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Taylor Kenneth Maus - September 20, 1989 - May 02, 2024

Departed: 05/02/2024 (Granby)

Obituary Preview: Taylor Kenneth Maus, 34, of Barkhamsted, passed away unexpectedly on May 2, 2024.

Born in Granby on September 20, 1989, Taylor was raised in Granby, graduating in 2008 from Granby Memorial High School. He then went on to receive his Bachelor of Science in Business Administration from St. Michael’s College in Vermont in 2012. Taylor was a field supervisor at Core Strategic for the past 14 years. He volunteered at the Granby Food Bank and Connecticut Cat Connection, giving back to his community.

Growing up in Granby, Taylor umpired soccer for the Rovers, and was a lifeguard at Salmon Brook Park. A kind and caring person, Taylor always had a great sense of humor, and was an avid animal lover. Especially to his four cats.

Taylor loved the outdoors – hiking, snowmobiling, skiing, skating, surfing, and riding his ATV. He also enjoyed riding his motorcycle on the country roads. Taylor took great pleasure spending time with his family and friends on Long Island, where he would go to the beach. Taylor enjoyed golfing with his friends and was on the high school golf team.

He enjoyed playing the drums from a young age and was passionate about music. He enjoyed going to Phish concerts with his brother and friends.

Taylor leaves to cherish his memory, his parents Douglas and Betty Maus, his wife Emilee (Gitberg) Maus, and his son Samuel Whitney Maus. He was predeceased by his brother Whitney Maus of Granby.

Burial will be private at the convenience of the family. Memorial donations in Taylor’s memory can be made to the Connecticut Humane Society.

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Neal Angelo Carpentieri - September 07, 1951 - April 22, 2024

Departed: 04/22/2024 (Granby)

Obituary Preview: Neal Angelo Carpentieri, 72, of North Granby, beloved husband of JoAnn (Lareau) LaClair Carpentieri, passed away peacefully at home on April 22, 2024. Born in Hartford on September 7, 1951, the son of the late Angelo and Gladys (Elliott) Carpentieri. Neal attended local schools and was a 1969 graduate of Windsor High School.

Neal never one to shy away from hard work to provide for his family, spent 47 years working 50 hours a week at Hamilton Standard as a sheet metal technician until his retirement in 2017. In his free time Neal was an avid golfer, being a longtime member of Copper Hill Golf Club and enjoyed playing golf with his life-long high school friends. Neal also enjoyed gardening and being outside with his wife JoAnn and spending time with family and friends at Rhode Island beaches. Neal was everyone’s friend, and the kindest person you could have met. No one that ever met him had a bad word to say about Neal. He was an avid sports fan and loved NY Giants; Atlanta Braves; Yankees and UCONN Women. He was also a fantastic dancer, whether it was at a party, on the beach or in the kitchen with JoAnn.

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Thomas A. Edwards - April 26, 1956 - April 22, 2024

Departed: 04/22/2024 (Granby)

Obituary Preview: Thomas Andrew Edwards, 67, of Granby, beloved husband of the late Linda Marie (Nuterangelo) Edwards, passed away unexpectedly on Monday, April 22, 2024.

Born in Hopkinsville, KY, son of Earl and the late Madeline (Urrichio) Edwards. Thomas was raised in Windsor, CT, Graduating from Windsor High School in 1974. After high school, Thomas went on to join the United States Marine Corps, serving from 1974 to 1976 before suffering an injury which resulted in him being Honorably Discharged from his service. Thomas lived his life extremely proud of his military service and would often tell stories to others about his time serving, reliving fond memories of his time living overseas in Okinawa.

After serving, Thomas would find employment working for K-Mart as a security specialist in East Haven, Connecticut. It was here that he would find the love of his life; his future wife, Linda. He would often recall going on their work dates at the café in the store and falling more in love with her. They would soon be wed in October of 1977 until her death in 2009. His heart may have been broken with the passing of his wife Linda, but we can take solace in knowing they are reunited once again, continuing their love story.

Thomas would go on to continue his education, ultimately opening his own business and working as a Locksmith. Extremely talented at his trade, Thomas would go on to be very successful and proud to have been able to help people and businesses within the community.

For quite a few years, Thomas was a member of the American Legion in Granby as well as a member of the Disabled American Veterans organization. Thomas was very passionate in donating to causes such as St. Jude’s and to organizations such as the Baseball Hall of Fame, of which he was a member for several years.

Thomas was an avid stamp collector, a yearly member of the American Philatelic Society. He also was a big fan of The Boston Red Sox, watching every game with his son Michael and they were both lucky enough to celebrate their recent championships together. Bonding over baseball and their baseball card collecting was something both Thomas and Michael cherished. Thomas also was an avid moviegoer and loved so many different genres of film, but most of all he loved Westerns and the films of his favorite actor Clint Eastwood, something he would go on to share with his son Michael over the years.

Thomas is survived by his father, Earl Edwards of Granby, CT; his son, Michael and wife, Sabrina Edwards of Granby, CT; brothers, Walter and wife Dorie Edwards of Enfield, Paul and wife Paula Edwards of Black River, NY and James and wife Donna Edwards of Fountain Inn, SC; sisters Marie and husband James Chase of Granby, and Susan Edwards of Levittown, PA; special extended family Lisa Rineheart of Newark, DE; and special family friend Kelly Tor and her husband, Terry of Windsor, CT.

Thomas was predeceased by his beloved wife of 31 years, Linda; his mother, Madeline; and special extended family Sandra Yeary Bennett.

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Judith Anne McCarthy - December 24, 1932 - April 19, 2024

Departed: 04/19/2024 (Granby)

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Surrounded by love, Judith “Judy” Anne (Mandyck) McCarthy, 91, peacefully passed on April 19 into the arms of God after a brief illness.

Judy brought an unparalleled exuberance to life and was an inspiration to many. Born in Endicott, NY, on December 24,1932, she was the eldest of nine children. She was predeceased by her parents, Henry and Alyce (Neville) Mandyck and siblings: Larry, Joyce, James “Sandy”, David, Sarah “Sally”, and Alan. She is survived by Mark, Mary Sue and many cherished nieces and nephews.

On December 28,1957, Judy married Walter J. McCarthy, who predeceased her. Despite having divorced, their mutual love for their family ensured they remained close companions and friends, always celebrating holidays and milestones together. She is survived by their beloved children: Mary Bridget (Robert), Matthew, Brendan, Daniel (Tara) and former daughter-in-law, Anne. She was predeceased by her son, Walter Regis (Cheryl). She is survived by her adored grandchildren: Sean, Amy (Abdul), Ryan, Ian, Genvieve, Nathan, Kylie, Marie Judith, and her great granddaughter, Alina.

