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D.L. Calarco Funeral Home, Inc. is a trusted and respected funeral home located in Watertown, New York. With a long history of providing compassionate and professional funeral services to families in the North Country, this funeral home has established itself as a pillar of the community. Situated at 135 Keyes Avenue, Watertown, NY 13601, D.L. Calarco Funeral Home, Inc. is easily accessible and offers a warm and welcoming atmosphere for those who are grieving.

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For generations, the Calarco family has been dedicated to serving the funeral needs of Watertown and surrounding areas. With a rich history dating back to the early 20th century, D.L. Calarco Funeral Home, Inc. has built a reputation for excellence in funeral service. The funeral home's commitment to providing personalized attention to each family it serves has earned it a place as one of the most trusted funeral homes in the region.

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Charles S. Peters - August 11, 1938 - April 14, 2022

Departed: 04/14/2022 (Watertown)

Obituary Preview: Charles S. Peters, 83, Chaumont, died April 14, 2022 at his home under the care of Hospice of Jefferson County, private care givers and good friends Rick and Nancy Yuhasz. Arrangements are with D.L. Calarco Funeral Home, Inc. Condolences may be made to www.dlcalarco.com

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June P. Hammond - April 25, 1928 - April 12, 2022

Departed: 04/12/2022 (Watertown)

Obituary Preview: June P. Hammond, 93, died April 12, 2022, at the home of her daughter and son in-law, Leslie (Thomas) Stackel under the care of Hospice of Jefferson County and her daughter by her side.

Mrs. Hammond was born April 25, 1928, in Brownville, New York, a daughter of Cecil and Edna VandeWalker Brouse.  She graduated from Watertown High School.  She married Richard C. Hammond March 29, 1969, at the Baptist Church in Adams Center.  Mr. Hammond died April 9, 1986.  Mrs. Hammond was a homemaker and did childcare in her home in Adams Center for many years.  She moved to Texas to help her daughter Colleen, December of 2013.  June returned back to New York to live with Leslie and her husband, August of 2020.  She was a member of the Adams Center Fire Department Auxiliary for many years, enjoyed bible study at the Adams Methodist Church in Adams and cheering on her grandchildren during their school sports and other activities.

Surviving is a daughter; Leslie (Thomas) Stackel, Sackets Harbor, New York.  Six grandchildren, Lynanne, Richard and Randy Taylor, Debra Krom, Shannan and Matthew Stackel. Eight great grandchildren, and five great-great grandchildren.  Two daughters Cheryl Taylor (August 13, 1997), and Colleen Krom, (March 14, 2021), two brothers, Clarence and Robert Brouse, and a sister, Vera Washburn all died before her.

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Francis Elvin Parish - November 15, 1935 - April 09, 2022

Departed: 04/09/2022 (Watertown)

Obituary Preview: Francis Elvin Parish, 86, Adams Died April 9, 2022 at Samaritan Medical Center.  Among his survivors is his wife Dorothy. There will be no calling hours or funeral at this time.  Arrangements are with D.L. Calarco Funeral Home, Inc. On line condolences may be made to www.dlcalarco.com

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Janet M. Netto - October 25, 1941 - April 05, 2022

Departed: 04/05/2022 (Watertown)

Obituary Preview: Janet M. Netto, 80, of N. Meadow Street, passed away at her home on April 5, 2022.

Janet was born October 25, 1941 in Watertown, daughter of Joseph and Oleta (Farrell) Howland. She graduated from Immaculate Heart Academy in 1959. On October 13, 1962 she married Thomas Netto at St. Patrick’s Church.

Janet was an Advocate at Mercy Hospital. She later was secretary to Mrs. Mayworth in the Unemployment Division of the NYS Department of Labor. Janet was a communicant of St. Patrick’s Church and was dedicated to the Sisters of the Precious Blood.

Surviving besides her husband are two sons, Michael (Tamara) Netto, Syracuse, Christopher Netto and his life partner Linda, Watertown, three grandchildren, Caleb, Tyler and Brittney, three brothers, three sisters, several nieces and nephews.

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Barbara Jean Bicknell - December 03, 1933 - April 03, 2022

Departed: 04/03/2022 (Watertown)

Obituary Preview: Barbara Jean Bicknell, 88, of Bunker Hill, WV, died April 03, 2022 at 8am in her home.

Mrs. Bicknell was born December 28, 1933, in Watertown, NY, daughter of S. Patrick and Bernice (Harrigan) Shannon. She graduated from Watertown High School and Rochester Institute of Technology.

After graduating from RIT, she worked on staff as Production Manager and teacher in the school, College of Food Service at RIT.  On August 22, 1959, she married Wesley R. Bicknell in Chaumont, NY. Mr. Bicknell was a veteran student at RIT. After Mr. Bicknell’s graduation in 1961, she was a stay at home mom as they moved to Watertown, Pennsylvania, and Washington, DC.  In 1969, Mrs. Bicknell entered the workforce again following her career in food service.  After many years in school lunch management, she went to work at the Central Intelligence Agency, Washington DC as Manager, Executive Dining Room and then Chief of Protocol.  She retired with the Intelligence Commendation Medal from the CIA in 1990.  She volunteered for the Arthritis Foundation in Frederick, MD, Hospice of the Florida Suncoast, FL, and Hospice of the Panhandle in Martinsburg, WV.  She enjoyed cooking, sewing, embroidering and reading fiction.

Surviving are her husband Wesley, son Patrick, two grandchildren, Katheryn, Pevarnik, Jessica Collins and her husband Zachary and two great grandchildren, Ella Collins, Brady Collins, of Hedgesville, WV.   A sister in-law Carol Shannon, of Ammissville, VA.  Mrs. Bicknell was predeceased in death by a son, Richard, a daughter, Lynn Marie Pevarnik Senesi, a sister Patricia Lazier, and  a brother James Shannon.

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Norma S. Stoots - October 03, 1949 - April 01, 2022

Departed: 04/01/2022 (Watertown)

Obituary Preview: Norma S. Stoots, 72, of Washington Street, passed away April 1, 2022 at Samaritan Medical Center.

Mrs. Stoots was born October 3, 1949 in Suffolk, Virginia, and was the youngest of five daughters of Grover and Hazel Minnick Scott.

On July 8, 1966, she married William A. Stoots Jr. in Pulaski, Virginia.  The couple moved from Pulaski, Virginia in 2003, to Watertown, New York, to be closer to family.

