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Timothy Joseph Bakersmith - March 07, 1981 - April 29, 2024

Departed: 04/29/2024 (Manteo)

Obituary Preview: Timothy Joseph Bakersmith, of Manns Harbor, NC, passed away on April 29, 2024, at the age of 43. Affectionately known as Timmy, he was born on March 7, 1981, in Cheverly, MD.Timmy was a dedicated plumber who took pride in his work. He had a passion for riding motorcycles, fishing, Ford Mustangs, and spending time with kids. His infectious happiness and cheerful demeanor meant he never met a stranger and was always going full throttle in life.Timmy is survived by his daughter, Katelyn Bakersmith; sisters, Jeannie Steward (Marvin), Patricia Lynn Holland (Paul), and Susan Bakersmith; brothers, Joseph Bakersmith (Crystal) and William Bakersmith; and his fiancée and significant other of 17 years, Katie Kunz. He was preceded in death by his parents, Mary Lyons Bakersmith and Ralph E. Steward.A service to honor Timmy's life will be held at a later date. He will be remembered fondly by all who knew him for his kind heart, zest for life, and love for his family and friends. May he rest in peace.Twiford Funeral Homes, Outer Banks is assisting the family with arrangements. Condolences and memories may be shared at www.TwifordFH.com.

Timothy Joseph Bakersmith, of Manns Harbor, NC, passed away on April 29, 2024, at the age of 43. Affectionately known as Timmy, he was born on March 7, 1981, in Cheverly, MD.

Timmy was a dedicated plumber who took pride in his work. He had a passion for riding motorcycles, fishing, Ford Mustangs, and spending time with kids. His infectious happiness and cheerful demeanor meant he never met a stranger and was always going full throttle in life.

Timmy is survived by his daughter, Katelyn Bakersmith; sisters, Jeannie Steward (Marvin), Patricia Lynn Holland (Paul), and Susan Bakersmith; brothers, Joseph Bakersmith (Crystal) and William Bakersmith; and his fiancée and significant other of 17 years, Katie Kunz. He was preceded in death by his parents, Mary Lyons Bakersmith and Ralph E. Steward.

A service to honor Timmy's life will be held at a later date. He will be remembered fondly by all who knew him for his kind heart, zest for life, and love for his family and friends. May he rest in peace.

Twiford Funeral Homes, Outer Banks is assisting the family with arrangements. Condolences and memories may be shared at www.TwifordFH.com.

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Marilyn Kay Pokorny - December 31, 1946 - April 21, 2024

Departed: 04/21/2024 (Manteo)

Obituary Preview: Marilyn Kay Pokorny went to meet her Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ on April 21, 2024. She was 77.Marilyn is survived by her husband, John; her son Jeffrey John, MD (Anne) and daughter, Jody Lynn (Ross); her grandchildren John Russell, Christopher Thomas, and Caden John Pokorny, Charles Anthony and Jillian Laurel Farro.She was preceded in death by her parents Loretta Marie (nee Nixon) and John Everett Harmsen; her sister Nancy McEntee (Rich).Marilyn was born in Cleveland, Ohio. She graduated from James Ford Rhodes High School. She met the love of her life and future husband, John, on February 6, 1966 over a ping pong table at a Young Adults Club social. Marilyn married John Anthony Pokorny on April 15, 1967. They just celebrated their 57th wedding anniversary! Marilyn spent her life in service to her faith, her family, and her community. She was a cheerful woman who was always willing to lend a hand or a hug. Over the years, Marilyn served the Catholic Church by being a Eucharistic Minister and by singing in the Choir. Her favorite charities to work for were Marriage Encounter, Christian Community Action and Rotary Club. In death, Marilyn donated some of her organs to Miracles In Sight and Honor Bridge. She will be remembered for her generous spirit and for the loving wife and mother she was.Twiford Funeral Homes, Outer Banks is assisting the family with arrangements. Condolences and memories may be shared at www.TwifordFH.com.

Marilyn Kay Pokorny went to meet her Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ on April 21, 2024. She was 77.

Marilyn is survived by her husband, John; her son Jeffrey John, MD (Anne) and daughter, Jody Lynn (Ross); her grandchildren John Russell, Christopher Thomas, and Caden John Pokorny, Charles Anthony and Jillian Laurel Farro.

She was preceded in death by her parents Loretta Marie (nee Nixon) and John Everett Harmsen; her sister Nancy McEntee (Rich). Marilyn was born in Cleveland, Ohio. She graduated from James Ford Rhodes High School. She met the love of her life and future husband, John, on February 6, 1966 over a ping pong table at a Young Adults Club social. Marilyn married John Anthony Pokorny on April 15, 1967. They just celebrated their 57th wedding anniversary!

Marilyn spent her life in service to her faith, her family, and her community. She was a cheerful woman who was always willing to lend a hand or a hug. Over the years, Marilyn served the Catholic Church by being a Eucharistic Minister and by singing in the Choir. Her favorite charities to work for were Marriage Encounter, Christian Community Action and Rotary Club.

In death, Marilyn donated some of her organs to Miracles In Sight and Honor Bridge. She will be remembered for her generous spirit and for the loving wife and mother she was.

Twiford Funeral Homes, Outer Banks is assisting the family with arrangements. Condolences and memories may be shared at www.TwifordFH.com.

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Jeanette Finnegan Torok - September 17, 1939 - April 18, 2024

Departed: 04/18/2024 (Manteo)

Obituary Preview: Jeanette Gray Finnegan Torok, 84, known as Jaye, died on Thursday, April 18, 2024, in her home in Buxton, N.C. A native of Buxton, she was the daughter of Jeanette (Janet) Finnegan and William Finnegan.

Jaye attended East Carolina University, and upon graduating, she received a bachelor's degree in teaching and education. Jaye proceeded to teach through an illustrious career at First Colonial High School in Virginia Beach, Virginia, and also at Norview High School in Norfolk, Virginia. She enjoyed high school teaching, and in the later part of her educational career, she concentrated on teaching advanced placement government courses at First Colonial High School.

After retirement from the school system, she ventured down south to own and operate a restaurant in Cape Hatteras, North Carolina, named the “Dolphin Den.” She was a woman of many talents and hobbies, and while successfully maintaining her restaurant ownership at the “Dolphin Den,” she began developing her talents as an author. She wrote and successfully published a five-part series of books labeled “Spirits of Cape Hatteras Island.” They can be viewed online and in select bookstores.

