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Walter Duke - January 28, 1941 - April 12, 2022

Departed: 04/12/2022 (Federal Way)

Obituary Preview: Ed Duke, loving husband, father, grandfather, brother and friend to many, passed away on Tuesday, April 12, 2022, at Fransican Hospice in Tacoma, Washington. He was born January 28, 1941, in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, to Dovey Marie and Walter Edward Duke, Jr. Ed is survived by his wife of 56 years, Joyce; daughters, Jennifer Wright (husband, Joel) and Christina Leeper (husband, Shane); grandsons, Weylin, Kenny, Austin, and Hunter; sister, Margie Dickey; sisters-in-law, Pat Windham and Shirley Westmoreland; along with many nephews and nieces. He was preceded in death by his parents, Marie and Walt Duke. Ed loved many things, such as time with his family and grandsons, music, motorcycles, history, trains, traveling with Joyce and friends, and his Bible study group. His family will remember his love of the ocean, a good “Dad” joke, target practice, and a long road trip. He was talented professionally, earning much recognition as a law enforcement officer while living in California. In 1979, he changed careers and decided to try his hand at owning his own business until 1988, when he returned to law enforcement at Pierce County Medical Examiner as a Lead Investigator from which he retired in 2012. In retirement, Ed volunteered at the Amtrak Train station and at St. Peter Hospital in the Mended Hearts program. He was particularly fulfilled in spending time with Mended Hearts because he had experienced heart surgery himself and wanted to provide comfort to others. This sums up Ed perfectly. He was incredibly driven, intelligent, but above all compassionate and loving. A celebration of Ed’s life will be held on Saturday, May 7, 2022, 2:00 p.m. at Westwood Baptist Church, 333 Kaiser Road, Olympia, WA, 98502. Ed’s family encourages people to make a donation to the Thurston County Humane Society in Ed’s name. He loved dogs and supported the mission of the Humane Society. Please leave condolences or share memories and photos on the Tribute Wall to the left.

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Joann R. Jones - June 03, 1928 - March 22, 2020

Departed: 03/22/2020 (Federal Way)

Obituary Preview: Joann R. Jones, age 91, passed away March 22, 2020 in Federal Way, Washington, her home since 1964. She was born June 3, 1928 to Olin and Clara Walker in Beloit, Kansas.

Joann was a 1946 graduate of Trego Community High School in Wakeeney, Kansas. She was also a member of Calvary Lutheran Church since 1965.

Joann is survived by her sons, Michael Jones (Denise) and Steve Jones (Traci); daughter, Susan Hoppler (Craig); eight grandchildren; and five great grandchildren. She was predeceased by her parents, Olin and Clara Walker; brother, Howard Walker (Carrie); and twin sister, Joyce Walker.

No services are scheduled at this time due to the State of Washington COVID-19 “Stay Home, Stay Healthy” order. The family intends to have a celebration of her life when gatherings are permitted.

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Bernard Joseph Skahill Jr. - November 25, 1931 - March 05, 2020

Departed: 03/05/2020 (Federal Way)

Obituary Preview: Bernard Joseph Skahill Jr. passed away March 5, 2020, in Tacoma, Washington. He was born November 25, 1931, to Bernard and Elizabeth Skahill in Charleston, South Carolina. He lived at in Des Moines, Washington from 1963 to 1991, at The Pointe at Hartstene Island for 26 years, and at Cottages at Meridian for three years.

Bernard graduated from Seattle Prep in 1949 and Seattle University in 1953. He served in the U.S. Navy at Naval Air Station Point Mugu from 1955 to 1957. Bernard married Patricia Ann Lynch on June 23, 1962 in Spokane, Washington.

He worked for Boeing Co. for more than 30 years. He was an avid reader, and was passionate about boating and sailing. He was a lifetime member of Three Tree Pint Yacht Club. Bernard also was a member of St. Martin of Tours Catholic Church (2017-2020), Prince of Peace Catholic Church (2005-2017), and St. Philomena Catholic Church (1963-1991).

He is survived by his wife, Patricia Ann; sons, Michael, Paul (Nagela Salles), Brian and Kevin (Karen); grandchildren, Emily, Glen, Danny and Shannon; and sister, Jacqueline Herum. He was predeceased by his parents, and brother, George.

A Viewing will be held Sunday, March 15, 2020, 1:00 – 4:00 p.m. at Funeral Alternatives of Washington, 31919 6th Avenue S, Suite 200, Federal Way, WA 98003. The Rosary will be at 3:15 p.m. A graveside service will then take place at 12:30 p.m. at Gethsemane Cemetery, 37600 Pacific Hwy S, Federal Way, WA 98003.

Memorial donations may be made to Habitat for Humanity of Mason County, 1826 Olympic Hwy N, Shelton, WA 98584; Catholic Housing or Catholic Relief.

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Elsa von Voorthuysen Wulff - August 07, 1930 - February 26, 2020

Departed: 02/26/2020 (Federal Way)

Obituary Preview: Elsa van Voorthuysen Wulff died on February 26, 2020 at the age of 89. Elsa died at home, surrounded by family, on a sunny day that hinted of spring, in the house where she and her husband raised their four children.

Elsa was born at home on August 7, 1930 in the Netherlands, in the town of Voorburg. The eldest of four sisters, Elsa helped her father in his communication work as part of the Dutch resistance during the Nazi occupation from 1940 to 1945.

