarette, trips to the Queen, and a devout St. Louis Cardinals fan.

Mae will be remembered as a remarkable wife, mother, and grandmother. The values she instilled in her children and grandchildren will endure. She provided, she cared, she helped with homework, she attended an incredible number of sporting events and recitals spanning 40 years.

Mae lived a full life and impacted every person she met in a positive way. In keeping with Mae’s wishes, a cremation will take place.

A private service will be held in her honor.

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David W. Barr - November 28, 1971 - April 26, 2024

Departed: 04/26/2024 (LEBANON)

Obituary Preview: David W. Barr, age 52, of O’Fallon, IL, died at 7:09 p.m. Friday, April 26, 2024 at Barnes Jewish Hospital in St. Louis, MO.

He was born November 28, 1971 in Henderson, NV, the son of the late Stephen and Wray (Bishop) Barr. He married Shelia Pfeffer April 22, 2007. She survives.

Besides his wife, he is survived by four children: Kyle Barr of Shiloh, Anthony (Amanda) Osburn of Freeburg, Hunter Barr of Belleville and Liberty Barr of Bellville; four grandchildren: KJ Barr, Nicole Osburn, Anthony Osburn and Carson Osburn; two siblings: Michelle Barr of Las Vegas, NV and Robert Barr of Tucson, AZ; and two sisters-in-law: Carma Meyer of Caseyville and ElaJean Byrd of O’Fallon.

Besides his parents, David was preceded in death by a brother, Stephen Barr.

David was a self-employed claims adjuster and a veteran of the US Army. He was a member of St. Clare of Assisi Catholic Church in O’Fallon.

A private memorial service will be held at Kalmer Memorial Services.

A celebration of life will be held at 6:00 p.m. Friday, May 3, 2024 at the O’Fallon VFW, 221 W. First Street, O’Fallon, IL.

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Mark E. Rafferty - February 10, 1965 - April 20, 2024

Departed: 04/20/2024 (LEBANON)

Obituary Preview: Mark E. Rafferty, age 59, of Aviston, passed peacefully at 9:03 am Saturday, April 20th, 2024 at Aviston Countryside Manor in Aviston, surrounded by those he loved the most, his mother and his 4 siblings.

He was born on February 10th, 1965 at March Air Force Base in California, the son of Barbara Ann (Michael) Felts of Trenton, and the late Robert Rafferty. Aside from his father, he was preceded in death by his maternal grandparents, James and Hester Green and Leon Michael, his uncle, Donald Michael, and his paternal grandparents.

Mark is survived by his mother, Barbara, and 4 siblings, Laura Burkert of Edwardsville, Dan Rafferty of St. Louis, Rita (Jeff) Tucker of Trenton, and Cathi (Joseph) Lanzante of Edwardsville, as well as 6 nieces and nephews, 4 great nieces and nephews, his dog Harley, and his best friend of many years, James Hamann.

Mark was a proud US Navy Veteran, serving from 1985-1990. He later worked as a welder and a mechanic, and enjoyed riding his motorcycle and living life to the fullest.

Mark’s family is forever grateful for the exceptional and compassionate care that he received at St. Elizabeth’s Hospital, Aviston Countryside Manor, and through Hospice of Southern Illinois.

A celebration of life will be held at a later date.

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Katherine C. Jensen - May 31, 1986 - April 15, 2024

Departed: 04/15/2024 (LEBANON)

Obituary Preview: Katherine Caroline “KC” Jensen experienced a beautiful and peaceful death among loved ones on April 15, 2024, at age 37. Her death took place on a sunny Spring day exactly one week after a total solar eclipse captivated the nation, and one week before Earth Day.

Loved ones who passed before KC include her namesake Aunt Katherine Lalor, maternal grandparents Captain Harold E. and Sherry Weaver, paternal grandparents Robert and Doris Jensen, her heart-horse Mozart, and many beloved dogs including Annie, Celia, Zhao, and Luna.

KC was born in Maryville, IL on May 31, 1986. She is survived by her parents, Susan Jensen and Keith Jensen (Janis); uncle Mark Weaver (Roxanne); siblings Christopher Jensen, Melissa Jensen (Sarah), and Justin Brase (Jen); niblings Connor, Cami and Avery; rescued quarter horse, Dragon; and a Borzoi named Carson. Her family meant the world to her.

