John M. Oakey & Son Funeral Home and Crematory Obituaries

Introduction to John M. Oakey & Son Funeral Home and Crematory

John M. Oakey & Son Funeral Home and Crematory is a trusted and respected funeral home located in Salem, Virginia. With a rich history and a commitment to providing exceptional service, this funeral home has been serving the community for generations. In this article, we will delve into the history of John M. Oakey & Son Funeral Home and Crematory, explore their services, and discuss what sets them apart from other funeral homes in the area.

A Brief History of John M. Oakey & Son Funeral Home and Crematory

Founded by John M. Oakey in 1865, John M. Oakey & Son Funeral Home and Crematory has been a staple in the Salem community for over 150 years. The funeral home has remained family-owned and operated, with each generation building on the legacy of the previous one. Today, the funeral home is still run by the Oakey family, ensuring that the same level of care and compassion that was present in 1865 continues to be provided to families in need.

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Herman Norris Elliott - September 24, 1943 - May 04, 2024

Departed: 05/04/2024 (Salem)

Obituary Preview: Herman “Norris” Elliott, 80, of Salem, Virginia, went to be with the Lord on Saturday, May 4, 2024.

Norris was a part of the 1962 graduating class of Andrew Lewis High School. He later began a career with Elizabeth Arden working as a manager from 1965 to 1995. From there, he served Hanover Direct trucking company as traffic management coordinator from 1995 to 1999. In 2009, he began ownership of and operated Salem Taxi Service until 2014. He loved Salem, enjoyed expressing his photography talent, and highly admired steam trains.

Preceding him in death were his parents, Herman Roy and Thelma Louise Thomas Elliott; brother-in-law, Charles Edward “Eddie” Horne; sister, Linda Elliott Horne; brother-in-law, Ronnie "Pete" Bryant; and nephew, Chad Bryant.

His surviving family includes his wife, Patricia Elliott; sister, Anita Bryant; children, Lisa Elliott Scott (Andy), Sandra Bryant (Kelly), and Katy Elliott (Justin Mertz); grandchildren, Seth Scott (Brandy), Trips Bryant, and Sammy and Alistair Mertz; great-grandchildren, Lucy and Drew Scott; niece, Susan Horne; and close friends, Pete and Ellie Woolwine and their family of Greenfield, Indiana.

Special appreciation is extended to the nursing staff at Raleigh Court Health & Rehabilitation Center for its love and care of Norris.

Family and friends may gather from 6 to 8 p.m. on Wednesday, May 8, 2024, in the John M. Oakey & Son Chapel in Salem, Virginia. A memorial service will be conducted at 2 p.m. on Thursday, May 9, 2024, also in the chapel.

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Peter Thomas Osterhous - October 01, 1949 - May 04, 2024

Departed: 05/04/2024 (Salem)

Obituary Preview: The obituary for Peter Thomas Osterhous will appear here shortly.

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James Chester Lewis - November 11, 1966 - May 04, 2024

Departed: 05/04/2024 (Salem)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for James Chester Lewis.

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Edith Meador - November 01, 1922 - May 03, 2024

Departed: 05/03/2024 (Salem)

Obituary Preview: Edith Ann Meador, 101, of Roanoke, Virginia, went to be with the Lord on Friday, May 3, 2024. Born on November 1, 1922, to the late Harry and Hannah Harvey Meador, she is also preceded in death by her loving husband, whom she lost 21 years ago, George Carl Meador; son, Gary Steven Meador, as well as her grandsons, Donald Carl Burks and Ricky Dean Burks. Edith was not only 101.5 years old, but she was also a breast cancer survivor of 35 years. She loved going to church and singing hymns. Edith enjoyed time with her family and teaching them her favorite hobbies of crocheting, cooking, and sewing. Edith had a passion for telling stories; growing up with 13 siblings, she had lots of stories to tell!

Edith leaves behind her daughters, Jeanne Meador and Mariea (John) Hardy; grandsons, Mark Hardy and Michael Hardy; granddaughter, Michelle Rock; great grandchildren, Angela (Daniel) Chapman, Cadie (Holly) Burks, Jenna (Matthew) Booth, Alana Gandy, Lexi and Lily Rock; great-great grandchildren, Hannah, Haylee, Jacob and Logan Chapman and Brady, Tessa, and Rowan Booth; as well as siblings, Cecil Meador, Oscar (Helen) Meador, Buddy Meador and Ralph Meador.

The family will welcome friends for a time of visitation on Wednesday, May 8, 2024, from 1:00 p.m. to 2:00 p.m., in the chapel of John M. Oakey and Son Funeral Home, Salem. Funeral services will be conducted at 2:00 p.m., in the funeral home chapel with Pastor Jeff Gardner officiating. Interment immediately following in Fair View Cemetery, Roanoke.

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Chester Glairwood Blankenship - September 12, 1936 - May 01, 2024

Departed: 05/01/2024 (Salem)

Obituary Preview: Chester Glairwood Blankenship, 87, of Roanoke County, Virginia, passed away on Wednesday, May 1, 2024, at home.

He was an employee with Rowe Furniture for over 30 years before later working at Glenvar High School as a custodian. The loves of his life were horseback riding, NASCAR, camping, hunting, car shows and most of all spending time with family. He would give the shirt off his back as well as his very last dollar to anyone in need. He will be remembered most, however, by the way he loved his late wife of 65 years, Doris.

Preceding him in death were his parents, Crockett and Minnie Blankenship; wife, Doris Blankenship; brothers, Melvin, Elbert, and Jr. Blankenship; sisters, Mabel King and Ann-Texana Herndon; and grandchildren, Jeffrey Green and Michael C. Blankenship, Jr.

His surviving family includes his children, Michael C. Blankenship, Sr. and Ellen Richmond, and Linda Green; brothers, Mark and Theodore Blankenship; sister, Mary Melton; grandson, Michael D. Blankenship; great-grandchildren, Jacob, Sara, Melissa, Bradley, Emily, Lane, and Jase; special friend and horse rider, Danny Green; and canine companion, Chester, affectionately known as “My Buddy”.

The family extends appreciation to Good Samaritan Hospice for its phenomenal care.

A graveside service will be conducted at 11 a.m. on Saturday, May 4, 2024, at Sherwood Memorial Park in Salem, Virginia, with Pastor John S. Collins officiating.