Known for her bright smile, Judy’s life would not have been complete without her countless friends. She loved to celebrate life, and her annual Christmas birthday party was always a highlight. Judy first saw the ocean at 18, and it forever became a source of joy. She was an avid traveler and always made new friends no matter where she was. A voracious reader, Judy was a book worm through and through. She volunteered to help students learn to read and encouraged everyone to emphasize the importance of literacy. She single-handedly kept the USPS running with her many expressions of love, often adorned with stickers and balloons. She was a shutterbug, always snapping family photos, which has preserved many happy memories for all to remember.

Judy was very involved in politics and often discussed the state of world affairs with anyone who would listen. She was committed to and hopeful that a better tomorrow would exist for future generations. Judy was a poll worker in Simsbury for many years. She liked to remind people that “friends don’t let friends vote Republican” and would urge everyone to vote Democrat this coming November.

Arrangements have been made by Hayes-Huling & Carmon Funeral Home, 364 Salmon Brook Street, Granby, CT 06035 for the family to receive friends on Friday, May 3 from 4pm-7pm.  A Liturgy of Christian Burial is scheduled on Saturday, May 4 at 12pm at St. Mary’s Church on 942 Hopmeadow Street, Simsbury, CT 06070.

A devout Catholic, and generous to her core, she supported many charitable organizations who uplifted those less fortunate, which filled her mailbox to the brim. One of her last wishes was to donate to Save the Children. In remembrance of Judy, those who wish to make contributions can do so at https://www.savethechildren.org/.

She was loved by many and will be missed by all.

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James R. Moody, Jr. - February 10, 1955 - April 16, 2024

Departed: 04/16/2024 (Granby)

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Jim Moody, 69, of East Granby passed away unexpectedly but peacefully at home on Tuesday, April 16, 2024, leaving his wife of 45 years, Nancy, and daughter Anna.

Jim was the middle child of Irene and James R. Moody Sr., grew up in Poquonock and graduated from the Univ. of Hartford. After a few years as a teacher in Windsor and a pilot’s job, the entrepreneurial spirit called. He and Nancy owned and operated a video rental store in Granby for 21 years. He also served several years in the Army National Guard as a helicopter pilot. He and Nancy have lived in his family’s 1780 homestead their entire marriage, making Jim the 8th generation of the family to live there. He had spent much time and energy in restoration and renovations through the years and tending to the

large property. His greatest source of pride and joy was his beloved daughter Anna who entered their lives through adoption. Jim enjoyed many years of skiing and especially loved summer vacations in the lakes region of New Hampshire. Family and friends will miss his penchant for mischievous pranks, jokes and nicknames.  Other family members left to mourn are his brother Charlie and wife Judith Ellen, sister Mary Ann and wife Eileen Silverstein, in-laws Robert and Barbara Campbell, Judy Campbell and husband Jay Delaune, David Campbell, Steven Campbell and wife Jill, as well as several nieces and nephews.  Burial will be private. Donations may be made in Jim’s name to the Granby Ambulance Assoc. 1 Pegville Rd. Granby, CT. 06035

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Ruth Phyllis Rosebrooks - December 24, 1928 - April 09, 2024

Departed: 04/09/2024 (Granby)

Obituary Preview: Ruth Phyllis Rosebrooks born December 24, 1928, to Lounette Curnalia Rosebrooks and Harold Gardiner Rosebrooks. She was predeceased by sisters Ethel Larkin of Mansfield, CT and Marion Emmons of Columbia CT. She leaves three nieces: Margery Gerard of South Hadley, MA, Liz Sawyer of Easthampton, MA, Sue Gray of Sterling, CT. In addition she leaves many grandnieces and grandnephews.

Ruth attended Windham High School and graduated from Eastern Connecticut State University in 1954 with a BA in Education. She has always been an active alumni and supporter of EDSU.

Ruth taught Grades 4 and 5 in Granby for 37 years. Ruth always felt that her role was to contribute to her community and did so as an active volunteer for the First Congregational Church, The Drummer, TAP, Granby Food Bank, American Red Cross Blood Banks, McLean Home in Simsbury and the Granby Education Foundation.

Keeping to her family’s farming roots Ruth was a lifetime member of Echo Grange and just received her 80th year certificate. She participated with the Salmon Brook Historical Society, the Connecticut Education Association of Retired Teachers and the National Education Association. She was given the Volunteer of the Year Award for the Town of Granby.

Until the very end Ruth was filled with puns, love of nature, and generosity and care and concern for her family and all of those around her. A more generous person could not be found.

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Thomas Leif Nystrom - January 10, 1938 - April 06, 2024

Departed: 04/06/2024 (Granby)

Obituary Preview: With heavy hearts, we lost Thomas Leif Nystrom, husband, father, grandfather, uncle, and friend, on April 6th at Hartford Hospital due to heart complications. He was 86 years old. Tom was born in Hartford on January 10, 1938, to Thure and Anna Nystrom.

Tom graduated from Hall High School in West Hartford in 1957. He met his wife Marilyn, the love of his life, on Easter Sunday that same year. They would have celebrated their 60th wedding anniversary in September. He served in the U.S. Army Reserves. He attended the University of Hartford and worked for Aetna Life and Casualty Company for 33 years, retiring as Site Administrator of their Windsor Computer Center just prior to his 57th birthday.

He enjoyed hiking, cross-country skiing, and bicycling. Tom also enjoyed 50 years of fishing in Maine with his special friend Rocky on Lake Aziscohos. With his love of scouting, he served Boy Scout Troop 125 in Granby in many capacities, from the late 60's until 1988, eventually becoming scoutmaster. He taught Sunday school at First Congregational Church, served on the Granby Land Trust, was a senior van driver for the town of Granby, and drove the Marquis of Granby bus. He was an apheresis donor and received recognition for having donated 100 times.

To celebrate his 50th birthday, Tom and his best friend Mike rode their bikes across the United States. Tom and Marilyn traveled extensively having visited Norway, Sweden, Denmark, The Netherlands, Italy, France, Germany, Czech Republic, Iceland, and Canada. They enjoyed 29 summers on Woods Pond in Bridgton, Maine, and 15 winters in Florida. Tom remembered details from his early childhood and loved to tell stories about his life experiences, stories everyone most likely heard more than once. He always had a joke to tell and enjoyed making people laugh. Tom loved his Swedish heritage and made korv and gravlox for the holidays. He dearly loved and embraced Marilyn's Italian family. Special to him were his Tuesday morning breakfasts with his hiking and biking friends, Gary, Warren, Dick and Dave. Tom had a full and wonderful life.

The family would like to thank the Hartford Hospital Cardiovascular Unit, his cardiology doctors, and professionals for their excellent care during the last days of his life.

Tom was predeceased by his parents, Thure and Anna Nystrom, brother Richard, and sister-in-law, Eivor. He leaves his son, Kirk, and wife, Jennifer; treasured grandchildren, Tyler, Hannah, Emma, and Jace (he was so proud of them); his daughter, Rachel Nystrom and husband, Erik Hardenbol; his sister-in-law, Shirley Annunziata, brother-in-law Thomas Mascalo and wife Donna; nephew Scott, his wife Paula, niece Britt Nystrom, her partner, Bob Fitzgerald, nephews Cory Mascalo, wife Margaret, Brian Mascalo, wife Dana, several great nieces and nephews, and a host of wonderful friends.

