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Jeffrey James Shorter - December 26, 1984 - March 31, 2022

Departed: 03/31/2022 (Fairport)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Jeffrey James Shorter.

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Karen Anne Jones - February 20, 1944 - March 29, 2022

Departed: 03/29/2022 (Fairport)

Obituary Preview: KAREN ANNE JONES

Karen Jones 78, born February 20, 1944 to William and Bertha Dickinson in McKeesport, PA passed into eternal peace on March 28th 2022 surrounded by loved ones in the comfort of her home. Karen is survived by her spouse of 57 years, Robert, and children, Tracie (Richard) Dennis of Saratoga Springs, NY, Audrey (Nicholas) Rozanov of Penfield, NY and Russell (Tiffany) Jones of Maple Valley, WA. Also survived by her siblings Robert (Judy) Dickinson of Allison Park, PA and Terri (Jay) Worrall of Elizabeth, PA. In addition to her parents, Karen is predeceased by her siblings William and Nancy. Karen was the best Grandmother in the world to 13 amazing people and enjoyed being a Great Grandmother to 8 beautiful children and whenever they were in her home, there was always a never-ending supply of her legendary Peanut Butter Rice Krispie treats on hand. Like anyone who loved as much as she did, there is not enough time or space to express how many lives she touched. The world has lost a kind and generous soul. Services will be private.

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Louise H. Waller - August 20, 1925 - March 12, 2022

Departed: 03/12/2022 (Fairport)

Obituary Preview: Louise Henrietta Hetzel Waller died on March 12, 2022 in Rochester NY. She was 96.

She is survived by her two daughters, Dr. Elizabeth Waller (Paul Nunes) and Susan Hipple (Tom Hipple), four granddaughters, Emily Nunes (Billy Jones), Julia Nunes, Sarah Hipple (Nigel Laracuente), Margaret Hackenberger (Kore Hackenberger), and her three great-grandchildren, Eva Jones, Luke and Nevin Hackenberger.

Louise Waller was born to a family of German descent in Chicago IL. She was an only child, the last of five births, all of whom died or were stillborn. She attended the University of Chicago where she met her husband of 19 years, Leslie Waller, author, whose early work she edited.

She and Les moved to New York City in the early 1950s, attending Columbia University and receiving master’s degrees in English. They spent summers on Fire Island NY, first as renters in Ocean beach, and then in Ocean Bay Park, where they built a house.

After the birth of her second child, she went to work full-time at Holt, Rinehart and Winston, Publishers. She became an editor and shepherded the words of several well-known writers, including Robert Frost, Kurt Vonnegut, Charles M. Schultz and Joanne Greenberg (I Never Promised You a Rose Garden).

Eventually she left the fiction branch at Holt, going on to the textbook department. In addition to editing, her job consisted of traveling around the country and the world to recruit academics to write new textbooks in their subject matter. Among them was James McConnell’s Understanding Human Behavior, for which he became a target of the Unibomber. She also took on a number of non-textbook projects, such as the revision of McClane’s New Standard Fishing Encyclopedia.

After many years in New York, she took an editing job in the Chicago area at Rand McNally to be near to and care for her father until his death. At age 60, she shaved a decade off her resume, and moved to Dubuque, IA to work for William C. Brown Publishing, editing primarily psychology and sociology texts. She later returned to New York City and took jobs at St. Martin’s Press, and then Columbia University Press.

After her retirement at 75, she became a docent at the Hudson River Museum, a volunteer job she enjoyed immensely. At age 80, she moved to Rochester NY, to take advantage of its top-tier medical facilities.

She was a life-long Democrat and animal-lover. She enjoyed theater, literature and art. Donations in her memory may be given to any charity which promotes these passions. The family will honor her privately.

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Phyllis S. Lawrie - July 07, 1941 - March 10, 2022

Departed: 03/10/2022 (Fairport)

Obituary Preview: Fairport: It is with great sadness that the family of Phyllis Lawrie announce her passing on Thursday, March 10, 2022 at the age of 80. She is survived by sons, Brett (Beth) Lawrie and Thomas (Liz) A. Lawrie II; sister, Barbara Ann Siegl; and grandchildren, Vanessa, Sabrina, Matthew and Sydney. Phyllis was predeceased by her loving husband of 46 years, Thomas Lawrie; parents Stanley and Celia Swinsick. Phyllis was retired from Fairport Central Schools and at one time was a volunteer at Perinton Ambulance. No funeral or memorial service is immediately planned. The family will notify loved ones in the future when a service is scheduled.  Memorial donations may be made to the Fairport Baptist Home.

