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Shirley Jean Brawner - June 16, 1935 - April 11, 2024

Departed: 04/11/2024 (Baltimore)

Obituary Preview: Shirley Jean Brawner (Farcin), 88, of Hampden Maryland passed away peacefully surrounded by her family on April 11, 2024 at St. Joseph Medical Center. She was born on June 16, 1935 in West Virginia, daughter of the late Joseph and Juanita Farcin.

Shirley is survived by her husband of 59 years Charles Frederick Brawner Sr., her children Chuck Brawner, Melissa Kisner and her husband Matthew Kisner and her grandchildren Matthew Kisner and his wife Samantha, Brooks Brawner along with his mother Lisa Bennett, and Emily Kisner. In addition to her immediate family, she is survived by her siblings in West Virgina, Joseph Farcin and his wife Sandra, Allen Farcin and his wife Marlene, Phil Farcin and his wife Barbara, and Joyce Ward and her husband Guy. She is preceded in death by her brother Richard Farcin and his wife Nancy. She is survived by many nieces and nephews.

Shirley was a member of St. Thomas Aquinas Church and worked at St. Thomas Aquinas school for 30+ years. She was an active member of the community and liked to walk around Hampden and talk to everyone in her path. She loved to go to auctions with her husband and buy auction treasures for her grandchildren. She was a die-hard Ravens fan and enjoyed “Ravens talk” with her neighbor, Diane.

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Patrick Kenneth Lackey - July 30, 1943 - March 31, 2024

Departed: 03/31/2024 (Baltimore)

Obituary Preview: Patrick K. Lackey died Easter Sunday, March 31, 2024, at the Brightview Catonsville assisted living center in Maryland from complications of Parkinson’s disease. He was 80.

Pat was born in the western Kansas town of Ransom on July 30, 1943, the son of Harmon and Lee Lackey. He hopscotched through small Kansas towns growing up and attended four colleges – majoring, at various times, in chemistry, music, mathematics, English and journalism. He eventually graduated from Wichita State University.

His college years were broken up by a stint in the Vietnam War, where he was spared some of the worst combat because he knew how to type and his unit needed a company clerk. Before and after the war, he considered a career in music, drumming for jazz combos and for a rock band called Spider and the Crabs. “I would have spent my life in music,” he once said, “but I was an ounce short of talent.”

Where Pat did excel was in writing, and he had a prolific and successful career as a journalist at newspapers in Kansas, Iowa and Virginia. In Iowa in the 1970s and 1980s, he spent nearly 10 years as a reporter and then the “Letters from Lackey” columnist for the Iowa City Press-Citizen and The Des Moines Register. The column was a blend of humor, politics and policy, laced with personal stories about his family, dogs and running.

He then spent 20 years at The Virginian-Pilot in Norfolk. As a reporter, he covered everything from a blockbuster espionage case to quirky stories about people in small towns throughout the state. At the end of his career, he was an editorial writer, often focusing on what was working – or not working – in municipal government. He was a reliably liberal voice in a generally conservative state. (The Virginian-Pilot ran an extended appreciation of Pat's journalism; you can find it here: chrisadams.typepad.com/lackey.)

Pat had discovered the joy of running in his 30s and was a competitor into his late 60s, with a personal best in the marathon of 2:27:58.

He met his wife Mary on a dance floor on the seventh day of the seventh month of 1977. On July 25, 1981, they ran the Bix 7 road race in the morning and got married in the afternoon. Pat’s father – by then a Methodist minister – officiated.

Their life for the next four decades was filled with books, family, news, animals and sports. They maintained a roster of pets – at one time, there were six: four dogs, two cats. If he didn’t have a dog leash in his hand, Pat likely had a book – fiction or non-, serious or funny – and you could often find him reading on a mall bench while Mary shopped.

In 2004, they retired and moved to Pikesville, Maryland, where Pat learned to love the Baltimore Orioles and Ravens as much as he did the Boston Celtics.

Pat and Mary spent weekends at local swing dances and grandchildren’s activities – attending concerts, keeping stats at basketball games, coaching baseball. They were also active in the Sudbrook Park neighborhood association. Reflecting in the last year of his life, Pat had sage advice: Be kind. Relax. Accept being normal or average. As for a motto? “It could be worse.”

He is survived by a daughter from a previous marriage, Michelle Mitchem and her husband Corey Mitchem of Indianapolis, Indiana; stepsons Timothy Adams and his wife Deborah Lewin of Catonsville, Maryland, and Christopher Adams and his wife Caralee Johnson Adams of Bethesda, Maryland. He is also survived by nine grandchildren: Sophia Lewin Adams of Chicago; Maxwell Adams and his wife Courtney Adams of Auburn Hills, Michigan; Nicholas Adams of Portland, Oregon; Spencer Adams of San Rafael, California; Holly Adams of Bethesda, Maryland; Tyler Mitchem of Orlando, Florida; and Asia, Myles and C.J. Mitchem of Indianapolis, Indiana. He also had one great-grandchild: Theodore Ward Adams of Auburn Hills, Michigan.

Also surviving are sisters-in-law Kathleen “Kitty” Metzger and her husband Daryl of Johnston, Iowa, and Christine Lemyre and her husband Mark of Pleasant Hill, California; long-time friends Robert McKenzie, who met Pat on the running circuit in Iowa and was best man at his wedding, and Fred Kirsch, a fellow journalist at The Virginian-Pilot; and his last two pets: Happy the dog and Bix the cat.

He was preceded in death by his wife, Mary Adams-Lackey, in 2021; his parents; and his siblings Mike, Peggy and Tammy. Memorials can be directed to Hungry for Music (hungryformusic.org), which provides instruments to kids in need, or the Maryland SPCA (mdspca.org).

Online condolences can be left at the Cremation Society of Maryland (cremationsocietyofmd.com/obituaries/obituary-listings).

A memorial service will be held at Milford Mill United Methodist Church, 915 Milford Mill Road, Pikesville, Maryland, on Saturday, June 22, at 1 p.m.

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Linda Whittington Ralph - August 02, 1937 - March 26, 2024

Departed: 03/26/2024 (Baltimore)

Obituary Preview: Linda Whittington Ralph, 86, of Lutherville, Maryland, passed away March 26, 2024. She was the daughter of the late Joseph Samuel Whittington, Jr. and Mabelle Rose Freeman. Linda was preceded in death by her husband, John Thomas Ralph; sisters, Nancy Whittington Jacobsen and Joan Whittington Gatewood.

