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Introduction to Doyle B. Shaffer Funeral Home

Located in the heart of Little Neck, New York, Doyle B. Shaffer Funeral Home has been providing compassionate and professional funeral services to the local community for many years. With a rich history and a commitment to excellence, this funeral home has earned a reputation as one of the most trusted and respected in the area.

A Brief History of Doyle B. Shaffer Funeral Home

Doyle B. Shaffer Funeral Home was founded on a simple yet powerful principle: to provide families with a dignified and personalized way to say goodbye to their loved ones. Over the years, the funeral home has remained family-owned and operated, with a deep understanding of the importance of tradition, community, and compassion. Today, the funeral home continues to evolve, incorporating new technologies and innovative approaches while remaining true to its core values.

Doyle B. Shaffer Funeral Home

Address: 45-09 Little Neck Parkway, Little Neck, NY, 11362
Phone Number: (718) 229-4949
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John S Emery - Unknown - May 01, 2024

Departed: 05/01/2024 (Little Neck)
Obituary Preview: John Emery of Douglaston, New York, passed away on May 1, 2024.
John was born in New York city on August 13, 1936 to Anna and John Sabo. After graduating from La Salle Academy he went on to study accounting and business law at Fordham University. John was an avid golfer, bowler and sailor. He enjoyed spending summer vacations with his family and traveling with his wife, Beverley. He is survived by Beverley, his wife of 63 years, his daughters Genevieve (Jerry) Kluka, Christine (Peter Mrekva) Ondris and six grandchildren, Christopher, Alexa, Stefanie, Brianna, Kirsten and Luca.
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Carolyn Walsh - Unknown - April 17, 2024

Departed: 04/17/2024 (Little Neck)
Obituary Preview: Carolyn Elizabeth Walsh, 58, of Bayside, Queens, passed away on April 17th, 2024 after being admitted to Flushing Hospital Medical Center the previous day.
Carolyn was born on July 12th, 1965 to Paul Walsh and Marci Raggland in Flushing, Queens. She grew up in Glen Cove and Bayside. She graduated with an associate’s degree from Queensborough Community College (QCC) in 1998. Carolyn also graduated from SUNY College at Old Westbury with a Bachelor’s degree in 1999. Furthermore, she earned a Master’s of Business Administration from Saint John’s University in 2001.
After graduating, Carolyn began teaching business courses at SUNY Farmingdale as an adjunct professor. She also taught business courses at QCC, her alma mater, starting in 2018. She worked as a college professor for over 21 years until her death.
Carolyn met the love of her life Robert LaGrotta at Bayside Volunteer Ambulance. A few years later, they got married in June of 1994 and had a strong and loving marriage. Carolyn and Robert have two children, Vincent and Andrew.
Carolyn loved taking walks outside, reading books and watching movies. Books on personal finance were her favorite, and she amassed a sizable collection in the family library.
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Jerry Lee Peterson - Unknown - April 15, 2024

Departed: 04/15/2024 (Little Neck)
Obituary Preview: Jerry Lee Peterson April 29, 1941 - April 15, 2024
The family of Jerry Peterson announce his passing on April 15, 2024 at the age of 82. Jerry, with his parents, Glen and Blanche and sister Penny, moved to Douglas Manor in 1952. He attended P.S. 98 and graduated from Bayside High School. He then attended Vaughn College of Aeronautics in East Elmhurst after which he worked with his father in the Photo Lab business. He served in the U.S. Army Reserves over in Germany from 1964-1969,
Jerry married Carol Ann Herlihy in 1964 and in 1969 they purchased their forever home on Ridge Road in Douglas Manor, raising their three children, Wendy, David and Daniel. He opened his own Photo Lab business in Manhattan and helmed the company throughout the 1970’s and into the 1980s.
Jerry was an avid golfer and also quite the handyman, with a great understanding of structural, electrical and plumbing design tackling his own home improvements as well as lending a hand with the homes of his brothers-in-law, Bob and Neil Herlihy.
His hobbies were photography, gardening and stamp collecting, filling volumes of stamp books throughout his life. He enjoyed playing and watching sports with his sons, watching classic movies and old westerns, and getting together with family for holidays and summer barbecues.
After his wife passed away in 2007, Jerry would visit Carol’s grave once a week to make sure it always looked beautiful and well kept. He was a kind man with a big heart and donated to many veteran, animal and children’s charities. He was a huge animal lover, always having dogs and cats in his life, along with an occasional bird or rabbit.
Jerry and his sister were adopted by the Petersons and in the years since Carol’s passing, he became more curious about the whereabouts of his birth family. In 2017, and with help from his son Daniel, he connected with three of his five birth siblings. Two years later, he learned he had another six half siblings for a total of twelve and in September 2019, he traveled to Indiana to finally meet some of his relatives.
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Otilia Koscica - Unknown - April 12, 2024

