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Located at 692 U.S. Route 6, Mahopac, NY 10541, Joseph J. Smith Funeral Home, Inc. has been a pillar of the community for generations, providing compassionate and personalized funeral services to families in their time of need. With a rich history and a commitment to excellence, this esteemed funeral home has earned a reputation for trustworthiness, professionalism, and dedication to honoring the memories of loved ones.

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Raymond Saracino - June 05, 1958 - May 03, 2024

Departed: 05/03/2024 (Mahopac)

Obituary Preview: Raymond Saracino of Mahopac, NY passed away on Friday, May 3, 2024 at the age of 65. He was born in Manhattan, NY on June 5, 1958, the son of Daniel Saracino and Olga Belfi.

Raymond moved to Mahopac with his family as a child. He attended Mahopac Schools and worked in heavy construction and masonry for most of his life. He enjoyed fishing, old westerns, black and white movies, and Kung Fu movies, rocking out to his favorite band AC/DC, and dancing and singing! But his favorite thing was just sitting and watching his grandchildren playing, especially basketball, and he enjoyed all of them playing together.  Most important to Raymond was his family, especially his 9 grandchildren and 2 great grandchildren, who called him Poppy. He was the most kind hearted man who always made you laugh.

On April 12, 1980 he married Michele Tedesco who survives at home. In addition to Michele he is survived by his sons, Raymond Jr. (Rebecca) and Anthony; his daughters, Lauren Hoffman (John) and Ashley Marrero (Ivan Jr.); his nephew, Colin (Phoenix), his brothers, Daniel Saracino Jr, Wayne Androvett and Glenn Androvett; his sisters, Denise Mazza (Dennis) and Dale MacPherson (Gary); his grandchildren, Luke, Penelope, Brianna, Arianna, Lena, Lilli, Ivan III, Anthony and Leighla and his great grandchildren, Georgia and Scarlet. He was predeceased by his sister, Donna Saracino.

Visiting will be held on Thursday, May 9 from 6-8 pm at Joseph J. Smith Funeral Home. A Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Friday, May 10 at 11:30 am at St. John the Evangelist Church in Mahopac. Private cremation services took place earlier.

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Richard F. Markert - November 20, 1948 - April 30, 2024

Departed: 04/30/2024 (Mahopac)

Obituary Preview: Richard Frederick Markert, a cherished husband, father, grandfather, and brother, passed away peacefully on April 30, 2024, at his home in Mahopac, NY. Born on November 20, 1948, in the Bronx, NY, Richard’s unwavering spirit left an indelible mark on all who knew him.

Richard’s journey began in the Bronx, but his formative years were spent in the idyllic town of Somers, NY, where he cultivated a lifetime of memories. Richard embarked on a successful career as an account manager with IBM, where he worked for 32 years until his retirement. His dedication and work ethic were later channeled into his role at the Putnam County Department of Social Services, where he continued to contribute to his community for another 12 years.

On May 7, 1976, Richard married the love of his life, Jackie Asher, and together they built a family founded on love, laughter, and shared adventures. Their union was blessed with two daughters, Janet Kalpaxis, married to Nicholas, and Sandra Yunga, married to Ruben. Richard’s legacy continued to flourish through his beloved grandchildren, Haley, Nika, Danika, Shelbie, Ashley, Jayden, and David.

Richard was the oldest of five children and is survived by his siblings, Joyce Northridge, Bruce Markert, Tricia Long, and Christine Klauck, as well as many nieces and nephews. Richard was predeceased by his parents, Frederick and Barbara (Summers) Markert.

Richard found solace and joy in the breeze of the salty air and being by the bay. He had a passion for saltwater fishing, clamming, crabbing and all activities related to the water. Later in life he picked up the hobby of metal detecting and hunting for treasures. These activities also provided a backdrop for the many stories he loved to share with his family and friends, tales that will continue to be retold in his honor.

Richard was a true gentleman. His life was a testament to the beauty of simplicity, the strength of family bonds, and the importance of leaving a kind and genuine impact on those he crossed paths with. He navigated life’s waters with resilience and a sense of humor that endeared him to many.

All are welcome to attend a memorial visitation on Wednesday, May 8th from 4-7 PM at the Joseph J. Smith Funeral Home in Mahopac, NY. The funeral service will begin at 6:30 PM during the visitation. A private cremation was held prior to services.

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Jean Theresa Shannon - January 03, 1930 - April 24, 2024

Departed: 04/24/2024 (Mahopac)

Obituary Preview: It is with much sadness that we announce the passing of Jean Theresa Shannon, a 30 year resident of Jefferson Village, NY, on April 24, 2024 at the age of 94.  Jean was born in the Bronx on January 3, 1930 to the late John and Marion (Hannigan) Murphy.  A brother, John and his wife Patricia Murphy predeceased her.  Jean married her beloved husband John J Shannon on April 18, 1953.  Jack predeceased her on November 17, 1973 at age 44.

After graduation from Cathedral High School, Jean worked at ConED rising to become executive assistant in the medical department before leaving to start a family. Upon the death of her husband, she returned to the workforce working in the Bell System as a proud member of the Communications Workers of America (Western Electric, NY Telephone and AT&T) before retiring in 1990. She was a long time member of the Telephone Pioneers.

She is survived by her 4 loving children, James Shannon and his wife Joanne of Whitehouse Station, NJ, John Shannon of Garnerville, NY, Robert Shannon and his wife Colleen of Mahopac, NY and Margaret Mary Scandurra and her husband Roy of Yorktown Heights, NY. She will be deeply missed by her 11 grandchildren and her 15 great-grandchildren along with her many nieces and nephews.

She enjoyed traveling with family to the NJ shore, Florida and Ireland and spending time with her grand and great grandchildren. She was a devoted mother, grandmother and great-grandmother who never missed a birthday or special occasion. Her greatest joy was spending time with her family.

Her passing leaves a void but the memories she created will stay with everyone that loved her. Her fighting spirit helped her survive many tragedies and illnesses, yet she never let them stop or slow her down.

Visitation will be held on Friday April 26, 2024 from 4-8 PM at Joseph J. Smith Funeral Home located at 692 US Route 6 in Mahopac, NY. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on April 27, 2024 at 9:45 AM at St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Church, Yorktown Heights (Shrub Oak), NY with interment to follow at the Cemetery of the Ascension on Saddle River Road in Airmont, NY.

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Jean L. Butler - July 02, 1932 - April 21, 2024

Departed: 04/21/2024 (Mahopac)

Obituary Preview: Jean L. Butler, a cherished soul known for her warmth, wit, and unwavering kindness, passed away peacefully on April 21, 2024, at the age of 91. Born on July 2, 1932, in Yonkers, NY, to the late Mauro and Anna Nesto, Jean's life was a testament to the power of love, laughter, and the joy of simple pleasures.

