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Robert J. Vaslet - December 26, 1934 - April 19, 2024

Departed: 04/19/2024 (Windsor)

Obituary Preview: Robert J. Vaslet, 89, of Windsor, beloved husband for 41 years of Donna Marie (Keesler) Vaslet, passed away peacefully on Friday, April 19, 2024, at Hartford Hospital. Born in Pawtucket, RI on December 26, 1934, son of the late Charles and Mary (Carney) Vaslet, he was raised in Pawtucket, RI and was a graduate of Saint Raphael Academy. After high school, Robert continued his education at the Rhode Island School of Design where he received his bachelor's degree in machine design. After college Robert enlisted in the US Air Force to pursue his dream of becoming a pilot. While in aviation training, he crashed a plane in Eagle Pass, TX. He later moved to Connecticut in 1960, and first worked at Pratt & Whitney Research Labs, and later took a position at Combustion Engineering in Windsor which later became ABB. Robert worked at ABB for many years until his retirement. After his retirement, he helped out at his family’s package store, Kenco Spirits in South Windsor. Robert never lost his love of aviation and had his private pilot’s license and enjoyed going to the airport to watch planes take off and land. In his spare time, he enjoyed the simple pleasures in life, smoking a cigar, chewing gum, and spending time with his family. In addition to his wife, he leaves two granddaughters, Shannon Clancy and Mary Padilla both of Vernon; and a great-grandson, Luis. He was predeceased by his daughter, Mary Charlene Gordon; a brother, Gary Vaslet; and a sister, Joan Jordan. His family will receive friends on Tuesday, April 23rd, 9-10:30 a.m., at the Carmon Poquonock Funeral Home, 1816 Poquonock Ave., Windsor. A Mass of Christian Burial will follow at 11 a.m., at St. Damien of Molokai Parish – St. Joseph Church, 1747 Poquonock Ave., Windsor. Entombment will follow in Mt. St. Benedict Cemetery Mausoleum, Bloomfield. The family requests no flowers.

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Carol Ann Driggs - January 14, 1946 - March 10, 2024

Departed: 03/10/2024 (Windsor)

Obituary Preview: Carol Ann (Burbank) Driggs, 78, of Windsor Locks, wife of Woodruff C. Driggs, passed away peacefully on March 10, 2024. She was born January 14, 1946, in Hartford, CT. Carol was the daughter of the late Edward and Gladys (VanOstrand) Burbank.

Carol is survived by her loving husband, Woody, her daughter, Robin Plummer Argiriou of Darien, Robin's children, Grace, Alaina, and Madeleine, her loving sister, Deborah (Larry) Brownstein of Cromwell, her step daughter, Devra (David) Bane Jr. of Westerly/Naples and her step son, Woodruff W Driggs II (Tracy) of Washington DC. She was Nana to 12 Grandchildren and 6 Great Grandchildren.

Carol graduated from Rockville High School in 1964. She demonstrated outstanding organizational skills and worked as an Administrative Assistant. Later in life, she was employed for 13 years at Chilis Restaurant in Windsor. She is remembered as the little "fire cracker" noted for her wonderful smile, heartfelt laugh, and endearing stories. She was a proud resident of Windsor Locks. An avid Sports Fan following Nascar, PGA, Tennis, UCONN Basketball, NFL, MLB, NCAA and Bowling. She met her husband Woody at 76 Auto Body Shop. Both of them were accomplished tennis players and their relationship blossomed enjoying Sundays at the Driggs's. She had a passion for adventures. Together, they traveled New England. She especially loved Clinton Beach and both coasts of Florida, often as guests of the Brownstein, Burbank, Bane and Driggs/Iseler families. She had a deep appreciation for the simple joys in life and always found happiness in the company of her friends and family. She especially loved her husband, married in 1989 for 34 years. Each night ended with a good night kiss and “I Love You” regardless of the circumstances. Carol will be so dearly missed and forever in our hearts.

Carol’s family will receive friends on Saturday, March 16th from 10:00-11:30 a.m. at Carmon Poquonock Funeral Home, 1816 Poquonock Ave., Windsor, CT. A memorial service will be held at 11:30 a.m. at Carmon’s. An inurnment will take place immediately following at St. Joseph Cemetary,1747 Poquonock Ave., Windsor, CT. Donations in Carol’s memory may be made to American Macular Degeneration Foundation, PO Box 515, Northampton, MA 01061- 0515 or online at www.Macular.org. For condolences or directions please visit www.carmonfuneralhome.com.

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Blanche Frances Blazis - February 17, 1927 - February 29, 2024

Departed: 02/29/2024 (Windsor)

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Patricia Marie Parkin - February 12, 1939 - January 25, 2024

Departed: 01/25/2024 (Windsor)