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Barbara (Orkney) Dutton - September 08, 1937 - April 06, 2024

Departed: 04/06/2024 (Granby)

Obituary Preview: Barbara (Orkney) Dutton, aged 86, of Groton, peacefully passed away on Saturday, April 6, 2024, at her daughter’s home in North Granby. She was the beloved wife of the late Rev. Dwight A. Dutton, with whom she shared 54 years of marriage. Barbara's life was characterized by her diverse passions, deep-rooted faith, and unwavering commitment to family.

Barbara was born in New London on September 8, 1937, to William Ferguson Orkney and Margaret (Matheson) Orkney. She grew up in the Pleasant Valley area of Groton, attending Groton Public Schools and graduating from Fitch Senior High School in 1955. Following high school, she pursued a degree in physical education at the University of Connecticut, graduating in 1959. Barbara returned to Groton to teach at her alma mater and married Dwight Dutton on June 20, 1959, at Groton Congregational Church. Together, they embarked on a journey that would take them to Granby in 1969.

Upon relocating to Granby, Barbara seamlessly integrated into farm life, drawing upon her upbringing on the Connecticut shoreline to cultivate newfound skills in animal care, gardening, and homemade food production. She immersed herself in the community, becoming actively involved in various endeavors. Barbara coached girls' track at Granby Memorial High School during the 1970s and later served as the director of recreational services at the McLean Home in Simsbury. Her commitment to continuous learning led her to pursue a master’s degree in recreational therapy from Springfield College, further enriching her contributions to both the educational and recreational spheres of her community.

Professionally, Barbara's versatility was evident. She became a respected realtor, co-founding her own firm, Q Real Estate, and contributing to the development of Granby Farms and Hunt Glen in Granby, CT. However, her greatest joys were found beyond the professional realm.

Barbara's passion for golf was unmistakable, as she actively engaged in leagues and enjoyed the convenience of having a golf course in her backyard. Many of her fondest memories were made on the greens, including playing with Dwight at the historic St. Andrews Golf Course in Scotland.

Barbara and Dwight delighted in exploring the world together, embarking on numerous trips and cruises both at home and abroad, treasuring every adventure side by side. As proud attendees of the University of Connecticut, they passionately supported the UConn Women’s Basketball team, eagerly attending games whenever possible. Barbara's interests extended to activities like bridge, bowling, and gardening, where she excelled as a master gardener, tending to her plants with meticulous care. Additionally, Barbara found solace and joy by the sea; she was an active member of the Shenecossett Beach Club in Groton, a place that held cherished memories throughout her life.

Barbara was an avid knitter, diligently crafting blankets and outfits for each new grandchild and great-grandchild, alongside participating in charitable knitting with friends. Her enduring love for classical music led her to become an integral member of the Hartford Chorale, where she sang with the Hartford Symphony for over three decades, delighting audiences worldwide. She found joy in attending plays and musicals, maintaining a regular presence at the Bushnell Theater.

Faith and family were the cornerstones of Barbara's life. When Dwight pursued a second career as a Congregational minister, Barbara stood by his side, offering unwavering support at Broadview Community Church in Hartford and at the Congregational Church in Groton. Together, they embarked on a shared spiritual journey, with Barbara actively participating in church activities and serving on the Board of Trustees at Groton Congregational Church until her passing.

Barbara leaves four children, Peter A. Dutton and his wife Catherine of Burlington, MA, Robert A. Dutton and his wife Katharine of Granby, Nancy A. Hayes and her husband Stephen of North Granby, and Allison A. Dutton and her fiancé, Elliott Bell of Windsor Locks; nine grandchildren, Stephen Dutton and his wife Elisabeth Granzow of Düsseldorf, Germany, Rachel Harb and her husband Ryan of Amherst, MA, Trevor Dutton and his wife Mary of West Hartford, Ian Dutton and his wife Jessica of Fuquay Varina, NC, Chelsea Dutton and her fiancé Emma Gibson of Queens, NY, Brendan Dutton and his fiancé Cindy Seefahrt of Windsor Locks, Seth Hayes and his wife Casey of Granby, Nathaniel Hayes and his wife Hannah of Broad Brook, and Rebecca Meyer and her husband Rob of Enfield; five great-grandchildren, Oskar Dutton, Zoe Dutton, Liam Dutton, Beckett Dutton, and Hadley Dutton; two sisters, Nancy Hileman and Mary Stober both of Richmond, VA; and many nieces and nephews. In addition to her parents and her husband, she was predeceased by a sister, Margaret “Peggy” Nassetta.

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Charles E. Loomis - March 21, 1936 - April 05, 2024

Departed: 04/05/2024 (Granby)

Obituary Preview: Charles E. Loomis, 88, of Granby, passed away on Friday, April 5, 2024, at Meadowbrook of Granby. Born in Windsor on March 21, 1936, the son of the late Milton and Margaret (Smith) Loomis. Charles attended Windsor High School before leaving to enlist in the United States Marine Corps. He received his GED after proudly serving his country during the Korean War from 1953 - 1960 and being honorably discharged.

Charles working career had many stops over the years, after returning home from the military he worked for the CT State Highway system and earned the nickname “Dusty”, he also drove the mail truck and delivered mail at Hamilton Standard for many years. His greatest job, which he did for 15 years as a school bus driver for the town of Granby.

Charles was a member of the Windsor Grange and an avid gardener who specialized in his pristine rose gardens. He enjoyed taking his family camping, long weekend trips to Maine, New Hampshire and Vermont and enjoyed rooting for the New England Patriots.

Charles is survived by his children, Benjamin C. Loomis and his wife Heidi of Madrid, IA, Linda Clemante and her husband Joseph of Portugal, Shirley L. Janzer of Broad Brook, Robert M. Loomis of Grimes, IA and David A. Loomis and his wife Sharon of Broad Brook, his grandchildren, Wesley B. Loomis and his wife Jayme of Des Moines, IA, Chelsea L. Bonilla and her husband Marco of Broad Brook, Torrey L. Loomis of East Windsor, Adam M. Loomis of Madrid, IA, Joshua R. Loomis of Broad Brook, Brittany A. Janzer of Broad Brook, and Owen R. Loomis of Grimes, IA, his great grandchildren, Riley J. Fry-Loomis, Robert W. Loomis, Decani M. Bonilla, Owen M. Loomis and Roman I. Poglitsch-Loomis.

Charles was predeceased by his parents and brother Robert Loomis and his wife Alice Sheldon Loomis.

Charles family will receive friends on Friday, April 12, 2024, from 10-11AM at Hayes-Huling & Carmon Funeral Home, 364 Salmon Brook Street, Granby, CT 06035.  A memorial service will follow at Carmon’s beginning at 11AM. Burial with full military honors will follow at West Suffield Cemetery.

