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Located at 182 Waldo Avenue, Belfast, ME, 04915, Direct Cremation of Maine is a trusted and compassionate funeral home that provides personalized cremation services to families in need. With a focus on simplicity, affordability, and dignity, Direct Cremation of Maine has established itself as a leading provider of cremation services in the region.

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Direct Cremation of Maine was founded on the principles of providing families with a dignified and affordable way to say goodbye to their loved ones. The funeral home's experienced team has years of combined experience in the funeral industry and is dedicated to helping families navigate the cremation process with ease and compassion.

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Address: 182 Waldo Avenue , Belfast, ME, 04915
Phone Number: (207) 338-1433
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Pedro "Pete" Noa - May 04, 1933 - December 13, 2019

Departed: 12/13/2019 (Belfast)
Obituary Preview: Pedro “Pete” Antonio Noa, 86, of Camden, went to be with his Savior on Dec. 13, 2019. He died at Quarry Hill in the arms of his loving wife, Eileen Del Monte. A gregarious, charming man, Pete was a wonderful storyteller and loved to laugh. He was honest, compassionate, and made every room he walked into a little brighter. He touched many lives, and we were lucky to have known him.
Pete and Eileen met in 1998, married in 2002 and lived in Maine, where they designed and helped build their beautiful home in Jefferson. Together they shared a life of music, gardening, camping, photography and especially traveling. They visited Italy, China, Greece, South Africa, France, Russia, and Spain. They also took a four-month tour of the US in their motor home, nicknamed “Joy.” They were members of St. Denis Church in North Whitefield for 20 years.
Pete was born in San Juan, Puerto Rico, on May 4, 1933, and moved with his family to New York City when he was 7 years old. He joined the Air Force in 1952 and served as a Radio Operator until his discharge in 1956. As a senior at City College of New York, he met his first wife, Florence Dach, whom he married in 1961. They raised three daughters while Pete built a successful career as a Graphic Designer and Art Director, working for major publishing houses such as Random House and McGraw Hill. Florence died in 1989.
Pete was also preceded in death by his parents, Pedro R. Noa and Ana (Escudero) Noa; sisters, Ani Remón and Rose Martin; and son-in-law, Mark Butler.
He is survived by his brother, Francisco Noa; daughters, Lisa (Bobby) Neithardt, Jenny Noa Butler, and Elena (Phil) Hilf; grandchildren, Conor and James Neithardt, and Madeline and Henry Hilf; and nieces and nephews.
There will be a funeral mass at St. Denis Church at 11 a.m. on Saturday, Jan. 4, 2020.
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Jimmy Francis Hughes - December 31, 1941 - December 12, 2019

Departed: 12/12/2019 (Belfast)
Obituary Preview: Jimmy Francis Hughes, 77, of New Harbor, passed away at the Sussman Hospice Home in Rockport on the evening of Dec. 12, 2019, with his wife Patty at his side. He was born in Fullerton, Calif. on Dec. 31, 1941 to Valden Valentine Hughes and Geraldine Elizabeth (Riley) Hughes.
Jim and Patty were married at the Pemaquid Point Lighthouse by Rev. Bobby Ives after being apart for 40 years. They were high school sweethearts and engaged to be married, but broke up before marrying. After 40 years they were reunited and married, and said that 40 years seemed like yesterday.
Jim is predeceased by his parents; and his daughter, Dawn. He is survived by his wife of 17 years, Patty; daughters, Deanna and Dayna; and son, Scott; grandchildren, Alexandra and Frelen; also by stepson, Rick; and stepdaughter, Terry.
Jim worked out of New Harbor as a sternman on the F/V Potato and for many years on the F/V Iris L., and he owned the Bratty Patty for several years. He served in the U.S. Navy on the U.S.S. Everett F. Larson, DDS from 1959 to 1963 and was always happiest at sea or on the water, fishing. After retiring from fishing his happy place was in his barn by the warm fire with his fishing buddies and friends having a great time telling “fish lies.”
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Marie Delia Gervais - June 06, 1926 - December 01, 2019

Departed: 12/01/2019 (Belfast)
Obituary Preview: Marie Delia Gervais, 93, of Waldoboro, passed away Sunday, Dec. 1, 2019 at her residence.
She was born Sunday, June 6, 1926 in Rumford, the daughter of the late Emile and the late Josephine (Peters) Blier. Known to many as Delia, she met and married Alcide Gervais on April 29, 1950. Later Delia received her GED in 1969.
She was a welder for Pratt and Whitney in East Hartford, Conn. for 20 years before retiring to Waldoboro. Delia became a member of the Word of Life Church there, where she devoted her time and energy to the church family with behind the scene efforts for suppers, concerts, and was the ultimate hostess. Some of her other interests included gardening, sewing, photography, and encouraging others.
She is predeceased by her husband; parents; sons, Steven and Daniel; sister, Noella Bolduc; and brother, Gerard Blier.
Survivors include her daughter, Janet Gervais of Waldoboro; brothers, Edmund, Edward, Emile and Ernest; and many nieces and nephews.
A memorial service will be held at the Waldoboro Word of Life Church at 2 p.m. January 11th, 2020. Graveside burial will be at Rose Hill Cemetery in Rocky Hill, Conn.
Those who wish may make memorial contributions in her memory to the Word of Life Church, 41 Old Route 1, Waldoboro, ME 04572.
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Paul M. Willey - March 14, 1950 - November 24, 2019

Departed: 11/24/2019 (Belfast)
Obituary Preview: Paul M. Willey, 69, of Bristol, passed away on Nov. 24, 2019 at the Sussman House in Rockport with his family by his side, following a long battle with cancer.
Born in Damariscotta on March 14, 1950, he was the son of Elmer and Harriet (Erskine) Willey. He attended Bristol School and graduated from Lincoln Academy in 1968.
In his younger years he ran track and played basketball. He was an avid hunter and loved fishing.
He started working on oil tankers as a deckhand and chef. Later he moved to Rye, N.H. with his family and worked as a commercial fisherman for many years.
He enjoyed coaching sports for his boys and was a Boy Scout leader.
In 1988 he moved back to Bristol with his family and enjoyed living there.
He was predeceased by his parents, Elmer and Harriet Willey.
He is survived by his wife of 50 years, Ginny (McFarland) Willey; their two sons, Brian P. Willey and Brent A. Willey, both of Bristol; sister, Cyndy and husband Frank Quintus of Brunswick, Ohio; brothers-in-law, Michael McFarland of Gardner, Mass., and Tony McFarland of Destin, Fla.; sisters-in-law, Lisa Farrin of Skowhegan, Lori Storozynsky and husband Mark of Ashby, Mass., Cheryl Wheeler and husband Lyle of Sangerville, and Polly Busick and husband Shane of Murray, Iowa; three grandchildren, Nathan and Nicholas Willey of Oldham County, Ky., and Sidney S. Willey of Damariscotta; and many nieces and nephews.
A memorial service will be held at a later date.
Donations in his memory may be made to the Sussman House Kitchen in Rockport.
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Jane Ayer Ingalls - November 10, 1924 - November 23, 2019