Elsa met Johan Adolf “Hans” Wulff at a dance class while he was an engineering student at Delft University. Elsa and Hans were married in 1955, and the newlyweds immigrated to the United States in 1956, after Hans had completed medical training at University of Leiden.

Elsa’s and Hans’ life in America began in Lexington, Kentucky, where Hans did his medical residency and where Elsa gave birth to their first child. Hans’ medical training and subsequent academic career took the family to Seattle, Oklahoma City, Dallas and back to Oklahoma City, where Hans took charge of the department of internal medicine at the University of Oklahoma.

In 1969, Elsa, Hans and their four children moved to Olympia, Washington, where Hans entered private practice as Thurston County’s second internist. In 1972, the family moved into a 1911 farmhouse on five acres at the end of Johnson Point. This is the house where Elsa’s love of animals and hands-on education in animal husbandry began, since her children seemed to bring home anything with fur or feathers.

Elsa was multi-lingual, speaking Dutch, English, French, Spanish and German. She earned a master’s degree in Spanish Literature and spent time teaching languages in the classroom and tutoring individual students.

In 1988, two years after Hans’ death, Elsa and her daughter Yolanka became co-owners of a tiny farm store above Mud Bay called The Grainery. Over the years, all four of Elsa’s children spent time working in the company that would later be known as Mud Bay. The company ultimately became a partnership between Elsa, her two youngest children, Lars and Marisa, and hundreds of employee-owners, known as Muddies.

Elsa worked actively for Mud Bay until 2002 and remained Mud Bay’s President Emeritus, an engaged shareholder and a beloved presence at Mud Bay stores throughout the rest of her life. Elsa was both incredulous and also so proud that, through the efforts of so many Muddies, her little feed store had become one of the only employee-owned companies in the pet industry and the largest pet retailer headquartered in the Pacific Northwest.

Elsa is survived by four children, Yolanka, Bianca, Lars and Marisa Wulff; and four grandchildren, Audrey and Emma Covert and Scarlett and Roxanne Wulff.

A celebration of Elsa’s life will be held on August 8, 2002. Friends and acquaintances who would like to receive an invitation are encouraged to send their contact information to evwulffmemorial@gmail.com.

To send flowers, please access the Tribute Store through the link below. Alternatively, you may make a gift in Elsa’s name to any animal welfare organization or Alzheimer’s research organization.

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Elliott Brown - August 19, 1929 - February 06, 2020

Departed: 02/06/2020 (Federal Way)

Obituary Preview: Elliott M. Brown, born in Puyallup, Washington, on August 19, 1929 to Myrtle and Arthur Colburn Brown, died on February 6, 2020. He was the youngest of eight children: six boys and two girls.

He enlisted in the Marines in 1948 and spent most of his time on ship assigned to the Marine Signal Detachment aboard the U.S.S. El Dorado AGC-11. After the Korean War, he returned to Tacoma to study at Tacoma Technical School (Bates Vocational), where he studied in the Radio Broadcasting and Operating Program, receiving his Radiotelephone Operators license First Class from the FCC.

Moving to Pomona, he began working for Convair (General Dynamics) in the engineering department. This is where he and his wife, JoAnn, started a family. While in Pomona, he remained with General Dynamics in a variety of roles, including working in the Redeye Missile Program.

Eventually moving back to the Northwest from Southern California, he had a variety of jobs, including office manager for a muffler shop, and later for Bernie’s Automotive painting. He started doing private consulting to businesses around the Puget Sound, assisting them to improve their productivity, create policies, and advance their business practices. His last job was with the Washington State Department of Health in the Emergency Medical Services Division.

For many, memories of him include his quick wit, sense of humor and his stories. He was incredibly smart and observant, retained facts that he read, and was a natural mechanic. He could fix many a machine. Constantly thinking up new ideas and improvements that could be made to make something function better were his passions. Harley Davidsons were his motorcycle of choice. A lover of jazz, he spent numerous hours making recording concerts and artists with his reel to reel.

One of his most treasured memories of his life included a visit to Jay Leno's car museum/garage guided by Jay himself.

He is survived by three children, Paula, Carol (Anne), and Richard; four grandchildren, Forrest, Brook, Morgan, Kyle; three great grandchildren, Meadow, Elliott and Owen; cousins, nieces and nephews.

Thank you to Stefan and Alina Halmaghi at 1st Bear Hugs LLC Adult Family Home, Kaiser Permanente Hospice, and Crown Health care providers for taking such good care of him during the latter part of his life.

He will be laid to rest on February 19, 2020, at Tahoma National Cemetery in Kent, Washington.

Memorial donations in Elliott's honor may be made to a charity of your choice.

Please leave condolences or share memories and photos on the Tribute Wall to the left.

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Robert Hayman Jr. - September 16, 1964 - February 03, 2020

Departed: 02/03/2020 (Federal Way)

Obituary Preview: Robert Fleming Hayman, Jr. died at his home on Herron Island on February 3, 2020. He was born in Bellevue, Washington, on September 16, 1964.

After attending the Overlake School in Redmond, Robert went on to the University of Washington, studied abroad at the University of London, and earned a B.A. in English in 1987. After graduation, he taught English for 18 months in Japan, returning to Seattle to begin a long career in commercial banking.

Robert married Sherry Wartnow on May 9, 1998. Both retired from banking in 2016, dividing their time between summers on Herron Island in the south Puget Sound, and winters in La Paz, Mexico, where Robert pursued his love of salt water and fishing.