Most people have a few close friends and a lot of acquaintances; KC had few acquaintances and a lot of close friends. KC understood that relationships are what matter most, and she created community wherever she went. To know KC was to experience love, loyalty, authenticity, and a rare and refreshing candor. She truly wanted the best for the animals she cared for and the people cared about. She had a knack for helping people excavate the very best versions of themselves. During life’s hardest moments, she showed up: with meals, thoughtful gifts, quality time, endless patience, and by creating a safe space for authentic expression, vulnerability, and growth.

In addition to a boundless love for animals large and small, KC enjoyed long hikes, cooking and enjoying quality food, poetry by Mary Oliver and Andrea Gibson, tea parties in the middle of the forest, porch talks, fantasy fiction, geology, epic road trips, apple picking, live music, motorcycle trips with her Dad, cross country road trips with her sister and friends, and traveling to other countries such as Australia, Thailand, India, Italy, Spain, and Canada. She believed in care-focused feminism and social and environmental justice. She was quietly confident and openly compassionate, incredibly curious, emotionally wise and introspective but also delightfully silly, and she possessed a fierce determination to live each day to the fullest.

KC's career was marked by many inspirational milestones. She joined Miami University’s Naval ROTC program in August 2004. After graduation she commissioned as a naval officer in 2008 and was selected to begin training in naval aviation. Upon earning her wings of gold as a Naval Aviator she was selected to fly the Navy’s P-3C Orion aircraft. During her career she flew missions worldwide and returned to the cradle of naval aviation to serve as a flight instructor, training the Navy’s next generation of naval aviators. She served honorably in the United States Navy for ten years, receiving multiple awards and earning the rank of Lieutenant. While assigned to the U.S. Naval Academy, KC found alignment between her passionate advocacy for the LGBTQ+ community and naval service as the Brigade’s Command Management Equal Opportunity Officer. In that role, she served as an advocate and resource for over 4,000 future naval officers and their chains of command. Her dedication provided individualized support to ensure all midshipmen were treated with dignity and respect and had the ability to work and live in an environment free of harassment and discrimination. She spoke often and proudly of her Navy friends and mentors, many of whom she stayed in close contact with.

After her military service, KC completed a Master of Science in Counseling Psychology from the University of Kentucky in May 2019 and soon began work toward a Ph.D. While in Kentucky, she worked in Equine Assisted Therapy, using horses to reframe human relationships and heal trauma, a testament to her belief in the transformative power of connection. It was during this time that metastatic breast cancer upended her plans and her future. Somehow, even in hardship, KC's light could not be extinguished - she showed up for friends and family with the same generosity and compassion she had always embodied.

KC’s legacy will live on in her advocacy work for people living with cancer, through a scholarship being established in her name by her colleagues in the University of Kentucky’s Counseling Psychology program, as a cornea tissue donor, and in the naming of Ayla Katherine, the beloved child of two of KC’s dearest friends.

It has been said that KC’s superpower was finding good people, but the truth is more exquisite: she was a star whose light attracted beauty and goodness, and she nurtured those in her orbit with intention. May we all strive to live as fully as KC, spreading kindness and seeking the magic in every connection. Celebration of Life: Crystal Garden Banquet & Event Center, 1230 University Drive, Edwardsville, IL 62025 Saturday, May 4, 2024, 1:30 - 4:00 p.m. (service starts at 2:00 p.m.) Tea and coffee will be served immediately following the service

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MaryAnn Steinkamp - December 02, 1936 - April 09, 2024

Departed: 04/09/2024 (LEBANON)

Obituary Preview: MaryAnn Steinkamp, age, of Belleville, passed away at 9:26 a.m. Tuesday, April 9, 2024 at her residence.

She was born December 2, 1936 in Covington, Illinois, the daughter of the late Edwin L. and Bertha (Going) Backs. She married Donald Steinkamp September 11, 1960 in Covington. He survives.