Departed: 11/23/2019 (Belfast)
Obituary Preview: Jane Ayer Ingalls, of Freeport and Port Clyde, Maine passed peacefully from this world at the Sussman House in Rockport, Maine on November 23, 2019 after spending the last week of her life at her home in Port Clyde with her children.
Born in Lawrence, Massachusetts on November 10, 1924, she was the daughter of Wesley and Carrie Ayer (Shippee) and grew up in Ayers Village, Massachusetts where her father owned a grocery store. She was a graduate of Haverhill High School (1942) and attended Mary Washington College in Virginia and the Kathleen Dell School in Brookline, Massachusetts. Following a career with American Airlines as a flight attendant (1945–49) - where her most memorable passenger was Babe Ruth - she married Edward Allan Ingalls Jr. on April 17, 1949 and devoted the rest of her life to home, family, and community volunteering. Her volunteer work included fostering women and infants through the New Hampshire Children’s Aid and Family Service Agency. She also was a member of the Timberlane Regional High School Board during the planning and construction of that school. She and Edward raised their family in Plaistow, New Hampshire.
When they moved to Exeter, New Hampshire in 1983, they divided their time between Exeter and their summer home in Port Clyde, to which they moved permanently in 2003. Jane loved to share Port Clyde with everyone; especially hosting friends and family on her porch looking out to the harbor.
Jane was a longtime member of the Port Clyde Baptist Church where she chaired the Missions Committee. She was a voracious reader and a lifelong learner. Her special interests were fine art, music, writing poetry, genealogy, crossword puzzles and she loved her cat. She had a brilliant mind and a passionate soul. Above all, she loved being with her family, especially her grandchildren and great-grandchildren.
Her favorite quotation was “The praises of men make me no better; their criticisms make me no worse, what I am in the eyes of God I am that and nothing more.” Thomas a Kempis: The Imitation of Christ.
She was predeceased by her husband Edward A. Ingalls, Jr. and her brother Charles William Ayer. She leaves her three children: Weslie Ann Mackenzie and her husband Dr. Malcolm W. Mackenzie of Nelson New Hampshire, Catherine Peabody Ingalls and her spouse, Sabra Burdick of Freeport Maine, and her son Edward A. Ingalls III, of Portland Maine, six beloved grandchildren and six great-grandchildren. She also leaves Kendall Pritchard of Wellesley, Massachusetts who has been like a son to her.
Interment will be in the Union Cemetery in Amesbury, Massachusetts. A celebration of her life will be held at her home in Port Clyde in the summer.
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Donald Graham Hale - October 21, 1929 - November 21, 2019

Departed: 11/21/2019 (Belfast)
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Donald Graham Hale, 90, passed away November 21, 2019, surrounded by his family at his home in Boothbay Harbor. Born on October 21, 1929 in Millinocket, Don was the son of the late, Howard and Iza Cramp Hale.
He graduated from Portland High School and Gorham State Teachers College where he earned a Bachelor of Science in Industrial Arts and his teaching credentials. There, he met Frances Hawkes, and they were married on the evening of the day they graduated from college in June 1952. Don was immediately drafted into the Ordnance Corps of the Army and sent to Alaska. After his service, they traveled the Alcan Highway in a pick-up truck on their way back to Maine for discharge. Two years later, they again went west for graduate school and received their Master of Arts degrees from Colorado State College. As the first husband and wife team to receive M.A.s together, the college newspaper featured a photo and story about them with their three-year-old daughter.
When Don was then offered a teaching position at Weston High School, the Hales moved to Massachusetts. He served ten years as an industrial arts teacher and the Assistant Principal. They returned to Maine once again when Don was selected as the principal of Deering High School in Portland. The family lived on Amethyst Hill Farm in Cumberland which was aptly named after Deering High school colors. He remained at DHS from 1967 to 1981 when he retired from public education. The Hales then moved to Boothbay Harbor, and Don worked for Reed and Reed construction.
Don and Fran loved living on the Atlantic Ocean where they spent a great deal of time on their many boats including the Ali Molly and Ali Molly II. He enjoyed sailing and being the captain of his houseboats as they motored up the coast. Don built their cottage on Sebago Lake which was a favorite place for family and friends to gather for many summer outings. Don was an extremely talented carpenter and could often be found in his workshop puttering on his latest project. He had a unique gift for being able to create the new kitchen or garage remodel from the plans that Fran designed. He loved to drive his truck and made numerous trips across the country to visit his daughter and granddaughter in California or to spend time with friends. Don upgraded his Ram at least once a year as he laughingly claimed that “it needed an oil change.”
His children and grandchildren were his greatest joy, and he always put their needs above his own. He loved to attend the grandchildren’s soccer games, tennis matches, and swim meets and could often be found watching Greely High School softball games which were coached by his son. He thoroughly enjoyed his weekly bridge games with friends, breakfasts at the Market Place Café, and playing golf with his buddies from Boothbay.
Don will be remembered as a man of few words who had a kind heart, quick wit, wry smile, and an ability to solve any problem. He was fiercely independent and had a life-long habit of improving the life of those around him.
Don was predeceased by his wife of 59 years, Fran, his parents, and two brothers.
He will be deeply missed by his daughter, Sonia Hale-Waterman; son, Robert Hale, and his wife, Joyce; and his cherished grandchildren, Alexandra Hale-Waterman, and Molly, Keegan and Bradyn Hale, all of Cumberland. He is also survived by his brother, Wayne Hale, of Portland; brother-in-law, Robert Hawkes of Boxford, Massachusetts; and many nieces, nephews, and sisters-in-law.
The family would like to express their deepest thanks and gratitude to his friends who so enriched his life and extend a very special thank you to Frank and Linda who were always there for him and his kids in so many ways.
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Karl Buck Kehler - February 01, 1943 - November 19, 2019

