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Introduction to Cole Funeral Home & Cremation Services

Cole Funeral Home & Cremation Services, located at 1544 University Parkway, Aiken, SC, 29801, is a trusted and compassionate funeral home that has been serving the Aiken community for years. With a commitment to providing exceptional service and support during difficult times, Cole Funeral Home has established itself as a leader in the funeral industry. In this article, we will delve into the history, services, and amenities offered by Cole Funeral Home, as well as what sets them apart from other funeral homes in the area.

A Brief History of Cole Funeral Home

Cole Funeral Home has a rich history that dates back to [insert year]. Founded by [insert founder's name], the funeral home was established with the goal of providing personalized and compassionate care to families in need. Over the years, Cole Funeral Home has remained committed to this mission, earning a reputation for excellence and trust within the community. Today, the funeral home is still family-owned and operated, with a team of dedicated professionals who are passionate about helping families say goodbye to their loved ones with dignity and respect.

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Address: 1544 University Parkway, Aiken, SC, 29801
Phone Number: 1-803-648-7175
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Robert Carlton Pennington - November 02, 1942 - March 10, 2022

Departed: 03/10/2022 (Aiken)
Obituary Preview: Mr. Robert Carlton Pennington, Sr.
When other people saw a piece of junk, Bobby Pennington saw possibility. When others heard an airplane overhead, Bobby listened to the sound of adventure. When most people thought something was too hard, Bobby knew there was a way.
Building something out of nearly nothing, finding a way to make it fun, and having an aerial view of life were the hallmarks of a man who spent his life making the most of it, even when it didn’t look like much.
Robert C. “Bobby” Pennington, 79, died Thursday, March 10, 2022, in North Augusta, South Carolina, within 50 miles of nearly every place he ever called home.
Mr. Pennington was born November 2, 1942, in Augusta, Georgia, son of Joseph Daniel Pennington and Doris Evans Pennington Gould. He grew up around Jefferson County, Georgia, and in “The Valley” near Aiken, South Carolina, where he met the love of his life, Naomi Osbon, in 1960. The couple married on Christmas Eve in 1961 and were together until his death, spending more than 60 years building a family and a legacy of unconventional living.
Mr. Pennington worked at a textile mill while a senior in high school, skipping his graduation to work the evening shift at the garment company. He put that high school education to work as a life insurance salesman (that didn’t go so great), punching a clock at a few manufacturing plants (also not the best fit), and as an entrepreneur, where he never lacked ideas but often missed the timing. His first business venture was a convenience store in Keysville, Georgia, where nothing is convenient. That should have worked!
Mr. Pennington also dug in the dirt in a backhoe business, putting in septic tanks and digging holes and trenches for whoever and whatever whenever. He often said people stopped you-know-what-ing when he was in the septic tank business.
He also raised worms and crickets in a backyard bait business and owned his own rig as a commercial truck driver.
His true and enduring passion was aviation. He earned his private pilot’s license in 1971, infamously landing a small plane in front of his home on Noah’s Station Road in Matthews while his wife stopped traffic around the bend. He taxied it into the driveway, stopping to cut down Naomi’s favorite tree so that he could park it under a rickety tin shed behind the house. There he took it apart, piece by piece, down to the frame. Then he rebuilt it. All of it. From the engine to the fabric fuselage, he put it back together and flew it out of there the same way he came in.
Later, Mr. Pennington garnered an airframe and power plant mechanic’s license, which means the FAA officially certified him to do what he’d already done in his backyard. Eventually, he earned a commercial aviation license and became a crop duster.
While on a crop-dusting deployment in 1980, Bobby crashed a private plane near Miami, Florida. Miraculously, he survived the accident, but injuries sustained in the crash plagued him for the rest of his life. However, he walked again when they said he wouldn’t, and within months of the incident started a short-lived crop-dusting venture based in Wrens, Georgia.
While he was active in aviation, Mr. Pennington enjoyed giving many people a 5,000-foot view of their hometown along with the idea that the world might be a bigger place than they thought.
Mr. Pennington could build or fix almost anything. He’d haul something back from a trip to Ballards Junk Yard and pretty soon be driving a dune buggy, trike, or some other legendary homemade vehicle around the neighborhood. Family members wonder what he may have done if YouTube had been around back in the day.
A favorite project was turning an old school bus into a camper that the family enjoyed for years. This set him on the path to one of his unrealized goals in life – to live in a bus under the Brier Creek bridge in Keysville.
Mr. Pennington loved making people smile and “stirring it up” a bit. Other favorite pastimes included camping and boating at Clarks Hill Lake. He also loved everyone’s all-time favorite dog, Rudy Lee Tailspin, and most of all, Naomi.
If you spent more than five minutes with him, you’d know the thing he was most proud of was his family. His children and grandchildren took the anything’s possible ball and ran with it. The Pennington brood includes military veterans, aviators, scientists, culinary and visual artists, distribution and transportation professionals, entrepreneurs, writers, a professor of nursing, and a lawyer, thank goodness, because innovators need an attorney on speed dial. Survivors include his wife, Naomi Osbon Pennington, Aiken, S.C., and sisters, Linda Bailey (Paul), of Canton, Ga., and Becky Irwin (David), of Louisville, Ga.; Three children, Joyce Beverly (Cal), Peachtree City, Ga., Carl Pennington (Louisa), Wrens, Ga., and Sharon Johnson (Ward), Woodstock, Ga.; Six Grandchildren: Michael Drinkwater (Kathryn); Amanda Keene (Tim); Andrew Pennington (Desiree); Dennis Drinkwater (Jessica); Matthew Johnson and Mary Johnson; Four great-grandchildren: Bentley, Hunter, Hank, and Charlie;
A cousin who was one of the “kids,” Charlie Eason (Harriet), and many other cousins, nieces, and nephews.
The family plans to celebrate his life in the spring with a memorial picnic at Clarks Hill Lake.
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Katy Patterson - October 14, 1934 - March 02, 2022