Mrs. Stoots loved to travel to her favorite vacation location, Jekyll Island, Georgia.  She was a dedicated, loving wife and mother.

Surviving is her husband, William A. Stoots Jr., two daughters, Sabrina Webb from Pulaski and Heather D. Natali (Jason Natali) of Evans Mills, New York, three grandchildren, four great grandchildren, and several nieces and nephews.

She is predeceased by her mother, father, and four sisters.

There will be no calling hours or funeral service at this time.

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Lester D. Daymont - April 30, 1948 - April 01, 2022

Departed: 04/01/2022 (Watertown)

Obituary Preview: Lester C. Daymont, 73, of Sackets Harbor, passed away April 1, 2022.

Les was born April 30, 1948, in Utica, son of Lester N. and Mary Marguerite (Deck) Daymont. He graduated from Watertown High School and was a bus driver for Jefferson Rehabilitation Center. He was a communicant oof St. Andrews Church in Sackets Harbor.

On December 27, 2003, he married Mary Diane Phillips at their home in Sackets Harbor, by the Justice of the Peace. Mrs. Daymont died July 23, 2021.

Les is survived by three sons, David and his wife Tammy, Glenfield, NY, Charles, Florida, and Eric, Indiana, two sisters, Laurie (William) Heatherington, Rochester, Mary (James) Sweeney, Glenfield. A brother Larry Robert Lawrence Daymont passed away on November 20, 2020.

A funeral mass will be held Wednesday, April 20, 2022 at 11 am at St. Andrews Catholic Church in Sackets Harbor with Reverend Donald Robinson officiating. Burial will follow in Lakeside Cemetery.

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Barbara A. Alteri - April 13, 1956 - March 31, 2022

Departed: 03/31/2022 (Watertown)

Obituary Preview: Barbara Anne Alteri, 65, of Sackets Harbor, died March 31, 2022 at Upstate Medical Center, Syracuse, New York after suffering a stroke at home.

Mrs. Alteri was born April 13, 1956 in Alexandria Bay, NY a daughter of Andrew Harold and Shirley Anne Clark-Brown Simpson.  She graduated from Watertown High School in 1974 and Jefferson Community College with a degree in Early Childhood Education.  She married Steven J. Alteri on June 16, 1979 at St. Anthony’s Church with Monsignor Anthony Milia officiating.  Mr. Alteri died February 15, 2015 from ALS.  Mrs. Alteri operated a day care for children out of her home for twelve years.

Mrs. Alteri is survived by a sister, Darryl Lindsey King, Pillar Point, Dexter, NY, two nephews, Jeffrey A. (Mary) Wood Watertown, Steven C. Wood and his fiancé Heather Harrison, Watertown, a great nephew, Austin G. Wood, Cooperas Cove, Texas and a great niece Danielle M. (Kevin) Wood Reyes, San Antonio, Texas.

Barbara loved her dog Beacon, her gardens, the music of Guns and Roses and sitting on her deck looking over Black River Bay.

There will be no calling hours and a graveside service will be held at a later date in Glenwood Cemetery.  Contributions may be made to the Jefferson County SPCA, 25056 Water Street, Watertown, NY 13601.  Condolences may be made to www.dlcalarco.com.  Arrangements are with D.L. Calarco Funeral Home, Inc.

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Michael L. Tarzia - July 13, 1943 - March 31, 2022

Departed: 03/31/2022 (Watertown)

Obituary Preview: Michael L. Tarzia, 78, formerly of Haley Street, passed away March 31, 2022 at Samaritan Keep Home.

Mike was born July 13, 1943, in Watertown, son of Joseph and Catherine (DeFranco) Tarzia. He graduated from Immaculate Heart Academy in June of 1961. On July 6, 1963, he married Ursula (Jane) St. Croix at Holy Family Church.

Mike was a car salesman for many years and retired from Waite Toyota in 2005. He was a member of the United States Army Reserve, a member of the Elks Lodge #496 and a member of Watertown Golf Club where he participated in the Wednesday Golf League. Most weekends, rain or shine, snow or ice (literally) you could find him playing golf with his buddies at the Park.

Mike spent his summers on Sherwin’s Bay on Pillar Point during his childhood. He was surrounded by many cousins and life was good. He loved the Lake and time spent with family. Last summer he was able to spend time back on Sherwin’s Bay with his lovely bride. It brought him so much joy and was the highlight of his year.

During the early part of his retirement, Mike and Jane spent time in Charlotte with their son Michael and his young family. They also traveled to Saratoga Springs to spend time with their daughter Michele. They enjoyed time at the track and the Racino, always hoping to win.

Surviving besides his wife, Jane, are a son, Michael L. (Shelby) Tarzia, Jr., Concord, NC, three daughters, Terri Tarzia, Catherine (Thomas) O’Brien and Michele Tarzia, all of Watertown, two brothers, Anthony (Elaine) Tarzia, Joseph (Karen) Tarzia, all of Watertown, and a sister Mary Booth, Watertown. His five grandchildren, Halle O’Brien, Rachel O’Brien, Julia O’Brien of Rochester NY and Michael (Trey) Tarzia, III and Sophia Tarzia, were his pride and joy. He lit up whenever he spent time with them. He is also survived by several nieces and nephews and many, many cousins, and friends whom he loved dearly.

Mike’s family would like to acknowledge and thank his amazing caregiver, Kim Kehoe who helped him these past two years. Also, the amazing staff of the 4th floor at Samaritan Keep Home. They made Mike a part of their family took great care of him. For that, we are eternally grateful.

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Rose Marra DeFranco - May 09, 1930 - March 30, 2022

Departed: 03/30/2022 (Watertown)

Obituary Preview: Rose Marra DeFranco of Rochester N.Y. formerly of 274 Wealtha Avenue Watertown N.Y. passed away on March 30, 2022. She was under the care of her daughter for the last 5 years.

She was born in Watertown, N.Y. on May 9, 1930, daughter of the late John and Mary Leana Marra. She attended Boon Street School and graduated from Watertown High School in 1948. Mrs. DeFranco worked at three different stores on Public Square which were Nugents Dress Shop, B.O. Kinney Drug, and cosmetic buyer for 36 years at Grant Drug Company. She was a former member of the Women’s North Side Auxiliary League, and worked many years at the Board of Elections, and a lifetime member of St. Anthony’s Church. Some of her retirement years were spent cleaning St. Anthony’s Church and working at St. Anthony’s Mt. Carmel Feast.

