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Located at 1500 W Braddock Rd, Alexandria, VA, 22302, Everly-Wheatley Funeral Home & Crematory is a trusted and compassionate funeral home that has been serving the community for many years. The funeral home is dedicated to providing exceptional service and support to families during their time of need, helping them to create meaningful and personalized tributes to their loved ones.

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Everly-Wheatley Funeral Home & Crematory has a rich history of providing top-notch funeral services to the people of Alexandria and surrounding areas. With a legacy of excellence, the funeral home has built a reputation for its commitment to quality, compassion, and professionalism. From traditional funerals to cremations and memorial services, the team at Everly-Wheatley is dedicated to helping families navigate the funeral planning process with ease and dignity.

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Ki Sourivong - September 09, 1960 - July 11, 2022

Departed: 07/11/2022 (Alexandria)

Obituary Preview: Ki Sourivong, 61, of Springfield, Virginia, passed away peacefully on July 11, 2022, surrounded by his loving family.

Ki was a loving husband, father, grandfather, and amazing friend to many. He was born and raised in Laos, but decided to move to America for better opportunities. He is survived by his wife, Seng, of 41 years, two daughters, Darlene and Anna, and two grandchildren, Alexia and Anthony, whom he all loved so much.

Back in Laos, Ki was a 5th grade teacher for two years. After moving to the United States, he lived in Santa Rosa, CA for one year, then relocated to Arlington, VA where he spent most of his life. He was a dedicated, hard worker and devoted 38 years of service at Landmark Honda. Ki had a heart of gold, and always saw the best in everyone. Through good and bad, ups and downs, he always had a bright and enlightening smile. Always pushing and striving himself to do better. He enjoyed his daily early morning gym sessions, family time, and warm summer evenings outdoors cooking out and listening to his Laotian music.

He always strived to be the best version of himself, welcomed many into his home with open arms, and was such a selfless man. His smile was so contagious. Ki was loved by so many, and will be missed immensely.

A Visitation will be held on Friday, July 15th at Everly-Wheatley Funeral Home, 1500 W. Braddock Rd. Alexandria, VA 22302 from 4pm to 8pm.

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Patricia May Lopez - July 26, 1946 - July 11, 2022

Departed: 07/11/2022 (Alexandria)

Obituary Preview: Surrounded by family and friends, Patricia May Dillon Lopez, 75, passed away peacefully at home in Alexandria on Monday, July 11th, 2022. Patricia was born in Washington, D.C. on July 26th, 1946, to Albert Dillon and Gaynell Virginia (Crabtree) Dillon. Raised in Arlington, Virginia, Patricia graduated from Bishop Denis J. O’Connell High School. She received her Bachelor of Arts from George Mason University and a Masters Degree in Clinical Social Work from Argosy University. Born with a servants heart, Patricia dedicated her life to helping others with a steady and guiding wisdom.  She served her community both professionally and personally through her 30 year tenure with the City of Alexandria and cultivated deep community bonds within various organizations such as Alexandria City Public Schools, SCAN of Northern Virginia and Alexandria Soccer Association. Patricia is survived by her three children August Lopez, his wife Evangeline, Zachary Lopez, and Mariana (Lopez) Taormina, her husband Louis Taormina, as well as Patricia’s daughter-in-law Carmen Lopez and Kenneth E. Lopez, the father of Patricia’s children. Patricia’s six grandchildren, Violeta, Kenneth, Henry, Alessandra, Vincent and August remain her greatest blessings. Patricia also leaves behind her beloved companion of many years, Douglas Wagoner.

Wake to be held on Sunday, July 17th from 4-7 PM at Everly Wheatley Funeral Home, 1500 W Braddock Rd, Alexandria, VA  22302. Funeral Mass will be on Monday, July 18th at 11:00 AM at Blessed Sacrament Catholic Church 1427 West Braddock Road Alexandria, VA 22302.

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Pamela Elizabeth Deemer - June 22, 1944 - July 11, 2022

Departed: 07/11/2022 (Alexandria)

Obituary Preview: Beloved mother, grandmother "Oma", and great-grandmother.  Pamela Elizabeth Deemer, nee Noble, was born in Alexandria, Virginia on June 22, 1944.  She grew up and lived in Alexandria most of her life, but had recently resided in Orange, Virginia.