Jaye also was a professional photographer and published a calendar concentrating on the beauty of Cape Hatteras and its historical backdrops. She was an inspiration to always move forward and never to look back at past accomplishments.

Before Jaye’s passing away, she had been working on a sixth book that had yet to be completed or published. Jaye loved to travel and always took in what life had to offer. She was known and loved throughout the local community. She is to be missed always.

Jaye is survived by her son Robert L. Tugwell and his wife Kimberly, her grandchildren, her brother Michael Finnegan, and her stepson Teddy Torok. She was predeceased by her husband, Theodore Torok.

A gathering will be announced at a later date and time.

Twiford Funeral Homes, Outer Banks is assisting the family with arrangements. Condolences and memories may be shared at www.TwifordFH.com.

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Owen Martin Strickler - April 05, 1923 - April 17, 2024

Departed: 04/17/2024 (Manteo)

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Ann Weathersbee Davenport - September 11, 1935 - April 14, 2024

Departed: 04/14/2024 (Manteo)

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Ronald H. Williams - April 10, 1948 - April 14, 2024

Departed: 04/14/2024 (Manteo)

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John B. Ross, Jr. - March 19, 1938 - April 11, 2024

Departed: 04/11/2024 (Manteo)

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Katherine S. Parker-Lowe - July 01, 1959 - April 11, 2024

Departed: 04/11/2024 (Manteo)

Obituary Preview: Katherine Suzanne Parker-Lowe, well-known attorney-at-law and cherished member of the Ocracoke community, passed away on April 11, 2024, at the age of 64. She was a native of Ahoskie, NC, and she graduated from Ahoskie High School where she played in the band.

Katherine's passion for justice and advocacy guided her throughout her life. After obtaining her BA from UNC Greensboro and her JD from Campbell University School of Law, she began her career as a staff attorney with Legal Services of the Coastal Plains in Ahoskie, NC. There she met her husband Keith Parker-Lowe, and in 1994, they moved to Ocracoke where she established her own practice and dedicated herself to serving the legal needs of the community as Katherine Parker-Lowe Attorney-at-Law.

Beyond her professional accomplishments, Katherine had a deep appreciation for classical music, history, and her home on Ocracoke Island that she shared with her late husband Keith. The NC Symphony recently visited Ocracoke for the first time when the Symphony’s Woodwind Quartet played a concert at Ocracoke School thanks to influence and support. She was also an active member of the Ocracoke United Methodist Church where she served as Lay Representative to the UMC conference.

Shortly before her passing she ventured on an exciting trip through the heart of Europe to Prague, Salzburg and Vienna - the land of WWII, Mozart, and the Sound of Music. She enjoyed keeping her family and friends updated on her travels, as well as happenings on the island, with her frequent facebook posts. Katherine was a successful lawyer and business woman and she achieved a significant legal victory when she successfully won an appeal at the Fourth Circuit Court of Appeals. She was also known as a zealous advocate for the rights of those in need. She leaves behind a legacy of dedication and service to the community as “The Island Lawyer.”

Katherine was preceded in death by her beloved husband, Keith Parker-Lowe, and her parents, Lauretta Dyer Parker and Joseph M. Parker. She is survived by her brother, Joseph W. Parker of Raleigh, NC, an aunt, Suzannah Early of Apex, NC; an aunt and uncle, Gifford and Mary Ann Dyer of Chagrin Falls, Ohio; her step-children and her cousins.

Services to honor Katherine's life will be announced at a later date. Memorial contributions may be made to organizations that held a special place in her heart, including the NC Symphony, Ocracoke United Methodist Church, Ocracoke Fire Department, or the Ocracoke Health Center.

Her family and friends take comfort in her reunion with Keith. They were partners in life and even though they rooted for different schools - he was a die hard Duke fan and she rooted just as hard for UNC - together they made a great team. They shared a love for cooking and they particularly enjoyed cooking for and entertaining the many family and friends who came to visit them on the island.

Services to honor Katherine’s life are being planned for the weekend of May 18-19. Further details will be forthcoming. The community is invited to attend the service and/or a reception following. Her family wishes to extend a thank you to Islanders - both old and new - who welcomed her, shared her community and kept an eye on her after Keith’s passing. A special thanks to Kenny Ballance on whom she relied.

Memorial contributions may be made to organizations that held a special place in Katherine’s heart, including the Ocracoke United Methodist Church, the NC Symphony, Ocracoke Fire Department or Ocracoke Health Center.

Twiford Funeral Homes, Outer Banks is assisting the family with arrangements. Condolences and memories may be shared at www.TwifordFH.com.

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Charles "Chuck" Tomkinson III - April 09, 1951 - April 10, 2024

Departed: 04/10/2024 (Manteo)

Obituary Preview: Charles "Chuck" Tomkinson III, age 73, of Manteo, NC, passed away on April 10, 2024. He was born on April 9, 1951, in Richmond, VA.Chuck led a fulfilling life centered around his passion for working with his hands and helping others in any way he could. He graduated from Midlothian High School and went on to earn a degree in Art from Virginia Commonwealth University. Chuck's entrepreneurial spirit led him to run his own construction company on the Outer Banks until a diagnosis interrupted his plans in 2003. After a period of remission, he joined Renaissance Construction where he dedicated many years before retiring in 2016. Even in retirement, he continued to share his skills as a dedicated handyman.In addition to his love for fishing, gardening, and carpentry, Chuck was a devoted member of the Wanchese Lions Club for many years. His commitment to service and community was evident in the countless hours he volunteered, embodying the club's mission of serving others.His warm personality made it easy for him to connect with people, turning strangers into friends in no time. But above all, Chuck cherished the time spent with his beloved grandchildren – Calleigh, Gabe, and Les.Chuck is survived by his loving wife, Denise Walton Tomkinson; his daughter, Katie Stewart of Manteo, NC; his son, Ben Stewart, and daughter-in-law, Tiffany of Chesapeake, VA; his grandchildren; and his sister, Patricia Tomkinson Chappell and husband Tom of North Chesterfield, VA. He was preceded in death by his parents, Betty Werner Tomkinson and Charles Tomkinson, Jr.Chuck's presence will be deeply missed by all who knew him, but his legacy of kindness, hard work, and generosity will live on in the hearts of those he touched.The family will receive friends and relatives for a viewing and time of visitation at Twiford Colony Chapel, Manteo, on Wednesday, April 17, 2024, at 1:00 pm. A funeral service to celebrate Chuck’s life will follow, beginning at 2:00 pm. Twiford Funeral Homes, Outer Banks is assisting the family with arrangements. Condolences and memories may be shared at www.TwifordFH.com.