She is survived by her daughter Jennifer Lin Peavey, son-in-law Christopher Daniel Peavey and granddaughter Norah Grace Peavey (who called her “Mimma”) of Portland, Maine, nephews Paul Jacobsen (Betsy), Charles Gatewood (Emily) and nieces Joanna Watson (Buster), and Eleanor Gatewood (Royce) and the late Amy L. St.Jean.

Linda was born in Tarrytown, New York, and spent a happy and memorable childhood playing on the cliffs near the Hudson River, riding her bike, exploring and enjoying vast amounts of freedom.

She graduated from University of Pennsylvania with a degree in English and continued her lifelong passion for reading and writing in all its forms. Her art medium of choice was a well-crafted story and she was most happy with a cup of coffee and a good book or discussions with friends about psychology or spirituality. She loved watching movies and detective shows in the evening, with a well-fed cat next to her.

She was a devoted member of AA, where she had 40 years of sobriety and she was part of a rich community that she adored. Her friends gave her much joy and strength and she was known as a listener, a sage advisor as well as someone who did not judge people for their behavior. She was going to five meetings a week even during the last year of her life. Hearing the stories of others gave her enthusiasm and inspiration.

She had 45 years of marriage to her husband Tom. They enjoyed coffee on the sunny deck in Lutherville, Maryland surrounded by flowers, birds, and chipmunks that she hand-fed. She was a devoted mother to Jen, who she doted on from the moment she was born. They shared a strong bond, and have great memories of trips to Europe together, long phone conversations, and lots of laughs. Among many things, she taught Jen the importance of a strong community of friends. She looked forward to the annual trips to Bethany Beach with Tom, Jen, Chris and Norah.

Linda hosted many Saturday dinner and game nights at her house for her sister Joan and niece Eleanor and family friend John. She was a terrific gift giver and loved to see others enjoy themselves with food, conversation, games and laughter.

She was particularly sensitive to the suffering of others, especially of animals. She was frequently rescuing a bird or a rabbit and nursing it back to health.

Linda was the last one of a generation and her wisdom, humor and kindness were great blessings to many. She will be deeply missed.

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James Webster - July 24, 1933 - March 24, 2024

Departed: 03/24/2024 (Baltimore)

Obituary Preview: On March 24 2024 James A Webster Sr. (age 90) passed away peacefully, and will be greatly missed. He is survived by his two sons. Joseph S Webster and James A Webster Jr. and his Granddaughter Mandie Webster . James enjoyed sports of all kinds and also volunteered with Knights of Columbus and the Moose Lodge.

A celebration of life service will be held at a later date.

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Roger Lee Hurd - October 28, 1951 - March 22, 2024

Departed: 03/22/2024 (Baltimore)

Obituary Preview: Roger Hurd, 72, passed away on March 22, 2024. He was born in Mount Hope, West Virginia, and was the son of the late James Hobert and Dorothy (Carter) Hurd. Roger is survived by his son, Roger Lee Hurd Jr.; grandchildren, Trinity Kerns (Jessie), Zoe Hurd, and Kaylee Hurd; great-grandchild, Oaklynn Hurd; sister, Nancy Hurd; loving girlfriend, Tori Shackett; and niece, Teresa Reefe (Scott). He also leaves behind dozens of dedicated friends that were like family. In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by his brother James (Jimmy) William Hurd.

Roger followed in his father’s footsteps working as a skilled technician in the auto body repair trade for over 40 years. Beyond his work, Roger found joy in riding his Harley Davidson motorcycle, playing darts and cornhole, watching NASCAR races, bingo nights, and hosting crab feasts with his friends and family. Roger loved his family and friends more than anything, and he was the heart of every gathering, his contagious laughter filling every room he entered. The love, laughter, and bonds he shared will live on, bringing joy to all who were lucky to have him in their lives. Roger was also a lifelong member of Moose International which exemplified his commitment to service and fellowship.

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Christina Murray Younger - December 26, 1948 - March 21, 2024

Departed: 03/21/2024 (Baltimore)

Obituary Preview: Christina Murray Younger, 75, died peacefully on March 21, 2024 at her home in Ellicott City, Maryland after a brave 5-year battle with cancer. Beloved mother, wife, grandmother, daughter, sister, aunt, and friend, she spent her last weeks surrounded, loved, and cared for by her family.

Born in Queens, New York on December 26, 1948, she was the daughter of the late Irish immigrants John J. Murray and Christina Noone Murray Lewis, and the stepdaughter of Judge Laverne G. Lewis. Christina was the youngest of three daughters and spent her youth living in NYC. After graduating from Mater Christi High School in Astoria, she moved to Rensselaer, New York and received both her undergraduate and graduate degrees from the College of Saint Rose. She later moved to Maryland and met her the love of her life, James, while working together at the Maryland Rehab Center. Christina also taught shorthand part time at Howard County Community College, before moving to a fulfilling and lengthy career as a healthcare executive. She was the Vice President of Human Resources at various local hospitals for several years, after transitioning from being a stay-at-home mom. Despite at times having a long commute and an important role, there was always dinner cooked for her family after getting home from work. She worked as a physician’s advisor for a few years before retirement.

Christina loved to cook, her Irish heritage, sitting on her beloved screen porch, her 2 poodles, listening to James Taylor and Carly Simon, taking walks, reading, and springtime. Above all, her greatest joy in life was being a mother until she became the best Mimi to her beloved granddaughters, Elle and Clara. She will be remembered as the most selfless, generous and loving woman, always putting her family first before her own needs. She planned every family gathering, holiday, birthday, and vacation with such excitement and joy. She nurtured and supported every member of her family regardless of her health status.

Her friends and former colleagues have described her as vibrant, funny, resilient, beautiful, feisty, loyal, kind, supportive and strong. Several have recognized how much of a mentor she was for them, both professionally and personally and admired her advances for the healthcare system. And all have acknowledged her fierce, unwavering love for her family which is a comfort during these dark days. We will forever cherish her presence in our lives as a blessing.

Christina is survived by her husband of 47 years, James; her daughters, Kristin (Eric) of Williamsburg, VA and Erin (Kendall) of Arlington, VA; her two grandchildren Elle and Clara; sister Kathleen Corcoran and many wonderful cousins, nieces and nephews. She is predeceased by her parents and her sister Anne Murray-Wilt (George).