Pamela personified the meaning of her name which is "all sweetness or honey."  She was a caregiver to many and generous with her time and resources.  She was kind, compassionate, self-less, altruitsic, and had a deep faith in God.

Pamela deeply loved her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren.  She enjoyed spending time with family, drinking Dunkin coffee, reading, cooking, baking sugar cookies with her grandchildren, gardening, going to the beach, and watching Hallmark movies.  She also enjoyed a variety of music from oldies to opera to Elvis.

She had an optimistic outlook on life, even in challenging times.  "Put on some lipstick" she'd say, because she herself could never be caught without it!  Her family will lovingly cherish all the memories they made with her.  They will miss her smile, her laughter, and her beautiful face.

Until We Meet Again..............

The family asks that any donations be made in Pamela's name to your local hospice group.

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Natalia Miranda Pacheco - December 01, 1924 - July 11, 2022

Departed: 07/11/2022 (Alexandria)

Obituary Preview: There will be a visitation and prayer service for Natalia on Monday, July 18, 2022 at Everly-Wheatley Funeral Home from 6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

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Paul F. "Skip" Goree Ⅲ - April 03, 1959 - July 08, 2022

Departed: 07/08/2022 (Alexandria)

Obituary Preview: Skip Goree, of Alexandria, Virginia, died suddenly on July 8, 2022. Skip was born on April 3, 1959, in Waco, Texas to Beverly and Paul Goree. The son of an Air Force pilot, Skip grew up in Puerto Rico, California, Alabama and Northern Virginia. Skip graduated from W.T. Woodson High School and Randolph-Macon College, where he majored in Political Science. Always a sports enthusiast, he played football and lacrosse in high school and college. He then went on to coach his four children in soccer, basketball and lacrosse.

Skip spent the past forty years working for Merrill Lynch. He joined their Wealth Management practice in 1982 as part of the Operations Management Development Program and transitioned into an advisory role in 1988. He was named by Barron’s magazine as one of the “Top 1,200 Financial Advisors” in 2015-2022 and was also named to the Forbes “Best-In-State Wealth Advisor” list from 2018-2022. Skip was respected for his integrity, leadership and willingness to mentor young people in his profession.

Skip felt strongly about giving back to his community. His love for lacrosse led to his involvement in the creation of the Alexandria youth lacrosse program, serving as the club commissioner. Skip was passionate about supporting young people in their pursuit of higher education. He created a scholarship for the Dream Project, an organization that empowers students whose immigration status limits their access to education opportunities. He was also involved in Rebuilding Together Alexandria, assembling a team that transformed houses for Alexandrian’s in need.

With all he accomplished professionally, there was nothing Skip was prouder of than his family. Skip is survived by his parents, Beverly and Paul Goree of Ashburn, VA. He is also survived by his wife, Lynnette Goree of Alexandria, VA, and his four adored children, Conor (Kerry), Caroline, Gillian and Chase. His sister, Gigi Sellers (Bruce) and brother Alan Goree (Roger Bishoff) also survive, as well as four nieces and three nephews.

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Louis "Pete" Madison Meador - February 20, 1927 - July 07, 2022

Departed: 07/07/2022 (Alexandria)

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Resa Hutt O'Flaherty - September 01, 1923 - July 05, 2022

Departed: 07/05/2022 (Alexandria)

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Elizabeth-Ellen Coffin Bancroft - April 05, 1958 - July 03, 2022

Departed: 07/03/2022 (Alexandria)

Obituary Preview: Bancroft, Elizabeth-Ellen Coffin, 64, died peacefully July 3, 2022 at her home in Alexandria, VA. Born April 5, 1958 in Alexandria, survived by her husband Charles John Sims, sons Charles Royce Bancroft Sims and Caleb Coffin Bancroft Sims, sister Mary-McLean Bancroft Jones and best friend Jacqueline Roland McNeal. She was the daughter of Frederic Wolcott Bancroft and Ellen Coffin.

