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Patricia J. Griswold - August 22, 1937 - April 18, 2022

Departed: 04/18/2022 (Homer)

Obituary Preview: Patricia J. Griswold, 84, of Preble, passed away on April 18, 2022 in the Guthrie Cortland Nursing Center.

A lifelong area resident, Pat was born August 22, 1937, a daughter of the late Robert and Leona Reynolds Stone.

Pat was an active and faithful member of St. Margaret’s Church, Homer.

She was employed for several years at Little York Plantation and had been a substitute secretary for the Homer Central Schools.

Surviving are her four children, Peggie (Ed) Miller of Cortland; James (Teena) Griswold Preble; Jeffrey (Heather) Griswold of Preble and Joseph (Monika) Griswold of Germany; eleven grandchildren, eighteen great grandchildren and two great-great grandchildren. Also surviving are her four siblings, Judy (John) Wyckoff of Plattsburgh; Pete (Marion) Stone of Little York; John (Kathy) Stone of Preble; Roy (Cathy) Stone of Homer; and many nieces, nephews and cousins.

She was predeceased by her husband, Calvin ‘Jim’ Griswold in 2018, a daughter, Renee C. Griswold in 2005; sister and brother-in-law, Sandra and Raymond Liddington and her sister, Nancy Stone.

Calling hours will be held on Friday, April 22, 2022 from 5:00-7:00 p.m. at St. Margaret’s Catholic Church, 14 Copeland Ave., Homer.

Funeral services will be at 10:00 a.m. on Saturday, April 23, 2022 at St. Margaret’s Catholic Church, where a Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated. Interment will follow in Elmwood Cemetery, Preble.

Memorial contributions in Pat’s name may be directed to St. Margaret’s Church, 14 Copeland Ave., Homer, NY 13077 or to the Cortland SPCA, 879 McLean Rd., Cortland, NY 13045.

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Patty Ann VanGorder - August 23, 1961 - April 09, 2022

Departed: 04/09/2022 (Homer)

Obituary Preview: Patty A. VanGorder, 60, of Grant St., Cortland passed away on April 9, 2022.

A calling hour will be held on from 6:00 – 7: 00 p.m. on Thursday, April 21, 2022 at the Donald L. Barber Funeral Home, 5016 US Route 11, Homer.

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Elizabeth 'Betty' Dermott - December 18, 1923 - April 08, 2022

Departed: 04/08/2022 (Homer)

Obituary Preview: Elizabeth (Betty) Dermott, 98, of Homer, went home to be with the Lord on April 8, 2022 where she was reunited with her husband, Robert Dermott, her parents Wayne and Joan (Park) Sharpe, brothers Hubert, Kenneth and Donald Sharpe and many friends.

Betty worked at the Scintilla Factory, Smith Corona, and Homer Central School. She was known as a generous, compassionate, and hardworking individual who loved spending time with her family and friends.

Survived by are her sisters Ellen MacKnight and Mary Grosser, Sons, Wayne (Cindy) Curtis, David (Cindy) Curtis, her grandchildren Shawna (Patrick) Bloodgood, Justina (Johnny) Morales and Kori (Torrie) Mulvihill, great grandchildren Mackenzie Buhr, Skyler and Peyton Bloodgood, Cassidy and Braeden Mulvihill and Arianna Morales, Stepsons Robert (Karen) Dermott, David (Wendy) McDermott and Stepchildren, Hannah, Kyle, and Peter McDermott.

A celebration of life will be held later.

Donations can be made in her name to Hospice and Palliative Services of CNY, 172 East King Road, Ithaca, New York 14850.

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Stanley "Butch" Contento - April 26, 1951 - March 28, 2022

Departed: 03/28/2022 (Homer)

Obituary Preview: Stanley E. “Butch” Contento, of Homer, passed away on March 28, 2022, while under the care of Hospice and his loving family.

A lifelong area resident, he was born April 26, 1951, a son of the late Frank and Esther Kile Contento.

He was a longtime member of the Spafford Fire Department.

Butch loved being surrounded by his family and friends. He enjoyed breakfast at Hyde’s Diner, where he was affectionately known as “Chuck” and where he established many friendships over the years.

Butch’s family would like to say thank you to Uncle Stewart for being by Stanley’s side during the hard times, Bob and Bonnie Belford for all they have done for him, Jerry ‘Jr’ Contento for everything he did in the last part of his life. Also, Mark Meiczinger for keeping the driveway plowed so friends could visit, to Hospice, Guthrie Cortland Medical Center, the Renzi Cancer Center and Dr. Matthew Noble.

Surviving are his children, Robert (Kandy) Contento and Robin Contento; brother, Stewart (Bonnie) Contento, two sisters; Sharon (Carl) Veno and Sandy Contento Dalton; seven grandchildren, 6 great grandchildren; his former wife, Dianne Brown and several nieces, nephews and cousins.

In addition to his parents, he was predeceased by his brother-in-law, Leroy Dalton; and a grandson, Dayvon Beck.

A Celebration of Life will be from 3:00 – 7:00 p.m. on Saturday, April 23, 2022 at the Homer Community Building, 53 South Main Street Homer.

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Edith F. Harter - July 21, 1934 - March 12, 2022

Departed: 03/12/2022 (Homer)

Obituary Preview: Edith F. Harter, 87, of Prospect St., Homer, passed away on March 12, 2022.

A lifelong area resident, she was born July 21, 1934, a daughter of the late Bennie and Ruth Stevens Seager.

Edith had been employed for 25 years at the Homer IGA and for 25 years at H&R Block.

Grandma, as she was affectionately known by many people, devoted her life to her family. She was a loving wife, mother, grandmother and great mother.