Jean's journey through life was marked by her dedication to her family and her community. She was predeceased by her beloved husband, William J. Butler, Jr., in 1977. Jean's legacy continues through her devoted son, William and his wife, Susan(Di Renzo) Butler, who will forever cherish the values and lessons she imparted.

For many years, Jean served as a teacher's aide with the Board of Education in Yonkers, where she touched the lives of countless students with her patience and gentle guidance. Her involvement with the school community was not just a job but a calling, as she believed in the potential of every child and dedicated herself to their growth and well-being.

Jean's passion for life extended beyond her professional role. She was a consummate traveler, always ready for a new adventure, whether it was exploring distant lands or visiting friends and family. Her love for her dogs was unparalleled, and their companionship brought her immeasurable joy. Jean's sense of humor was infectious, and she had a remarkable ability to find humor in life's everyday moments.

Above all, Jean was known as a helpful person, always there for those in need with a listening ear or a helping hand. Her presence was a source of comfort and strength to all who knew her.

All are welcome to attend a visitation on Wednesday, April 24th from 4-7 PM at the Joseph J. Smith Funeral Home in Mahopac, NY. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Thursday, April 25th at 10 AM at St. John The Evangelist Church, also in Mahopac. Interment will follow at St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Yonkers.

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John J. Zacchio "Johnny Z" - May 24, 1947 - April 19, 2024

Departed: 04/19/2024 (Mahopac)

Obituary Preview: John J. Zacchio, known affectionately to friends and family as "Johnny Z," passed away peacefully on April 19, 2024, in Carmel, NY. Born on May 24, 1947, in Yonkers, NY, Johnny's life was a tapestry of dedication, joy, and service, woven through with the love of music and family.

Johnny's early years were spent in Yonkers where he was born to Joseph and Carmela (Vece) Zacchio, both of whom predeceased him. His life was a testament to the values of loyalty and camaraderie, traits he carried with him from his childhood into his years of service. A proud veteran of the US Army, Johnny not only served his country with honor but also brought his passion for baseball to the field, playing for the Army team and even securing a try-out with the New York Mets. His love for the game was second only to his dedication to his nation.

After his military service, Johnny pursued higher education, earning a bachelor’s degree that would lay the foundation for his professional life. He embarked on a successful career as a sales consultant for New York State, a role in which his charismatic personality shone, and his ability to connect with people was evident.

Outside of his professional endeavors, Johnny’s soul truly came alive in the world of music and entertainment. For over 40 years, he was a beloved DJ and entertainer, his voice gracing the airwaves on shows for WFAS and CBS FM. As a Master of Ceremonies at many concerts, he shared his vibrancy and love for music with audiences far and wide. A man of many talents, Johnny Z had a beautiful singing voice that could soothe the soul and he and Linda could dance the night away at any event.

Johnny's personal life was as rich and full as his public persona. He and Linda married on September 3, 2006, blending their families into a rich tapestry of love and mutual respect. Johnny's sons, John(Tina), Nicholas, and Louis, and Linda's children, Lin-Marie(Emilio), Marc(Nicole), Michael(Marina), and Mathew, all benefited from his warmth and guidance. He was a brother to Raymond, Michael, and Rosanna, and was predeceased by his brother Joseph. A loving uncle to his nieces and nephews. His role as a grandfather was one he embraced with enthusiasm, and he leaves behind a legacy of love and laughter with his ten grandchildren Johnny (Faith), Bethany (Theo), Victoria, Gabriella, Nina, Lucian, Maximus, Ryder, Roman, Winter and great-grandchildren Josiah, Maeve, and another one on the way, who will carry forward the joyful spirit he instilled in them.

Johnny's life was punctuated by moments of joy found in simple pleasures: trips to Cancun with Linda, dancing the night away, and sharing his love of music with the world. His legacy is one of service, whether to his country, his family, or to the many lives he touched through his work and his passion for entertainment.

All are welcome to attend a visitation on Thursday, April 25th from 2:00-9:00 pm at the Joseph J. Smith Funeral Home in Mahopac, NY. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday, April 26th at 11:30 AM at St. James The Apostle Church in Carmel, NY. Interment with military honors will follow at St. Lawrence O’Toole Cemetery on Turk Hill Road & RT 22 Brewster, NY.

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Douglas S. MacCrae - May 15, 1956 - April 17, 2024

Departed: 04/17/2024 (Mahopac)

Obituary Preview: Douglas S. MacCrae of Brewster, NY, a cherished husband, father, brother, and public servant, passed away unexpectedly on April 17, 2024, at the age of 67. Born on May 15, 1956, in Yonkers, NY, Doug lived a life marked by dedication, love, and a deep sense of duty.

Doug's journey began as the beloved son of Archibald and Joyce (Redhead) MacCrae, who predeceased him. His formative years in Yonkers laid the foundation for a life of service and commitment. In 1974, Doug answered the call of duty and served as a Military Police Officer in the US Army until 1977, a period that shaped much of his character and future endeavors.

Following his military service, Doug continued his commitment to public safety as a Deputy with the Putnam County Sheriff's Office. His unwavering dedication to the community did not go unnoticed, and after retiring, he extended his expertise to the Lewisboro Police Department and the SPCA of Putnam County. Doug's passion for service was further exemplified through his instrumental role in the development of the School Resource Program in Putnam County, ensuring the safety and well-being of countless children within the school system.

On September 28, 1984, Doug married Mary Jane Castegner, and together they embarked on a journey filled with love, laughter, and shared dreams. Their union was blessed with two wonderful children, Sarah and Alex, who brought immense joy and pride to Doug's life. He is also survived by his brother, Donald MacCrae, with whom he shared an unbreakable bond.

Doug's interests extended beyond his professional life. He was a big animal lover, a passion that was reflected in his work with the SPCA and in his personal life. His love for adventure and exploration was fulfilled through traveling cross country in his RV with his family, creating memories that would last a lifetime.

The legacy Doug leaves behind is one of integrity, courage, and love. His life was a testament to the values he held dear, and his memory will continue to inspire those who knew him.

Please, no flowers. Memorial donations in Doug’s name can be made to the SPCA of Putnam County.

All are welcome to attend a memorial visitation on Wednesday, April 24th from 3-7 PM at the Joseph J. Smith Funeral Home in Mahopac, NY.

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Mary Ellen DiRaffaele - December 16, 1946 - April 17, 2024

Departed: 04/17/2024 (Mahopac)

Obituary Preview: Mary Ellen DiRaffaele, a longtime resident of Mahopac, NY passed away on Wednesday, April 17, 2024 at the age of 77. She was born in Jamaica, Queens, NY on December 16, 1946, the daughter of Walter and Mary (Snodgrass) Marvin.

