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Catherine Ruth Parent - May 03, 1976 - February 18, 2024

Departed: 02/18/2024 (Tupper Lake)

Obituary Preview: Catherine “Kate” Ruth Parent, also known as “TK” Tall Kate, “KP”, and “Ruthless” among other nicknames, was 47 years old when she peacefully moved on from this world on February 18, 2024 at her childhood home in Tupper Lake, NY after a brief, but tough battle with cancer. Kate was not only “Ruthless,” she was fearless. She took on her illness with classic Kate strength and kept her sardonic humor intact to the very end, finally resting under the sun rising on Simond

Pond. While all of us who knew her know that she was an incredibly independent and individualistic force, she was also a big softy who loved fiercely all those that were lucky enough to be brought into her life. She made sure her family, her huge network of amazing friends, and all her animal friends (mostly dogs, but also some cats and a tarantula) knew how special each and all were to

her.

She was born in May of 1976 to Dick and Monica Parent of Tupper Lake who predeceased her. Dick was a local sport shop owner and guide, and Monica was a teacher in Long Lake where Kate went to elementary and high school. She went to college at SUNY Plattsburgh, and grad

school at Potsdam where she specifically studied her passion for the written word. Kate was a voracious reader and writer. She worked as a local reporter and then as an English Teacher in Star Lake and Tupper Lake. During this time, she lived with her long-time other half,

Tim Bissell who predeceased her. Kate lived in Portland, OR for about 10 years where she made lifelong friends, worked in the

restaurant business, and in her free time traveled and explored the state. She returned to the Adirondacks in 2021 where she worked at the Adirondack Hotel in Long Lake, again reuniting with her many old friends and making new ones that all surrounded her

like family.

Kate is survived by her brother Joe, sister-in-law Ally, many aunts, uncles and cousins.

She is also survived by her many rock-solid friends from all over the country. A celebration of Kate’s life will be held at the Adirondack Hotel in Long Lake, NY on March 3, 12:00 PM to 2:00 pm. In the spirit of Kate’s own individualistic style, please wear whatever reflects your personal style as Kate would. Casual and Adirondack will likely dominate, but

whatever suits you is welcome.

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Donald J. Sabin - October 04, 1930 - February 17, 2024

Departed: 02/17/2024 (Tupper Lake)

Obituary Preview: Donald J. Sabin, age 93, passed away peacefully on Saturday, February 17, 2024 at the Adirondack Medical Center in Saranac Lake. He was born October 4, 1930 in Tupper Lake, the son of Lawrence “Mike” and Agnes (Staves) Sabin. A 1948 graduate from Tupper Lake High School, Don continued his studies at LeMoyne College until he was drafted into the U.S. Marine Corps during the Korean War.

Don married his high school sweetheart, Marlene LaPorte, at St. Alphonsus Church on June 1, 1952. He followed his father in the electrical trade, working first with the family business and then joining the International Brotherhood of Electrical Workers (IBEW) as a journeyman and then local business manager. Some of the construction projects he worked on: the St. Lawrence Seaway, Reynolds Aluminum & Chevrolet plants in Massena, the George Washington Bridge, the Astoria Power Plant in Queens, NY, and Paul Smith’s College, are to name a few. In 1969, the family relocated from the Adirondacks to Maryland when Don was appointed to represent the International Brotherhood of Electrical Workers (AFL-CIO) in the Washington D.C. office. He was Assistant to the International President and was assigned to handle questions/problems concerning the obligations of local officers, appeals, elections and the filing and processing of charges. He had to ensure that proper protocols were followed in accordance with the IBEW Constitution, as well as relevant laws and policies.

Don believed in community involvement and was clearly civic minded. In his earlier Tupper Lake years, he was a volunteer fireman (along with his father and brothers) for 15 years, a Knights of Columbus member, and also served on the Tupper Lake Central School District - Board of Education. In Maryland, he was active as a hockey coach, a religious instructor at Sacred Heart Church, and a member of the Knights of Columbus. He was appointed as Grand Master for the Knights of Columbus, Washington, D.C., and in 1979, proudly led the procession at Saint Matthews Cathedral for Pope John Paul II’s visit to the United States. Upon his retirement in 1992, Don and Marlene returned to Tupper Lake where he continued his community service. A member of Sunmount’s Board of Visitors for years, he was an advocate on behalf of the rights and best interests of persons with disabilities. Dedicated to the Knights of Columbus, he actively recruited new members, and he also supported the Marine Corp League at the VFW. Similar interests kept him busy during the winter months in Port Charlotte, FL. As the President of the Fire Club, he continued the fundraising events that were developed to assist park residents with necessary medical equipment. The success of those fundraising events was instrumental for creating a Veteran’s Memorial, at Maple Leaf Estates, honoring all services of the armed forces both in the United States and Canada.

His family was his first priority, and he loved to travel. With his children residing throughout the country, he easily traveled much of the United States for visits and reunions at National Parks. Highlights from his trips abroad were, Germany in 1990 after the wall came down, London, Paris and the beach of Normandy. He actively followed politics from the local to the national level. Don enjoyed a good game of cards, along with trips to the casinos, and always looked forward to his McDonald mornings, and routine stops to the Post Office and Shaheen’s.

He is survived by his loving wife of 71 years, Marlene, three daughters Lynn Sabin of Port Charlotte, FL, Katherine (Ray) Woodford of Syracuse, NY, Diane (Tom) Denneny of Sterling, VA, and two sons John (Terri) Sabin of Haywarden, IA, Paul (Teresa) Sabin of Tacoma, WA, and daughter-in-law Earlene Sabin of Fort Walton Beach, FL; nine grandchildren and 14 great-grandchildren. He is also survived by his two brothers and their wives, Richard “Dick” and Theresa “Tootsie” Sabin of Tupper Lake, Gary and Mary Sabin of Farmington, NY, and one sister-in-law, Carole (LaPorte) Carrillo of Syracuse, NY and many loved nieces, nephews and cousins.

He is predeceased by his son Michael in 2016, sister Nadine in 1998, and two brothers Ted in 1993, and Robert in 1940. Calling hours will be held on Friday, February 23 at the Frary Funeral Home in Tupper Lake from 3:00-5:00 pm. A burial Mass and graveside service will be held in May 2024. In honor of his memory, in lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Tupper Lake Fire Department, P.O. Box 849, Tupper Lake, NY 12986 or Mercy Care for the Adirondacks, 185 Old Military Road, Lake Placid, NY 12946.

