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Ada Jo Harper - February 18, 1957 - April 21, 2024

Departed: 04/21/2024 (Durham)

Obituary Preview: Ada, or Jody as the family knew her, was born in Wauchula, Florida as the  youngest of the six children of Rev. George Lea Harper and Mildred Jeannette Surrency Harper. Jody lived in Florida for her early years and moved around with the pastoral family. She lived in Bartow, Tampa, Jacksonville, Orlando, Mount Dora and finished  High School in Starke. Jody went  on to the University of Richmond in Virginia where she  played Lacrosse and Field Hockey on the Westhampton teams and earned a degree in English.

Jody then followed her lifelong dream of working with animals. Her love of animals led her to work with a veterinarian during several summers during school. She was entranced by the work of Jane Goodall and could not get enough of reading about her work which led her to researching animals all her life. She completed the two-year Zoo Animal Technology Program at Santa Fe Community College in Gainesville, Florida.

She worked in a local zoo, then went on to work in various zoos throughout the country. One of her great joys was always giving family members behind-the-scenes tours at the zoos where she worked. At the Norfolk, Virginia Zoo she focused on reptiles. At the North Carolina Zoo in Asheboro, she worked with chimpanzees, lions, zebras, giraffes, and other animals in her area. There she was even able to help with the live birth of a baby giraffe that was coming out sideways. Her biggest thrill was that she was chosen to be one of the keepers to work on the Jane Goodall project to do the observation and recording for the "Advanced Cognition in the Wild Chimpanzees." She recorded the zoo chimpanzees engaging in many complex behaviors so they could compare them to the wild chimpanzees. She was even able to meet Jane Goodall personally.

She and her lifelong friend and companion, Brenda, later moved to Texas  where both worked in the Dallas Zoo. Jody and Brenda later moved to Florida and provided many hours of loving care to Jody’s mother prior to her passing and hosted a wonderful 80th birthday family reunion for her. Jody moved to North Carolina, eventually moving to the Durham area in 2001. Her health declining, she volunteered at Duke University’s Lemur Center for many years, securing  the Volunteer of the Year Award for several years running. She again gave visiting family inside tours, educating all of them on every kind of lemur that exists. Besides feeding and helping to care for the lemurs, she gave guided, behind-the-scenes tours to visitors and the special guests of Duke Hospital.  She always enjoyed sharing her knowledge and love for animals.

While she loved all animals, Jody was totally dedicated to her dog, Maggie, and cherished each and every moment with her. Maggie came first in her life. Maggie was her strength through any tough day she did encounter. Her love for Maggie surpassed the normal person's love for a pet. Maggie was Jody's world and the love of her heart, whom she spoiled with affection and care.

Jody was energetic and active until her health suffered in her later years. She cherished moments spent in the company of her loved ones, creating lasting memories filled with laughter and love. Jody was a playful prankster who loved to laugh and teased others into sharing her laughter. She loved her books and especially cherished her books on animals.

She was a very strong woman who valued her independence and was a woman of great courage.

Jody is survived by her lifelong friend and companion, Brenda Robinson. Jody would tell people that “Brenda was always with her” and Brenda  would answer “she has always been with me.” Jody is also survived by her four siblings and their families: Thomas Edwin Harper of Allen, Texas; Naina Harper White of Bedford, VA; Jane Harper Lewis of Stanardsville, VA; and David Hampton Harper of Eustis, FL.

Donations may be sent to your favorite zoo or animal conservation project.

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Marta Irene Schultz - January 05, 1967 - April 18, 2024

Departed: 04/18/2024 (Durham)

Obituary Preview: Marta Irene Schultz, age 57, died on April 18, 2024. She was born on January 5, 1967 to the late Linda McDaniel Schultz and Gerald Harvey Schultz.

Marta was born in Naperville, Illinois. She liked competing, both in games against siblings and in sports, and participated in the Special Olympics while she lived in Illinois.

Marta enjoyed singing and dancing and was active in her church. After she moved to North Carolina she became an active part of Reality Ministries, where she participated in a variety of activities, including the annual Talent Show, bowling, and bingo.

Marta is survived by her sisters Laurel Schultz and Jennifer Reeves, her brother Eric, her niece Chelsea Schmidt, and her nephew Andy Schultz.

A memorial service will be held on Tuesday, April 30, 2024, at 2:00 pm in the Chapel at Hall-Wynne Funeral Services in Durham, NC.

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Carlan Turner Graves - October 13, 1946 - April 14, 2024

Departed: 04/14/2024 (Durham)

Obituary Preview: Carlan was born on October 13, 1946, in Durham, NC, the daughter of Carl Alexander Turner and Annie Elizabeth Caviness Turner. Her unique name combined the first letters of her parents’ names. A graduate of Durham High School, Carlan attended nursing school at Duke University but left school to marry. She and William (Bill) Williams Graves III wed in 1966. Their son, William (Bill) Williams Graves IV was born the following year. A lifelong North Carolinian, she and the two Bills moved to an idyllic home on the outskirts of Chapel Hill in 1976. Carlan continued to pursue an interest in the medical field in her career choices. She first worked as a medical journal copyeditor, and later as the Director of Cancer Information Services at Duke University, a job she held for 20 years.

When she became a grandmother in 2001, Carlan took on the role with enthusiasm and joy. Bill and his wife Jan are eternally grateful for her support and wisdom during the early years of child rearing. She visited granddaughter Emerson every two weeks as an infant, and as Emerson grew up, it was Grandma who took her horseback riding or rescued her from too-long Debate Club competitions. They shared a love of movies and spent many a weekend rewatching old favorites over some Ben and Jerry’s chocolate fudge brownie ice cream. She was the kind of grandmother that everyone wants, and few people have. Perhaps Carlan was such a wonderful Grandma because of how much she loved being a mother to Bill and a much-loved mother-in-law to Jan.

In her free time, Carlan read voraciously, with wide-ranging interests—from finance to romance. She kept up with current affairs and read two newspapers daily. Perhaps that contributed to her social skills; she was an excellent conversationalist and good listener. Many deep conversations took place on the porch at the family cottage on Topsail Island, and anyone who talked with Carlan knew of her kind and sage advice. She was always generous with her time and knowledge.

Carlan enjoyed spending time with friends over a glass (or two!) of pinot grigio before an evening of dining out or taking in a new movie. While she wasn’t a big traveler, one of the highlights of her life was the 50th birthday trip she made to Italy. Inspired, she returned home to take Italian language classes.

Carlan was a lifelong lover of dogs and cared for many Basset Hounds throughout her life. At the age of 75, she brought home her last canine companion, a Cavapoo named Charlie. Charlie dog kept Carlan company during her final years. Carlan’s home in the woods was a dog’s paradise, and not only did Carlan enjoy watching her many dogs romp about, but she also loved seeing the different varieties of wildlife that shared the woods with her. Her favorite moments were when she spotted foxes and two generations of a white deer family, which was a special joy.