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Carolyn Akers Carter - August 06, 1946 - March 28, 2024

Departed: 03/28/2024 (Granby)

Obituary Preview: Carolyn (Akers) Carter, 77, of Granby, passed away on Thursday, March 28, 2024, with her loving husband, Robert by her side. Carolyn was born in Goshen, NY in 1946, daughter of the late Leslie and Catherine (Tuthill) Akers.

Raised in Goshen, NY, graduating from Goshen High School in 1964, Carolyn continued her education at Becker Junior College earning an Associate Degree in Accounting. After graduation, Carolyn came to the Hartford area, working briefly at Pratt & Whitney, at Travelers Insurance and then a full career at Cigna in Bloomfield, CT. While at Cigna, Carolyn managed Cigna’s Mutual Fund Accounting Department with some 19 people on her team. There was such a good rapport with this team, they frequently had get-togethers on their own time. Carolyn always kept a friendly but professional presence, she was loved by everyone in the company. Later, Carolyn was the Treasurer for an investment arm of Cigna’s, Global Portfolio Strategies.

Carolyn was a member of the Church of Scientology, having been introduced to the church by her husband Robert when they were first married in 1988. She was an active church member, helping many inmates through extension courses for some 29 years as part of the church’s Criminon program, and participating in many other church volunteer activities. Additionally, Carolyn was a staff member of the church’s local Hartford Mission for some 10 years.

Carolyn played an active part in the Granby community, serving as an elected town official (Zoning Board of Appeals) in the 1970’s, President of the Granby Community Fund and volunteering at the town paper, The Granby Drummer. Carolyn took pleasure in getting along with and helping others.

Carolyn is survived by Husband, Robert J. Carter of Granby, CT; brother, Eugene Akers and wife Lynn of Rochester, NY; and Christopher Akers and wife Kathy of Rock Hill, NY; cousin, Linda (Scoville) Gould of Pauling, NY; many nieces and nephews; and dear friend, Carol Y. Thorney of Granby, CT. Predeceased by her parents, Leslie and Catherine (Tuthill) Akers; sister, Annabelle (Akers) Gowdey; and step-mother, Agnes Akers.

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Joan A. Saltus - March 08, 1940 - March 28, 2024

Departed: 03/28/2024 (Granby)

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Ruth Lorene Edgar - November 05, 1928 - March 24, 2024

Departed: 03/24/2024 (Granby)

Obituary Preview: Ruth Lorene (Lori) Edgar, 95, passed away peacefully March 24th in her beloved Granby home. She moved to Granby, long ago and opened her own business as a real estate and insurance agent. Ruth loved her time in Granby and made many dear friends. She will be laid to rest in a family plot in Columbus, Ohio where she will join her mother, father and siblings. Ruth was a devote Catholic. She loved her Lord and Savior with all her heart and soul. Carmon Funeral Home of Granby has care of the arrangements.

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Benjamin W. Lanser - March 18, 1991 - March 24, 2024

Departed: 03/24/2024 (Granby)

Obituary Preview: Benjamin W. Lanser, 33, son of Harry Lanser Jr and Catherine Wilson Lanser, longtime resident of Granby, passed away unexpectedly on Sunday, March 24, 2024, at home. Benjamin was born on March 18, 1991, in Granby, CT. He was a graduate of Granby Memorial High School, class of 2009.

Over the years Benjamin found himself working independently, in general construction and as a painter. He enjoyed the outdoors and hiking our lovely trails in Connecticut. As a youngster his interest in animals was nurtured by his participation in Granby 4H. He had a special connection to animals and will be profoundly missed by his most recent constant K9 companion DayDay.

He will be dearly missed by his father Harry Lanser Jr, and wife Diana of Granby, his mother Catherine Wilson Lanser of St. Augustine, FL; sister Sophia Zoraida Lanser of Granby; aunts, Rosemary Wallace of Coventry, Kristine Tarshis and her husband Jerry of Chicago, IL; uncles, Edward Wilson and his wife Michele of Vernon, Philip Wilson of Vernon, Dr. Michael Lanser and his wife Wei Wei of Orlando, FL, Robert Lanser and his wife Marilyn of Beach City, TX, Daniel Beaupre of Coventry, and many cousins. Benjamin is predeceased by his grandparents Barbara and Harry Lanser Sr., Edward Wilson Sr., Rosemary and William Donlin, and Sara Montenegro De Naupari; his brother, Harry R. Lanser III, as well as his aunt Cynthia Beaupre.

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John W. Mountain - May 28, 1968 - March 19, 2024

Departed: 03/19/2024 (Granby)

Obituary Preview: John W. Mountain, 55, of Granby, beloved husband of Tracy V. (Strniste) Mountain, passed away peacefully with his close family on March 19, 2024, after courageously battling cancer for nearly three years. Born in Westfield, Massachusetts, the son of the late Terrance Mountain and Joan Welch. John attended local schools and was a graduate of Southwick High School.

John was very hardworking starting his first job at twelve years old. Following high school, John worked at Big Y, eventually becoming a store manager. After John and Tracy were married in 2007, they purchased the Granville Country Store. Together hand and hand for the next 17 years they owned and operated the country store. John was very social and always had kind words for his customers and literally knew everyone in town. John was passionate for real estate and enjoyed investing and operating all sorts of properties. He was also an avid fan of exotic cars and enjoyed taking rides with his family in one of his own. On cold nights before a roaring fire, John would often watch classic movies with his family. John was a hard worker who started with very little and reveled in the highly successful business ventures he accomplished over the years.

At his core, John was a family man. John’s greatest joy was spending time with his wife, Tracy, and his children. John and Tracy were soulmates, best friends and did everything together. He loved spending time with his children, swimming and biking, traveling and just being the “Fun Dad.” He was a great listener, always made his family feel safe, had an amazing personality, a wonderful sense of humor and enjoyed sarcasm. John always made his family and those around him laugh.

He is survived by his wife of 20 years, Tracy (Strniste) Mountain of Granby, CT his daughter, Taylor Mountain of Granville, MA, his son, Collin Terrance Mountain of Granby, CT his daughter, Abbey Gean Mountain of Granby, CT, his mother, Joan Welch of Westfield, MA, and his brothers, Terrance Mountain of Southwick, MA and Corey Welch of Westfield, MA and sister, Michelle Colson of Westfield, MA, and his fathers and mothers-in-law Peter Strniste and Barbara of Granville, MA and Richard and Tina Deblois of Palm Coast, FL, and his brothers-in-law Peter Strniste, Jr. of Boston, MA, Roland Deblois and his wife Alyssa of Palm Coast, FL and Andrew Strniste and his wife Brittany of Rutland, VT, and his beloved Bernese Mountain dog, Bernie.