Mary Ellen graduated from Massapequa High School. She retired from Three Lakes Management in Brewster, NY in 2023 where she worked as a property manager after 37 years of service.

Mary Ellen was an avid reader and a member of Read Hot Mamas book club. She was a member of the Friends of the Mahopac Library where she had served on the Board of Directors. While her children were growing up, she was a member of the Parent Teacher Association (Mahopac Public Schools) and was a Girl Scout Leader.

On May 31, 1969 she married Dennis DiRaffaele in Farmingdale, NY. In addition to Dennis, she is survived by her children, Leann Cook and her husband Matthew of Putnam Valley, NY and Matthew DiRaffaele of Newburgh, NY; her brother, Robert McDaniel and wife, Shirley of Farmingdale and her beloved granddaughters, Casey and Tara Stiller. She was predeceased by her brother, Butch Marvin.

Visiting will be held on Sunday, April 21 from 1-4 pm at Joseph J. Smith Funeral Home, Mahopac. A Prayer Service will be held at the funeral home on Monday, April 22 at 10 am. Interment will follow at Union Valley Cemetery in Mahopac.

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Roland A. Colasante - January 17, 1942 - April 15, 2024

Departed: 04/15/2024 (Mahopac)

Obituary Preview: Roland A. Colasante, a longtime resident of Mahopac, NY passed away on Monday, April 15, 2024 at the age of 82. He was born in Yonkers, NY on January 17, 1942, the son of Rolando and Loretta (Ceru) Colasante.

Roland earned a Master’s Degree in Electrical Engineering from Brooklyn Polytech. He retired from IBM Corporation as a computer engineer in 2016. He worked out of both the Fishkill, NY facility and the Kitchawan facility in Yorktown Heights, NY. Roland was a parishioner of St. John the Evangelist Church in Mahopac for 56 years.

On May 15, 1966, he married Bonnie Christensen at St. Ann’s Roman Catholic Church in Yonkers. In addition to his wife Bonnie, he is survived by his children and their spouses, Lori Betancourt (Rick), Dana Castrataro (James), Tami Meaney (Brian) and Craig Colasante (Danielle). He had a special relationship with his 11 grandchildren who called him Papa, Michaela (Kris), Ryan, Cooper, Brenna, Jamison, Tyler, Quinn, Lexie, Peyton, Delaney and Mason. Roland was predeceased by his sister, Joan Kuss.

Family was most important to Roland and he instilled the importance of family, love and respect in his family. He looked forward every year to spending time at the lake and renting a home with his entire family on the Jersey shore. In the end, his wife Bonnie took amazing care of Roland getting him home for a month until he was recently hospitalized.

In his spare time, Roland enjoyed growing a large garden, riding his tractor, many bowling leagues and supporting the NY Giants and NY Rangers. He also had a great love for dogs raising many litters of Lhasa Apsos while his kids were growing up. We love you and will miss you so much Papa!

All are welcome to attend a visitation on Thursday, April 18 from 1-3 pm and 6-8 pm at Joseph J. Smith Funeral Home. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday, April 19 at 10 am at St. James the Apostle Church, Gleneida Avenue, Carmel, NY. Interment to follow at Ballard-Barrett Cemetery, Mahopac Falls, NY.

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Maureen Rosenthal - September 01, 1951 - April 04, 2024

Departed: 04/04/2024 (Mahopac)

Obituary Preview: Maureen Rosenthal, a spirited soul known for her unwavering conviction and infectious humor, passed away peacefully on April 4, 2024, in the Bronx, at the age of 72. Born on September 1, 1951, in Manhattan, Maureen was the cherished daughter of the late John and Mary (Lambe) Lawlor. Her life was a testament to the power of resilience and the beauty of nurturing strong, independent spirits.

Maureen's journey through life was marked by her dedication to education and service. She earned a Bachelor of Science in Psychology, a field that deeply resonated with her innate understanding of human behavior. Her career as a Corrections Counselor for New York State allowed her to touch many lives with her unique blend of kindness and firm guidance. Maureen's colleagues will remember her as a generous and hardworking individual who could always be counted on to bring lightness to challenging situations with her quick wit.

Beyond her professional achievements, Maureen's heart was truly at home, where she was a pillar of strength and love for her family. She is survived by her adoring daughters, Stephanie Marshall and her husband Brett Klingenberg, Jennifer Marshall-Sherman and her husband Rodney, and Catherine Marshall. Maureen's legacy continues through her grandchildren, Mary Alexis Marshall, Aiden Thomas Young, and Baby Sherman, who will carry forward her lessons of love and determination. She also leaves behind her sister, Mary Tholen, who shared a lifetime of memories and an unbreakable bond with Maureen.

Those who knew Maureen will recall her passion for gardening. She found solace and joy in tending to her gardens, cultivating not just plants but also a sense of community and beauty for all to enjoy. Her love for the outdoors was more than a hobby; it was a reflection of her appreciation for life's simple pleasures and her desire to connect with the world around her.

Maureen's personality was a force of nature—spirited, funny, and at times, delightfully stubborn. She had an unwavering sense of being right, a trait that served her well in both her personal and professional life. Her pride was most evident when speaking of her daughters, whom she taught to be strong, independent women, echoing the values she held most dear.

All are welcome to attend a visitation on Thursday, April 18th from 4-8 PM at the Joseph J. Smith Funeral Home in Mahopac, NY. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday, April 19th at 10 AM at St. John The Evangelist Church, also in Mahopac. Interment will follow at Rose Hills Memorial Park in Putnam Valley.

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Theresa L. Wissell - January 02, 1938 - March 31, 2024

Departed: 03/31/2024 (Mahopac)

Obituary Preview: Theresa L. Wissell, (a/k/a “Bunny”) 86, of Carmel, New York, passed away peacefully at home on March 31, 2024, with her family by her side. Together we said goodbye to this special “Bunny”. She couldn’t have planned her entry into the Lord’s workforce any better than on Easter Sunday. A cherished wife, mother, grandmother, sister, and friend, she was born in the City of New York to Edward and Loretto (McAllister) Ramelkamp on January 2, 1938.

She was a graduate of St. Barnabas High School in Bronx New York. Theresa was employed by the Bowery Savings Bank in Manhattan until she married the love of her life, Walter, upon his return from the Navy in 1959. Married for 64 years, Theresa and Walter began their journey of raising seven children: Walter Wissell, Christine Misuraca (Joe), Kathy Maguire, Theresa Krepil (Keith), Ed Wissell (Alisa), Tom Wissell (Lisa McSpedon) and Jennifer Nygard. Theresa also leaves behind her much loved, cherished and spoiled 16 grandchildren, Hunter, Joseph, Jenna, Kallen, Michael, Daniel, Dlyan, Alexa, Kevin, Ryan, John, Eliana, Emma, Olivia, Hannah and Ameliah, all of whom she treasured.  Theresa is survived by her youngest sister, Anne Marie Reap, several brothers and sisters-in-laws, cousins, and nieces and nephews that have cherished memories with Theresa.