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Walter Donald Reese - May 08, 1930 - April 30, 2024

Departed: 04/30/2024 (Salem)

Obituary Preview: Walter Don Reese, 93 of Salem, VA passed away Tuesday, April 30, 2024. Born Thursday, May 8, 1930, to the late Buren A. Reese, Sr, and Bertie Showalter Reese in Welch, WV.

In addition to his parents, he is preceded in death by his wife of 67 years, Shirley Ann Wilson Reese; siblings, Buren A. Reese, Shirley A. Hale, Garland L. Reese, Ralph L. Reese, and George W. Reese.

Don served 20 years in the United States Air Force retiring at the rank of Master Sergeant and another 20 years at the Veterans Administration Hospital in Salem, VA.

Those left to cherish in his memory include his sons, David A. Reese and his wife, Sandy, and Neal A. Reese and his wife, Penny; sister, Wilma R. Bare; as well as numerous nieces and nephews.

A special thank you to the wonderful nurses and staff at the Virginia Veterans Care Center for taking care of Don like family.

The family will welcome friends for a time of visitation on Thursday, May 2, 2024, from 5 p.m. to 7 p.m. at John M. Oakey & Son Funeral Home in Salem.

A graveside service to honor Walter's life will be held on Friday, May 3, 2024, at 10 a.m. at Sherwood Memorial Park with Pastor Bryan Buckles officiating.

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Helen Marie Archer - February 22, 1941 - April 30, 2024

Departed: 04/30/2024 (Salem)

Obituary Preview: Helen Marie Thomas Archer, 83, of Salem, Va., formerly of Meadows of Dan, Va., went to be with the Lord on Tuesday, April 30, 2024, at her home. She was born on February 22, 1941, to the late Fannie Elizabeth McAlexander Thomas and Joseph P. Thomas in Meadows of Dan, Va. Helen was a hairdresser and cosmetologist, and spent her career making her clients beautiful! She enjoyed music, ceramics, gardening, and cooking for her family and friends. Helen placed her trust in our Lord and Savior and attended West Salem Baptist Church and Community Fellowship Church. In addition to her parents, she is preceded in death by her paternal grandparents, Harvey and Mary Sue Thomas; maternal grandparents, John and Cora Williams McAlexander; brother, Joseph Bruce Thomas; son, James Stevenson Archer; and her husband, Harrison McTeer Archer, Jr.

Those left to cherish her memory include her daughter, Penny Jo Gardner; grandchildren, Elizabeth Rain Gardner and Michael Scott Gardner; sister, Betty Jo Wilson; numerous aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins; special friend, Robert Hunt; and fur babies, Bell Bell and Winston. She loved you all.

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Nelson Milton Jackson - February 10, 1937 - April 28, 2024

Departed: 04/28/2024 (Salem)

Obituary Preview: Nelson Jackson, 87, of Salem, Va. died on Sunday, April 28, 2024.

Nelson was born in Roanoke, Va., the son of the late W. Payton and Ester O. Jackson. He graduated from Jefferson High School and served as a department manager for the City of Roanoke for 18 years. He was an active member of Goodwin Memorial United Methodist Church for over 40 years.

In addition to his parents, Nelson was preceded in death by his siblings, Edward Jackson, Melba “Bootie” Wilson, Helen Hillman, and Frederick “Bill” Jackson, and his daughter, LeAnne.

He is survived by his wife of 52 years, Peggy Pugh Jackson, and his children, Kevin Jackson of Salem, Va., Kirk Jackson of Lexington, Va., and Rachel Jackson, also of Salem.

Graveside services to honor Nelson’s life will be conducted on Thursday, May 2, 2024, at 11 a.m. at Sherwood Memorial Park, in Salem. Rev. Charles DeHart will officiate.

The family will receive friends on Wednesday, May 1, 2024, from 5 until 7 p.m. at John M. Oakey & Son Funeral Home, in Salem.

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Janel Keaton - February 17, 1968 - April 25, 2024

Departed: 04/25/2024 (Salem)

Obituary Preview: Charlotte Janel Keaton, age 56, of Hardy, Virginia, was awakened by angels and ushered into the presence of Jesus at 2:48 a.m. on Thursday, April 25, 2024.

Janel was born in Grand Rapids, Michigan, on February 17, 1968, the firstborn of Robert and Grace Keep, and had two younger brothers.

Janel grew up as a PK (pastor’s kid) and lived in several different states. She attended the Stoneboro Wesleyan Methodist Christian School in Stoneboro, Pennsylvania, where she graduated high school in 1986. She then attended Union Bible College in Westfield, Indiana.

While living in Indiana, Janel met the love of her life, Troy Keaton, and they were married in July of 1989. She was a devoted wife to Troy for 34 years and the two of them were an incredible duo and always up for an adventure. Though not one to be upfront, she was his faithful partner in ministry and had lifelong impact on people in all three congregations they served. Together, they founded EastLake Community Church in Moneta, Virginia, where for the past eighteen years, Janel has been a vital part of the growth and success that the church has experienced.

Janel invested her life in raising her children and considers her two daughters and two sons as her greatest accomplishment in life. As a mother, she is best remembered by them as someone who was always available, always honest, and one who instilled in them a commitment to things that mattered most. She was most concerned about them loving and trusting Jesus, having a great work ethic, integrity, forgiveness, and always finishing what they started.

Janel was a fun and loving Mimi and could never get enough time with her grandkids. She was often found loving, cuddling, and playing with them. The grandkids always caused her to light up no matter how hard her day had been.

Janel loved life and lived each day to the full. She had a beautiful smile and didn’t sweat the small stuff. She was happy being in the outdoors, working in her flower beds, and had a special gift for interior design. Janel was an avid exerciser and until her cancer diagnosis worked diligently at having good health. She was an incredible host and her home was often the place where family gatherings were held. Throughout her life, Janel’s genuine faith inspired others and in her final months her story reached millions through her social media page, “Janel’s Journey”.

Most importantly, Janel was a devoted Christ follower and lived her life to please the Lord. She read the Bible faithfully and always with a heart to learn. Although Janel didn’t consider herself a singer, she was an enthusiastic worshipper! And even when not feeling well, you would often find her on a Sunday morning, front row left side, praising Jesus for who He was and all that He had done in her life.

Janel was preceded in death by her father, Robert Keep.

