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Anna Elliot Rose Murphy - October 26, 1991 - April 30, 2024

Departed: 04/30/2024 (St. Louis)

Obituary Preview: Anna Elliot Rose Murphy passed away on Tuesday, April 30, 2024 at her residence in Clayton, Missouri at the age of 32 years, 6 months, and 4 days.

Anna was born on October 19, 1926 in Little Rock, Arkansas.

A complete obituary, including funeral arrangements, are pending at this time and will be posted here when finalized.

Aquamation services provided by Hughes Funeral Alternatives at Hillcrest Abbey in St. Louis, Missouri.

Family and friends can sign a online guestbook at www.HughesFuneralAlternatives.com.

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Betty Gunkel - September 11, 1937 - April 28, 2024

Departed: 04/28/2024 (St. Louis)

Obituary Preview: Betty Gunkel (nee DeBasio) passed away on Sunday, April 28, 2024 at Mercy Hospital Jefferson in Festus, Missouri at the age of 86 years, 7 months, and 17 days.

Betty was born on September 11, 1937 in St. Louis, Missouri to the late Charles and Mary DeBasio.

Betty is survived by her children: John Meyer, Jayne Harman, and Robert (Rachel) Meyer; grandchildren: Maria (Eric) Tutskey and Tyler Harman; great-grandchildren: Lily Tutskey, Edith Tutskey, and Francis Tutskey.

She was also a beloved aunt, cousin, and friend to many.

For Betty, family came first. She loved spending time with family and friends. She also loved to travel on vacations and take trips to the Casino.

A Celebration of Life will be held on Sunday, May 5, 2024 from 2:00 p.m, - 5:00 p.m. at American Legion Post 253, 849 American Legion Post Drive, Festus, Missouri 63028.

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Milburn Gay King - June 15, 1945 - April 27, 2024

Departed: 04/27/2024 (St. Louis)

Obituary Preview: On Saturday, April 27th, Milburn “Gay” King, loving husband, father and “Pops” went to be with the Lord he loved, after a short battle with cancer. He was surrounded by his family.

Gay King was a devoted husband to Jennifer “Ginger” King (nee Ganus) for more than 54 years. They were the love of each other’s lives. He was a doting father to Krista (Mark) Signorelli, Kory King, Kyley (Sara) King and Kara King. He adored his seven grandchildren: Bradley, Claire and Grant Signorelli, Tyler, Charlie, Cooper and Joie King. Gay’s family and his faith were the cornerstones of his life. He would often say he would always be “rich” if his family lived close by.

Gay was born on July 15, 1945, in St. Louis, MO, to Ambros “Riley” and Beatrice Olivia King. His siblings include Danette Lopp, Berna Dean Crouch and Sylvan “Ray” King (his twin brother). Preceded in death by his parents, Riley and Beatrice King, and his brother, Kent Randall “Randy” King, and granddaughters Betty and Lily King.

Gay leaves behind a legacy characterized by commitment to family, community and service. He touched many lives as a math teacher for more than 35 years, mostly at North Middle Kirkwood Middle School. Not only was he known for his sense of humor, patience and big smile, but also for his corny jokes that everyone lovingly called “Gayisms”. Gay had a giving heart and was generous with his time volunteering for Meals on Wheels and other causes. He had a great love for sports, especially basketball, which he played and coached for many years, always instilling the value of good sportsmanship.

A private family service will be held prior to his Celebration of Life on Friday, May 10, 2024. All are welcome to join the family at Piazza Messina, 5535 State Highway N, Cottleville, MO 63304, from 11:30 a.m. - 2:00 p.m.

A special thanks to all who provided love, care, prayers and support during the past four months, especially Joy Chesnut (sister-in-law), Mandy Piela (NP - Oncology), Pastor Joe Bleile and St. Luke’s Hospice.

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Dorothy G. Barnes - October 19, 1928 - April 04, 2024

Departed: 04/04/2024 (St. Louis)

Obituary Preview: Dorothy G. Barnes passed away on Thursday, April 4, 2024 at Laclede Groves in Webster Groves, Missouri at the age of 95 years, 5 months, and 16 days.

Dorothy was a loving mother, grandmother, and friend to many.