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David W. Barrett - January 05, 1942 - March 12, 2024

Departed: 03/12/2024 (Granby)

Obituary Preview: David Warren Barrett, 82. of East Hartland, born on the fifth day of January 1942 passed peacefully, surrounded by family on March 12, 2024. David (Dave) was born in Camden, New Jersey to father Harry C. Barrett and Florence (Haines) Barret, and raised in New Jersey with Sister Lois (Barrett) Pettengill. Dave always had a love of learning. He graduated second in his high school class at Merchanville High School. Having received a full scholarship to Princeton University, Dave graduated with the class of 1963. Dave continued his education at the University of Connecticut Graduate School with a masters of science in Aerospace Engineering. In his youth, Dave enjoyed spending his time at hobby shops selling model cars and trains. He continued this passion throughout his adulthood. Dave was an active member of the Hartland Historical Society and a valued member of the Hartland Fire Department. He enjoyed his work at Pratt And Whitney and enjoyed early retirement from his career at United Technologies, where he received several awards and accommodations. March of 1983, Dave married his forever sweetheart Annette Rose (Bascom) Barrett and built a love and life they could share until her passing in November of 2019. Dave continued to surround himself with family until his death. He is survived by his children Beverly Sfreddo, Patricia Stiles, David Cague, and Sharon Loomis. His many grandchildren Jessica, Rebecca, Thomas, Chelsea, Christopher, Torrey, Joseph, and Joshua, his even larger amount of Great Grandchildren, and his dear friend and canine animal companion Harley. David’s family will receive friends on Wednesday, March 20, 2024, from 10AM to 11AM at Hayes-Huling & Carmon Funeral Home, 364 Salmon Brook Street, Granby, CT 06035. A memorial service will follow beginning at 11AM at Carmon’s. Donations in David’s memory may be made to Connecticut Antique Machinery Association, PO Box 425, Kent, CT 06757 or East Hartland Volunteer Fire Department, 34 South Road, East Hartland, CT 06027. For condolences or directions please visit www.carmonfuneralhome.com.

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Priscilla Jane Stafford - June 23, 1933 - March 04, 2024

Departed: 03/04/2024 (Granby)

Obituary Preview: Priscilla Jane Stafford, 90, of Bristol and formerly of Granby and Simsbury, beloved wife of the late Theodore Stafford, passed away peacefully on Monday, March 4, 2024, in Bristol. Born in Westfield, MA on June 23, 1933, daughter of the late Harold E. and Maude (Smith) Case, she was raised in Granby and Simsbury and was a graduate of Simsbury High School, Class of 1951.

After raising her children, Priscilla took a position at Cigna Insurance Company where she worked in the cafeteria for many years before moving to Florida where she lived for over 24 years. Priscilla returned to Granby in 2004 to be closer to her children and in 2021 she moved to Bristol.

Priscilla was an active member of AmVets and the VFW Ladies Auxiliary in both Connecticut and Florida. She volunteered for many fundraisers and projects to support veterans in her community and was passionate about their work. A longtime Granby resident, Priscilla was also a member of the First Congregational Church in Granby. In her spare time, she enjoyed reading, word searches, and crocheting.

She leaves six children, Pam Ingraham of Ashland, ME, Gail Wolfe and her husband Robert of Eatonton, GA, Leo Mele and his wife Denyse of Granby, Angelo Mele of Schenectady, NY, Michael Murak of East Granby, and Stanley Murak and his wife Jacqueline of Cromwell; and many grandchildren and great-grandchildren. In addition to her husband, she was predeceased by a brother, Arlow H. Case, Sr.; and a sister, Elnora Olin.

Her family will receive friends on Tuesday, March 12, 10-11 a.m., followed by a memorial service at 11 a.m., at the Hayes-Huling & Carmon Funeral Home, 364 Salmon Brook St., Granby. Burial will follow in Simsbury Cemetery. Memorial donations may be made to the Metacomet VFW Post #1926, P.O. Box 211, Simsbury, CT 06070-0211.

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Judith Karen Lavender - June 19, 1945 - March 02, 2024

Departed: 03/02/2024 (Granby)

Obituary Preview: Judith Karen Lavender, of Granby, CT died March 2, 2024 after a long illness. She leaves behind her devoted partner Charles Porter, of Granby, CT., her mother Beverly Lavender, formerly of West Hartford and her sister Joan Lavender of New York City. Judy was a graduate of Conard High School, West Hartford, CT. and of Clark University in Worcester, MA. Judy was a lifelong animal lover and at one point served as an Animal Officer in Somerville, MA., choosing to adopt animals rather than see them euthanized. Judy was a uniquely lively person whose life fulfilled Henry Thoreau’s “marching to a different drummer.” The Hayes Huling & Carmon Funeral Home of Granby is caring for the arrangements which will be private for her family. Donations may be made to a charity of the Donor’s choice. For condolences, please visit www.carmonfuneralhome.com

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Heidi Robinson Fitzgerald - July 27, 1958 - February 28, 2024

Departed: 02/28/2024 (Granby)

Obituary Preview: Heidi Robinson (Eldred) Fitzgerald, 65, of Granby CT. Passed away peacefully on February 28, 2024, at UCONN Health Center. Heidi was born in Ann Arbor Michigan on July 27, 1958, to Ken and Marie Eldred.

She grew up in Simsbury and graduated from Simsbury High School and Westfield State University with a degree in Fine Arts. She began her 40-year career at McLean Home in Simsbury where she joined a team through a government grant exploring memory retention techniques in patients with early onset Alzheimer disease. As her career progressed, she held positions at Belden Forest Court, St. Mary Home, Governors House, and Suffield House. She always considered the residents as “Her” residents and their wellbeing were always paramount. After an illness she retired in 2019.

Heidi was a very warm and loving soul who brought joy and happiness into every aspect of her life. She had an ability to overlook the negative aspects of life that often surround us, and to find the positive and joyful whatever they may be. Her warmth and generosity of spirit touched everyone who knew her.

Heidi enjoyed the outdoors, and spending time with lifelong friends. Autumn was her favorite season as her son and often innumerable friends would be welcomed with open arms to celebrate a fall weekend. She loved the commotion and joy they spread.

She is survived by her husband Robert J. Fitzgerald of Granby CT and her son James P. Fitzgerald of NYC; brother, Jeff Eldred of Jacksonville FL; sister, Shannon (Eldred) Green of Beaufort SC and sister, Suzanne (Sis) Eldred of Albuquerque NM. She was predeceased by her brother Kevan Eldred. Our thanks to all the doctors, nurses, and staff of the ICU at UCONN Health Center, for all their attention and kindness. Also, to the professionals of the Granby Ambulance Association. There will be no calling hours scheduled. A private memorial for family and close friends will be held at Hayes-Huling & Carmon Funeral Home in Granby. For online memories and condolence please visit, www.carmonfuneralhome.com

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Alan Richard Mather - August 18, 1950 - February 28, 2024

Departed: 02/28/2024 (Granby)

Obituary Preview: Alan Richard Mather, 73, of East Granby, passed away peacefully on February 28, 2024, at home.  Alan attended local schools and was a graduate of East Windor High School.  He had a very successful lifelong career as a meat cutter.  He is survived by his wife, Evelyn of East Granby, his sister, Ruth Cate of Windsor Locks, his daughters, Marie Mather of New Jersey and Zara Mather of East Granby, his brothers, James W. Mather of Suffield and Charles E. Mather of North Ft. Myers, FL.

