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Introduction to Ducharme Funeral Home

Ducharme Funeral Home, located at 1939 Main St, Castleton, VT, 05735, has been a pillar of the community for many years, providing compassionate and professional funeral services to families in their time of need. With a long history of serving the Castleton area, Ducharme Funeral Home has established itself as a trusted and respected funeral home, dedicated to helping families say goodbye to their loved ones with dignity and respect.

A Brief History of Ducharme Funeral Home

The story of Ducharme Funeral Home began many years ago, when the founders saw a need for a funeral home that would provide personalized and caring service to the families of Castleton. Over the years, the funeral home has grown and evolved, but its commitment to excellence and compassion has remained unwavering. Today, Ducharme Funeral Home is still family-owned and operated, with a team of experienced funeral directors and staff who are dedicated to providing exceptional service to every family they serve.

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Dianna A. Marro - June 22, 1951 - April 27, 2024

Departed: 04/27/2024 (Castleton,)

Obituary Preview: Tinmouth - Dianna Marro (6/22/1951 – 4/27/2024) was a hardworking, dedicated and caring mother, sister, wife, grandmother and great-grandmother who always put others’ needs before her own.

Dianna was born in Portland, ME to her parents, Joseph Cote and Beatrice (Bogan) Cote. After several moves and a teaching job in Connecticut, she finally settled in Vermont.

She married John Marro, December 7, 1968. They created the Jon’Dee Farm together and raised their children and enjoyed their grandchildren on the farm.

Dianna found her calling when she started with a position at the Mission in Rutland, VT in the 1990’s , where she remained for 30+ years, and helped to create the store that helps to fund the mission.She has received several teaching certificates and the Good Samaritan Awards.

She is survived by her twin sister, Donna Young; brother, Joseph Cote; daughter, Myria Savage and son, John “Buster” Marro; grandson, Gregory “Bub” Stocker; granddaughters, Amber Stocker, Kimberly and Lyndsay Marro; great-grandchildren, Dylan and Autumn Muguira, Lillian and Ana Lynch and Emma Stocker.

A Celebration of Life will be June 22, 2024 for any family or friends that would like to attend. Please contact Amber Stocker at 802-353-3355.

Special thanks to VNA & Hospice. And the ICU unit at Rutland Regional Hospital.

Arrangements are by Ducharme Funeral Home.

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Corey Jason Dumas - July 02, 2000 - April 04, 2024

Departed: 04/04/2024 (Castleton,)

Obituary Preview: Corey Jason Dumas, 23 formerly  of Fair Haven, VT died Thursday, April 4, 2024 in Boston, MA surrounded by his loved ones.

He was born on July 2, 2000 in Rutland, VT. He was the son of Janice Bunker and Arlyn Dumas. Corey grew up in Fair Haven with a large family and many friends.

He enjoyed many activities especially outdoors. He enjoyed hunting with his father and many friends.

He also enjoyed playing disc golf in which he made an army of friends along the way. If the wings didn’t have bones, he didn’t want it. Corey loved country music but strongly hated Luke Bryan as he believed Luke is a wannabe in skinny jeans. Dogs were his favorite as he had so many in his life. He and Hailee also shared a cat.

After 3 years of developing their loving relationship, Corey married the love of his life, Hailee Dumas, on August 19, 2023.

Corey has a beautiful daughter, Caroline, who was born in 2021.

Corey is predeceased by his mother, paternal grandparents and maternal grandfather. Survivors include his beautiful bride, Hailee, daughter Caroline, father Arlyn Dumas,four sisters: Nikiah Viger (Chadd), Samantha Rivers, Erika Notte (Tony), Nicole Dumas, Jennah Dumas, three brothers: Sean Vincent (Meredith), Jason Dumas, and David Dumas, maternal grandmother Mary Stone and several nieces and nephews. Please remember Corey as a husband, father, sibling, uncle, son, friend and all around goofy person. Some words that represented Corey were the following lyrics by Brantley Gilbert, “Tonight it’s bottoms up (up), Throw it on down. Rock this quiet, little country town and get up, Drop a tailgate on your truck, Find a keg and fill ya cup up.”

Friends may call on Tuesday, April 16th from 5pm until 7pm at the Ducharme Funeral Home, 1939 Main Street, Castleton, VT 05735. A celebration of life will be held April 17th from 1-4 at the Castleton American Legion 378 VT-4A, Castleton, VT 05735. The family strongly requests donations be made in memory of Corey, in lieu of flowers, to: Vermont Fish & Wildlife Department ATTN: GMCC Scholarships 1 National Life Drive, Davis 2 Montpelier, VT 05620

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Raymond Leon Mongeur - October 25, 1946 - March 29, 2024

Departed: 03/29/2024 (Castleton,)

Obituary Preview: Castleton- Raymond Leon Mongeur 77, died Friday evening March 29, 2024 at his home after a brief illness, surrounded by his loving family.

He was born October 25, 1946 in Montpelier, VT, the son of Horimidas and Amelia Laura (Rutledge) Mongeur.

Ray was a graduate of Waterbury High School class of 1964. He enlisted in the United States Army and was honorably discharged.

He had been employed by John Russell Corp., Wright and Morrissey Construction and Pizzagalli Construction, S.G. Phillips, E.F. Wall and numerous other contractors throughout Vermont. For the last 30-plus years he was a self-employed contractor.

Ray was an avid hunter and fisherman and loved to go yard-saling.

Survivors are his wife, Linda Scott, of Castleton; his daughter, Heather Curavoo, of Bomoseen, VT; his son, Christopher and (Jenni) Mongeur, of Orwell, VT; his son, Shawn and (Phyllis) Mongeur, of Chesterfield,VA; his brother, Robert and (Nancy) Mongeur,of Franklin, VT; his brother in -law, John and (Janice) Guilmette, of Peacham, VT; and his brother in-law David and (Joann) Guilmette of East Montpelier, VT. By his grandchildren, Logan and Devin Houle, Ashli, Tanaya, and Christopher Mongeur, Jessica Lancaster, Isaac and Caleb Mongeur, his great grandchildren, Gabriella, Aaliyah, Julius, Jada, and Everleigh. His nieces, Sara and Jamie Guilmette, his nephews, Jeff Guilmette and Cory Mongeur.

He was predeceased by his parents, by his wife of 54 years, Kathleen Elaine (Guilmette) Mongeur who died July 14, 2021, and by his son-in-law, Mark Curavoo who died Dec. 28, 2023.

A celebration of Raymond’s life will be held on Sunday May 5, 2024 from 1 P.M. to 4 P.M at the Castleton American Legion.