Robert is survived by his wife, Sherry; his stepson, Macklin Turnrose; his parents, Robert and Sally Hayman; his sister, Victoria Sutton; and numerous cousins, nieces, and nephews.

An animal lover all of his life, and generous supporter of public radio, donations may be made to Rescue Every Dog (RED), Vashon Island Pet Protectors (VIPP), or KPLU Friends of 88.5, in lieu of flowers.

A memorial service will be held March 5, 2020, 2:00 p.m.at St. Thomas Episcopal Church, 8398 NE 12th St., Medina, WA 98039.

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John Moller - October 06, 1925 - January 27, 2020

Departed: 01/27/2020 (Federal Way)

Obituary Preview: John S. Moller passed away January 27, 2020, in University Place, Washington. He was born October 6, 1925 to Fredrick Moller and Aslaug Minora Moe Moller in Montreal, Quebec, Canada. A resident of Federal Way for 30 years, John also lived in Prince Rupert, British Columbia, Canada; Vancouver, British Columbia (1948-1968); and Dekalb, Illinois (1968-1989).

John graduated from Montreal High School. He married Geraldine Hamel on August 9, 1947 in Montreal; she passed away July 16, 1999.

Professionally, John was a car accountant for B.C. Hydro in Vancouver, B.C. (1948-1968), and financial advisor for AAL (Thrivent Financial) in Dekalb, Illinois (1969-1989). He retired in 1989 and settled in Federal Way.

John played hockey and baseball in his youth. He was a true Montreal Canadian Fan from the start. He enjoyed baseball, scoring the World Series games from 1943 to 2016. He also loved reading and music, having a great library for both; he was a die-hard jazz fan and a member of the Book of the Month club. He liked to dabble in writing, as well. In addition, he was a member of Vancouver Jazz Society; he would write articles in the newsletter Sharps & Flats, interviewing many of the performing musicians.

John was always an active guy, and stayed sharp to the very end. He also had strong religious beliefs and was a member of Calvary Lutheran Church in Federal Way.

He is survived by his daughter, Lois V. Barshinger; two nieces; and two nephews.

Graveside services will be held Friday, February 14, 2020, 10:30 a.m. at Bonney Watson Cemetery, 16445 International Blvd., SeaTac, WA 98188. Please arrive at approximately 10:00 a.m.

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Thomas Kinsman - September 25, 1948 - January 24, 2020

Departed: 01/24/2020 (Federal Way)

Obituary Preview: Tom passed away at Good Sam Hospital in Puyallup, Washington, on January 24, 2020 from cardiac arrest and kidney failure. He is survived by his wife of 40 years, Virginia; sons, Andrew and Nicholas; grandson, Timothy; daughter in-law, Kelli; sister, Sally; and his ever-faithful K-9 friend, Auggie, and bird, Piper.

Thomas D. Kinsman was born on September 25, 1948, to Thomas A. and Bettie Jean Kinsman. He grew up in Seattle, along with his older sister Sally, and by all accounts had a great childhood and many “adventures” that surely kept his parents on their toes. Tom’s propensity for stepping out and kicking up his heels in his younger days took Tom on a number of youthful journeys that likely would have gotten him in a tight spot had he been caught, but made for great laughs and excitement for Tom and his friends. Because Tom’s willingness to be a bit “wild and crazy” now and then carried over throughout his life, he lead a full and rich life. Tom truly was a spellbinding storyteller. If you knew Tom and he shared his stories with you about some of these experiences, he would have you shaking your head and often laughing to the point of tears.

If you had the privilege of knowing Tom, you would agree that Tom’s family was first and foremost in his life. They clearly were the wind beneath his wings in all he did. Tom passing leaves a hole that will never be filled in his absence, but the many cherished memories that the family made together and one-on-one with Tom will help carry them through the sorrow of this moment. Recently, Tom became a grandparent. Grandpa Tiki (TK) was elated at the birth of his grandson, Timothy Thomas, who quickly became buddies with Tom.

If you knew Tom, you would describe him as being someone who was always kind and compassionate. It would be very uncharacteristic to ever hear Tom engage in bad mouthing or running someone down. Tom looked for the good in people and met them on their own terms. If Tom was your friend, you could count on him to be there when you needed him. Tom was not shy about talking to strangers and made friends wherever he went. He had a smile that radiated warmth and put others at ease. He would ask you questions in your conversations and actively listen to what you had to say and was not judgmental; accepting others for who they were. It also was fun to engage Tom in good natured verbal jousting – he was very capable of holding his own and quick-witted.

If you knew Tom, you appreciated his easy-going nature and sense of humor. He was never one to engage in drama and always was steady and solid when challenges came his way. Even when facing declining health after retirement, Tom maintained his positive spirit and never complained or felt sorry for himself. Instead, he strived to lift others up.

Tom had an interesting career as an Air Traffic Controller and rightfully was proud of his years of service. While he no doubt brought levity and his uplifting personal dynamics to the workplace, there is no question that he would strive to be on top of things while on the job and would be a calming presence on the air for pilots in high stress situations. Tom was a rock in times of crisis both on and off the job.

