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For over a century, John J. Ferry & Sons, Inc. has been a beacon of hope and comfort for families in Meriden, Connecticut, and surrounding communities. Located at 88 East Main Street, this esteemed funeral home has built a reputation on trust, compassion, and exceptional service. As you navigate the difficult times following the loss of a loved one, it's essential to have a trusted partner to guide you through the funeral planning process.

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Robert Lee Wight - June 16, 1945 - April 30, 2024

Departed: 04/30/2024 (Meriden)

Obituary Preview: Robert Lee Wight, 78, husband of Nancy (Carabetta) Wight, passed away on April 30, 2024.

Born in Bridgeport, CT on June 16, 1945, the son of the late George and Geraldine (Buckley) Wight. He had resided in Shelton and graduated from Notre Dame High School in Bridgeport. He attended SCSU and was activated into the Navy to serve in Vietnam and then graduated from CCSU. He retired after over 30 years of teaching with the Meriden BOE. He taught at Lincoln, Maloney and Washington and was a driving instructor at E-Z Learn.

Robert was a member of the Meriden and Waterbury AOH, CEA/NEA, and an active Board Member of Meriden Teacher’s Federal Credit Union. He was an avid golfer, and a fan of the NY Yankees.

Besides his wife Nancy, he is survived by his children, Moira (Scott Stenquist) and Michael Wight (Ana); his granddaughter, Emily; and his sister Linda Letsch. Robert was predeceased by his in-laws, Robert and Mary Carabetta.

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Doreen Jenkins - June 03, 1935 - April 28, 2024

Departed: 04/28/2024 (Meriden)

Obituary Preview: Doreen Gardner Jenkins, 88, daughter of the late Maxine and Elliott Gardner, passed away peacefully at home on Sunday, April 28, 2024. Born in Scotia, New York on June 3, 1935, she later moved to Meriden where she resided for the remainder of her life. She was a graduate of Meriden High School.

Doreen began her career at the Capitol Theater in Meriden, there she met James and they began their family. After leaving the theater she became a devoted homemaker, known for her love of shopping, attending tag sales, and cultivating beautiful gardens. She had a passion for sewing and took pride in crafting clothes and Halloween costumes for her children. In her earlier years, she worked tirelessly to care for her family and later dedicated herself to providing for her children's needs. Doreen was deeply committed to her work at the Chrysalis Foundation for Women of Domestic Violence, demonstrating her compassion and desire to help others in need.

Doreen is survived by her five children: Starr Longi (Edward), Crystal Gaffey, Jeffrey Jenkins (Tammy), Greg Jenkins, and Jennifer Jenkins (Pete); her siblings William Gardner (Elnora), Max Gardner, Dawn Valeriay (George), Douglas Gardner (Lucille), and Elliott Gardner (Barbara); her ten grandchildren: Sara, Tracy, Nathaniel, Greg, Marty, Jaylie, Neena, Emily, Ashley, and Steve; as well as her three great-grandchildren: Vincent, Maddox, and Lexi. She was predeceased by her son James Jenkins III, her siblings Eugene Gardner, Marie Wheeler, and Sherri Philips, as well as her former husband James Jenkins Jr.

Family and friends are invited to attend calling hours on Thursday, May 2, 2024, from 4 to 7 p.m. at The John J. Ferry & Sons Funeral Home, 88 East Main Street, Meriden, CT 06450. A Celebration of Life will begin at 6 p.m. Burial will be private.

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Esther Maria Slater - September 06, 1944 - April 27, 2024

Departed: 04/27/2024 (Meriden)

Obituary Preview: Maria Esther Slater, 79, of Meriden, passed away on Saturday, April 27, 2024, at Midstate Hospital after a brief illness.

Born in Aguada, Puerto Rico on September 6, 1944, she was the daughter of the late Olegario Traverso and Maria Cardona Traverso whom had resided in Meriden since 1946. She wasn’t only a devoted mother and grandmother, but someone who played an instrumental role in everyone’s lives whom she surrounded.

She is survived by her son, Jordan Slater of Wisconsin; three grandchildren, Alison Slater of California, Milo Slater of Wisconsin, and Theo Slater of Wisconsin and her sister, Donata Traverso of New Mexico. She was predeceased by her daughter Courtenay Slater of California.

The funeral service and burial will be held privately. The John J. Ferry & Sons Funeral Home 88 E. Main Street, Meriden has been entrusted with the arrangements. For online condolences, please visit jferryfh.com.

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Barbara Anne Hesse - November 21, 1959 - April 26, 2024

Departed: 04/26/2024 (Meriden)

Obituary Preview: Barbara Anne Hesse, 64, passed away on Friday, April 26, 2024, at MidState Hospice after a brief illness.

Born in Meriden, CT on November 21, 1959, she was the daughter of the late Stanley and Eileen Dyrek. She was a lifelong Meriden resident and graduated from Maloney High School. She was employed by Bradley Airport Post Office. Barbara served with the U.S. Air Force. She was a parishioner of Our Lady Queen of Angels Parish.

Barbara loved animals, especially her beloved Pomeranians, Bailey, Timmy, Katie, Hopie, Gracie and Stasu.

She is survived by her two daughters, Melissa Hesse and Heather Thomas and her husband Joe Thomas and her three grandchildren, Vivian Thomas, Olivia Thomas, and Sophia Thomas. She is also survived by her sister Theresa Dyrek, her two brothers, Joseph Dyrek and his wife Cindy Dyrek and Thomas Dyrek, her niece, Kaitlyn Dyrek and her two nephews, Patrick, and Kevin Dyrek.

Family and friends are invited to attend calling hours on Thursday, May 2nd from 9:00 a.m. to 11:00 a.m. at the John J. Ferry & Sons Funeral Home, 88 E. Main St., Meriden, CT 06450. A Mass of Christian Burial will follow at 11 :30 a.m. at Our Lady Queen of Angels Parish, Mt. Carmel Campus. Burial with military honors will be in St. Stanislaus Cemetery.

Should friends desire, contributions in her memory may be made to Meriden Humane Society, 311 Murdock Ave, Meriden, CT 06450. For online condolences, please visit jferryfh.com.

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Jeremiah F. O'Brien - January 16, 1947 - April 24, 2024

Departed: 04/24/2024 (Meriden)

Obituary Preview: Jeremiah (Jerry) F. O’Brien, 77, passed away on April 24, 2024, surrounded by family.