Theresa was predeceased by her parents, sister Joan Greco and sister Mary Coleman.

Theresa will be remembered for her devotion to her family and others. She was a devout Catholic with a great devotion to St. Therese and an altruistic person at heart. If she wasn’t caring for her children, grandchildren, or volunteering, she was spending her time at either St. John’s the Evangelist Church in Mahopac, or St. James the Apostle in Carmel. Theresa was a Eucharistic Minister and an active member of the Rosary Alter Society. She held many offices on both the State and local level for the Catholic Daughters of America for over 40 years. Theresa also enjoyed spending several nights a week volunteering in the gift shop for Putnam Hospital Center. Once her children were grown and she was not running around town, Theresa enjoyed her days decorating the house for every season and holiday and caring for her gardens at the family home. Theresa was always willing to go out of her way to lend a hand, whether babysitting her grandchildren, ironing for the church, baking for a bake sale, shopping and making sandwiches for the homeless and literally tending to anyone who needed her. Her constant willingness to go the extra mile and her endless love and affection will be missed.

Friends and family are welcome to attend a visitation on Thursday, April 4th from 1-3 & 6-8 PM at the Joseph J. Smith Funeral Home in Mahopac, NY. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday, April 5th at 10 AM at St. John The Evangelist Church, also in Mahopac. Entombment of her cremains will follow at St. Sebastian’s Columbarium at Our Lady of The Lake Church in Carmel, NY.

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Rocketta L. Georgio - December 28, 1926 - March 30, 2024

Departed: 03/30/2024 (Mahopac)

Obituary Preview: Rocketta L. Georgio, 97, of Somers, NY, formerly a longtime resident of Mount Vernon, NY passed away on March 30, 2024. Rocketta was born on December 28, 1926 to the late Giuseppe and Luigina (nee DeFazio) Georgio in Mount Vernon, NY.

Rocketta is survived by her sister-in-law Barbara Giorgio, her nephews Joseph Giorgio (Teresa), John Natalo (Cynthia), and nieces Anne Natalo, Jeanne Marie Andreana (John), and Lisa Wilson (Alan). She is also survived by thirteen great nieces and nephews, two great great nieces and one great great nephew.

Rocketta worked as a meat wrapper for over 40 years at Finast supermarkets. Aunt Rocky was so loved by this big family, and she will be dearly missed.

Visitation will be held on Wednesday, April 3, 2024 from 5-8 pm at the Joseph J. Smith Funeral Home, Inc., Mahopac. A Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Thursday, April 4, 2024 at 10 am at St. Joseph's Church, Somers. Interment to follow at Holy Sepulchre Cemetery, New Rochelle NY.

Online condolences can be given at www.josephjsmithfuneralhome.com.

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Jeanne Petrocelli - November 04, 1936 - March 16, 2024

Departed: 03/16/2024 (Mahopac)

Obituary Preview: It is with tremendous sadness that we announce the passing of Jeanne T. Petrocelli, a 35 year resident of Somers, NY, on March 16, 2024 at the age of 87.

Jeanne was born on November 4, 1936 in Queens, New York to the late Louis and Alice (O’Malley) Anatrella. She married her beloved husband, Frank J. Petrocelli Jr. on June 7, 1958 in Queens, New York. Frank predeceased her on November 26, 2022.

Before moving to Somers in 1989 from Mahopac, NY, Jeanne lived in Bayside, Queens. She was blessed with a wonderful and full life. Volunteering at the community center, gardening and interior decorating were her passions. But her greatest joy was her family and friends. She will be greatly missed by all who knew and loved her.

She is survived by her 3 loving children, Frank Petrocelli and wife Diane of Elmsford, NY, Lynne Bauman and husband Paul of New Milford, CT and Gerard Petrocelli and wife CarylAnn of Farmingdale, NY; along with her adoring grandchildren, niece and nephews; and her brother Lou Anatrella (Ann) and sister Emily Moysello.

Visitation will be held on Thursday, March 21 from 3-7 pm at Joseph J. Smith Funeral Home. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday, March 22 at 10 am at St. Joseph’s Church, Somers with interment to follow at St. John’s Cemetery in Queens.

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Dario Boccarossa - September 01, 1944 - March 15, 2024

Departed: 03/15/2024 (Mahopac)

Obituary Preview: Dario Boccarossa, 79, a resident of Carmel, NY and formerly of Port Chester died peacefully on March 15, 2024.

Dario was born on September 1, 1944 in Picinisco, Italy to the late Carmine and Loretta Boccarossa.

He was the beloved husband of Debra and is survived by his brother, Vittorio (Wife Rita) and sister, Genoveffa. He was also the adored uncle of 11 nieces and nephews.

Dario was passionate about his family, golf, cars, and work. Dedicated his life to being advocate for the working members of the local 141 Laborers Union where he became business manager in 1977. In 1985, Dario's responsibilities expanded to the Westchester District Council and merged all the locals in 1993 after which he managed the newly formed Local 235. For the last 27 years of his career he lead the Eastern New York Labor District Council, as President.

Dario will rest in eternal peace with his predeceased sister Carmela and brothers Antonio, Gerardo, Michele, and Rinaldo.

All are welcome to attend a visitation on Wednesday, March 20th from 4-8 PM at the Joseph J. Smith Funeral Home in Mahopac, NY. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Thursday, March 21st at 10 AM at St. James the Apostle Church in Carmel, NY. With respect, the committal will be held privately, family only.

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Mildred Ann "Millie" Limitone - September 30, 1936 - March 09, 2024

Departed: 03/09/2024 (Mahopac)

Obituary Preview: Mildred Ann “Millie” Limitone of Mahopac, NY passed away on Saturday, March 9, 2024 at the age of 87. She was born in Port Washington, NY on September 30, 1936, the daughter of Charles and Lillian Holder Wilkinson.

Millie was well loved by everyone who knew her. A middle child of many siblings, she grew up poor, but was strong, independent, smart, and beautiful. She worked as everything from dress saleswoman to telephone operator to secretary to model. After her husband Charles died suddenly when she was only 36, she went back to work and became a customer service manager to support her family. After marrying Rocco, she settled into retirement and enjoyed their home, travel and spending most of her time with family.

Millie dedicated her life to her kids and grandchildren. She was adored by both of her children and they remained a close family. Millie was a happy, generous woman with a razor sharp wit and an unyielding desire to live life.