On April 14, 2024, Carlan passed away quietly at home, with her son Bill, daughter-in-law Jan, and her ex-husband Bill by her side. She is survived by son Bill Graves and wife Jan Rieman, and granddaughter Emerson Rieman Graves. Carlan leaves behind many loving cousins and friends, especially her dear friend Susan Booth, who was a great comfort to her in her final months.

A memorial service will be held on Friday, May 17, 2024, at 2:00 pm in the Chapel at Hall-Wynne Funeral Services in Durham, NC. The family will receive friends at a visitation preceding the service, from 1:00 pm to 2:00 pm.

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Kristina Ann Miller - December 30, 1988 - April 11, 2024

Departed: 04/11/2024 (Durham)

Obituary Preview: Kristi Miller, 35, went to be with the Lord on Thursday, April 11, 2024.

Kristi was born on December 30, 1988 in Columbus, Georgia to Claire (Fisher) Miller and the late Jeffrey Robert Miller. She was the older of two children. Following her graduation from Jordan High School in Durham, North Carolina May 2007, Kristi attended Miami University in Oxford, OH where she majored in Psychology. She studied abroad at Miami University’s Luxemburg campus Spring semester 2010, and found great joy in her international experience, making lifelong friends, and becoming thoroughly entranced with travel. Graduating in May 2011, Kristi returned to her hometown of Durham, NC. From 2013 -2015, she attended Radford University, Radford, VA, graduating with a Master’s degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling in 2015.

Kristi’s career was primarily spent as a clinical mental health counselor in Galax, VA. She passed her licensing exam in November 2020 becoming a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in Virginia. Subsequently, during the pandemic, Kristi returned to North Carolina, becoming a licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor (LCMHC) in North Carolina in 2022. She recently joined a counseling practice in Raleigh, NC.

Since childhood, Kristi was an avid Duke fan, but her deepest loyalty was to her—and her father’s--alma mater, Miami University. With her family, Kristi belonged to the Duke Faculty Club where she swam for the Aqua Devils, and worked as both a lifeguard and swim teacher as a young adult. Besides swimming, Kristi loved to dance and routinely exercised at local gyms where she lived. Kristi had a lovely voice, and loved singing and listening to music. She was known for her wit and sense of humor. Not only did she make other laugh, she laughed often herself, finding humor in the many life difficulties she faced. She was courageous, at times fierce, warm, caring, and bright, and brought joy to all who knew her.

A member of the extended church community of Berachah Church of Houston, Texas, Kristi followed her beloved father’s example listening to Rev. Robert Thieme, Jr.’s Bible doctrine CD’s. She was an exceptionally loving daughter, sister, niece, cousin, aunt, and friend. She will be deeply missed by her family.

Kristi was predeceased in death by her father; aunts, Kristina Jane (Kristi) and Karen Ann Miller; and uncles, Robert and John Fisher, III. She is survived by her mother; brother, Jeffrey; sister-in-law, Amanda Rae Miller; and beloved nephews, Jeffrey Robert and Nathan Caleb Miller of Goldsboro, NC; uncles, Mark Miller, of Sunbury, OH, and David Fisher of Cairo, NY; aunt, Dr. Stephanie Fisher of Cairo, NY; step-grandmother, Dora Miller of Mentone, IN; and cousins, Ryan and Russell Miller both of Ohio.

A memorial service will be held at Duke University Chapel on May 6, 2024 from 1 to 2 pm with a reception to follow. Reception details will be provided at her memorial service.

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Patsy Ruth Chamberlain - May 26, 1948 - April 10, 2024

Departed: 04/10/2024 (Durham)

Obituary Preview: Patsy “Pat” Barber Chamberlain passed away Wednesday morning, April 10th at Duke Regional Hospital after a courageous fight with heart disease and cancer.

She was born on a beautiful spring day, May 26, 1948, to Hesro and Brona Phillips Barber in Old West Durham.

Along with her parents, Pat is preceded by her brothers Rudy (Gladys) Barber and Jackie Barber, as well as her sister Carolyn Barber Sharpe.

She is survived by her husband Malcolm Chamberlain, son Doug (Elizabeth) Roberts, daughter Lynn Roberts Lee, stepdaughters Lisa (Rob) Lloyd, Wendy Tivnan, and grandchildren Tim, Justin, Trent Lee, Sarah Roberts, Logan, Madison Lloyd, Cameron (Josh) Hudson, great-grandchild Riley Hudson and her fur baby Rosie Mae. She is also survived by her sister Gloria Rutledge, and sister-in-law Louise Phelps Barber as well as a host of many nieces and nephews.

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Peggy Gooch Brown - April 19, 1933 - April 08, 2024

Departed: 04/08/2024 (Durham)

Obituary Preview: Durham, NC – Peggy Gooch Brown, age 90, passed away peacefully at Parkwood Nursing Home in Chapel Hill on April 8, 2024. She was born on April 19, 1933 to the late Floyd and Ruby Gooch.

A lifelong resident of Durham, Peggy met her husband Charles in 1950 and they began their 64 years of adventures together. They were dedicated members of Mt Moriah Baptist Church where she taught Sunday School to many generations of kids who all knew and loved her as Miss Peggy. She was also the neighborhood Avon lady, earning sales rewards every year for her outstanding performance.

Peggy was always busy piddling around the house, she liked to restore furniture and scrapbook, and lots of time was spent in the kitchen. She was an amazing cook, often you entered the house greeted by the smell of her famous fried cornbread. She would also bake everyone’s favorite cakes to help celebrate birthdays. Peggy and Charles spent a lot of time at Hyco Lake, where they enjoyed hosting both church friends and the grandkids. Peggy was a truly giving soul, she would deliver food, send handwritten notes, and she was a caretaker for several people during her life.

Peggy is survived by her three children, Debbie Brown, Eddie Brown (Becky), and Tommy Brown (Kelly); four grandchildren, Katie Brown, Evan Brown (Laurie), Stacey Brown-Garrett (JR), and Will Brown; 5 great-grandchildren, Austin, Landon, Carter, Holden, and Sawyer, and several nieces and nephews. Peggy was preceded in death by husband Charles Brown and brother Bobby Gooch.

Graveside service will be held on Wednesday April 17th at 2:00 pm in the afternoon at Mt Moriah Baptist Church in Durham. Officiating will be Rev. James L. Taylor.

The Brown family is under the care of Hall-Wynne Funeral Service.

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Mary Frances Waddell - December 26, 1927 - April 07, 2024

Departed: 04/07/2024 (Durham)

Obituary Preview: Mary Frances Byrd Waddell, age 96, passed away peacefully on April 7, 2024, at home. She was born in Durham, NC to the late W. E. Byrd and Myrtle Leigh Byrd. She was a Durham native, growing up in a home on Mangum Street and then Trinity Park. A member of First Baptist Church for all of her 96 years, she was a gentle, kindhearted, and giving person.