Surviving are her children, Mike Harter; Robert ‘Buddy’ (Linda) Harter and Sherry Burns of Homer; and Connie (Russell) Vinnedge of Preble; as well as several grandchildren; great grandchildren and her beloved fur baby, Maddy.

Edith was predeceased by her husband, Robert G. Harter in 2003; her daughter, Debbie Breidinger; three grandchildren, Cathy Burns, Jeffrey Stout and Sara Helms and her brother, Dean Stevens.

Services will be private and at the convenience of the family.

Memorial contributions in Mrs. Harter’s name may be directed to the Cortland County SPCA, 879 McLean Rd., Cortland, NY 13045.

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Frank A. Ruggeri - September 10, 1965 - March 08, 2022

Departed: 03/08/2022 (Homer)

Obituary Preview: Frank A. Ruggeri, of Truxton, passed away peacefully at home on March 8, 2022 at the age of 56.

Born in Saratoga Springs, the son of the late Frank and Ann Plasay Ruggeri, he was a graduate of Saratoga Central Catholic School. He went on to get his Associates degree at Hudson Valley Community College and graduated with a Bachelor’s of Science in Electrical Engineering from SUNY Utica.

Growing up in Saratoga, Frank took part in many areas of the community including working for the local youth group and being a Pinkerton at the Saratoga Racetrack. He also worked alongside his mother serving Priests at St. Johns Newmans infirmary.

Frank was a talented and respected engineer. After college he found an amazing opportunity that brought him to the Cortland area working at NCC Industries where he worked for many years as a Distribution Maintenance Manager. After which, he was very fortunate to have traveled the world working for Refrigerated Transport Electronics (RTE) as a Field Service Engineer where he built, tested and installed monitoring systems on ocean going container vessels. Wanting to be home more for his family he took a job at Intertek as a Project Engineer and then onto Pall Trinity as a Project Manager for the Aria Mobile Fleet, managing a fleet of Mobile Water Systems deployed in various parts of the world.

When the health of his parents declined, he chose to again be there for his family and care for them both in Saratoga and in his Truxton home. After his father’s passing, he set out to put all of his talents to work and in 2020, he, his wife and son Frankie took on owning their own business. They purchased and he personally designed what is now known as Franks’ Place in Truxton. A repair shop/gas station/convenience store with a fully equipped kitchen where he took great pride and enjoyment in serving up his breakfast sandwich creations to the community.

Throughout his years, he enjoyed many outdoor activities. Fishing was always a favorite of his, from fishing on the Hudson in his younger years with his father, to fishing locally with his wife and son. He also won more than one trophy at the annual fishing contests held at Black Lake with his family and friends. Frank was an avid hunter and went on many adventures with his father, from hunting NY deer to caribou and boar hunting’s afar.  Along with hunting, Frank also enjoyed target shooting and was very adamant on gun safety. From being a Range Officer to just teaching his family and friends of the importance of firearm safety. He was a true marksman that showed in his competitions in USPSA and IDPA with the Cortland Pistol Club.

Surviving is his loving wife, Toni L. Wood Ruggeri; two sons, Frank N. Ruggeri of Scott and Tynan G. Lynch, currently serving in the US Navy in Japan. Also surviving are two sisters, Mary (Robert) Offenburg of Durham, NC and Gracie (Brian) Spicer of Fremont, Ohio; his mother and father-in-law, Debbie (John) Head of McGraw; his close friend, Ken Stone of Truxton; canine fur baby Archibold and several nieces, nephews and cousins.

In addition to his parents, he was predeceased by a sister, Ann Ruggeri.

The family will receive friends and relatives from 1:00 p.m. – 4:00 p.m. on Saturday, March 19, 2022 at the Donald L. Barber Funeral Home, 5016 US Route 11, Homer. A brief memorial service will follow at 4:00 p.m. with Rev. Aaron Bouwens officiating.

A Celebration of Life will be held for Frank at the Fraternal Order of Eagle’s, 155 Port Watson St., Cortland on March 26, 2022 from 12:00p.m. - 4:00p.m.

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Isaac Hunter Van Sweeney - November 13, 2001 - February 24, 2022

Departed: 02/24/2022 (Homer)

Obituary Preview: Isaac Hunter Van Sweeney, 20, of Homer, passed away unexpectedly on February 24, 2022.

Isaac was born November 13, 2001, the son of Richard Ho, Sara McCormick, and Michael and Kelli Sweeney.  He was a 2020 graduate of Homer High School.

Isaac was a hard worker, had a gentle soul, and was always willing to lend a hand. He had a genuine and big smile that would light up the room. He loved his family, animals, diesel trucks (especially Cummins Diesels), being outdoors, working on the farm, hunting, riding dirt bikes and four-wheelers.  He collected belt buckles and socks, enjoyed playing with Legos and Matchbox cars, and loved the movie ‘8 Seconds’.

Surviving are his parents, Michael and Kelli Sweeney, Richard Ho and Sara McCormick; his siblings, Oksana McCormick Sweeney (Paul Morse); Jessica Neuman (Nate); Sean Sweeney (Becca); Tieler Sweeney (Megan); Brenton, Lilly and Kristal Sweeney; Nicki Fox; and Austin and Bella Ho; his girlfriend, Alyssa Sherrod; his grandparents and several aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews and cousins.

Funeral services will be held at 5:00 p.m. on Wednesday, March 2, 2022 at Grace Christian Fellowship, 1250 Fisher Ave., Cortland.

Calling hours will be held at the Grace Christian Fellowship on Wednesday from 3:00 p.m. until the time of the service.