Departed: 04/12/2024 (Little Neck)
Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Otilia Koscica.
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Theresa Cestaro - Unknown - April 10, 2024

Departed: 04/10/2024 (Little Neck)
Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Theresa Cestaro.
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James S Dulligan - Unknown - March 27, 2024

Departed: 03/27/2024 (Little Neck)
Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for James S Dulligan.
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James S. Dulligan - Unknown - March 27, 2024

Departed: 03/27/2024 (Little Neck)
Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for James S. Dulligan.
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John G. Ring - Unknown - March 24, 2024

Departed: 03/24/2024 (Little Neck)
Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for John G. Ring.
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Carmen Herrera Gallegos - Unknown - March 20, 2024

Departed: 03/20/2024 (Little Neck)
Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Carmen Herrera Gallegos.
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Kostas Vesdrevanis - Unknown - March 18, 2024

Departed: 03/18/2024 (Little Neck)
Obituary Preview: Konstantinos (Kostas) Vesdrevanis, 83, of Corfu, Greece passed away on Monday, March 18th, 2024 in Little Neck, New York. Kostas was born in Tsamantas, Greece to the late Minas and Anna (Skopa) Vesdrevanis. He attended school in his village and started working at an early age next to his father, then went on to work in Ioannina and Athens. In 1969, Kostas eventually became a member of the Greek diaspora in the US, serving the culinary industry in Massachusetts and New York for five decades.
Kostas loved reading, and he would always have his reading glasses close by. As a young adult in Athens in the 1960’s, he would read all the great classics in between work. Later, while living in the US, Kostas would be loyal to his subscriptions of “National Geographic”, “Times”, and “Readers’ Digest”. Kostas also stayed on top of world affairs and local politics and thoroughly enjoyed a good debate. Kostas was passionate about Greek folk music from his native land “Epirotika” and later about jazz, particularly the great Dizzy Gillespi.
Kostas was a dedicated husband and father, and a tender grandfather who traveled regularly to New York and Luxembourg to visit his beloved grandchildren affectionately known as his “zouzounia” in Greek, meaning “little bugs”. Kostas enjoyed gardening, which he practiced daily during the spring and summer months and regularly sent photos of his garden to his children over his smartphone. During the winter months, Kostas could be found by the fireplace in his home in Corfu, Greece while reading Greek and US newspapers on his tablet.
Kostas is survived by his wife Olga, his children Anne Marie Vesdrevanis (Kostas Karoumpis), Monika Vesdrevanis (Nikos Gouvatsos), Petros Vesdrevanis (Mary Vesdrevanis), and his beloved grandchildren Stefania, Nikolas, Konstantinos and Eleni. Loving brother of the late Evanthia Kentrou and her husband the late Vaggelis, the late Eleni Alexiou and her husband the late Stavros, Crysanthi Kotsoni and her husband Elias, Dimitra Tsigkou and her husband the late Nikolaos, the late Spyros Vesdrevanis, and Aliki Karras and her husband Nikolaos. Living brother in law of Anna Goulas, Paraskevi Marinos, and her husband Yorgos. He is also survived by many nieces, nephews, relatives, and dear friends.
A prayer service is on Friday, March 22 at Doyle B. Shaffer Funeral Home. An additional memorial service will take place in Corfu, Greece. Donations to your preferred charity would be greatly appreciated.
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Anthony P. Caggiano - Unknown - March 17, 2024