Mary Frances graduated from Durham High School and attended Croft Business School from which she was recruited to work in the banking industry. She met and married Owen Waddell, her loving and devoted husband of 65 years, who predeceased her. As they began a family, Mary Frances stopped working outside the home until the last of their four children had made it through the major childhood illnesses of the day and had entered the second grade. Throughout the early child-rearing years Mary Frances enjoyed participating in a bowling league, bringing along whichever child was not yet in school so they could enjoy camaraderie with the other bowlers.

Together, Mary Frances and Owen provided a loving and supportive home. Yearly trips to the mountains in the fall and several week-long beach vacations each summer are cherished traditions their children have continued with their families. Upon returning to work in the banking industry, Mary Frances worked as a teller, then head teller where she became known for training new tellers. If you banked with CCB (later SunTrust) in the 70’s, 80’s or 90’s you were likely served by someone she trained.

Together with Owen, Mary Frances created a home life where her children had opportunities to flourish. A key part of this was sharing her faith, both by active involvement with First Baptist Church and ensuring her children had that same opportunity. It is an amazing thing to be a member of a congregation for 96 years, especially the life-long relationships developed through Sunday School classes that resulted in some of her most cherished friendships. That depth of faith and those friendships influenced the way Mary Frances provided loving support and opportunity to pursue the various endeavors in which her children had interest. Her oft-heard response was, “Why, I expect you’ll be one of the best there ever was” in relation to each pursuit. Protective when necessary, Mary Frances nonetheless had a way of allowing each of her children to become themselves without requirement that it match a parental expectation of one profession or another. Along with this, she modeled how a husband and wife can be one while still being individuals with their own interests.

Upon retirement and with children grown, Mary Frances and Owen began traveling the country. Many of these trips included one or more of the children, providing more cherished memories in their young adult years as they learned to see their parents in a new light. Other journeys were taken with bus tour groups where new friendships were established. They visited every state except Alaska, often re-tracing the routes Owen had taken crossing the country after his service in the Pacific Theater during World War II.

In her later years, Mary Frances modeled graceful aging, choosing to stop driving when her vision and reflexes were no long up to par. Though there were the usual ailments and break-down in her body’s abilities. She persevered in such a way that her children began to think of her as the Energizer Bunny, recovering and starting afresh after each significant event. Even in the last years as she was mostly home-bound, Mary Frances always sought to ensure her children and caregivers were okay, often asking, “Where is everybody?”. Only after she had been given the rundown of each person’s location, would she relax. She was especially fond of her caregivers and, like her children, was grateful for their assistance.

Mary Frances is survived by her son, Owen A Waddell, Jr. (Teri Danner) of Durham; daughter Kathy W. Jones (Jerry, deceased) of Durham; daughter Jean Underwood (Steve) of Raleigh, grandchildren, Matthew, and Jarrod (Marissa) and great grandchildren Forrest, and Mavrick and son, Bill Waddell (Teresa Roberts) and grandchildren, Brennan, Evan, and Alexander of Durham.

Mary Frances was also preceded in death by her brother W. E. Byrd, Jr., sister Marian Byrd Wyshosky, and nephew, Gregg Wyshosky.

Graveside Services will be held at 11 a.m., Friday, April 12, 2024, at Maplewood Cemetery, 1621 Duke University Road, Durham, NC 27701. Pallbearers will be Jarrod Underwood, Matthew Underwood, Evan Waddell, and Alexander Waddell.

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Joseph Adam Izatt - April 24, 1962 - April 07, 2024

Departed: 04/07/2024 (Durham)

Obituary Preview: Joseph Adam Izatt, 61, of Raleigh, NC passed away on April 7, 2024. His loss was completely unexpected, and his family is profoundly saddened.

He is survived by his wife Susan and their children Elizabeth, Gregory (Hannah), and Daniel. His extended family includes his mother MaryAnn Izatt and his siblings Nancy Bemis (Greg), Jim (MaryAnn), and Richard (Carole). He was predeceased by his father Jerald Izatt and his sister Peggy. Joe and Susan met in college and were married 38 years.

Joe inherited his love of science from his father and started working with lasers in high school. He attended the Massachusetts Institute of Technology, where he received a Bachelor of Sciences in Physics in 1986, followed by a Doctor of Philosophy in Applied Radiation Physics in 1991.  After two years of postdoctoral training, he became a professor of Biomedical Engineering at Case Western University in Cleveland, Ohio, before moving to Duke University in 2001.

Joe was serving as the Michael J. Fitzpatrick Professor of Engineering and chair of Duke’s Department of Biomedical Engineering at the time of his death. In collaboration with his ophthalmology colleagues and dear students, he performed pioneering research in optical coherence tomography (OCT) imaging. In recognition of his scientific contributions, he was named a Fellow of the National Academy of Inventors and the American Institute for Medical and Biological Engineering and received the Edwin H. Land Medal in 2021. Joe was a passionate leader and volunteer in the scientific community and prioritized the democratization and accessibility of science; he was the founding editor of Biomedical Optics Express, an open and online-access journal. He was also a successful entrepreneur as co-founder of Bioptigen, which made the technology developed by his lab available to people around the world. Above all else, he was dedicated to his students and colleagues, reflected by his receipt of the Pratt School’s Capers and Marion McDonald Award for Excellence in Mentoring and Advising in 2008 and the Graduate School Dean’s Award for Excellence in Mentoring in 2017. Joe always highlighted the strengths of those around him, bringing out the best in everyone he worked with. His enthusiasm for research, science, and engineering was contagious.

Joe was devoted to his family. He was a constant presence at Science Olympiad competitions, athletic events, and musical performances while his children grew up, and his passion for science and technology proved infectious: all his children now work in STEM. But he was much more than a scientist. He had a particular passion for flying and sharing that passion with his family brought him great joy. He flew RC planes and model rockets with his children as they grew up, and in 2016 he achieved his lifelong dream of obtaining a pilot’s license. Since then, he has flown the family on many adventures -- as short as grabbing BBQ one town over, and as long exploring the Florida Keys. Many of those trips were to the coast, where he spent many joyous summer days together with family and friends. He loved traveling and the outdoors: he enjoyed long bike rides along the beautiful roads lining the beach, took boating and sailing trips at every opportunity, skied his whole life, took in every sunset he could, and loved to explore new places. He was an inspiring mentor, a loving father, a devoted husband, and a dear friend.

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Leonora Janobas Bugna - July 01, 1929 - April 07, 2024

Departed: 04/07/2024 (Durham)

Obituary Preview: Leonora Janobas Bugna 94, passed away peacefully on Sunday, April 7th, surrounded by her loving family.

She was born on July 1st, 1929, in Oton, Iloilo Philippines to the late Sergio J. Janobas and Maria C. Catusan, She was the oldest of five children.

