Hamel-Lydon Chapel & Cremation Service of Massachusetts Obituaries

Introduction to Hamel-Lydon Chapel & Cremation Service of Massachusetts

Hamel-Lydon Chapel & Cremation Service of Massachusetts is a trusted and compassionate funeral home located in Quincy, Massachusetts. With a rich history and commitment to serving the local community, this esteemed funeral home provides personalized and dignified funeral services to families in their time of need. In this article, we will delve into the history, services, and amenities offered by Hamel-Lydon Chapel & Cremation Service, as well as what sets them apart from other funeral homes in the area.

A Brief History of Hamel-Lydon Chapel & Cremation Service

Founded on a foundation of compassion, respect, and dedication, Hamel-Lydon Chapel & Cremation Service has been serving the Quincy community for generations. The funeral home's roots date back to the early 20th century, when it was established by a family of funeral directors who were committed to providing exceptional care and service to grieving families. Over the years, the funeral home has undergone transformations and expansions, but its core values have remained unchanged – to provide personalized, professional, and compassionate service to every family it serves.

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Helen Antonopoulos - September 03, 1927 - April 22, 2022

Departed: 04/22/2022 (Quincy)

Obituary Preview: Helen (Stameris) Antonopoulos, 94, of Milton passed away Friday, April 22, 2022 in Scottsdale, AZ.

Born September 3, 1927, in Brookline, MA. Helen was the youngest of 4 children born to the late Arthur and Theoni (Manousos) Stameris.

Beloved wife of 57 years to the late George Antonopoulos.  She is survived by her two daughters, Diane Christias and her husband Lefteri; and Irene Zafferes and her husband James; also survived by her three grandchildren, Diane Gent and her husband Adam; Alexis Zafferes and her fiancé Jonathan Roth; Stavros Christias and his wife Devnie; and great grandson, Zachary Gent.  She is also survived by many nieces and nephews both here in the United States and in Greece.

Her Orthodox faith and Greek heritage were of paramount importance to her. She worked tirelessly to preserve and perpetuate both of these through the many organizations she supported throughout her lifetime. Helen was the driving force who started the local Greek school in Quincy, MA, from which grew the founding members of St. Catherine Greek Orthodox Church in Wollaston, MA (now in Braintree, MA). She was a lifelong active member of the Church and the Ladies Philoptochos Society.  She was also a Life Member and a Board of Trustee of The Hellenic Nursing and Rehabilitation Center in Canton, MA.  She was an active fundraiser for the Hellenic Children's Cardiac Fund at Boston Children's Hospital.  Her career as a travel agent spanned 45 years.

Helen and her late husband, George, enjoyed entertaining family and friends and had many holidays and gatherings in their home throughout the years.

A viewing will be held at St. Catherine Greek Orthodox Church, 119 Common St., Braintree, MA 02184 on Thursday, April 28, from 9:30AM-11:00AM, followed by the Funeral Service at 11:00AM. Burial will be at Milton Cemetery.

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Shao Da Chu 褚绍达 - December 22, 1928 - April 19, 2022

Departed: 04/19/2022 (Quincy)

Obituary Preview: We welcome you to provide your thoughts and memories of Shao Da Chu 褚绍达 on our Tribute Wall.

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Susan McKeen - February 28, 1969 - April 17, 2022

Departed: 04/17/2022 (Quincy)

Obituary Preview: Susan McKeen, 53, of Assonet passed peacefully on April 17, 2022.

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Katherine McCarthy - April 07, 1949 - April 12, 2022

Departed: 04/12/2022 (Quincy)

Obituary Preview: Katherine Lucy McCarthy, 73, of Stoughton passed peacefully on April 12, 2022.

Preceded in death by her mother Helen Loureio, her Step-Father John Loureio, her Father Manuel Santos, and her siblings Diane Arruda and Ronald John Santos.

Katherine is survived by her children Susie Ann Morgan and her husband Christopher, Robert Mitchell Ballard Jr., and Denise Lee Rudnicki. She leaves behind her grandchildren Alexandra, Cameron, Damian, Drew, David, Michaela, Courtney, Michael, and her great grandson Quincy. Katherine also leaves behind several nieces and nephews. She loved her family and her favorite thing was to see her grandchildren grow into great young men and women.