She married the late Joseph N. DeFranco on November 22, 1956, at St. Anthony’s Church with Monsignor Milia officiating. Surviving is a daughter, Francine (Richard) Coryea of Rochester, N.Y. and two grandsons Brian and Nicholas Coryea, a granddaughter Jillian DeFranco, Watertown, N.Y. a sister in-law Marie Marra, Clay, NY, several nieces and nephews and a loving and devoted best friend Donna Powell.

Predeceased are a son John DeFranco, three brothers Anthony Marra, Joseph (Marie) Marra, James (Eleanor) Marra, and a sister Rose Marra who died shortly after birth. Also, brother-in law Rocco DeFranco and wife Marge DeFranco.

In keeping with Rose’s wishes there will be no calling hours. A catholic funeral mass will be celebrated at St. Anthony’s Church on Wednesday, April 6, 2022 at 10 am. Burial will follow in Glenwood Cemetery. Contributions may be made to St. Anthony’s Church, 850 Arsenal Street, Watertown, NY 13601.

God blessed this family with a devoted loving wife, mother, and grandmother. Her family will cherish all the beautiful memories. She will be missed always and loved forever.

Your memories and condolences may be shared with Rose’s family at www.dlcalarco.com.

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Harry N. Nordberg, Jr. - July 30, 1931 - March 29, 2022

Departed: 03/29/2022 (Watertown)

Obituary Preview: Harry N. Nordberg, Jr.  90, of Gouverneur, died March 29,2022 at Samaritan Keep Home after a brief illness.

Harry was born July 30, 1931 in Mansfield, MA, a son of Harry N. and Anne Gloria Nordberg, Sr. He graduated from Monsignor James Coyle Catholic High School and later attended the University of Hartford, CT. He enlisted in the United States Navy in 1949 and transferred to the United States Marines in 1951. He was honorably discharged as a Staff Sergeant in 1954 after fighting in the Korean War.  Harry married Vera Jean Alberry on April 14, 1956.   He was employed as a Process Planner at  Pratt and Whitney in East Hartford, CT. for 32 years.  After Harry and Vera retired to Gouverneur, NY, Harry became a member of the American Legion Post 0065 and Gouverneur Rod and Gun Club.  He has always been a gun enthusiast and was an excellent shooter winning many trophies with the Metropolitan District shooting club of Connecticut.  He had a zest for life and loved to converse with all.

Harry leaves behind his wife, Vera of 66 years.  Surviving besides his wife; is a son Harry N Nordberg, III and wife, Kathy Nordberg, a daughter Norma Jean, and husband, Scott Busey, four grandchildren and two great grandchildren.

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Charles P. Melara - March 12, 1932 - March 20, 2022

Departed: 03/20/2022 (Watertown)

Obituary Preview: Charles P. Melara, 90, 442 Broadway Avenue East, passed away March 20, 2022 at Inspira Medical Center, Mullica Hill, NJ.

Charlie was born March 12, 1932, in Watertown, son of Pasquale C. and Rose (Compo) Melara. He graduated from Watertown High School in 1949.  In 1962, he married Shirley M. Sanford at St. Anthony’s Church. Charlie served in the United States Air Force during the Korean War. For thirty years, he was employed with Prudential Insurance Company, retiring as a sales manager.

Charlie was a communicant of St. Anthony’s Church.  He was a member of the Watertown Rotary Club, the American Legion Post #61, VFW Post # 1400, Lincoln League, Knights of Columbus as a 3rd degree Knight, the Mount Carmel Society, and the Italian American Civic Association where his father was a founding member.

He was surrounded by his whole family who loved and cared for him until his last breath.  He was the most amazing husband, father, Pop, brother, and friend and the void he left behind will never be filled.  His love for his wife of 60 years was the drive to be a devoted husband and father.  He loved his family wholeheartedly and he dedicated his life to his wife and children.  Our hearts are broken but we are eternally grateful to have a lifetime of blessed memories with him.

Surviving besides his wife Shirley are his daughter, Monique (Dante) DiCarlo, Mullica Hill, NJ, two sons, Greg (Nancy) Melara, Voorhees, NJ, Rick (Leif) Melara, Sherman, CT, three grandchildren, Vincent, Christina, Ava, a sister-in-law Mary Melara, Watertown, several nieces and nephews. He is pre deceased by his siblings, Sam (Lillian) Anzalone, Phillip Anzalone, Josephine (Tony) Noto, Frank (Christine) Melara, Joseph (Jeannette) Melara, Grace (Vincent) Marzano, Ron Melara, Grace (Frank) Campolito, Carmela (Stanley) O’Bryan, Anna (Lowell) Smith, Catherine (Edward) McGinley, Dorothy (Earle) Rothbaler, and Adeline Melara. Calling hours will be Friday from 4pm-7pm at the D.L. Calarco Funeral Home, Inc.  On Saturday, a prayer service will be held at 9:15 am at the funeral home with a funeral mass at St. Anthony’s Church at 10 am. Burial will follow in Glenwood Cemetery. Contributions may be made to St. Anthony’s Church, 830 Arsenal Street, Watertown, NY 13601. Condolences may be made to www.dlcalarco.com

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Dawn Aurice Pircsuk - May 19, 1933 - March 16, 2022

Departed: 03/16/2022 (Watertown)

Obituary Preview: Dawn Aurice Pircsuk, formerly of Ives Hill Retirement Community, died March 16, 2022, at Samaritan Summit Village.

She was born in Watertown, NY to Harry and Vina (Empie) Grant.   She graduated from Massena High School.   She married Alexander J. Pircsuk on December 4, 1965, at the Church of the Visitation in Norfolk, NY.  Mr. Pircsuk died June 18, 2017.  Over the years, she and her husband called many places home.  They lived in Louisville, Massena, Norfolk, Hannawa Falls, Florida, Syracuse, and finally Watertown.

Mrs. Pircsuk worked for Carvel Insurance Agency in Massena, NY, for twenty seven years, as a secretary. She was a communicant of Louisville Community Church.  She enjoyed gardening, sewing, reading, shopping and loved her many cats over the years. She held the family record for the fastest ice cream cone eater, ice cream being her favorite dessert.  She appreciated the beauty of hummingbirds and collected figurines.  She was a talented artist, drawing and painting for many years.

