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Brayfield-Gilbert Funeral Home is a trusted and compassionate funeral home located in Sesser, Illinois. With a rich history and a commitment to providing exceptional service, the funeral home has been serving the community for many years. Located at 102 W. Callie P.O. Box 624, Sesser, IL, 62884, Brayfield-Gilbert Funeral Home is dedicated to helping families say goodbye to their loved ones with dignity and respect.

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Kenneth "Lee" Hamm - April 02, 1967 - April 27, 2024

Departed: 04/27/2024 (Sesser)

Obituary Preview: Kenneth “Lee” Hamm, 57, of Sesser, passed away on Saturday April 27, 2024 at the Franklin Hospital in Benton. He was born on April 2, 1967 in Peoria, IL to Kenneth A. Hamm and Cynthia (Taylor) Korth. He is survived by his Children Michelle (Mike Morris) Hamm of Indiana, Cody (Courtnye Cavender) Hamm of Sesser and Josh Hamm of Sesser; Grandchildren Jaylynn Hamm and Lilly Morris; Mother Cynthia (Thomas) Korth of Peoria; Father Kenneth A. Hamm of Sesser; The love of his life Teresa Clauson; two Brothers Marty Hamm of Sesser and Greg Hamm of Jacksonville, IL; one half Brother Tommy (Brittany) Korth of Peoria and his Grandparents Betty and Ron Hodges of Sesser. Lee loved to hunt and fish and being outdoors. Lee’s wishes were to be cremated, a memorial service will be held at a later date. He will be greatly missed by his family and friends.

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Mark Arlin Eubanks - December 12, 1966 - April 26, 2024

Departed: 04/26/2024 (Sesser)

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Keith Ward - June 22, 1939 - April 21, 2024

Departed: 04/21/2024 (Sesser)

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Dean Webb - June 26, 1944 - April 05, 2024

Departed: 04/05/2024 (Sesser)

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Robert "Bob" Wayne Boles - November 12, 1948 - March 17, 2024

Departed: 03/17/2024 (Sesser)

Obituary Preview: Robert “Bob” Wayne Boles, cherished husband of Patsy Ann Boles, peacefully passed away at the age of 75 on March 17, 2024 in Sesser, Illinois. Born in Duquoin, Illinois on November 12, 1948, Bob’s life was defined by his love for his wife, enthusiasm for his passions and work, and his dedication to the dogs he rescued. Bob was very proud to be a union coal miner and worked tirelessly at this for 34 years before retiring. In his retirement he spent his time constructing computers, online gaming with his virtual community, and working with his hands. Most significantly his talent for woodworking was a testament to his skill and craftsmanship. Bob spent years pouring his heart into creating beautiful woodworking pieces that will be treasured by his loved ones for years to come. Bob is survived by his wife Pat, his sister Billie Carpenter of DuQuoin, his children: James (Julie) Boles of Sesser, Yolanda (Todd) Larew of Newburg, WV, Shannon (Minnie) Boles of Waynesburg, PA, and his children through marriage Brad (Cathy) Bradley of Murphysboro and Melinda (Alan) Montgomery of Salem. Bob had many grandchildren: Brittany Larew, Savannah Boles, Seth Boles, Bill Bradley, Ashley (Lucian) Chandler, Natasha Montgomery, Justin (Megan) Montgomery, Mikaela (Peter) Waring, Maci Montgomery, Meesha Montgomery, Makoa Montgomery, Micah Montgomery, and Josiah Montgomery. He also was blessed with 16 great-grandchildren. With gratitude for the time we all had together, we say goodbye to Bob. Words cannot fully capture the depth of our loss, may the love and memories we have all shared bring us comfort in the days ahead. Per Bob’s wishes no public services will be held. The family requests those who wish to express sympathy to consider a contribution in his memory made to the Franklin County Humane Society.