Dorothy was a registered nurse for over fifty years. She was a member of the "Cabbage Patch Girls" club in St. Louis. She also loved to cook.

Per Dorothy's wishes, she was donated to a local medical school to continue the advancement of modern medicine.

All services will be private.

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Ruth Elaine Volk - January 18, 1943 - April 02, 2024

Departed: 04/02/2024 (St. Louis)

Obituary Preview: Ruth Elaine Volk (nee Vogt) passed away on Tuesday, April 2, 2024 at Mercy Hospital in St. Louis, Missouri at the age of 81 years, 2 months, and 15 days.

Ruth was born on January 18, 1943 in Bryn Mawr, Pennsylvania to the late William Vogt and Helen Vogt (nee DiVirgilo). She is also preceded in death by her beloved daughter, Carin “Nicole” Kafigian.

She is survived by her loving son, Douglas (Jennifer) Kafigian, grandchildren: Dougie and David Kafigian; and brother, William (Judith) Vogt.

Ruth was also a loving cousin, aunt, and a loyal friend to many.

Ruth was a dedicated advocate with a passion for helping others. Her mission in life was to educate people about teen suicide which is why she founded LETS, “Lets End Teenage Suicide”. She was a longtime member and volunteer at The Rock Church in Ballwin. Ruth retired after working for Maritiz in St. Louis for many years. She also enjoyed going to her water aerobics class and playing cards. Forever a social butterfly, there was rarely a day that Ruth did not have a social or lunch event planned with her friends.

A memorial service will be held at Schrader Funeral Home and Crematory, 14960 Manchester Road at Holloway, Ballwin on Sunday, April 7, 2024 at 2:30 p.m. A Celebration of Life will take place following the service in the Schrader Family Center from 3:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m.

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Lavenus R. Sadler - September 09, 1946 - March 24, 2024

Departed: 03/24/2024 (St. Louis)

Obituary Preview: Lavenus Sadler passed away on Sunday, March 24, 2024 at Memorial Hospital in Springfield, Illinois at the age of 79 years, 6 months, and 15 days.

Lavenus was born on September 9, 1944.

Aquamation services provided by Hughes Funeral Alternatives at Hillcrest Abbey in St. Louis, Missouri.

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Richard McKay - November 02, 1951 - March 17, 2024

Departed: 03/17/2024 (St. Louis)

Obituary Preview: Richard Michael McKay entered his heavenly home on March 17, 2024 at the age of 72 years, 4 months, and 15 days. This day was very special to Richard. He loved celebrating St. Patrick's day

Richard was born on November 2, 1951 in St. Louis, Missouri to the late George McKay and Helen McKay (need Kern). Also preceding him in death are brothers: Charlie, George, and Larry McKay; and sisters: Patsy McKay, Joan Svejkosky, Lorraine Politte, and Gloria Higgins.

Richard was the youngest of 11 siblings and is survived by his sister Laverne Thul; brother, Terry (Bob) McKay; and sister, Kathleen Tustanowsky.

Richard was also a loving uncle, cousin, brother-in-law, and friend to many.

All services for Richard will be private and held at a later date.

Per his wishes, Richard donated his body to science to help the advancement of Modern Medicine and help someone in need.

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Audrey June Thompson - June 13, 1937 - March 05, 2024

Departed: 03/05/2024 (St. Louis)

Obituary Preview: Audrey June Thompson (need Everett) passed away on Tuesday, March 5, 2024 at SSM Saint Louis University Hospital in St. Louis, Missouri at the age of 86 years, 8 months, and 22 days.

Audrey was born on June 13, 1937 in Quincy, Illinois to the late Doyle Everett and Clara Everett (need Woodall).

A complete obituary, including funeral arrangements, are pending at this time and will be posted here when finalized.

Services provided by Hughes Funeral Alternatives, LLC in St. Louis, Missouri.

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Peter Wellington Rockwell - October 06, 1937 - February 29, 2024

Departed: 02/29/2024 (St. Louis)

Obituary Preview: Peter Wellington Rockwell, born October 6th, 1937 in Lakewood, OH. passed away on February 29th at his home in Kirkwood, Missouri. He was 86.