Departed: 03/02/2022 (Aiken)
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Brenda Koon Taylor - October 05, 1943 - March 02, 2022

Departed: 03/02/2022 (Aiken)
Obituary Preview: Brenda Joy Koon Taylor
Aiken, SC—A celebration of life service for Mrs. Brenda Joy Koon Taylor, age 78, will be held 1:00 pm Friday March 11, 2022 at Cole Funeral Home Chapel with Rev.  Steve Hanna officiating. Mrs. Taylor entered into rest Sunday February 27, 2022 at her residence. She was the beloved wife of Mr. Ira Frank Taylor and the daughter of the late Mr. Woodrow Koon and the late Mrs. Ida Mills Koon. Mrs. Taylor was a native of Aiken and had made Aiken her home since after moving back from Amarillo, TX in 1978. She was of the Baptist faith and was a member of Cornerstone Baptist Church. She had worked in K-Mart in Arkansas for 13 years and Belk in Aiken for 27 years where she was a manager. She loved shopping at Belk, listening to Country music, and reading romance novels. Survivors include: one daughter Toni Taylor, Aiken; two brothers Barron Koon, Leesville, and Cleveland Koon, Aiken; and two grandchildren Christopher Kenner, Aiken, and Andre Wheeler, Jr., Aiken. A visitation with the family will take place following the service at COLE FUNERAL HOME 1544 UNIVERSITY PKWY (118 BYPASS) AIKEN, SC 29801 803-648-7175. Services will be live streamed on the Cole Funeral Home Facebook Page. Due to Covid, it is suggested that masks be worn and social distancing observed. Please sign the online registry at www.colefuneralhomeinc.net. “Ode to Brenda” Since I took Brenda for my wife I’ve had an Angel in my life Her love and kindness and total class Make my problems always pass We’ve had our highs and some lows After 50 years she’s beautiful in buttons and bows Before her I was lonely even in a crowd Since meeting her I have been very proud She asked me one day to come to church Before that I always seem to be in a lurch She tries to help everyone that she can And then cooks a great meal with a frying pan From a friend she got a recipe for “Trash” As tasty as that is they could make some cash Brenda is my strength, my pride and joy Every time she gets near me my heart says “Oh Boy” With age she has gotten better like fine wine Always I will love her until the end of time By Ira Frank Taylor
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Amy Lynn Shaffer - January 28, 1982 - March 01, 2022

Departed: 03/01/2022 (Aiken)
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Augusta, GA—A celebration of life service for Ms. Amy Lynn Shaffer age 40 will be held 11:00 am Friday March 11, 2022 in the chapel at Bellevue Memorial Gardens, Augusta, GA with Rev. T.D. Shaffer officiating.  Burial will take place following the service at Bellevue.  Amy entered into rest Tuesday March 1st, 2022 at her residence.  She was born in Clinton, Iowa and had made the CSRA her home for most of her life.  She was the daughter of Pastor Henry Bo Shaffer, Sr. and Mrs. Fran Wylds Shaffer of Graniteville.  Amy was a Christian, Loving mother, daughter, sister, aunt, and friend. She had a green thumb, loved animals, and adored children. She was an interior decorator whose main tool was a hot glue gun.  Amy was a member of University Parkway Church of God, Aiken.  Additional survivors include her beloved daughter, Kara Mae Skinner; one brother, Henry Bo Shaffer, Jr.; one sister, Christine Marie Locay; nieces and nephews, Alyssa Nicole Vaughn, Maxwell Anthony Shaffer, Jack Morgan Shaffer, Avah Grace Locay, Amelia Joy Shaffer. The family has asked that in lieu of flowers donations be made to the Go Fund Me Facebook Page in memory of Amy. A visitation with the family will take place following the service in the chapel at Bellevue Memorial Gardens. The service will be livestreamed on the Cole Funeral Home Facebook page.  COLE FUNERAL HOME 1544 UNIVERSITY PARKWAY (118 BY PASS) AIKEN, SC, 29801. 803-648-7175. Please sign the online registry at www.colefuneralhomeinc.net.
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Robin Rogers Leach - Unknown - February 19, 2022

Departed: 02/19/2022 (Aiken)
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Martha Ann Dowd - August 29, 1942 - February 15, 2022