Memorial contributions may be made to Castleton Cares at P.O. Box 475 Castleton, VT 05735. or Slate Valley Cares at 49 Main Street Middlebury, VT 05743.

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Walter A. Lauf - December 09, 1925 - March 28, 2024

Departed: 03/28/2024 (Castleton,)

Obituary Preview: Castleton, VT - On this recent March 28th morning, when the world was still and the sun was about to rise, Walter continued his spiritual journey, leaving his earthly home for his heavenly place with God and his loved ones who have gone before him. At 98 years old, he was with us so long, it’s hard to imagine life without him. A man of extraordinary positivity and faith, he enjoyed nature, art, music, children, animals, laughter, and the famous Vermont “creemees.”

He leaves a family he loved and cherished beyond measure including: his adored wife Trudy (daughter of Eugene and Marie Epple and sister to Karl) with whom he was deeply in love and to whom he was married for nearly 77 years, son Mark (and wife Louise Demko Lauf) of Rutland Vermont, daughter Janice (husband Roger Hildwein) of Fall City, Washington, and daughter Lisa (husband David Rooper) of Vancouver Island, Canada. He inspired, loved and nurtured his grandchildren: Andrew Lauf, Megan Collins, and Jessica Wellerstein Felts, along with his bonus grandchildren Emelia and Jackson Rooper. He also enjoyed and loved his three great grandsons Ben, Luke and Sam so very much while fully embracing an extended family: Alain Wellerstein, Raph Wellerstein, Morgen McCance and Christian Hildwein. As friends become family, he also leaves whom we consider sister and brother, Sandy Fink and Mike Horner.

The son of Hedwig and John Lauf, Walter was born in Danbury, CT on December 9, 1925, becoming the fourth of an unforgettable quartet of mischievous, handsome, and creative brothers. Together, Bill, Bob, Jack (also now in heaven) and Walter would perform endless pranks on 14 Davis Street. (So funny and entertaining are these accounts, they are captured in the book “14 Davis” written by brothers Jack and Walt.) Their amazing blend of baritone, bass, lead and tenor were magically shared as their barbershop shop talent entertained so many throughout their lives.

At the tender age of 19, Walter was drafted to serve in World War II, along with his brothers. He served in France and Germany with the 253rd Infantry Regiment and received a Bronze Star for his service during the Battle of the Bulge. His artistic talent started at an early age and became a valued skill as he went on ahead of his platoon, climbing to the top of buildings to draw maps of the towns they would soon be entering. To their mother’s relief, all boys returned home and started the larger-than-life Lauf family.

Upon his return from the War, Trudy and Walt were married. Funded by the GI bill, he proudly attended Parsons School of Design in New York City and graduated at the top of his class. He began his graphic design career learning from accomplished cartoonist Richard Taylor and worked as a freelancer designing illustrations for Women’s Day and other prominent publications. He went on to start his own advertising agency, Walter Lauf Associates, located in Bethel CT, which he ran until his retirement. For staff and clients, it would become the place of lasting friendships and relationships. His accounts took him as far as St. Vincent and the Grenadines and into hospital operating rooms to study the surgical devices he would be promoting.

Walt’s faith and growth in the Lutheran church family provided him with lifelong friendships filled with humor, camping adventures and shared joys and challenges. He and Trudy loved to sing in choirs and found music to be an essential part of their worship in various congregations to which they belonged in Connecticut and Vermont, the most recent being Castleton Federated Church.

Equal to his love of art was his love of nature. We like to think that these two were an inseparable creative force that found its way into the amazing acrylics, oils, watercolors, sketches, multi-dimensional creations, sculptures and carvings he produced until his very last days. Many homes are graced with his exquisite creations, and many have had the opportunity to marvel at his very unique, contemporary interpretations of nature, always nature and rural life, at various art shows.

Walt’s longevity is no doubt greatly attributed to his love of daily exercise, walking, hiking, skiing, tennis, fishing, canoeing and many other outdoor activities. He also loved his home and nurtured the landscape which he stewarded with wildlife in mind.

Walt’s service includes: Birch Hill Ski Patrol, Hiking Leader, Art Instructor, and Sunday School Teacher. His more formal assignments were: Board Chair of the Danbury Historical Society, Board Member of the Vermont Nature Conservancy, Board Member and Vice President of the Castleton Community Center (whose present logo he designed), to name a few.

We can honestly say that Walter profoundly touched those he met with his engaging enthusiasm he brought to every social event and personal visit. As Trudy said just days ago, Walt never looked back, he was always looking forward and giving every day his very best. We will carry him in our hearts always as his memory continues to live amidst the Green Mountains of his adored Vermont home.

Our hearts are filled with gratitude for the kind and compassionate care from the Bayada Hospice team which supported Walt throughout the last days of his life. Donations can be made in Walt’s name to Vermont Nature Conservancy or Castleton Community Center. More details will follow regarding a service and celebration of life for Walt, to occur sometime in later spring/early summer.

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Peggy J. VanLew - July 18, 1950 - January 15, 2024

Departed: 01/15/2024 (Castleton)

Obituary Preview: Castleton – Peggy J. VanLew

Peggy J. VanLew 73, died Monday January 15, 2024 at Rutland Regional Medical Center after a courageous battle with cancer.

She was born July 18, 1950 in Rutland the daughter of Clarence R. Barlow Jr. and Iva (Durkee) Hewitt.

Peggy was a graduate of Fair Haven Union High School class of 1968 she furthered her education at Castleton State College receiving her Bachelor’s of Science degree.

She enjoyed gardening and crocheting in her spare time. She was a charter member and past Madam President of the Fair Haven Eagles Club #3907. She spent many years with the Eagles club raising money for the Foley Cancer Center.

She Married William VanLew on May 24,1986 in Castleton.

Peggy had worked for several different entities over the years as well as General Electric Aerospace in Rutland.

She is survived by her children, Lori DeLance (Zack), of Castleton, Franklyn Heibler Jr. (Bonnie), of Benson, Jason VanLew, of North Carolina and Charles VanLew(Roseanne), of Fair Haven. By her siblings, Doreen Bushey (Roger), of Castleton, Sally Adams (Tony), of North Carolina, Judy Starliper (Bob), of South Carolina, Wesley Barlow (Leone), of Granville, NY, and Rodney Hewitt, of South Carolina. By her eight grandchildren and her one great-grandchild and several nieces and nephews.

She was predeceased by her parents, husband William and her siblings, Frederick Barlow, Janice Higgins and Clarence “Fudd” R. Barlow III.

A Celebration of her life will be held Saturday January 20, 2024 at 2 P.M. at the Telescope Casual Furniture showroom at 82 Church Street, Granville, NY.