He is survived by his loving wife, Meredith Rockwell; his children Ann Huggins, Sara Rockinger, and Terrence Rockwell; his grandchildren Carissa Rockwell, Stephanie Rockwell, Philip Rockwell, Margaret Schwaderer, Holly Huggins, and Sam Rockinger; and his great grandchildren Jenna, Julie, Laura, Jace, Jayden, and Thomas. Peter was preceded in death by his son, Keith Rockwell.

Peter was a mail carrier for the US Postal Service for over 30 years in Des Peres, MO. He was a life-long peace activist, amateur astronomer, and avid sports fan.

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Ernestine Carr Kirk - October 21, 1927 - February 21, 2024

Departed: 02/21/2024 (St. Louis)

Obituary Preview: Ernestine Carr Kirk passed away on Wednesday, February 21, 2024 at Barnes Jewish Hospital in St. Louis, Missouri at the age of 96 years and 4 months.

Ernestine was born on October 21, 1927 in Okemah, Oklahoma to the late Ernest Carr and Lillia Carr (nee Rogers). She is also preceded in death by her loving husband of 64 years, Paul J. Kirk, Jr. and a son-in-law, Richard Baca.

Ernestine is survived by her daughters: Ruth (Tom Tyler) Kirk-Tyler and Jean Kirk; grandchildren: Jennifer (Josh) Kratochvil, Allison (Chris) Pappas, and Michael (Misty) McNeely; and 7 great-children.

She was also a beloved friend to many.

Ernestine was a longtime faithful member of Second Presbyterian Church in St. Louis, Missouri. She also had her Master’s Degree in Music Education. Ernestine was a music teacher for various school districts for more than 40 years. She would go on to retire as a Music Professor at Maryville University in St. Louis, Missouri.

A roadside service will be held at 10:15 am on Monday, March 25, 2024 at Jefferson Barracks National Cemetery, 2900 Sheridan Road, St. Louis, Missouri 63125. Friends and family are asked to meet at the cemetery office by 10:00 a.m..

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Richard AuBuchon - April 03, 1953 - February 12, 2024

Departed: 02/12/2024 (St. Louis)

Obituary Preview: On February 12th Richard passed away surrounded by those who will always love him, always miss him and always feel like the world is not quite right without him.

All services for Richard will be private.

Aquamation services provided by Hughes Funeral Alternatives, LLC in St. Louis, Missouri.

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Adonis Ray Black - January 09, 1936 - February 06, 2024

Departed: 02/06/2024 (St. Louis)

Obituary Preview: Adonis (Don) Black, Jr. was born January 9, 1936 entered his heavenly home at the age of 88 on February 6, 2024.

Don is the son of Don & Theola Black who preceded him in death, as well as a sister, Mary Ann, and sons David & Doug (Sandy). He is survived by his beloved wife of nearly 41 years, Beverly and children, Amy, Ryan (Stacey), Neal and Tim (Ashley); grandchildren Loren, Kayla, James, Steven, Isabella, Xander and one great-grandson, Luca.

Don was born in St. Louis and was a graduate of Normandy High School as well as Washington University. He was an accomplished musician, instructor and photographer. He served in many Baptist churches as Director of Music and played violin and viola in several orchestras such as the St. Louis Philharmonic Orchestra (23 years) and The Muny Orchestra. One of the highlights of his musical career was meeting celebrities that played at the Muny and spending time showing them the city of St. Louis. He has fond memories of Dionne Warwick and Aretha Franklin.

Don was gifted in mathematics and computer science. His career was spent teaching adults and college students both in private sector businesses as well as at the local universities. In his spare time, he enjoyed taking photographs for businesses such as the Red Cross, The St. Louis Post-Dispatch and the St. Louis VP Fair.

In honor of Don and his vibrantl life, everyone is invited to wear colorful, casual clothing to the celebration of life on February 16, 2024. Visitation will begin at 10:00 am with the service following at 11:00 am. The service will be held at First Free Church, 1375 Carman Road, Manchester, MO. Enter through the North Entrance, Door #5.