Obituary Preview: Patricia Marie Parkin, 84 of Gulf Breeze, FL, wife of the late Robert Francis Parkin, passed away Thursday, January 25, 2024, peacefully at home. Born in New York City, daughter of the late Wilfred and Winifred ( neè McCaffrey) Coughlin, she earned her master’s degree and spent her professional career as a teacher sharing her love of literature and language. Her kindness, humor, wit, passion and fashion sense will be missed by her children, daughter, Bernadette Watkins Green and her husband Michael Green of Windsor, twin sons Brian Parkin and James Parkin both of Yonkers, NY, son, Dennis Parkin of Gulf Breeze, FL; brother in law Donald Stephens, daughters-in-law Shelley, Sue, and Lisa; grandchildren, Michael and his wife Lacey, Tara, Scott, Brian, Jr., Shelley and her husband Bart, Jennifer, Christopher, Victoria and her husband Greg, Kandice and her husband Jason, Lia and her husband Kevin, and great grand children Veda, Liam, Jeremiah, Makhi, Lucas, Jason, Brandon, Anthony, Adrian and Neira. Nieces and nephews Edward and his wife Ann, John and his wife Rhonda, Angela and her wife Dawn, Elizabeth and her husband Davey, Veronica and her husband Scott, Devon, Alex, Rebecca, Drew, Nate, Caris, Calyx and Penelope. Along with her husband and parents, she was greeted by her sister Gail Stephens, son Kevin Parkin, grandchildren Cheryl and Taylor. Her family will receive friends Friday, February 9, 2024 from 5-8 PM and Saturday, February 10, 2024, from 9-10:30 AM at the Carmon Poquonock Funeral Home, 1816 Poquonock Avenue, Poquonock section of Windsor followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at 11 AM at Saint Damien of Molokai Parish, St. Joseph Church, 1747 Poquonock Avenue, Windsor. Burial will follow in Riverside Cemetery, Windsor. For directions or condolences please visit www.carmonfuneralhome.com

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Faith Laura Walters Poggi - November 27, 1925 - November 20, 2023

Departed: 11/20/2023 (Windsor)

Obituary Preview: Faith Laura Walters Poggi went to her eternal home in heaven on Monday, November 20, 2023. Faith is predeceased by her husband William. She leaves behind her daughter Lori Bourret (Bob), nephews David Poggi, Daniel Poggi (Alison), nieces Marianne Kinnear, Patricia Zito, Paula Baldwin (George).

Faith was born in East Hartford November 27, 1925, to William Walters and Dorothy Louise Ruic Walters. She grew up in Poquonock, her favorite town, graduating from John Fitch High School, and went on to work at Maxim Silencer and Aetna Life and Casualty.

Faith and Bill made their home in Windsor Locks where they raised their daughter Lori Louise. Faith was an active member of Poquonock Community Church singing in the choir and volunteering in the office preparing encouragement cards for mailing. Faith was a talented seamstress and baker. Most of all Faith encouraged education, extracurricular activities, and endeavors.

Family occasions included Barbara Roberts, Ruth Sylvester, George Hoag, Robert Ruick and Nancy Tilton and members of the Ruic, Wadsworth and Peterson families.

Faith appreciated the help that she received from Jackie with Comfort Keepers and the staff at Kimberly Hall North.

Family and friends are invited to gather on Tuesday, December 5, 10:00 AM at Carmon Funeral Home 1816 Poquonock Avenue, Route 75, Poquonock. A celebration of life service will begin at 11:00 followed by her burial at Granby Cemetery, 260 North Granby Road, Route 189.

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Katheleen "Kathy" Delage - February 01, 1940 - October 14, 2023

Departed: 10/14/2023 (Windsor)

Obituary Preview: Katheleen “Kathy” Delage, 83, of Windsor, CT and Avon Park, FL, beloved wife of the late Maurice R. "Moe" Delage, Sr., passed away peacefully on Saturday, October 14, 2023, at her home, with family by her side, after a long and courageous battle with cancer.

Kathy was born on February 1, 1940, in Portland, ME, the daughter of the late Joseph and Murial Moulton. She worked for a short time at Underwood, Bigelow, and some small machine shops before being hired at Hamilton Standard where she worked for over 20 years until her retirement from Space and Sea Systems. Her contributions at Hamilton earned her several awards for which she was very proud. While working at Hamilton Standard she made several lifelong friends that she cherished.

Kathy had many hobbies and enjoyed doing arts and crafts projects. She enjoyed the Holidays and cooking for family gatherings. Her Catholic faith played a large part in her everyday life and praying the Rosary daily brought her great comfort and peace.

She leaves a daughter, Debbie Delage Athas and her husband Ken of East Windsor; her three sons, Steven Delage and his wife Moira McNally of Old Lyme, Donald Delage and his wife Linda of East Windsor, and Maurice Delage, Jr. and his wife Martha of South Windsor; six grandchildren; six great grandchildren; a great-great grandchild; and many close family members and friends in Maine, her beloved birth place, and in Windsor, where her friends and neighbors were like family.

A Prayer Service will be held on Saturday, October 28, 2023, at 10 a.m., at the Carmon Poquonock Funeral Home, 1816 Poquonock Avenue., Poquonock.

Inurnment will follow in Saint Joseph’s Cemetery, Poquonock.

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Eugene Lonewski - July 31, 1933 - October 11, 2023

Departed: 10/11/2023 (Windsor)

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Carl M. Shanahan - December 20, 1941 - October 03, 2023

Departed: 10/03/2023 (Windsor)

Obituary Preview: Carl M. Shanahan, 81, of East Granby, passed away on Tuesday, October 3, 2023. He was born on December 20, 1941, in Hartford, son to the late Charles M. Shanahan, Jr. and Alice (Evans) Shanahan.

Carl grew up in Hartford before he and his family relocated to Windsor in 1958. He was a graduate of Windsor High School, Class of 1960. Following high school, he proudly served his country with the United States Army from February of 1964 up until his honorable discharge in February of 1966 as a Military Policeman. Upon returning home, he was employed for over 30 years with the United States Postal Service, in Poquonock, earning the title of honorable postmaster before his retirement in 1991. In his spare time, he enjoyed spending time outdoors hunting and fishing. He also enjoyed playing golf, going bowling, and playing cards, especially setback and poker.

