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James T. Hendren - September 15, 1926 - April 18, 2022

Departed: 04/18/2022 (Rhinebeck)

Obituary Preview: Rhinebeck – James T. Hendren, 95, died peacefully at the Thompson House on Monday April 18th surrounded by his family. James was born in Glasgow, Scotland on September 15th, 1926. He married Rena Richardone on May 8th, 1949 and shared 64 years together.

James was the son of the late Lewis and Margaret Hendren of Brooklyn, NY.

James had a long career at Shell Asiatic Petroleum in Rockefeller Center in NYC. He loved traveling and spent many summers at Lake Bomoseen, VT with his family. He was an avid reader and loved music of all kinds, and was a big baseball fan, especially the San Francisco Giants. He was a wonderful father and provider to his 4 children and his wife. He was the rock of the family and was always referred to as a gentleman. He was dearly loved and will be greatly missed.

He is survived by his three daughters, Patricia Hill of Rhinebeck, and her children, his grandchildren, Leslie Hill and her partner Jeffrey Miranda, both of Rhinecliff, NY, and Colin Hill and his partner, Jessie Lima and their daughter, Lilia Hill, Louann Huh and her husband, Mike Huh of Morgantown, W. Virginia, Susan Murray of Rhinebeck, NY and his son James M. Hendren, and his wife, Jennifer and their three children, Georgia, Reilly, and Jackson Grzywacz of Wilton, CT. James was predeceased by his beloved wife, Rena.

Calling hours are Thursday April 21st from 2 to 4 and 6 to 8 PM, at the Dapson-Chestney Funeral Home, 51 W. Market St., Rhinebeck, NY.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated Friday April 22nd at 2 PM, at the Good Shepherd Church, 94 E. Market St., Rhinebeck, NY. Interment will follow in the Rhinebeck Cemetery. To sign the online register, please visit www.dapsonchestney.com

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Rose J. La Rocca - September 03, 1921 - March 30, 2022

Departed: 03/30/2022 (Rhinebeck)

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Alan Jeffrey Chlystun - December 01, 1944 - March 24, 2022

Departed: 03/24/2022 (Rhinebeck)

Obituary Preview: Red Hook – Alan Jeffrey Chlystun, 77, passed away Thursday, March 24, 2022, at his home in Red Hook.

Alan was a lifelong area resident.  He graduated from Rhinebeck High School in 1963 and attended SUNY Farmingdale before enlisting in the US ARMY in 1965.  He was a decorated Veteran of the Vietnam War having served in Vietnam until his discharge in 1968.  He returned to the Hudson Valley and worked for 30 years as a photo editor for Taconic Press.

Alan was an excellent baseball player and was the first baseman and pitcher on the softball team his brother Darrell sponsored.  He also was a lifetime Yankee fan and enjoyed his Mustang convertible and playing guitar. His best companion Zeke will miss him tremendously.

Born December 1, 1944 in Bath, Maine, he was the son of Alexander and Pauline (Thayer) Chlystun.

On February 18, 1978 at the Good Shepherd Church, Rhinebeck, he married Cecilia Brennan.  Cecilia survives at home in Red Hook.  Together they raised their two sons, Nicholas (Shannon) Chlystun of Australia, and Jeffrey Chlystun who died November 25, 2015.

Alan is also survived by his sister Brenda Chlystun-Juarez, sister Janet (Jim) Champlin, brother Darrell (Sue) Chlystun; brother-in-law Kevin ( Sherri) Brennan, Jr., sister-in-law Terry Rowcroft; brother-in-law Ed (Annie) Brennan, and many loving and wonderful nieces and nephews.  His brother-in -law Michael Rowcroft passed away in 1990.

There are no services.  Inurnment will be in Arlington National Cemetery.

Donations in memory of Alan may be made to the Dutchess County SPCA or the Red Hook VFW Post #7765.

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David A. Regg - February 21, 1934 - March 22, 2022

Departed: 03/22/2022 (Rhinebeck)

Obituary Preview: RHINEBECK- David A. Regg, 88, a lifelong resident of Rhinebeck, NY, passed away on March 22, 2022 at Northern Dutchess Hospital.

Born in Red Hook, NY on February 21, 1934, he was the son of the late Carl and Catherine (Gruntler) Regg.

Dave worked at IBM before volunteering to serve in the U.S. Army where he honorably served during the Korean War in the DMZ. Upon returning home from the service, he met Muriel Fallon. They were married November 9, 1958 at St. John’s Episcopal Church in Barrytown, NY.

He was partnered with Jim Dittmar for over 40 years with Dittmar and Regg Inc., Construction. They worked largely at Bard College building the campus and many of the facilities, among homes and renovations.

Dave was a lifelong member, former Director and the Past President of the Neighborhood Gun Club in Rhinebeck where he enjoyed hunting, fishing and all the club had to offer. He was able to be a part of the building of the new camp in Middleburgh, a true passion of his. He was also a member of the Odd Fellows in Red Hook, the Rhinebeck Fire Department, the NRA, and the American Legion Post #429.

He enjoyed vintage cars and car shows as well as watching NASCAR.

Dave is survived by his sister Carol Futyma of Poughkeepsie as well as many nieces and nephews.

He was predeceased by his wife Muriel Regg in 2011, a sister Kathleen Barrett, and his brothers Edwin, Ronald, and Frederick.

The family would like to extend a special thank you to Thomas Florio for being a great brother to Dave and to all his caring neighbors for their assistance.

Calling Hours will be held at the Dapson-Chestney Funeral Home on Sunday March 27th from 4 PM to 7 PM with a service at 6:45 PM by the American Legion Post #429.

Funeral Services will be held at the Funeral home on Monday the 28th at 11 am with Rev. Mary Grace Williams officiating. Burial will follow at the St. John’s Cemetery in Barrytown, NY. Memorial donations in honor of David can be made to St. Jude’s Children’s Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN, 38105, http://www.stjude.org

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Duane Whittaker - September 20, 1951 - March 22, 2022

Departed: 03/22/2022 (Rhinebeck)

Obituary Preview: Duane Whittaker,70, passed away peacefully on March 22, 2022, his family by his side. Born September 20, 1951 in Rhinebeck to Irene (Milroy) and Ralph Whittaker, Duane was a lifelong resident of the Hudson Valley. After graduating from Rhinebeck Central School in 1969, he received a bachelor’s degree from Jacksonville University in 1973 where he was recruited to play Division I soccer.  After college, Duane worked in sales and marketing for several firms in New Jersey and New York, including WEOK radio station.  He transitioned to a career as an electrician in the 1980’s, working on projects ranging from large corporate and commercial installations to countless residences.