Departed: 03/17/2024 (Little Neck)
Obituary Preview: Anthony P. Caggiano (85) of Great Neck passed away on Sunday March 17, 2024 at St. Francis Hospital Port Washington with his beloved family at his side.
Anthony, fondly known as Tony, Uncle Tony or Pop Pop, was born to Anna Siano and Alfred Caggiano on March 17, 1939 and was raised in Queens, NY.
Anthony spent more than 30 years driving MTA buses for TriBoro Coach. He enjoyed drinking coffee at cafes, playing cards, and most of all, going fishing, camping and being outdoors with his loved ones. The New York Yankees were his all-time favorite sports team.
Anthony was preceded in death by his first wife, Evelyn Gleadall (2013).
He is survived by his current wife, Betty Caggiano, his children Jessica Caggiano of Monterey Park, California, Antonio Caggiano and his wife Claudine of Helmetta, New Jersey, stepchildren Raymond Spinelle of Maspeth NY and Jeannette Spinelle of Great Neck, NY, grandchildren Nicole, Mia and Kai, step-grandchildren Raymond III and Anthony and great-grandchildren Leland, Jaxon and Emersyn. Also surviving are many extended family and friends.
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George Frangopoulos - Unknown - March 11, 2024

Departed: 03/11/2024 (Little Neck)
Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for George Frangopoulos.
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Patrick J. McGonigle - Unknown - March 03, 2024

Departed: 03/03/2024 (Little Neck)
Obituary Preview: Patrick J. McGonigle passed away peacefully with his family by his side on March 3, 2024, at St. Francis Hospital. He was 96 years old and resided in Douglaston Manor, NY.
Pat was born in Belleek, County Fermanagh, Ireland on October 24, 1927, to Patrick and Mary (McGuinness) McGonigle. Pat is predeceased by his four siblings, Kathleen, Frankie, Sean and Annie. As a young man, Pat was a talented Gaelic footballer. His team, which included his two brothers and his brother-in-law, won the 1949 League Championship. On October 19, 1956, Pat married the love of his life, Bridget (Bida) Boyle and settled in Astoria, NY to raise their family. They were devoted to each other during their 58-year marriage before Bida passed away in 2014.
Pat proudly served in the U.S. Army 1951-1953 and was a member of the Catholic War Veterans’ Association. Pat worked for the NYC Board of Education as a custodial engineer for 25 years. Pat always remained engaged and active in his community. He was a member of the Knights of Columbus Council No. 5911, the Clearview Golf Club and The Holy Name Society. He was also a Eucharistic Minister and usher at St. Anastasia’s. Pat was a past president of the County Fermanagh Society. He was always proud of his American citizenship and Irish heritage and until recently, marched annually in the New York City St. Patrick’s Day Parade.
Pat loved his family most of all and was predeceased by his beloved grandson Rory. He is survived by his sons Sean (Phyllis), Michael (Annmarie), and Patrick (Mary); his grandchildren, Sean (Ryan), Cara, Aileen McCormack (Paul), Patrick Denis (Mary), Patrick Francis (Molly), Kathleen Toolan (Patrick), Kerry and Claire and his great-grandchildren, Wyatt, Noah, Paul, Jack, Sean and Nora.
Throughout his life, Pat drew strength and inspiration from his Catholic faith. He found a wonderful community in St. Anastasia’s Church which was so important to him. Pat’s family will remember him for his never-ending curiosity, his quick wit and his unconditional love. He will be sorely missed by all of us.
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Grace A McNulty - Unknown - February 27, 2024