Jerry is survived by his wife of 27 years, Belena; daughters, Grace O’Brien, Caroline Kimball (Doug); stepdaughter, Sandy Sanchez; six grandchildren: Laura, Evan, Chloe, Rose, Cameron, Brielle; siblings, Barbara Dedman, Dennis O’Brien (Kay), Linda Warwick (Tom); and many nephews, nieces and extended family. Jerry was a loving father, husband, grandfather, uncle, cousin, and friend to everyone.

Jerry was born on January 16, 1947, to Raymond and Barbara O’Brien in Newark, NJ, and proudly lived and grew up in East Orange, NJ. He graduated from Iona College in New Rochelle, NY with a Bachelor of Business Administration in Accounting. He served in the U.S. Army and was stationed in Fort Carlson, Colorado for almost two years. After his military service, he worked in business and finance for most of his career. The position that he most often spoke of was his time as President of CRC based in Portland, OR which developed and marketed the portable automated external defibrillator (AED) that is now common in public buildings to assist in an emergency. Jerry and his first wife, Jane, welcomed two daughters in the 1980s. Later, in 1997, Jerry went on to marry Belena with whom he spent the rest of his life.

To know Jerry is to see that he had a lot of passion for life and the things he loved deeply. Elvis, the Yankees, Notre Dame Football, the NJ shore, Irish culture and music, Lord of the Rings, Rock-Steady Boxing, dancing, Jameson’s, fall foliage, and riding his bike a list few. But above all, he loved his family and friends.

Jerry battled against the debilitating progression of Parkinson’s for many years. He never lost his sense of humor. Throughout his journey, he cracked jokes, cheated at Uno with his grandchildren, and even pulled some light-hearted pranks on the nurses. He had a great ability to make others smile and his sense of humor will be missed.

Everyone is invited to attend the Mass of Christian Burial to be celebrated on Monday, May 6th at 10:00 AM at St. Rose of Lima, 35 Center St, Meriden, CT 06450 followed by a burial at the Connecticut State Veterans Cemetery at 317 Bow Lane, Middletown, CT 06457. There are no calling hours.

Instead of flowers, the family requests donations to the Michael J. Fox Foundation for Parkinson’s Research, https://www.michaeljfox.org/ an organization Jerry felt strongly about.

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Marcella M. Berube - May 07, 1928 - April 21, 2024

Departed: 04/21/2024 (Meriden)

Obituary Preview: Marcella (Bouchard) Berube, 96, passed away unexpectedly on Sunday, April 21, 2024. She was born on May 7, 1928, in Van Buren, Maine, where she later met her late husband Ferdinand Berube of L'lslet, Quebec, Canada.

She married Ferdinand on November 12, 1946. They relocated to Hartford, Connecticut in 1951 and then to Meriden in 1966, where she resided for most of her life. A devoted wife and loving mother to her eight children, Marcella found fulfillment in her role as a homemaker, dedicating herself to the well-being of her family. She found join in playing cards, crocheting, solving puzzles, and outdoor activities, passions she pursued well into the remarkable age of 96.

Marcella is survived by her five daughters: Jeannine Turner and her husband Robert of Thomaston, CT, Caroline Mainville and her husband Jack of Meriden, CT, Lorraine Ferris and her partner Louis LaRochelle of Southington, CT, Julie Knowlton and her husband Thomas of Meriden, CT, Annemarie Jones and her husband Kenneth of Columbia, PA; her three sons: Gerald Berube and his wife Rebecca of Middletown, CT, Gene Berube of Wolcott, CT, Norman Berube and his wife Debra of Meriden, CT; and her sister, Joanne Bouchard. She is also survived by 23 grandchildren, 37 great-grandchildren, 11 great-great-grandchildren, as well as many nieces and nephews.

Marcella is predeceased by her loving husband Ferdinand J. Berube, with whom she shared 47 years of marriage, her five brothers: Gilbert, Edgar, Raymond, Leon, and Leo James Bouchard, and her five sisters: Alfreda Deschene, Mae Corriveau, Veronica Martel, Lucille Bouchard, and Germaine Oulette. She was also preceded in death by her granddaughter Bernadette Berube, her great-granddaughter Cyrenna Sosbe-Spino, and great-grandson Kyle Tomkus.

Her family will receive relatives and friends on Saturday, May 4th, from 1 to 3 p.m. at the John J. Ferry & Sons Funeral Home, 88 East Main Street, Meriden, CT 06489. Burial will be private.

For online condolences, please visit jferryfh.com.

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Debra D. (Otto) Seelig - August 04, 1952 - April 21, 2024

Departed: 04/21/2024 (Meriden)

Obituary Preview: Debra D. (Otto) Seelig, 71, loving wife of Jeffrey S. Seelig, died on Sunday, April 21, 2024 at her home in Meriden after a lengthy illness. Born in Meriden, CT on August 4, 1952, she was the daughter of the late Lawrence B. Otto and Stacia I. Czernick. She had resided in Meriden all her life and graduated from Platt High School, Class of 1970. Then, she attended Briarwood College and graduated with a degree as an executive secretary in 1972. Mrs. Seelig was employed by Meriden-Wallingford Hospital as an executive secretary of the Emergency Department for over 25 years, retiring in 1999.

Debra was devoted to her family, especially her children. She loved flowers, tending to her garden and landscaping. She adored her cats and enjoyed spending summers on the water at Lake Winnipesaukee as well as in Cape Cod and New York. She was a New York Yankees fan and an avid photographer.

Besides her loving and devoted husband, she is survived by her sons, Christopher M. Seelig and his wife Jillian and Patrick R. Seelig and his wife Katheryne. She also leaves behind her cherished cats, Red and Rambo, who will miss her dearly.

Family and friends are invited to call at the John J. Ferry & Sons Funeral Home, 88 East Main St., Meriden, CT 06450, on Friday, May 3rd from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. A funeral service will follow at 1 p.m. Burial will be in St. Boniface Cemetery. Should friends desire, contributions in her memory may be made to the Meriden Humane Society, 311 Murdock Ave, Meriden, CT 06450.

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Alfredo Vazquez - June 04, 1934 - April 20, 2024

Departed: 04/20/2024 (Meriden)

Obituary Preview: Alfredo Vazquez, 89, beloved husband of 60 years to the late Bernarda “Nati” Vazquez, peacefully passed away at his home on Saturday, April 20, 2024, following a brief illness, surrounded by his loving family. He was born in Aguada, Puerto Rico, on June 4, 1934, the son of the late Gervasio and Leonora (Rios) Vazquez.