She will be deeply missed by her kids and everyone who knew her. Her passing leaves a space that can never be filled, but the memories she created will stay with everyone who loved her so deeply. She survived many tragedies and illnesses, yet they never stopped her incredible spirit and zest for life. She was, in the words of her children, the strongest, most amazing woman they ever knew. Her legacy is one of kindness, strength and grace.

She is survived by her daughter Angela K. Calise and son Charles A. Calise and grandchildren Samantha, Natalie, Autumn, and Liam, and her great granddaughter, Aria. Millie is also survived by many nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by husbands Charles A. Calise and Rocco D. Limitone, and her siblings, Robert (Bobby), Charles (Buddy), Carol, Harry, Laura, Evelyn, Beverly, Gail and Floyd.

Following private cremation, family and friends are invited to attend a memorial visitation on Friday, March 15 from 4-8 pm at Joseph J. Smith Funeral Home in Mahopac. A Prayer Service will take place at 7:30 pm at the funeral home.

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Dominick V. DeRobertis - November 21, 1938 - March 08, 2024

Departed: 03/08/2024 (Mahopac)

Obituary Preview: Dominick V. DeRobertis of Mahopac, passed away peacefully on March 8, 2024, surrounded by his family. He was born on November 21, 1938, in the Bronx, to the late Vincent and Carmela (Ferrara) DeRobertis. Dominick was a cherished husband, father, grandfather, and brother.

He was the beloved husband of Theresa (Ruggiero), with whom he shared 63 years of devoted marriage. Dominick was a loving father to his sons, Vincent and his wife Lynn, Dominick and his wife Marianne, and his daughter Donna and her husband Kevin King. He was also a proud grandfather to his granddaughters Kathryn, Danielle, and Nicole DeRobertis, and Devin and Kerrianne King, who will miss him dearly. Dominick was predeceased by his brother, Frank, and is survived by his brother, Robert. His commitment and dedication to his family was unwavering.

For over 40 years, Dominick was a highly skilled aircraft mechanic, respected for his expertise with corporate jets. His colleagues knew him as the man who could fix anything; there was no challenge too great for his capable hands. Dominick's dedication to his craft extended beyond the hangar as he was an active member of the Westchester Aircraft Maintenance Association, where he shared his knowledge and passion with others in the field. His work was not just a job but a calling; he always looked for ways he could help others, often making repairs at home and in his children’s homes.

As an Air Force Veteran, Dominick proudly held the rank of Airman 2nd Class, a period of his life that instilled values he carried with him always.

Above all, Dominick's greatest joy was his family. He was a man who put his loved ones first, always making time for family gatherings, celebrations, and the everyday moments that knit a family together. His presence was a source of comfort and joy, and his guidance was sought after by all who knew him.

All are welcome to attend a visitation on Wednesday, March 13th from 4-8 PM at the Joseph J. Smith Funeral Home in Mahopac. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Thursday, March 14th at 10AM at St. John The Evangelist Church, also in Mahopac. Interment will follow at Raymond Hill Cemetery.

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Indamora M. Kempter - July 12, 1947 - February 29, 2024

Departed: 02/29/2024 (Mahopac)

Obituary Preview: Indamora M. Kempter of Mahopac, NY passed away peacefully on Thursday, February 29, 2024 at the age of 76. She was born in White Plains, NY on July 12, 1947, the daughter of Frank Murphy and Louise Buswell Murphy.

Indamora is survived by her sons, Gary and Robert; Carolyn Emerson whom she considered a daughter; 8 grandchildren and 5 great grandchildren. She was predeceased by her husband, Edward S. Kempter Jr. and her sons, James and Steven.

Family and friends are welcome to attend a visitation on Wednesday, March 6 from 3-5 pm at Joseph J. Smith Funeral Home. Private cremation services will follow.

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Anthony V. Sabia - December 06, 1927 - February 27, 2024

Departed: 02/27/2024 (Mahopac)

Obituary Preview: Anthony V. Sabia, of Millbrook, NY, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, February 27, 2024, at the age of 96. He was born in Stamford, CT on December 6, 1927, the son of John and Marie (Summa) Sabia.

Tony grew up in Stamford, where his passion for music and rhythm emerged early on. As a child, he was the heartbeat of a local band, playing the drums with a joy that was infectious. His love for music, especially the tunes of Frank Sinatra, stayed with him throughout his life.

As a young man he left school. He lied about his age so he could work to support his family during difficult economic times. Tony dedicated many years of service as a supervisor at Arnold Bakers in Greenwich, Connecticut. His work ethic and leadership were admired by his colleagues, and his warm smile was a staple at the bakery. Tony’s commitment to his work was only matched by his devotion to his family and friends.

Tony’s personal life was filled with the love of travel, food, and the company of those he held dear. He found joy in the simple pleasures of life, sharing meals, stories, and laughter with those around him. His later years were spent with his beloved partner, Barbara, where together they created a blended family full of love and mutual respect.

He is survived by his daughter, Larnah, his son, Anthony (Penny), and grandson Quinn. Tony was predeceased by his wife, Larayne, in 1988, and his second partner, Madelon Lisowski, in 2000. His legacy of love and kindness will live on through his family and the many lives he touched.

All are welcome to attend a visitation on Friday, March 1st from 10AM-11:30AM at the Joseph J. Smith Funeral Home in Mahopac, NY. The funeral service will follow the visitation at 11:30AM. Interment will conclude services at Amawalk Hill Cemetery, Amawalk, NY.

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Leonard T. Ciffone - December 17, 1941 - February 26, 2024

Departed: 02/26/2024 (Mahopac)

Obituary Preview: Leonard T. Ciffone, 82, of Mahopac, NY, passed away on Monday, February 26, 2024. He was born on December 17, 1941, in Bronx, NY, to the late Alfred and Mary (Eberlein) Ciffone.

Leonard is survived by his sons, Leonard and Nicholas Ciffone; daughter-in-law, Jennifer (McCaffrey) Ciffone, grandsons, Aidan, Evan, and Brennan; former wife, Marie; sister-in-law, Elizabeth (Debitetto) Ciffone; nieces Ann Marie (Ciffone) Gordon, Jean Marie Ciffone-Ryan, Betti Anne Ciffone, Patricia Ciffone, Mary Ciffone-Baker; his loving companion, Frances DeMaio. He was preceded in death by his parents and his brother Alfred S. Ciffone Jr.

He began his career as an ambulance attendant, delivering 19 babies and a set of twins, a role he took great pride in. Later, he spent 20 fulfilling years with the New York City Department of Sanitation, forming countless lasting bonds with his colleagues. Post-retirement, he lent his skilled hands as a mechanic for the US Postal Service in White Plains until he decided to retire once more.