Departed: 02/27/2024 (Little Neck)
Obituary Preview: Grace Ann McNulty was the youngest of three sisters born and raised by Katherine and Anthony Scozzari on Grace Avenue in the Bronx, New York. Born on July 27, 1938, she spent her early days surrounded by pets, adored by and adoring of her elder sisters Theresa and Catherine (Bunny) — and later their husbands and children. She reveled with a tight-knit group of girlfriends from Evander Childs High School, taking day trips to Orchard Beach and excursions to the Catskills and Washington, DC.
After graduating in 1956, Grace took classes at City College of New York while working as a secretary for United Home Products in Manhattan. It was there she met a young elevator operator named Thomas J. McNulty, the eldest of five brothers, who was working his way through Fordham University. The two quickly became an item and were married on August 12, 1961, first living in Bayside, NY, and then, after having two children — Christopher and Karen — buying a house on Arcadia Lane in Great Neck, where they hosted many family gatherings with the Scozzari and McNulty clans.
While Tom worked in a range of roles at Queensborough Community College, Grace became an active member of the community, serving on the Lakeville Civic Association, the PTA, and many other committees. Neighbors could count on seeing her working long hours at the polls every election day. And in the summers, she became a fixture at Parkwood Pool, shuttling kids as a “swim team mother,” getting in her 10-15 laps, and building more lifelong friendships of her own.
But she did not lead a complete life of leisure! She worked for many years as a legal secretary, for long stints at Little Neck Realty and shorter ones at various law firms. She was smart and detail-oriented and a stickler for grammar — and, unsurprisingly, a huge fan of Jeopardy, a killer Scrabble player, and a champion cheerleader for her children’s education.
Grace’s strong foundation served her well when Tom passed unexpectedly from lung cancer in 1992 at the age of 53. Her friendships, family, and neighborhood connections helped her remain in her home in Great Neck — caring for a community of cats — until late 2016, by which time her mobility had significantly declined. Parting with her home of 50 years and moving to assisted living communities in Bay Shore and then Sayville, NY, was challenging, but she was quickly embraced by new friends and Scrabble partners. As her health declined, she held tightly to her family, and her last surviving cat, Starry Knight.
Grace was predeceased by her sisters and their husbands, two of her husband’s brothers, and one niece and one nephew. She is survived by two dear brothers-in-law; her sisters-in-law; a bevy of nieces on both sides of the family plus their husbands and children; one nephew; her son Christopher, his wife Teresa, and their children, Lauren and Matthew; and daughter Karen, her husband Brian Walsh, and their son Stephen.
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Frances Ambery - Unknown - February 25, 2024

Departed: 02/25/2024 (Little Neck)
Obituary Preview: Frances Ambery (Mc Guinness) passed away on February 25, 2024, peacefully with her beloved husband James and her children at her side after a brief illness.
She was 90 years young. Her family is deeply saddened by her passing .
Born May 15, 1933 to Frank and Madeline McGinness , Fran lived her young life in Elmhurst, NY with her sister Madeline Haussner (who proceeded her in death), with many aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends nearby, not to mention her beloved dog Skippy.
Fran graduated from Newton High School and went to finishing school. She worked at Long Island Savings Bank as a secretary. where she met the love of her life, her husband of 62 years James.
They made a life for themselves in Little Neck, NY on 247th street, where they raised their children Jim, Tom, Madlyn and Mike. She witnessed weddings and welcomed Carolyn, Chris Ann and Joe into the family.
She was fortunate to be a grandmother to Peter and Caroline, Nick and Kira, Gabby and Matt, Teresa, James, Mary, Kayla, Olivia, Ryan, Sophia and Emily and a great grandmother to Lilly and Charlotte.
She was lucky to have so many nephews and nieces in her life that she loved deeply.
Frances had many friends and was a beautiful person inside and out. Her smile was so stunning it would light up the whole room. She cared so deeply for the people around her. She was so kind and passionate. Known for her sense of humor, and making the best out of life, she made an impact on so many lives. She will be forever missed and always in our hearts.
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Barbara A. Hahl - Unknown - February 25, 2024

Departed: 02/25/2024 (Little Neck)
Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Barbara A. Hahl.
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Brian J. Payne - Unknown - February 14, 2024