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Evelyn K. Bennett - October 30, 1923 - February 14, 2022

Departed: 02/14/2022 (Fairport)

Obituary Preview: Evelyn K. Bennett  October 30, 1923 -  February 14, 2022.  Age 98.   She was predeceased by her loving and caring husband of 55 years, Gerald Bennett;  and her son, Roger Bennett.   She is survived by her son, Larry (Arlyce) Bennett of St. Cloud,MN; daughter, Kaye (Mark) Brotzman of Rochester, NY; son, David Bennett of Mitchell, SD; and daughter, Judy Stengel of Rochester, NY.  Also, 9 grandchildren, Sean, Jessica, Jennifer, Rebecca, Amy, Melissa, Kelly, Monica and James and 14 great grandchildren. Evelyn was born in Paynesville, MN.  She graduated from Paul’s Beauty College in St. Paul, MN and owned her own beauty shop.  She married Gerald Bennett on November 16, 1946 and was a homemaker for 55 years in St. Cloud, MN.   F

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Carl Norman Friedman - September 09, 1945 - February 07, 2022

Departed: 02/07/2022 (Fairport)

Obituary Preview: CARL NORMAN FRIEDMAN September 9, 1945 - February 7, 2022

It is with great sadness that we announce the loss of the beloved patriarch of our family, Carl.  He passed away peacefully from a rapidly progressing illness on the evening of February 7, 2022.  He will be sadly missed by his wife, brothers, children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, extended family and friends.

Carl demonstrated a strong desire to help those in need at an early age. He achieved BSA Eagle Scout status, Order of the Arrow and continued with Explorers while still in his early years of high school. He worked at BSA summer Camps and taught life-saving skills.  He served as a Collins, NY volunteer fireman and also volunteered his time in community service programs to uplift others.

He graduated with a BS from MSU in KY.  He was a member of the Teacher Corp in Buffalo, NY for his MS and worked on a doctorate program at the University of Buffalo. He always joked about graduating “ABD,” (all but the dissertation)!  He eagerly continued on a life-long path of learning over the years, whether it was for fun or his career.

He was a member of high school and college wrestling teams, the Schenectady Curling Club, enjoyed playing golf, bowling, antiquing, camping and fishing in the Adirondacks, and even a few games of the neighborhood Thanksgiving Day touch football game.

Carl always shared his love of nature, animals and God with his family and friends.  He began his Catholic faith journey in Morehead, KY with a beloved priest, Father Edward Haggerty, who not only guided Carl through his studies in Catholicism, but celebrated the Sacraments of Marriage and his children’s Baptisms.  Carl’s spiritual journey continued to strengthen throughout the years, completing a two-year program with the Albany Catholic Diocese. He retired after serving 38 years with the New York State Department of Education.  He loved his career.  He always looked forward to the challenges and rewards of helping parents, students, and school personnel in need of guidance.  He was a member and served in leadership roles for the New York State Attendance Teachers Organization

and the International Association of Attendance Teachers.  Early on in his career he was an Assistant Principal, and while at BOCES developed  award-winning programs to assist students with their path to the future.

He cared for and was always ready to help those in need.

He took on challenges in a steadfast manner with determination.  His zeal for life was infectious.  He inspired our entire family to live life, enjoy the journey and most of all love….

Carl wished to be cremated.  There will be a Catholic Mass and Burial Service on Saturday May 7th at 11:00AM at Church of the Assumption 20 East Avenue. Fairport, NY. with Burial to follow at White Haven Memorial Park in the Maplewood Mausoleum.

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Frank A. Betz - August 18, 1945 - February 02, 2022

Departed: 02/02/2022 (Fairport)

Obituary Preview: With great sadness, we announce the loss of our beloved father, husband and papa.  In loving memory of Frank Anthony Betz ( born 8/18/1945) ,  we are saddened to announce his  passing on February 2, 2022.  A life so beautifully lived deserves to be beautifully remembered. He passed away peacefully surrounded by his family. Frank is  survived by his wife of 51 years Dorothy Betz, his sister Sandra Johnson,  and daughters Julie McGann ( David ) and Laura Collins ( Jason ) and grandchildren Tyler McGann, Katie McGann, Grace McGann , Jackson Collins and Jane Collins.  He also is survived by countless other family members, friends and colleagues.  Frank was a phenomenal human being.  He was a great husband, father and grandfather.   He was an incredibly hard worker/ driven  to support his family. He did everything for his family ❤

Frank was a veteran and served in the United States Army during the Vietnam War.   He was the type of person that everyone just wanted to be around.  He will be missed by so many.

Family and friends are invited to celebrate the life of Frank on Saturday February 12, 2022 at 10:00 am.   It will be held at the Church of Assumption, 20 East Ave Fairport, NY 14450 .  Interment will be in White Haven Memorial Park at a later date.  Memorial donations may be made to the American Heart .

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Gordon M. Metz - August 11, 1942 - January 31, 2022

Departed: 01/31/2022 (Fairport)

Obituary Preview: Gordon M Metz August 11 1942 - January 31 2022

Survived by wife Emily Forster, various in-laws, outlaws, nieces and nephews.

Predeceased by father Charles Alan, mother Marie Ohara, brother Alan Richard, sister Barbara Kinsky, sister Suzanne Kinsky.

A date for Gordon's Celebration of Life Service is set for May 21, 2022.  Time and place to be announced. USAF 1961 – 1965

Gordon was a television broadcast engineer for 40 years beginning at WXXI (before it was on the air) and retiring from CBS New York where he worked both sports and news. He was wicked smart, self taught, magnanimous and humble. His hobbies were passions: sailing, classical guitar (taking night classes at Julliard) and computers. He would buy used computers, rebuild them and give them to people who were in need. Many of them Iraqi, Afghani, Arab and Haitian immigrants. He embraced any forgotten or ignored soul especially cats. He had the heart of the lion that he was and a courage that most can only dream of.