She is survived by her husband, Troy; her children, Natalie (Keith) Bryan, Allyson (Nathan) Gumbiner, TJ (Angeli) Keaton, and Trever (Autumn) Keaton; eight grandchildren; her mother, Grace Keep; her brothers, Tim (Becky) Keep and Dave (Julia) Keep; and a host of nieces, nephews, brothers-in-law, and sisters-in-law.

The family would like to thank all those who gave her such great care on her journey: Dr. Andrew Fintel and the team at Blue Ridge Cancer; the team at the Duke Center for Brain and Spine Metastasis and especially Betsy Fricklas, PA; her nurse, Maggie Farmer, from Gentle Shepherd Hospice; her cousin, Stephanie Greathouse, NP, who came by the house so often; and the host of other friends and family who enabled Janel to be cared for in the comfort of her own home.

An initial period of visitation for Janel will be held from 4 to 8 p.m. on Tuesday, April 30, 2024. On Wednesday, May 1, 2024, a second visitation will begin at 2:30 p.m. with a funeral service beginning at 4 p.m. with Pastor Jeff Keaton officiating. All events will be held at EastLake Community Church located at 1201 Timberwood Lane in Moneta, Virginia. She will be laid to rest privately at the Promised Land Memorial Gardens.

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Diana Lynne Macannan - Unknown - April 24, 2024

Departed: 04/24/2024 (Salem)

Obituary Preview: Diana Lynne Macannan, 63, of Roanoke, Va., was called into the arms of God on Wednesday, April 24, 2024. She was born on April 5, 1961. Diana was loved very much and will be missed every day by those who knew her.

She is survived by her boyfriend, Anthony Wilhelm; and her daughter, Christine.

No services are planned at this time.

John M. Oakey & Son Funeral Home in Salem is serving Diana's family.

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David Lawrence Thompson - November 17, 1954 - April 20, 2024

Departed: 04/20/2024 (Salem)

Obituary Preview: David Lawrence Thompson passed away on Saturday, April 20, 2024, at Lewis Gale Medical Center in Salem, Va. He was born on November 17, 1954, to the late Florence “Molly” and Samuel Thompson. He was the oldest of their two sons and enjoyed being a big brother to Bruce his whole life. David graduated from Roanoke County Occupational School in 1975. He worked for ARC and Goodwill until his retirement in 2017. David was a lifelong member of Bethel Baptist Church and loved his Sunday School class very much. He was a big music fan and enjoyed listening to "oldies" and gospel music. He himself had a beautiful voice and sang in the church choir for years. Over the years David enjoyed taking trips with the seniors from Bethel, as well as participating in the "Unlimited" program at Fellowship Community Church. David loved sports and was always ready to talk about any and every sport, no matter the season. In his younger years, he was an avid bowler and enjoyed the community of his bowling league. David never met a stranger and even if you met him one time you were a friend. He is survived by his brother, Gerald "Bruce" Thompson, and wife, Judy; nieces, Jill Gladwell and husband, Dustin, and Kelci Noble and husband, Josiah; great-niece, Scout Noble; and great nephew, Owen Gladwell; as well as countless friends who were just Like family to him. David had a big personality that will be missed by many.

A funeral service to celebrate his life will be held at 3 p.m. on Saturday, April 27, 2024, at the John M. Oakey & Son Funeral Home in Salem, with Pastor Hilton Jeffreys officiating. He will be laid to rest privately at the Daleville Cemetery in Daleville, VA. The family welcomes everyone to a reception immediately following the service at Bethel Baptist Church in Salem, for food and fellowship.

Friends may visit with the family from 2 p.m. until the hour of the service at the funeral home.

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Harold Otis Stull - April 27, 1945 - April 18, 2024

Departed: 04/18/2024 (Salem)

Obituary Preview: On Thursday, April 18, 2024, Harold “Papa” Stull, 78, of Salem, Virginia, left his earthly home to be with the Lord while surrounded by his loving family. Born April 27, 1945, in Roanoke, Va., to the late Madeline Shilling Hall, he is also preceded in death by his cousin, Danny Shilling, who was like a brother to him. Harold grew up in Salem and graduated from Andrew Lewis High School. After graduation, Harold enlisted in the United States Air Force and was stationed at Charleston AFB in South Carolina. He finished at the top of his class as an aircraft mechanic and achieved the rank of Sgt. After an honorable discharge, he continued his career as a diesel/large engine mechanic for Aaron J. Conner General Contractor. He took a level of pride in his work, whether at his job or around the house, that was second to none. He was fully dedicated and uncompromising when it came to his family. Harold loved the outdoors, cutting the grass and washing cars. He was an enthusiastic sports fan, especially UVA Cavaliers football and basketball, and considered himself, “One True Hoo.” Harold loved his 1971 Boss Mustang so much that he bought it twice! Harold adored his family and cherished the time spent with them. He was a fully dedicated father, even after the children were grown, and a doting “Papa” to his grandchildren. Harold was an inspiration to so many and lived a life full of love, loyalty, kindness, integrity, honor, and perseverance. In fact, Harold WAS the definition of a “family man”!

Those left to cherish his memory are his loving wife of 52 years, Linda Martin Stull; daughters, Kim Rhinehardt and husband, Bob, Karen Critzer and husband, Mark, and Leigh Ogle; grandchildren, Ashley Barnes and husband, Lucas, Derek Critzer, Jordan Ogle, Sydney Ogle, and Ty Ogle; sisters-in-law, Judy Martin, Peggy Brown and Patsy Lively; brother, Robert Stull and wife, Patsy.

A Celebration of Life service with military honors will be conducted on Monday, April 22, 2024, at 1:00 p.m. in the chapel of John M. Oakey and Son Funeral Home, Salem, with Pastor Aaron Mansfield officiating. The family will welcome friends for a time of visitation prior to the service, beginning at 11:00 a.m.

The family would like to express their sincerest gratitude to Occupational Therapist, Angela Billingsley, the medical team at University of Virginia Medical Center, and their loving church family at Catawba Valley Baptist for their compassionate care and loving kindness expressed both to Harold and their family.