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Donald "Don" Atchison - March 31, 1930 - March 09, 2024

Departed: 03/09/2024 (Sesser)

Obituary Preview: Donald “Don” Atchison, 93, of Sesser, passed away on Saturday March 9, 2024 at his home. He was born on March 31, 1930 in Chicago Heights, IL to Lloyd Atchison and Helen (Baggott) Johnson. He was raised by his grandparents Jack and Ella (Stover) Atchison. He married Barbara (Stewart) Atchison and she survives of Sesser. He is also survived by his children Donna (Richard) Yunkus of Benton, Dena (Alan) Fox of Sesser, Larry (Delisia Steele) Atchison of Sesser, Ron (Michele) Atchison of Spring Hill, FL and Darin (Angie) Atchison of Sesser; grandchildren Alicia (Darin) Wuebbles, Lindsey (Andrew) Darnell, Ethan Atchison, Melissa (Nathan) Way, Brittany Atchison, Dailyn (Trey Sharp) Noble, Jayden Fox, Natasha Fox, Alan Fox Jr., Cody Atchison and Phillip Atchison; nine great grandchildren; one sister Diane Stahl of Mulkeytown and several nieces, nephews and cousins. He was preceded in death by his parents, grandparents, one sister Betty, one brother Jack Atchison and one aunt Essie Atchison Smith Hayse. Don was a Truck driver and a Coalminer, he had worked at Freeman #3 mine in Waltonville. He was a Dallas Cowboys fan and a Jeff Gordon fan, he loved to tell stories and from his days driving a truck he was like a human GPS. His wishes were to be cremated. A Celebration of Life will be held on Saturday March 30, 2024 from 11:00 AM until 3:00 PM at the Sesser VFW.

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Clarence Deon Seiler - March 21, 1939 - February 17, 2024

Departed: 02/17/2024 (Sesser)

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Gene Loucks - October 12, 1952 - February 13, 2024

Departed: 02/13/2024 (Sesser)

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Mary Francis Coomber - February 28, 1948 - February 06, 2024

Departed: 02/06/2024 (Sesser)

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Bette Bernell Reynolds - January 05, 1946 - January 28, 2024

Departed: 01/28/2024 (Sesser)

Obituary Preview: Bette Bernell Stubblefield was born on January 5, 1946, to Willie and Hazel (Bradley) Stubblefield at their home in Sesser, IL. She grew up in Sesser, and on May 4, 1972, she married Gary Allen Reynolds. Bette and Gary made their home on State Highway 14 east of Benton, IL. Bette graduated from the School of Technical Careers at SIU-C, and worked as a cosmetologist for five years. She then took a job with the Illinois Department of Mines and Minerals as a secretary at their Benton office, and worked there 30 years until her retirement in 2001. Bette was a member of the Second Baptist Church in Valier. Bette was an excellent cook, specializing in baked goods, and always made homemade eggnog for the family gatherings on Christmas Eve over the years. Bette is survived by her husband, Gary Reynolds and a son, Brandon Reynolds of Benton. She is also survived by three sisters, JoAnn Garner of Herrin, Joyce (Kent) Hodge of Sesser and Gayla Stubblefield of Mt. Vernon, and a brother Richard (Carolyn) Stubblefield of. Mt Vernon. She is also survived by her trusted and beloved friend from childhood, Linda Muir Howell. Bette and Linda met in church in a preschool Sunday School class, went through grade school, high school and cosmetology school as best buds. Their friendship has continued with Linda as a part of her extended family, standing vigil at her bedside, right along with Bette’s husband and siblings during her last illness. Bette was a doting and loving aunt to the following nieces and nephews who mourn her passing: Dr. Kevin (Myjal) Garner, Kara (Karl) Silge, Kendall (Claire) Garner, Michelle Davis, Lenise (Steve) Sgutt, Jennifer (Ed) Lobenhofer, and Nancy (Paul) Graser. Bette passed from this life on January 28, 2024, after being diagnosed with pancreatic cancer in early January. Bette was preceded in death by her daughter, Danielle, her parents, a sister Carolyn Sue Stubblefield, a niece Sara Stubblefield, mother-in-law and father-in-law, Thelma and Ingram Morgan, and a sister-in-law Donna Lampley. Visitation for Bette will be on Tuesday evening, January 30, 2024, from 5:00 PM until 8:00 PM at Brayfield-Gilbert Funeral Home in Sesser. Funeral Services with Pastor Bill Uhls officiating, will be held on Wednesday January 31, 2024, at 11:00 AM, also at Brayfield’s. Burial will be in Maple Hill Cemetery in Sesser. Memorials can be made to the Pancreatic Cancer Research Foundation, and will be accepted at the funeral home or mailed to Brayfield-Gilbert Funeral Home, P O Box 624, Sesser, IL 62884. The family is being served by Steve Gilbert with the Brayfield-Gilbert Funeral Home.