Departed: 02/14/2024 (Little Neck)
Obituary Preview: Brian J. Payne, 81, of Little Neck, NY, passed away on Wednesday, February 14, 2024, at Ozanam Nursing Facility in Bayside, Queens.
Born and raised in Woodside, Queens, Brian graduated St. Sebastian’s Catholic School and then Brooklyn Preparatory High School, Class of 1960. Brian then attended Fordham University for both an undergraduate degree in Mathematics and a Masters Degree in Education. Brian started his career as a Catholic High School teacher at Chaminade High School in Mineola, New York in the 1960s where he taught Mathematics before teaching for more than three decades at Cathedral Preparatory Seminary in Elmhurst, Queens, where he taught Mathematics, Advanced Placement English, Physics, and Chemistry.
Brian was a student athlete and then conference winning coach of Cathedral Prep’s Varsity basketball team, as well as many other CYO baseball and basketball teams. He was an umpire for CHSAA baseball and umpired championship and All Star games in both Yankee Stadium and Shea Stadium. New York sports were always important to him.
Brian was also an accomplished actor and theater director. Starting with college acting in Twelve Angry Men, he went on to become the Drama Director at Cathedral Prep, where he directed both plays and musicals for the school, and then became an integral part of the Theatre Box Community Theater group in Floral Park, NY, where he served as President. At Theatre Box, he acted as Scrooge in A Christmas Carol and he directed, produced, and volunteered his time for dozens of other plays and musicals, including such productions as Noises Off, Our Town, and My Fair Lady.
Brian was an active parishioner at St. Anastasia’s Church in Douglaston, Queens, where he served as a Eucharistic Minister, as the coordinator of the Altar Servers, and as a church usher for many years.
Predeceased by his mother, Kathryn Payne, his fathers, Peter Payne and Patrick Payne, and his brother, Roger; Brian is survived by his wife of 57 years, Jeanne Payne; his children Adam Payne and Amy Ricci and their spouses Laurie Payne and Lawrence Ricci, and his grandchildren, Evan and Liam Payne and Kaylin and Nate Ricci.
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Bruce E Johnson - Unknown - January 24, 2024

Departed: 01/24/2024 (Little Neck)
Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Bruce E Johnson.
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Claire J Aversa - Unknown - January 22, 2024

Departed: 01/22/2024 (Little Neck)
Obituary Preview: Claire J. Aversa passed away on January 22, 2024. She was a devoted mother to Kenneth (Phyllis) and Joyce Giordano (Thomas). An adoring "Nannie" to her grandchildren Alyson, Brian, April, Danielle and Anthony as well as her great granddaughter Juliette. A dear sister to Anne Montalbano and sister-in-law Tina Walker. She was predeceased by her loving husband of 68 years Martin and by her siblings John (Jack), Mary, Peter, and Kathleen.
Claire worked for over 30 years at Weight Watcher Intl. After retiring she volunteered in the gift shop at Long Island Jewish Hospital & served as Secretary of the St. Anastasia Leisure Club. She loved spending time with family and friends and always enjoyed hosting gatherings. She will be dearly missed by all who knew her.
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Gaetana "Gay" Rose Bruno - Unknown - January 21, 2024

Departed: 01/21/2024 (Little Neck)
Obituary Preview: With great sadness, we share the news of Gaetana “Gay” Bruno’s passing on January 21, 2024, surrounded by her children and many grandchildren. She was a cherished wife, mother, sister, grandmother, great-grandmother, and friend. Her love and wisdom will forever be remembered by her family and all who knew her.
She devoted many hours to crocheting blankets and hats which were donated to the Children’s Hospital, the VA Hospital, the homeless, and the needy after she retired. She made hundreds of ear protectors for first responders and healthcare workers during the pandemic. Often, she surpassed her goal of “100 hats for the homeless” every winter. She also taught and inspired many other volunteers to join her in her mission.
She is survived by her six children, Camille Murphy (George Sullivan), Denise Jensen (Poul), Patti Cecchi (Mike), Fran Loshin-Turso (Rob), Connie Bruno, Frank Bruno (Mary Ellen), and her thirteen grandchildren Matthew Murphy (Whitney), Aaron Jensen, Dylan Jensen, Michael Cecchi (Nicole), Lauren Cecchi, Paige Cecchi, Alex Loshin Mayes (Simon), Miranda Loshin, Bobby Turso, Natalie Guinness, Christopher Bruno, Amanda Bruno, and Mike Bruno.
She is also survived by her five great-grandchildren, the “greats” as she called them Jack, Dillon, and Henry Murphy, and Hannah and Lily Cecchi.
She was predeceased by her parents Dominick and Rose Salzano, her husband Frank, and grandson Joseph Murphy as well as her sister Rosemarie, and brother Dominick, Jr.
We are very grateful to Teresa, for her wonderful care, compassion, kindness, and friendship.
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Lina Giacoia - Unknown - January 21, 2024