As per Christina’s request, private services will be held. Those wishing to honor her memory with a financial contribution are encouraged to donate to a charity of your choosing. We ask that you please sign the online guest book to express your condolences.

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Norma King Schlegel - April 22, 1932 - March 13, 2024

Departed: 03/13/2024 (Baltimore)

Obituary Preview: On Wednesday, March 13,2024, Norma King Schlegel, loving mother, grandmother, and great grandmother, passed away at the age of 91.

Norma was born on April 22, 1932, to Frankie (nee Borders) and Dewey King of Chapel Hill, NC. She earned a BA in Education from the University of North Carolina where she was a member of the Alpha Delta Pi sorority. She earned a master’s degree from Towson State and taught school in Maryland for 30 years, retiring from Carroll Manor Elementary School in 1990. Norma’s first love was the Lord. She was a member of Chestnut Grove Presbyterian Church where she served as an elder and a deacon. She taught Sunday school, sang in the choir, and was a member of the Chestnuts for many years.

Norma was a warm, kind, and loving person. She was committed to her family and friends in every way. She loved the arts, always taking her grandchildren and others to museums, symphonies, theaters, zoos, and aquariums. She also loved to travel, visiting many countries in Europe as well as Australia, Greece, Russia, Africa, Israel, among others. Norma loved the beach, traveling to the Outer Banks and beaches of NC—the pelicans were her favorite! Her hobbies included knitting, cross stitch, reading, and working crossword and jigsaw puzzles. She was an avid tennis player most of her life and a dedicated Carolina Tarheel fan.

Norma was preceded in death by her parents, Frankie and Dewey, and her husband, Andrew Schlegel. She is survived by her 6 children, Michael McGinty, Kevin McGinty (Margaret), Tricia Shellhamer (Ross), Andrew Schlegel (Maggie), Barbara Conner (Michael), and Susan Dunning (Pat), and her sister, Janelle Wall. In addition, she is survived by 12 grandchildren and 10 great-grandchildren.

A memorial service will be held at 11:00 am on Saturday, April 27, 2024, at Chestnut Grove Presbyterian Church, 3701 Sweet Air Rd, Phoenix, MD 21131. A Celebration of Life reception will follow.

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Fannie Doster - July 17, 1926 - March 11, 2024

Departed: 03/11/2024 (Baltimore)

Obituary Preview: On Monday afternoon, March 11, 2024, Ms. Fannie Catherine “Kitty” Doster, age 97, surrendered to the inevitable outcome of a long life well-lived and passed away at Oak Crest Senior Living in Parkville, MD. She is survived by her daughters Judith Lehnhoff Judy and Martha Doster, her sons Leroy Doster and Donald Lehnhoff, 5 amazing grandkids, 6 remarkable great-grandkids, and a host of younger friends.

Kitty was born in Charlottesville, VA and moved to Baltimore before her 1st birthday. She lived first on Bonaparte Ave. in the city, then to Lavender Ave. in Parkville. She graduated from Towson High School in 1944, married a sailor near the end of the war, taught homebound elementary school kids, and worked as a bookkeeper and real estate accountant for companies and law firms. She raised 2 children, then loved two more with her 2nd marriage and made it all work. She always loved to dance from a very young age, and she loved to sing barbershop. She sang bass with the Dundalk Sweet Adelines for over 50 years, and with various barbershop quartets that she helped organize.

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Irene Carole Blondheim - January 09, 1936 - March 10, 2024

Departed: 03/10/2024 (Baltimore)

Obituary Preview: Irene Carole Blondheim, (nee Clisham), age 88, of Forest Hill, Maryland passed away, peacefully on March 10, 2024. She was the Beloved Wife of the late John S. Blondheim, devoted Mother to Colleen C. Heinbuch, Tracy L. Ballou (Husband, Lee) & Glenn A. Heinbuch (Wife, Jana) Loving Grandmother, (Mom-Mom) to Nicholas L. Ballou & McKenna L. Ballou. Also survived by Dear Sisters, Katherine (Gino) Giannotta, Lorraine Bowman and many nieces, nephews & cousins.

Irene had a Love for music ever since she was a child. Her lifelong Passion developed in a longtime career as a Professional Singer. Later in life she owned her own Karaoke’ business and did shows for Retirement Parties, Private Venues, and various Bar/Restaurant establishments. She was an avid Bowler and belong to many leagues. She loved to watch Golf, Figure Skating, Game Shows, and Dancing with the Stars. Her love of books and reading turned into a position at her local Library.

Her most Cherished title was being a grandmother. I remember when she was holding my infant Son and looked at me with tears in her eyes and said, Thank you. You would have thought she was the first person to become a grandmother, as that is all she wanted to talk about. Her babies, as she referred to them.

Per her wishes, there will be no formal service. There will be a private Celebration of Life to release her ashes on the beach, as she requested.

In life we loved you dearly, in death we love you still. In our hearts you hold a place, no one will ever fill.

Please consider donating to The American Alzheimer’s Association.

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Deborah Bucher - June 08, 1952 - March 05, 2024

Departed: 03/05/2024 (Baltimore)

Obituary Preview: Deb was born in Jersey City NJ on June 8, 1952 to Lillian and William Koehler. she graduated in 1974 from Shippensburg University in Pennsylvania., and was in an active locally famous Sorority named Earle-Forte,

She is survived by Larry Bucher, husband, Woodstock, MD, Children, Lauren of Woodstock, MD and Chase of Seekonk, MA.

During Debs early years she worked in her husbands flooring business in Maryland, and also was a Montessori Teacher in Ellicott City Maryland. Deb loved cooking, (lots of Italian dishes) gardening, and had a brief career as a vocalist for a popular jazz band in Bethlehem. PA

additionally Deb served as the Sunday School Supt, of First Lutheran Church, in Ellicott City.

Deb and Larry loved to travel, and was always ready for the "next trip". Her bags always packed. her hobby was seeing and hearing live Music Concert events, of all types of Music .-

She was always happy and smiling and ever so proud of her two children Lauren and Chase.

May she rest in Peace.