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Connie Maud Morgan - July 14, 1945 - January 17, 2024

Departed: 01/17/2024 (Sesser)

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Joseph Newton McCarty - September 19, 1944 - January 15, 2024

Departed: 01/15/2024 (Sesser)

Obituary Preview: On January 15, 2024 Joseph Newton McCarty left this world to be with the Lord and begin his final chapter. Joe, as most knew him, was loved by so many people. He made a lasting impression wherever he went. From his Cajun accent and hilarious personality, all would remember him. Joe was born September 19, 1944 to Flora and Joseph E McCarty (who preceded him in death) in Pineville, Louisiana. After joining the US Army at age 17 he made a lasting impression with joining the 101st Airborne Division and excelling at Ranger school to becoming a Ranger. Shortly after, he withstood two tours in Vietnam. Where he received several recognitions for his performance and duties as a soldier. Joe was commander at the American Legion in Ridgway, IL for many years and remained an active member in Sesser, IL chapter, when he moved there several years ago. He enjoyed spending time with his friends and making so many memories. Throughout Joe's life he always worked hard to be a good provider and instill work ethics. He was able to retire from Big Muddy Prison. He also enjoyed hunting, fishing, camping and spending time with family and friends. Always stories to be told. Joe was always there to help anyone in need. He never asked for anything in return. He is survived by his children Joseph Newton McCarty Jr. of Junction, IL, Tina Lynn McCarty of Terre Haute, IN, Terry (Christy) Lee McCarty of Ridgeway, IL and Nicholas Keith McCarty of Sesser; step-children Stephanie Smith, Steven Shurtz, Rachel Shurtz, Sarah Urban, Miriam Newman, Christy Cox and Jeffrey Cox; several grandchildren and great grandchildren; two sisters Dollie McCarty Stephens of Louisiana and Margaret McCarty Slayton of Louisiana; two brothers Edwin McCarty of Germany and Joseph Luther “L.J.” McCarty of Florida and several nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his parents and four sisters Carolyn, Josephine, Marjorie and Marion. Visitation will be on Friday January 26, 2024 from 5:00 PM until 7:00 PM at the Brayfield-Gilbert Funeral Home in Sesser. Graveside services will be in Louisiana.

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Kathleen Sapp - March 19, 1929 - January 14, 2024

Departed: 01/14/2024 (Sesser)