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Peter Wageck - June 17, 1943 - February 22, 2022

Departed: 02/22/2022 (Homer)

Obituary Preview: My dad, Peter Wageck, was born on June 17th, 1943 in Obrigheim, Germany, a small town in the district of Neckar-Odenwald-Kreis (say that 5 times fast). Growing up, he had four role models— the German soccer trio Beckenbauer, Netzer and Müller and his mother Helen Wageck, my  Oma. It was from her, that he inherited his strength, stubbornness, and love for family (but unfortunately for us, not her famous sugar cookie recipe).

My dad did a lot in his life. He was outgoing, adventurous, played semi-professional soccer in Germany for four years, built fighter jets in the German Air Force and even followed a magazine ad for a job all the way to Hong Kong. There, he traveled all over the world from Singapore to the Philippines, learned multiple languages (even though his German accent made his Cantonese like nails on a chalkboard) and most importantly, met the love of his life, my mom, Mona Wageck. He lived there for 10 years until 1986, when his company transferred him to (you guessed it) a small town in Central New York, named Cortland.

After a few years, my dad started his own company, Cortland Foundations, LLC. You may even recognize the big red brick building on the corner of E. Court St. He was smart, driven, maybe a bit hardheaded and, without a doubt, incredibly proud of his work.

My dad loved life, his birthday, being outside, a long ocean dip (in a speedo none the less), Cuban cigars, good food, his dogs, playing golf, tennis, watching German soccer, Life Is Good t- shirts, his friends and, most of all, his family.

I know it’s unrealistic, but I never thought I would be writing one of these for my dad. He was a fighter, but after 2 years battling bladder cancer, my dad left us February 22nd, 2022 in the afternoon, at home, surrounded by the people he loved.

His sister Barbara Tidow, daughters Simone Felix and Nicole Williamson, grandchildren Tobias and Florian Felix, his wife Mona Wageck, and their entire extended friends and family miss his larger-than-life personality more than words can express.

There will be a celebration of life at the Wageck home in June, on what would have been his 79th birthday. In the meantime, we ask that you honor his life by living yours to the fullest.

Whether it be going back for seconds, driving with the windows down, having a Chivas on the rocks at the 19th hole or soaking in some sun with your feet in the sand, may his spirit live on within all of us and the memories we share. To my dad — we love you and we will miss you, every day. Love, Mausey

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John E. Blair - October 12, 1937 - February 20, 2022

Departed: 02/20/2022 (Homer)

Obituary Preview: John E. Blair, 84, formerly of Cortland, passed away on February 20, 2022 in the Cayuga Ridge Nursing Center, Ithaca, where he had been a resident since 2016.

He was born October 12, 1937 in Sherburne, a son of Walter and Elizabeth Cashman Blair.

John is survived by his children, Jerry (Michelle) Blair of Cortland; Lisa A. Blair of Liverpool; Lori A. Blair of Cortland; Kimberly S. (Tom) Hill of Damascus, MD; Shelley B. (Lawrence) Love of Newfield and John C. (Stacie) Blair of Fayetteville; his siblings, Sarah (George) Rickey of Iowa City, IA; Ann (Jai) Misir of Niskayuna; Greg (Leslie) Robinson of Waterloo; and Glen (Maureen) Robinson of Erieville. Also surviving are his grandchildren, Jessica Blair; Chelsea and Brandon Hill; Samantha and Benjamin Love; and Natalie Blair; his great grandchildren, Rylan Phillips; Braydan Phillips; Madelyn Hill-Raley and Hailey Jordan as well several nieces, nephews and cousins.

He was predeceased his wife, Holly Baldwin Blair in 2016.

There will be a celebration of John’s life on Saturday, March 19, 2022 at 11:00 am at the Homer Avenue Methodist Church, 30 Homer Ave., Cortland, followed by a luncheon.

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Donald C. Withey - November 19, 1950 - February 16, 2022

Departed: 02/16/2022 (Homer)

Obituary Preview: Donald C. Withey, 71, of Cortland, passed away unexpectedly on February 16, 2022.

A lifelong area resident, he was born November 19, 1950, the son of Ellis and Louise Hammond Withey.

Don had been employed as a glazier most of his life, working at Cortland Glass Company, Seven Valley Glass Company, and The GlassSmith in Homer.

Don was a car enthusiast, with a passion for building and restoring cars and watching NASCAR. He loved spending time with his grandchildren, watching TV and movies, collecting coins, and working with his hands. He participated for several years in local archery leagues and enjoyed building houses with his brothers.

Surviving is his mother, Louise A. Withey; two daughters, Traci L. (Donald) Pier of Warners and Kelli A. (Zephyr) Greyhaven of Henry, VA; siblings, Marjorie (Richard) Jenney of Virgil, David (Arlen) Withey of Groton, and Dale (Nancy) Withey of Homer, and close friend, Wendy Brockner. Also surviving are his grandchildren, Katelynn and Lucas Pier, Tiberius “TJ” Greyhaven and a fourth grandchild due in July.

He was predeceased by his father, Ellis G. Withey in 2019.

The family will receive friends and relatives from 2:00 – 4:00 p.m. on Sunday, March 13, 2022 at the Donald L. Barber Funeral Home, 5016 US Route 11, Homer.

Graveside services will be held in the spring in Glenwood Cemetery, Homer.

Memorial contributions in Mr. Withey’s name may be directed to the Cortland County SPCA, 879 McLean Rd., Cortland, NY 13045 or to the charity of one choice.

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Amy C. Morris - August 25, 1959 - January 20, 2022

Departed: 01/20/2022 (Homer)

Obituary Preview: Amy C. Morris, 62, of Fairview Drive, Cortland, passed away on January 20, 2022 following a period of declining health.

