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Carol Robillard - September 03, 1951 - April 29, 2024

Departed: 04/29/2024 (Naugatuck)

Obituary Preview: Carol Robillard “Her family was her greatest joy”

Naugatuck, CT Carol Robillard, 72, wife of Elmer Robillard, died peacefully on April 29, 2024 at her home surrounded by loving family.

Carol was born on September 3, 1951 in New Brunswick, Canada a daughter of the late Wilfred and Mary (Travis) Markey. Carol graduated from Shelton High School and worked for over 30 years as a medical secretary at Griffin Hospital, before retiring in 2017. She was a faithful parishioner of St. Vincent Ferrer Church and she enjoyed going on cruises with her husband and her family. Being a grandmother to Lindsey, Tanner, Noah, Eli and Dylan was the greatest joy of her life.

In addition to Elmer, her loving husband of 52 years, Carol is survived by her daughter, Deborah Walsh (Dave); her son, Patrick Robillard (Joy Durinski); her beloved grandchildren, Lindsey Walsh, Tanner Robillard, Noah Robillard, Elijah Robillard and Dylan Hornby; her sister, Marie McDonald (Paul); her sister in law, Sally Markey; her brothers, David Markey (Joyce) and Bernard Markey (Linda) along with many nieces and nephews.

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Joan L. Hagstrand - March 17, 1956 - April 27, 2024

Departed: 04/27/2024 (Naugatuck)

Obituary Preview: Naugatuck, CT Joan (Colvin) Hagstrand, 68, widow of Warren Hagstrand, Jr., whom she had been married to for 43 years, died peacefully on April 27, 2024 at Waterbury Hospital.

Joanie, as she was affectionately called by all, was born on March 17, 1956 in Flushing, Queens, NY, the youngest daughter of the late William and Doris (Stahlberg) Colvin. She lived in Naugatuck for the past 33 years and was a former employee of Stop & Shop in town.

Known for her goofy antics and kind heart, Joanie would always go out of her way to lend an ear and do what she could to make others feel cared for. Every conversation began with a “hey babe” and a smile. She was a beach lover, a bingo enthusiast and enjoyed making people laugh. Her love language was food and no meal was complete without cracking a few jokes and a little dance.

But her greatest joy was being a Mimi to her grandson Liam. Their bond was filled with laughter, hugs, and endless love. She cherished every moment spent with him, and he adored her right back.

Joanie is survived by her daughter and son in law, Danielle and Thomas Hill; her grandson, Liam Hill; her sister, Jean Colvin; and her niece and nephews. In addition to her parents, Joan was predeceased by her, sister Candace Hardie (Colvin) and her brother, William Colvin.

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Philip W. Nichols - July 02, 1946 - April 20, 2024

Departed: 04/20/2024 (Naugatuck)

Obituary Preview: Naugatuck, CT Philip Winston Nichols, Jr., 77, husband of Cynthia Nichols, died unexpectedly on April 20, 2024 at Waterbury Hospital.

Phil was born July 2, 1946 in Presque Isle, Maine son of the late Philip and Vivian Nichols and was raised in Presque Isle, ME and Milford, CT. Before retiring in 2008, Phil worked as a butcher for 42 years at various supermarkets in Connecticut and was a member of Local 371, United Food & Commercial Workers International Union (UFCW).

Phil is a United States Navy Veteran, having served one tour of duty in Vietnam. He was interested in carpentry and did most of the work in his house. He enjoyed spending time in the Outer Banks of North Carolina and was a classic car enthusiast. Phil also enjoyed spending time with his family and was a great father to his sons and he had a very, very dry sense of humor.

Phil is survived by Cindy, his wife of 56 years; his sons, Jeffrey and David and his grandson, David.

A graveside service, with military honors, will be Friday, April 26, 2024 at 11:00am at Grove Cemetery, 62 Cross Street, Naugatuck. Those attending are kindly asked to please meet directly at the cemetery. There are no calling hours and arrangements have been entrusted to the Buckmiller Thurston Mengacci Funeral Home, 82 Fairview Avenue, Naugatuck, CT 06770.

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Philip A. Arcuri - November 25, 1946 - April 19, 2024

Departed: 04/19/2024 (Naugatuck)

Obituary Preview: Naugatuck, CT Philip A. Arcuri, 77, husband of Annette J. Arcuri, died peacefully on April 19, 2024 at the Veterans Administration Medical Center in West Haven.

Phil was born November 25, 1946 in Waterbury, CT a son of the late Gabriel and Mary (Matos) Arcuri. Phil graduated from St. Francis School, Naugatuck High School and Recruit Training Command in Great Lakes, IL. Phil worked as a facilities manager for 38 years at the Perkin Elmer, Hughes, Raytheon and Goodrich Companies, before retiring on October 12, 2008.

Phil was a proud United States Navy Veteran, having served from February 2, 1966 to February 7, 1972. From October 1969 through November 1969, he served aboard the USS Preston. Phil was a member of AMVETS, Post CT-43; American Legion, Post #17; Catholic War Veterans, Post #708; Disabled American Veterans, Chapter 47, Italian American War Veterans, Post #1; Veterans of Foreign Wars, Crusader Post 1946; Fraternal Order of Eagles, Aerie 640 and the B.P.O. Elks, Lodge 967.

Phil enjoyed fishing, diner hopping with his grandson Andrew, Friday breakfast with his veteran brothers, lunches with his grandkids Ashlyn, Faith and Andrew, cooking for his wife and family and long rides, which always ended at Swan Lake.