Obituary Preview: Kathleen was born March 19, 1929, to Commodore and Mabel (Slack) Grove in Bible Grove, Illinois. She passed away Sunday, January 14, 2024, at her home in Columbia, MO. She was united in marriage to Kenneth L. Fornear on September 6, 1952. To that union were born a son, Michael Fornear and a daughter Kathi Fornear. Ken and Kathy resided in Carmi, Illinois a number of years before they became owners and operators of Sesser Lumber Company in Sesser, Illinois. Her husband Kenneth Fornear preceded her in death in October 1986. She later married Marvin E. Sapp (who survives) of Columbia, Missouri, on January 6, 1997, and has resided there since. In Columbia, Kathleen was employed in Saffees Ladies Apparel in downtown Columbia, while Marvin farmed. Kathleen enjoyed reading, tending her flowers, and watching or listening to the St. Louis Cardinal’s baseball games. She was a remarkable artist and took great pride in serving as a docent at the Boone County Historical Society. Kathleen is survived by her daughter Kathi Jones, grandson Finius (Amy) Fornear, great-grandsons Zayne and Lelan Fornear, great-granddaughters Kristina, Jovie and Aneira Jones, and daughter-in-law Meredith Fornear. She is also survived by one brother Larry (Vicki) Grove, nieces Michele (Scott) Malone, Pam (Joe) Seed, nephews Jim (Selina) Grove, Harold (Trell) Cockrum, great nieces Kayla Malone, and Sherry (Heath) Harpole. She is also survived by sister-in-law Carolyn (Richard) Stubblefield, and niece Jennifer (Ed) Lobenhofer. In addition, Kathleen is survived by her stepdaughters: Patricia (Glenn) Wehmeyer, Pamela (Mac) Cook, Paula Netemeyer, Priscilla (Robert Aitkens) Stone, Portia (Jerry) O’Laughlan, Jane Harrison, John (Connie) Morris, Larry Morris, and daughter-in-law Kathy Morris, 28 grandchildren, 46 great-grandchildren, and 3 great-great-grandchildren. Kathleen was preceded in death by her first husband Kenneth Fornear, son Michael Fornear, grandson Dylan Jones, son-in-law Brad Jones, brother Jim Grove, sister Maxine Cockrum, sister-in-law Grace Grove, brother-in-law Harold Cockrum, nephew Greg Cockrum, and niece Sara Stubblefield. The visitation for Kathleen will be held on Tuesday, January 23, 2024, from 11 a.m. to 1:00 p.m. at the First Methodist Church in Sesser. Funeral services will begin at 1:00 p.m. with the Reverend James Sloan officiating. Burial will be in Maple Hill Cemetery in Sesser following the service.

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Robert "Bobby" Armes - January 31, 1956 - December 22, 2023

Departed: 12/22/2023 (Sesser)

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Debra "Debbie" Rae Camden - July 08, 1954 - November 23, 2023

Departed: 11/23/2023 (Sesser)

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Carl Henry Roberts - October 17, 1943 - October 24, 2023

Departed: 10/24/2023 (Sesser)

Obituary Preview: Carl Henry Roberts, 80, of Whittington, beloved father, grandfather, passed away on Tuesday October 24, 2023 at Herrin Hospital with his family by his side. He was born on October 17, 1943 in Sesser, IL to Verna (Harrison) Roberts and Archie Roberts. He worked at Old Ben Coal till they closed in 1991, he managed Anrap Rentals for many years and retired from Southern Illinois Tourism. What made him the happiest was spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. He is survived by his children Mark Roberts, Mike (Tammy) Roberts and Kimberly Overturf all of Whittington; grandchildren Rex (Elizabeth) Roberts, Tiff (Curtis) Hodge, Angelle (Billy) Hofman, Tyler (Deanna) Roberts, Nic Roberts and Dakota Overturf; 11 great grandchildren; one brother Cecil (Beckie) Roberts of Sesser; one special nephew David Despain and numerous nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his parents, one son Kevin Roberts, one sister Goldie Payne, brother-in-law Carl Payne, one nephew Eddie Jones and one niece Yvonne Frey. Funeral services will be on Saturday October 28, 2023 at 1:00 PM at the Brayfield-Gilbert Funeral Home in Sesser with Brother Mark Minor officiating. Visitation will be on Saturday from 11:00 AM until the time of the service at 1:00 PM. Burial will be at Shiloh Cemetery in Whittington.

