Jacob A. Holle Funeral Home Obituaries

About Jacob A. Holle Funeral Home

Jacob A. Holle Funeral Home, located at 2122 Millburn Avenue, Maplewood, NJ, 07040, has been a pillar of the community for many years, providing compassionate and professional funeral services to families in their time of need. With a long history of serving the local area, the funeral home has built a reputation for excellence and dedication to helping families say goodbye to their loved ones with dignity and respect.

A Legacy of Compassion and Care

At Jacob A. Holle Funeral Home, the staff is committed to providing personalized and meaningful funeral services that honor the life of the deceased. They understand that every family is unique and has its own set of needs and preferences. That's why they take the time to listen and work closely with each family to create a customized funeral service that reflects the personality and spirit of their loved one.

Funeral Obiturary Search

Explore our extensive database to find and remember the lives of loved ones through millions of heartfelt obituaries

Search

Recent Funeral Home Obituaries

Anne DeFazio - August 05, 1938 - April 25, 2024

Departed: 04/25/2024 (Maplewood)

Obituary Preview: Anne was the devoted and beloved mother to Joseph, Anthony and Lisa, and beloved grandmother to Haileyrose, Alice and AJ - the true loves of her life. Anne is also survived by her daughters-in-law Meredith and Claire, and her future son-in-law Michael. Anne was also the beloved baby sister of Tommy and Mary who adored her, and whom she adored and loved in return. Anne was also lucky to share a close and loving relationship to her brother-in-law, Chich and sister-in-law, Mary DeFazio. She was known affectionately as Aunt Annie to her many wonderful nephews and nieces, as well as her many grand-nephews and nieces.

Anne and her family moved to Bensonhurst, Brooklyn, where she met her life-long friends Rosemarie and Marianne, in elementary school. She was the apple of her father Charles' eye, and a devoted and loving daughter to her mother, Betty. Anne loved every genre of music, from jazz and big band, to doo-wop, opera and country, and was a talented contralto who loved to sing and entertain her family and friends. She was also a naturally gifted dancer, and especially loved cha-cha and the merengue. Anne was also a gifted poet and writer, and had a life-long interest in and talent for interior design, having studied for two years after high school.

While raising her children on Staten Island, Anne worked as an independent salesperson for Avon, Tupperware and Mary Kay Cosmetics, and volunteered as secretary for two local PTAs as well as for the re-election campaign for New York Assemblyman Guy Molinari. She later started her own chocolate making business selling custom candy for baby and wedding showers and other special occasions. From 1985 to 1991, Anne worked as an administrative assistant for AIG insurance.

Anne will be remembered for her generous heart, her curious nature, her sharp mind, her great sense of humor and her skillful use of emoji’s when texting.

Family and close friends are invited to join in a celebration of her life on Saturday May 4, 2024, at noon, at Lisa and Mike's house: 22 Crestwood Drive, Maplewood NJ 07040.

View Full Obituary

Ruth Gay Larsen - March 10, 1946 - April 22, 2024

Departed: 04/22/2024 (Maplewood)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Ruth Gay Larsen.

View Full Obituary

Thomas F. Hug - September 04, 1937 - April 22, 2024

Departed: 04/22/2024 (Maplewood)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Thomas F. Hug.

View Full Obituary

Mark J. Donohue, Jr. - July 30, 1963 - April 21, 2024

Departed: 04/21/2024 (Maplewood)

Obituary Preview: Mark J. Donohue, Jr., age 60, died Sunday, April 21st at home in Maplewood. A Funeral Mass will be held on Friday, April 26th at 11:00 am at St. Joseph's Church, 767 Prospect St, Maplewood. Interment is Private

Mark was born in Newark. He was a teacher for Metuchen Board Of Education as well as an avid musician.

Mark is predeceased by his father Mark J. Donohue, Sr. and his brother Christopher. He is survived by his wife Julie Jirout, two daughters Katherine and Christina, his mother, Carol and brother, Tom "TJ" Donohue.

View Full Obituary

Norma Estella Nichols - September 29, 1931 - April 15, 2024

Departed: 04/15/2024 (Maplewood)

Obituary Preview: Norma Estella Nichols (nee Sewall) passed away peacefully of old age in the morning of Monday, April 15th under hospice care at Care One Assisted Living in Livingston.

Norma was born on September 29, 1931 to John Noble Sewall and Estella Marshall Sewall in Montclair, New Jersey where she was raised and attended public schools along with her older brother John. At Montclair High School, she met the athletic and charming Robert (Nick) Nichols. Upon graduation Norma attended Rutgers University to pursue a degree in education while Nick joined the US Marines Corps. They exchanged love letters while he was in service and married soon after his honorable discharge, on September 6, 1952.

The newlyweds both pursued careers in education. Norma taught second grade at Ashland School in East Orange and retired from the East Orange School District as a Reading Resource Teacher. Nick spent his career teaching and serving as Athletic Director at Bloomfield College.

The arts aficionado Norma adored opera, theater, music and poetry, and the sports encyclopedia Nick raised four sons in Maplewood: Robert Jay Nichols, Jon (Ford) Beresford Nichols, Russell K. Nichols and Victor M. Nichols. She was a lifelong parishioner of the Episcopal Church of St. Andrew & Holy Communion in South Orange.

After Nick passed away in 2009, Norma remained in her beloved home until recently when she became too frail to live on her own. As family gathered to help her sort her belongings for her move to assisted living, they were astonished to find a treasure trove of her most precious belongings - hundreds of cards and letters from classrooms she visited, people she treated to the opera or theater, former students who tracked her down decades later to let her know how much she meant to them, a book written by a young man thanking her for teaching him to read, her two granddaughters’ college essays written about her, notes from the little girl next door thanking her for gifts and tea parties, and many more beautiful sentiments to a woman who touched everyone in her orbit. As beautiful on the outside as on the inside, Norma “Nana” Nichols twinkly eyes and dimpled smile lit up every room she graced in her 92 years.

Norma was predeceased by her parents, brother John and son Ford. She will be sorely missed by legions of extended family, friends, students, neighbors and most dearly by her son Jay of West Orange, son and daughter-in-law Russell and Susy of Caldwell, son and daughter-in-law Victor and Jen of Maplewood and her and Papa Nick’s most dearly cherished granddaughters Emily (husband Danny Wacha) of West Orange and Melissa (partner Jerome Bernstein) of Broomfield, CO.