Charles "Chuck" Tomkinson III, age 73, of Manteo, NC, passed away on April 10, 2024. He was born on April 9, 1951, in Richmond, VA.

Chuck led a fulfilling life centered around his passion for working with his hands and helping others in any way he could. He graduated from Midlothian High School and went on to earn a degree in Art from Virginia Commonwealth University. Chuck's entrepreneurial spirit led him to run his own construction company on the Outer Banks until a diagnosis interrupted his plans in 2003. After a period of remission, he joined Renaissance Construction where he dedicated many years before retiring in 2016. Even in retirement, he continued to share his skills as a dedicated handyman.

In addition to his love for fishing, gardening, and carpentry, Chuck was a devoted member of the Wanchese Lions Club for many years. His commitment to service and community was evident in the countless hours he volunteered, embodying the club's mission of serving others.

His warm personality made it easy for him to connect with people, turning strangers into friends in no time. But above all, Chuck cherished the time spent with his beloved grandchildren – Calleigh, Gabe, and Les.

Chuck is survived by his loving wife, Denise Walton Tomkinson; his daughter, Katie Stewart of Manteo, NC; his son, Ben Stewart, and daughter-in-law, Tiffany of Chesapeake, VA; his grandchildren; and his sister, Patricia Tomkinson Chappell and husband Tom of North Chesterfield, VA. He was preceded in death by his parents, Betty Werner Tomkinson and Charles Tomkinson, Jr.

Chuck's presence will be deeply missed by all who knew him, but his legacy of kindness, hard work, and generosity will live on in the hearts of those he touched.

The family will receive friends and relatives for a viewing and time of visitation at Twiford Colony Chapel, Manteo, on Wednesday, April 17, 2024, at 1:00 pm. A funeral service to celebrate Chuck’s life will follow, beginning at 2:00 pm.

Twiford Funeral Homes, Outer Banks is assisting the family with arrangements. Condolences and memories may be shared at www.TwifordFH.com.

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Vivian Robinson Gray - November 14, 1943 - April 08, 2024

Departed: 04/08/2024 (Manteo)

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Anthony Wayne Beasley - March 01, 1962 - April 07, 2024

Departed: 04/07/2024 (Manteo)

Obituary Preview: Anthony Wayne Beasley, 62, passed away on April 7, 2024, in Wanchese at his parents' home. Tony was born on March 1, 1962, in Norfolk, VA. He was the son of Betty Kay Daniels Beasley and John Buchanan Beasley. He was a military brat and lived in many places growing up, including Carolina Beach, NC; Rhodes, Greece; Biloxi, MS; Richmond, CA; Lawrence and Cape Cod, MA; the island of Saipan in the Marianas; and Dale City, VA. Tony graduated from Woodbridge Senior High School in 1980. He attended NOVA community college for one year before joining the US Air Force, where he specialized in aircraft maintenance. He retired from the Air Force in 2004 after 23 years of service. In 2006, he moved to Wanchese. In 2007, Tony began a second career working for the State. He initially worked for the NCDOT – Ferry Maintenance Division in Manns Harbor before transferring in 2011 to the Department of Agriculture in Raleigh and later to the DMV, retiring in 2019 for medical reasons. He returned to Wanchese to live with his parents.Tony is survived by his parents; his two children, John Delbert Beasley (Desirea) and Angela Louise Beasley, both of Tacoma, WA; grandson, Braxton Beasley; Dorothy Beasley, the mother of his children; brother, James Beasley (Suzanne) of Charlotte, NC; nieces, nephews, and cousins.Tony had a great sense of humor, a smile that would light up the room, and his laugh was infectious. He was a gifted artist, and in his younger years, he loved to draw and paint, with lighthouses being one of his favorite subjects.He will be sorely missed.The family will hold a private memorial at a later date.Twiford Funeral Homes, Outer Banks is assisting the family with arrangements. Condolences and memories may be shared at www.TwifordFH.com.

Anthony Wayne Beasley, 62, passed away on April 7, 2024, in Wanchese at his parents' home. Tony was born on March 1, 1962, in Norfolk, VA. He was the son of Betty Kay Daniels Beasley and John Buchanan Beasley. He was a military brat and lived in many places growing up, including Carolina Beach, NC; Rhodes, Greece; Biloxi, MS; Richmond, CA; Lawrence and Cape Cod, MA; the island of Saipan in the Marianas; and Dale City, VA. Tony graduated from Woodbridge Senior High School in 1980. He attended NOVA community college for one year before joining the US Air Force, where he specialized in aircraft maintenance. He retired from the Air Force in 2004 after 23 years of service. In 2006, he moved to Wanchese. In 2007, Tony began a second career working for the State. He initially worked for the NCDOT – Ferry Maintenance Division in Manns Harbor before transferring in 2011 to the Department of Agriculture in Raleigh and later to the DMV, retiring in 2019 for medical reasons. He returned to Wanchese to live with his parents.

Tony is survived by his parents; his two children, John Delbert Beasley (Desirea) and Angela Louise Beasley, both of Tacoma, WA; grandson, Braxton Beasley; Dorothy Beasley, the mother of his children; brother, James Beasley (Suzanne) of Charlotte, NC; nieces, nephews, and cousins.

Tony had a great sense of humor, a smile that would light up the room, and his laugh was infectious. He was a gifted artist, and in his younger years, he loved to draw and paint, with lighthouses being one of his favorite subjects.

He will be sorely missed.

The family will hold a private memorial at a later date.

Twiford Funeral Homes, Outer Banks is assisting the family with arrangements. Condolences and memories may be shared at www.TwifordFH.com.