In his name, please consider donating to Aurora House Hospice (https://aurorahouse.org/donations/), Keeping Our Promise,( https://www.keepingourpromise.org/donate.html ) Rochester Greenovation (https://www.rochestergreen.org/how-to-help/material-donations/) and any of many local cat rescue organizations.  We would like to thank the RN's and Aides of U of R Hospice who provided invaluable care to assist Gordon on his journey.

There will be a celebration of Gordy's Life on May 21, 2022 at place and time to be announced.  If you are interested in attending, please click on the Tribute Wall  and include your name and email address in the condolences box and you will receive an invite when the date is finalized.

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William F. Space - May 01, 1941 - January 29, 2022

Departed: 01/29/2022 (Fairport)

Obituary Preview: William F. “Sam” Space of Fairport, NY passed away on 1/29/22 after a long journey with Alzheimer’s Disease.  Those who were lucky enough to know Sam know that he was larger than life and lived his life based on love and devotion to family and friends, service to country and community, and stories that he loved to share. Sam was born on May 1, 1941 in Williamsport, PA, the home of little league baseball, to Gerald and Ruth Space.  He was raised in Forty-Fort, PA and graduated High School in 1959. He attended Wilkes College and graduated with a BA in education and mathematics in 1963.  At the end of his senior year at Wilkes he was named “Young Man of the Year.”

Sam’s service to country began when he joined the United States Marine Corps in the summers of 1960 and 1962 in the Platoon Leader Class.  He received his commission as a Second Lieutenant upon graduation from Wilkes College.  He completed Naval Aviation training and became a Captain and navigator of F-4 fighter jets, flying over 400 missions during 2 tours in Vietnam. Sam received multiple recognitions and honors including the Distinguished Flying Cross and Navy Achievement Medal for Meritorious Service in Vietnam.

In 1970 Sam was honorably discharged from the Marines because he wanted to spend more time with his family.  He had met Bonnie, the love of his life in 1960.  Bonnie tells that he had seen her around and decided one weekend that he would spend time with her until he really got to know her.  By the end of the weekend they were dating, and by the next year they were engaged. They married in Wilkes-Barre, PA in June 1963.  Their beloved first child and only son, Michael arrived later that year.  Daughter Sharon arrived in 1964, and daughter Carol perfectly completed their family in 1968.

After the Marines he became a sales manager for Procter & Gamble where he worked until he retired in 2000.  His job with P&G brought him to Fairport in 1971 and he lived there until his death.  This is where his service to community flourished. Sam was active in the Fairport Packers youth football association.  The family spent weekends skiing at Ski Valley where Sam served as president and was active on the board and membership committee. He joined Rotary shortly after moving to Fairport and remained active in the club until recently, serving as president and being honored as a Paul Harris Fellow.  Sam also served on the Zoning Board of Appeals for Perinton for over 30 years and on the board of the Fairport Federal Credit Union.  After his retirement he became a rules official and served on the board of the Rochester District Golf Association.

Sam is survived by his loving family including his adored first wife of 58 years, Bonnie; son Michael Space, daughter Dr. Sharon Space, and daughter Carol Space Fisher and son-in-law Barry Fisher and Swiss exchange daughter Maja Bamert;  5 grandchildren he idolized including Emily Elizabeth, Eric, Julia, McGwire, and Will; sister Janet Curcio and niece Lisa; sisters-in-law Judy and Carol and brother in law Jim, and many nieces and nephews; and distant cousins Johnny Yakabuski and former Senator Delbert Cragle of Nebraska.

Rather than turn this into one of Sam’s endless stories that could entertain his family and friends for hours, we will end with a quote from Sam’s flight journal.  “I have too often looked death in the face to be afraid of him now.”  You’re right Sam, death should be afraid of you.  We love you and we miss you.

Celebration of Life will take place on May 13, 2022 from 4:00PM -7:00PM at The Perinton Community Center. 1350 Turk Hill Road.  Fairport, NY. 14450, with a service at 4:30 PM. Sam’s family asks that you view a video featuring Sam speaking of his military service at https://youtu.be/7ILaAuWHOOo We also ask that you share all your stories and pictures of Sam with us via email at rememberingsamspace@gmail.com

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Barbara Kedzierski - December 30, 1942 - January 29, 2022

Departed: 01/29/2022 (Fairport)

Obituary Preview: Beloved sister and aunt, Barbara Ellen Kedzierski was called by God to join her parents Stanley and Ann Kedzierski along with her sister and brother-in-law Arlene and Bernie Bialaszewski.

She left us on January 29,2022 after a long illness.

She leaves behind her sister Karen Kedzierski and brother from North Carolina Kenneth (Beverly) Kedzierski. Two nephews Michael (Brenda) Bialaszewski and Brian (Kari) Kedzierski. Four nieces Elaine, Pamela and Sandra Bialaszewski and Leanne (Jake) Coffen. Two great nieces Mary (Kassie) Bialaszewki and Madison Coffen and a great nephew Jacob Coffin.

Barb was an active member at St. Stanislaus Catholic Church. She enjoyed playing bingo and visits to the casino. Before retirement she was employed by the State of New York.

Barb will be missed by all who knew and loved her.

Donations in her memory can be made to:  Friends of St. Stanislaus Foundation, Inc., c/o St. Stanislaus Koska, 34 St. Stanislaus Street, Rochester, NY 14621.

