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Hoyt Funeral Home, located at 199 Main Street, New Canaan, CT, 06840, has been a trusted and compassionate provider of funeral services to the community for many years. As a family-owned and operated funeral home, they understand the importance of personalized care and attention to detail during a difficult time. In this article, we will delve into the history, services, and amenities offered by Hoyt Funeral Home, as well as what sets them apart from other funeral homes in the area.

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Marjorie D. Murphy - January 24, 1928 - May 03, 2024

Departed: 05/03/2024 (New Canaan)

Obituary Preview: The extended Murphy family celebrates the life of the iconic Midge Murphy who left us on May 3, 2024. Midge was sharp as a tack to the end, and as recently as two weeks ago hosted a guest author talk at her home: the wonderful New Canaan Inn. Her cause of death was living life to its fullest!

Born Marjorie Donnelly in Buffalo, NY, “Midge” as she was universally known was the eldest of three and was predeceased by her brothers Neal and Jim Donnelly. Midge was ambitious, and a true academic, attending Buffalo’s D’Youville College and graduating in the class of 1948. While working her way through college at a Buffalo department store, she met her close friend Pat’s brother Fred “Fritz” Murphy, and in 1950 the Midge and Fritz team was formed. The young couple started out in South Buffalo, before moving to suburban Orchard Park, NY in 1967. As anyone who met Midge knew, she had ten children, with the extended clan now totaling 77: the newest addition born April 27, 2024!

Midge was always a high energy person, which was put to work raising her family. She was an avid cook and baker, active volunteer, and always had a curious intellect. She read more books in her life than many libraries have on their shelves. Midge was progressive with an eye towards the future. Prior to marriage Midge spent two years teaching and returned to the classroom as one of the first Head Start teachers in the 1960s, and taught “Great Books” for years while she still had children at home. Once everyone was launched, Midge went back to school to get her paralegal degree.

Her favorite place in the world was at “The Cottage,” the little house she and Fritz bought in 1961 on the shores of Lake Erie, just over the border from Buffalo in Crystal Beach, Ontario. Last summer she was able to spend her 62nd summer at her little slip of paradise on Lake Erie.

After losing Fritz in 1999, Midge eventually relocated to New Canaan in 2007 where her daughters Sally and Amy and their families lived. Midge dove into New Canaan, becoming an early member (and driver) of “Staying Put.” She was also an avid exerciser with a fondness for water aerobics. Year after year she was a May Fair White Elephant volunteer, and grandmother and great grandmother extraordinaire. Cookie care packages, her famous macaroni and cheese, and mashed potatoes were made in quantity for the extend Murphy family. Among her favorite possessions was the collection of mugs from all the colleges and universities her children and grandchildren attended. For “Mother Midge” everyone knew the question was never if you would go to college, but when do you start? Midge was forever enthusiastic, up to try and do anything. She loved to travel, worshipped the sun and was a cheerleader for absolutely everyone. Her memory was legendary and she quickly got to know more information about anyone she met than often their closest relatives knew - and she never forgot! Midge is survived by all of her ten children, Marjorie (Terry Culliton) of Buffalo, NY, Laurie (Robert Silber) of Warren, VT, Marta of Waitsfield, VT, Sally Campbell (Kim Campbell) of Warren, VT, Trish (Bob Blair) of Concord, NH, Bob of Elma, NY, Dino of Manhattan, Amy (John Carroll ) of New Canaan, CT, Neal (Alicia Murphy) of Washington, DC, and Brendan (Gabriella Steinmetz) of Chapel Hill, NC. In addition, “Mother Midge The Great” (MMTG) as she is known by the next generation, is survived by 24 grandchildren, and 22 great grandchildren!

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Domenic A. Sammarco - Unknown - May 02, 2024

Departed: 05/02/2024 (New Canaan)

Obituary Preview: Domenic Sammarco, 72, of New Canaan, CT passed away on May 2, 2024.

Domenic was born on July 26, 1951 in Williamsport, Pennsylvania to Menotti and Giannina (Speziale) Sammarco. His family moved to Stamford, CT in 1961 where he attended St Maurice Elementary School. He graduated from high school at Fairfield Prep, always proud of his Jesuit education. After high school, he attended St Vincent College in Latrobe PA, and then transferred to Southampton College in Long Island where he received a degree in marine biology. An animal lover and fluent in Italian, Domenic attended veterinary school in Bologna Italy, but returned to school in the United States to follow a new career path. He graduated from the Arnold and Marie Schwartz College of Pharmacy in Brooklyn, NY in 1979 after which he began his dedicated practice in pharmacy. After completing a residency at Greenwich Hospital, he opened Palmer Pharmacy in Greenwich with business partner Lou Visconti. He expanded his pharmacy practice to Professional Pharmacy in South Norwalk, which after many years moved to the Tully Center in Stamford. Always a champion for the practice of pharmacy, he served as a State of CT Pharmacy Commissioner from 1994 - 1999. He received the Honorary Alumni Award from the University of CT in 1997. Domenic developed a unique niche practice in the Fairfield County area as a compounding pharmacist, serving not only human patients, but a large number of veterinary patients as well. He took pride in his compounding service to bring health and healing to all animals. Domenic shared his knowledge of pharmacy practice by teaching the Pharmacy Technician Training Course at Norwalk Community College for many years, where he instructed and helped students start their pharmacy technician career.

A true patriot, Domenic joined the United States Army Reserves in 1980. He served at various military bases in the United States, Germany, Honduras, Guatemala, and El Salvador. Most of his 23 year military career was spent with the 340th General Hospital and 405th Combat Support Hospital. He retired as Lieutenant Colonel after 23 years of service and received the Meritorious Service Medal in July 2004.

Throughout his life, Domenic found and embraced opportunities to help people. In his younger years, he was a volunteer fireman for the Glenbrook Volunteer Fire Department. He was founder and organizer of both the Louise Crisafi Spring Stride, a road race that raised money for cancer research, and the Vietnam Veteran Scholarship Road Race, that successfully raised money for children of Vietnam Veterans for 9 years. He organized fund raising and clothes collections for an orphanage in El Salvador, and frequently donated time and medical supplies to the Americares Foundation, and other domestic and international causes.

Domenic was the ultimate family man and his family was his top priority and love. Domenic met Elizabeth (Betsy) Bell Sammarco through a dear friend at Greenwich Hospital and they married on October 8, 1988. They raised their two boys, John and Matthew, in New Canaan. They enjoyed summer getaways at Roton Point in Rowayton and Green Hill Beach in Rhode Island. Although an only child, Domenic had close and sibling-like relationships with his cousins, nieces, and nephews.

Domenic will be remembered for his sense of humor, his generosity, and his ability to connect with people in all walks of life. He lived life with a creative passion and an incredible work ethic. He had many interests and was a true “do-it-yourselfer”. He could build and fix anything from bird houses to cars and enjoyed spending his spare time in his work area basement.

Domenic was predeceased by his father, Menotti. He is survived by his mother, Giannina, wife Betsy, and sons John and Matthew. He also leaves brother in-law Jeff Bell and his wife Joan, and brother in-law David Bell and his wife Lety. Many loving aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces and nephews, and great nieces and nephews will miss him dearly.

Visitation will be held on Tuesday May 7 from 4pm - 8pm at Hoyt Funeral Home, 199 Main Street New Canaan, CT.

The funeral will be held Wednesday May 8 at 10am at St Aloysius Church, 21 Cherry Street in New Canaan. Entombment will follow at St Mary Cemetery, 35 Parsonage Road in Greenwich, CT

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Marian Morton Brown - March 23, 1929 - April 29, 2024

Departed: 04/29/2024 (New Canaan)

Obituary Preview: Marian Ruth Morton Brown, known to family and friends as Maru, passed away peacefully at her home in New Canaan on Monday, April 29, 2024. She was ninety-seven years old and had lived in New Canaan for sixty-four years.

Born on March 23, 1927, in Greensboro, North Carolina, Maru was the daughter of the late Joseph Reece Morton, a chemical company owner and entrepreneur, and Ruth Balsam Morton, of New York City. An only child, she grew up in a wonderful country home surrounded by flower gardens and woods, which she explored with her dogs.

After attending the Warrington School in Virginia for junior high, she matriculated to Connecticut’s Ethel Walker School, Class of 1944. She entered Vassar College toward the end of World War II and graduated in three years in 1947. She studied at the University of Geneva (Switzerland) during her last academic year. A Vassar friend suggested she look up a tall, handsome young man from Boston with wispy blonde hair. George Edwin “Ted” Brown Jr. was enrolled in the School of Advanced International Studies after graduating from Harvard College, Class of 1945. They were married on January 6, 1949, in Greensboro, whereupon they returned to Geneva for another year.