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Morjorie Lorraine Williams - March 31, 1940 - April 05, 2024

Departed: 04/05/2024 (Manteo)

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Michael Kent Smith - February 24, 1945 - April 04, 2024

Departed: 04/04/2024 (Manteo)

Obituary Preview: Michael Kent Smith, 79, of Kitty Hawk, NC, passed away unexpectedly with his entire family by his side on April 4, 2024. Michael was born in Norfolk, VA, on February 24, 1945, to Clifford and Lillian Smith and had a sister, Sandra, and a brother, Tony. His parents instilled in Michael early fundamental values that became the bedrock of his character, and he lived and honored those values throughout his life, including his deep love for his family and his profound work ethic. He attended Oscar Smith High School, where he met his future wife and love of his life, Brenda Joyce Mann, and made life-long friends.

Michael later enlisted in the United States Air Force in 1963 and was stationed in New Hampshire earning the rank of Airman First Class. Michael’s values and character continued to develop and strengthen during this time. There, he learned the importance of honor, courage, diligence, integrity, loyalty, and patience. Serving our country was important to him and it also afforded him the opportunity to continue his education. After four years of honorable service, he was honorably discharged.

Michael then began his postsecondary education by attending South New Hampshire University in Manchester, NH, where he graduated with a finance and accounting degree. With this well-rounded foundation, Michael started his exemplary professional career. Professionally, he achieved great success working for large corporations in financial executive leadership roles, working for Sanders & Associates, Bendix, Allied Signal, Danaher Corporation, and Hyster Yale Forklifts. He reached the pinnacle of his career as Chief Financial Officer. This career and his dedication to it required that he and his family moved often - six different states in all. They collectively and individually made many sacrifices with each move but also gained many meaningful experiences and friendships along the way.

While building his career, he reunited with his high school sweetheart, Brenda Mann, and simultaneously started a family. With Brenda came five children ranging in age from six to thirteen. His love for Brenda was so great that he embraced a father-figure role to earn what became an immediate family. This is where Michael shined. His passion for the children led to strong connections with each of them and earned him status as their beloved dad. Family and friends often reminisce and chuckle that he went from bachelor to family man, trading in his Corvette for a station wagon and his condo for a house mortgage within a moment. Michael and Brenda raised five kids through many challenges with unconditional love, guidance, and support. Michael was a provider, but more importantly, he gave himself to his family. He was a good listener but also a great teacher.

If you ever spent time with him, he was bound to walk you through a life-lesson, step by step, whether it was the appropriate way to prepare and eat crabs or manage life. He loved his wife, children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren fiercely and accepted and welcomed each of their friends, loved ones, and significant others the same. The values and lessons he prioritized in his guidance to his family included selflessness, honor, integrity, fairness, patience, strong work ethics, and modesty. Michael’s smile and laugh were genuine and contagious, and he found joy in his family and life’s simple pleasures, such as gardening, fishing, being at the beach, and maintaining his homes.

Michael is survived by his wife, Brenda, of forty-four years. Together, they created a beautiful family that will always work hard to honor his life, love, and spirit through their love and support of each other and the legacies they will perpetuate. This includes, by families, daughter Debbie Norris-Hamblen, son-in-law Scott Hamblen of Kitty Hawk, NC, granddaughter Heather Ulrich, grandson-in-law Joshua Ulrich, and grandchildren Destanee, Westin, Corbin, Jasmine, and Beckett of Wendell, MN, and grandson Austin Munno of Wilmington, NC, great-grandson Anderson, and granddaughter Jordan Serrano, grandson-in-law Luis Serrano, and great-grandchildren Mason, Mia, and Cameron; daughter Kim Miriani, son-in-law Dave Miriani of Shelby Township, MI, grandson Tyler Gunthner, granddaughter-in-law Emily, and great-grandchildren Anderson, Eden, Leah of Washington, MI, granddaughter Madison Mosher, great-grandson Isaac, and Zach Walker of Shelby Township, MI, granddaughter Maria Mariani, great-grandchildren Benicio, Oliver, Harrison, Liliana, and Ryan Henry of Macomb, MI, and granddaughter Liz Miriani and John Ross; daughter Tammy Norris of Norfolk, VA, and granddaughters Lyndsey and Sydney Morris of Virginia Beach, VA; son Chris Norris and daughter-in-law Dianna Norris of Royal Oak, MI; son Tyrone Norris and daughter-in-law Julie Metz of Belleville, PA, and granddaughters Ruth Thompson of Belleville, PA, and Isabelle Norris of Elkhart, IN; sister Sandra Mann of Kitty Hawk, NC; and numerous other family and friends, including his grand-dogs, Tucker, Nyla, Bower, Knox, Beaux, Pluto, and Maggie. He is preceded in death by his brother, Tony Smith, and his parents, Lillian Harrell and Clifton Smith, and stepmother Nell Smith.

Michael/Dad/KPa had an enormous influence on his family and anyone who met him. Above all, he deeply cared about being there for his family. His life was an example of how to love, appreciate, and enjoy the simple gifts of life. Anyone who loved him would do anything to hear one more lecture or lesson, but we vow to carry on the lessons he imparted with grace, care, and thoughtfulness. Michael passed away in peace and with poise.

A celebration of Michael’s life is scheduled for Tuesday, April 9, 2024, at the Haven on the Banks in the Keeper’s Galley in Nags Head, NC, beginning at 1:00 p.m. (115 East Dove Street, Nags Head, NC 27959). In honor of his memory and his love for the Outer Banks, the family asks that donations in his memory be made to either the National Park Service, Outer Banks Group (www.nps.gov/caha/getinvolved/donations.htm), or the American Stroke Association (www.stroke.org) in honor of Michael K. Smith, in lieu of flowers.

Twiford Funeral Homes, Outer Banks is assisting the family with arrangements. Condolences and memories may be shared at www.TwifordFH.com.