At this time the family would like to thank the staff at Rochester General Hospital for the loving care they showed at this time.

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David V. DeLuca - July 02, 1942 - January 26, 2022

Departed: 01/26/2022 (Fairport)

Obituary Preview: July 2, 1942 - January 26, 2022 David Victor DeLuca

David DeLuca, loving husband, father and grandfather died suddenly on Wednesday, January 26, 2022 from complications following heart surgery. He was a scholar, musician, photographer, collegiate Hall of Fame athlete, and a well-known Rochester attorney for the past 53 years.

Predeceased by his parents, Carl & Arlene DeLuca of Gloversville, NY, David is survived by his wife of fifty two years, Susan Secrest DeLuca, his sons and their families, Michael, April & Lily DeLuca of Enfield, CT, Benton, Laurie, Ellie & Annie DeLuca of Hockessin, DE, and James, Sonya, Max & Dylan DeLuca of Napa, CA, his sister & brother in law Deanna DeLuca Goldstein & Dr. Earl Goldstein of Carlsbad, CA, his step mother in law, Camille Adams of Sarasota, FL,  nephews, cousins, and many friends.

David was born on July 2, 1942 in Gloversville, NY. He graduated from Williston Academy, Brown University and Syracuse University College of Law. He was a practicing attorney in Rochester for 53 years, and continued to enjoy going into his office every day. The highlight of many of his days was his lunch with clients, fellow attorneys and friends.

David was a gifted athlete in several sports before choosing to focus on baseball in college.  He earned Division 1 All-America honors and was selected to the Brown University Athletic Hall of Fame. After moving to Rochester in 1968 he enjoyed playing fast pitch baseball, slow pitch softball, flag football and golf and many of his teammates remained his closest friends.  He was a loyal Boston Red Sox fan and enjoyed many games at Fenway Park.  David had a great eye for photography and enjoyed capturing the moment by taking and developing his own pictures.

David’s favorite hobby was music and he was an avid record collector. At one time he owned two juke boxes which he filled with choice 45’s from his legendary record collection.  David was the co-founder of the acapella doo-wop group the Showvinistics which published two award winning albums and opened for a “Who’s Who” of Rock and Roll, including the Beach Boys, the Temptations, Chuck Berry, Frankie Avalon, Chubby Checker, Johnny Maestro & The Brooklyn Bridge, the Isely Brothers and the Neville Brothers among others.  The group performed at Cleveland’s Rock and Roll Hall of Fame, sang our national anthem live at Jacobs Field, Camden Yards, and Buffalo Bills Stadium, and entertained countless guests at various Rochester venues & private parties.

David’s passion was his family and he was a loving, giving husband, father and grandfather. Those who knew him also knew all about his kids and grandkids as he never failed to share stories about them. He was the master of the “family meeting” technique of resolving conflict, a tradition his sons have carried on with their families. He taught everyone how to communicate clearly, acknowledge a mistake, apologize and hug it out.

David was a great “boy dad”, role model, mentor, youth coach and counselor.  He was a proud GrandPa who delighted in his grandchildren’s accomplishments in academics, athletics, dance, gymnastics, music and photography.  He enjoyed playing cards and games with them, and telling them all about their fathers.

We will dearly miss his enthusiasm and smile, his wisdom and sense of humor, his stories and hugs. A celebration of his life will be held at a later date.

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Lorenzo Danesi - March 02, 1942 - January 18, 2022

Departed: 01/18/2022 (Fairport)

Obituary Preview: Beloved Husband and Father, Lorenzo Danesi went to join his Wife Gloria on January 18th, 2022. May our Loving and Gracious Lord Rejoin them for Eternity.

Lorenzo was born in Italy and moved to the U.S. as a young man. He met his wife Gloria in Boston Mass. and they moved to Rochester N.Y. and settled in East Rochester where he obtained a job working for the Xerox Corp. and they raised a family.Lorenzo also installed carpet, linoleum and tile on the side. He was a man of many skills and enjoyed working with his hands. Lorenzo Loved the town of East Rochester and the people in it. Lorenzo was very active and in his spare time enjoyed helping people, playing the horse races, playing the lotto and having coffee with family and friends. Lorenzo Loved his Wife Gloria and his Children Carla Danesi and Domenico Danesi very much. He named his children after his parents. Lorenzo loved his Grandchildren Bria, Lorenzo, Selah, Judaea, Gabriel and Angelina very much and took great pride in them. Lorenzo was a Loving, Happy, Friendly,Vibrant, Extraordinarily Wonderful,Gentle, Caring man. Words cannot truly express how much his children and grandchildren Love him. Lorenzo will be deeply and profoundly missed.

In accordance with his final wishes, Lorenzo will be cremated and his ashes returned to his homeland of Italy. A Remembrance Gathering will be held by his family to honor him on Saturday March 26th, 2022 from 1:00 PM - 5:00 PM at the Senior Center in theTown Hall 317 Main Street,  East Rochester, New York 14445 Condolence messages are being accepted at: 141 W. Commercial St. Apt.A

East Rochester, N.Y. 14445.

PLEASE:  The family requests the courtesy of NO FLOWERS.