Departed: 02/15/2022 (Aiken)
Obituary Preview: Aiken, SC—A celebration of life service for Mrs. Martha Ann Brown Dowd age 79 will be held 12:00 noon at Lighthouse Baptist Church with Pastor Jeffrey Gibson officiating. Interment will follow in Sunset Memorial Gardens, Graniteville. Mrs. Dowd entered into rest Tuesday February 15, 2022 at her home. She was the beloved wife of the late Mr. Milton Dowd and a daughter of the late Mr. Edgar Bill Brown and the late Mrs. Mattie Blanch Davenport Brown.  Mrs. Dowd was a native and a life long resident of Aiken County. She had worked for Regal Textiles in Ware Shoals and Johnston, SC as a bobber and seamstress for over 9 years. Mrs. Dowd was a member of Lighthouse Baptist Church of Aiken. Her hobbies included crocheting, cooking.  She is survived by two sons, Michael Dowd, Aiken, Brandon (Judy) Dowd, Aiken; two brothers, John David Brown, Ware Shoals, SC, Thomas Edgar Brown, Donalds, SC; one sister Kathy Lynn Hall, Greenwood, SC. Pallbearers will be the Deacons of Lighthouse Baptist Church. A visitation with the family will take place one hour prior to services at the church. The Service will be livestreamed and due to the Covid situation mask  and social distancing will be observed. COLE FUNERAL HOME 1544 UNIVERSITY PARKWAY (118 BY PASS) AIKEN, SC, 29801. 803-648-7175. Please sign the online registry at www.colefuneralhomeinc.net.
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Larry Carl Schander, Sr. U.S. Navy Retired - February 15, 1938 - February 13, 2022

Departed: 02/13/2022 (Aiken)
Obituary Preview: Mr. Larry Carl Schander, Sr. U.S. Navy Retired
Aiken, SC—Entered into rest Sunday February 13, 2022 at Aiken Regional Medical Centers Mr. Larry Carl Schander, Sr. age 83 husband of 43 years of the late Mrs. Carol Schander and the son of the late Mr. Carl Schander and the late Mrs. Lavelle Martin Schander Hall. Mr. Schander was a native of Wagner South Dakota and had made Aiken his home since 1985.  He was a veteran of the U.S. Navy as a Hospital Man 1 retiring in 1982 after 25 ½  years of service.  Mr. Schander retired as a LPN from the Medical College of Georgia after 10 years of service and was a communicate of St. Mary Help of Christian’s Catholic Church, Aiken, SC. He enjoyed Ceramics, Shopping, and watching Fox News. Survivors include five sons, Larry  (Shannon) Schander, Jr., John (Jo Anne) Schander, Ed (Patricia) Schander, Ron (Nicole Bussell) Craven, and Thomas Cory; eight grandchildren, Chris Powers, Nathanael Powers, Elizabeth Darr, Rebecca Schander, Michael Craven, Ashley Craven, Hannah Bussell, and Hailey Bussell; two great grandchildren, Emma Darr and Dominic; one sister, Carole Bakken. Mr. Schander was predeceased by a grandson, Benjamin Craven, one brother, John (Connie) Schander, and one sister, Karen Kuil. In Lieu of flowers donations can be made to Children’s Place, 310 Barnwell Ave.  NE, Aiken, SC 29801. A  private graveside service will be held Thursday February 17, 2022 at Southlawn Cemetery with Deacon Steve Platte as celebrant.  COLE FUNERAL HOME 1544 (118 BY PASS) AIKEN, SC, 29801. 803-648-7175. Please sign the online registry at www.colefuneralhomeinc.net.
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Dempsey Joyce Bennett Wilson - May 09, 1940 - February 09, 2022

Departed: 02/09/2022 (Aiken)
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Mrs. Dempsey Joyce Bennett Wilson, 80, of Aiken, wife of Jerry Milton Wilson, and daughter of the late Bertha B. Sanders and Harry Ceaphous Bennett of Graniteville entered into rest on February 9, 2022. She is survived by her son, Jerry Greg Wilson; adopted daughter, Monique White (Mark); step children Michael Wilson (Susan) and Julie Wilson (Charles); 9 grandchildren; siblings Patsy Busbee (Delmas), Rudy Bennett (Marsha), Vivian Cook (Leonard), and Kirk Bennett (Lynne); and 8 special nieces and nephews.
Joyce was born in Graniteville, South Carolina but lived in Germany and other parts of the United States, including Montana and Kentucky, before returning to Aiken to raise her family. Her passion for reading, music, art, and creative instruction led to teaching an adult Sunday School class for the Warrenville Revival Center and New Covenant Praise Church. As a profession, she taught the children at The Sunshine House in Aiken, where she retired.
The family will receive friends 6-8 pm Friday February 11, 2022 at Cole Funeral Home. A celebration of life service will be held 2:00 pm Saturday February 12, 2022 at Cole Funeral Home Chapel with Pastor's Kenneth Murphy and Todd Cook officiating. Burial will follow in Graniteville’s Historic Cemetery.
Pallbearers will be Brian Bennett, Matthew Brantley, Brent Wilson, Terry Stewart, Harrison Wood, and Keith Wood. Memorials may be made to The Sunshine House of Aiken. 1950 S. Centennial Way, Aiken, SC 29803 COLE FUNERAL HOME 1544 UNIVERSITY PARKWAY (118 BY PASS) AIKEN, S.C. 29801
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Margaret Quarles Herron - March 15, 1933 - February 09, 2022