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Stephen Leonard LaPierre - March 03, 1949 - February 06, 2024

Departed: 02/06/2024 (Tupper Lake)

Obituary Preview: A Graveside service will be held at St. Alphonsus Cemetery in the spring for Mr. Stephen Leonard LaPierre, age 74, who passed away at his Tupper Lake home Tuesday, February 6, 2024. Arraignments are under the care and direction of Frary Funeral Home.

Stephen was born on March 3, 1949 in Tupper Lake, NY, the son of the late Robert and Rena (Greiner) LaPierre. He attended school in Tupper Lake and enlisted in the United States Army April 1967, proudly serving during the Vietnam Conflict. Stephen was honorably discharged in 1970 and three months later, married Nancy Gonyea on April 4, 1970 at St. Alphonsus Church in Tupper Lake.

He was employed by the United States Department of Justice as Chief Security Officer at FCI Ray Brook and retired after 20 years of dedicated service in 2002. Stephen enjoyed spending time with his family and enjoyed helping people. He was also a locksmith and held various leadership positions at his local V.F.W. Post.

Stephen was a proud Great-Grandfather to three; he is survived through his children, Robert LaPierre and his wife Dawn, of Tupper Lake, NY and Kimberly Dafoe and her husband Richard, of Russell, NY.

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Shirley LaVigne - February 03, 1931 - January 21, 2024

Departed: 01/21/2024 (Tupper Lake)

Obituary Preview: Shirley A. Lavigne, age 92, of 111 Wawbeek Avenue, passed away January 21, 2024 peacefully at her home surrounded by family. Calling hours will be held on Friday, January 26th from 3pm-5pm at the Frary Funeral Home, Tupper Lake, NY. A Mass of Christian Burial for Shirley will be conducted at St Alphonsus Church in the spring at a date to be determined.

Shirley is survived by her five children, Jackie Denis and her husband Larry, of Tupper Lake and Nebo, NC, Howard Lavigne and his wife Joanne of Pennellville, NY, Dean Lavigne and his wife Marcy of Tupper Lake, Mary LaLonde and her husband Stuart of Tupper Lake and Lisa Bryda and her husband Dean of Castleton, NY; eleven grandchildren; twelve great grandchildren; and many nieces and nephews. Shirley is predeceased by her husband Walter and her two daughters Taire and Michelle.

Shirley was born on February 3, 1931 in Tupper Lake, the daughter of Edmond and Emily (Disotell) Auclair. She graduated from Tupper Lake Schools in 1948 and married Walter on January 23, 1950 at St Alphonsus Church. Shirley worked at the Altamont Dairy and the Telephone Company for many years before becoming a stay at home mom. During her stay at home though, Shirley worked many occupations such as: school cafeteria worker, real estate agent, Avon salesperson, and was instrumental in numerous special occasions for local people in providing wedding and birthday cakes, invitations and numerous other accessories for the occasion.

Shirley was very active in her community as a Eucharistic minister, volunteer for Mercy Health Care, St. Alphonsus choir, St. Anne Society, and past President of the Tupper Lake History Museum. Shirley’s most treasured time was spent with family. She also enjoyed fishing, boating, camping, traveling, bowling, snowmobiling, gambling and the great outdoors.

Donations can be made in Shirley’s memory to High Peaks Hospice, PO Box 840, Saranac Lake, NY 12983 and the Tupper Lake History Museum, PO Box 824, Tupper Lake, NY 12986.

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Sandra Trudeau - February 28, 1942 - January 18, 2024

Departed: 01/18/2024 (Tupper Lake)

Obituary Preview: A Funeral Mass for Sandra Trudeau, age 81, of Tupper Lake, will be held on Friday, January 26, 2024 at 1:00PM at St. Alphonsus Church with Rev. James Teti officiating. Calling Hours for Sandra will be held on Thursday, January 25, 2024 from 5:00PM until 8:00PM at Frary Funeral Home, Tupper Lake. Burial will take place in the Spring at St. Alphonsus Cemetery. Mrs. Trudeau passed away on Thursday, January 18, 2024 at her home surrounded by her loving family.

She is survived by her children, Jacqueline Trudeau of Tupper Lake, John Trudeau and his wife Sally, of Tupper Lake, Robert Trudeau, of Tupper Lake, and Tina Trudeau-Davis and her husband Junior, of Tupper Lake; seven grandchildren; and ten great-grandchildren. She is predeceased by her husband, Maurice “Butch” Trudeau; her parents, Nelson and Marjorie Rice; and her siblings, Nelson Rice Jr., Steven Rice, and Susan Brownell.

Sandra was born on February 28, 1942, in Tupper Lake, the daughter of Nelson Sr. and Marjorie Brickey Rice. Sandra graduated from Tupper Lake High School in 1960 and soon after, she married her husband, Maurice Trudeau on March 3, 1962, at St. Alphonsus Church. Sandra stayed home to raise and take care of her four children.

She enjoyed babysitting, taking care of her grandchildren, watching QVC, going out with her friends, and playing games on her iPad.

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William Dominie - October 17, 1942 - January 18, 2024

Departed: 01/18/2024 (Tupper Lake)

Obituary Preview: Funeral services for William “Bill” Dominie, age 81, of Tupper Lake, will be held on Saturday, January 27, 2024 at 12:00PM at Frary Funeral Home. Calling hours will be held prior from 10:00AM up until the time of the service. Bill passed away on Thursday, January 18, 2024 at Adirondack Medical Center. He is survived by his brothers, Richard Dominie, Bruce Dominie and his wife Janet, Michael Dominie and his wife Melissa, all of Tupper Lake; and several nieces and nephews. He is predeceased by his parents, George and Myrtle Dominie; his brother, George Dominie; and his sister, Stella Dominie

Bill was born on October 17, 1942, in Tupper Lake, the son of the late George and Myrtle Gumlaw Dominie. William graduated from Tupper Lake Central School in 1960. He worked for the Dress Factory in Tupper Lake for many years then moved to Malone to work for Tru-Stitch.

He enjoyed playing crossword puzzles and watching sports on TV.