Katherine started out as a seamstress before she took on the role of a stay at home mother.  She loved animals and had many cats throughout her life and would often enjoy watching the birds from out her windows. Katherine loved to color in her coloring books, read, listen to music, and watch movies.

The family would like to thank the staff at New England Sinai Hospital for the wonderful love and care they showed Katherine over the last 21 years.

Memorial Visitation will be Thursday April 21, 2022 from 10-11 am followed by a Funeral at 11 am at Hamel Lydon Chapel and Cremation Service of MA, 650 Hancock Street in Quincy. Interment to follow at St. Mary’s Cemetery in New Bedford, MA. Mom, we will miss you greatly!! We take solace in knowing you are no longer in pain. You have been a fighter and stayed with us longer than we thought you would. You have now joined the rest of your family your mom, dad, sister and brother.  Now we have another guardian angel watching over us all! Love you. - Susie, Chris, Alexandra and Cameron

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Ricky Rice - January 23, 1953 - April 12, 2022

Departed: 04/12/2022 (Quincy)

Obituary Preview: Ricky Rice, 69, of Newton passed peacefully on April 12, 2022.

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Melecio Lastima - December 04, 1938 - April 11, 2022

Departed: 04/11/2022 (Quincy)

Obituary Preview: Melecio P. Lastima, 83, of Quincy formerly of Pilar, Camotes, Philippines, passed away April 11, 2022. He was the beloved husband of 30 years to Elena (Salazar).

He is survived by sisters, brother in laws, nieces and nephews, extended family, and friends both here and in the Philippines.

A private funeral Mass will be celebrated.

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Cong "Cowan" Wang 王聪 - September 26, 1998 - April 07, 2022

Departed: 04/07/2022 (Quincy)

Obituary Preview: We welcome you to provide your thoughts and memories of Cong "Cowan" Wang 王聪 on our Tribute Wall.

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Michael Denio - August 09, 1958 - April 07, 2022

Departed: 04/07/2022 (Quincy)

Obituary Preview: Michael C. Denio, “Pop Pop”, 63, of Boylston, Massachusetts passed away on April 7, 2022 at the home he shared with his daughter.  Michael leaves many behind that love and will miss him including his spouse Beverly Denio of Berlin, and his beloved children, daughter Michelle Denio of Boylston; sons Michael E. Denio of Clinton; Joseph Denio and his wife Anna of Berlin, Patrick Denio of Berlin; sisters Maryellen Johnson of Clinton and Maureen Denio of Templeton; brothers Richard Denio of Shrewsbury and William Denio of Jacksonville, FL and his two grandchildren Luciano and Giana of Berlin.

Michael was born in Clinton, MA to the late Richard and Maureen (Scanlon) Denio of Lancaster on August 9, 1958.  Michael grew up in Lancaster and was a Graduate of Nashoba Regional High School in 1976, where he was a pitcher for the Nashoba Chieftains baseball team.  He later attended Quinsigamond Community College where he studied Accounting and worked at Westboro State Hospital for 30 years, managing patient funds.  His favorite part of his job was interacting with patients and getting to know them.

He was an avid sports fan and followed all of Boston sports religiously, especially the Bruins and Red Sox.  As a teenager he organized many street hockey games with his friends in his parent’s driveway and later coached a Lancaster little league team for several years.  His other passions included fishing, trivia and movies.  Michael also had a great sense of humor and the ability to make light of any situation with jokes and an infectious laugh.

Per Michael’s wishes, there will not be any public services. The family is planning a private celebration of his life.  Donations can be made in Michael’s honor to Good Sports, a charity that combines Michael’s love for sports and children at https://www.goodsports.org/ or by mailing a check payable to Good Sports, Inc., 1515 Washington Street, Suite 300, Braintree, MA 02184.

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Dolores Wyman - May 09, 1929 - April 06, 2022

Departed: 04/06/2022 (Quincy)

Obituary Preview: Dolores Wyman, 92, of Quincy passed peacefully on April 6, 2022.