Departed: 11/19/2019 (Belfast)
Obituary Preview: Karl Buck Kehler, 76, of Rockport, Maine, died on November 19, 2019 at the Sussman House hospice. Karl was born in Manchester, Connecticut, to Karl J. and Margaret E. (Buck) Kehler on February 1, 1943. He graduated as salutatorian from Manchester High School in 1961.
Karl earned BS and MS degrees from MIT in Electrical Engineering. He was also a Certified Management Accountant. He had a long career in corporate finance at Texas Instruments and Alliance Data Systems in Dallas, Texas. He and his wife Marlene retired in 2005 to Rockport, Maine.
In retirement Karl used his financial skills as treasurer of the Rockport Golf Club, First Universalist Church in Rockland and the WindowDressers, a non-profit volunteer organization that builds insulating window inserts to improve the warmth and comfort of homes.
Karl loved outdoor sports and activities. He was a life-long skier, an avid sailor, kayaker, golfer, as well as an amateur astronomer. He was a natural at coaching and teaching. The consummate engineer, Karl enjoyed knowing how everything worked. He could repair just about anything. A devoted husband, father, and grandfather, family was of the utmost importance to him.
He is survived by his wife of 53 years, Marlene (Forde) Kehler, a daughter Anne Marie Carlisle (William Carlisle) of Denver, Colorado, a son Dr. K. Bradley Kehler (Dr. Lori Ann Kehler) of Nashville, Tennessee, four treasured grandchildren Garren and Molly Carlisle, Vincent and Charlotte Kehler, sisters Joel Jackson (Glenn) and Lisa Bubar (James), brother-in-law Bruce Forde (Donna) and several nieces, nephews, grandnieces and grandnephews, and a beloved cousin Connie Kehler of Dallas, Texas.
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Joseph Frank Bradley, Sr. - June 14, 1951 - November 11, 2019

Departed: 11/11/2019 (Belfast)
Obituary Preview: Joseph Frank Bradley Sr. 68, of Columbia passed away at home surrounded by family in the early morning hours of November 11, 2019, after a brief illness. He was born June 14, 1951 in Columbia, ME to Joseph Bernard Bradley and Leslie Smith Gray.
Joe is survived by his son Joseph Bradley Jr and wife Jamie of Columbia Falls; his longtime partner Charlotte Leighton of Columbia. Joe is also survived by three sisters, Frances and husband Stewart Stanwood, Nancy and husband Russell Smith, Mary Beth and partner Randy all of Columbia, one brother Cecil Gray Jr. of Columbia Falls, two very special grandchildren Jasmine (Boo-Boo) and Jourdan, several nieces, nephews, cousins, and many friends.
He is predeceased by his father Joseph Bernard Bradley, mother Leslie Smith Gray and father Cecil Gray Sr., one brother Thomas Bradley.
Joe enjoyed playing cribbage, poker, fishing and hunting going for rides on the barrens. He worked for Seawards Construction, on the blueberry barrens, and cutting wood for many years.
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James A. Green - May 23, 1949 - November 10, 2019

Departed: 11/10/2019 (Belfast)
Obituary Preview: departed peacefully on his next adventure and new life after a long period of declining health on Sunday, November 10, 2019 at the Sussman House in Rockport. Jim was the only child of Alexander ‘Scotty’ and Mary ‘May’ Curry (Gibson) Green born on May 23, 1949 in Glasgow, Scotland where he attended local schools and becoming a machinist.
In 1967 Jim and his parents immigrated to New York where he eventually began working in commercial construction, later becoming a supervisor for independent third party inspection and testing companies providing services at most nuclear power plants east of the Mississippi. He resided for periods of time in New York, Texas, Indiana and finally settled in Maine in 1987. In 1986 he met Deborah Lynn Cunningham whom he married in 1989 making their home in Tenant’s Harbor where they raised his youngest child, Alexander with summer visits from his two beautiful daughters, Patricia and Amanda. Jim finally left his traveling jobs and spent the rest of his working years in the boat industry for his father-in-law, Bruce at Padebco Yachts in Round Pond, brother-in-law, Paul at CWC Boat Transport in Bristol and lastly at Jeff’s Marine in Thomaston before retiring due to health.
Jim was a quiet man of few words until you got to know him. He greatly loved his family and was fiercely proud of his children and grandchildren and their accomplishments and his ‘gene pool’ became scattered all over the country, ocean to ocean and in between. Although not very handy with a hammer and piece of wood, he would happily offer a hand and moral support for Deb with projects around the house and yard, preferring instead the mechanical chores and challenges of any household. He loved riding his Harley Davidsons over the years, attending Highland Games in Maine, New Hampshire, and Nova Scotia, and listening to the pipe bands play and compete. He was an avid reader and collector of Stephen King and spoiled his dogs, Claire and Bear, beyond belief.
Jim was predeceased by his parents as well as Special Aunts, Sadie McInally and Margaret Laidlaw and Cousin Margaret Angell (whom he thought of as a sister) all three of Scotland, several other cousins and his Westie, Frisky.
He is survived by his wife, Deborah; daughter, Patricia Green Gano of Phenix City, AL, her son, Quinn Alexander Montes, wife Kelly (Everett and Baby Montes due December 2019) of Portland, OR; her daughter, Alex Dakota Gano and fiancé Dylan Holmes, (Baby Girl Holmes due May 2020) of Smith Station, AL; daughter, Amanda Jane Cox, husband Jeremy, (London Zeppelin and Jameson Alexandra – named after her Paw Paw Jim) of Dalton, GA; son, Alexander Kerr Green and fiancé Duana ‘Dee’ Powell, (James Logan and Bowie Curry-Lynn) of Anaheim, CA; stepdaughter, Amy Leann Smith, her sons: Cody Alan Chapius (Kinsley Reese and Jaycee Renee) all of Millington, TN; Tyler Joseph Petty, Atoka, TN; Logan Robert Petty (Aiden Joseph and Aaron Michael) of Shalimar, FL; Dylan Wade Pullam of Southhaven, MS. He is also survived by mother-in-law Loa Lee Blake, Tenants Harbor, ME; father-in-law, S. Bruce Cunningham and wife Patricia; brother and sister-in-law Paul and Shari Cunningham, all of Round Pond, ME; nephews Christopher Cunningham and wife Payson, of Boynton Beach, FL and William Cunningham and significant other Shebly Faux of Nobleboro, ME; special cousins Jean Moran (also like a sister) and her daughter Gillian Moran and fiancé Steven Taylor, Sharon Angell and husband Ewan Hamilton (Paige and Reece) of East Kilbride, Scotland, Stephen Angell (Kayley and James) of Glasgow, Scotland and many other cousins and relatives in Scotland and England.
Jim’s wishes are for no funeral or visiting hours, requesting instead, a graveside service with a bagpiper when his ashes are committed. The family will be remembering and celebrating his life on his birthday in the Spring. A notice will be published with the details closer to that time.
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Mildred F. Sabatine - January 07, 1936 - November 07, 2019