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June May Murphy - June 12, 1936 - December 13, 2023

Departed: 12/13/2023 (Tupper Lake)

Obituary Preview: A Funeral Mass for June M. Murphy, age 87, of Tupper Lake, will be held on Tuesday, December 19, 2023 at 11:00AM at St. Alphonsus Church with Rev. James Teti officiating. Calling hours will be held on Monday, December 18, 2023 from 3:00PM to 6:00PM at Frary Funeral Home in Tupper Lake. Burial will take place at St. Alphonsus Cemetery in the Spring. Mrs. Murphy passed away at her home on Wednesday, December 13, 2023.

She is survived by her husband, Richard Murphy; her daughter, Debbie Johnson and her husband Scott, of Schenectady; her grandchildren, Daniel Reil and his wife Robyn, of Latham, Stacy Bronson and her husband Michael, of Guilderland, and Dylan Rex, of Long Island; her great grandchildren, Oliver, Raphael, and Margot Reil, Barbara Anne and Graven Bronson, Brian Legan and his wife Ciera, and Neo Rex; and one great-great grandchild, Brian Legan Jr. She is predeceased by her son, Robert Rex.

June was born on June 12, 1936, in Balmat, NY, the daughter of the late Leo and Agnes Hart Pickering. She graduated from Gouverneur Central School in 1954 and went on to work for the Newton Falls Paper Company for many years. She met Richard Murphy when he came to fix her telephone in Star Lake. They were married on October 24, 1995 in Florida.

She enjoyed spending time with her family and her world revolved around her family.

Condolences can be made online at www.fraryfuneralhome.com.

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Clarence Theodore Peck - July 30, 1955 - November 24, 2023

Departed: 11/24/2023 (Tupper Lake)

Obituary Preview: It is with heavy hearts and profound sadness that we announce the passing of our dear friend and family captain, Clarence T. Peck. Clarence departed from this world on Friday, November 24, 2023 in comfort and peace surrounded by the ones he loved. He was a pillar of strength, love, and wisdom, and his loss leaves an irreplaceable void in our lives.

Born on July 30, 1955 in Keene Valley NY, Clarence was a remarkable man who touched the lives of all who had the privilege of knowing him. He exemplified hard work, integrity, compassion and kindness in every aspect of his life. As a devoted husband, loving father, and loyal friend, he consistently demonstrated his unwavering love and support for all who he loved, friends, family and strangers alike, always putting the needs of others before his own.

Clarence was a true family man, relishing in every moment spent with his people, even when it was just sitting around telling his favorite stories. . . He possessed an infectious sense of humor and a zest for life, making every gathering a memorable occasion filled with laughter and cherished memories. He is survived by his loving wife of 34 years, Jenifer L. Peck (Varden). He is also survived by 4 sons, Matthew Hathaway (Angie) of Lake Placid, Jordan Varden (Sylvia) of Chateaugay, Joe Peck of Brookline, NH, and Jessie Peck of Tupper Lake. He is also survived by his loving daughter, Camille O’Malley of Tucson, AZ, as well as 10 grandchildren and even some great grandchildren.

Professionally, Clarence was a respected business owner who for 36 years would labor alongside and employ many friends and of course he particularly enjoyed sharing that wisdom and passion with all of his sons. Dedicating himself to his craft with unwavering commitment and expertise, Clarence’s excellence and his relentless drive, always wanting to learn something every day. Clarence inspired all those who had the privilege of working alongside him.

Above all, Clarence’s love for his family was unparalleled. He leaves behind cherished memories that will forever be engraved in our hearts. His unending love, guidance, and innumerable amounts of support. He will continue to guide us through life's journey, even in his absence.

In this time of sorrow, we find solace in the memories we shared with Clarence. While the pain of his loss is immeasurable, we take comfort in the knowledge that he no-longer journeys in trepidation and pain. His legacy will endure through the lives he touched and the values he instilled in us.

We invite family, friends, and all those whose lives were touched by Clarence to join us in a celebration of his remarkable life on Friday December 1, at Frary Funeral Home in Tupper Lake NY. We will gather to reminisce, share stories and love for his life. Calling hours will begin at 3pm on Friday. Immediately following the calling hours, a brief Memorial Service will begin at 5pm.

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Charles Patrick Baker, Jr. - December 18, 1929 - November 22, 2023

Departed: 11/22/2023 (Tupper Lake)

Obituary Preview: Charles P Baker Jr., 93, of Tupper Lake, NY passed away on November 22, 2023 at Adirondack Medical Center after a short illness, surrounded by family.

Calling hours will be at the Frary Funeral Home, 24 Cliff Avenue, Tupper Lake, NY on Wednesday November 29, 2023 from 9:30AM to 11:30AM . At 11:00 AM there will be a ceremony by the Pilgrims of the Moose, followed by mass of Catholic Burial at St Alphonsus Church in Tupper Lake at noon.

Charlie was born in Tupper Lake to Irene Baker (Lalonde) and Charles P Baker Sr. on December 18, 1929. He graduated from Tupper Lake High School in 1947 and in 1956, he married Alice Dukett from Saranac Lake and they had 3 children. A hard worker, Charlie worked on the golf course while in High School with his Dad and later worked at the Draper Corporation Plant sawing logs and making bobbins for the textile industry. He remained there through the many sales and name changes until the plant finally closed. Also during this time, he was caretaker for up to 14 private camps on Tupper Lake and in his “free time” he also sold CB radios.

After leaving the sawmill, he went back to his roots and returned to working at the Tupper Lake Country Club where he was employed until they would not hire him at age 80. During this time he was very active in the Tupper Lake Moose Club where he held many offices including District 8 President. He was also recognized by earning the highest degree, Pilgrim Degree. He was an avid hunter who kept the freezer full.

Charlie is survived by his wife of 67 years, Alice Baker (Dukett); son, Charles J Baker Sr. of Medina, NY; and daughter, Linda Tyo of Canton, NY along with 10 grandchildren and numerous great-grandchildren along with a brother-in-law, Ed Dukett of Saranac Lake; and Sister-in Law, Mary Besaw of Plattsburgh, NY and several nieces and nephews. His death was preceded by his brother, Ozie Baker and daughter Alice Baker.

Memorial donations in Charlie's memory can be made to the Tupper Lake Rescue Squad, 169 Main St, Tupper Lake, NY 12986.