After arriving back in the United States, they settled in Chevy Chase, Maryland, where they lived for a decade before moving to New Canaan in 1960 with three young girls in tow (and a poodle). Their fourth child, a son, was born at the Norwalk Hospital. They settled on four acres of land on Country Club Road for the next forty-five years.

Maru sought to balance her children’s lives between sports, the arts, education, and travel. She often referred to herself as a chauffeur! She was also a consummate volunteer and assisted with or was on the boards or committees of numerous local organizations, including the New Canaan Garden Club, the New Canaan Country School, the New Canaan Nature Center, the Junior League of Fairfield County, the First Presbyterian Church of New Canaan, the Country Club of New Canaan, Waveny Care Center, Staying Put and more. Summers were spent on Chappaquiddick Island off Martha’s Vineyard and, in later years, after the kids were grown, in Dorset, Vermont.

Maru was energetic, smart, social, and a gifted organizer. She was a multi-tasker before there ever was such a term! She excelled at tennis and golf, but was not as thrilled about riding or skiing; however, she didn’t shy away from planning family vacations to dude ranches in the west or the ski slopes of Vermont and Colorado. She loved to entertain. Friends remembered her epically fun and festive Christmas parties.

Later in life, Maru and Ted traveled abroad extensively with friends, including to Europe, Africa, China, South America, and beyond, always returning with rolls of photos to remember their adventures. Still, Maru’s competitive spirit came out in her love for bridge, which she played weekly with friends in their bridge club into her 80s. Within the family, the challenge was always to see if any of us could beat her at backgammon … an extremely rare occurrence.

She left us slowly over the last few years as dementia stole her mind. Her wish was to stay in her home, and we honored that request. She is now at peace. Maru leaves behind her children and their partners: Scottie (Greg Jones), Hunter (Tom Bailey), Loocie (Beth Sommers), George (Laura Korbin); grandchildren: Caitlin (Curtis) and Emery Jones, Chris and Woody (Sarah) Bailey, Hopie Brown, and great-grandchildren: Henry Jones and Benjamin Bailey. She was preceded in death by her husband, Ted.

We, her children, would be remiss if we didn’t honor the love, support, and guidance we all received from Helen (Taylor) Darrell, who helped raise us for almost twenty years. Along with her husband, Ellsworth, they were family. We would also like to express our extreme gratitude to Yaa Awansi (affectionately known as Regina) for the loving care she provided for our mother these past five and a half years.

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Kathleen Mary Grogan - May 02, 1939 - April 26, 2024

Departed: 04/26/2024 (New Canaan)

Obituary Preview: Kathleen M. Grogan (Kay), a longtime resident of New Canaan, CT, passed away peacefully surrounded by her family on April 26, 2024. Born in New York City on May 2, 1939, she was the daughter of the late Patrick and Anna Sweeney. Kay was raised in the Bronx and was part of a loving, extended Irish family. She was proud of her Irish heritage and loved nothing more than gathering with her loved ones. She passed one week shy of her 85th birthday.

Kay met the love of her life, John Grogan, in 1955 (in a Bronx park where he was playing basketball and she was strolling her younger brother, Kevin) They Married 4 years later and enjoyed 53 wonderful years of marriage, raising four children together. Family, faith, and friends were the foundation of Kay’s life and being a mother was her most important, beloved job. She was actively involved in her children’s lives, volunteering in the New Canaan schools, as a CCD teacher, and at the Emmaus Retreat at St. Aloysius Church. Kay and John enjoyed traveling with family and friends and being an active part of the New Canaan Field Club and Staying Put.

She was predeceased by her husband in 2012, her sister Margaret, and her brother Patrick. She is survived by her children Kathy (Stuart) of Cincinnati, OH, John (Kim) of Weston, CT, Brian (Beth) of Lakewood Ranch, FL and Elizabeth (Phil) of Medfield, MA and her brother Kevin (Cathy) of New Canaan and her 12 grandchildren (to whom she was lovingly known as Gammie).

Kay’s family would like to acknowledge and thank the amazing staff at Brightview Senior Living, especially Kay’s aide Johanna Estrella who cared for their mom with remarkable love and compassion. She truly was a gift from God. The family would also like to acknowledge and thank Cheryl Rilling for being a wonderful companion to Kay throughout the past few years.

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William Everett Ranson - November 06, 1946 - April 22, 2024

Departed: 04/22/2024 (New Canaan)

Obituary Preview: William "Bill "Ranson died peacefully at his home in Cheshire, CT, surrounded by his family on Monday, April 22nd, after a brave and valiant battle against lung cancer. Bill faced his illness with the same grace and dignity he displayed in all aspects of his life. Bill was a true American hero who left behind a legacy of selfless dedication to the service of others.

Bill proudly served his country in the US Army for 21 years, including two tours of duty in Vietnam where he was awarded the Bronze Star (among many other awards) for heroism in a combat zone.

When Bill retired from the military he chose to continue serving the public by joining the New Canaan Police Dept. He served the citizens of New Canaan for 20 years before retiring for good in 2009.

In addition to his work, Bill also found the time to enjoy his passions. He was a lifelong fan of the Green Bay Packers and the Houston Astros. Bill was an avid bowler who never missed league night, and he enjoyed the camaraderie of his teammates as much as the game itself. Win or lose, Bill never had a bad night of bowling.

Bill wore many hats throughout his life: that of a soldier, a police officer, and a dedicated football and baseball fan. But the hat he wore most proudly, was that of a devoted family man who ALWAYS put the needs of those he loved above his own.

Among those who are left to mourn his passing are his wife of 42 years, Mary Ellen Ranson, and his children James, Kaitlin, and Courtney Ranson. His siblings Larry Pugh, Matt Ranson, Margie Lang, Linda Webb, Tom Ranson, Karen Johnson, Mike Ranson, Byron Diehl, as well as several nieces and nephews who adored him.

Bill was greeted in Heaven by his brother Kenny Ladd and his parents Matthew and Florence (Mickey) Ranson, with whom Bill always gave full credit for making him the man he became.

We thank you, Matt and Mickey, for taking the time and effort to turn your young boy into the incredible man he became. Please hold him safe and well until we meet again.

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Adam Lee Fewster - October 06, 1977 - April 19, 2024

Departed: 04/19/2024 (New Canaan)

Obituary Preview: Adam Lee Fewster, 46, passed away peacefully on April 19, 2024, surrounded by his loving family after a courageous battle with glioblastoma.

Adam was born in Rock Hill, South Carolina on October 6, 1977, which is where he spent his childhood and teenage years before moving to Athens to attend to the University of Georgia in 1997. From an early age, Adam was known as a funny, kind and outgoing person with a smile that could melt hearts. He was easy to love. An exceptional and versatile athlete he was, and always a sharp dresser, especially proud to wear the Vineyard Vines brand so dear to him. One could say he had swag, yet he was notorious for being sockless his entire life. He was handsome but even more beautiful on the inside. Many classmates considered him the “Alpha” of the group.

During high school at Northwestern, Adam continued his love of sports where he was the quarterback for Northwestern’s football team and the point guard for their basketball team. In Athens, Adam was a member of Sigma Nu fraternity and loved attending college football games in the fall and going on spring breaks to Lake Tahoe. After college, Adam met Molly Hunter in Charlotte, North Carolina and they later married in Pinehurst on July 26, 2008. In 2011, they welcomed their only daughter, Hunter Elizabeth Fewster, and moved to New Canaan, Connecticut in 2013 where Adam worked with Vineyard Vines. Adam embodied the vv motto that “everyday should feel this good.” His personality, passion and work ethic were exemplary. His teammates and customers (Barstool Sports, The Kentucky Derby, America’s Cup, the Red Sox Management and everyone in between) loved and respected Adam so much.

Adam had a warm, inviting demeanor, he loved to be around people; he was always comfortable and happiest when surrounded by family and friends. A friendly Southern transplant in New England, he was well known around New Canaan and loved walking around town and meeting new people with his dog, Charlie, and most recently, his big black lab, Teddy. He had a huge heart and loved dogs, especially Baylor, his beloved Weimaraner whose tag he still kept with him on his key chain.

Hunter, his daughter, was the absolute light of his life and Adam spent many weekends on the sports fields supporting Hunter and her athletic endeavors, including coaching her teams to several flag football championships. Adam was a huge fan of New Canaan sports and loved taking his family to football games and sporting events in the community, and especially loved to play basketball with his nephew, Jackson. Adam had a love of travel and treasured his family vacations to Sea Island, Pawley’s Island SC, and trips to Italy. He loved fiercely, whether it was his faith, beautiful family, close knit friends, GA “Dawgs”, sporty vintage cars, coaching, golfing or fishing. He was “All In” when it came to matters of the heart.

A devoted and loving husband, he and Molly were married for 16 years and they attended Saint Mark’s Episcopal Church, which was an important part of their life. It was his faith that allowed him to live life fearlessly and full of hope. Adam’s optimism and beautiful perspective throughout his life were cherished by everyone that was lucky enough to call him a friend. We celebrate his life here on earth and take comfort in knowing that we will be reunited in heaven.