Memorial Contributions may be made to the Rutland County Humane Society at 765 Stevens Road, Pittsford, VT 05763.

Arrangements are under the direction of the Ducharme Funeral Home.

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Helen Frances Willis O'Dell - August 23, 1966 - January 06, 2024

Departed: 01/06/2024 (Castleton)

Obituary Preview: Rutland – Helen Frances Willis O’Dell

Helen Francis Willis O’Dell 58, died unexpectedly January 6, 2024 at her home.

She was born August 23, 1966 in Rutland, the daughter of James Willis and Frances Duclo.

Helen was a graduate of Fair Haven Union High School, class of 1984.

She was employed by the Vermont Country Store for many years.

Helen was a member of the Seventh-day Adventist Church in Rutland where she ran the food shelf.

She is survived by her siblings, James Willis, of Tinmouth, Julia Willis, of St. Albans, and Edward Willis, of Rutland. Also by her niece, Avery Willis; her nephew, Frank Willis and her great niece, Scarlet and numerous cousins.

She was predeceased by her parents, and by her siblings, Frances Willis and Frank Willis.

A memorial service will be held on Saturday January 27, 2024 at 11 A.M. at the Seventh-day Adventist Church in Rutland.

Memorial contributions in lieu of flowers may be made to the Food Shelf at the Seventh-day Adventist Church at 158 Stratton Road, Rutland VT 05701.

Arrangements are under the direction of the Ducharme Funeral Home Inc.

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Mark D. Curavoo - March 26, 1969 - December 28, 2023

Departed: 12/28/2023 (Castleton)

Obituary Preview: Bomoseen, VT Mark D. Curavoo

Mark D. Curavoo 54, died Thursday Morning December 28, 2023 at his residence.

He was born March 26, 1969 in Middlebury, VT the son of Melvin and Esther (Abbott) Curavoo.

Mark attended schools in Bristol Vermont.

He had been employed as a laborer at Camara Slate, Millborn Farms and Butler Farms prior to being disabled.

Mark enjoyed hunting, fishing, camping, and spending time with his family. His gift for story telling (while smoking a joint) would get a roomful of people laughing like no other. Listening to him laugh was contagious. A big guy with an even bigger heart will be missed by many.

Survivors are his wife Heather (Mongeur) Curavoo, his two step sons, Logan and Devin Houle, By his two brothers, Steve and Ed Curavoo, by his four sisters, Sandy Putnam, Brenda Ruel, Martha Noack and Donna Curavoo. Also by his brother in-law Steve Morcombe, by his grandson Julius Houle, his two special nephews, Shawn and Ryder Curavoo, Jessi and Richelle Curavoo, and many aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews and cousins.

He was predeceased by his parents, by his sister Deb Morcombe.

A Celebration of his life will be held at a later date this Spring.

Arrangements are under the direction of the Ducharme Funeral Home Inc. Online condolences at www.ducharmefuneralhome.com

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Stanley M. Borucki - June 26, 1967 - October 28, 2023

Departed: 10/28/2023 (Castleton)

Obituary Preview: Poultney – Stanley M. Borucki

Stanley M. Borucki, 56, died Saturday October 28, 2023 at Albany Medical Center in Albany, NY from injuries sustained in a motorcycle accident.

He was born June 26, 1967 in Norwalk, CT the son of Stanley J. and Patricia (Sarrazien) Borucki.

Stanley had many interests and hobbies over the years but most notably he loved to ride Harley Davidson Motorcycles, old Chevy trucks, old tractors, and being in the woods.

He spent several years as a Coast Guard Auxiliary Member, he also volunteered with the Seymour, CT Dive Team as well as the Seymour Fire and Rescue Department. He also owned a bait shop. In Vermont he worked for West Marine in Burlington as a manager for several years. Most recently Stanley was employed as a local school bus driver and a shuttle bus driver on the winter weekends in Stratton, VT.

Stanley was a member of the Saints-N-Sickles MC and also a member of the Vermont Patriot Guard Riders. He was enroute to a funeral when this terrible tragedy changed all our lives forever. He will be missed by many.

Stanley is survived by his parents, Stanley and Patricia Borucki, his sister Colleen Borucki and his niece Kiera both of Springfield, VT, his soulmate and life partner Vickie Wendell of Poultney VT and her children Julia Gosselin and Jasmine Wendell and 2 grandsons, Skyler and Chance Wendell, all of Poultney. Stanley is also survived by a large, loving extended family of Aunts, Uncles, Cousins, and many many many friends from all over the country.

A Memorial service will be at 11 A.M. Friday November 3, 2023 at Ducharme Funeral Home in Castleton VT.

A potluck reception will follow at the Bomoseen Grange Hall right around the corner from the funeral home.

Memorial contributions may be made to Camp Abnaki in North Hero VT to send a boy to summer camp or to a charity of one’s choice. There will be a celebration of Stanley’s life in the summer of 2024.

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Barbara Elaine Shaw - May 17, 1963 - September 26, 2023

Departed: 09/26/2023 (Castleton)

Obituary Preview: Barbara E. Shaw 60, passed away peacefully on September 26, 2023 after a courageous battle with glioblastoma cancer, surrounded by her loving family. She was born May 17, 1963 in St. Petersburg, FL, the daughter of James and Mary Lou (Sohngen) Soulia. Barb graduated from Fair Haven Union High School in 1981 and then began a 42-year career at General Electric, graduating from the Apprentice Program in 1985 and then earning her associate and bachelors degrees. She held numerous roles in Quality and Technical Support, ending her career as a Product Engineer. Barb was respected and admired for her knowledge and ability to respond quickly to every and any situation in airfoil fabrication.Barb enjoyed family dinners, attending live concerts and outings with friends. She loved fishing, especially on Lake Bomoseen. Her love of travel took her to the many places including the Outer Banks, Florida, Caribbean cruises and one special trip to Alaska. But most of all Barb was a loving and devoted mom to her children and grandchildren.Survivors include her son Greg, daughter Lauren, grandchildren, Noah, Elias and Ari, sister Deborah, nephews Brandon and Nathaniel Soulia. Barb also leaves her best friend and caretaker Nancy Messer, and her fur babies Winston and Oreo. She was predeceased by her parents and brother Wayne.A graveside service will be held on Friday October 6, 2023 at 1 P.M. in Cedar Grove Cemetery in Fair Haven, VT. Memorial contributions may be made to glioblastomafoundation.org or Rutland County Humane Society, 765 Stevens Road, Pittsford VT 05763, rchsvt.org.Arrangements are under the direction of the Ducharme Funeral Home Inc.