Departed: 02/09/2022 (Aiken)
Obituary Preview: Mrs. Margaret Quarles Herron
Graniteville, SC—A celebration of life service for Mrs. Margaret Quarles Herron age 88 will be held 2:00 pm Saturday February 19, 2022 at Bethel Baptist Church, Aiken with Rev. Brancie Stephens officiating. Mrs. Herron entered into rest Wednesday February 9, 2022 at Pepper Hill Center for Rehab. Mrs. Herron was a born in Saluda, SC and had made Aiken County her home for most of her life.  She had been employed with Aiken Industries as a seamstress for 12  years then moved on to Regal, Johnston, SC as a seamstress and retired with 25 years  of service. Mrs. Herron enjoyed working puzzles, doing word search and making quilts.  She was a member of Bethel Baptist Church, Aiken. Survivors include one son, Marion Wayne (Barbara) Smith, Blackville, two daughters, Linda Burns, Graniteville, Wanda Herron, Aiken; one step son, Ronnie Herron, Lincolnton, GA, two step daughters, Myra Whittle, Couchton, Beverly Clark, Augusta, GA; five sisters, Martha Hamilton, North Augusta, Virginia Willing, Saluda, Faye Forrest, Saluda, Claudine Bolling, North Augusta, and Judy Rawl, Johnson; eight grandchildren, eleven great grandchildren, and three great great grandchildren. Mrs. Herron was predeceased by her brother, Johnny Quarles and one sister, Jean Jackson. A visitation with the family will take place at Bethel Baptist Church one hour before service. The service will be live streamed on the Cole Funeral Home Facebook page.  Due to the Covid situation the family has asked that mask be worn and social distancing will be observed.   COLE FUNERAL HOME 1544 UNIVERSITY PARKWAY (118 BY PASS) AIKEN, SC, 29801. 803-648-7175. Please sign the online registry at www.colefuneralhomeinc.net.
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Zelma Hagin Bowers - July 10, 1942 - February 09, 2022

Departed: 02/09/2022 (Aiken)
Obituary Preview: Zelma Hagin Bowers July 10, 1942 – February 8, 2022
On February 8, 2022, Zelma Hagin Bowers, at the age of 79 years, passed away. Zelma was born in Aiken County on July 10, 1942, to her father, the late Matthew Hagin, Sr., and her mother, Lillie B. Price Hagin, of Aiken. She was married to the late Leon Bowers, Jr. Zelma has two surviving older sisters, Gladys Pope and Elizabeth Derr, and a younger brother, Matthew Hagin, Jr. (Charlene). She is also survived by her children Pat (Limeur “Chuck”) Myers, Leon “Al” (Wandala), and Deneen (Marion) Mays, 12 grandchildren, 17 great-grands, and 1 great-great grand, a host of nieces, nephews, cousins, and extended family members. Zelma retired from BellSouth/AT&T as a telephone operator. She was a Jehovah’s Witness who attended the East Congregation on Croft Mill Rd. A public memorial service will be held Sunday, February 20th at 1: 00 on Zoom.
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Brenda Joy Koon Taylor - October 05, 1943 - February 07, 2022

Departed: 02/07/2022 (Aiken)
Obituary Preview: Brenda Joy Koon Taylor
Aiken, SC--Brenda Joy Koon Taylor, age 76, entered into rest Sunday February 27, 2022 at her residence. Services will be announced later. Full obituary to follow.
COLE FUNERAL HOME 1544 UNIVERSITY PKWY (118 BYPASS) AIKEN, SC 29801 803-648-7175. Please sign the online registry.
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James Francis Allphin - February 19, 1943 - February 05, 2022

Departed: 02/05/2022 (Aiken)
Obituary Preview: Mr. James Francis Allphin
Aiken, SC—Entered into rest Saturday February 5, 2022 at Pruitt Health-North Augusta, SC, Mr. James Francis Allphin, age 79.  Mr. Allphin was a native of Erlanger, Kentucky and had made Aiken County his home for the past 14 years.  He was a son of the late Mr. Charles Raymond Allphin and the late Mrs. Bertha Mae Rider Allphin.  Mr. Allphin had retired from Knuckles Security in Kentucky with over 30 years of service be moving to Aiken, SC.  He enjoyed fishing, reading books and gardening.  Survivors include two sons, James D. (Shelly) Allphin, Aiken, Samuel Setters, Aiken; three daughters, Christina (James) Setters, Aiken, Phyllis Setters, Beachmont, Ohio, Katherine (Johnny) Kappes, Aiken; two brothers, Ronnie Allphin, Dry Ridge, Kentucky, Tim Lunsford, Cincinnati, Ohio; two sisters, Joyce Lunsford Blake, Moscow, Ohio, Donna Lunsford McPherson, Independence, Kentucky; 22 grandchildren, 14  great grandchildren, and several nieces and nephews; his daughter-in-law, Debra King, Aiken. Mr. Allphin was predeceased by one son, Robert King, four brothers, Larry, Terry, Charles, and Robert Allphin.  A celebration of life services will be held 2:00 pm Saturday March 5, 2022. Contact the family for information. COLE FUNERAL HOME 1544 UNIVERSITY PARKWAY (118 BY PASS) AIKEN, SC, 29801. 803-648-7175. Please sign the online registry at www.colefuneralhomeinc.net.
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Samuel David Osbon - August 26, 1931 - January 20, 2022

Departed: 01/20/2022 (Aiken)
Obituary Preview: Mr. Samuel David Osbon
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Richard Bradford "Rick" Moseley, Jr. - January 03, 1980 - January 19, 2022

Departed: 01/19/2022 (Aiken)
Obituary Preview: Mr. Richard “Rick” Bradford Moseley, Jr.
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Robert Lee "Red" Jones - August 13, 1946 - January 12, 2022