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Perry Williams - February 25, 1974 - February 04, 2024

Departed: 02/04/2024 (St. Louis)

Obituary Preview: Perry Williams, II passed away on Sunday, February 4th, 2024 at Deceased Residence in St. Louis, Missouri at the age of 49 years, 11 months, and 7 days.

Perry was born on February 25, 1974 in St. Louis, Missouri.

A complete obituary, including funeral arrangements, are pending at this time and will be posted here when finalized.

Services provided by Hughes Funeral Alternatives, LLC in St. Louis, Missouri.

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Donald G. Lawson - January 29, 1984 - January 31, 2024

Departed: 01/31/2024 (St. Louis)

Obituary Preview: Donald G. Lawson, II passed away on Wednesday, January 31, 2024 at BJC Evelyn's House in Creve Coeur, Missouri at the age of 40 years and 2 days.

Don was born on January 29, 1984 in Farmington, Missouri to Patricia Lawson and Donald G. Lawson, I.

He is also survived by his son, Landon Lawson; sister, Ginger (Travis) Johnson; nieces and nephews: Nicholas (Hailey) Howards, Andrew (Tori) Howards, Lilly Johnson, and the late Patrick Howards; and niece-in-law, Shelby Howards.

Don was also a loving step-son, step-brother, nephew, cousin, and friend to many.

Don loved spending time with his family. He also enjoyed watching documentaries and training his dog, Lucy.

All services for Don are private.

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Mary C Naumann - December 04, 1962 - January 29, 2024

Departed: 01/29/2024 (St. Louis)

Obituary Preview: Mary C Naumann (nee Barry) passed away on Monday, January 29, 2024 at Deceased Residence in Warrenton, Missouri at the age of 61 years, 1 month, and 25 days.

Mary was born on December 4, 1962 in Kansas City, Missouri to the late William and Bernice Barry.

All services for Mary will be private.

Services provided by Hughes Funeral Alternatives, LLC in St. Louis, Missouri.

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Elizabeth Dames - March 25, 1934 - January 23, 2024

Departed: 01/23/2024 (St. Louis)

Obituary Preview: Elizabeth Dames passed away on Tuesday, January 23, 2024 at her residence in Ballwin, Missouri at the age of 89 years, 9 months, and 29 days.

Elizabeth was born on March 25, 1934 in St. Louis, Missouri to the late William Moser and Casilda Moser (nee Kaiman). She is also preceded in death by her loving husband of 60 years, Kenneth Dames.

A complete obituary, including funeral arrangements, are pending at this time and will be posted here when finalized.

Services provided by Hughes Funeral Alternatives, LLC in St. Louis, Missouri.

Family and friends can sign a online guestbook at www.HughesFuneralAlternatives.com.

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Mary Ann Hinton - December 18, 1934 - January 18, 2024

Departed: 01/18/2024 (St. Louis)

Obituary Preview: Mary Ann Hinton passed away on Thursday, January 18, 2024 at SSM St. Clare Hospital in Fenton, Missouri at the age of 89 years and 1 month.

Mary was born on December 19, 1934 in St. Louis, Missouri to the late Roy Cooney and Annie Lee Cooney (nee Jarman).

All services for Mary Ann will be private.

Services provided by Hughes Funeral Alternatives, LLC in St. Louis, Missouri.

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James Lee Watel - December 01, 1956 - January 15, 2024

Departed: 01/15/2024 (St. Louis)

Obituary Preview: James Lee Watel Jr. passed away on Monday, January 15, 2024 at his residence in Overland, Missouri at the age of 67 years, 1 month, and 14 days.

James was born on December 1, 1956 in St. Louis, Missouri to the late James Lee Watel, Sr. and Esther Watel (nee Wittcoff).

All services for James will be private.

Per his wishes, James was donated to Logan University in Chesterfield, Missouri to help the advancement of modern medicine.

Services provided by Hughes Funeral Alternatives, LLC in St. Louis, Missouri.

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Georg Ann Cleveland - September 12, 1940 - January 12, 2024

Departed: 01/12/2024 (St. Louis)

Obituary Preview: Georgann Cleveland passed away on Friday, January 12th, 2024 at Christian Hospital Northeast in St. Louis, Missouri at the age of 83 years and 4 months.