Carl is survived by his four siblings, Robert Shanahan and his wife Norma of Marlow, NH, Alice Tralli and her husband Angelo of Berlin, Charles Shanahan, III, of East Granby and Susan Shykula and her husband Paul of West Lebanon, NH; as well as many nieces, nephews, cousins and extended family. In addition to his parents, he was predeceased by four siblings, Betty Mooney, Laura DiDomenico, James Shanahan and Dorothy Pizzoferrato.

A time of visitation for family and friends will be held on Tuesday, October 24, 2023, from 4-6 p.m. at the Carmon Poquonock Funeral Home, 1816 Poquonock Ave. (Rte 75), Windsor with military honors to be rendered at 6 p.m. To leave an online message of condolence for his family, please visit www.carmonfuneralhome.com.

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Edward J. Czaikowski - August 15, 1925 - September 24, 2023

Departed: 09/24/2023 (Windsor)

Obituary Preview: Edward Joseph Czaikowski, 98, of Windsor, beloved husband of 63 years to the late Joan (Hollerieth) Czaikowski, passed away peacefully at his home surrounded by his family on Sunday, September 24, 2023. He was born August 15, 1925, in Hartford, eldest son to Adam Czaikowski and Stacia (Michalski).

Ed grew up in Hartford, attended local schools and was a graduate of Bulkeley High School. He proudly served his country in the Army during WWII from 1942-1945, in the 817 Tank Destroyer Battalion. Upon returning home, Ed continued his education earning his Bachelor of Fine Arts degree from the Rhode Island School of Design. With that, he held an extensive 50-year career as a graphic designer in advertising with numerous projects across the nation.

In his spare time, he enjoyed bowling in numerous leagues, was past president of the East Hartford Golf Club Men’s League, was a Grand Knight with the Knights of Columbus, Saint Rose Catholic Church, East Hartford, in 1978 became a proud member of the First Company Governor’s Foot Guard earning the title of Captain, traveled the globe with his wife to Europe and other fascinating destinations and was a parishioner of St. Damien of Molokai Parish, Windsor.

Ed is survived by his three children, Karen Clay of Winchester, VA, Carl Czaikowski and his wife Deborah Sage of Windsor and Neil Czaikowski and his wife Mary of Simsbury; his ten grandchildren, Eric and his wife Katie, Dylan and his wife Hailey, Grace, Lauren, Victoria, Cassidy and her husband Brett, Hannah, Catherine and her husband Brandon, Maia, and Matthew; six great-grandchildren; his sister, Maryann Brousseau of Cromwell as well as numerous nieces, nephews and extended family. In addition to his wife and parents, he was predeceased by his brother, Raymond Czaikowski, his daughter, Linda Czaikowski Becker; and his son-in-law, Russell Clay.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday, September 29, 2023, beginning at 10 a.m. at St. Damien of Molokai Parish – St. Joseph Church, 1747 Poquonock Ave., (Rte 75), Windsor. Guests are asked to please go directly to the church. Burial with military honors will follow in Cedar Hill Cemetery, Hartford.

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Peter F. Manzone - June 16, 1937 - September 21, 2023

Departed: 09/21/2023 (Windsor)

Obituary Preview: Peter F. Manzone, 86, of Windsor Locks, beloved husband of 62 years to Sandra (Colla) Manzone, passed away peacefully at his home on Thursday, September 21, 2023. He was born on June 16, 1937, in Hartford, son to the late John and Josephine (Vallario) Manzone.

Peter grew up in Hartford, attended local schools and was a graduate of Hartford Public High School, Class of 1955. Following his schooling, he was employed for some time with the Aetna Insurance Company, in Hartford, before he enlisted in the Air National Guard where he held an extensive 34 year career before his retirement in 1992. After retirement, Peter served as a Ministerial Servant with the West Hartford Congregation of Jehovah’s Witnesses and enjoyed spending time assisting with Kingdom Hall daily tasks and functions. He also enjoyed spending time on the golf course with his family and friends. In addition, Peter was quite the handyman and was able to fix just about anything. In his spare time, you could find him cheering on his favorite sports teams, the New York Yankees and the UConn Women’s basketball team.

In addition to his wife, Peter is survived by his son, John S. Manzone of Windsor Locks; his daughter, Donna L. Manzone of West Hartford; his granddaughter, Rebecca Manzone of Eagle, CO; his grandson, Ryan Smith of Somers; his brother, Joseph M. Manzone of Hartford; his brother-in-law, Paul Cornman of Utica, NY, as well as numerous nieces and a nephew. He was predeceased by his parents and his sister, Mary Cornman.

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Samuel S. Matos - April 21, 1924 - August 06, 2023

Departed: 08/06/2023 (Windsor)

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Rosemarie (Toce) Frisell - December 17, 1955 - May 28, 2023

Departed: 05/28/2023 (Windsor)

Obituary Preview: Rosemarie (Toce) Frisell, 67, of Manchester, beloved wife to the late John S. Frisell, passed away on Sunday, May 28, 2023. She was born on December 17, 1955, in Hartford, daughter of Anthony J. Toce and Mary (Sullivan) Toce.

Rosemarie attended Windsor schools and was a graduate of Windsor High School, Class of 1973. Following her schooling, she was a hairstylist before becoming an administrative clerk for local insurance companies in Connecticut. For the last ten years, Rosemarie enjoyed cooking for the sisters at Julie House in Windsor. When not working, she enjoyed making delicious Italian dishes for her family and friends, spending time at the beach down in Old Lyme and cherished her time with people she loved, especially her two favorite girls, Liana and Elayna. Although Rosemarie’s time with us was cut short, her memory will be held closely in the hearts of her family and friends for years to come.