Known as Freddy, he received his education in Puerto Rico but made Meriden his home for the majority of his life. Freddy dedicated many years of service to Meriden Rolling Mill, formerly known as International Silver, until his retirement in the 1990s.

A devout member of St. Rose of Lima Church in Meriden, Freddy found solace in his faith, as well as in his involvement with The Society of Santo Nombre and Cursillo. He was an avid supporter of the Boston Red Sox, loved gardening, and cherished moments spent at the beach. Above all, Freddy treasured the quality time shared with his beloved family.

Freddy is survived by his two daughters, Ivette Vasquez and Yvonne Jimenez and her husband Peter; two grandchildren, PJ and Gabriel; and Isaac Hunter, whom he loved as a grandson. He is also survived by his five sisters: Margarita (Manuel) Rivera, Iris (Eddy) Nevarez, Ester (Alfredo) Rivera, Leonora (Jose) Cajigas, and Virginia (Geño) Mirles, along with many, many nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his siblings, Rosa Agudo, Jose (Pepin) Vazquez, Carmin Vazquez, Elsie Acosta, Elba Vazquez, Justino Vazquez, and Efigeno Vazquez.

Family and friends are invited to attend calling hours on Thursday, April 25th, from 9 to 11 a.m. at the John J. Ferry & Sons Funeral Home, 88 East Main Street, Meriden, CT 06450. A Mass of Christian Burial will follow at 11:30 a.m. at St. Rose of Lima Church, 35 Center Street, Meriden, CT 06450. Burial will be in Sacred Heart Cemetery.

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Josephine Oppedisano (D'Agostino) - November 07, 1926 - April 18, 2024

Departed: 04/18/2024 (Meriden)

Obituary Preview: Josephine Oppedisano (D’Agostino), 97, wife of the late Dominic Oppedisano, passed away on Thursday, April 18, 2024, at MidState Medical Center after a brief illness.

Born in Siderno Marina, Province Reggio Calabria, Italy on November 7, 1926, she was the daughter of the late Vincenzo and Anna (Romeo) D’Agostino. They immigrated to New York from Italy then moved to Meriden in 1949. Josephine was a seamstress for many years in Meriden. She was a parishioner of Our Lady Queen of Angels Parish, Mt. Carmel Church. Josephine loved gardening and her family.

Josephine also enjoyed cooking, making homemade pasta and sauce from the tomatoes from her garden. She also loved baking and making homemade bread as well. She had a passion for sewing. Josephine loved to go shopping with her daughter, browsing at the mall, the outlet stores and just going places together. She loved cruising with her son and seeing many different countries around the world. Her family brought so much joy into her life and she will never be forgotten.

She is survived by her daughter Miltina and her husband Fernando Parete; her son Anthony Oppedisano; four grandchildren, Nando and his wife, Tricia Parete, Sondra and her husband Matthew Crispino, Deanna and her husband Joash Arduini, and Vincent and Laura Parete; her nine great grandchildren, Isabella, Marco, Dominic, Julianna, Talia, Matteo, Enzo, Dante and Nico and her sister-in-law Ida D’Agostino. She is also survived by many nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her brother Frank D’Agostino.

Family and friends are invited to attend calling hours on Friday, April 26 from 9:00 a.m. to 11:30 a.m. at the John J. Ferry & Sons Funeral Home, 88 E. Main St., Meriden, CT 06450. A Mass of Christian Burial will follow at 12:00 p.m. at Our Lady Queen of Angels Parish, Mt. Carmel Church, 109 Goodwill Ave, Meriden, CT 06451. Burial will follow at Sacred Heart Cemetery.

For online condolences please visit jferryfh.com.

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Pamela Bukowski Vartanian - June 25, 1950 - April 14, 2024

Departed: 04/14/2024 (Meriden)

Obituary Preview: Pamela Bukowski Vartanian, 73, cherished wife of Mark Vartanian for 37 years, passed away peacefully on Sunday, April 14, 2024. She was the daughter of the late Otto and Barbara Bukowski.

Pam grew up in Meriden and graduated from Maloney High School in 1968. She earned an associate degree from Central Connecticut State University. Pam was employed by Northeast Utilities and later the State of Connecticut, retiring in 2009 to prioritize what mattered most to her: her family and her lifelong friends, whom she cherished dearly.

She delighted us with her remarkable artistic talent, including knitting, crocheting, sewing, and painting beautiful and creative works of art. In her free time, Pam found joy in cooking, birdwatching, and gardening.

Pam is survived by her devoted husband Mark; her brother Jeff Bukowski and his wife Karen; three nephews, Kyle Bukowski, Alex Bukowski and his wife Tida, and Eric Bukowski and his wife Calla, and her much loved cousin, Todd Fellegy.

Family and friends are invited to attend calling hours on Friday, April 19, 2024, from 10 a.m. to 12 p.m. at The John J. Ferry & Sons Funeral Home, 88 East Main Street, Meriden, CT 06450. Burial will be private.

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Myrta Gonzalez-Vazquez - October 31, 1963 - April 12, 2024

Departed: 04/12/2024 (Meriden)

Obituary Preview: Myrta Gonzalez Vazquez, 60, passed away on Friday, April 12, 2024, in Bridgeport, CT after a COPD illness. Born in Aguadilla, Puerto Rico on October 31, 1963, she was the daughter of the late Baltazar Gonzalez Gonzalez and Maria Vazquez Soto. She resided in Meriden, CT.

Myrta was a loving mother, a caring grandmother, and an inspiring figure to all who knew her.

Her passion for art was manifested in her skills as an artist. Painter, drawer, compositor and as well as in her music, where she played the piano and sang praises to the Creator. Her unwavering faith led her to see light even in the darkest moments, always reminding us that the Sunshine follows the darkest night.

Myrta was a tireless advocate for the word of God, preaching fervently and serving as a pastor in the church she founded, named Hechos 10:15. Her commitment to caring for others led her to a distinguished career in nursing, where she excelled as a nurse manager, leading her team with compassion and wisdom.

Endowed with an insatiable curiosity and a constant desire to learn, Myrta earned a degree as a secretary before embarking on her second career as a nurse. She demonstrated her dedication by obtaining three specializations in critical areas of medicine: intensivist, oncologist, and midwife.

In addition to her numerous accomplishments, Myrta left a significant literary legacy with her autobiography titled "Acts 10:15: What God has cleansed, you must not call common." In this moving account, she shared her personal experiences, her unwavering faith, and her message of hope for all those facing challenges in life.