Georgann was born on September 12, 1940.

A complete obituary, including funeral arrangements, are pending at this time and will be posted here when finalized.

Services provided by Hughes Funeral Alternatives, LLC in St. Louis, Missouri.

Family and friends can sign a online guestbook at www.HughesFuneralAlternatives.com.

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Ronald Wilbur Stube - September 13, 1940 - January 11, 2024

Departed: 01/11/2024 (St. Louis)

Obituary Preview: Ronald Wilbur Stube Fortified with the Sacraments of Holy Mother Church on Thursday, January 11, 2024 at Mercy Hospital St. Louis in St. Louis, Missouri at the age of 83 years, 3 months, and 28 days.

Ron was born on September 13, 1940 in St. Louis, Missouri to the late Wilbur and Sarah Stube. He is also preceded in death by his son, Jeff Stube.

Ron is survived by his loving wife of 53 years, Lee Anne Stube (nee Skaggs); son, Steve Stube; siblings: Lorraine Walsh and Joyce Rygelski; and his dog companion, Lilly.

Ron was also a loving brother-in-law, uncle, great-uncle, and friend to many.

Ron retired after working 30 years for the St. Louis Post-Dispatch. He also was an avid sports fan, especially soccer.

A funeral mass will be held on Saturday, January 20, 2024 at 11:00 a.m. at St. Sabina Catholic Church, 1625 Swallow Lane, Florissant, Missouri 63031.

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Maria Turnbow - August 27, 1948 - January 11, 2024

Departed: 01/11/2024 (St. Louis)

Obituary Preview: Maria “Ria” Lena Langton Turnbow, 75, of St. Louis Missouri passed away unexpectedly on January 11, 2024, at Mercy Hospital in St. Louis.

Ria was born on August 27, 1948, to the late Warren Langton and Lena Grolimund Langton inRegensburg, Germany, while her father was serving there in the US Army. The family later moved to Seattle, Washington, Pacific Grove, California, and to Waynesville, Missouri for her junior year in high school before returning to and settling in Pacific Grove. She always considered Pacific Grove to be her true home, and she loved it dearly.

She is survived by her husband of nearly 34 years and partner for 36 years, Gerald “Jerry” Turnbow of St Louis, MO; her brother Delmar Langton and his wife Laurie in Mt. Vernon, WA; her sister Erin Field and her husband Leslie in Pacific Grove, CA, and numerous cousins, nephews, and nieces along the western coast from California to Oregon to Washington state to Alaska.

Although Ria and Jerry had no children of their own, she was the beloved “TiaRia” to several generations of nieces and nephews on both sides of their families.

Ria obtained an AA in general studies at Monterey Peninsula College. She then spent a year at San Francisco State University (preschool education and social studies), and finally two years at Pacific Oaks College, earning a BA in early childhood development.

After working various jobs, she went to work for the Veterans Administration in Portland, Oregon, as a ward secretary. From there she went to Temple, TX for training as a Personnel Specialist. When she completed her training, positions became available in Chicago, IL and St. Louis, MO. She opted for the latter, moving to St. Louis in 1987. It was there that she met her future husband, Jerry Turnbow in 1988. They were married on Cinco De Mayo in 1990.

It was a nearly perfect match. While Ria loved singing and playing music and dancing, Jerry was, by his own admission, “dance impaired”, which he cited as the reason he became a musician – to avoid embarrassing himself on the dance floor but still be able to participate in the fun.

Ria had played clarinet in junior and high school – her junior high band director was Herb Miller, the younger brother of Glenn Miller of the renowned Glenn Miller Orchestra. She also sang and played electric bass in a folk group with her friend, Jeanine while living in the Pacific northwest.

With next door neighbor Len Fiedler and Jerry’s longtime friend, Steve O’Connell, Ria and Jerry formed a folk/bluegrass/gospel quartet. Since there’s not much clarinet in bluegrass music, she learned to play the upright bass and was able to sing and play bass at the same time, which is not the easiest thing to do.

When asked for a name early on, they just said they were just a couple of friends and neighbors, and that became the official name of the band – “Friends and Neighbors”. They played for many events over the years, including Jerry and Ria’s wedding. Jerry’s country band, “Sidekix” played most of the night, but the all the members of Friends and Neighbors were in the wedding party, so they got up and played a set with Ria in her wedding dress.