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Marian Spruill - September 13, 1928 - March 01, 2024

Departed: 03/01/2024 (Baltimore)

Obituary Preview: In Loving Memory of Marian Spruill

Marian Spruill, beloved Sister, Mother, Grandmother, Great-Grandmother and friend to many, passed away peacefully on March 1st, 2024 at 95 years age. She was born on September 13th, 1928 in Rockingham County, Virginia to Ralph Dutrow and Pauline Gilmer.

Throughout her life, Marian touched the hearts of those around her with her warmth, kindness, and unwavering love. She was known for her love of family and travel, which left an indelible mark on all who had the privilege of knowing her.

Marian lived a life of compassion, always eager to lend a helping hand to those in need. She cherished her family and friends above all else, finding joy in simple moments and creating lasting memories with those she held dear.

She will be dearly missed by her many family members, who will forever carry her memory in their hearts. She was preceded in death by her husband Elvin, brother Robert, step-sister Lauren and daughter Carolyn. She is survived by siblings Mary, John, and Joseph; step-sister Jean, three children, Donna, John, and Robert and four grandchildren: George, James, James Lee and Katie and eight great grandchildren: Olivia, Madeline, Lillian, Jay, Conner, Jayden, Mason and Alena as well as, nephews, nieces, grand nephews and nieces and extended family in Maryland, Virginia and beyond.

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Dorothy Hoffman - January 13, 1932 - February 26, 2024

Departed: 02/26/2024 (Baltimore)

Obituary Preview: Dorothy Hoffman, who was born Dorothy Jean Mueller on January 13, 1932, entered into eternal rest on February 26, 2024. She married Carl L. Hoffman, Jr., on January 26, 1952; they celebrated their 71st wedding anniversary shortly before Carl’s death on March 17, 2023. Dorothy is survived by her son, Michael, and his girlfriend, Andrea Baker; her daughter, Laurie, and her husband, Gregg Busey; her grandsons, Kevin, Adam, and Eric Busey; Carl’s sister, Marilyn Gay; her sister-in-law, Shirley (Moore) Mueller; her cousins, Carol Carew and Lloyd Musselman, and Lloyd’s wife, Nancy; and Carl’s cousin Harry Ryan and his wife, Elaine. She is also survived by numerous nieces and nephews and their children.

Dorothy was predeceased by her parents, Otto and Sara Mueller; her sister, Audrey Green; her brothers, Joseph Mueller and Robert Mueller; her sister-in-law, Shirley (Baquol) Mueller; Carl’s sister Charlotte Meyers and her husband, John; her brother-in-law, Frank Gay; her aunt, Verna Musselman, and uncle, Melvin Newkirk, and their spouses; and beloved cousins, nieces, and nephews who were taken too soon.

Dorothy grew up in Westport, where she formed lifelong friendships with Ruth (Mills) Brandt and Ruth (Robinson) Sansbury. She graduated from Southern High School. Dorothy and Carl moved their family to Linthicum in 1963. Dorothy was an active member at Linthicum Heights United Methodist Church. In the early 1970’s, Dorothy returned to work as a secretary for Louis Bauermann’s State Farm Insurance agency in Woodlawn. In 1977, she began work as a Buyer’s Assistant in the Purchasing department at what was then Westinghouse. Dorothy retired in early 1992.

In 1999, Dorothy and Carl became residents of Charlestown Retirement Community, where they enjoyed the social interaction, special events, and enrichment opportunities offered in Independent Living. Dorothy became a resident in Charlestown’s skilled nursing facility in September 2020. Among other staff members, she formed a special bond with Nurse Thi; CMT’s Niya, Darlene, and Charles; Social Worker Becky; Unit Secretary Towanda; and Hospice Nurse Angie. The family would like to thank all of the Care Center employees and the staff of Gilchrist Hospice who provided care and support.

A memorial service for Dorothy will be held on Saturday, March 23rd, at 11:30 A.M., at Meadowridge Memorial Park. Donations may be made to the Charlestown Benevolent Care Fund at ccicharlestown.org, or to Gilchrist Hospice at www.gilchristcares.org/give.

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Faith Kendall Montgomery - May 16, 1941 - February 23, 2024

Departed: 02/23/2024 (Baltimore)

Obituary Preview: Faith Kendall (Bailey) Montgomery (82) passed away on February 23, 2024 after a brief illness.

Kendall was born on May 16, 1941 in New York City. Her parents were Dr. F. Randolph Bailey (a Clinical Professor of Medicine at New York’s Presbyterian Hospital) and Constance (Gibboney) Bailey. Through her childhood, she loved sailing with her family and running amok around Quissett Harbor on Cape Cod. During the school year, she studied at The Brearley School and Miss Porter’s School for Girls.

After graduating from Wellesley College in 1963 with a degree in History, Kendall decided to move to Greece where she found a position supporting the family of a U.S. Diplomat. While there, she formed a close relationship with Tapley Bennett, his wife Margaret, and their 5 children. She and the Bennett family remained close for the rest of her life.

In 1964, Mr. Bennett was appointed to be the Ambassador to the Dominican Republic, and Kendall moved with the family. There, she met a kind, nerdy young Foreign Service Officer from Texas. After he was reassigned, even the sudden arrival of 800 marines couldn’t make her forget him and a courtship ensued. In 1966, she married Robert J. “Bob” Montgomery, Jr. and joined him in Mexico City.

Together, Bob and Kendall traveled the world while raising their three children. They served in Mexico City, Canberra, Prague, Ottawa, and Washington, DC, and took advantage of opportunities to travel to many other countries. Kendall loved Foreign Service Life and joined the embassy in Ottawa, serving as the first Community Liaison Officer there.

After being widowed in 1989, Kendall continued supporting the Foreign Service family. She spent years with the Family Liaison Office, eventually becoming the director. After the East African Embassy Bombings, she was asked to start the Office of Casualty Assistance which she ran until her retirement in 2007.

In retirement, she continued traveling the world, volunteering, and making new friends.

Kendall was predeceased by her parents, her husband, and her dog (Vaclav). She is survived by her sister (Thankful), her three children (Cal, Emily, and Robert), her grandson (Nicholas), and more wonderful friends than we could possibly list.