In addition to Annette, his loving wife of 54 years, Phil is survived by his son, Adam Arcuri (Mary); his daughter, Alissa Arcuri (Henry); his brother, Gabe Arcuri (Jodie); his grandchildren, Amber Laptik, Ashlyn Arcuri, Faith Arcuri and Andrew Arcuri. He is also survived by beloved cousins, nieces and nephews. In addition to his parents, Phil was predeceased by his sister, Mary Lou (Arcuri) Favale.

Phil’s family sends a special thank you to all of the doctors, nurses and support staff at the West Haven VA Medical Center.

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Ursula Lena Rossi - July 30, 1943 - April 18, 2024

Departed: 04/18/2024 (Naugatuck)

Obituary Preview: Prospect, CT Ursula Lena Rossi, 80, died peacefully on April 18, 2024 at Hartford Hospital, with loving family by her side.

Ursula was born July 30, 1943 in Waterbury, CT a daughter of the late Elio and Rose (Mazzetti) Rossi. She was raised in the Town Plot section of Waterbury and attended B.W. Tinker School and graduated from Wilby High School. Ursula worked for the past 40 years as the managing director of The Hobby Gallery. She enjoyed being with her family, ironing, going to the casino with her longtime partner Steve, listening to music and reading.

Ursula is survived by her son and daughter in law, Joseph and Tari Happy; her daughter, Melanie Quinn; her daughter and son in law, Karri and Stephen Lombardo; her sister and best friend, Donna Shea; her grandchildren, Korie and Zachary Happy, Ryan Kelly and spouse, Ryan Brower; Jake and Devon Quinn; Lauren and Lily Lombardo; her longtime partner, Stephen Magnani; her sister in law, Leslie Rossi and many nieces, nephews, great nieces, great nephews and cousins. In addition to her parents, Ursula was predeceased by her sister, Nancy Matan; her brother, Orazio “Roz” Rossi and her brother in law, Charles “Bud” Shea.

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Lucille Baummer - March 08, 1928 - April 14, 2024

Departed: 04/14/2024 (Naugatuck)

Obituary Preview: Lucille Baummer “Loving wife, mother, grandmother & great grandmother”

Naugatuck, CT Lucille (Harper) Baummer, 96, the widow of Linden Baummer, her husband of 70 years with whom she was inseparable, died peacefully on April 14, 2024 at Beacon Brook Health Care Center.

Lucille was born March 8, 1928 in Naugatuck, CT a daughter of the late Stephen and Bertha (Durette) Harper. She was a lifelong Naugatuck resident and in her earlier years worked as an inspector at Doo-Val Tool Company in Naugatuck. Later she was a homemaker and lovingly cared for her four granddaughters any chance she could get. It was common for those driving by the Baummer’s meticulously kept home to see “Gram” out playing with the kids. She always had an endless supply of ice cream and treats and most of all LOVE. She loved shopping with her daughter and making trips to the casino with her husband.

Lucille leaves her daughter, Diane Baummer; her grandchildren and great grandchildren, Leslie Sporre, husband Ian and sons, Ryker and Kaven; Jennifer Genthe, son Trevor, daughter Ashtyn and Jennifer’s fiancée, Mario Longo; Kimberly Michael, husband Shannon and sons, Brayden and Riley; and Lyndsey Brenes, husband Rob and sons, JJ, Tyson, and Ethan and several nieces and nephews.

While small in stature Lucille had a big heart and personality and was someone who prioritized family. A little firecracker, so to speak, she was spunky, kind, sensitive, warm, genuine, and funny with a huge heart and will be missed by so many. We find peace in knowing that the love of her life, Linden, has welcomed her to heaven with open arms.

Funeral services will be held on Thursday, April 18, 2024 at 11:30 a.m. at the Buckmiller Thurston Mengacci Funeral Home, 82 Fairview Avenue, Naugatuck. Burial will follow in St. James Cemetery, Cross Street, Naugatuck. Calling hours will be Thursday from 10:00am to 11:30am at the funeral home.

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John D. Faiola - April 30, 1960 - April 14, 2024

Departed: 04/14/2024 (Naugatuck)

Obituary Preview: Naugatuck, CT John Faiola, 63, passed away on April 14, 2024 after many years battling an incurable lung disease. John was born in Philadelphia, PA and grew up in New Milford, CT.

John graduated from New Milford High School in 1980. He served in the Air Force for a short time before he became a journeyman union carpenter, where his creative side began to flow into his work. The next chapter in John’s life took him to NYC, where he finalized deals for real estate and business. After that, he successfully operated All-Star Exteriors in New Rochelle, NY for 10 years. He moved back to CT to be closer to family, where he pursued a career in the digital marketing/health industry. He lived with his longtime girlfriend and business partner, Jennifer and their wonderful rescue dogs, Cooper, Kokomo & Luna in Naugatuck, CT.

John is predeceased by his mother, Dolores Faiola, father Gaetano Faiola, brother, Gaetano Faiola, aunt and uncle, Marge and John Uliano (who helped raise him) and several aunts, uncles and cousins.

Left behind is his life partner, Jennifer Crooks; sister, Gail Miers (Scott); sister, Lori Samarel (Ryan); nieces, Nicole & Amanda Rubbo; nephew, Joseph Rubbo; nephew, Nicholas Faiola, along with many family members and friends that will never forget the indelible mark he left.

Family and friends will gather to honor and celebrate John’s Life on Sunday, April 21, 2024 from 1:00pm to 3:00pm at the Buckmiller Thurston Mengacci Funeral Home, 82 Fairview Avenue, Naugatuck. Burial in New Milford Center Cemetery will be announced at a later date.

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Joseph J. Tampellini - June 23, 1945 - April 11, 2024

Departed: 04/11/2024 (Naugatuck)

Obituary Preview: Joseph J. Tampellini Lieutenant Colonel, USAFR

Naugatuck, CT Joseph J. Tampellini, 78, husband of Patricia E. (Parker) Tampellini, died unexpectedly on April 11, 2024 at St. Mary’s Hospital.