Leonora graduated from Central Philippine University with a Bachelor of Science Degree in Commerce. She worked in the accounting department of the Department of Health where she was loved and respected by her co-workers. She married the love of her life and devoted loving husband, Teodulfo H. Bugna. They have three children, Maria Lourdes, Elizabeth, and Maria who was born in 1964 at 37 weeks and passed away 3 days later.

Leonor can be best described as loving, patient, kind, devoted, selfless, supportive, strong, resilient, and nurturing not only to her children and grandchildren but also to her four brothers, her nieces, nephews, in-laws, grand nieces and nephews and extended family members and friends.

Leonora is survived by her daughters Maria Lourdes Bugna Paredes (Jorge), and Elizabeth Janobas Bugna, and her grandson Gerard Francis B. Paredes. She is survived by her brothers Abundio Janobas (Luisa) and David (Lenita) who reside in the Philippines, and many nieces, nephews, and numerous relatives.

Leonora is preceded in death by her husband Teodulfo H. Bugna, brother Teodorico C. Janobas (Lolita), and Romeo C. Janobas of Iloilo, Philippines.

A funeral mass will be held along with family and friends at Immaculate Conception Catholic Church on Friday, April 19th, 2024, at 11:00 am, Father Gonzalo Torres will be officiating.

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Elizabeth Lawrence Gunselman - February 26, 1950 - April 06, 2024

Departed: 04/06/2024 (Durham)

Obituary Preview: Elizabeth Lawrence was born in Durham, NC on February 26, 1950, the third child of Mildred and Eugene Lawrence. Growing up she lived in Apex, New Bern, and Raleigh, where she graduated from Enloe High School. She attended her first three years of college at Western Carolina, and graduated from East Carolina, after which she became certified as a Registered Dietician.

Her profession as a registered dietician began at a hospital in Charleston, SC for two years, and then took a position with the Health Department in Johnson City, TN. While in Johnson City, she met and fell in love with the man with whom she would spend the rest of her life, Dan Gunselman, an Ohio native. Liz and Dan were married in a beautiful outdoor wedding on October 2nd, 1976, in the mountains of North Carolina at her brother Gene’s home in Franklin, North Carolina. The leaves and the weather were perfect and the new couple, family, and friends all had a wonderful weekend together.

Soon after their marriage, they moved to Miami, Florida where Dan had accepted a job and Elizabeth continued her work as a dietician at Jackson Memorial Hospital, They lived in Coral Gables and enjoyed everything that a young couple could enjoy in southern Florida, including trips to the Keys and year-round outdoor activities with friends. Both growing up with a love of seasonal changes, and family in NC, Miami was never planned as a permanent stop. After two years, they moved back to NC, where they settled in Chapel Hill. Liz took a dietetics position with Lennox Baker and Dan with Blue Cross Blue Shield. They lived in Chapel Hill for a number of years and then Durham, during which time they raised three sons, Lawrence, Louis (Patrick) and Lee.

Elizabeth always loved family gatherings and making sure that birthdays, holidays, and family members’ special dates were never missed. She was the town crier for the family and always stressed the importance of getting everyone together whenever possible. After many years as working as a dietician, later in life she switched occupations and became a realtor, where she enjoyed a second successful career. This came as no surprise to her mother, based on the fact that even as a young child, Elizabeth would ask her to drive around the “nice” neighborhoods in Raleigh so that she could look at the many different designs and grounds.

She continued to work in Real estate even after receiving her cancer diagnosis. She eventually retired from real estate but remained active, and she and Dan enjoyed many tripes across the US and abroad. She stoically fought cancer for 14 years and did not let it define her or interfere with family activities. Her last family gathering was travelling down Fayetteville to celebrate her 74th birthday.

Liz is survived by her loving husband of 47 years, Dan Gunselman, her three sons, Lawrence of Durham, and Patrick and Lee of Atlanta Georgia, Sister Sarah Childers (Ken) Roxboro, Brothers Andy Lawrence of Raleigh and Steve Lawrence (Georgiann) of Fayetteville, Sister-in-Law, Liza Lawrence of Franklin, former Sister-in-Law, Luanne Lawrence of Raleigh, and many nephews and nieces, all of whom were very special to her.

There will be a private ceremony for family at St. Stephen's Episcopal Church at Noon Saturday, April 13, 2024.

The family would like to thank friends and the physicians and staff with the Duke Cancer Center, and its Hospice staff for all the excellent care consideration during her years of treatment and in helping to allow her a peaceful transition into eternity.

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Patricia Gray May Parker - January 18, 1942 - April 06, 2024

Departed: 04/06/2024 (Durham)

Obituary Preview: Patricia Gray May Parker, age 82, passed away in Durham, North Carolina on April 6, 2024. She was born on January 18, 1942, to the late Charlie Coble May and Kittie Gray Guy May.

Pat (Trish or Trisha to her family in Alabama) was born in Salitpa, Clarke County, Alabama. She graduated from nearby Jackson High School and received her Bachelor of Science (Phi Beta Kappa) and master’s degrees from The University of Alabama where she was a member of Alpha Chi Omega sorority. Upon graduation she received an internship with the US Department of Housing and Urban Development (HUD) in Atlanta, Georgia which led to her becoming a manager of several HUD programs in the Southeast. After six years of this very promising career, she ended it for the calling of mother, wife, and homemaker.

Pat is best described with words such as intelligent, kind, beautiful, curious, patient, and stylish. She was an avid reader, interested in government, politics, and world and local affairs. Pat enjoyed long walks and quiet mornings watching the birds. Many will remember her for her warm and kind smile and sense of humor.

She will be missed and remembered always as a wonderful mother, wife, sister, and friend.

Pat is survived by her husband of 53 years, Frank Whitmore Parker and their two daughters, Jennifer Parker Brown (Chris) and Susan Whitmore Parker, and her grandchildren: Sierra Catherine Brown, Christopher Maxwell Brown, Matthew Chase Brown, Grayson Elizabeth Thorpe, and William Parker Thorpe. She is also survived by brother Dr. Allen Wayne May (Eleanor) of Tuscaloosa, Alabama, and sister Nancy May Woodson (Wendell) of Jackson, Alabama, as well as many nieces, nephews, and numerous other relatives.

Pat is predeceased by brother Dr. Charles Eugene May (Patricia Holland) of Jackson, Alabama, sister Katherine May Ransone (Coleman B. Ransone, Jr) of Tuscaloosa, Alabama, and sister Deloris Neil May of Birmingham, Alabama.

Special recognition and thanks to all the caregivers, employees, and residents of Magnolia Memory Care at Croasdaile Village. Your care and community made such a difference for Pat and her family.

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Robert Paul Stranahan, III - June 22, 1960 - April 04, 2024

Departed: 04/04/2024 (Durham)

Obituary Preview: Robert Paul Stranahan III, age 63, died at his home on April 4, 2024. He was born on June 22, 1960 to the late Robert and Louise Stranahan.