Departed: 11/07/2019 (Belfast)
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It is with great sadness the family of Mildred Sabatine announces her passing at the age of 83 on November 7, after a courageous battle with cancer. Mildred was born in Hatboro Pennsylvania to Lydia and Fritz Schuh. She attended Kutztown University where she graduated with a degree in Elementary Education. While at Kutztown she met Onofrio (Nerf) Sabatine, the love with her life. They married on August 24, 1957. Millie and Nerf built their first home on Old Sleepy Hollow Road in Pocantico Hill, New York where they raised their three children Lisa, Paul, and Nicholas. While in New York their organic farm included produce, livestock, and Millie’s first attempts at cheese making. Their success as farmers awarded them billing on the cover page of the fall 1970 issue of Organic Gardening Magazine. In 1976 Millie and her family relocated to their 90 acre farm in Whitefield, Maine. There she perfected the craft of mozzarella, provolone, and parmesan cheese making from milk produced on the farm. Over the next 15 years Millie’s cheese was marketed at the Damariscotta Farmer’s Market, Yellow Front Grocery Store, and Rising Tide Whole Foods, in addition to drop in customers at the farm. During her cheese making career Millie was interviewed and highlighted in the local press, and was once the subject of Cliff Reynolds’s People Places and Things. Millie and Nerf were pioneers in the “farm to table” life style. Throughout her life Millie was known for her love of swimming, her competitive spirit, her flower gardens, love of show tunes, Monday trips to Renys and the Gardiner Library, and her love of family gatherings. Millie is survived by her husband of 62 years, her children Lisa and Nicholas Sabatine, daughter-in-law Donna Sabatine, five grandchildren, Kelsea, Kate, and Kaleb Bridgham, and Sam and Henry Sabatine. She is predeceased by her son Paul on December 1, 2016.
There will be a celebration of Millie’s life on November 24, 2019 from 2:00-4:00pm at the Sheepscot General Store and Farm at 98 Town House Road in Whitefield, Maine.
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Donald A. DeFosses - March 30, 1941 - November 06, 2019

Departed: 11/06/2019 (Belfast)
Obituary Preview: Donald Albert DeFosses March 30, 1941 – November 6, 2019 Donald Albert DeFosses age 78 passed away peacefully on November 6th, 2019 at Northern Light, East Maine Medical Center. Donald was born on March 30, 1941 in New London, Conn., grew up in Old Mystic, CT and graduated from Stonington High School. His parents were Everett W. and May S. (Haberek) DeFosses. Don is predeceased by his brother William, and survived by his former wife Audrey Bischoff and their four children; David, Deborah, Michelle Wheeler and Amy Walker, along with his brother Robert and his wife Bette. He also leaves behind ten grandchildren, one great-grandchild, and faithful canine companions through the years; including Buck, Otto, and Remington. During his life he worked as an engineer and architect. He had a business of his own, designing and installing heating and air conditioning called Advanced Heating and Cooling. He retired from Electric Boat in Groton, CT where he worked as an engineer. Don designed and built a passive solar bermed home imbedded into a hillside in Pawcatuck, CT that included a heat pump and air floors for heat that was years ahead of its time, and still stands as a masterpiece today. In his spare time he loved to build and fly RC planes and restore cars (Porsche 356). Don’s childhood love of the ocean stayed with him his entire life, and in 2009 he moved to a quiet, peaceful, small coastal town in Maine. Respecting his wishes there will be no services.
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Gary James Day - August 13, 1937 - November 05, 2019

Departed: 11/05/2019 (Belfast)
Obituary Preview: Gary James Day of Belgrade Lakes passed away peacefully at home on November 5th with his loving wife and family by his side. Born August 13th, 1937 to James and Mae (Hopkins) Day in New Sharon. Graduated from New Sharon High School (Class of 1955) and enlisted in the Navy for 3 years. Married his “lovest” Joyce in 1957. Opened Day’s Store in Belgrade Lakes with his parents, Jim and Mae in 1958. Shortly after he started Day Fur Company along with his father Jim and brother Darryl which ran until the early 1980’s.
Gary loved hunting, fishing and especially trapping. He was a lifetime member of the Maine Trapper’s Association, National Trapper’s Association, the NRA and a registered Maine Guide. In 1996 he passed down the store to his daughter and son in law. He then took a part time job with North Maine Woods, taking care of primitive camp sites and living at his dream home up at T1-R4, Beaver Brook Fill on Seboomook Lake.
Gary was very hard working and instilled his work ethic in all of us. He was best known for his quick witted sense of humor and innovative ways to turn anything for a dollar. But he always made sure to put his family first. He was his grandchildren’s #1 fan whether they be on the court, on the stage, on the field, on the slopes or out in the woods.
He is survived by his soulmate of 62 years, Joyce Brann Day, their daughters, Diane Oliver (husband Kerry), Janelle Sylvester and son Mark Day (wife Lisa), 9 Grandchildren: Megan Oliver, Nicole Hinkel, Rita Daniels, Melissa Furbush, Brandon Sylvester, Rebecca Day, Holly Oliver, Wesley Day and Celine Day, his brother and best friend Darryl Day (wife Linda), nephew Jack (wife Stephanie and children) and niece Brenda and 7 great grandchildren.
The family would like to extend a special thank you to Sue at Maine General Palliative Care and especially to Erika and Jessica of Maine General Hospice for their gentle and loving care.
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Ernest J. Plourde - January 07, 1943 - November 05, 2019

Departed: 11/05/2019 (Belfast)
Obituary Preview: Ernest J. Plourde Jr., 76 of Eagle Lake, passed away November 5, 2019. Ernest was born on January 7, 1943 in Eagle Lake to the late Ernest Plourde and Laura (Madore) Plourde.
He was a foreman at Pinkham Lumber Mill for 23 years and worked as a Road Commissioner in Woodland. Ernest enjoyed hunting, ski-doing, and brook fishing. He was a devoted husband and family man and will be dearly missed by many.
Ernest was predeceased by his parents; his daughter Susan Ceccehitele; his brothers Edford, Eddie, Camille, Guilford (Pete), Roland and Leo; his sisters, Laura Ann and Phoebe-Annette and his grandchildren, Jarred Michael and Stephan Frank. Surviving are his loving wife of 57 years, Judy Plourde; his children Vaughn Plourde and his wife Linda and Allen Plourde; his grandchildren Nicole, Savannah and Megan; his siblings Alfred Plourde, Eva Post, Edna Saucier and Alice Martin and many nieces and nephews.
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Jim D. Hinman - September 20, 1943 - November 03, 2019