Joe was born June 23, 1945 in Waterbury, CT the oldest son of the late Oscar and Lenore (O’Connor) Tampellini. Joe attended local schools and graduated from Sacred Heart High School, Fairfield University and USAF Officer Training School in Texas. Before retiring, he worked as a purchasing agent for the State of CT, Department of Transportation. He enjoyed photography, politics, writing editorials and he loved Disney World.

One of Joe’s greatest accomplishments was of his USAF service in the 1970’s, 1980’s and 1990’s; however, his highest honor was in raising his beautiful daughter Christine, who predeceased him three years ago.

In addition to Patricia, his loving wife of 54 years, Joe is survived by his brother and sister in law, Patrick and Rosemary Tampellini of Naugatuck; his cousins, James Tampellini and wife Linda and son AJ of Milford, Walter Tampellini and wife Ruby of Casper, Wyoming, Beverly Tischer and husband Dave of Bethany; his niece, Karen Mays and sons, Jack and Ben of Delaware; his nephews, Pat Tampellini and wife Julia of Wolcott and Justin Tampellini and wife Heather of Bristol. Joe also leaves grandnieces, Ashley, Caden, Vanessa and Carlena and a grandnephew, Killiam.

Joe loved his family deeply and cherished each and every one of them. In addition to his parents, Joe was predeceased by his daughter, Christine Tampellini and his brothers, Allan Tampellini and Edward Tampellini.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated Saturday at 10:00am at St. Vincent Ferrer Church, 1006 New Haven Road, Naugatuck. Burial with military honors will follow at St. James Cemetery, Cross Street, Naugatuck. Calling hours will be Saturday from 8:30am to 9:30am at the Buckmiller Thurston Mengacci Funeral Home, 82 Fairview Avenue, Naugatuck. Members of the Naugatuck Veterans Council will assemble at the funeral home Saturday morning at 9:15am.

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Ida Jane Coppola - February 13, 1936 - April 10, 2024

Departed: 04/10/2024 (Naugatuck)

Obituary Preview: East Berlin, CT Ida Jane Coppola, 88, of East Berlin, formerly of Naugatuck and Waterbury, died peacefully on April 10, 2024 after a brief illness.

Ida was the youngest daughter of the late Anthony Coppola Sr. and Genevieve (Caliento) Coppola. She was predeceased by her brothers, Joseph Coppola and Anthony Coppola Jr. and sister, Doris Tynan.

A woman of deep faith, Ida was a devoted parishioner of St Vincent Ferrer Church in Naugatuck for many years. Her faith led her on many spiritual pilgrimages throughout life. She traveled to Vatican City, Fatima, Lourdes, and Medjugorje.

Ida was also a talented artist and seamstress. Her nieces will always treasure her landscape paintings of various scenes throughout New England as well as her exquisite quilts.

Ida’s family would like to thank the Vitas Connecticut Hospice team of Waterbury for their kind and compassionate care. Ida leaves her nieces Patricia Schwartz (Mark) of Orange and Karen Bogli (Todd) of Middletown.

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Michelle Schafer - February 21, 1970 - April 03, 2024

Departed: 04/03/2024 (Naugatuck)

Obituary Preview: Naugatuck, CT Michelle Schafer, 54, wife of Pat Schafer, died unexpectedly on April 3, 2024 at St. Mary’s Hospital.

Michelle was born in Jacksonville, FL on February 21, 1970 and had lived in Naugatuck for the past 30 years. Michelle was 100% selfless and accepting of everyone in a completely non-judgmental way. Besides being the center of her family’s world, she was also a pillar of the community having organized charities ranging from animals to families struggling in anyway. Michelle was honored to have received the Most Influential Woman Award from the Boy Scouts of America in June of 2022.

In addition to Pat, her husband of 11 years, best friends for 30, Michelle is survived by her children; Melissa Nichuals, Jennah Pelkey (Robert), Andrew Schafer (Destany), Zach Schafer; her grandchildren, Damian, Mason, Aleyah, Alana, Silas, Maverick, Cain and Scarlett; her mother in law; Barbara Schafer; her sisters, Kathleen Irish, Dee Green (Ali) and Loni Pellegrino; nieces and nephews including Santanna, Rocky, Marcus and several other nieces and nephews; her fur babies; Kaida and Lulabell.

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Angelo P. Bianca - December 24, 1933 - April 02, 2024

Departed: 04/02/2024 (Naugatuck)

Obituary Preview: Woodbury, CT Angelo Paul Bianca, 90, died peacefully on April 2, 2024 at Waterbury Hospital.

Angelo was born December 24, 1933 in Waterbury, CT a son of the late Vincenzo and Antoinette Bianca. He was raised in Waterbury, CT and graduated from Leavenworth High School. Angelo proudly served in the U.S. Navy during the Korean War and before retiring in 1993, he worked as a self-employed general contractor. He enjoyed golfing and cruises; had a great sense of humor, a quick wit and was an avid storyteller.

Angelo is survived by his son, Robert Bianca and his wife, Regina of Naugatuck, CT; his son, Jon Bianca of Ponte Vedra Beach, FL; his granddaughter, Alyssa Bianca and her husband, James Nolan of New York, NY; his grandson, Jake Bianca of Boston, MA and several nieces and nephews. In addition to his parents, Angelo was predeceased by his brothers, Joseph Bianca and Paul Bianca; his sister, Bridget Agati and his wife, Joanne (Roucco) Bianca.