Rosemarie is survived by her son, John J. Frisell of Manchester; her granddaughter, Liana Frisell; her two siblings, Sr. Patricia Toce SNDdeN, of Boston, MA, and Michael Toce and his wife Terry of Grapevine, TX; her nephew, Brian Toce and his wife Lyndsey of Colleyville, TX; her niece, Bethany Powers and her husband Justin of Colleyville, TX; as well as many cousins and extended family. In addition to her husband, she was predeceased by her parents. Rosemarie’s family would like to offer a special thanks to the nurses and staff at Kimberly Hall South, C-Wing, for their care and support during her time there.

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John Joseph Manfreda - November 22, 1934 - May 08, 2023

Departed: 05/08/2023 (Windsor)

Obituary Preview: John Joseph Manfreda, 88, of Windsor, beloved husband to the late Enid M. (Johnson) Manfreda, passed away peacefully at his home on Monday, May 8, 2023. John was born November 22, 1934, in Meriden, son to Joseph N. and Agnes (Mullaly) Manfreda.

John grew up in Wallingford, CT. In Wallingford he attended Holy Trinity grammar school followed by high school at The Choate School for Boys. He graduated from Choate with the Class of 1952. John graduated from Boston College in 1957 with a bachelor’s degree in government. In October of 1958, he enlisted in the United States Army and was honorably discharged from full service in 1960 and remained in the army reserve until 1964. In November 1976 John enlisted in the National Guard and served until August 1985. In April 1995 John retired from the State of Connecticut, Department of Transportation after 23 years of employment. He was a property appraiser for roadway development. During his tenure with the state John was very active with the Connecticut State Employees Association and the International Rights of Way. On a regular basis John would assist blind or disabled colleagues with transportation to and from work, establishing friendships that remained beyond his retirement. John loved to sing and also listen to barbershop music. For many years he was a member of the Barbershop Harmony Society and the Silk City Chorus of Manchester. John loved to watch sports and was an enthusiastic Red Sox and Patriots fan. Throughout their 59 years of marriage John and Enid were a very sociable couple. They went on many trips with the groups that John belonged to and made life-long friends. In their later years they very much enjoyed the ice cream socials and neighborhood gatherings with their Wyndemere Community friends.

John is survived by his three children, Kathy Juliano and her husband Tony of Granby, John Manfreda and his wife Lydia of Columbus, OH, and Patrick Manfreda and his wife Carol of Rochester, NY; his four grandchildren, Elise Juliano of Boston, MA, Krista Dobransky and her husband Brandon of Gastonia, NC, Christopher Juliano of Boston, MA, and Sean Manfreda of Rochester, NY; his great-grandson, Thomas Dobransky; his brother, Joseph Manfreda of Phoenix, AZ; his friend and caretaker, Amos Boateng; his companion and therapy dogs, Lainey and Abby. In addition to his wife, John was predeceased by his parents.

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Joseph Eric "Joe" LeCourt - March 06, 1992 - April 17, 2023

Departed: 04/17/2023 (Windsor)

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Louis D. Cermola - August 26, 1936 - March 21, 2023

Departed: 03/21/2023 (Windsor)

Obituary Preview: Louis D. Cermola, 86, of Windsor, beloved husband for 49 years of the late Barbara (Parracino) Cermola, passed away on Tuesday, March 21, 2023.

Louis, also known as "Louie" or "Pops," was born in Hartford, son of the late Dominic and Betty Jane (Fennell) Cermola, and graduated from Hartford High School. After graduation, Louie proudly served his country in the United States Marine Corp and was employed as a Truck Driver for Consolidated Freightways, retiring after many years of service. He was also a member of the Teamsters Local #671. Louie was a loving father, grandfather, uncle, and friend. He will fondly be remembered as a thoughtful and giving man whose family meant the world to him, especially his grandchildren. He would help friends and neighbors with rides to places they needed to go and were not able to drive themselves. In his free time, he loved to repair and sell bikes, and was known to everyone as "Louie the Bike Man."

Louie is survived by his daughter, Karyl Cermola; and his son, David Cermola, both of Windsor; his grandchildren, Bryan Handy, Julie Cermola, and Jessica Cermola; his great-grandson, Anthony Mitchell; brother, Carmine Cermola, Jr.; and Patty, Brenda, Roy, and Michael, who were like family to him.

His family would like to extend a very special thank you to the doctors, nurses, and staff on the 7th and 9th floors at St. Francis Hospital and Fresh River Health Care for the special care given to Louie and his family in their time of need.

His service was private.

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John B. Burke - March 27, 1927 - March 09, 2023

Departed: 03/09/2023 (Windsor)

Obituary Preview: John B. Burke, 95, of the Poquonock section of Windsor, passed away peacefully on Thursday, March 9, 2023, at Meadowbrook of Granby. Born in Hartford on March 27, 1927, the son of the late John A. and Martha (Brozat) Burke. John was raised in Poquonock and was a 1945 graduate of John Fitch High School. After graduation he enlisted in the United States Army and proudly served his country as an MP in WWII.

John was employed for many years as an electronics assembler at Hamilton Standard. Following his retirement at age 55, he went on to a second part time career as a Car Salesman for National Car Rental Systems, Inc. in Windsor Locks. He was also a longtime communicant of St. Joseph Church in Poquonock. John had numerous hobbies and interest over the years. He enjoyed gardening, making his special jared “Dill Pickles,” growing tomatoes, and occasionally dabbled with home made wine. John really enjoy going out to breakfast on his birthday with nieces Laurie and Debbie. Laurie spent the most time caring for John in his final years! In the wintertime, he would go north snowmobiling with a special friend. In the summer one of his favorite passions was driving his 1930 Model A around town. He liked blowing the horn when he drove past his nephew’s house on River Street. He liked watching the Boston Red Sox and many other sporting events. He loved boating and water skiing in his younger days with his late brother Daniel. John enjoyed family time too with his sister Anne Lemini, and her late husband Paul, and her children during the holidays. Uncle John was quite the jokester! He spent much of his time, with his late sister Helen who he loved teasing about enjoying her tea, soup, and salad. They spent nearly 35 years together living in the family home, after their mother had passed.