Adam was preceded in death by his father, James Francis Fewster III. He is survived by his wife, Molly Hunter Fewster and his daughter, Hunter Elizabeth Fewster of New Canaan CT; his mother, Geraldine (Gerri) Levy Fewster of Charlotte NC; his brother James (Butch) Creighton Fewster and Allison Fewster sister-in-law of York SC; nephew Jackson Cole Fewster and niece Charley Ann Fewster of York SC; his uncle, Martin B. Smith of Cary NC and countless friends. Memorial services will be held at Saint Mark’s Episcopal Church in New Canaan, CT at 3:30pm on May 1, 2024.

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Ruth O. Meyer - February 26, 1930 - April 12, 2024

Departed: 04/12/2024 (New Canaan)

Obituary Preview: Ruth Meyer died peacefully at home on April 12, 2024. She spent her final day with family and had a video call with her four granddaughters exchanging memories and love. She was 94 years old and lived in New Canaan, CT.

Born in New York City on February 26, 1930, to Ann Stott and Thomas Oddy, Ruth grew up in Great Neck, NY. In 1951, she graduated from Sweet Briar College with a major in Psychology and went to work for the American Broadcasting Company. In 1957, she married Carl E. Meyer Jr. and moved to Port Washington, NY to raise their family. She traveled frequently with her husband who became President and Chief Executive Officer of Trans World Airlines. In 1979, TWA served as US Carrier for Pope John Paul II’s pilgrimage to America and Ruth and Ed Meyer were invited to the Vatican to meet the Pope and accompany him to the US.

Ruth devoted much of her time to helping others. For 50 years she volunteered at hospitals, first at St. Francis Hospital & Heart Center in Roslyn, NY and then Greenwich Hospital. In 2017, Ruth received The President’s Lifetime Achievement Award for her lifelong commitment to building a stronger nation through volunteer service. In addition, she loved animals and had numerous dogs, cats, and parrots. She enjoyed reading, painting, collecting English antiques, embraced new technology and travel.

Ruth spent every summer from 1930 until 2010 in Southold, NY where she went horseback riding, sailing, swimming, and boating. In Southold, the family covered three generations and homes on Paradise Point Road. Ruth cherished her time there and of all the places she lived, she loved Southold the most.

Ruth was preceded in death by her husband of 60 years, Carl E. Meyer Jr., her parents, Ann Stott and Thomas Oddy, and her sister Ann Oddy Smith. She is survived by her two sons and their wives, Jeffrey S. Meyer and Lois B. Meyer of Darien, CT and William D. Meyer and Amy G. Meyer of White Heath, IL, her four granddaughters, Caroline K. Meyer of New York City, Allison S. Meyer of Novato, CA, Mallory M. Meyer of Santa Monica, CA, Kendall A.L. Meyer of New York City, and her two great grandsons, Hudson, and Noah.

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Kenneth Richard Lange - January 21, 1935 - April 09, 2024

Departed: 04/09/2024 (New Canaan)

Obituary Preview: At 2:40 pm on the afternoon of April 9, 2024, Kenneth Richard Lange AIA passed away at his home in Stamford surrounded by his loving family. He was born the second son of Robert Lange and Anna Blohm Lange of Yonkers, NY on January 21, 1935.

Ken graduated from Roosevelt High School where he was captain of the cross country team and was regarded as one of the more talented artists in his class. He went on to Penn State University with an ROTC scholarship where he had to change his major from commercial art to architecture in order to avoid being drafted and sent to fight in Korea. He was a member of the Sigma Pi fraternity.

Upon graduation, Ken started his active duty career as a Naval Officer. He excelled at all assignments that he was tasked with. While serving as Communications Officer on the USS Tortuga, he was one of the youngest department heads in the fleet. Ken was recognized as an expert ship handler and was often tasked with bringing the ship in and out of port, a job normally reserved for more senior officers. While assigned to the USS Tortuga, Ken deployed to Japan and the Far East numerous times which later influenced his thoughts on architecture and design.

After the Navy, he worked as an architect on the 1964 World’s Fair Vatican exhibit where he helped to design the display of Michelangelo’s Pieta. When the Fair closed he went to live and work in Aalborg, Denmark. His time there was spent in an award winning office where he worked on celebrated projects. Upon his return home, he worked for Skidmore, Owings, and Merrill in New York City. Ken found that he preferred a smaller more intimate office so he joined the architectural firm of Elder and Angell as a partner in Bedford Village, NY. The firm of Elder, Angell, & Lange focused on residential architecture. They designed beautiful homes for Fortune 500 executives and philanthropists like Leon Levy and Shelby White, Jerome Kohlberg, and artists like Robert Motherwell. Mr. Lange is survived by his wife, Elizabeth Clay Lange, daughters Holly Lange and Robin Clay Lange Fazio, his stepchildren, Silsbee Biddle Philo and Law Biddle, and his grandchildren, Jillian Philo and Will Philo. He was sadly predeceased by his beloved daughter, Amy Katherine Lange

A memorial service to celebrate the life of Kenneth Lange will be held on April 27 from 11am to 1pm at the Hoyt Funeral Home. 199 Main Street, New Canaan, Connecticut. All are welcome.

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Edwin M Millette - March 30, 1943 - March 31, 2024

Departed: 03/31/2024 (New Canaan)

Obituary Preview: Edwin Michael Millette age 81 passed away peacefully Easter Morning, Sunday, March 31, 2024. He was the loving husband of Deborah Bernard. He was born on March 30, 1943 in Chicago, Illinois. Always devoted to his Catholic Faith journey, he raised the funds and built his first church, St. Fabians, at the age of 17 in Bridgeview Illinois. He had a great appreciation for the Socratic education that he received from the various monks in the Greater Chicago area. As a young adult, Ed accepted a request from the Vatican to study the Focolare Movement and the effects of communal living. He continued to be of service throughout his life and cherished mentoring everyone he encountered to help them discover their own faith journey. He was a member of St. Aloysius’ Men’s Bible Study; a Young Life Leader; Religious Education teacher for St. Aloysius and St. Thomas of Villa Nova (Goshen); VIRTUS Trainer for the Diocese of Bridgeport; former member of the New Canaan Society; a member of the Emmaus Community in Westport, New Canaan and Goshen, CT, and Fourth Degree Knight of Columbus.

Empowered by determination to support his young and growing family, he worked his way up from the mailroom to the executive suite before cofounding the Clarendon Reinsurance Group of NY,NY. He retired as vice Chairman of TIG Reinsurance Company and later served as an expert witness in reinsurance. He made his mark in the industry through mentoring many young insurance executives whom have since made numerous impacts still felt in the industry today.

As an active member of the Campfire Club of America, he enjoyed being with fellow outdoorsmen where they could enjoy their love of hunting, fishing and campfire crafts. He loved sharing all of these activities with family and friends. In that community, he would be asked to minister consoling words to those that were suffering loss. He was an avid hunter and traveled all over the world for his trophies. Ed cherished the numerous road trips with family and friends riding his Harley through New England, Canada, and Florida. He also loved Open Ocean Racing especially when asked to be a foul weather helmsman. One of his most memorable trips was a sanctioned race to Cuba in stormy weather. He had a great love for family and friends and is survived by his first wife, Dolores Nudo Millette: Children: Edwin Millette, Jr, John Millette (Susan), Nancy Bewlay (Josh), Sharon Millette (Deb), James Millette (Amanda), Alex Bernard (Yahira), Brian Bernard (Louisa), Caitlin Bradley, Grandchildren: Nicholas Zane Millette, Zachary Millette, (Mika), Chase Millette, B Millette (Cassie), Samuel Millette, David Millette, Sidney Bewlay, J. Pierce Bewlay, Donsun Nadeau (Joha), Julia Kies (Adam), BelleAmi Nadeau, Ariel Ramos (A.J.), Allison Nadeau (Ben), Miles Frazier, Juliet Millette. Great Grandchildren: Gannon Kies, Keira Kies, Fergus Kies

Nieces and Nephews: Michael Millette, Beatrice Mologousis (Bill), Robert Millette (Angie), Michelle Tiberio (Guy), Roselle Saxon (Rick), Jonalee Folerzynski (Ed) and many grandnieces and grandnephews.

Besides his parents, John Joseph Millette and Nancy Harper Millette, he is predeceased by his brother John (Jack) Millette.

Ed was loved by everyone. They enjoyed his humor, colorful stories and his trademark handlebar mustache. His booming voice could always be heard above the crowd, whether in church or at the piano singing Christmas carols. Most importantly he was loved for his giving & loving spirit.