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Jean Marie Espey - December 10, 1959 - February 09, 2024

Departed: 02/09/2024 (Baltimore)

Obituary Preview: In Loving Memory of Jean Marie Espey December 10th, 1959 - February 9th, 2024

With heavy hearts, we announce the passing of Jean Marie Espey, who left us on February 9th, 2024. Jean Marie was the cherished daughter of Charles and Isabelle, a loving mother to CJ and his wife Sam, Zach and his wife Kelsey, and Seth and his wife Melinda. She was a doting grandmother to Ella, Collin, and Carter, bringing joy and laughter into their lives.

Jean Marie was a devoted sister to Ann Marie and a dear friend of Stan. She touched the lives of many with her kindness, compassion, and unwavering love. Her memory will forever be treasured by all who knew her.

A private service will be held at a later date to honor and celebrate Jean Marie's life. May she rest in peace, knowing she was deeply loved and will be profoundly missed.

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John Michael Twigg - February 23, 1951 - February 08, 2024

Departed: 02/08/2024 (Baltimore)

Obituary Preview: John Michael Twigg, age 72 of Ellicott City, MD went to be with the lord on February 8th, 2024. He was the beloved husband of Donna Twigg, they shared 39 years together.

Born in Washington DC on February 23, 1951 he was the son of the late Carolyn Twigg & Lester Alvin Twigg Jr.

He was deemed mechanical genius and wordsmith by all who knew him and devoted his life to a hard days work. His character, loyalty and wit will surely be missed.

He is survived by 2 siblings Shayne Twigg & Carol Twigg Pfister, 6 children: John Michael Twigg Jr, Bonnie Jean Smoot, Holly Ann Smoot, Heather Kate Twigg, Cara Marie Twigg & Sarah Jane Twigg. As well as 21 grandchildren, five nieces and nephews.

A memorial of life will be held at a later date.

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June Lowder - November 30, 1932 - January 25, 2024

Departed: 01/25/2024 (Baltimore)

Obituary Preview: June Sellman-Lowder of Nottingham Md. died peacefully at home at the age of 91 on January 25, 2024.

She was the devoted wife of the late Hughston E. Lowder Sr. and loving mother of the late Hughston E. Lowder Jr.

She is survived by her three beloved daughters Patricia Wildt (George Jr.), Lorraine Longo (Mark-deceased), Joyce MacMicking (Mark), eleven grandchildren, their spouses and seventeen great grandchildren.

June lived her life with grace and kindness, she had wisdom that you could always count on, which was delivered with a wittiness that was one of a kind. She was so much fun to be around and she will truly be missed. We are all blessed to have had her in our lives for as long as we did, and to have all of those memories to cherish.

The interment will be private.

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Dorothy Kolakowski - July 10, 1940 - January 20, 2024

Departed: 01/20/2024 (Baltimore)

Obituary Preview: Dorothy “Dolly” Kolakowski (nee Malone), passed away on January 20, 2024 in the loving arms of her family. Dolly was born in Baltimore, Maryland in 1940. She attended St. Martin’s Academy and St. Benedict’s schools where she excelled. Dolly was one of two girls in her class selected to attend the Institute of Notre Dame from where she graduated in 1958. She then received a scholarship to attend Notre Dame of Maryland graduating in 1962 with a degree in English and secondary education. She married the love of her life, Michael, in August 1962 and began her teaching career, from which she took a break to raise her daughters. Dolly continued her studies earning a master’s degree in early childhood education from Towson University. She taught in Anne Arundel County Public Schools until her retirement in 2011.

Dolly embodied the expression live, laugh, love. Raised in southwest Baltimore, the eldest of three, Dolly was always a caretaker. She doted on her younger siblings and often babysat cousins who lived nearby. You could always count on her for a story about her close-knit neighborhood. She met her husband of 56 years, Michael, in Ocean City, MD, the summer she turned 17. While they sat on a bench on the boardwalk, the song An Affair to Remember wafted out from one of the venues. Michael said, “Maybe this will be an affair to remember.” Indeed it was. They married five years later the same day they met. Together, they had a beautiful love story full of adventures, passion, quiet evenings, and, most of all, family. Dolly ended visits and conversations with family by telling them she loved them with her whole heart. She lived her life loving with her whole heart.

Dolly’s laugh was infectious. It was impossible not to have a good time when you were with her because she saw the funny side of life and had a great sense of humor. She loved to play cards and Scrabble (rarely losing), and entertain friends, colleagues, and family. She was deeply devoted to her big Irish family, a loyal friend, and a kind and thoughtful neighbor. An avid Orioles fan, she watched every game. A dedicated teacher, she provided a foundation for generations of students in her kindergarten and Grade 2 classes.

She lived her life to the fullest, attending sports and school events of her children and grandchildren, celebrating their graduations, weddings, and accomplishments. She loved music, especially the BSO and Patsy Cline, plays, and reading. Dolly was happiest with a house full of friends and family, always wanting to extend the fun.

Dolly was a resident of Severna Park for the past 51 years. She is survived by her three loving daughters, Maura Taylor (Mike), Bethany DeLude (Mike), Cara Kolakowski-Jacobs (Chris), grandchildren Elizabeth Yuhasz (Alex), Michael DeLude (Meghan), Coleman DeLude (Cassie), Monica Salters (Joe), Keegan Taylor, Rory and Harper Jacobs, and great-grandson Owen. She is predeceased by her beloved husband, Dr. Michael Kolakowski, Jr., great-grandson Brennan Doll, parents Doris (Curley) and Henry Malone, sister Carol Malone and brother Patrick Malone.

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Marjorie Ann Wampler - November 30, 1949 - January 18, 2024

Departed: 01/18/2024 (Baltimore)

Obituary Preview: Marjorie Ann Wampler of Pasadena, MD, died peacefully at home with family at the age of 74 on January 18, 2024.

She was the loving daughter of the late Samuel and Margueritte Wampler.

She is survived by her beloved “little” sister, Sandra Sehman and husband Chuck, her devoted niece Amy, her husband Doug and daughter Charlie, her devoted nephews Chuck, his wife Janet and daughters Cora and Margo, and Alex and his wife Tawna.

“Margie” was born November 30, 1949 in Washington, D.C. She grew up in Landover Hills, MD, and graduated from DuVal High School. She began her career at GSA in 1967. In 1973 she moved to Miami, FL where she worked for the IRS and at a private law firm. Margie returned to MD in 1988 and worked at the House of Representatives. In 1993 she married and worked for many years at her former husband Steve’s family business.