Myrta's impact on the community and the lives of those around her was profound and lasting. Her love, wisdom, and faith left an indelible mark on those who had the privilege of knowing her. May her memory continue to inspire us to live with courage, compassion, and devotion throughout our lives. May her soul rest in peace, knowing that her legacy will endure for generations to come.

Myrta is survived by her two daughters, Myrta Mariss Ramos- Gonzalez and Yelitza Rosa Gonzalez: her son in law, Saul Soto Cortes and her grandchildren, David Maldonado Ramos, Katiria Morales Ramos, Kristal Ramos, Kevin Garcia Ramos, Joshua Garcia Ramos, Jamily Nunez Rosa, and Yeriel Nunez Rosa. She is also survived by her sisters, Luz Gonzalez Rosa, Zoraida Gonzalez Rosa, and Yolanda Gonzalez Vazquez. She was predeceased by her daughter, Janette Ramos Gonzalez, her brothers Cesar Gonzalez-Vazquez, Angel David Perez, Edwin Gonzalez-Rosa, Manuel Gonzalez-Rosa, Baltazar Gonzalez-Rosa, and her sister, Nidia Esther Gonzalez-Rosa.

Family and friends are invited to attend calling hours on Sunday, April 21st from 8:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m. and on Monday, April 22nd from 8:30 a.m. to 1:00 p.m. at Pepino Memorial Park PR-119, San Sebastián, 00685, Puerto Rico. Burial will follow at 1:00 p.m. on Monday, April 22, 2024. For further information, please contact Pepino Memorial Park directly.

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Marilyn Ann Statchen - November 30, 1937 - April 08, 2024

Departed: 04/08/2024 (Meriden)

Obituary Preview: Marilyn Ann (Acabchuk) Statchen, a loving daughter, sister, wife, mother, grandmother, aunt, and friend passed away from this world on Monday, April 8, 2024. She was the wife of the late Carl Paul Statchen, Sr.

Born in Meriden, CT on November 30, 1937, she was the daughter of the late John and Margaret (McCann) Acabchuk. She graduated from Meriden High School in 1955. Marilyn attended Central Connecticut State Teacher’s College in New Britain where she received a B.S. in Elementary Education in 1959. While attending college, she met her future husband, Carl. Shortly after her graduation, she put aside her teaching career ambitions to marry and become a full-time mother. She later returned to Central Connecticut State College where she earned a Master’s Degree in Early Childhood Education.

In her younger years, Marilyn loved to travel around New England taking in the sights. She also had a love of antiques and loved to collect them throughout her life. She was a person who enjoyed her privacy, peace and quiet and the simple pleasures of life.

Marilyn is survived by her two sons, Carl Paul Statchen, Jr. and Jonathan Scott Statchen; her two beloved granddaughters, Sierra Jeannette Irwin and Carly Danielle Statchen and her brother Jack Acabchuk and his wife Audrey. She was predeceased by her daughter Catherine Margaret Statchen.

Family and friends are invited to attend calling hours on Sunday, April 14th from 2:00 to 5:00 p.m. at the John J. Ferry & Sons Funeral Home, 88 E. Main St., Meriden, CT 06450. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Monday, April 15th at 10:00 a.m. at St. Rose of Lima Church, 35 Center St., Meriden, CT 06450. Everyone is asked to meet at the church. Burial will follow at Sacred Heart Cemetery.

Donations may be made in Marilyn Statchen’s honor to Franciscan Home Care and Hospice Care, 267 Finch Ave, Meriden, CT 06451. For online condolences, please visit jferryfh.com.

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Peter E. Jenkins - March 13, 1940 - April 08, 2024

Departed: 04/08/2024 (Meriden)

Obituary Preview: Peter Edward Jenkins, 84, of Meriden, Connecticut, husband of the late Margaret Ellen Jenkins, died on April 8, 2024 at his home, in the company of his family, after a long illness.

He was born in Worcester, Massachusetts on March 13, 1940, the son of Howard and Priscilla Jenkins.

After serving in the U.S. Army, he attended Worcester State College and later earned a Master’s degree and went on to teach at New Britain High School in Connecticut. There he met his future wife Margaret. Together they moved to Meriden and began their family. He was fully devoted to his wife until her passing on May 3, 2020.

Peter was a car guy, a boat guy, and a lifelong do-it-yourselfer. He was well known for his frugality, but above all he provided for the needs of his family. He loved and cared for his own parents and his in-laws, always doing everything they needed done, and gave love and support to his children to the third generation.

He is survived by his daughter, Sarah Nowak; his son, Alden; his grandchildren, Rebecca, Anna, and Mark Jr, and his great grandchildren, Liam and Evelyn.

A memorial service will be planned for a later date.

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Alyssa "Izzie" M. Habel - December 20, 2006 - April 05, 2024

Departed: 04/05/2024 (Meriden)

Obituary Preview: Alyssa “Izzie” M. Habel, 17, passed away on Friday, April 5, 2024, at home after a courageous battle with cancer. Born in Hoffman Estates, Illinois on December 20, 2006, she was the daughter of Theresa Davis and the late Richard Habel. She had resided in Middletown most of her life and graduated from Middletown High School.

Izzie loved animals, music, but most of all, her family.

Besides her mother, she is survived by her sister Makaylah; her grandmother, Rosemary Markoja and her uncle Steve Markoja and his wife Jennifer and their children, Addison, and Kaylee. She was predeceased by her grandfather, Steve Markoja.

Her family will receive relatives and friends on Wednesday, April 10th from 4:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. at the John J. Ferry & Sons Funeral Home, 88 E. Main St., Meriden, CT 06450. A graveside service will be held on Friday, April 12th at 11:00 a.m. at Sacred Heart Cemetery, 250 Gypsy Lane, Meriden, CT 06450.

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Isabel Marie Bowen - June 24, 1930 - April 02, 2024

Departed: 04/02/2024 (Meriden)

Obituary Preview: Isabel Marie Bowen, 93, of Meriden, CT, passed into eternal life on Tuesday, April 2, 2024, at Coccomo Apple Rehab in Meriden. Born on June 24, 1930, she was the daughter of the late Charles and Susan (Clark) Brown. Isabel was the wife of the late Robert W. Bowen, Sr.

Isabel graduated in the Class of 1948, in a class of 12, from Springfield Central School in East Springfield, NY.

