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About Butler-Stumpff & Dyer Funeral Home Chapel
Located in the heart of Tulsa, Oklahoma, Butler-Stumpff & Dyer Funeral Home Chapel has been providing compassionate and professional funeral services to families in the community for generations. With a rich history and a commitment to excellence, this esteemed funeral home has earned a reputation for its dedication to helping families celebrate the lives of their loved ones with dignity and respect.
A Legacy of Compassion and Care
Butler-Stumpff & Dyer Funeral Home Chapel has a long-standing tradition of providing exceptional funeral services that cater to the unique needs of each family. Their experienced staff is comprised of caring professionals who understand the importance of creating a personalized and meaningful tribute to your loved one. From traditional funeral services to cremation options and memorial celebrations, they offer a range of choices to suit your family's preferences and budget.
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Funeral Obiturary Search
Recent Funeral Home Obituaries
Gary Eugene Stanger - September 05, 1955 - May 06, 2019
Wendell Ray Bradfield - December 16, 1963 - April 04, 2019
Gregorio Zavala Hernandez - February 01, 1976 - March 19, 2019
Clark Kevin Roden - February 06, 1954 - December 04, 2018
A State-of-the-Art Facility
The funeral home's chapel is located at 2103 East Third Street, Tulsa, OK, 74104, and features a beautifully designed interior that provides a peaceful and comforting atmosphere for families to gather and pay their respects. The facility is equipped with modern amenities, including comfortable seating, ample parking, and handicap accessibility. The chapel's serene ambiance creates a sense of calm, allowing families to focus on celebrating the life of their loved one.
Personalized Funeral Services
At Butler-Stumpff & Dyer Funeral Home Chapel, every funeral service is tailored to reflect the personality, interests, and achievements of the deceased. Their experienced funeral directors work closely with families to create a customized ceremony that honors their loved one's memory. From selecting music and flowers to choosing a casket or urn, they guide you through every step of the planning process with compassion and understanding.
Cremation Options
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In addition to traditional funeral services, Butler-Stumpff & Dyer Funeral Home Chapel offers a range of cremation options to suit your family's needs. Their cremation services include direct cremation, cremation with a memorial service, and full-service cremation with a traditional funeral service. They also provide guidance on scattering gardens, urn selection, and other aspects of the cremation process.
Pre-Planning Services
Butler-Stumpff & Dyer Funeral Home Chapel understands the importance of planning ahead. Their pre-planning services allow individuals to make informed decisions about their final arrangements, ensuring that their wishes are respected and relieving their loved ones of the burden of making difficult choices during a time of grief. By pre-planning, you can lock in costs at today's prices, avoiding future inflation and uncertainty.
Community Involvement
Butler-Stumpff & Dyer Funeral Home Chapel is deeply committed to serving the Tulsa community. They participate in local events, support charitable organizations, and provide educational resources on funeral planning and bereavement support. Their involvement in the community demonstrates their dedication to building strong relationships with the families they serve.
Bereavement Support
Losing a loved one can be an overwhelming experience, but Butler-Stumpff & Dyer Funeral Home Chapel is dedicated to supporting you throughout the grieving process. They offer bereavement counseling, support groups, and online resources to help you cope with your loss. Their compassionate staff is available to provide guidance and comfort as you navigate this difficult time.
Contact Information
If you're seeking more information about Butler-Stumpff & Dyer Funeral Home Chapel or would like to schedule a consultation with one of their experienced funeral directors, please don't hesitate to contact them. You can reach them by phone or visit their website to learn more about their services and facilities.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is an obituary?
An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It's usually published in a newspaper, online obituary platform, or funeral home website to inform friends, family, and acquaintances of the person's passing.
Why are obituaries important?
Obituaries serve as a way to honor and celebrate the life of the deceased, while also providing important information about the funeral or memorial service, burial details, and any charitable donations or tributes in lieu of flowers. They also help to notify people who may not have been aware of the person's passing.
Who typically writes an obituary?