Besides her husband, she is survived by two children: Brenda (the late John) LaMonte of Belleville and David Steinkamp of Belleville; two grandchildren: John D. LaMonte of Belleville and Katelynn A. LaMonte, also of Belleville; and a sister-in-law, Verna Steinkamp of Centralia, Illinois.

She was preceded in death by three brothers: Irwin (the late Darlene) Backs, Milton (the late Marjorie) Backs and Alvin (the late Doris) Backs; and a brother-in-law, Leonard Steinkamp.

Mrs. Steinkamp was a home childcare provider for many years. She was a member of Union United Methodist Church in Belleville.

A memorial service will be held at a later date. Memorial contributions in her memory may be given to Union United Methodist Church, 721 E. Main St. Belleville, IL, 62220, or to HSHS Hospice.

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Melissa Jean Wieseman - January 05, 1975 - April 08, 2024

Departed: 04/08/2024 (LEBANON)

Obituary Preview: Melissa “Missy” Jean Wallace-Wieseman, age 49, of Wood River, died at 5:06 p.m. Monday, April 8, 2024 at St. Elizabeth Hospital in O’Fallon.

She was born January 5, 1975, in Wood River, the daughter of Michael and Karen (Brennan) Wallace of Las Vegas, NV. She married Christopher Wieseman August 7, 2021. He survives.

Besides her parents and husband, she is survived by a son, Hunter Mertz (Gabrielle Harlan) of Alton, IL; three step-children: Krystina Sellars (Austin) of Cobden, IL, Dakota Wieseman of Cobden, IL and Cheyanne Adams of Ziegler, IL; six step-grandchildren: Gabe, Ollie, Klaytin, Michael, Kayden and Skylar; and two brothers: Michael Wallace (Melissa Sweitzer) of West Terre Haute, IN and Matthew Wallace (Elizabeth Hoffman Wallace) of Madison, WI.

Melissa was a manager at Applebees. She was loved by Heather, Rachel and family to the moon and back.

A private Celebration of Life will be held.

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Janet Schrand - January 30, 1970 - April 03, 2024

Departed: 04/03/2024 (LEBANON)

Obituary Preview: Janet Schrand, age 54, of Belleville, died Wednesday, April 3, 2024 at her residence.

There will be no services.

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Judith A. Hendley - April 27, 1943 - April 02, 2024

Departed: 04/02/2024 (LEBANON)

Obituary Preview: Judith A. Hendley, age 80, of O’Fallon, died at 10:11 a.m. Tuesday, April 2, 2024 at Lebanon Care Center in Lebanon.

She was born April 27, 1943 in East St. Louis, Illinois, the daughter of the late Richard and Viola (Huskamp) Lett.

She is survived by a daughter, Ann Trotter of Prosper, TX; one grandson, Dustin Trotter; her partner of sixteen years, Wayne Heilig of O’Fallon; an aunt, Geri Huskamp of Fairmont City, IL; and a cousin, Cheryl Ramirez of DesMoines, IA.

Mrs. Hendley worked as a cashier at Wal Mart in Glen Carbon.

According to her wishes, there will be no services.

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Helen E. Woods - January 08, 1948 - March 22, 2024

Departed: 03/22/2024 (LEBANON)

Obituary Preview: Helen E. Woods, age 76, of O’Fallon, died Friday, March 22, 2024 at St. Elizabeth Hospital in O’Fallon.

She was born January 8, 1948 in Murphysboro, IL, the daughter of the late James Leo and Agnes (Korando) Korando. She married Jack Woods August 30, 1975. He preceded her in death August 2, 2001.

Surviving are two children: David (Karen) Korando of Belleville and Chrystal Woods Ade of Waterloo; three grandchildren: Caelynn Buehler, Kristopher Ade and Khloe Ade; one great-grandchild, Nalani Missey; and two siblings: Sonja Davis (the late Gary) of Belleville and Dav S. Korando (Mary Ann) of Jacob, IL.

A memorial service will be held at a later date.

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Traci K. Alford - December 05, 1967 - March 20, 2024

Departed: 03/20/2024 (LEBANON)

Obituary Preview: Traci K. Alford, age 56, of St. Jacob, passed away peacefully at 1:17 a.m. Wednesday, March 20, 2024 at Evelyn’s Hospice House in St. Louis, MO.