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David G. Fake - April 08, 1927 - December 18, 2021

Departed: 12/18/2021 (Fairport)

Obituary Preview: David G. Fake of Penfield, New York.  David passed on December 18, 2021 at age 94.  He was pe-deceased by his loving wife Catherine in 2017.  He is survived by his Step-daughter Lynda ( Douglas ) Ryon.  2 Grandchildren, Bradley Ryon and Corey ( Ilona ) Ryon,  2 Great -grandchilden, Colin and Keegan.  Also by1 niece and 2 nephews.

David was a long time Pharmacist in Fairport and then Wegmans Pharmacy.

A private service will be held at a later date.  Memorials may be made to the Fairport Baptist Church in his memory.

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Paul A. DiPasquale - April 19, 1944 - November 22, 2021

Departed: 11/22/2021 (Fairport)

Obituary Preview: Paul A. DiPasquale passed away on Monday, November 22nd after a long illness at age 77.  Paul was born on April 19, 1944, at Paddington Hospital, London, England.  He came to this country when he was two years old.  He attended #52 School and East High School in Rochester, NY. He attended Monroe Community College and graduated from St. John Fisher College.

Paul worked for many years at Bausch and Lomb as a Graphic Designer. He retired from Xerox where he was an Installation Engineer.

Paul was pre-deceased by his parents Anthony C. and Kathleen DiPasquale. He leaves behind his son, Brian, of Seattle, Washington; grandsons, Dylan and Conor; sister and brother-in-law Eileen and Gary DiPalma; niece Erin Sabins and her husband Andrew.

There will be a private burial with no service.

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Theodore Anthony Ippolito - May 17, 1949 - November 09, 2021

Departed: 11/09/2021 (Fairport)

Obituary Preview: Theodore Anthony Ippolito passed away peacefully surrounded by his family on November 09, 2021.  He will be sadly missed. He is survived by his daughter Tracy Ippolito Guasto ,   his brother Christopher Ippolito and  sister Mary Ann  ( Tony ) Tiberio, also by his  granddaughter  Raena Guasto, and the love of his life, Cathy Hutton also by his good friend Russell.

No services are planned at this time.

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Joanne E. Stanley - December 02, 1940 - November 06, 2021

Departed: 11/06/2021 (Fairport)

Obituary Preview: Joanne Stanley, beloved wife of Bertram Stanley, passed away at home of Alzheimer’s disease on November 6 at the age of 80. Predeceased by her parents Raniero and Rose Tauro, Joanne is survived by Bert and their children Craig and Cheryl.

Joanne, a graduate of Monroe Community College, studied piano at Nazareth College and taught piano for several years.

Joanne and Bert were married for 61 wonderful years.  Her loving heart and gentle way will be sadly missed. Given her love of nature, she will be interred in the Nature Trail at White Haven Memorial Park.  At this time, no services are planned.  In lieu of other remembrances, please donate to Alzheimer’s Association at www.alz.org/rochesterny

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Jack H. Snelgrove - March 04, 1953 - November 02, 2021

Departed: 11/02/2021 (Fairport)

Obituary Preview: A beloved son, father, grandfather, cousin and friend, Jack Harold Snelgrove left this world unexpectedly, in his sleep on November 2, 2021, in his home at 68 years old. Born in Regensburg, Germany on March 4, 1953, to Jack and Irmgard (Snelgrove.) Jack grew up and lived most of his life in Rochester, NY, and many of those years he spent living on Lake Ontario and Irondequoit Bay.

Jack was the father to Jacquelyn (Tom) Seymour, James, Jeremy, and Jonathan (Sheena.) He had three precious grandchildren, Riley, Brianna, and Odin. He spent 12 years in the Army National Guard and served our Nation in Operation Desert Storm from 1990-1991. Jack loved being on the water and boating. He enjoyed motorcycles and was a collector of coins and movies. He loved to be with his family and will forever be missed.

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Arlene A. Bialaszewski - March 09, 1940 - October 31, 2021

Departed: 10/31/2021 (Fairport)

Obituary Preview: Arlene A.  Bialaszewski

Sunday, October 31, 2021, age 81.  Predeceased by her husband of 61 years, Bernard; survived by son, Michael (Brenda); daughters: Elaine, Pamela, Sandra Bialaszewski; granddaughter, Mary (Kassie); sisters: Barbara and Karen Kedzierski; brother Kenneth (Beverly) Kedzierski; nieces & nephews.  Arlene was a long time member of the Holy Name of Mary Society.  Arlene was born to be a mother, caring for not only her children but was a loving mother figure to Kimberly, Annmarie, Danny and Jessica.  She was also well known for her baking skills, especially her famous kuchen that many looked forward to having around the holidays.  Arlene’s funeral mass will be combined with a memorial service for Bernard, her husband at Saint Stanislaus Koska Church on Saturday, November 6, 2021 at 9:30am. Burial will be at Holy Sepulchre Cemetery.  A Celebration of their lives will be held at a later date.  For those not able to attend the funeral mass, they can watch it via live stream by going to https://www.saintstanislausrochester.org Arrangements are being handled by David A. Doser Funeral Home in Fairport, NY.  Donations in her memory can be made to:  Friends of St. Stanislaus Foundation, Inc., c/o St. Stanislaus Koska, 34 St. Stanislaus Street, Rochester, NY 14621.

