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About John J. Buettgen Funeral Home

Located at 948 Grand Ave., Schofield, WI, 54476, John J. Buettgen Funeral Home has been a pillar of the community, providing compassionate and professional funeral services to families in their time of need. With a rich history and a commitment to excellence, this funeral home has earned a reputation for delivering personalized and meaningful ceremonies that celebrate the lives of loved ones.

A Legacy of Compassion and Care

John J. Buettgen Funeral Home has been serving the Schofield community for generations, building a legacy of trust, compassion, and care. Their experienced team of funeral professionals is dedicated to providing exceptional service, guiding families through the difficult process of planning a funeral or memorial service. From the initial consultation to the final farewell, they are committed to ensuring that every detail is carefully considered and every family's unique needs are met.

John J. Buettgen Funeral Home

Address: 948 Grand Ave., Schofield, WI, 54476
Phone Number: 715-359-2828
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Joyce Ann Godin - January 03, 1952 - April 01, 2024

Departed: 04/01/2024 (Schofield)
Obituary Preview: Joyce A Godin, 72, of Wisconsin Rapids, died Monday April 1, 2024 after a fall in her home.
Joyce was born January 3, 1952 to Warren and Bernice Godin (Hintz) in Wisconsin Rapids. She was a member of St Vincent DePaul Church.
Joyce attended schools in the Wisconsin Rapids area and graduated from Lincoln High School. She was employed by Opportunity Development Center. Although she struggled with disabilities, she lead a full life.
Joyce loved Country music and was a fan of RFD TV. She and her cat, TigerLily, spent many hours watching and listening to her favorite programs.
Joyce is survived by her sister, Anita (James) Borski, Sun City, Arizona, and her two great nieces, Kelsey (Simon) Schultz of Kronenwetter, and Hailee (Eric) Sankey of Plover, her great great nephew, Waylon Sankey and her cat, Tigerlily. She leaves behind several close friends.
She was preceded in death by her grandparents, parents and nephew Chad Godin of Stevens Point.
Private family services will be held at Guardian Angel Cemetery, Stevens Point, WI at a later date. Rest in Peace Joyce. You are free of your disabilities, now fly free!!
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Betty Jane Bobbe - August 25, 1943 - September 28, 2023

Departed: 09/28/2023 (Schofield)
Obituary Preview: Betty Jane (Weldon) Bobbe, age 80 of Amherst, died peacefully at home on Thursday, September 28, 2023. She was born on August 25, 1943 in Martinez, CA to parents Asel and Ange (Peterson) Weldon. Betty was a 1961 graduate of Amherst High School. She married her high school sweetheart, James Bobbe, on July 25, 1964. The majority of her working years were spent at Del Monte Foods in Plover, where she retired after over 30 years of service in 2005.
During her retirement years, she absolutely loved being “Mimi Betty'' to her four grandchildren. Spending time with family was Betty's top priority and she reveled in making everyone feel special during birthday and holiday celebrations. She prized her friendships and especially loved shopping and going out to eat with the girls. Betty was an excellent cook and baker who couldn’t resist trying new recipes. Her large country yard was filled with gorgeous flowers every summer. She enjoyed Scandinavian rosemaling, but her creativity really took off when she began making adorable gnomes out of fabric. Betty did not let her 2018 cancer diagnosis dampen her spirit. She was an inspiration to others through her strength and optimism.
Betty is survived by husband James Bobbe, daughters Dorene (Rick) Henrikson of Stevens Point and Paulene (Abe Durrant) Bobbe of Plover, and grandchildren Aven, Amira, Adrik, and Atticus Durrant-Bobbe of Plover. She is also survived by sisters Donna Harr and Linda (Richard) Packer, and brother Paul (LuAnn) Weldon.
She was preceded in death by her parents, infant daughter Kelly Lyn Bobbe, sister Barbara Pendergrass, and brothers Louis Weldon, Sidney Weldon, and Donald Weldon.
Pastor Gretchen Anderson will officiate Betty’s Celebration of Life on Saturday, October 7, 2023 at Peace Lutheran Church in Amherst with an 11:00 a.m. service. There will be a visitation from 10:00-11:00 and a meal provided after the service. Mid-Wisconsin Cremation Society is assisting the family. Condolences may be expressed online at mwcs.ws.
Betty’s family would like to thank Dr. Onitilo, Laura Lauer NP, the staff of Marshfield Clinic Cancer Center of Stevens Point, and the Compassus hospice nurses.
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Oscar Jorge Mederas - April 07, 1962 - February 07, 2022