Mrs Pircsuk is survived by two stepdaughters, Cathy (Jim Burr) Pircsuk, Watertown, NY and Mary Clary, Hannawa Falls, NY, a brother, Darryl (Laura) Grant, Hannawa Falls, NY, grandsons,  Bernard J. (Leah) Clary, Pennsylvania, Jeremy (Mary) Burr, North Carolina, granddaughter Laurel Burr, Miami FL. She is also survived by nieces Denise, Michelle and Lisa, nephew Brian and treasured cousin Carolyn Wilson and her sons John and Paul. A stepson, John Pircsuk, predeceased her on February 11, 2014.

Memorial donations may be made in her memory to the John G. Pircsuk Scholarship fund at the Northern New York Community Foundation, 131 Washington Street, Watertown, NY 13601.  The scholarship is given annually to a Norwood Norfolk Central Senior. There will be no calling hours or funeral at this time, per her wishes. A graveside service will be held at a later date in the Visitation Cemetery, in Norfolk, NY. Arrangements are with D.L. Calarco Funeral Home, Inc.  Condolences may be made to www.dlcalarco.com

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Lena C. Ward - December 24, 1928 - March 16, 2022

Departed: 03/16/2022 (Watertown)

Obituary Preview: Lena C. Ward, 93, formerly of Thompson Blvd, Watertown, passed away March 16, 2022 at Samaritan Keep Home.

Mrs. Ward was born December 24, 1928, in Watertown, daughter of Alexander and Angeline (Ruga) Campisi. She graduated from Watertown High School. On May 16, 1948 she married C. Stanley Ward at Holy Family Church. Mr. Ward died June 12, 2000.

After high school, Mrs. Ward was employed with the New York Telephone Company for 35 years.  After retirement from New York Telephone, she worked for the Watertown City School District as a teacher’s aide, retiring at the age of 88.

Mrs. Ward served on the Jefferson County Board of Supervisors as it was ending and transitioned to the Jefferson County Board of Legislators. Mrs. Ward served on the Jefferson County Board of Supervisors for the 4th Ward from 1990-1995 and served on the Jefferson County Board of Legislators as District 13 Legislator from 1996-1999.

Mrs. Ward was a communicant of Holy Family Church. She enjoyed walking, was a member of Downtown Conditioning for many years and organized many casino bus trips. Mrs. Ward was from a large family and enjoyed getting together with her family at her home or cottage at Hardscrabble on Point Peninsula. Mrs. Ward volunteered at the Irish Festival, the Italian Festival, Mount Carmel Festival and Holy Family’s May Festival.

Surviving are a son and his wife, Robert S. and Catherine Ward, Chaumont, NY, a daughter-in-law, Lynne Ward, Pittsford, NY, four grandsons, Erik (Leslie), Christopher, Jack and Alexander, a great grandson, Julian, cousin Linda Mothersell and several nieces and nephews.

She was predeceased by her son Thomas L. in 2010, two brothers, Guido (Chip) Campisi, Samuel Campisi, three sisters, Mary Fallon, Valerie Marshall and Jennie Marone.

The family would like to thank the 6th Floor Staff at Samaritan Keep Home for their compassion and kindness during Lena’s stay there.  You were all family to Lena.  Thank you.

There will be no calling hours.  A funeral mass will be held Wednesday, March 23rd at 10 am at Holy Family Church. Burial will follow in Glenwood Cemetery. Contributions may be made to the Samaritan Keep Home Activities Fund, 133 Pratt Street, Watertown, NY 13601, Irish Festival, 317 Washington Street, Watertown, NY 13601 or to the Mount Carmel Festival, c/o St. Anthony’s Church, 830 Arsenal Street, Watertown, NY 13601.

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Frances D. Stanley - August 25, 1931 - February 19, 2022

Departed: 02/19/2022 (Watertown)

Obituary Preview: Frances D. Stanley, 90, formerly of Watertown, died February 19, 2022 in the care of Hospice, surrounded by her daughters at her daughter’s home in Albany, New York.

Frances was born on August 25, 1931, in Watertown, a daughter of Dominick and Jennie Storino Tubolino. She graduated from Immaculate Heart Academy.

On October 19, 1963, she married Albert P. Stanley. Mr. Stanley died May 9, 1999.

Frances worked as a telephone operator at Camp Drum and later was a clerk for Sears Catalog Company from 1990 until her retirement in 1997. She was always a homemaker, a communicate of Saint Anthony’s Church, a world traveler and a 30 year plus Breast Cancer survivor. She enjoyed hosting, always with a pot of coffee on and working in the garden. She loved being surrounded by family and friends, especially her grandchildren.

Surviving are three daughters, Dominica A. Rock, (Erin) Katy, TX, Michele M. Geary, (Nicholas) Albany, NY, Elisa M. Stanley, (Jason) Asheville, NC, eight grandchildren,  Joseph, Gregory, Brandon, Daniel, Domenica, Martin, Jr., Alexander and Grace, six great grandchildren, Wyatt, Domenica, Tobias, Lily-Rose, Bennett and Sadie, numerous nieces, nephews and cousins. Predeceased in death, a daughter Jennifer C. Sanborn in 2020, a son-in-law, Nicholas Geary, brother, Angelo, three sisters, Philomena Zambetti, Anna Rima and Caroline Mulligan.

Calling hours will be Sunday February 27, 2022 from 2-4pm at D.L. Calarco Funeral Home, Inc. a prayer service will be Monday at 9:15 at the funeral home, followed by a 10:00am funeral mass at Saint Anthony’s Church. Burial will be in Glenwood Cemetery.  Contributions may be made to the Community Hospice of Albany,445 Karner Road, Albany, NY 12205 or American Breast Cancer Foundation, 10440 Little Patuxent Parkway, Suite 300, Columbia, MD 21044. Condolences may be made to  www.dlcalarco.com

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Wilfred T. Varno - December 02, 1928 - February 13, 2022

Departed: 02/13/2022 (Watertown)

Obituary Preview: Wilfred Theodore Anthony Varno, 93, of Watertown, passed away February 13, 2022.

Born December 2, 1928, son of Wilfred and Mildred (Surace) Varno. He attended Our Lady of the Sacred Heart School, later receiving his GED from Watertown High School. At the age of seventeen, he enlisted in the US Army. He is a veteran of WWII serving in Germany and Japan. Mr. Varno also, served in the US Army Reserves with the 440 Medical Corp, retiring as a Staff Sargent, receiving service metals from WWII.