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Jacqueline M. Finger - December 29, 1928 - September 10, 2023

Departed: 09/10/2023 (Castleton)

Obituary Preview: Rutland , VT Jacqueline M. Finger 94, died September 10,2023 at The Pines of Rutland after a brief illness.She was born December 29, 1928 in Elwood City, PA the daughter of Spencer and Leona (Dawson) Stubbs. She lived in DuBois, PA for over 80 years. Jacqueline was a graduate o DuBois High School Class of 1946.She married Benjamin A. Finger on September 11, 1948. They were married for 50 years until her husbands death in 1999.She started working for Bell Telephone at the age of 18 and retired from Verizon as a telephone operator supervisor.Jacqueline enjoyed being a loving mother and grandmother. She was a member of the DuBois American Legion Auxiliary, Telephone Pioneers of America and the DuBois Lakeside United Methodist Church.She is survived by her son James A. Finger, of Rutland, by her daughter-in-law Melissa Finger (Pauls Wife), her grandchildren Richard Bussard (MO), Byron Finger (VT), Kelly Terry (NJ), Shelby Finger (OH), Shawna Finger (OH), Adam Finger( NV), Joe Labosky (MN) , Andy Labosky (NY) and Donnie Schwerdtfeger (PA) and several great grandchildren.She was predeceased by her parents, by her husband Benjamin A. Finger on July 10, 1999, by her daughter Ellen Kay Finger and her sons Charles D. Finger, Robert B. Finger, Paul S. Finger and grandson Jason Labosky.A private Memorial service will be held with the family.Burial will be at a later date at Morningside Cemetery in DuBois, PA.In Lieu of Flowers memorial contributions may be made to the American Heart Association or the American Cancer Society.Arrangements are under the direction of the Ducharme Funeral Home Inc.Online condolences at www.ducharmefuneralhome.com

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Todd J. Dayton - November 21, 1973 - August 28, 2023

Departed: 08/28/2023 (Castleton)

Obituary Preview: Todd J Dayton, 49, of Poultney Vt. passed away unexpectedly on August 28th, 2023 at his home with his wife of 20 years Tara Murray Dayton. Todd was an avid outdoorsman who enjoyed whitetail deer hunting the most. He was always the life of the party. Todd has had his battles in life as we all do, but he fought hard to live his best life. He was an over the road truck driver for most of his life, but dabbled in construction on the side. Todd will always be remembered by that big belly laugh that would light up a room, or the biggest hug that made it all feel okay. Hes survived by his parents, Joseph and Susan Dayton of Fair Haven, Vt.; wife, Tara Murray Dayton of Poultney, Vt.; daughter, Harley Dayton Stocker of Castleton, Vt.; two sons, Matthew T Dayton of Fair Haven, Vt. and Anthony Baker of Rutland, Vt.; three step-children, 7 grandchildren, sister, Tonya Wade (Robert) of Whitehall, Ny; nephews, many aunts, uncles and cousins. Calling hours will take place Thursday, September 14th 2023 at Ducharme Funeral Home, 139 Main St., Castleton, VT. from 11am till 1 pm. There will be a Celebration of life immediately after at the Eagles Club on Academy Street in Fair Haven, VT from 1pm-3pm.

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Walter Stanley Kulpa, Jr. - December 10, 1941 - August 18, 2023

Departed: 08/18/2023 (Castleton)

Obituary Preview: Walter Stanley Kulpa, Jr. - It is with great sorrow to announce that we lost our dear Walter "Butch" Kulpa on August 18, 2023. He was born on December 10, 1941 in Chicopee, MA to Mary Szot and Walter Stanley Kulpa. Graduated high school from Chicopee High School and college from UMASS-Amherst with a degree in mechanical engineering and mathematics. He went into the service with both the U.S. Army and U.S. Navy. With his engineering degree, he went on to work for General Electric in Phoenix, AZ; Cincinnati, OH; Schenectady, NY; Pittsfield, MA; and settled down in Rutland, VT where he was involved in product qualification and later completed his career in management. He was predeceased by both his parents, a stepfather, Leo Stefanik, his first wife, Donna Lee Anderson, son-in-law, Clarence Barlow and grandson, Cole Stanley Barlow. He also was predeceased by life long friends and family members John Zaremba and his wife Marge who were always by his side supporting him throughout his life. Walter is survived by his second wife Luanne, two sisters, Donna LaBelle and Linda Metras, his loving daughter, Jessika, his granddaughter, Jaycee and stepson Chris.Walter loved gardening, boating, fishing, and cooking. He once grew a 2.5 pound tomato and several others around that size. He was a Vette Head (Corvette) and owned many models through the years. Walter loved to fish and knew all the local spots to catch the best fish. His true love came in the forms of two orange and white feline furballs, Mittens and Nosey. They had become his life in the later years.

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Rebecca 'Bec' A. DeLance - October 03, 1980 - July 09, 2023

Departed: 07/09/2023 (Castleton)

Obituary Preview: Rebecca A. "Bec" DeLance, 42, died July 9, 2023 at Rutland Regional Hospital in Rutland, after a long illness. She was born October 3, 1980 in Rutland, the daughter of Michael and Donna DeLance. She graduated from Rutland High School in 1998 and attended a year at The College of St Joseph. Bec was engaged to Joshua Josselyn and had two cats, Spitfire and Caravaggio, who were treated as Becs children. Throughout her adult life Bec had worked a variety of jobs. This included a period of time at the Rutland Humane Society where she was able to show her love for animals.She was incredibly generous with everything she had, from money, to a place to camp out. If you needed it and she had it, you could count on her sharing it with you. She was known to be silly and had the best giggle in the world. Her laugh was infectious. To know her was to love her. If you were called a friend it was forever. Several in Becs inner circle have known each other from the 1st day of kindergarten and attended the same school all the way through high school. She even gave each of them a special nickname. Anyone else was referred to as "My Dear" in her soft, polite, caring voice.As a teenager, Bec and her "Ladies" as she called them, spent the summers in nature hiking in the woods and swimming at the gorge, even did some skinny dipping at the Chittenden Dam. She loved to ghost hunt and to check out the local mysteries along with exploring the back roads of Vermont. She even tried to skateboard once or twice.She was very sentimental about her possessions that had meaning for her; even owned an old trunk that she referred to as "The Trunk of Junk." It traveled all the way to California and back again. She still has it with her prize possessions to be handed down to her "Ladies." I am positive that when it is opened we will find all of the ticket stubs to all of the concerts she attended. She loved music, and even danced a time or two on the sofa to rap music. Rebecca is survived by a half-brother, Zachary DeLance of Castleton. She was predeceased by her father, Michael DeLance in 2013.Rebecca will be cremated. A graveside service will be August 19th at the Horton Cemetery in Chittenden Vermont at 10:00AM with a Celebration of Life to follow immediately. Place yet to be determined. Memorial contributions may be made to the Rutland County Humane Society. Arrangements under the direction of Ducharme Funeral Home, Castleton, Vermont.Online condolences at www.ducharmefuneralhome.com