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Marie E. Loder - May 09, 1931 - September 10, 2021

Departed: 09/10/2021 (Fairport)

Obituary Preview: Marie Loder (Tarquin) age 90, of Geneva, Clyde and Fairport, passed on peacefully, due to natural causes, on September 10th 2021. She leaves behind her four children, Stephen Loder, David Loder, June Loder and Joni Scheemaker Gala. She enjoyed five grandchildren, Kelly Loder, Scott Loder, Cassandra Gutierrez, Dylan Scheemaker and Myles Gala, as well as six great grandchildren. She was pre-deceased by her husband Harry (Gar) Loder.

Marie was a strong, loving, women who worked hard her whole life to help provide for her family. She was always very generous and enjoyed giving little thoughtful gifts to her loved ones, friends and anyone in need. She loved to create wonderful meals for her family and was an amazing cook. She worked in the family restaurant most of her life. She also worked for Thomas Electronics in Clyde and The BonTon Department store at Eastview Mall, she always kept up with the latest fashions. Many people said she was a great boss and a real “get-the-job-done” kind of Gal. She loved to travel when she could and always tried to save enough money to take family vacations. She loved to exercise her body and mind. She worked out at her favorite gym, rode her bicycle and enjoyed sudoku and crossword puzzles. She had a very strong faith in God, she was a prayer warrior and prayed every day for health and healing for herself, her loved ones, and anyone that she knew about who needed prayer.

Her wishes were to be cremated. In lui of being shown at the funeral home, we are celebrating her life with a mass at The Church of the Assumption, 20 East Ave. Fairport, NY.  On Friday September 17, 2021 at 11:15 AM.

Her family would like to thank all the loving caregivers and nurses at the Fairport Baptist Home who took such great care of her.

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John Clark Howe Jr - October 13, 1947 - September 02, 2021

Departed: 09/02/2021 (Fairport)

Obituary Preview: John Clark Howe, Jr.

Pittsford NY – Passed away peacefully on September 2, 2021, at age 73. Predeceased by his parents, Jack and Mary Howe, and brother Carl.

He is survived by his loving wife of 44 years Janice (“Jani”); uncle Guy L. (Bud) Howe, cousins and many life-long friends whom he considered as family too.

Janice would like to thank our extended family and friends who supported John during his illness and to the UofR health care professionals, especially his doctors who John called his special friends, for their extraordinary care and support.

A private burial will be held.  Friends  are invited to a Memorial Service on Friday October 15, 2021 at 2:00 PM in All Seasons Chapel at White Haven Memorial Park.  Following that a Celebration of John's  life will take place at 4:00 PM in Powder Horn Lodge in Powder Mills Park. in lieu of flowers, you are invited to make a donation to Camp Good Days and Special Times or a charity of your choice in John’s memory.

John was born in Rochester, NY on October 13, 1947.  He had a happy, adventurous childhood growing up in Long Meadow, Pittsford NY.  He loved spending summers with his parents boating and fishing out of Henderson Harbor on Lake Ontario  and travelling on the St. Lawrence River in the Thousand Islands. His two most favorite places on the Lake were Galoo Island and Main Duck Island.  He also spent several fun-filled summers at the Y’s Camp Corey.

Following his High School education at Sutherland H.S., he entered the U. S. Navy in 1964 and served 2 tours of duty in Vietnam as a Radioman in cryptographic communications with top secret security clearance, received a Unit Citation and in 1968 an Honorable Discharge in 1968.  From 1969 to 1976 John travelled the world as a Merchant Seaman on various steamship lines.  From 1976 to 1980 John and Jani owned and operated a carpet cleaning business in Long Beach, California.

In 1980, John and Jani relocated to Rochester with their beloved parrot “Bunga.”  He then began his 25-year career at the University of Rochester’s Central Utilities where he became Operating Engineer responsible for operation of all equipment for delivery of steam and chilled water to the University Medical Center and River Campus.

John worked very hard, but he also knew how to have fun and was always up for an adventure.  For 20 years, when not working, he and Jani had many thrilling summers on their beautiful wooden Chris Craft sea skiff, “Marzoc,” which they restored and kept at Henderson Harbor.  John was so excited to share with Jani and friends his favorite fishing spots on the Lake.  And every summer included trips and over-night stays at Galoo Island, Main Duck Island and the Thousand Islands.

John retired in 2005 and bought his dream boat, which he researched for over a year before ordering.  He named the 36’ Mainship, “Jani.”  The couple decided to keep the boat at Pultneyville and joined the Pultneyville Yacht Club where many more adventures were enjoyed and many new friends were made, some of them so special they became life-long friends and family.  Winters,  John and Jani spent time in Florida and often returned to California and Nevada to visit friends and family.  John also became interested in working out and developed a lasting friendship with his trainer.

Following a life-threatening illness in 2010, (from which he miraculously recovered after nearly two years) John joined the YMCA in Pittsford and worked out rigorously five days a week.  He bonded with several amazing people there, some of whom became so close that he considered them part of his extended family.

During that time John also served as a dedicated volunteer every Thursday for Unity’s Medical/Oncology Unit at the St. Mary’s campus.   His compassion and love for people brought much joy to patients there over the years.  He often reflected on how much he admired the strength and positive attitude that the medical professionals and many of the patients projected during the difficult times they endured.