Margie volunteered and later worked at Hospice of the Chesapeake until retirement. She also participated with her two dogs in the Pets on Wheels program.

Margie enjoyed making beaded flowers and jewelry, oil painting, gardening, cheering on the Washington Nationals, and spoiling her dogs and cat over the years. She loved being with her family and friends to whom she brought much joy.

Her family would like to express their thanks for the wonderful help and care from Gilchrist Hospice of Howard County.

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Terry Lee Bond - August 22, 1948 - January 16, 2024

Departed: 01/16/2024 (Baltimore)

Obituary Preview: Terry Lee Bond, a retired local vending company owner and operator, died peacefully in his home on January 16, 2024, from longstanding cardiac disease. He was the son of William M Bond, a supervisor at the Coca-Cola Company and Beverly Ruth Bond, a homemaker.

Following graduation from City College in 1967, he enlisted in the United States Coast Guard and served six years as an Engineman. He had multiple tours of duty aboard the USCG Westwind, a 281 foot icebreaker, to Greenland and other locales. He then served aboard the Tackle, a tug based out of Curtis Bay, Maryland.

In 1968 he married his high school sweetheart, June Linzey, and they enjoyed 55+ years of a wonderful marriage. June said, “He was her rock and the strength of our family. In addition to a wonderful marriage, we were each others’ best friends.” Never blessed with “Two footed children”, they devoted their lives to rescuing dogs – many of which were special needs – and giving them a forever home filled with love and the health care that they needed. Their “girls” were their loves, and travelled everywhere with them in their motorhome. Their motto was “Where we go, our girls go”.

Terry battled undiagnosed dyslexia as a child, but as an adult realized that he was exceptionally brilliant in many areas. He enjoyed rebuilding his 1948 Ford pick-up, and helping family and friends with multiple projects. He was an avid crabber at their beloved week-end retreat, Beach Harbor, in Grasonville, MD., and shared his catch freely with family and friends. He believed in the Golden Rule, and would always do his best to do what was right.

In 1972, he and his wife purchased an older home in the Lake-Walker neighborhood of Baltimore City. They enjoyed “porch visits” with neighbors on their large front porch. Their little neighborhood was filled with the most caring neighbors who helped out in multiple ways during his illness. He was an avid gardener, taking great pride in his vegetables and his flowers, and sharing them with others.

Funeral services will be private - at his request.

Mr. Bond is survived by his beloved wife June, and his two current rescues – Rosie and Maya – who miss him dearly, along with many cousins, in-laws, and friends.

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Carol Adams - August 21, 1942 - January 14, 2024

Departed: 01/14/2024 (Baltimore)

Obituary Preview: Carol Adams, 81, of Rising Sun, MD passed away January 14, 2024.

Born August 21, 1942 in Havre de Grace, MD, Carol was the daughter of the late Charles C. Nickle and Oleva Bell (Rhodes) Nickle and devoted wife of the late Wallace (Wally) Adams. Carol graduated from the school of x-ray technology at Johns Hopkins in 1962. She worked as an x-ray technician for Harford Memorial Hospital and Glasgow Medical Center but spent most of her career working for Perry Point VA Medical Center where she retired after over 30 years of service. Carol received the Betty Crocker Award in high school and was passionate about cooking and supporting family and friends with food and love. She was an avid animal lover but what she enjoyed most was spending time with her wonderful family, especially her grandson, Adam.

She is survived by daughter, Leah Snider and her husband Thom of Columbia MD; grandson Adam Snider of Columbia MD; and two sisters Ruth Graybeal of Calvert, MD and Peggy Morrison and her husband Don of Perryville, MD.

A gathering to celebrate Carol’s life will be held on Saturday, February 3, 2024, at 2:00 PM at the Chesapeake Bay Golf Course at Rising Sun (Chantilly Manor Country Club) – 128 Karen Drive, Rising Sun, MD. Family and friends are invited to this gathering to share memories of Carol and Wally.

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William Edward Orser - May 29, 1941 - January 08, 2024

Departed: 01/08/2024 (Baltimore)

Obituary Preview: William Edward Orser was born in Nassawadox, Virginia on May 29, 1941. Eddie, as he was then called by his parents, Reverand George & Eloise Orser, moved around the great state of Virginia before graduating valedictorian from Midlothian High in Richmond.

It was while he was attending Randolph Macon College, in which he led his class as president and enjoyed his studies, he met the woman who would change his life. Jo Annette Savage attended nearby Longwood College, and after meeting on a blind date set up by mutual friends, they fell in love and determined to live the remainder of their lives together.

Both graduated from their colleges, and while Jo worked as a teacher, Ed received a Master’s from Yale University. They married in June 1963, and proceeded to begin the journey that would define their lives in travel and public service. For (essentially) their honeymoon, they headed to Ethiopia for two unforgettable years in Kennedy’s recently formed Peace Corps.

Following that adventure, Ed received his Ph D. and Jo her Master’s from the University of New Mexico. They returned to the east coast, first in DC and then Ed’s first teaching job at Heidelberg College in OH, where their two children were born. Upon hearing about American Studies positions at the newly formed UMBC, Ed jumped at the chance to return the young family to the Mid-Atlantic in 1969.

Finally settling in Hunting Ridge in Baltimore, they raised their two children, engaged in their community, taught hundreds of students, volunteered in Leakin Park and other public places, and continued to explore the world (in a tiny tent) for over 50 years.

Ed wrote numerous articles and his books include The Gwynns Falls: Baltimore Greenway to the Chesapeake Bay; Blockbusting in Baltimore: The Edmondson Village Story; and, From Village to Suburb: Catonsville, 1880-1940 in his 40 years at UMBC. Ed received the UMBC Presidential Teaching Award and the University System of Maryland Regents Award for Excellence in Teaching. The Baltimore Historical Society conferred Historian Honors recognition upon him. At his retirement, UMBC established the Orser Center for the Study of Community, Place, and Culture to foster “innovative collaborations among scholars, students, and local community organizations” to honor Ed.

All of these experiences through Ed & Jo’s lives led to incredibly meaningful and life-long friendships that they cherish to this day.

Ed died peacefully with Jo by his side, where she always was, at Charlestown in Catonsville on January 8, 2023 after a brief illness.

In addition to Jo, Ed is survived by Stephen (& Kristin) and Sharon (& Matt), siblings Carolyn & Bob, and six beloved grandchildren, Danielle, Kevin, Jeremy, Griffin, Jacob & Keaton.