Departed: 02/07/2022 (Schofield)
Obituary Preview: Oscar Jorge Mederas passed away from a heart attack on Monday, February 7, 2022, two months shy of his 60th birthday.
Oscar was born on April 7, 1962 in San Jose, Costa Rica to Grace Castro Kwong and Oscar Mederas. He learned the art of clock and watch repair from his father and worked alongside him throughout his youth. Oscar studied psychology at the Universidad de Costa Rica, which fueled a lifelong passion for reading and discussing his favorite topics: psychoanalysis, religious history, social theory, and politics.
In 1987, he met Kay Brockman of Vesper, WI while she served in the U.S. Peace Corps. They were married in 1990, lived in the Oshkosh area, and later moved to Clintonville, WI where they raised two children and adopted his much loved canine companion, Poochie (“Gongo”). Oscar applied his skills and knowledge in clock repair during a 25+ year career at Miller Clock Service in Oshkosh, WI. He was proud of both his Costa Rican heritage and his U.S. Citizenship, which he received in July 2006. Most recently he found joy in attending Cotter Creek House Concerts and volunteering at the Shawano Folk Music Festival. Family and friends remember his outgoing personality and ability to bring laughter to those around him.
Oscar is survived by his wife, Kay Brockman-Mederas; their children, Lucas and Elena Mederas; brother, Carlos Mederas; nephew, Alejandro Mederas; cousins in Costa Rica; in-laws, Nathan and Betty Brockman, their children Kim Ceplina (Ron), Kam Simonis (Ron), Kari Reinke (John), Kory Brockman (Robin) and Kelli Brockman-Dempze (Scott), and their families. He is preceded in death by his parents, Grace and Oscar.
A private memorial service will be held in Spring at St. Joseph's Catholic Church, Altdorf, WI and then in Costa Rica.
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Reginald Roy Hromek - August 14, 1940 - February 15, 2021

Departed: 02/15/2021 (Schofield)
Obituary Preview: On Monday, February 15, the Lord took my beloved husband from my arms to His Heavenly Home.
Reginald Hromek was born on August 14, 1940. On September 16, 1961, he married the love of his life, Nancy (Wurster) Hromek. He had three wonderful children; Vickie, Jill, and Tim.
Reg’s favorite thing was family. But when they were all together, it meant the most. Reggie could be found on the lake fishing, or in the woods hunting, or in the backyard grilling, mowing his lawn. When the day was done, everyone got a prickly mustache kiss, and one of his huge hugs. Those hugs were one of a kind, like him.
Reggie was most proud of his family. He loved his wife from the moment he met her as a little boy. He loved of her until his last breath. He was proud of his three children and their accomplishments. And as this family grew, he was so very proud of the grandkids. He took care of all of us, from fixing and repairing, to teaching us things like financing. He just knew everything we needed to know.
Reg is survived by his beloved wife, Nancy; his children: Vickie Vehrs; Jill Hromek; and Tim (Heidi) Hromek, Grandfather of: Bria (Josh) Newton, Erin (Jace Klemm) Tiry, Ivy Tiry, Mackenzie Drengler, Alex Hromek, and Maddie Hromek; and his great-grand daughter, Harper Newton.
Son of Andrew (deceased) and Elizabeth (Klinger) Hromek; brother to Shirley Hromek (deceased), David (and Mary) Hromek.
He was in the United States Army Reserves from January 1960 through November 1965. He worked as a Milwaukee County Deputy Sheriff, and later owned his own business of building, remodeling, and repairing homes. We need to remember, now that his day is done, that Reggie is okay, It is only we who are still in pain. Reggie would agree: “Perhaps my time seemed all to brief, don’t lengthen it now with undue grief. Lift up your hearts and share with me, I’m with God now. I’ve been set free.” Reggie loved, and was loved, by so many. It’s not Good-bye, it’s “I’ll see you when…..”
A Celebration of his life will be held at a later date.
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Joyce Ann Gotter - September 17, 1936 - February 13, 2021