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Dorothy A. "Dot" Murtha - December 23, 1930 - April 01, 2024

Departed: 04/01/2024 (Naugatuck)

Obituary Preview: Naugatuck, CT Dorothy A. “Dot” Murtha, 93, widow of Thomas F. Murtha, Sr., whom she was married to for 45 years, died peacefully on April 1, 2024 at River Glen in Southbury with loving family by her side.

Dorothy was born December 23, 1930 in Shelton, CT daughter of the late Robert and Katherine (McIntyre) Wheeler and had lived in Naugatuck for most of her life. She graduated from Saint Mary’s High School and from Stone College in New Haven with an Associate’s Degree in Business. Before retiring she worked as a secretary at Sutherland Insurance Company.

Dot was a devout Catholic and member of the Naugatuck Council of Catholic Women. Dot had many beloved friends and family, including Joanne, Jane, Libby, Barbara, Marilyn, Doris and Ruthie. She enjoyed traveling with Tom and their children, creating special memories with trips to Myrtle Beach, Maine and Burke, Vermont. Dot especially enjoyed time with her grandchildren and great grandchildren.

Dorothy is survived by her children, Thomas F. Murtha, Jr. (Laurie), Catherine Bursey (Blake), Christy Fuller (Harry), Robert Murtha and John Murtha (Sandy); her grandchildren, Kiersten Lopes (Michael), Patrick Bursey (Jennifer), Sarah Bursey and Mary Murtha; her great grandchildren, Wyatt, Tori and Cora Lopes.

The family would like to thank the staff at River Glen Health Care Center in Southbury for their kindness and compassion.

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Asencio J. "Ace" Timoteo - May 08, 1956 - March 27, 2024

Departed: 03/27/2024 (Naugatuck)

Obituary Preview: Asencio "Ace" Timoteo Loving husband, father, grandfather & brother

Naugatuck, CT Asencio "Ace" Timoteo, 67, husband of almost 46 years and best friend of Patricia (Lennon) Timoteo passed away peacefully with his family by his side on March 27.

Ace was born May 8, 1956 in Caracas, Venezuela, son of the late Albino and Maria Timoteo. After immigrating to the United States in 1960, he attended Naugatuck Public Schools, and was a graduate from Naugatuck High School in 1974. He graduated from Waterbury State Technical College with a Degree in Electrical Engineering. Ace was employed at Speeds, Inc. in Waterbury for 16 years, before becoming a part owner and Vice President of Operations of American Copy Service Center. He established many personable and professional relationships before retiring in 2017.

Ace loved the outdoors, especially working in his garden and walking the neighborhood. He was an avid fan of the Boston Red Sox, the Dallas Cowboys, and the UConn Huskies. Ace always had music playing; he attended over 30 Jackson Browne concerts. He enjoyed traveling to his condo in Myrtle Beach and vacationing in Cape Cod with his grandkids. Locally, Ace was a member of the Elks, enjoyed breakfasts as Burnsie's, playing setback with his buddies, and bowling in leagues at Perillo's. Along with his wife, he wore many hats, volunteering at St. Francis School when their daughters were attending. He also volunteered his time at the St. Francis Fair for many years.

Besides his wife he leaves his two daughters, who he was extremely proud of: Rachel Koerner and her husband Mike, and Elizabeth Kurimai and her husband Matthew; his beautiful grandchildren Michael, Nora, Charlotte, and James whom he adored and who each share some of their grandfather's sparkling personality. He leaves his brother Albino, his father-in-law Raymond Lennon, Sr., his brother-in-law Raymond Lennon and his wife Linda, his brother-in-law Steven Behlman and his wife Pia, his nephews Jeremy Lennon, Steven Behlman, Jr., and David Behlman, and his niece Jessica Quiles and their families. He was predeceased by his parents Albino and Maria, his brother Manuel, mother-in-law Elinore Lennon, and granddaughter Grace Lennon Koerner.

Ace knew what was important in his life. This was evident in his relationships with "his girls." He never failed to say I love you, and gave the best hugs. He was the kindest and gentlest man most of us have ever known. He leaves a legacy of love and friendship. His family will always be grateful to those wonderful friends, neighbors, and extended family members who helped him so much during the difficult days of his illness.

The family would like to thank all of the wonderful and caring doctors, nurses, radiologists, and staff at Harold Leever Cancer Center, Smilow Cancer Center, and Vitas at St. Mary's who were so caring and compassionate.

A memorial service will be held on Tuesday, April 2, 2024 at 12:00pm at the Buckmiller Thurston Mengacci Funeral Home, 82 Fairview Avenue, Naugatuck. Family and friends will gather to honor and celebrate Ace’s Life from 10:00am to 12:00pm on Tuesday, prior to the memorial service. Donations in remembrance of Ace can be made to the Children's Heart Foundation (https://www.childrensheartfoundation.org) in honor of his granddaughter Grace.

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Earle Cameron Root - October 11, 1953 - March 27, 2024

Departed: 03/27/2024 (Naugatuck)

Obituary Preview: Beacon Falls, CT Earle Cameron Root Jr, age 70 of Beacon Falls, entered into peaceful rest on March 27, 2024 at Complete Care at Glendale in Naugatuck, after a short battle with cancer. He was surrounded by family and friends in the weeks before his passing as they reminisced over memories.

Earle was born on October 11, 1953 in Derby, CT a son of the late Earle Cameron and Margaret (Pelley) Root. He was raised in Bethany, where he graduated from Amity Regional High School. Earle was retired from DonhamCraft Inc. / Unimetal Surface Finishing in Naugatuck / Thomaston where he was employed as a quality assurance manager and a customer liaison representative. Earle loved fishing and trivia nights with his family and the Finellis. He also enjoyed gardening, cooking, crossword puzzles and crocheting. Earle was a big fan of the NY Yankees and the New England Patriots.