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Marjorie Bacon Gracey - November 12, 1935 - February 27, 2024

Departed: 02/27/2024 (Granby)

Obituary Preview: Marjorie Bacon Gracey, 88, died on February 27, 2024, at her home in Cornwall, Connecticut.

Raised in New Haven, Marjorie received a B.A. from Skidmore College and an M.S. from Tufts University's Boston School of Occupational Therapy. She met her husband, Jerry, in Boston and they married in 1960, moving shortly afterward to Granby, Connecticut, where she raised three sons: Ian, Daniel, and Michael.

She devoted the next two decades to her artwork, raising her sons, and hosting friends, nephews, and cousins who came to her home to enjoy games of wiffleball, football, basketball, and hockey on a home-made rink which she often tended with care on cold winter nights. She presided over both a kitchen table where boys might eat quick dinners in their skates, and an elegant dining room where the extended family lingered over holidays meals. Marjorie loved the town she called home for fifty-four years.

She served as a president of the Granby Historical Society and while she engaged in numerous activities for the betterment of her town, she also engaged in quieter pursuits: reading, tending flower and vegetable gardens, and most importantly, creating art. She produced beautiful work as a pewter-smith, and delicate works of cloisonne that are cherished by friends, family, and patrons. Still, her greatest gift may be the love and patience she offered to many boys growing up in Granby, CT. She and her family loved their vacation home in Harpswell, ME a peaceful respite from their life in Granby Center. Marjorie spent the last eight years of her life in Cornwall, CT with her devoted caregiver, Delia Miller.

She was predeceased by her husband, Jerry, her son, Daniel, her brother, Alfred Bacon, her sister, Jean Bacon Bryant, and her parents, Alfred and Jean Bacon. She is survived by Ian and Martha Gracey of Orr's Island, ME, Michael and Michelle Gracey of Newburyport, MA, Ewart Skinner and Rebecca Green of Bowling Green, OH, nine grandchildren: Abigail, Aidan, Angus, Elizabeth, Jedidiah, Katherine, Madigan, Olivia, and Rebecca, nephews Charles Bryant and David Bryant and their families, and many other cousins, nephews, and nieces. Many more were touched by her love, creativity, and loyalty.

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Dale Martin Tuczinski - January 07, 1965 - February 22, 2024

Departed: 02/22/2024 (Granby)

Obituary Preview: Dale Martin Tuczinski, 59, of Granville, MA peacefully entered into eternal rest on February 22, 2024 after a three year battle with Lewy Body Dementia. He was born on January 7, 1965, in Chatham, NY to the late Martin J. and Carol J. Tuczinski. He graduated from Chatham High School, where he participated in football, basketball, and baseball. Dale first attended Columbia–Greene Community College, and then transferred to SUNY Plattsburgh where he obtained his Bachelor’s and Master’s degrees in School Counseling and served as a Resident Assistant and Residence Hall Director. He also worked as an Apartment Complex Director at Providence College. He later received a NYS Certificate in Guidance and Counseling at Sage Graduate School in Troy, NY.

Dale had a long and fulfilling career working as a guidance counselor for the Ichabod Crane Middle School for 28 years until his retirement in 2022. With his compassionate and charismatic attitude, he was lovingly known as “Mr. T” by students, parents, and staff. The impact that Dale had on the students, families, and staff is immeasurable. He always made time to meet with anyone who was struggling and provided them with the support they needed. He truly left an indelible mark on the entire school community.

Many friends also knew Dale as “Doppler Dale” because of his love of storms and predicting weather patterns. Dale’s alternative career would have been a weatherman, had he not fallen in love with middle school guidance counseling.

When he wasn’t working, Dale enjoyed hunting and fishing with his father, brother, and many friends. He was always up for an adventure and loved to travel, Cape Cod and Lake George were among his favorites. On the weekends you could find Dale on his boat at Congamond Lake, soaking up the sun with his children. His more peaceful moments were found sitting on the back porch with his doting wife in their matching Adirondack chairs. Dale loved the warm breeze, the smell of lilacs, and the clucking sounds of their many chickens and ducks. Although Dale lived in the northeast his entire life, he was an avid fan of the Los Angeles Rams along with his brother Dan and would not miss a football game when they were playing!

Dale leaves to cherish his memory, his loving children, Benjamin, Caroline, and Matthew of East Granby, CT; his loving wife Christine, and three step-children, Stephanie, Spencer, and Sadie of Granville, MA; his brother Daniel and wife Adriana Tuczinski of Clinton, CT; and his sister Deborah and husband Carl Campbell of Hillsdale, NY. He leaves his loving nieces Amanda, Emily, and Kelsey, and his nephew Christopher. He also leaves his four-legged best friends, Bear and Sammy, with whom he shared many outdoor adventures.

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Anne Camp St. John - February 09, 1936 - February 14, 2024

Departed: 02/14/2024 (Granby)

Obituary Preview: Anne Camp St John, 88, of Granby and Groton Long Point, passed away Feb. 14, 2024, surrounded by her loving family. Anne was the beloved wife of the late Russell G. St John and was born to Imogene Ridgely and Frederick Sewall Camp in Norwich growing up across the street from the beach in Groton Long Point.

She attended Grier High School in Pennsylvania and Colby Sawyer Jr. College in New Hampshire. Anne raised her family in North Granby and was very active in town activities. Once her kids were in school, she began work at Talbots, eventually becoming the Assistant Manager. She was a beloved coworker and mentored many of her associates over the years. She was a member of Stony Hill Village Elderly Housing Board and Treasurer for 30 years and also volunteered with the Granby Visiting Nurses Association until Covid temporarily halted operations. With her husband Russ she was a stalwart Poll worker in Granby, a trait she lovingly passed down to her children who still continue the practice.

Anne was also an avid Red Sox and Women’ UConn Huskies Basketball Fan for many years. Anne’s family was always the center of her life, and she welcomed many visitors into her home, especially thru the American Field Service exchange program. In addition to providing a welcome home for guests, she also welcomed life at the beach at Groton Long Point in the house she grew up in which still remains with the family.

She leaves her children, Peter St John and his wife Elaine, Tracey Bissell and her husband Tom, Liz Sanford and her husband Ted and Connie Concetto (who came into her life from AFS) and her husband Dante. She was very proud of her grandchildren, Ericsson Bissell, Will Sanford and Libby Sanford and took great pride playing the loving grandma whenever the opportunity presented itself. She was predeceased by her husband Russ; her parents; her brother Henry S. Camp; and by her grandfathers, Walter T. Camp and Rear Admiral Randoph Ridgley USCG, who were also very important to her.

