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William B. Goodman - July 18, 1929 - April 28, 2024

Departed: 04/28/2024 (Whitesboro)

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William B. Goodman, passed away peacefully on Sunday, April 28, 2024.

Born in Buffalo, NY on July 18, 1929, the son of Joseph and Ann (Phillips) Goodman. He attended Utica Free Academy and later graduated from Utica College.

William proudly served in the United States Navy. He married Margaret McNamara on July 11, 1953 at Our Lady of Lourdes Church, Utica. Mrs. Margaret Goodman passed away on January 25, 1993.

He loved his career as a US history teacher at Whitesboro Middle School. Bill was active in public service for over 45 years. He served in the Town of Whitestown as Councilman, Town Supervisor and later as County Legislator. He was a member of St. Paul’s Church in Whitesboro, American Legion Post 1113, Malsan-Jones Post VFW, Whitestown Optimist Club, the Whitestown, Yorkville, and New York Mills Senior Citizen Centers along with many other civic organizations.

Bill was a beloved husband, father, grandfather, and great grandfather. He was a devoted Catholic, always caring and having a kind word to others.

Surviving are his five children, William Goodman and wife, Laura, of Centreville, VA, Thomas Goodman and wife, Lisa of Cazenovia, NY, James Goodman and wife, Marie of Marcy, Marianne Buttenschon and husband, Donald of Marcy, and Kevin Goodman of Geneseo, NY. He had 13 cherished grandchildren, Jennifer and Kristen Goodman, Ryan and Shaun Goodman, Christopher (Kasandra) Goodman, Kathryn (James) Garrison, Patrick (Kimberly) Goodman, and David Goodman, Lindsay (Ryan) Moran, Jerrad (Erica) Buttenschon, Matthew (Shelby) Buttenschon, Maureen Goodman, and Kyle Goodman and several great grandchildren.

He also leaves three sisters and a brother, Charlie (Janice) Goodman, Jane (Charles) Ernst, Nancy (Fred) Scherer, and June Goodman.

In addition to his loving wife, Margaret, of 40 years, he was predeceased by one brother, George Goodman.

A special thanks to the staff at Masonic Home as well as the medical team at Wynn Hospital.

Relatives and friends are invited to calling hours on Thursday from 3-6 pm at Dimbleby Funeral Homes, Inc., 40 Main St., Whitesboro. A Mass of Christian burial will be on Friday at 9:30 am from St. Paul’s Church, Whitesboro. Interment will follow in Mount Olivet Cemetery in Whitesboro.

Remembrances in William’s name may be made to the Whitestown American Legion Post 1113 or St. Paul’s Church. Envelopes will be available at the funeral home. Online tributes at www.dimblebyfh.com

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William A. Billman - November 05, 1948 - April 24, 2024

Departed: 04/24/2024 (Whitesboro)

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William A. Billman, 75, of Whitesboro, passed away on Wednesday, April 24, 2024 at the Grand Rehabilitation and Nursing at Utica.

He was born on November 5, 1948 in Utica, a son of the late Anthony and Grace (Scott) Billman and graduated from Whitesboro High School. Following graduation, Bill was drafted and proudly served his country in the US Army, serving a tour in Vietnam. He was employed with the Rome VA Hospital, retiring in 2019 after many years of faithful service. Bill was a member of the Whitestown American Legion Post #1113.

Surviving are his sisters, Deborah (Phillip) Beardsley and Maryellen (Eric) Manley; brothers, Donald (Karen) Billman and Thomas Billman and several nieces, nephews and great nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by a sister, Catherine Billman.

Bill’s family wishes to extend their gratitude to the 7th floor nurses and staff at the Grand at Utica.

In keeping with Bill’s wishes, there will be no public visitation. Graveside services with military honors will be in St. Mary’s Cemetery, Clayville. Arrangements are with Dimbleby Funeral Homes, Inc., 40 Main St., Whitesboro.

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Benny R. Murabito Jr. - May 14, 1942 - April 23, 2024

Departed: 04/23/2024 (Whitesboro)

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Benny R. Murabito Jr. 81, of Marcy, passed away peacefully surrounded by the love of his family on Tuesday, April 23, 2024 at Wynn Hospital in Utica.

He was born on May 14, 1942 in Utica a son of the late Sabastiano and Beulah (Fisher) Murabito. He attended local schools. He served his country with honor in the United States Army.

On August 10, 1963 he was united in marriage to Johanne Kida, a blessed union of over 60 years filled with much love and mutual devotion.

Benny owned and operated his own business Benjamin’s Precious Metals in Utica for over 50 years. He attended Historic Old St. John Church in Utica.

He was a loving and caring husband, father and grandfather who cherished the time that he spent with his family, especially his adored grandchildren. In his free time he enjoyed his many trips to the Turning Stone Casino. He also enjoyed dining out at the many great local establishments throughout the area. Known to all, he was considered the Mayor of South St. He was the first to help anyone in need. He was known as “Big Ben” the Pawnbroker.

He is survived by his loving wife Johanne Murabito of Marcy his son and daughter-in-law, Benjamin and Deborah Murabito of Marcy. He leaves four grandchildren, Catania (John Bellinger) Murabito of Utica, Marius Murabito of Marcy, Jake Murabito of Marcy and Bella Murabito also of Marcy. He leaves a brother William (Mary) Murabito of Saratoga, his sisters-in-law, Luann (Jake) Danella of Clinton, and Frances Klaus of Utica. He also leaves many nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his father and mother-in-law Jacob and Helen Kida and brothers-in-law, Tommy and Jacob Kida.

The family wishes to sincerely thank the entire staff of nurses and caregivers at Wynn Hospital for the wonderful care and compassion that was given to Benny and his family during his illness.

Family and friends are invited to attend his Mass of Christian Burial which will be celebrated on Monday April 29, 2024 at 10:00 AM at Historic Old St. John’s Catholic Church in Utica with the Rev. Thomas Servatius officiating. Interment will be in Calvary Cemetery in Utica. There are no public calling hours. Arrangements are with the Dimbleby Funeral Homes Inc. 40 Main St. Whitesboro. For online expressions of sympathy please go to www.dimblebyfh.com

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Thomas S. Yocum - October 06, 1966 - April 20, 2024

Departed: 04/20/2024 (Whitesboro)

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Tom Yocum, age 57, passed away peacefully on Saturday April 20, 2024, after a short battle of a rare cancer. At the time of his passing, he was surrounded by his loving family and close friends.