Leonard lived in Mahopac, NY with his former wife, Marie and his two sons Len and Nick where they shared many fond memories. A devoted parishioner of St. John the Evangelist Church in Mahopac, Leonard found peace within its walls. His true joy was found on the waters of Lake Mahopac. An avid boater, he delighted in taking friends out for tranquil rides, waterskiing, tubing, and fishing. These simple moments brought him immense happiness, and he cherished the laughter and camaraderie they brought.

In his later years, Leonard discovered a new lease on life when he met Frances “Fran” DeMaio. Their relationship blossomed, and he had the great fortune of becoming a part of her family. He cherished his time with Fran and had the joy of meeting her daughters, Lucia Halbohn and Mary Barnett and each of their respective families. Leonard also discovered a new community at the local senior center that he and Fran frequently visited. Together they found companionship and joy in spending time with friends, sharing stories, and participating in various activities. He also became known for his knack for finding the best deals in the area for lunch, a talent his friends greatly appreciated.

Beyond the lake and the senior center, Leonard found solace in the quiet of the woods, enjoying the pursuit of hunting. He also loved attending car shows, proudly displaying his '69 Javelin, a car he had lovingly restored.

Leonard's love for family was evident in his attendance at annual reunions on Long Island, where he relished the company of relatives, sharing stories and making memories that would last a lifetime. Regardless of how you knew him, Dad, Grandpa C., Big Len, Big Lenny, Big Foot, the Big Guy or Uncle Lenny, he would want us to ‘grieve not, nor speak of him with tears, but laugh and talk of him as though he were beside us.’  He will be greatly missed by all that knew and loved him!

Visitation to honor Leonard will be held on Sunday, March 3, from 1-4 pm at Joseph J. Smith Funeral Home. A Funeral Mass in celebration of his life will take place on Monday, March 4, at 11:30 am at St. John the Evangelist Church, Mahopac. Private cremation services will follow.

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Gerald P. Ravnitzky - November 16, 1935 - February 23, 2024

Departed: 02/23/2024 (Mahopac)

Obituary Preview: Gerald Philip Ravnitzky, a long-time resident of Mahopac, NY, died on Friday, February 23, 2024, at age 88. He was born in Brooklyn, the son of Herman and Bertha (Kreiman) Ravnitzky. He graduated from Baruch College of the City University of New York, then proudly served in the US Army from 1959 until his honorable discharge in 1964.

Our community has suffered a loss with the passing of “Jerry” Ravnitzky. He dedicated his life to helping people through his work as a school psychologist in the Croton-Harmon School District for over 30 years.

After his retirement, Jerry tirelessly pursued his passion for protecting the environment and giving future generations a chance to live in clean, safe communities. He made his presence known at Town Board meetings and on the opinion page of local newspapers.

Jerry served as President of Concerned Residents of Carmel & Mahopac; Founding Member of Stop Algonquin Pipeline; Election Chairman in Putnam County; and Executive Committee Member, Sierra Club Lower Hudson Group. He also organized numerous candidate forums for local elections and was actively involved with Relay for Life, Carmel Democratic Committee; Community Action Program Thanksgiving Food Drive; Women’s Resource Center Toy Drive; and the Community Watersheds Clean Water Coalition.

Jerry is survived by his beloved wife of 39 years, Judith. He is also survived by his sons: Michael (of Silver Spring, MD), Steven (of Scottsdale, AZ), and Jeffrey (of Gaithersburg, MD); his daughter, Gail Ravnitzky Silberglied (of North Bethesda, MD); and Judith’s son, David Hargreaves (of Scarsdale, NY), and he was very proud of his 12 grandchildren.

Family and friends are invited to attend a graveside committal with US Army Honors at 2 PM on Monday, February 26, 2024, at Ballard-Barrett Cemetery, Mahopac Falls, NY.

To honor his memory and continue his good work, please make a contribution to The Sierra Club Lower Hudson Group.  https://www.sierraclub.org/atlantic/lower-hudson.

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Eugene M. Pepe - December 09, 1941 - February 16, 2024

Departed: 02/16/2024 (Mahopac)

Obituary Preview: Eugene M. Pepe, a beacon of friendliness whose smile was as contagious as his optimism, passed away on February 16, 2024, leaving behind a legacy of warmth and service. Born on December 9, 1941, in the Bronx, Eugene's journey was marked by an unwavering commitment to his family, his country, and the empowerment of those around him.

Eugene's life was a testament to the power of dedication. After earning his Master's degree, he devoted 30 years to the US Army, retiring with the distinguished rank of Lieutenant Colonel. His military career was characterized not only by his leadership but also by the countless lives he touched with his mentorship and kindness. Mirroring his service, Eugene continued to protect and serve in a civilian capacity as a Risk Control Specialist with Aon Security, where his expertise and foresight safeguarded many. Eugene also served as a volunteer fire firefighter and then a Fire Commissioner for the Hartsdale Fire District.

Beyond his professional achievements, Eugene's family was the cornerstone of his life. He was a loving father to his son Eugene and his daughter in-law Teresa. His grandchildren Eugenio, Vincent, and Genesis knew him as a source of boundless love and encouragement, and his “Brother in Arms” Alfredo that was a source of encouragement, flan and scones. Eugene was the cherished son of the late Vincent and Hannah (Clark) Pepe, and he carried their legacy of love and resilience throughout his life. He also reconnected with his sister Linda after many years. He is also survived by long time friend Clare, where they become regulars at the diner.

Eugene's interests reflected his outgoing personality; he was always the first to compliment friends, family, and even a stranger with “You have a great smile”. He believed in the power of a simple act of kindness to change someone's day.

As Alzheimer's gradually took its toll, Eugene faced the challenges with grace and dignity. Despite the hardships, he continued to display many moments of warmth, humor, and affection, touching the lives of all who knew him. His unwavering spirit and resilience in the face of adversity inspired many, as he continued to live life to the fullest. He liked going to church, walking, shopping, watching TV, playing games and especially eating out. His daily routine involved the Koehler Center Adult Day Program where he was more a “mayor” than a participant, and never met a cookie he didn’t like.

The family would like to extend their heartfelt gratitude to the Waterview Hills staff who provided the most compassionate care to Eugene during those last months of battling Alzheimer’s.  Though Alzheimer's may have dimmed his memories, Eugene’s legacy of love and resilience will continue to shine brightly in the hearts of all who knew him. May Eugene rest in peace, finally free from the grasp of this cruel disease, and in the arms of Jesus, who he gave his life to.

Due to the different time of interment, in lieu of flowers, the family suggests donations in Eugene’s name to https://mybrothervinny.org, an organization that assists Veterans.

Friends and family are welcome to attend a visitation on Saturday, February 24th from 11AM-1:30PM at the Joseph J. Smith Funeral Home in Mahopac, NY. Personal words and eulogies with be shared at 1:30PM. Lt. Colonel Pepe will be interred at Arlington National Cemetery with military honors at a later date.