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Mary Ann Landes - February 25, 1951 - April 18, 2024

Departed: 04/18/2024 (Salem)

Obituary Preview: Mary Ann Landes, 73, of Salem, Va., went home to be with our Lord and Savior on April 18, 2024. She was born on February 25, 1951, to the late Robert Lee Simpkins and Mary Elizabeth Whitley. Her hobbies included doing God’s work! She saw a need for a food pantry in her apartment building, so she turned one of her closets into a food pantry that she kept stocked with food and other grocery items. The residents of the building could knock on her door at anytime and she would give them whatever they needed. If she didn’t have it, she found someone who did. She made hundreds of bracelets with bible verses on them just to give away to those she felt needed to hear God’s word and she would stop and pray with anyone. She started and led a prayer service for anyone in her apartment building to attend. At Christmas time she would make gift bags for all the residents in her building and secretly put them at everyone’s door. She started this several years ago and enlisted five others to help her. She was so full of God’s love, and she shared that love with those around her. Her faith could move mountains. She will be greatly missed by her family and friends. In addition to her mother and father, she is preceded in death by her stepmother, Zelda E. Simpkins; a daughter, Traci Lynn Shatzer; and sisters, Nancy Casper, and Elsie Overton.

Those left to cherish her memory include her daughter, Kimberly Ann Hodges and husband, Rusty; grandchildren, Christopher Hodges and wife, Lauren, Justin Hodges and fiancé, Samantha Pack, Amber Plank, and Leigha Shatzer; nine great-grandchildren; brother, Jesse Lee Simpkins; sister, Debbie Lehmann; brother-in-law, Cliff Hancock; and the special man in her life, Robin Kegley.

A celebration of her life will be held in the Ridgecrest Regency Room on May 18 from 4 p.m - 6 p.m.

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Charles Roscoe Snellings - June 27, 1932 - April 18, 2024

Departed: 04/18/2024 (Salem)

Obituary Preview: Charles Roscoe Snellings, 91, United States Air Force Retired, passed away on Thursday, April 18, 2024. Born on June 27, 1932, in Roanoke, Virginia, Chuck grew up in Roanoke before enlisting in the United States Army in August, 1949. He served in the Korean Conflict from August 1950 to January 1952 and was discharged from the Army in August of that year. After a short civilian break, Chuck reentered military service in May of 1954, this time in the United States Air Force. He retired in August 1971, having served 20 years and obtaining the rank of Master Sargeant. Chuck proudly served his country overseas in Korea, Japan, Germany, Taiwan, and Greenland, and received three Air Force Commendations and numerous other medals and awards. Following his military service, he was employed at the Veterans Administration Medical Center for 27 years. Working first as a medical admission officer and ending as a computer analyst.

Chuck was preceded in death by his first wife, Peggy Johnston Snellings, son, Eric David Snellings; grandson, Bryce Wesley Patton; his parents, William E. and Mabel Neighbors Snellings, as well as ten siblings.

Those left to cherish his memory are his wife of 37 years, Christina Kardaras Snellings; daughter, Mary (Lynne) Snellings Patton; daughter-in-law, Monica Snellings, grandsons, Fernando Snellings and Joshua Patton; granddaughter, Maria Snellings; brother, Thomas E. Snellings, as well as numerous nieces and nephews and their children.

The family will welcome friends for a time of visitation on Tuesday, April 23, 2024, beginning at 1:00 p.m. at Salem Baptist Church, 103 N. Broad Street, Salem; funeral services will follow at 2:00 p.m. with Pastor Heath Rickmond officiating. Interment with full military honors will be held privately.

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Martha Ruth Sullivan - March 31, 1958 - April 18, 2024

Departed: 04/18/2024 (Salem)

Obituary Preview: Martha Adams Sullivan, 66, passed away on the 18th of April, 2024. She will be dearly missed by her parents, Tommy Ivey and Ruth “Dolly” Adams; her aunt, Beatrice Adams (Charles); her son, Sean Sullivan; and her brothers, Neal Adams (Diane) and Phil Adams (Tara). She dedicated herself wholeheartedly to her family and her tireless efforts, sacrifices, and endless acts of love will forever be remembered.

Martha was known for her sense of humor, creative mind, and ability to navigate life's obstacles with determination and a smile. She found great joy in restoring old treasures, challenging herself with a new craft, and watching Auburn football while cuddling with her grand-dogs, Timbo and Harley Quinn. During her life, Martha opened her home and life to make sure others had opportunities for success and growth.

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Daniel Calvin Jessee - May 26, 1962 - April 17, 2024

Departed: 04/17/2024 (Salem)

Obituary Preview: Daniel “Dan” Calvin Jessee, 61, of Troutville, Virginia, passed away on April 17, 2024. Born in Springfield, Massachusetts, on May 26, 1962, he is preceded in death by his parents, Houston Alfred and Dorrine Williams Jessee, as well as his sister, Mary Diane Jessee.

Dan was a hard worker and a well-respected roofer. He was thoughtful and a deep thinker who was always taking it all in, even when it didn’t seem he was listening. Dan loved riding motorcycles and enjoyed great music; for him, that was classic rock and folk records. When the leaves began to turn, Dan was cheering for his favorite football team, the Atlanta Falcon; in winter, he was rooting for the Boston Celtics. No matter the season, he was always fond of dogs, and he made canine friends very easily. Above all, he loved his family and was a devoted father and friend to many.

Those left to cherish his memory are his children, Daniel Jessee, Amanda Walters and her husband, Rodney, and Dora Johnson and her husband, Jeremiah; grandchildren, Madison Painter and Hanna Walters; and well as his special canine companion, Isis, and granddog, Rosie.

Per the family's wishes, there will be no services at this time.

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Rochelle Bower Potter - January 07, 1977 - April 16, 2024

Departed: 04/16/2024 (Salem)

Obituary Preview: It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of Rochelle Bower Potter – a devoted mother, wife, daughter, sister, niece, and friend – who passed away peacefully surrounded by loved ones on April 16, 2024. Born on January 7, 1977, Rochelle was the light of everyone’s life and a joy to all those who knew her.

Rochelle’s life was a testament to her strength, courage, and love of family. She heroically battled a rare form of leukemia with a smile on her face and never allowed it to define her. In a way, she has beaten cancer on her own terms – never allowing it to beat her down and destroy her optimism. Her bravery and resilience throughout this journey inspired everyone around her. Through it all, she continued to serve those around her, always making sure that everyone else was happy and whole – and she kept them smiling all the while.