A lifelong area resident, Amy was born August 25, 1959, the youngest child of the late Vernon and Amelia Argyle Morris.

Upon her graduation from Homer High School, she started work at the JM Murray Center, where she was happily employed for more than 30 years.

Amy had a zest for life and a strong will. She loved to travel, shop for treasurers and wearing her ‘bling’.

Surviving is her brother-in-law, Herman Whitney of Homer; two nephews, Michael (Griselda) Whitney of Texas and Eric Whitney of Homer; as well as several great nephews and cousins.

Amy was predeceased by her sister, Verna Morris Whitney in 2013.

Graveside services will be held in the spring at Glenwood Cemetery, Homer.

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Faith Renee Downing Beasley - September 27, 1972 - January 18, 2022

Departed: 01/18/2022 (Homer)

Obituary Preview: Faith Renee Downing Beasley, 49, of Eden NC, formally of Cortland NY, passed away on January 18, 2022 at UNC Rockingham Health Care.

Faith was born in Norwich, CT on September 27, 1972 to Paul and Ruth Downing who predecease her.

Faith was a double amputee and battled kidney disease and other aliments for the majority of her life.  Her strength, Her faith, Her will, Her kindness to others will not be forgotten.

Besides spending time with family and friends, Faith loved a good cup of coffee; keeping up with her Facebook friends; playing games on her phone and her fur-babies Bandit; Charlie and Bella.

Faith was survived by her husband, Jerry Beasley of Eden, NC; her sisters Valerie (Jayme Johnson) Nitti of Cortland and Paula (Gary) Harrington of Homer.  Her brothers Stephen (Sandra) Downing of CT and Lyle Joseph of Binghamton; Her nieces and nephews, Christopher; Anthony; Olivia; Paul (Felicia); Candace (Darren); Steven; Frank; Steven (Kimberly); Tammy (Rob); Liana and Melinda.

Faith is preceded in death by her brother Allen Downing and niece Lisa Downing.

A memorial service and interment will be held this spring. Faith’s final wish will be honored as she will be put to rest with her parents at the Scott Union Cemetery.

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Gwendolyn Merkur - April 15, 1935 - January 09, 2022

Departed: 01/09/2022 (Homer)

Obituary Preview: On January 9 2022, Gwendolyn Merkur passed away peacefully at the age of 86 after a brief illness. Gwendolyn was born in Puryear Tennessee on April 15, 1935 and moved to Cortland when she was in elementary school along with her mother Gertie (Gore) Randall, father Merrill P Randall, brothers Archie and Carl, along with her sister Dorothy.

They all preceded her.

Living in Cortland the rest of her life, raising a family with her husband of 63 years (Bruce A Merkur 2/26/2018). Her children Gwenn (Michael) Francey, Constance (Kevin) Mack and Dana (Carol) Merkur. 8 grandchildren and 15 great grandchildren.

Gwendolyn retired from First National Bank of Cortland working in the bookkeeping department. People also remember her working at Rose Company clothing store on Main Street in Cortland.

Her passion was shopping for antiques and collectibles to make her home beautiful and warm. All summer she was outside maintaining her flower gardens and landscape. We will all miss her beautiful smile and keen wit.

Keeping with her wishes there will be no calling hours or service.

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Jean M. Austin - October 30, 1966 - January 08, 2022

Departed: 01/08/2022 (Homer)

Obituary Preview: Jean M. Austin, 55, of Marathon, passed away on Saturday January 8, 2022 while under the care of Hospice and her loving family.

Jean was born October 30, 1966 in Auburn, to Carl Terwilliger and Joan Todd.

She had been a family advocate for the Hillside Agency for several years and had previously worked at National Grid.

Surviving is her mother, Joan Price of Cortland; her children, Kristie (Jairo) Brown of Marathon; Craig Brown of Maryland; Ashley (Josh) Abbott of Marathon; Alyssa (Matt) Brown of Cortland; Paige Austin; Saige Austin and Rosie Martinez, all of Marathon. Also surviving are her sibling, Steve (Amy) Terwilliger of Florida; Cheryl (Jaime) Brown of Cortland; Lori (Tony) Barbis of Homer and Ann (Nate) Rice of Homer; her grandchildren, Geoseph and Hunter Craig; Nevaeh, Destiny, Kaylee and Aubree Abbott; Hannah Bergman; Arianna, Alyssa, James, Karter and Alaina Brown and Brooklyn Stone as well as several nieces, nephews and cousins.

Jean was predeceased her father, Carl Terwilliger and her stepfather, Kenneth Price, Sr.

Funeral services will be held at 1:00 p.m. on Thursday at the Donald L. Barber Funeral Home, 5016 US Route 11, Homer. Interment in Willow Glen Cemetery, Dryden, will be delayed until spring.

Calling hours will be held on Thursday from 11:00 a.m. until the time of the service.

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David W. Wesser - May 19, 1947 - January 08, 2022

Departed: 01/08/2022 (Homer)

Obituary Preview: David W. Wesser, 74, of Taylor, NY, passed away on Saturday January 8, 2022, surrounded by his loving family.

He was born May 19, 1947 in Binghamton, NY; a son of the late William Wesser and Charlotte Burley Warner.

David was a veteran of the Vietnam War, serving in the US Army from 1965 – 1968.

He retired from Cooper Tools after 20 years of employment. He had also worked at the Snohomish County Sheriff’s Department in Everett, WA, Ditch Witch and the Raymond Corp. in Greene, NY.