A service will be held a later date. Donations may be made in Norma’s honor to NJPAC. A longtime supporting member, she attended its opening night gala in 1996 and enjoyed treating family and friends to many performances throughout the years. Nick was happy to chauffeur the patrons - if the game he was watching wasn’t a playoff.

View Full Obituary

James P. Maguire, Jr. - January 09, 1962 - April 12, 2024

Departed: 04/12/2024 (Maplewood)

Obituary Preview: James Patrick Maguire Jr, a longtime resident of Short Hills and proud father of three sons, died suddenly on April 12, 2024. James was born in New York City January 9, 1962 to his mother Patricia and father James P. Maguire Sr. He was the middle son, arriving in the world two years after his sister Melissa, and four years before his late brother Christopher. Growing up, he developed a passion for motorcycles, and was at his happiest when he was racing his motorbike around an improvised track in the backyard. James was a lover of music, specifically bands like Led Zeppelin, Pink Floyd, and the Grateful Dead. The passions he developed in his youth were carried on in his adult life, where he shared his enthusiasm with his sons and anyone who entered his life.

James grew up in Short Hills, New Jersey and graduated from Blair Academy in Blairstown, New Jersey. At Blair, he was captain of the ski team and fostered many close relationships which he maintained throughout his life. James went on to attend Villanova University, where he earned a Bachelor’s degree in Accounting and graduated cum laude. Beginning his career with Deloitte, Haskins & Sells, he learned the value of hard work and taking pride in his profession. James, maybe better known as “Jim” in the professional ranks, aspired to achieve greatly in his career. In pursuit of his ambition, James seized the opportunity to step into the role of Finance Director of Central and Eastern Europe while working at Schering-Plough. In doing so, he and his young family (wife Dorian and 2 ½ year old Patrick Joseph) moved to Budapest, Hungary. Although unfamiliar with the culture and region as a whole, James embraced the challenge and found immense joy in discovering the world in this way. Having helped rapidly grow the Central and Eastern-European pharmaceutical business, James’ next challenge was to lead the business as Operations Director from a new locale in Luzerne, Switzerland. It was in Switzerland where son Sean Christopher Maguire was born, expanding the family to four. Following his time in Budapest and Luzerne, James was entrusted to be the Finance Director of the UK and Ireland for Schering-Plough, this time moving the family to Harpenden, England where James’ third son James Patrick Maguire III would be born. After ten total years abroad and having traveled to countless countries across the globe, James and his family once again packed their bags and moved their home, this time back to where it all began in Short Hills, New Jersey.

James was a proud father, a loving son, an avid skier, a determined golfer, a passionate sports fan, a devoted music lover, and a motorcycle enthusiast. His greatest pride, however, came from sharing the things he loved to do and experiencing them with his family and friends. To James, perfect strangers quickly became his friends, and his friends became part of his family. His generosity and enthusiasm worked like a gravitational pull, and over his life James had invited so many to share in his world, and found great joy in doing so.

He is survived by his son Patrick and his wife Jessica, Sean, and James III; their mother Dorian, his parents James Sr and Patricia Maguire; his sister Melissa and husband Bill Sullivan; nieces Shannon and Jessica Sullivan; and his fiancé Kasia Rytelewski. He was predeceased by his brother Christopher John Maguire, whom he loved and missed dearly.

Visitation will be held on Tuesday, April 16 from 4-8 PM at The Jacob A. Holle Funeral Home, 2122 Millburn Ave, Maplewood. Funeral Mass at 10:00 am on Wednesday, April 17 at St. Rose of Lima Church, 50 Short Hills Ave, Short Hills.

View Full Obituary

Robert P. Raveis - April 20, 1950 - April 10, 2024

Departed: 04/10/2024 (Maplewood)

Obituary Preview: Dr. Robert P. Raveis, age 73, of Maplewood died on Wednesday, April 10, 2024.

Visitation will be held on Monday, April 15th from 9:30-10 am at The Jacob A. Holle Funeral Home, 2122 Millburn Avenue, Maplewood. A Funeral Mass will follow at 10:30 am at St. Joseph's Church, 767 Prospect St, Maplewood. Burial will be in Gate of Heaven Cemetery, East Hanover.

Robert was born in Fairfield, CT and has lived in Maplewood for the past 30 years. Until his retirement he was a psychoanalyst in private practice.

He is survived by his wife: Dr. Victoria (Horyczun) Raveis. For more information or to send condolences please visit jacobhollefuneralhome.com

View Full Obituary

Crawford "Ed" Sabin - May 03, 1930 - April 08, 2024

Departed: 04/08/2024 (Maplewood)

Obituary Preview: *In Loving Memory of Crawford "Ed" Sabin**

Crawford "Ed" Sabin, a beloved husband, father, grandfather, and pillar of his community, passed away on April 8th, 2024, at the age of 93. Born on May 3rd, 1930, in Manhattan, New York, Ed was the cherished son of Elizabeth and Edward Sabin, hailing from the vibrant heritage of Dominica. He brought light, love, and laughter into the lives of all who knew him, leaving behind a legacy of kindness, resilience, and unwavering devotion.

Growing up in the diverse neighborhoods of Harlem and Brooklyn, Ed was surrounded by the rich tapestry of New York City life. From an early age, he embodied the spirit of determination and generosity, assuming the role of caretaker and protector for his mother and sisters, Sylvia, and Florence. Their Dominican roots instilled in Ed a deep sense of pride and cultural appreciation, reflected in his fluency in French, Patois, and later German, a testament to his thirst for knowledge and connection with others. Education was paramount in Ed's life, guiding him on a path of intellectual curiosity and academic achievement.

He attended Our Lady Queen of Angels School in Harlem, where he laid the foundation for a lifelong love of learning. His journey continued at Bronx Science, where he graduated in 1948, followed by Brooklyn College, where he earned his bachelor's degree in 1952. Ed's pursuit of knowledge knew no bounds, leading him to NYU, where he obtained his PhD in Physics, a testament to his dedication and perseverance. In 1951, Ed answered the call to serve his country, enlisting in the United States Military. As a member of the Air Force flight squadron, he bravely served during the Korean War, stationed in Germany until his honorable discharge in 1955. Ed's military service instilled in him a profound sense of duty, honor, and camaraderie, values that would guide him throughout his life.