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Sharon Seger Fiegel - February 15, 1949 - April 03, 2024

Departed: 04/03/2024 (Manteo)

Obituary Preview: Sharon Seger Fiegel, age 75, of Manteo, NC (formerly of Lockport, NY and born and raised free-range in Grampian, PA) passed away in her sleep on April 3, 2024.Sharon was the youngest of 6 siblings, born to Louella Mahlon and Burton Seger of Grampian, PA. A literal coal miners daughter, Sharon overcame many challenges in her childhood. She met and married her devoted friend and husband of 56 years, Robert James Fiegel, in Lockport, NY in 1967. Her love of learning and motivation to achieve led her to complete her degree in nursing while raising 3 children and caring for her home and family. She went on to serve as a nurse in the Emergency Department of many hospitals in Western NY and the Outer Banks, and saved her most colorful patient encounters to share around the dinner table.She loved to explore history and religions, finding and honing endless artistic endeavors like antiquing, furniture refurbishing, decorating, sewing, painting and do-it-herself improvement. She motivated those she loved to achieve their potential and was a fierce advocate to those in need.Sharon was fond of storytelling and visiting with friends and extended family and cherished her drop in visits and phone calls from siblings, nieces, nephews, kids and grands and all those who would slow down to chat and stop to smell the roses.A most passionate creator of lush and vibrant gardens, Sharon earned the prestigious Roanoke Voyager Corridor Beautification Award. She also enjoyed working at the Elizabethan Gardens.She was a loyal and doting fur mom to many blessed and spoiled dogs. She was a devoted and spirited wife, mom, sister, friend, aunt, great-aunt and grandma. But her greatest achievement was leaving literal flowers in her footsteps. She was the embodiment of one of her favorite sayings, “Bloom where you are planted.”Sharon will be dearly missed by those she leaves behind including her husband Bob, brother Jim, children Camille, Chris, Robin and Eric (son-in-law) and grandchildren Kito, Isa, Oliver and Jordan.She is surely thrilled to be reuniting with the many friends and family who passed before her including her sisters Jean and Dalma, her brothers Sam and Dick, and her dogs Abby, Radar, Bear, Josie, Simon, Nutmeg & Mitzi.Family and friends will be received at the Twiford Colony Chapel, Manteo on Saturday, April 6, 2024 from 1 to 3 pm.Twiford Funeral Homes, Outer Banks is assisting the family with arrangements. Condolences and memories may be shared at www.TwifordFH.com.

Sharon Seger Fiegel, age 75, of Manteo, NC (formerly of Lockport, NY and born and raised free-range in Grampian, PA) passed away in her sleep on April 3, 2024.

Sharon was the youngest of 6 siblings, born to Louella Mahlon and Burton Seger of Grampian, PA. A literal coal miners daughter, Sharon overcame many challenges in her childhood. She met and married her devoted friend and husband of 56 years, Robert James Fiegel, in Lockport, NY in 1967. Her love of learning and motivation to achieve led her to complete her degree in nursing while raising 3 children and caring for her home and family. She went on to serve as a nurse in the Emergency Department of many hospitals in Western NY and the Outer Banks, and saved her most colorful patient encounters to share around the dinner table.

She loved to explore history and religions, finding and honing endless artistic endeavors like antiquing, furniture refurbishing, decorating, sewing, painting and do-it-herself improvement. She motivated those she loved to achieve their potential and was a fierce advocate to those in need.

Sharon was fond of storytelling and visiting with friends and extended family and cherished her drop in visits and phone calls from siblings, nieces, nephews, kids and grands and all those who would slow down to chat and stop to smell the roses.

A most passionate creator of lush and vibrant gardens, Sharon earned the prestigious Roanoke Voyager Corridor Beautification Award. She also enjoyed working at the Elizabethan Gardens. She was a loyal and doting fur mom to many blessed and spoiled dogs. She was a devoted and spirited wife, mom, sister, friend, aunt, great-aunt and grandma. But her greatest achievement was leaving literal flowers in her footsteps. She was the embodiment of one of her favorite sayings, “Bloom where you are planted.”

Sharon will be dearly missed by those she leaves behind including her husband Bob, brother Jim, children Camille, Chris, Robin and Eric (son-in-law) and grandchildren Kito, Isa, Oliver and Jordan.

She is surely thrilled to be reuniting with the many friends and family who passed before her including her sisters Jean and Dalma, her brothers Sam and Dick, and her dogs Abby, Radar, Bear, Josie, Simon, Nutmeg & Mitzi.

Family and friends will be received at the Twiford Colony Chapel, Manteo on Saturday, April 6, 2024 from 1 to 3 pm.

Twiford Funeral Homes, Outer Banks is assisting the family with arrangements. Condolences and memories may be shared at www.TwifordFH.com.

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James Ludlow Goes - April 15, 1931 - April 02, 2024

Departed: 04/02/2024 (Manteo)

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Mary Kathleen Feeney - November 16, 1935 - April 01, 2024

Departed: 04/01/2024 (Manteo)

Obituary Preview: Mary Kathleen Feeney of Kill Devil Hills passed away peacefully on April 1, 2024 at the age of 88.A devoted wife and mother, Mary is survived by James, her loving husband of 68 years; daughters Jane, Karen (Ed), Nancy (Tim), Mary (John), Maggie (Lauron), and Kellie (Travis); grandsons Daniel (Alyssa), Kevin (Amanda), Joe (Bea), Jack, Marc, Luke, and Johan; great-grandchildren Stephanie, Amanda, Robert, Donovan, Adam, Ava, and Charlotte; and great-great-granddaughter Hailie. She was preceded in death by her parents, Clem and Catherine; her brothers William, John, and Joseph; her son Thomas; and her granddaughter Katharine.Mary was born on November 16, 1935 in Davenport, Iowa, into a musical family. As a young girl, she followed in her mother’s footsteps as an organist at her church, despite being barely able to reach the pedals! She graduated from Immaculate Conception Academy, where she enjoyed writing and editing for the school newspaper, and took courses at Marycrest College and St. Ambrose College before beginning her professional career at Rock Island Arsenal, where she and her husband both worked.A lifelong learner, Mary received her Associate’s Degree from Northern Virginia Community College, where she worked until retiring. It was during her time there that she discovered her passion for genealogy, which brought her unmatched research skills to bear.Mary’s creative talents beyond the written word were many, from home decorating to sewing and upholstery to gardening. And, she accomplished all of this while raising seven children! For this and for so many other reasons, she will be dearly missed and fondly remembered.The family will receive friends and relatives for a visitation on Thursday, April 18, 2024, from 6:00 until 7:30 pm, at Twiford Colony Chapel, Manteo. A Mass of the Resurrection will be celebrated at 11:00 am on Friday, April 19, at Holy Trinity by the Sea Catholic Chapel, with a Catholic Rite of Committal to follow in Manteo Cemetery. Twiford Funeral Homes, Outer Banks is assisting the family with arrangements. Condolences and memories may be shared at www.TwifordFH.com.

Mary Kathleen Feeney of Kill Devil Hills passed away peacefully on April 1, 2024 at the age of 88.