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Vicki (Yung) Downen - March 25, 1951 - October 21, 2023

Departed: 10/21/2023 (Sesser)

Obituary Preview: Vicki (Yung) Downen, 72, of Scheller, passed away Saturday, October 21st at her home surrounded by her family. She was born March 25, 1951, in DuQuoin, IL, the daughter of Victor Yung and Helen (Lipsey) Yung. Vicki is survived by her husband: Ernie Downen, her daughter: Tina Cavenaile of Ballwin, MO; son and daughter in law: Tim and Aprill Downen of Hillsboro, IL; grandchildren: Ally Cavenaile of St. Louis, MO; Emily Cavenaile of Springfield, MO; Timothy Hunter and Hudson Downen of Hillsboro, IL; two brothers: Bill Yung and wife Gayla of Sesser and Bob Yung of Bourbonnais, Illinois; a special niece: Roxana Eubanks and many other nieces and nephews. Vicki was preceded in death by her parents and her sister, Sue Eubanks. Vicki enjoyed collecting antiques, spoiling her pets and playing Skip-Bo with her grandkids. When she was younger you could find her fishing for long hours to catch enough blue gill to satisfy our craving. She could fry fish better than any restaurant! She loved going to junk stores to find treasures and eating at her favorite Chinese restaurant. We will always think of her and smile when we hear the COPS theme song. Her nurturing nature and devotion to her family was evident in every aspect of her life. Per Vicki’s wishes, cremation rites will be accorded, and a private family service will be held at a later date.

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SuElla Cox - April 03, 1942 - October 16, 2023

Departed: 10/16/2023 (Sesser)

Obituary Preview: SuElla Cox, 81, of Sesser, passed away on Monday October 16, 2023 at her home. She was born on April 3, 1942 to William and Modena (Brayfield) McClellan. She married James Albert Cox on May 9, 1963 and he preceded her in death. She is survived by her children Becky (Kevin) Miller of Valier and Beth White of Sesser; one sister Patti (Bob) Utley of Sesser; one brother William McClellan of Mt Vernon; grandchildren Mike (Danielle) Bullington of West Frankfort, Tim Miller of Mt Vernon, Bethany Mocaby and boyfriend Zach of Salem, Jesse (Mallory) White of Coulterville, Andrew (Lecsee) White of Marion and Nick (Elice) White of West City; great grandchildren Jaxon, Sawyer, Annistyn, Gabe, Micah, Gracelynn, Piper, Malcom, Ryker and Aleina. She was preceded in death by her parents, husband, and three sisters, Vicki Ashment, Billie Gilbreath and Mae Frederickson. A Memorial service will be on Saturday October 21, 2023 at Noon at the First Baptist Church in Sesser with Brother Chris Hottensen and Brother Larry Cook officiating.

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Joe Robert DeAngelo - June 24, 1938 - October 04, 2023

Departed: 10/04/2023 (Sesser)

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Shirley Mae Bradley - November 20, 1944 - September 26, 2023

Departed: 09/26/2023 (Sesser)

Obituary Preview: Shirley Mae Bradley, 78, of Sesser, passed away on Tuesday September 26, 2023 at her home. She was born on November 20, 1944 to Robert and Elsie (Kirkpatrick) Bradley. She is survived by her significant other Eric McFarland of Sesser; three grandchildren Bradi Lawrence, Simone (Clayton) Endersbe and Jose (Jamie) Rodriguez; great grandchildren Christopher, Samantha, Payton and Devin; one great great grandson Jacob and two sisters Alma Haywood of Benton and Millie (Gary) Capps of Valier and several nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her parents, one daughter Andrea Bradley, two sisters Ruth Henley and Rose Ann Melton and two brothers George Bradley and Robert Bradley. Graveside services will be on Friday September 29, 2023 at 10:00 AM at the Horse Prairie cemetery with Brother Larry Cook officiating. Burial will be at the Horse Prairie Cemetery in Sesser. Friends and family are asked to meet at the cemetery.