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Mitchell Craig Durett - July 09, 1948 - November 12, 2023

Departed: 11/12/2023 (Tupper Lake)

Obituary Preview: Mr. Mitchell Durett passed away November 12, 2023 after a long illness, he was 75. Mitchell was born July 9, 1948 in Gabriels, NY, he was a son of Forrest and Shirley Durett. Mitchell attended Saranac Lake Central Schools, graduating High School in 1967. Mitchell went on to answer our Nation's call to arms, spending two years fighting communism in Vietnam. After the war, Mitchell returned to settle into life back in the Adirondack area, marrying Joyce; they had one child, Sherman.

Mitchell is predeceased by both parents, his older brother, Forrest "Sonny" Durett, and his twin brother, Micheal; Mitchell is survived by his sisters Joanne Tucker, of Fairport, NY, Rosemary Casalbore of Dunn Eden, FL; brothers George Durett of Cal-Nev-Ari, NV, Patrick Durett, of North Franklin, CT and Geoffrey Durett of Henrietta, NY. Mitchell is also survived by his long-time companion Ida Horsler of Tupper Lake, NY. Mitch has finally found peace.

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Austin Rand Dridge - September 10, 1954 - October 03, 2023

Departed: 10/03/2023 (Tupper Lake)

Obituary Preview: Austin Rand Dridge of Saranac Lake, NY passed away October 3, 2023 at Mercy Living Center in Tupper Lake NY, he was 69.  Austin was born in Oceanside, NY September 10, 1954 to Earl and Dorthea Dridge; he was their only child. Austin grew up on Long Island in Lynbrook, but spent summers in a family home in Saranac Lake. After high school, Austin attended Hofstra University where he earned a Bachelor's Degree in History in 1976. Austin went on to receive a Master's Degree in Library Science from St. John's University in 1980 - the same year he received his New York State Librarian Certificate.

A lifelong book enthusiast, Austin became Director at the Wantagh Public Library in 2008; he also worked at the Roosevelt and the West Hempstead Public Libraries managing book collections and circulation trends. Austin was also a science fiction fan, attending sci-fi conventions around the New York area, meeting his favorite sci-fi writers and of course, looking for vintage and rare books.

Austin was preceded in death by his parents, Earl and Dorthea and his uncle Harry; he is survived by his loyal cousin Margot Kampf and his devoted best friend Jim Ward, close friends Terry, Harvey, and Jim T., and several other cousins. Memorial donations for Austin may be made to your local Public Library, a private service will be held in Austin's honor at a later time.

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Danny R. Otts - August 20, 1950 - September 23, 2023

Departed: 09/23/2023 (Tupper Lake)

Obituary Preview: A graveside service for Danny R. Otts, age 73, of Tupper Lake, will be held on Friday, September 29, 2023 at 2:30PM at Gale Cemetery in Piercefield with Rev. Rick Wilburn officiating. Calling hours will be held on Friday, September 29, from 12:00PM to 2:00PM at Frary Funeral Home, Tupper Lake. Mr. Otts passed away on Saturday, September 23. 2023 at Mercy Living Center in Tupper Lake.

He is survived by his loving friend and partner, Sharon Dukette; his children, Danny Hoffman and his wife Nikki, Missy Hoffman, Joshua Hoffman and his wife Rebeka, Samuel Hoffman and his wife Amy; his step-children, Jeanne Kavanagh and her husband JP, Bonnie Dukette and her partner Darren, Micheline Vaillaicourt and her husband Roger, James Dukette and his wife Christy, Vicki Hubbard and her husband Harry; his siblings, Charles, Robert, Dennis, David, Rita, Becky, Diane, Mike; several grandchildren; many great-grandchildren; and multiple nieces, nephews, and cousins. He is predeceased by his parents, Charles and Joyce Otts; his siblings, Eve, Cora, Dewey, Jeff, Greg, and Mark.

Danny was born on August 20, 1950, in Syracuse, NY, the son of the late Charles and Joyce (Hampton) Otts. He moved to Tupper Lake in the 1980’s and worked many years driving truck and working in construction business. He enjoyed bowling, hunting, fishing, and playing at the casino. Condolences may be made online at www.fraryfuneralhome.com

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Robert G. Stenger, Jr. - April 25, 1944 - September 19, 2023

Departed: 09/19/2023 (Tupper Lake)

Obituary Preview: Robert G. Stenger, Jr. age 79, of Tupper Lake, NY passed away peacefully on Tuesday, September 19, 2023. He was born April 25, 1944 in Hudson, NY and graduated from Bristol Eastern High School, CT in 1962.

Bob had an impressively long resume. He was an orthopedic technician in the US NAVY and a Vietnam Veteran. He was a police motorcycle officer in Wichita, KS and eventually retired as a correctional officer. He held a variety of positions in between - including chef, bartender, truck driver and electrician.

Bob volunteered as a Boy Scout leader, hunter safety class instructor and a rescue diver. He was an excellent teacher, always willing to share his wealth of knowledge. He enjoyed many outdoor activities including hunting, fly fishing, golfing and motorcycles. He was unmatched at completing a crossword puzzle and he loved telling a good story; he always had a quick witted one liner to share.

He is survived by his children Robert Stenger of Wichita, KS, Cynthia (Stenger) and Marlon Green of Wichita, KS and Erika (Stenger) and Joe Sciortino of Tupper Lake, NY. His grandchildren Isaiah, Alyssa, Kianna, Jacob, Jonathan, and Winnie. His great grandchildren Neveah, Aiyanna, Hendryx and Antonella. He was predeceased by his parents Robert and Ruth (Owens) Stenger and daughter in law Billie Michelle Bryant-Stenger. In true "Bob" fashion, he requested no services be held on his behalf. Instead please share a toast in his honor. Cheers!

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Charles David McArthur - November 14, 1956 - September 12, 2023

Departed: 09/12/2023 (Tupper Lake)

Obituary Preview: Charles “Charlie” McArthur passed away suddenly September 12, 2023 while vacationing with his wife, Melynne and their dogs at his special place in Tupper Lake, NY.