Born in Rochester, NY on October 6, 1966, Tom was the son of the late Clarence Yocum and Marilyn (Hartson) Yocum.

Raised in Floyd, NY and graduated from Holland Patent High School in 1984. He graduated from Morrisville College with an associate degree in Auto Technology in 1986. From there, following in his dad’s footsteps, he embarked in a career in the petroleum industry (pump, tank and lift).

On October 10th, 1992, he married the former Laura Woodhouse. From the moment she met him she knew that life would never be anything but short of a great time. They balance each other out, if you knew them you would understand.

Following his father’s passing he started his own business, Yocum Full Service inc. in 2007. His business prospered over the years with the help of his family and employees.

Over the years Tom and his wife were able to create a beautiful life with their two children, Joel and Sydney. Tom enjoyed cruising in his Camaro, his weekly card games with his close friends, spending time at his home away from home in Sylvan Beach, and vacationing at his condo on St. Pete Beach, Florida. Tom enjoyed many things, but especially his feet in the sand and a cold beer in his hand. Tom and his Sylvan beach family sure knew how to escape the weekly reality and enjoy each other’s company and the chaos they brought together.

Tom was a man that never said “no” to any customer, any friend, and especially his family. He was an extremely hardworking man, but his family always came first. Tom never missed any of his children’s milestone, including sporting events and academic achievements. There was never a day Tom didn’t mention how proud he was as of his children and all their accomplishments thus fair in life. Tom fought the good fight and even on his most challenging days, his humor never left his spirit.

Tom is survived by his wife Laura Yocum, his children; Joel Yocum & Sydney Yocum (Anthony Dalia), his mother Marilyn Yocum, his brother James Yocum, his sister Sandra Yocum, his uncle Ed Yocum (Carol), his mother-in-law Patricia Woodhouse, his sister-in-law Colene Cresant, his niece Dominica Cresant & nephew Nicholas Cresant, his great niece Brinleigh Bartlett, and his lifelong friend John Delahunt, the Delahunt family, close friends, and neighbors.

He was predeceased by his father Clarence Yocum, his sister-in-law Melissa Woodhouse and his family basset hound Molly Yocum.

A special thank you to the Clifford Fuel family and everyone that helped his business flourish over the years. The family also extends heartfelt thanks to the many health care workers who made it possible for Tom to come home and enjoy Skyy Vodka & Bubly and cherish his family and friends his last days here on earth. When you think of Tom the family hopes you enjoy your favorite drink and the beautiful sunsets life has to offer, like Tom always did.

Relatives and friends are invited to call on Friday, from 4:00-8:00 p.m., at Dimbleby Funeral Homes, Inc., 40 Main St., Whitesboro. Funeral services will be Saturday, 10:00 a.m., at the funeral home, with Rev. Cindy Makarchuk officiating. Interment will follow in Holland Patent Cemetery.

Memorial tributes and messages of sympathy may be left at www.dimblebyfh.com.

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Allan C. Forbes - January 09, 1932 - April 18, 2024

Departed: 04/18/2024 (Whitesboro)

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Al Forbes, long time resident of Whitesboro, died Thursday, April 18, 2024.

He was born, January 9, 1932, in Potsdam, NY, the son of Marion and Lawrence Forbes, Jr. Drafted into the United States Army in June 1952, he first served in Ft. Myers with the President’s Honor Guard where he was a participant in President Eisenhower’s inaugural parade. He next served in Korea. While there he received the Bronze Star Medal with the V device and was discharged in June 1954. He returned to Potsdam where he initially applied to the NY Telephone Co. for a summer job, instead remaining for 37 years, retiring in December 1991 from Verizon.

Al married Nancy Everett of Saranac Lake on April 14, 1956. Together they had four sons: Thomas, David, Stephen and Allan. Later he became a grandpa and a great-grandpa.

Al was a member of the Whitesboro Presbyterian Church. He was a NY Giants fan and also a fan of any movie starring John Wayne. He enjoyed vacationing at his camp on Osgood Pond, working on her Farmall Tractor, and taking a drive in his 1947 Lincoln.

He was predeceased by his parents and his sister, Mrs. Charles (Shirley) Premo.

Al’s family will celebrate his life privately, at a later date.

Arrangements are in care of Dimbleby Funeral Homes, Inc., 40 Main St., Whitesboro.

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Martin Bruns - December 08, 1959 - April 18, 2024

Departed: 04/18/2024 (Whitesboro)

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Martin “Marty” Bruns, 64, of Holland Patent, passed away peacefully on April 18, 2024, at his home with his loving family by his side.

He was born on December 8, 1959, in Oceanside, NY a son of the late William and Phyllis (Young) Bruns. Marty went to school in Holland Patent through the 10th grade and then graduated from Vermont Academy. He received higher education at MVCC, Herkimer College and Utica University where he received a bachelor’s degree in occupational therapy. He proudly served his country in the New York State Army National Guard from 1983 to 2003 and served in the Middle East during Operation Desert Storm. He very much enjoyed his military service, he found it a great honor. He was always a great example of integrity in his military service and his professional career. Until his honorable discharge in 2003, he was able to travel the world like Germany and Panama. He became an Occupational Therapist in 1999 working at MVHS St. Luke’s campus acute care. He also worked in the community as a home health care professional for several years.

On May 30th, 1985, Marty was united in marriage to Cora J Carman in Washington D.C. in the Temple of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. He was a member and served a mission for the church in Argentina from 1981-1983.

Marty loved his family, his canine companions and was a friend to many. He enjoyed fishing, kayaking and canoeing at Hinkley Reservoir with his family. He was a talented carpenter and enjoyed coin collecting. He loved to sit, chat and laugh with family and friends.

Marty leaves behind his wife, Cora; children, Christopher (Sarrita) Bruns, Samantha (Mikel) Hall and Victoria (Tanner) Wonnacott; grandchildren, Madison Hall, Linken Hall, Charles Wonnacott, Claire Wonnacott and Sebastian Bruns; sisters, Diane (Dave) Richards and Dawn (Terryl) Benson; canine companion, Jordi and many nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by a brother, Alan Bruns.

Cora wishes to extend her gratitude to family, friends and health care professionals for their love and support over the years.

The funeral services will be held at The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, 8439 Clark Mills Rd., Whitesboro at 11:00am on April 26, 2024, followed by a light lunch with the interment at the Holland Patent Cemetery at 2:00pm. Arrangements are with Dimbleby Funeral Homes, Inc., 40 Main St., Whitesboro. Remembrances in Marty’s name may be made to Utica University OT Graduate Student Legacy Scholarship at https://www.utica.edu/advance/donate.cfm

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Linda A. Koperda - May 13, 1949 - April 18, 2024

Departed: 04/18/2024 (Whitesboro)

Obituary Preview: Linda A Koperda, 74, of Whitesboro NY passed away April 18, 2024, after weathering medical storms.