On September 8, 1991, Duane married Patricia Decker, and they raised their son, Ian.

Duane enriched his community through his volunteer work as a member of several organizations, including his   lifelong membership in the Sons of the American Legion, Legion Post #429, and membership in the Rhinebeck Lions Club. He also enthusiastically coached many children’s basketball and baseball teams.

Affectionately known as Whit, he pursued many interests. His music abilities began as a drummer with the Rhinebeck Fife and Drum Corps.  Into his teen years, he picked up guitar, and together with high school friends, he formed The Eighth Wonder, a popular, local band in the 1960’s.

Duane mastered and embraced many sports. He played a key role on the undefeated 1969 Jacksonville University soccer team. As a freshman, he started every game, and became known as “The Rock,” for anchoring the team’s record setting defense. In later years, he was a standout player on the Championship B-Division and Conference Winner Kingston Men’s League basketball team sponsored by Johnny O’s Landscaping. Tales of these champions are still retold by teammates and admiring athletes. He was an avid golfer and member of the Dinsmore Golf League for more than 30 years, participating in both the Ticonderoga Annual Classic and the Tarry Brae Open tournaments each season.  He was a member of many Rhinebeck and Red Hook town baseball teams, relished the challenge of downhill skiing with his family, and thoroughly enjoyed the serenity of fly fishing.  Duane looked forward to annual golf junkets with his buddies, fly fishing vacations, stockcar races, and an occasional Daytona 500!  He was a connoisseur of spare ribs, fruit pies, and cold beers, all best enjoyed while reminiscing with old friends about good times and growing up in Rhinebeck.

Whit was old school – his handshake as good as his word.  Talented and trustworthy, he would appear at the door, no matter the day or time, when customers or friends called with a problem.  Generous and well-respected for his expertise, even in his waning months, he was a model of perseverance and determination as he continued to finish projects for his clients.

Duane treasured lifelong friendships and was a shining light that drew others in, warming every conversation with his insights, sharp wit, and humorous anecdotes.  He will forever be remembered for his charm, compassionate spirit, and loyalty.  For those who knew and loved Whit, the very mention of his name brings a broad smile.

Duane was predeceased by his parents, Irene and Ralph.

He is survived by his wife, Patty, and son, Ian, sister, Lynn (Michael) Edwards, of Williamsburg, VA, and brothers, David (Holly), of Scottsdale, AZ, and Keith, of Williamsburg, mother-in-law, Barbara Decker, of Red Hook, many brothers-in-laws, sisters-in-laws, nephews and nieces and numerous friends and colleagues whose lives he touched. Calling hours will be held at Dapson-Chestney Funeral Home, 51 W. Market Street, Rhinebeck, NY on Sunday, April 3rd from 2pm to 5 pm.  To sign the online register please visit dapsonchestney.com Family would greatly appreciate memorial donations in honor of Duane to the American Legion Post #429, P.O. Box 429, Rhinebeck, NY, 12572

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Austin Stanley Cox - September 20, 1930 - March 15, 2022

Departed: 03/15/2022 (Rhinebeck)

Obituary Preview: Rhinebeck – Austin Stanley Cox, 91, passed away Tuesday, March 15, 2022, surrounded by his family at home in Rhinebeck.

Austin served in the US Army from 1953-1955 during the Korean War.  He graduated from Albany State Teachers College and worked for 30 years as a Social Studies teacher at FDR High School in Hyde Park.  He was member of the Reformed Church of Rhinebeck and served on the Consistory for 20 years, 17 years as Vice President.    Following his retirement, he worked throughout the community as a carpenter and handyman.

Born September 20, 1930 in Middletown, he was the son of Stanley Austin and Alice Edna (Wright) Cox.

On February, 2, 1957 in Lake George, he married Lois Norma Brazier. In addition to his wife Lois Cox of Rhinebeck, he is survived by his son Ron (Alison) Cox of Sarasota, Fl; his daughter Janette (Ray) Morrissey of Exeter, RI; six grandchildren, Danielle Brescia, Jake (Samantha Kapper) Brescia, Steven (Marissa Durnell) Cox, Erin (Evan) Mantel, Jonathan Morrissey and Jessica Morrissey; several great grandchildren, and many cousins, nieces and nephews; and a sister Elizabeth Gedney.   He was preceded in death by a brother David Cox

Friends and family are invited to greet the family Saturday, March 19th, 11:00 AM to 12:00 PM, at the Reformed Church of Rhinebeck Cordes Hall, 6368 Mill St., Rhinebeck.  The memorial service will begin at 12:00 PM in the Sanctuary.  A reception will follow the memorial service in Cordes Hall.

Memorial donations may be made to The Rhinebeck Reformed Church, 6368 Mill St., Rhinebeck, NY 12572, or The Hudson Valley Hospice Foundation, 374 Violet Ave, Poughkeepsie, NY 12601.

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Olga Colbert Jeffery - September 18, 1929 - March 13, 2022

Departed: 03/13/2022 (Rhinebeck)

Obituary Preview: Olga Colbert Jeffery of Rhinebeck, NY passed away on March 13, 2022 at the age 92.

Born in Poughkeepsie, NY on September 18, 1929 she was the daughter of Anatole Kolodny, M.D. and Ellen Plass Kolodny of New York City and Rhinebeck, NY.

A graduate of the Horace Mann-Lincoln School and Finch Junior College in NYC, she attended Columbia University and Juilliard School of Music and became an accomplished pianist. Olga graduated from SUNY New Paltz with a Bachelor’s degree in Education and Journalism.

She composed articles for several newspapers and publications across the country.  She was also Editor of the Awa Lau Wahine, a military magazine for Naval and Marine Corps wives in Oahu, Hawaii, where she was stationed with her first husband, Marine Corps Lt. Col. O. W. van den Berg Jr. (predeceased).   She authored several books well into her 80’s and was actively working on a series of Odes she planned to publish.

Olga was a sixth-grade teacher at the Chambers Elementary School in Kingston, NY for 18 years and then changed careers to serve as Director & President of Valeur Mansion Corporation (Valeur) in Rhinebeck, NY, for 17 years.  During her tenure with Valeur, she was instrumental in organizing the restoration of the historic mansion, once home to Alice Astor and Serge Obolensky.  The former Astor estate, named “Marienruh” was where she devoted her efforts promoting the site for public and private social events, business gatherings, conferences, and fundraising benefits.  During that time, she became the owner of Valeur Mansion Catering, Inc. and in parallel, became Administrator of Valeur-Jensen LLC. which managed several rental properties in the area.