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Robert E. Koch - January 16, 1941 - February 13, 2024

Departed: 02/13/2024 (Mahopac)

Obituary Preview: Robert E. Koch (Bob, Rob) of Somers, NY passed away on Tuesday, February 13th at the age of 83. He was born in the Bronx to Howard and Christina (Kelley) Koch in 1941 and was later joined by younger brother Howie.

Robert met his true love Margaret (Lorigan) through their mutual friends, the Klatts at the Jersey Shore. Robert went down for the weekend, stayed the whole summer and found his soulmate. They were married in 1965, lived in the Bronx until 1972 when they moved to the Village (Continental that is) in Garrison to raise their three children. They lived there for 41 years while Rob became the consummate neighbor, always willing to lend (or borrow) a hand, power tool or advice about the latest home project. Everyone could always count on Bob Koch.

Bob Koch worked for Royal Insurance for over 30 years making many lifelong friends with his humorous anecdotes. His passion, persistence and integrity was always evident in his work. He retired from Royal in 1998 before continuing his insurance career for 5 more years in Lower Manhattan. He was working on Water St. during 9/11. While his family worried for his safety, Robert was walking up to St. Vincent’s Hospital to donate blood. That’s the type of man Bob Koch was.

Robert’s greatest role was being a family man. He was a devoted, sometimes maddening, but always loving husband. He was a proud and caring father, helping with school projects and teaching important life skills like how to repair a car or maintain a home without ever reading the manual. He later enjoyed spending time with his grandkids capturing precious moments with one of his many cameras. He also took care of his grandparents, parents, aunts and uncles. He was well-loved by his in-laws, family friends, nephews and his many, many favorite nieces.

Bob Koch’s kindness and ability to connect with people remained with him all the way to end. His infectious laugh and expressive eyes were still with him thanks to his angels at Putnam Ridge, especially Damiana, Daniel, Harry and Lori.

Robert is survived by his wife Margaret, his daughter Kelly Ann Aframian (Isaac) and sons Robert (Rebecca), Kevin (Elexis), brother Howie (Claudia) and his grandchildren Jacob, Sarah, Quinn, Gracie and Emma.

Everyone that knew Robert, has a story. We want to hear your Bob Koch stories as we celebrate his life. Visiting will be held on Monday, February 19 from 1-3 pm and 5:30-8 pm at Joseph J. Smith Funeral Home, Mahopac. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Tuesday, February 20 at 10 am at St. Joseph’s Church, Somers with interment to follow at Gate of Heaven Cemetery, Hawthorne, NY. For those unable to make it, please share your favorite stories with a family member or anyone for that matter. Because that’s what Bob Koch would do. Family and friends are making donations in memory of Robert to the Little Sisters of the Poor, Jeanne Jugan Residence, 2999 Schurz Ave., Bronx, NY 10465-3826 www.littlesistersofthepoorbronx.org

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Anthony J. Di Giovanni - January 16, 1947 - February 13, 2024

Departed: 02/13/2024 (Mahopac)

Obituary Preview: Anthony J. Di Giovanni of Mahopac, NY and formerly of Yonkers, NY, passed away on February 13, 2024 at the age of 77. He was born on January 16, 1947 in Sant'Eusanio Forconese, L’Aquila, Italy; son of the late Gelindo and Bianca (neé Baiocco) Di Giovanni, predeceased by his sister, Dina Agresti (and the late Mario). Anthony came to the US at the age of 9 and in 1974 married Louise Adamo at St. Raymond’s Church in the Bronx. Beloved father to Jo Ann Gallo(Rocco), beloved Papa to “The Baby”, “Sunshine”, Gianna Dina. Loving brother-in-law and uncle to numerous nieces and nephews. Anthony earned a Masters of Education from Pace University and worked as a Special Education Teacher for the NYC Public School System at PS M721 on Houston Street for 33 years. Anthony loved history and was always content speaking about it to anyone who was willing to listen. He loved to build model airplanes in his spare time, watch historical, religious and western movies and Italian soccer games. His greatest joy in life was his granddaughter, Gianna. From the second he woke up and until he went to sleep, he needed to see his Gianna. He enjoyed taking her out for ice cream, shopping at the mall, watching the countless live streams of her dance competitions and always wanting front row seats to her recitals. He was her biggest fan!

Friends and family are welcome to attend a visitation on Friday, February 16th from 4-8 PM at the Joseph J. Smith Funeral Home in Mahopac, NY. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Saturday, February 17th at 10 AM at St. John The Evangelist Church, also in Mahopac. Entombment will follow at Ferncliff Cemetery.

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Andrew C. Spadafino - May 05, 1945 - February 09, 2024

Departed: 02/09/2024 (Mahopac)

Obituary Preview: Andrew C. Spadafino, lovingly known as Andy, peacefully gained his heavenly wings on Friday, February 9, 2024 at the age of 78. He was born on May 5, 1945 in his beloved Bronx, NY to Joseph and Grace M. (Spano) Spadafino.

Andy served honorably for four years in the United States Navy during the 1960’s. He loved being with people and conversing with those he met, with a gift for making them feel special. That personality trait, along with his passion for great food, service, and entertainment in a warm and inviting setting, greatly defined him, first as the owner of several Daddy’s Deli’s, and later, a number of restaurants that he opened in Westchester County. His first establishment was the Overlook Inn adjacent to the Kensico Dam; Sweetwaters in North White Plains; and lastly, Spadafino’s Ristorante in Valhalla.

Andy is survived by his children, Frank Spadafino (Amy); MaryAnn DeGeorges (Vincent), both of Armonk, NY; his five grandchildren, Jonathan, Peter and Mia Spadafino and Katie and Elizabeth DeGeorges; his sister and brother-in-law, Marie and Ken Bove of Mahopac, NY; and his many loving nieces and nephews and friends who were family to him. He was predeceased by baby Ann Marie; his parents; brother, Joseph of Mahopac; and his sister, Ann Reda of Cumming GA.

Private cremation services were held earlier. A Memorial Mass of Celebration will be held on Tuesday, February 27, 2024 at 10:00 am at Our Lady Queen of Angels Chapel of St. John the Evangelist Church, 225 E. Lake Blvd. in Mahopac, NY.

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Bridget H. O'Mara - December 01, 1933 - February 08, 2024

Departed: 02/08/2024 (Mahopac)

Obituary Preview: Bridget H. O'Mara, 90, of Scarsdale, NY, formerly of Mahopac, NY, passed away peacefully on February 8th,2024. Born December 1st,1933, to Leo and Bridget (Hyatt) Gilmour in Maspeth, Queens, NY.