Residing in Meriden most of her life, Isabel worked for the Meriden Board of Education Cafeteria as a baker for 29 years & retired in January 2000. She also worked for Barker Specialty Company in Cheshire, CT until 2014. She was never afraid of work and enjoyed being kept busy. She worked part-time at Nutmeg Bakery in Meriden/Southington, Shop Rite Bakery in Meriden, Apple Coccomo Rehab in the kitchen, and the coatroom at the Yankee Silversmith in Wallingford.

Her family was her most prized possession. She is survived by three daughters, Carol Bowen, Darlene Bowen-Rodrigue (Harold), Margaret “Peggy” Vo (Tai), all of Meriden; and two sons, Robert Bowen (Rhonda) of Keene, NH and David Bowen of Naples, FL.

She is survived by seventeen grandchildren: Tina Keene, Frank Keene, Michael Dominello, Gary Sparks, Mark Bowen, Wayne Fountain, Kathleen Brown, Joy Chaffee, Christopher Bowen, Daniel Bowen, Alex Bowen, Lien Cornwell, Kim Vo-Dinkollari, Khai Vo, Rachel Parker, Sean Bowen and Kiana Kelsey; and seventeen great-grandchildren, Nicole, Eric, Victoria, Jeffery, Alana, Alayna, Kaitlyn, Hailey, Maya, Rebekah, Hayden, Amelia, Damien, Brooke, Luke, Niko, and Baby Dinkollari. Three Great-Great Grandchildren: Achilles, Troy, and Athena.

She is also survived by her sisters-in-law, Dorothy McMullen and Ida Vrooman as well as many nieces and nephews from both the Brown & Bowen families.

She was predeceased by her brothers, Charles Brown, Samuel Brown, Robert Brown and Donald Brown; and her sisters, Viola McGray, Hazel Bond, Dorothy Pearce, Mildred Hunt and Eva Partridge.

Family and friends may call at the John J. Ferry & Sons Funeral Home, 88 East Main St., Meriden, CT 06450 on Friday, April 12th from 4 to 7 p.m. and on Saturday, April 13th from 11 a.m. to 12 noon. A Celebration of Life will follow at 12 noon. Burial will be private at a later date. For online condolences, please visit jferryfh.com.

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Francis Paul Rudini - December 27, 1942 - March 31, 2024

Departed: 03/31/2024 (Meriden)

Obituary Preview: Francis Paul Rudini, age 81, beloved husband, father, grandfather, uncle, brother-in-law, cousin, and friend to so many, passed away surrounded by his loving family on March 31, 2024-Easter Sunday.

Francis (Frank) was born on December 27, 1942, the only child to two very loving parents, Frank and Carmella (Minnie) Rudini, in Meriden on Center Street. His early life was shaped by the great Meriden community and his friends, who were really focused on athletics-particularly football, basketball, and baseball. Frank played in the Meriden Little League and was extremely active in the Meriden Boys Club. He attended Platt High School and starred in football, basketball, and baseball. He was also a strong student and was the first in his family to attend college, studying at the University of Connecticut. Frank also played freshman baseball at UCONN.

After graduating from UCONN, Frank took a position as a history teacher at Jefferson Middle School in Meriden and was later offered a position as a history teacher and football coach at Xavier High School in Middletown. Frank was part of the incredible Xavier community for 25 years as a teacher, freshman basketball coach, and assistant football coach alongside the great Larry McHugh. Frank enjoyed significant success as part of the Xavier football family-a part of six undefeated teams, a state record (at the time) 34-game winning streak, multiple league titles, and a state championship in 1974. Frank’s coaching style was marked by being “all about the players”, focusing on fundamentals, and a high-energy, fun approach to the game. From Xavier, Frank was a Head Football Coach at both Branford High School and Torrington High School, continuing as a history teacher.

Frank’s sport interests also led him to be a great friend of Jay Wright and a fan of Villanova Basketball-enjoying many Big East Basketball Tournaments with family and friends and the Final Fours in 2009, 2016, and 2018. He also enjoyed going to Fenway Park in Boston to watch the Red Sox and had the opportunity to attend many World Series games with family and friends.

He also had a great love for music-particularly great Rhythm and Blues performers like the Jackson 5, Earth Wind & Fire, Kool and the Gang, and Tower of Power. He loved attending concerts and enjoying his favorite artists. He also loved Broadway Theater-seeing tens of shows over the years.

The centerpiece of Frank’s life, however, was his relationship with the Catholic Church (St. Joseph’s in Meriden) and his family. Frank served as an Ordained Minister of the Eucharist and lector at St. Joseph’s for over 40 years. He also was the President of the St. Joseph Meriden chapter of the Legion of Mary. Through the Legion of Mary, Frank gave communion to the sick of St. Joseph Parish at Meriden hospitals each Monday night for 50 years.

Frank spent the later years of his life as a staple at the sporting and academic events of his beloved grandchildren. He is well known in the sports communities of St. Joseph High School in Trumbull, where his grandchildren played football, basketball, baseball, soccer, and tennis, and at Cheshire High, where his grandchildren played basketball, soccer, and ran track. All the while, his incredible energy and giving personality endeared him to many in those communities.

He is survived by his beloved wife of 58 years, Diane; his children Lisa Dematteo (Cheshire) and David Rudini (Trumbull); David’s wife Barbara Rudini; his grandchildren Samantha, Alex, Jordan, Kate, Lizzie, and Michael; his brother-in-law Keith Bartholomew (Ft. Lauderdale FL); his cousin Diane McDonald and her husband James (Meriden); his cousins Freddie and Maryann Baptist (Wallingford), as well as his many nieces and nephews who provided comfort, love, and support throughout his incredible life. The family will receive visitors from 4:00 pm to 7:00 pm on Thursday, April 4, 2024, at John J. Ferry & Sons, 88 Main St. Meriden CT. A Funeral Mass in his name will be celebrated on Friday, April 5, 2024, at 10:00 AM at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church, 109 Goodwill Ave., Meriden, CT. Everyone is asked to meet directly at the church. Burial will follow at Sacred Heart Cemetery.

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Louise A. Cuccaro - November 29, 1938 - March 30, 2024

Departed: 03/30/2024 (Meriden)

Obituary Preview: Louise Anna Cuccaro, 85, wife of the late Anthony James Cuccaro Sr, passed away peacefully at her home on Saturday, March 30, 2024. Born in Middletown, CT on November 29, 1938, she was the daughter of the late Sebastian (Mike) and Sebastianna (Anna Marino) Gionfriddo. She was a beloved wife, mother, grandmother, great grandmother, sister and friend to so many.