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John 'Dick' Dickson Ferguson - February 28, 1954 - June 27, 2023

Departed: 06/27/2023 (Castleton)

Obituary Preview: John Dickson Ferguson (Dick)February 28, 1954-June 27, 2023He was the husband of Hadley Jones Ferguson for over 48 years, and the father of four children: Katherine Dyck (Scott), Kyle Ferguson, Schuyler Ferguson (Mickey) and Jack Ferguson. He was Grandad to Natalie and Gabriel Dyck; Bhima, Buddha, Wolf and Winter Ferguson.He graduated from Hampshire College, Virginia Theological Seminary and University of Southern California Law Center, and worked in Philadelphia for many year as a lawyer before becoming the business manager at the Family Hope Center.He sang in the Philadelphia Boys Choir Chorale for a number of years, while his son, Jack, was in the Choir. Together, they traveled with the Choir to Cuba, China and South Korea. Before his illness, he served on the Board of the Carving Studio and Sculpture Center in Rutland.He was an avid vegetable gardener, building his own raised beds.He and Hadley moved to Hubbardton almost four years ago. Dick fell in love with their land. They acquired the Sargent Hill property in 2021 and as one of the last acts of his life, together with Hadley, they donated the 200 acres to the Northeast Wilderness Trust.Arrangements under the direction of Ducharme Funeral Home, Castleton. Online condolences at www.ducharmefuneralhome.com

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Karen Sue Tarbell - March 14, 1974 - June 21, 2023

Departed: 06/21/2023 (Castleton)

Obituary Preview: Karen Sue (Jenney) Tarbell, 49, of Shrewsbury Vermont passed away on June 21, 2023. She was born in Savanna Georgia on March 14, 1974. Karen Sue worked for The Vermont Country Store and several insurance companies before getting her nursing degree from Vermont Technical College. She graduated from Vermont Technical College with high honors. Karen loved helping her patients and was very passionate in the care that she provided. She worked at Springfield Hospital in the Intensive Care Unit, The Gill Home and Visiting Nurses as a hospice nurse. She also substituted as a school nurse at Mill River Union High School. She worked at Regional Ambulance Service where she assisted with vaccinations during the pandanic. Karen is survived by her husband of 29 years, Michael Tarbell and their children Zachary, Levi, Lyla, Malorie and Sheyla. Her parents Rev. Lawrence and Evelyn Jenney. Her siblings Joanna Jenney and Joel Jenney(Michelle). Her grandchildren Trinity, Zander, Nathanael and Everett. Nieces and Nephew: Lily Wyman, Nathaniel, Hannah and Elena Jenney Karen requested a celebration of life be held in her honor as opposed to traditional funeral services. We invite all of Karens loved ones and friends to join us in celebrating her beautiful life at Ducharme's Funeral Home in Castleton VT on June 30, 2023 at 1:00PM.

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Kenneth W. Barber, Jr. - February 15, 2023 - June 19, 2023

Departed: 06/19/2023 (Castleton)

Obituary Preview: Castleton Kenneth W. Barber, Jr.Kenneth "Kenny" Barber, Jr. of Castleton, Vermont passed away June 19, 2023 at the age of 38.Born in Rutland, Vermont on February 15, 1985, Kenny was an avid hunter and fisherman. He had an immense love for the outdoors, family, and friends.Kenny is survived by his mother, Susan Barber of Oak Hills, California; his father, Kenneth Barber, Sr. of Castleton, Vermont; his sister, Amanda Barber of Oak Hills, California; his brother, Jason Bruno of Rutland, Vermont; his step-mother, Linda Barber of Castleton, Vermont; and several loving aunts, uncles, and cousins.A service will be held at Ducharme Funeral Home in Castleton, Vermont on Thursday, June 29 at 10:00a.m.A Celebration of Life gathering will be announced at a later date.Arrangements under the direction of Ducharme Funeral Home, Inc.Online condolences at www.ducharmefuneralhome.com

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Theodore 'Ted' Rockafellow Crow - May 13, 1949 - June 16, 2023

Departed: 06/16/2023 (Castleton)

Obituary Preview: CASTLETON Theodore "Ted" Rockafellow Crow, 74, a master carpenter, loving father, and cherished friend, passed away on June 16, 2023 at his beloved home.

Ted was born May 13, 1949 in Mamaroneck, NY to Hildegard Louise Rockafellow Crow and Howard Morrison Crow. He attended Syracuse College where he received his degree in Education.

Teds life and adventurous spirit took him all over the world with years spent living in Portugal and Venezuela . Teds adventures and passion for sailing often led him to the British Virgin Islands where he would captain a sailboat and cruise from island to island scuba diving and exploring the beauty of the Caribbean. His free spirit and passion for adventure will forever inspire those who knew him.

Teds incredible talent as a master carpenter was evident in the beautiful home he built for himself, as well as the house he was constructing alongside his devoted son, Tyler Crow. In addition to his carpentry and sailing passions, Ted had a green thumb and found great fulfillment in tending to his vibrant flowers and bountiful vegetable gardens. Ted always shared his harvest as well as his homemade maple syrup with friends, family and even some local restaurants.

Ted always extended a helping hand whenever needed. He eagerly shared his expertise and skillset, aways helping with any building project or just to lend a hand in any way he could. His dedication to his craft and passions was unparalleled, and his legacy will live on through the structures and memories he created and the skills and knowledge he passed on.

Ted is survived by his beloved son, Tyler Crow, and two brothers, Howard Crow and Charly Crow. A celebration of Teds life will be held at Third Place in Castleton, VT on July 8th from 1:00 - 3:00pm. His burial will take place in Princeton, NJ.

We kindly request that you share any cherished photographs or memories you have of Ted with us at [emailprotected], as we gather to honor and remember the extraordinary man he was. Ted Crow impacted the lives of countless individuals. May he find eternal peace, knowing that his legacy lives on in the hearts of all who were fortunate enough to have known him. "He lived forever and died one day" Ted Crow

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Nathan W. Booth, Jr. - June 13, 1938 - June 12, 2023

Departed: 06/12/2023 (Castleton)

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Nathan W. Booth Jr., 84, died early Monday morning June 12, 2023 at Mountain View Center in Rutland after a brief illness.

