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Introduction to Cremation of Southern Maine

Cremation of Southern Maine is a trusted funeral home located at 172 State Street, Portland, ME, 04101. With a commitment to providing compassionate and personalized services, they have earned a reputation as one of the most respected funeral homes in the region. In this article, we will delve into the history, services, and benefits of choosing Cremation of Southern Maine for your loved one's final farewell.

A Brief History of Cremation of Southern Maine

Cremation of Southern Maine has a rich history of serving the community with dignity and respect. Established with the goal of providing an alternative to traditional funeral homes, they have been dedicated to offering cremation services that are both affordable and dignified. Over the years, they have built a team of experienced professionals who understand the importance of personalized service during difficult times.

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Address: 172 State Street, Portland, ME, 04101
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Daniel R. Sullivan - April 05, 1948 - September 06, 2020

Departed: 09/06/2020 (Portland)
Obituary Preview: Portland - Daniel R. Sullivan, Papa Dan, died on September 6, 2020.
Danny was born in Bangor, the son of the late Herbert and Charolette Sullivan.  Danny lived in North Carolina for many years before he moved back to Portland and he served in the United States Air force. He was known for his Papa Dan mowing. He was a character. Nobody was a stranger to him and he was loved by his family and friends. Dan enjoyed the outdoors and being able to spend time with his friends.
He is survived by his brother, Donnie Sullivan; a nephew, Peter Sullivan; his only daughter, Kristy Patterson and husband Gary Patterson; four grandchildren, Gary Patterson II, Taylor Sullivan, Cody Patterson and Markie Patterson; and three great grandchildren Anna, Peyton and Jaxxon. Dan was fighting lung cancer over a year and GOD brought him home and he’s no longer suffering.  You will be missed! Your now an angel. Fly high daddy. I love you! Arrangements are under the direction of Cremation of Southern Maine, Portland, Maine
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Kevin Sherwood Geel - June 01, 1956 - August 21, 2020

Departed: 08/21/2020 (Portland)
Obituary Preview: Lewiston/Machias- Kevin S. Geel, 64, of Lewiston, formerly of Machias, died peacefully on Friday, August 21, 2020 at the Edgewood Rehabilitation Center in Farmington following a long illness.
Kevin was born in Machias, Maine on June 1, 1956 the son of Carleton S. and Mary R. (Flaherty) Geel.  He attended local schools graduating from Washington Academy in the class of 1974.  In 1978 he earned his BS in Ed. from the University of Maine at Machias, and in 1988 received his Master’s Degree in Education from the University of Maine at Orono.
Kevin began his teaching career with SAD #77 in East Machias.  In 1991 he assumed a position with the Lake Region School District where he worked as a special education teacher, head teacher, and I.E.P. Coordinator.   Kevin was an advocate for children with special needs and worked tirelessly to insure that every child received an education.  Throughout his career he was awarded many accolades and commendations for his exceptional abilities as an educator.  In 2015, he retired from the Lake Region School District with 25 years of service.
It will go without saying that Kevin, not only possessed a brilliant mind but was also an extremely gifted and talented artist who maintained a great devotion to the art of technique.  His work with oil paints were flawless, precise and executed with great detail.  He was a talented performer and was well known for his many roles on the stage with the Downriver Theatre Company, including his most memorable as Melvin P. Thorpe in “The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas”.  He was one of the founding members of the Maine Gay Men’s Chorus and was a featured soloist on several occasions.  He was a longtime member of Friends of Bill W. helping many along the way.
Above all he was a true and trusted friend.  Always willing to lend an ear, an encouraging word, or just providing a shoulder to lean on.  You could always count on Kevin to be there when you needed him most.
Kevin was predeceased by his father, Carleton S. Geel.  He is survived by his mother, Mary Geel-Clark and her husband Thatcher Clark of Marshfield; a sister, Cathy Willey-Curtis and her husband Charles of Cherryfield; three brothers, Alan Geel and his wife Terry Cole of Whitneyville, Duane Geel and his wife Sheila of Wesley, and Shawn Geel and his wife Jeannie of Perry; nieces and nephews; Christen (Arepea) and Jeremy Geel of Wesley, Patrick Geel of Bangor, and Danielle Willey of Ellsworth and Brian Willey of Cherryfield, both of whom he was also a Godfather to; an uncle, Earl Flaherty of East Machias; an aunt, Flora Palosky of Ellsworth, and many cousins, and special friends who loved him dearly.  Kevin will be fondly remembered as quick witted with a loving and gentle soul. A Celebration of Kevin’s Life will be held on Wednesday, September 2, 2020 from 5:00pm to 7:00pm at The Barn, 17 Summit Street, Portland, ME.  A graveside service will be held on Saturday, September 5, 2020 at 1:00pm at Forest Hill Cemetery, Station Road, Jonesboro, Maine. For the safety of all and inaccordance with State Mandates, all people in attendance of visiting hours or services are respectfully requested to wear a mask. Arrangements are under the direction of Cremation of Southern Maine, 172 State Street, Portland, ME.  To view Kevin’s memorial page or to share an online condolence, please visit www.SouthernMaineCremation.com
Those who wish may make contributions in Kevin’s memory to a charity of one’s choice.
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Annette Dumas Tibbetts - January 03, 1924 - June 25, 2020