Hemingway once said, ‘In order to write life first you must live it.’ If anyone truly lived a life worth writing about, it was Edwin Millette. We will all miss him dearly.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Friday, April 5, 2024 at 11 AM at St. Aloysius Church, 21 Cherry Street, New Canaan, CT 06840. Calling Hours to be held at Hoyt Funeral Home on Thursday, April 4, 2024, from 4 PM to 8 PM at 199 Main Street, New Canaan, CT 06840

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Mary B Ward - October 20, 1936 - March 31, 2024

Departed: 03/31/2024 (New Canaan)

Obituary Preview: MARY THERESA BOHMER WARD died at her home on Jonathan Road in New Canaan, Connecticut on Easter Sunday (March 31) after a long illness. Beloved wife of Dan, mother Kathy, and grandmother of Rebecca and Andrew, Mary was born in New York City in October of 1936. Her parents later moved to Caldwell, New Jersey where she attended the public schools.

Mary received a degree in education from the University of Vermont where she was a member of the Mortar Board Honor Society. After a year of teaching, she became a student at the Harvard Graduate School of Education from which she received a Master’s Degree.

After living in Falmouth, Maine, she moved with her family to Caldwell, New Jersey and later to New Canaan in 1975.

A travel agent for many years, she specialized in travel for rowing teams, with the United States National Teams and Harvard among her clients. Mary was an active parishioner of St. Aloysius where her activities included leadership of Mother Theresa’s Closet which provides clothing to people in need. The wake will be held on Sunday, April 7 from 1-3pm at the Hoyt Funeral Home in New Canaan. The funeral mass will be held at 10am on Monday, April 8, at Saint Aloyisius Church in New Canaan. The mass will be livestreamed at the following link: https://boxcast.tv/view/funeral-mass-for-mary-ward-li7nwduym3qncgymqihd

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Albert Graeff Miller - July 23, 1941 - March 24, 2024

Departed: 03/24/2024 (New Canaan)

Obituary Preview: Albert Graeff Miller lived a life of love, adventure, and quiet conviction. He died in New Canaan, Conn., on March 24 from complications of Parkinson’s disease, which he battled for many years.

Al was born in Flushing, N.Y., in 1941 to Helen Lynch and Graeff Miller. He attended a one-room school in Lionville, Pa., and grew up in nearby West Chester, west of Philadelphia. He graduated from West Chester High School before receiving scholarships to attend Dickinson College in Carlisle, Pa. He majored in political science and Spanish, ran cross country, served as president of the student senate, and met the love of his life, Pamela (Walker) Searles Miller.

After earning a master’s degree in international relations from Johns Hopkins School of Advanced International Studies, Al went to work for Citibank’s Latin American division. He and Pam lived abroad in Ecuador, Peru, Brazil, and Mexico for 17 years before coming back to the United States to live in Texas, California, and Connecticut.

In retirement, Al devoted time to his family, enjoying nature and traveling. He was very active at his alma mater Dickinson College and served on the alumni council for many years. He treasured the lifelong friendships he made in high school, at Dickinson, and while living abroad. He volunteered at Wilton library and read so many different books that he started a spreadsheet to track the titles and authors.

He was preceded in death by his parents and his sister Jane (Miller) Bank.

Al is survived by his wife; his son, Albert Graeff Miller III, daughter-in-law Jessica Genova, and granddaughter, Claire Margaret Miller ; his daughter, Tania (Searles) Miller Conte, son-in-law Andrew Conte, and grandchildren Noah Alexander Conte and Claudia Jay Conte; and his sister-in-law Donna B. Searles.

The family would like to thank Al’s loving caregivers, Bertha Flores, Naana Nyamekye and Benjamin Quashie as well as the caring staff at Waveny CareCenter.

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William Patrick Powell - February 24, 1956 - March 21, 2024

Departed: 03/21/2024 (New Canaan)

Obituary Preview: February 24, 1956 – March 21, 2024

William “Bill” Patrick Powell died peacefully surrounded by his family on March 21, 2024.

While Bill rose to real prominence in the field of finance, his youth was misspent in all the best ways. Born in Boston, MA, Bill’s family settled in Ridgefield, CT, as he entered 7th grade. There, Bill made lifelong friends with several miscreants who together generated enough stories about working odd jobs and painting houses to entertain each other and their wives for the next 50 years. It was also in these years that Bill developed a love for skiing at which he truly excelled and eventually shared the sport with his family. His aggressive skiing left him with many memories and just about as many injuries.

After Bill’s teen career painting every house on Main Street in Ridgefield, Bill developed broader dreams, eventually landing at Duke University where he enrolled in a BA/MBA dual-degree program at Fuqua School of Business. It was in Bill’s last year of business school that he met his wife, Linda, an undergraduate. Theirs was a whirlwind romance. After the first date, Bill reported he knew Linda was “the one.” Bill and Linda married at Duke Chapel nine months later and drove a U-Haul to NYC to begin careers in finance and retail, respectively.

As the children began to arrive, the first four in five years, Bill and Linda moved to Pelham Manor, NY, where they raised their family until a fifth child suggested they might need more space. In 1998, they moved to New Canaan, CT, with children Skip, Claudia, Henry and Jack, where they still reside.

Professionally, after a brief stint at Chase Bank, Bill quickly built a reputation as an investment banker with Dillon, Read & Co. Bill’s keen intelligence, work ethic, integrity and capacity to understand complex financial situations led to his fast rise to Managing Director and leading roles in both Mergers & Acquisitions and Corporate Finance, which he continued at UBS. During the heyday of M&A deals on Wall Street, many relied particularly on Bill’s ability to deal with difficult situations and people.

Bill also occupied the position of Managing Director at William Street Advisors before leaving to establish a family office; 535 Partners. Though Bill was the architect of many famous mergers as a banker, his greatest professional joy was realized as Chairman of the Board of CONSOL Energy. Bill was challenged intellectually and fulfilled personally by the relationships he formed throughout his seven-year tenure. He had previously held board positions with CNX and Cytec Industries. Bill also found great satisfaction serving from 2000 to 2008 on the board of IESC, a non-profit organization catalyzing private sector growth and economic opportunities in the developing world.

No matter the occasion – be it Christmas or just a Saturday – Bill loved to create special moments for those around him. Always quietly, a fire was laid, the corn hole set up, the ping pong table unfolded, and everyone’s remembered favorite drink served. Afterward, magically, everything was clean and back in its place.

Bill had an effortless charm and could hold court anywhere he went, though it should be noted that his 6’4” stature, piercing blue eyes and dimpled smile were helpful in this matter. Dogs sat by him, children approached intently, and generations of Wall Street aspirants tapped into his wealth of knowledge as he loved mentoring ambitious young people. And he was known to tell a good story, adding some top spin when called for. If he leaned into a conversation around a fire or kitchen table and said his signature beginning, “By the way…,” everyone got ready for hilarity or astonishment to ensue.

Bill was meticulous in all things; his checkbook balanced to the penny, his cars clean as a whistle and his yard regularly cleared of any errant leaves. Happiest solving problems and getting things done, if you dropped by the Powell house at any given time, you were likely to find Bill in his work clothes with a bucket, a shovel, some tools and a plan.

And while Bill did love a plan, his interests were broad and nuanced and often the plan might be to whisk Linda away to Florence or Madrid or Pasadena; anywhere he had just heard about an art exhibit they might enjoy. In recent years Bill and Linda had begun to enjoy some of their “empty nest” dreams with trips to France and Spain as well as making plans to renovate their farm in Dutchess County, NY, and enjoying golf, hiking and family at their home in Linville, NC.

Among his varied interests, Bill shone as an outdoorsman. With a fly rod or a shotgun, Bill had few equals. To watch him cast a fly into a promising distant ripple was poetry and he was a true spectacle with a mere 28 gauge or any other firearm. Folks both loved and hated to shoot with Bill Powell; loving to witness the talent but hating to consider any comparison. Bill’s sons inherited the gift and when the Powell boys showed up, the hunt was on – and the competition fierce. The Stone House in Clove Valley was home to favorite family memories including son Skip's wedding.

The trips with friends and family to every corner of the globe in pursuit of his hobbies were memories he cherished beyond measure. Bill cultivated shared experience knowing that the real “trophy” was always personal relationships.

One can’t speak of Bill and hunting without mentioning his beloved field companion and black lab, Cole. Bill was besotted with his dog and lost interest in much shooting, preferring to guide with Cole while others shot. Years after Cole’s death, it was still not something Bill could talk about.

Of course, the relationships he cherished most were with his family. He was just so devoted to Linda and his four surviving children, taking such delight in their interests and trying to expand their world experience. Hunting trips to Argentina with Skip and Henry, meeting Claudia in Belgium for a jaunt, visiting Jack in London while he studied abroad. To his children, Bill was both a hero and a friend; playful and protective, a trusted source of comfort and advice.