Departed: 01/12/2022 (Aiken)
Obituary Preview: Robert Lee “Red” Jones
Aiken, SC—Mr. Robert Lee “Red” Jones, age 75, entered into rest Wednesday January 12, 2022 at Aiken Regional Medical Centers. He was the beloved son of Mrs. Lissie Maude Chapman Jones Kinard and the late Mr. Lewis H. Jones. Mr. Jones was a native of Winchester, KY, and had made Aiken his home since 1961. He worked for the Gregg Division of the Graniteville Company, where he retired in 2004 after 40 years of service. Mr. Jones was a member of Red Bank Baptist Church in Saluda, SC. Additional survivors include: two brothers Lewis Daniel Jones, Greenwood, and William (Kathleen) Clay Jones, Aiken; one sister Marsue Jones Brazell, Saluda; and several nieces and nephews. Mr. Jones was preceded in death by: one daughter Carolyn Lissie; one brother Thomas Eugene Jones; and one nephew. The Family would like to express thanks to Pruitt Health-Aiken for all their compassionate attention given to our brother. A private service with the family will take place at a later date at Red Bank Baptist Church Cemetery in Saluda, SC. COLE FUNERAL HOME 1544 UNIVERSITY PKWY (118 BYPASS) AIKEN, SC 29801 8036487175. Please sign the online registry at www.colefuneralhomeinc.net.
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John Michael "Chance" Thomas - July 31, 1976 - January 08, 2022

Departed: 01/08/2022 (Aiken)
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Aiken, SC—A celebration of life service for Mr. John Michael “Chance” Thomas, age 45, will be held 2:00 PM Saturday January 22, 2022 at Cole Funeral Home Chapel. Mr. Thomas entered into rest January 8, 2022 at Aiken Regional Medical Centers. He was the son of Mr. John Thomas and Mrs. Nancy Porter. Mr. Thomas was a native and lifelong resident of Aiken. He had served for 10 years for Angus Mobile Movers and had also been a roofer for 20 years. Mr. Thomas enjoyed fishing, jet skis, 4 wheelers, and was an avid Carolina fan. Additional survivors include: one son Matthew Garr, Oregon; two daughters Emma Thomas, Aiken,  Grace Thomas, Oregon; one brother David Thomas, Summerville; two sisters Christina Holmes, Summerville and Crystal Thomas, Aiken; and two grandchildren. A visitation with the family will take place after the service. COLE FUNERAL HOME 1544 UNIVERSITY PARKWAY (118 BYPASS) AIKEN, SC 29801 803-648-7175. Due to Covid19, it is suggested that masks are worn and social distancing observed. The service will be live streamed on the Cole Funeral Home Facebook page. Please sign the online registry at www.colefuneralhomeinc.net.
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James D. "Jimmy" Jay - July 10, 1931 - January 03, 2022

Departed: 01/03/2022 (Aiken)
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Monetta, SC—Funeral services for Mr. James D. “Jimmy” Jay age 90 will be held 2:00 pm Saturday January 8, 2022 at Cole Funeral Home Chapel with Rev. John Chambers officiating.  Interment will follow in Graniteville Cemetery. Mr. Jay entered into rest Monday January 3, 2022 at Aiken Regional Medical Centers. He was the beloved husband of 30 years to Mrs. Roma Brunson Hite Jay and a son of the late Mr. Carlos E. Jay and the late Mrs. Lessie Hutto Jay.  Mr. Jay was a native of Orangeburg County, SC and had made Aiken County his home since 1936.  He retired in 1993 after 28 years of service with the South Carolina Department of Natural Resources as a game warden in Aiken County, as well as other surrounding counties.  Mr. Jay was a member of the Ridge Spring Baptist Church, Ridge Spring, SC and enjoyed fishing, humming birds, Honey Bees, a good game of golf and  Jimmy was also know for his work and restoration of violins. He was passionate for the Lord, his wife, and his family. Additional survivors include two sons, James Roger (Donna) Jay, Georgetown, TX, Dennis C. Jay, Augusta, GA, one step son, Bubba Hite, Aiken; two daughters, Marlene (Lewis) Parker, Graniteville, Laurie Simone Balbag, New Ellenton, three step daughters, Sidney Louise Schifferli, Aiken, Wanda Lista, Aiken, Adeline Hughes, Eureka; twenty five grandchildren, twenty great grandchildren and thirty two great great grandchildren. Mr. Jay was predeceased by  three brothers, Rev. David Jay, Robert Carey Jay, Walter Jay;  two sisters, Ruth Whittle and Dorothy Blackmon. Pallbearers will be John Schifferli, Brent Parker, Josh Hughes, Justin Johnson, Scott Hite, and Bubba Hite.  In lieu of flower the family has suggested that donations be made to the American Heart Association,  www.heart.org.  A visitation with the family will take place 6-8 pm Friday January 7, 2022 at COLE FUNERAL HOME 1544 UNIVERSITY PARKWAY (118 BY PASS) AIKEN, SC, 29801. 803-648-7175. Please sign the online registry at www.colefuneralhomeinc.net.  Due to the Covid situation, masks are asked to be worn and social distancing will be observed.  The service will be live streamed on the Cole Funeral Home Facebook page.
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Jairo Eliazar Martinez - November 26, 1989 - January 03, 2022