Olga remarried in 1981 to Mr. Keith Spencer Jeffery of Devon, England (predeceased).  Their marriage was highlighted by travel and exploration of England to visit extended family, friends, and take in the history and landscape of the English countryside.

Throughout her life, Olga traveled extensively, loved people, and was an engaged and articulate woman.  She was passionate about history and a host of social and political issues.  Following her retirement from Valeur, she filled her time supporting and participating in several regional organizations and groups.  These included being a member of the DAR Livingston Chapter, Hudson River Heritage, Rhinebeck Historical Society, and most recently the local organization, Rhinebeck at Home.

As mobility issues limited her travel, through encouragement by members of Rhinebeck at Home, she would frequently host teas for small groups to engage in conversations on a variety of topics.  Her front door continuously revolved with friends, business associates, and acquaintances that would regularly pop in for a visit to catch up, discuss current events or reminisce about the past.  She was blessed with the gift of storytelling and would regularly share experiences of her life and travels that would hold listeners spell bound.  She held strong political views and was outraged at the current state of the world.  She felt and expressed profound compassion for those searching for a safer place to live and obtain a better quality of life.

Olga’s last years were enriched by the compassion of her friend and caregiver Candace “Candy” Benson.  They would cruise the back roads of the Hudson Valley visiting places steeped with memories and local history.  They even embarked on a long road trip to visit family in Virginia.

Survivors include three daughters, Ellen van den Berg (Paul) Siebold of Rhinebeck, NY; Marcia van den Berg (William) Connell of Lynchburg, VA; and Dr. Margaret Valeur-Jensen of DelMar, CA.  Three step-children: Mark, Julia and Giles Jeffery reside in England.

Her five grandchildren include; Courtney (Ted) Clark Hunt of Lynchburg, VA; Dr. Alexander (Lindsay) Siebold of Aurora, OH; Hannah (Jahbez) Siebold Benga of Sarasota, FL; Dr. Jackson Connell of Lynchburg, VA; and Cole Valeur Vangel of DelMar, CA.  There are also three great grandchildren: Lilian Hunt of Lynchburg, VA; and William and Eric Siebold of Aurora, OH.

A private graveside memorial service will be held at the St. Paul’s Lutheran Church in Red Hook, NY at the convenience of the family.  A celebration of her life will be held for family and friends in early summer. In lieu of cards or flowers, please make donations in her memory to the Rhinebeck Rescue Squad or to the food pantry of the Episcopal Church of the Messiah, P.O. Box 248, Rhinebeck, NY 12572

Arrangements are under the direction of the Dapson-Chestney Funeral Home, Rhinebeck, NY.

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Robert Steele Harlowe - August 06, 1940 - March 12, 2022

Departed: 03/12/2022 (Rhinebeck)

Obituary Preview: Robert Steele Harlowe, 81, died on Saturday, March 12 in New Orleans, LA while in hospice care.   He had lived in New Orleans for over 30 years.

Robert was born in New York on August 6, 1940 to Jack and Margaret Harlowe.   He attended Mount Hermon prep school and Dickinson College in Carlisle, Pennsylvania.  While at Dickinson, he participated in track, football and lacrosse and served as president of his fraternity, Beta Theta Pi. He graduated in 1962 with a bachelor of arts degree in History and Government.  In February of his senior year, Robert married fellow senior Elizabeth Ann “Betsy” Graham.  They had two children, Brooke and Graham, born in 1962 and 1964 respectively.

The primary focus of Robert’s professional career was in personnel management.  He held related positions with Lord and Taylor; HJ Wilson, First National Bank of Commerce, and Southeast Bank before finishing the last 15 years of his career with Drake Beam Morin, Inc.   His work took him from the Philadelphia area to Chicago, Baton Rouge, New Orleans, Miami and finally back to New Orleans.

Robert took up golf while still a youth in Houston, Tx and it remained a passionate interest of his throughout his life.   He participated annually in the Red Hook Golf Club member-guest tournament with his brother Thomas where their matching outfits never failed to intimidate the other teams.   He enjoyed a round with the same group every Sunday in New Orleans for years.  Robert served on the executive committee of the non-profit ForeKids foundation and was a regular volunteer at the Zurich Classic golf tournament.

Robert is survived by his first wife Betsy Towle; daughter Brooke and son-in-law Stanley Berard; son Graham and daughter-in-law Katie; brother Thomas and sister-in-law Vinnie; and first cousins Eleanor (Brewer) Lydon and William Brewer.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Jack and Margaret, and second wife, Sarah Letisha (Tish) Harlowe, who passed away in 2014.

Services will be held at the Dapson-Chestney Funeral Home, 51 W. Market St., Rhinebeck, NY on Saturday, March 26th at 11AM. Burial will follow in the Elizaville Cemetery. Donations may be made to the ForeKids Foundation, http://www.zurichgolfclassic.com

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Oliver W. Johnson Jr. - September 22, 1936 - March 07, 2022

Departed: 03/07/2022 (Rhinebeck)

Obituary Preview: Rhinebeck – Oliver W. Johnson Jr., 85, a longtime resident of Rhinebeck, passed away at MidHudson Regional Hospital of Westchester Medical Center on March 7, 2022, with his long-time partner, Dorothy Baran, by his side.

Born in Calhoun County, Mississippi on September 22, 1936, he was the son of the late Oliver and Lavelle (Davis) Johnson Sr. Oliver, “Ollie,” received his undergraduate degree in Electrical Engineering from Mississippi State at the age of 19, then began working for IBM in Dutchess Country, New York, where he met his wife, Christine Mabie. He then served in the United States Air Force in the Strategic Air Command and received his Master of Science in Electrical Engineering from Columbia University. Ollie’s career with IBM spanned thirty-three years, and he retired in 1989.

Following his retirement from IBM, Ollie formed a business consulting company. During that time, he became active in the Poughkeepsie Area Chamber of Commerce. There, he was the lead designer of the region's first economic development forum called "The Strategic Direction Conference". Ollie was also a founding member of "The Dutchess Alliance for Human Needs", an organization that successfully worked to address the social issues created by the region's large scale job losses during the 1990's. Those efforts, as part of "Team Dutchess" and "Hudson Valley Focus", went a long way to helping the region make a speedy recovery from the early 90's jobs losses.

Ollie moved to Rhinebeck in 2010, and he became an active part of the community. He helped set up Rhinebeck@Home, served on the Council of the Lifetime Learning Institute at Bard College, as well as serving on the board of the Starr Library.

Ollie was a fly fisherman, a hunter, an experienced gardener, a good dancer. He loved to collect and wear unusual socks.

Ollie will be remembered for his intelligence and analytical mind, his kindness and compassion, his lifelong thirst for learning and willingness to try new things, his resilience, resourcefulness, and ever-positive attitude in the face of life’s challenges, and his easy laughter and warm embrace.