Outside of his family, Tom had several distinct passions. He was passionate about watching sports and probably one of ESPN’s best customers. Tom loved sports cars and reminisced about a 240Z he had in his early adulthood – the top end of the car was explored numerous times. While Tom deeply regretted selling the Z car, he found a suitable replacement in his Porsche 911 Carrera convertible in which he and Virginia took many memorable road trips. The rumor is that the top end on the Porsche can blow the doors off that 240Z. Aside from the joy of belting his way through the gears, Tom knew he looked good behind the wheel of that Porsche. Tom also had a lifelong love of trains and the railroad. He knew more about locomotives and railroad history than anyone. If one stumbled upon an old steam engine or interesting historic railroad paraphernalia, Tom could tell you the specific details about it, right off the top of his head. His knowledge about trains was astonishing and augmented by his interest in scanning the radio railroad frequencies while on extended road trips. By the way, in Tom’s travels, he identified the best restaurants for fellow foodies to visit were they to follow in his footsteps. It did not seem to matter where you went, Tom knew the best places to get a great meal.

Finally, if you knew Tom, you knew he was a not only passionate about sailing, he was an extraordinary sailor. Tom and Virginia maintained a classic 30-foot sailboat for 40 years and he sailed it regularly right up until his death. Tom was an expert at navigation and knew the waters of Puget Sound like the back of his hand. When Tom was at the helm, he was totally in his happy place and truly one with the boat. A look of peace and joy radiated in his face when he sailed this vessel and the memories that the entire family generated while sailing together are valued more than words can express. Tom and Virginia’s love for the sea clearly was passed along to their sons. If you knew Tom, you clearly knew a very good man who truly made a difference during his time with us and will be forever missed. If you did not know Tom, you truly missed out … Fair Winds and Following Seas, Tom An announcement will be forthcoming with the date, time and location for Tom’s “Celebration of Life.”

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Marie Laughlin - January 06, 1965 - December 21, 2019

Departed: 12/21/2019 (Federal Way)

Obituary Preview: Marie Jo (Erhardt) Laughlin passed away in her home due to health complications on December 21, 2019. Marie was born on January 6, 1965 in Seattle Washington, to John and Caroline Erhardt.

Marie is survived by her son, John Michael Laughlin Jr (22); her sisters, Diane Benitz and Denise (Mike) Williams; along with several nieces, nephews, cousins, aunts and uncles. Marie was preceded in death by her parents, John and Caroline (Wetzstein) Erhardt; and brothers, Douglas and Loren Erhardt.

Marie, the youngest of five, grew up in the Snohomish and White Center communities. She graduated from Evergreen High School in 1983.

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Barbara Mohilef - January 25, 1937 - November 30, 2019

Departed: 11/30/2019 (Federal Way)

Obituary Preview: On November 30, 2019, our beloved mother Barbara Jean Mohilef passed away at the age of 82 in DuPont, Washington. She was born in January 1937 to Clarke and Helen Walter in Cleveland, Ohio. She was predeceased by her older sister, Margaret Dopp; and survived by her younger brother, Joseph (Kate) Walter, MD.

Barbara was full of stories about childhood adventures on her grandparents’ farm during WWII. She attended an all-girls high school in Virginia and developed a lifelong love of folk tunes and the dobro when she accompanied the school nurse into the Appalachians to volunteer medical services. She met her first husband, Norman Heyerdahl, while attending Wittenberg University in Ohio. They married shortly afterward and had three children by the time they were 23.

After becoming an empty-nester in the late 1970s, Barbara started a career at Tektronix in Beaverton, Oregon, retiring as a manager in Tektronix's fabrication business. There she met her second husband, Ben Mohilef. During their time in Tucson, she spent many happy mornings walking in the Catalina Mountains near their home.

After her children and grandchildren, Barbara's second love was music. She sang, played the guitar, dobro, and banjo, and played coffee house gigs in college. She was widely read and knowledgeable on many subjects, but especially history. She collected antiques and had a passion for cooking. She loved to play word games, cards, and cribbage, and was almost unbeatable at Scrabble. She was active in bridge clubs for many years. She was known for her quick wit, integrity, love of laughter, and kindness.

Three years ago, Barbara moved to Washington State to be closer to her children. She enjoyed Thanksgiving Day, playing games with her children and grandchildren the day before she peacefully left us.

She is survived by her husband, Benjamin Mohilef of Portland, Oregon; son, Mark Heyerdahl of Federal Way, Washington; daughters, Lt. Colonel (ret) Kristina Fortmann (Troy) of DuPont,Washington, and Emily Heyerdahl, Ph.D. of Missoula, Montana; and four grandchildren.

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Steven Talt - August 20, 1946 - November 07, 2019

Departed: 11/07/2019 (Federal Way)

Obituary Preview: Steven Douglas Talt, 73, passed away of a Glioblastoma tumor on November 7, 2019 in Tacoma, Washington. He was born August 20, 1946 to Harold and Nellie Talt in Portland, Oregon. Steve also lived in Seattle, Washington for over 30 years.

Steve attended Portland’s Benson Polytechnical High School, and Multnomah Community College. He married Marji Swanson on September 19, 1981 in Seattle. Professionally, he worked for Nelson Trucking as a dispatcher and inside salesman.

Steve loved coaching softball and basketball, spending time with his grandkids, collecting baseball cards, and visiting Hawaii.

He is survived by his loving wife, Marji Swanson-Talt; sons, Steve Talt, and Sean Talt (wife, Chrissy); daughters, Shana Heyden, Maegan Amato (husband, Tony), and Robin Kuhr (husband, Joe); 15 grandchildren; mother, Nellie Talt; brother, Mike Talt (wife, Lynn); and sister, Jan MacDonald. He was predeceased by his father, Harold Talt; and daughter-in-law, Jana Talt.