After graduating from Saint Agnes School, Alexandria, VA, she earned her associate degree in communications from Endicott College, Beverly, MA.  In the late 1970s in a field primarily dominated by men, she proudly obtained both her FCC licenses and entered the professional broadcasting workforce at WSKG Radio in Binghamton, NY.  She spent 37 years enjoying her career as a technical engineer for the Public Broadcasting Service.  As a believer in giving back to the community, she volunteered in many capacities throughout her life including with the Fairfax County Library, St Aidan’s Episcopal Church and the Boy Scouts of America.

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Francis James Derby - November 22, 1942 - June 25, 2022

Departed: 06/25/2022 (Alexandria)

Obituary Preview: Francis (Frank) James Derby was born in Brooklyn, NY on 22 November 1942, the fifth of six children, to Henry V. and Katherine M. Derby. Frank passed away on Saturday 25 June 2022.

After completing High School in Brooklyn, Frank attended and graduated cum laude from St Francis College, Brooklyn, with a Bachelor’s Degree in English. He worked a variety of very short-lived jobs including elevator operator, NYC taxi driver and bartender among others. He was also a game show contestant where he won a sizable amount of money and immediately traveled to parts unknown. He finally settled in with various New York City publishers as a copy editor, as well as stints with the new American Library, Dell, Amoco, IBM France where he taught English, and then made a career of his job with the Office of Personnel Management in Washington, D.C. He retired from OPM in 1998 and pursued a variety of volunteer opportunities as a reading tutor with the northern Virginia school system as well as the Fairfax County Adult Education Center where he was a member of the Northern Virginia Literary Council and the Lighthouse community where Frank read for the blind. He also worked at Travelers Aid at National Airport as well several other volunteer organizations.

Many of Frank’s friends and colleagues have characterized him as “the smartest and most worldly person I have ever known”; he was “a treasured friend, tho sometimes a bit gnarly” an observation that many would also share! He was everyone’s favorite curmudgeon. When Frank learned someone was interested in a topic that person was sure to receive many envelopes filled with articles clipped from a variety of sources, highlighted and annotated to keep the reader “entertained, laughing and informed.” Frank was an avid traveler and visited many corners of this world. He was inquisitive and interested in history, geography, society, languages and observed politicians with his caustic wit.

Frank will be missed by a great many people. He is survived by his sister and brother, and many nieces and nephews.

A service will be held graveside at a later date.

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L. Barbara Nestro - July 27, 1934 - June 24, 2022

Departed: 06/24/2022 (Alexandria)

Obituary Preview: Our beloved mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother, L. Barbara Nestro passed on to her eternal home to be with Jesus on June 24, 2022.  She was 87 years old, just shy of her 88th birthday.

Barbara was born on July 27, 1934 in Reading, PA, the only child of the late Francis and Emily Romdejko (Rand).  The late Arthur (PopPop) and Ida Mae (Nana) Quaintance were her dearly loved hanai father and mother.

After high school, Barbara met the love of her life, Joseph Nestro, Sr. (deceased) in 1951 when she was an usherette at the Orpheum Theater in Reading, PA.  Fred Pienta (Mom’s cousin) brought our Dad to the theater to meet her.  After the play began, all three (Fred, Mom and Dad) left the theater and went to the restaurant (Hofbrau) down the street.  Mom sat on one side of the booth and Dad tried to sit by her, but she said “no” and he ended up sitting across the table with Fred.  They all had something to eat and then Dad drove them all home in his 1950 Ford (Green Hornet).  Dad dropped off Freddie first by Pendora Park and then drove Mom the long way home to her house.  After that initial meeting, Mom and Dad began dating and the rest is history.  They had their ups and downs, but through it all stuck together.  They married in 1954 and were married for almost 60 years.  Together they raised two sons and three daughters.

Mom was proud to serve in the United States Navy during the Korean War, serving at the same time as Dad.  She worked for The Evening Star in Washington, D.C., where she had the most caring and understanding boss, Laurence Hill Green (deceased); the Childcare Center; NEPMU-SIX; and the Naval Supply Center all located at Pearl Harbor, HI; and the Defense Manpower Data Center OSD RAPIDS Office at Navy Annex/Rosslyn where she retired.

When the Navy transferred Dad to Pearl Harbor in 1970, Mom was overjoyed and thrilled—it was like she won the lottery!  They lived there for 11 years and she became an “island girl” at heart.  “Lucky You Live Hawai’i” she’d say and Hawai’i will always be her beloved home.