Rochelle’s love for family was endless. She was a devoted wife to her soulmate of nearly 20 years, Drew, and an adoring mother to her children, Mia and Daniel, whom she was proud of each and every day. Rochelle thrived off of her husband and children’s accomplishments. She went to every sporting event that her children played in and every game that her husband coached. She was beyond proud of her children’s academics and extracurricular activities – whether it was cheering on Mia’s greatness on the lacrosse field at Salem High School or being the world’s biggest fan of Daniel’s cookie and bracelet business that he co-founded with his best friend, Marley, of which all the proceeds have gone directly towards Rochelle’s treatment (Southern Cookies and Bracelets for a CAUSE and a CURE). If asked how she was, Rochelle would always begin with stories of her family’s recent accomplishments. Whether she was off traveling with her family, or simply relaxing at home, wherever she was with family was where she was happiest. Additionally, Rochelle was a loving fur momma to her beloved, Winston Arlo. Her family meant everything to her, and she loved them immeasurably.

Also left to cherish her memory are her parents, Michael and Glenna, who stayed by her bedside during her hospital stays. Rochelle was also the cherished eldest sister to Brian (Sally), Jared (Alice), Chad (Amanda), and Camille (Lynn). The siblings were as close as siblings could be – they spent countless hours together, kept each other laughing, and remained in constant contact with one another through their group messaging thread. Their bond will never be broken. The joys of being a sister was further enriched by many tiny feet in the form of adored nieces and nephews: Liliana, Grant, Sophia, Dale, Cullen, and Chandler. Their presence sent an immediate smile to Rochelle’s face, and she treasured each moment with them. Rochelle’s family loved her tremendously and will continue to hold those happy memories close.

Along with her immediate family, Rochelle blessed another close-knit family of in-laws – including father-in-law, Jim, who proceeds her in death, mother-in-law, Kay, and sisters-in-law, Holli, Wendi, and Lesli (Chris), accompanied by many nieces and nephews: Nicholas, Ian, Dakotah, Tanner, Kerrigan, and Aidan. Rochelle very much loved her second family and was the life of any family gathering.

Additionally, Rochelle enjoyed many close relationships with numerous aunts, uncles, cousins, and close friends. Those left earthside will forever honor the beautiful memories that they have created with her. Rochelle valued all her family and friends and held those bonds deep within her heart. She was very much a “family first” person and never hesitated to put others before herself.

There are truly not enough words to describe just who Rochelle was. Her essence was kind, wild, witty, and quirky. Her presence made any event more festive, and she’d make sure that everyone felt welcome. Her siblings agree that they would not be the person that they are today without her wisdom and guidance. Rochelle loved to laugh, she loved to tell jokes, and she loved to love. Always up for an adventure, you could count on Rochelle to make plans for a wild activity in record time. Rochelle loved to host holiday parties and gatherings for family and friends, and you could always count on her to prepare something delicious as a meal. She was the glue that held everyone together and the ringleader of any group that she was a part of. She picked people up when they were down and checked in on people “just because.” Rochelle loved celebrating birthdays and special events – you could always count on her to go all out on celebrations. She truly was a special person.

Rochelle loved to learn as she regarded education as one of the major pillars of her life. After graduating with honors from Franklin County High School, Rochelle put herself through college and graduated with honors at Ferrum College. And, true to form, Rochelle then decided to further her education and received her master’s degree – in the midst of juggling being a wife, mother, and co-owner of her own business, Phoenix, LLC. Rochelle always strived for greatness and was a role model to not only her family, but to so many more people who looked up to her.

Selfless is the adjective that would best describe Rochelle. She spent her career as a mental health clinician, working within her community to assure that those less fortunate had their needs met. Her compassion towards those that she helped was obvious. She was a beacon of hope to so many and spent many waking hours ensuring that her clients were safe, healthy, and taken care of – no matter what time of day. Not only was she a nurturer to her family, but she was to so many more that were mere strangers to her. Rochelle encouraged those around her to reach for the stars and her profound effect will forever be instilled in those whose lives she touched.

The family wishes to express their heartfelt gratitude for the overwhelming love and support that has been received throughout Rochelle’s diagnosis and journey. We will never be able to thank each of you but please know that your thoughts, prayers, and strength during this process has been felt and is appreciated by the entire family. Rochelle knew how much she was loved, and your compassion further solidified that for her. Though we mourn her passing, we are also celebrating the life that she led and the significant impact that she left on our hearts.

We invite you to join us in celebrating Rochelle’s life. A memorial service will be held on Sunday, April 21, 2024, at 3:00 p.m. in the chapel of John M. Oakey and Son, Funeral Home, Salem, with Pastor Hilton Jeffreys officiating. The family will welcome friends for a time of visitation from 1:00 p.m. to 3:00 p.m.

Rochelle will never be forgotten – her memory lives on with her husband, children, family, and friends. Although she is not with us physically, we know that she will be with us spiritually throughout our lives and will certainly not miss any of her family’s milestones moving forward. We take solace in knowing that she is now healed, happy, and getting reacquainted with those who have preceded her in passing on. While we grieve, we are grateful that she is whole once more and is now a guardian angel for so many. She touched countless people’s lives, and the family is proud of who she was as a person. Rochelle would want to remind everyone to make sure to live your life to the fullest, love those around you to the greatest ability, and above all, be kind to everyone – you never know what battles someone may be facing. Tell those who matter that you love them each day and never regret a single day. We love you and we will see you again soon, Rochelle.

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Gloria Lynn Hilton - June 08, 1949 - April 15, 2024

Departed: 04/15/2024 (Salem)

Obituary Preview: Gloria Radford Hilton, 74, passed away peacefully on Monday, April 15, 2024. She was born in Blacksburg to the late John E. “Hank” and Edith Simms Radford.

She is survived by her husband of 37 years, Byron “Butch” Hilton; daughter and son-in-law, Nicole and Tim Seevers; son and daughter-in-law, Justin and Amanda Woo; grandchildren, Chase, Cole and Caroline Seevers, and Tom, Charli and Araya Woo; brother and sister-in-law, John and Ginger Radford; brother-in-law, David Gruber; and nephews, David Tucker and John Radford. She was preceded in death by her sister, the late Betty Jo Gruber, and her niece, the late Valerie Jo Rasnake.

The family will receive friends at the John M. Oakey & Son Funeral Home on Sunday, April 28th from 2:00 pm to 3:00 pm, with a memorial service immediately following.