John is survived by his sister, Anna T. Lemini of Windsor Locks, his beloved nieces and nephews, Deborah L. Burke and her companion Paul Tolisano of Windsor, Kevin E. Burke and his wife Beth of Windsor, Laurie S. Girouard and her husband Arthur of West Suffield, James W. Burke of Poquonock, Michael P. Burke of Salem, and his wife Tina, Linda Mercier of East Windsor, Jeanne Owen of East Windsor, Doreen Lemini of Windsor Locks, David Lemini of Windsor Locks, and his wife Christine, and many great nieces and great nephews. He is predeceased by his parents, his sister Helen P. Burke and his brother, Daniel J. Burke.

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Rita Stabiler - January 19, 1929 - February 22, 2023

Departed: 02/22/2023 (Windsor)

Obituary Preview: Rita M. Stabiler, 94, of West Hartford, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, February 22, 2023.

Rita was born and raised in Baton Rouge, LA, daughter of the late John and Lena (Termini) Stabiler. Sadly, her mother passed after childbirth, and Rita was raised by her father and grandmother. It was very important to her family that she received a good education, and they sent her to St. Joseph Academy in Baton Rouge. She then received her Associate's Degree in Business in New Orleans, LA. Her father was a well-known professional photographer, and she worked with him at Stabiler's Studio when she was growing up. Rita moved to Los Angeles, CA in 1954 and was employed as an office manager for a distribution company. After retirement, she moved to Connecticut in 1994 to be closer to her brother and his family.

Rita was a loving sister, aunt, cousin, and dear friend. She will fondly be remembered as a quiet, giving, and considerate woman who loved life and laughter and spending time with her dogs and family. Rita was always pleasant and kind and was soft spoken with an endearing Southern drawl that she retained from her youth in Louisiana. She was genuinely interested in people's lives and would listen intently when they spoke to her.

From the time she was a small girl, her passion was dancing, and she learned all types of dances. Dancing was always her happy place and a way to express herself, and it only seemed fitting that she met the love of her life and best friend for over 25 years, Alexander "Bobby" Jackowski, Jr., who was also a dancer, at the Senior Center in Hartford. Together they danced in all the shows and created a deep friendship together. Every day they would go to Wendy's for lunch, and everyone knew who they were and exactly what they wanted to order. Rita and Bobby not only loved to dance together but also enjoyed taking drives to Old Saybrook to spend time at the beach.

Rita was a talented painter and sketch artist and loved to draw. She was always very stylish, loved to shop for clothes, was known for her love of sequins, and would "bedazzle" all her own clothes and dance outfits. Rita was a true lover of animals throughout her life, especially dogs, was very fond of her Doberman, Penny, and even named one of her dogs "Sequins." More than anything, she loved spending time with her family and long talks with Bobby. Rita leaves a legacy of beautiful memories that will live in the hearts of everyone who knew and loved her.

Rita leaves to cherish her memory, her sister-in-law, Jeannette Stabiler; her nieces, Jane Podolski, Catherine Grandahl and her husband Robert, and Mary Ann Newton and her husband James; her nephew, John Stabiler; great nieces and nephews; great-grand nieces and nephew, and many other relatives and friends.

In addition to her parents and best friend, Bobby, she was predeceased by her brother, John Lawrence Stabiler, Jr.

Her family will receive friends on Wednesday, March 1, 9:30-10:30 a.m., at Carmon Poquonock Funeral Home, 1816 Poquonock Ave., Poquonock. A Mass of Christian Burial will follow at 11 a.m., at St. Damien of Molokai Parish, St. Joseph Church, 1747 Poquonock Ave., Poquonock. Burial will follow in St. Joseph Cemetery.

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Margaret O'Brien Sullivan - February 03, 1936 - February 18, 2023

Departed: 02/18/2023 (Windsor)

Obituary Preview: Margaret (Peggy) O’Brien Sullivan, age 87, wife of Eugene F. Sullivan Jr. passed away peacefully, surrounded by family, after a brief illness on February 18, 2023 in Vero Beach, Florida. She was a wonderful, kind and loving wife, mother, grandmother, great grandmother, sister, and friend. Her family was her greatest joy and she cherished every moment spent with them whether it was one-on-one or at large family gatherings. She instilled in her children and grandchildren the values of love, kindness and compassion and she lived these values every day of her life. Peggy was a kind, compassionate person, always finding the good in everyone. She touched the lives of many with her gentle spirit and unwavering faith.

She was an active member of St. Joseph Church in Poquonock, CT and served on the Parish Council and Finance Council, and was a member of the Social Action Committee. Always willing to lend a helping hand to those in need, she volunteered at various schools and non-profit organizations and was a shining example of what it means to be a good Christian.