Earle leaves his loving family, including his children, Margaret Best and her husband, Bob of VA, Heather Capozziello and her husband, Joseph of Beacon Falls, with whom he resided, Beau Green of Naugatuck, Nicole Finelli and her husband, John of CT and Cheyenne Root and her fiancé, Aj Lee of FL; his siblings Dena Forbes and her husband, Les of Wallingford, Jane Raccio of Naugatuck, David Root and his wife, Eloisa of Ansonia, Mathew Root and his wife, Maggie of Ansonia and Roy Pipher of Wallingford; his grandchildren, Bobby, Christine and Jason Best, Wyatt and Anya Capozziello, Hailee Green, Callie Lee and Grayson Finelli. Along with several nieces and nephews. In addition to his parents, he was also predeceased by his sister, Estelle Daum.

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Francesanne Haywood - August 21, 1946 - March 23, 2024

Departed: 03/23/2024 (Naugatuck)

Obituary Preview: Naugatuck, CT Francesanne (Tully) Haywood, 77, loving wife of William Haywood, died unexpectedly on March 23, 2024 at St. Mary’s Hospital with family by her side.

Frances was born August 21, 1946 in Waterbury, CT a daughter of the late James Edward and Frances Cecilia (Smegelski) Tully and had lived in Naugatuck all of her life. She graduated from Naugatuck High School and St. Mary’s School of Nursing and worked for many years as a registered nurse and was also a long time teacher at Buttons and Bows, retiring in 2020.

Loving and caring for her family was her number one priority up until her very last moments. Her greatest joys were spending time with her husband, the love of her life for 56 years; her seven grandchildren and her new great granddaughter. She loved making memories on Cape Cod, long drives on Sundays and celebrating holidays with big family dinners. She was the happiest when everyone went home with leftovers. Above all, she was a proud and devoted mother to her four children.

In addition to her husband Bill, Frances is survived by her children, son Daniel Haywood; son and daughter in law, David and Tammy Haywood and their children, Naomi, Adam, Sierra and Katrina; son and daughter in law, Tully and Stephanie Haywood and their children, Miranda and William; daughter and son in law, Megan and Matthew Bernardini and their son, Ryan; her brother and sister in law, James Tully, Jr. and Bonnie Tully and their daughter, Kate Naito. In addition to her parents, Frances was predeceased by her sister, Barbara Tully.

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William Maguire - February 21, 1936 - March 18, 2024

Departed: 03/18/2024 (Naugatuck)

Obituary Preview: William Maguire Loved spending time with his family

Branford, CT William Maguire, 88, died peacefully on March 18, 2024 at Yale New Haven Hospital with loving family by his side. Bill was the husband of the late Anne Marie (Toole) Maguire for 59 years.

Bill was born on February 21, 1936 in Mount Kisco, NY a son of the late William J. and Nora E. (Dwyer) Maguire and had recently lived in Southington after living most of his life in Naugatuck. Bill was an avid Yankees, Celtics and UCONN fan. He enjoyed fishing and hiking and attending his children’s and grandchildren’s sporting events. He enjoyed traveling with his family and close friends and he loved spending time with his family, going on family vacations, babysitting/sleepovers with his grandchildren and great granddaughter and getting together for family parties. He enjoyed the work that he did, such as his time in the Army; spending time on his yard; the adventure of traveling and his work as a service engineer, sales manager and vice-president.

Bill is survived by his son, Rev. William Maguire, C.P. of East Haven; his daughter, Marianne (Tom) Szarkowicz of Watertown and their children, Michael, Andrea (Nick), Thomas and Mary; his daughter, Susan Maguire of Connecticut and her children, Samantha, William, Joseph, Sean and granddaughter, A’leah; his daughter in law, Christine Maguire of Naugatuck and her children, Jessica (Christian) and Ryan; his sisters, Kathleen DeMatteo (Carl) and Mary Finlay; his sister in law, Toni Maguire; his brother in law, Ray Donnelly and many nieces and nephews. In addition to his wife and his parents, Bill was predeceased by his sons, Dennis Maguire, Joseph Maguire and John Maguire; his brother, James Maguire and his sister, Margaret “Peg” Donnelly.

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Margaret M. Cirillo - November 24, 1926 - March 12, 2024

Departed: 03/12/2024 (Naugatuck)

Obituary Preview: Naugatuck, CT Margaret M. (Cagliostro) Cirillo, 97, widow of John Sam Cirillo, her loving husband of 57 years, died Tuesday March 12, 2024 at Waterbury Hospital.

Margaret was born in Reggio, Calabria, Italy November 24, 1926 daughter of the late Sebastiano and Maria (Recitano) Cagliostro. She lived in Naugatuck for the past 40 years, was a devout catholic and parishioner of St. Francis of Assisi Church. Margaret enjoyed trips to the beach, walking, swimming, listening to her favorite music and in her younger years, she enjoyed dancing.

Mrs. Cirillo is survived by her daughters, Deborah and Elaine and several nieces and nephews. In addition to her husband and her parents, Margaret was predeceased by her son, Frank Cirillo.

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Maria A. Vigario - September 29, 1941 - March 03, 2024

Departed: 03/03/2024 (Naugatuck)

Obituary Preview: Maria Vigario Devoted wife, mother, grandmother

Naugatuck, CT Maria Vigario, 82, wife of Antonio Vigario, died peacefully on March 3, 2024 at St. Mary’s Hospital.

Maria was born August 29, 1941 in Monte, Murtosa, Portugal a daughter of the late Antonio DaSilva and Laura Chipelo DaSilva and lived in Naugatuck for the past 53 years. Maria was a parishioner of Our Lady of Fatima Church and a member of the Clube Uniao Portuguesa Ladies Auxiliary. Maria was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother and loved her family.