Departed: 06/25/2020 (Portland)
Obituary Preview: Cumberland - Annette Dumas Tibbetts, born on January 3, 1924, passed away at her home in Cumberland on June 25, 2020 at age 96.  Annette had a full life and a loving family. The oldest of five sisters, she was born in Lisbon Falls, Maine, and grew up in Durham. After graduating high school Annette took a job at the Worumbo Mill. Always an adventurous spirit, she shocked her coworkers by climbing to the top of the smokestack.  She worked as a welder on Liberty Ships during WWII, and later took private pilot lessons.
She married Milton Tibbetts on August 25, 1946, and together they had six children. As a couple, they loved square dancing, visiting Popham Beach, and, most of all, gardening. Annette’s lily bed was a place of beauty, and she instilled in her children and grandchildren her own love of nature. A skilled floral designer, she coordinated arrangements for the Unitarian Universalist Church in Yarmouth and took pride in decorating the house seasonally.  She worked at Rines Department Store in Portland, where her grandchildren loved to visit her, and after retirement at Skillin’s Greenhouse and Gillespie Farms. In her later years, Annette enjoyed photography, creating artwork for her own stationery, and playing dominoes with friends at the Prince Memorial Library.
Annette and Milton always encouraged the value of education for her children and grandchildren. Annette, an avid reader, was endlessly curious about the world.  She took great pleasure in simply gazing at the sky, wondering aloud where all of those planes might be going and what the cloud formations meant. She achieved her dream of a college degree in 1987 when she graduated on the same day as her youngest daughter, Becky, with a B.A., Magna Cum Laude, in Philosophy from the University of Southern Maine.
Annette always loved it when her family took her out to cafes for “coffee and a little something,” but her own table was the heart of the family and the backdrop for countless holidays and birthdays.  There, Annette always had pots of hot coffee and tea at the ready, and always insisted there was room for dessert.  Her grandchildren fondly remember having their first grown-up cups of tea poured from her beautiful collection of teapots, and having long chats on the front porch as the sun went down, watching the clouds fade and listening to the sounds of the evening.
Annette is survived by her sisters Laurette Chapman of Lewiston and Mildred Alexander of Brunswick; daughters Donna Waddington and Elizabeth Tibbetts Larsen, both of South Portland, and Becky Tibbetts of Portland; son Randy Tibbetts of Cumberland; and daughter-in-law Cindy Tibbetts of Turner. She is pre-deceased by her husband Milton, son Brian, and daughter Lisa. She has many loving grandchildren, great-grandchildren, and great-great-grandchildren, the youngest of whom she got to meet last summer. She will be remembered as a loving woman who was fiercely intelligent, creative, and enjoyed the beauty of the world.
A graveside service will be held at the Blanchard Cemetery in Falmouth at a future date. Arrangements were under the direction of Cremation of Southern Maine, Portland, Maine.
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Franklin D. Perry Jr. - June 15, 1946 - June 13, 2020

Departed: 06/13/2020 (Portland)
Obituary Preview: It is with heartbreaking sorrow that we share the loss of our father, who passed away on May 30th, 2020.
During his lifetime he touched many people’s lives. His kind, gentle, funny, and easy going spirit reached across all boundaries to form relationships that will be remembered by nearly everyone who met him.
He had a hardworking nature that we admired and appreciated as he lent a hand in everything we did. Often the 1st to arrive (sometimes by a few hours!) and the last to leave, whether it was for a project or celebration.
He kept busy outside of work with hobbies that included spending time with family, attending his children’s, grandchildren’s, great-grandchildren’s, nephews and niece’s many events. Around family Dad was his happiest. Some of his favorite leisure activities included attending and watching hockey games, correcting the refs when they often made the wrong calls, Beech Ridge, winning at Oxford Casino, and bowling.
He fondly remembered his many years and friends from working most of his career at Humpty Dumpty. After the Humpty plant closed, he continued to work full time for Tyson Foods for 20 years, where he made new friends along the way, until he contracted Covid-19.
He is survived and will be missed immensely by his children and their spouses, Bonnie & Joel Randazza, Jon & Sarah Perry, Allison Perry & Dave Moore, and Jordan Perry. Sisters Joan Blodgett, and Paula & Donald Charles. Grandchildren, Joshua & Megan, Evan, Jonny, Gavin, & Amelia. Great-grandchildren Jude & Calvin, and Grand-dogs Fitz, Molly, & Sally. Many special nephews and nieces, Jordan’s brothers Jason, Nathan & their mother Lynne.
He was predeceased by his beloved brother Ricky, sister Sandra, his mother, father, and former wife Teresa Hodgdon, whom he remained friends with throughout their lives.
A burial and/or celebration of life will be announced in a few weeks due to the current pandemic situation that needs to be taken seriously by both the young and the young at heart.
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Georgia W. Kennett - April 29, 1941 - June 05, 2020

Departed: 06/05/2020 (Portland)
Obituary Preview: GEORGIA WATSON KENNETT
Georgia Watson Kennett, 79, passed away peacefully June 5, 2020 in her daughter’s home after a nine-year battle with cancer.
She leaves behind her daughter, Betsy Ionta and husband Terry of Falmouth, beloved grandsons Matt and Joe of Falmouth, and her only brother Tom Watson of Georgetown. She also leaves behind very special sisters and brothers in law, along with very special nieces and nephews.
Her spouse William Kennett and her companion Bill Madore preceded her in death in 1987 and 1999 respectively.
Born on April 29, 1941, the daughter of Tom and Marion Watson, Georgia grew up in Five Islands and attended Morse High. She went on to Maine State Teachers College, where she met William Kennett, whom she would later marry. She worked in the Jay school system for many years, and became very involved with Head Start. She was the teacher for many preschool children and held lifelong memories of the children, their families and her colleagues. She was head of the Maine Head Start Association during this time.
In 1987, when her husband passed, she returned to her home- Five Islands. Her love of the island, her family, and friends, was the best medicine for her. She was known to look out over the ocean, and say “what a beautiful day”.  She changed careers, becoming New England Regional Supervisor for Olan Mills portrait studio. It was during this time she met Bill Madore, and they went on to spend many years travelling, boating and enjoying family visits.
Long known for her energy, warmth, and positive outlook, Georgia also loved her Island. After retiring, she worked on the wharf at Five Islands Lobster Company and enjoyed greeting customers and friends. She followed in the footsteps of her Mom, joining the Georgetown Working League. She spent many years helping with projects and making wonderful lifelong friends. She made  delicious blueberry cakes and pies for years. The Red Hatters filled a large part of her social calendar. Over the years, she especially enjoyed taking her grandsons to Ledgemere beach and was known to jump off the wharf with all of the children.
Georgia collected a lifetime worth of sea glass from her very special Ledgemere beach. She would arrive at the beach, drop her lunch bag, set up her chair, and immediately walk the beach, plucking the pieces. Blue pieces would always cause cheers. The family would like to invite friends to stop by Georgia’s front steps to pick up a piece of her cherished sea glass, keep it , or toss it back into the ocean for the next generation of grandmothers and grandchildren visiting Ledgemere.
The family will gather for a memorial graveside service in the coming weeks.
The family would like to thank Dr Polkinghorn and the entire staff at the Augusta Cancer Center for the wonderful care they have given Georgia this long journey. They would also like to thank the entire town of Georgetown for all of the support they have given; she loved and appreciated each one of them. Lastly, Beacon Hospice for helping to make it possible for Georgia to be home with her loving family.
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Marguerite M. Kelly - July 23, 1952 - April 11, 2020