Departed: 02/13/2021 (Schofield)
Obituary Preview: Joyce Ann Gotter, 84, Mosinee passed away on Saturday, February 13, 2021 at Acorn Hill. She was born to the late Frank and Margaret (Blaisdell) Harris on September 17, 1936.
She is survived by her children; two sons, Ronald (Sue) Kusiak, Dennis (Kim) Kusiak, four daughters; Margee (Alan) Gribowski, Susan (Randy) Brown, Claudette (Randy) Amundson, Cindy (Joe) Jirgl, sister and brother-in-law Judy (Lynn) Bremer, 12 grandchildren, 6 great grandchildren and one on the way.
She is preceded in death by her husband Ronald Gotter, brothers and sister-in-laws Douglas (Beverly) Harris, Sr., Garth (Doris) Harris and sister and brother-in-law Phyllis (Elmer) Burns.
Joyce loved the outdoors whether it was watching the humming birds, looking at flowers or the famous pontoon boat rides. She also enjoyed her jaunts to the casino with her girlfriends.
Joyce was a loving mother, grandmother, sister, aunt and friend to all that knew her. She will be deeply missed.
Services will be held at John J. Buettgen Funeral Home 900 Old Hwy 51, Mosinee, on Thursday, February 18, 2021. Visitation will be held from 10:00 to 11:30 with a prayer service officiated by Pastor Phyllis Smoot.
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Bruce G Buchkoski - February 17, 1957 - February 01, 2021

Departed: 02/01/2021 (Schofield)
Obituary Preview: Bruce G. Buchkoski, 63 of Schofield passed away at home on February 1, 2021 after a chronic illness, surrounded by family. Bruce was born on February 17, 1957 to Ervin and Caroline (Budnik) Buchkoski.
He is survived by his son Ryan Shultz, Wausau WI, brothers; Jerry (Cherri) Buchkoski, Sioux Falls SD, David (Pat) Buchkoski, Isle MN, sisters; Gayle Koppa, Schofield WI, Karen (Al) Nikolai, Kronenwetter WI, Diane Buchkoski, Kronenwetter WI, granddaughter; Laci Shultz, Wausau WI, Nephews and Nieces; Kevin Koppa, Wausau WI and Connie Koppa, Hatley WI and children Cody, Schofield WI and Kyle (Amanda), and child Connor, Weston WI and, Karrie (Mike) Hess and child Michaela, Tomahawk WI, Jason (Dani) Nikolai and children Kyler and Trever, Rochester MN, Chad Nikolai, Richmond IN, Cliff Buchkoski, MN, Scott (Deb) Buchkoski and children Emma, Amber and Leah, Stillwater MN, Caitlin (Nick) Abbas and children Beth and Emily, Lennox SD, Elise (Matt) Ellenz and children Andrew, Erica and Adam, Sioux Falls SD, John (Courtney) Buchkoski and children Louise and Felicity, Denton TX, and special family friends Karen Schlichting and Lori Lynn Luedtke.
Bruce was owner & operator of the Polack Inn Bar & Café for 36 years. He was well known for his Friday fish fries and was voted by the Wausau Chamber of Commerce as one of the best cafes in Wausau. He also got great pleasure from preparing feasts for family and friends. Bruce was well known for helping others in need. He was an accomplished carpenter completing many projects at the Polack Inn and for family and friends. His life was brightened by the birth of his granddaughter, Laci with whom he spent many happy hours. His happiest times were spent with his family at his home on Lake Nokomis.
The family would like to thank Aspirus Hospice for their care for Bruce during the last few weeks of his life.
Private family services will be held at St Therese Catholic Church on Friday, March 12 with Mass of Christian Burial at 10 am with Father Albert officiating. Burial to be held at Gate of Heaven Cemetery in the Spring/Summer. A celebration of Bruce’s life will be held at a later date.
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Sandra "Sandy" Sue Towle - January 23, 1944 - December 18, 2020

