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Ethel Mae Bowens - August 26, 1909 - April 19, 2022

Departed: 04/19/2022 (Guthrie)

Obituary Preview: Ethel Mae Bowens of Guthrie passed away April 19, 2022.  She was born August 26, 1909, in Guthrie to Will and Susie Maples.  Ethel was 112 years old.

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Jean Smith - July 20, 1933 - April 14, 2022

Departed: 04/14/2022 (Guthrie)

Obituary Preview: Jean Smith, age 88, died on Thursday April 14, 2022 in Bethany, Ok. She was born Rose Jean Debord on July 20th, 1933 in Hopkins County (Sulphur Springs, TX).  She was the fifth of seven children born to Lawrence and Gladys Debord.

Jean grew up on a farm near Sulphur Springs, Texas.  She attended Sulphur Springs High School where she graduated in 1949.  During her school years she met her future husband Ben Mynard Smith.  They were married at a private residence in Sulphur Springs on Dec. 30th, 1950.

Jean and Mynard moved to Oklahoma City in 1951 and started their family a few years later.  They had three girls Gayle, Kay and Brenda.  They moved to Yukon in 1962 where Jean was a housewife for several years before becoming a waitress at the Chauteau Inn and The Hilltop Restaurant.  In the early 1970’s she became a Certified Apartment Manager and managed several complexes in Yukon, Norman and Oklahoma City until 1989.

She and Mynard built their forever home at Pioneer Lake in Meridian, OK.  in 1995.  They enjoyed the quiet country life and the private pond (lake) that the area provided.  Things might have been a little to quiet for Jean who found herself with too much time on her hands while Mynard ran their two Country Convenience Stores, so Jean went to work as a Walmart Greeter in Guthrie where she was voted Best Store Clerk by the readers of The Guthrie News Leaders Best of Guthrie in 2005.  She retired from Walmart in 2013 and moved back to Yukon to be closer to her family.

She began regular visits to the Dale Robertson Center with her special friend Albert Buckmaster.  She enjoyed playing Bingo, taking exercise classes and eating there for lunch daily until she could no longer attend due to her health.  She also enjoyed attending church services with Albert at Yukon Church.

She is survived by her daughter Brenda Jester (Tim) of Yukon; grandsons Robert Potter of El Reno, Derick Miller (Shawna) of Norman, Eric Jester (Jordan) of Yukon and Adam Jester of Yukon, granddaughters Andrea Cherry of Oklahoma City and Kyla Owl (Michael Gaines) of Moore, OK., 10 great grandchildren; sister Doris Fennell of Fort Worth, TX., and brother Chester Debord of Wolf City, TX. and her special friend Albert Buckmaster of Yukon, OK.

She was proceeded in death by her husband Ben Mynard Smith, daughters Linda Gayle Owl and Patricia Kay Baker, her parents Lawrence and Gladys Debord, brothers Rudolph and Dalby Debord, and sisters Bessie Maude Goldsmith and Mary Ann Kleinheinz.

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Robin Temple - January 20, 1942 - April 10, 2022

Departed: 04/10/2022 (Guthrie)

Obituary Preview: Robin Temple of Arcadia passed away on April 10, 2022.  She was 80 years old.

Robin was born in Hayward, California on January 20,1942, to parents Carl and Theodine Reynolds.

Services are under the direction of Community Funeral Home.

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Loretta Maxine Nealis - July 24, 1947 - April 01, 2022

Departed: 04/01/2022 (Guthrie)

Obituary Preview: Loretta M. Nealis, 74, of Guthrie, OK., went to be with the Lord on April 1, 2022. She is preceded in death by her husband Donald L. Nealis, her daughter Stacy A. Nealis, her parents Keith and Elsie Hemmert, her brothers Elton Hemmert and Monroe Scott and her step-son, Tony Nealis. She is survived by her daughter and husband Carol and Charles Justice, step-son Mike Nealis, her sister and husband, Linda and Earl Osborne, her brother, Henry Scott and numerous grandchildren and great grandchildren. Loretta enjoyed family outings, spending time with her grandchildren, working word find puzzles, and playing games. She was very loved and will be missed dearly.  Graveside service will be held on April 5, 2022, at 10:00 am, at the Seward Cemetery.