Departed: 11/03/2019 (Belfast)
Obituary Preview: Following a long illness, Jim D. Hinman of Portland, Maine passed away on November 3rd. Jim was born in Sarasota, Florida on September 20, 1943, but soon moved to Falmouth, Maine with his parents in his youth. He attended local schools, including Falmouth High School, as well as Proctor Academy. While spending most of his life in various capacities at Blue Rock Industries, he also taught skiing at Sugarloaf, Pleasant Mountain, Wildcat and Aspen. While skiing for the United States Demonstration Ski Team, Jim was one of the first Americans to ski on the other side of the Iron Curtain in the early 1970s. Later in his active life, Wyoming, and Jackson Hole and the Snake River in particular, found a special place in Jim’s heart. His home in Wilson, Wyoming was his constant source of joy, and became an environment where Jim could share his love of the mountains with the people he loved. He also lived to motorcycle, fish, golf, landscape, spend time boating on Casco Bay, and strike up conversations with anyone, anywhere.Jim is survived by his two sons, Jay D. Hinman and Stephen P. Hinman, as well as his granddaughters, Avalon and Pepper.
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Thomas E. Carr - April 24, 1937 - November 03, 2019

Departed: 11/03/2019 (Belfast)
Obituary Preview: Thomas Carr, 82, passed away November 3, 2019, at his home in Damariscotta after a brief illness. He was born in Morristown, NJ on April 24, 1937 to Edward B. and Margaret (Garrison) Carr. Thomas enjoyed his time working for the Morris County New Jersey School System as a custodian, making the schools safer, happier places for the children who attended them. Thomas was predeceased by his parents, and is survived by his brother, David and wife Lois Carr.
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Judith Adler - March 23, 1963 - November 01, 2019

Departed: 11/01/2019 (Belfast)
Obituary Preview: Judith Lee Adler, age 56, passed away peacefully November 1, 2019, after a yearlong battle with cancer. She was born March 23, 1963, to Robert Lee O’Connell, Sr. and Sylvia Annette Marie (St. Cyr) O’Connell at Fort Eustis in Newport News, Virginia. She was married to Timothy Lee Adler for 31 years and they live in New Sweden with their daughter Emily Lee Adler, whom she loved and of whom she was always so proud.
Judy loved helping people and was rarely ever sitting still, she always had an eye for a kind moment or to be there when someone needed something, be it a helping hand, a bit of her often quirky sense of humor to lighten the mood, a gentle nudge to get someone going in the right direction, but especially baking treats to celebrate others. She was not without faults however. She was Intelligent to a fault, generous to a fault, competitive to a fault, and pragmatic to a fault. Her no nonsense look at life kept her life grounded and helped her always see the best way forward for herself and others. She loved these things more than anything else other than perhaps walking at Pine Point Beach on a sunny summer day.
For many years she touched the lives of co-workers and customers alike. She worked as a supervisor at AMHC, at Pine Health Services as a medical assistant, and as an office manager for Dr. Michaud in Caribou. She worked weekends at Eureka restaurant in Stockholm where she loved the food, the atmosphere and the live music.
Judy is survived by her husband Timothy Lee Adler and daughter Emily Lee Adler of New Sweden, her mother, Sylvia O’Connell, her sister and husband Janet and Daniel Pierce and their children Sam and Madison, her sister Elizabeth O’Connell, sister and wife, Mary O’Connell and Mary Ann Mancini, her sister and husband Jackie and Scott Sawtelle and their son Ben, and brother Robert and Christina O’Connell and their son Declan.
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Kenneth W. Faulter - May 08, 1958 - November 01, 2019

Departed: 11/01/2019 (Belfast)
Obituary Preview: Kenneth Warren “Chip” Faulter, 61, of Fiddlers Reach, Phippsburg, Maine, passed away on Friday, November 1, 2019 after a heroic battle with pancreatic cancer and subsequent diagnosis of ALS.
He was born on May 8, 1958 in Syracuse, New York.
Chip graduated from Paul V. Moore High School in Central Square, NY, Class of 1976 and after his first college year at Clarkson University transferred to Webb Institute of Naval Architecture. He graduated Class of 1981 with a dual BS Degree in Naval Architecture and Marine Engineering.
Before graduating, he accepted a job that same month at Bath Iron Works in Bath ME and moved there immediately. He spent his entire 34-year career at Bath Iron Works. He was hired as a Senior Mechanical Engineer in July 1981 and held various middle management positions and worked on several ship programs engineering and design efforts , FFG, CG, DDG, LPD, LCS, DDX. He was chosen to be a part of a management group to help win a new contract for the shipyard teaming with 3 other companies and moving to New Orleans to work on a proposal for the Navy’s new Landing Platform Dock (LPD), thus becoming the Manager of LPD17 Engineering/Design once the contract winner was announced. He later was promoted to Director of Design being responsible for cost, schedule and technical adequacy for all new construction design work for all programs. Along the way he had various off-site tours spending time in NY City on design of the Arleigh Burke Destroyers and at Electric Boat in CT, working LCS in Mobile AL, worked a project in Halifax, Nova Scotia and a short stint in Adelaide Australia. His love of ships led him to a rewarding career at BIW. He was a true believer that “Bath Built is Best Built.” Chip had several passions, and at the top of his list was his family and spending time with all of them. He was steadfastly proud of all his sons’ achievements all along the way, whether it was Benjamin attending and graduating from the United States Merchant Marine Academy or traveling with Michael to all of his baseball pursuits right through college. Time spent with them was always quality time, especially here in Maine where the whole family gathers every year for a reunion to enjoy our little spot of paradise in Phippsburg. He worked lovingly on the gardens and lawn for us all to enjoy. His other family was the Model Railroading community, whether locally, statewide, or nationally. This “tribe” was one of his lifelines as we battled cancer for the last year and half. These people brought him through many a dark day when he was feeling weak and down. His passing has left a deep void in their hearts as well and in the hobby; one he had been enthralled with since the age of 9. Model Railroading was so much a part of his life, and Chip and Mona met many wonderful people with many treasured friendships attributed to this community. We thank you all for the support we have been given throughout this journey. His railroad, The KWF Line will continue to operate led by his son, Benjamin and the spirit of model railroading is already instilled in grandson, Nolan who asks at every visit to go see “Poppa’s trains”!
On June 27, 1992, Chip married Mona Tibbetts and the adventures began, sailing, traveling to his son’s sports and band events, Model Railroad Conventions and the latest trips to Italy and a railroad convention trip to Utah and visiting his best friend, Tom & wife, Janet in Colorado.
Chip’s greatest blessing, was his amazing two-year-old grandson Nolan, whom he loved with all his being. They loved to watch Thomas the Train videos towards the end of every visit.
Chip wore many hats, husband, father, grandfather, loyal friend, mentor, and leader always exhibiting a love for life. He touched a lot of people with his generosity and lent a helping hand if anyone needed it. For this, we have all been truly blessed and will continue to work together as a family and carryout what he most believed in life.
He is predeceased by his father, Kenneth A. Faulter.
He is survived by his wife Mona; sons Benjamin (Erin) Faulter of Bowdoin, ME and Michael (and fiancé Nicole) Faulter of Huntington Station, NY. And grandson Nolan Faulter of Bowdoin. He is also survived by his mother Panalyn “Penny” Faulter of Central Square, NY and sister Mary Lynn (Chris) House of Baldwinsville, NY; Nieces Hollie (Jon) Leonardi and their children Joey and Allie of Baldwinsville, NY and Nicole Spencer of Winner, SD. Also, many treasured, long standing friendships that meant so much to him.
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Ray H. Polley - February 16, 1940 - October 06, 2019