Ollie was predeceased by his parents, his wife of 49 years, Christine (Mabie) Johnson, and his brother William C. Johnson. He is survived by daughters, Dr. Jacqueline Johnson Castagno and Jill Johnson Rendeiro, his partner of fourteen years, Dorothy Baran, his brother, Eddie L. Johnson, and five grandchildren, Christopher Rendeiro, Autumn Rendeiro, Caroline Rendeiro Anna Castagno, and Michael Castagno.

There are no calling hours. A celebration of Ollie’s life will be held for family and friends at a later date. Memorial donations in honor of Ollie can be made to the Rhinebeck Fire Department Ambulance Fund, www.rhinebeckfd.com.

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Wayne A. Brandes Sr. - January 21, 1945 - March 06, 2022

Departed: 03/06/2022 (Rhinebeck)

Obituary Preview: Wayne Andrew Brandes, 77, of Rhinebeck, NY passed away peacefully surrounded by his loving family on Sunday, March 6, 2022.

Wayne was born in Queens, NY, on January 21, 1945.  He was the son of the late John and Lillian (Hebert) Brandes of New York, NY and Ste. Agathe, ME, respectively.  He was one of five siblings, including the late John Brandes, the late Lorraine Kremenick, the late Kenneth N. Brandes, and Elaine DelBene.

Wayne attended Thomas A. Edison Vocational and Technical School in Queens, NY.  After earning his GED, he worked in NYC as an ice cream truck driver and taxi driver.  He knew the city streets like the back of his hand, and this is undoubtedly why.

Wayne enlisted in the United States Marine Corps on October 23, 1963 at the age of eighteen.  He told stories of his boot camp experiences at Camps LeJeune (NC, 1963) and DelMar (CA, 1963), as well as his time in The Marine Security Guard School (VA, 1964-67) with great pride and deep emotion. These years were so impressionable on him that he recalled such detail in these memories as if it were yesterday.  Anyone who was lucky enough to hear these stories likely learned a thing or two that they could carry with them throughout their own lives.

His Military Occupational Specialty as an Aircraft Mechanic equipped Wayne with the knowledge and skills he had to fix anything; knowledge and skills that he proudly and lovingly passed on to his children and grandchildren as his “little helpers.”  On August 6th, 1965, Wayne was promoted to the rank of Sergeant and was soon stationed in Italy, serving as a Marine Corps Security Guard at the United States Embassy in Rome.  He was honorably discharged on October 22, 1967.  Wayne prided himself on being a Marine. “Once a Marine, always a Marine.” he would say.  And it was true.  He lived his whole life by the three core values of the Marine Corps: Honor, Courage and Commitment.

Wayne was a 52 year member of the International Brotherhood of Electrical Workers.  From 1978-1995 he worked as an electrician with Local Union #3 for many companies, most notably Fischbach & Moore.  He was Foreman or General Foreman on numerous job sites across New York City, such as Columbia University, Columbia Presbyterian Hospital, New York Transit Authority, and the World Trade Center.  One of his proudest accomplishments was the installation of the electronic toll collection system for Amtech and TBTA, aka, EZ-PASS.

Wayne was a well-known resident of Rhinebeck.  If he wasn’t at home tinkering or tending to his fruit trees, he could likely be found at Williams Lumber or Pete’s Famous Diner.  He was a beloved member of the Sepasco Village Community for over 43 years.  He spearheaded many of the beautification projects of the lake and served on the Sepasco Village Board for many years.  He was an outgoing and dependable neighbor, always willing to lend a helping hand.  He was everyone’s go to guy for anything that needed fixing.  He will be deeply missed in the community.

Wayne’s second home was Ste. Agathe, ME, where he spent his summers as a child and where his many Hebert family members reside.  Wayne was never happier than when he was fishing on Long Lake, in summer or winter, and spending time with his beloved cousins.

Wayne’s bright smile was one of a kind.  That, and his playful personality will be remembered fondly by all. Those who knew Wayne knew he delighted in his garden, had a fervent love of Elvis and a passion for his purple hot rods.  He was a colorful storyteller and an electric dancer.  But perhaps his most defining characteristic was his big heart and how much he loved his family.  He was an amazing father and an even greater Pop-Pop to his twelve grandchildren, who were the light of his life.

Wayne is survived by Eileen Brandes Meinsen of Rhinebeck; his five children, Kenneth Brandes and his wife Paula of Old Greenwich, CT, Wayne Brandes, Jr. and his wife Aimee of Port St. Lucie, FL, Brett Brandes and his wife Jennifer of Red Hook, NY, Deva Lapatas and her husband Panos of Derby, CT, and Jan Rita Rexhouse and her fiancé Peter of Rhinebeck, NY; and his dear grandchildren Audrey, Devin, Grace, Vance, Violet, Vynn-Vegas, Lillian, Alexandra, Leandros, Ethan, Jackson and Hudson as well as many nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends.

Memorial calling hours will be held at the Dapson-Chestney Funeral Home, 51 W. Market St., on Saturday, April 2 from 10 AM to 2 PM.

A graveside service will be held at the Rhinebeck Cemetery with services by Fr. Crawford of Good Shepherd Church, the American Legion Post #429, and the Marine Corps Honor Guard following Memorial Hours.

Memorial donations in honor of Wayne can be made to The Arbor Day Foundation.  This link will take you to “Trees in Memory” where you can have trees planted in his honor. https://shop.arborday.org/trees-in-memory

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Mary Ann Bouton - March 02, 1960 - March 04, 2022

Departed: 03/04/2022 (Rhinebeck)

Obituary Preview: Red Hook – Mary Ann “Bear” Bouton, 62, passed away Friday, March 4, 2022 at Northern Dutchess Hospital.

Mary Ann was a lifelong Red Hook resident and a graduate Red Hook High School. She was active with her children in 4-H and often volunteered at the Red Hook Community Center and the Red Hook Library.

She was born March 2, 1960 in Albany, the daughter of Irving Bouton of Oregon and the late Wilma (Becker) Bouton.

Mary Ann is survived by her children, Jessie Bouton, Katherine Carl and Michael Carl; one grandchild Leopold Jackson Cronk; siblings, Patricia Bouton, Dayle Rogers, Ralph Bouton, Samantha Brookshire, Jonathan Bouton and Jason Bouton. Calling hours are 1:00-2:00 PM Friday, March 11, 2022, at the Dapson-Chestney Funeral Home, 51 W. Market St., Rhinebeck, NY.  Memorial Services will begin at 2:00 PM

Memorial donations to assist the family may be made c/o the Dapson-Chestney Funeral Home, P.O. Box 515, Rhinebeck, NY 12572.