He was born June 13, 1938 in Waterbury, CT, the son of Nathan W. Booth Sr. and Evelyn (Higgins) Booth.

Nate was raised on a farm and attended local schools in Waterbury, CT.

He was a Unites States Army Veteran having served in Korea after the Korean conflict.

Nate moved to Vermont in 1974. Prior to coming to Vermont, he worked as an auto mechanic at Sevelle Ford in CT, and then Rutland Ford. He also had worked for Joe Giancola Construction before he opened his own auto mechanic garage in Hubbardton called Nates Garage. He continued farming and tried his hand at raising replacement heifers and a few beef cattle.

He enjoyed riding his tractor and his lawn mower, and riding around in his truck, and he loved hunting.

Nate was a member of the Hubbardton Fire Department, the Hubbardton Select Board, and the United Reformed Church of New Haven.

He is survived by his wife, Truda (Boyce) Booth of Hubbardton; by his son, Richard Booth; by his step children, Marci Barrows, Mike Wetmore and Brad Wetmore. Also by his three grandchildren, several nieces and nephews, and his beloved dog, Sky.

He was predeceased by his parents; by a son, Nathan W. Booth III; by his brother, Edward Booth; and sisters, Ruth Viseant and Fay Norton.

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Julia Elvira Bishop - June 24, 1928 - June 03, 2023

Departed: 06/03/2023 (Castleton)

Obituary Preview: Castleton Julia Elvira BishopJulia Elvira Bishop, 94, died Saturday afternoon June 3, 2023, at Rutland Regional Medical Center after a brief illness.She was born June 24, 1928 in Hubbardton, VT the daughter of Velours Christopher White and Lulu Mae (Luther) White.Julia work for many years at the Shoreham CO-OP as an apple packer.She was an avid Bingo player and enjoyed going to casinos, bowling, fishing and dancing.Survivors are her children, Jay Bishop (Wendy) , of Poultney, Eunice Frost (David), of Fair Haven, Judy Daniels, of Brush Creek, TN, Connie Beebe (William), of Fair Haven, Susan Dayton (Joe), of Fair Haven and Linda Flanders (Richard), of Castleton, Also by her 16 grandchildren and numerous great grandchildren and great-great grandchildren and numerous nieces, nephews and cousins.She was predeceased by her parents, by her husband Fredrick Bishop, by her sisters, Maudie Bishop, Doris Waite and Luella Ellis and her brother Harold White.A Memorial service will be held on Thursday June 8, 2023 at 11 A.M. at the Ducharme Funeral Home Inc., located at 1939 Main Street, Castleton, VT. The Rev. Susan Hardman Zimmerman will officiate.Burial will follow in Hillside Cemetery in Castleton.

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Mary Katherine Gillen - July 01, 1945 - May 14, 2023

Departed: 05/14/2023 (Castleton)

Obituary Preview: Castleton -Mary Katherine Gillen Mary Katherine Gillen died on Sunday, May 14, 2023, after a brief illness. She was born on July 1, 1945, the third child of Rita Kennedy Quinn and John Quinn. The family lived on their farm in Flint, New York. She married John Michael Gillen on June 7, 1969. Mary Kay spent most of her working years at Castleton Elementary School in Castleton, Vermont. She taught grade three and grade one for almost thirty years. In 1987 she received the University of Vermont Teacher of the Year Award, representing the Addison Rutland Supervisory Union. She was active in the Capstone Initiative of Rutland County, served as math curriculum coordinator, and helped initiate the gifted program at the school. A highlight of her career was the creation of the Blue Cat Historical Trail in Castleton. Mary Kay received two masters degrees, one from Castleton State College in educational administration and one from the State University of New York at Binghamton in English literature. Her bachelors degree was from LeMoyne College in Syracuse, New York, in 1967. She attended school from kindergarten through twelfth grade at the Gorham Central School in Gorham, New York. She was the valedictorian of her class in 1963. Mary Kays greatest joy was her family. She loved spending time with her husband and children, and she very much enjoyed life with her grandchildren. She loved to talk with them, read to them, and bake with them. They made the ordinary special, and Mary Kay very much appreciated that. Mary Kay had many interests. Chief among them were reading, learning more about history and geography, exploring genealogy, working on her photography, and traveling. Mary Kay is survived by her husband John, her daughter Kate Gillen and her husband James Finley and their son Owen of San Antonio, Texas, and by her son Michael Gillen and his wife Margo and their sons Benjamin, Joseph, and Edward of Lowell, Massachusetts. Mary Kay is also survived by her sisters Gail (Brian) McCarthy of Pultneyville, New York, and Pat Noonan of Wilmington, North Carolina, and by her brother Richard (Valarie) Quinn of Canandaigua, New York. In addition, she leaves many nieces and nephews as well as her sister-in-law Cheryl Gillen of Fairport, New York, and her sister-in-law Joan (John) Conners of Manlius, New York. Friends are invited to attend a celebration of Mary Kays life on Wednesday, May 24, 2023, from 2:00 pm to 4:00 pm at the Ducharme Funeral Home, 1939 Main Street in Castleton, Vermont.

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Alice C. Brooks - February 08, 1929 - April 21, 2023

Departed: 04/21/2023 (Castleton)

Obituary Preview: Bomoseen- Alice Carolyn Brooks Alice Carolyn Brooks, 94, died early Friday morning April 21, 2023 at her residence in Bomoseen. She was born February 8, 1929 in Bomoseen, the daughter of Harold Joseph and Ruth (Spooner) Hall. Alice attended Castleton Normal School and was a graduate of Fair Haven High School class of 1947. She married Calvin C. Brooks. Alice worked for many years and retired from Tambrands Inc. of Rutland. She enjoyed spending time with her family and doing her flower gardens. She is survived by her brother Roger Hall and wife Maureen, by her five grandchildren Allison, Allen, Jamie, Dan and Tim. By her seventeen great grandchildren and her five great-great grandchildren and many nieces, nephews and cousins. Alice was predeceased by her parents, by her husband, by her children Tom, Fred and Randy, by her grandson Fred Jr., and her great grandson Paul. Also by her brothers, Jerry, Vernon and Richard Hall Sr. Funeral services will be held on Tuesday June 20, 2023 at 2 P.M. at the Ducharme Funeral Home Inc., located at 1939 Main Street Castleton. With the Rev. Robert Noble officiating. Visiting hours will be from 1 P.M. until the time of the service at 2 P.M. Burial will follow in Hillside Cemetery.