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Donna Sue Gray-Cockrum - November 27, 1967 - August 23, 2023

Departed: 08/23/2023 (Sesser)

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Joanne Butler - February 26, 1928 - August 14, 2023

Departed: 08/14/2023 (Sesser)

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Shelia Jean (Dilliner) Lingo - October 10, 1956 - August 12, 2023

Departed: 08/12/2023 (Sesser)

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David Matthew Baumgarte - March 11, 1975 - July 31, 2023

Departed: 07/31/2023 (Sesser)

Obituary Preview: David Matthew Baumgarte, 48, of Scheller, passed away on Monday July 31, 2023 in Evansville, IN. He was born on March 11, 1975 in West Frankfort, IL to Bobby Baumgarte and Ruth (Cockrum) Miner. David was a dedicated husband and father. He loved his family and friends. He was the type of person who never met a stranger. He would give the shirt off his back to help someone in need. Most people know of him as "Cowboy", and that's because he has spent most of his life fishing and hunting. He was a member of the Fin and Feather club for 6 years. He also loved taking his Harley out for a ride. If he wasn't doing those things, he was working. He took pride in his work and was one of the most hardworking men we knew. He spent 7 years at Continental Tire where he was recently promoted to supervisor. He went to college at Northern Illinois University for the hearing impaired where he met his wife Stacy. They were married for 25 years and had two daughters Samantha Baumgarte of Scheller and Julie (Ryan) Payne of Zeigler; mother Ruth Miner of Sesser; father Bobby Baumgarte of West City; one sister Rebecca Baumgarte of Grand Tower, IL and three brothers Johnny Lee (Marissa) Baumgarte of Valier, Stanley Miner of Sesser and Samuel Baumgarte of Grand Tower, IL. Memorial service for David will be on Friday August 11, 2023 at 7:00 PM at the Brayfield-Gilbert Funeral Home in Sesser with Brother Nathan Dilliner officiating. Visitation will be on Friday from 5:00 PM until the time of the service at 7:00 PM.

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Lonnie Gale Garner - June 03, 1951 - July 25, 2023

Departed: 07/25/2023 (Sesser)

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Funeral Services Offered

Brayfield-Gilbert Funeral Home provides a comprehensive range of funeral services, including:

- Traditional funeral services with visitation and burial

- Cremation services with memorialization options

- Graveside services

- Memorial services

- Pre-planning and pre-funding options

The funeral home's experienced staff will work closely with families to create a personalized service that honors their loved one's memory and celebrates their life.

Cremation Options

Brayfield-Gilbert Funeral Home understands that cremation is an increasingly popular choice for many families. As such, they offer a range of cremation options, including:

- Direct cremation

- Cremation with memorialization

- Cremation with a celebration of life service

The funeral home's cremation services are designed to provide families with a dignified and respectful way to say goodbye to their loved one.

Pre-Planning and Pre-Funding Options

One of the most important decisions you can make is planning your funeral in advance. By pre-planning and pre-funding your funeral, you can ensure that your wishes are respected, while also alleviating the financial burden on your loved ones. Brayfield-Gilbert Funeral Home offers pre-planning and pre-funding options, allowing you to take control of your final arrangements and make informed decisions about your legacy.

Grief Support and Resources

Losing a loved one can be one of the most difficult experiences we face in life. At Brayfield-Gilbert Funeral Home, they understand the importance of grief support and resources during this challenging time. The funeral home offers:

- Grief counseling and support groups

- Online grief resources and support materials

- Referrals to local bereavement organizations

Their compassionate staff is committed to supporting families as they navigate the grieving process.

Community Involvement

Brayfield-Gilbert Funeral Home is deeply rooted in the Sesser community and is committed to giving back. The funeral home participates in various community events and charitable organizations, demonstrating their dedication to making a positive impact on the lives of those around them.