And while each child knew they were deeply loved, all joked with each other that they understood Mom was the real center of Bill’s world, and they were welcome to drop by on occasion. Bill loved nothing more than the everyday opportunities to spend one-on-one time with his wife; whether dining at one of the restaurants where they were regulars; taking their daily beach walks; or during and post-COVID, renting out two rows at the movie theater every week so they could sit alone, together.

Watching their children fall in love, marry and have children of their own was the highlight of Bill and Linda’s married life. To his beautiful granddaughters, Bill was “Papa”; the loving and warm man leaning in to listen deeply and meet a small child where they were. Whether reading a book while making exaggerated animal noises or initiating a “Bill-ow fight,” Papa’s greatest joy in recent years was a new and enriching role he was making all his own.

As news of Bill’s untimely death spread, the family is perhaps most proud of having people from every walk of life most often describe him as “kind.” He was known to all as the most generous-hearted man. Bill was the guy anyone called if they were in trouble or suffering. He had a way of making things happen, whether it was renegotiating someone’s delinquent student debt, helping with a house payment, or quietly and often anonymously helping friends and strangers in crisis.

Bill’s family and friends will forever miss and remember his encyclopedic knowledge of all birds, his irresistible charm, wry wit, loving heart and desire to know who borrowed his hammer and didn’t put it back. Words are insufficient to describe his life, so his family will try to live theirs with the same heart, wisdom, courage, perseverance and humor that Bill always inspired in us.

Bill is survived by his wife of more than 43 years, Linda Rand Burton Powell; their children, William “Skip” Burton Powell (Lauren), Claudia Lindsay Powell Wray (Trip), Henry Harrison Powell, and John “Jack” Kenan Powell (Ellie); granddaughters June Donnelly Powell, Nora Charlotte Powell, and Willa Powell Wray; siblings John Powell (Mary Hills), Claudia Vieth (Charlie), and Eileen Smith (Tad); siblings-in-law Lindsay Leckie, Claude “Skip” Burton III (Marjorie), Robbie Horn (Gerry), and Melanie “Dolly” Savery (Trip); and 17 nieces and nephews whose partners and children he also held dear.

Bill was predeceased by his son William Patrick Powell Jr., his parents-in-law, Claude Shreve Burton Jr. and Carma Lindsay Burton, and parents John and Patricia Powell.

Bill’s family would like to thank the neurovascular surgery and neurology ICU teams at Yale New Haven Hospital for their compassion and expertise.

Memorial contributions may be made in his name to Yale School of Medicine, specify “Neurovascular Surgery Program,” PO Box 7611, New Haven, CT 06519. You may also donate online at bit.ly/BILL-YSM. The fund supports research and education in the field.

Or, make a gift in Bill’s honor to IESC at bit.ly/BILL-IESC. A gift to IESC helps to create economic opportunity and improve the lives of people across the economically developing world.

A private celebration of life will be held on Saturday, June 1.

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Jean N Grzelecki - January 24, 1939 - March 13, 2024

Departed: 03/13/2024 (New Canaan)

Obituary Preview: Jean Grzelecki, 85, of New Canaan, CT, passed away on March 13, 2024, surrounded by members of her family. Jean was the wife of Frank Grzelecki, to whom she had been married for 64 years.

Jean was born on January 24, 1939, in Salem, New Jersey. She graduated from Gettysburg College in 1960.

After raising her daughters in East Greenwich, Rhode Island, Jean enjoyed a period of time in Princeton, NJ, where she was a member of the Present-Day Club. She then moved to New Canaan with her husband, where she was a member of the Planning & Zoning Commission. Jean was a well-respected member of the Commission for nearly three decades and in later years was elected Secretary. She was also a member of Daughters of the Revolution Hannah Benedict Carter Chapter.

Jean loved her family and is survived by her beloved husband Frank Grzelecki, daughter Sharon Smith (Kevin Smith) and predeceased by her daughter Deborah Grzelecki Rooney (Tom O’Connor). Jean is also survived by sister Dottie Hires Stetser as well as six cherished grandchildren and six great-grandchildren.

A memorial service to celebrate Jean’s beautiful life is scheduled from 1:00PM to 3:00PM on Friday, March 22nd at Hoyt Funeral Home in New Canaan, followed by a repast at the Country Club of New Canaan. For online condolences please visit http://www.hoytfuneralhome.com

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Mary D Aldrich - June 14, 1950 - March 12, 2024

Departed: 03/12/2024 (New Canaan)

Obituary Preview: Mary D. Aldrich “Grammy”, 73, of New Canaan, CT passed away peacefully on Tuesday, March 12, 2024, with her daughters by her side. Mary was a longtime resident of New Canaan. Born June 14th, 1950 in Westport, CT, Mary was the daughter of Maria Caruso D’Amico and Anthony D’Amico. “Little Mary” was the youngest of eleven D’Amico children, a spot she held proudly. In 1970 she graduated with an Associate’s Degree from Sacred Heart University.

Mary loved her community deeply and took great pride in participating in various facets locally. She contributed actively and socially to the community she held so dear. Some of her favorite activities included Encore, President of the St. Aloysius PTA, member of the St. Aloysius Church Board, many hours of volunteering at St. Aloysius Church including; RCIA, Emmaus and teaching Religious Education to elementary and middle school children.

Mary was an avid tennis player, Zumba dancer, Pilates enthusiast and beach-goer. Mary’s intimate Rosary group was an integral piece of her Faith and her standing appointment on Saturday mornings. She was also frequently found in her kitchen cooking for her beloved nieces, nephews, siblings, Priests and friends. Her most precious daily activities included attending her beloved grandchildren’s games, recitals and school functions. Her children and grandchildren were her whole heart. When she wasn’t bouncing around New Canaan and Fairfield County, Mary’s favorite destination was her special home in Vero Beach, FL. The sun and sand gave her a sanctuary that brought her much peace.

Mary is survived by her spouse Michael Aldrich; her three daughters, Courtenay (Kevin) Brown and children Reid, Taylor & Adeline of Cary, North Carolina; Meredith (Richard III) Bagley and children Anabelle & Sadie of Trumbull, CT; Alexandra (Michael) Spellman and children Lucy & Greer of Darien, CT. She is also survived by her sisters Ester D’Amico, Josie D’Amico both of Westport, CT and Geri (Jack) Stauss of Fairfield, CT; her brothers Peter (Irene) D’Amico and Anthony D’Amico both of Westport, CT as well as her many adored nieces and nephews. She is also survived by her former husband William J. Duplex of Florida.

Her constant generosity and thoughtfulness will be especially missed. Many will also miss catching her during daily 7am Mass at St. Aloysius, her walks down South Ave or at some of her favorite hot spots in town.

Visitation will take place on Monday, March 18th from 4-8pm at Hoyt Funeral Home, 199 Main Street, New Canaan, CT. A Mass will be held to celebrate Mary’s life on Tuesday, March 19th, 11:00am at St. Aloysius Roman Catholic Church, 21 Cherry Street, New Canaan, CT. Charitable memorial donations can be made to Memorial Sloan Kettering Pancreatic Cancer research via link: For online condolences please visit www.hoytfuneralhome.com For online streaming please visit https://boxcast.tv/view/funeral-mass-for-mary-d-aldrich-efsysl19fbxu3mpzdkei

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Reinhold Danforth Wappler - February 20, 1932 - March 12, 2024

Departed: 03/12/2024 (New Canaan)

Obituary Preview: Reinhold Danforth Wappler, 92, of New Canaan, Connecticut passed away peacefully on the 12th of March, 2024 in Darien, Connecticut surrounded by his family. Reinhold is predeceased by his wife, Jane Wappler (née Howard), and his son, Sheldon Wappler. He is survived by his eldest son, Peter, of his first marriage to Audrey Sheldon with whom he also had Sheldon, and his two daughters Sarah and Amy, of his marriage to Jane Wappler, as well as his daughters-in-law Barbara Chadwick and Karen Wappler (née Burns), and his six grandchildren Sam, Ivy, Will, Ella, Rory, and Hazel. A beloved father, husband, grandfather, businessman, and teacher, Reinhold lived a rich and varied life. Born in New York City on February 20th, 1932 to Frederick and Mary Wappler, Reinhold graduated from St. Marks Academy in 1949 and then studied engineering at Harvard University and later Columbia University, graduating in 1954. After serving briefly in the Army, he began his career working for his family’s medical instrument manufacturing company, American Cystoscope Makers Incorporated (ACMI) at their factory in Pelham,

New York and later Stamford, Connecticut. During Reinhold’s tenure as president, ACMI made significant advances in the development of endoscopic instruments, enabling doctors to peer into the human body in minimally invasive ways. After the successful sale of ACMI to American Hospital Supply in 1980, Reinhold began his second career as a mathematics teacher at New Canaan Country School in New Canaan, Connecticut, where he would teach for a quarter century. An early adopter of using computers in education, Reinhold set up a pioneering lab in the elementary school where students could explore mathematics using the newest technology of the day. His teaching style was inventive, forward thinking, and experimental, and yet still anchored to classic foundations. He urged generations of students to go beyond rote processing and think conceptually about math, as well as to internalize that risk taking is what begets learning as well as success. He rewarded students when they learned from making mistakes. Reinhold loved to incorporate real-world examples in his class; his classroom was littered with gadgets and contraptions meant to unlock the secrets of mathematics. In short, Reinhold loved to bring mathematics to life. He imparted his students with a deep curiosity and reverence for the machinations of our world. In fact, this curiosity spread to all who knew him, especially his children and grandchildren.