Departed: 12/18/2020 (Schofield)
Obituary Preview: Sandra "Sandy" Sue Towle, 76, of Merrill passed away peacefully at her home on December 18, 2020. Sandy was born January 23, 1944 in Columbus, Indiana. She was the daughter of the late Roland and Dorothy (Lockard) Kaufman. She married David A Towle on July 1, 1974 in McHenry Illinois. He survives.
Sandy had worked many many years as a in home Licensed Daycare Provider. She loved kids so very much. Sandy was the frosting that kept the family together on the holidays and always cooked enough food to feed an army. Her favorite time of the year was Christmas. One of Sandys favorite things to do was cook and she never let anyone leave the house on an empty stomach. She was a giving and loving person who would give the shirt off her back to anyone. If you couldn't find Sandy in the kitchen cooking, you would find her fishing or playing slots at the casino.
Sandy was a loving wife, mother, grandmother, sister, and aunt and will be deeply missed by her family.
Survivors include her husband David of Merrill; children Marcus Kaufman, Connie Sczygelski, and Lori Amelse all of Merrill; Cindy Kaufman of Arkansas; Tim Kaufman and Thomas Olivotti both of Antigo; grandchildren Cody, Venus, Xena, Nikkita, Derrick, David, Dreyke, Lacie, Conley, Joshua, Dallas, Bentley, Jami, Jamia, Jasmine, Jacob, Zoey, Wyatt, and Cole; 10 great-grandchildren and one on the way; brother Wayne (Marge) Kaufman of Parkston, SD; sister-in-law Betty Kaufman of Indianapolis, IN; many nieces', nephews, cousins, and extended family.
Sandy was preceded in death by her parents and stepfather Herman Pophal, one grandchild Damin Martin, and two brothers Roland (Denny) Kaufman and Larry Kaufman.
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Wayne Mirek - June 08, 1946 - November 07, 2020

Departed: 11/07/2020 (Schofield)
Obituary Preview: On November 07, 2020 Wayne Mirek died at the age of 74 of heart failure following a bout with pneumonia and other complications. He was born June 8, 1946 at St Mary's Hospital, Wausau, WI the son of Raymond Mirek and Alice (Homerding) Mirek.
Wayne had a positive attitude though he had a lot of health issues. He made the best of things. He enjoyed people and always kept a dream. As a young man he enjoyed sailing, motorcycles, and cars. As an older adult he kept dreaming of when he could do those things again even though his health issues prevented him from pursuing those dreams. He was a good uncle and brother.
Wayne was thankful for all the care he received at Bay at Colonial Manor and from the health care workers associated with Inclusa. They made it possible for him be in the house and neighborhood he loved. So many people made his life better building his beautiful ramp, providing his powered wheelchair and the van service. We, his family, are also thankful.
Wayne is survived by two sisters Barbara Lonsdorf and Nancy Folz and Brother-in-Law, Darrold Folz, along with eight nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his parents, his sister Patricia Rucinski, Brother-in-Law Tom Lonsdorf and nephew Mark Rucinski.
Private family graveside service at Gate of Heaven with Celebration of Life at a later date.
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Betty Margaret Lucille Wadinski - July 06, 1931 - October 04, 2020