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Athanasius Nkomo - March 12, 1947 - April 06, 2022

Departed: 04/06/2022 (Quincy)

Obituary Preview: Athanasius Nkomo, 75, of Boston passed peacefully on April 6, 2022.

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Mary Parma - August 02, 1921 - April 02, 2022

Departed: 04/02/2022 (Quincy)

Obituary Preview: Mary T. Parma, was born August 2, 1921.  She was 100 when she went home to the Lord on April 2, 2022.

She was the widow of Daniel J. Parma, and Mother of daughter Carol A. Haverly and son Joseph Parma.

Over the years Mary attended art classes and painted with both oils and acrylics.  She was also a proficient pencil artist.  Her other love was in sewing clothing and home furnishings.  She also quilted, knitted and crocheted.

She is survived by her daughter Carol Haverly and her husband Henry of Lakeville, MA and Hobe Sound, FL and her son Joseph Parma and his wife Jean of Lakeville, MA and Bonita Springs, FL.  She is also survived by two grandsons, Daniel and Scott and they loved her dearly.  In addition, she is survived by three great-granddaughters, a great grandson and four great, great-granddaughters who all brought her great joy. She is also survived by her many nieces and nephews.

Among her 5 brothers Charlie, David, Robert, Joseph, Arthur and Gerard, she is survived by her brother Joseph Vogel of Tallahassee, FL who is a Veteran of WWII.

Funeral arrangements are to be determined at a later date.

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Shu He 何淑 - March 20, 1924 - April 01, 2022

Departed: 04/01/2022 (Quincy)

Obituary Preview: In Loving Memory of Shu He

Shu He, 98, of Quincy passed away on April 1, 2022 surrounded by family. She was born on March 20, 1924, in Jilin, China to the late Ze-Heng He and Shi He-Zhu. She will be missed by all for her kindness and loving nature.

Shu grew up in Jilin, Northern China and graduated from Jilin High School For Girls. She attended Da-Lian Business Institute majoring in Accounting. She worked for many years as an accountant in The Horticulture Institute in Harbin, China. In addition to her artistic talents in singing, stage performing, and writing, she had great passions and tastes of sewing and tailoring, and made beautiful dresses for her five daughters when they were young. She was a strong, protective mother. Together with her husband, they raised two successful college graduates, and then she continued to raise three younger daughters to complete their college studies with her little salary on her own during the most difficult time when she was predeceased by her beloved husband, Xing-Han Zhang, who passed way after a battle of stomach cancer in 1980.

Shu is survived by her five daughters: Hui Zhang of San Diego CA, Li Zhang of Quincy MA, Helen Hong Zhang and her husband Alex Cheng of Houston TX, Xin Zhang and her husband Xiang-Tao Tan of Harbin China, and Qun Zhang and her husband Xian-Fang Sun of Windsor Canada. Shu is also survived by seven grandchildren and four great grandchildren. In addition to her parents and husband, Shu was predeceased by her brother Li-Ting He. We are blessed to have had Shu in our lives as our mother. Her memories will FOREVER live in our hearts. Rest in peace, dear Mother, WE LOVE YOU! 卜告：缅怀妈妈，何淑 98岁的妈妈，在2022年4月1曰永远离开了我们。她在亲人的怀抱里安详的闭上双眼，告别了爰她，孝敬她的女儿们；告别了她疼爱的亲人们。 妈妈出生于1924年3月20日。爸爸何泽恒，母亲何朱氏，还有哥哥何鲤庭。妈妈从小聪明好学。小学时以优异的成绩通过高年级考核而跳级一年。高中时就读于吉林女子国高，说一口流利的日语。毕业后在吉林一所小学任教。她与我们的爸爸张兴翰结为夫妻，一同养育了5个女儿。大女儿张卉及其子女定居于美国加州，二女儿张励和家人生活在美国麻州，三女儿张虹和她的先生程跃及儿女生活在美国德州，四女儿张昕和她的先生潭湘涛生活在中国哈尔滨，他们儿子一家生活在美国加州，五女儿张群和她的先生孙宪芳及他们的儿子定居加拿大。 妈妈一生积极上进，对学业刻苦自励。成家后又考进大连财经学院会计专业。一边攻读，一边工作及照顾家庭。而后在黑龙江省园艺研究所任会计师多年，十分敬业。妈妈不仅美貌，而且十分聪明能干。她能歌，善表演, 写得一手好诗文，又做得一手好缝纫。小时候我们总是穿着妈妈亲手设计并裁制的连衣裙。妈妈被研究所里的同事们称为＂大学妈妈＂，因为她和爸爸在那段艰辛的历史时期一起培育了两个大学生，更令人感叹的是她在1980年爸爸因胃癌去世后又独自用她微薄的收入供养叁个女儿大学毕业。妈妈对女儿们无私的付出，疼爱，保护，及培育，令我们受益终生。 妈妈在2003年移居美国。她唯一的哥哥多年前病故。现留有一对女儿、一个儿子，他们的子孙都己长大成人。 妈妈走了。留下的是她那美丽的一生，还有，我们对她无尽的思念。她那灿烂的笑容，委婉的歌声，夕阳下休闲漫步的身影，将永远铭刻在我们的记忆里。 妈妈，愿您在天堂安息，我们永远爱您。