David loved his family. His greatest joy was living in the country, operating a hobby farm with his wife, Judi, and having his family around him. He loved to hunt, fish, and trap. He loved to camp and made many years of memories with his children, camping all across the United States. David especially enjoyed his family camping trips to Raquette Lake in the Adirondacks.

Surviving is his loving wife of 50 years, Judi Corty Wesser; his children, Chris (Kerry) Wesser of Key Largo, FL; Tiffany (David) Gallow of Pigeon Forge, TN; Julie (David) Steacy and Holly (Kris) Loomis, both of Cincinnatus; his siblings, Gary Montross of Nevada; Cindi Holovnia of Wilmington, NC and Richard (Valerie) Bennett of Owego. David has fourteen grandchildren; Samantha (Josh) Nichols, and Alex Wesser; Nicole, Marc, Brett, Christian, and Gabrielle Gallow; Kody (Crystal), Dawson (Madison), and Kara Steacy; Rhiannon, Hope, Kristopher, and Harmony Loomis; Seven great grandchildren and several nieces, nephews and cousins.

A memorial service will be held Saturday, January 15th, from 2-3pm, at the German Baptist Church, 196 County Road 5, McDonough, NY 13801-Open to all who wish to honor his memory.

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Raymond D. Smith, Sr. - April 02, 1938 - January 07, 2022

Departed: 01/07/2022 (Homer)

Obituary Preview: Raymond D. Smith, Sr., 83, of 13 Leon Ave., Cortland, passed away unexpectedly on Friday, January 7, 2022.

Ray was a lifelong area resident. He served and was honorably discharged from the NY National Guard.

He enjoyed all types of racing, especially NASCAR and spending time with his family.

Surviving are his children, Geri Smith, Nikki Williams, Penney Schott, Donna (Ben) Moya and Kelly Edwards; his siblings, Leon Smith, Linda Wakula and Coretta Smith; twenty grandchildren, thirty-seven great grandchildren and several nieces, nephews and cousins.

Ray was predeceased by two sons, Raymond Smith, Jr. and Rick Smith and his three spouses, Imogene Hitchcock, Winifred White and Cindy Preston.

Calling hours will be held on Tuesday, January 18, 2022 from 4:00 – 5:00 p.m. at the Donald L. Barber Funeral Home, 5016 US Route 11, Homer.

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Bradley J. LeFever - August 02, 1956 - January 06, 2022

Departed: 01/06/2022 (Homer)

Obituary Preview: Bradley J. LeFever, 65, of Homer, passed away on January 6, 2022 following a brief illness.

A lifelong area resident, he was born August 2, 1956 as son of the late Max R. and Shirley Stoker LeFever.

Brad was passionate about fire service.  In the past, he served as a volunteer member of the Homer Fire Department and was employed for a number of years by the City of Cortland Fire Department.

Surviving are his son, Aaron (Amber) LeFever of Homer; a sister, Karen (Loren ‘Smiley’) Prince of Tully; and three grandchildren, Crew, Ivy and Beau LeFever.

In keeping with Brad’s wishes, there will be no services.

Memorial contributions in Mr. LeFever’s name may be directed to the Homer Fire Dept., 45 S. Main St., Homer, NY 13077 or to the Cortland SPCA, 879 McLean Rd., Cortland, NY 13045.

The family would like to extend a Thank You to ICU staff at Guthrie Cortland Medical Center for their care and compassion and also a special Thank You to his good friend David Brown.

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Marie A. Lewis - November 19, 1947 - January 05, 2022

Departed: 01/05/2022 (Homer)

Obituary Preview: Marie A. ‘Maudie’ Lewis, of Route 215, Cortland, passed away on January 5, 2022 while under the care of Hospice and her loving family.

A lifelong area resident, Maudie was raised in Summerhill and was a graduate of Groton High School.

She retired in 2007 as a 911 dispatcher after a 30-year career with the Cortland County Sheriff’s Department. The colleagues and friends Marie made through the years at the Sheriff’s department are now lifelong friends.

Marie was an active member of the New Apostolic Church. She enjoyed gardening, decorating her home and especially loved spoiling her grandchildren.

Surviving is her best friend and loving husband of 32 years, Roy E. Lewis; her children, Jeffery (Lisa) Weaver of Moravia; Garrett (Amy) Weaver of Johnson City and Angel (Patrick) Weaver of Maine; a brother, Al (Sheila) Kemp; her sister, Joyce Gruber; eight grandchildren, Chelsea (Jon) Golley; Joshua (Jenn) Weaver; Emmillie (Tom) Partin; Amara (Jon) Lewis; Bella Weaver Phelps; Nadyleen Weaver Phelps; Sage Inglis and Autumn Weaver Phelps; six great grandchildren, Lia; Pyper; Brynn; Ronin; Orion and Ophiuchus. Also surviving is the father of her children, Ernest Weaver, many nieces, nephews, brothers-in-law, sisters-in-law and her close friends, Lee and Sandy Price, Diane Dubois Higgins, Gene and Kathy Barnes and Budd Rigg.

Maudie’s family would like to thank Rachel, Demaris and Rebecca from Hospice; Dr’s. Chin, Panebianco and Lowry and Mindy Dunn for the wonderful care they provided.

In addition to her parents, Grover and Barbara Ward Stoyell, she was predeceased by a brother, Herb Kemp and a daughter-in-law, Tina Weaver. Funeral services will be held at 6:00 p.m. on Monday at the Donald L. Barber Funeral Home, 5016 US Route 11, Homer. The service will be livestreamed at www.facebook.com/donaldlbarberfuneralhome

The family will receive friends and family at the funeral home on Monday from 3:00 p.m. until the time of the service.