Mom dearly loved her family and was outgoing, young at heart, passionate in her beliefs, intelligent and instilled Christian values in her children.  She had a heart of gold and she always gave sage advice.  She enjoyed dancing, swimming, picking crabs, playing cards, bingo and board games and attending concerts, plays and shows.  She attended Elvis Presley’s practice show in Hawai’i and she swore he looked directly at her—she loved Elvis.

Mom’s primary care physician, Ulrich Prinz, MD, always provided excellent and compassionate care for over 30 years to Mom, Dad and Mom’s mother, Emily.  The Nestro ohana wants to formally acknowledge Dr. Prinz for his above and beyond dedication and care.

Barbara is survived by her five children, David (Peggy-deceased) Nestro, Andrea (UL-deceased) White, Susan (Robert) Schultz, Kristen Reed and Joseph Jr. (Melanie) Nestro; nine grandchildren (Carinsalyn, Neil, Laura, Gina, Stephen, Joseph, Nicole, JT and Michael); and five great-grandchildren (Elizabeth, Lucy, Liza, Sophia and Ailana) as well as many nieces and nephews and of course poi dogs and popoki. Mom will be forever dearly missed and remembered by all.  May she rest in peace, A Hui Hou—"until we meet again!”

Visitation will be held on Friday, July 1, 2022 from 4 p.m. to 8 p.m. at the Everly-Wheatley Funeral Home, 1500 W. Braddock Rd., Alexandria, VA 22302. Rosary at 7:30 p.m. Barbara’s wishes were for attendees to wear crisp aloha wear/business casual attire.

Mass of Christian Burial and Interment at Arlington National Cemetery will be held at a later date followed by a Celebration of Life.

If you desire to make a memorial contribution, please consider the “Catholic COTF Fund” and mail to Fund Manager, Memorial Chapel, 101 McNair Rd, Building 480, Fort Myer VA 22211; The Military Women’s Memorial; or the Central Association of the Miraculous Medal Shrine.  Flowers are welcome.

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Donald Muse - January 06, 1951 - June 18, 2022

Departed: 06/18/2022 (Alexandria)

Obituary Preview: Donald Muse transitioned peacefully on the morning of June 18, 2022 in Mesa, Arizona from pulmonary fibrosis. A memorial will be held on August 12th at 10:00 AM.

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Robert Stanley "Stan" Simpson - July 02, 1928 - June 17, 2022

Departed: 06/17/2022 (Alexandria)

Obituary Preview: Robert Stanley “Stan” Simpson was born on July 2, 1928, in Miami, Oklahoma, to Paul E. Simpson and Nona Middleton Simpson.  Paul worked in the oil business, and the family moved back and forth between Oklahoma and Texas, where Stan’s two brothers, Paul, Jr., and Kenneth Joe, were born. Stan attended the University of Oklahoma, graduating with a degree in Petroleum Engineering, and fostering a lifelong passion for OU football.  During and after the Korean War, Stan served in the Army and was stationed at Fort Leonard Wood in Missouri and Beale Air Force Base in California.  On September 2, 1956, after a short courtship, he married Mary Louise Wiley in Colorado Springs, Colorado. (Stan’s cousin, who introduced them, was married to Mary Louise’s uncle.) Stan’s early career was spent working on oil rigs.  Due to his job, Stan and Mary Louise moved several times, ending up in Pampa, Texas, where they had a son, Stephen.  In 1959, Stan got a job with the Federal Power Commission [later the Federal Energy Regulatory Commission (FERC)] in Washington, DC, so they moved to Alexandria, Virginia, where they had two daughters, Melissa and Jean-Marie.  He earned a Master’s Degree from the George Washington University in 1964, and served the American people for thirty-five years, retiring from FERC in 1994.

Stan was very interested in genealogy, tracing his family roots back to 1725, when Andrew Simpson arrived in Nottingham, New Hampshire, from Scotland.  He was also a faithful member of Duke Street Baptist Church and First Baptist Church, both in Alexandria. He kept close watch in the business meetings of both churches.  His particular joys were volunteering to work on the Living Christmas Tree and researching the history of First Baptist. After retiring, he enjoyed traveling with Mary Louise and the First Baptist Seniors all over the United States.