Departed: 10/06/2019 (Belfast)
Obituary Preview: Ray H. Polley, 79, of Wales returned to the loving arms of his beloved wife Althea, on Sunday October 6, 2019, 10 years to the day of her passing, with his loving and devoted family by his side.
Ray was born February 16, 1940. He was the 8th child born to George and Florence Brown Polley of Oak Hill Rd. in Wales where he was raised and resided the majority of his life.
Ray served two years in the Army as a Mechanic. Upon returning to civilian status he married Jeannine Fournier Polley in 1967 and together they had 3 children, Pat, Cindy and Jill. He worked at a local gas station then in the local shoe shops. Ray was one of the last leather cutters in the Lewiston/Auburn Area.
Ray later married Althea St. Laurent Polley and together they played a pivotal role in the Lew/Aub community. Ray had many great accomplishments while being a strong advocate for all people. Ray dedicated his life to improving the lives of all those he met, even if it was just a smile. Ray was active in local and state politics. Ray was the President of the Lewiston Tenants Union. Ray played a huge role PAC (Peoples Action Committee) and was one of the Founding Fathers of MPA (Maine People’s Alliance), as well as numerous other committees and programs. Ray was also a very proud Boy Scout leader.
Ray is survived by his children Pat Polley and wife Jennifer of Chelsea, daughters Cindy Palmer of Lewiston and Jill Polley and fiancé Bernard Bristow of Auburn. Step daughters April Cyr and husband Walter of Florida, Nona Ostrander of Sabattus, Cathy Crowley of Wales, Kelly Perry and husband Dan of Poland. One brother, Ralph Polley of Greene. Grandchildren, Justin, Jarrid, Givana, Javon, Sadie, Jordan, Jakeem, Jakeel, Jarius, Jamon and Jontay; great grandchildren, Liahna, Jaymien, Damari and Coby.
Ray was pre-deceased by his parents, his wife Althea, grandson, George Palmer Jr.,step daughter Charlene as well as siblings, Donald, George, Alton, Charlie, Johnny, Leroy, Dot and Evelyn.
The family would like to thank Russell Park Manor as well as CMMC, especially Dr. Fleming.
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Austin N. Sylvester, Sr. - September 21, 1938 - September 26, 2019

Departed: 09/26/2019 (Belfast)
Obituary Preview: Austin N. Sylvester, Sr. Sept 26, 2019
Damariscotta--- Austin (Sonny) Sylvester, 81, died peacefully at Cove's Edge Long Term Care with his loving family at his side.
He was born in Rockland, Sept. 21, 1938, to Lillian and Edward Sylvester. He served time with the US Army and after returning home he worked for Edwards & Company. In 1965, he worked as a guard at the Maine State Prison and married his wife Jane Ames Sylvester. Austin also worked as a carpenter, and ended his career as a Private Contractor for the US Postal Service.
Austin leaves behind a wife, Jane, of 54 years, two children, son Austin Jr. and wife Lori Ann, a daughter Hilary S. and her husband Maynard Stanley III, several grandchildren, nieces and nephews.
He resided in Warren on his beloved South Pond.
In addition to his parents, he was predeceased by many brothers and sisters.
The family would like to extend many thanks to everyone at Cove's Edge.
A private graveside service for the family will be held at Achorn Cemetary in Rockland at a later date.
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Ronald Scott Brown - May 03, 1962 - September 24, 2019

Departed: 09/24/2019 (Belfast)
Obituary Preview: Ronald Scott Brown, 57, of Buxton passed away on September 24, 2019 in Burlington, VT. Service will be held privately at the convenience of the family. Arrangements are under the care of Direct Cremation of Maine Belfast, Me. Memories and condolences may be shared with the family at www.directcremationofmaine.com
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James H. Michaud - July 07, 1926 - September 23, 2019

Departed: 09/23/2019 (Belfast)
Obituary Preview: James H. Michaud, 93, of Waterville, passed away peacefully, on September 23rd and joined his beloved wife, Angeline, in heaven. He was born on July 7, 1926, son of John and Isabelle (Dechaine) Michaud.
James graduated from Waterville High School, and then proudly enlisted in the Army during WWII serving in the Occupation of Japan.
He married the love of his life, Angeline Gamache, and together, they owned a painting and paper-hanging business, James H Michaud Painting Contractor, until he retired.
Jimmy was a man of strong faith, a true Patriot, a loving husband, father and grandfather, who loved life. He had a great sense of humor and was known for his sayings, “suffering cat’s meow,” and “son of a beehive.” He loved to fish and hunt with his boys and grandsons, who all have funny stories and memories of his hunting lessons. He also loved spending time with his granddaughters who will always cherish memories of their ‘Pepere'.
James is survived by his sons, Gary and wife Cindy Michaud of Fairfield, and Bryan Michaud of Waterville, a daughter-in-law, Marjorie Michaud of Thorndike, his four grandchildren and their spouses, Jason and Heather Michaud, Shawn and Meryia Michaud, Shanna and Adam Tice, Erika and Nathan Pelkey, several great- grandchildren, nieces and nephews. He is also survived by three sisters, Doris Kiorpis of Bar Harbor, Verlie Harrison of Conn., and Sandra Pelkey of North Carolina.
There will be a ceremony at the Veterans’ Memorial Chapel, 163 Mount Vernon Rd, Augusta, on Friday, October 18th at 9:00am.
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Elmer A. Wyman Jr. - December 24, 1937 - September 21, 2019

Departed: 09/21/2019 (Belfast)
Obituary Preview: ELMER A. WYMAN JR., 81 of Middle Road, passed away September 21st at Mount St. Joseph in Waterville after a courageous battle with cancer. He was born in Augusta to Elmer A. Sr. and Myrtle Wyman on December 24, 1937.
Elmer served in the U.S. Marine Corps and later made a career as a maintenance worker and retired after 22 years from Maine Yankee. He was an avid fisherman, hunter, gardener and loved to spend time with his family.
Elmer is predeceased by his parents; brothersMerton and Roland, sisters Janet Paquette and Loretta Grenier.He leaves behind his loving wife of 59 years, Leone, daughter Sharon Wyman and partner Fred Woodbury, son Eric Wyman and partner Linda Lucas, four grandchildren Tyler and Cameron Wood, Ashley Wyman and Justen Quimby, great-grandson Noah Wood, five sisters, Jane and Paul Steeb, Shirley Wyman-Garand, Sylvia and David Sprague, Gail and Chuck Obliske, Rachel Wyman along with many nieces, nephews and cousins.
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Frances Geneva Reynolds - June 17, 1927 - September 21, 2019