The responsibility of writing an obituary usually falls on the family members or close friends of the deceased. In some cases, the funeral home or mortuary may assist with writing the obituary or provide a template for the family to fill out.
What information should be included in an obituary?
A typical obituary includes the person's full name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also include information about the funeral or memorial service, burial details, and any charitable donations or tributes in lieu of flowers.
How long should an obituary be?
The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or online platform. Generally, it's recommended to keep it concise and focused on the most important information. Aim for around 150-200 words, but it can be longer or shorter depending on the circumstances.
Can I include photos in an obituary?
Yes, many online obituary platforms and newspapers allow you to include one or more photos of the deceased. This can be a nice way to personalize the obituary and make it more meaningful to those who read it.
How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?
Contact the newspaper's obituary department directly to inquire about their submission process and deadlines. Some newspapers may accept submissions online, while others may require you to email or fax the information.
Can I write an obituary for someone who died a long time ago?
Yes, you can still write an obituary for someone who passed away years ago. This can be a therapeutic way to honor their memory and share their story with others. You can publish it online or share it with family and friends.
Is it necessary to include every detail about the person's life in an obituary?
No, it's not necessary to include every detail about the person's life in an obituary. Focus on the most important aspects of their life, such as their relationships, accomplishments, and personality traits that made them special.
Can I include humor or anecdotes in an obituary?
Absolutely! Including humor or personal anecdotes can make the obituary more engaging and help capture the personality of the deceased.
How do I handle sensitive information in an obituary?
If there are sensitive issues surrounding the person's death or personal life, it's best to be honest but tactful when writing the obituary. Avoid including anything that might be hurtful or embarrassing to surviving family members or friends.
Can I write an obituary for a pet?
Yes, many people choose to write obituaries for their beloved pets. This can be a meaningful way to acknowledge their loss and celebrate their life.
What is the difference between an obituary and a eulogy?
An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person and provides basic information about their life. A eulogy is a speech or written tribute that celebrates the person's life and shares personal stories and memories.
How do I find old obituaries?
You can search online archives of newspapers or visit your local library to access microfilm records of old newspapers. There are also several online databases and genealogy websites that offer access to historical obituaries.
Can I edit an obituary after it's been published?
In most cases, it's difficult to make changes to an obituary once it's been published in print. However, if you're publishing online, you may be able to edit or update the obituary as needed.
How long does it take for an obituary to be published?
The publication timeline varies depending on the newspaper or online platform. Some may publish immediately, while others may take several days or even weeks.
Can I request corrections to an obituary if there are errors?
Yes, if you notice errors in an obituary, contact the publication or online platform directly to request corrections. They will usually work with you to correct the mistakes as quickly as possible.
Are there any specific guidelines for writing an obituary for someone who was cremated?
No, there are no specific guidelines for writing an obituary for someone who was cremated. However, you may want to include information about any memorial services or scattering ceremonies that will take place.
Can I include quotes or poems in an obituary?
Absolutely! Including quotes or poems that were meaningful to the deceased can add a personal touch to the obituary and make it more memorable.
How do I ensure that my loved one's obituary is accurate and complete?
Gather information from multiple sources, including family members, friends, and documents like birth certificates and passports. Double-check dates, names, and other details before submitting the obituary for publication.
What is the purpose of including survivors in an obituary?
Including survivors in an obituary serves as a way to notify them of their loved one's passing and allows others to reach out to them with condolences. It also helps to create a sense of community and connection among those who are grieving.
Can I include charitable donation information in an obituary?
Yes, many families choose to include information about charitable donations in lieu of flowers in the obituary. This can be a meaningful way to honor their loved one's memory and support a good cause.
How do I handle multiple marriages or complicated family relationships in an obituary?
Treat each situation individually and focus on being respectful and honest. You may want to consult with other family members or friends to ensure that everyone is comfortable with how these relationships are presented in the obituary.
What is the best way to share an online obituary with others?
You can share online obituaries through social media platforms like Facebook and Twitter, as well as via email or messaging apps. You can also share a link to the obituary on memorial websites or online condolence books.