Reinhold spent nearly every summer of his life in Maine, a place he loved deeply and came to embody. There he played and taught his favorite card game, cribbage, to countless friends and family over the decades.

Reinhold was a living reminder of the basic aspirations towards human dignity and peace. His calm manner, the easy way he sat with legs crossed, the thoughtful and patient way he expressed himself, his light-heartedness, and his genuine delight in benign naughtiness and comedy were treasured by all who knew and loved him. Intellectual, commanding, witty, delightfully impish, and sweet at heart, Reinhold’s presence will be dearly missed.

There will be an informal gathering to celebrate his life at the Roger Sherman Inn on Sunday, April 7th 2024 at 12 noon.

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David Alan Hogan - November 18, 1935 - March 10, 2024

Departed: 03/10/2024 (New Canaan)

Obituary Preview: David Alan Hogan, 88, of Wilton, passed away peacefully on Sunday, March 10, 2024, with his wife Catherine and son John by his side. A longtime resident of Darien, Al was known for his sense of humor, good heart, and fighting spirit. True to himself until the end, Al dined at his favorite restaurant on the night of his passing and walked under his own power for one final night on the town.

Born November 18, 1935, in Albany, New York, Al was the son of Mary Emma Hogan and Alan D. Hogan. In 1957 he graduated from The College of the Holy Cross with a dual degree in Accounting and Philosophy. Al started his professional career at Arthur Anderson, and he received his CPA the following year, ultimately working his way to the position of Administrative President at Prudential Securities.

In 1973, Al hit the real jackpot when he married Catherine, the love of his life. Together they raised a family in Darien for 25 years, and in January of 2023, Al and Kay celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary with family and friends. In addition to his wife, Al is survived by his sons Robert Hogan and his wife Catherine, Timothy Hogan, David Hogan and his wife Elizabeth, John Perrella, daughter Jennifer Hogan Finnegan and her husband Christopher. Al is also survived by his niece Christine Elden, seven grandchildren, and three great-grandchildren. He was predeceased by his sister Mary Anne Hogan Tebaldi.

Visiting Hours will be held on Sunday, March 17, from 2-6 pm at the Hoyt Funeral Home, 199 Main St, New Canaan CT.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Monday, March 18, at 11 am at St. Aloysius Church, 21 Cherry St, New Canaan CT. Entombment will follow in Saint Catherine of Sienna Mausoleum, Gate of Heaven Cemetery, 1056 Daniels Farm Rd, Trumbull CT.

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Timothy M Pryor - September 21, 1966 - March 04, 2024

Departed: 03/04/2024 (New Canaan)

Obituary Preview: Timothy M. Pryor born September 1966 in Evanston Illinois. As a child Tim took the role of big brother very seriously. He was both a great protector and a fierce advocate for his little brothers.

Tim was an even fiercer competitor in everything from doing donuts in various cars to building the biggest fire and of course his primary love, hockey. He was always a savage on the golf course, baseball diamond and the checkerboard. His opponents could always count on ruthless competition.

He was a beloved uncle of 4 nieces and enjoyed his time with them very much. Tim lived at full intensity and while he left early, he packed in everything with the time he had. Tim is survived by his mom, 2 brothers, 4 nieces, sister in law, a whole bunch of cousins,aunts, uncles and his beloved mate, Belle

Donations can be made to his favorite celebrity’s mutual favorite charity, North Shore Animal League.

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Kathleen Garrity Cook - February 24, 1936 - March 02, 2024

Departed: 03/02/2024 (New Canaan)

Obituary Preview: Kathleen Cook

Passed away at the age of 88 peacefully surrounded by her family on March 2nd, 2024. Kathleen was born in Yonkers, NY on February 29th,1936 to the hon. Judge Harold T. and Mary Broderick Garrity. She grew up in Yonkers, NY with her siblings MaryAnn (Charles Hagelin) James (Andrea) and Matthew (Judy) Garrity. Kathleen graduated from Roosevelt High School in Yonkers, NY and continued her education studying business law at Marymount Jr. college in Arlington, VA. In 1960 Kathleen married Robert William Cook and they moved to Chappaqua, NY where they raised their 4 children. Her husband Robert preceded her in death in 1976.

Born on leap day Kathleen was perpetually young and vivacious. She worked at her fathers law firm for many years and as an office manager. Warm and lighthearted she saw the best in everything and everyone. She loved her family, friends, golf, volunteering, gardening and travel.

Kathleen is survived by her children Sheila (Gregory Gannon) of Hamburg, NY, LynnAnne (Jim Hagar) of Big Sky, Montana, Alicia Cook of Danbury and Robert W. Cook Jr. of New Canaan. In addition her 7 loving grandchildren: Paige and Brooke Gannon, Patrick Hagar, Ava, Dylann, Christopher and Broderick Cook. She was so proud of her children and especially her grandchildren who she loved so much and brought her so much joy.

A wake will be held at St. Aloysuis church in New Canaan Connecticut on Saturday, March 16th, 2024 from 9-10am with funeral services to follow 10-11am.

The family extends their gratitude to Brightview Assisted Living in New Canaan, Connecticut for their excellent care and devotion to our mother.

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Gail Elder Harden - September 03, 1938 - March 01, 2024

Departed: 03/01/2024 (New Canaan)

Obituary Preview: Gail Elder Harden, 85, passed away peacefully on Friday, March 1, 2024, at her home near New Canaan, CT.

Gail (“Lucy” to her grandchildren) was born on September 3, 1938, in Greensboro, NC, to Walter Clifton Elder and Elizabeth Cheek Elder and grew up in Burlington, NC. She attended Walter Williams High School in Burlington, earned a bachelor’s degree from Converse College in Spartanburg, SC, and a master’s degree in education from the University of North Carolina. She taught early elementary education in Chapel Hill and Burlington and then devoted herself to raising her four children: Boyd, Shea, Graham, and Holmes Jr.

Gail showed an early interest in athletics as a high school cheerleader and a collegiate sportswriter. She pivoted to education and served as a substitute teacher for many years while raising her four children. She was a devout Presbyterian and a longtime member of both the First Presbyterian Church Burlington and the First Presbyterian Church of New Canaan, where she led the Meals on Wheels program and served first as a Sunday School teacher and later as a deacon. She was a committed daily walker and a member of multiple garden clubs. Most memorably, Gail was known for her sweet nature, southern charm, and kindness to everyone.

Gail is survived by three of her children, Boyd (Keri) of New Canaan, CT, Shea (John Naporano) of Los Altos, CA, and Holmes (Blake) of Alexandria, VA; her daughter-in-law, Dawn of Terrace Park, OH; ten beloved grandchildren, Kendall, Lindsay, Cole, Taylor (Naporano), McKenna, Cody (Naporano), Kaleigh, Chase, Gwen, and Ryan; two sisters, Sandra Harper and Cliffie Warder (Frank); and one nephew, Reid Warder. Gail was preceded in death by her husband, Holmes, her brother-in-law, Tom Harper, and her son, Graham.

There will be a service to celebrate Gail’s life at the First Presbyterian Church in Burlington, NC, on Friday, March 22, 2024, at 2:00 pm. Streaming will be available beginning at 1:50 pm at https://boxcast.tv/view/gail-harden-funeral-service-brexkixbj535fcc8cnfm.

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Connie M Petrucci - February 12, 1927 - February 21, 2024

Departed: 02/21/2024 (New Canaan)

Obituary Preview: Connie Petrucci, age 97 of Spring Village in Stratford Connecticut passed away peacefully in her sleep on February 21 2024.

Connie was born in Bovino, Italy on February 12th 1927 to Mary and Alfred Liscio. They moved to New Canaan when she was 4 years old. She grew up with two brothers, Anthony and Frank Liscio. In 1955 she married Patsy Petrucci and moved to Vista, New York. Upon the arrival of their three children she became a devoted mother and wife. Connie enjoyed life. She loved to travel, read autobiographies and mysteries.

Connie is survived by her children Mike Petrucci of Binghamton, NY, Anne Krysiuk of Shelton, CT, Alfred Petrucci of Stamford, CT and two grandchildren and one great grandson and two great step grandsons.