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W. Ann Gary - August 16, 1942 - June 14, 2022

Departed: 06/14/2022 (Alexandria)

Obituary Preview: W. Ann Gary of Alexandria VA, and lifelong resident of Alexandria, passed away peacefully on June 14, 2022, with loving family by her side. She will be dearly missed.

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Brigid M. Gorman - August 19, 1944 - June 09, 2022

Departed: 06/09/2022 (Alexandria)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Brigid M. Gorman.

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Philip J. Bigelow - May 15, 1974 - June 09, 2022

Departed: 06/09/2022 (Alexandria)

Obituary Preview: Philip J. Bigelow entered into eternal rest on Thursday, June 9, 2022 at the age of 48. Dearly beloved son of Stephanie A. Bigelow and Philip M. Bigelow. Survived by sister Tonia Bigelow-Rojas, three sons Bradley Bigelow Ade, Cody Engel and Jesse Bigelow, numerous nieces, nephews and a host of relatives and friends. Philip will be greatly missed.

A visitation will be held on Friday, June 17th from 4pm to 8pm at Everly-Wheatley Funeral Home, 1500 W. Braddock Road, Alexandria, VA 22302. From 7pm to 8pm the family will invite friends and loved ones to share stories and fond memories of Philip.

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William Thomas Harvey - Colonel (US Army, ret.) - October 28, 1944 - June 07, 2022

Departed: 06/07/2022 (Alexandria)

Obituary Preview: William Thomas Harvey passed away from Leukemia on June 7, 2022 in Alexandria, Virginia.  Born October 28, 1944, in Augusta, Georgia, he was the son of Bernice and Jack Harvey and grew up in Thomson, Georgia. He graduated from Thomson High School, attended West Point and graduated in 1966, and received a Master's degree in Civil Engineering from Georgia Tech.  He served for 30 years in the US Army Corps of Engineers in world-wide assignments including Thailand, Vietnam, Germany, San Francisco, and the Pentagon until his retirement in 1994.  Following military retirement, Bill owned a consulting company for 25 years.

Bill was predeceased by his parents and is survived by his spouse of 53 years, Susan J Harvey of Alexandria, VA; sons David L Harvey (Patrice) of Vienna, VA, Donald T Harvey (Shannon) of Greensboro, GA;  grandchildren Megan, Eileen, Kevin, Erin and Sean;  brother Jack Harvey of Washington, GA; sister Mylle Mangum of Eatonton, GA; and many wonderful nieces and nephews.

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Erin Lindsey (Waldron) Turner - August 06, 1978 - June 07, 2022

Departed: 06/07/2022 (Alexandria)

Obituary Preview: No description available

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JoAnn Marie Sisel - October 13, 1939 - June 07, 2022

Departed: 06/07/2022 (Alexandria)

Obituary Preview: JoAnn Marie Sisel of Arlington, VA, peacefully passed away June 7, 2022 at the Virginia Hospital Center, surrounded by family. She was preceded in death by her parents, Henry and Martha Bruner, and beloved husband, Marvin. She is survived by her brother Henry Bruner Jr. (Linda), loving son Jeffrey (Elizabeth), grandchildren Audrey, Stephen, Grace and Kip (and many adored pets).

She was born on her family’s farm near David City, NE on October 13, 1939, and after graduating Brainerd High School in 1957, JoAnn married her high school sweetheart, Marvin. Together, they lived the life of an Air Force family by traveling around the world on various assignments and gathering lifelong friends along the way. They finally settled in Arlington, VA where she worked as a property manager for Fox Realty for over 30 years.

JoAnn’s attention to detail was unmatched, notably shown through her account management; she replied to any praise with the humble phrase, “I like numbers.” Beyond this, she contributed much of her time to creating beautiful clothes, baptismal gowns and communion dresses for her family. She was a master seamstress and embroiderer, her detailed works of art are simply amazing.

The love JoAnn had for her family and grandchildren was to be admired. She and Marv had a special relationship with the grandkids. They had weekly routines, frequenting various restaurants, watching Sunday NASCAR races, and of course, keeping the cookie jar stocked with Oreos.

JoAnn lived a full life that cannot be captured with words. She will be greatly missed but is now Home and at peace. A Catholic, funeral mass will be celebrated Tuesday, June 28th at 1:00pm at Blessed Sacrament Catholic Church in Alexandria, VA.