Louise grew up in Middletown and after marrying her husband Anthony, they resided in Meriden, where they raised their three children. Most recently, she had resided in Durham with her significant other of 20 years, Thomas Biestek. She retired from the State of Connecticut and was a parishioner of Saint Joseph Church.

After retirement, she became an aerobics instructor at the Meriden YMCA. Louise loved to vacation and traveled to many places. She also enjoyed the outdoors, tending to her garden, being by the ocean and listening to classical music. She absolutely loved spending time with her family, whom she was always there for. Her grandchildren were her pride and joy.

Louise is survived by her three children, Christina Tyrrell, and her husband, Jim, Anthony J. Cuccaro Jr, and his wife, Brenda, and Annemarie Perez, and her husband, Luis; her eight grandchildren, Tessa, Jimmie, Jillian, Jake, Ashley, Kira, Joshua, and Ava; her four great grandchildren, Greyson, Sebastian, Jameson, and Winnie; and her sister, Doreen Ostapchuk. She is also survived by many nieces and nephews, cousins, extended family members and friends. She was predeceased by her sister, Marie Cowan and her two brothers, Biagio Gionfriddo and Carmelo Gionfriddo.

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John Dudzik - July 08, 1947 - March 27, 2024

Departed: 03/27/2024 (Meriden)

Obituary Preview: John William Dudzik, 76, passed away on Wednesday, March 27, 2024, at MidState Medical Center after a brief illness.

Born in Meriden, CT on July 8, 1947, he was the son of the late John J. and Dorothy (Savard) Dudzik. He was a lifelong Meriden resident.

John loved his family, the holidays, food, spending time with his friends, listening to Polish music, and going to church. He never forgot a birthday or special occasion. He loved sports, especially UConn Men’s and Women’s Basketball, the New York Giants, and the Boston Red Sox.

John is survived by his brother William and his wife Deborah and his nieces Nicole Case (Cooper) and her family, Michelle Messina (Dudzik) and her family, Carrie Lewis (Dudzik) and her family, Kimberly Dudzik and Katherine (Hazzan) Michaud and her family. He is also survived by many aunts, uncles and cousins. He was predeceased by his sister Linda Cooper.

The family would like to send a special thank you to James Guiel who has been such a supportive friend though the years and to his Mt. Carmel Parish family. The family would also like to send a special thank you to Phyllis from Apple Rehab Coccomo for her kind heart and loving ways for John.

Family and friends are invited to attend calling hours on Tuesday, April 2nd from 8:30 to 10:30 a.m. at the John J. Ferry & Sons Funeral Home, 88 E. Main St., Meriden, CT 06450. A Mass of Christian Burial will follow at 11:00 a.m. at Our Lady Queen of Angels Parish, Mt. Carmel Church, 109 Goodwill Ave, Meriden, CT 06451. Burial will follow in St. Laurent Cemetery.

Should friends desire, contributions in his memory may be made to Our Lady Queen of Angels Parish, Mt. Carmel Church, 109 Goodwill Ave, Meriden, CT 06451. For online condolences, please visit jferryfh.com.

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Tomas R. Ayala - December 30, 1936 - March 27, 2024

Departed: 03/27/2024 (Meriden)

Obituary Preview: Tomas R. Ayala, 87, beloved husband of Carmen Chaparro Ayala, passed away on Wednesday, March 27, 2024, at Coccomo Apple Rehab Center after a long illness.

Born in Mayaguez, Puerto Rico on December 30, 1936, he was the son of the late Americo Ayala and Mercedes Prosper. He was a long time Meriden resident and attended Meriden Schools. He was a member of The Alpha and Omega Church. Tomas loved his family. He was a man of faith and a composer of Christian Music.

Besides his wife Carmen of 45 years, he is survived by his 3 sons, Tomas Ayala Jr., Efren Ayala and Jake Ayala and several grandchildren. He is also survived by several nieces and nephews.

Family and friends are invited to attend calling hours on Monday, April 1st from 9:00 a.m. to 10:00 a.m. at Alpha and Omega Christian Church, 134 Springdale Ave, Meriden, CT 06451. A service will follow at 10:00 a.m. at the Church. Burial will follow at Walnut Grove. Everyone is asked to meet at the church. Arrangements are under the John J. Ferry & Sons Funeral Home, 88 E. Main St., Meriden, CT 06450. For online condolences, please visit jferryfh.com.

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Wilfredo Diaz De Leon - January 14, 1938 - March 26, 2024

Departed: 03/26/2024 (Meriden)

Obituary Preview: Wilfredo Diaz De Leon, 86, beloved husband of Nereida Reyes Diaz, passed away on Tuesday, March 26, 2024, at MidState Medical Center after a brief illness.

Born in Guayama, Puerto Rico on January 14, 1938, son of the late Victor Diaz and Pedronila De Leon. He was a longtime Meriden resident.

Wilfredo retired from Central Guamani Company best known as Hormigonera Bruja.

He was a man of great faith and a member of Iglesia Hermanos Unidos en Cristo for 32 years and later Iglesia de Dios Pentecostal MI for the last 7 years. He was a the founder and pastor of Iglesia La Casa de Sinai, Hermanos Unidos en Cristo Council in Puerto de Jobo, Puerto Rico, and in Iglesia de Dios Pentecostal MI in New Britain.

An excellent husband and father, he is survived by his children, , Antonia Diaz, Nerivette (Melvin Gonzalez) Diaz, Mishell (Luis) Guzman, Abimael (Delia Valdes) Diaz Dorcas (Richard) Medina, Debora (Jose M.) Otero and Rode (Julio Perez) Diaz, Freddy Awilda Diaz, Yanira Diaz, Freddie (Indiana Alvarez) Diaz, Rodolfo (Rosa) Gomez and Luis A Cora. He is also survived by 40 Grandchildren, 51 great grandchildren and one great great grandchild, a sister, Onelia “Nelly” Diaz and many nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his sisters, Mirna Diaz, Socorro Diaz, Antonia Diaz, Felicita Diaz and Maria Diaz.

Family and friends are invited to attend calling hours on Wednesday, April 3rd from 5 to 8 p.m. at the John J. Ferry & Sons Funeral Home, 88 East Main Street, Meriden CT 06450. A funeral service will be at the funeral home on Thursday, April 4th at    a.m. followed by a burial at Walnut Grove Cemetery. For online condolences, please visit jferryfh.com.