Departed: 10/04/2020 (Schofield)
Obituary Preview: Betty Margaret Lucille Wadinski (1931-2020)
Betty Wadinski, 89, of Wausau, most recently residing at Pride TLC, passed away at Aspirus Hospital on August 4th, 2020.
Betty was born 7/6/1931 to Raymond and Mae Heiser. Betty was preceded in death by her loving husband William “Rover” Wadinski and her loving son Donald William Wadinski. She loved her family and grandchildren with all of her heart.
She enjoyed camping, fishing, card playing, country music, and knitting. Making wool socks was one of her favorites. She loved reading from her bible. She became quite the social butterfly during her time at Pride TLC. She attended all the events they offered. She loved winning the prizes. She was always the 1st one at exercise class.
Betty is survived by her three sons and three daughters – Thomas (Karen) Wadinski of Hazlehurst, David (Wendy) Wadinski of Kronenwetter, Dale (Natalie) Wadinski of Kronenwetter, Diane Doering of Wausau, Sue (Shawn) Mueller of Wausau, Barbara (Jay) Maier of Mosinee. She had 20 grandchildren and many great grandchildren.
A special thank you to mom’s extended family at Pride TLC for loving her like her family did. Also a special thank you to the employees of Aspirus Wausau Hospital for their outstanding care and compassion towards our mother.
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Mildred May Jablonski - May 21, 1925 - September 30, 2020

Departed: 09/30/2020 (Schofield)
Obituary Preview: Mildred May Jablonski (Juedes) passed away on September 30, 2020.
She was born May 21, 1925 to Herman & Anna (Radtke) Juedes and married John R. Jablonski on December 15, 1945 in Crystal Falls, MI. They had 5 children.
Mildred was a homemaker and a Ladies Auxillary VFW member. In her younger days, she enjoyed traveling in their motorhome, crocheting, sewing, jigsaw puzzles and royal rummy.
Mildred is survived by; two sons, Michael (Bonnie-deceased), Mesa, AZ and Russell (Debra), Land O’ Lakes, WI; one daughter, Nancy (David) Voigt, Tomahawk, WI; one brother, Roger (Laura-deceased) Juedes, Brokaw, WI; several grandchildren and great-grandchildren.
She is preceded in death by her parents; her husband John; sons, Richard (Sally), and David; brothers, Elmer (Gertrude), Raymond (Isabelle), Edwin (Marge), Herman Jr. (Lorraine), Ralph (Geraldine), Floyd (Janet); sisters, Arline (Glen) Klemmer, Esther (Bob) Jones, Marion (Alex) Chilla, and Elnore (Will) Zastrow.
A memorial service will be held at a later date.
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Carol Jeanette Spear - January 18, 1933 - September 15, 2020

Departed: 09/15/2020 (Schofield)
Obituary Preview: Carol Jeanette Spear, 87, passed away on 9/15/2020 at Azura Memory Care in Wausau. Carol was born on 1/18/1933 to Henry and Myrtle Maas in Milwaukee. There she met and married Leroy (Lee) Spear in 1954, then moved to Rothschild in 1958 where they raised their seven children. Carol is survived by four sons and three daughters: Roy of Ft. Myers, FL, Mark (Judy) of Wausau, Scott (Jen) of Ringle, and Jim (Denise) of Weston. Her daughters are Jackie (Mike) Palmer of Wausau, Jean (Ross) Howland of Schofield, and Renee (Dina) Rasmussen-Spear of Wittenberg. She is also survived by a sister Mary Hartman of Waukesha, along with 13 grandchildren and 7 great-grandchildren, many nieces and nephews, and former daughter-in-law Julie Spear. She cherished her friends and neighbors. You brought such joy to her life!
Carol was preceded in death by her loving husband Lee, (baby) daughter Laura Lee, sister Lois Matel and her husband Joe, brother-in-law Bob Hartman, and sisters-in-law Elaine Zarnowski and her husband Gene, and Joanne Spear and her husband Bill Drenzek.
Carol had a special talent playing the piano. One of her greatest pleasures was sitting side-by-side with her grandchildren, teaching them to play Chopsticks. Without realizing, she entertained her neighbors and those walking by on days when the windows and doors were open.
She spent many years helping at St. Mark Catholic Church in Rothschild with funeral luncheons, June Bug, and playing bells in the church choir, and working in the Activities Area at Kennedy Park Nursing Home. She also took great pride in her contributions to the restoration of the Rothschild pavilion, a cause that was especially important to her. The family wants to say thank you to Carissa from Interim HealthCare & Hospice and to the amazing staff at Azura Memory Care for the loving care they gave Carol while residing there. Heroes really do work there!
Services will be held at John J. Buettgen Funeral Home on Thursday, September 17th with visitation from 4:00 to 7:00 pm followed by a prayer service at 7:00. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at St. Mark Catholic Church, Rothschild officiated by Father Alan Slowiak on Friday, September 18, 2020 at 10:00 a.m.
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Personalized Funeral Services