Linda was a registered nurse spending most of her career at St Luke’s. Other than caring for people, Linda’s love for animals was at the forefront of her life.

She is preceded in death by her parents, John and Alice Koperda, and her brother-in-law Frank VanHatten .

She leaves behind her sister, Yvonne VanHatten (Alabama), her brother Ed Koperda, two nieces Alison and Niky VanHatten (Alabama), and one great niece Mikayla VanHatten (Alabama).

The family would like to extend their utmost gratitude for all of the people who cared for Linda and her beloved animals during this time in her life : Victoria,Travis and John, Ricky and Annette, Rhonda, Donna, Anna, the staff at Herkimer, the staff at Foltsbrook, her dialysis care staff, the Yorkville Police Department and fire department , Rover Do Over , and a very special thank you to Dr Amy Gorczynski .

Linda played the hand she was dealt with immense fortitude and dignity.

Services will be held Friday May 3 at 4:30 pm with visitation an hour beforehand starting at 3;30 pm At Dimbleby Funeral Homes, Inc, 40 Main St., Whitesboro.

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Mary Margaret Nieman - March 24, 1945 - April 14, 2024

Departed: 04/14/2024 (Whitesboro)

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Mary Margaret Nieman, 79, of Holland Patent, passed away in the early hours of April 14, 2024 as she was surrounded by the love of her many family members she left behind.

Mary was born on March 24, 1945 to parents Robert Griffin and Mary Lourdes Griffin-Hodinger in Utica. Growing up, she briefly left Utica Free Academy to take care of her mother, then returned later to graduate and went on to attend the Stenotype Institute of Utica.

In 1966, Mary met the love of her life Dean Robert Nieman, wasting no time and marrying one another just one year later. Together, they went on to become parents to Mary Elizabeth "Marybeth," James, Kathleen, Michael, Stacy, and Thomas.

Throughout her life, Mary opened her heart to raise two generations of children, and could always be found gardening and beautifying the facade of her home and crocheting numerous afghan blankets that can be found with her many descendants.

Mary was predeceased by her parents and her three siblings Robert, Diane, and Patricia.

In addition to her six children, Mary leaves behind her two grandchildren Alyssa and Korinna, and her two great grandchildren Lorena and Milani. She also leaves behind her three step-grandchildren Jude, Sloan, Jasper, as well as Kathleen’s wife Paula, Michael's wife Kellie, Alyssa’s husband Nathan, Jude’s partner Scott, and several nieces and nephews. Mary also leaves behind her affectionate cat Cindy and her dog Gizmo, who she considered her pride and joy.

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Josephine M. ("Jo") Alexander - August 02, 1939 - April 13, 2024

Departed: 04/13/2024 (Whitesboro)

Obituary Preview: Josephine M. (“Jo”) Alexander Whitesboro, NY Josephine (“Jo”) Alexander of Whitesboro died peacefully on April 13, 2024 in the presence of her loving family. She was 84 and left this life with the same dignity with which she lived it. For all who had the privilege of knowing her, Jo was a remarkable and accomplished woman who combined great intellect with a loving spirit and an engaging and vibrant manner, a vibrancy she maintained throughout her life. In a phrase, “she got older, but she never got old.”

Jo was born Josephine Marie Pellegrino in Warsaw, New York and attended Buffalo State University, graduating with a degree in Education. She then attained a Master’s Degree from Syracuse University and began working in the East Syracuse School District where she met the love of her life, Christ Steve Alexander, who she married in 1962. Jo then became immersed in Greek culture, even learning a good amount of Greek but, most of all, becoming an expert chef in Greek cuisine to the delight of all her family and friends. The two enjoyed summers with their family at their camp on Fourth Lake, a love of Kerry Blue Terriers, and were devoted to each other for 52 years until Steve’s passing in 2015.

Jo was, both by vocation and avocation, a teacher and a natural leader, and in an age where women did not dominate the field of education. She was a Department Head/Professor Emerita at Mohawk Valley community College for 46 years, initially as an Adjunct Instructor before transitioning to Associate Professor and Coordinator in the Psychology, Human Services and Education Department. She was promoted to Department Head in 1993 and continued to serve in that position until retiring in 2001. Her “retirement” was short-lived, because she then continued ongoing service as an Adjunct Instructor to support the next generation of Human Services professionals. She was inducted into the MVCC Hall of Fame in 2020.

During her tenure at MVCC, Jo developed the Chemical Dependency Counseling Program and related courses and worked to develop strong relationships with local organizations in order to ensure that students had access to high quality experiential learning sites. She also served as MVCC Senate Chair for 10 years, served on Curriculum and the Policy and Standards Committees, and acted in many other leadership capacities across the college. She was a mentor and role model who made a strong impact on the professional development of her students and colleagues.

Jo’s honors were many but such was her unpretentiousness that one would never know of them in knowing her. She was awarded the MVCC Excellence in Teaching Award; the SUNY Chancellor’s Award for Excellence in Teaching; the National Institute for Staff and Organizational Development Excellence in Teaching Award; and she was named the Surrogate Decision Making Committee Panelist of the Year. In addition to her outstanding service to the College, Jo maintained extensive involvement in the community. She was appointed by the Governor to serve on the Board of Visitors for Mohawk Valley Psychiatric Center, where she also served as Board President, and also served as a member and President of the New York State Association of Boards of Visitors, the Peacemaker Program, Junior Junction Day Care Center, Child Care Consulting Committee, Oneida-Herkimer-Madison BOCES, and was a past member of the Surrogate Decision Making Committee, the State Association of Administrators of New York, the American Psychological Association, and Uarda Temple #24, Daughters of the Nile.

Left to cherish her memory are her children, son John (Erin) of Albany, daughter, Kiki (Linda) of Whitesboro; four grandchildren, Tori (Michael), Jack, Kelly and Kerry, and a great granddaughter, Colette.

There will be no calling hours. Funeral services will be conducted at St. Sophia's Greek Orthodox Church, 325 Waring Rd., Syracuse, on Friday, April 19, 2024 at 11:00 AM, with a private burial to follow in Oakwood Cemetery. Arrangements are with the Dimbleby Funeral Homes Inc. 40 main St. Whitesboro.