Over the years, Jerrys bands provided Ria plenty of opportunities to dance, and she was a huge fan of all of them – first country line dancing with Sidekix, then around 1999 Ria and Jerry were introduced to the “Parrothead” phenomenon, when Jerry joined the trop-rock band, “Phins”.

Together they went to many “Phlockings” – gatherings of Parrotheads in places near and far, including Key West, FL, Put-In-Bay, OH, Orange Beach, AL, New Orleans, and so on. Ria could be seen dancing at these events while Jerry played, and she made many good “phriends” from all over the country. She and Jerry remained members of several Parrothead Clubs, years after Phins disbanded following a thirteen-year run.

The music also gave Ria an opportunity to dress up in her outfits – cowgirl boots, hats, and other western apparel during the country era, and colorful tropical attire and accessories for the trop-rock music. She was a joyful sight to behold, and in her true element when holding court on the dance floor.

In addition to dancing and music, Ria loved to laugh, which was a good thing being married to a wiseacre like Jerry. She even joined, and sometimes lead a “Laugh Yoga” class.

Ria loved to travel, having gone on several cruises and overseas adventures with her mother and siblings. Ria and Jerry went on frequent road trips near and far for gigs for Friends and Neighbors and Jerry’s other bands. There were multiple road trips to music festivals and concerts, often bringing family members along for the ride in their motorhome. She loved sharing these trips with others.

Ria was a very giving individual, helping others who were less fortunate. She sponsored several children through the World Vision Organization, donated frequently to social and environmental causes, and helped friends with rides, moral and sometimes financial support, and guidance whenever the need arose. She was a good friend to others.

When Ria was diagnosed with Parkinsons disease, her dancing was severely curtailed, but she was still a devoted fan of Jerry’s music, promoting concerts and introducing others to his groups, and she continued to attend the “phlockings” of the local Parrothead clubs, as well going to theatrical shows and concerts.

At the time of her passing, Ria and Jerry were planning a westward trip to California following part of the old “Mother Road”, Route 66. Jerry will be honoring those plans by driving her cremains out that way to a celebration of life in her beloved Pacific Grove with her siblings and west coast cousins, nieces, and nephews.

There will be a local celebration of life for Ria in April 2024. Details will be posted on the Facebook group “Remembering MaRia Turnbow” as they become available.

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Joseph Bernard Raftery - April 28, 1943 - January 06, 2024

Departed: 01/06/2024 (St. Louis)

Obituary Preview: Joseph Bernard Raftery passed away on Saturday, January 6, 2024 at Delmar Gardens West in Chesterfield, Missouri at the age of 80 years, 8 months, and 8 days

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Joseph was born on April 28, 1943 in St. Louis, Missouri to the late Joseph Peter Raftery and Mildred Raftery (nee Mayer). He was also preceded in death by a son-in-law, Paul Kimbrough and brother-in-law, John DiFatta.

Joseph is survived by his loving wife of 53 years, Rose Raftery (nee Politte); children: Jeanne (Chris Thornhill) Jeanne Raftery-Thornhill, Joseph J. (Heather) Raftery, and Kristin Raftery; grandchildren: Jai (Hailey) Thornhill, James Kimbrough, Tori Thornhill, Dru Thornhill, Lily Raftery, Melody Raftery, and Tyler Kies; great-granddaughter, Phoenix Thornhill; sister, Pat DiFatta, and beloved dog, Saige.

Joseph was also a beloved uncle, cousin, and friend to many.

Joseph was a proud veteran of the United States Army where he served in the Vietnam War. Spending time with his family, especially his grandchildren, was one of Joseph’s favorite things to do. He also enjoyed float trips, camping, working in his yard pulling weeds, and listening to music'

Joseph had a deep passion for sports. He was a very important member of the speed skating community and an avid golfer. He also loved watching the St. Louis Cardinals.

A roadside service where full military honors will be rendered will be held on Tuesday, January 30, 2024, at 1:00 p.m., at Jefferson Barracks National Cemetery in St. Louis, Missouri. Friends and family who are attending the service are asked to meet in the cemetery office by 12:45 p.m.