In addition to Antonio, her husband of 54 years, Maria is survived by her sons, Peter Vigario and Paul Vigario; her daughter in-law, Nedi Nazari; her beloved granddaughters, Ainara and Nyla Vigario; her brother, Jose Chipelo DaSilva; her sister, Antonia Chipelo DaSilva and her nieces, Natalia DaSilva and Rosa Holler; her nephews, Leon Silva and Jack Silva.

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Joseph William Krayeski - November 09, 1943 - February 26, 2024

Departed: 02/26/2024 (Naugatuck)

Obituary Preview: Naugatuck, CT Joseph William Krayeski, 80, husband of Beverly (Kirk) Krayeski, died peacefully at his home on February 26, 2024 with his loving wife and daughters by his side.

Joe was born November 9, 1943 in Waterbury, CT son of the late Joseph V. and Emma “Rita” (DeLucia) Krayeski. Joe was raised in Naugatuck, attended local schools, graduated from Naugatuck High School, Class of 1961 and earned his bachelor’s degree from St. Michael’s College in Winooski, VT. Before retiring in 2010, Joe worked for most of his career in New York City and Connecticut as a commodities trader in the copper industry and had the opportunity to travel the world in that capacity. He enjoyed fine dining and watching UCONN basketball and will best be remembered for his incredible work ethic and devotion to his family.

In addition to Beverly, his adoring wife of 59 years, Joe is survived by his daughters, Debra (Erik) Olesen and Susan Culotta; his grandchildren, Ryan Olesen, Jillian Olesen, Ethan Culotta and Eli Culotta; his sister, Janet (Fred) Elia; his sister in law, Joyce (Dom) Alegi; his brothers in law, Donald (Dariel) Kirk and Ross (Luiz) Kirk and many nieces and nephews. Joe was predeceased by his son in law, Mark Culotta.

Joe’s family wishes to thank the nurses and caregivers from Hartford HealthCare Hospice and the Naugatuck EMS for their compassion and support.

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Donald Scott Myers - April 05, 1954 - February 13, 2024

Departed: 02/13/2024 (Naugatuck)

Obituary Preview: Naugatuck, CT Donald Scott Myers, 69, husband of Pamela (Johnson) Myers, died peacefully on February 13, 2024 at his home with loving family by his side.

Scott was born April 5, 1954 in Waterbury, CT a son of the late Donald E. and Ann (Moran) Myers. Scott graduated from St. Francis Grammar School and Naugatuck High School and worked for the Naugatuck Board of Education for 15 years, retiring in 2007.

Scott enjoyed golfing, attending the auction in Seymour, CT and walking with Layla and his friends. He also enjoyed refurbishing any old item he could get his hands on.

In addition to Pam, his wife of 36 ½ years, Scott is survived by his son, Matthew Myers (Vanessa); daughter, Kristen Myers; siblings, Gary Myers (Janice), Rick Myers, Nancy Knapp (Larry), Suzanne Porto, Jill Myers and Keith Myers (Nicole); grandsons, Julian Gonzalez and Sonny Myers; granddaughter, Mia Myers and one granddaughter on the way; many nieces, nephews and beloved canine companion, Layla. In addition to his parents, Scott was predeceased by his mother in law, Dianne Engelstad; father in law, Robert Johnson; sister in law, Patti Johnson and brother in law, David Porto.

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Vera S. Grohs - December 19, 1944 - February 10, 2024

Departed: 02/10/2024 (Naugatuck)

Obituary Preview: Naugatuck, CT Vera S. (Sheridan) Grohs, 79, passed away peacefully on February 10, 2024, surrounded by her loving family.

Vera was born December 19, 1944, in Waterbury, CT daughter of the late James and Vera (Nordstrom) Sheridan. She lived in Naugatuck all her life, graduated from Naugatuck High School, class of 1963, and worked at Waterbury Hospital.

Vera was a dedicated mother and grandmother who enjoyed spending time with family and friends. Vera is survived by her sons, Kenneth Grohs, Jr. (Carrie) of Naugatuck and James Grohs (Patricia) of Middlebury; her daughter, Kimberly Gilbert (Dr. Richard) of Middlebury; her beloved grandchildren, Corey Grohs, Kaitlyn Grohs, Carly Grohs, Joshua Gilbert, Samantha Gilbert, and Matthew Grohs; several nieces, nephews, cousins, and many lifelong close friends.

Vera was predeceased by her aunt, Helen R. Sheridan, who raised her after her parents passed away and her former husband, Kenneth Grohs, Sr.

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Lucy DeLorenzo - December 10, 1955 - February 10, 2024

Departed: 02/10/2024 (Naugatuck)

Obituary Preview: Waterbury, CT Lucy Frances DeLorenzo, 68, died February 10, 2024.

Lucy was born December 10, 1955 in Waterbury, CT a daughter of the late John and Lois (Beardmore) DeLorenzo. Lucy lived in Waterbury all of her life and she retired from the United States Postal Service.

Lucy is survived by her son, Francis Bonacassio, Jr.; her grandsons, Anthony Ferraiolo, Stephen Sorbo and Kayden Sorbo; her sisters, brothers, nieces, nephews and cousins. Lucy was predeceased by her son, Stephen J. Sorbo.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated Saturday at 10:00am at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church, 785 Highland Avenue, Waterbury. Everyone attending is kindly asked to meet directly at church. Burial will follow in Grove Cemetery, Cross Street, Naugatuck. Calling hours are Friday from 5:00-7:00pm at the Buckmiller Thurston Mengacci Funeral Home, 82 Fairview Avenue, Naugatuck.