Robert grew up in Bethesda, Maryland where he engaged in such youthful pursuits as climbing the Washington National Cathedral. He graduated from the University of North Carolina in 1981 with a degree in zoology and afterwards received his certification as a Medical Technologist from Duke University. After a few wild and crazy years in Los Angeles, California, Robert, to the surprise of everyone, followed in his father’s and grandfather’s footsteps by enrolling in law school. He received his JD in 1992 from the University of North Carolina, proving himself a diehard Tarheel. Rather than take a job in Washington, DC with a private firm, Robert chose to raise his family in North Carolina, working as a special counsel for the state at Dorothea Dix hospital and Central Regional hospital. While working for the state entailed a lower salary, Robert was able to spend more time with his family whom he was devoted to and to help many people through various charities and through regular blood donations.

Robert was loved and respected by everyone who met him, always able to maintain a cool head and lighten the atmosphere with a bit of humor. With a strong sense of duty, impeccable integrity, and selfless dedication to his friends and family, he set a powerful example by which his surviving loved ones may live by.

He enjoyed hiking, fishing, kayaking and amusing his children with endless dad jokes. Robert had an exceptional ability to remember factoids, trivia, and minutia, and his speed at filling out crossword puzzles was unmatched. He remains undefeated in Trivial Pursuit.

Robert is survived by wife Diane, daughters Lauren and Emily, sisters Susan Florance and Carol Applegate, his dog Lucy, and grand-kitties Riley, Squirt, Goya, Sese, Pip, and Bean.

A graveside service will be held on Wednesday, April 10, 2024, at 2:00 p.m. at Pine Forest Memorial Gardens in Wake Forest, North Carolina.

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Earl French Hadden, II - June 14, 1946 - April 03, 2024

Departed: 04/03/2024 (Durham)

Obituary Preview: Durham, NC – Earl French Hadden II, age 77, died at UNC Medical Center on Wednesday, April 3rd. He was born on June 14, 1946 in Princeton, WV to the late Earl and Doris Hadden.

The family moved to Charlotte, NC when Earl was a teenager. There he graduated from Myers Park High School. He then attended UNC Chapel Hill where he was a member of the Men's Glee Club and the Dialectic and Philanthropic Societies (DiPhi), the oldest student organization of the university. He graduated in 1968 with a degree in Political Science and a lifelong love of Tarheel basketball.

Earl married Frances Schuhsler in November 1970 in Los Angeles, CA. They welcomed two daughters, Elizabeth in 1974 and Amanda in 1977. He worked for IBM and Informatics before opening his own business Pacific Information Management. Earl’s consulting career allowed him to travel internationally and introduce his family to Europe, Canada, and much of the United States. His favorite travel destination was Maui, Hawaii with his family.

Earl and Fran moved back to North Carolina in 2003. Earl shared the knowledge from guiding large multi-national corporations to consult for small business owners in the Triangle area, who he believed are the engine of our economy.

Earl is survived by wife, Fran; daughters Liz Losey (Jeffrey) and Amanda Garland (Tyler), grandson Justin Losey; and sisters Patricia Gunter (John), Katherine "Jill" Hadden and Sally Hadden (Robert Berkhofer). Earl was preceded in death by parents Earl and Doris and sister Margaret “Peggy“ Hadden.

Funeral Mass, internment and reception will be held Thursday April 25th at 11:00 a.m. at Holy Infant Catholic Church, Durham NC.

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Sibyl Frances Clayton - September 10, 1929 - April 02, 2024

Departed: 04/02/2024 (Durham)

Obituary Preview: Durham- Sibyl Frances Clayton, age 94, of Durham, died Tuesday, April 2, 2024, at Terra Bella in Hillsborough. She was a Durham native, born September 10, 1929, to the late Walter Lavaille and Callie Tilley Totten.

Sibyl is survived by her brother, Phillip Totten, and her nieces and nephews, Bill (Sandra) Totten, Betsy (Rusty) Mincey, Tim (Wendy) Sorrell, Debra Sorrell, Julie Totten, and David Totten.

She was preceded in death by her husband, Kenneth Clayton.

A graveside service will be held for family and friends at Pleasant Green United Methodist Church on Saturday, April 6 at 11:00 AM with Pastor Justin Robins officiating.

The family would like to thank Terra Bella and Gentiva Hospice for their care and support.

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Dean Jeanette Hargrove - January 05, 1951 - March 29, 2024

Departed: 03/29/2024 (Durham)

Obituary Preview: Dean Jeanette Edwards Hargrove peacefully passed away on March 29, 2024. She was born on January 5, 1951 to the late Iola Edwards

She graduated from John R Hawkins High School and attended college at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill where she became a Certified Dental Assistant. In her later years she provided child care services in her home.

She is a member of the Warrenton Baptist Church where for many years she served as the church secretary and choir member.

Dean is survived by her children Andre Lamont Hargrove, Sr. and Melody Hargrove Omuchei. She is also survived by her grandchildren Ashley Morrison, Mya Hargrove, Faith Hargrove, Jazmin Hargrove, Desiree Hargrove, Andre Hargrove Jr., Permelia Omuchei, and Isabella Omuchei as well as her great-grandchildren Ashton Wyse, Maurice Morrison, Essence Morrison, Madison Hargrove, Nova Williams, and Mi’Angel Hargrove. Everlasting memories will also be cherished by nieces, nephews, extended family, and many dear friends. Dean was preceded in death by her son Marc McGarrett Hargrove and her brothers Claud Edwards, Edgar Edwards, and Leon Cheek.

Memorial Services will be held on Saturday, April 6, 2024 at 11:00 a.m. at Hall-Wynne Funeral Service located at 1113 W. Main St., Durham, NC 27701.

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Joseph Carson Story , Jr. - January 10, 1944 - March 25, 2024

Departed: 03/25/2024 (Durham)

Obituary Preview: (Durham, NC) – Joseph (Joe) Story, Jr. passed away on March 25th after a valiant fight to overcome health complications while inpatient at Duke Hospital.

A beloved spouse, father, grandfather, brother, uncle, scoutmaster, captain, friend, and mentor, Joe touched the lives of countless others in his 80 years on earth. Born in Mecklenburg County on January 10, 1944, Joe moved to and grew up in the small community of Mt. Gilead when he was just a small boy. The second oldest child in his family and the only brother to his seven sisters, Joe’s good nature and his mischief knew no bounds. His parents and sisters could always count on him for support, comfort, and of course a good laugh. Joe is preceded in death by his parents, Joseph C. Story, Sr. and Phyllis Smith Story, as well as his sisters Patricia Story (Ray), Pam Story (Frieda), and Betsy. He is survived by his younger sisters Phyllis Strider (Robert), Paula Rankin, Tina Livingston, and Tammy Styer (Dave). He is also survived by five nephews, three nieces, and five great-nieces and nephews.