Following his military service, Ed embarked on a distinguished career as a cardiovascular pharmacologist, dedicating over three decades to groundbreaking research and innovation. His work at Schering-Plough Pharmaceutical Company, later becoming Merck, for 36 years, cemented his reputation as a leader in the field, earning him the respect and admiration of colleagues and peers. Beyond his professional accomplishments, Ed was a devoted family man, finding joy and fulfillment in the love and laughter of his beloved wife, Sabarah. Their love story was one of true devotion, spanning over six decades and weathering life's ups and downs with grace and resilience. From their first date, in July 1959, to their magical wedding on a cold winter day in January 1960, Ed and Sabarah's love was a beacon of light, inspiring all who knew them. In the summer of 1959, Ed and Sabarah were introduced to Martha’s Vineyard. There, they fell in love again, with The Vineyard, which would become their second home. Ed's love for sports was legendary, rooted in his childhood experiences playing stickball with Tito Puente during the Harlem Renaissance. He was a die-hard Brooklyn Dodgers fan, drawn to the spirit of Jackie Robinson and the team's historic legacy. Over the years, Ed's allegiance shifted from the Yankees and later the Mets, but his passion for the game remained unwavering. His involvement in sports extended beyond the sidelines, as Ed coached his sister-in-law, Jackie, to the track and field Olympic trials and influenced countless others to pursue their athletic dreams. Whether cheering from the stands or providing guidance and support to young athletes, Ed's passion for sports was infectious, leaving an indelible mark on all who knew him.

In addition to his love for sports, Ed had a deep appreciation for jazz music, cultivated during his formative years in Harlem. Growing up, he was an active member of the Catholic Church community, serving as an altar boy and contributing to various charitable endeavors. Ed's commitment to service extended to organizations such as the Boy Scouts of America and United States Track and Field, (USATF), where he volunteered his time and expertise to support aspiring athletes and promote youth development. Throughout his life, Ed remained deeply connected to his roots, cherishing the memories of his upbringing in Harlem and Brooklyn.

In 1972, Ed and Sabarah moved to Maplewood, New Jersey, where there were considerable opportunities for them to raise Chris and Leslie, in a promising community. They were one of the original “Brooklyn-West” couples to move to the suburbs of New Jersey. They shaped their family and established their home in Maplewood, where the door was always open. Ed actively participated in Chris and Leslie’s lives, from Cub Scouts, Boy Scouts, Indian Guides, and Indian Princesses to their sporting events like basketball and track and field. You could always hear him cheering from the stands and at times giving critiques, not just to Chris and Leslie, but to their teammates.

His Maplewood home was a sanctuary of warmth and hospitality, where friends and family were always welcome, and expected to stay over…laughter echoed through the house. Ed’s greatest joy in life was his grandchildren, Thaddeus, Quincy, and Tatum, whom he adored with all his heart. From picking up at school to attending their sporting events, he was a constant presence in their lives, offering unwavering support and unconditional love. His legacy lives on in the hearts of his grandchildren, a testament to the enduring bonds of family and the power of love to transcend time and space. We cannot forget his precious four-legged friend, Ginger, who was also the love of his life, whose tail would wag uncontrollably whenever he walked into a room.

He was a proud patriarch of his family, affectionately known as "Uncle Eddie" to his nieces, nephews, and extended relatives. In memory of Crawford "Ed" Sabin, a beloved husband, father, grandfather, and friend whose light will continue to shine bright in the hearts of all who knew him. -- This expanded obituary captures the essence of Crawford "Ed" Sabin's life, honoring his accomplishments, passions, and the impact he had on his family and community.

View Full Obituary

Ibrahim "Brian" Tellado - August 04, 1926 - April 07, 2024

Departed: 04/07/2024 (Maplewood)

Obituary Preview: Ibrahim "Brian" Tellado, a beloved husband, father, and grandfather, passed away on Sunday, April 7, 2024, at the age of 97. Born in Havana, Cuba, on August 4, 1926, to Candida Fernandez and Valentin Tellado, Ibrahim embarked on a remarkable journey that led him to the United States in 1961, seeking refuge after the Cuban Revolution. Accompanied by his loving wife Marta and their four cherished children - Tony, George, Val, and Marta - he settled first in Newark, NJ, before making Maplewood, NJ, their home.

In retirement, Ibrahim enjoyed two decades of bliss in Miami, surrounded by dear friends and family where he and Marta were active in the church, family, and civic life. In 2011, he and Marta returned to New York to be closer to their family. Ibrahim's legacy lives on through Marta, his children, and his adored grandchildren - Erica, Grace, Kristin, Marc, and Raina. He will be remembered for his passion for democracy, curiosity about ideas, resilience, and the love he shared with all who knew him.

Visitation will be held at The Jacob A. Holle 2122 Millburn Ave, Maplewood on Friday, April 12th from 6-8pm and Sat, April 13th from 10:00 – 11:00 AM followed by a service at Holy Cross Cemetery in N. Arlington at 11:30 AM.

View Full Obituary

T. Felder Dorn - August 15, 1933 - March 31, 2024

Departed: 03/31/2024 (Maplewood)

Obituary Preview: THOMAS FELDER DORN

Thomas Felder Dorn, son of the late Thomas Elbert Dorn, Jr. and Etta Moseley Dorn, died March 31, 2024. He was born in Bowman, S.C. on August 15, 1933, and was living in Millburn, N.J. at the time of his death.

On Friday April 5th, friends may visit the family at the Jacob A. Holle funeral home, 2122 Millburn Ave., Maplewood, NJ from 4:00 – 7:00 p.m. A prayer service and remembrances will be from 7:00 – 8:00 p.m. The Memorial Mass will be at St. Stephen’s Church, 119 Main Street, Millburn, NJ at 11:15 a.m. on Saturday, April 6th. A reception will follow from 1:15 – 3:15 p.m. at St. Stephen’s Church. The burial will be private.

He was a Phi Beta Kappa graduate of Duke University in 1954 with the degree of Bachelor of Science. He received his Ph.D. from the University of Washington in Seattle in 1958. Dr. Dorn taught chemistry from 1958 through 1969 at The University of the South in Sewanee, Tennessee, where he also served for several years as director of a summer graduate program for secondary school teachers of science and mathematics. He joined the staff of the College Entrance Examination Board in New York in September 1969. He served as an Executive Associate to the Vice President for Programs and was responsible for the establishment of a national fee-waiver program for the College Board's Admission Testing Program. He came to Kean College in Union, N.J. in August 1973, where he served in the Kean administration for 17 years, including positions as Associate Dean, Dean, and Vice President for Academic Affairs. During his tenure as Acting Dean of the School of Arts and Sciences, several new programs, including those in Nursing and Medical Record Administration, were developed and added to the curriculum. In July 1990, he left the administration to serve as Professor of Chemistry. He retired from Kean University in September 2001 and was named Dean Emeritus by the Board of Trustees in May 2003.