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Mildred M. Kilburn "Millie" - October 23, 1927 - June 06, 2022

Departed: 06/06/2022 (Alexandria)

Obituary Preview: Mildred M. Kilburn, age 94, of Alexandria VA, formerly of Oriental, NC and Barrington, RI, passed away peacefully on Monday, June 6, 2022, at Inova Alexandria Hospital.

She was born in Waterford, CT on October 23, 1927 and raised in New London, CT, daughter of the late Elsie (Marquardt) and Wentworth W. Meek, Jr. Millie graduated from The Williams Memorial Institute Class of 1945, and obtained her Bachelor’s degree from the University of Connecticut Class of 1949.

In June 1949 she married Ronald H. Kilburn, and they settled in Quaker Hill, CT to raise their growing family. Additional moves were made to New Britain CT, New City NY, and Barrington RI. In 1993 they retired to Oriental NC. Over the years, Millie became a proficient needleworker and seamstress, creating many items for her home and family. Her final challenge was to take up quilting in NC, surrounded by new friends and proficient quilters.

While living in Barrington, Millie took up two significant civic roles. She volunteered for the Barrington League of Women Voters, and served on its Board of Directors, rising through the officers’ positions to become President. She also served on the Building Committee for the renovation of Peck School to repurpose as the Town Library. She was a life member of the Avery Memorial Association of Groton, CT.

In addition to her parents, Millie was predeceased by her only son Laurence (Larry) and her sister Marilyn O’Brien. She is survived by her husband of 73 years Ronald, her two daughters, Cynthia K. Smith and Amy C. Kilburn both of Arlington, VA; and many cousins, nieces and nephews in Connecticut, Pennsylvania and California.

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Angela Mary Raish - May 09, 1921 - June 03, 2022

Departed: 06/03/2022 (Alexandria)

Obituary Preview: No description available

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Virginia Anderson - April 24, 1927 - June 03, 2022

Departed: 06/03/2022 (Alexandria)

Obituary Preview: Virginia “Ginny” Anderson, 95, formerly of Cookeville, TN, passed away June 3, 2022 in Alexandria, Virginia, where she had been residing at the Paul Spring Retirement Community.  Her husband, Robert “Bob” F. Anderson, with whom she traveled the world and shared 70 years of wedded bliss, preceded her in death in 2019.  She had a wonderful, wicked sense of humor and leaves many friends, three daughters -- Ann (Mike) Duff, Jane Anderson and Bobbi (Joel) Bromley; 4 grandchildren: Weston Rice, Henry Rice, Ben (Christy) Bromley and Sarah (Kemper) Brand and 2 great-grandchildren, and her brother Ben (June) Ward.  Proud to be a Registered Nurse, she worked in Kansas City, Arlington, VA, and Hinsdale, IL and was well-known as the camp nurse at Camp Country Lad in Monterey, TN for many years.  Active at the First Presbyterian Church of Cookeville, an avid bridge player and a volunteer at the Mammogram Center of the Cookeville Regional Medical Center, Ginny will be missed by all lucky enough to have known her. Ginny will be buried next to Bob at Arlington National Cemetery in a private service at a later date.

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Kerry Tahera (Turner) Teigen - September 14, 1972 - May 29, 2022

Departed: 05/29/2022 (Alexandria)

Obituary Preview: No description available

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Mary Mansfield Monzuk - January 28, 1953 - May 28, 2022

Departed: 05/28/2022 (Alexandria)