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Lorraine Semones Spraker - August 17, 1938 - April 11, 2024

Departed: 04/11/2024 (Salem)

Obituary Preview: Lorraine Semones Spraker, 85, of Roanoke, went to her heavenly home on Thursday, April 11, 2024. She was born on August 17, 1938, to the late Heath and Belle Nixon Semones in Carroll County, Va. In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death by her husband of 64 years, Dickey Wilson Spraker.

Lorraine was raised in Wytheville, Va., one of her first jobs was working at the candy counter at Central Drug Store. After their marriage and moving to Roanoke, Lorraine cared for her mother-in-law, Ruth, who lived in the home for 19 years. She also managed to hold several jobs. She was a dental assistant and later a receptionist for Dr. Hugh Lee, worked as a Welcome Wagon hostess and was an Avon lady. She most enjoyed her time as a pharmacy tech for Super X.

She was a member of Central United Methodist Church in Salem, since 1960, and served in different positions. She was active in Sunday School and circles and loved keeping the membership up-to-date through emails. She also wrote memorials for the church for many years.

Above all she was a loving wife, mother and grandmother. She loved having family around and hosting get-togethers.

Family remaining to cherish her memory include her daughters, Carol Adams (Dennis) and Donna Earwood (Donald); grandchildren, Scott Adams (Jenna), Eric Adams (Carissa), and Maggie Earwood; great-grandchildren, Calvin, Madelyn, Braydon and Claire; sisters, Elaine Sult, Pat Cale, and Nancy Tucker; and numerous cousins, nieces and nephews.

The family will receive friends from 1 p.m. until 2 p.m. at Central United Methodist Church in Salem. Services to honor her life will follow, starting at 2 p.m. Rev. Bryan Buckles, along with her sons-in-law, Rev. Dennis Adams and Rev. Donald Earwood will officiate. Following the service she will be laid to rest privately alongside her husband, Dickey at the Blue Ridge Memorial Gardens Mausoleum in Roanoke, Va.

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Ralph Dean Mabes - November 03, 1931 - April 09, 2024

Departed: 04/09/2024 (Salem)

Obituary Preview: Ralph Dean Mabes, 92, of Salem, Va., went to be with his Lord on Tuesday, April 9, 2024.

Ralph grew up on Craig Avenue and was a graduate of Andrew Lewis High School. He was proud to be a citizen of Salem as he would say, “Salem born, Salem Bred.” After high school, he served in the US Navy where he satisfactorily completed prescribed courses of study at both the Airman School and Aerographer’s Mate School. Following his honorable discharge, he went into business with his father at Rockydale Quarry as Mabes & Son Hauling then later as Mabes Hauling. During the 1960s, he started his career in Real Estate. He began with his own company, Mabes Realtors, then retired in 2015 while working at Hall Associates.

During his life, he enjoyed playing golf, traveling, and spending time at the lake boating, fishing, and skiing with family and friends. He was active in the lives of his children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren attending sporting events, birthday parties, going on vacations, graduations, and family get-togethers. He looked forward to eating his two chocolate chip cookies each day from McDonald’s. He also enjoyed his involvement at Salem Baptist Church where he was a member.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Harry Bradford and Rachel Wills Mabes; wife of 64 years, Doris Turner Mabes; siblings, Harry Mabes and Marie Dent; and nephew, Robin Dent.

His surviving family includes his children, Stephen L. Mabes and Brenda Mabes Williams; grandchildren, Stephanie L. Hutsell and Michael P. Williams; great-grandchildren, Ashlyn and Dominick Draper; great-great-granddaughter, Leilani Jones; sister-in-law, Peggy Turner of Luray, Va.; and many nieces and nephews.

The family extends a special thank you to The Harmony Collection at Roanoke as well as Gentiva Hospice for the care given to Ralph and the entire family.

A celebration of Ralph’s life will take place on Monday, April 15, 2024, in the John M. Oakey & Son Chapel in Salem, Va. Visitation will begin at 1 p.m. and the service at 2 p.m. Interment will immediately follow at Sherwood Memorial Park.

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Donald Roger Vaughn - November 29, 1946 - April 08, 2024

Departed: 04/08/2024 (Salem)

Obituary Preview: Donald Roger “Don” Vaughn, 77, of Elliston, VA, passed away on Monday, April 8, 2024, at his home. He was born on November 29, 1946, in Altoona, PA. Don’s early years were spent with his grandparents in Lake Hamilton, FL. And then in Winter Haven, Florida where he was raised through the Helping Hand’s Children’s Home. On August 17, 1966, Don enlisted in the United States Army and was a member of the 82nd Airborne. After his service to the country, Don achieved the rank of Private First Class. Later he would move to Virginia to work for Volvo Trucks of North America in Dublin, VA. He performed various roles while employed at Volvo including quality control, cab electrical, and the production line to name a few. He retired from Volvo after over thirty years of service. In his free time, Don played league baseball, helped with organizing Volvo Employee Golf Outings, and was a member of the Dealer Awareness (Zero Bucket) team. He also was a DJ at the local Marriott hotel where he used his talent and love of music to spin tunes to bring joy to people’s faces. Don was also devoutly involved with the Virginia Tech Athletics Department for over thirty years. He was an avid sports fan and enjoyed the excitement and comradery of college sports. While working with VT, he became a Game Day Operations Coordinator for various sporting events on campus. His work at VT promoted his passion for sports, especially track and field, men’s basketball, and, of course, Hokie football.

He is preceded in death by his grandparents, Mr. & Mrs. R.W. Rodgers; infant grandson, Robert Edward Geiger; and mother-in-law, Marie Carol Hurt McLawhorn.

Don is survived by his wife, Nancy Carol Hurt Vaughn; son, Robert Tarvin and wife, Sabrina; daughters, Lindsey Vaughn, and Tiffani Robbyn Vaughn; grandchildren, Robby Alouris Geiger and her husband, Jackie Edward, Ryan Adam Tarvin and his wife, Leia King, Raiden Tarvin, Caeden Jae Finley, and Isabella Grace Finley; great-grandchildren, Kyle Jacob Geiger and Alouris Peyton Geiger; stepchildren, Charles Lester Mills, Kyle Brandon Mills, and Henry L. Mills and his wife, Regina; step-grandchildren, Seraphina A. Mills, Dominik O. Mills, and Maximilian E. Mills; brothers-in-law, William Terrill Hurt, III and wife, Yvonne, and Robert Lester Hurt and wife, Bobbie-Jo; and a host of nieces and nephews also survive.