Departed: 04/11/2020 (Portland)
Obituary Preview: Harpswell  -  Marguerite Kelly, age 67, of Harpswell, Maine passed away suddenly due to complications from a bacterial infection on Saturday, April 11, 2020.
Born in Dorchester, MA in 1952 to Walter J and Margaret F (Murphy) Kelly and raised in Hingham, MA.  An Honor Society graduate and Valedictorian from Sacred Heart High School, Marguerite went on to earn a BA in English Literature and MBA in Accounting from the University of Chicago.  While at Chicago, Marguerite participated in varsity basketball and field hockey and club soccer.  She also met her future husband, Tony Barrett.
After graduation, she passed the CPA exam and joined the audit practice of Deloitte & Touche for 14 years, becoming a Senior Audit Manager specializing in Financial Institution IPOs.  Her writing skills combined with her financial acumen made her an effective communicator within the accounting profession.
In 1992, Marguerite and now husband, Tony moved to Cairo, Egypt for 6 years.  Unable to obtain a permit to work as an accountant or auditor, Marguerite learned Arabic and how to drive like an Egyptian.  She helped to found a unique US/Egyptian charitable non-profit to address low childhood cancer survival rates.  Marguerite was the Vice Chair of the organization and the Minister of Health was the Chair.  She travelled all around Egypt with her Egyptian colleagues visiting hospitals, sharing treatment protocols and arranging for chemo drug shipments from the US.
In 1998, Marguerite and Tony returned to the US, sold their home, almost all of their belongings and moved into a 26-ft trailer to travel around the country as “RV full-timers”.  In 2000, Marguerite found a permanent parking place for the trailer after reading a 4-line real estate ad in the Boston Globe about an old saltwater farm on Great Island with a 100-year old stone wall.  She soon applied her financial skills as a member of the Town of Harpswell Budget Advisory committee.  In 2004, she was elected Town Treasurer, a position she still holds until today. She had drive and compassion in equal parts. It’s a rare combination.
“The Town of Harpswell is deeply saddened by the unexpected passing of its Treasurer Marguerite Kelly.  Not only did we lose a brilliant financial adviser, we lost a fine person of great depth and compassion who reached out often to her work colleagues to ask how we were doing.  She was held in high esteem by the many elected officials she worked with over the years, by her Town of Harpswell colleagues, including members of the Budget Advisory Committee, and by so many others with whom she came into contact while serving as Treasurer.  Among her many financial accomplishments, perhaps her finest, was guiding the Town through its first issuance of Town of Harpswell bonds in 2018—a major achievement in the financial history of the Town, indicative of the strong position the Town’s finances have been in under her watch.  More than the financial accomplishments, it was the relationships Marguerite built with others that will be treasured the most”. Marguerite was a world traveler visiting Mexico & Canada and many US States multiple times. Besides Egypt, she visited Europe often as well as Oman, Jordan, Turkey, Israel & Peru. Marguerite visited Ireland on numerous trips with Tony, her parents & her sister.  On one trip to Ireland with girlfriends, she endured a rough boat ride to the Skellig Islands (a World Heritage Site featured in the Star Wars Skywalker saga) but remained on the boat landing not able to overcome her fear of heights with the steep climb ahead.  But in recent years, she has stayed close to home saying “I live in Vacationland, why do I need to take a vacation”?
Marguerite loved living in Harpswell.   She greatly appreciated working with her fellow town employees and volunteers, being a part of the great community and living on the Maine coast.
Marguerite enjoyed her daily early morning walks along Long Point Road with her neighbor and friend, Susan, watching the seasons change in this beautiful place. She had many conversations with other neighbors passing in their vehicles even at that early hour.  Marguerite knew the names and vehicle type of everyone on the road, but she especially knew the name of every dog on the road.
Marguerite served on the board of the Coastal Humane Society (now Midcoast Humane). Over the years, Marguerite adopted 10 dogs and cared for many others. She was always drawn to the least popular dogs. Against Tony’s advice, she adopted a Rottweiler mix who lived the first two years of its life mostly in the shelter. That dog turned out to be a great pet and died after a long and happy life. While in Egypt, a local street dog who would follow Marguerite on her walks, gave birth to a litter and was shortly thereafter poisoned in a government dog control program.  Marguerite pulled Tony out of the office to crawl under some nearby bushes to rescue four puppies, one of whom she brought back to Maine.  Her most recent adoption, Jewel, is a Louisiana rescue brought to Maine via Puppy Love.
Marguerite is and will always be missed.
Marguerite was predeceased by her parents and sister, Kathy Taraschi.
Marguerite is survived by her husband, Tony Barrett, her brother James P and sister Patricia A Kelly of Hingham MA and her sister Christine Kelly of Worcester MA, her sister-in-law Mary (Rob) Prybylo and brother-in-law Steve Barrett of Bangor ME, and brother-in-law Bob Barrett (Erin Curren) of Westbrook Me, and brother-in-law Bob Taraschi of Washington DC, niece Chelsea Prybylo of Watertown MA and nephew Max Prybylo of Orono ME and her beloved canine companion, Jewel.
Special thanks to Martins Point Healthcare and the critical care staff at St. Mary’s Hospital and Maine Medical Center.
Due to COVID-19 there will be no funeral service. There will be a memorial service at some appropriate time in the future.  If you’d like to remember Marguerite, consider a memorial donation to either of these organizations that Marguerite felt are very worthy of support, especially in need during this time of crisis: Midcoast Hunger Prevention mchpp.org or Midcoast Humane midcoasthumane.org. To view Marguerite’s memorial page, or to share an online condolence, please visit www.CremationofSouthernMaine.com
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Carol Ann Lesniak - October 13, 1962 - March 31, 2020

Departed: 03/31/2020 (Portland)
Obituary Preview: Portland - Carol Ann Lesniak was baptized into the Hope and Mercy of Christ’s Resurrection on March 31, 2020. Carol was born in Manchester, NH on October 13, 1962 along with her identical twin and beloved sister, Cheryl. Carol and Cheryl were twins, sisters and the very best of friends. Carol attended St. Casimir School in Manchester, NH. Her family moved to Portland, Maine in 1969 and she continued her education in Portland public schools and was a graduate of Deering High School.
Growing up in a family of seven children, Carol enjoyed gymnastics and would frequently be seen around the house and in the backyard doing backflips and other moves with her twin sister, Cheryl. Their special bond also included both having schizophrenia and helping each other navigate their adult lives with this mental illness. The quote, “Being a twin is like being born with a best friend” speaks of the bond and friendship between Carol and her beloved twin sister.
Carol leaves behind her large family: brothers, John (Patty) of Falmouth, ME; Joseph of Cumberland, ME; sisters, Christine (George) Fox of Gorham, ME; Catherine (Bob) Adelman, of St. Louis, MO; Sr. Mary Thomas, CSSF, of Manchester, NH; and her step-sister, Cyndi Pariseau of RI; nephews, Joseph, Thomas, James, Max, JD, and John; nieces, Krysia, Maria, and Anna; and numerous aunts, uncles and cousins. Carol was predeceased by her father, Frederick, her mother, Rita, and her twin sister, Cheryl.
Due to the pandemic of COVID-19, a funeral Mass has not yet been scheduled. A Mass of Christian burial celebrating Carol’s life will be held at a later date when it is safe to gather together once again.  Arrangements are under the direction of Cremation of Southern Maine, Portland, Maine.
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Thomas Dyro - March 22, 1950 - March 27, 2020