On August 25, 1957, he married Sarah C. Coppola at St. Anthony’s Church. Mrs. Varno died December 17, 2015.

After thirty- eight years of service, he retired from the NY Air Brake Co. Mr. Varno was also employed with the Samaritan Medical Center as the Head Chef, Arlington Bakery and the US Post Office.

Surviving are two children, Anne Catherine Varno, her companion, Jeffrey S. Hare, Watertown and Wilfred Anthony (Aurora) Varno, Dakota IL, four grandchildren, a great granddaughter, Winter, on the way, a brother, Samuel (Joyce) Surace, several nieces and nephews. He is predeceased by his father, Wilfred Oscar Varno, mother, Mildred Denny Surace, stepfather, Pasquale Surace, wife Sarah Catherine Coppola Varno, brother, Leonard Joseph Varno, sisters, Mildred (Mitze) Soluri, Virginia (Houghmaster) Powell and Anne Adams.

Mr. Varno played for the Red and Black Football Team from 1954-1957, winning the championship game in 1955. He enjoyed attending the Watertown High School and Immaculate Heart Academy Basketball and football games. With his wife, Sarah, they enjoyed traveling, sports and puzzles. He tended his flower gardens in the summer. He loved to cook, bake and collect marbles. His hobbies were working with driftwood and making wooden toys.

An hour of calling will be held Saturday, February, 19, 2022 at D.L. Calarco Funeral Home, Inc. beginning at 10 am, followed by an 11 am funeral service. Burial will follow in Glenwood Cemetery with military honors.

Contributions may be made to the Red and Black Football Team or to the family for outdoor plants to be planted in his remembrance. Online may be made to www.dlcalarco.com

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F. Joseph Fusco - Unknown - February 08, 2022

Departed: 02/08/2022 (Watertown)

Obituary Preview: F. Joseph Fusco, 90 of Sarasota, Florida formerly of Watertown N.Y., passed away Tuesday, February 8, 2022 at Sarasota Memorial Hospital under the care of Tidewell Hospice with his family at his side. Surviving are his wife of 70 years, Ann Marie, their five children; Gloria Fusco, Sarasota, John Fusco (Judy), Hamburg NY, Joseph V. Fusco (Tina), Watertown, Carolyn Fusco, Woodbridge, VA, and Michael Fusco (Jody), Ft. Myers, FL.   There are 12 grandchildren, 24 great grandchildren and 1 great great grandchild

He was born July 25, 1931, the son of Fiorenzo and Filomena Fusco and brother to Lena Coppola and Clemie Lamica.  Joseph attended Immaculate Heart Academy.  He enlisted in the Navy in 1947 and served as a corpsman in Newport, RI and Camp Lejeune, NC.

Joseph married Ann M. Tarzia January 19, 1952.  He was a driver salesman for Jeff Bottling Company, (Pepsi-Cola) for eighteen years and served as an officer of the corporation from 1970 until his retirement in 1993.

He was an avid, life-long fan of the New York Yankees and Notre Dame Football. As a summer resident of Wellesley Island, he enjoyed boating and family time on the river.  In his later years, Florida was where he was happiest.

At a further determined date in the spring, there will be a memorial mass at St. Patrick’s Church with burial at Glenwood Cemetery. Donations may be made in his memory to the Sisters of St. Joseph at 1425 Washington St, Watertown, NY 13601 or to St. Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105. Arrangements are with D.L. Calarco Funeral Home, Inc. Condolences may be made at www.dlcalarco.com

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Dale J. McManaman - September 06, 1938 - February 01, 2022

Departed: 02/01/2022 (Watertown)

Obituary Preview: Dale J. McManaman, 83, of St. Anthony’s Apartments, formerly of Dexter, passed away February 1, 2022 at his home.

Dale was born September 6, 1938, in Glen Park, son of John and Frances (Carr) McManaman. He graduated from Brownville- Glen Park Central School. Dale served in the United States Navy and was honorably discharged.

On September 4, 1968, he married Cynthia A. Liscomb at Immaculate Conception Church in Brownville. The marriage ended in divorce.

Dale was employed by various contractors in the area until he became a self -employed carpenter in Dexter. He was very proud of his carpentry and was certified in the use of Dynamite.

He was a member of the American Legion in Sackets Harbor. From 1966-1970 he was a member of the Antwerp Drum and Bugle Corp. He enjoyed fishing, cooking, gardening, driving his car and the NY Yankees. Dale was a good joke teller, he delivered one liner’s, like a professional comedian. He was a proud grandfather of his grandchildren and great grandchildren.

Dale is survived by his two sons, Shawn (Heather), Watertown, Jason (Katie), Dexter, two daughters, Tonia McManaman, Lockport, IL, Kris McManaman-Jiles, Antwerp, eleven grandchildren, five great grandchildren, a brother Michael McManaman, Sackets Harbor, several nieces and nephews. He is predeceased by his brothers, Paul, Roger, Leo, Bernard John, sisters, Rosemary Moulton, Madelyn Favret, Barbara Decker, his significant other of more than twenty years, until her death, Jean Simmons and Lydia the cat, his constant companion of twenty- two years.

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Richard J. Lake - November 22, 1934 - February 01, 2022

Departed: 02/01/2022 (Watertown)

Obituary Preview: Richard J. Lake (Dick), 87, of Jewell Dr., passed away February 1, 2022, at home.

Mr. Lake was born November 22, 1934, in Watertown, one of six children of Robert J. and Blanche Harriman Lake. Richard was a lifelong resident of Watertown, NY. Educated in the neighborhood school system, he graduated from Watertown High School in January 1952. Dick immediately went to work at age 17 as a mail supply clerk for the Agricultural Insurance Company. He served the insurance business for over 40 years, retiring from the Harleysville Insurance Company of Pennsylvania as Vice President of Personnel/Administrative Services in 1996.

Dick met Devona (Debbie) Fillmore at the Agricultural Insurance Company. They married on November 30, 1957 at Hope Presbyterian Church in Watertown and had two children. They served both in the insurance business and in the Watertown community for the remainder of their lives together until Debbie’s death on May 2, 2011.

Dick was a member of First Presbyterian Church for decades. He served as a deacon, elder, choir member, and representative to the Presbytery of Northern New York. He was a board member of Jefferson Community College, Hospice of Jefferson County, United Way, and the Orchestra of Northern New York. He volunteered with the Orchestra as an usher, with Watertown Urban Mission, and was a regular American Red Cross blood donor.