Visiting will be March 4th 2024 at Hoyt Funeral home. 199 Main Street, New Canaan, CT 06840 at 10am – 11:30am followed by a Funeral service, then the burial at Lakeview Cemetery at 352 Main Street, New Canaan CT. Refreshments to be announced. For online condolences please visit www.hoytfuneralhome.com

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Toby Matthew Woods - May 10, 2005 - February 21, 2024

Departed: 02/21/2024 (New Canaan)

Obituary Preview: Toby Matthew Woods, age 18, died on February 21, 2024 in Williamstown, Massachusetts.

Toby was born in Stamford, Connecticut on May 10, 2005 to Peter and Kristina Woods. He spent his entire childhood in New Canaan, Connecticut with his parents and his older brother Nicholas.

He was full of joys and loves and deep passions – for classical music, cello, piano, travel, learning, hiking, cooking, Legos, puzzles, business, sushi and urban design. He loved roller coasters, the higher and faster the better. He loved explaining complicated things and he was so amazingly good at it. And it’s hard to convey how much music meant to him, how much it touched his soul – playing it, listening to it, sharing it.

He had a wonderful set of friends – his tight-knit academic group of kids from the high school, his deep connections with his fellow musicians from his orchestra and chamber music groups, and many other individuals that he had incredible one-on-one relationships with even though they weren’t a part of any particular group together. And he shared so many interests and passions with his big brother Nicholas.

He had started his time at Williams College with the energy and enthusiasm that he brought to everything he did, diving into challenging courses in economics, opera, advanced math and philosophy. He had gone hiking and skiing in the beautiful mountains near Williamstown. He adored the artwork at the Clark Museum. He was involved in multiple music groups including the semi-professional Berkshire Symphony. He always had an eye to the future and so had competed to earn a place in the student-run consulting group. When we visited him on campus this fall, it was so lovely when we’d hear friendly voices calling out “Hey Toby.”

He loved traveling to England to visit extended family. Some of his favorite things were picking out London Underground routes with Nicholas, exploring different London neighborhoods, drinking flat white coffees, eating loads of English candy, and going to as many classical music concerts as he could fit in to the trip.

He always looked forward to our family hiking trips in Switzerland and the feeling of being absorbed in the beauty of the mountains. And he was fascinated by other cities in Europe where he’d seen all of the different ways urban environments can be built, with more space for pedestrians and bicycles and trains, and he dreamed of someday helping to make changes to all of those things here at home.

He is survived by his parents, Peter and Kristina Woods, his brother Nicholas, his grandmother (“Nana”) Elaine Wojcik Lynnworth, his aunts and uncles: Joe and Jane Wojcik, Jackie and Roo Gold, and Richard and Kate Woods. He is also survived by the cousins he loved so much: Alex and Ashley Wojcik and Ellie, Fred and Louisa Gold. He is predeceased by his grandfather (“Papa”) Frank Wojcik and his grandparents Shirley and John Woods (“Granny and Grandpa”).

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John Joseph O'Connor - August 20, 1946 - February 20, 2024

Departed: 02/20/2024 (New Canaan)

Obituary Preview: John J. O’Connor, a New Canaan resident for 43 years, passed away peacefully on February 20, surrounded by his loving family. He was born in Manhattan, NY on August 20th, 1946, the eldest son of Daniel and Dorothy O’Connor. He married his college sweetheart, Wynne (Muller) O’Connor, and together they celebrated 49 years of marriage, raising three children and sharing the joy of five grandchildren.

Raised in Jackson Heights, NY, John graduated from Xavier High School and went on to earn his bachelor's and law degrees at Fordham University and a Master of Laws degree at NYU Graduate School of Law.

He dedicated many years to a successful career as a corporate attorney and, upon retirement, found fulfillment in teaching law and business courses at local colleges and universities. He was a proud member of the Army’s Fighting 69th Regiment and of the Friendly Sons of St. Patrick.

John had a bold appreciation for life, punctuated by his faith and love of family. He enjoyed skiing, fishing, jogging, and tending to his vegetable garden. On sunny days, he could be found cruising in his vintage red Miata convertible or at the ballpark cheering for the Mets. Above all, John cherished time with his family and friends.

A devout Catholic, John lived an intense prayer life and graciously shared his faith with others. He was always courageous. He ran the course and lived the scripture, loving others as himself and demonstrating his faith and reverence to the Lord regularly through his actions. John attended Mass daily at St. Aloysius and would often share the gospel message in a loving and kind way to those around him. Through his love and kindness, he drew his family and friends towards the faith. We are eternally thankful to him for that gift.

John is survived by his wife, Wynne, his three children, Joan Archer (Herbert) of New Fairfield, CT, Liz O'Connor (Stephen Magyera) of New Canaan, and Daniel O’Connor (Pamela) of New Canaan, his brothers and sister, Paul O'Connor (Donna) of Belleville, NJ, Daniel F. O'Connor (Debra) of Naples, FL, Ann O'Connor White of New Fairfield, CT, and his grandchildren, Stephen and Sean Magyera, John O’Connor, and Brian and Liam Archer. He is predeceased by his parents Daniel and Dorothy O’Connor and his brother Robert O’Connor.

The family extends their gratitude to Memorial Sloan Kettering for the care John received. In memory of John’s life, the family asks that remembrances be made in the form of flowers, contributions to John’s favorite charity, St. Jude’s Medical Center https://www.stjude.org/give.html, or to the charity of one’s choice.

The wake will be held on Sunday, February 25th from 2:00-6:00 p.m. at Hoyt Funeral Home, 199 Main St. New Canaan, CT.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Monday, February 26th at 10:00 a.m. at St. Aloysius in New Canaan, CT. Burial will follow at the Gate of Heaven Cemetery in Hawthorne, NY. For directions or to leave an online condolence, click here: https://hoytfuneralhome.com/tribute/details/1785/John-O-Connor/obituary.html#tribute-start

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Geraldine P Gregg - December 07, 1942 - February 18, 2024

Departed: 02/18/2024 (New Canaan)

Obituary Preview: Geraldine "J.P." Gregg, a Respected Therapist and Cherished Mother and Nana, 1942-2024

Geraldine Gregg, known affectionately as "J.P." to those close to her, passed away peacefully on February 18th, 2024, after a courageous battle with ovarian cancer. Surrounded by her loving children, Geraldine departed from this world, leaving behind a profound legacy of compassion and strength.

Born on December 7th, 1942, in Detroit, Michigan, Geraldine spent her formative years in Springfield, Illinois, as the only child of Jerry and Jetta Marrin. Within her large Irish and Scottish Catholic family, she was fondly referred to as "Jeri Pat." From a young age, Geraldine had exceptional energy and curiosity. She graduated with honors from Sacred Heart High School before becoming the first in her family to pursue a college education, earning a BA in Biology from St. Mary's College in Iowa in 1964.

Fascinated by life on the East Coast, Geraldine relocated to New Haven, Connecticut, in 1965. There, she furthered her education, obtaining a master’s degree in Immunology from the University of New Haven, followed by a Masters in Social Work (MSW) from Columbia University. Throughout her career, Geraldine acquired numerous professional certifications, demonstrating her unwavering commitment to excellence in her field.

In 1978, Geraldine made New Canaan her home when she married Harvey Kaufman. Shortly thereafter, she established her private practice as a therapist, becoming a trusted source of guidance and support for countless families in the area. For over four decades, Geraldine dedicated herself wholeheartedly to her practice, counseling up to 45 patients a week until the final months of her life. The impact she had on her community throughout the years was evidenced by the outpouring of the messages she received in her final days, thanking her for all she had done to help, guide, and heal her countless number of clients.

Geraldine is survived by her children, Rachel, Adam, and Lauren, her grandsons, Jackson, Connor, Nicholas, Sam, Ajax, and Max, as well as her dear friend, Michael. She is preceded in death by her beloved husband, Harvey Kaufman. Her presence will be deeply missed by her family, clients, and friends.

A memorial service in honor of Geraldine's life will be held on Saturday, April 13th, at 10:00 am at St. Aloysius Church in New Canaan, CT.

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Raymond Spinola - August 10, 1929 - February 10, 2024

Departed: 02/10/2024 (New Canaan)

Obituary Preview: Raymond Spinola passed away peacefully on February 10 2024 at his daughter’s home, surrounded by a burning fire, sounds of Sinatra, and the love of family and beautiful caregivers.

Ray was born to Josephine and Remo Spinola on August 10, 1929 in Pittsburgh, PA. In 1934, at the height of the Great Depression, Ray’s family relocated to Detroit. Following his graduation from Detroit Southwestern High School, Ray enrolled in the College of Business at Michigan State University. He was the first in his family to attend college, inspired in large part by his adoring mother. Shortly afterward, he served in the United States Army for two years. Upon his discharge in November, 1953, Ray became a member of the audit staff of the Detroit office of Haskins and Sells, now Deloitte.