Born in Providence, Rhode Island, she was the daughter of Joseph and Madelyn (Henebry) O’Brien. She moved to Bristol Connecticut at a young age and attended Bristol schools, graduating from Bay Path College in Longmeadow, Massachusetts. In 1985 she moved to Windsor Connecticut where she resided ever since. She retired from Ensign-Bickford Realty Corporation in 1999, and two years later began working part time in the marketing department at Seabury in Bloomfield before retiring in December 2015. In addition to her husband, she is survived by her children Lisa McCutcheon Casey and husband David, Brian McCutcheon and wife Sharon, Jill McCutcheon Brayton and her husband John and two stepdaughters, Kathleen Sullivan and Patricia Sullivan. She is also survived by 11 special grandchildren, Shannon Hamel, Meaghan Casey and her husband Loren Stender, Dr. Elizabeth Casey Guadagni and her husband Scott, Tyler McCutcheon, Connor McCutcheon, Ian Patrick McCutcheon, Tara Shaw, Christopher Wietecha and his wife Kelly, Ryann Zabielski and her husband Joseph, Shanna Barker and her husband John, and Brian Sullivan and his wife Marisa as well as 17 great grandchildren, Elijah, Everly, Evan, Margaret, William, Flora, Kayla, Liam, Kennedy, Caroline, Gregory, Brooklyn, Benjamin, Lilly, Lucy, Neil and Finian and several close and special life-long friends. She was predeceased by her brother Joseph O’Brien Jr. and her sisters Betty Chapin and Denise Redman.

Peggy will be remembered mostly for her strong commitment to her Faith which was a source of strength throughout her life and for her unconditional love and support of her family and friends. She was an inspiration and her memory will forever be a blessing to those who knew and loved her. She will be deeply missed but never forgotten.

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Robert B. Gegetskas - December 19, 1942 - February 12, 2023

Departed: 02/12/2023 (Windsor)

Obituary Preview: Robert B. Gegetskas, 80, of Granby, passed away peacefully on February 12, 2023, surrounded by his loving family. Robert was born in Hartford on December 19, 1942, son to the late Edward J. and Estelle (Grushas) Gegetskas

Bobby was an owner and operator of his family’s business, Airport Service Station, in Windsor Locks, that was started by his father back in 1955. He had many fond memories working alongside his brothers. He later was a hard-working, talented, mechanic for many local businesses. Bobby was the former Fire Chief in the Poquonock Fire Department where he served as a volunteer for many years. Bobby was a lover of all animals as he spent many years caring for and rescuing stray cats and other animals. It was a passion of his to help those in need. Bobby was also a devout catholic and was a longtime communicant of St. Damien of Molokai Parish in Windsor.

Bobby is survived by Lucy Ann (Mazziotto) Spakauskas, the mother of his children and his best friend; his children, Donna Marshall and her husband Eric, Diane Gegetskas and her husband Dennis Hurlburt, Mark Morell and his wife Dina, Robert B. Gegetskas, II, and his wife Sheryl, Debra Morell, Paul Gegetskas and his wife Angela and Suzette Morell and her husband Andrew Rosenberg; his eleven grandchildren; seven great-grandchildren and one on the way. Bobby is also survived by his brother Richard J. Gegetskas as well as many nieces and nephews. In addition to his parents, Bobby is predeceased by his wife, Marion “Cookie” (Morell) Gegetskas; his twin daughters; his brother, Edward M. Gegetskas and his sister-in-law Audrey (Lanphear) Gegetskas.

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Marjorie A. (Swartwout) Peaslee - June 07, 1942 - January 25, 2023

Departed: 01/25/2023 (Windsor)

Obituary Preview: Marjorie Agnes (Swartwout) Peaslee, 80, of Windsor, CT passed away peacefully on Wednesday, January 25, 2023. She was born in Hartford, CT on June 7, 1942, daughter to the late Roeloff J. Swartwout and Helen (Caesar) Swartwout.

Marjorie was a graduate of Windsor High School in 1960 and was a member of the National Honor Society. She had a long career with the State of Connecticut as an administrative assistant before her retirement in 1997. Marjorie has been a Windsor resident for most of her life and was a longtime communicant of St. Gabriel Church in Windsor.

She is survived by her son, Ronald D. Peaslee, Jr. of New York City, NY; her daughter, Judith M. Green and her husband Robert of West Suffield, CT; her brother, Roeloff J. Swartwout, Jr. of Quemado, NM; her sister, Helen V. Swartwout of Hartford, CT; and her two nieces, Courtney Swartwout of Quemado, NM and Adrienne Swartwout-Morgan.

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Norene F. Gold - May 12, 1944 - January 17, 2023

Departed: 01/17/2023 (Windsor)

Obituary Preview: Norene F. (Sheffield) Gold, 78, of Bloomfield, beloved wife for 47 years of the late Arthur Gold, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, January 17, 2023.

Norene was born and raised in Norwich, daughter of the late John and Doris (Potter) Sheffield, and graduated from Norwich Free Academy. She attended nursing school and became an LPN, working in various health care facilities throughout her 40-year career in the nursing industry.

Norene was a loving wife, mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, and dear friend. She will fondly be remembered as a kind and caring woman who appreciated the simple things in life and loved her family more than anything. Norene accepted people for who they were, had a talent for being able to think before she spoke, and always had some kind of positive life learning message in what she had to say. She had a wonderful sense of humor, loved to make people laugh, and was extremely independent. If something needed to be done, she would do her best to do it herself before asking for help. Norene instilled a strong work ethic in her sons and taught them that they needed to work hard for what they had, and to stay positive and not dwell on the negative. She had a natural instinct to care for people and always made sure her neighbors were taken care of and they, in turn, took care of her as well. She leaves a legacy of beautiful memories that will live in the hearts of those who knew and loved her.

Norene had an amazing green thumb, and her happy place was working in her beautiful flower gardens. She loved to crochet and make hand crafted Afghans for her family and friends. Norene and Arthur loved to travel to the Cape together every May and September to celebrate their birthdays and especially enjoyed their three trips to Alaska. She was also quite a shopper and loved to buy little trinkets, always in groups of four.