His professional publications include a journal article on radiocarbon dating (his dissertation topic), two publications on ternary phase diagrams, and an article on the College Board Fee Waiver Program. He was the author of five books, The Tompkins School: A Community Institution, (1994); The Guns of Meeting Street: A Southern Tragedy (2001); Death of a Policeman; Birth of a Baby: A Crime and Its Aftermath (2012); Challenges on the Emmaus Road: Episcopal Bishops Confront Slavery, Civil War, and Emancipation (2013); and The Downfall of Galveston’s May Walker Burleson: Texas Society Marriage and Carolina Murder Scandal (2018). He published articles in From the Mountain and The Sewanee Theological Review about the state of Sewanee’s owning dioceses at the end of the Civil War. His family will submit for publication his book manuscript entitled Equal in the Sight of God, but Not of Man about the efforts of the Episcopal Church in South Carolina to recruit black communicants in the decades immediately after the Civil War.

While in Sewanee, he chaired a fund drive to add four rooms to the Sewanee Public School. This was a community effort undertaken to facilitate integration of the schools. He was President of the Sewanee Public School Parent Teacher Association. In 1964, Dr. Dorn was named "Sewanee Man of the Year" by the Sewanee Civic Association. He also served as President of the Franklin County Tennessee Association for Retarded Children and Adults and was a member of the Board of Directors of the Tennessee Association for Retarded Children and Adults. He served in Manhattan as Cubmaster for a Cub Scout pack sponsored by Holy Apostles Church. He was a member of St. Stephen's Episcopal Church in Millburn. His service at St. Stephen's included membership on the vestry and two terms as a church Warden. He served for ten years as a volunteer at Canterbury Village, an assisted living home in West Orange, and initiated a program for St. Stephen’s Church to provide volunteers there on a regular basis. He coordinated the tours of St. Stephen’s cemetery that were held at intervals from 2008 to 2014 and currently was serving as the coordinator for the Food Barrel at St. Stephen’s.

He was married in 1956 to the former Sara Ruth Higgins of Greenwood County, S.C., who died in September 2020. He is survived by three children, Julia of Millburn, NJ; Ruth, and her partner Eugene Damiano, of Croydon, PA; and Thomas, and his wife Eleanor, of East Stroudsburg, PA; and by granddaughters Kristine and Allison, and Allison’s husband Scott and their daughter Maeve; and by grandson Adam and his wife Valerie and their daughter Pippa and son Graham. He also is survived by two sisters, Cynthia Dorn Hobbs of Hilton Head, SC, and Nancy Dorn of Randallstown, MD.

View Full Obituary

Virginia A. Brito - August 13, 1944 - March 23, 2024

Departed: 03/23/2024 (Maplewood)

Obituary Preview: Virginia A. Brito, age 79, of Springfield died Saturday, March 23, 2024 at Pine Acres Health Care in Madison, NJ.

Visitation will be at The Jacob A. Holle Funeral Home 2122 Millburn Ave, Maplewood on Tuesday, March 26th from 4:00 - 7:00PM. A Funeral Mass will be held on Wednesday, March 27th at St. Rose of Lima Church, 50 Short Hills Avenue, Short Hills at 10:30 AM. Interment to follow at Holy Cross Cemetery, N. Arlington. Ms. Brito was born in Newark, and lived in Springfield for 30 years. She was a secretary at St. James Hospital in Newark for 25 years

She is survived by her siblings, Manuel Brito (Dolores), Anthony Brito (Gail), Marie O'Neill (James), Ann Brito and many nieces and nephews.

Virginia was predeceased by her parents Manuel and Mary (Serrratelli) Brito and her brothers James and William Brito.

View Full Obituary

Virginia Michels- Auth - August 13, 1943 - March 14, 2024

Departed: 03/14/2024 (Maplewood)

Obituary Preview: Virginia Michels-Auth, age 80, of Maplewood, died Thursday, March 14, 2024 at Overlook Hospital of Summit, NJ.

The family will receive friends at The Jacob A. Holle Funeral Home, 2122 Millburn Ave, Maplewood on Friday, March 22 from 2:00 - 3:00 PM followed by a prayer service at 3:00 PM. Interment is private.

Ginny is survived by her husband George E. Auth, her sons Walter Michels (Jackie) and Raymond Michels (Andrea), and her two grandchildren Sophia and Andrew Michels. She was predeceased by her first husband Walter J. Michels, and her parents John and Eleanor Romanchick.

Ginny was born in Irvington and lived in Maplewood for more than 50 years. She was a Middle School Teacher for the Irvington Board of Education, and was a Slot Jockey in Atlantic City in her free time. She cherished her annual family vacations to Lauderdale-by-the-Sea, Florida, and loved sharing meals and conversation with her family.

For more information or to send condolences please visit jacobhollefuneralhome.com.

View Full Obituary

Donna K. Hayden - March 11, 1945 - March 11, 2024

Departed: 03/11/2024 (Maplewood)

Obituary Preview: Donna Kathleen Hayden, aged 78, of Maplewood, NJ, passed away at home on March 11, 2024.

Donna was born in Newark and grew up in Union. `She attended St. Michael’s Primary School and graduated from Mount St. Mary's High School and Boston College, where she received a degree in mathematics.

She taught school and raised two children before returning to Kean University to earn a master’s degree in psychology, after which she worked at Summit Oaks Hospital as a drug and alcohol counselor until her retirement. Ms. Hayden was instrumental in establishing the hospital’s dual diagnosis program.

Donna was a loving mother, a thoughtful friend, a skilled and compassionate clinician, a world traveler, and an animal lover. She was an avid reader whose hobbies included collecting antiques, interior design and tennis.

She is survived and will be deeply missed by her daughter Kathryn, son Patrick and his wife Alyssa, and grandchild Francis. Donna was preceded in death by her father Bernard Hinrichs (2010) and mother Elizabeth Hinrichs (2018), to whom she gave devoted care.

View Full Obituary

Marie Saladino - November 11, 1939 - March 09, 2024

Departed: 03/09/2024 (Maplewood)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Marie Saladino.