A celebration of Steve’s life is being planned for early 2020. Memorial donations may be made to:

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital via mail by filling out and returning a printable donation form found HERE, by phone at 800-478-5833, or online HERE.

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Mary Watson - May 16, 1926 - October 22, 2019

Departed: 10/22/2019 (Federal Way)

Obituary Preview: Mary Watson, 93, died October 22, 2019 at her home on Rocky Creek on the Key Peninsula.

She is survived by her four children, Chris Fruitrich (wife, Teresa) and Mary James, of the Tacoma area, Ellie Fruitrich of Australia, and Ean James of Hawaii; four grandchildren; and two great grandchildren. She also enjoyed a wide circle of supportive friends and neighbors.

Mary was a lifelong Unitarian Universalist and a member of the Tacoma congregation for more than 60 years. She was a dedicated supporter of End of Life Washington and its work to offer death with dignity to all Washington residents. She also worked on many other progressive causes, both political and cultural.

Mary was a voracious reader and, until recently, attended several book clubs, including one dedicated to her beloved Jane Austin. She also enjoyed meeting with a poetry group, a women’s circle, the friends of the Key Center Library, and regular neighborhood gatherings.

A transplant from the Midwest, she truly loved the Pacific Northwest, and cherished her memories of many years spent exploring its natural beauty. She was a regular in several hiking groups until her illness slowed her in her late 80s.

There will be no services, at her request.

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Laurence Dearinger - Unknown - October 21, 2019

Departed: 10/21/2019 (Federal Way)

Obituary Preview: Laurence “Larry”/“Kip” Dearinger died peacefully on Monday, October 21, 2019 of pancreatic cancer at the age of 59. It is suspected that his timing was intentional, to avoid having to make any decisions in our recent election.

Larry was born to the late Laurence “Larry” and Carol Dearinger in 1960, in Omaha, Nebraska. He graduated from North Kitsap High School (Go VIKINGS!) in 1978. Soon after graduation, he started work at the Naval Undersea Warfare Center (NUWC) in Keyport, Washington, where he worked for 37 years before his retirement from the cyber security department in 2015. After retirement, he kept his hand in cyber security, working for defense contractor AMSEC. In June 1991, he married Katie, and together co-raised four amazing kids and shared over 28 years of the journey together.

His greatest prize is his family, and his love for them was bigger than life itself. He is survived by his wife, Katie; his four children, Matt (Heidi), Sharie, Shaughn (Beki) and Chelsea (Scott); his mother, Carol (Walt); sisters, Andrea (Terry), Lisa, and Heidi (Kelly); former wife and forever friend, Candy (Allen), and daughter Allison (Josh); eight grandchildren; and his aunt and uncles. We’re so blessed--our shared family is huge, just too many to list here.

We would like to extend our most heartfelt thanks to the staff of the University Place Franciscan Hospice House for the amazing care and compassion given in Kip’s final days there.

We will be taking some time to remember him together at a memorial service on Saturday, November, 23, 2019, 1:00 p.m. at the Silverdale United Methodist Church, 9982 Silverdale Way NW, Silverdale, WA 98383.

Should friends desire, contributions may be sent to some of his favorite organizations: Scarlet Road, Kitsap Rescue Mission and Pregnancy Resource Services.

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H. Glen Evanger - February 10, 1926 - October 13, 2019

Departed: 10/13/2019 (Federal Way)

Obituary Preview: Herbert Glen Evanger was born February 10, 1926 in Steilacoom, Washington, to Herman and Helga (Peterson) Evanger. He was the oldest of six brothers. Growing up, Glen attended schools in Holden, Washington (then a mining town), Camas, Washington, and Port Angeles, Washington. At Port Angeles High School, Glen played baseball, football, and basketball.

Glen served in the United States Navy during World War II aboard the submarine USS Razorback out of Midway Island. During a patrol in Northern Japan, the crew was ordered to surface at the signing of peace terms in Nagasaki aboard the USS Missouri.

After the military service, Glen attended Pacific Lutheran College (now PLU) and graduated in 1951 with a degree in Education. He began his teaching career immediately after graduation at Washington Junior High in Seattle, Washington. He then moved on to teach high school Mathematics for 26 years. As the golf coach at Ingraham High School, Glen earned a formidable record of four Metro league title in five years, earning State Coach of the Year honors in 1971. After retiring from teaching in1977, Glen worked for Evanger Construction Company, owned by his brother, Darrell. Glen loved the outdoors. He taught skiing for many winters and considered himself a retired “ski bum.”

Glen met and married Delphine Leary in 1954 while living in Seattle. One of their favorite times was a trip driving the Alaska Highway up to Alaska, keeping a detailed journal of the entire trip. Upon their return to Seattle, Del became ill. Glen was her primary caregiver during her illness until she passed away in 2003.

Glen met and married Eunice (nee Eide) Ferguson in 2004. They shared 15 wonderful years together living in Tacoma, Washington. Glen and Eunice both loved to travel, visiting Europe twice together, and having many other good times travelling.

Glen passed away October 13, 2019. He is survived by his wife, Eunice, along with her six children and their families. Glen was a proud grandfather, great grandfather, uncle and adored all of those and their families that came into his life. Glen was preceded in death by his wife, Del; her two sons; and Glen’s five younger brothers.

The family wishes to thank all of the kind people at Orchard Park Care & Rehab in Tacoma for their excellent and tender care of Glen during his last days.