Obituary Preview: Mary was a beautiful soul. Not much of a talker, but she had a calm, soothing demeanor. She was someone you could trust. Mary sadly lost her parents at a young age and was raised by her adopted family during her teenage years. She was a cheerleader in junior high school. She had a lovely voice and was a soprano in the choir. Mary was a fabulous dancer, she could dance up a storm (she and Lou could disco like nobody's business). Mary began her career at the telephone company while attending high school and received credit for the job. She continued working with the telephone company after graduation and never missed a day of work~ and we're talking over 30 years.  Even after retirement, she found another job and continued her dedication to being a reliable employee. Mary never drove, so her loving husband Lou  was always by her side, making sure she got to work and appointments. She loved decorating her and Lou's home, not just at Christmas and Easter, but ALL of the holidays. Mary won "Best Decorations" awards from her neighborhood community.  She also had so much love and empathy for animals of any kind. For years, Mary would faithfully feed a group of feral cats that lived in a tiny patch of trees and the gutter, near Route 236. I always told her that in my next life, I wanted to come back as a stray cat and live in her back yard.  I remember once, Lou, Mary, a friend of Lou's and I went to a huge flea market in Maryland. There were a bunch of chickens or rabbits, I don't really recall, but packed tight in a small cage. She started crying for their predicament, Mary couldn't bear to see any animal suffer. I loved her so much for that. Aside from her love for animals, Mary was a big fan of the beach, and loved the sun. Lou and Mary would drive to Ocean City together, spend the day and come back in the evening, that's love.

Mary will be missed tremendously by her loving husband, Lou, and entire family. A Celebration of Life will be held at Everly-Wheatley Funeral Home, 1500 W. Braddock Rd. Alexandria, VA 22302, on Saturday, June 11th at 1 pm.

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Christopher Alexander Bourjaily - August 15, 2002 - May 24, 2022

Departed: 05/24/2022 (Alexandria)

Obituary Preview: Alex Bourjaily died on Tuesday, May 24, 2022 leaving behind a family who love him deeply. He is survived by his father Monte, mother Natalia, and brother Vanya as well as his grandmothers Margaret Bourjaily and Galina Kandrouseva and many aunts, uncles, and cousins. Visitation will be at Everly-Wheatley Funeral Home, 1500 W. Braddock Rd, Alexandria, VA 22302 from 1-3 pm on Sunday, June 5th. Funeral services will be at 10:30am on Monday, June 6th at The Basilica of Saint Mary, 310 S. Royal St., Alexandria, VA 22314.

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Emily D. Fern - April 25, 1933 - May 24, 2022

Departed: 05/24/2022 (Alexandria)

Obituary Preview: Emily D. Fern, 89, passed away May 24, 2022, after a long illness. She will be remembered as a woman of great faith, with her warm smile and wonderful sense of humor. She was loved and respected by many. A private graveside service will be held on Friday, June 3, 2022. Memorial donations can be made to the Animal Welfare League of Alexandria.

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Funeral Services Offered

Everly-Wheatley Funeral Home & Crematory offers a wide range of funeral services to cater to the unique needs and preferences of each family. These include:

- Traditional funerals with viewing and visitation

- Cremations with memorial services or scattering ceremonies

- Graveside services and burials

- Memorial services and celebrations of life

- Pre-planning and pre-funding options for peace of mind

The Facility

The funeral home's facility is designed to provide a comfortable and serene atmosphere for families to gather and pay their respects. The spacious chapel can accommodate large crowds, while the intimate reception area provides a cozy setting for families to share stories and memories. The facility is also equipped with state-of-the-art technology, ensuring that every detail of the service is meticulously planned and executed.

The Team

The team at Everly-Wheatley Funeral Home & Crematory is comprised of experienced and compassionate professionals who are dedicated to providing exceptional care and support. From licensed funeral directors to administrative staff, every member of the team is committed to helping families through the funeral planning process with kindness, empathy, and understanding.

Community Involvement

Everly-Wheatley Funeral Home & Crematory is deeply rooted in the local community and is committed to giving back. The funeral home participates in various charitable initiatives and events throughout the year, supporting organizations that benefit the people of Alexandria and surrounding areas.

Testimonials

Families who have worked with Everly-Wheatley Funeral Home & Crematory consistently praise the funeral home's exceptional service, attention to detail, and compassion. Here's what some families have said about their experience:

"The team at Everly-Wheatley went above and beyond to ensure that our mother's funeral was everything we wanted it to be. Their kindness, empathy, and professionalism were truly remarkable."

"We were blown away by the level of care and attention we received from Everly-Wheatley. They made a difficult time so much easier for us."

"From start to finish, Everly-Wheatley Funeral Home & Crematory exceeded our expectations in every way. We can't thank them enough for their help and support."

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An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It's often published in newspapers, online obituary platforms, or funeral home websites to inform friends, family, and the community of the person's passing.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to honor and celebrate the life of the deceased, while also providing important information to those who need to know about the funeral arrangements, memorial services, and other details. They also help to notify people who may not have been aware of the person's passing.