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Mildred Ann Dowdy - February 24, 1936 - January 05, 2024

Departed: 01/05/2024 (St. Louis)

Obituary Preview: Mildred Ann Dowdy (nee Koetting) passed away on Friday, January 5, 2024 at Deceased Residence in Ballwin, Missouri at the age of 87 years, 10 months, and 10 days.

Mildred was born on February 24, 1936 to the late Frank Koetting and Anna Koetting (nee Nepper).

Mildred is survived by her children: Chris Dowdy and Leslie Montez.

All services for Mildred will be private.

Services provided by Hughes Funeral Alternatives, LLC in St. Louis, Missouri.

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Dolores Ann Miller - January 12, 1929 - December 30, 2023

Departed: 12/30/2023 (St. Louis)

Obituary Preview: Dolores Ann Miller, 94, died peacefully on December 30, 2023, surrounded by the love of family. She is survived by her children Valerie Miller, Lucia Miller (David Hanlon) and Harry Miller, granddaughter Rose Hoffman, and many dear nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her beloved brother Al Herron.

Dori was born in 1929 to Fred and Ida Herron in Gary, Indiana. The first in her family to graduate college, she attended Indiana University where she met her former husband, the late James D. Miller. Together they moved to St. Louis and raised their children in University City, MO. Thus began Dori’s love affair with U. City, its people, politics and history. Dori served as the City Clerk of University City for almost 20 years, retiring in 1997.

Dori had a lifelong curiosity about many subjects including politics, religion, and science, evident in her choice of spiritual community, the First Unitarian Church of St. Louis and its Women’s Alliance. Throughout her life, she advocated for peace and justice, inspiring her children to do the same.

Dori’s commitment to education, the arts and service to others was apparent in her volunteer activities. These included the Meals on Wheels program, tutoring in the University City school district, and volunteering with COCA, Opera Theatre, and the Rep. At home, she spent many happy hours with her beloved books, puzzles, music, and deep conversation. She traveled the world, visiting diverse destinations in Europe, Asia, South America and Africa. Her tenacity and sense of wonder endured to the final hours of her life, reflected in her last words: “What comes next?”

A memorial service will be held on Saturday, March 9, 2024, at 2:00 pm at the First Unitarian Church of St. Louis, located at 5007 Waterman Ave. in St. Louis’ Central West End. All are welcome to attend.

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William Douglas Grotts - October 03, 1961 - December 28, 2023

Departed: 12/28/2023 (St. Louis)

Obituary Preview: William “Bill” Douglas Grotts, 62, of Kansas City, Missouri, passed away December 28, 2023, with his children by his side. Bill was born October 3, 1961, in Lake Forest, Illinois, to Dr. John Howard and Geraldine (Keenan) Grotts, joining three older siblings. After graduating from high school, Bill received his Bachelor of Arts in Radio, TV, and Film from the University of Missouri. He also earned his Master of Public Administration and his Juris Doctorate from the University of Missouri – Kansas City.

Bill’s favorite job was being a stay-at-home dad, but his career also included working in public radio, for the city government, as an attorney, as a bank compliance officer, and for several environmentally focused nonprofit organizations before retiring to focus on his writing. Bill was an insightful thinker, and his intellect, creativity, and musicality allowed him to write both witty and poignant poetry, short stories, songs, and even a children’s book or two. At the time of his passing, he was close to finishing the novel he had been working on for close to 20 years.

The most important things in Bill’s life were his children and grandchildren, whom he lovingly referred to as his “bunnies.” Music was a huge part of Bill’s life, and he was incredibly talented at playing the guitar, mandolin, and banjo. He also loved reading, bird watching, tree planting, researching family history, taking road trips, and making everyone around him laugh and feel loved.

Bill is survived by his son, John Grotts, daughter and son-in-law, Amy & Otto Steffen, grandchildren Ava & Henry Steffen, siblings Patty (Dan) Kelly, Jim Grotts, and Bob Grotts, and nieces Laura (Matt) Johnston and Rose Kelly. Bill also leaves behind an extensive network of dear friends and admirers, whom his children would like to thank for their love and support in the last few weeks.