A devoted wife and mother, Mary is survived by James, her loving husband of 68 years; daughters Jane, Karen (Ed), Nancy (Tim), Mary (John), Maggie (Lauron), and Kellie (Travis); grandsons Daniel (Alyssa), Kevin (Amanda), Joe (Bea), Jack, Marc, Luke, and Johan; great-grandchildren Stephanie, Amanda, Robert, Donovan, Adam, Ava, and Charlotte; and great-great-granddaughter Hailie. She was preceded in death by her parents, Clem and Catherine; her brothers William, John, and Joseph; her son Thomas; and her granddaughter Katharine.

Mary was born on November 16, 1935 in Davenport, Iowa, into a musical family. As a young girl, she followed in her mother’s footsteps as an organist at her church, despite being barely able to reach the pedals! She graduated from Immaculate Conception Academy, where she enjoyed writing and editing for the school newspaper, and took courses at Marycrest College and St. Ambrose College before beginning her professional career at Rock Island Arsenal, where she and her husband both worked.

A lifelong learner, Mary received her Associate’s Degree from Northern Virginia Community College, where she worked until retiring. It was during her time there that she discovered her passion for genealogy, which brought her unmatched research skills to bear.

Mary’s creative talents beyond the written word were many, from home decorating to sewing and upholstery to gardening. And, she accomplished all of this while raising seven children! For this and for so many other reasons, she will be dearly missed and fondly remembered.

The family will receive friends and relatives for a visitation on Thursday, April 18, 2024, from 6:00 until 7:30 pm, at Twiford Colony Chapel, Manteo. A Mass of the Resurrection will be celebrated at 11:00 am on Friday, April 19, at Holy Trinity by the Sea Catholic Chapel, with a Catholic Rite of Committal to follow in Manteo Cemetery.

Twiford Funeral Homes, Outer Banks is assisting the family with arrangements. Condolences and memories may be shared at www.TwifordFH.com.

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Walton Julius Fulcher - August 23, 1929 - April 01, 2024

Departed: 04/01/2024 (Manteo)

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Robert Wayne Self - July 24, 1950 - April 01, 2024

Departed: 04/01/2024 (Manteo)

Obituary Preview: Robert Wayne Self, 73, of Ocracoke, North Carolina, passed away on April 1, 2024. Wayne was born in Pittsburgh, PA, on July 24, 1950.

Wayne was a devoted and loving husband to his wife, Judith Ann Groff. Wayne and Judy fell in love with Ocracoke when they first visited in the early 70s. After buying property in the 80s, they lived and loved in the home that Wayne designed and built.

In addition to his wife, Judy, he leaves behind his nephew, Scott Self, and his three girls, Allison, Corey, and Evie.

Wayne is also survived by his sister-in-law, Marianne Buerkle and husband Randy (deceased); sister-in-law, Susan Groff; brother-in-law, George Groff and wife, Linda.

Wayne was also a loving uncle to his niece Gretchen McNaughton and husband Rob and their two daughters, Emily and Ava McNaughton, his niece Amie Blanchette and husband Jon, his nephew Adam Groff, and his niece Lauren Groff.

Wayne was a skilled and talented carpenter with many hobbies. He had a unique ability to repurpose materials and create beautiful woodwork within his own home and so many others. He was an extremely creative craftsman.

Wayne had a passion for the outdoors. He loved both the mountains and the ocean. In the summer, he enjoyed gardening, tending to his fig trees, working in the garage, shooting his bow, fishing, and especially clamming trips in the Sound with his family. In the fall, Wayne and Judy spent time off the island at their camp in Pungo. They enjoyed hunting and sharing campfires with their dear friends.

Throughout his life, Wayne had a soft spot in his heart for animals. On Ocracoke, Wayne was active in supporting Ocracats and hand-made many feeding boxes seen throughout the island. Wayne was dedicated to caring for and feeding the island cats each morning.

Wayne leaves behind many talents and skills that he has shared with his family. His strong, quiet demeanor and authentic heart will be deeply missed by many friends, his family, and especially his loving wife, his Babe, Judy. May he rest in peace.

A celebration of Wayne’s life will take place at a future time. To honor Wayne’s love of cats, donations may be sent to Ocracats, P.O. Box 993, Ocracoke, NC 27960.

Twiford Funeral Homes, Outer Banks is assisting the family with arrangements. Condolences and memories may be shared at www.TwifordFH.com.

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Agnes Marie Garrish - March 31, 1942 - March 31, 2024

Departed: 03/31/2024 (Manteo)

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Edna Earle Schultz - November 19, 1933 - March 29, 2024

Departed: 03/29/2024 (Manteo)

Obituary Preview: Edna Earle Coddington Schultz, 90, passed away peacefully on March 29, 2024.

Edna Earle lived in Richmond, Virginia, until moving to Cocoa Beach, Florida, where she spent over 30 years. She moved to Hatteras in 2021, where her daughter, Donna, cared for her until a higher level of care was needed, and she moved to the Landings of Albemarle in Hertford, N.C. Cocoa Beach was her happy place. Being near the water always made her feel the happiest. Although Cocoa Beach was her favorite place, Hatteras Island was a close second. She loved being on the beach, fishing and sunning. She got to fish a few more times at the age of 88. She cast herself and even caught a few fish. She spoke of those last trips to the beach to fish excitedly until her passing.

She was predeceased by her parents, Earl Edwin and Edna Frances Coddington. In addition to her parents, she was predeceased by her grandson, Daniel Hackett.

She is survived by her daughters, Donna Barnett (Charlie) and Theresa Hackett (Michael); grandchildren, Amanda Spain Paschke, Stephanie Spain, Mary Katherine Spain, Michaelanne Hackett, Hannah Barnett, Brett Barnett, and Colin Barnett; and nine great-grandchildren.

A private family service to celebrate Edna’s life will be held at a later date.

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Barbara Elaine Becker - January 14, 1949 - March 29, 2024

Departed: 03/29/2024 (Manteo)

Obituary Preview: Barbara Elaine Becker, of Kitty Hawk, North Carolina, passed away on March 29, 2024, at the age of 75. She was born on January 14, 1949, in Sewickley, Pennsylvania, and lived in Luxembourg for 30 years before choosing the Outer Banks as her home in 2009.