Departed: 09/21/2019 (Belfast)
Obituary Preview: Frances Geneva Reynolds went home to be with her Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, on September 23, 2019, at Inland Hospital in Waterville, Maine. May God bless her soul and may she now rest peacefully and happily in the arms of her Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.
Frances was born in Waterville, ME on June 17, 1927, the youngest of Ralph Sr. and Gertrude Reynolds six children. Frances was a graduate of Waterville High School. She lived most of her life with family in Maine, with a brief residence in Connecticut early in her adult life.
Frances loved Jesus with all her heart and was a devoted and prayerful Christian who praised God daily. She entered the Nunnery as a young adult and novitiate. After lengthy studies, Frances left the Covenant just shy of her final vows. Frances went on to work at Colby College and as a domestic worker at the Old Sister’s Hospital in Waterville , ME. She eventually chose to settle in her hometown of Waterville, ME and went into assisted living shortly after the passing of her siblings, Eva E. White and Evelyn Simpson. Frances held a deep appreciation and love of poetry and music, authoring both her own poems and music which reflected the depth of her soul and a reverence for all things divine. She enjoyed occasionally recording her own songs on her home recorder. Frances was always independent, spoke her truth and enjoyed her own company. She was an avid student of the Bible, reading it often and was a parishioner at Waterville’s Advent Christian Church. Frances held high regard for all things fragile and vulnerable. She loved animals and nature, engaging with both fully until the last days of her life. She was truly a friend and mother to all animals in need and relished being their caretaker. Frances embodied a humble strength and endured a life held mostly in solitude, although she would enjoy the company of visitors and outings to her favorite local restaurants. Her life was truly indicative of one meant for spiritual evolution, divine devotion, and faith.
In addition to her parents, Frances is predeceased by all her siblings: Eva E. White, Evelyn Simpson, Ethel Soule, Helen Kozak, Myrtle Perry, and Ralph, Jr.
Frances had no other immediate family or children but has left behind many nieces and nephews.
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George Ernest Fowles - November 29, 1934 - September 15, 2019

Departed: 09/15/2019 (Belfast)
Obituary Preview: George Ernest Fowles, 84, of South Thomaston died peacefully at home with his loving family by his side.
He was born in Rockland, Maine, on November 29, 1934, (Thanksgiving day) to Clyde and Ernestine Fowles.
At the age of 7, George would often be found helping to dismantle the Circus for a little money in his pocket. At 14, he started working on roads driving trucks and George was known to go to the Rockland-Rockport Lime Company to back the trucks in while the drivers napped.
As a young adult, George started the job he would have for the next 49 years, working at George Hall & Sons as a truck driver before moving on to operating the heavy equipment.
In March of 1956, George married his wife, Joan Grierson, and together they had three children.
George had a great love of working on the house that they called home which he built for his family in the late 60's.
In addition to his parents, George is predeceased by many brothers and sisters.
George leaves behind his wife of 63 years, Joan, children, Arlene and husband Roger Dill of Chelsea, Wayne and wife Jean Fowles of Spruce Head, and Roger and his companion Shelly of Appleton.
George is survived by his brothers, Ernest and wife Beverly of Florida, Francis and wife Barbara of Rockland, and Gerald of Rockland.
Grandchildren, Chad and wife Heather Brackett of Surry, Samantha and husband Bryan Morse of Spruce Head, Adam and wife Megan Brackett of Union, Ashley Earl of Brunswick, Justin Fowles and companion Chelsea of Appleton, and Jason Earl and companion Taylor of Union.
Great grandchildren Dakotah, Madison, Molly and Lucas, and his great-grandsons Evan, Elijah and Noah Morse with whom he had a special bond. The family would like to extend a special thank you to all the hospice workers for helping us through such an emotional time!
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John W. Trapp - February 06, 1941 - September 09, 2019

Departed: 09/09/2019 (Belfast)
Obituary Preview: John W. Trapp (“Trapper John”), 78, of Jonesport, passed away in the arms of his loving wife Sharon on September 9, 2019. John was born on February 6, 1941, in Milwaukee, WI to the late John and Katherine Trapp.
John moved to Downeast Maine after a tour with the US Air Force. He retired from the US Coast Guard Reserves after serving 30 years in Jonesport. Over the years, he made his living as a carpenter and contractor to many people in the community. He was an avid fisherman and duck hunter who was always up for a good game of cribbage. He was very involved with the local chapters of Waterfowl USA and Ducks Unlimited. He enjoyed teaching hunter safety courses at Pleasant River Fish and Game Club and throughout the community. He also enjoyed carving and painting decoys with Bob and Charlene Nelson. He was very passionate about his time spent as a longtime member of the Maine Blade Runners. If you ever wanted to talk about hunting or fishing you better have plenty of time to spare. He made fast friends with all who knew him and loved to talk with strangers as well. He was an animal lover and would tell anyone who would listen about his spoiled cats or his dog Chase.
Though he held his many friendships near and dear to his heart, his true joy was with his family. He is survived by his wife of 39 years, Sharon, his children Mary, Susie, Zandra and her partner Jeff, Tiffany, son-in-law Rick, special niece Kris, grandchildren Shaela, Justin, Elandra, Brooke, Evvy, Daniel, Colton, Gabe, Aedan, Anna, Jacob, great grandchildren Elias and Exie, sister-in-law Linda Beal, brother-in-law Jerry Tibbetts and his wife Nancy, and close friends Buz Grant, Tom Carter and Jason Lord. He had many relatives who he always looked forward to seeing and friends that he liked to visit around town.
He was predeceased by his daughter Carrie, his parents, his brother Conrad Trapp, sister Kathy Traiber, mother and father-in-law Evelyn and Gerald Tibbetts, and brother-in-law Barney Beal.
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Cremation Services Offered

Direct Cremation of Maine offers a range of cremation services designed to meet the unique needs of each family. From direct cremation to memorial services, the funeral home's team will work closely with you to create a personalized service that honors your loved one's memory. Some of the cremation services offered include:

  • Direct Cremation: A simple and affordable option that includes transportation, preparation, and cremation of the body.
  • Cremation with Memorial Service: A service that allows families to hold a memorial service or celebration of life after the cremation process.
  • Witness Cremation: A service that allows families to witness the cremation process, providing closure and peace of mind.