Departed: 01/21/2024 (Little Neck)
Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Lina Giacoia.
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Helen Catherine Burke - Unknown - January 18, 2024

Departed: 01/18/2024 (Little Neck)
Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Helen Catherine Burke.
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Nora C Stenson - Unknown - January 06, 2024

Departed: 01/06/2024 (Little Neck)
Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Nora C Stenson.
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Edwin S Pereda - Unknown - January 02, 2024

Departed: 01/02/2024 (Little Neck)
Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Edwin S Pereda.
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Nancy Rosenbluth - Unknown - December 29, 2023

Departed: 12/29/2023 (Little Neck)
Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Nancy Rosenbluth.
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The Facilities at Doyle B. Shaffer Funeral Home

The funeral home is situated in a beautiful and serene location at 45-09 Little Neck Parkway, Little Neck, NY, 11362. The facilities are designed to provide a warm and welcoming atmosphere, with comfortable seating areas, elegant chapels, and state-of-the-art amenities. The funeral home's facilities are fully accessible and equipped to accommodate families of all sizes and backgrounds.

Funeral Services Offered by Doyle B. Shaffer Funeral Home

Doyle B. Shaffer Funeral Home offers a wide range of funeral services, including traditional funerals, cremations, memorial services, and pre-planning options. The funeral home's experienced staff will work closely with families to create a personalized service that honors their loved one's life and legacy. From selecting music and flowers to choosing a casket or urn, every detail is carefully considered to ensure that the service is both meaningful and memorable.

The Importance of Pre-Planning with Doyle B. Shaffer Funeral Home

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Pre-planning is an essential aspect of funeral planning, allowing individuals to make informed decisions about their final arrangements while also alleviating the burden on their loved ones. Doyle B. Shaffer Funeral Home offers pre-planning services, which enable individuals to specify their preferences for funeral services, burial options, and other details. By pre-planning, individuals can ensure that their wishes are respected and that their family is protected from unnecessary stress and expense.

The Staff at Doyle B. Shaffer Funeral Home

The staff at Doyle B. Shaffer Funeral Home is comprised of dedicated professionals who are committed to providing exceptional care and support to families during their time of need. From licensed funeral directors and embalmers to administrative staff and support personnel, every member of the team is trained to provide compassionate and personalized service. The staff is available 24/7 to answer questions, offer guidance, and provide emotional support.

Community Involvement and Outreach

Doyle B. Shaffer Funeral Home is deeply committed to the local community, participating in various outreach programs and initiatives that promote education, awareness, and support for bereaved families. The funeral home also partners with local organizations and charities to provide resources and services that benefit the community as a whole.

Why Choose Doyle B. Shaffer Funeral Home?

There are many reasons why families choose Doyle B. Shaffer Funeral Home for their funeral needs. The funeral home's reputation for excellence, its commitment to personalized service, and its dedication to supporting bereaved families all contribute to its status as a trusted and respected provider of funeral services in Little Neck. Whether you're planning ahead or facing an unexpected loss, Doyle B. Shaffer Funeral Home is here to help you navigate the difficult process of saying goodbye with dignity and compassion.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and other biographical information. It may also include details about their life, accomplishments, and surviving family members.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to notify friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a lasting tribute to the deceased, preserving their memory and legacy.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, a family member or close friend writes an obituary, although it can also be written by a funeral home or other organization. The writer should have personal knowledge of the deceased and be able to provide accurate and meaningful information.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the deceased's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also include details about their life story, personality, and accomplishments.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or online platform. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from 100 to 500 words.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, usually including only basic information such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary provides more detailed information about the deceased's life and legacy.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can help personalize the tribute and make it more meaningful to readers.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online platform?