John had a dynamic personality with an extraordinary curiosity and love for life and all living things.  He had a gift of encouragement, and he always believed the best in everyone he met.  He had a wonderful sense of humor and loved to laugh and entertain others with his colorful stories and silly sayings.  He was a wonderful human being, totally authentic and remarkably stable.  He was a very grateful and happy person with unconditional love and a perpetual sense of optimism.  He will be sorely missed and never forgotten.

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Donna Marie Gaffke - January 19, 1951 - August 13, 2021

Departed: 08/13/2021 (Fairport)

Obituary Preview: Donna Marie Gaffke passed away on August 13, 2021 in Strong Memorial Hospital at age 70.   The daughter of William . Gaffke and Gertrude M. Brady.  Survived by her sisters, Mary Ann McClurg and Eileen Stanley.

Donna worked as a telephone operator for Rochester Telephone.

She will be interred in United German and French Cemetery in Cheektowaga, New York on Monday August 23, 2021.

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Stephanie E. Sher - November 13, 1938 - July 29, 2021

Departed: 07/29/2021 (Fairport)

Obituary Preview: Stephanie Ellsworth Sher passed away on July 29, 2021, at home at age 82 after a long battle with Alzheimer’s disease.  Prior to her 1998 move to Naples, New York, she lived in Boxborough, Massachusetts from 1981 to 1998, and in Acton, Massachusetts from 1971 to 1981.

She was born Barbara Ann Ellsworth on November 13, 1938, in Phoenix, Arizona, the second of four children born to the late Russell Smith and Mary Helene (Worlton) Ellsworth.  A descendant of Mormon pioneers, she attended Brigham Young University, where she was active in singing groups, and the University of Pennsylvania, where she received a PhD in immunology under a National Science Foundation fellowship.  At Penn, she changed her name from Barbara to Stephanie, and met and married Lawrence David Sher in 1967.  They subsequently lived for the next year in Shiraz, Iran, where they had been invited to teach as visiting academics.  Stephanie and Larry moved to Boston in 1971 and Stephanie taught immunology at MIT, where she was on the team of scientists who developed artificial skin for burn victims, allowing many more of them to survive.  When her lab was spun off into a private company in the mid-1980s, she taught herself a computer programming language and operated a successful consultancy for the next 15 years.

Stephanie had three lifelong passions:  Her husband, Larry; the right of individuals to die with dignity and choices in care; and horses, especially Icelandics. She kept a stable of horses for the last half of her life, and especially enjoyed breeding and training them.  She and Larry took horseback riding vacations all over the world. She was also a “life” member of the Hemlock Society, now known as Compassion & Choices, vigorously advocating for physician-assisted suicide and death with dignity.

Stephanie was predeceased by her parents and her husband, Larry, who died in December 2005.  She is survived by her daughter, Talia (Sher) Boulanger, Talia’s husband Luke, and their children Miles and Nathaniel Foster, and Marie, Henri, and Mai Boulanger; her son, Aaron Sher and his wife Kerri (Lammerts) Sher; her brother Russell Ellsworth and his wife Karma; her sister Bromwyn Helene and her longtime partner Frank Van Valkenburgh; and her brother James Ellsworth and his wife Lauren; and former brother-in-law Stanley Kiyonaga and his wife Nancy. She is also survived by nine nieces and nephews, including Russell’s children Alec, Sterling, and Stephanie; Bromwyn’s children James, Sumiko, and Siani; and James’ children Morgan, Leihoku, and Kellar, with her nephew Morgan having lived with and helped care for her during a year of her later life.

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Charles H. Palmer III - May 27, 1932 - July 27, 2021

Departed: 07/27/2021 (Fairport)

Obituary Preview: Charles Henry Palmer III died 27 July 2021 at Rochester General Hospital at the age of 89.  He was born 27 May 1932 in Brockport, NY, the son of Charles Henry (Kromhaus) Palmer Jr and Helen Leone Herring-Palmer.  Grandson of Norwegian immigrants named Kromhaus, his father legally changed their name to Palmer in 1941 because his father was a semi-professional baseball player.  His father’s sports career influenced Charles III throughout his entire life. Growing up with three older sister, “Chick’s” interest in sports was well-known.

Charles joined the Army in January 1953 and was assigned to Camp Polk, LA for training with the 37th Infantry Division after graduating from Benjamin Franklin High School where he played varsity basketball in 1949 and 1950.  He was employed by Rochester Products and played basketball with the JYM&WA All-Stars before entering the Army.

In 1957, Charles married Lucy Anne Bianchi-Palmer of Henrietta.  Together they had four daughters.  He worked for over three decades for Bausch and Lomb, retiring as the Facilities Manager at the Goodman Street plant.  Throughout his life, he participated in sports, including many years as a baseball umpire.

In addition to his parents, he was predeceased by his wife Lucy (2005) and his three sisters Anne Palmer-Pape (Ray) (2001), Jessie Palmer-Tubbs (Justin) (2006), Jane Palmer-Meredith-Caves (1985) and his dear friend Joan Augustine.

Surviving are his four daughters Wendy Whitney, Tracy Pasker (Dave), Christine Kruger and Holly Palmer all of Rochester.  He leaves eight grandchildren and four great-grandchildren and many nieces and nephews.