During a ski weekend in Northern Michigan, Ray met Lois Clark, a graduate of Hillsdale College and sportswear buyer for Hudson’s Department Store. At the end of the weekend, Ray drove her home through a snowstorm where they stopped at a roadside diner and shared their first dance to the Tommy Dorsey Orchestra on the jukebox. Four months later, they were engaged and then married in September. “Hasty perhaps, but never a doubt,” the couple enjoyed saying.

In 1966, Ray, whose auditing experience focused primarily on large multinational companies, was admitted to the partnership of Deloitte. In 1975, he was appointed Partner in Charge of the firm’s Michigan practice. He held this position until 1983, when he was elected to the firm’s Board of Directors and transferred to the New York Headquarters to participate in the implementation of strategic firm-wide initiatives. Three years later, he became Partner in Charge of the firm’s New York Office and relocated from Birmingham, Michigan to New Canaan, Connecticut. It was here at Deloitte where Ray made some of his most valued and loyal friendships.

In 1987, Ray was recognized as an outstanding alumnus of Michigan State University’s College of Business, and honored with an invitation to deliver the 1988 commencement address.

Following his retirement in 1992, Ray turned to writing, a personal passion that brought him great fulfillment. Though they were not published, Ray enjoyed sharing his two novels, “Feet of Clay” and “The Fall and Rise of Spencer Garms,” with his family and friends. A prolific reader and writer, business professional, avid Spartans football and basketball fan, traveler, golfer, gardener, devoted husband, father, and grandfather, Ray articulated a life well lived.

Ray is survived by three children and their spouses: Amy and Tom Corcoran, Beth and Joel Simon, and Mark Spinola; and his seven beloved grandchildren: Conor, Bennett, and Emma Corcoran; Olivia, Josephine, and Luisa Simon; and Warren Spinola.

A private burial for his immediate family will be held at Lakeview Cemetery. A celebration of life for Ray’s extended family and friends will be announced in the spring.

Those wishing to honor his memory can make a gift to the Congregational Church of New Canaan, where Ray was a loyal member and lovingly aided by his spiritual family; or the Ridgefield Visiting Nurse Association (RVNA), for their unwavering commitment, care, and compassion. For online condolences please visit www.hoytfuneralhome.com https://www.tributeslides.com/tributes/show/2NZBSZZP88XC5MZF

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Patricia M Coughlin - April 10, 1967 - February 04, 2024

Departed: 02/04/2024 (New Canaan)

Obituary Preview: Patricia Marie (Patty) Coughlin died peacefully Sunday February 4, 2024 at her home in New Canaan, CT after a courageous battle with cancer. Her beloved dog, Duffy, and her long-time assistant and friend, Morelia Castro, were by her side. A cherished daughter, sister, aunt, and friend, Patty will be dearly missed by all. Born on April 10, 1967, Patty was the second of four children. She spent most of her life in Greenwich and New Canaan, CT.

Possessing an “iconic sense of style and grace” according to her oldest niece, Patty loved to find the eclectic pieces as no one else did, and she put them together in a way that no one else could. Patty owned every room that she walked into. That expertise carried over to her home decorating skills and entertaining style as well. Patty enjoyed cooking at home and dining with family and friends at the wonderful restaurants in lower Fairfield County. She was always kind, thoughtful and considerate through every challenge she faced. A day spent with Patty was always a good day.

Patty was a graduate of The Ethel Walker School, Ohio Wesleyan University, and she received her Master’s Degree in Education from Manhattanville College. She then joined Greenwich Fine Properties as a realtor, and when she moved to New Canaan, she worked in human resources for The Premier Collection. Patty also spent time doing what she loved as she restored, decorated, and enjoyed living in her “forever” house in New Canaan.

Patty is survived by her parents, Brownie and Tom Coughlin, her brothers Sean and Brian Coughlin, her sister Susan Bradbury, her sisters in law Karen Coughlin (Reynolds) and Paola Coughlin (Duque), her nieces Michaela and Lauren Coughlin, Lily Bradbury, and Fiona Coughlin, her nephews Jack Coughlin, Trip Bradbury, and Thomas Coughlin, along with many others who cared for her.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It's usually published in a newspaper, online obituary platform, or funeral home website to inform friends, family, and community members of the person's passing.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to honor and remember the deceased, while also providing essential information to those who knew them. They help notify people of the passing, allowing them to pay their respects, attend funeral services, and offer condolences to the family.

What information is typically included in an obituary?

A standard obituary usually includes the person's full name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service (if applicable), and surviving family members. It may also mention hobbies, achievements, and other notable aspects of their life.

Who writes an obituary?

In most cases, the obituary is written by the family members or close friends of the deceased, often with the assistance of a funeral home or obituary writer. The writer should be someone who knew the person well and can provide an accurate and heartfelt tribute.

How long does it take to write an obituary?

The time it takes to write an obituary can vary depending on the complexity and length of the piece. On average, it can take anywhere from 30 minutes to several hours to craft a well-written and meaningful obituary.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, it's becoming increasingly popular for people to write their own obituaries before they pass away. This can be a therapeutic exercise that allows individuals to reflect on their life and legacy. However, it's essential to keep in mind that the final version may need to be edited or updated by family members or funeral professionals.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, usually including only the basic facts such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary, on the other hand, provides more detailed information about the person's life and accomplishments.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

To submit an obituary to a newspaper, you'll typically need to contact their obituary department directly. They will provide guidance on their specific submission requirements, including word count limits, formatting guidelines, and deadlines.

Can I publish an obituary online?

Yes, many online platforms and funeral home websites allow you to publish an obituary. These digital obituaries often remain available for an extended period, making it easier for people to access and share memories of the deceased.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication or platform. Newspapers often charge by the word or line, while online platforms may offer free or low-cost options. Funeral homes may also include obituary publication as part of their services.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a great way to personalize the tribute and help readers connect with the deceased.

What is the typical length of an obituary?

The length of an obituary can vary significantly depending on the publication or platform. Some newspapers may have strict word count limits (e.g., 200-300 words), while online platforms may allow longer or even unlimited text.

Can I include quotes or poems in an obituary?

Yes, quotes or poems can be a beautiful way to add depth and personality to an obituary. Choose something that resonates with the deceased's spirit or reflects their values and interests.

How do I handle errors or corrections in an already-published obituary?

If you notice errors or inaccuracies in a published obituary, contact the publication or platform immediately. They will guide you through their correction process, which may involve publishing a revised version or issuing a correction notice.

Can I reuse an existing obituary for multiple publications?

You can reuse an existing obituary for multiple publications, but be sure to review and edit it according to each publication's specific guidelines and requirements.

What is the purpose of an obituary headline?

The headline serves as a title for the obituary and should clearly identify the deceased. It's usually centered above the main text and may include additional information such as "In Loving Memory" or "Beloved Husband and Father."

How do I ensure accuracy when writing an obituary?

To ensure accuracy when writing an obituary, verify all facts with reliable sources such as official documents (e.g., birth certificate), family members, or close friends. Double-check spelling, dates, and names before submitting the final version.

Can I include charitable donations or memorial funds in an obituary?

Yes, you can include information about charitable donations or memorial funds in an obituary. This allows friends and family to make contributions in lieu of flowers or other gestures.

What is the role of social media in sharing an obituary?

Social media platforms can be used to share an obituary with a wider audience quickly and easily. You can post a link to the online obituary or share key details along with personal memories and condolences.

How long does it take for an online obituary to be published?

The time it takes for an online obituary to be published varies depending on the platform or funeral home. Some may publish immediately upon submission, while others may require manual review and approval before going live.

Can I update or modify an existing online obituary?

Yes, many online platforms allow you to update or modify an existing obituary. This might be necessary if new information becomes available or if there are errors that need correcting.

Are there any specific guidelines for writing an LGBTQ+ inclusive obituary?

When writing an LGBTQ+ inclusive obituary, it's essential to respect the individual's gender identity, sexual orientation, and relationships. Use language that honors their identity and acknowledges their loved ones accurately.

How do I handle sensitive information in an obituary?

When dealing with sensitive information such as cause of death or personal struggles, approach the topic with compassion and discretion. Consider consulting with family members or close friends before including potentially sensitive details.

Can I include humor in an obituary?

Absolutely! Humor can be a wonderful way to celebrate a person's life and personality. Just be sure to balance humor with respect and sensitivity towards the deceased and their loved ones.

What is the significance of including survivors in an obituary?

Including survivors (e.g., spouse, children, siblings) in an obituary acknowledges their loss and provides important context about the deceased's relationships. It also helps notify these individuals of services and arrangements.

How do I ensure that my loved one's story is told accurately in their obituary?

To ensure your loved one's story is told accurately in their obituary, gather information from multiple sources (e.g., family members, friends), verify facts carefully, and prioritize honesty while still being respectful of their memory.