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James Robert Edmonds - June 14, 1951 - January 30, 2024

Departed: 01/30/2024 (Naugatuck)

Obituary Preview: Jim “Byrd” Edmonds Loving husband, son, brother, uncle & great uncle

Naugatuck, CT Jim “Byrd” Edmonds, 72, husband of Barbara (Schwartz) Edmonds, died peacefully on January 30, 2024 at Waterbury Hospital.

Byrd was born June 14, 1951 in Waterbury, CT a son of the late Thomas F. and Betty (Solie) Edmonds. A lifelong Naugatuck resident, Byrd graduated from St. Francis Grammar School and Naugatuck High School, Class of 1969. He then attended New Haven College for Law Enforcement.

Byrd worked in various drinking establishments in town, with his “home” being the Long Meadow Café. He also worked at Risdon Manufacturing and Uniroyal and before retiring he worked for 20 years at Platt Brothers in Waterbury.

Byrd always had a smile and a story to share, like the time he beat Wilt Chamberlain playing poker. He had many interests, his beloved Miami Dolphins, the Kentucky Derby, music, Misquamicut vacations and he loved to play in the summer softball leagues. He attended the original Woodstock and his favorite music was The Kinks, Zombies, Billy Carrington and most of all Jimmy Buffett. He would wake up early on vacations and walk the beach, then the fun would start.

In addition to Barbara, his loving wife of 24 years, Byrd is survived by his brother and sister in law, Thomas E. and Claudette Edmonds of Prospect, CT; his sister and brother in law, Jane and Scott Thompson of Plainfield, CT; his sister, Lori Ramos of San Diego, CA; several nieces, nephews, great nieces and great nephews. In addition to his parents, Byrd was predeceased by his buddy, Virgil. Barb and Byrd were able to check a few things off of their bucket list, the most memorable ones being attending the 2004 Kentucky Derby and in 2021 visiting Key West. Thank you Jamie!

In Byrd’s own words, and with a couple from Jimmy Buffett, “Attitude Adjustment” and “Fins Up”.

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Lynn M. Vergnetti - July 25, 1956 - January 25, 2024

Departed: 01/25/2024 (Naugatuck)

Obituary Preview: Meriden, CT Lynn (Matos) Vergnetti of Meriden, passed away peacefully on Thursday, January 20, 2024 at VITAS at St. Mary’s Hospital after a long illness.

Lynn was born on July 25, 1956 to the late William and Marieta Matos of Naugatuck. Lynn graduated from Naugatuck High School and worked at Hunter’s Ambulance prior to her illness.

In her younger years she loved to square dance with her friends and was a member of many Square Dancing Clubs. Lynn and her daughter Sara shared a passion for Poodles and traveled to shows including Westminster Kennel Club, Saratoga Kennel Club and many more. She took care of many fur babies and of course her feathered friend Chuka. Even during her illness Lynn always had her yarn nearby and was always crocheting.

She leaves to cherish her memories, her daughter, Sara Vergnetti; her sister, Karen Boccuzzi and her husband Nicholas Jr.; her brother, Paul Matos and his wife Irene; her nieces and nephews, Erica Boccuzzi, Nicholas Boccuzzi III, Danielle Streifel and her husband James and Alex Ryley Matos; her uncle, Manuel Matos as well as many cousins, extended family members and friends.

Lynn was predeceased by her parents William and Marieta Matos, her brother, Mark Matos, her infant nephews, Kyle Boccuzzi and Brett Boccuzzi; her grandparents and several aunts and uncles.

We would like to send a special thank you to the staff at Village Green of Bristol for their many years of care and compassion for Lynn during her illness. Also a special thank you to Chaplin Michael Lynn for his kindness and grace in the time spent with Lynn.

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Barbara J. Sheedy - May 13, 1942 - January 22, 2024

Departed: 01/22/2024 (Naugatuck)

Obituary Preview: Waterbury, CT The Honorable Barbara Joan "B.J." Sheedy, 81, passed away peacefully on January 22, 2024 at The Village at East Farms. Born in Derby, CT, she was the daughter of Christopher Joseph

Sheedy and Barbara Ellen Trant Sheedy. B.J. began her educational journey at St. Francis of Assisi Grammar School in Naugatuck

followed by Naugatuck High School (Class of 1960) where she was an academic star. She delighted in being captain of the Naugatuck High School Cheerleaders and for many years thereafter would perform cartwheels upon request. B.J. was one of a few academically gifted high school seniors to be invited to UCONN at Storrs as a visiting high school scholar. She fell

in love with UCONN where she completed her undergraduate degree in 1964. Upon graduation, she pursued an educational career teaching English at Amity Regional School

District in Woodbridge followed by a second career in educational publishing in New York City. Motivated to press past her limits, she enrolled in the UCONN School of Law evening division in 1976 while working full time. Upon graduation from law school, she joined the law firm of Gilhooly, McGrail & Carroll in New Haven where she quickly rose in the ranks to partnership in Gilhooly, McGrail, Carroll & Sheedy. No lawyer was more devoted to the legal profession than B.J. She often worked tirelessly into the wee hours of the night preparing for depositions, hearings and trials. As a formidable adversary, B.J. assured that no opposing counsel would be better prepared than she. She was a fighter who one grateful client described as a “force to be reckoned with.” A trailblazer for women attorneys in Connecticut, she was appointed as a Superior Court Judge in 1998 when women comprised only 16 percent of the Connecticut Court Bench. She was admired by colleagues and lawyers alike as a fair, exceptionally competent and thoughtful jurist commanding respect from all who appeared in court before her. Retiring from the bench in