She was born December 5, 1967 in East St. Louis, IL, the daughter of the late Robert and Sharon (Menendez) Kowalski. She married Jeff Alford July 15, 1995. He survives.

Besides her husband, she is survived by a daughter, Jordyn K. Alford of Wentzville, MO; and a brother, Robert (Linda) Kowalski, Jr. of Troy, IL.

A memorial gathering will be held at noon, Saturday, April 6, 2024 at First Baptist Church in Maryville.

In Lieu of flowers, memorials may be given to the American Cancer Society or to Evelyn’s Hospice House, 1000 N. Mason Road, Creve Coeur, MO 63141.

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David Lynn Barr - September 21, 1961 - March 16, 2024

Departed: 03/16/2024 (LEBANON)

Obituary Preview: David Lynn Barr, age 62, of Marine, died at 8:11 p.m. Saturday, March 16, 2024 at his residence.

He was born September 21, 1961 in Washington Park, Illinois, the son of Barbara (Talley) Barr of Marine and the late Roger Barr.

Besides his mother, he is survived by a sister, Christy McCabe of Williamson, IL; two brothers: Jeff Barr of Jacksonville, FL and Scott Barr of Staunton, IL; three nieces and six nephews.

A private memorial gathering will be held at a later date.

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Kathryn Pilger - October 27, 1933 - March 13, 2024

Departed: 03/13/2024 (LEBANON)

Obituary Preview: Kathryn Pilger, age 90, of O’Fallon, IL, died at 9:55 p.m. Wednesday, March 13, 2024 at Hitz Memorial Home in Alhambra.

She was born October 27, 1933, the daughter of the late Gilbert and Flossie (Wilkerson) Merkel, Sr. She married Norman Pilger. He preceded her in death November 22, 2020.

She is survived by two children: Michael “Lynn” (Nancy) Pilger of Troy and Mark (Barbara) Pilger of Indiana; three grandchildren: Michelle Le (Nathaniel) Hill of North Carolina, Jennifer K. (Aaron) Wolfe of Collinsville, IL and Melissa Ann (Marcos) Cardenas of Grantfork, IL; and seven great-grandchildren.

Besides her parents and husband she was preceded in death by a brother, Gilbert Merkel, Jr.

Visitation will be from 10 a.m. – noon on Tuesday, March 19, 2024 at Kalmer Memorial Services, located on Rt. 50 between Lebanon and O’Fallon. The funeral service will follow at noon. Burial will be at 2:30 p.m. Tuesday, March 19, 2024 at Ramsey Cemetery in Ramsey, IL.

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Leslie O'Connor - October 26, 1957 - March 10, 2024

Departed: 03/10/2024 (LEBANON)

Obituary Preview: A Radiant Spirit's Final Curtain Call

The world has grown a little dimmer with the passing of Leslie (Levy) O'Connor on March 10th, 2024 at her home in Collinsville, Illinois. Leslie departed this earth surrounded by the endless love of her beloved children at her bedside. She was 66 years old.

Born on October 26th, 1957 in Danville, Illinois, Leslie was the cherished only child of Paul and Joan (Ellsberry) Levy. She spent her childhood roaming the open fields and tending to the baby lambs on her mother's family farm - a working crop farm that remains a treasured legacy today. Her father, a renowned retailer, owned the iconic Deutsch Uptown store on Vermilion Street, transforming it into the premier destination for women's haute couture and designer fashions. After his untimely passing in 1974, Leslie's mother Joan took the reins, wisely employing her daughter as the store's bookkeeper, foreshadowing Leslie's future in the family business.

However, it was the stage that first captured Leslie's vibrant spirit. At Danville High School, she landed the leading role of the sultry yet strong-willed "Hot Lips Houlihan" in the school's production of MASH, garnering resounding acclaim for her performance. This spark was fanned into a roaring blaze at Davis and Elkins College in West Virginia, where Leslie's tour-de-force portrayal of Annie Sullivan in "The Miracle Worker" was hailed as outstanding.