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Frederick C. Slater - October 02, 1924 - February 14, 2024

Departed: 02/14/2024 (Granby)

Obituary Preview: Frederick Charles Slater, 99, of Granby, CT, passed away peacefully at home on Wednesday, February 14, 2024, surrounded by family. He was born on October 2, 1924 in Springfield, Massachusetts. He was first adopted by Leon C. Brown and Elizabeth Brown and then later adopted by Burton Slater and Lillian (Lidu) Slater.

Fred served in the US Army Air Corps (USAAF) during WWII as a B-17 ball turret gunner. He joined in 1943 and in 1944 he was shot down over Germany and spent 10 months in three POW camps.

After his discharge, he married “the girl next door” and love of his life on June 22, 1946 and spent 77 wonderful years with Alma B. Slater. Together they raised three children in Hartford, CT, and then settled in Granby, CT in 1960. Fred worked at Royal Typewriter and Peter L. Brown Aluminum Siding before starting his own business at Master Craft Siding Co. He retired in 1989.

Fred was a devoted husband and father, a hard worker and reliable man who could fix anything yet remained humble, never taking credit for his achievements. He was an avid drummer, loved listening to 40s music, golfing, and spending time with his “bride” and family. In 2011, when Fred was 87, his birth family was finally located. He was born Harold Wood and is predeceased by his parents, Alfred V. Wood Jr. and Elvera (Torras) Wood, of Brunswick, Georgia. On Thanksgiving, 2011, the family celebrated a grand reunion in Georgia with his two biological sisters, Beverly and Barbara, and many relatives. Upon his return home to Granby, he said, “I feel complete now.”

Fred’s adoring wife Alma passed away only seven weeks before him; he did not want to be apart from her and joined her on Valentine’s Day. Fred was also predeceased by his son, Donald J. Slater, and his sister, Barbara (Wood) Whitlock. He will be greatly missed by his devoted children, Robert Slater and wife Barbara, of Somers, CT, Christina (Slater) Kevorkian and husband Gary, of Simsbury, CT, his sister, Beverly (Wood) Bittinger, of St. Simons Island, GA, seven grandchildren, several great grandchildren, nieces and nephews.

He will be remembered for his kind and gentle nature, his deep blue eyes, his love of music and drumming, and the way he would dance in the kitchen with his “bride” any chance he could. Our family gives special thanks to his caregiver, MJ, who filled Fred and Alma’s last years with love and careful attention.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Thursday, March 21, 2024, 10:00 AM at St. Therese Parish, 120 W Granby Rd, Granby, CT 06035. A burial will follow at Granby Cemetery, 6 N Granby Rd, Granby, CT 06035, for both Frederick and Alma Slater. Military Honors for Frederick Slater will be held at the cemetery.

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Phyllis Beeman - March 23, 1928 - February 12, 2024

Departed: 02/12/2024 (Granby)

Obituary Preview: March 23, 1928 - February 12, 2024

Phyllis (Jill) Cleaveland Beeman, daughter of Frank and Edna (Darby) Cleaveland, has passed away.

Jill was born at Hartford Hospital.  It was the horse-drawn milk wagon that brought her first home to East Hartland as the roads "up the mountain" were too muddy for motor vehicles to pass.  She grew up on the family dairy farm with her two older sisters Connie and Peggy.  So sparse was the traffic on the road then, summer evenings included porch sitting to watch for a passing car.  Later when asked by those waxing nostalgia for the "simpler days", Jill would make sure it was known that work, from sunup to sunset, was the theme of each and every day on the farm.

After completing the Gilbert School, Jill moved to the city of Winsted, CT.  There she was introduced to Elmer (Al) Beeman, her best friend Betsy's brother.  Jill wed the young serviceman at age twenty and together they proceeded to raise their family on the Cleaveland's Hill Top Farm.  Over the decades the farm transitioned from dairy barn, machine shop as well as cross country ski area.

Jill worked as an assembler in factories, a school bus (using her own station wagon) driver, owned and operated the Cleaveland Real Estate agency and was a personal care attendant for the McClean Home Simsbury.  Phyllis earned certification as a Therapeutic Touch Practitioner during the practice 's pioneering days.  Jill volunteered for the Red Cross, 4-H Leadership and is well-remembered for her role as a Hartland Cub Scout Leader.  Jill was a lifetime congregant of the 1st Congregational Church of Hartland serving as a member of the chorus, a deacon and Sunday School Teacher.

Jill spent her later years living as a resident of the Virginia Connolly Assisted Living in Simsbury.  Her strength of spirit was reflected in her ability to adjust to her new environment.  For a while she was the only resident with a red convertible, her trademark.  She made many meaningful relationships with people of diverse ages and backgrounds there.

Jill contributed greatly to those around her in small gestures and large offerings.  She is considered Mother to many.  She was a true nurturer and advocate.  Jill encouraged the ones she loved to grow their individual selves, reminding them that they were "just perfect.'  During her long life, Jill met the inherent and unique challenges while remaining open to many joys.  Jill will be remembered as being a truly beautiful person inside and out.  Her legacy of kindness will live on in those she left behind.

She was preceded in death by her parents, sisters, and husband of 45 years, as well as by daughter Lorraine, son William (Michael), and granddaughter Rebecca.  She leaves her sons Gary (Pat), Robert (Starr) and daughter Colleen, grandchildren: Morgan, Jessica, Evan, Brooke, Alasandra, Cayle, and Lillian.  Great grandchildren: Ethan, Abbie, Owen, Penelope, Kane and Tatum.  She was loved by all of her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren, as well as those she "adopted" throughout her lifetime, especially Mary Root.

A memorial service for Phyllis (Jill) Cleaveland Beeman will be held on what would have been Jill's 96th Birthday, March 23, 2024, at 10AM at the 1st Congregational Church of East Hartland, 5 Hartland Blvd 2, East Hartland, CT 06027.  Famiy will receive attendees following the service.  Carmon Funeral Home of Granby has care of the arrangements.

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Charles F. Maule - October 07, 1952 - February 10, 2024

Departed: 02/10/2024 (Granby)

Obituary Preview: Charles Frederick Maule, 71, of East Granby, passed away at Amberwoods of Farmington on February 10, 2024. Born in Torrington on October 7, 1952, the son of the late Robert and Louise (Rinaldi) Maule. Charles attended local schools. Following High School Charles enlisted in the United States Marine Corps and proudly served his country during the Vietnam War.

After being honorably discharged from the Marines, Charles worked as a private investigator for some time and then as an electrician throughout his remaining employed years. His last employer was Macy’s and he thoroughly enjoyed the people as well as his work while there.

He was a food connoisseur and enjoyed cooking for others. His family was very important to him. (La Familia). He liked to venture out trying all kinds of new experiences and helped others when the opportunity arose.

Charles was a longtime communicant of St. Therese Church in Granby.