Bridget graduated from the Mary Immaculate School of Nursing in 1954 and began her career as a "Flight Nurse" traveling the world. She spent the next 50 years taking care of sick and elderly patients until her retirement. During her lifetime as a Registered Nurse, she was blessed with six children, seventeen grandchildren, and seven great grandchildren.

She was a dedicated mother and devoted Christian to our Blessed Virgin Mary and St. Teresa, The Little Flower, as well as The Divine Mercy and St. Jude.

Bridget is survived by her six children: Donald(Misha) of Watertown, CT, Dr. David O'Mara(Lori) of Mahopac, NY, Dr. Bridget O'Mara-McGrath(Martin) of Carmel, NY, Patrick(Kelly) of Patterson, NY, Emily O'Mara of Holmes, NY and Elizabeth Carnicelli(Chris) of Scarsdale, NY. She is also survived by her seventeen grandchildren: Anthony, David, Nicholas. Martin, Margo, Sean, Brigitte, Mary, Thomas, William, Lance, Patrick, Marisa, Michael, Maria, Anna, and Kathryn, as well as seven great grandchildren: Logan, Ashlee, Christopher, Aria, Esme, Lilliana, and

Luka.

Visitation for family and friends is scheduled on Monday, February 12th, from 10-11am followed by a Funeral Mass at 11:30am at The Church of St. John the Evangelist, 225 E. Lake Blvd., Mahopac, NY.

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Catherine DeCandia - September 30, 1924 - February 08, 2024

Departed: 02/08/2024 (Mahopac)

Obituary Preview: Catherine DeCandia, age 99, of Mahopac, NY passed away peacefully in her home with her loving family by her side on Thursday, February 8, 2024. She was born in Manhattan on September 30, 1924, the daughter of Charles and Nettie (Currao) Graffeo.

Catherine was a school teacher in New York City, retiring in June of 1988 after 23 years of service. She was an active parishioner of St. John the Evangelist Church in Mahopac and a member of the Columbiettes. Catherine was a member of the Mahopac Seniors and attended the Senior Drop-in. For many years, she worked at the Board of Elections, being at the polling place at 5 am preparing the polls before the public came to vote.

On January 5, 1946 she married Morris DeCandia at St. Mary’s Church in Brooklyn. Morris passed away on May 16, 2006. She is survived by her daughter, Antoinette “Annette” Nicastro and her husband, Carmine of Mahopac; her son, Michael DeCandia and his wife, Lisa Buck of Portland, ME; her siblings, Thomas Graffeo, Gusianna Savoca and Bea Manaci; her grandchildren, Kerri, Debra, Douglass and Jake; her great grandchildren, Ryan, Chase, Drew and Kayla and many nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her siblings, Gus, Joseph and Salvatore Graffeo, Faye Alberti, Gloria Sorola, Mary Fundaro and Carmella Nieroda.

All are welcome to attend a visitation on Friday, February 9, from 4-7 pm at Joseph J. Smith Funeral Home. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Saturday, February 10 at 9 am at St. John the Evangelist Church, Mahopac with interment to follow at St. Charles Cemetery, Farmingdale, NY.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their family, accomplishments, and any notable achievements.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a sense of closure and help to celebrate the life of the deceased.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, an obituary is written by the family of the deceased or a close friend. In some cases, a funeral home or crematorium may assist with writing the obituary or provide a template for the family to use.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their family, occupation, hobbies, achievements, and any notable accomplishments.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or online platform. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from 100 to 500 words.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a nice way to personalize the tribute and help readers connect with the person who has passed away.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online platform?

The process for submitting an obituary varies depending on the publication or platform. You can usually find guidelines on their website or by contacting them directly. Be prepared to provide the necessary information and payment for the publication.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies widely depending on the publication or platform. Some may offer free listings, while others may charge by the word or line. Expect to pay anywhere from $50 to $500 or more for a traditional newspaper listing.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, it is possible to write your own obituary in advance. This can be a therapeutic exercise and ensure that your life is celebrated in the way you want it to be. However, it's essential to keep in mind that your loved ones may still want to add their own thoughts and memories when the time comes.

What is a self-written obituary called?

A self-written obituary is sometimes referred to as a "self-obit" or "autobit."

Is it appropriate to include humor in an obituary?

Absolutely! Humor can be a wonderful way to celebrate someone's life and personality. Just be sure to consider the tone and audience when deciding what to include.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Yes, quotes or lyrics that were meaningful to the person who has passed away can be a beautiful addition to an obituary.

How do I announce the death of a loved one on social media?

It's generally best to wait until the immediate family has been notified before sharing the news on social media. A simple statement such as "With great sadness, we announce the passing of [name]" is often sufficient.

What is an online memorial?

An online memorial is a virtual space where friends and family can share memories, photos, and condolences for a loved one who has passed away. These memorials can be created on various platforms or websites.

How long do online memorials remain active?

The duration of an online memorial varies depending on the platform or website. Some may remain active indefinitely, while others may have a limited time frame (e.g., one year).

Can I create an online memorial for someone who has been deceased for many years?

Absolutely! Online memorials can be created at any time, even if the person has been deceased for many years. This can be a meaningful way to continue celebrating their life and legacy.

What is the difference between an obituary and a eulogy?

An obituary is a written notice announcing someone's death and providing basic biographical information. A eulogy, on the other hand, is a speech or written tribute that celebrates the person's life and shares personal anecdotes and memories.

How do I write a eulogy?

To write a eulogy, start by brainstorming memories and stories about the person who has passed away. Consider their personality, accomplishments, and how they impacted your life. Then, organize your thoughts into a cohesive narrative that honors their memory.

Can I include mistakes or imperfections in an obituary or eulogy?

Absolutely! Including mistakes or imperfections can make the tribute more relatable and humanizing. It's essential to remember that everyone has flaws, and acknowledging them can add depth and authenticity to the celebration of someone's life.

How do I handle criticism or disagreements about an obituary or eulogy?

If you encounter criticism or disagreements about an obituary or eulogy, try to remain calm and understanding. Remember that everyone has different perspectives and opinions. If necessary, consider revising the tribute to better reflect the person's life and legacy.

Can I republish an obituary from years ago?

Yes, you can republish an old obituary on special occasions such as anniversaries or birthdays. This can be a meaningful way to continue honoring someone's memory over time.

What is the purpose of an obituary archive?

An obituary archive is a collection of past obituaries that provides a historical record of people's lives. These archives can be useful for genealogical research, historical studies, or simply as a way to revisit fond memories.

How do I access old obituaries?

You can access old obituaries through various sources such as newspaper archives, online databases, libraries, or genealogical societies. Some websites also offer searchable archives of historical obituaries.

Can I use an old obituary as inspiration for writing my own?

Absolutely! Reading old obituaries can provide valuable insights into how others have celebrated their loved ones' lives. Feel free to use them as inspiration when writing your own tribute.