In April 1985, Leslie said "I do" to her beloved James Michael O'Connor. Though their journey briefly took them to Denver, Colorado, the couple returned to Leslie's roots in 1987 to welcome their son, Paul Maxwell "Max" O'Connor. Soon after, they planted new roots in Collinsville, Illinois, expanding their family with the arrival of daughter Gail Elizabeth "Betsy" O'Connor in 1989.

Leslie's loving light will forevermore shine in the hearts of her husband Mike O'Connor; children Max (Christina) O'Connor and Betsy (Brett Rowland); grandchildren Brian and Joan O'Connor; and the countless lifelong friends who bore witness to her warmth, wit, and zest for life.

A Celebration of Leslie's Life will be held on March 16th, 2024 at 12pm at Turtle Run Golf Club, 332 E. Liberty Lane, Danville, IL., where the echoes of her laughter and memories of her generous spirit will undoubtedly linger in the air. Though she has departed the stage, the show of her remarkable life will forever run in the minds of all who were fortunate enough to bask in her radiance.

Memorial contributions may be given to the Metro East Humane Society.

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Diana Lynn Pickens - February 18, 1964 - March 09, 2024

Departed: 03/09/2024 (LEBANON)

Obituary Preview: Diana Lynn Pickens, age 60, of Marshall, MO, died at 7:34 a.m. Saturday, March 9, 2024 at her residence.

She was born February 18, 1964 in East St. Louis, IL, the daughter of the late Billy Joe and Donna Mae (Steiner) Pickens, Sr.

She is survived by three children: Mark William (Tasha) Utry, Jr. of Stewartson, IL, Christina (Kevin) Price of Blackwater, MO, and Brandi Mae (Joey) Kendall of Savannah, GA; seventeen grandchildren; and three siblings: Susan Hackmann of Carlyle, IL, Billy Joe Pickens, Jr. of Lebanon, IL and Matthew (Melanie) Pickens of Coffeen, IL.

Visitation will be from 10 a.m. – noon Friday, March 15, 2024 at Kalmer Memorial Services, located between Lebanon and O’Fallon on Rt. 50, immediately followed by the funeral service. Burial will be at Valhalla Cemetery in Belleville.

In honor of her love for the St. Louis Cardinals, please wear something red.

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Robert W. Schwankhaus - March 04, 1947 - March 09, 2024

Departed: 03/09/2024 (LEBANON)

Obituary Preview: Robert W. Schwankhaus, of Okawville, IL, passed away Saturday, March 9, 2024 at Barnes Jewish Hospital in St. Louis, MO, having reached the age of seventy-seven years and five days.

He was born March 4, 1947 in Belleville, IL, the son of Ardell and Janet (nee Matzenbacher) Schwankhaus. He was confirmed in 1961 at St. Peter United Church of Christ in Okawville.

Robert was united in marriage to Rebecca Muench September 27, 1980 at Shattuc United Methodist Church in Shattuc, IL.

Besides his wife of forty three years, he is survived by a sister, Karlyne Roethemeyer (Larry) and their children: Doug Roethemeyer (Melanie), Angie Frazier (Jarred) and Kevin Roethemeyer; two great nephews: Isaiah Frazier and Kelton Roethemeyer; one great-niece, Kallie Roethemeyer; special cousins Gary and Linda Steinkamp; three brothers-in-law: John Muench (Christeen), Frantz Muench and Doug Muench (Mel Rae); and other relatives and friends.

He was preceded in death by his parents; his father-in-law and mother-in-law, Henry L. and Verona (Simmons) Muench; a sister-in-law, Shirley Muench; and a niece, Elizabeth Muench.

Robert was a long-time employee of the Illinois Dept. of Transportation. He also drove for Lehde Bus Service for eight years. He was active in the Okawville Jaycees and was a member of the Okawville Drum and Bugle Corps. His favorite pastimes were hunting and fishing.

As per his wishes, his remains will be cremated and no services will be held.

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George V. Adair - October 13, 1960 - March 06, 2024

Departed: 03/06/2024 (LEBANON)

Obituary Preview: George V. Adair, age 63, of Collinsville, died at 7:58 p.m. Wednesday, March 6, 2024 at Anderson Hospital in Maryville.