When describing the end of life, Bill would say that a person’s life hadn’t “been lost,” but that their story had been completed. While we wish that his story could have had more chapters, we try to find peace in his philosophy and in our memories that will live on forever.

Please join us for a Memorial Open House in honor of Bill Grotts. We’re gathering at one of Bill’s favorite lunch spots, where he’d often sit in the window, writing a poem or a chapter of his novel. We hope to share favorite stories amongst friends and family.

The Memorial Open House will be held on Saturday, January 27, 2024 from 4:30 pm - 6:30 pm at Huey's on the Square, 18 North Main Street, Liberty, Missouri 64068.

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Family and friends can sign a online guestbook at www.HughesFuneralAlternatives.com.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It's usually published in a newspaper, online obituary platform, or funeral home website to inform friends, family, and community members of the person's passing.

What is the purpose of an obituary?

The primary purpose of an obituary is to notify others of a person's death and provide information about their life, achievements, and surviving family members. It also serves as a way to honor and celebrate the person's life, share memories, and offer condolences to those who are grieving.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, the family members or close friends of the deceased write the obituary. However, it can also be written by a funeral home or a professional obituary writer. In some cases, the deceased may have written their own obituary in advance.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's full name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also include information about memorial services, donations in lieu of flowers, and other relevant details.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or platform. Typically, it ranges from a few sentences to several paragraphs. Online obituaries often allow for longer tributes and more photos.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a great way to personalize the tribute and help others remember the person.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Contact the newspaper's obituary department directly to inquire about their submission process and deadlines. You may need to provide the written obituary, payment information, and any required documentation.

Can I publish an obituary online?

Yes, there are many online platforms and funeral home websites that allow you to publish an obituary. These often offer more flexibility in terms of content, photos, and duration of publication.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost varies depending on the publication or platform. Newspaper obituaries can range from $50 to $500 or more, while online platforms may offer free or low-cost options.

Can I edit or update an obituary after it's been published?

This depends on the publication or platform. Some may allow edits or corrections within a certain timeframe, while others may not make changes once it's been published.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The publication timeframe varies depending on the newspaper or platform. Some may publish same-day or next-day, while others may take several days or weeks.

What is a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's death, usually including only basic information such as name, age, and date of death. It's often used when a full obituary is not desired or feasible.

What is the difference between a death notice and an obituary?

A death notice is a concise announcement of a person's death, while an obituary provides more detailed information about their life and legacy.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, many people choose to write their own obituaries in advance as a way to control how they're remembered and to spare their loved ones from having to do so during a difficult time.

How do I find an old obituary?

You can try searching online archives of newspapers or genealogy websites. Local libraries or historical societies may also have archives of old newspapers that can be searched in person.

Can I republish an old obituary?

This depends on copyright laws and permissions from the original publisher. You may need to obtain permission or pay fees to republish an old obituary.

What is an online memorial?

An online memorial is a virtual space where people can share memories, photos, and condolences for a loved one who has passed away. These can be created on social media platforms or dedicated memorial websites.

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Can I include links to online memorials in an obituary?

Yes, many publications allow you to include links to online memorials or donation pages in the obituary text.

What is the etiquette for writing condolences in an online guestbook?

Be sincere and respectful in your condolences. Keep your message brief and avoid sharing personal stories or criticisms. Simply express your sympathy and let the family know you're thinking of them.

Can I include charitable donations information in an obituary?

Yes, many families choose to include information about charitable donations in lieu of flowers in the obituary text.

How do I request donations in lieu of flowers?

Simply state your preference in the obituary text, including the name of the charity and any relevant details about how donations can be made.

What if I want to keep the funeral private?

You can specify that the funeral service is private or invitation-only in the obituary text. This will help manage expectations and respect your wishes for privacy.

Can I publish an obituary for someone who died many years ago?

Yes, you can still publish an obituary for someone who passed away many years ago as a way to honor their memory and share their story with others.

Is it okay to share humorous anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! Humor can be a wonderful way to celebrate someone's life and personality. Just be sure to keep the tone respectful and appropriate for all audiences.