Joe is a 1963 graduate of West Montgomery High School, where he met and fell in love with his high school sweetheart and wife of nearly 60 years, Doris Blake Story. The two married in Doris’ hometown of Troy, North Carolina. Sixteen months after they were married, Joe spent over a year overseas fighting in the Vietnam war as part of the U.S. Marine Corps. After his military tour, Joe returned home to Doris and, shortly thereafter, began his training to become a wildlife officer – a career that would take Joe and Doris to six different cities across the state of North Carolina before they settled in Drexel to raise their family. In his career as a wildlife officer, Joe rose to the rank of captain before retiring from the NC Wildlife Resources Commission in 1993. During that time, he built lifelong friendships as he supervised, mentored, and shaped the lives of countless young officers across the state.

While Joe took deep pride in his roles within the military and the wildlife commission, no role meant more to him than that of husband to Doris and father to Joseph C. Story, III and Charles Story (Jen). Joe (III) and Charles were his greatest joys. Every free moment Joe had was spent leading their Scout troops, cheering on their little league games, or taking them on countless hikes and camping trips. No matter how long his days were at work, Joe always found extra time and energy to spend with his boys when he got home. He was a steady mentor and supporter, not just for Charles and Joe, but for the hundreds of other boys that he led as a Scout leader for over 36 years. Joe’s adventurous spirit and caring nature knew absolutely no bounds.

Joe’s final and most prized role came almost nine years ago when, in 2015, he was promoted to the role of “Granda” upon the birth of his first beloved granddaughter, Evie. Soon after the arrival of Olivia, their second granddaughter, Joe and Doris moved to Durham to live next door to Charles, Jen, Evie, and Olivia (and furry granddaughter, Nellie). For the next five and a half years, Joe spent every day with his two tiny best friends playing, laughing, and making memories that will last his grandgirls a lifetime.

Visitation will be held at 10:00AM Monday, April 1st at Hope Valley Baptist Church in Durham (6900 Garrett Rd.), with funeral services at 11:00AM and a reception to follow. Graveside services will take place at 4:00PM at Liberty Hill Baptist Church in Mt Gilead, NC (569 Liberty Hill Church Rd.).

The Story family is under the care of Hall-Wynne Funeral Service. As we work to keep Joe’s legacy alive for his grandchildren, we are eager to hear more stories about him from those whose lives he has touched over the last 80 years. Please share your stories and/or condolences online: www.hallwynne.com – select obituaries.

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Jonah Alexander Hamil Luker - July 08, 2002 - March 20, 2024

Departed: 03/20/2024 (Durham)

Obituary Preview: Jonah Alexander Hamil Luker, age 21, died in Raleigh on March 20, 2024. He was born on July 8, 2002 to parents Jenifer Hamil and Kenneth Luker and his birth-mother, Shannon Wesdorp.

Jonah grew up in Durham, North Carolina and graduated from Jordan High School. With a curious mind and reliably hardworking personality, he enjoyed building a career in welding and construction. Those who knew him well remember Jonah as immensely courageous, loyal, fun-loving, and adventurous. Jonah enjoyed travelling with his family, time at the beach, the thrill of going fast, and living life to the fullest.

Jonah is survived by his maternal grandparents, Ed and Pam Hamil, paternal grandfather, Allen Luker, parents Jenifer and Kenneth, his siblings Evan and Elly, stepmother Karin, step-siblings Sophie and Aidan, birth-mother Shannon, several aunts, uncles, and cousins, and a large community of loving friends.

Friends are invited to a celebration of Jonah’s life on April 6 at 4 p.m. in the back garden of Namu. This is an informal gathering where all attendees can share memories, food, tears, and laughter.

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Patricia Foster McQuay - January 13, 1933 - March 19, 2024

Departed: 03/19/2024 (Durham)

Obituary Preview: Patricia Anne Foster McQuay died peacefully at her home on March 19, having recently celebrated her 91st birthday. Patricia was born January 13, 1933 in Cherryville, NC, as the only child of Brite Vernon and Mary Elizabeth Mason Foster.

Her family moved to Charlotte when her father returned from serving in WWII in Germany. There Patricia graduated high school and worked as bookkeeper at Lance Incorporated. She later trained as a nurse and pursued athletic interests, joining the basketball and softball teams.  Patricia loved to sing and joined church choirs wherever she went.

Introduced by her cousin at a church party, Patricia met her future husband James Newton McQuay, also of Charlotte. Both Patricia and Newton were essentially shy people who could make friends easily. The couple married in 1957 and started a family of three children almost right away.

Living in Hillsborough, Patricia’s bookkeeping abilities won out over nursing when she sought employment after their children started school. Pat worked first as a bookkeeper at a local bank, then after a move to Durham, she was employed as an accountant by the Triangle Porsche Audi dealership there. She continued her career as a comptroller at RTP Federal Credit Union, retiring in 1991. Patricia continued to serve on the credit union board after her retirement.

Throughout most of their marriage, Patricia and Newton were rarely apart. They pursued such adventures as parasailing in Hawaii, following a laser-focused devotion to Duke basketball at home and away, visiting family in Australia and Ireland, and tirelessly propagating ornamental plants at their home in Durham. The couple delighted in their garden and those of others. They were charter members of Triangle Presbyterian Church and served it devoutly.

Patricia was predeceased by her beloved, Newton in 2017. In the seven years since his death, dementia robbed Patricia and her family of her joyous identity. However, her essential nature, her sweet loving openness to others remained intact and made her a favorite in the memory care unit where she lived.

She is survived by her three children, Vickie McQuay Reddick (Stephen) of Oak Ridge, Tenn.; Martha Elizabeth Walsh (John) of Bahama; David Newton McQuay of Chapel Hill; grandchildren, Ryan (Margaret) Reddick, Anna (Garrett) Shea, Kathryn (Brandon) Herb, Matthew (Leah) Walsh, and Jack (Katherine) Walsh; and seven great-grandchildren. The family expresses profound appreciation to her loving caregivers at Carolina Reserve and Duke Hospice. Her ashes will be interred at Triangle Grace Church, 5001 Tudor Place, Durham, on Saturday, March 23 at 2:00 PM. The memorial service will be followed by a receiving of friends. Memorial contributions can be made to a charity of your choice.