Norene leaves to celebrate her life, her sons, Stephen M. Gold and his significant other Lori Kemmer of Duluth, GA, and Michael S. Gold and his wife Lynn of Windsor; her grandchildren, Alicia Naboicheck and Dillon Gold; her siblings, Robert Sheffield, Glenn Sheffield, Ph.D, Dennis Sheffield, Dorothy Dyer, Linda Philipps, and Carole Sheffield, Ph.D.; and many nieces, nephews, cousins, and dear friends.

In addition to her parents and her husband, Arthur, she was predeceased by her sister, Darlene Gibeault; and her brother, Barry Sheffield.

Her family will receive friends on Sunday, January 22, 1-4 p.m., at the Carmon Poquonock Funeral Home, 1817 Poquonock Ave., in the Poquonock section of Windsor.

A Graveside Service will take place on Monday, January 23, 11 a.m., at Mountain View Cemetery, Bloomfield.

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Mary C. (Despard) Bindas - May 16, 1936 - December 31, 2022

Departed: 12/31/2022 (Windsor)

Obituary Preview: Mary C. (Despard) Bindas, 86, of Windsor, passed away on Saturday, December 31, 2022. Mary was born on May 16, 1936, in Hartford, one of six children to William and Helen (Cramer) Despard.

As a young woman, Mary worked as a professional seamstress out of her home, styling and altering garments for family and friends. In lieu of a midlife crisis, at 50 years old she decided to get her GED and return to school to become a nurse. She received her bachelor’s degree in nursing from St. Joseph College, now The University of St. Joseph, in Hartford. She began her career in the pediatric department at Mt. Sinai Hospital before relocating to the Hebrew Home, Windsor Health & Rehab and lastly Kimberly Hall. Mary retired to become the full-time caretaker for her husband of 50 years, Steve S. Bindas, who was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease. She took on that difficult role and knew very well what it entailed and was able to persevere through it. Her kind, gentle and caring demeanor allowed her to take exceptional care of someone she loved. She was always there to lend a hand to her husband, children and grandchildren, and she was a great teacher of everyday obstacles and challenges. Mary was a lover of animals, especially her cats, and cared for them as if they were her own children. In her spare time, she enjoyed bowling and golfing, as well as snuggling up with a good novel. Mary’s family will miss her dearly, but her memory will be held closely in all of their hearts.

Mary is survived by her three children, Raymond Bindas and his wife Judyann of Lehigh Acres, FL, Laura Prescott of Enfield, and Brian Bindas and his wife Corrine of Vernon; her two grandchildren, Kristen Worton and her husband Michael of Enfield, and Alisha Sierra of Lehigh Acres, FL; four great-grandchildren, Dominic, Dante, Logan and Prescott; her sister, Carol Campbell and her husband John of Southington as well as numerous nieces, nephews and extended family. In addition to her husband and parents, Mary is predeceased by her son-in-law, Brian Prescott, and five siblings, Richard, Michael, Eleanor, Grace and Jeanne.

A time of visitation for family and friends will be held on Monday, January 9, 2023, from 10-12 p.m. at the Carmon Poquonock Funeral Home, 1816 Poquonock Ave. (Rte 75) Windsor, with a funeral service to begin at 12 p.m. at the funeral home. Burial will follow in the Windsor Veterans Memorial Cemetery, Windsor. Memorial donations in her memory may be made to the Alzheimer’s Association, CT Chapter, 200 Executive Blvd. Ste. 4B, Southington, CT 06489. To leave an online message of condolence for her family, please visit www.carmonfuneralhome.com.

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Eleanor (Blazis) Kula - May 16, 1931 - November 24, 2022

Departed: 11/24/2022 (Windsor)

Obituary Preview: Eleanor (Blazis) Kula, 91, longtime resident of Poquonock and the beloved wife to the late Frank C. Kula, passed away peacefully on Thursday, November 24, 2022. She was born on May 16, 1931, in Hartford, daughter to John and Adela (Kwiatkauskas) Blazis.

Eleanor grew up in the Poquonock section of Windsor, attended local schools and was a graduate of the former John Fitch High School, Class of 1949. Eleanor lived most of her life in Poquonock where she raised her family. She had the voice of an angel, singing in the St. Joseph Church choir, performing in various shows as well as sang at numerous weddings. She had a love of gardening, flowers and polka dancing. Eleanor and her husband often attended the Polish Home in Windsor Locks and polka weekends with their friends around New England as well as hosted many happy hours at their home. She also bowled in senior leagues and enjoyed visiting her friends at the Windsor Senior Center. Eleanor cherished the time she had with her grandchildren and her memory will be held closely in the hearts of all who knew her.

Eleanor is survived by her three children, Ellie Rhoades and her husband Scott of Storrs, Paul Kula and his wife Kristin of Poquonock and Nancy Kula also of Poquonock; her five grandchildren, Michelle, Kevin, Frank, Andrea and Summer; four great-grandchildren; 2 great-great grandchildren as well as numerous nieces, nephews and extended family. In addition to her husband and parents, she was predeceased by her four siblings, Anthony Blazis, John Blazis, Jennie Blazis and Della Gutt.

Calling hours will be held on Monday, November 28, 2022, from 5-7 p.m. at the Carmon Poquonock Funeral Home, 1816 Poquonock Ave. (Rte 75) in Windsor. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Tuesday, November 29, beginning at 10 a.m. at St. Damien of Molokai Parish - St. Joseph Church, 1747 Poquonock Ave. (Rte 75) in Windsor with a time for family and friends to gather at the funeral home prior to the Mass beginning at 9 a.m. Burial will follow in St. Joseph Cemetery. Memorial donations may be made to the charity of the donor’s choice. To leave an online message of condolence for her family, please visit www.carmonfuneralhome.com.