View Full Obituary

Jayne D. Kelly - January 26, 1945 - March 07, 2024

Departed: 03/07/2024 (Maplewood)

Obituary Preview: Jayne D. Kelly, age 79, of Maplewood, NJ died suddenly on Thursday, March 7th, 2024 in her home.

A Funeral Mass will be held at St. Joseph’s Church, 767 Prospect Street, Maplewood on Tuesday, March 12th at 11:00 am. Entombment will follow at Hollywood Memorial Park in Union.

Jayne was born in Newark and has lived in Maplewood for 56 years. She was owner of Professional Medical Training, in Maplewood. Jayne also served 20+ years as an EMS Educator and EMT Coordinator at Saint Michael’s Medical and Cathedral Healthcare System.

Jayne served decades with the Maplewood First Aid Squad where she served as Squad President, West Orange First Aid Squad where she served as Squad Captain and the South Orange Rescue Squad.

Jayne is predeceased by her sister Louise Moscatelli, brothers Samuel and Gerald Lonero. She is survived by her husband Joseph D. Kelly Jr., children, Sal Nesta (Nellann), Sherri Meyers (Brian), Joseph D. Kelly III (Danielle), David Kelly (Tamika), and Carmela Sode (George), twelve grandchildren and one great granddaughter.

View Full Obituary

Blanche T. Simpson - November 20, 1936 - March 06, 2024

Departed: 03/06/2024 (Maplewood)

Obituary Preview: Our dear mother and beloved wife, Blanche T. Simpson (nee Ricca), who loved to be called “Ma” by her children, peacefully passed away at the age of 87, on Wednesday March 6, 2024 at The Valley Hospital in Ridgewood, NJ. She was called a variety of names by her beloved husband, Ken, such as Gram and Ma but most frequently “Sweetheart”. This often created a response of “I’m not your Ma” or “I’m not your Gram” and always ending in “I love you”.

Blanche and Ken had 65 years of a wonderful, married life together. Blanche was born to Tessie and James Ricca on November 20, 1936. She attended Barringer HS in Newark NJ and attended her prom with Ken. Subsequently Ken enlisted in the Army and was stationed in Fort Lewis, Washington State, appointed to the Military Police. Blanche then applied to Nursing School at St Michaels in Newark and graduated in 1957. Blanche and Ken carried their romance throughout and then married in April of 1958.

They started their life together living in Maplewood and their oldest child, John, was born in December of 1959 and soon to follow was their second child, Lori, born November of 1960. In 1966, she had her third child, Jamie. She was very fortunate to have the support of her mom, Tessie and dad, Jimmy, which enabled her to ultimately work and also to return to school for her Master Degree. Ultimately, Blanche and Kenny built their own home in 1984 and have resided, together, in Florham Park NJ since.

Blanche graduated from Jersey City State with her Masters degree in 1968. She passed her Board, NJ Department of Education, exam in 1969 which entitled her to serve as a “School Nurse” in the NJ public school system. “Ma” spent 38 years of her life as a public servant to the Newark Board of Education; Lafayette Street School. Blanche was predeceased by her sister Theresa B. Donahue. She is survived by her most loving husband, Kenneth, and her three children, John Simpson, Lori

Van Orden (Gregg) and Jamie Kerr (Christopher).

She loved her children unconditionally however she held her grandchildren, Gregg, Taylor (Paige), Grant Van Orden (Kaitlin), Christopher, Bianca & Matthew Kerr, on a pedestal above all. They were those who made up the entirety of her world. Gram ran her life around her children and more importantly her grandchildren. She followed every grandchild in their sport of choice and made it a priority to miss nothing.

In 2022 Grant and Kaitlin Van Orden blessed Blanche with her first great grandchild, Kennedy Grace Van Orden. Although she did not meet Kennedy she was able to share lots of moments and happiness through pictures and video. She adored being a great grandmother. She also knew before her passing great grandchild #2 was coming for Grant and Kaitlin, and #3 for Taylor and Paige Van Orden.

Blanche loved to sew. She made personal quilts for many which took hours on end, perfection, dedication and commitment. Qualities she always portrayed. She had the biggest heart and a beautiful smile. She was witty, fun, fearless and independent. From a co-worker “an angel of a person”. She was incredibly compassionate, LOVED TO EAT OUT, Florida vacations, and for a long time gardening. She was strong-willed and stubborn, but those traits defined “Ma”. They were part of who she was, and her strength undoubtedly helped her deal with life’s challenges.

One of her most stealthy attributes was her spirituality. She made an impact on many lives and believed in the powers of the “green scapular”; devotion to the Immaculate Heart of Mary for Cures and Conversions. She would give it as the confidant strong in her faith to many. Those that received it from Blanche were thankful because it is the strength of her belief that enabled their healing.

She also contributes regularly to the “Covenant House” which helps youth facing homelessness and human trafficking survivors.

Blanche cared so deeply for the people around her. She was such a kind and unimaginably generous wife, mother and grandmother. She will be forever missed. “Ma”, “Gram” and “Sweetheart” until we meet again. Please come and honor the life of Blanche T Simpson: Visitation will be held at The Jacob A. Holle Funeral Home, 2122 Millburn Ave on Sunday March 10th from 2-6 PM. A Funeral Mass will be held on Monday at 10 AM at St. Rose of Lima Church, 50 Short Hills Ave, Short Hills. Entombment in St. Rose of Lima Cemetery Gifts in lieu of flowers may be made in Blanche Simpson’s memory to the Parkinson’s foundation (Parkinson.org) or

St. Jude (stjude.org).

View Full Obituary

Viola B. Torre - July 04, 1947 - February 25, 2024

Departed: 02/25/2024 (Maplewood)

Obituary Preview: Viola "Chickee” Torre, former long-time resident of West Haven, passed away suddenly in Maplewood, NJ, on February 25, 2024. Born in New Haven on July 4, 1947, she was the daughter of Michael and Josephine (Pecoraro) D’Agostino. Vi was a 1965 graduate of Wilbur Cross High School. Throughout her career, she managed many offices from SNET and trucking companies to a collection agency and chiropractic office.

Viola was the family's entertainment hub, keeping everyone up to speed on the Bachelor franchise and DWTS, discovering new TV gems, and engaging in spirited family UNO matches. A devoted mother and doting Nana, her culinary creations were second to none, leaving an irreplaceable void in the family kitchen. The world will know no finer sauce, home cooking, or holiday baking. She is survived by daughter Leslie, son-in-law David, and her adored grandkids, Wyatt and Adeline. Vi was preceded in death by her husband of 52 years, Robert “Butch” Torre.