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Joyce Peed Blalock - September 30, 1934 - March 14, 2024

Departed: 03/14/2024 (Durham)

Obituary Preview: Joyce Peed Blalock, 89, of Roxboro NC died Wednesday, March 14, 2024. Joyce was born in Person

County on September 30, 1934 to Willie Lee Peed and Martha Ann “Annie” Duke Peed. She lived most of her life in the Rougemont community of Person County where she was a member of Mt. Harmony

Baptist Church. Joyce was a loving and faithful wife to Franklin “F.D.” Blalock for 56 years. She was devoted to her family and loved them dearly, always placing their needs above her own. Joyce was a homemaker and a

caregiver to her parents in their later years. Joyce loved talking to friends and enjoyed leading an active life. She was preceded in death by her husband, parents, and sister, Hazel Laws. She is survived by her daughter, DeAnn Blalock (Ron), her son Darrin Blalock (Heather), two grandchildren, Hadley Blalock and

Devin Blalock, as well as nieces and nephews. In lieu of a traditional funeral service, a private celebration of life was held by the family at Hall-Wynne Funeral Service & Crematory

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Dana Jackie Hicks - January 09, 1945 - March 13, 2024

Departed: 03/13/2024 (Durham)

Obituary Preview: (Chapel Hill, NC) – Dan Hicks, known as Jack or DannyJack to close friends and family, age 79, died in Chapel Hill, NC on Wednesday 3/13/2024. He was born on January 9, 1945, to the late Bethel and Henry Gardner Hicks, in Floyd County, Kentucky.

Dan was incredibly creative, intelligent, and vivacious. He was a talented artist and photographer, and well-known and respected stylist. He loved to spend time with his friends, family, and most of all his daughter and his dogs, who were especially dear to him.

Dan is survived by his loving daughter Suzannah Hicks, daughter-in-law Kim Armstrong, grandson Daniel Ratley, Jr., sisters-in-law Darla Hicks and Joan Pack-Rowe. He is also survived by several nieces, nephews, cousins, and many dear friends. Dan was preceded in death by his parents, his brother Randolph Hicks, niece Jessica Hicks, and former wife Dr. Marilyn P. Hicks.

Dan will be carried home to the mountains of eastern Kentucky and a service to celebrate his life is planned for this summer, which will be communicated at a closer time with the specific date and location. All will be welcome. He will then be laid to rest in the Prater Family Cemetery, Prater Fork, KY as per his wishes.

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Julia Jean Insley - December 17, 1955 - March 12, 2024

Departed: 03/12/2024 (Durham)

Obituary Preview: Julia Jean Insley passed away at her home on Tuesday, March 12, 2024. Julie suffered from Parkinson’s Disease for many years before she succumbed to it. She faced this challenge head-on and educated herself about treatment options. Throughout her battle with the disease, Julie remained socially active, including participating in a Parkinson’s dance troupe, which performed publicly, and in her work as long as she could. Julie’s cheerfulness and desire to better the lives of others were hallmarks of her amazing life, its opportunities, and adventures. Her courage and determination throughout this long, hard journey have been an inspiration to her family and friends, and we will greatly miss her.

Julie had a big heart and a truly genuine personality. She gave so much to those around her throughout decades of her recreation therapy and homeopathic careers. Julie also had a great love of nature and always preferred to live in places that allowed her to grow and nourish many plants and animals. Julie loved to travel when she could and visited numerous other countries and cultures which she effortlessly incorporated into her own. She was a great pet mom to many dogs and cats over the years, including her current cat, Josiah.

Julie was predeceased by her mother Bonnie Brown Marple, father James Markie Insley, and sister Missy Insley. She is survived by her siblings Mark Insley, Paul Insley, Jamie Insley, Janet Insley, and Suzy Insley Nisbet (Stuart); nieces and nephews Shannon, Alicia, Tiffany, Adam, Nicole, Rachel, Mason, Luke, and Maya; and many great-nieces and great-nephews.

Julie will be remembered by her family and friends at a Celebration of Life on Saturday, March 23, 2024, at the Bond Park Kiwanis Picnic Shelter on Bond Park Drive in Cary, NC 27513. We will gather and visit 11:00-11:30 am, have a service 11:30 am-12:30 pm, and eat lunch 12:30-2:00 pm. If anyone would like to speak or share stories during the service, please contact Suzy Nisbet. Please dress casually like you would if you were going with Julie to a park or on a hike. There are great trails from the parking lot if you want to walk around before or after the gathering.

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Ann Lominac Kanoy - January 10, 1928 - March 11, 2024

Departed: 03/11/2024 (Durham)

Obituary Preview: Ann Elizabeth Lominac Kanoy, widow of Dr. Burrell Edmond Kanoy, Sr., died in Durham, NC on March 11, 2024, at the age of 96. A native of Buncombe County, NC, Mrs. Kanoy was born on January 10, 1928, to the late Richmond Carl and Jessie Ada Phillips Lominac.

She is survived by her three sons, Dr. Burrell Edmond Kanoy, Jr. (Dr. Laura Parra) of Durham, NC, Kenneth Drake Kanoy (Barbara) of Durham, NC and Michael Brooks Kanoy of Apex, NC. Also surviving are four grandchildren, Leah Frahm (Chris) of Raleigh, NC, Moriah Smith (Josh) of Charleston SC, Jenni Allen (Josh) of Charlotte, NC, Christopher Kanoy (Lauren) of Atlanta, GA and seven great grandchildren.

Ms. Kanoy has two surviving siblings, Dorris L. Sherman of Gastonia, NC and Rex C. Lominac (Judy) of Concord, NC. In addition to her parents and her husband of 62 years, she is predeceased by her sisters, Marie Louise Lominac, Freida May Penland, Lois Yvonne Amico and her brother, Harold Richmond Lominac.

Mrs. Kanoy graduated from Mars Hill College in 1946 and Wake Forest College in 1948. While at Wake Forest, she met Burrell Edmond Kanoy, a classmate. They were married in Asheville, NC on August 14, 1948. Early in the marriage, she taught school sciences in Richmond, VA and Durham, NC. She later assisted her husband in his dental practice.

She and Ed joined the First Baptist Church of Durham, NC in 1948 and were faithful members until his death in 2010. Both served on numerous committees and held various church offices. For 25 years, they volunteered to serve others around the world through the Medical/Dental team of the North Carolina Baptist Men and the Foreign Mission Board.

Mrs. Kanoy delighted in spending time daily with her four grandchildren while they were of preschool age as both sets of parents worked full-time. She continued to be their special “Honey” as they grew older and she maintained that close relationship with them as they grew, married and nurtured families of their own.

For Mrs. Kanoy, her Lord, her family and mission trips with her husband were her greatest loves.

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Gwendolyn Yvonne Washington - April 04, 1946 - March 08, 2024

Departed: 03/08/2024 (Durham)

Obituary Preview: Gwen Washington illuminated the world with her joy. She raised seven children on three continents. She was the epitome of an officer's wife. She loved celebrations and her home was always the jewel of the neighborhood. Most of all, she was an artist with an eye for beauty. She was an entrepreneur who ran a specialty cake-decorating business before it was cool! In her sixties, she took up painting and created her first mural. She was the lynchpin that held our family secure. A beloved sister, wife, mother, grandmother and great-grandmother. We will miss her every day. Memorial donations may be made to the Alzheimers Association https://act.alz.org/site/TR/Events/Tributes-AlzheimersChampions?pg=fund&fr_id=1060&pxfid=867699&fbclid=IwAR1Vq18b7KdTAm2JBZylwK00jUCLCvhN4MnxuspdeKJu9a-TXJLRzXgOsYA

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Roberta Winifede Hairston - January 13, 1954 - March 07, 2024

Departed: 03/07/2024 (Durham)

Obituary Preview: Roberta Winifede Hairston, age 70, died at home in Durham on March 7, 2024. Roberta was born on January 13, 1954, in Manchester, England to the late Tom and Annie Harbyman.