Charles is survived by his daughter, Heather Sabotka of Mason, NH, his son, Nicholas Maule and his wife Kimberly of West Hartford, his eleven grandchildren, Saranne Sabotka, Evie Sabotka, Dietrich Sabotka, Tucker Sabotka, Brynn Sabotka, Bella Sabotka, Oakland Sabotka, Grayson Sabotka, Lyra Maule, Olivia Maule and Finley Maule, his great-granddaughter, Miabella Faye Dube, his sisters, Jeanne Russo of West Suffield and Nancy Alleva of Simsbury, and many beloved niece, nephews, cousins, aunts and uncles.

Charles was predeceased by his parents, his grandson Matthew Martin, son in-law Jason Sabotka, brother-in-law Carl Alleva and Nephew Joel Russo. Charles family will receive friends on Sunday, February 18, 2024, from 2-5PM at the Hayes-Huling & Carmon Funeral Home, 364 Salamon Brook Street, Granby, CT 06035. A Liturgy of Christian Burial will take place on Monday, February 19, 2024, at 10AM at St. Therese Church, 120 W. Granby Road, Granby, CT 06035. Burial with full Military Honors will follow at St. Bernard Cemetery in Tariffville. Donations in Charles Memory may be made to Disabled American Veterans, PO Box 14301

Cincinnati, OH 45250-030.

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A Commitment to Personalized Service

No two individuals are alike, and neither should their farewell ceremonies be. At Hayes-Huling & Carmon Funeral Home, their experienced team takes the time to get to know each family they serve, listening attentively to their stories, traditions, and wishes. This personalized approach enables them to craft unique and meaningful tributes that celebrate the life of your loved one in a way that is both authentic and memorable.

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From traditional funeral services to cremations, memorial gatherings, and celebrations of life, Hayes-Huling & Carmon Funeral Home offers a comprehensive range of options to suit every family's preferences and requirements. Their experienced staff will guide you through the planning process, ensuring that every detail is meticulously attended to and that your wishes are respected.

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While it may seem difficult to consider, pre-planning your funeral arrangements can be a thoughtful gesture to those you leave behind. By making your wishes known and taking care of the details in advance, you can spare your loved ones from having to make difficult decisions during an already emotional time. The experienced team at Hayes-Huling & Carmon Funeral Home can guide you through the pre-planning process, helping you create a plan that reflects your values, preferences, and budget.

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Losing a loved one can be a devastating experience, but it doesn't have to be faced alone. Hayes-Huling & Carmon Funeral Home is committed to providing ongoing support to those who have suffered a loss. Through their affiliation with local support groups, counseling services, and community organizations, they offer a network of resources designed to help you navigate the grieving process.

A Legacy That Continues

As you navigate the complexities of planning a funeral or memorial service, it's reassuring to know that you're not alone. The compassionate team at Hayes-Huling & Carmon Funeral Home stands ready to support you every step of the way. With their guidance, expertise, and unwavering commitment to excellence, you can trust that your loved one will be honored with dignity, respect, and love.

If you're seeking a funeral home that embodies the values of compassion, integrity, and dedication, look no further than Hayes-Huling & Carmon Funeral Home. Located at 364 Salmon Brook St., Granby, CT 06035, they invite you to experience their exceptional service for yourself.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their surviving family members, funeral arrangements, and any notable achievements or accomplishments.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to notify friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a sense of closure and help to celebrate the life of the deceased.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, a family member or close friend of the deceased writes the obituary. In some cases, a funeral home or newspaper may assist with writing the obituary.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their surviving family members, funeral arrangements, and any notable achievements or accomplishments.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary, but it's generally recommended to keep it concise and to the point. Aim for around 150-200 words.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many newspapers and online obituary platforms allow you to include photos with the obituary. This can be a nice way to personalize the tribute and make it more meaningful.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Contact the newspaper directly to find out their specific submission guidelines. Some newspapers may have online forms or email addresses where you can submit the obituary, while others may require you to visit their office in person.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary before they pass away. This can be a therapeutic way to reflect on your life and legacy, and can also ensure that your story is told in your own words.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the newspaper or online platform. Some may charge by the word or line, while others may offer package deals or discounts for longer notices.

Can I edit an obituary after it's been published?

In most cases, it's not possible to make changes to an obituary once it's been published. Be sure to proofread carefully before submitting the final version.

What if I want to keep the obituary private?

If you prefer not to share the obituary publicly, you can opt for a private or "family-only" notice. This will typically only be shared with immediate family members and close friends.

Can I include humor or personal anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! An obituary should reflect the personality and spirit of the deceased. Including humor or personal anecdotes can help bring comfort and smiles to those reading it.

How do I find an old obituary?

You can try searching online archives or visiting your local library or genealogical society. Many newspapers also maintain archives of past issues that can be searched by date or name.

Can I republish an old obituary on social media?

If you're sharing an old obituary on social media, be sure to obtain permission from the original publisher or copyright holder first. You may also want to consider reaching out to family members or friends of the deceased for their input or approval.

What if I'm unsure about what to say in an obituary?

If you're struggling to find the right words, consider speaking with a funeral director or counselor who can offer guidance and support. You can also look at examples of other obituaries for inspiration.

Can I include charitable donations in an obituary?

Yes! Many families choose to include information about charitable donations in lieu of flowers in the obituary. This can be a meaningful way to honor the deceased and continue their legacy.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The timeframe for publishing an obituary varies depending on the newspaper or online platform. Some may publish immediately, while others may take several days or even weeks.

Can I correct errors in an already-published obituary?

If you notice errors in an already-published obituary, contact the newspaper or online platform as soon as possible. They may be able to issue a correction or reprint the notice with corrections.

What if I want to write multiple obituaries for different publications?

You can certainly write multiple versions of an obituary tailored to different audiences or publications. Just be sure to keep track of which version goes where!

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Absolutely! Quotes, lyrics, or poems can add depth and meaning to an obituary. Choose something that resonates with the deceased's personality or spirit.

How do I handle conflicting opinions about what should be included in an obituary?

If there are disagreements among family members or friends about what should be included in the obituary, try to find common ground and prioritize what's most important. Remember, the goal is to honor and celebrate the life of the deceased.

What if I need help writing an obituary due to emotional distress?

If you're struggling emotionally and need help writing an obituary, consider reaching out to a trusted friend, family member, or professional counselor for support. They can help guide you through the process and offer emotional support during this difficult time.

Can I use social media to share an obituary?

Absolutely! Social media can be a powerful tool for sharing news of a loved one's passing and connecting with others who are grieving. Consider creating a memorial page or sharing a link to the online obituary.

How do I preserve an online obituary over time?

If you're concerned about an online obituary being removed or lost over time, consider printing out a hard copy or saving it as a PDF file. You can also create a digital archive or scrapbook with memories and mementos from the deceased's life.

What if I'm unsure about what type of information is appropriate for an online versus print obituary?

A general rule of thumb is that online obituaries tend to be more informal and conversational, while print obituaries are often more formal and concise. Consider your audience and adjust accordingly.