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Jarold Wayne Inskeep - January 19, 1949 - March 13, 2022

Departed: 03/13/2022 (Guthrie)

Obituary Preview: Jerold (Jerry) Wayne Inskeep, age 73 of Edmond, OK passed away March 13th, 2022. He was born on January 19th, 1949 in Guthrie, OK. He is preceded in death by his parents Melvin and Juanita Inskeep; siblings Helen Henderson, Wanda Stuesman, and Charles Inskeep; his wife Sherri Inskeep, and son Mitchell Reed. Jerry is survived by his children Mike Reed, Terry Inskeep, and Toni Sockwell; grandchildren Sean Woodward,  Danyell Ellis, Jessica Ward, Kaitlyn Reed, and Lindy Reed; great-grandchildren Lucas Ellis, Kristopher Ellis, and Stormy Woodward, siblings Louise Coffman,  Ethel Wishon, and Lynda Malaska, a host of nieces, nephews, and friends.

There will be no visitation and no services are pending.

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Rose Marie Lelkes - June 10, 1934 - March 11, 2022

Departed: 03/11/2022 (Guthrie)

Obituary Preview: Rose Marie Lelkes was born in Dagenham, Essex, England, June 10 1934, to Samual and Rose Shearman.  She passed away on March 11, 2022.

There will be no visitation.

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Dolores L. Stockton - September 07, 1944 - March 05, 2022

Departed: 03/05/2022 (Guthrie)

Obituary Preview: Dolores L. Stockton, of Guthrie, was born in Hanford, California, on September 7, 1944, to Joe and Lorine Perry.  She passed from this earth March 5, 2022.

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JoAnn Elizabeth Newman - May 26, 1926 - February 25, 2022

Departed: 02/25/2022 (Guthrie)

Obituary Preview: Jo Ann Newman was born on May 26, 1926, and passed away on February 25, 2022.  She is preceded in death by her husband of 53 years, Marvin Newman; great grandson, Daniel Stahl; and granddaughter Rhonda Long.

She is survived by her two daughters, Patricia Ann Lightfoot (Ronnie) and Beverly June Bayne. Her surviving grandchildren include Lanae Stahl (Craig), Bonnie Scherry (Billy), Ronnie Lightfoot (Jess), Patrick Lightfoot (Hannah), Rebecca O’Connor (Dan), and Betty Morrison (Sam).  She had a host of great-grandchildren including Matthew, Andrew, Elizabeth, Travis, Dillon, Wyatt, Ethan, Nolan, Libby, Shawn, Cory, Ashley, Joshua, and Benjamin and even more great-great-grandchildren - 34 in all! She loved them all passionately and loved spending time with her extended family.

Jo Ann loved to garden, can garden produce, paint, and quilt.  She was an incredibly talented artist who loved to paint for her daughters, grandchildren, great grandchildren as well as friends. She also loved to play the organ and really enjoyed this to pass the time in her later years. She was spirited and independent.

In her 70’s she overcame her lifelong fear of water, jumped on a trampoline with her great-grandchildren, learned to paint and played laser tag. She aspired to go skydiving for her 100th birthday.

She once accompanied a great-grandchild as a chaperone for a band trip to Chicago.

She also traveled to Kansas to watch another great-grandchild play in a USSSA world series. For her 80th birthday, she played ultimate frisbee with grandkids and great grans! She didn’t let anyone tell her what she could or couldn’t do!

She lived with both daughters at different times in her life; this was wonderful for all the extended family members as they were able to bond and form memorable, close relationships with her. She impacted the life of all who loved her.  Her faith in Christ was strong and she really enjoyed attending worship services and drawing closer to Him.  She and Marvin began a legacy of faith and service in ministry.

A funeral service is scheduled on Friday, March 4, 2022 at 2pm at the At The Cross church in Porum, OK. The graveside service will take place on Saturday, March 5, 2022 at 1pm at Memory Gardens Memorial Cemetery, 1624 N. Pine Street, Guthrie, Oklahoma, 73044.

Arrangements are under the direction of Community Funeral Home in Guthrie, OK.