2012, she remained a Judge Trial Referee for several years. Always mindful of the importance of giving back to her community, she served on the board of directors of United Way and her alma mater, St. Francis of Assisi Grammar School. She established a legacy gift of college scholarships for academically gifted Naugatuck High School

students in need of financial assistance. Her family was of utmost importance in her life. She lived with and cared for her mother until she passed away in 2000. She adored her many nieces, nephews and their children and was an ardent fan and cheering spectator at their many sports events. Forever a fervent UCONN Men’s and Women’s basketball and Red Sox fan, she never missed a game or the chance to watch

Jim Calhoun. B.J. was a voracious reader and loved visiting her second home on Cape Cod. She will be lovingly remembered for her keen wit, generosity of spirit for family and friends,

broad smile and stunning Irish blue eyes. B.J. is survived by her eight nieces and nephews: Shawn Fitzgerald (Deborah), Christopher Sheedy (Valerie), Kelly Crone (Len), Maura Fitzgerald Moccaie (Christopher), Heather Sheedy (Michael), John Sheedy (Marley), Brendan Sheedy (Denise) and Kara Sheedy (Randy); her sisters-in-law, Louise, Joyce and Patricia Sheedy, and many grand nieces and nephews. B.J. is also survived by Rosemary Giuliano, with whom she shared a beautiful friendship lasting over

40 years. Besides her mother, Barbara Ellen, to whom she was so devoted, B.J. is predeceased by her father, Christopher, her sister, Anne Fitzgerald, her twin, Gary, her brother, Christopher, twin brothers, Jerry and John, her brother-in-law, William Fitzgerald, her sister-in-law, Trudy and great

nephew, Ethan John Obar. To celebrate B.J.’s extraordinary life and accomplishments, visitation will be held on Friday, January 26, 2024 from 4-7pm at Buckmiller Thurston Mengacci Funeral Home, 82 Fairview Avenue, Naugatuck and a Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Saturday, January 27, 2024 at 10:00 am at St. Francis of Assisi Church, 318 Church Street, Naugatuck. Burial will follow in St. James Cemetery,

Cross Street, Naugatuck. The family extends their gratitude and appreciation to the Village at East Farms, Visiting Angels

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their family, accomplishments, and funeral or memorial service arrangements.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to share news of a loved one's passing with friends, family, and community members. They provide an opportunity to honor the deceased person's life, share memories, and offer condolences to those who are grieving.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, a family member or close friend writes the obituary, although it can also be written by a funeral home or other organization. In some cases, the deceased person may have written their own obituary in advance.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their family, education, career, hobbies, achievements, and any notable accomplishments.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or online platform. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from a few sentences to a few paragraphs at most.

Can I include photos or other multimedia in an obituary?

Yes, many online obituary platforms and some print publications allow you to include photos, videos, or other multimedia elements to enhance the tribute and make it more personal.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online platform?

The process for submitting an obituary varies depending on the publication or platform. You can usually find submission guidelines on their website or by contacting them directly.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies widely depending on the publication or platform. Some online platforms offer free or low-cost options, while print newspapers may charge a fee based on the length of the obituary or other factors.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, many people choose to write their own obituary in advance as a way to ensure that their life story is told accurately and with dignity. This can also help reduce the burden on family members during a difficult time.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of someone's passing, often including only basic information such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary is a more detailed tribute that provides a fuller picture of the person's life.

Can I include humor or anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! An obituary should reflect the personality and spirit of the person being honored. Including humor or anecdotes can help bring comfort and smiles to those who are grieving.

How do I handle sensitive or controversial information in an obituary?

If there are sensitive or controversial aspects of the person's life that you're unsure how to handle, it's best to consult with family members or close friends to determine what is appropriate to include.

Can I include charitable donations or memorial information in an obituary?

Yes, many families choose to include information about charitable donations or memorial funds in lieu of flowers. This can be a meaningful way to honor the person's legacy and continue their impact.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The timeframe for publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication or platform. Online platforms may publish immediately, while print newspapers may take several days or even weeks.

Can I edit or revise an obituary after it's been published?

In some cases, yes. If you need to make corrections or revisions to an obituary that has already been published, contact the publication or platform directly to inquire about their policies.

What if I want to keep the obituary private or restricted?

Sometimes families may want to limit access to an obituary due to privacy concerns or other reasons. Many online platforms offer options for private or restricted access to ensure that only intended viewers can see the tribute.

Can I republish an obituary from another source?

If you want to republish an obituary that has already been published elsewhere, be sure to obtain permission from the original publisher and provide proper attribution.

How do I find old obituaries from years ago?

You can try searching online archives of newspapers or genealogy websites that specialize in historical records. Local libraries or historical societies may also have archives of old newspapers and obituaries.

Can I create a digital archive of my loved one's obituary?

Yes! Many online platforms allow you to save and share digital copies of obituaries. You can also consider creating a digital memory book or scrapbook with photos, stories, and other mementos.

What if I'm struggling with writing an obituary due to grief or emotional distress?

If you're finding it difficult to write an obituary due to grief or emotional distress, consider reaching out to a trusted friend, family member, or professional writer for support. You can also take your time and work on it in stages if needed.

Are there any specific cultural or religious customs surrounding obituaries that I should be aware of?

Yes! Different cultures and religions have unique customs and traditions surrounding death announcements and memorials. Be respectful of these differences and consult with family members or community leaders if you're unsure about specific practices.

Can I use social media to share an obituary?

Absolutely! Social media can be a powerful tool for sharing news of a loved one's passing and connecting with others who are grieving. Just be mindful of privacy settings and respect boundaries when sharing sensitive information.

How do I handle corrections or inaccuracies in an already-published obituary?

If you discover errors in an already-published obituary, contact the publication or platform directly to report the mistake. They will work with you to correct the error and republish the revised version.