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Nelson S. Kranker - February 24, 1948 - February 26, 2022

Departed: 02/26/2022 (Rhinebeck)

Obituary Preview: Rhinebeck – Nelson S. Kranker, 74, passed away at his home on Saturday, February 26, 2022.

Born on February 24, 1948, in Orlando, FL, he was the son of Julius and Gladys Kranker of Beacon, NY.

He honorably served in the US Army from 1968 – 1970.  He was stationed in Italy as a Radio Teletype Operator on a nuclear base.  His medals included Good Conduct, National Defense, and Expert Rifle Marksman.

On April 5, 1980, he married Rose Greene in a Methodist Church in Maryland and they remained married for 42 years.  Rose continues to live in the family home in Rhinebeck.

Nelson was the Director of Dutchess County Consumer Affairs for 35 years and a Treasurer/member of the Southeastern Weights & Measures Association for 20 years.

In addition to being a wonderful husband to his wife, he was an active family man, who was an incredibly loving and selfless provider to his three children Andrea, Travis, and Nova.

Nelson was an avid skier, enjoying the peaks in Killington, VT in the winter. In the summers, he would take his family boating from Canada to Maryland, amongst many other destinations.

He generously volunteered for March of Dimes, United Way, and Big Brother Big Sisters of America.  In addition, he was active in youth coaching for the Rhinebeck soccer, baseball and softball teams.

There are no calling hours.

A memorial service will be held at the convenience of the family.

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Rudolph "Rudy" Schrull - February 05, 1957 - February 15, 2022

Departed: 02/15/2022 (Rhinebeck)

Obituary Preview: Rudolph "Rudy" Schrull, 65, passed away at his home in Staatsburg of February 15, 2022.

Born in Coldspring, NY on February 5, 1957, he was the son of Rudolph and Barbara (Tompkins) Schrull. When He was 9, the family moved to Rhinebeck, where he continued his schooling. On December 8, 1979 he married Patricia Harrison. Patricia survives at home.

For over 25 years he was a union truck driver for many local general freight companies and was a member of Locals 445 & 707. In 2004 he went to work for the town of Clinton Highway Department, having retired in 2019.

Rudy loved his family and his three springer spaniels, King, Riley & Brady. He loved being by the ocean and enjoyed many years vacation at their timeshare on Cape Cod.

In addition to his wife, Rudy is survived by his mother, Barbara of Texas; his children, Dale Schrull Retired U.S. Army First Sergeant of Alaska and Jody (Matthew) Lewis of Hyde Park; his grandchildren Damien Schrull, Madison Schrull, and Harper Lewis; and His sister Debbie (Richard Swaim) Schrull of Texas as well as many nieces and nephews.

He was predeceased by his father Rudolph in 2014 and his brother Jeffrey in 2018.

As per his wishes, cremation has taken place.

Memorial hours will be held at the Dapson-Chestney Funeral Home, 51 W. Market St., Rhinebeck on Wednesday February 23, From 4PM to 6PM.

Services will be private and at the convenience of the family.

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Lillian V. Sexton - August 30, 1928 - February 14, 2022

Departed: 02/14/2022 (Rhinebeck)

Obituary Preview: Lillian Veronica Sexton, 93, passed away peacefully on February 14, 2022. Born on August 30, 1928, in Philadelphia, PA, she was the daughter of the late Joseph and Olga (Urnis) Sullivan.

Lillian graduated from Little Flower High School in Philadelphia.  She married the late James J. Sexton in 1950.  Before retirement, she worked as an Activities Director at the Senator Nursing Home in Atlantic City.  Over her lifetime, she had homes in New Jersey, Florida and New York.

Lillian was a self-taught artist and enjoyed painting and crafts throughout her life.  She loved nature, her beloved birds and pets, and had a passion for cooking and baking -- most notably her signature apple, blueberry and key lime pies. Lillian was devoted to family, and often said her greatest achievement was raising a family.

Lillian is survived by her four children, Michael Sexton (Christy Price Sexton), Brian Sexton (Charlotte Sentenari Sexton), Patricia Sexton (Peter Muste), and James Sexton (Hope Fitzgerald); her grandchildren Paul, Riley, John, Lily and Kathryn.  Her oldest grandson, Brian Jr., passed away in 2020.

There are no calling hours.

Arrangements are under the direction of the Dapson-Chestney Funeral Home, Rhinebeck, NY.

Services are private and at the convenience of the family.

Memorial donations in honor of Lillian can be made to Hudson Valley Hospice. To send an online condolence, please visit www.dapsonchestney.com

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Robert H Nussbaum - October 04, 1933 - February 13, 2022

Departed: 02/13/2022 (Rhinebeck)

Obituary Preview: Rhinebeck – Robert H. Nussbaum, 88, passed away Saturday, February 12, 2022, at Archcare at Ferncliff Nursing Home.

Born October 4, 1933 he was the son of the late Carl Nussbaum and Mary Alice (Helms) Nussbaum.  A brother Carl Nussbaum also predeceased Robert. Mr. Nusbaum served in the US Army and graduated from SUNY New Paltz with a Bachelors Degree in English Education.  He taught English in Brooklyn and later at St. Christopher’s Catholic School in Red Hook.  He also taught piano and organ at the Kingston Music Center.  He founded the Kingston Institute of Music and later named it the Kingston Conservatory of Music.  Robert also served as organist and choir director for many area churches.  He also performed at numerous venues in the area and had played organ for the Soap Opera “the Secret Storm.”

Robert is survived by his wife of 52 years, Judith Anne (Bedell) Nussbaum of Rhinebeck; his sister-in-law Valerie Ann Ryan, and his nieces, Marilyn  Van Fleet, and her husband Matthew, Alice Maestri, and her husband Aaron; and a nephew Carl Nussbaum, and his wife Kathy ; and several grand nieces and nephews.  Also surviving are his cousins Joyce (Caliendo) Nussbaum, Janice (Browning) Nussbaum, and Cathy (Fabiano) Nussbaum.

Calling hours are Saturday, 11:00 AM to 1:00 PM, at the Dapson-Chestney Funeral Home, 51 W. Market St., Rhinebeck.  Funeral services will begin at 1:00 PM.  Interment will follow at the Rhinebeck Cemetery.

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Janeth Lloyd Thoron - March 11, 1931 - February 13, 2022

Departed: 02/13/2022 (Rhinebeck)

Obituary Preview: Janeth Lloyd Thoron, 90, of Rhinebeck, died at home of Parkinson’s-related causes on Sunday, February 13, 2022.