At John J. Buettgen Funeral Home, they understand that every life is unique and deserves to be celebrated in a way that reflects the individual's personality, interests, and accomplishments. That's why they offer a range of personalized funeral services, including traditional funerals, cremations, memorial services, and celebrations of life. Their experienced staff will work closely with you to create a customized ceremony that honors your loved one and provides comfort to those who are grieving.

Facilities and Amenities

The funeral home's facilities are designed to provide a warm and welcoming atmosphere, perfect for gathering with family and friends to celebrate the life of a loved one. The spacious chapel can accommodate large crowds, while the intimate visitation rooms provide a cozy setting for smaller gatherings. Additionally, they offer a range of amenities, including audio-visual equipment, catering services, and ample parking.

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John J. Buettgen Funeral Home understands that planning a funeral can be overwhelming, especially during a time of grief. That's why they offer pre-planning services, allowing individuals to make their own arrangements in advance. By pre-planning, you can ensure that your wishes are respected, alleviate the burden on your loved ones, and even lock in costs at today's prices.

Cremation Services

In addition to traditional funeral services, John J. Buettgen Funeral Home also offers cremation services for those who prefer this option. They understand that cremation is a personal choice and strive to provide dignified and respectful care throughout the process. From direct cremation to cremation with a memorial service, they offer a range of options to suit individual preferences.

Grief Support and Resources

Losing a loved one is never easy, but John J. Buettgen Funeral Home is committed to supporting you through the grieving process. They offer a range of resources, including bereavement support groups, counseling services, and online resources. Their staff is also available to provide guidance and support as you navigate the days and weeks following your loss.

Community Involvement

John J. Buettgen Funeral Home is deeply rooted in the Schofield community and is committed to giving back through various charitable initiatives and events. From sponsoring local organizations to participating in fundraising campaigns, they believe in making a positive impact on the lives of those around them.

Contact Information

If you're looking for more information about John J. Buettgen Funeral Home or would like to schedule a consultation with one of their experienced funeral professionals, please don't hesitate to reach out. You can contact them by phone at [phone number], email at [email address], or visit their website at [website URL]. Their office is open Monday through Friday from 9:00 am to 5:00 pm, with extended hours available by appointment.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their family, accomplishments, and surviving relatives.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to share the news of a loved one's passing with friends, family, and community members. They also provide a sense of closure and allow people to pay their respects to the deceased.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, a family member or close friend of the deceased writes the obituary. Funeral homes or mortuaries may also offer assistance in writing and publishing obituaries.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, and surviving relatives. It may also include information about funeral services, memorial donations, and other details.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication and personal preference. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from a few sentences to a short paragraph.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications allow photos to be included with the obituary. This can be a nice way to personalize the notice and help readers remember the deceased.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online platform?