He was born October 13, 1960 in Bethalto, Illinois, the son of the late James Clifford and Leola Mae (Weinberg) Adair.

Surviving are three children: Shane Adair (Amanda Beltz) of Pomona, MO, Shea Bryan (Shawn) of Arnold, MO and Lucas Adair (Haley Cunningham) of Republic, MO; eight grandchildren: Mason, Cypress, Gabe, Wyatt, Luna, Logan, Astrid and Fiona; and two siblings: Charlie Adair (Charlene) of Collinsville and Redina Shrum of Fredericktown, MO.

He loved playing disc golf, darts, rugby, and seeing his grandkids. He was never afraid to talk to anybody or help someone in need.

A celebration of life is pending.

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Joseph E. Frailey - April 29, 1937 - March 05, 2024

Departed: 03/05/2024 (LEBANON)

Obituary Preview: Joseph E. Frailey, age 86, of Collinsville, died Tuesday, March 5, 2024 at his residence.

He was born April 29, 1937 in Cave In Rock, Illinois, the son of the late Ralph D. and Hazel (Barger) Frailey.

He is survived by three sons: Jeff (Suzanne) Frailey, Brad (Heather) Frailey and Matthew (Yan) Frailey; four grandchildren: Isabelle, Paige, Leo and Olivia; and two brothers: Bill (the late Fran) Frailey and Jim (Marlynn) Frailey.

Mr. Frailey was a sales representative for various companies. He was also a veteran of the US Army.

His cremated remains will be interred at Jefferson Barracks National Cemetery in St. Louis. A celebration of life will be held from 4-7 p.m. Friday, March 22, 2024 at the Old Herald Brewery, 115 E. Clay St., Collinsville, IL.

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Barbara E. Moeser - November 29, 1949 - March 01, 2024

Departed: 03/01/2024 (LEBANON)

Obituary Preview: Barbara E. Moeser, age 74, of Aviston, formerly of Rutherfordton, NC, died at 12:39 p.m. Friday, March 1, 2024 at Aviston Countryside Manor in Aviston.

She was born November 29, 1949 in Alton, IL, the daughter of the late Charles R. and Eileen (Sedlacek) Taylor. She married William Moeser. He preceded her in death in 2015.

Surviving are two sisters: Cindy Miller of Lebanon and Peggy Beilenson of Louisiana; three nieces: Dawn (Kyle) Himel, Allison (Chris) Goetter and Michelle; two nephews: Shawn and Michael; four great-nieces and great-nephews; and three step-daughters: Susan (Jim) Govatos, Marilyn (Donald) Slevin and Carolyn Yoder.

Besides her parents and husband, she was preceded in death by a brother, Charles Patrick Taylor.

There will be no local services. Her cremated remains will be interred in Venice Memorial Gardens in Venice, Florida.

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Michael J. Tenting - November 17, 1951 - February 28, 2024

Departed: 02/28/2024 (LEBANON)

Obituary Preview: Michael Joseph Tenting, age 72, of Collinsville, died at 6:21 p.m. Wednesday, February 28, 2024 at Anderson Hospital in Maryville.

He was born November 17, 1951 in St. Louis, MO, the son of the late Harold and Marie (Sisson) Tenting. He is survived by his wife of 47 years, Barbara (Stroup) Tenting.

Mike is also survived by his two children: Sarah Marie (Andrew) Bailey of St. Jacob, IL and Christopher Michael (Lilith) Tenting of Joplin, MO; five grandchildren: Leo Bailey, Finnegan Bailey, Declan Bailey, Trinity Tenting and Solomon Tenting and many other beloved family members.

Besides his parents, he was preceded in death by his brother, Harold Tenting and nephews, Joshua Tenting and Jonathan Tenting.

Mike was a veteran Staff Sergeant of the United States Air Force and served in the Vietnam War. After his time in the service, he had a career working at McDonnell Douglas and later Sears Roebuck as a maintenance mechanic. He finished his working career at the United States Postal Service.

Throughout his life, Mike was an active member in his community, belonging to the Collinsville Jaycees, Freemason and VFW.