Charlie was born November 14, 1956 to Nellie (Hansen) McArthur and Earl McArthur in Mahnomen, MN on the White Earth Indian Reservation where he grew up. He attended Saint Cloud State University receiving a BA in biomedical science. Charlie then went to University of Chicago where he received an AA in respiratory therapy. Charlie practiced respiratory care for many years in Minnesota before moving to Watertown, NY and moving into quality. In conjunction, Charlie was a Minnesota state delegate to the American Association of Respiratory Care (AARC), President of the Minnesota Respiratory Society and national diagnostics chair of the AARC. He loved to mentor students and was an instructor in the respiratory care program at St Paul Technical College. He was the moderator of many sputum bowls (jeopardy-like contests for respiratory care providers) in Minnesota, Wisconsin and even judged nationally. He is also the author of many papers in respiratory care and pulmonary medicine, a book and a few book chapters.

Charlie met Melynne while working at Hennepin County Medical Center in Minneapolis where he worked for close to 20 years and they married July 16th, 1999. They lived in Mankato, MN for about 10 years before moving to Watertown, NY and later to Peru, NY. While in Watertown, he worked as a quality analyst for FDR-HPO. Throughout his life he continued to mentor others through his knowledge and expertise of respiratory medicine. He made many close and strong friendships both professionally and personally along the way that lasted throughout his life. Charlie loved traveling and exploring the local culture of any location he was in, with his trips to Alaska, Sedona, Old Quebec City and Italy among his favorites. He loved wine tasting dinners and wine in general. Charlie was a wonderful cook and loved to entertain. He loved doing multiple crossword puzzles a day – all in pen. He loved to laugh. Oh, and how he liked telling stories!

Charlie is survived by his wife, Melynne Youngblood, his sister Mary (Steve) Hall, sister-in law Ruth McArthur, sister-in-law Deb McArthur, sister-in-law Janet (Craig) Higgins, mother-in-law Lois (Joe) Matocha, nieces and nephews Meredith (Cody), Ian, Jason, Nathan, Tyson (Whitney), Jackie (Jesse), Nikki (Brendin), Julia and Emma, many cousins and his beloved dogs Mindi and Gus.

He was predeceased by his parents, brothers Tom and Jon McArthur and many beloved dogs.

There will be a celebration of his life from 4:30 – 7:30PM on Thursday, October 19 th at Hilton Garden Inn, Watertown, NY. Please come and celebrate Charlie’s life and, if you can, share a “Charlie” story. We will have a toast to Charlie at 6 PM. One of Charlie’s dreams was to start a scholarship for respiratory care students so we have set up a scholarship in his honor. Donations may be made to ARCF (American Respiratory Care Foundation). Address: Attn: Crystal Leighton, ARCF Executive Assistant. 9425 N. MacArthur Blvd., Ste. 100, Irving, TX 75063. Please make sure that the memo portion states, “In Memory of Charlie McArthur” so that donations are applied to his scholarship. Online condolences can be made on the Frary Funeral Homes website www.fraryfuneralhome.com

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Heidi Jeleah LaQuay - March 07, 1956 - September 10, 2023

Departed: 09/10/2023 (Tupper Lake)

Obituary Preview: Heidi Jeleah (Hutchins) LaQuay, 67 of Tupper Lake, NY passed away suddenly on September 10, 2023. She was born March 7, 1956 to Floyd and Jane (Gale) Hutchins and attended Tupper Lake High School, graduating in 1974. Heidi married Terry LaQuay April 30, 1977 at St. Alphonsus Church and together, they lived and raised their own children in many states along the East Coast while Terry served in the Navy. They settled back in Tupper Lake in 1988.

Heidi worked as a child care provider for many years and at L.P. Quinn elementary school. She enjoyed many hobbies such as sewing, knitting, crocheting, gardening and raising her family. Heidi leaves behind her husband Terry of 46 years, her children Eric (Judy) LaQuay, Tara LaQuay (Scott Shannon) and Ethan LaQuay. She is also survived by her brothers, Michael (Joanne) Hutchins, Shawn (Maureen) Hutchins and Patrick Hutchins; sisters Michelle Hutchins (Rick Tessier) and Devin (Randy) LaFave. She is also survived by her four grandchildren, whom she adored greatly, Emma Dubey (Frank), Taran Dubey, Nole and Leona LaQuay as well as many nieces and nephews.

Heidi is preceded in death by her parents and nephew Clint Hollingsworth. There will be no services, per Heidi's wishes. Donations in Heidi's honor may be made to the Tri-Lakes Humane Society and the Tupper Lake Rescue Squad.

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Joyce Marie Facteau - August 16, 1943 - September 04, 2023

Departed: 09/04/2023 (Tupper Lake)

Obituary Preview: Joyce Marie Facteau, 80, of Tupper Lake, NY, passed away September 4, 2023 at her home, with her husband by her side. A Funeral service will be held at Frary Funeral Home, 24 Tupper Lake, NY on Friday September 8 at 9AM with her burial following at 10:30AM at St. Alphonsus Cemetery, Tupper Lake, NY.

Joyce was born in Fort Benning, GA to Joseph and Florence (Salsbury) Kazlowski on August 16, 1943. She moved to Tupper Lake in grade school. After her high school graduation, she went on to become a Manager in healthcare, working at the Tupper Lake ARC in Tupper Lake, NY.

Joyce is survived by her husband Bruce Facteau, and their children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren.

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Lawrence Gilbert Cole - February 07, 1941 - September 02, 2023

Departed: 09/02/2023 (Tupper Lake)

Obituary Preview: Lawrence Gilbert Cole, 80, passed away at his home on Saturday September 2, 2023 from a short battle with Pancreatic Cancer. Lawrence was born February 7, 1941 in Stewartstown, New Hampshire to Lawrence Cole, Sr. and Irvie (Greer) Cole. He graduated Tupper Lake High School in 1959 and received his Associated degree in Forestry from Paul Smith's College in 1962.

Lawrence served in the Army between 1963-1965 and received the Good Conduct Medal for his service; he also was a decorated Army sharpshooter. He was employed locally, working for Draper Corporation, Ton-da-lay and Christmas and Associates. After retirement, Lawrence became the Tupper Lake Assessor for a number of years and also served as Town Councilman. He was a longtime member of the Masonic Lodge, Lions Club and Township 19.

On July 2, 1966, Lawrence married Gloria Hart and they were together for 57 years. He is survived by Gloria, sister Betty Abare (Chuck), brother Bruce Cole, special nephew Russell Cole and his beloved nieces, nephews and devoted friends. Lawrence is predeceased by his parents, brothers David and Irvin, sisters Dolly Robistow and Alta Cole.