In Lieu of flowers please consider Utica Ziyara Shriners, 8209 Halsey Rd, Whitesboro, NY 13492 in her memory. For online expressions of sympathy please go to www.dimblebyfh.com

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Carol A. Smith - December 04, 1941 - April 07, 2024

Departed: 04/07/2024 (Whitesboro)

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Carol A. Smith, 82, of Oriskany, passed away on Sunday, April 7, 2024 at the Grand at Rome.

She was born on December 4, 1941 in Oriskany, a daughter of the late, Bernard and Agnes (Phillips) Reid and graduated from Oriskany High School. On August 10, 1963, Carol was united in marriage to Vernon A. Smith at Waterbury Presbyterian Church in Oriskany. Carol’s primary job was caring first for her husband and then her beloved children, however, she also She also cared for her second family the Benedicts of Rome for many years before retiring from MetLife in 2000.

She was a very loving wife, mother and grandmother and adored spending time and caring for her family. Carol had a love for nature and spent many hours bird watching and tending to her flower and vegetable gardens.

Surviving are her husband, Vernon, Oriskany; daughter, Denise (Jim) Shamis, Rome; grandchildren, Hillary, Connor, James and Katie Shamis and Jeff and Tyler Smith; daughter-in-law, Beth Olson; brother, Bernard Reid; sister-in-law, Penny Smith; special cousin, Elaine Collins and Leo Maloney, Jr., many cherished nieces and nephews and her spoiled companion, Patches. She was predeceased by her son, Dennis Smith; sisters, Isabelle Lyne and Shirley Brauch and brothers-in-law, Bancroft Countryman and Don Smith.

Carol’s family wishes to extend their gratitude to the nurses and staff at the Dialysis Center in Rome for all their wonderful care and compassion.

Relatives and friends are invited to visitation on Wednesday from 4-6 pm at Dimbleby Funeral Homes, Inc., 40 Main St., Whitesboro. Funeral services will commence at the conclusion of visitation. Interment will be in Oriskany Cemetery.

Remembrances in Carol’s name may be made to Anita’s Stevens Swan Humane Society or the American Diabetes Association.

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BeEtta M. Conney - June 24, 1925 - April 04, 2024

Departed: 04/04/2024 (Whitesboro)

Obituary Preview: BeEtta Conney, a long-time resident of Oriskany, passed away at the Eastern Star Home at the age of 98. She was born in St. Johnsville, New York, the eldest child of Homer and Mary Smith. She was educated in Amsterdam schools. BeEtta married her high-school sweetheart, John W. Conney, Sr. in 1943. He passed away too soon in 2008.

BeEtta is survived by sons John W. Conney, Jr., Richard (Laurie) Conney, and George (Joanne) Conney. She is also survived by daughters Sandra (Robert) Heeley, Mary Cole, and Nance Conney. BeEtta will be fondly remembered by grandchildren Christopher Conney, Adam Heeley, Mark (Lacie) Heeley, Blake (John) Doyle, Shelby (Matthew) Fyles, and Jasmine Cole. She had 10 great grandchildren and 2 great-great grandchildren. She is also survived by her sister Marion Ferlazzo and devoted daughter-in-law Nanette Conney. She was pre-deceased by her son, David Conney, grandson John W. Conney, III, and daughters-in-law Diane and Marlene Conney.

BeEtta loved children, especially babies, and was a foster mother to dozens of children of the years. As a foster mother, she provided shelter and love to countless lives.

BeEtta was a master knitter and seamstress, giving her creations to family, friends, and those in need. She was a creative cook and talented flower gardener. Despite all that, she had the softest hands. A lover of all things living, she was an advocate for cats and dogs. BeEtta’s family wishes to thank the Eastern Star Home for the excellent care given to “Bebe.”

The family will gather privately. Please consider donations to Spring Farm Cares, Clinton, New York or the Eastern Star Home, Oriskany, New York.

Arrangements are in care of Dimbleby Funeral Homes, Inc., 40 Main St., Whitesboro.

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Ronald J. Smaka - September 11, 1937 - April 02, 2024

Departed: 04/02/2024 (Whitesboro)

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Ronald J. Smaka, Sr., 86, of Whitesboro, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, April 2, 2024, with his loving family by his side.

Born on September 11, 1937, in Utica, to Stanley and Florence (Zielonka) Smaka, Ron carried a deep pride in his Polish heritage throughout his life. He graduated from Utica Free Academy, and served honorably in the US Army Reserves, demonstrating a commitment to service and community that would define his character. Ron was a dedicated communications repairman with NY Telephone and NYNEX for 39 years, where he formed lasting friendships and became a familiar, friendly face across New York state. His knack for making friends, remembering names, and sharing stories brought joy to everyone he met.

In 1958, Ron married his high school sweetheart, Marie Yourno, at St. Francis de Sales Church in Utica. They shared a blessed union of more than 60 years until Marie's passing in 2023. Ron was a true family man; he was a loving husband, father, and grandfather. Known for his quick wit and treasure trove of "dad jokes," he added laughter and light-heartedness to every gathering.

Ron loved the outdoors and spent much of his free time hunting and fishing. He was an avid Yankees fan and rarely missed a chance to cheer them on from the comfort of his favorite recliner chair. He also enjoyed Marie’s exceptional home cooking and playing cards with friends and family around their dining room table.

He was a member of St. Paul’s Church, Telephone Pioneers, Whitestown Seniors, New Hartford American Legion Post 1376, and a founding and lifelong member of the Flub Dub Club.

He leaves behind a legacy of love and laughter to his children and their spouses, Ronald Smaka, Jr. (Mary Ann Weekes), Jeanne Matotek (Joseph) and Carolyn Smaka (Alex Bernstein); grandchildren, Lindsey, Lane, and Logan Smaka, Madeline Beisel (Brian), Maxwell Matotek, Charlie Bernstein, and Justin Roberts; sisters-in-law, Madeline Aikin (Richard) and Janet Yourno; several nieces, nephews, and cousins; special friends, Dave Jeffalone, Frank Gohringer, Al Forbes and many other buddies from the phone company. He was predeceased by his sons Dennis and Christopher Smaka; brother, Richard Smaka (Shirley); sister, Frances Holloway (Bryce); and brother-in-law, Joseph Yourno.

Ron’s family extends their heartfelt gratitude to Madeline, as well as to all the friends, neighbors, and nurses who provided support and care, particularly in his final days.