In Luxembourg, she was actively involved in the American Women’s Club, and throughout her life she found joy and meaning in tending to her home and garden, traveling all around the world, and engaging in charitable work both in Luxembourg and the Outer Banks. Barbara was an avid reader and enjoyed being a member of several book clubs. She loved the outdoors, and could often be found kayaking, feeding the birds and deer in her yard, and spending time at the beach. She also cherished her role as a grandmother, aunt and great-aunt, and loved having her family visit her home in Kitty Hawk.

Barbara was a devoted mother to her daughter, Jessica Becker, and her daughter-in-law Jackie Bialostozky, as well as grandmother to her grandson Noah. She is survived by her sister, Cindy Wimer, her nieces Amy Crouse and Nathalie Wagner, her nephew Jay Wimer, and their families. Barbara was preceded in death by her parents, Stella Monkiewicz and Harry Haushalter, as well as her husband, Joseph Becker.

A service to celebrate Barbara's life will be held on the Outer Banks at a later date. She will be remembered for her kind nature, adventurousness, generosity, and unwavering love for her family and friends. May she rest in peace. Contributions in Barbara’s honor can be made to the Outer Banks Cowell Cancer Center: https://give.ecuhealthfoundation.org/give/404898/#!/donation/checkout

Twiford Funeral Homes, Outer Banks is assisting the family with arrangements. Condolences and memories may be shared at www.TwifordFH.com.

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Jean Sawyer Newsome - August 05, 1948 - March 27, 2024

Departed: 03/27/2024 (Manteo)

Obituary Preview: Jean Sawyer Newsome, age 75, of Kill Devil Hills, NC, passed away on March 27, 2024. She was born in Durham, NC on August 5, 1948.Jean was a longtime employee at the Nags Head Ben Franklin, where she dedicated her time and efforts. She was a beloved mother to her daughters Beverly Lynn O'Leary and Crystal Dawn O'Leary, and a loyal companion to her dog, Brandie.She was preceded in death by her parents Beatrice Barnette Sawyer and Gilbert Sawyer, as well as her husband Willie Raymond Newsome, Jr.At this time, there are no services scheduled for Jean Sawyer Newsome. She will be dearly missed by all who knew her.Twiford Funeral Homes, Outer Banks is assisting the family with arrangements. Condolences and memories may be shared at www.TwifordFH.com.

Jean Sawyer Newsome, age 75, of Kill Devil Hills, NC, passed away on March 27, 2024. She was born in Durham, NC on August 5, 1948.

Jean was a longtime employee at the Nags Head Ben Franklin, where she dedicated her time and efforts. She was a beloved mother to her daughters Beverly Lynn O'Leary and Crystal Dawn O'Leary, and a loyal companion to her dog, Brandie.

She was preceded in death by her parents Beatrice Barnette Sawyer and Gilbert Sawyer, as well as her husband Willie Raymond Newsome, Jr.

At this time, there are no services scheduled for Jean Sawyer Newsome. She will be dearly missed by all who knew her.

Twiford Funeral Homes, Outer Banks is assisting the family with arrangements. Condolences and memories may be shared at www.TwifordFH.com.

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Betty Wagner - October 13, 1959 - March 25, 2024

Departed: 03/25/2024 (Manteo)

Obituary Preview: Betty Wagner, 64, of Kill Devil Hills, NC passed away on Monday, March 25, 2024.

Twiford Funeral Homes, Outer Banks is assisting the family with arrangements. Condolences and memories may be shared at www.TwifordFH.com.

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Mary Ann O'Neal Combs - September 16, 1940 - March 24, 2024

Departed: 03/24/2024 (Manteo)

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Lois Midgett Dunnigan - December 26, 1951 - March 24, 2024

Departed: 03/24/2024 (Manteo)

Obituary Preview: Lois Midgett Dunnigan, known to many as "Lois Carol," passed away peacefully on March 24, 2024, at her residence in Wanchese, NC, at the age of 72. She was born on December 26, 1951, in Currituck, NC. She was a lifelong native of Roanoke Island.Lois was preceded in death by her parents, Mildred Tillett Midgett "Mill" and Charles Midgett, Sr.She is survived by her loving daughters, Margaret Dunnigan and Meredith Dunnigan; cherished granddaughter, Katherine Mazie Smith "Kate"; Brothers, Charles Midgett Jr. "Chuck" (Janie), and Balfour Midgett "Butch" (Sarah); aunt Merlee Tillett Austin; and several nieces, nephews, cousins, and a special group of lifelong friends known as the "Hound Gang." Lois is also survived by her namesake, Lois Tillett Gallop “Lois Mae,” who not only shares her name but also generations of the best friendships between the two families.Throughout the course of her life, Lois had various hobbies and passions. Her interest in horses led her to one of her first loves, Penny, a rambunctious horse whose stubbornness was only matched by Lois'. In another chapter, her companion was a golden retriever lovingly named "Shara", as she obliged to share the dog with her nieces and nephew. She loved photography and took numerous photos of family, friends, and landscapes. Lois also painted numerous beachscapes and learned the art of stained glass.Lois was a lifelong attendee of Bethany Church of Wanchese. She was raised in the church, then raised her own family there also. She enjoyed the fellowship of the church throughout the course of her life.Lois dedicated thirty years of her career to the children of Dare County by serving as the Media Coordinator at Manteo Elementary School. She was a proud graduate of the 1970 Manteo High School class. Lois then went on to pursue both a Bachelor's Degree and Master's Certificate from East Carolina University.Shortly after retiring from Dare County Schools, she dedicated several years to the care of her mother which she did with an incredible amount of responsibility and grace.Her favorite chapter in life began with the birth of her granddaughter Kate. She enjoyed and thrived in her role as "Mom-mom", which Kate had often shortened to "Mom". Lois was the center of Kate's life, providing around the clock care as needed, and abundant amounts of fun and love. Lois could often be found chauffeuring Kate to her various activities, arranging playdates with friends, and cheering her on in whatever Kate was doing.Lois will be remembered for her kindness, quick wit, dedication, and unwavering love for her family and loved ones. She will be deeply missed by all who knew her.A Celebration of Life will be held at 2:00 pm on Friday, March 29, 2024, at Bethany Church of Wanchese. The family will receive guests in the fellowship hall following the service.Twiford Funeral Homes, Outer Banks is assisting the family with arrangements. Condolences and memories may be shared at www.TwifordFH.com.