Please join us for a celebration of Vi’s life on Saturday, April 6 in Maplewood, NJ, and raise a frozen Mudslide in her honor.

View Full Obituary

Catherine Rauch - April 18, 1953 - February 13, 2024

Departed: 02/13/2024 (Maplewood)

Obituary Preview: Catherine Rauch, age 70, of West Orange died Tuesday, February 13, 2024 at Abington Care in Greenbrook, NJ.

Visitation will be on Wednesday, February 21st from 5-8 PM at The Jacob A. Holle Funeral Home, 2122 Millburn Ave. Maplewood. The Funeral Mass will be held at St. Joseph Church, 44 Benvenue Ave., West Orange, Thursday, February 22nd at 9:30AM. Interment will follow at Gate of Heaven Cemetery in East Hanover.

Catherine was born in East Orange, and lived in West Orange for the last 30 years. She was a regional manager for various banks throughout her career. Her two longest tenured banks were PNC and TD Bank both in Westfield. Most recently she enjoyed being a crossing guard in West Orange.

Catherine was predeceased by her loving husband John. She is survived by her daughter Donna, son John and his wife Jamie, grandchildren Jackson, Alexandria and Jenavive and sister Lucille.

View Full Obituary

Mary C. Auth - September 12, 1941 - February 09, 2024

Departed: 02/09/2024 (Maplewood)

Obituary Preview: Mary Catalano Auth, 82 years old, passed away at home, with her family, in Maplewood on February 9, 2024.

Mary was born in Summit, NJ to her parents, Philip and Alexandria Catalano. She was the youngest of three daughters, and she adored her sisters Sondra Blum and Phyllis Yates.

Mary lived in Maplewood for her entire life, and was a product of the Maplewood-South Orange public schools, attending Jefferson Elementary, Maplewood Junior High, and Columbia High School. She received her undergraduate degree from Wheaton College in Norton, Massachusetts. She then worked in New York City at an advertising agency, and soon after that, she married the love of her life, Victor Charles Auth.

Mary was a pervasive presence in her family, in her children’s schools and activities, in Morrow Memorial United Methodist Church, and in her larger Maplewood community. She gave much of her time to Morrow Church throughout her life, including her work as Financial Secretary, as the head of the Church School, and as the director and heart of the Turnover Sale, a long-standing sale of community members’ donations for the benefit of local charities and others in need. For many years, Mary wrote a weekly newsletter for those people near and far who could not be a part of the church community in person.

Mary loved the color red—in her clothes, her jewelry, her lipstick, and her PT Cruiser. She was creative and beautifully artistic, expressing her talents in so many ways. She played the piano, and accompanied her husband on his violin, playing both existing music and original pieces they created together. Mary enjoyed quilting, sewing, painting, dancing (often at Kings Market), arranging furniture at the Morrow Turnover Sale, and curating and displaying her many collections in her house. She loved flowers and gardening, nurturing plants, trees, and flowers in her home and neighborhood. Mary took great joy in expressing herself in these ways, and you could see that in everything she touched.

Mary looked for ways to help others, and she had an incredible knack for getting people involved in it with her. She fought for anyone who needed support or love, without any need for acknowledgement. She was a friend to everyone, always with a kind word of encouragement and a smile for all, always trying to make others’ lives better.

Mary loved her family deeply, and was eternally devoted to their well-being. She and her husband were married for almost 55 years and enjoyed an incredibly close relationship throughout their marriage. She was a loving mother to her two children, and may have enjoyed being a grandmother most of all.

Mary is survived by her children Thomas Philip (and Karee Hanifan Auth) and Jessica Jean Auth, by her grandchildren Lillian Grace, Alexander Thomas, Alexandria Mary, and Camille Isabel Auth, by her sister Sondra Catalano Blum and her sister-in-law Norma Evelyn Auth, and by many nieces and nephews. A memorial service will be held at Morrow Church in Maplewood in the coming weeks to celebrate Mary’s life. For more information or to send condolences, please visit jacobhollefuneralhome.com

View Full Obituary

John F. McTernan - December 15, 1958 - February 06, 2024

Departed: 02/06/2024 (Maplewood)

Obituary Preview: John F. McTernan, age 65, of Morris Plains died suddenly on Tuesday, February 6, 2024 at Morristown Medical Center.

Mr. McTernan was born in Newark on December 15, 1958 to John F. And Margaret McTernan. He was raised in Maplewood, graduating from Our Lady of the Valley High School in 1977. John lived in Union before moving to Morris Plains 5 years ago. Mr. McTernan was a shipping and receiving manager at Schering-Plough and Merck for 25 years. Most recently, he was employed by N.J.I.T. in Newark and was the Mail Room Manager.

John was a devoted father who encouraged and supported his children to chase their dreams. One of his favorite activities was teaching and supporting his children in various sports and activities, namely baseball and softball. It was a rarity to not see him on the sidelines cheering them on. Mr. McTernan also was an avid basketball player himself and enjoyed playing pick-up games in his free time.

Mr. McTernan was the devoted father of Peter J., John F. Jr., Kaitlyn, and Erin. John was the beloved sibling of Maureen and her husband Donald and Kevin and his wife Nancy. John was predeceased by his brother Robert McTernan who is survived by wife Jo Ann McTernan. Mr. McTernan is also survived by niece and nephews: Lauren Michels, Douglas Kaplan, Brian McTernan, Matthew McTernan, and Ryan McTernan.

Relatives and friends are invited to attend the visitation on Monday, February 12th from 4-8 PM at The Jacob A. Holle Funeral Home, 2122 Millburn Avenue, Maplewood, NJ. A Funeral Mass will be held at 10:00 am on Tuesday, February 13th at St. Joseph's Church, 767 Prospect St, Maplewood. Interment to follow at Gate of Heaven Cemetery, East Hanover.

In Lieu of Flowers donations can be made to Union Little League - PO Box 92, Union, NJ 07083.

For more information or to send condolences please visit jacobhollefuneralhome.com.