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Zhi Ting Mei 梅治庭 - March 03, 1929 - April 01, 2022

Departed: 04/01/2022 (Quincy)

Obituary Preview: We welcome you to provide your thoughts and memories of Zhi TIng Mei on our Tribute Wall.

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Caixi Huang 黄才喜 - December 12, 1944 - March 31, 2022

Departed: 03/31/2022 (Quincy)

Obituary Preview: We welcome you to provide your thoughts and memories of Cai Xi Huang 黄才喜 on our Tribute Wall.

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Laura Goldsmith - July 22, 1923 - March 31, 2022

Departed: 03/31/2022 (Quincy)

Obituary Preview: Laura Goldsmith, 98, of Hingham passed peacefully on March 31, 2022.

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Alfred F Hamel III - September 21, 1946 - March 30, 2022

Departed: 03/30/2022 (Quincy)

Obituary Preview: Alfred F. Hamel III, 75, of Quincy passed peacefully on March 30, 2022.

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Redger Simjay Hennah - November 14, 1961 - March 28, 2022

Departed: 03/28/2022 (Quincy)

Obituary Preview: Redger Simjay Hennah, 60, of Quincy passed peacefully on March 28, 2022.

As a child Redger enjoyed studying the Bible with his Mother Rosiland Hennah and his Brother, Allen Hennah Sr.. He always was very thoughtful and was helping others even at a young age, all the way to his adulthood as many today can attest to of his personal help within the community, the Veteran’s Administration within West Haven, CT., as well as within the Massachusetts area. He is survived by his Brother Allen Hennah Sr., His sister Redgera Hennah as well as many Half Brothers and Sisters throughout the entire United States. He is also survived by his niece Rosalind Hennah and Nephews Allen Hennah Jr., Ricky Gonzalez, and Bnejamin Hennah. ALL his cousins, ex-wife, and Countless friends whether in Politics or abroad in the United States and various other countries. Love and miss him as do we ALL!!!!!!!! WE ALL RECOGNIZE WHAT JEHOVAH GOD’S FUTURE PROMISE IS FOR ANYONE FOUND WITHIN HIS MEMORY AS JOHN 5: 28, 29 ASSURES US:

Do not be amazed at this, for the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out, those who did good things to a resurrection of life, and those who practiced vile things to a resurrection of judgment. VERY SOON WE WILL WELCOME ALL OUR LOST LOVED ONE’S BACK THAT ARE FOUND WITHIN JEHOVAH GOD’S MEMORY!!!

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Carlos Camacho - October 14, 1946 - March 28, 2022

Departed: 03/28/2022 (Quincy)

Obituary Preview: Carlos Camacho, 75, of New Bedford passed peacefully on March 28, 2022.

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John Culver - March 02, 1932 - March 27, 2022

Departed: 03/27/2022 (Quincy)

Obituary Preview: John Culver, 90, of Cotuit passed peacefully on March 27, 2022.