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Kathryn Sue Kershaw - August 20, 1951 - February 09, 2022

Departed: 02/09/2022 (Guthrie)

Obituary Preview: Kathryn Sue Kershaw (Reeser) passed from this earth on February 9, 2022. She was born August 20, 1951 in Bloomington, IL to Walter and Helen Reeser.Kathy graduated from Moore High School in Farmer City, Illinois in 1969. She then attended Lincoln Christian College in Lincoln, Illinois where she earned a bachelors in education. Upon graduation, Kathy accepted a teaching position at Boulevard Christian School in Muskogee where she soon met the love of her life, Rob Kershaw. The two were engaged just three months later, they welcomed two children within the first two years of their marriage, and were married almost 36 years. Kathy devoted her life to serving others, mostly children. Many described her as an angel on earth. She was incredibly kind, positive, forgiving, and had the biggest heart. Words simply cannot capture the gentle soul that Kathy was; the simplest things brought her the most joy. She will be remembered for her constant smile and living out her faith well. Kathy reunited with her one and only, Rob, at Heaven’s gates but is survived by a family who will miss her dearly: her children Robert Kershaw (and wife Megan), Katie Graves (and husband Tyler), her grandchildren, Hank, Nora, Rhett, Griffin, and Millie Grace, her three siblings, Joyce, Pam, and David, and countless other nieces, nephews, friends, and loved ones.

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Pastor/Teacher Andrew Gilstrap - May 26, 1939 - February 07, 2022

Departed: 02/07/2022 (Guthrie)

Obituary Preview: Visitation at United Baptist Church, 301 Fox Street, Seward, Guthrie, OK 73044, Thursday, February 17, 2022 4:00 pm -6:00 pm Visitation at Mt. Olive Friendship Baptist Church, 521 S. Ash Street, Guthrie, OK 73044, Friday, February 18, 2022, 10:00 am -6:00 pm Wake Celebration at Mt. Olive Friendship Baptist Church, Friday, February 18, 2022, 6:00 pm-7:30 pm Celebration of Life at Mt. Olive Friendship Baptist Church, Saturday, February 19, 2022, 11:00 am

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Lillie Ann Jacks - March 16, 1934 - January 30, 2022

Departed: 01/30/2022 (Guthrie)

Obituary Preview: Lillie Ann Jacks, of Crescent, was born March 16, 1934, to Roy Scott and June Drenning.  She passed away January 30, 2022.

She married Vernie Leonard Jacks and together they had three children; Dessie, Floyd and Gary. Lillie was crazy about her three generations of grandchildren. She loved listening to her son, Floyd, play his guitar and sing “Shoeshine Boy” for her and she never missed a chance to call him “you ol’ fart.”  She enjoyed sitting outdoors, watching westerns on television and circling her findings in word search puzzles.  Her old friend, Bob Cotton was one of her favorite singers and you couldn’t feed her a fried chicken without jalepeno peppers!

Lillie was preceded in death by her parents and her sisters, Willigene Blair, Anita Farralesher, step-mother, Clara, her husband, Vernie, her son, Gary, grandson, Joshua and step-grandson, Joseph Ruhlig.

She is survived by her siblings; Bertha Bernea, Peggie Huerta, and Henry, Buddy and Lonnie Scott, her children; Buck and Dessie Tomlinson, Floyd W. Jacks, Sr. and his wife, Corlis Aldridge, grandchildren;  Butch Jacks, Shawn Jacks, Ronnie Jacks, Bill Aldridge, Jackie Wood, Louisa Romanos, Benjamin Jacks, Floyd Wayne (Tre’) Jacks, III, many great-grandchildren, great-great-grandchildren, nieces, nephews and special nephew, Billy Wayne.

She will be dearly missed by all.

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Bryan Glenn Wallace - June 22, 1974 - January 12, 2022

Departed: 01/12/2022 (Guthrie)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Bryan Glenn Wallace.

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Lois Joann Backhaus - June 28, 1933 - January 08, 2022

Departed: 01/08/2022 (Guthrie)

Obituary Preview: Lois Joann Backhaus was welcomed into this world by her parents, George J. and Hilda Johnson, on June 28, 1933, in Lahoma, Oklahoma.  Lois grew up on the family farm in Kingfisher, Oklahoma, alongside her two siblings, Verona June and Verdean Johnson.  She graduated from Big Four High School, a rural school district outside of Kingfisher.