At Glen’s request, there will be a memorial service at United Lutheran Church on Friday, November 22, 2019, 11:00 a.m., located at 1231 S. 76th St., Tacoma, WA 98408.

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Hilaria Necesito - March 23, 1941 - October 12, 2019

Departed: 10/12/2019 (Federal Way)

Obituary Preview: Hilaria has gone to be with her husband, Candido Necesito. She leaves behind her son, Ronnie Necesito; and her daughter-in-law, Evelyn C. Necesito.

Hilaria was born March 23, 1941 in Umingan, Pangasinan, Philippines. Her parents were Prudencio Gualon and Rosa Deleon. She died on a beautiful Saturday, October 12, 2019 in Federal Way, Washington. She was 78 years old.

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Robert Gaylord - July 21, 1930 - August 25, 2019

Departed: 08/25/2019 (Federal Way)

Obituary Preview: Robert “Hap” Gaylord passed away peacefully August 25, 2019 in University Place, Washington, his home of 61 years. He was born July 21, 1930 to Charles Kester and Solange Camille Gaylord in Tacoma, Washington.

Hap graduated with the Central Kitsap High School Class of 1948. He was a business owner from 1958 to 2018, and had the distinction of being the longest operating business in University Place. He was known in the community as someone who would always help anyone at any time. He was well liked by everyone he met, and he cherished the friends he made along the way. He was a wonderful father and grandfather who will be truly missed.

Hap’s life was all about cars. He had an extensive collection that included many of his favorites, including old engines and antique tractors. You could always find him at his place of business behind the counter or hanging out by the fireplace with his buddies.

He is survived by his sons, Derek B. Gaylord, Gregory G. Gaylord, and Gerald G. Gaylord; his daughter, Shelley R. Gaylord-Witmer; nine grandchildren, Heather, Jordyn, Austin, Tia Marie, Dustin, Allie, Gracie, Shawnee and Hunter; and two great grandchildren, Brooklyn and Braelyn.

Memorial donations may be made to St. Jude’s Children’s Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105 or online by clicking HERE.

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Grady Williams - October 09, 1922 - August 02, 2019

Departed: 08/02/2019 (Federal Way)

Obituary Preview: Grady Floy Williams was born October 9, 1922 in Lone Oak, Texas, and died August 2, 2019 in Seattle, Washington, at the age of 96. He was the eighth of ten children born to John Lorenzo Wyatt Williams and Flora Leta Smith Williams. He served as a Navy Radioman in WWII, in the Pacific Theater and post-war Japan.

The valedictorian of his Lone Oak High School class, he studied dairy production at Oklahoma A&M, in Stillwater, Oklahoma, earning honors as the outstanding dairy student of his class, and elected to Phi Sigma Theta National Honor Society. In 1960, he was the first student at Oklahoma State University to be awarded a Ph.D. in Dairy Production, and was elected to Sigma Xi, National Scientific Research Honor Society.

He worked for Kansas State University as a dairy scientist in Mound Valley, Kansas until 1965. That year he moved to Puyallup, Washington, to become an Extension Dairy Scientist for Washington State University. During his tenure, Washington State was credited with having the best area dairy agent program in the U.S., and Washington led the nation in milk production per cow for several years. After co-founding the Western Extension Dairy Specialists group, milk production increased for all western states.

Grady lived in Puyallup for 53 years, serving on the board of directors for the Puyallup Kiwanis Club and the Helping Hands House, and as a trustee for the Puyallup United Methodist Church.

He is survived by his wife of 71 years, Velma Koons Williams of Seattle, Washington; his daughter, Leta Maco (Dave), San Ramon, California; his son, Joe Williams (Elizabeth Broderick) of Seattle, Washington; five grandchildren; and three great-grandchildren.

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Justine Richards - March 20, 1920 - July 05, 2019

Departed: 07/05/2019 (Federal Way)

Obituary Preview: Justine, 99, passed away peacefully at home on July 5, 2019 after enjoying one final 4th of July fireworks display over Puget Sound. Born on the spring equinox in Tacoma, Washington, on March 20, 1920 to William R. DeWolfe and Margaret Samington DeWolfe, Justine was a breath of spring to all she knew.

Justine was born with a love of travel and adventure. Soon after graduating from the University of Puget Sound, she moved to Juneau, Alaska, where she was secretary to Alaska’s War Labor Board Director. After WWII ended, she returned to the Pacific Northwest and began her career as a teacher, first in the Tri-Cities area and then for 40 years as a high school typing teacher and debate coach at Highline High School, before retiring in 1989. She supported all her students but was especially mindful of the importance of championing and encouraging the young women she taught. Justine was a generous listener and beloved teacher who imparted life lessons to her students, some of whom remained in touch with her until her passing.

Justine married John “Dick” Richards, Jr. on July 6, 1947. They shared a love of friends, family, gardening and pets, all of which enriched their lives. Their marriage ended with Dick’s death in March 1989 but Justine remained an active family member in the lives of Dick’s grandchildren, all of whom admired and adored her and called her grandma.

The next chapter of Justine’s life began in 1989 when she moved into her Mariner Manor condo. It would be her home for 30 years. She built a new family with her many neighbors, all of whom she captivated with her smile, intelligence and optimism. Justine traveled to Spain, Holland, Dubai, Alaska, Ghana, England, France, Turkey, China, Canada, Mt. Rainier, Winlock and other places near and far, but there was no place she loved more than her Des Moines condo.