Visitation will be held on Friday, April 12, from 4-6 p.m. at Dimbleby Funeral Homes, 40 Main St., Whitesboro. Funeral services will be held on Saturday, April 13, at 9:30 a.m. at St. Paul’s Church in Whitesboro, where a Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated. Interment will be in Mount Olivet Cemetery.

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Patrick J. Tobin - January 22, 1950 - March 30, 2024

Departed: 03/30/2024 (Whitesboro)

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Patrick J. Tobin, 74, of Whitesboro, passed away on Saturday, March 30, 2024 at home with his loving family by his side.

He was born on January 22, 1950, in Montpellier, VT, a son of the late Francis and Paulena (Norton) Tobin. Patrick was a graduate of West Canada Valley High School and attended MVCC for Mechanical Technology. On December 30, 1978, he was united in marriage to JoAnn Mosher in Little Falls and shared a blessed union of 45 years. Patrick was employed as a Calibrator with Collins Aerospace (formerly Bendix) in Rome, retiring in 2014 after 35 years of service. He was a member of the Flub Dub Club, Bendix Active Retirees (BAR), Route 291 Bikers Group, Morning Breakfast Club at Sheri’s Eastside Diner, Past Vice President and member of the Union and Pension Committee with Collins Aerospace.

Patrick became an avid bike rider at the age of 59 and rode up to 30 miles a day. He enjoyed playing golf, pool with his family, snowshoeing, bird watching and working on computers. Most of all, Patrick loved spending time with his beloved family, especially out back while having a fire.

Surviving are his wife, JoAnn, Whitesboro; daughters, Kadell Stewart, Oriskany and Jill (John) Srnka, Whitesboro; grandchildren, Austin Eaker, Zachary Eaker, Brooke Manolescu and Emma Stewart; sister, Joan Tobin; brothers, Tobias Tobin and Michael (Dale) Tobin; several nieces and nephews and numerous close friends. He was predeceased by a son, Ryan Patrick Tobin and brothers, Francis, Jon and Paul Tobin.

Patrick’s family wishes to extend their gratitude to Dr. Atul Butala and the Oncology staff at Faxton Cancer Center for all their wonderful care and compassion. They would also like to acknowledge his faithful family and friends who called or visited him throughout his illness.

Relatives and friends are invited to calling hours on Thursday, from 4-6 pm at Dimbleby Funeral Homes, Inc., 40 Main St., Whitesboro. Funeral services will be on Friday at 11:30 am from St. Paul’s Church, where a Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated. Interment will follow in Mt. Olivet Cemetery.

Remembrances in Patrick’s name may be made to the American Cancer Society. Envelopes will be available at the funeral home. Online tributes at www.dimblebyfh.com

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Pamela Wickwire Smith - April 17, 1950 - March 29, 2024

Departed: 03/29/2024 (Whitesboro)

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Melbourne, FL.

Pamela Wickwire Smith, born on April 17, 1950, in Syracuse, NY, passed away on March 29, 2024, at the age of 73 in Melbourne, FL.

She is survived by her husband of 47 years, Harold James Smith, son Jeffrey James Smith, daughter Kimberly Ann Smith, granddaughter Ellen Lees Guarino, grandson Arthur James Smith II and daughter in law Sarah Vananh Truong.

Pam loved life in every way. Her family was her pride and joy. She always stayed positive no matter what life brought to her. She would light up any room with her stories and her laugh was contagious. She always made sure that her family and friends knew how much she loved them and that there was nothing she wouldn't do for them. She is deeply missed and will always be remembered fondly by all who knew her.

Services will be private and held at the convenience of the family. Interment will be in Crown Hill Memorial Park in Clinton, NY. Arrangements are with the Dimbleby Funeral Homes Inc. 40 main St. Whitesboro. For online expressions of sympathy please go to www.dimblebyfh.com

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Sheila Henderson - July 06, 1975 - March 26, 2024

Departed: 03/26/2024 (Whitesboro)

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Sheila Henderson, aged 48 of Whitesboro, NY and formerly of Clinton, NY, died March 26th, 2024 after a short, but courageous battle against Bulbar ALS.

Sheila Henderson was born July 6th, 1975 to the parents of Gary and Sharon Tindall. She was educated at Clinton Senior High School.

Sheila met Scott in 1990 and they were married on May 3rd, 1997. She became a mother following the birth of her daughter, Sydney Henderson, on May 7th, 2001.

Sheila worked in customer service as a commercial quoting specialist at ECR International, working at the company for 16 years.

Sheila greatly enjoyed spending time in the Adirondacks with her family as often as possible. She often spent her summers by the lake enjoying good company, floating in the water, and spending the nights by the campfire.

Sheila had a passion for the CNY music scene, supporting local bands as often as possible. She made long lasting friendships along the way, and would never be seen at a music event without a group of friends around her.

Sheila’s greatest strength was that of being a loving wife, mother, and friend. She made a strong impact on the lives of those around her, and cherished the time spent raising her daughter.

Sheila is survived by her husband, Scott Henderson, and her daughter, Sydney Henderson, her uncle Doug Schreppel (Kathy), and her In-laws, Lester and Grace Henderson, whom she loved and considered parents of her own. Along with many sibling in laws, cousins, nieces and nephews.

Sheila is predeceased by her parents, Gary and Sharon Tindall, and her grandmother, Irene Schreppel.

Funeral services will be on Monday April 1, 2024 at 7:00 PM at the Dimbleby Funeral Homes Inc. 40 Main St. Whitesboro with Msgr. James Lang officiating. Interment will be in St. Mary’s Cemetery in Clinton. Family and friends are invited to call prior to the service on Monday from 4:00 PM to 7:00 PM at the funeral home. For online expressions of sympathy please go to www.dimblebyfh.com

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Carolyn A. Bord - May 09, 1950 - March 23, 2024

Departed: 03/23/2024 (Whitesboro)

Obituary Preview: Carolyn A. Bord, age 73 of Floyd, and formerly of Whitesboro passed away on March 23, 2024 with her loving family by her side. She was born on May 9, 1950 in Utica, a daughter of the late Richard and Betty (Lindsay) Butts. Carolyn was educated in the Utica schools, later attending Mohawk Valley School of Commerce, graduating with a degree in cosmetology.

On October 5, 1968, she was united in marriage to Richard A. Bord, at St. Paul’s Catholic Church.

Carolyn worked at ConMed as a document control supervisor for 18 years. She was a member of St. Paul’s Catholic Church.

Carolyn enjoyed camping at HTR in the Adirondacks, as well as various state parks over the years. She also enjoyed making personalized calendars for her family and friends.