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Mark A. Munnett - April 22, 1961 - March 31, 2023

Departed: 03/31/2023 (Castleton)

Obituary Preview: Mark A. Munnett, 61, passed peacefully Friday morning March 31, 2023, at his residence in Fair Haven after a brief, but courageous battle with cancer with his wife and daughters by his side.He was born April 22, 1961 in Rutland, the son of Ruth Munnett.Mark attended Hydeville School, Castleton Elementary and eventually Fair Haven Union High School.Mark worked his whole life and then some. He was a carpenter employed by Giancolas Construction for over 20 years. He also did carpentry work in his spare time all over Rutland County. He took great pride in his work and had a strong work ethic.Mark enjoyed the outdoors having grown up an avid hunter and fisherman. In his later years he valued spending his time with his wife and girls.He is survived by his wife Melanie Munnett of Fair Haven, his daughters Cassandra of Burlington and Torynce who is in her Freshman year at UVM; sister Gail Munnett, of Rutland; his uncle Gary Munnett, of Hydeville; aunt Karen Paquin, of Littleton, NH; he also survived by a nephew and several cousins. Mark is also survived by many lifelong friends who he considered family and vice versa.He was predeceased by his mother Ruth Munnett and a brother Ralph Hutchins.A Celebration of his life will be held on Sunday May 28, 2023 from 1:00pm - 4:00pm at the Castleton American Legion, Route 4a, Bomoseen, VT. All are encouraged to attend with a story and or a memory of Mark to share with his family. If you are able to, please bring a dish to share with others.Per Marks request there will be no calling hours.Memorial contributions may be made to Melanie Munnett, 2 Washington St Ext, Fair Haven, VT 05743.Arrangements are under the direction of the Ducharme Funeral Home Inc.Online condolences at www.ducharmefuneralhome.com

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William Parker Maynard - March 03, 1929 - March 19, 2023

Departed: 03/19/2023 (Castleton)

Obituary Preview: Bomoseen William Parker MaynardWilliam P. Maynard, 94, died Sunday afternoon March 19, 2023 at his residence in Bomoseen surrounded by his wife and son, after a lengthy illness.He was born March 3, 1929 in Mansfield, MA, the son of Richard and Maude (Watson) Maynard.After attending Attleboro High School, Attleboro MA, William entered the United States Marine Corps in 1946, serving two years before reentering military service in the United States Army during the Korean Conflict. After returning home, he was stationed at domestic posts through the end of 1955. He returned to his hometown area for education at Rhode Island Radio School, which he expanded upon in following years with a comprehensive course in Non Destructive Testing at Ohio State University as well as Technical Writing and Metallurgy courses at Lowell Tech Institute.Much of his career involved developing ultrasonic testing procedures for commercial aerospace applications, working for companies such as Engelhard, Martin-Marietta, Rohr Industries, McDonnell-Douglas, and Textron. He also applied NDT to rockets at Cape Canaveral and ran tests on the Apollo Command Module for Avco. He designed and built much of his testing equipment for the demands of each job, much of which is still in use. He also built two houses on his own that are still well maintained sixty years later. For over 45 years he was a member of the Association for Research and Enlightenment. This organization distributed his comprehensive and analytic title Universal Numbers and the Number 9 Destiny of Humankind.After retirement, he devoted much of his time to medical research in relation to nutrition and organic gardening, including a special project of aronia berry cultivation. He had a keen appreciation for History, Classical Music, and enjoyed using AstroNumerology to create profiles for many people to help them to better understand themselves on the soul level. He put many hours into these labors in the hope that it would benefit the lives of people whose path crossed his. He wanted nothing more than to see positive change in mankind and progressive change in how we function with the Earth.He is survived by his wife, Ruth (Christiansen) Maynard, of Castleton, who was blessed to have spent 69 years of marriage with him; by his son, David Maynard of Chelmsford MA; brothers, Donald Maynard and Douglas Maynard of Attleboro, MA., Russell Maynard of Rehoboth, MA.; and sister, Marion Dubois of Bellingham, MA; granddaughters, Tashana Thompson of Sierra Vista, AZ, and Amaryillis Maynard of Oakridge, OR.He was predeceased by his parents; by his daughter Kathy Maynard; and by his siblings Fred (Miller) Maynard, Kenneth Maynard, Ruth Turgeon, Margret St George, James Maynard, Richard Maynard, and Hilda Williams.Per his request there will be no visiting hours or services.Memorial contributions may be made to the VNA & Hospice Southwest RegionArrangements are under the direction of the Ducharme Funeral Home Inc. online condolences at www.ducharmefuneralhome.com

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Lisa Marie Tripodina - January 20, 1944 - February 16, 2023

Departed: 02/16/2023 (Castleton)

Obituary Preview: Lisa M. Tripodina, a resident of West Rutland, VT, formerly of Waterbury, CT passed away on February 16, 2023. Lisa was born in Shawinigan, Canada. Lisa loved gardening, cooking, crafting, panning for gold and stones, and camping trips. She was employed as a secretary for Ferrule Manufacturing and Dr. Kenneth Kaplove in Waterbury, CT and as an office manager for Wesson Oil Company in Waterbury for over 10 years After retiring, she relocated to West Rutland.She is survived by her husband of 34 years, Vincent Tripodina; daughter, Denise (Tim) Lagasse; grandchildren, Tim "TJ" Lagasse and Tyler Lagasse; step-grandchildren, Nina Tripodina, Jacob Miller, and Brian Tripodina; siblings, Helene Jones and Marcel (JoAnn) Langevin; brothers-in-law, Raymond (Carin) Tripodina and Michael (Rhonda) Tripodina; numerous nieces, nephews and cousins; and her canine companion, Lucky. She was preceded in death by parents, Alexandre Langevin and Rosa (Gelinas) Langevin. A celebration of her life will be held at a later date in Connecticut.

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Bernice B. Kelly - January 08, 1936 - February 04, 2023

Departed: 02/04/2023 (Castleton)

Obituary Preview: Castleton Bernice B. KellyBernice B. Kelly 87, passed away February 4, 2023 at home. Bernice was born in Rutland, Vermont the daughter of John and Julia Phillips.She is survived by her children, William E. Kelly Jr., Kathleen Kelly and Linda Guilmette and her husband Gary. She leaves her two grandchildren Tyler Guilmette and his wife Meg, and Benjamin Guilmette; and her great grandson, Terrance Guilmette.She was preceded in death by her husband William Kelly and two brothers: Anthony and John Phillips.A Celebration of her life will be held at a later date. Memorial contributions may be made to the Rutland County Humane Society at 765 Stevens Road, Pittsford, VT 05763 or to VNA & Hospice of the Southwest Region, 7 Albert Cree Drive, Rutland, VT 05701.