Departed: 03/27/2020 (Portland)
Obituary Preview: Scarborough – Thomas Paul Dyro passed away quietly on March 27, 2020, at the Gosnell Memorial Hospice House in Scarborough, Maine.
Tommy was born in Portland, Maine, on March 22, 1950, the son of Dorothy (Bakiewicz) Dyro and Frederick Dyro.  He attended local schools, graduated from South Portland High School in 1968, and then entered the Army where he was stationed in Korea.  Upon his return, he worked as a laborer with local construction companies for many years.  Tommy loved the outdoors, finding solace in fishing the rivers and lakes in Maine.
Tommy led a life very different from many.  His strong faith guided him in helping others, lending compassion, wisdom, and support so selflessly.  To Portland family and friends, Tommy was a true pillar of strength.
I will quote our brother David – “A transformed life sends hope to those that appear to have none.”  Rest in Peace, Angel.
He is survived by his loving siblings, Donna Dyro Wilkinson, David Dyro, Janice Dyro Stockson, Anne Dyro Simpson, and Lisa Dyro; along with many nieces and nephews.  He was predeceased by his brothers, Frederick Dyro, Jr. and Robert Dyro; his father, Frederick Dyro, Sr.; and his mother, Dorothy Bakiewicz Dyro.
A Celebration of Life will be held at a later date.  Arragements are under the direction of Cremation of Southern Maine, Portland. Donations may be made to the Maine Recovery Fund Article from Portland Press Herald: Thomas Dyro, a Mainstay of Portland’s Recovery Community, Dies at age 70 https://www.pressherald.com/2020/03/31/thomas-dyro-a-mainstay-of-portlands-recovery-community-dies-at-70/
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Donna Poole - October 24, 1962 - March 23, 2020

Departed: 03/23/2020 (Portland)
Obituary Preview: Naples- Donna Poole, 57, died peacefully on March 23, 2020 at the Androscoggin County Hospice House, following a courageous battle with cancer, her loving family was by her side.
Donna was born in Portland, Maine on October 24, 1962 the daughter of the late Laureen Ricci.
Donna married Glenn Poole and together they shared twenty-three years of love.
She was an all-around awesome person who was selfless and had a heart of gold.  She would be described as strong, fun, feisty, loving and honest.  Her greatest love was the time she spent surrounded by her family, especially her grandchildren.
Donna was predeceased by a sister, Tina Ricci; brother, Chip (Karl) Kraul; and a granddaughter, Madisyn Warner.  She is survived by her husband, Glenn Poole of Naples; her father Donald and his wife Sandra Bouthiet; four daughters, Darby Sullivan and her fiancé’ Sean Nadeau of NH, Tracy Sullivan and her husband Michael Grenier of Raymond, Amber Sullivan and her fiancé’ Gary Fitzsimmons of Standish, and Jenna Sullivan of Durham; a son Kevin Sullivan of Richmond, VA; a stepdaughter Davina Clingenpeel and her husband Mark of Bethel; seven grandchildren, Andrew Rochon, Jayden Grenier, Alex Grenier, Alivia Fitzsimmons, Jayla Warner, Paisley O’Connor, and Jayden Thurston; three sisters, Tammy Ricci of South Portland, Jeri Ricci of South Portland, Brenda and husband Alan Makela of Portland; a brother, Anthony Ricci of Gardiner; several nieces and nephews.
At the family’s request all services will be private. To view Donna’s memorial page, or to share an online condolence, please visit www.CremationofSouthernMaine.com
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Sally Swett - Unknown - January 25, 2020

Departed: 01/25/2020 (Portland)
Obituary Preview: SCARBOROUGH – Sally Swett, 86, of Scarborough passed away on Jan. 25, 2020 at the Gosnell Memorial Hospice House in Scarborough. She was the daughter of Leora Eliza and Ralph McIntire.
Sally was married to Llewellyn (BJ) Swett Jr. They shared 55 years of marriage before his passing.
She is survived by her four children Linda Libby (Dana), Cindy Carter (Bruce), Larry Swett (Jolene) and Jody Swett; her grandchildren Jennifer Smith, Brent Berube and partner Kasey Flood, Garrett Swett, and Griffin Swett; great-grandchildren Austin Smith, Hannah Smith and Ana Berube; and extended family Hunter Dube, Bruce (Jenelle) and Adeline Carter. She is also survived by her sister, Jeanette White; as well as many nieces and nephews. Sally was predeceased by her parents; her husband, and four siblings; Arlene, Ralph (Buddy), Doug, and George.
Some of her fondest childhood memories included swimming in the Swift river and feeding the birds and small animals. She had many bird feeders in her yard. She especially enjoyed the cardinals. She also enjoyed her cats, Maggy and Molly and two neighborhood cats, Frankie and Blackie.
She was a wonderful mother, grandmother, great grandmother (Gi Gi), sister, aunt and friend. Mom was a strong, beautiful woman and devoted mother. Her greatest joy was time spent with her family, especially during summer barbeques, lobsterfests and holidays. She loved her family very much. She felt blessed to have been a part of her children’s, grandchildren’s and even great-grand children’s lives. She will be sadly missed.
Sally’s family would like to express their gratitude to Denny and Camilla for their friendship and support, to Shelli and Tonya for years of making her feel beautiful, and to the first responders, doctors, nurses and all the staff at the Gosnell House for the wonderful care they gave her.
A private burial will be held at a later date.
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Timothy Craig Rutter Sr. - November 25, 1952 - January 09, 2020