She is survived by her beloved husband, Richard; sons, Richard, Jr. (Tina), and Dennis (Cindy); grandchildren, Justin (Jordan), Jason (Ashley), Tyler, Jesse (Jenn), and Mason; great grandchildren, Bryleah, Colt, Haley, Olivia, Zachary, Bodhi; a special friend, Trudy Burritt; as well as several nieces and nephews; and the members of her extended family with whom she shared a special love.

The family would like to thank Dr. Reddy, the nurses, and the entire staff of Wynn Hospital for the love and compassion they showed them throughout this difficult time.

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Mrs. Patricia (Maxwell) Deck - January 01, 1934 - March 21, 2024

Departed: 03/21/2024 (Whitesboro)

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Patricia Deck, 90, of Whitesboro passed away on Thursday, March 21, 2024 after a yearlong illness. At the time of her passing she was comforted by the love and support of her family.

She was born in Utica on January 1, 1934, she was the only child of the late Lawrence and Catherine Maxwell. Pat was raised and educated in Utica and Whitesboro. She graduated from Whitesboro in 1952 and then Oneonta State Teachers College.

On June 25, 1955 she married William Deck. Their loving union lasted 36 years until Bill passed away in 1992.

Pat is survived by her children; Colleen (Richard) Tebbe, Susan (Rudy) Ruth, Bill Deck and Lisa Deck and Larry (Meg) Deck, along with grandchildren, Erin, Buddy (Becky), Eric (Janelle), Geoff, Katie (Frank), Jack (Micha) Molly (Anthony), LJ, Sarah (Mo), Shannon (Josh), Emily (John) and Elizabeth. She was blessed with 6 great grandchildren. Pat cherished her grandchildren and followed their activities and careers with great devotion.

Pat loved her parish of St. Paul’s and was an active member for over 60 years. She believed that family and friends were one of God’s greatest blessings.

She particularly loved her Whitesboro community and many friends and neighbors. Pat was a lifelong New York Yankees Fan and never missed a Yankees game. Pat’s family extends a special thanks to the staff of St. Luke’s Nursing Home, her St. Paul’s parish family and loving sister-in-law and lifelong friend Pat DeLett

Funeral services will be on Monday, March 25, 2024 at 9:30 AM at St. Paul’s Catholic Church in Whitesboro where a Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated by the Rev. Thomas Durant. Interment will be in Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Whitesboro. Family and friends are invited to call on Sunday from 2:00 PM to 4:00 PM at the Dimbleby Funeral Homes Inc. 40 Main St. Whitesboro.

For those who wish donations may be made to St. Paul’s Catholic Church, 16 Park Ave., Whitesboro, NY 13492 or Anita’s Stevens Swan, 5664 Horatio St. Utica, NY 13502 in her memory. Envelopes will be available at the funeral home. For online expressions of sympathy please go to www.dimblebyfh.com

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Frank J. Nowak, III - September 19, 1949 - March 20, 2024

Departed: 03/20/2024 (Whitesboro)

Obituary Preview: Frank J. Nowak, III, age 74, of Whitesboro, passed away on March 20, 2024.

He was born September 19, 1949, in Utica, NY the son of Frank J. and Florence C. Nowak, Jr. Frank was a graduate of Whitesboro Central High School, class of 1967. He received his Bachelor’s degree from Oneonta State University, and earned his Master’s degree from Syracuse University. Mr. Nowak was an educator for the Utica City School District having taught at John F. Kennedy and Utica Free Academy. A talented musician, Frank was a guitarist and vocalist for the local band "Two-Way Street." He was a proud member of A.A., sponsoring others to maintain sobriety. Frank was a devoted Catholic and lifelong member of St. Paul’s Church, Whitesboro.

He is survived by four children he shared with Anne Moore VanStander: Laurie and Michael Park, Jonathan and Shannon Nowak, Christopher and Lisa Nowak, and Meghan and Andrew Klausner; and nine grandchildren: Christopher, Kathleen and Annabelle Park, Sophie and Jack Nowak, Ethan and Alex Nowak, and Finley and Hadley Klausner; a sister, Judy Kelly; and several nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his parents, and a sister, Marilyn Murphy.

Relatives and friends are invited to attend his Funeral Mass, which will be celebrated on Tuesday March 26th, 9:30 AM, at St. Paul’s Church, 16 Park Avenue, Whitesboro. A private entombment will be held at Resurrection Chapel Mausoleum of Holy Trinity Cemetery.

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Jean Marie Proulx-Coe - November 27, 1952 - March 19, 2024

Departed: 03/19/2024 (Whitesboro)

Obituary Preview: Jean Marie Proulx-Coe, age 71 of Clark Mills, and formerly of Marcy, NY. Passed away unexpectedly on March 19, 2024. She was born on November 27, 1952 in Utica, NY, a daughter of the late Andrew and Catherine (Sawka) Sereday, and raised by Laura Jewett.

Jean was educated at Whitesboro High School. On December 1, 2018 she was united in marriage to Harold L. Coe at the Oriskany American Legion.

For many years Jean worked as a hairdresser at many of the areas beauty shops.

She was a member of the Maynard United Methodist Church and attended the Clark Mills United Methodist Church for many years.

Jean enjoyed making jewelry, taking care of her house plants, as well as her outdoor plants, tending to her flower garden, and spending time with her two kitty cats, Buddy and Tigger.

She is survived by her beloved husband Harold; son Joseph (Adrea Adamczyk) Proulx; daughter, Teresa (Dennis) Harvey; grandchildren, Dakota, Tyler, and Alexandra (Tyler); siblings, Robert (Elaine) Sereday, Raymond Sereday, Leon (Donna) Sereday, Jacqueline (John) Shaw, and Brian (Maryann) Legg; several loving nieces and nephews, as well as several great nieces and nephews.

Jean was predeceased by a sister Patricia Sereday, and a brother, Donald Sereday.

A service for Jean will be held on Monday March 25, at 3PM at the Clark Mills United Methodist Church. Friends are invited to call on the family starting at 2PM A Celebration of Life Remembrance will be held immediately following the service.

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Dorothy Alice Gokey - June 12, 1941 - March 13, 2024

Departed: 03/13/2024 (Whitesboro)

Obituary Preview: Dorothy Alice (Dottie) Gokey, 82, of Forestport, formerly of Clinton, passed away on March 13, 2024, at Colonial Park Rehabilitation & Nursing Center.