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Gerald V. Smolinski - July 12, 1937 - January 04, 2024

Departed: 01/04/2024 (Baltimore)

Obituary Preview: Gerald V. Smolinski, 86, of Severna Park, Maryland passed away on January 4, 2024. Gerry was predeceased by his wife, Janet and is survived by his sons James (Ann) and Matthew (Meighan), and two grandchildren Brendan and Catie Smolinski.

He was raised in East Baltimore. Upon graduation from Polytechnic High School, he attended Johns Hopkins University where he graduated with both a B.A and M.A. in History. He was in the Marines during the Cuban Missile Crisis. During different parts of his career, he served as a manager, salesman, and educator. After receiving his B.A. he worked in Baltimore as a teacher. He met his wife of 59 years, Janet Smolinski (nee Stivarius) through the Hopkins community while he was teaching high school in Baltimore City. He and Janet stayed in the Baltimore area, where they built a home, were active in their community, and raised two sons.

Gerald worked for a dozen years at The Baltimore Sun as Public Affairs Manager and the corporate voice of the newspaper. Later, Gerry held executive positions in several management consulting firms. Upon retirement, he got his dream job as co-owner in Annapolis Home Brew, where he was able to take a life-long appreciation of beer to a different level. In retirement, he stayed involved with The Baltimore Sun Retiree Association, serving as treasurer.

Gerry was an avid Orioles and Ravens fan. While he appreciated the 2023 Baltimore baseball and football seasons immensely, he also had deep affections for the stories and deep histories behind the games. By the time of his passing, he had forgiven the Colts. He and Janet were also devoted travelers who had visited all 50 states, six continents, and more than 20 countries. In addition to Baltimore sports, travel, and beer, he loved his dogs. A huge fan of large dogs, labradors specifically, Gerry was particularly kind to animals. Besides his sons and grandchildren, he is survived by his labrador Susy.

A combined memorial service will be held April 20, 2024 in celebration of Gerry's and Janet’s lives.

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Barbara Redmond Nieberding - August 19, 1942 - December 23, 2023

Departed: 12/23/2023 (Baltimore)

Obituary Preview: Barbara Redmond Nieberding, 81, of Ellicott City passed away peacefully surrounded by family and friends on December 23, 2023 after a long battle with myelodysplasia. She had been married to the late Michael William Nieberding for 30 years.

Barbs was born on August 19, 1942 in Baltimore, Maryland, the first child of the late Joyce Anne and John Augustin Redmond, II. She grew up in the western suburbs of Baltimore, primarily in the Catonsville area. She attended The Crosby School, Catonsville Elementary, Catonsville Junior High, and Catonsville Senior High where she was editor-in-chief of the yearbook. After high school she attended William Smith College in Geneva, New York graduating with a Bachelor’s of Arts degree in psychology. After graduation she pursued her first love – the teaching and nurturing of young children. She taught in Prince Georges County and later in Howard County and New Jersey. She was chosen as Outstanding Elementary Teacher of the Year for Howard County in 1968, and earned a Master’s in education from Johns Hopkins in 1972. She taught at West Friendship Elementary and later Northfield Elementary where she met her husband, Mike. She was impressed when he came to the school to gather his sons’ homework assignments. They were married in June of 1974. After living in Maryland for many years, Barbs and Mike moved to Flemington, New Jersey due to Mike’s job change. There they became renowned for entertaining family and friends with wonderful dinners and cool dips in their swimming pool. They bought a sailboat, the “Perseverance”, and enjoyed taking relatives down the Chesapeake Bay from the Sassafras River to Annapolis. In Flemington Barbs taught elementary school at one of the local school districts. Later she became active in the Flemington Area Food Pantry eventually becoming president. She became a Certified Master Gardener, conducting many classes on horticulture for young and old alike. While doing all this she took on the role of caregiver to her great uncle, Karol Filip and to her mother Joyce. After Mike passed away, Barbs returned to Maryland and renewed her teaching career, teaching several years at Glenelg Country School. Finally, Barbs decided to take on a well-deserved retirement and enjoy her friends at the Enclave at Ellicott Hills condominium. Birthday parties and canasta games were plentiful with Barbs supplying delicious desserts. Friends included Jane Hoffmann, Bonnie Beall, Susan Mohr, Charles Greisacker, and many others

Barbs is survived by her stepsons, Michael J. Nieberding and his wife Cathy of Baltimore, Thomas C. Nieberding and his wife Linda Julien of Gladstone, NJ, her brother John A. Redmond III and his wife Kathryn Jean of Sykesville, former daughters-in-law Linda Nieberding and Angela Krum. Also surviving are grandchildren Conrad Nieberding and wife Vy, Jillian Whiting and husband Kevin, Hannah Nieberding and partner Donavin Williams, Erich Nieberding and wife Nicolette, and Matthew Nieberding and wife Sarah. She is survived by three great-grandchildren, many loving nieces and nephews, and other family and friends including those in Colorado, Massachusetts, and Delaware.

Her funeral service will be held on Saturday, February 10th, 11:00, at St. Barnabas Episcopal Church, 13135 Forsythe Rd., Sykesville, MD with the Rev Timothy H. Grayson officiating. A reception at St. Barnabas Hall will follow. For those who cannot attend, the service will be broadcast live on YouTube. Go to the church website, www.stbarnabassykesville.org and click on the YouTube link. Internment will be later at the Cusack Cemetery in Westcliffe, CO. Memorial contributions may be made to either St. Jude Childrens Research Hospital, www.stjude.org, or to the Tree-Mendous Maryland program, https://dnr.maryland.gov/forests/Pages/treemendous.

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Phyllis Barnes Lloyd - September 05, 1928 - December 22, 2023

Departed: 12/22/2023 (Baltimore)

Obituary Preview: On December 22, 2023, Phyllis Barnes Lloyd of Catonsville passed peacefully at Angel’s Touch Care Assisted Living in West Friendship, Maryland. At 95, Phyllis was the oldest resident at Angel’s Touch. She was born on September 5, 1928, in Lisbon, Maryland. She is survived by her sister-in-law Jeanne Keller and many nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her loving husband of 57 years, Carroll L. Lloyd; parents Edgar J. Barnes and Ida R. Barnes; sisters Ida Mae Buck and Mary Yeatts; and brother Edgar J. Barnes, Jr.