Departed: 01/09/2020 (Portland)
Obituary Preview: Timothy Craig Rutter, Sr., 67, of Westbrook, Maine, passed away unexpectedly January 9th at Maine Medical Center. Born to the late Harold H. Rutter and Virginia “Ginny” (Standley) Rutter on November 25, 1952, in Portland Maine.
Timothy was a graduate of Deering High School ('71). During his employment, his jobs at the Holiday Inn and D'Angelo were among his favorites. Timothy loved spending time with his friends and family, and uplifted the spirits of everyone who knew him. He was an avid reader, lover of crossword puzzles, and always enjoyed a good game of cribbage. Timothy's strong work ethics inspired those around him, and he would go out of his way to help others. He was a firm believer in volunteering, his favorite being his time at Meals on Wheels through the Salvation Army.
Timothy is survived by his children Melody (Richard) McGloin of Johns Creek, Ga., Timothy Rutter, Jr. of Gorham, Maine, and Jennifer (Kenneth) Johnson of Richmond, Va. His grandchildren Sean McGloin, Brenna McGloin, and Genevieve McGloin. His mother of Westbrook, Maine, siblings Linda (Gerald) Carter of Gray, Maine, Harold Rutter of Standish, Maine, Brian Rutter of Jackson Hole, Wyo., Bruce (Judith Miller) Rutter of Gray, Maine, Rebecca (Robert) Politzer of Forest, Va., and Elizabeth "Libby" (Glenn Hill) Rutter-Hill of Standish, Maine, and his nieces and nephews.
Timothy is being cremated, and the family hasn't planned any funerary ceremonies at this time.
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John Butler - March 12, 1943 - January 08, 2020

Departed: 01/08/2020 (Portland)
Obituary Preview: Limerick - John Butler, 76, passed away on January 8, 2020, at Southern Maine Medical Center in Biddeford.
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Scott Gregory Tounge - September 27, 1967 - December 30, 2019

Departed: 12/30/2019 (Portland)
Obituary Preview: South Portland - Scott Gregory Tounge, 52, died on December 30, 2019, at Maine Medical Center.
Scott, the son of Gregory and Judy (Smith) Tounge, was born on September 27, 1967 in Caribou, ME. After graduating from Westbrook High School, Scott remained in Southern Maine, working at Maine Medical Center in food preparation for 28 years. An active member of the Rock Church of Greater Portland, Scott was known as being generous and kind-hearted—always willing to help a friend and devoted to his family and pets. Charming and gregarious, Scott enjoyed going to concerts and spending time in the Old Port in Portland, ME with his large circle of friends, watching movies, and collecting Popeye memorabilia.
Scott was predeceased by his grandparents, Henry and Ruth Smith. He is survived by his brother, Brett Tounge, sister-in-law, Deb Stull, and niece, Niamh Stull of Philadelphia, PA, and his father, Tim Pennell, and mother, Judy Tounge, of Falmouth, ME.
A memorial service celebrating Scott’s life will be held on Saturday, May 16, 2020.
To honor his love of pets, we are asking for donations to HART, Homeless Animal Rescue Team of Maine, Inc., PO Box 351, 302 Range Road, Cumberland, ME 04021, 207-829-4116.
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Katheen Thomas - July 18, 1955 - December 28, 2019

Departed: 12/28/2019 (Portland)
Obituary Preview: Biddeford – Kathleen Thomas, 64, died on Saturday, December 28, 2019, at Maine Medical Center.
Kathleen was born on July 18, 1955, in Teaneck, NJ, the daughter of Russell Bernard Thomas and Mary Josephine Henninger.  Kathleen graduated from high school and was a devout Christian.
Kathleen was predeceased by her parents.  She is survived by her son, Alexander Thomas of Portland; daughter, Samantha Thomas of Caribou.
At the family’s request, services will be private.  Arrangements are under the direction of Cremation of Southern Maine, Portland, Maine.
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Paul Andrew McKenna - December 09, 1964 - December 26, 2019

Departed: 12/26/2019 (Portland)
Obituary Preview: Portland – Paul Andrew McKenna, 55, played his final “gig” on December 26, 2019. Paul was born in Portland on December 9, 1964, the son of Harry and Nancy (Knight) McKenna.
Paul spent his life in Portland, attending Portland schools and was a graduate of  Portland High, class of 1982. Following high school Paul worked for Nicholas for 19 years and was a machinist by day, rock and roll legend by night. Paul’s defiant personality got the attention of Jennifer Joy and they were married in July of 1986, in Portland, spending 33 years together before his untimely passing.
Paul had many passions in life, spending time with his family, playing bass guitar in the band Destroyer and golfing.
His loving and compassionate personality will be missed by many.
Paul was predeceased in life by his parents, Harry and Nancy McKenna. He is survived by his wife, Jennifer McKenna of Portland; his son, Brandon McKenna of Portland; his daughter, Jessie Dye of Westbrook and his sister, Cheryl Merchant of Fairfax, Virginia.
A celebration of life will be held on Jan.18th at 1:00 at the Elks club on Congress Street. Donations in Paul’s name can be made to Dana-Farber Cancer Institute, P.O. box 849168, Boston, MA 02284
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Michael David Baran - March 26, 1950 - December 20, 2019

Departed: 12/20/2019 (Portland)
Obituary Preview: The ever-charismatic Michael David Baran of Monmouth, Maine passed away unexpectedly at Maine Medical Center on December 20th, 2019 during his 69th year of life.  Mike woke that chilly morning with his captivating smile beaming, enjoyed a characteristically inquisitive chat with hospital staff, shared a hug and laugh with loved ones, and bravely faced the day.
Mike grew up in Danbury, Connecticut, the original Rasputin of Animal Hill. Mike was the favorite son of Isabelle and Michael Baran, at least until the birth of his baby brother, Big Al.  When not debating the extensional meaning of life or the best pizza pie in Connecticut with his beloved older sister Marsha, Mike excelled in collegiate athletics and academics, devoured books, explored the globe with lifelong friends, and feverishly supported the Raiders, Yankees, and Giants.
Mike’s infectious lust for life and adventurous nature eventually brought him to the Maritimes in Canada where his future was forever changed, almost for the worse as he was nearly mowed down in a car park. Luckily he managed to escape with his life and the phone number of the errant driver, his eventual partner in life and love, Linda. Together they perfected magic with the birth of their only child, Sarah. That’s at least how Sarah explains her lack of siblings, in reality, in their case one was more than enough.
While Mike will forever be remembered as a devoted husband, an all-out awesome father and father-in-law to the Sammy, a solicitous second father to Kelly, a tenderhearted brother-in-law to Karen, and a dependable and winsome sibling, son, friend, uncle, and co-worker; his true legacy is the enduring good he accomplished for so very many individuals and communities. On a personal level Mike’s generosity was unwavering and absolute. His volunteerism with numerous organizations such as the Theater at Monmouth, the Little League, the Monmouth Federal Credit Union, and the Booster’s Club enriched the experiences of countless members of the town of Monmouth. In a professional capacity at the Maine State Office of Economic and Community Development and later at Maine State Housing his altruism and acumen enabled him to assist a myriad of towns and neighborhoods stretching statewide. One such achievement is the town that required bathrooms in their community center to enable the continuance of the weekly bean supper for which Mike expeditiously secured the required grant money.
There will be no services at this time as Mike would never approve of wasting a party on melancholy and mopey guests. Everyone that shares a warm recollection of Mike is asked to celebrate in their own way. Raising a glass of your favourite drink in his memory seems superbly appropriate. When the snow thaws and spring warms the earth, a soirée will be held to celebrate the one and only Mike Baran.
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Robert D. Phinney - November 09, 1938 - December 09, 2019