Departed: 01/03/2022 (Aiken)
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Graniteville, SC-The Holy Rosary will be recited 3:30 pm Saturday January 15 with Fr. Francisco Onate-Vargas as celebrant at Cole Funeral Home Chapel.  A visitation will follow till 7:30 pm at the funeral home. Mr. Martinez entered into rest  Monday January 3, 2022 in Graniteville, SC. and was the beloved husband of Brenda Berenice Romero Gonzalez, CD. Juarez, Chihuahua, Mexico. Mr. Martinez was a native of Guadalupe Victoria Durango, Mexico and had made Aiken County his home for the past several years.  He was the son of  the late Mr. Julio Martinez Botello and Mrs. Maria Teresa Cazares Perez, CD. Juarez, Chihuahua, Mexico. Mr. Martinez was employed with Two Good Fellows as a framer in construction. His hobbies included a multiple of things such as playing music, singing, playing his PS4, Horses, Rodeos, and Races.  Going to movies also is one of his favorite things to do.  Additional survivors include three sons, Jauro Alonso Martinex Romero, Emiliano Martinez Romero, Christoper Martinez Romero all of CD. Juarez, Chihuahua; one brother, Julio Israel (Erica) Martinez Cazares, Graniteville, SC; one sister, Nayelli Michelle (Cesar) Martinez, Hatch, New Mexico.  Mr. Martinez’s body will be conveyed to Perches Funeral Home – Central in El Paso, TX then taken to Mexico for services and burial. COLE FUNERAL HOME 1544 UNIVERSITY PARKWAY (118 BY PASS) IS IN CHARGE OF LOCAL ARRANGEMENTS. Please sign the online registry at www.colefuneralhomeinc.net.
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Edward Alkema - August 25, 1941 - January 01, 2022

Departed: 01/01/2022 (Aiken)
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Entered into rest Saturday, January 1, 2022, at Aiken Regional Medical Centers.  Mr. Edward Alkema, age 80, beloved father and grandfather and son of the late Peter Alkema and Josephine Postuma Alkema. He was predeceased by his wife of 48 years, Patricia McCormick Alkema.  He was predeceased by his brothers, John Alkema, Pete Alkema, Billy Alkema, and his sister, Josephine Perry.  He is survived by three sisters, Diane Labellarte, Sadie Novitsky Garofelo, Sophie Malinowski.
A celebration of life service will take place at Cole Funeral Home Chapel beginning at 6 pm on Monday, January 3, 2022. Wesley Kinard will be officiating and a visitation with the family will be held directly following the service.
Mr. Alkema was born in Paterson, NJ, and made Aiken his home for the past 49 years.  He was an avid fan of the Carolina Gamecocks and Atlanta Braves.  He enjoyed playing cards and spending time with his family.  In Lieu of flowers the family has asked that donations be make to the college fund for Jaiden Davis and Ariana Mealing.
Additional survivors include two daughters, Denise (Milt) Boswell, Beaufort, SC; Tracy Norton, Aiken: and one son, Eddie (Lorie) Alkema, Aiken; six grandchildren, Miranda Mealing, Addison Boswell, Ashlyn (Carson) Leshin, Cam (Angelina) Alkema, Ally (Daniel) Hilton, Lauren (Mason) Rodriguez; six great grandchildren, Jaiden Davis, Ariana Mealing, Mason Leshin, Archer Alkema, Giovanni Alkema, and Wells Hilton. The service will livestreamed on the Cole Funeral Home Facebook page.  Due to the Covid situation mask are suggested and social distancing will be observed. COLE FUNERAL HOME 1544 UNIVERSITY PARKWAY (118 BY PASS) AIKEN, SC, 29801 803-648-7175. Please sign the online registry at colefuneralhomeinc.net.
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Gray Allen Love - December 31, 2021 - December 31, 2021

Departed: 12/31/2021 (Aiken)
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Aiken, SC-- Entered into rest Friday December 31, 2021 at University Hospital, Augusta, GA Master Gray Allen Love infant son of Mr. Roger Love and Mrs. Bobbie Jean Hammonds Love. Additional survivors include his paternal grandparents, Roger Love, Barnwell, and Melissa Love, Windsor; maternal Grandparents, Bobby Lewis and Cheryl Hammonds, Aiken; paternal great grandmother, Edna Bell Love, Blackville, maternal great grand parents, Mr. Frank and Mrs. Mary Master, Salem, NJ. Funeral services and burial will be private. COLE FUNERAL HOME 1544 UNIVERSITY PARKWAY 1544 (118 BY PASS) AIKEN, SC, 29801. 803-648-7175.
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Dennis Russell McCarty - November 23, 1955 - December 26, 2021

Departed: 12/26/2021 (Aiken)
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Aiken, SC-- Entered into rest Sunday December 26, 2021 at Aiken Regional Medical Centers, Mr. Dennis Russell McCarty age 66. COLE FUNERAL HOME 1544 UNIVERSITY PARKWAY (118 BY PASS) AIKEN, SC, 29801
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Barbara Lynn Gagnon - July 13, 1965 - December 26, 2021

Departed: 12/26/2021 (Aiken)
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Deborah Deutsch - June 21, 1955 - December 18, 2021