While growing up on the farm, Lois dreamt of marrying a farmer.  Lois participated in church activities at Emmanuel Lutheran Church in Kingfisher, and attended Camp Lutherhaven church camp outside of Woodward, Oklahoma.  There, she met Marvin Clarence Backhaus, and after dating for a couple of years, her dreams came true.  Lois and Marvin were married on June 2, 1951, in her church, Emmanuel Lutheran in Kingfisher, and they established their home on Marvin’s family farm in Guthrie, Oklahoma.  Lois had become the quintessential farmer’s wife, raising five children; Carol Joann, Marcella Ann, Marvin Paul, Janet Lois, and Linda Kay, all while helping to run the family farm, tending to cattle, chickens and pigs, doing the field work of raising wheat, oats and alfalfa and baling hay as well as keeping a garden that produced fruits and vegetables for the family table.

Lois was also very active in both of her churches in Guthrie, Zion Lutheran and Our Savior Lutheran.  She had been blessed with a beautiful singing voice, which she used to glorify the Lord in church services and Christmas cantatas.  Lois also gave several public solo performances, including several times at the National Stockyard Conventions in downtown OKC’s Skirvin Hotel.  She was very passionate about singing and music.

Lois is preceded in death by her parents and siblings, her husband of 68 years, Marvin Clarence Backhaus, and her daughter, Marcella Ann Meador.  Lois was called home by her Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, on Saturday January 8, 2022, at the age of 88.  She is survived by three daughters and one son, Carol Joann De La Peña, Janet Lois Drumright, Linda Kaye Frohock and Marvin Paul Backhaus.  She will be sorely missed by her nine grandchildren, four great-grandchildren, and many nieces and nephews.

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Gary Lynn Goodwin - August 20, 1951 - January 03, 2022

Departed: 01/03/2022 (Guthrie)

Obituary Preview: A memorial service is planned for March 3, 2022.

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TERRANCE MICHAEL FURLONG - January 19, 1962 - January 01, 2022

Departed: 01/01/2022 (Guthrie)

Obituary Preview: Terrance Michael (Terry) Furlong was born January 19,1962 in Guthrie, Oklahoma to parents John and Wilma (Robinson) Furlong.  He passed away at his home in  Guthrie on January 1, 2022, at the age of 59 years, 11 months, and 12 days.

Terry was preceded in death by his parents John and Wilma Furlong, his brother Vince Furlong, grandson Brady Benson and nephew Brian Akins.

He is survived by his daughter Brooke Benson and husband Brian, son Clayton Furlong and wife Vanessa, and daughter Kylie Pugh.  Also surviving are his sisters Rose Gathers and husband Lynn, Joan Graham and husband Rance, Mary Pat Cordis and husband Orson, numerous grandchildren, nieces and nephews and sister-in-law Julie Furlong, other relatives and friends.

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Tracy Louise Johnson - December 02, 1968 - December 25, 2021

Departed: 12/25/2021 (Guthrie)

Obituary Preview: Tracy Louise Pitts Daughter of decedent Mary Louise Pitts. Beloved mother Tracy Louise Pitts age 53, born on December 2, 1968 has passed away on December 25, 2021. Tracy leaves behind her fiance Kevin Phillips, her 3 children, Chasity Pitts, Tracea Pitts, and Deserae Pitts.  Her brothers Herman Pitts, and Stanley Pitts. As well as her grandchildren Kya Nanney, and Azel Bonilla. Tracy Pitts was a loving,  kind hearted and hardworking mother. She enjoyed spoiling her grandkids the most, and making her family a priority. She was a beloved Mother, spouse, mimi, pet owner, and a friend of many. Tracy loved  in her spare time to garden, paint and cook for her family. She was a blessing that will be forever missed by so many people.

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Marshall Ross Jackson - October 16, 1921 - December 20, 2021

Departed: 12/20/2021 (Guthrie)

Obituary Preview: Marshall was born October 16, 1921, to Cleo and Ruby Jackson in Dallas, Texas.  Marshall was one of a kind for various reasons. One, he was a Ross, that name coming from his grandmother’s maiden name. This continued a long line of Ross’: Jerry Ross, Ricky Ross, and Ryan Ross.  Another was, he was a second generation born in Dallas, but he never claimed that distinction because he was raised at Point, TX. Marshall was a character through and through and was a beloved father, grandfather, great grandfather, and friend to many.