After losing their spouses, Dick and Phyllis Elmer, also a longtime member of First Presbyterian Church, married on October 7, 2012. They created a meaningful life together full of time and celebration with family, travel, and the grace found in daily companionship. Phyllis provided exemplary care and support during the challenges of Dick’s last years.

Dick was known for his decadent desserts. His pies and cakes would generate several bidders at the church auction. He was very generous with his treats, giving them to friends and neighbors, even baking by special request. It had become a tradition for Dick and his grandchildren to guess the secret ingredient with new recipes, as recently as this past Christmas.

In addition to his parents, Dick is predeceased by his sister, Eileen Hinman, and his brothers Robert Lake, and Ronald Lake. He is survived by his sister, June Downs, Oswego, NY, his brother, Raymond Lake, Simi Valley, CA, his wife, Phyllis, Watertown, NY, his two daughters, Cheryl E. (James Phelan) Lake, Rochester, NY, Cynthia A. Lake, Cortland, NY, Deborah Elmer (Gordon) Shroufe, Lyons, MI, Gerald (Karin) Elmer, Merrimack, NH, Leanne Elmer (John) Herrmann, Atlanta, GA, David (Michele) Elmer, Watertown, NY,  eight grandchildren, nieces and nephews.

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Robert J. Netto - August 28, 1957 - January 31, 2022

Departed: 01/31/2022 (Watertown)

Obituary Preview: Robert J. Netto, 64, passed away peacefully on January 31, 2022 in Rome, NY, with family by his side.

Bob was born on August 28, 1957, son of John J. and Dorothy H. (Arquette) Netto.   Bob’s grandparents Nicholas and Flora Netto moved to Watertown from Italy and built a home on outer Massey St and they gave all of their nine children a piece of land, and all nine built a home there.   Locally, the neighborhood was commonly known as “Netto-ville”.   Bob had the pleasure of growing up with many of his first cousins and was very proud of his heritage.

He attended St Patrick’s School and Immaculate Heart Central.  On June 5, 1976 he married the only true love of his life, Judy Scee at St. Patrick’s Church in Watertown.  Bob worked as a mechanic and gas station attendant at Chiumento’s Gas Station on Arsenal St.  Later, Bob and Judy moved to Chaumont and bought their first home there.  Bob found another love – working with his long- time friend Larry Comins at the Chaumont Bait Shop.  Bob enjoyed standing knee deep in fish that he and Larry hauled into the fishing boat in their commercial fishing nets.  Their catch provided thousands of perch filet dinners at local restaurants.   They later sold their home in Chaumont and moved to Atlantic City, NJ where Bob and Judy became Black Jack Dealers at casinos along the boardwalk there.  Their next move was to Oneida NY and they worked as Black Jack Dealers at the Turning Stone Casino.

Surviving are a son Robert J. Netto II, CT., a daughter, Nicki (Eli) Rivera, CT., two brothers, Ronald (Addie) Netto, Watertown, Tony (Denise) Netto, Watertown, a sister, Betsy Thompson, Watertown, four grandchildren, Isabela, Nicholas, Alexandro, Alexia, four great grandchildren, Malaki, Marley, Miles, Madden, and a brother- in- law Tom Cassidy, several nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by five siblings, Jack, Nick, Arlene, Jackie and Mickey, a brother-in-law, Gary Thompson.

Bobby (as we often called him) loved his entire family.  His beautiful eyes and capturing smile will never be forgotten by those who knew him.  He didn’t have a long resume’ but that didn’t matter, time with family and friends was much more important to him than any material things life could offer.

Per Bob’s request there will be no public calling hours or funeral service. Burial will be at the convenience of the family.

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Cesar Eduardo Choroco Marchena - August 22, 1927 - January 20, 2022

Departed: 01/20/2022 (Watertown)

Obituary Preview: Our dear and loving 94-year-old father has passed. Our father was not only an exemplary father but a role model, a hard worker, a teacher, a friend, and most of all, an intellectual. He never stopped teaching us the right way to talk, write, or express ourselves throughout his entire life. He had high expectations for all of his five daughters. He raised strong, independent, fearless, giving, and strong-willed women. He received his doctorate from Universidad de San Marcos in Lima, Peru, in history. He married our beautiful mother, Rosa, at 30 years old and had five daughters, Martha, Guisella, Patricia, Milagros (Milly), and Veronica. He taught at the college level for many years before he immigrated to the US at the age of 40 years old to give his children a brighter future – and he certainly did.

Our father showed us the value of having a solid work ethic, the commitment to preserving a tight and loyal family unit, respecting others, and praising success in others, never to be jealous of others but strive to achieve all your goals. He taught us this through the sacrifices he made by leaving his native country of Peru as a scholar and coming to NYC to start a new life as a janitor because he did not speak English. Due to the English barrier, he had to learn a new way to earn a living to raise a family of seven. He always said, “work dignifies a person, no matter what job you do.”  He worked 2 jobs in order to provide a fulfilling life for his family, and although he had a blue-collar job in the US, you never saw him go to work without a suit and tie, alluding to professionalism every day. He was the man walking down the street, always greeting everyone that crossed his path with “Good Morning; how are you?”  He was the father of all of our childhood friends. He advised, fed, and took in any of our friends that had family issues. For most of our teenage years, we had a friend living with us, and my father always brought them into the family and treated them as one of his own.  Our friends would most remember Dad for his lectures and speeches regarding life lessons.  His lectures were epic in our home, especially around our friends. Our Dad always told our mom to serve the kids first at dinner time, which she did; however, no one was allowed to leave the dinner table until he was done eating. If we wanted to go out, we needed to clean the house from top to bottom and then pray he would permit us to go out with our friends.

My father was always there for us no matter what. Whatever we needed, love, support, money, guidance, there was never a time that he did not deliver. His children and grandchildren were his pride and joy, and most recently, his two smallest great-grandchildren, Renzo and Talia. He was our biggest cheerleader, always teaching us that taking risks and having confidence in our abilities would be the key to success. He always celebrated even the most minor accomplishments and made you feel like you were on top of the world with every small or significant achievement. He instilled self-confidence in each of us, which was pivotal in conquering happiness. He taught us to make good choices and walk away from temptation.  He taught us to laugh, make jokes and be sarcastic.