Check with the specific publication or platform for their submission guidelines. Some may have online forms or email addresses for submitting obituaries, while others may require phone or in-person submissions.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication and length of the notice. Some newspapers or online platforms may charge by the word or line, while others may offer package deals or free listings.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary in advance as a way to ensure their legacy is presented in a certain way. This can also be a therapeutic exercise in reflecting on one's life and accomplishments.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is typically a brief announcement of someone's passing, often without additional biographical information. An obituary provides more detail about the person's life and achievements.

Can I include humor or anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! Obituaries can be a celebration of the person's life, so including humorous stories or personality traits can make the notice more engaging and relatable.

How soon after a death should an obituary be published?

The timing of publishing an obituary varies depending on cultural and personal traditions. In general, it's common to publish an obituary within a few days of the person's passing.

Can I edit or update an obituary after it's been published?

Sometimes, corrections or updates may be possible depending on the publication's policies. However, it's essential to proofread carefully before submitting the obituary to avoid errors.

What if I want to keep the funeral private?

If you prefer to keep the funeral private, you can still publish an obituary without including funeral details. Instead, you might mention a memorial service or celebration of life at a later date.

Can I include charitable donations or memorial funds in an obituary?

Yes! Many people choose to include information about charitable donations or memorial funds in lieu of flowers. This can be a meaningful way to honor the deceased and support a worthy cause.

How do I handle sensitive information in an obituary?

If there are sensitive issues or controversies surrounding the person's death, it's essential to approach the situation with tact and respect. Consider consulting with family members or friends before publishing any potentially sensitive information.

What if I'm not sure what to say in an obituary?

If you're struggling to write an obituary, consider seeking guidance from a funeral home, counselor, or trusted friend. You can also look at examples online or in newspapers for inspiration.

Can I republish an obituary on social media or online platforms?

Yes! Many people choose to share obituaries on social media or online platforms as a way to reach a wider audience and allow friends and family to pay their respects.

How long are obituaries typically kept online?

The length of time an obituary remains online varies depending on the publication or platform. Some may keep archives indefinitely, while others may remove notices after a certain period.

Can I create a digital archive of my loved one's life?

Absolutely! Digital archiving platforms allow you to collect memories, photos, and stories about your loved one in one place. This can be a beautiful way to preserve their legacy for generations to come.

What if I need help writing an obituary due to grief or emotional distress?

If you're struggling to write an obituary due to grief or emotional distress, consider reaching out to a trusted friend, family member, or mental health professional for support. They can help you process your emotions and craft a meaningful tribute to your loved one.

Can I include quotes or poems in an obituary?

Yes! Including quotes or poems that resonated with the deceased can add depth and meaning to the obituary. Choose something that reflects their personality or spirit.

How do I ensure accuracy when writing an obituary?

To ensure accuracy when writing an obituary, fact-check dates, names, and other details carefully. It's also essential to proofread multiple times before submitting the notice for publication.

What if I want to celebrate my loved one's life in a non-traditional way?

You can celebrate your loved one's life in any way that feels authentic and meaningful to you. Consider hosting a memorial service at home, creating a memory book, or planning a charity event in their honor.

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About Jeffery Isleworth

Jeffery Isleworth is an experienced eulogy and funeral speech writer who has dedicated his career to helping people honor their loved ones in a meaningful way. With a background in writing and public speaking, Jeffery has a keen eye for detail and a talent for crafting heartfelt and authentic tributes that capture the essence of a person's life. Jeffery's passion for writing eulogies and funeral speeches stems from his belief that everyone deserves to be remembered with dignity and respect. He understands that this can be a challenging time for families and friends, and he strives to make the process as smooth and stress-free as possible. Over the years, Jeffery has helped countless families create beautiful and memorable eulogies and funeral speeches. His clients appreciate his warm and empathetic approach, as well as his ability to capture the essence of their loved one's personality and life story. When he's not writing eulogies and funeral speeches, Jeffery enjoys spending time with his family, reading, and traveling. He believes that life is precious and should be celebrated, and he feels honored to help families do just that through his writing.