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Meredith L. Downes Curtis - October 13, 1976 - January 03, 2022

Departed: 01/03/2022 (Homer)

Obituary Preview: Meredith L. Downes Curtis, 45, of Syracuse, passed away on January 3, 2022 at Upstate Medical Center due to an accident.

Meredith was born October 13, 1976, to Leonard Downes and Rosemary Goodale. She was a graduate of Cortland Jr. Sr. High School, Paul Smith’s College and SUNY ESF.

She was employed at Bristol-Meyers Squibb as a Senior Specialist/Associate Scientist in QC Microbiological Control.

Meredith enjoyed spending time with her son, Wyatt.  She loved animals, enjoyed attending music concerts, movies, shows, researching family history and traveling.

Surviving is her son, Wyatt E. Curtis of Dryden; mother, Rosemary (David) Tabone of Truxton; her father, Leonard Downes (Carol Buffone) of Cortland; and her sister, Danyel Downes Durbin of Cortland, and several nieces, nephews and cousins.

Visitation will be held on Sunday, January 16, 2022 from 2:00 – 4:00 p.m. at the Donald L. Barber Funeral Home, 5016 US Route 11, Homer.

Memorial contributions in Meredith’s memory can be directed to the Adirondack Mountain Club, 814 Goggins Rd., Lake George, NY 12845 to help support responsible outdoor recreation and environmental education.

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Michael D. Homer - May 18, 1957 - December 26, 2021

Departed: 12/26/2021 (Homer)

Obituary Preview: Michael D. Homer, 64, of Daisy Hollow Rd., Dryden passed away on December 26, 2021 due to complications of COVID-19.

He was born May 18, 1957 a son of the late H. Dever and Helena Burchfield Homer.

Mike was employed for many years with Suit-Kote, mainly as a truck driver, retiring in July.

He was a former member of the Odessa Fire Department and installed as a member of the Dryden department, where he served as an ambulance driver.

Mike was an active and faithful member of the Patriot Guard Riders, who’s mission is to attend the funeral services of fallen American heroes as invited guests of the family. To show respect for fallen heroes, their families, and their communities and to shield the mourning family and their friends from interruptions created by any protester or group of protesters. Mike was particularly active with the Wreaths across America campaign, placing wreaths on the graves of veterans at several local cemeteries.

Mike is survived by his sons, Michael (Amber); Scott and Gary (Christine Diana); his brother, Robert (Lynn) Homer of Augusta, GA; a sister, Larie (William) Cifaratta of Cortland; his grandchildren, Katelyn Marie; Kayley Jean-Marie; Mackenzie, Madison, Michael Harrison; Gracie, Myah; Diegon; Gramarian; Majohnica; and Reality; his nieces and nephews, Anne Marie (David) Farris; Nicole Riley and Bobby (Shellby) Riley. Also the children of his travel partner; son Stevie (Shannon) Holcomb; and daughter Jaime (Jason) Strickland. Papa also leaves behind Brett; Cassie; JJ; Randa and Madlyn.

In addition to his parents, Mike was predeceased by his sister, Diane and the love of his life and travel partner, Vicki Hammond on November 21, 2021. Memorial services will be held at 1:00 p.m. on Sunday at the Donald L. Barber Funeral Home, 5016 US Route 11, Homer. The service will be livestreamed at www.facebook.com/donaldlbarberfuneralhome

The family will receive friends and family at the funeral home on Sunday from 11:00 a.m. until the time of the service.

Memorial contributions in Michael’s memory can be directed to the Patriot Guard Riders of New York, PO Box 637, Wappinger Falls, NY 12590.

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James W. MacGregor - March 20, 1950 - December 24, 2021

Departed: 12/24/2021 (Homer)

Obituary Preview: James W. MacGregor, 71, of East River Road, Cortland, passed away from complication of COVID-19 on December 24, 2021.

He was born March 20, 1950 in Watertown, a son of the late James and Agnes Castagnier MacGregor.

In 1968, Jim enlisted in the United States Marine Corp, proudly serving during the Vietnam War. He was honorably discharged in 1978 with the rank of Staff Sergeant. He received numerous awards and citations during his service including the Republic of Vietnam Campaign Medal, Good Conduct Medal, Presidential Unit Citation and the National Defense Service Medal.

He was employed for 25 years as a corrections officer with the New York State Department of Corrections, retiring in 2005. Following his retirement, he worked as a corrections officer at the Cortland County Department of Corrections for three years.

Jim and Sally enjoyed traveling, having completed several cross-country trips. He also enjoyed doing Native American drawings.

Surviving is his wife of 36 years, Sally L. Shoals MacGregor; his children, Crystal VanDee of Cortland; Bonnie Sanford of Cortland and Shelby (Devin) Walker of McGraw; and a grandson, Jordan Kelley.

Services, with Marine Corp honors, will be announced in the spring.

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Roy D. Compton - April 29, 1937 - December 13, 2021

Departed: 12/13/2021 (Homer)

Obituary Preview: Roy D. Compton, 84, of Atwood Rd., Moravia, died on Monday, December 13, 2021 following a period of declining health.

Born April 29, 1937 in Candor, he was the son of the late Burton and Pearl Caple Compton.

Roy was a proud veteran of the US Army, serving during the Korean War from 1954 – 1959.

He continued his service to local veterans as a driver for the Cayuga County Veterans Association, transporting local veterans to countless appointments at the local and Syracuse VA Medical Centers.

Roy was a life member of the Sempronius Fire Department, the Moravia Grange and was active in the Cub Scout Pack #61, New Hope.