Most in Watertown will remember him as the resilient, old, friendly man who was constantly cleaning, pruning the flowers, mowing the lawn, and cleaning up snow around the building of QuikMed Urgent Care in the winter. He had so much pride in keeping the building clean both inside and out. Taking care of the grounds was his job, and nobody was taking it away. Our father was our pillar, and now he rests in peace. What we learned from him will stay with us forever, and we shall make it our mission to continue to grow the same cycle of passion, self-worth, resilience, confidence, and giving to our children and their children to come. Our father’s sacrifices have paid off, and we will continue to keep his memory living on. We love you, Daddy!

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Dollie L. Doldo - December 29, 1922 - January 19, 2022

Departed: 01/19/2022 (Watertown)

Obituary Preview: Dollie L. Doldo, 99, formerly of Rt 3, Watertown, passed away January 19, 2022 at Samaritan Summit Village where she has been a resident.

Dollie was born December 29, 1922, in Gibson City, IL, daughter of Elza and Hazel (Phifer) Cater. She attended schools in Illinois. On August 16, 1945, she married Anthony Doldo in Reno Nevada. Mr. Doldo died in 1984.

Dollie and her husband purchased Mason’s Bridal  from Ted Mathenson. The store offered bridal wear and tuxedos.  For eighteen years her son Patrick worked in the business with her. She retired in 1986.

Dollie attended St. Anthony’s Church. Dollie loved fashion, her bridal business and going to NYC for buying trips. She also had a love of crocheting, sewing and traveling.

Surviving are a son, Patrick J. (JoAnn), Watertown, a daughter, Michelle (Patrick) Gorman, Buffalo, four grandchildren, Lori Doldo Ring, Kyle Gorman, Brandon Gorman and Donna Moyer, two great grandchildren, several nieces and nephews. Four brothers, Buck, Doc, Wilber and Patrick, two sisters, Sis and Jean Barber, a grandson, Christopher J. Doldo, son of Patrick and Jo Ann, all died before her.

A funeral mass will be held Saturday January 22, 2022, at 10 am at St. Anthony’s Church. Contributions may be made to St. Anthony’s Church, 850 Arsenal Street, Watertown, NY 13601.

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David T. Dean - April 01, 1941 - January 19, 2022

Departed: 01/19/2022 (Watertown)

Obituary Preview: David T. Dean, 80, of Calcium, died January 19, 2022, at his home with his family by his side.

Mr. Dean was born April 1, 1941, son of Harold J. Dean and Mary (Bushnell) Wise. He graduated from Lyme Central School in 1959, joined the United States Navy and was honorably discharged in 1963. Mr. Dean worked for the Black Clawson Company where he earned his Journeyman Machinist papers, retiring in 1998, after 35 years of service.

He married Ellen Baldwin March 31, 1963 at Asbury United Methodist Church.

Mr. Dean was a member of Faith Fellowship Church, a fifty-year volunteer and Chaplin for Calcium Volunteer Fire Department and Little League coach. He enjoyed NASCAR racing and helping people.

Surviving besides his wife Ellen, of fifty-eight years, are his children, James S. (Marybeth), Buffalo, David W. (Diane Swanson), San Antonio, TX, Catherine S. Walts (Ramon Rivera), Dexter, William H. (Lois), Buffalo, seven grandchildren, six great grandchildren, a brother, Raymond Dean, Portsmouth, VA, a sister Carolyn Shepard, Watertown, and three nephews. A brother Paul H. Dean and a sister Mary Ehlers, both died before him.

Calling hours will be Tuesday from 4-6pm at Faith Fellowship Church followed by a funeral service at 6pm, ending with military honors. Burial will be at the convenience of the family.

Contributions may be made to Faith Fellowship School, 131 Moore Avenue, Watertown, NY 13601 or to Calcium Fire Hall, 24527 County Road 138, Calcium, NY 13616.

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Thomas M. Williams - November 02, 1941 - January 18, 2022

Departed: 01/18/2022 (Watertown)

Obituary Preview: Thomas M. Williams, 80, of Watertown, passed away peacefully early Tuesday morning at his home surrounded by his family.

Born in Black River on November 2nd, 1941, to parents Frank and Marion Williams, Thomas began working three full-time jobs by the time he was 5 years old, or at least that’s what he told his grandkids. He graduated from Watertown High School as part of the Class of 1959. Shortly after, he met his beloved wife Beverly, the saintly woman who would go on to take care of him for the next sixty years.

Prior to 1963, Thomas first worked for his father at Williams Bus Service before it was sold, later becoming Freeman Bus. He then spent the next thirty years working for Niagara Mohawk, twenty of which as a Heavy Equipment Operator and the last ten as Union President, before retiring in 1994. After that, Thomas returned to his roots, driving bus once again for the New York State Department of Corrections, Freeman Bus Corporation, and First Student, where he drove kids to and from school.

Thomas had his hand in a number of community organizations as well. He was a former President of the Italian American Civic Association, member of the Eagles Club, former member of the Elks Club, and was an active parishioner of St Anthony’s Church. At St. Anthony’s, he ran the beer tent every summer during their annual Mt. Carmel Feast, served as a board representative on behalf of the IACA during the construction of the St. Anthony’s Apartments, and volunteered regularly at their Bingo events.

Later on in life, Thomas enjoyed Water Aerobics at the YMCA, sipping coffee with his friends at McDonald’s, competing in tractor pull events, his yearly winter migration to Florida, the occasional Michelob Ultra, frozen mochas from Dunkin, Sunday dinners with his family, and watching football with his great grandson Vincenzo.

Thomas is survived by his wife, Beverly, his brother, Dr. John (Paula) Williams, Cuba, NY, three children, Stephanie Moore, Watertown, F. Stephen (Elizabeth DeCuir) Williams, Overland Park, KS, and Stacy (James) Cavellier, Watertown, nine grandchildren and step-grandchildren, Preston, Jennifer, Brandon, Michael (Selina), Kate (Jon), Griffin, Arden, Eliska, and Jake, as well as 1 great grandson, Vincenzo Thomas. He is predeceased by his parents, Frank and Marion Williams, and his younger brother, F. Joseph Williams.

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Grace M. Marzano - September 11, 1937 - January 15, 2022

Departed: 01/15/2022 (Watertown)

Obituary Preview: Grace M. Marzano, 84, passed peacefully on January 15, 2022 in her Watertown home, surrounded by her beloved children. The family thanks Hospice of Jefferson County, for their compassion, guidance, respect, and their empathy during her final hours.