Departed: 12/09/2019 (Portland)
Obituary Preview: Sanford - Robert D. Phinney, 81, died on Monday, December 9, 2019.
A full obituary and services will be announced at a later date.
Arrangements are under the direction of Cremation of Southern Maine, Portland, Maine.
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Paula Arsenault - December 31, 1946 - December 08, 2019

Departed: 12/08/2019 (Portland)
Obituary Preview: It is with great sadness that the family of Paula Arsenault, 73, (nee Pauline Lynn Cote), of Bridgton, announces her passing on Sunday, Dec. 8, 2019.
Paula was born in Medford, Mass., to Everett W. Cote and Pauline F Cote (nee Libby) on Dec. 31, 1946. She had two siblings, her sister Lee W. Cote (predeceased), and her brother Clement Cote.
She grew up and attended high school in Tewkesbury, Mass. In her twenties she moved to St. Catherine, Canada, where she would live for two decades, enjoying some of the happiest years of her youth and forming many lifelong friendships.
After reuniting with childhood sweetheart, George Arsenault of Bridgton, she moved to Maine and they soon married. Paula embraced her new family, and became a cherished stepmother and grandmother. Paula and George lived and worked happily together in Bridgton from 2001 until her passing.
Paula enjoyed spending time with family, cooking, hosting, and housemaking.
Paula is lovingly remembered by all of her friends and family, most especially by her brother Clement; four stepdaughters, Michelle Arsenault, Christine Arsenault, Danielle (Arsenault) Rowland and Denise (Arsenault) Turner; her six grandchildren, Francis Rowland, Amelia Rowland, Jaxen Remme, Scarlet Remme, George Turner, Adeline Turner; eight nieces and nephews, her longtime friend Donna Sindlinger, and her husband George Arsenault.
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Mark Maynard - Unknown - December 08, 2019

Departed: 12/08/2019 (Portland)
Obituary Preview: Mark Maynard, 58, passed away peacefully on December 8th, 2019. He was an extraordinary man who loved spending his time outdoors in the elements that were ever changing and always inspiring. He was an accomplished outdoorsman, having hiked the Appalachian Trail, climbed the Rocky Mountains, canoed the Allagash wilderness, and conquered the White Mountains many times over. He was an artist, craftsman, musician, builder of structure, sculpture, and ideas. His talents with his heart, hands, and words were remarkable, and his appreciation and advocacy for the arts was unyielding. In addition to his many contributions of art, music, and inspiration, he was a simply a great man. His love and loyalty to friends and family was genuine and boundless, and always with charm, humor, and compassion. The world is a little darker with his light and love gone too soon.
He is survived by his adoring children and best friends: Micaela, Jonas, and Madeline, who will miss his presence in their lives beyond words.
He grew up in Nashua, New Hampshire, one of 10 siblings of two devoted parents, Lucien and Ellen. He is survived by his loving siblings: Steve, Jim, Dave, Mary, Sue, Kevin, and Beth. He is predeceased by his parents and two brothers: Peter, and Christopher.
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Carl T. Brewer - December 10, 1951 - December 06, 2019

Departed: 12/06/2019 (Portland)
Obituary Preview: Skowhegan – Carl T. Brewer, 67, died on Friday, December 6, 2019, at Maine Medical Center.
Carl was born on December 10, 1951 in Lynn, MA, the son of the late Roy and Carol (Richardson) Brewer. He grew up in Swampscott, where he attended local schools, and graduated from Swampscott High School in the Class of 1969. After high school Carl worked for Lynn Sand & Stone and Aggregate Industries for many years. In his free time, he loved to watch the Boston Bruins.
He is survived by his two sisters, Phyllis Tisdell of Huntsville, AL, Nancy Brown of Swampscott, MA and her husband Brian Brown; a nephew, Geoffrey Tisdell; four nieces, Elaine Bresnahan, Karen Tisdell, Debbie Young and Cindy Brown.
Services will be private. Arrangements are under the direction of Cremation of Southern Maine, Portland, Maine.
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Catherine L. Kendall - February 24, 1956 - December 05, 2019

Departed: 12/05/2019 (Portland)
Obituary Preview: Portland- Catherine L. Kendall, 63, of North Street died at her home on December 5, 2019 of natural causes.
At the families request all services will be private.  Arrangements are under the direction of Cremation of Southern Maine, Portland, ME.
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Barry Coolbrith - July 20, 1959 - November 24, 2019

Departed: 11/24/2019 (Portland)
Obituary Preview: North Yarmouth – Barry Coolbrith, 60, died on Sunday, November 24, 2019, at Gosnell Memorial Hospice House in Scarborough surrounded by his loving family.
Barry was born on July 20, 1959 in Portland, the son of the late Royce “Barry” and Carol B. Coolbrith.  He grew up in South Portland and graduated from South Portland High School.  At the age of 15, Barry was an accomplished golfer and he won the Golf Club Championship.
After high school Barry worked in the carpentry, service, parts and distribution industries.  In his free time, he continued to play golf as well as softball, table tennis and darts.  The loved to spend his afternoons on his ride-on lawn mower.  He was also a partner at White Pine Community Church.  He will be remembered as loving, caring, supportive, funny and charming man that had unconditional loyalty to his family.
He was predeceased by brother, Dean Ridlon.  He is survived by his wife, Debra L. Coolbrith of North Yarmouth; children, Seth R. Coolbrith and his wife Jennifer of Washington D.C., Ryan M. Coolbrith of Westbrook, Barry T. Coolbrith and his partner Carley Hennessey of Sturbridge, MA, Aaron D. Coolbrith and his partner Brittney of Dover, NH; his siblings, Steve Ridlon and Sharon Collbrith of South Carolina; four grandchildren, Ayden, Reese, Sylas, Annaya. A service will be held at White Pine Community Church, 94 Cumberland Road, North Yarmouth, on Saturday, November 30, at 11AM. Cremation arrangements are under the direction of Cremation of Southern Maine, Portland, Maine.  To view Barry’s memorial page, or to share an online condolence, please visit www.SouthernMaineCremation .com
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Christopher Paul Stevens - December 27, 1963 - October 25, 2019