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Charles E. Premo - August 19, 1929 - March 26, 2024

Departed: 03/26/2024 (Meriden)

Obituary Preview: Charles E. Premo, 94, husband of the late Josephine (Dziodzio) Premo, passed away on Tuesday, March 26, 2024, after a brief illness.

Born in Meriden, CT on August 19, 1929, he was the son of the late Ernest Premo and Edna Wanat and graduated from St. Rose School and Wilcox Tech. He was employed by Pratt & Whitney Aircraft in Meriden and East Hartford, retiring in June 1992 after 40 years of employment.  Chick was a parishioner of St. Faustina Parish.

Chick joined the Army in 1948 and was discharged in 1952. He was a proud veteran of the Korean War and was awarded the Bronze Star. He loved serving his country and wore his Korean Veteran’s hat with pride.

He enjoyed woodworking and many of his neighbors from Colchester Commons and relatives have one or two of his beautiful birdhouses in their yard.

He is survived by his daughter, Deborah and her husband Robert Gawel whom he resided with; his son, Keith and his wife Laura Premo from Tomball, TX; four grandchildren, Keith Premo II (Haley) from Georgia, Lexi Patterson (Alonzo) from Texas, Matthew Gawel (Amy) from California and Becky Lessard (Vanessa) from Milford, CT; three great-grandchildren, Charlie and Greta Premo from Alabama and Parker Lessard from Milford, CT and one great-great-granddaughter Cassia (CJ) Premo. He is also survived by many nieces and nephews and a special niece Linda Hodgson who visited with him frequently and shared a lobster or two together. He was predeceased by two sisters, Dorothy Landry and Blanche McGreal and his two brothers, Robert Premo and Ernest Premo.

Family and friends are invited to attend calling hours on Friday, April 5th from 9:00 a.m. to 10:30 a.m. at the John J. Ferry & Sons Funeral Home, 88 E. Main St., Meriden, CT 06450. A Mass of Christian Burial will follow at 11:00 a.m. at St. Stanislaus Church. Burial will be in St. Stanislaus Cemetery. For online condolences, please visit jferryfh.com.

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Maureen Ellen Flynn - September 26, 1949 - March 25, 2024

Departed: 03/25/2024 (Meriden)

Obituary Preview: Maureen Ellen Flynn, 74, passed away on Monday, March 25, 2024, at MidState Medical Center.  She passed away peacefully after a battle with cancer, which she fought with humor, grace, and dignity. Born in Meriden, September 26, 1949, the daughter of late Faith (Leary) Kjellson and the late John Flynn.

She spent 24 years as the Democratic Registrar of Voters in Meriden and loved every minute of it. She also spent many years working for her adoptive family, the Siebert’s, at Meriden Insurance.

Maureen was active in the community, having served past president of the LAOH in Meriden, as well as past New Haven County President; a member of Meriden Elks, organizing the Flag Day Essay contest; charter member and past Vice President of the South Meriden Lions; and a past President of the American Legion Auxiliary.

Maureen had been blessed with many good friends and was always ready to lend a helping hand to those in need.

She is survived by her sister Joann Flynn Noonan, her nephew, James Flynn, his wife Kelly Roman and their three children, whom she adored, Maggie, Colin, and Tessa.  She is also survived by her Uncle John (Jack) Leary; her stepbrother and his wife Carl and Sylvia Kjellson; two nieces Emily Lewis (Patrick) and Anna Kjellson-Platzer (Evan); a great-nephew Tristan Lewis; and by many cousins, a special friend Emil “Buddy” Altobello, as well as two special honorary “little people”, Angelo and Trisha Calandra, who affectionately called her “Grammy”.

Family and friends are invited to attend calling hours on Monday, April 1st from 9:00 a.m. to 11:00 a.m. at the John J. Ferry & Sons Funeral Home, 88 E. Main St., Meriden, CT 06450. A funeral ceremony will follow at 11:00 a.m. at the funeral home. Burial will be in Walnut Grove Cemetery. For online condolences, please visit jferryfh.com.

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Richard B. Lake, III - November 21, 1966 - March 23, 2024

Departed: 03/23/2024 (Meriden)

Obituary Preview: Richard B. Lake III, 57, passed away on Saturday, March 23, 2024. Born in Meriden, CT, he was the son of Richard B. Lake, Jr. and Elizabeth Miller. Richard graduated from HC Wilcox in 1984 in HVAC. He loved the outdoors, camping, eagles and his 1973 Mustang.

Besides his parents, he is survived by his two sons, Derek Lake and his wife Sarah and Nicholas Lake; his stepmother, Maureen; his stepfather, Emil; his sister, Laura Setreus and her husband Eric; his stepbrother, Wesley Samples; his uncle, Charles Miller and his wife Joanne and his aunt Jean Reed and her husband Harold. He is also survived by his two nieces, Danessa Taylor and her fiancée Joseph Fresa, and Layne Cappas and her husband Sergio; his two great nieces, Lilianna Maya and Isabella Cappas and his great nephew Evan Maya.

Family and friends are invited to attend calling hours on Tuesday, April 2nd from 4:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. at the John J. Ferry & Sons Funeral Home, 88 E. Main St., Meriden, CT 06450. The funeral service and burial will be private. For online condolences, please visit jferryfh.com.

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Jane E. Koenig - August 22, 1933 - March 21, 2024

Departed: 03/21/2024 (Meriden)

Obituary Preview: Jane E. Koenig, 90, the loving wife of the late Frank Koenig, passed away on Thursday, March 21, 2024, at Montowese Nursing Home. Born in Meriden, CT on August 22, 1933, she was the daughter of the late Josephine Clayton. Jane resided in Meriden, CT, and was employed by Canberra Industries.

Jane was a parishioner of Holy Angels in Meriden and St. Mary's in Newington. She loved knitting, crocheting, and playing Bingo. Jane enjoyed gardening, watching birds, especially Cardinals. She enjoyed taking walks around the village and socializing with her friends from the community.

Jane is survived by her daughter, Karen Koenig; her son, Kevin, and his wife, Cindy Koenig; her grandchildren, Timothy Dixon, Alexander Dixon, Jonathan Dixon, Kevin Koenig Jr., Samantha Koenig, Jamie-Lyn Sperzel, and Keith Lequin; and her great-grandchildren, Skylar Koenig, Freyja Koenig, Astrid Dixon, Cristian Roman-Koenig, Jaedyn Koenig, Isabella Koenig, Payton Martin, and Jameson Tomalski. She was predeceased by her father, her sister, Joanne Dunphy, her brother Jim Clayton, and her granddaughter, Kelly Matthews.