Born on March 11, 1931 in New York City, Janeth was the only child of the late Humphrey Lloyd and Evelyn Ward Lloyd.  She grew up in Washington, DC and Gibson Island, Maryland, attending the Sidwell Friends School in Washington.  She graduated from Vassar College Phi Beta Kappa in 1953 and was awarded a Fulbright scholarship to Oxford University for study in philosophy and economics.

She married Christopher Thoron in December, 1955.  They lived in Bonn, Germany, from 1956-1959 during his term as a Naval Reserve officer.  They were then assigned to the United States Permanent Mission to the United Nations in New York City.

Following divorce, Janeth remained in New York City pursuing her career as a foundation executive at the Foreign Policy Association and the Edna McConnell Clark Foundation, among others.  She also led an active life as a mother and volunteer.

Janeth lived in Manhattan and Wainscott, Long Island for thirty-five years.  She was a life-long sportswoman, competing in racquet sports as a young woman, as well as sailing and skiing, which she enjoyed until the limitations of Parkinson’s Disease intervened.

She retired to Rhinebeck, NY in the Hudson Valley in 1996 and immersed herself in the community.  She served on the Board of Directors of many local institutions including the Wilderstein Historic Site (twelve years), the Rhinebeck Historical Society, Hudsonia, and the Bard Lifetime Learning Institute, among others.  She used her eagle eye to perform copy editing for several local organizations.

Music always played a vital role in Janeth’s life.  She studied piano in her early years and attended performances of opera, ballet, modern dance, and the symphony throughout her life.  She sang in church choirs in New York City, Rhinebeck, and in the Bard College Community Chorus.

Janeth is survived by her daughter Elise Thoron, and son-in-law Thomas Ostrom Enders III.

Elise would like to express profound gratitude to the team of caregivers whose compassion and skill made Janeth’s later years so happy and peaceful.

A memorial service will be held Saturday, April 23, 2022 at the Episcopal Church of the Messiah on Chestnut Street and Route 9 in Rhinebeck New York at 11:00 am, followed by a reception.

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Richard A. Kipp - May 28, 1937 - February 10, 2022

Departed: 02/10/2022 (Rhinebeck)

Obituary Preview: Rhinecliff – Richard A. Kipp Jr., 84, passed away Thursday, February 10, 2022, at his home in Rhinecliff.

Richard was a lifelong Rhinecliff resident. He served in the US Army from 1955 – 1958. Upon his return he began working and was a machine operator for Western Printing and Publishing for 24 years. He also worked for KTB Publishing in Saugerties for 15 years.

Richard enjoyed music of all genres, and in addition to watching all types of sporting events, he was an avid LA Dodgers fan.

Born May 28, 1937 in Rhinebeck, he was the son of Richard A. Kipp Sr., and Christena M. (Stickle) Kipp.

He is survived by his wife Vera (Parent) Kipp whom he married in 1974; three children, Victor, Diana, and Richard III; three step-children, Charles Mowris, Cynthia Mowris, Teresa Barrett; eight grandchildren, Michael, Vincent, Jonathan, Christopher and Cynthia Barrett, Peter and Jacob Mowris, and Zachary Schlipmann; as well as several great grandchildren.   He was predeceased by a granddaughter Guletta Liesa Schlipmann.

Services are private and at the convenience of the family.

Memorial donations may be made to St. Jude’s Children’s Hospital, www.stjude.org.donate or to Hudson Valley Hospice, 374 Violet Ave, Poughkeepsie, NY 12601.

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Joan E. McEleney - February 05, 1934 - February 05, 2022

Departed: 02/05/2022 (Rhinebeck)

Obituary Preview: Joan E. McEleney, 88, of Rhinebeck, passed away peacefully at home on February 5 surrounded by her loving family.

Born in the Bronx on February 5, 1934, she was the daughter of the late Thomas and Helen (Weiss) Breen.

On February 11, 1956 at St. Ann's Church in the Bronx, she married Patrick F. McEleney. Mr. McEleney predeceased her in 2006.

Joan was full of energy and always on the go.  While living in the Bronx, raising five young children and working full time, she attended and graduated from Bronx Community College with a nursing degree.  She subsequently worked as an RN at Montefiore Hospital in the Bronx.  In 1976 she moved to Red Hook, NY where she worked many years in the office of Dr. Richard Bierstock in Rhinebeck.

Joan was a faithful parishioner of St. Christopher's Church in Red Hook and Good Shepherd Church in Rhinebeck.  In 2007, she moved to Hopewell Junction, NY, and became a eucharistic minister at the Church of St. Denis.  Joan returned to Rhinebeck in 2017.  Joan loved to travel and spend time with her family and friends.

In addition to her husband, Joan was predeceased by her daughter Eileen McEleney and brother Thomas Breen.

She is survived by her sons, Patrick (Judith) of Glenville, NY, Brian of Barbados, Dennis (Luca) of London, UK and Neil (Missie) of Patterson, NY; grandchildren Sean, Ryan, Brendan, Conor, Rebecca, Christopher, and Robert; and great-grandchildren Peyton, Annabelle, and Finnley, as well as many friends and extended family.

Calling hours will be held at the Dapson-Chestney Funeral Home, 51 W. Market St., on Thursday February 10 from 4 PM to 7 PM and on Friday February 11 from 11:30 AM to 12:30 PM.

A Mass will be celebrated at Good Shepherd Church, 3 Mulberry St., Rhinebeck, on February 11 at 1 PM.

Burial will be at St. Joseph's Cemetery, Rhinecliff, at the convenience of the family.

Memorial donations in honor of Joan can be made to the Good Shepherd Church, 3 Mulberry St., Rhinebeck, NY 12572; Hudson Valley Hospice, 374 Violet Av., Poughkeepsie, NY 12601, or a charity of your choice. To send an online condolence, please visit www.dapsonchestney.com

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Dr. Robert H. Sagerman - January 23, 1930 - February 01, 2022

Departed: 02/01/2022 (Rhinebeck)