Departed: 10/25/2019 (Portland)
Obituary Preview: Christopher Paul Stevens passed away on Friday, October 25th, having suffered a stroke six months prior.
He was born on December 27th, 1963, in Oceanside, California (near San Diego), to SSgt. Darrell T. Stevens U.S.M.C. and Barbara Ruth (Cook) Stevens.
He graduated from Penquis Valley High School in Milo, Maine in 1982.
Chris was a free spirit who traveled to Texas, South Carolina, and many other areas.  He worked as a dental assistant in Bangor in the mid 1980’s and eventually became interested in floral arrangement, a skill at which he excelled.  His friend Shelly recalls Chris as “a spiritual artist and collectors of things both beautiful and odd or rare”.
He worked as a floral arranger in Charleston, SC in the late 1980’s, alongside his friend Gunny Wallen Together, they arranged flowers for events and weddings. Gunny remembers Chris being “so creative and FUNNY and a great friend”. Chris’s dear friend and former roommate Leslie Barden-Moores recalls that "He was a facilitator of fun and interesting times!”
Christopher Stevens was a proud gay man for all of his adult life, although he was conflicted about telling some of his family of his "secret identity".  We are all poorer for that. His kindness and generosity of spirit will always be remembered.
Pre-deceased by his parents, Chris leaves behind his brother, Dan Stevens; his sister in law, Brenda Stevens; his two nephews, Nigel and Kevin Stevens; and many other cousins, aunts and uncles from Maine to Virginia.
Christopher’s wish was to be cremated, and to have his ashes spread at some of his favorite spots in Maine.
A memorial service will be scheduled at a later date.
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Patricia Y. Carney - October 10, 1959 - September 21, 2019

Departed: 09/21/2019 (Portland)
Obituary Preview: Biddeford - Patricia Y. Carney, 59, died on Saturday, September 21, 2019, at Maine Medical Center.
Patricia was born on October 10, 1959, in Easley, South Carolina, the daughter of the late Robert F. and Shirley A. (Sorrow) Murray.  She enlisted in the United States Navy where she worked in supply and logistics. She is survived by her sons, Trent Carney or Biddeford, and Tristin Carney of Biddeford.
Services will be private.  Arrangements are under the direction of Cremation of Southern Maine of Portland, Maine.
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Amanda E. Lamb - October 10, 1982 - September 14, 2019

Departed: 09/14/2019 (Portland)
Obituary Preview: CAPE ELIZABETH – Amanda Ellen Lamb, 36, passed away in Cape Elizabeth on Saturday, Sept. 14, 2019 surrounded by her family. She was born in Framingham, Mass. on Oct. 10, 1982, the daughter of Kenneth and Joanne Rowe.
She grew up in Holliston, Mass. and graduated from Holliston High School in 2000. She then attended Bowdoin College where she earned her BA in 2004, majoring in both Biochemistry and Spanish. Amanda's first job following Bowdoin was assisting in cancer research at the Zon Lab at Harvard/Boston Children's. She continued on to clinical cancer research at Georgetown University in Washington DC before enrolling in a rigorous Masters program in Genetic Counseling at Johns Hopkins University and the National Institutes of Health in Baltimore and Bethesda, Md. She was one of four students in the country accepted into this prestigious program. After completing her thesis and her training she first worked as a genetic counselor at the NIH supporting clinical trials. She was recruited and employed by Maine Medical Center in Portland to be their cancer genetic counselor (2010-2015). During her time there, she helped countless families navigate their genetic cancer risk and treatment options. Amanda was passionate about her work and helped grow the genetic counseling program during her time there. She was twice summoned by Channel 6 News to be on their newscast to lend her expertise, the first time in 2013 on the topic of Angelina Jolie's battle with breast cancer.
Amanda fell in love with her Bowdoin College classmate, Colin Barclay Lamb, in 2002, and they have been inseparable ever since. On June 30, 2007 they were married at St Ann's Episcopal Church, Kennebunkport, and had a spectacular reception under the moonlight at her favorite spot, Goose Rocks Beach.In August 2014, Amanda was diagnosed with appendiceal cancer during her first trimester of pregnancy. In spite of receiving chemotherapy throughout most of the pregnancy, on Feb. 20, 2015, she delivered a beautiful baby girl named Nola Cesarina Lamb. Now 4 1/2 years old, she has been the miracle gift to not only Amanda and Colin, but for their entire extended family and friends. Amanda fought courageously through the past five years of chemotherapy and surgeries, always with her husband and daughter at her side. In between treatments they travelled extensively in the US and abroad. Amanda converted those memories into photobooks so Nola will always remember those amazing five years together.
Amanda will always be remembered for her beautiful smile, engaging personality and love for her family and friends. Her favorite times were throwing lavish birthday parties for Nola, hosting dance parties for the cousins at Goose Rocks Beach, and celebrating love and motherhood with her family and interlocked circles of friends.
Amanda is survived by her beloved husband of 12 years, Colin Lamb, and her cherished daughter Nola Cesarina Lamb; her parents Kenneth and Joanne Rowe; her brother Timothy Rowe, sister-in-law Karen and children Addy and Evans; her brother Andrew Rowe, sister-in-law Roxanne and children Peyton and Jackson; mother-in-law and father-in-law George and Lizette Lamb; brother-in-law Carter Lamb and fiancée Carsyn Bock; godchildren Addy Rowe and Edward O'Keefe; and uncles, aunts and cousins all across the country.
Amanda's family wants to extend a special thanks to New England Cancer Specialists and Hospice of Southern Maine for their wonderful care.
All are welcome to attend a Memorial Service at St Alban's Episcopal Church, 885 Shore Rd, Cape Elizabeth, on Sunday, Sept. 29, 2019 at 2:00 p.m. There will be a private family burial service at Hope Cemetery in Kennebunk at a later date.
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Services Offered by Cremation of Southern Maine

Cremation of Southern Maine offers a range of services designed to meet the unique needs of each family. From traditional cremation services to more contemporary options, their team works closely with families to create a meaningful and memorable farewell. Some of the services they offer include:

- Direct Cremation: A simple and affordable option that includes transportation, cremation, and return of the ashes.