Surviving are his children, James Compton of Lisle; Rudi (Stacey) Compton of Killawog; Gerhart Compton of Lisle and Denise Compton of Homer. William (Cynthia) Compton of Dresserville; Charles (Linda) Compton of Fabius; Peter (Sally) Compton of Locke; Kevin (Laura) Compton of Jacksonville, NC; Michael (Renee) Compton and Gordon (Dawn) Compton; both of Preble; brother, Carl Compton of Cardiff; a sister, Leona Thomas of Cardiff; many grandchildren and great- grandchildren, nieces, nephews and cousins.

He was predeceased by his wife of 48 years, Geraldine Compton on April 4, 2021.

Funeral services will be held at 12:00 p.m. on Friday, December 17, 2021 at the Donald Barber Funeral Home, 5016 US Route 11, Homer, with Pastor Tim Mowers officiating.  Interment, with Military Honors, will follow in Atwater Cemetery, Homer, will follow.

The family will receive friends and relatives at the funeral home on Friday from 11:00 a.m. until the time of the service.

Memorial contributions in Mr. Compton’s memory may be directed to the Sempronius Fire Department, 2284 State Rt. 41A, Moravia, NY 13118.

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Michael Hill - August 04, 1952 - November 15, 2021

Departed: 11/15/2021 (Homer)

Obituary Preview: Michael Hill, of Cold Brook Rd., Homer, passed away following an extended illness on November 15, 2021 at the age of 69.

A lifelong area resident, he was born August 4, 1952, a son of the late Irvin Hill and Margaret Bull and was a 1971 graduate of Homer High School.

Mike was employed for 37 years at Brewers/Cooper Tools/Apex Tools, retiring in 2015 as a tool and die maker.

Mike was an avid reader and outdoorsman and a longtime hunter. He loved, and took great pride in gardening and was always ready to lend a hand on his tractor, whether mowing or plowing.

Surviving is his wife of 38 years Debra J. Rawson Hill; his children, Chad Hill (Athena) of Homer and Jessica L. Wright (Scott) of Homer; his seven loving grandchildren, Alexis, Kelcie, Jaime, Derick and Cadence Hill and Joseph and Vito Sonnacchio; and two sisters, Tamara Turner and Cynthia Almonte. He also has several nieces and a nephew and an aunt.

In addition to his parents, he was predeceased by a sister, Jo-Ann Hill and his grandmother, Elva Hill.

Memorial services will be held at 2:00 p.m. on Monday, November 22, 2021 at the Donald L. Barber Funeral Home, 5016 US Route 11, Homer, with Pastor John Aukema officiating.

Calling hours will be held at the funeral home on Monday from 12:00 p.m. until the time of service.

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Richard 'Dickie' Barber - September 09, 1948 - November 13, 2021

Departed: 11/13/2021 (Homer)

Obituary Preview: Richard ‘Dickie’ Barber, 73, of McGraw, passed away unexpectedly on Saturday, November 13, 2021.

A lifelong area resident, he was born in Cortland on September 9, 1948, a son of the late Clarence and Winnifred Barber.

He was a dedicated and hard-working employee of Diescher Farms for many years. He loved his children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren. Dickie was an avid outdoorsman who loved hunting, fishing, and riding his four-wheeler. He loved spending time at his pond drinking a cold a Blue Light with his best friend and side kick dog, Diesel, and his family.

Richard was a man who loved the hermit life and being able to enjoy his passions. He will be forever loved, forever missed and forever in our hearts. Surviving his wife, Lori J. Barber; his ten children, Ric (Lorraine) Barber; Rebecca (Kevin) Bradshaw, Christopher (Arlene) Barber, Benjamin (Michelle) Barber, Sunshine (Nick) Ensign, Tigh (Samantha) Barber, Thomas (Amanda) Barber, Joshua Barber, Kelsey (Zach) Nicholas and Kayla (Darren) Storie. Also surviving is his brother, Scott (Diane) Hamilton; his sister, Joyce (Thomas) Harkins, forty-one grandchildren, four great grandchildren and several nieces and nephews

He was predeceased by a brother, John ‘Jack’ Barber.

Calling hours will be held from 5:00 – 7:00 p.m. on Friday, November 19, 2021 at the Donald L. Barber Funeral Home, 5016 US Route 11, Homer.

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Martin Reid Ostrander - November 09, 1951 - October 26, 2021

Departed: 10/26/2021 (Homer)

Obituary Preview: Martin Reid Ostrander, 69, of Cortland, went to be with the Lord, peacefully at home on October 26th, 2021, surrounded by his wife (Kitten), the love of his life, and family. Marty was born in November 9, 1951 in Newark, New Jersey to Richard and Eleanor Ostrander. He received his high school GED upon entering the U.S. Navy. He honorably served as a Petty Officer 3rd class Jet Mechanic stationed in Virginia Beach, Virginia. He retired from Cortland Savings Bank after more than 20 years of service. Marty especially enjoyed spending time with all of his family, as well as fishing and painting. He was a member of the American Legion, Veterans Administration and NRA. Marty is survived by his wife of 51 years, Cathy Ann (Malison) Ostrander; his children, Samantha (Melvin) Pender and Martin Richard (Amanda) Ostrander; grandchildren, Elizabeth (Zebulon) Ailstock, Stephany, Jasmine, Noah, Matthew, Maelle, Emmeline, and Aurora and his great grandchildren, Savannah, Preston, Anya. Marty is predeceased by his parents and siblings, Richard, Debra, and Robin.