Mike enjoyed golfing, fishing, camping and spending time with his family. He also spent many years developing a passion for woodworking. A devoted husband, and a loving father, his greatest joy and pride was his children and grandchildren, a notion he often repeated (even to strangers).

Visitation will be from 4-7 p.m. Wednesday, March 6, 2024 at Kalmer Memorial Services, located on Rt. 50 between Lebanon and O’Fallon. A memorial service will be held at 10 a.m. Thursday, March 7, 2024 also to be held at Kalmer Memorial Services. Burial of his cremated remains will be at Lakeview Memorial Gardens in Fairview Heights.

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James R. Jarrell - August 20, 1966 - February 27, 2024

Departed: 02/27/2024 (LEBANON)

Obituary Preview: James R. Jarrell, age 57, of O’Fallon, IL, died at 7:52 a.m. Tuesday, February 27, 2024 at St. Elizabeth Hospital in O’Fallon.

He was born August 20, 1966 in Belleville, the son of the late Carl and Caroline (Kult) Jarrell. He married Corinna Pendegraft August 19, 1993. She survives.

Besides his wife, he is survived by a daughter, Courtney Jarrell of O’Fallon; six siblings: Carl (Cheryl) Jarrell of Wappinger Falls, NY, William Jarrell of Riverside, CA, Judy (Bob) Shannon of Lebanon, Cindy (Steve) Karraker of Shiloh, Diana Jarrell of Shiloh and Kathy (Kenny) Hurst of Freeburg; and a sister-in-law, Lois Jarrell of Marine; his Mother and Father-in-law Lloyd and Sylvia Pendegraft of Lebanon, brother-in-law Darrell Missey of E. Alton, sisters-in-law Rose (Dave) Lattin of Belleville, Wanda Stangle of Trenton, Susan Bartlett of Belleville, and Sarah (Chris) Foster of Belleville.

He was preceded in death by two brothers: Ron Jarrell and Garry Jarrell; and two sisters-in-law: Karen Jarrell and Michelle Jarrell and a brother-in-law Andrew Missey.

Mr. Jarrell was a veteran of the US Army. He was employed as a network engineer for Intellibridge.

According to his wishes, his remains will be cremated and no service will be held. Inurnment will be at St. Joseph Catholic Cemetery in Lebanon.

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Roger E. Myers - March 03, 1931 - February 20, 2024

Departed: 02/20/2024 (LEBANON)

Obituary Preview: Roger E. Myers, age 92, of Lebanon, died at 9:20 p.m. Tuesday, February 20, 2024 at St. Elizabeth’s Hospital in O’Fallon.

According to his wishes, his remains will be cremated and no services will be held.

Donations in his memory can be given to the Alzheimer's Association.

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Rosalie Kathleen Bujnak - May 30, 1962 - February 14, 2024

Departed: 02/14/2024 (LEBANON)

Obituary Preview: Rosalie K (Kathy) Bujnak 61 Of Fairview Heights Died Feb14 2024 At her residents with her husband , daughter and her comfort dog Ayla by her side.

Kathy was born in Granite City IL May 30, 1962, daughter of Claude and Ruth (Wilson) Rudd.

She is survived by her husband of over 40 years, Kevin Bujnak; her daughter Katie Bujnak and her grandson Joseph; brother Claude and Dede Rudd of Mt Vernon; several in-laws, nieces, nephews, great niece and nephew; also a very special Aunt and Uncle Donald and Elsa Eltrich.

Kathy enjoyed the outdoors fishing, target shooting and riding ATVs. She was never far from a yard sale or a game of bingo. She would never turn down spending time on a motorcycle with Kevin. Her real passion was spending time with her daughter and grandson, her little pumpkin boy, Joseph.

There will be a celebration of life at a later date.

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Lisa M. Reeves - October 30, 1962 - February 13, 2024

Departed: 02/13/2024 (LEBANON)

Obituary Preview: Lisa M. Reeves, age 61, of Swansea, died at 4:45 a.m. Tuesday, February 13, 2024 at Memorial Hospital in Belleville.

She was born October 30, 1962 in St. Louis, MO, the daughter of the late Robert E. and Wanda L. (Hoefler) Rose, Sr. She married Andrew Joseph Reeves. He survives.