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Darlene Aitken - May 14, 1956 - March 27, 2022

Departed: 03/27/2022 (Quincy)

Obituary Preview: Darlene Aitken, 65, of Danvers passed peacefully on March 27, 2022.

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Theresa M. Lang - June 07, 1927 - March 26, 2022

Departed: 03/26/2022 (Quincy)

Obituary Preview: Theresa (Welch) Lang, a lifelong resident of Charlestown, entered into eternal life on Saturday, March 26, 2022.  She was 94 years of age. Theresa was born in Boston on June 7, 1927, the daughter of the late Michael and Lillian (Orpen) Welch. She grew up in Charlestown.   Theresa was a homemaker who cared for her loving family above all else.  Theresa will be remembered for her fun loving, nurturing spirit and her good sense of humor.  Theresa is the devoted wife of the late Francis X Lang. Devoted mother of Francis X. Lang and his wife Deborah of Readville. Theresa (Lang) Whalen of Charlestown and the late Noreen (Lang) Durham and Michael Lang. She is also survived by her many grandchildren and great grandchildren.    Relatives and friends are respectfully invited to attend Theresa’s Mass of Christian Burial, Friday April 1 at 10 AM in St Mary’s Church, 55 Warren St., Charlestown.  Theresa will be laid to rest with her husband Francis in the Holy Cross Cemetery, Malden, MA.  Arrangements under the care of Hamel Lydon Chapel, Quincy.  For online condolences please visit www.hamellydon.com

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Gordon Holyoak - December 08, 1930 - March 23, 2022

Departed: 03/23/2022 (Quincy)

Obituary Preview: Gordon Holyoak, 91, of Berlin passed peacefully on March 23, 2022.

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Barbara Landers - February 05, 1940 - March 23, 2022

Departed: 03/23/2022 (Quincy)

Obituary Preview: Barbara A. Landers (Streile) 82, of Yarmouth, MA, passed away peacefully on March 23, 2022.  Born in Connecticut, the only child of the late Edward A. and Florence J. Streile.  Barbara was the wife of the late Arthur Landers and is survived by her daughter, Joy E. Landers and her husband, Charles H. Lufkin as well as a niece, Susan Howe.

Barbara graduated from Newton High School and worked for several years at Honeywell where she met her beloved husband, Arthur, of forty-eight years. Barbara enjoyed a fulfilling life with Arthur in Marlboro where she remained a resident for fifty years before moving to Cape Cod to enjoy living close by to her daughter, son-in-law and all the furry grandchildren; Boxers - Duffy, Delilah and cats, Dominic and Diego.  Barbara enjoyed the Cape life with lengthy visits to the beach with a good book, enjoying a good meal at the many Cape Cod restaurants and delicious back yard barbeques, prepared by her son-in-law, with family and friends. She loved to knit and thoroughly enjoyed the company and rapport with the knitting gatherings she hosted at her home and was an avid fan of watching old movies.

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Rachel Marie Cyr - January 21, 1927 - March 21, 2022

Departed: 03/21/2022 (Quincy)

Obituary Preview: Rachel Cyr, 95, a longtime Quincy resident and a beloved “Nurse’s Nurse” for many years at the former Quincy City Hospital School of Nursing died peacefully at Hancock Park assisted living on March 21, 2022, following a period of declining health.

Raised in Van Buren, Maine where she was educated in Catholic schools and graduated from Madigan Memorial Hospital with a Professional Degree in Nursing.

The youngest of five children born to the late Leo N. and Laura (Martin) Poirier, Rachel was preceded in death by her husband Claude L. Cyr. She is survived by her two sons, James Cyr of Boston and Nicholas Cyr, and his wife Karen of Quincy. Cherished Grandmother to Erica Cyr, Nicholas Cyr Jr., Bryan Cyr, Ashley Cyr, and Michelle Cyr.  Beloved great-grandmother of Noah, Brynn, Jaelyn, Kylie, Athea, Owen, and Mya. She is also survived by nieces, nephews, extended family, and her large circle of Quincy Medical Center family.