When the depression hit, the Jackson’s were forced to move because Cleo was unable to find a job. They moved to Point to live with the in-laws, David Ross Robinson. Marshall was 11 years old at the time.  His grandad was a very influential person in Marshall’s life and was the source of wit and wisdom which Marshall was known for.  One time, his dad and Marshall took the car to Dallas to a sale and happened by the funeral home on Forrest Avenue where Bonnie and Clyde were laid out for viewing.

Marshall’s dad became the Postmaster in Point and eventually a rural carrier. Marshall went to help his dad when the roads were muddy and that brought some interesting experiences. Once he was run over and smushed into the mud. One time he picked up a jackrabbit that had been frightened out of its senses and when the jackrabbit came to and he was holding it, it almost kicked the breath out of him.

He met Eloise Havins at school, and they decided to run off to Greenville and get married on March 23, 1940. After the wedding they worked for Homer Havins, Eloise’s father, for a year and then decided to move to Dallas to get enough money to make a crop. Jerry was born in 1942 and Gary Don came along 3 years later.

Marshall was drafted into the army in 1945. He took basic training in Fort Bliss at El Paso, Texas. He was shipped to Japan in the Allied Army of Occupation. By this time, he had two dependents which was a basis for discharge. He was discharged in 1946 and went back to his employer in Dallas.  A third son, Terry, was born in 1953.

Marshall was employed in the making of paint for 40 years and the sales of raw materials for paint. He retired in the early 90’s and moved to Hamlin, Texas to help on the farm with Jerry.  He later moved for a year to Sonora, Texas, where Eloise passed away in 2002.  He then moved to Anson, Texas and married his second wife, Lucille and lived there until her passing. In 2015, he moved to Oklahoma with family.

Marshall was a member of the Poplar & Warner church of Christ. He had served as an elder in the church of Christ in Cockrell Hill and later served as an elder in the Mesquite church of Christ for 25 years. Two of his sons, Jerry and Terry, served as ministers and Don served as an elder.

Marshall was preceded in death by his parents: Cleo and Ruby Grace Jackson; his sister Hattie Mae Northcutt; and his wife, Eloise Jackson.

He is survived by his son, Jerry Ross Jackson and Linda of Mulhall, OK; son Gary Don Jackson and Linda of Tyler; and Terry Wayne and Melissa of Rising Star, TX. His Grandchildren Ricky Jackson and Ronna; Mark Jackson; Kim Jackson; Lisa Ward and Charley; Paula Palk and Wayne; David Jackson and Shawnya; Brandon Jackson and Camille; Robin Clary and Darren; Michael Jackson and Maci; Mickey Jackson, Dennis Jackson and Summer; Bucky Jackson and Bobby Jackson.  His great grandchildren: Aubrey Jackson, Danielle and Zack Ruff, Ryan Ross Jackson, Jarrett Jackson, Kerrigan Jackson, Lyndi Ward, Daisi Ward, Cody Palk, Kylee Clary, Laynee Clary, Jaydon Jackson, Kainyn Jackson, Maddox Jackson. He is also survived by 2 great, great grandchildren: Aluna Graniel and August Ruff, and nephew nephew Michael Northcutt.

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Shirlene Clara Crews - September 09, 1947 - December 17, 2021

Departed: 12/17/2021 (Guthrie)

Obituary Preview: Shirlene C. (Wilson) Crews went to be with the Lord at her home surrounded by her family on December 17, 2021, at the age of 74 in Guthrie, Oklahoma.

She worked at the Oklahoma Furniture Manufacturing Company and then worked over 20 years at Wal-Mart where she retired.

Shirlene loved joking, traveling, reading books, doing puzzles, motorcycle riding, fishing, camping, butterflies, listening to Elvis and spending time with family.

She grew up in the Nazarene Church and began attending First Assembly of God Church in 1981 and she was a member until the Lord called her home.

Shirlene was preceded in death by her parents Homer and Viola (Canning) Wilson, her sisters, Jean Logan and Fran Barger, her brothers, Russ Wilson, Raymond Wilson and RayGene Wilson.