Lois Midgett Dunnigan, known to many as "Lois Carol," passed away peacefully on March 24, 2024, at her residence in Wanchese, NC, at the age of 72. She was born on December 26, 1951, in Currituck, NC. She was a lifelong native of Roanoke Island.

Lois was preceded in death by her parents, Mildred Tillett Midgett "Mill" and Charles Midgett, Sr.

She is survived by her loving daughters, Margaret Dunnigan and Meredith Dunnigan; cherished granddaughter, Katherine Mazie Smith "Kate"; Brothers, Charles Midgett Jr. "Chuck" (Janie), and Balfour Midgett "Butch" (Sarah); aunt Merlee Tillett Austin; and several nieces, nephews, cousins, and a special group of lifelong friends known as the "Hound Gang." Lois is also survived by her namesake, Lois Tillett Gallop “Lois Mae,” who not only shares her name but also generations of the best friendships between the two families.

Throughout the course of her life, Lois had various hobbies and passions. Her interest in horses led her to one of her first loves, Penny, a rambunctious horse whose stubbornness was only matched by Lois'. In another chapter, her companion was a golden retriever lovingly named "Shara", as she obliged to share the dog with her nieces and nephew. She loved photography and took numerous photos of family, friends, and landscapes. Lois also painted numerous beachscapes and learned the art of stained glass.

Lois was a lifelong attendee of Bethany Church of Wanchese. She was raised in the church, then raised her own family there also. She enjoyed the fellowship of the church throughout the course of her life.

Lois dedicated thirty years of her career to the children of Dare County by serving as the Media Coordinator at Manteo Elementary School. She was a proud graduate of the 1970 Manteo High School class. Lois then went on to pursue both a Bachelor's Degree and Master's Certificate from East Carolina University.

Shortly after retiring from Dare County Schools, she dedicated several years to the care of her mother which she did with an incredible amount of responsibility and grace.

Her favorite chapter in life began with the birth of her granddaughter Kate. She enjoyed and thrived in her role as "Mom-mom", which Kate had often shortened to "Mom". Lois was the center of Kate's life, providing around the clock care as needed, and abundant amounts of fun and love. Lois could often be found chauffeuring Kate to her various activities, arranging playdates with friends, and cheering her on in whatever Kate was doing.

Lois will be remembered for her kindness, quick wit, dedication, and unwavering love for her family and loved ones. She will be deeply missed by all who knew her.

A Celebration of Life will be held at 2:00 pm on Friday, March 29, 2024, at Bethany Church of Wanchese. The family will receive guests in the fellowship hall following the service.

Twiford Funeral Homes, Outer Banks is assisting the family with arrangements. Condolences and memories may be shared at www.TwifordFH.com.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and other biographical information. It often includes details about their life, achievements, and surviving family members.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a sense of closure and help to celebrate the life of the deceased.

Who typically writes an obituary?

Obituaries are usually written by family members, close friends, or a funeral home. In some cases, a professional writer may be hired to assist with the writing process.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, hobbies, interests, and surviving family members. It may also include information about their accomplishments, military service, or charitable work.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or online platform. Typically, it ranges from a few sentences to several paragraphs. A longer obituary may be more suitable for a online memorial website or social media platform.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a great way to personalize the tribute and make it more meaningful.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, usually including only basic information such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary is a more detailed and personalized tribute that celebrates the person's life.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online platform?

Contact the publication or platform directly to inquire about their submission process and guidelines. Some may have online forms or email addresses where you can send the obituary text and photos.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost varies depending on the publication or platform. Some newspapers and online sites offer free or low-cost options, while others may charge based on the length of the obituary or the number of photos included.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary in advance as part of their estate planning or as a way to reflect on their life. This can be a meaningful exercise in self-reflection and can ensure that your story is told in your own words.

What if I don't want an obituary published?

If you prefer not to have an obituary published, you can specify this in your will or advance directive. However, keep in mind that an obituary can be a meaningful way for loved ones to process their grief and celebrate your life.

Can I include humor or personal anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! An obituary should reflect the personality and spirit of the person who has passed away. Including humor or personal stories can make the tribute more engaging and memorable.

How do I handle errors or inaccuracies in an obituary?

If you notice an error in an already-published obituary, contact the publication or platform immediately to request corrections. Be prepared to provide documentation or evidence to support the changes.

Can I update an existing obituary?

In some cases, yes. If new information becomes available or if there are errors in the original obituary, you may be able to update it. Check with the publication or platform for their policies on revisions.

What if I want to include a charity or memorial fund in the obituary?

This is a wonderful way to honor your loved one's memory! Simply include the charity's name and any relevant details (such as mailing address or website) in the obituary text.

Can I include quotes or poems in an obituary?

Absolutely! Quotes, poems, or lyrics that resonate with the person's life or personality can add depth and meaning to the tribute.

How do I ensure that my loved one's online presence is respected after they pass away?

Talk to your loved one about their digital legacy before they pass away. Make sure you have access to their accounts and know their wishes regarding social media profiles, email accounts, and other online presence.

What if I'm struggling to write an obituary due to grief or emotional distress?

Don't hesitate to ask for help from friends, family members, or a professional writer. You can also take your time and work on it in stages. Remember that writing an obituary is a process that requires patience and care.

Can I republish an existing obituary on social media or other online platforms?

Yes! You can share the original obituary on social media platforms like Facebook or Twitter, or republish it on memorial websites like Legacy.com or EverLoved.com.

How long will an online obituary remain available?

This varies depending on the platform. Some websites may keep online obituaries available indefinitely, while others may remove them after a certain period of time (e.g., 30 days). Be sure to check with the platform for their archiving policies.

Can I create a video obituary?

Yes! With modern technology, it's possible to create video tributes that combine photos, music, and narration to celebrate a person's life. These can be shared on social media platforms or memorial websites.

What if I need help finding resources for writing an obituary?

Contact local funeral homes, hospices, or bereavement organizations for guidance and support. They often have resources available to help with writing an obituary and planning memorial services.

Can I include memorials or tributes from friends and acquaintances in an obituary?

Absolutely! Gathering memories and stories from those who knew your loved one can enrich the tribute and provide comfort to those grieving.

How do I ensure that my loved one's legacy lives on through their obituary?

An obituary is just one part of preserving your loved one's legacy. Consider creating a memory book, scrapbook, or online memorial page where friends and family can share stories and memories over time.