Rachel moved to Quincy in September 1966 after accepting a position with then Quincy City Hospital as an operating room nurse; a position she later would recount as her favorite job in the hospital. She later went on to serve as a school nurse for Quincy City Hospital’s Nursing Program, continuing on for several years as a Nursing Supervisor after the nursing school closed, before retiring in January 1990.

She enjoyed cooking, knitting and reading. She is a devoted grandmother, the matriarch, and the anchor of her extended family. Rachel will be dearly missed, but her memory will live on in the hearts of those who knew and loved her.

Relatives and friends are cordially invited to attend calling hours on Thursday, March 31, 2022, from 11:00 am—1:00 pm at the Hamel-Lydon Chapel, 650 Hancock St, Quincy. Private interment will take place at the MA National Cemetery at Bourne.

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Charles W Snow - July 30, 1928 - March 20, 2022

Departed: 03/20/2022 (Quincy)

Obituary Preview: Charles Snow, 93, of Natick passed peacefully on March 20, 2022.

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Funeral Services Offered

Hamel-Lydon Chapel & Cremation Service offers a wide range of funeral services to cater to the diverse needs of the Quincy community. From traditional funerals and memorial services to cremations and celebrations of life, the funeral home's experienced staff will work closely with families to create a personalized and meaningful tribute to their loved one. Some of the specific services offered include:

- Traditional funerals with viewing and burial

- Memorial services with or without remains present

- Cremation services with options for scattering, burial, or keepsake urns

- Celebrations of life, which can be customized to reflect the personality and interests of the deceased

- Pre-planning and pre-funding options for those who wish to plan ahead

Cremation Services

Hamel-Lydon Chapel & Cremation Service understands that cremation is becoming an increasingly popular choice for many families. As such, they offer a range of cremation services designed to meet the unique needs and preferences of each family. Their state-of-the-art crematory is operated by licensed professionals who ensure that every cremation is performed with dignity and respect. Families can choose from various cremation options, including:

- Direct cremation, which involves minimal costs and no formal service

- Cremation with memorial service, which allows families to gather and pay tribute to their loved one

- Cremation with burial or scattering in a cemetery or special location

Facilities and Amenities

The Hamel-Lydon Chapel & Cremation Service facility is designed to provide a comfortable and welcoming environment for families during their time of need. The funeral home features:

- Spacious chapels for services and gatherings

- Comfortable lounges and reception areas for families and friends

- Ample parking and easy accessibility for all visitors

- State-of-the-art audio-visual equipment for personalized tributes and presentations

- On-site crematory for added convenience and peace of mind

Staff and Expertise

The staff at Hamel-Lydon Chapel & Cremation Service are dedicated professionals who possess a deep understanding of the funeral industry and the needs of grieving families. Each member of the team is committed to providing exceptional care and service, ensuring that every family receives personalized attention and support throughout the funeral planning process. The funeral home's staff includes:

- Licensed funeral directors with years of experience

- Certified celebrants who can lead personalized ceremonies

- Support staff who handle administrative tasks and logistics

Community Involvement

Hamel-Lydon Chapel & Cremation Service is deeply rooted in the Quincy community and actively participates in local events, charities, and organizations. The funeral home believes in giving back to the community that has supported them over the years, and they regularly host seminars, workshops, and educational programs on topics related to grief support, estate planning, and senior living.

Why Choose Hamel-Lydon Chapel & Cremation Service?

Families in Quincy and surrounding areas choose Hamel-Lydon Chapel & Cremation Service for many reasons. Here are just a few:

- Personalized service: Every family receives tailored care and attention from experienced professionals.

- Compassionate approach: The funeral home's staff understand the emotional challenges faced by grieving families and provide empathetic support throughout the funeral planning process.

- Flexibility: Hamel-Lydon Chapel & Cremation Service offers a range of services and options to accommodate different preferences, budgets, and cultural traditions.

- Convenience: The funeral home's on-site crematory, chapel, and reception facilities make it easy for families to plan and hold services in one convenient location.