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The Importance of Personalized Service

At Cremation of Southern Maine, they understand that every family is unique, and every life deserves to be celebrated in a way that reflects their personality and spirit. That's why they offer personalized services that allow you to customize every aspect of the farewell. From selecting music and flowers to creating a video tribute or memory book, their team will work with you to create a truly unforgettable experience.

Frequently Asked Questions About Cremation

If you're considering cremation for yourself or a loved one, you likely have questions about the process. At Cremation of Southern Maine, their team is happy to answer any questions you may have. Here are some frequently asked questions about cremation:

- What happens during the cremation process?

- Can I still have a funeral or memorial service if I choose cremation?

- How do I know that I'm receiving my loved one's ashes?

- Can I scatter my loved one's ashes?

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There are many reasons why families choose Cremation of Southern Maine for their loved one's final farewell. Here are just a few:

- Experience: Their team has years of experience in providing compassionate and personalized service.

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Cremation of Southern Maine is more than just a funeral home - it's a trusted partner in your time of need. With their commitment to personalized service, affordability, and dignity, they have earned a reputation as one of the most respected funeral homes in the region. If you're looking for a funeral home that will treat your loved one with respect and compassion, look no further than Cremation of Southern Maine.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their family, accomplishments, and any notable achievements.

What is the purpose of an obituary?

The primary purpose of an obituary is to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing and to provide details about their life and legacy. It also serves as a way to share memories and pay tribute to the deceased.

Who typically writes an obituary?

Obituaries are usually written by family members or close friends of the deceased, although funeral homes or professional writers may also assist in the writing process.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also include information about their personality, accomplishments, and charitable donations.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or online platform. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from 100 to 500 words.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, usually including only the basic facts such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary, on the other hand, provides more detailed information about the person's life and legacy.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, it is possible to write your own obituary in advance. This can be a therapeutic exercise that allows you to reflect on your life and accomplishments. However, it's essential to keep in mind that your loved ones may need to make changes or additions after your passing.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online platform?

The submission process varies depending on the publication or platform. You can usually find guidelines on their website or by contacting their customer service department directly.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies widely depending on the publication or platform. Some newspapers or online sites may charge by the word or line, while others may offer package deals or discounts for longer notices.

Can I include photos or other multimedia elements in an obituary?

Yes, many online platforms and some newspapers allow you to include photos, videos, or other multimedia elements in an obituary. This can help bring the person's story to life and make the tribute more personal.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The publication timeline varies depending on the platform or newspaper. Online obituaries are often published immediately after submission, while print newspapers may have a delay of several days or weeks.

Can I edit or correct an obituary after it's been published?

In most cases, corrections or edits can be made to an online obituary. However, print newspapers may have limited opportunities for corrections due to production deadlines.

What if I want to keep the obituary private or restricted to certain people?

Some online platforms offer options for private or password-protected obituaries. Alternatively, you can choose to share the obituary only with specific individuals or groups through email or social media.

Can I include charitable donations or memorial information in an obituary?

Yes, it's common to include information about charitable donations or memorial contributions in an obituary. This can help honor the deceased person's memory and support a cause they cared about.

How do I handle errors or inaccuracies in an obituary?

If you notice errors or inaccuracies in an obituary, contact the publication or platform immediately. They will work with you to correct the mistakes and ensure the revised version is published promptly.

Can I republish an obituary from a previous date?

In some cases, it's possible to republish an obituary from a previous date. However, this may depend on the publication's policies and archives. You may need to obtain permission from the original author or publisher.

What is a living obituary?

A living obituary is a self-written tribute that celebrates a person's life while they are still alive. It can serve as a unique way to reflect on one's accomplishments and share gratitude with loved ones.

Can I use humor or anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! Obituaries don't have to be somber and serious. Including humor or personal anecdotes can help capture the deceased person's personality and spirit.

How do I write an obituary for someone who had a complex or difficult life?

Writing an obituary for someone with a complex or difficult life requires sensitivity and compassion. Focus on highlighting their strengths, accomplishments, and positive qualities while being honest about their challenges.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Yes, including relevant quotes or lyrics can add depth and meaning to an obituary. Choose phrases that resonate with the deceased person's values, personality, or interests.

How do I ensure that an online obituary remains accessible over time?

Many online platforms archive obituaries for extended periods. You can also consider creating a permanent online memorial or saving a copy of the obituary for personal records.

What if I'm struggling to write an obituary due to grief or emotional distress?

If you're finding it difficult to write an obituary due to grief or emotional distress, consider seeking support from friends, family members, or a professional writer. Remember that it's okay to take your time and prioritize your well-being during this challenging period.

Can I write multiple versions of an obituary for different audiences?

Yes, you can create multiple versions of an obituary tailored to different audiences. For example, you might write one version for close family members and another for colleagues or acquaintances.

How do I handle cultural or religious differences when writing an obituary?

When writing an obituary for someone from a different cultural or religious background, research their customs and traditions to ensure sensitivity and respect. Consult with family members or community leaders if needed.

What if I need help writing an obiturary due to language barriers?

If you're facing language barriers when writing an obiturary, consider enlisting the help of a translator or bilingual writer. Many funeral homes also offer translation services for obituaries.

Can I include information about pet companions in an obiturary?

Absolutely! Many people consider their pets as beloved family members. Including information about pet companions can add warmth and personality to the obiturary.

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About Jeffery Isleworth

Jeffery Isleworth is an experienced eulogy and funeral speech writer who has dedicated his career to helping people honor their loved ones in a meaningful way. With a background in writing and public speaking, Jeffery has a keen eye for detail and a talent for crafting heartfelt and authentic tributes that capture the essence of a person's life. Jeffery's passion for writing eulogies and funeral speeches stems from his belief that everyone deserves to be remembered with dignity and respect. He understands that this can be a challenging time for families and friends, and he strives to make the process as smooth and stress-free as possible. Over the years, Jeffery has helped countless families create beautiful and memorable eulogies and funeral speeches. His clients appreciate his warm and empathetic approach, as well as his ability to capture the essence of their loved one's personality and life story. When he's not writing eulogies and funeral speeches, Jeffery enjoys spending time with his family, reading, and traveling. He believes that life is precious and should be celebrated, and he feels honored to help families do just that through his writing.