She was born, June 12, 1941, in Poland, NY, the daughter of Edward F. and Alberta B. Silvestri Roberts. Dottie was a Real Estate professional since 1973, as the broker and owner of Gokey Real Estate in Clinton. Known for her integrity, Dottie used her expertise, sincerity and diplomacy to tirelessly advocate for her clients.

Survivors include her son, Ted P. Gokey; grandsons, Tyler Gokey, Joshua Gokey and Travis Gokey; several great-grandchildren; special daughter-in-law, Catherine Poissant (Gokey); a brother, Ted Roberts; a special nephew, Rob Roberts; niece Kristen and Tony Putrelo, and the Sylvester family; and many dear friends, including Marion Guillaume, Ed Benn, Suzie Van Vranken, and Karen Zaccaro.

In accordance with Dottie’s wishes, there will be no public services. Arrangements are in care of Dimbleby Funeral Homes, Inc., 40 Main St., Whitesboro.

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Vincent J. Grasso - January 14, 1927 - March 12, 2024

Departed: 03/12/2024 (Whitesboro)

Obituary Preview: Vincent J. Grasso Oriskany, NY

Vincent J. Grasso, 97, of Oriskany passed away peacefully at his home surrounded by the love of his family on Tuesday, March 12, 2024.

He was born on January 14, 1927 in Rome, NY a son of the late Alfio and Anna (Pugliese) Grasso. He was a graduate of Rome Free Academy and attended Niagara University in Buffalo.

On September 26, 1953 at St. Stephens Catholic Church in Oriskany he was united in marriage to Charlene Yoxall, a blessed union of over 36 years filled with much love and mutual devotion. Mrs. Grasso passed away on February 12, 1990.

He was a devout member of St. Paul’s Catholic Church in Whitesboro where he served as an usher for many years.

Vinny was employed with Red Star Express where he retired after many years of dedicated service. He later accepted a full time position with the Eastern Star Home in Oriskany. He worked his whole life on the family produce farm in Rome, a job he truly loved, working the land and driving his tractor brought him much joy. Always thinking of neighbors and friends, dropping off fresh produce on their doorstep. A “do-it-yourselfer,” He remodeled his home and helped his children and friends with many projects. In his free time he enjoyed working on his family farm and spending time with his longtime friends. He had a wonderful sense of humor and he loved music, “Easy Listening” on Music Choice was his favorite. Most of all it was his family who brought him great joy, especially spending time with his adored children and grandchildren.

He is survived by his children, Marie (Thomas) Fenton of Oriskany, Nanette Conney of Oriskany and Mark (Elizabeth) Grasso of Rome. He leaves his grandchildren, Blake (John) Doyle, Shelby (Matthew) Fyles, Melissa (Brian Foppel) Elsaesser, Ashley (Matthew) DiMeo, Christopher (Danielle) Elsaesser and Vincent Grasso, great grandchildren, Ella Fyles, MJ DiMeo, Cecily DiMeo, Vienna DiMeo, Julianna Elsaesser, Roisen Doyle, and Dominick Elsaesser, sister-in-law Mary Lou Berie and many nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his daughter, Annette (David) Rathbun on June 30, 2018, a son-in-law, David Conney and his siblings, Lena Esposito, Mary Salce, Frank Grasso, and Josephine Mecca.

The family wishes to sincerely thank the staff of Elder Choice Home Care and dear family friend Amy Buckley for the wonderful care and compassion given to their father during his illness.

Funeral services will be on Tuesday, March 19, 2024 at 9:30 AM at St. Paul’s Catholic Church in Whitesboro where a Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated by the Rev. Thomas Durant officiating. Interment will be in Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Whitesboro. Family and friends are invited to call on Monday March 18, 2024 from 4:00 PM to 7:00 PM at the Dimbleby Funeral Homes Inc. 40 Main St. Whitesboro.

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Valerie J. Jones - March 27, 1940 - March 10, 2024

Departed: 03/10/2024 (Whitesboro)

Obituary Preview: Valerie Jean (England) (Stuttard) Jones passed away on March 10, 2024 at her home with her family by her side.

Valerie was born March 27, 1940, in Utica N.Y. to Ralph K. and Victoria (Gillette) England. She was a 1957 graduate of U.F.A and later Mercer Co. Community College, in N.J. graduating as a Registered Nurse.

She was married to Richard W. Stuttard in 1958 and to John “Phil” Jones in 1969. Upon retirement she moved to Florida for 7 years, later Norwich, N.Y. before coming home to Utica in 2012.

Valerie was a lifelong fan of the L.A. (Brooklyn) Dodgers, Jeopardy, and of American History, as a member and officer of the Historical Society, where she lived. She also enjoyed playing in Bridge groups. Valerie was a member of the Oneida Co. History Center, Landmarks Society of Greater Utica, Herkimer, New Hartford, Clinton, and Stone Arabia Historical Societies. Additional memberships include New Hartford Presbyterian Church, the Oneida Chapter DAR, Society of Mayflower Descendants, and the UFA Alumni Associations.

Valerie is survived by her children, Richard W. (Sherry) Stuttard, Jr. of Florida, Sharilyn (Mark) Kane, of Arkansas, Michelle Jacob of Illinois, and Andrew K. (Beth) Jones; step children, Lawrence (Barbara), David (Constance), Dale (Catherine), Scott (Angela), all of N.J. and Lori Smith of N.Y.; 26 grandchildren, 20 great grandchildren; as well as her sister, Barbara J. Wuest, niece, Rebecca Wuest Ruffing (Jim), nephews Kevin (Liz) Wuest, of Whitesboro, and Brian Wuest, of Florida; as well as her cherished feline companion, Maggie.

She was predeceased by her husband of 50 years, Phil Jones, step daughter, Deborah Ann Barclay, of Ohio; and a granddaughter, Lori, of N.J.

Friends are invited to call of the family on Friday March 15, from 10-11 AM at Dimbleby Funeral Homes, Inc. a service will be held immediately following. Interment will be in West Schuyler Cemetery at a later date.

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Donna Fenton Shoemaker - January 07, 1943 - March 02, 2024

Departed: 03/02/2024 (Whitesboro)

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Donna Fenton Shoemaker, 81, of Utica passed away peacefully at the Siegenthaler Center surrounded by the love of her family on Saturday, March 2, 2024.

She was born on January 7, 1943 in Utica a daughter of the late Frances and Doris (Hoff) Fenton. She was a graduate of Utica Free Academy and the St. Elizabeth’s School of Nursing.

On March 27, 1965 she was united in marriage to Richard A. Shoemaker, a blessed union of over 54 years filled with much love and mutual devotion, Mr. Shoemaker passed away on June 22, 2019. She was also predeceased by an infant daughter Robin Shoemaker in 1966.