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Joseph Edward Sweeney - April 13, 1937 - November 24, 2022

Departed: 11/24/2022 (Windsor)

Obituary Preview: Joseph Edward Sweeney, 85, of East Granby, beloved husband for 55 years of the late Carole Ann (McGee) Sweeney, passed away peacefully on Thursday, November 24, 2022 at his home. Born in Hartford on April 13, 1937, son of the late Joseph Henry and Lillian (Kelley) Sweeney, he was raised in East Granby and was a graduate of Simsbury High School, Class of 1955. After high school, Joseph entered a machinist apprenticeship program at Pratt & Whitney Aircraft in East Hartford. He worked his entire career at United Technologies spending several years at Pratt & Whitney and the majority of his career at Hamilton Standard in Windsor Locks until his retirement in 2002 after 46 years of service. After marrying his wife Carole, the young couple built a home with the help of Joseph’s father just a mile from where he grew up. He took tremendous pride in his home and enjoyed raising his two daughters there and later entertaining his two grandchildren. He was an avid New York Yankees fan and later closely followed his grandson’s baseball career never missing a game through East Granby Little League, High School, and later college baseball. He loved supporting his grandchildren in all their activities and never missed their sporting events or his granddaughter’s plays. Most of all, Joseph will be remembered as a simple person who enjoyed spending time at home and being with his family. He loved dogs, especially Pugs, and never forgot his first Pug “Candy” whom he had for many years while his daughters were young. He leaves two daughters, Deborah Lee Sweeney of Windsor Locks, Karen Ann Lavoie and her husband Edward of East Granby, a grandson, Edward “EJ” Lavoie and his wife Donna of Simsbury. In addition to his wife, he was predeceased by a granddaughter, Taylor Marie Lavoie. His family will receive friends on Saturday, December 3, 8-9:30 a.m., at the Carmon Poquonock Funeral Home, 1816 Poquonock Ave., Windsor. A Mass of Christian Burial will follow in St. Damien of Molokai Parish – St. Joseph Church, 1747 Poquonock Ave., Windsor. Burial will be in St. Joseph Cemetery, Windsor. Memorial donations may be made to Granby Ambulance Association, 1 Pegville Rd., Granby, CT 06035 or by visiting, www.granbyambulance.org.

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Lucille Walker Burke - November 12, 1930 - November 12, 2022

Departed: 11/12/2022 (Windsor)

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their surviving family members, funeral or memorial service arrangements, and any other relevant details.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a permanent record of a person's life and legacy.

Who typically writes an obituary?

The responsibility of writing an obituary usually falls on the family members or close friends of the deceased. In some cases, a funeral home or cemetery may offer assistance with writing the obituary.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also include information about funeral or memorial services, charitable donations, and any other relevant details.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or online platform. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from a few sentences to a few paragraphs.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can help to personalize the tribute and make it more meaningful to readers.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online platform?

The submission process varies depending on the publication or platform. Typically, you can submit the obituary through their website, email, or by contacting their customer service department directly.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies widely depending on the publication or platform. Some may charge by the word or line, while others may offer package deals or discounts for online-only publications.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, it is becoming increasingly common for people to write their own obituaries in advance. This can ensure that your life story is told in your own words and can be a therapeutic exercise in reflecting on your accomplishments and values.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, usually including only the most basic information such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary is a more detailed and personalized tribute that provides a fuller picture of the person's life.

Can I include humor or anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! An obituary should reflect the personality and spirit of the deceased. Including humorous stories or anecdotes can help to celebrate their life and make the tribute more engaging and relatable.

How do I handle sensitive information in an obituary?

If there are sensitive issues or controversies surrounding the deceased's life or death, it's best to approach these topics with tact and discretion. You may want to consult with family members or friends to ensure that you're handling the situation with sensitivity.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Yes! Quotes, lyrics, or poems can add depth and meaning to an obituary. Choose something that resonates with the deceased's personality or values to make the tribute more personal and impactful.

What if I need to make corrections to an already-published obituary?

Contact the publication or platform where the obituary was published as soon as possible. They will guide you through their correction process, which may involve reprinting the corrected obituary or updating it online.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The timeframe for publication varies depending on the publication or platform. Online platforms may publish immediately, while print newspapers may take several days or even weeks.

Can I republish an obituary at a later date?

Yes, many publications and platforms allow you to republish an obituary on special occasions such as birthdays or anniversaries. This can be a meaningful way to continue celebrating the deceased's life.

Are there any specific guidelines for writing an obituary for a child or young adult?

Writing an obituary for a child or young adult requires extra sensitivity and care. Focus on celebrating their life and accomplishments, rather than dwelling on their untimely passing.

Can I include charitable donation information in an obituary?

Yes! Many families choose to include information about charitable donations in lieu of flowers. This can be a meaningful way to honor the deceased's memory and support a cause they cared about.

How do I handle multiple marriages or complicated family relationships in an obituary?

Tactfully acknowledge all spouses, children, and other relevant family members. Be honest but respectful when describing complex relationships.

Can I write an obituary for a pet?

Absolutely! Pet owners often consider their pets to be part of the family. Writing an obituary for a beloved pet can be a therapeutic way to process grief and celebrate their life.

Are there any cultural or religious considerations when writing an obituary?

Yes! Be mindful of cultural and religious traditions when writing an obituary. For example, some cultures may have specific customs around mourning or burial practices that should be respected.

How do I preserve an online obituary over time?