She is survived by her husband, Clarence “Arkie” Crews; her daughters: Christie Crews, fiancé Terry Sutton and Jannis DeLisa, her significant other Alex Poe; Grandchildren: Shanel Burrows, Michael Elsten, Jr., Shalene Clark and Ashton DeLisa; Great-Grandchildren:  Jacquelynn Crews, Zander Funderburk and Gia Funderburk; her brother Revis Wilson and numerous nieces and nephews. Final Resting Place:  Mount Hope Cemetery, 7901 East 760 Road, Guthrie, OK 73044

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Joleta Jean Martin - November 28, 1954 - December 10, 2021

Departed: 12/10/2021 (Guthrie)

Obituary Preview: Joleta (Jodi) Martin November 28, 1954 - December 10, 2021

Jodi lived a beautiful life with multiple everlasting friendships and loves.  When asked days before her passing what her most valuable possessions were, she responded with, “my two girls are my most valuable possessions and accomplishments in my eyes.”  And the love of my husband’s two boys who I loved just as much”.

She was loved by so many that adopted her as their bonus Mom or Nene.  In her younger years she loved to bowl and the friendships that started in the bowling leagues.

Jodi worked hard her whole life and became successful with a bachelor’s degree and being an Office Manager.  Her last employment when she became disabled, was with the Martin’s at Exit Reality.  Her favorite work included, to help people with their business activities when they had trouble with the office routine.  Her favorite things to do were watching reality shows, fishing, cruising on boat rides, playing board games with family, singing to the Lord and playing the piano or keyboard.

She loved worshipping God.  Jodi met her husband Paul, the love of her life.  Before they were married, he would drive to Blanchard to pick her up and bring her to the church to play keyboard and sing songs for the congregation.  Most would describe Jodi as an earth angel.  She was the first to offer assistance to someone in need, no matter the circumstance.

She was a member of the Healing Hearts Church where she, again, worshipping with her husband, Pastor Paul Martin until her health started to deteriorate from Lupus, RA and having problems breathing the last two years she wasn’t able to go anywhere, but, to the many Doctors and Hospital visits.

Everyone in the community knew her as Pastor Paul Martin’s wife and worship leader.  Jodi had a heart of gold and her faith never wavered as she fought a health condition for 5 years.  Even to the end before she was put under life support.

She asked the doctor and staff to remove her DNR, because she wanted to live and go home to her husband and family.  Jodi was in so much pain and COVID-19 though it had her, but God was victorious as he said on December 10, 2021 your work on earth is done.  Come home sweet angel and sing those beautiful songs to the Lord, she obliged.  Her love will be with us forever.

Waiting for her arrival were her dad, Jesse Hazen; sisters, Donita Rae Bentley and Jeanine Calloway.

She leaves to cherish her loving husband and best friend Paul TWJ Martin, Sr.; her mother Coy Darlene Hazen, who loved her baby girl so very much; her daughters, Angela Maxwell and Amy Stinson; her sons, Paul TWJ, II, and his wife, Lisa Martin and Jason and his wife, Regan Martin: her sisters, Linda and her Husband Jim Steele and Judy and her husband Larry Pierce; brother Bobby Lakin; one grandchild, four great-grandchildren, multiple nephews, nieces and extended family.

Services will be held at McKay Davis @ Community Funeral Home on December 17, 2021 at 11:00 am with burial at Psalm 23rd in Memorial Gardens.

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Linda Joyce Wilcots - December 23, 1952 - December 01, 2021

Departed: 12/01/2021 (Guthrie)

Obituary Preview: Obituary pending

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Patsy Faye Friend - February 17, 1946 - November 24, 2021

Departed: 11/24/2021 (Guthrie)

Obituary Preview: Patsy Faye Friend was born February 17, 1946, to Ryan and Edna Mattingly.  She entered the presence of her Heavenly Father on Wednesday, November 24, 2021.  She was preceded in death by her parents, Ryan and Edna Mattingly, and her sister, Teresa.  She is survived by her children Mike Cline and wife Verla, Robert Cline, Brandi Everest and husband Dave, and Chris Friend and wife Jenny; grandchildren Brandon Cline and wife Rachel Miller, Deaven Cavnar and husband Kenny, Allison Hadlock and husband Trent, Edward Cline, Jillian Cline, Kayla Dearman, Kyle Dearman, Douglas Colston and wife Jessi, Autumn Courtney and husband Hunter, Meredith Friend, Caleb Friend, Will Friend, and Henry Friend; great-grandchildren Angelina Cline, Ruby Miller, Katlin Cline, Hunter Neece, and Braydon West; a brother, Ronnie Mattingly and wife Alana, a sister Naomi Ames and husband Mark; and numerous nieces and nephews.