Justine met her second husband, Gene Newman, in 1994. Although the attraction was immediate, they did not marry until 2008, three months before his death. They spent the intervening years travelling the globe and making each other laugh. Whether it was a swim in the pool, a hike at Mt. Rainier, sleeping under the stars at Winlock or just being in one another’s company, they were octogenarian kids in love who brought each other unfettered joy.

Justine was a believer in supporting causes important to her, particularly those related to education, nature, animals and the Democratic Party. She leaves a legacy of generosity to her family and friends, having made higher education a reality for many of them.

A loving grandma and aunt, devoted friend, gifted educator, avid reader, constant learner and animal lover, Justine is survived by many loving relatives and friends and thousands of students.

IN LIEU OF FLOWERS, remembrances may be made to the charity of your choice.

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Thaddeus Oden - August 16, 1952 - May 09, 2019

Departed: 05/09/2019 (Federal Way)

Obituary Preview: Thaddeus “Ms. Peach” Oden, 66, passed away of respiratory failure on May 9, 2019 in Puyallup, Wash. She was born August 16, 1952 to Carl Martin Waldon and Minnie Lee Battle in Sapulpa, Oklahoma. She had been a resident of Tacoma, Wash. for the past two years, and also lived in San Diego, Calif.

She earned a BA in nursing and was employed as a nurse, entrepreneur, teacher and civil service worker. A tenacious, witty, fun and outgoing person, she loved arts and crafts, cooking, crocheting, gardening, eating peaches, traveling. She also enjoyed people. She was a past member of the Order of Eastern Star.

She is survived by daughters, Tashia Smith-Hankerson and Pauline Woods-Fiscus; grandchildren, Fernando Rico, Zachary Fiscus, Katrina Fiscus, Alexander Hankerson, Ameris Hankerson, and Andrew K. Hankerson; brothers, John Carl Waldron, Val Jean Waldron, Ronnie Waldon; sisters, Cora Meyers, Pechola Taylor, Antia Gardner, Shirley Walker, and Gayle Traylor; a host of nieces and nephews, extended family, and friends. She is predeceased by her parents; and sisters, Geneva Leah Porter, and Glendora W. Kennedy.

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Yun-Chang Chu - April 09, 1962 - April 19, 2019

Departed: 04/19/2019 (Federal Way)

Obituary Preview: Yun-Chang “Stephan” Chu passed away unexpectedly at home, on Good Friday, April 19, 2019, at the age of 57. He was preceded in death by his parents, and survived by his loving husband, John Applegate of West Seattle.

Stephan came to America to learn English. He met John at Western Washington University and they were together for 30 years, married for six. Over the years, they enjoyed trips throughout the Western United States, especially to places such as Yellowstone National Park, Las Vegas, and San Francisco.

For over 15 years, Stephan provided loving home healthcare services to many grateful families in the Seattle area. Friends describe him as a generous and loving soul who went out of his way to care for others.

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John Schoeppel Jr. - May 23, 1941 - April 03, 2019

Departed: 04/03/2019 (Federal Way)

Obituary Preview: John G. Schoeppel, Jr., age 77, passed away April 3, 2019 in Tacoma, Washington, after a hard-fought battle with cancer. He was born May 23, 1941 to John George Schoeppel and Mary Alice (Bard) Schoeppel on Vashon Island, Washington.

John graduated from Vashon High School in 1959. He served in the U.S. Army during the Korean War. Professionally, he worked for Walt Fitzpatrick, the Vashon Gravel Pit, and Misty Isle Farm as farm manager.

John was an honest, caring, all-around good man. He helped everyone who needed assistance.

John and his wife, Juanita, traveled extensively during their 45 years together, including to Hawaii, Australia, New Zealand and Fiji. John also traveled with Tom Stewart to England and Italy. John loved fishing and, after retirement, he and Juanita became avid RVers with their dogs. They enjoyed traveling through most of the continental U.S., except for the East Coast. They created great memories that live on.

John is survived by his wife, Juanita; beloved dog, Keezie; brother, Sam Bard (Kate); sisters, Pam Bartoy (Jim) and Susie Henry (Doug); and sister-in-law, Sharon Schoeppel. He was predeceased by his parents; and brothers, Bruce Schoeppel and James Bard.

A celebration of life will be held on Saturday, May 18, 2019, 2:00 p.m. at the Vashon Sportsmen’s Club, 19720 Singer Road SW, Vashon, WA 98070.

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Lawrence Bell - July 24, 1934 - March 17, 2019

Departed: 03/17/2019 (Federal Way)

Obituary Preview: Lawrence Bell passed away March 17, 2019 in Des Moines, Wash. He was born July 24, 1934 to Stephen McMorris Bell and Annie Lee Lowe Bell in Wichita, Kan. He was a Burien, Wash. resident for 51 years.

Larry earned a BA in Business from Wichita State University. He served in the U.S. Air Force as a radio intercept operator from 1954 to 1958. Professionally, he worked in financial services at DSHS (1971-1997), for Northwest Security Services (1996-2003), and Reliant Security (2003-2008). He had a lifelong appreciation of the arts.

Larry is survived by his sister, Maxine Wilkes of Walnut Creek, Calif.; nieces and nephews, Anita (Steve) Chartier of Wichita, Cheri (Greg) Beretta of Dublin, Calif., Lu (Bob) Potilla of Wichita, Stephanie Brown of Gainesville, Fla., Jeff (Christina) Wilkes of Montville, Ohio, Steve (Kim) Bell of Livermore, Calif., Carolyn (Peter) Brummel of Seattle. He was predeceased by his parents; and brothers, Robert Bell and Elbert Bell.