A funeral service to celebrate Don’s life will be held at 4 p.m. on Saturday, April 13, 2024, at the John M. Oakey & Son Funeral Home in Salem, VA with Minister Robert Hurt officiating. Burial will be held privately with his family at the Hampton Memorial Gardens in Hampton, VA. For those unable to attend, the funeral service for Don will be livestreamed below this obituary notice.

Friends may visit with the family from 6-8 p.m. on Friday, April 12, 2024, at the funeral home.

The family asks that any floral donations be white and dark purple to match he and Nancy’s wedding colors, or VT Hokie orange and maroon.

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Nancy Elizabeth Burkindine - February 21, 1939 - April 06, 2024

Departed: 04/06/2024 (Salem)

Obituary Preview: Nancy Elizabeth Burkindine, 85 of Roanoke, VA went to be with her loving husband in heaven on Saturday, April 6, 2024. Born in Pulaski, VA to the late Harold Lee Mabe and Janie Elizabeth Miller on Tuesday, February 21, 1939.

In addition to her parents, she is preceded in death by her loving husband, Robert Lincoln Burkindine; brothers, Charles “Jimmy” Miller and his wife, Mary, Phillip “Pip” Mabe and his wife, Wanda; best friend of 50+ years Patricia and Arthur Shifflet.

Nancy had a deep love for her family and always made sure to prioritize spending time with them. Her grandchildren and great-grandchildren affectionately called her "Nanny". She was an avid bingo player and had a sweet tooth for delectable chocolates. Additionally, Nancy was a devoted pet owner and lover who cared for many pets throughout the years.

Those left to cherish her memory include her daughters, Brenda “Diane” Sisson and her husband, James, Peggy Ann Newman, and her husband, Terry; grandchildren, Jennifer Alyssa Robinson and her husband, Ryan, as well as Marie Munson, Wendy Jamison, and Donald Miller; great-grandchildren, Lucas Newman, Gabe Robinson, Luke Robinson, Richard Miller, Angie Cox, Krista, and Paula Jamison, Caleb Andrews and Abigail Donahue; and six great-great-grandchildren; in addition to her best friends children, Wanda and Scott Homan, Debbie and Billy Pritchett, Patty and Ronnie Tucker.

The family will have a Celebration of Nancy’s Life on Sunday, April 28, 2024, at 11 a.m. at the John M. Oakey & Son Funeral Home, in Salem. Her granddaughter Jennifer Robinson will officiate.

Special thanks to the staff of Pheasant Ridge Nursing and Rehabilitation in Roanoke, VA for their love and care of Miss Nancy in the last year of her life. The staff and the residence put a smile back on her face and a pep in her step. We are forever thankful to all of you. Please consider donating in Nancy’s honor to the Alzheimer’s Foundation. https://alzfdn.org/donate/

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Frances Paulette Light - January 22, 1942 - April 05, 2024

Departed: 04/05/2024 (Salem)

Obituary Preview: Frances Paulette Light, 82, of North Charleston, SC. formerly of Salem, Va., passed away peacefully to be with her Lord and Savior.

Fran was a proud West Virginian, having been born in Rainelle, W.Va., on Jan. 22, 1942, daughter of the late Mason Paul and Lavona F. Gladwell. She graduated from Rainelle High School in 1959 and attended Beckley (W.Va.) College. She spent years as a medical transcriptionist at Community Hospital in Roanoke, Va., retiring in 2002. Frances was a loving wife and mother and devoted Christian and member of Green Ridge Baptist Church in Salem, Va.

In addition to her parents, Frances was preceded in death by her loving husband, McKinley Ray Light, and sister, Melanie Lively.

Family remaining to cherish her memory includes her children, David Scott Wren (Barbara) of North Charleston, SC, Stephen Wesley Wren (Patty) of Texarkana, Texas, and Michael Ray Light of Salem, Va.; brother, Paul Gladwell (Jean) of Rainelle, W.Va.; grandchildren, Heather Heflin (Donald) of Conway, SC, Sharayah Lambert (Drew) of Lago Vista, Texas, Stephanie Wren of North Charleston, SC, Morgan Light of Salem, Va., and Ethan Light (Brooke) of Salem, Va.; great-grandchildren, Christian Moore of Marion, SC, Bryce Lambert of Lago Vista, Texas, and Opal Light of Salem, Va.

The family will receive friends on Friday, April 12, 2024, from 6 until 8 p.m. at John M. Oakey & Son Funeral Home, in Salem. Funeral services to honor Frances’s life will be conducted on Saturday, April 13, 2024, at 10:30 a.m. in the funeral home chapel. Chaplain Tom Clark will officiate. Interment will follow in Cedar Lawn Burial Park, Roanoke, Va.

The family wishes to offer a special thanks to the Agape Care Group of Charleston, for the love and care given to Frances during her stay.

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Joyce Darlene Eary - August 16, 1934 - April 05, 2024

Departed: 04/05/2024 (Salem)

Obituary Preview: Joyce Darlene Eary, 89, of Salem, went to be with the Lord while surrounded by her family, on Friday, April 5, 2024. Born in Bluefield, West Virginia, on August 16, 1934, to the late Douglas William and Ruby Gillespie Halstead, she was part of a large family with 12 brothers and sisters. She was preceded in death by her husband of 38 years, Sgt. Charles T. Eary of the U.S. Marine Corps. Also preceding her in death was her loving, special friend, Betty Paitsel.

Darlene loved taking care of her friends and family. She truly made a house into a home! Beautiful both inside and out, her smile would light up the room. As the wife of a retired Marine, she was both strong and independent and had a kind and loving heart.

Those left to cherish her memory are her children, Edward “Eddie” Eary and wife, Deborah, Lora Muncy and husband, Rex, and Daniel “Danny” Eary; grandchildren, Richard Eary, Kevin (Sarah) Eary, Justin (Sara) Muncy, Jessica Muncy, Sabrina Muncy, Kayla Eary, Courtney (Kenny) Jobe, and Cheyenne (Justin) Eary; several great-grandchildren; and her canine companion, Teddy, and Stella Cat.