Lawrence loved the outdoors and was an avid hunter and stock car racing fan. He built his family's home on State Route 30 in 1975 and 20 years later, he and his friend Dick Sabin built a camp on Township 19 in 1995.

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Catherine Ann Carroll - November 19, 1934 - August 30, 2023

Departed: 08/30/2023 (Tupper Lake)

Obituary Preview: Catherine Ann Carroll, 88, of Tupper Lake, passed away peacefully, on August 30, 2023

at Mercy Living Center surrounded by loved ones. Funeral services will be held at St. Alphonsus Church on September 4th at 11AM. Visitation will be Sunday, September 3,

2023 at Frary Funeral Home, 24 Cliff Avenue in Tupper Lake, NY. Catherine was born in Tupper Lake November 19 ,1934, the daughter of James Graham and Mary Catherine (O’Donnell) Graham. She attended Holy Ghost Academy in Tupper Lake, NY and married Clarance L Pickering Jr, on February 6, 1951. She was predeceased by her husband “Junior” on Oct 4, 1965. She was later remarried to Reginald J. Carroll. She worked at the VA hospital and then Sunmount DDSO and continued to work in the community houses long after retirement. She was a lifelong parishioner of St. Alphonsus Catholic Church, where she also volunteered for several

years. During her lifetime, Catherine enjoyed traveling with friends and family. Her journeys took her to destinations near and far. She also enjoyed cruising the Caribbean with her family. In the summertime, she loved taking boat rides. She always had a big smile on her face and was happy to be out on the water spending many a summer and fall day

on one of the many beautiful lakes of the Adirondacks. Every summer Catherine looked forward to blueberry picking and would bake blueberry muffins and her famous blueberry cobbler. In her later years, she enjoyed spending time with her many friends at the Senior Center where she enjoyed weekly exercise and trips to the casino. Catherine loved the casino! She was also actively involved with friends in a local bridge group for many years. Catherine was always on the go, spending time

with her numerous friends and family. Catherine is survived by her children Terry Pickering and Gloria Exware of Tupper Lake, NY, Mary Ann (Pickering) Rose and Bill Graham, of Ilion NY, Colleen (Pickering) and James Sabin, of Tupper Lake, NY, Bonnie (Carroll) Sheley of Johns Creek, Georgia, and Tracy Carroll, of South Glens Falls, NY. She is also survived by her many

grandchildren, great grandchildren, nieces, and nephews. She was predeceased by her beloved son, Ross Pickering of Tupper Lake on December 10, 1991. She was also predeceased by her parents, James and Mary Catherine Graham, and siblings, Arthur Graham, Marion (Graham) Blair, Janet

(Graham) Blair, Rita (Graham) Arsenault, and James Graham.

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Jeannette Vivienne Chartier - July 05, 1933 - August 22, 2023

Departed: 08/22/2023 (Tupper Lake)

Obituary Preview: Janet Chartier, loving wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, aunt, sister and friend, left this world peacefully, surrounded by family on August 22, 2023, at the age of 90.

Janet was a beloved member of the entire Tupper Lake Community. Working with seniors was a big part of her adult life. During her employment she implemented the Meals on Wheels program as well as countless other senior programs which remain in place today. Her generous spirit toward others and to her community earned her the Citizen of The Year award in the early 1990’s.

Janet was the matriarch and glue that held her (still growing) family together. She and her beloved husband Robert (BC) made sure every event they attended and each moment they had was special. Janet’s July 4th picnics, Thanksgiving dinners and Christmas celebrations are legendary among her family. Whether Janet was hosting Gourmet Club with their large group of friends, celebrating family birthdays or gathering on Front Street after mass, Janet was the ultimate “Hostess with the Mostest”.

Janet loved spending weekends at her family camp that she and Bob proudly built together on Gordon Pond. Family and friends from all over the country enjoyed beach days, Janet’s hors d’oeuvres, berry picking, collecting golf balls on long walks, and crafting with pine cones. Winters were spent on the mountains skiing and sledding while skating on the pond and playing hockey were family favorites.

Janet was always on the go yet had an uncanny ability to find happiness in every moment life had to offer. Her good natured and thoughtful personality was contagious to everyone she met. She will be greatly missed by all who knew her.

Janet was predeceased by her parents Donat and Annette (Genier) Richer, her siblings Raymond Richer, Theresa (Richer) Vanderhoff, Madeleine (Richer) Nadvornik, and Bert Richer. Her beloved husband Bob died in 2012; her twins Mark and Steven passed away in 1955 and her daughter Michelle in 2017.

Janet is survived by her sisters, Suzie LaVigne (Mark) and Marcy Gaudet. Her sons Mike (Mary Root), Scott (Mary Tice), son In-law Tom LaMere, and daughter Lisa Augustine as well as 10 grandchildren, 18 great grandchildren, and numerous nieces and nephews.

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Herman Vincent Charland - October 23, 1935 - August 18, 2023

Departed: 08/18/2023 (Tupper Lake)

Obituary Preview: Mr. Herman Charland, 87, died Friday afternoon, August 18, 2023 at the Mercy Living Center in Tupper Lake. A Funeral Mass for Herman will be held on Monday, August 28, 2023 at 11AM at St. Alphonsus Church in Tupper Lake, NY. Arrangements are under the care and direction of Frary Funeral Home in Tupper Lake.

Herman was born October 23, 1935 to Harry and Lena Charland. He attended Holy Ghost Academy and graduated High School in 1954. While at Holy Ghost Academy, Herman was a skilled athlete and still holds Holy Ghost Academy’s all-time Scoring record with his 53-point effort during a single boys’ basketball game. After high school Herman joined the Army, entering into service in 1956. Herman married the love of his life, Irene Delair on November 26, 1959 and worked as a lineman for the Village of Tupper Lake and also worked in the maintenance department of Mercy Health Center in Tupper Lake, NY.

He was a retired member of the Tupper Lake Fire Department and a lifelong member of the River Ridge Hunting Club. Herman still holds the record for "heaviest buck" at River Ridge Hunting Club for his 204 lbs. buck. Not only a hunter, Herman enjoyed playing golf too but most of all, he enjoyed spending time with his wife Irene and family. Herman was a gentle soul and will be missed by everyone who knew him.