Obituary Preview: Dr. Robert H. Sagerman, a pioneering physician in the creation of modern radiation oncology, died on February 1, 2022 in Rhinebeck, NY. He is survived by his wife, Malyne; his children Jason (Rachel), Eric (Jane), Evan (Marci), and Roger (Abigail); and his grandchildren Lia (Nick), Alison, Owen, Aiden, and Piper. Dr. Sagerman (Bob to his family and friends) was born on January 23, 1930, in Brooklyn, NY, to Irving and Ethel Sagerman. He was joined by a younger brother, Arthur, in 1934. Dr. Sagerman graduated from Brooklyn Technical High School 1947, New York University in 1951, and finally, hoping to become a physician like his father, New York University Medical School in 1955. He married Malyne Barnett in 1954, who for the next 67 years would be the central and most important person in his life. After medical school, Dr. Sagerman worked at Meadowbrook Hospital in Long Island during the final polio epidemic, after which he went to Charity Hospital in New Orleans where he trained as a radiologist. Drafted into the Air Force during the Korean War, Dr. Sagerman was stationed at the 5040th US Air Force Hospital at Ladd Air Force Base in the Alaska Territory, where he was the northern-most radiologist in the Western Hemisphere. While stationed in Fairbanks, Bob and Malyne welcomed their first son, Jason.  After his military service, Dr. Sagerman returned to New York, where he worked at Montefiore Hospital in both diagnostic and therapeutic radiology, during which time he and Malyne welcomed a second son, Eric.  In 1961, they moved to Palo Alto, California, for work at Stanford University Hospital, where Dr. Sagerman trained in the nascent field of radiation therapy, and where a third son, Evan, was welcomed into the fold.  In 1964, Dr. Sagerman returned to NY to work at Columbia Presbyterian Hospital, during which time he and Malyne had a fourth son, Roger.  Finally, in 1968, Bob and Malyne moved to Syracuse, NY, where he established a department of radiation therapy at SUNY Upstate Medical Center. Dr. Sagerman served as chairman of that department until 1994. During those years he did research sabbaticals at The Institut Gustave Roussy (France), Stanford University School of Medicine, Hahnemann University School of Medicine, and Loma Linda University Medical Center. As a medical researcher, Dr. Sagerman specialized in tumors of the eye and tumors in children. He wrote the premier textbook on tumors of the eye, and published over 240 peer-reviewed papers. He served on countless medical boards, refereed for numerous medical journals, and collaborated with colleagues across the globe. Working with medicine’s governing bodies, he established training and review programs and protocols for technicians, physicians, and entire departments in the field of radiation oncology. As a teacher Dr. Sagerman trained hundreds of physicians and medical students, and as a physician he treated tens of thousands of patients.  Bob was known to come home from work each day, put down his briefcase, and wrestle on the floor with his four boys before dinner. This continued until 1993, when he broke his daughter-in-law's couch while wrestling his sons before Thanksgiving dinner.  Bob loved opera (although he could not sing a note), sailing (although he was once lost overboard), skiing (where he was known for his distinctive crouch), and good food (well, any food, really). He was intelligent, capable, hardworking, and modest.  He steadily and unfailingly earned the love of his family and friends, the respect of his colleagues, and the gratitude of his patients. When asked how he could work in a field as depressing as cancer treatment, Dr. Sagerman replied “You have to understand—the majority of my patients get better. Of those that I can't cure, I can add significant and meaningful years to their lives. I know what my patients’ prognoses are 95% of the time when I first meet with them. It’s only a small percentage of patients where I’m truly surprised—sometimes for the better, sometimes for the worse. Overall, I feel like I add a lot of hope to the world."

His friends and family agree.

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William D. Ghee - September 30, 1930 - January 20, 2022

Departed: 01/20/2022 (Rhinebeck)

Obituary Preview: William Donald Ghee, age 91, passed away Thursday, January 20, 2022, peacefully with his family by his side.

The son of William H. and Lena Ghee, Bill was born in Poughkeepsie, New York, on September 3, 1930.  A lifelong area resident, Bill was a graduate of Franklin Delano Roosevelt High School and Fordham University's School of Pharmacology.

On January 4, 1953, Bill married his high school sweetheart, Joyce Connelly.  Together with Joyce, who predeceased him in 2018, he helped raise four children: Michael, Kathleen, Terrance, and William C.

Two weeks after Bill and Joyce’s marriage, Bill was drafted.  As a father-to-be, rather than accept a deferment, he answered his nation’s call and served honorably in the United States Army, both in the US and overseas.  Following his return from his service overseas, Bill enjoyed a nearly 40-year career as a hospital pharmacist.  Bill began his career at Vassar Brothers Hospital, where he served as the department head for 25 years.  He later worked as a pharmacist for the Hudson River Psychiatric Center, the State Department of Corrections and lastly, before his retirement in 1995, St. Francis Hospital.

Loved for his senses of both humor and charity, Bill, along with Joyce, was a devoted congregant of the Hyde Park United Methodist Church.  In his spare time, Bill was an avid golfer as well as a great fan and follower of thoroughbred horse racing and professional baseball.  He and Joyce also enjoyed traveling and sightseeing.

Among his honors, Bill served as President of the Hudson Valley Society of Hospital Pharmacists, and he was also a lifetime member of the American Legion.

In addition to his four children, Bill is survived by nine grandchildren, who all lovingly referred to him as “Papa Bill” – Maureen Frischknecht, Colleen Nuendorffer, Hayley Prosser, Patrick Ghee, Carly Ghee, SSGT Raymond Prosser, Leland Prosser, SSGT William T. Ghee and James Aidan Ghee.  As well, Bill is survived by four great grandchildren, along with his nephew, James Outwater, and niece, Jodi Bingham.

Bill’s family especially thanks those caregivers and aides who assisted him in his final years: Gulsina, Manisa, Michelle, Dalton, John, Melinda and so many others from Hudson Valley Hospice and other organizations.

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Nancy Plank Conklin - Unknown - January 13, 2022

Departed: 01/13/2022 (Rhinebeck)

Obituary Preview: Rhinecliff, NY – Nancy Plank Conklin, 81, passed away January 13 after a long battle with Alzheimer’s.  She is survived by her husband, Jack Conklin of Rhinecliff, her son David Straub of Conshohocken, PA, and stepsons, Thomas Conklin of Greensboro, NC, and Todd Conklin of Brandan, FL., four grandchildren, three great grandchildren, and her sister, Mary Jane Copp of Brookfield, CT.

Nancy was the daughter of Curtis and Katherine Plank of Catskill, NY, and a graduate of Catskill High School and Albany Business College.  She was employed by the Poughkeepsie Savings Bank, was Office Manager for United Way of Dutchess County, and joined IBM Poughkeepsie in 1981.  Nancy retired in 1996 as a manager responsible for the maintenance and furnishing of several IBM properties in the Poughkeepsie area.

Nancy was a member of the Junior League of Poughkeepsie and co-founder of the Hyde Park Historical Society Museum.  Nancy joined the initial year of Bard College’s Lifetime Learning program.

There will be no calling hours; a memorial service will be scheduled at the convenience of the family.

Memorial donations in Nancy’s memory may be made to a charity of choice.