View Full Obituary

Kenneth Lee Sheldon - October 12, 1949 - February 02, 2024

Departed: 02/02/2024 (Maplewood)

Obituary Preview: Kenneth Lee Sheldon, age 74, loving husband, brother, father, grandfather, and friend, passed away Friday, February 2, 2024, after a brief battle with pancreatic cancer. A 1967 graduate of Glen Rock High School, who then received his bachelor's degree in economics from Farleigh Dickinson University, Teaneck, New Jersey in 1971. Ken served in the Army Reserves during the Vietnam War and was a Foreign Exchange Trader for Société Générale in NYC before retiring in 2009.

He lived in Maplewood, New Jersey for almost 40 years. Ken’s talents included making people laugh, smile, and feel loved. He could give a complete synopsis of a television episode of Friends or Bing Bang Theory. He loved trivia, Wheel of Fortune, Jeopardy, Words with Friends, and eating a whole tub of coleslaw in less than 1 minute during his Army Reserve days. He enjoyed spending time with his family, playing board games, Amàta, having drinks with friends, watching the Yankees win more than the Red Sox, winning arguments with his wife Susan then apologizing for being wrong about the fights he thought he won, all while keeping the lawn in pristine condition.

Preceded in death by his parents John Gerald and Dorothy Louise (Smith) Sheldon. He is survived by his loving wife Susan (Williams), daughter Lizzie, sons Kenny and Sean, daughter-in-law Maria (Mancino), grandson Elliott John, brothers Gerald, John, Richard, and Michael, sister Dotty, and numerous in-laws, nephews, nieces, grand-nephews, grand-nieces, neighbors, people walking by down the street, random truck drivers stopping to ask for directions, people casually browsing grocery aisles, and anyone else that had 5 minutes to spare to listen to a story about anything.

Celebration of Life services will be held on February 10th, from 2:00-5:00pm at the Jacob A. Holle Funeral Home, located at 2122 Millburn Avenue, Maplewood, New Jersey, followed by Words of Remembrance at 5:00pm. Interment is private.

The family would like to express thanks for the wonderful support everyone showed over the past few weeks. If desired, friends may make memorial contributions to St. Jude. Condolences may be sent to the family on the Funeral Home’s website.

View Full Obituary

Roselouise B. Daly - July 06, 1954 - January 31, 2024

Departed: 01/31/2024 (Maplewood)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Roselouise B. Daly.

View Full Obituary

Elizabeth Jane Hammel - September 09, 1942 - January 30, 2024

Departed: 01/30/2024 (Maplewood)

Obituary Preview: Elizabeth J. Hammel, 81, of Cincinnati, Ohio, peacefully passed away on January 30, 2024, surrounded by loved ones.

Elizabeth was born on September 9, 1942, to parents, Jane and Harry Hammel in Cincinnati, Ohio. One of eight children, she attended New Richmond High School and loved her alma mater. She lived much of her life in Cincinnati, raising her three children with former husband, Mark Flick. In her career, she was an executive assistant at Meade Paper Co. and a system analyst for Bowater Pulp and Paper Co. Elizabeth was an impeccable seamstress, sewing costumes and gowns certain to make any young lady swoon. In her retirement years, she delighted in playing the days away with her four grandchildren in her condo, in which, every wall was painted her favorite shade of pink. She lived the last five years in Maplewood, NJ with her daughter Nicole and son-in-law Kris. There, she made many new friends, sang in the church choir, and took a dance lesson or two. Her smile could light up a room and she will be missed by so many.

Elizabeth was predeceased by her parents, Jane and Harry; siblings, Westy, April, David, and Bob. She is survived by her children, Nicole L. Hubert (nee Flick) and husband Kris; M. Christopher Flick and wife Jessica; Michael W. Flick and wife Angel; Four Grandchildren, Susan, Ross, Summer, and Saul; Three siblings, Margaret, Danny, and Sherry, along with numerous nieces and nephews.

Celebration of life services will be held in Maplewood, New Jersey and Cincinnati, Ohio.

New Jersey services will be on Sunday, February 4, 2024, at 3pm at Morrow Memorial United Methodist Church, 600 Ridgewood Road, Maplewood, NJ 07040. Cincinnati services will include a visitation on Friday, February 16, 2024, from 10:00-11:00am with a funeral service to follow at 11:00am at E.C. Nurre Funeral Home, 177 W. Main Street, Amelia, OH 45102 followed by burial at Mount Moriah Cemetery, 686 Mt. Moriah Drive, Cincinnati, OH 45245.

View Full Obituary

Marie E. Loughlin - August 03, 1925 - January 25, 2024

Departed: 01/25/2024 (Maplewood)

Obituary Preview: Marie E. Loughlin, age 98, passed away on January 25, 2024 at home in Tinton Falls.

Visitations will be Wednesday, January 31st from 9:45-10:30am at The Jacob A. Holle Funeral Home, 2122 Millburn Avenue, Maplewood.

The Funeral Mass will follow at 11:00 am at St. Rose of Lima Church, 50 Short Hills Avenue, Short Hills. Burial will be in St. Rose of Lima Cemetery.

Ms. Loughlin was born in East Orange, and lived in Springfield before moving to Tinton Falls 17 years ago. She was employed by the US Department of Justice, Immigration and Naturalization Service in Newark for over 36 years.

She retired in 1980 as the Executive Secretary to the Deputy District Director. Marie was devoted to her Catholic faith and took comfort in saying the rosary daily with a small group of friends. She loved to travel internationally with

her brother John and their close friends. Watching her beloved Yankees and professional tennis were her favorite pastimes.

She was predeceased by her brother, John P Loughlin Jr and is survived by relatives Thomas A Loughlin Jr, Jane Loughlin Fischer, Patricia Loughlin Perry and Agnes Loughlin. For more information or to send condolences please visit jacobhollefuneralhome.com

View Full Obituary

Andrew "Tony" Rogers Jr. - December 24, 1941 - January 24, 2024

Departed: 01/24/2024 (Maplewood)

Obituary Preview: Andrew Y. Rogers, Jr. “Tony”, age 82 died on January 24, 2024 at home in Florham Park, N.J.

A memorial service will be held on at Morrow Memorial Church, 600 Ridgewood Rd, Maplewood, N.J. on Saturday, February 3, 2024 at 11:00 a.m.

Tony was born in New York, N.Y., and lived in Maplewood for over 30 years before moving to Florham Park about 20 years ago. He was a graduate and dedicated alumnus of the Frederick Gunn School and Dickinson College, where he met his wife, Judy. In 2023, he was named to the Dickinson College Hall of Fame in recognition of his athletic talent and dedication to the school’s athletic programs. Tony served in the U.S. Army and was employed by J.P. Stevens Textiles as a National Sales Manager.