Contacting Brayfield-Gilbert Funeral Home

If you're seeking a compassionate and professional funeral home in Sesser, Illinois, look no further than Brayfield-Gilbert Funeral Home. You can reach out to them by phone or email, or visit their website to learn more about their services and offerings. Whether you're planning ahead or need immediate assistance, the team at Brayfield-Gilbert Funeral Home is here to support you every step of the way.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It's usually published in a newspaper, online obituary platform, or funeral home website to inform friends, family, and community members of the passing.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to honor and celebrate the life of the deceased, while also providing essential information to those who need to know about the passing. They can also help families process their grief and provide closure.

What is included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the deceased person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also include information about funeral services, memorial donations, and condolences.

Who writes an obituary?

Usually, the family of the deceased or a close friend writes the obituary. Funeral homes or online obituary platforms may also offer assistance with writing and publishing obituaries.

How long does it take to write an obituary?

The time it takes to write an obituary can vary depending on the complexity and detail required. On average, it can take anywhere from 30 minutes to several hours to write a well-crafted obituary.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, you can write your own obituary in advance. This is often referred to as a self-written or pre-written obituary. Some people find it helpful to have control over how they want to be remembered.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of someone's passing, usually including only basic information such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary, on the other hand, provides more detailed information about the person's life and legacy.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Contact the newspaper's obituary department directly to inquire about their submission process and requirements. Some newspapers may accept online submissions, while others may require email or phone submissions.

Can I publish an obituary online?

Yes, there are many online platforms that allow you to publish an obituary. These platforms often provide templates and guidance to help you write and share your loved one's story.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication or platform. Newspaper obituaries can range from $50 to $500 or more, while online platforms may offer free or low-cost options.

What is the purpose of an obituary photo?

An obituary photo serves as a visual tribute to the deceased and helps readers connect with the person being honored. It's usually a recent photo that captures their personality and spirit.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Yes, quotes or lyrics that resonate with the deceased person's life or personality can be included in an obituary. They can add depth and meaning to the tribute.

How do I handle errors or corrections in an obituary?

If you notice an error in an already-published obituary, contact the publication or platform immediately. They will work with you to correct the mistake and republish the revised obituary.

Can I include humor in an obituary?

Absolutely! Humor can be a wonderful way to celebrate a person's life and personality. Just be sure to keep it respectful and tasteful.

What is a living obituary?

A living obituary is a written tribute to someone who is still alive. It's often used to celebrate milestones, achievements, or special occasions in a person's life.

Can I include charitable donations in an obituary?

Yes, you can include information about charitable donations in lieu of flowers in an obituary. This allows friends and family to make contributions in memory of their loved one.

How do I share an obituary on social media?

You can share an online obituary on social media platforms like Facebook, Twitter, or LinkedIn by copying and pasting the link or using the platform's built-in sharing features.

Can I create a video obituary?

Yes, video obituaries are becoming increasingly popular. They allow you to combine photos, music, and stories into a multimedia tribute that celebrates your loved one's life.

What is the difference between a eulogy and an obituary?

A eulogy is a spoken tribute delivered at a funeral or memorial service, while an obituary is a written notice published in a newspaper or online platform.

Can I write an anonymous obituary?

In most cases, it's not recommended to write an anonymous obituary. Obituaries are meant to be personal tributes that come from those who knew and loved the deceased.

How long are obituaries typically archived online?

The length of time an online obituary is archived varies depending on the platform or publication. Some may keep them available indefinitely, while others may remove them after a certain period.

Can I include pets in an obituary?

Yes, you can mention pets in an obituary if they were important companions to the deceased. This can be especially comforting for those who are grieving.

What if I'm struggling to write an obituary due to grief?

If you're finding it difficult to write an obituary due to emotional distress, consider reaching out to a trusted friend or family member for support. You can also seek guidance from a funeral home or online resource.

Can I update an existing obituary?

If new information becomes available or mistakes need to be corrected, you can update an existing obituary. Contact the publication or platform where it was originally published for assistance.