She was employed as an LPN at St. Elizabeth’s for many years and most recently with the State of New York DDSO in Rome. Retiring after many years of dedicated service.

She is remembered by her family as a loving and caring wife, mother, and grandmother who cherished the time she spent with her family, especially her adored grandchildren, and her very special canine companions.

She is survived by her son Richard F. Shoemaker of Marcy, a daughter Renee (Patrick Van Etten) Jones of Marcy. She leaves her adored grandchildren, Joshua and Brett Jones and John Eaton. She leaves her siblings, Patricia (Leonard) Soron of Utica, Thomas (Marie) Fenton of Oriskany and Deborah (Russell) Haynes of Inlet, also many nieces, nephews, and cousins including a very special cousin, Kathy Pare’ of San Diego, CA, special nephew Jerry Wall and good neighbor Dick Drake.

The family wishes to sincerely thank the entire Staff of the Hospice Sigenthaler Center for the wonderful care and compassion that was given to Donna during her stay there. Your many acts of kindness and compassion will never be forgotten.

Funeral services will be on Friday March 8, at 11:00 AM at the Dimbleby Funeral Homes Inc. 40 Main St. Whitesboro. Interment will be in Crown Hill Memorial Park. Family and friends are invited to call on Friday one hour prior to the service from 10:00 AM to 11:00 AM.

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Sylvia M. (Hayduk) Jubis - November 18, 1938 - March 02, 2024

Departed: 03/02/2024 (Whitesboro)

Obituary Preview: Sylvia Marion Jubis, 85, of Whitesboro, peacefully passed away on Saturday, March 2, 2024.

She was born, November 18, 1938, in Rome, NY, a daughter of Michael and Mary Tokarsky Hayduk. The family relocated to Lowell, NY, where Sylvia grew up on the family dairy farm where she and her family learned good honest values. She was a graduate of Westmoreland High School. On October 29, 1960, she was united in marriage with Robert G. Jubis, at St. Patrick’s Church, Utica. They built their family home in Whitesboro, NY, where they raised their son, and lived for their entire life. Mr. Jubis passed away on October 14, 1994. Sylvia had a career in banking, retiring from Norstar Bank. Later, she reentered the workforce, working at Zogby International, as a supervisor. She was a member of St. Paul’s Church, Whitesboro.

Sylvia loved listening to and dancing to Polka Music, spending time outside and working in her flower gardens, vacationing and trips to the ocean. Sylvia was a very generous person who would rather give than receive. She was devoted to her family, and never missed a family gathering, holiday, or special event. Sylvia loved being around family and friends, and spending time at her home where everyone was always welcome. She especially loved to spend time with her grandchildren. She never missed a birthday, school events, or sporting events.

She is survived by her son and daughter-in-law, Robert A. and Cathleen Jubis of New Hartford; grandchildren, Robert T. Jubis and Rachel C. Jubis of New Hartford; sisters-in-law and brother-in-law, Helen Hayduk, Ann Hayduk, Ronald and Cathy Jubis, and Raymunda Jubis; niece, Cynthia (Daniel) Kernan; nephews, Michael (Gina) Hayduk, Eric Hayduk, and Brian (Danielle) Hayduk; and many additional nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her parents; her husband; sister, Ann Rhodes, and brothers, Michael Hayduk, John Hayduk, and Joseph Hayduk.

Calling hours are Friday, 5:00-7:30 p.m., at Dimbleby Funeral Homes, Inc., 40 Main St., Whitesboro. Her Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Saturday, 10:30 a.m., at St. Paul’s Church, 16 Park Ave., Whitesboro. Interment will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery.

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Barbara R. Farley - July 23, 1964 - March 01, 2024

Departed: 03/01/2024 (Whitesboro)

Obituary Preview: Barbara R. Farley Whitesboro, NY

Barbara R. Farley, 59, of Whitesboro passed away peacefully surrounded by the love of her family on Friday March 1, 2024 at Wynn Hospital in Utica.

She was born on July 23, 1964 in New Hartford, NY a daughter of the late Bernard and Florence (Perchinski) Radzisz. She was a graduate of Whitesboro Central Schools and SUNY Utica.

Barbara was a Cyber Security Specialists who was employed with Assured Information Security in Rome, where she retired from after many years of dedicated service. She was a member of Purrs and Whiskers located in New Hartford a cat and kitten rescue, where she served as an executive Board Member and Treasurer.

In her free time Barbara enjoyed Arts and Crafts, especially jewelry making and painting. She also enjoyed cooking. Most of all her son James was her everything. She loved and supported him with all her heart. She will be sadly missed by all who knew her.

She is survived by her adored son James Farley of Whitesboro. She also leaves a brother Bud (Val) Radzisz of Rochester, NY, two nephews, Adam and Stephen Radzisz, and a very special friend Ann Contino. She was predeceased by a brother, David Radzisz and a sister Ann Marie Radzisz.

Funeral services will be private and held at the convenience of the family. Arrangements are with the Dimbleby Funeral Homes Inc. 40 Main St. Whitesboro.

For those who wish please consider a donation to Purrs and Whiskers, 3 Shepard Drive, New Hartford, NY 13413-1016 in her memory. For online expressions of sympathy please go to www.dimblebyfh.com

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their family, accomplishments, and funeral or memorial service arrangements.

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Obituaries serve as a way to notify friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a sense of closure and help to celebrate the life of the deceased.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, the family of the deceased or a close friend writes the obituary. In some cases, a funeral home or crematorium may assist with writing the obituary or provide a template for the family to use.

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A typical obituary includes the person's full name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service (if applicable), hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also include information about funeral or memorial service arrangements.

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Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a nice way to personalize the tribute and help readers connect with the person who has passed away.

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If you prefer not to share your loved one's obituary publicly, you can opt for a private or limited-circulation notice. This might be shared only with close family and friends or posted on a private online memorial page.

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Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary in advance as a way to reflect on their life and legacy. This can also be a helpful way to ensure that your wishes are respected and your story is told accurately.

What is the difference between an obituary and a eulogy?

An obituary is a written notice announcing a person's death and providing basic biographical information. A eulogy is a speech or written tribute delivered at a funeral or memorial service, often sharing personal anecdotes and stories about the deceased.

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If there are sensitive details about the person's life or death that you're unsure how to handle, consider consulting with other family members or a trusted advisor. Remember that the goal of an obituary is to honor and celebrate the person's life.

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How do I ensure accuracy in an obituary?