Herman was predeceased by his brother Paul and sister Charlotte; he is also predeceased by his great-grandson Daniel Charland. Herman is survived by his wife of sixty-three years, Irene, two sons, Jeffrey and his wife Becky, John and his wife Vicky, five grandchildren, Kurt Charland, Sarah Cole, Todd Charland, Chance Charland and Tanner (Paige) Charland. Herman is also survived by eight great-grandchildren.

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Jeffrey T. Bly - September 03, 1949 - August 07, 2023

Departed: 08/07/2023 (Tupper Lake)

Obituary Preview: “If You ain’t Laughing, You ain’t Living”

Jeffrey T Bly, 73, Tupper Lake, died peacefully August 7th at his home with his loving family by his side. Born in Herkimer, NY September 3, 1949 to Richard and Eleanor LaClair Bly, Jeffrey graduated from Ilion High School in 1968 and was proud to be a Golden Bomber. He was a Vietnam Veteran serving from 1970 to 1972 with the 101st Airborne. He married Kathleen Rowan in Tupper Lake July 14, 2002.

Jeffrey was retired as a supervisor from Sunmount DDSO. He painted houses for 43 years with his best friend Real Hurteau. He was an avid outdoorsman, a LA Dodgers fan and despised the NY Yankees. He watched Yankee baseball just to see them lose. Jeffrey is survived by his wife, Kathleen, five children, Traci (Matthew) Southwick, Meaghan (Arthur) Sparks, Cory (Breanna) LaQuay, Jeffrey LaQuay, all of Tupper Lake and Brooke (Eric) Hample, Long Lake. He has five siblings, Richard Bly Jr, Ilion, NY, Elizabeth Gagnon, Daytona FL, Douglas Bly, Massachusetts, Margaret Foster, Dolgeville, NY and Matthew Bly of Speculator, NY. He also has eight grandchildren.

Jeffrey is predeceased by his parents and a brother, Donald Bly.

Visitation will be held Thursday August 10, 2023 from 5 -7pm at Frary Funeral Home, 24 Cliff Ave, Tupper Lake. Funeral services will be held Friday August 11, 2023 at 11AM at St. Thomas Episcopal Church, Tupper Lake. Burial will follow in Lakeview Cemetery. Family and friends are invited to a Celebration of Life after the burial at the VFW Post 3120 in Tupper Lake, NY. Memorial donations in Jeffrey’s memory can be made to the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation at www.cff.org. The family would like to thank High Peaks Hospice for the exceptional care given to Jeffrey

and his family.

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Pearl June Hutchinson - January 21, 1941 - August 04, 2023

Departed: 08/04/2023 (Tupper Lake)

Obituary Preview: Pearl "June" Hutchinson, passed away surrounded by family and loved ones on August 4, 2023. Born January 21, 1941 June spread joy and happiness to all she met and will be

sorely missed. Funeral services will be held Thursday August 10th at the Frary Funeral Home in Tupper lake with calling hours from Noon until 1PM. There will be a service for June starting at

2PM with the burial at Saint Alphonsus Cemetery immediately following. A lifelong resident of Tupper Lake, June was strong and Kind devoting much of her life to serving and Caring for others. She worked many years as a Nurses assistant at the Adirondack Medical Center in Saranac Lake. She eventually moved on to join the staff at Sunmount until her retirement after more than 22 years. After her retirement she devoted her life to raising her great grandson Devin Nicholson. She was devoted in her faith and delighted in becoming a Eucharistic Minister. In her spare time she found beauty in the things around her, sharing her

love of nature through gardening, bird feeding and tending flowers. She is survived by her brothers Don, Pat, and her sister Darlene. Her memory lives on in her surviving children Barbara (Rock) Theriault, Pamela (Kerry) Card, Tammy (Glen) Foley, Zeke (Tina LaVair) Hutchinson, and Kevin Baker, as well as her 33 grandchildren and numerous great grandchildren nieces and nephews. A special thank you goes out to her

grandson Matthew Bohin for taking care of her during the times we could not be there. June has left us to rejoin in death her husband Zeke Hutchinson and Daughter Zena Baker. She is also predeceased by her brothers Leo, Bob, Joe, Fred, David, Dick and sister

Ellen as well as her Parents Pearl and George Baker.

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Susan Elizabeth Thomas Merrill - February 02, 1961 - July 29, 2023

Departed: 07/29/2023 (Tupper Lake)

Obituary Preview: Susan Elizabeth Thomas Merrill, 62, of Orange Park, FL, passed away peacefully on Saturday, the

29th of July, 2023 at her summer home in Eagle Crag Lake, NY. Susan was born on the 2nd of February, 1961, to Edward (Ed) Earl Thomas and Mary Esther Farlow Thomas in Levelland, TX. After living most of her childhood all over Texas and a year in Tennessee, she moved to Virginia with her family where she graduated from West Springfield High School in 1979. She then went on to earn a Bachelor of Science degree in Marketing in 1983 from Virginia Polytechnic Institute & State University. That is where she met the love of her life Lee, and they married in 1983 before relocating to Orange Park, FL. Susan worked for American Transtech for several years before becoming a mother and promoting herself to household engineer, expertly raising 3 wonderful children, and eventually substitute teaching for 10 years at Montclair Elementary. Susan spread love across her pillars of family, faith, and service continually lending a helping hand and words of kindness to go with her sweet smile and Texas drawl. The Merrill & Thomas families could always count on her steadfast support and love, sometimes sprinkled with a delicious chocolate dessert (which she called her love language). Susan enjoyed traveling and making memories, including living overseas when Lee worked in Okinawa, Japan and Guantanamo Bay, Cuba and spending summers with family, friends, and nature in the Adirondack Mountains. Susan loved staying connected with her grandchildren and adult children, parents and brothers through frequent messages, FaceTime calls, and as many visits as she could manage with them across the country—and sometimes around the world. She enjoyed photography, exercising, spending precious Nana moments with her grandchildren, scrapbooking, and rock painting where she loved secretly spreading her talents as little works of art to be discovered. Susan dedicated many years to volunteering in service of Orange Park

Methodist Church, English Springer Rescue America, and Orange Park Medical Center. Susan is survived by her husband and soulmate Lee Merrill of Orange Park, FL; three beloved children - daughter Karen (John) Griffin of Albuquerque, NM; son Bryan (Chandler) Merrill of Atlantic Beach, FL; daughter Ellen Merrill (fiancé Stephen Reynolds) of Houston, TX; along with her adored grandchildren, Graham and Mabel Griffin of Albuquerque, NM; and Josephine and Loreley Merrill of Atlantic Beach, FL. Also surviving are her treasured parents Ed and Mary Thomas and Mary Esther Farlow Thomas of Bryan, TX; cherished brothers Edward (Penny Sue) Thomas, Jr of College Station, TX; and Bill (Donna) Thomas of Corpus Christi, TX; and six loved nieces and

nephews.