Memorial services will be held at 11:00 a.m. on Tuesday, November 2, 2021 at the Donald L. Barber Funeral Home, 5016 US Route 11, Homer, NY. Interment, with Military Honors, will follow in Glenwood Cemetery, Homer. You can stream the service by visiting www.DonaldLBarberFuneralHome.com and clicking on Martin’s obituary and then click on the Live  Stream Tab.

Calling hours will be held on Monday from 10:00 a.m. – 12:00 p.m. at the funeral home.

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A Facility Designed for Comfort

The funeral home's facility, located at 5016 US Route 11, Homer, NY 13077, is designed to provide a warm and welcoming atmosphere for families and friends to gather and celebrate the life of their loved one. The spacious chapel, elegant reception areas, and serene outdoor spaces create a sense of peace and tranquility, allowing families to focus on what truly matters – honoring their loved one.

Personalized Funeral Services

At Donald L. Barber Funeral Home, every family is treated with the utmost care and respect. The experienced staff takes the time to understand each family's unique needs and preferences, working closely with them to create a personalized funeral service that reflects the personality and spirit of their loved one. From traditional funerals to cremation services, memorial gatherings, and celebrations of life, the funeral home offers a wide range of options to suit every family's needs.

Compassionate Staff

The team at Donald L. Barber Funeral Home is comprised of dedicated professionals who are passionate about providing exceptional care and support to families. Led by licensed funeral directors, the staff is trained to handle every aspect of funeral planning with sensitivity, discretion, and attention to detail. They understand that every family is unique and that each person deserves to be remembered in a way that honors their life and legacy.

Community Involvement

Donald L. Barber Funeral Home is deeply rooted in the Homer community and is committed to giving back through various initiatives and partnerships. The funeral home participates in local events, supports charitable organizations, and provides educational resources to help families navigate end-of-life care. By fostering strong relationships with local businesses, healthcare providers, and community groups, the funeral home remains a vital part of the fabric of Homer.

Grief Support and Resources

Losing a loved one can be an overwhelming experience, but it doesn't have to be faced alone. Donald L. Barber Funeral Home offers a range of grief support services and resources to help families cope with their loss. From bereavement counseling to support groups, online resources, and memorialization options, the funeral home provides ongoing support to ensure that families receive the care they need during this difficult time.

A Commitment to Excellence

Donald L. Barber Funeral Home is committed to maintaining the highest standards of excellence in everything they do. From the moment a family walks through their doors, they are treated with kindness, compassion, and respect. The funeral home's dedication to excellence is reflected in every aspect of their service, from the meticulous attention to detail in funeral planning to the thoughtful gestures that make all the difference in a family's time of need.

In conclusion, Donald L. Barber Funeral Home is more than just a funeral home – it's a trusted partner in times of sorrow, a comforting presence in times of need, and a beacon of hope for those who are grieving. If you're facing the loss of a loved one or simply want to learn more about their services, reach out to Donald L. Barber Funeral Home today.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including biographical information, accomplishments, and details about their life. It's often published in newspapers, online obituary websites, or funeral home websites to share the news with family, friends, and community.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to honor and celebrate the life of the deceased, while also providing important information to those who knew them. They help to notify others of the passing, share funeral or memorial service details, and offer a chance for loved ones to pay tribute and express condolences.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, a family member, close friend, or funeral home staff member writes the obituary. In some cases, a professional obituary writer may be hired to craft the notice. The writer should have personal knowledge of the deceased and be able to provide accurate and meaningful information.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the deceased's full name, age, date of birth and death, city of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also include funeral or memorial service details, charity information for donations, and a photo.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or website. Generally, it should be concise yet informative, ranging from 100 to 500 words. Longer obituaries may be more suitable for online publications or memorial websites.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and websites allow you to include one or multiple photos with the obituary. This can be a great way to personalize the notice and make it more engaging. Check with the publication or website for their specific photo submission guidelines.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Contact the newspaper's obituary department directly to inquire about their submission process. They may have specific requirements for content, format, and deadlines. Be prepared to provide the written obituary text and any accompanying photos.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary ahead of time. This can be a therapeutic exercise in reflecting on your life and accomplishments. Keep in mind that your family may still need to review and finalize the notice after your passing.

What is a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of someone's passing, usually including only basic information such as name, age, date of death, and funeral service details. It's often used when a full obituary is not desired or cannot be written in time for publication.

What is the difference between an obituary and a eulogy?

An obituary is a written notice announcing the death of someone, while a eulogy is a speech or written tribute delivered at a funeral or memorial service. A eulogy is typically more personal and emotional, sharing stories and anecdotes about the deceased.

Can I publish an obituary online?

Yes! Online obituary platforms and funeral home websites often allow you to publish an obituary digitally. This can reach a wider audience and provide a permanent record of the deceased's life.

How long do online obituaries stay published?

The duration of online obituaries varies depending on the platform or website. Some may remain available indefinitely, while others may be archived after a certain period. Check with the publication or website for their specific policies.

Can I edit an obituary after it's been published?

In most cases, it's difficult to make changes to an obituary once it's been published in print. However, online obituaries may be editable depending on the platform or website. Contact the publication or website directly to inquire about their editing policies.

What if I find an error in an already-published obituary?

If you discover an error in an already-published obituary, contact the publication or website immediately. They may be able to correct the mistake in subsequent printings or online versions.

Can I include charitable donations information in an obituary?

Yes! Many families choose to include information about charitable donations in lieu of flowers in the obituary. This allows friends and loved ones to make contributions in memory of the deceased.

How do I handle condolences and guest books online?

Many online obituary platforms offer condolence books or guest books where friends and family can leave messages and share memories. These can be a comforting way for loved ones to express their sympathies and connect with each other.

Are there any specific formatting guidelines for writing an obituary?