Patsy was hard working, meticulous and detailed.  She was clever, resourceful, and a great problem solver.  She was compassionate and concerned about others.  Patsy had placed her faith in Jesus Christ as her Savior and while we will miss her dearly, we rejoice that she lives eternally with Him.

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Ed Lafferty - October 10, 1939 - November 21, 2021

Departed: 11/21/2021 (Guthrie)

Obituary Preview: Clyde Edward Lafferty, Sr. was born October 10, 1939. He passed away peacefully at his home Sunday, November 21, 2021, with his wife and several loved ones by his side.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Lillian Elizabeth Coyne and John Henry Payton Lafferty, brothers John and Jed Lafferty, daughter, Debbie Washburn, grandchildren, Kyle Lafferty and Krystopher Abrahms.

Clyde was affectionately known as "Ed" by all that knew him.  Ed lived life on his own terms and he enjoyed the life he lived to the fullest.

Ed was a veteran of the United States Army.

He was united in marriage to the love of his life, companion and friend in 1980, Valdeana (Katy) Kay Bee.  They spent the past 45 years together as a team, embarking on new adventures from owning a painting business, a bingo bus, rental properties, to owning a successful bail bonding business that they've enjoyed operating and expanding the past 15 years.

In his younger days, Ed was an avid hunter and excellent fisherman.  He enjoyed working with his hands and many outdoor activities.  He also enjoyed watching sports, especially football and basketball.

Ed leaves behind to cherish his memory, his loving wife of 45 years, Katy Lafferty of Guthrie, his children, Ed Lafferty, Jr., Guthrie, Laura Leigh, Layton, Utah, Chad Boutwell and Debbie,  Charles McCormack and Christy, Guthrie, Dedra Knepper and Jonathan, Blackwell, 14 grandchildren, two great-grandchildren, a host of other relatives, nieces, nephews, dear friends and numerous acquaintances.

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Robert E. Kershaw, Jr. - June 13, 1953 - November 03, 2021

Departed: 11/03/2021 (Guthrie)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Robert E. Kershaw, Jr..

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Olga N. Byrd - February 15, 1935 - October 31, 2021

Departed: 10/31/2021 (Guthrie)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Olga N. Byrd.

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Deborah Eck - Unknown - October 24, 2021

Departed: 10/24/2021 (Guthrie)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Deborah Eck.

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A Beautiful and Peaceful Setting

The funeral home is situated within the serene surroundings of Memory Gardens Cemetery, providing a tranquil atmosphere that fosters reflection, remembrance, and healing. The picturesque grounds, adorned with lush greenery and vibrant flowers, offer a sense of solace and comfort to those who gather to pay their respects.

Personalized Funeral Services

At Community Funeral Homes at Memory Gardens Cemetery, every funeral service is carefully crafted to reflect the personality, interests, and accomplishments of the deceased. From traditional funerals to cremation services, memorial gatherings, and celebrations of life, their team works closely with families to ensure that every detail is meticulously planned and executed.

A Wide Range of Options for Memorialization

In addition to funeral services, Community Funeral Homes at Memory Gardens Cemetery offers a variety of options for memorialization, including burial plots, mausoleums, columbaria, and memorial gardens. Their knowledgeable staff can guide families through the selection process, helping them choose a fitting tribute that honors their loved one's memory.

Advanced Funeral Planning

Facing the reality of one's own mortality can be daunting, but advanced funeral planning can provide peace of mind and alleviate the burden on loved ones. Community Funeral Homes at Memory Gardens Cemetery encourages individuals to take control of their final arrangements, offering guidance and resources to help them make informed decisions about their funeral preferences.

A Commitment to Excellence

The team at Community Funeral Homes at Memory Gardens Cemetery is dedicated to delivering exceptional service, exceeding expectations, and earning the trust of every family they serve. Their commitment to excellence is reflected in their attention to detail, their compassion, and their unwavering dedication to helping families navigate the grieving process.

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As an integral part of the Guthrie community, Community Funeral Homes at Memory Gardens Cemetery is deeply invested in supporting local organizations and initiatives that promote education, wellness, and social welfare. Through their involvement in community events and charitable activities, they demonstrate their commitment to making a positive impact on the lives of those around them.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It is usually published in a newspaper, online obituary platform, or funeral home website to inform friends, family, and community members of the person's passing.