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Elizabeth 'Betty' Louise Woods - November 20, 1932 - January 12, 2022

Departed: 01/12/2022 (Rhinebeck)

Obituary Preview: Elizabeth (Betty) Louise P. Woods, 89, died Wednesday, January 12th, at The Baptist Home at Brookmeade. She was born November 20th, 1932 in Millerton, New York, the daughter of Arnold S. Pease and Francis Day Pease. She married Robert (Jack) Woods on October 7th, 1950, and the two were happily married for seventy-one years.

Betty was incredibly ambitious and wholly committed to her family. In her life she was the Bookkeeper for Western Printing, Up-to-Date, and Stamp Inc., as well as a Tax Preparer for H&R Block. Her true passion, however, was in her role as mother and caretaker, and so many have been blessed to have experienced her love. Betty was an inspiring sister to her seven siblings Arnold, Kay, Gerry, Shirley, Peggy, Howard, and Virginia. She was an adoring wife to her husband Jack, and a devoted mother to her four children Jack, Joey, Cheri, and Fred. Betty was strong, independent, and she always left a room happier than she found it. Her smile was contagious, her heart unmatched, and her mind wide open.

Throughout her life, Betty “Boop” Woods loved to travel with her husband Jack. They were fond of Lake Tahoe and Branson, Missouri, and of course Myrtle Beach, South Carolina. She also loved playing card games with her beloved grandchildren. Betty showed her love through her cooking of delicious food, and nobody was to go hungry with her around. Betty was never far from her husband Jack, her soulmate. They were a model couple with a marriage and family rooted in respect, commitment, and love.

Betty is predeceased by her husband Jack and son Joey, a brother Arnold and sisters Kay and Virginia. She is survived by her sisters Gerry, Shirley, and Peggy, and her brother Howard; a son Jack (Sheila) Woods, daughter Cheri (Frank) St. Amand/Woods, and son Fred (Barbara) Woods; eight grandchildren, eight great-grandchildren, and multiple nieces and nephews.

Calling hours will be Wednesday, January 19th from 4:00 PM to 7:00 PM at Dapson-Chestney Funeral Home, 51 W. Market St. Rhinebeck. Graveside Funeral Services will be held at 11:00 AM on Thursday, January 20th at Rhinebeck Cemetery.

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Holly Castle - May 11, 1945 - January 09, 2022

Departed: 01/09/2022 (Rhinebeck)

Obituary Preview: Holly Castle, 76, died peacefully at home in the Village of Rhinebeck, NY on the evening of Sunday, January 9, 2022. She was blessed with having recently experienced a wonderful Christmas with her entire immediate family, the most important focus of her life.

Born Holly Ann Hudson on May 11, 1945 in Circleville, Ohio, she grew up on the family farm near London, Ohio. The farm remains in the family, and is a treasured legacy and gathering place.

She is survived by her husband of 55 years, Chuck Castle; her daughter Erin Castle (and her husband Stephen Hopkins); her son Jess Castle; her grandchildren, Maxwell and Josephine Hopkins; her sister, Susan Graeter; and many beloved nieces and nephews.

Holly received her undergraduate and masters degrees from Ohio State University, where she was Phi Beta Kappa. She taught English at Ohio State and later at Wright State University in Dayton, Ohio after settling there with her husband in 1970. Holly was a true polymath of the first order, and her interest in learning never waned. She loved culture, beauty, art, music, literature and design. She was a master gardener, who transformed the environment of every property she ever lived upon into a beautiful work of living art. Well into her fifties, she taught herself to read ancient Greek. Not content to keep her learning to herself, she passed on her knowledge in multiple ways. She volunteered for years as a docent at the Dayton Art Institute, and was a longtime member of and active contributor to Dayton’s Friday Afternoon Club, a literary salon for women dating from 1893. Her children and grandchildren are continuing to advance the spark of learning according to the example she set.

Holly and Chuck purchased a home in Rhinebeck in 2001 and moved there permanently in 2018.

Due to the significant spike in the COVID-19 pandemic, a celebration of the life of Holly Castle has not been set as of this writing. It has been recommended that at this time no contributions of flowers or donations need be made.

Arrangements under the direction of the Dapson-Chestney Funeral Home, Rhinebeck, NY.

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Ralph Vincent Cutolo - March 06, 1955 - January 09, 2022

Departed: 01/09/2022 (Rhinebeck)

Obituary Preview: Rhinebeck – Ralph Vincent Cutolo, 66, of Rhinebeck, passed away on Sunday January 9, 2022.

Born in Brooklyn, NY on March 6, 1955, he was the son of Ralph and Gloria Cutolo. He lived in Ozone Park Queens and then St. James, Long Island, before settling in Rhinebeck in 1994.

He attended a few semesters at Dutchess Community College where he studied Computer Architectural Design, achieving the Dean’s List.

As a music lover, Ralph founded the Uriel’s Wisdom Blues Band where he played the bass guitar.

He was the owner and operator of Uriel’s Wisdom LLC Refrigerated Logistics.

He is survived by his loving wife, Catherine C. Cutolo and his loving sister Debra Cutolo; step-children Michael, Andrew and Matthew Manfredonia and Rachele Manfredonia Bond.

There are no calling hours.

A memorial mass will be held at the Good Shepherd Church in Rhinebeck on March 6, 2022 at 11am.

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Clara Zagar - June 16, 1927 - January 05, 2022

Departed: 01/05/2022 (Rhinebeck)

Obituary Preview: Rhinebeck – Clara Zagar, 94, passed away peacefully on January 5, 2022.

Born in Tuxedo, NY on June 16, 1927, she was the daughter of the late Andrew and Carmela Mammato.

Clara graduated from Tuxedo High School and began work at Lederle Laboratories in Pearl River, NY where she met her husband, John B. Zagar. The two married and remained in Pearl River. After taking some time off to raise their children, Clara returned to working as a Dental Assistant for the Dental Office of Dr. Philip DiGiovanni. Mr. Zagar passed in 1980 and Clara remained in Pearl River until 2006 when she relocated to Rhinebeck, NY.

She was an avid knitter, crocheter, and loved walking around Rhinebeck, but most of all enjoyed reading.

In addition to her husband, Clara is predeceased by her siblings, Anthony, Louis, Eleanor, and Andrew Mammato.

She is survived by her children Susan (Bob) Demkowicz and John B. (Sharon) Zagar Jr. as well as her grandchildren Robert, Michael, and Peter.

There are no calling hours.

A memorial mass will be held at St. Anthony’s Parish Church in Nanuet on Thursday January 13, 2022 at 11:30 AM, 36 West Nyack Rd., Nanuet, NY.

Burial in St. Anthony’s Cemetery will follow.

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