Grace was born September 11, 1937, in Watertown, daughter of Pasquale C. and Rose (Compo) Melara. She graduated from Watertown High School. Grace worked as a switchboard operator for the New York Telephone Company, and as a waitress at Grieco’s Brass Rail, Ann’s Stand, and Canale’s Restaurant prior to marriage. On January 16, 1960, she married Vincent J. Marzano at St. Anthony’s Church with Reverend Joseph Sistito officiating. Mr. Marzano died on December 28, 2002. After her husband’s passing, Grace became President of the Italian American Civic Association Ladies’ Auxiliary. She sat on the organizing committee of the Bravo Italiano Festival, and coordinated several fund raising efforts to benefit the IACA. Grace was a communicant of St. Anthony’s Church and a longtime member of the Altar Rosary Society. Many attendees of the St. Anthony’s Mount Carmel Festival will fondly remember her exquisite Italian cookies. In her earlier years, she was City Tennis Champion and City Tennis Doubles Champion and she (very much) enjoyed golfing. Grace lived for her family (especially her grandchildren) and always stressed the importance of keeping long held traditions alive. Her children and grandchildren will always remember Italian Christmas cookies and traditional Sicilian Easter bread in addition to many Italian dishes that were uniquely hers. Grace was an avid gardener and took pride in her 100-year-old tomato seeds from Italy, which she continued to grow until this past year. The fresh sauce was incredible!

Grace is survived by her children, Anthony C., Rodman, John V., Vincent N. and Lisa V, of Watertown, Gina R. Marzano and Tina M. (Rocco) Lanzafame, all of Rochester. She has eight grandchildren, Christian Wolf, Chelsea Wolf and fiancé, Nick Fontaine, Rocco Lanzafame, Jr., Vincent Lanzafame, Hannah (Killian) LaDue, Vanessa Marzano, Julia Marzano, Antonio Marzano, one great grandchild, due in March, a brother, Charlie (Shirley) Melara, Watertown, a sister-in-law, Mary Melara, Watertown, several nieces and nephews. She is predeceased by her siblings, Sam (Lillian) Anzalone, Phillip Anzalone, Josephine (Tony) Noto, Frank (Christine) Melara, Joseph (Jeannette) Melara, Ron Melara, Grace (Frank) Campolito, Carmela (Stanley) O’Bryan, Anna (Lowell) Smith, Catherine (Edward) McGinley, Dorothy (Earle) Rothbaler, and Adeline Melara.

A funeral mass will be at the convenance of the family. A graveside service will be held Wednesday at 11:30 am at Glenwood Cemetery. Contributions may be made to St. Anthony’s Church, 850 Arsenal Street, Watertown, NY 13601, Immaculate Conception Church, 119 Main Street, Brownville, NY 13615 or to the Italian American Civic Association, 192 Bellew Ave., Watertown, NY 13601.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and other biographical information. It may also include details about their life, achievements, and surviving family members.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to share the news of a loved one's passing with friends, family, and community. They provide an opportunity to honor and celebrate the person's life, and can also serve as a historical record of their existence.

What is the purpose of an obituary?

The primary purpose of an obituary is to announce the death of a person and provide information about their funeral or memorial service. It also gives friends and family a chance to pay tribute to the deceased and share their condolences with the grieving family.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, the obituary is written by the family of the deceased, often with the assistance of a funeral home or obituary writer. In some cases, a friend or colleague may also write an obituary.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also include information about their life story, achievements, and accomplishments.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication and the family's preferences. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from a few sentences to a few paragraphs.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a great way to personalize the notice and make it more meaningful to readers.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online platform?

The submission process varies depending on the publication or platform. You can usually find guidelines on their website or by contacting their customer service department directly.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies widely depending on the publication, word count, and any additional features such as photos or online links. Expect to pay anywhere from $50 to $500 or more.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, it's becoming increasingly common for people to write their own obituaries in advance. This can be a therapeutic exercise and ensure that your life story is told in your own words.

What is a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of someone's passing, usually including only the most basic information such as name, age, and date of death. It's often used when a full obituary is not desired or feasible.

What is the difference between an obituary and a eulogy?

An obituary is a written notice announcing someone's death, while a eulogy is a spoken tribute delivered at a funeral or memorial service. A eulogy provides a more personal and emotional reflection on the person's life.

Can I include quotes or poems in an obituary?

Yes, many families choose to include meaningful quotes, poems, or lyrics in an obituary to add a personal touch and reflect the person's personality or interests.

How do I handle sensitive information in an obituary?

If there are sensitive issues surrounding the person's death or life, it's best to be honest but tactful in how you present this information. Consider consulting with other family members or a professional writer for guidance.

Can I include charitable donations in lieu of flowers?

Yes, many families choose to suggest charitable donations in lieu of flowers as a way to honor their loved one's memory and support a good cause.

How long after someone passes away should an obituary be published?

The timing of publishing an obituary varies depending on cultural and personal preferences. Typically, it's published within a few days to a week after the person's passing.

Can I edit or revise an obituary after it's been published?

In most cases, it's difficult or impossible to make changes to an obituary once it's been published. Be sure to proofread carefully before submitting the final version.

What if I need help writing an obituary?

If you're struggling to write an obituary, consider seeking help from a funeral home, obituary writer, or professional counselor. They can provide guidance and support during this difficult time.

Can I republish an obituary online or on social media?

Yes, many families choose to share an obituary on social media platforms or online memorial websites as a way to reach a wider audience and allow others to pay their respects.

How do I ensure accuracy when writing an obituary?

To ensure accuracy, verify all facts and details with multiple sources before submitting the final version. This includes dates, names, places, and other biographical information.

What if I'm unsure about what to include in an obituary?

If you're unsure about what information to include in an obituary, consider consulting with other family members or seeking guidance from a funeral home or professional writer.

Can I include humor or anecdotes in an obituary?

Yes, many families choose to include humorous stories or anecdotes in an obituary as a way to celebrate the person's life and personality.

How do I handle conflicting opinions within the family when writing an obituary?

If there are differing opinions within the family about what should be included in the obituary, try to find common ground and focus on honoring the person's memory. Consider seeking mediation from a neutral third party if necessary.

What if I want to write a longer or more detailed tribute beyond what's possible in a traditional obituary?

If you want to write a longer tribute beyond what's possible in a traditional obituary, consider creating a separate memorial website or blog where you can share more stories and memories about your loved one.