Contact the publication or platform directly for their submission guidelines and deadlines. Some may accept submissions online, while others may require email or phone submissions.

Is there a cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication or platform. Some may charge by the word or line, while others may offer package deals or free listings.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary as part of their estate planning or as a way to reflect on their life. This can be a meaningful way to ensure your story is told accurately and authentically.

What if I don't have much information about the deceased?

If you're struggling to gather information about the deceased, consider reaching out to family members, friends, or colleagues who may be able to provide insight. You can also use online resources or historical records to fill in gaps.

Can I include humor or anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! Including personal stories or humorous moments can help bring the deceased to life and make the obituary more engaging and memorable.

How do I handle sensitive or difficult information in an obituary?

Tread carefully when addressing sensitive topics such as cause of death, estranged relationships, or other challenging issues. Be honest but tactful, focusing on the positive aspects of the deceased's life.

Can I include quotes or poetry in an obituary?

Yes! Incorporating meaningful quotes or poetry can add depth and emotion to the obituary. Choose pieces that resonate with the deceased's personality or values.

What if I need to make corrections to an already-published obituary?

Contact the publication or platform immediately if you need to make corrections. They will guide you through their correction process and ensure the updated version is published promptly.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The timeframe for publication varies depending on the publication or platform. Online platforms may publish within hours or days, while print newspapers may take several days or weeks.

Can I republish an obituary at a later date?

Sometimes yes, sometimes no. Check with the original publication or platform for their republication policies. You may also consider creating a memorial website or social media page to share the obituary again.

What if I want to keep the obituary private?

If you prefer not to share the obituary publicly, you can opt for a private listing or create a password-protected online memorial page. This allows you to control who has access to the information.

Can I include charitable donations or memorial information in an obituary?

Absolutely! Many families choose to include information about charitable donations or memorial funds in honor of their loved one. This can be a meaningful way to continue their legacy.

How do I find old obituaries from years ago?

You can search online archives, visit local libraries or genealogical societies, or contact newspapers directly for access to their archives. Some websites also specialize in digitizing and indexing historical obituaries.

Can I use social media to share an obituary?

Yes! Social media platforms can be a powerful tool for sharing news of a loved one's passing and connecting with friends and family. Create a post with the obituary text and any relevant photos or memories.

What if I'm not comfortable writing an obituary myself?

Dont worry! Many funeral homes, hospices, and bereavement organizations offer assistance with writing obituaries. You can also ask a trusted friend or family member for help.

Can I include non-traditional elements in an obituary?

Absolutely! Consider adding unique touches such as favorite songs, recipes, or personal mottos that reflect the deceased's personality and spirit.

How do I ensure accuracy when writing an obituary?

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About Jeffery Isleworth

Jeffery Isleworth is an experienced eulogy and funeral speech writer who has dedicated his career to helping people honor their loved ones in a meaningful way. With a background in writing and public speaking, Jeffery has a keen eye for detail and a talent for crafting heartfelt and authentic tributes that capture the essence of a person's life. Jeffery's passion for writing eulogies and funeral speeches stems from his belief that everyone deserves to be remembered with dignity and respect. He understands that this can be a challenging time for families and friends, and he strives to make the process as smooth and stress-free as possible. Over the years, Jeffery has helped countless families create beautiful and memorable eulogies and funeral speeches. His clients appreciate his warm and empathetic approach, as well as his ability to capture the essence of their loved one's personality and life story. When he's not writing eulogies and funeral speeches, Jeffery enjoys spending time with his family, reading, and traveling. He believes that life is precious and should be celebrated, and he feels honored to help families do just that through his writing.