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William Roy Wickens - Unknown - July 24, 2021

Departed: 07/24/2021 (Fairport)

Obituary Preview: William Roy "Bill" Wickens. July 24, 2021.  He is predeceased by his parents Roy & Evelyn Wickens and son Lawrence W. Wickens.  He is survived by his wife of 52 years Karen;  sons James & Michael (Karen);  daughter Elizabeth Schroeder (Robert); daughter-in-law, Melissa Krupa  and grandchildren Colby and Ramsey Wickens and Samantha and Paul Schroeder.

Bill was a long time employee of Xerox Corporation. During his retirement years, he enjoyed travel to Europe, many national parks, and multiple visits to visit his children and grandchildren in states near and far. He was a long time member of the Fairport men's club and the over 55 club, visiting many local places of interest.

His Memorial Mass will be held Monday, August 2, 11:15 am at Church of the Assumption at 20 East Avenue, Fairport, NY.   Memorial donations  may be made to Mercy Fund at the Church of the Assumption or charity of your choice.

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Eric M. Warner - March 12, 1948 - July 22, 2021

Departed: 07/22/2021 (Fairport)

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and other biographical information. It may also include details about their life, accomplishments, and surviving family members.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a lasting tribute to the deceased, preserving their memory and legacy.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, the family or close relatives of the deceased write the obituary, often with the assistance of a funeral home or obituary writer. In some cases, a friend or colleague may also write an obituary.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's full name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also include information about their life story, achievements, and any notable accomplishments.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication and the individual's life story. Typically, it ranges from a few sentences to several paragraphs. Online obituaries often have more flexibility in terms of length and content.

Can I include photos or other multimedia in an obituary?

Yes, many online obituary platforms and some print publications allow you to include photos, videos, or other multimedia elements to enhance the tribute and make it more personal.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online platform?

Contact the newspaper or online platform directly to inquire about their submission process and guidelines. They may have specific requirements for format, length, and content.

Is there a cost associated with publishing an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication and the length of the obituary. Some newspapers and online platforms offer free or low-cost options, while others may charge a fee based on the length or complexity of the obituary.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary in advance as a way to ensure that their life story is told accurately and authentically. This can also be a therapeutic exercise in reflecting on one's life and legacy.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, typically including only basic information such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary provides more detailed information about the person's life and legacy.

Can I include humor or personality in an obituary?

Absolutely! An obituary should reflect the personality and spirit of the deceased. Including humorous anecdotes or personal touches can help bring the person to life and make the tribute more engaging and memorable.

How do I handle sensitive or difficult information in an obituary?

If there are sensitive or difficult aspects of the person's life that need to be addressed in the obituary, it's essential to approach these topics with tact and compassion. Consider consulting with family members or close friends to ensure that the information is presented respectfully and accurately.

Can I include charitable donations or memorial information in an obituary?

Yes, many families choose to include information about charitable donations or memorial funds in lieu of flowers. This can be a meaningful way to honor the deceased and support a cause that was important to them.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The time it takes for an obituary to be published varies depending on the publication and their production schedule. Online obituaries are often published immediately or within a few hours, while print publications may take several days or weeks.

Can I edit or update an obituary after it's been published?

In some cases, it may be possible to make minor corrections or updates to an obituary after it's been published. However, this depends on the publication's policies and procedures.

What if I want to publish an obituary in multiple newspapers or platforms?

You can certainly publish an obituary in multiple newspapers or platforms. Be sure to check each publication's guidelines and submission processes before submitting your obituary.

Can I create a digital archive of an obituary?

Yes, many online platforms offer digital archiving options for obituaries. This allows you to preserve the tribute indefinitely and share it with others who may not have access to print copies.

How do I ensure that my loved one's obituary is accurate and respectful?

To ensure accuracy and respectfulness, involve multiple family members or close friends in the writing process. Verify facts and details carefully before submitting the obituary for publication.

What if I'm struggling to write an obituary due to grief or emotional distress?

If you're finding it difficult to write an obituary due to grief or emotional distress, consider seeking support from a trusted friend, family member, or professional counselor. They can offer guidance and support during this challenging time.

Can I use social media to share an obituary?

Absolutely! Social media platforms like Facebook and Twitter can be effective ways to share an obituary with a wider audience. You can also use online memorial pages or condolence books to collect messages and memories from friends and loved ones.

How do I respond to condolences or messages left on an online obituary?

You can respond directly to messages left on online condolence books or memorial pages. Alternatively, you can express gratitude for condolences received through social media posts or private messages.

What if I need additional support or resources during this difficult time?

If you're struggling with grief or need additional support during this difficult time, consider reaching out to local bereavement groups, counseling services, or online resources that specialize in grief support.

Can I reuse an existing biography or profile as part of an obituary?

You can certainly draw from existing biographies or profiles when writing an obituary. However, be sure to tailor the content specifically for the occasion and audience.

How do I balance honesty with tact when writing an obituary?

Honesty is essential when writing an obituary, but it's equally important to approach sensitive topics with tact and compassion. Consider consulting with family members or close friends to ensure that you're striking the right balance between honesty and sensitivity.

What if I'm unsure about what information to include in an obituary?

If you're unsure about what information to include in an obituary, consider consulting with family members, close friends, or a funeral home director for guidance. They can help you determine what details are most relevant and appropriate for the tribute.