The Cremation Process

The cremation process at Direct Cremation of Maine is designed to be transparent and respectful. From the moment your loved one is taken into their care, the funeral home's team ensures that they are treated with dignity and respect. The cremation process typically takes several hours, during which time the body is reduced to its basic elements. The resulting ashes are then returned to the family in an urn or container of their choice.

Why Choose Direct Cremation of Maine?

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Families choose Direct Cremation of Maine for many reasons, including:

  • Affordability: Direct Cremation of Maine offers competitive pricing for their cremation services, making it an accessible option for families on a budget.
  • Simplicity: The funeral home's streamlined process makes it easy for families to plan a cremation service without unnecessary complexity.
  • Personalized Service: The team at Direct Cremation of Maine takes the time to understand each family's unique needs and preferences, ensuring a personalized service that honors their loved one's memory.

Pricing and Packages

Direct Cremation of Maine offers transparent pricing for their cremation services, with packages starting at $995. The funeral home's team will work with you to create a customized package that meets your needs and budget. Some of the packages offered include:

  • Direct Cremation Package: Includes transportation, preparation, and cremation of the body, as well as return of the ashes in a temporary urn.
  • Cremation with Memorial Service Package: Includes all aspects of the direct cremation package, plus coordination and facilitation of a memorial service or celebration of life.

Pre-Planning Options

Direct Cremation of Maine understands that planning for the future can be difficult, but it's an important step in ensuring that your wishes are respected. The funeral home offers pre-planning options that allow you to make arrangements for your own cremation service in advance. By pre-planning, you can:

  • Lock in prices: Pre-planning allows you to secure current prices for your cremation service, protecting your family from future price increases.
  • Ensure your wishes are respected: By making your wishes known in advance, you can ensure that your family honors your preferences when the time comes.
  • Reduce stress: Pre-planning can help reduce stress and anxiety for your loved ones during an already difficult time.

Contacting Direct Cremation of Maine

If you're considering Direct Cremation of Maine for your loved one's cremation service or would like more information about their services, please don't hesitate to reach out. You can contact them by phone at (phone number), email at (email address), or visit their website at (website URL). The funeral home's team is available 24/7 to answer any questions you may have and provide guidance during this difficult time.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and other biographical information. It may also include details about their life, accomplishments, and surviving family members.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a sense of closure and can be a therapeutic way for loved ones to celebrate the person's life.

Who typically writes an obituary?

In most cases, the obituary is written by the funeral home or a family member, often with the assistance of a funeral director or obituary writer. The writer will gather information from the family and create a draft, which is then reviewed and edited before publication.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service (if applicable), hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also include details about the funeral or memorial service.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication and the family's preferences. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from a few sentences to a few paragraphs.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a nice way to personalize the notice and make it more meaningful to readers.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online publication?

The process for submitting an obituary varies depending on the publication. You can usually find submission guidelines on the publication's website or by contacting their obituary department directly.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies widely depending on the publication, its circulation, and the length of the notice. Some publications offer free or low-cost options, while others may charge several hundred dollars or more.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary in advance, often as part of their estate planning or as a way to ensure that their story is told accurately. This can be a unique opportunity for self-reflection and legacy-building.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of someone's passing, typically including only basic information such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary is a more detailed notice that provides additional biographical information and context.

Can I include humor or personality in an obituary?

Absolutely! An obituary should reflect the personality and spirit of the person who has passed away. Including humorous anecdotes or personal traits can make the notice more engaging and memorable.

How long after someone passes away should an obituary be published?

The timing of an obituary's publication varies depending on cultural and personal traditions. In general, it's best to publish the notice within a few days to a week after the person's passing, when emotions are still raw and condolences are pouring in.

Can I publish an obituary online only?

Yes, many online platforms allow you to publish an obituary without printing it in a physical newspaper. This can be a cost-effective option that still reaches a wide audience.

How do I find old obituaries?

You can search online archives of newspapers or websites that specialize in collecting historical obituaries. Local libraries or genealogical societies may also have resources to help you find old obituaries.

Can I include charitable donations or memorial funds in an obituary?

Yes, many families choose to include information about charitable donations or memorial funds in the obituary as a way to honor their loved one's memory and support a good cause.

What if I want to keep the funeral private?

If you prefer to keep the funeral or memorial service private, you can still publish an obituary without including details about the service. This allows you to share news of your loved one's passing while maintaining privacy around the funeral arrangements.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Absolutely! Quotes, lyrics, or poems can add depth and meaning to an obituary, providing insight into the person's values or personality.

How do I handle errors or corrections in an already-published obituary?

If you discover errors or inaccuracies in an already-published obituary, contact the publication immediately to request corrections. They may reprint the corrected notice or issue a correction online.

Can I republish an obituary at a later date?

Yes, some families choose to republish an obituary on significant dates such as birthdays or anniversaries of their loved one's passing. This can be a meaningful way to continue celebrating their life and legacy.

What is the role of social media in sharing obituaries?

Social media platforms have become increasingly important for sharing news of someone's passing and connecting with others who are grieving. Many funeral homes and online platforms offer tools for sharing obituaries on social media.

Can I include information about pets in an obituary?

Yes, many families choose to include information about beloved pets in the obituary as a way to acknowledge their importance in the person's life.

How do I ensure that my loved one's legacy lives on through their obituary?

An obituary is just one part of preserving your loved one's legacy. Consider creating a memorial fund, planting trees or flowers in their honor, or establishing a scholarship program to continue celebrating their life and impact.

What if I'm struggling to write an obituary due to grief or emotional distress?

If you're finding it difficult to write an obituary due to grief or emotional distress, consider reaching out to a trusted friend or family member for support. Funeral directors and obiturary writers may also be able to offer guidance and assistance during this challenging time.

Can I use an obituary as inspiration for other forms of tribute or memorialization?

Absolutely! An obituary can serve as a starting point for other forms of tribute such as eulogies, memorial services, or even creative projects like writing poetry or composing music inspired by your loved one's life.

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About Jeffery Isleworth

Jeffery Isleworth is an experienced eulogy and funeral speech writer who has dedicated his career to helping people honor their loved ones in a meaningful way. With a background in writing and public speaking, Jeffery has a keen eye for detail and a talent for crafting heartfelt and authentic tributes that capture the essence of a person's life. Jeffery's passion for writing eulogies and funeral speeches stems from his belief that everyone deserves to be remembered with dignity and respect. He understands that this can be a challenging time for families and friends, and he strives to make the process as smooth and stress-free as possible. Over the years, Jeffery has helped countless families create beautiful and memorable eulogies and funeral speeches. His clients appreciate his warm and empathetic approach, as well as his ability to capture the essence of their loved one's personality and life story. When he's not writing eulogies and funeral speeches, Jeffery enjoys spending time with his family, reading, and traveling. He believes that life is precious and should be celebrated, and he feels honored to help families do just that through his writing.