Who typically writes an obituary?

The responsibility of writing an obituary usually falls on the family members or close friends of the deceased. In some cases, a funeral home or obituary writer may assist with the writing process. The person writing the obituary should have a good understanding of the deceased's life, personality, and accomplishments.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's full name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also include information about the funeral service, memorial contributions, and any other relevant details.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or platform it will be published on. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from a few sentences to a few paragraphs at most.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a great way to personalize the tribute and make it more engaging for readers.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

The process for submitting an obituary to a newspaper varies depending on the publication. You can usually find submission guidelines on their website or by contacting their obituary department directly. Be prepared to provide the written obituary text and any accompanying photos.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, it's becoming increasingly popular for people to write their own obituaries before they pass away. This can be a therapeutic exercise that allows you to reflect on your life and legacy. However, it's essential to keep in mind that your loved ones may still want to add their own tributes and memories after you're gone.

What is a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement that simply states the fact of someone's death, without including any additional biographical information. It's often used when a more detailed obituary will be published later.

What is the difference between an obituary and a eulogy?

An obituary is a written notice that provides factual information about the deceased, while a eulogy is a speech or written tribute that celebrates their life and shares personal anecdotes and memories.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies widely depending on the publication or platform. Some online platforms offer free or low-cost options, while traditional newspapers may charge by the word or line.

Can I edit an obituary after it's been published?

In some cases, it may be possible to make corrections or edits to an obituary after it's been published. However, this depends on the publication or platform's policies and procedures.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The time it takes for an obituary to be published can vary depending on the publication or platform. Online platforms may publish immediately, while traditional newspapers may have a delay of several days or even weeks.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Yes, including meaningful quotes or song lyrics can add depth and personality to an obituary. Just be sure to verify the accuracy of the quote or lyric and obtain any necessary permissions.

What if I want to keep the funeral private?

If you prefer to keep the funeral private, you can still publish an obituary without including details about the service. You might instead mention that a private ceremony will be held or that memorials can be made to a specific charity.

Can I include charitable donations in an obituary?

Yes, many people choose to include information about charitable donations in lieu of flowers in their loved one's obituary. This can be a meaningful way to honor their memory and support a cause they cared about.

How do I write an obituary for someone who didn't have many accomplishments?

Every person has value and worth regardless of their accomplishments. Focus on their personality traits, relationships, and passions when writing their obituary. You can also highlight their bravery in facing challenges or their kindness towards others.

Can I include humor in an obituary?

Absolutely! Humor can be a wonderful way to celebrate someone's life and personality. Just be sure to use good taste and avoid offending anyone who might read the obituary.

What if I'm struggling to write an obituary?

If you're having trouble writing an obituary, consider enlisting the help of a friend or family member who knew the deceased well. You can also consult with a funeral home or professional writer for guidance.

Can I republish an old obituary online?

If you have permission from the original publisher or copyright holder, you may be able to republish an old obituary online. Be sure to verify the accuracy of the information before sharing it again.

Are there any specific guidelines for writing an LGBTQ+ inclusive obituary?

Yes, it's essential to respect the deceased person's gender identity, sexual orientation, and relationships when writing their obituary. Use their preferred name and pronouns, and acknowledge their partners and loved ones appropriately.

How do I handle conflicting opinions about what should be included in an obituary?

In cases where there are differing opinions about what should be included in an obituary, try to find common ground among family members and friends. If necessary, consider seeking mediation from a trusted third party or funeral home staff member.

Can I create a digital archive of my loved one's life story?

Yes! There are many online platforms and tools that allow you to create a digital archive of your loved one's life story, including photos, videos, stories, and other mementos. This can be a beautiful way to preserve their memory for generations to come.

Is it appropriate to share funny stories or anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! Sharing humorous stories or anecdotes can help bring comfort and smiles to those who are grieving. Just be sure they are respectful and won't offend anyone who might read the obituary.

How do I ensure that my loved one's legacy lives on through their obituary?

You can ensure your loved one's legacy lives on by highlighting their passions, achievements, and values in their obituary. You might also consider establishing a memorial fund or scholarship in their name to continue their impact beyond their passing.