She is preceded in death by her in-laws Bruce and Kathleen Merrill. A Service of Remembrance and Celebration will be held on Saturday, October 21, 2023 at ten

o’clock in the morning at Orange Park Methodist Church with Reverend Charles Lever officiating. Reception will be held at Orange Park Methodist Church’s Family Life Center following the

service. Donations to support Susan's legacy can be made payable to "The Community Foundation for Northeast Florida" and mailed to 245 Riverside Avenue, Suite 310, Jacksonville, FL, 32202. Please designate the "Susan Merrill Fund" in the memo line. Or you can give online at www.jaxcf.org/memorial/  Please share your memories and condolences at

www.fraryfuneralhome.com. The family wishes to extend their gratitude to the many relatives and friends for their outstanding

and continuing love, prayers, and support through visits, cards, calls, messages, and meals.

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George David LaFlamme - May 26, 1958 - July 21, 2023

Departed: 07/21/2023 (Tupper Lake)

Obituary Preview: George David LaFlamme, age 65, of Tupper Lake, NY, died unexpectedly on Friday, July 21st, 2023, at his home.

George was born in Holyoke, MA, on May 26, 1958, to George and Alice (Exware) LaFlamme. He married Anna Deno on November 6, 1993, in Tupper Lake, NY.

George worked for Mercy Living Center as a custodian for many years. He was also a contractor and did various other jobs. His family was his life.

He is survived by his wife, Anna; his mother Alice; six children, Stephanie LaFlamme of Malone, NY, Brian Lucey (Megan) of Piercefield, NY, Kristina LaFlamme (Chad), Catherine LaHor (Randy), Jennifer Lazore, and Samantha LaFlamme (Joe) all of Tupper Lake. He is also survived by his siblings, Debbie Mitchell (Charlie), Sue Allen (Ron), and Trish LeBlanc (Nick) all of Tupper Lake, NY.

Per his request, there will be no services at this time. Arrangements are under the care and direction of Frary Funeral Home, Tupper Lake.

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Adrienne Jeanne Carriere - August 18, 1928 - July 16, 2023

Departed: 07/16/2023 (Tupper Lake)

Obituary Preview: Adrienne Jeanne Carriere, 94, of Tupper Lake, NY passed away on July 16, 2023 at Mercy Living

Center, where she resided at since May. Adrienne was born in Saint Anicet to Alfred and Rosia Hurteau on August 18, 1928. Growing up in Canada, she moved to the United States in 1954 raising her children before she entered the workforce. Adrienne worked at Major Rod, Tupper Lake Veneer and Ames, but she really enjoyed being

a Foster Grandparent at the LP Quinn the most, seeing all the smiles the kids had every day. She is survived by her children Mitch and Dora Carriere of Morrisonville, Andre Carriere,

Louise and Mark Dupuis of Tupper Lake, her son-in-law David Shaut of New Port Richey, Florida. Her grandchildren Travis and Josh Dupuis, Elizabeth (Jeff) Depatie, William Shaut, Cruz Carriere, Johanna, Dawn and Brian Kelly. Adrienne is also survived by six great -grandchildren and

her sister Gilberte Quesnel of Valley field Quebec. She was preceded in death by her parents, her ex-husband Gemain Carriere, her daughter Diane Shaut and a grandson Christopher Shaut. Her brother Armand Hurteau, her sisters

Germaine Hurteau,Cecile LeCavalier,Aline Besner and Alberte Hurteau. A graveside service will be held at Saint Anicet Cemetery in Quebec, Canada on July 24, 2023 at

1:30PM, Frary Funeral Home and Serre & Finnegan Funeral Home are handling the arrangements.

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Services Offered

Frary Funeral Homes provides a comprehensive range of services to support families through the funeral planning process. These include:

• Traditional funerals with visitation and burial
• Cremation services with memorialization options
• Pre-planning and pre-funding options
• Grief counseling and support groups
• Monument and marker sales

The Importance of Pre-Planning

While it may seem difficult to think about, pre-planning your funeral can be a wise decision for you and your loved ones. By making your wishes known in advance, you can ensure that your family is not left with the burden of making difficult decisions during an already emotional time. Frary Funeral Homes offers pre-planning services, allowing you to make informed choices about your funeral arrangements and alleviate some of the stress on your family.

A Commitment to Community

Frary Funeral Homes is deeply rooted in the Tupper Lake community and is committed to giving back to those they serve. Through involvement in local organizations and charities, they demonstrate their dedication to supporting the community that has supported them. This commitment to community is reflected in the compassionate care they provide to each family they serve.

The Facility

The funeral home, located at 24 Cliff Avenue, Tupper Lake, NY, 12986, is designed to provide a comfortable and welcoming environment for families. The facility features ample parking, wheelchair accessibility, and a spacious chapel for services. The staff takes great pride in maintaining a clean and well-appointed facility, ensuring that families feel at ease during their visit.

The Staff

The team at Frary Funeral Homes is comprised of experienced professionals who are dedicated to providing exceptional care and support. From licensed funeral directors to administrative staff, each member of the team is committed to ensuring that every family receives the highest level of service. Their expertise and compassion make them an invaluable resource for families navigating the funeral planning process.

Contact Information

If you are in need of funeral services or would like more information about Frary Funeral Homes and Cremation Services, please do not hesitate to contact them. They can be reached by phone at (518) 359-3311 or through their website at [insert website URL]. The staff is available 24/7 to answer questions and provide support.

Frary Funeral Homes and Cremation Services - Tupper Lake is a trusted partner for families in the Tupper Lake community. With their commitment to compassionate care, personalized service, and community involvement, they have established themselves as a leader in the funeral industry. Whether you are planning ahead or need immediate assistance, Frary Funeral Homes is here to support you every step of the way.

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