Tony is survived by his wife, Judith Elder Rogers; his two children, Andrew Y. Rogers III and Elizabeth R. Hall; his four grandchildren, Mitchell Arthur and Owen Andrew Rogers, and Luke Edward and Malcolm Hunter Hall; and his three siblings, Polly Larned, Malcolm P. Rogers, and Frances P. Zilkha.

Donations in memory of Tony may be made to Dickinson College, the McAndrews Fund. For more information or to send condolences please visit jacobhollefuneralhome.com »(Do not delete this line. It does not print. Text that is to appear on web must be entered before this line)

View Full Obituary

123Next ›Last »

A Wide Range of Funeral Services

Jacob A. Holle Funeral Home offers a wide range of funeral services to meet the diverse needs of the community. From traditional funerals and memorial services to cremations and celebrations of life, their experienced staff can help guide families through the planning process and ensure that every detail is taken care of. They also provide support and resources for those who are grieving, including bereavement counseling and aftercare programs.

Personalized Funeral Planning

The staff at Jacob A. Holle Funeral Home believes that every funeral service should be a reflection of the person who has passed away. That's why they offer personalized funeral planning services, which allow families to incorporate personal touches and meaningful elements into the service. This can include everything from favorite music and flowers to special rituals and ceremonies.

Facilities and Amenities

Jacob A. Holle Funeral Home is situated in a beautiful and serene setting, providing a peaceful atmosphere for families to gather and pay their respects. The funeral home features spacious chapels, comfortable visitation rooms, and ample parking for guests. They also offer a range of amenities, including audio-visual equipment, catering services, and online obituaries.

Pre-Planning Services

Many people are now choosing to pre-plan their funeral arrangements, ensuring that their wishes are respected and relieving their loved ones of the burden of making difficult decisions at a time of grief. Jacob A. Holle Funeral Home offers pre-planning services, which allow individuals to plan and pay for their funeral in advance. This can provide peace of mind and financial security for both the individual and their family.

Community Involvement

Jacob A. Holle Funeral Home is deeply committed to the local community and is involved in various charitable initiatives and events throughout the year. They believe in giving back to the community that has supported them over the years and are dedicated to making a positive impact on the lives of those around them.

Contacting Jacob A. Holle Funeral Home

If you're in need of funeral services or would like more information about Jacob A. Holle Funeral Home, please don't hesitate to contact them. Their experienced staff is available 24/7 to answer your questions, provide guidance, and offer support during a difficult time. You can reach them by phone, email, or through their website.

Jacob A. Holle Funeral Home is here to help you navigate the difficult process of saying goodbye to a loved one. With their compassion, expertise, and commitment to excellence, you can trust that your family will receive the care and support they need during this challenging time.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It serves as a way to share information about the deceased with family, friends, and community members.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries are important because they provide a way to honor and remember the life of the deceased, while also serving as a notification of their passing to those who may not have been aware. They also provide an opportunity for loved ones to share stories, memories, and condolences.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, an obituary is written by a family member or close friend of the deceased, although it can also be written by a funeral home or other organization. The writer should be someone who knew the deceased well and can provide an accurate and heartfelt tribute.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the deceased's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also include a brief biography, achievements, and accomplishments.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or online platform. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from 100 to 500 words.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a great way to personalize the tribute and make it more meaningful.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online platform?

The process for submitting an obituary varies depending on the publication or platform. Typically, you can submit it online or through email, along with any required payment or documentation.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies widely depending on the publication or platform. Some may offer free or low-cost options, while others may charge several hundred dollars or more.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary in advance, often as part of estate planning or as a way to ensure their legacy is preserved accurately.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, usually including only basic information such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary is a more detailed tribute that includes biographical information and personal anecdotes.

Can I include humor in an obituary?

Yes, many people choose to include humorous anecdotes or quotes in an obituary as a way to celebrate the deceased's personality and spirit.

How do I handle sensitive information in an obituary?

If there are sensitive issues or conflicts surrounding the deceased's life or death, it's best to approach the obituary with tact and discretion. Consider consulting with other family members or a professional writer for guidance.

Can I include charitable donations in lieu of flowers?

Yes, many families choose to include a request for charitable donations in lieu of flowers as a way to honor the deceased's memory and support a cause they cared about.

How long after the funeral should I wait before publishing an obituary?

There is no specific time frame for publishing an obituary after a funeral. Some families prefer to publish it immediately after the funeral, while others may wait several days or weeks.

Can I publish an obituary online only?

Yes, many online platforms allow you to publish an obituary exclusively online. This can be a cost-effective option and allows for wider reach and sharing.

How do I share an obituary on social media?

You can share an obituary on social media by copying and pasting the link or text into your desired platform. Many online platforms also offer built-in sharing features for easy distribution.

Can I edit or update an obituary after it's been published?

Sometimes it's possible to make minor corrections or updates to an obituary after it's been published. However, this may depend on the publication or platform's policies.

How do I preserve an obituary for future generations?

You can preserve an obituary by saving a physical copy, taking a screenshot or printing out the online version, or creating a digital archive of family history documents.

What if I need help writing an obituary?

If you're struggling to write an obituary, consider seeking help from a funeral home staff member, professional writer, or trusted friend or family member who knew the deceased well.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Yes, many people choose to include meaningful quotes, lyrics, or poems in an obituary as a way to add depth and personal significance.

How do I handle multiple marriages or relationships in an obituary?

This can be a sensitive issue. Consider consulting with other family members or a professional writer for guidance on how to approach this situation with tact and respect.

Can I include pets in an obituary?

Yes, some families choose to mention beloved pets in an obituary as a way to acknowledge their importance in the deceased's life.

What if I'm not comfortable writing about certain aspects of the deceased's life?

If you're unsure about what to include or exclude from an obituary, consider consulting with other family members or a professional writer for guidance on how to approach sensitive topics with respect and dignity.

How do I ensure accuracy when writing an obituary?

To ensure accuracy, verify facts such as dates, names, and places with reliable sources before submitting the obituary for publication.

Can I use humor to mask sadness in an obituary?

Yes, using humor can be a way to balance sadness and create a more celebratory tone in an obituary. Just be sure to avoid offending anyone who may be grieving.

What if I need help finding old photos for the obituary?

You can ask family members or friends if they have any photos they'd be willing to share. You can also try searching through old albums, scrapbooks, or online archives.