In conclusion, Hamel-Lydon Chapel & Cremation Service of Massachusetts is a trusted funeral home that has been serving the Quincy community with compassion, respect, and professionalism for generations. Whether you're planning ahead or facing an immediate need, their experienced staff will guide you through every step of the funeral planning process. With their commitment to personalized service, flexibility, and community involvement, Hamel-Lydon Chapel & Cremation Service stands out as a premier funeral home in the region.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It's often used to share information about the deceased with friends, family, and community members.

What is the purpose of an obituary?

The primary purpose of an obituary is to inform others of a person's passing, provide details about their life, and offer a way for people to pay their respects. It also serves as a way to celebrate the person's life, share memories, and provide comfort to those who are grieving.

Who typically writes an obituary?

In most cases, the obituary is written by a family member or close friend of the deceased. However, it can also be written by a funeral home or mortuary staff member, especially if the family requests their assistance.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's full name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service (if applicable), hobbies, interests, and surviving family members. It may also include information about funeral services, memorial contributions, and any other relevant details.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or online platform. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from a few sentences to a short paragraph. Some online obituaries can be longer and more detailed.

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In most cases, it's difficult or impossible to make changes to an obituary once it's been published in print. However, some online platforms may allow you to edit or update the notice after it's been posted.

What is a death notice versus an obituary?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, usually including only basic information such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary is a more detailed notice that provides additional information about the person's life.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary in advance as part of their estate planning or as a way to ensure their legacy is told in their own words. This can be a unique and meaningful way to reflect on one's life.

What is a self-written obituary called?

A self-written obituary is sometimes referred to as a "self-obit" or "autobit."

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You can try searching online archives of newspapers or genealogy websites that specialize in historical records. Local libraries or genealogical societies may also have access to archived newspapers and other resources.

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You may need to obtain permission from the original publisher or copyright holder before republishing an old obituary online. Additionally, be respectful of any surviving family members or individuals mentioned in the notice.

What is the difference between an obituary and a eulogy?

An obituary is a written notice announcing a person's death and providing biographical information. A eulogy is a speech or written tribute delivered at a funeral or memorial service to celebrate the person's life and share personal memories.

Can I include humor in an obituary?

Yes, many people choose to include humorous anecdotes or quotes in an obituary as a way to celebrate the person's personality and spirit. Just be sure to consider the tone and audience when doing so.

How do I handle sensitive information in an obituary?

If you're unsure about sharing certain details about the person's life or death, it's best to err on the side of caution and omit that information. Remember that the primary purpose of an obituary is to honor the person and provide comfort to those who are grieving.

Can I include charitable donations in lieu of flowers in an obituary?

Yes, many people choose to suggest charitable donations in lieu of flowers as a way to honor the person's memory and support a cause they cared about. Be sure to include specific details about the charity and how donations can be made.

What if I need help writing an obituary?

If you're struggling to write an obituary or need guidance on what information to include, consider reaching out to a funeral home staff member or asking a trusted friend or family member for assistance.

Can I create my own custom design for an online obituary?

Some online platforms allow you to customize the design and layout of your loved one's obituary page. This can include adding photos, videos, music, and other personal touches.

How long will an online obituary remain available?

The duration that an online obituary remains available varies depending on the platform. Some websites may keep notices active for years or even permanently, while others may remove them after a certain period.

Can I share an online obituary on social media?

Yes, many online platforms provide easy sharing options for social media sites like Facebook, Twitter, and LinkedIn. This can help spread the word about your loved one's passing and allow others to pay their respects.

Is it appropriate to include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Yes, including meaningful quotes or song lyrics can add depth and personality to an obituary. Choose something that resonates with your loved one's values or spirit.

Can I include pets in an obituary?

If your loved one was particularly close to their pets, it's perfectly fine to mention them in the obituary as surviving family members or cherished companions.

What if I'm not comfortable writing about my loved one's cause of death?

You don't have to disclose specific details about your loved one's cause of death if you're not comfortable doing so. Simply stating "passed away" or "died suddenly" can be sufficient.

Can I create a digital archive of my loved one's life story?

Yes, there are various digital tools and platforms that allow you to create a comprehensive archive of your loved one's life story, including photos, documents, stories, and more.