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Funeral Services Offered by Ducharme Funeral Home

Ducharme Funeral Home offers a wide range of funeral services to meet the unique needs of every family. From traditional funerals and cremations to memorial services and celebrations of life, the funeral home's experienced staff will work with you to create a personalized and meaningful tribute to your loved one. They also offer pre-planning services, allowing you to make arrangements for your own funeral in advance, giving you peace of mind and taking the burden off your loved ones.

The Facilities at Ducharme Funeral Home

The facilities at Ducharme Funeral Home are designed to provide a comfortable and welcoming atmosphere for families and friends who gather to pay their respects. The funeral home's spacious chapel can accommodate large crowds, and its elegant decor provides a fitting backdrop for any type of service. In addition, the funeral home has a private family room where families can gather before or after the service, as well as a reception area where they can share memories and condolences.

The Staff at Ducharme Funeral Home

The staff at Ducharme Funeral Home is comprised of experienced and compassionate professionals who are dedicated to providing exceptional service to every family they serve. From the funeral directors who will guide you through the planning process to the support staff who will ensure that every detail is taken care of, every member of the team is committed to helping you say goodbye to your loved one with dignity and respect.

Community Involvement

Ducharme Funeral Home is deeply involved in the Castleton community, and is proud to support local organizations and charities. The funeral home's staff members are active volunteers in the community, and regularly participate in events and fundraisers that benefit local causes. By giving back to the community, Ducharme Funeral Home demonstrates its commitment to serving not just individuals, but also the community as a whole.

What Sets Ducharme Funeral Home Apart

So what sets Ducharme Funeral Home apart from other funeral homes in the area? For starters, it's the funeral home's commitment to personalized service. Every family is treated like family, and every service is tailored to meet their unique needs and preferences. It's also the funeral home's attention to detail, from the smallest details of the service to the largest aspects of the planning process. And finally, it's the funeral home's dedication to excellence, which ensures that every family receives exceptional service from start to finish.

In conclusion, Ducharme Funeral Home is a trusted and respected funeral home that has been serving the Castleton area for many years. With its commitment to compassion, professionalism, and excellence, it's no wonder why so many families have chosen Ducharme Funeral Home to help them say goodbye to their loved ones. If you're looking for a funeral home that will provide personalized and caring service, look no further than Ducharme Funeral Home.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including biographical information, details about their life, and information about their funeral or memorial services. It's usually published in a newspaper, online obituary platform, or other public medium.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to share news of a loved one's passing with friends, family, and community members. They also provide an opportunity to celebrate the person's life, share memories, and offer condolences to those who are grieving.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, the family of the deceased or a close friend writes the obituary. Funeral homes or obituary writers may also assist with writing and publishing the obituary.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, cause of death (optional), surviving family members, and details about their life, such as occupation, hobbies, and achievements. It may also include information about funeral or memorial services.

How long does it take to write an obituary?

The time it takes to write an obituary can vary depending on the complexity and detail desired. On average, it can take anywhere from 30 minutes to several hours to write a well-crafted obituary.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many online obituary platforms and newspapers allow you to include photos with the obituary. This can be a meaningful way to personalize the tribute and help others remember the person who has passed.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Contact the newspaper's obituary department directly to inquire about their submission process and guidelines. Some newspapers may have online forms or email addresses for submitting obituaries.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary in advance as a way to ensure that their life story is told accurately and authentically. This can also be a therapeutic exercise in reflecting on one's life and legacy.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies widely depending on the newspaper, online platform, or other medium used. Some newspapers may charge by the word or line, while others may offer package deals or discounts for online publications.

Can I make changes to an obituary after it's been published?

In some cases, it may be possible to make corrections or updates to an obituary after it's been published. However, this may depend on the policies of the publication or platform used.

How long will an online obituary remain available?

The length of time an online obituary remains available varies depending on the platform or website used. Some websites may keep obituaries archived indefinitely, while others may remove them after a certain period.

Can I include charitable donations or memorial funds in an obituary?

Yes, many families choose to include information about charitable donations or memorial funds in the obituary as a way to honor their loved one's memory and support a meaningful cause.

What if I need help writing an obituary?

If you're struggling to write an obituary, consider seeking help from a funeral home, grief counselor, or professional obituary writer. They can provide guidance and support during this difficult time.

Can I use humor in an obituary?

Absolutely! Humor can be a wonderful way to celebrate a person's life and personality. Just be sure to use good taste and discretion when incorporating humor into the obituary.

How do I handle sensitive or private information in an obituary?

If you're unsure about sharing certain information in the obituary, it's best to err on the side of caution and omit it. Remember that the goal of an obituary is to honor and celebrate the person's life, not to reveal sensitive or private details.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Yes! Quotes, lyrics, or poems can add depth and meaning to an obituary. Choose something that resonates with the person's life, personality, or values.

What if I'm not comfortable writing about my loved one's cause of death?

You're not obligated to disclose the cause of death in the obituary. If you're uncomfortable sharing this information, simply omit it or use a more general phrase like "passed away suddenly" or "died peacefully."

Can I include social media links or hashtags in an obituary?

Social media links or hashtags can be included in an online obituary as a way to encourage sharing and tributes on social media platforms.

How do I notify friends and acquaintances about an upcoming funeral or memorial service?

In addition to publishing the obituary, consider sending personal notifications to close friends and acquaintances via phone calls, emails, or social media messages.

What if I need to correct errors in an already-published obituary?

Contact the publication or platform where the obituary was published as soon as possible to report any errors. They may be able to make corrections or issue a revised version of the obituary.

Can I create a digital archive of my loved one's life stories and memories?

Yes! Consider creating a digital archive using tools like scrapbooking software, photo albums, or online memorials. This can be a meaningful way to preserve memories and share them with others.

How do I cope with grief after losing a loved one?

Grief is a unique and individual experience. Consider reaching out to friends, family, or professional counselors for support. Online resources and grief support groups can also provide comfort and guidance during this difficult time.

What if I'm struggling to find words to express my emotions in an obituary?

Talk to someone you trust – a friend, family member, or counselor – about your feelings. Writing down your thoughts and emotions can also help clarify your feelings and find the right words for the obituary.

Can I include personal anecdotes or stories in an obituary?

Absolutely! Personal anecdotes and stories can bring depth and warmth to the obituary. Share your favorite memories of your loved one to make the tribute more relatable and engaging.

How do I balance honesty with tact when writing an obituary?

Balancing honesty with tact requires sensitivity and empathy. Be honest about your loved one's life without revealing sensitive or private information that might cause discomfort for others.