The family will welcome friends on Friday, April 12, 2024, for a time of visitation from 12:00 p.m. – 2:00 p.m., in the chapel of John M. Oakey and Son Funeral Home, Salem. Funeral services will begin at 2:00 p.m. with Pastor Matt King officiating. Interment will immediately follow the service at Sherwood Memorial Park, Salem. For those unable to attend the services, the chapel service will be live-streamed on our website. Please join us at Glenvar Baptist Church, Salem immediately following the graveside service.

The family wishes to express their sincerest gratitude to the staff of Richfield Wellness and Rehab and Good Samaritan Hospice for their compassionate care and loving kindness as well as to her granddaughter, Cheyenne, who served as her caretaker during her illness.

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Joseph Daniel Angle - September 04, 1948 - April 05, 2024

Departed: 04/05/2024 (Salem)

Obituary Preview: Joseph Daniel Angle, 75, of Rocky Mount, VA passed away on Friday, April 5, 2024. He was preceded in death by his parents Joseph “Houston” Angle and Lealda Thurman Angle.

Mr. Angle is survived by his loving wife of fifty-three years, Willa Angle; his “favorite” son, Andrew Angle; one brother, Ronnie; three sisters, Linda, Barbara, and Mary Jane; and numerous nieces and nephews.

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The funeral home's facility is located at 305 Roanoke Boulevard in Salem, Virginia. The building is designed to provide a warm and welcoming atmosphere, with comfortable seating areas, private visitation rooms, and a spacious chapel that can accommodate large gatherings. The facility is also equipped with state-of-the-art audiovisual equipment, allowing families to incorporate music, videos, and other multimedia elements into their services.

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The staff at John M. Oakey & Son Funeral Home and Crematory is comprised of experienced professionals who are dedicated to providing exceptional service to the families they serve. From licensed funeral directors to administrative staff, each team member is committed to helping families navigate the funeral planning process with compassion, care, and understanding.

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So what sets John M. Oakey & Son Funeral Home and Crematory apart from other funeral homes in the area? For starters, their long history and family-owned status ensure that families receive personalized attention and care that is unmatched by larger corporations. Additionally, their experienced staff is dedicated to staying up-to-date on the latest trends and best practices in the funeral industry, ensuring that families have access to the most innovative and meaningful ways to celebrate their loved ones.

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John M. Oakey & Son Funeral Home and Crematory is deeply committed to giving back to the Salem community. Through their involvement in local organizations and charities, they demonstrate their dedication to making a positive impact on the lives of those around them. Whether it's hosting seminars on grief support or participating in fundraising events for local causes, the funeral home's commitment to community involvement is evident in everything they do.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their family, accomplishments, and funeral or memorial services.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to share the news of a loved one's passing with friends, family, and community. They provide an opportunity to honor the deceased person's life, share memories and stories, and offer support to those who are grieving.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, a family member or close friend of the deceased writes the obituary. In some cases, a funeral home or crematorium may assist with writing the obituary or provide guidance on what information to include.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their family, education, career, hobbies, and achievements. Additionally, it may mention funeral or memorial services, charitable donations, and any other relevant details.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or online platform. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from a few sentences to a few paragraphs.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a nice way to personalize the tribute and help readers remember the person who has passed away.

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The process for submitting an obituary varies depending on the publication or platform. You can usually find guidelines on their website or by contacting them directly. Be prepared to provide the necessary information and payment for the obituary.

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The cost of publishing an obituary varies widely depending on the publication, location, and length of the obituary. Some newspapers and online platforms offer free or low-cost options, while others may charge several hundred dollars.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary in advance as a way to control how they are remembered and to spare their loved ones from having to do it after they pass away.

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Yes, many people choose to inject humor into an obituary as a way to celebrate the person's life and personality. However, it's essential to consider the tone and audience when deciding whether to add humor.

Can I include quotes or poems in an obituary?

Yes, including quotes or poems can be a meaningful way to personalize the obituary and capture the person's spirit. Choose something that resonates with their personality or interests.

How long after someone passes away should I wait before publishing an obituary?

The timing of publishing an obituary varies depending on cultural and personal preferences. Typically, it's published within a few days of the person's passing, but it can be delayed if necessary.

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If you notice errors or inaccuracies in the published obituary, contact the publication or online platform immediately. They may be able to make corrections or issue a revised version.

What is a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of someone's passing, usually including only basic information such as name, age, and date of death. It's often used when there is no formal obituary or as a preliminary announcement before a full obituary is published.

What is the difference between an obituary and a eulogy?

An obituary is a written notice announcing someone's passing and providing biographical information. A eulogy is a speech or written tribute delivered at a funeral or memorial service to celebrate the person's life and share memories.

Can I use social media to share an obituary?

Yes, social media platforms like Facebook and Twitter can be effective ways to share an obituary with friends, family, and acquaintances. You can also create a memorial page or group to collect memories and condolences.

How do I handle condolences and messages of sympathy after publishing an obituary?

You can expect to receive condolences and messages of sympathy from friends, family, and acquaintances after publishing an obituary. Responding personally can be overwhelming; consider designating someone to respond on behalf of the family or creating an online condolence book.

Can I include charitable donations in lieu of flowers in an obituary?

Yes, many families choose to include information about charitable donations in lieu of flowers as a way to honor their loved one's memory and support a cause that was important to them.

What if I'm unsure about what information to include in an obituary?

If you're unsure about what information to include in an obituary, consider consulting with family members, friends, or a funeral director for guidance. They can help you determine what details are most important to share.

Can I republish an old obituary for someone who passed away years ago?

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Are there any specific rules or regulations around writing an obituary?

The rules around writing an obituary vary depending on the publication or online platform. Be sure to check their guidelines before submitting your content.

How do I ensure that my loved one's legacy lives on through their obituary?

To ensure that your loved one's legacy lives on through their obituary, focus on sharing stories that capture their personality, achievements, and impact on others. This will help readers remember them fondly and feel inspired by their life.

What if I'm struggling emotionally while writing an obituary?

Writing an obituary can be a difficult task emotionally. Don't hesitate to seek support from friends, family, or a professional counselor if you need help coping with your grief during this process.

Can I include links or multimedia elements in an online obituary?

Yes, many online platforms allow you to include links to videos, photos, music playlists, or other multimedia elements that celebrate your loved one's life.

How long will my loved one's online obituary remain available?

The duration that an online obituary remains available varies depending on the platform. Some websites keep archives indefinitely, while others may remove content after a certain period. Be sure to check their policies before submitting your content.