Phyllis graduated from Hood College. She taught elementary students for Baltimore County Public Schools for many years. She was an active member of the Catonsville United Methodist Church. Phyllis and Carroll enjoyed vacationing in their Airstream camper with their beloved dogs, J.R. and Wesley. Phyllis cherished her and Carroll’s yearly trip to Florida and loved telling stories about their camping adventures. Phyllis was also an avid bridge player. She always looked forward to her weekly bridge club meetings and spending time with her dear friends.

The family will hold a private memorial in the coming weeks.

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Rhonald Moralde - May 13, 1970 - December 17, 2023

Departed: 12/17/2023 (Baltimore)

Obituary Preview: Rhonald Moralde, 53, of Towson, Maryland, peacefully passed away at his home on December 17th, 2023.

Rhonald was born on May 13, 1970, to Maria Victoria Josue and Samuel Moralde in Pasay City Metro Manila and was raised in Metro Manila, Philippines. He later immigrated to the United States in 2003 and lived in Maryland for most of his adult life.

Rhonald was a beloved father, son, cousin, and friend who brought a lot to life with love, generosity, humility, integrity everywhere he went. Rhonald lived his life in accordance with the principles of the Seventh-day Adventist Church.

Rhonald was a lover of music. He loved to play the piano and keyboard. Rhon connected with people through music. He created a Band with friends in Baltimore and enjoyed the gigs they prepared and performed. Rhon also worked hard as an entrepreneur; he established his business, Music Band Station. While working as a Security Staff at Allied Universal, Rhon devoted a great deal of his life serving as a professional DJ to Polo Sports Clubs for corporate celebrations, to family celebrations, and personal events. Rhon brought happiness to many, bringing people through the joyous atmosphere he set for the occasion.

Rhon showed up for himself everyday. He kept his head up even on the day he was called by God to come home. He was well loved by many. Rhon was a loving Dad to his daughter Dani. He also deeply loved his parents, brothers, cousins, and many friends from near and far, always keeping them in his mind and heart.

Rhonald was predeceased by his pet Jix, and his son Phillip. He is survived by his daughter Danielle, his father Samuel, his mother Maria Victoria, his brothers Brian and Alvin, and many aunts, uncles, and cousins. Rhon will be sorely missed. The loving memories of Rhon will live on in our hearts, and his legacy of giving joy through music will live on.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and other biographical information. It may also include details about their life, accomplishments, and surviving family members.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to notify friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a lasting tribute to the deceased, preserving their memory and legacy for future generations.

Who typically writes an obituary?

The responsibility of writing an obituary usually falls on the family members or close friends of the deceased. In some cases, a funeral home or mortuary may assist with writing the obituary or provide guidance on how to write one.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the deceased person's full name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service (if applicable), hobbies, interests, and surviving family members. It may also include information about memorial services, donations in lieu of flowers, and other relevant details.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication and the family's preferences. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from a few sentences to a few paragraphs at most.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications allow you to include one or more photos of the deceased in the obituary. This can be a meaningful way to personalize the tribute and make it more engaging for readers.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online publication?

Contact the publication directly to inquire about their submission process and guidelines. Some publications may have online forms or email addresses where you can submit the obituary, while others may require you to visit their office in person.

Is there a cost associated with publishing an obituary?

In most cases, yes. The cost varies depending on the publication and the length of the obituary. Some funeral homes or mortuaries may include the cost of publishing an obituary in their overall services.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, it is possible to write your own obituary in advance. This can be a therapeutic exercise that allows you to reflect on your life and accomplishments. Keep in mind that your family may still need to review and edit the content before publication.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of someone's passing, typically including only the basic facts such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary is a more detailed tribute that provides additional information about the person's life and legacy.

Can I include humor or personal anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! Including humorous stories or personal anecdotes can help make the obituary more engaging and reflective of the person's personality.

How do I handle sensitive or difficult information in an obituary?

If there are sensitive or difficult aspects of the person's life that you're unsure how to address in the obituary, consider consulting with other family members or close friends for guidance. You may also want to omit certain details if they could be potentially hurtful or embarrassing to others.

Can I include charitable donations or memorial funds in an obituary?

Yes! Many families choose to include information about charitable donations or memorial funds in lieu of flowers. This can be a meaningful way to honor the deceased person's legacy and support a cause they cared about.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The timeframe for publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication's schedule and deadlines. Online publications may publish immediately, while print newspapers may take several days or even weeks.

Can I make corrections or changes to an already-published obituary?

Contact the publication directly if you need to make corrections or changes to an already-published obituary. They may have specific procedures for handling corrections or updates.

What if I'm not sure what information to include in an obituary?

Drafting an outline or talking with other family members and friends can help you gather ideas and ensure that you don't forget any important details. You can also consult with a funeral home or mortuary for guidance.

Can I write an obituary for someone who has been deceased for a long time?

Yes! While it's more common to write an obituary shortly after someone's passing, there's no rule against writing one years later. This can be a meaningful way to honor their memory and share their story with others.

How do I find old obituaries from past decades?

You can try searching online archives of newspapers or genealogy websites that specialize in historical records. Local libraries or historical societies may also have physical copies of old newspapers or archives that you can access.

Can I use social media to share an obituary?

Absolutely! Social media platforms like Facebook, Twitter, and LinkedIn can be effective ways to share news of someone's passing and reach a wider audience. You can also create a memorial page or group dedicated to their memory.

Is it appropriate to include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Yes! Including meaningful quotes, lyrics, or poems can add depth and personality to the obituary. Choose something that resonates with the person's values, interests, or sense of humor.

How do I handle multiple marriages or complicated family relationships in an obituary?

This can be a sensitive topic. Consider consulting with other family members or close friends for guidance on how to navigate complex relationships in the obituary. Be honest and respectful in your approach.

Can I include information about pets in an obituary?

Absolutely! If pets played an important role in the person's life, it's perfectly fine to mention them in the obituary. This can be a touching way to acknowledge their companionship and love.

What if I'm not comfortable writing an obituary myself? Can I get help?

Yes! If you're feeling overwhelmed or unsure about writing an obituary, consider enlisting the help of a trusted friend, family member, or professional writer. Funeral homes and mortuaries may also offer assistance with writing an obituary as part of their services.