In Manchester, Roberta attended private school and went to college where she graduated with a degree in IT Technology. She later moved to the United States, where her first job was as a Playboy Bunny for Hugh Hefner. Later, Roberta moved to New York where she met Riley Hairston, whom she later married. Roberta and Riley opened their own business in IT technology. After 9/11, they moved to Florida, then North Carolina where she attended Holy Infant Catholic Church until her husband became ill, and Roberta became his caregiver.

Roberta was loving and caring to everyone who knew her. She was faithful in giving to the organizations that she held dear to her heart, including the ASPCA and St. Jude’s. The things Roberta enjoyed most were spending time with her family, her beloved cats, and shopping.

Roberta is survived by her husband, Riley Hairston, at home; Jacqueline Williams and Skye Williams of Chapel Hill, NC; Annie Poole, Jarvis White, and Princess Tusie, all of Durham, NC. She is preceded in death by her parents, Tom and Annie Harbyman, and her brother, Mark Harbyman.

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Mary Josephine Bonhivert - May 30, 1957 - March 07, 2024

Departed: 03/07/2024 (Durham)

Obituary Preview: Mary Josephine (Mary Jo), age 66, died peacefully at home in Hurdle Mills, NC on Thursday, March 7th. She was born in Evanston, IL to the late Maurice O’Donohue and Catherine Clancy O’Donohue.

She is survived by her daughter, Tryston Jack (David) , granddaughter, Ella and grandson, David of Raleigh; loving partner of 25 years, Robert (Bob) Noack of Hurdle Mills along with many siblings and nieces and nephews.

Mary Jo was predeceased by her parents; her son Christopher (Drew) Bonhivert as well as her brother, Edward O’Donohue.

Mary Jo was a great lover of tradition and family recipes. She enjoyed sharing her love through feeding folks and passing along pointers to make things just right. She had a very soft spot for animals and would care for the local stray cats or any animal her children brought home.

A funeral Mass will be held at St. Matthews Catholic Church, 1001 Mason Rd, Durham, NC on Thursday, March 14th at 2:00pm.

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Losing a loved one can be one of the most difficult experiences we face in life. At Hall-Wynne Funeral Service, they understand that grief is a journey that requires support and guidance. That's why they offer a range of grief support resources, including counseling services, support groups, and online resources. Their compassionate staff is committed to helping families navigate the grieving process with comfort, care, and understanding.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and other biographical information. It may also include details about their life, accomplishments, and surviving family members.

What is the purpose of an obituary?

The primary purpose of an obituary is to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing and to provide details about their funeral or memorial service. It also serves as a way to honor and celebrate the person's life.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, an obituary is written by a family member or close friend of the deceased, often with the assistance of a funeral home or obituary writer. In some cases, the deceased may have written their own obituary in advance.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also include details about their life story, achievements, and charitable donations.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication and the family's preferences. Typically, it ranges from a few sentences to several paragraphs.

Where are obituaries published?

Obituaries are typically published in local newspapers, online obituary platforms, funeral home websites, and social media. They may also be printed in church bulletins, community newsletters, or other local publications.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication and the length of the notice. Some newspapers and online platforms offer free or low-cost options, while others may charge a fee based on the word count or length of the obituary.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, you can write your own obituary in advance. This can be a therapeutic exercise that allows you to reflect on your life and legacy. It can also ensure that your final wishes are respected and that your loved ones are spared from having to write it during a difficult time.

What is a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, typically including only their name, age, date of birth and death, and funeral service information. It is often used when a full obituary is not desired or cannot be written in time for publication.

What is the difference between an obituary and a eulogy?

An obituary is a written notice that announces a person's death and provides biographical information. A eulogy is a speech or written tribute that celebrates the person's life and legacy, often delivered at their funeral or memorial service.

Can I include photos or other multimedia in an obituary?

Yes, many online obituary platforms and newspapers allow you to include photos, videos, or other multimedia elements in an obituary. This can help bring the person's story to life and make the tribute more personal.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online platform?

You can usually submit an obituary through the newspaper's website or by contacting their obituary department directly. Online platforms often have submission forms or guidelines on their website.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The timeframe for publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication's schedule and deadlines. Online platforms may publish immediately or within hours, while newspapers may take several days or weeks.

Can I make changes to an obituary after it's been published?

In most cases, changes can be made to an online obituary after publication. However, corrections to print newspapers may be more difficult or impossible once they've gone to press.

What if I want to keep the obituary private?

If you want to keep the obituary private, you can request that it not be published publicly. Alternatively, you can create a private online memorial page that only authorized users can access.

Can I include charitable donation information in an obituary?

Yes, you can include information about charitable donations in lieu of flowers or other gifts. This can help support a cause that was important to the deceased and continue their legacy.

How do I find old obituaries?

You can search online archives of newspapers or genealogy websites to find old obituaries. Many libraries also maintain archives of local newspapers that can be searched in person.

Can I use social media to share an obituary?

Yes, social media can be a powerful tool for sharing an obituary with friends and family who may not have seen it in print. You can share a link to the online obituary or post a summary with relevant details.

What if I need help writing an obituary?

If you need help writing an obituary, consider consulting with a funeral home director or asking a friend or family member for assistance. You can also hire a professional writer or use online resources for guidance.

Can I include humor or anecdotes in an obituary?

Yes, you can include humor or anecdotes in an obituary to make it more personal and celebratory. This can help capture the person's personality and spirit.

How do I handle errors or inaccuracies in an obituary?

If you discover errors or inaccuracies in an obituary, contact the publication or online platform immediately to request corrections. They will typically work with you to resolve the issue as quickly as possible.

Can I republish an old obituary on its anniversary?

Yes, you can republish an old obituary on its anniversary as a way to remember and honor the person who has passed away. This can be especially meaningful for families who want to keep their loved one's memory alive.

What if I want to create a permanent online memorial?

You can create a permanent online memorial page that remains active indefinitely. These pages often allow visitors to leave condolences, share memories, and upload photos or videos.

Can I include quotes or poems in an obituary?

Yes, you can include quotes or poems in an obituary to add depth and meaning. Choose something that resonates with the person's life philosophy or personality.

How do I ensure that an online obituary remains accessible over time?

To ensure that an online obituary remains accessible over time, choose a reputable platform that guarantees long-term archiving and preservation of content. You may also want to save a copy of the obituary locally for safekeeping.