Jane’s family would like to give special thanks to Suzanne Richards. Suzanne was a caregiver of Jane’s, and she always had an incredible time with her, treating Jane like she was her own family.

Family and friends are invited to attend a graveside service on Wednesday, March 27th, at 11:00 a.m. at Sacred Heart Cemetery, 250 Gypsy Lane, Meriden, CT 06450. Arrangements are under the direction of the John J. Ferry & Sons Funeral Home, 88 E. Main St., Meriden, CT 06450. For online condolences, please visit jferryfh.com.

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Mark A. Pekar, Sr. - March 30, 1945 - March 20, 2024

Departed: 03/20/2024 (Meriden)

Obituary Preview: Mark A. Pekar, Sr., 78, husband of the late Georgene Pekar passed away on Wednesday, March 20, 2024, at home unexpectedly after a brief illness. Born in Meriden on March 30, 1945, the son of the late Andrew and Mildred Pekar. He resided in Meriden all his life and graduated from Maloney and Wilcox High School. Mark was a Tool & Die Maker for Hobson & Motzer. He was an avid hunter, mechanic, and handyman. Mark enjoyed walks with his dog, but most of all, fishing with his grandchildren.

He is survived by his daughter, Tina Pekar of Bangor, Maine; his son, Mark Pekar Jr. and his wife Kristine of East Hampton; his beloved grandchildren, Ian Pekar, Emily Reeves and her husband David and Amanda Renkel, all of whom are from Maine and Grace Pekar of East Hampton, Connecticut.

The funeral service and burial will be held privately. Arrangements have been entrusted to the John J. Ferry & Sons Funeral Home 88 E. Main St., Meriden.

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John J. Ferry & Sons, Inc. understands that planning ahead can be a thoughtful gesture for your loved ones. Their experienced staff can guide you through the pre-planning process, helping you make informed decisions about your final arrangements. By taking care of these details in advance, you can alleviate some of the burden on your family during an already difficult time.

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The funeral home's team of licensed professionals is dedicated to treating your loved one with the utmost respect and dignity. They offer a range of services, including embalming, cosmetology, and restorative arts, to ensure that your loved one is presented in a manner that honors their memory.

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Losing a loved one is never easy, but having a supportive community can make a significant difference in the healing process. John J. Ferry & Sons, Inc. offers bereavement support groups, counseling resources, and online grief support to help you navigate the complex emotions that follow a loss.

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John J. Ferry & Sons, Inc. is deeply rooted in the Meriden community and actively participates in local events and charitable initiatives. They believe in giving back to the community that has supported them for generations, demonstrating their commitment to making a positive impact on the lives of those around them.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their family, accomplishments, and surviving relatives.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to notify friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a sense of closure and help to celebrate the life of the deceased.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, a family member or close friend of the deceased writes the obituary, but it can also be written by a funeral home or a professional obituary writer.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, hobbies, and surviving relatives. It may also include information about their military service, awards, or achievements.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary, but it's generally recommended to keep it concise and focused on the most important details. Aim for 1-2 paragraphs at most.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many newspapers and online obituary platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a nice way to personalize the tribute and make it more engaging.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Contact the newspaper's obituary department directly to ask about their submission process and any specific requirements they may have. Some newspapers may accept online submissions, while others may require a fax or email.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary in advance as a way to ensure that their life is represented accurately and in their own words. This can be a unique and meaningful way to take control of your own legacy.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of someone's passing, usually including only the basic facts such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary is a longer, more detailed tribute that provides additional information about the person's life.

Can I include humor in an obituary?

Absolutely! While an obituary should be respectful, it's also okay to inject some humor or personality into the writing. This can help to capture the essence of the person being remembered.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the newspaper or online platform. Some may charge by the word or line, while others may offer package deals or discounts for online publication.

Can I publish an obituary online only?

Yes, many online platforms specialize in hosting and sharing obituaries. These websites often offer features such as guest books, photo galleries, and donation links.

What is an online memorial?

An online memorial is a virtual space where friends and family can gather to share memories, leave condolences, and celebrate the life of the deceased. Many online obituary platforms offer this feature as part of their services.

How long will an online obituary remain available?

This varies depending on the platform or website. Some may keep the obituary active for a certain period of time (e.g., 30 days), while others may archive it permanently for future reference.

Can I edit an obituary after it's been published?

This depends on the publication or platform. Some may allow corrections or updates, while others may not. Be sure to proofread carefully before submitting your obituary.

What if I need to make corrections to an already-published obituary?

Contact the publication or platform directly to request changes. They may require documentation or verification before making any corrections.

Can I reuse an existing obituary for another purpose?

You may want to reuse an obituary as part of a eulogy, memorial service program, or other tribute. Just be sure to obtain permission from the original author or publication if necessary.

Are there any specific guidelines for writing an obituary for someone who was young or died suddenly?

Yes. When writing an obituary for someone who died young or suddenly, it's especially important to be sensitive and compassionate in your language. Focus on celebrating their life and accomplishments rather than dwelling on the circumstances of their passing.

Can I include charitable donations or memorial funds in an obituary?

Absolutely! This is a thoughtful way to honor the deceased and support a cause that was important to them. Be sure to include details on how donations can be made.

How do I handle multiple marriages or complex family relationships in an obituary?

This can be tricky! Try to prioritize clarity and simplicity when listing survivors and family members. You may want to consider seeking guidance from a funeral home or professional writer if you're unsure.

What if I'm struggling to write an obituary due to grief or emotional distress?

This is completely understandable! Consider reaching out to a trusted friend or family member for support, or seek guidance from a professional writer or counselor. Remember that it's okay to take your time and prioritize your own well-being during this difficult time.

Can I use social media to share an obituary?

Absolutely! Social media can be a powerful tool for sharing news and connecting with others who are grieving. Consider sharing a link to the online obituary or posting a brief summary along with any relevant hashtags.

How do I ensure that an online obituary remains accessible over time?

This is an important consideration! Look for platforms that offer permanent archiving or storage options to ensure that the obituary remains available for years to come.

What are some alternative ways to honor someone who has passed away?

Beyond traditional funerals and memorials, you might consider planting trees, creating a memory book, holding a celebration of life event, or establishing a scholarship fund in their name. Get creative and find ways that feel meaningful and authentic!