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Lela Paterson - August 23, 1934 - January 20, 2019

Departed: 01/20/2019 (Federal Way)

Obituary Preview: Lela Lee Paterson, 84, passed away January 20, 2019, in Tukwila, Washington. She was born August 23, 1934, to Gerald and Lydia Clark in Seattle, Washington. She lived in Seattle’s Madrona neighborhood for 52 years.

Lela graduated from Franklin High School in Seattle, and earned her Bachelor’s degree from Central Washington University in Ellensburg, Washington, and her Master’s in Education from the University of Washington in Seattle. She was a teacher at Seattle’s Rainier Beach High School.

In 1965, Lela married Peter Paterson in London, England. She was an avid reader, gardener, and political activist. She loved cats.

Lela is survived by her husband, Peter Paterson; son, Jeremy Paterson; daughter, Elena Paterson; two grandchildren; and one great grandchild. She was predeceased by her parents, Gerald and Lydia Clark; and brother, Jim Clark.

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Jean Sutherland - November 02, 1923 - January 16, 2019

Departed: 01/16/2019 (Federal Way)

Obituary Preview: Jean A. Sutherland passed away January 16, 2019 in Burien, Washington. She was born November 2, 1923 to Christian M. and Frances O. Knudson in Larimore, North Dakota.

Jean earned an AA degree in business and was a stock transfer administrator at Seafirst Bank in Seattle from 1965 to 1981. She married Robert M. Sutherland on June 5, 1948 in Spokane, Washington. She lived in West Seattle for 36 years, Allyn, Washington for 12 years, and the Normandy Park area the last four years.

Jean had a great sense of humor and believed that it made “the world go around” for everyone to have one. She loved world travel, painting and sculpting, gardening, cooking, interior design and especially spending quality time with family and friends. She was a member of Tibbets Methodist Church in West Seattle.

Jean was a kind and loving wife, mother, grandmother and great grandmother, who was always there to help others. She is survived by son, Donald D. Sutherland, and his wife, Phoebe U. Sutherland; daughter, Joyce M. Sutherland; three grandchildren, David Tobin, Jay Tobin and Matt Sanders; four great grandchildren; and best friend, Lynn Shannon. She was preceded in death by her husband, Robert M. Sutherland; her parents, Christian M. and Frances O. Knudson; brothers, Clifford W. Knudson and Ray F. Knudson; sister, Constance M. Knudson; and her loving little companion doggie, Brady.

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Huguette Bennett - August 03, 1929 - January 09, 2019

Departed: 01/09/2019 (Federal Way)

Obituary Preview: Huguette Suzanne Bennett, loving wife, mother, grandmother, and friend passed away peacefully at home on Wednesday, January 9, 2019. Huguette immigrated to the United States from France with her family when she was 16. The family settled in Centralia, Washington, where she attended high school and junior college and met her husband of 67 years, Wallace Ray Bennett.

The young couple moved to Kennewick, Washington, and started their family. Huguette had two sons, Brian and Brad. The family relocated to Steilacoom, Washington, in 1963.

Huguette went back to school and graduated from Pacific Lutheran University. She taught French at Clover Park High School for 17 years. She loved boating, skiing, traveling, and spending time with family and friends.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their family, achievements, and accomplishments.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a sense of closure and help to celebrate the life of the deceased.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, a family member or close friend of the deceased writes the obituary. Funeral homes or mortuaries may also offer assistance in writing and publishing obituaries.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A standard obituary usually includes the person's full name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also include a photo, funeral service details, and any charities or organizations where donations can be made in lieu of flowers.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or online platform. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from 100 to 500 words.

Can I include humor or anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! Obituaries don't have to be somber and serious. Including humorous stories or anecdotes can help celebrate the person's life and personality.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online platform?

Check with the specific publication or platform for their submission guidelines. Some may accept submissions online, while others may require email or phone submissions. Be prepared to provide all necessary information and payment for publication fees.

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Can I edit or make changes to an obituary after it's been published?

It depends on the publication or platform. Some may allow corrections or updates, while others may not. It's essential to proofread carefully before submission to avoid errors.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The timeframe can vary depending on the publication or platform. Online platforms may publish immediately, while print newspapers may take several days to a week.

Can I include photos or other multimedia in an obituary?

Yes! Many online platforms and some newspapers allow you to include photos, videos, or other multimedia elements to enhance the obituary.

What if I want to keep the obituary private?

If you prefer to keep the obituary private, you can opt for a private online memorial page or limit access to specific individuals. Alternatively, you can choose not to publish an obituary at all.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes! Some people choose to write their own obituaries as a way to reflect on their life and legacy. This can also help alleviate the burden on loved ones during a difficult time.

What if I'm unsure about what to say in an obituary?

If you're struggling to write an obituary, consider seeking help from a family member, friend, or professional writer. You can also look at examples of other obituaries for inspiration.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

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How do I handle sensitive information in an obituary?

If there's sensitive information you'd rather not share publicly, consider omitting it or phrasing it discreetly. Remember that an obituary is intended to honor the person's life, not cause unnecessary distress.

Can I include charitable donations information in an obituary?

Yes! Many people choose to include information about charitable donations in lieu of flowers as a way to continue their loved one's legacy.

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Can I republish an obituary at a later date?

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How do I ensure accuracy in an obituary?