She is also survived by five children: Scott D. Robinson, Jr, Ryan K. Proctor, Connor W. Reeves, Keegan A. Reeves and Parker R. Reeves (Taylor); and three siblings: Robert E. (Janet) Rose, Laurie Rose and Edward (Anna) Rose; dear sister-in-law, aunt, cousin, niece and friend to many.

According to her wishes, her remains will be cremated and no services will be held.

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Janet E. Crouch - June 02, 1959 - January 31, 2024

Departed: 01/31/2024 (LEBANON)

Obituary Preview: Janet E. Crouch, age 64, of O’Fallon, IL, died Wednesday, January 31, 2024 at her residence.

She was born June 2, 1959 in East St. Louis, IL, the daughter of the late Charles and Pearl (Stocker) Crouch.

Besides her parents, she was preceded in death by four siblings: Kenneth Crouch, Michael Crouch, Richard Crouch and Tina Crouch.

Surviving are four siblings: Carol (Bruce) Kuethe of Dorsey, IL, Barb (the late Joseph) James of St. Louis, Donald (significant other, Karen Gephardt) Crouch of Collinsville and Linda Crouch of Highland; and many nieces, nephews, great-nieces, great- nephews and great-great nieces and nephews.

Janet was a veteran of the US Army. Following her four years in the Army, she worked in the US Army Reserves and as a civilian employee in Military Technology, retiring from both in 2019. She enjoyed quilting, crafting, and spending time with her “fur-kids”.

According to her wishes, her remains will be cremated and no services will be held.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It is usually published in a newspaper, online, or in a funeral home's website.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a sense of closure and help to celebrate the life of the deceased.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, the obituary is written by the family of the deceased, often with the assistance of a funeral home or a professional obituary writer. In some cases, the deceased may have written their own obituary in advance.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also include a photo, funeral service details, and charitable donation information.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or website. Typically, it ranges from 100 to 500 words. Online obituaries may be longer due to the lack of space constraints.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and websites allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a great way to personalize the tribute and make it more engaging.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Contact the newspaper's obituary department directly to inquire about their submission process and deadlines. Be prepared to provide the necessary information and payment for the publication.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, many people choose to write their own obituary as part of their estate planning or as a way to reflect on their life. This can be a therapeutic exercise and ensure that your story is told accurately.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, usually including only basic information such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary provides more detailed information about the person's life.

Can I include humor or anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! Obituaries don't have to be somber. Including humorous stories or personal anecdotes can help celebrate the person's life and personality.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost varies depending on the publication or website. Some newspapers charge by the word or line, while others offer package deals. Online obituaries may be free or low-cost.

Can I edit an obituary after it's been published?

In most cases, corrections or edits can be made if there are errors or inaccuracies. However, significant changes may not be possible once the obituary has been published.

How long do online obituaries remain available?

This varies depending on the website or platform. Some online obituaries remain available indefinitely, while others may be archived after a certain period.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Yes! Including meaningful quotes, lyrics, or poems can add depth and personality to the obituary.

What is the purpose of an online guestbook?

An online guestbook allows friends and family to leave messages of condolence, share memories, and pay tribute to the deceased.

Can I create an online memorial page?

Yes! Many websites offer tools to create a dedicated memorial page where you can share photos, stories, and memories of your loved one.

How do I notify social media platforms about a death?

Contact each platform's customer support team to report the death and request account closure or memorialization. They will guide you through their specific process.

Can I use social media to share an obituary?

Absolutely! Sharing an obituary on social media can help spread the news quickly and reach a wider audience.

What is the role of a funeral home in creating an obituary?

Funeral homes often assist families in writing and submitting obituaries as part of their services. They may also provide guidance on what information to include and how to structure the tribute.

Can I include charitable donation information in an obituary?

Yes! Including information about charitable donations in lieu of flowers can be a meaningful way to honor your loved one's memory.

How do I handle sensitive information in an obituary?

If there are sensitive issues or family dynamics involved, it's essential to approach the writing process with care and tact. Consider consulting with other family members or a professional writer for guidance.

Can I write an obituary for someone who has passed away suddenly or unexpectedly?