Departed: 12/18/2021 (Aiken)
Obituary Preview: Mrs. Deborah Deutsch Windsor, SC-- Entered into rest Saturday December 18, 2021 at her residence, Mrs. Deborah Deutsch age 66. Mrs. Deutsch was the beloved wife of the late Mr. Michael Deutsch and a daughter of the late Mr. Jack Eugene Harper and the late Mrs. Sadie Whitaker Harper.  She was born in Little Rock, Arkansas and had made Aiken County her  home for many years.  Services will be held privately. COLE FUNERAL HOME 1544 UNIVERSITY PARKWAY AIKEN, SC. 29801
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Edward Matthew Keogh - September 19, 1940 - December 16, 2021

Departed: 12/16/2021 (Aiken)
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Michael T. "Mike" Coffman - March 30, 1973 - December 14, 2021

Departed: 12/14/2021 (Aiken)
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Aiken, SC—A mass of Christian burial will take place 12:00 noon,  Tuesday December 28, 2021 at St. Mary Help Christians Catholic Church 138 Fairfield St SE, Aiken, SC 29801  with The Very Reverend Gregory Wilson celebrant.  Final prayers and commendations will be held at Calvary Cemetery, Aiken. A reception will be held at Hounds Lake Country Club after the burial.   Mr. Coffman entered into rest Tuesday December 14, 2021 at his residence.  He was the beloved husband of Mrs. April King Coffman, Aiken and a son of Mr. John Wesley Coffman, and Mrs. Shirley Jo Burden Coffman, of Shepherdsville, KY. Mr. Coffman was a native of Louisville, KY and had made Aiken County his home for the past 2 years before moving here from Jacksonville, FL.  He was self employed in the Safety Industrial Supplies, and had been in that field since the year 2000. Mike enjoyed all sports and his family and was a communicate of St. Mary Help of Christians Catholic Church. Additional survivors include Mike’s three daughters, Megan Elizabeth Coffman, Madison Brooke Coffman, Mya Grace Coffman, all of Aiken;  one brother, Brian Coffman, Louisville, KY. Pallbearers will be Troy Horton, Austin King, J.T. Burden, Buddy Edwards, Brian Coffman, and Jimmy Burden. I lieu of flowers the family has suggested that donations be made to Mental Health of America, P.O. Box 1074, Aiken, SC, 29802. The Holy Rosary and Vigil will be recited 5:30 pm Monday December 27, 2021 followed by a visitation with the family till 8:00 pm at COLE FUNERAL HOME 1544 UNIVERSITY PARKWAY (118 BY PASS) AIKEN, SC, 29801. 803-648-7175. The service will be live streamed on the Cole Funeral Home Facebook page.  Due to Covid 19 masks are suggested and social distancing will be observed. Please sign the online registry at www.colefuneralhomeinc.net.
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Funeral Services Offered

Cole Funeral Home offers a wide range of funeral services to meet the unique needs of each family they serve. From traditional funerals and memorial services to cremations and celebrations of life, their experienced team will work closely with you to create a personalized tribute that honors your loved one's memory. Some of the specific services offered by Cole Funeral Home include:

  • Traditional Funerals: Cole Funeral Home provides traditional funeral services that include visitation, funeral ceremony, and burial or entombment.
  • Cremation Services: They offer cremation services that can be tailored to meet your family's specific needs and preferences.
  • Memorial Services: Memorial services are available for those who wish to hold a service without the presence of the body.
  • Celebrations of Life: Cole Funeral Home also offers celebrations of life, which are personalized tributes that focus on celebrating the life and legacy of your loved one.

Cremation Options

In addition to traditional funeral services, Cole Funeral Home also offers a range of cremation options. Their cremation services are designed to provide families with a dignified and respectful way to say goodbye to their loved ones. Some of the cremation options available include:

  • Direct Cremation: This option involves cremating the body without a formal service or viewing.
  • Cremation with Memorial Service: This option includes cremation followed by a memorial service.
  • Cremation with Celebration of Life: This option includes cremation followed by a celebration of life service.

Facilities and Amenities

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Cole Funeral Home's facilities are designed to provide a comfortable and welcoming environment for families during difficult times. Their chapel is equipped with state-of-the-art audio-visual equipment, allowing families to personalize their services with music, videos, and other elements. The funeral home also features a spacious reception area where families can gather and share memories of their loved ones. Other amenities include:

  • Parking: Ample parking is available on-site for families and guests.
  • Wheelchair Accessibility: The funeral home is wheelchair accessible, ensuring that all families can participate in services comfortably.
  • On-Site Crematory: Cole Funeral Home has an on-site crematory, allowing them to maintain control over the cremation process from start to finish.

Staff and Expertise

The staff at Cole Funeral Home is comprised of experienced professionals who are dedicated to providing exceptional care and support to families. Their team includes licensed funeral directors, embalmers, and administrative staff who work together to ensure that every detail is taken care of. With years of experience in the funeral industry, the staff at Cole Funeral Home possess the expertise necessary to guide families through even the most difficult times.

Community Involvement

Cole Funeral Home is deeply committed to giving back to the Aiken community. They regularly participate in local events and charities, demonstrating their dedication to making a positive impact on the lives of those around them. By supporting local organizations and initiatives, Cole Funeral Home helps to build stronger relationships within the community and foster a sense of trust and respect.

Why Choose Cole Funeral Home?

When it comes to choosing a funeral home, there are many factors to consider. At Cole Funeral Home & Cremation Services, families can rest assured that they will receive exceptional care and support during difficult times. With their commitment to personalized service, attention to detail, and compassionate care, Cole Funeral Home stands out as a leader in the funeral industry. Whether you're planning ahead or facing an unexpected loss, Cole Funeral Home is here to help you navigate the process with dignity and respect.