What is the purpose of an obituary?

The primary purpose of an obituary is to notify others of a person's death and provide information about their life, achievements, and surviving family members. It also serves as a way to honor and celebrate the deceased person's life, share condolences with the grieving family, and announce funeral or memorial service details.

Who writes an obituary?

Obituaries are typically written by family members, close friends, or a funeral home staff member. In some cases, a professional obituary writer may be hired to craft the obituary.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the deceased person's full name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, interests, and surviving family members. It may also include information about the funeral or memorial service, charitable donations in lieu of flowers, and any other relevant details.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or platform. Traditional newspaper obituaries are often limited to 200-300 words, while online obituaries can be longer and more detailed.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many online obituary platforms and funeral home websites allow you to upload photos of the deceased person. Some newspapers may also accept photo submissions for print or online publication.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication or platform. Newspaper obituaries can range from $50 to several hundred dollars, while online obituaries may be free or low-cost.

Can I edit or update an obituary after it's been published?

In most cases, yes. Online obituary platforms and funeral home websites often allow you to make changes or updates to an obituary after it's been published. However, newspaper obituaries may have stricter policies regarding changes or corrections.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

You can typically submit an obituary to a newspaper by emailing or faxing the text and any accompanying photos to the newspaper's obituary department. Be sure to check the newspaper's submission guidelines and deadlines in advance.

What is a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's death, usually including only the basic facts such as name, age, date of birth and death, and funeral service details. It is often used in conjunction with a more detailed obituary.

What is the difference between an obituary and a eulogy?

An obituary is a written notice that provides factual information about the deceased person's life, while a eulogy is a speech or written tribute that celebrates their life and shares personal anecdotes and memories.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary in advance as a way to control how they are remembered and to spare their loved ones from having to do so during a difficult time.

How do I find old obituaries?

You can search for old obituaries through online archives such as Newspapers.com or GenealogyBank.com, or by visiting local libraries or genealogical societies that maintain historical records.

Can I republish an old obituary?

In most cases, yes. You can republish an old obituary on social media, a blog, or other online platform as long as you cite the original source and respect any copyright restrictions.

What if I need help writing an obituary?

If you're struggling to write an obituary, consider seeking help from a funeral home staff member, professional obituary writer, or online resources that provide templates and guidance.

How do I handle errors or inaccuracies in an obituary?

If you notice errors or inaccuracies in an obituary, contact the publication or platform where it was published as soon as possible to request corrections.

Can I include humor or personality in an obituary?

Absolutely! Obituaries don't have to be somber or formal. Including humor or personality traits can help celebrate the deceased person's life and make the tribute more engaging and memorable.

How do I submit an online condolence message?

You can typically submit an online condolence message through the funeral home website or online obituary platform where the obituary is published. Your message will be shared with the grieving family.

Can I include charitable donations in lieu of flowers in an obituary?

Yes. Many families prefer donations to charity in lieu of flowers as a way to honor their loved one's memory and support a meaningful cause.

How long does it take for an online obituary to be published?

The publication timeframe for online obituaries varies depending on the platform. Some sites may publish immediately upon submission, while others may require review and approval before posting.

Can I create a memorial page for my loved one?

Yes. Many online platforms offer memorial pages where you can share photos, stories, and memories of your loved one. These pages can serve as a lasting tribute and provide comfort to those who visit them.

How do I preserve my loved one's legacy through their obituary?

You can preserve your loved one's legacy by sharing their story through their obituary, creating a memorial page or website, and keeping their memory alive through ongoing tributes and celebrations.

What if I'm unsure about what to include in an obituary?

If you're unsure about what to include in an obituary, consider consulting with family members, friends, or a funeral home staff member for guidance. You can also seek inspiration from sample obituaries online.

Can I use social media to share my loved one's obituary?

Absolutely! Social media can be a powerful tool for sharing news of your loved one's passing and celebrating their life with friends and family who may not have access to traditional print publications.

How do I ensure that my loved one's final wishes are respected in their obituary?

To ensure that your loved one's final wishes are respected in their obituary, discuss their preferences with them beforehand if possible, or consult with other family members who may have insight into their desires.