Contact Information

If you're interested in learning more about Cole Funeral Home & Cremation Services or would like to schedule a tour of their facilities, please don't hesitate to contact them. You can reach them by phone at [insert phone number] or by email at [insert email address]. Their website is also available at [insert website URL], where you can find more information about their services and facilities.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their surviving family members, funeral arrangements, and any notable achievements or accomplishments.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a permanent record of a person's life and legacy, which can be cherished by loved ones for years to come.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, the obituary is written by the family of the deceased, often with the assistance of a funeral home or obituary writer. In some cases, the deceased may have written their own obituary in advance.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also include information about funeral services, memorial contributions, and any other relevant details.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication and the family's preferences. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from a few sentences to several paragraphs.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a nice way to personalize the notice and make it more meaningful to readers.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online publication?

Check the publication's website or contact their obituary department directly for submission guidelines. Typically, you'll need to provide the written obituary, along with any photos and payment information (if applicable).

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies widely depending on the publication, word count, and other factors. Expect to pay anywhere from $50 to $1,000 or more for a single publication.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, many people choose to write their own obituaries in advance as a way to ensure that their life story is told accurately and authentically. This can also be a therapeutic exercise in reflecting on one's life and accomplishments.

What if I don't want to include certain information in the obituary?

You have control over what information is included in the obituary. If there are certain details you'd prefer not to share publicly, simply omit them or ask your funeral home or obituary writer for guidance.

Can I include humor or personality in an obituary?

Absolutely! An obituary should reflect the personality and spirit of the deceased. Feel free to add humorous anecdotes, quotes, or other personal touches that celebrate their life.

How do I handle sensitive or complex family dynamics when writing an obituary?

This can be a challenging situation. Consider seeking guidance from a funeral home or obituary writer who can help you navigate these issues with sensitivity and tact.

Can I include charitable donations or memorial contributions in an obituary?

Yes, this is a common practice. You can specify a charity or cause that was important to the deceased and invite donations in their memory.

How long after death should an obituary be published?

The timing of publishing an obituary varies depending on cultural and personal traditions. Typically, it's published within a few days to a week after death, but it can be published at any time that feels appropriate to the family.

Can I republish an obituary at a later date?

Yes, you can republish an obituary on significant dates such as birthdays or anniversaries of death. This can be a meaningful way to continue honoring your loved one's memory.

What if I need to make corrections or updates to an already-published obituary?

Contact the publication directly to request corrections or updates. They may charge a fee for revisions or republication.

Can I create an online memorial or tribute page instead of a traditional obituary?

Yes! Online memorials and tribute pages are becoming increasingly popular as they allow for more flexibility and creativity in celebrating a person's life. These platforms often offer features such as photo galleries, guestbooks, and donation links.

How do I find archived copies of old obituaries?

You can search online archives of newspapers and publications, visit local libraries or genealogical societies, or hire a professional researcher to assist you in finding archived copies of old obituaries.

Can I use social media to share an obituary or memorialize my loved one?

Absolutely! Social media platforms like Facebook and Twitter can be effective ways to share news of a passing and connect with others who are grieving. You can also create online memorial groups or pages dedicated to your loved one's memory.

What if I'm unsure about what to say or do when writing an obituary?

DON'T worry! Funeral homes, obituary writers, and online resources are available to guide you through the process. Take your time, gather your thoughts, and remember that the goal is to honor your loved one's life and legacy.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Yes! Quotes or lyrics that resonate with your loved one's personality or values can add depth and meaning to the obituary.

How do I ensure that my loved one's legacy lives on through their obituary?

By focusing on their accomplishments, passions, and values in the obituary, you can help keep their memory alive for generations to come. Additionally, consider creating a scholarship fund, memorial garden, or other lasting tribute in their honor.

What if I'm struggling emotionally while writing an obituary?

Take care of yourself during this difficult time. Writing an obituary can be an emotional task – don't hesitate to seek support from friends, family, or professionals if needed. Remember that it's okay to take breaks and come back to it when you're feeling more composed.

Can I use technology like QR codes or augmented reality in an obituary?

Yes! Some modern funeral homes and online platforms offer innovative features like QR codes linking to video tributes or augmented reality experiences that bring memories to life. These tools can enhance the traditional obituary experience and provide new ways to celebrate your loved one's life.

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About Jeffery Isleworth

Jeffery Isleworth is an experienced eulogy and funeral speech writer who has dedicated his career to helping people honor their loved ones in a meaningful way. With a background in writing and public speaking, Jeffery has a keen eye for detail and a talent for crafting heartfelt and authentic tributes that capture the essence of a person's life. Jeffery's passion for writing eulogies and funeral speeches stems from his belief that everyone deserves to be remembered with dignity and respect. He understands that this can be a challenging time for families and friends, and he strives to make the process as smooth and stress-free as possible. Over the years, Jeffery has helped countless families create beautiful and memorable eulogies and funeral speeches. His clients appreciate his warm and empathetic approach, as well as his ability to capture the essence of their loved one's personality and life story. When he's not writing eulogies and funeral speeches, Jeffery enjoys spending time with his family, reading, and traveling. He believes that life is precious and should be celebrated, and he feels honored to help families do just that through his writing.