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Located in the heart of Checotah, Oklahoma, Bradley Funeral Home has been a pillar of support for families in their time of need. With a rich history and a commitment to providing compassionate care, this funeral home has established itself as a trusted name in the community. At 211 W. Okmulgee, Checotah, OK 74426, Bradley Funeral Home is easily accessible and offers a serene atmosphere for families to say their final goodbyes.

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For generations, Bradley Funeral Home has been dedicated to providing exceptional service to families in Checotah and surrounding areas. Their experienced team of funeral professionals understands the importance of personalized care and attention to detail, ensuring that every family's unique needs are met with sensitivity and compassion. From traditional funeral services to cremation options, Bradley Funeral Home offers a range of choices to honor your loved one's memory.

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Grace Cheng - July 10, 1933 - August 18, 2020

Departed: 08/18/2020 (Checotah)

Obituary Preview: It is with profound sadness that the family of Grace Shiue-Ying Cheng, announce her peaceful passing on early Tuesday morning, August 18, 2020, in Walnut Creek, California at the age of 87 years. Grace was born on July 10, 1933, to Chu Min Lai and Pao Chu Ou in Chiayi, Taiwan, the beautiful island of Formosa. She attended the National Taiwan University receiving her nursing degree in 1953. She acquired her keen worldly acumen and nursing savvy from working on a psychiatric ward. Later Grace returned to nursing school and attained certification as a nurse midwife, bringing many happiness into the world. Grace credits her success in life to having interacted with people in all situations and from all walks of life. She understood maintaining one’s mental health is no less important than caring for the physical health. She took time to learn about her patients and their background, and always treated them with utmost respect, patience and compassion. And she applied this approach with people she met throughout her life. Because of her radiant personality and amiability, Grace was universally loved by everyone, and never met anyone who wasn’t captivated by her kind geniality.

Grace was a woman of multiple talents. In addition to being a nurse extraordinaire, she also worked as a professional tour-guide introducing and promoting the beauties of Taiwan. She also was trained in flower arrangement, culinary art, and interior design, all of which Grace put to good use. While Grace was a stay-at-home-mom after her family immigrated to America in 1973, she continued to explore new hobbies such as quilting and painting. She thoroughly enjoyed traveling, having trekked to many corners of the world with her last trip made in 2019 before the COVID pandemics changed the landscape of leisure travel.

Grace met the love of her life, Dr. Wan-Fa Cheng while both were at the National Taiwan University Hospital and married in 1956. They were devoted to each other and cherished their 46 years of marriage until Wan-Fa’s death in 2003. Grace is survived by her sons, Paul (Lisa) of Oklahoma City, and CAPT Jacky (US Navy) (Yumiko) of Yokosuka, Japan, and one daughter, Eme Tatsumi (Byron) of Walnut Creek, CA. Grandchildren Jessica, Mika, Miki, Michael, Lindsey and Sydney as well as a brother, nephews, nieces, relatives, and friends. She is preceded in death by her parents and an older sister.

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Phillip Ray Hopper - September 11, 1940 - August 11, 2020

Departed: 08/11/2020 (Checotah)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is pending.  No services are planned at this time.

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Sammye Marcella Paine - February 25, 1929 - August 10, 2020

Departed: 08/10/2020 (Checotah)

Obituary Preview: Sammye M. Paine, 91, of Muskogee passed away August 10, 2020. She was born February 25, 1929 in Enid, Oklahoma.

She attended Enid Public Schools where she received the highest honor of May Queen her senior year and her future husband, Charles, was Herald.

From the time she was a little girl she wanted to become a nurse. After graduating from Enid High School she continued her education and completed her registered nurse program at Saint Mary’s Hospital in Enid.

Sammye spent many years working as a public health nurse at Muskogee County Health Department. Countless times she would prepare extra food and take Thanksgiving and Christmas meals to her patients who otherwise would be alone for the holidays.

Family members and friends remember Sammye as a loving mother and grandmother who enjoyed spending time with them. Sammye’s favorite passions were babies and animals especially dogs and cat. Sammye had the gift of beauty. She loved to sing and was blessed with a sweet voice. Her favorite past time, was going to the movies. She also enjoyed cooking for her family.

Sammye was preceded in death by her parents Sam and Minn Dodds, her husband and love of her life Charles, and daughter Kimberly Paine. She is survived by sons Craig and wife Cheryl of Cookson and Charles Jr. and wife Diane of Oklahoma City. Also surviving are grandchildren Ashley Boomer (Kurt) of Collinsville, Brian Paine (Jennifer) of Tulsa, Tiffany Edmunds (James) of Norman, Tisa Riggs (Riley) of Edmond, Morgan Goslin of Jackson, Mississippi, and Taylor Towne (Pete) of Edmond along with thirteen great grandchildren.

Pallbearers are Brian Paine, Kurt Boomer, James Edmunds, Riley Riggs, Pete Towne, Morgan Goslin, Mark and Jeff Walters.

Public Viewing will be Thursday August 13, 2020 from 8:00 a.m. to 7:00 p.m. at Bradley-Foster-Petering Funeral Service. Services will be held Friday August 14, 2020 at 2:00 p.m. at Memorial Park Cemetery Mausoleum with Glenn Little officiating. Funeral service arrangements are under the direction of Bradley- Foster-Petering Funeral Home.  Condolences to the family may be made at www.bradleyfuneralservice.com

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Thomas Hockman Alford - December 16, 1949 - August 04, 2020

Departed: 08/04/2020 (Checotah)

Obituary Preview: Thomas Hockman Alford, beloved son of Jerry and Edwin Alford, brother of Duncan (1951-93), father of Louisa and Tad, grandfather of Ana, took flight to the heavens August 4, 2020.

Born December 16, 1949 in Muskogee, Oklahoma, Tom attended Franklin, West Jr High, and Muskogee Central High. He played trombone in the marching band and guitar in The Bitter End. Tom graduated from the University of Oklahoma and went on to OU Law (1976). His brothers in Phi Gamma Delta meant much to him.

Tom returned to Muskogee in 1976 to practice law with his bride Martha Raber. Louisa Raber Alford (1982) and Thomas (Tad) Raber Alford (1986) were born and raised on Kendall Blvd in the former home of his mom’s best friend. Tom was a loving, hands on dad who was always supportive, instilled an appreciation for the outdoors, and taught by example that everyone is entitled to dignity and respect.

Tom’s legal career began as an associate with Wilcoxen, Cate and Scherer.  In 1978 he became an Assistant District Attorney and ultimately Chief Prosecutor in the Muskogee County District Attorney’s office, serving under Drew Edmondson and Mike Turpen. He then spent five years in the Edmondson Law Office.

Tom was selected as Special Judge in 1985, beginning his calling as a judge. Five months later, he was appointed Associate District Judge by Gov. George Nigh to fill an unexpired term. Again in 2004, Tom was appointed District Judge for Oklahoma’s 15th Judicial District. Tom “retired” in 2018 after 34 years on the bench. Over the vast majority of his career and up until retirement, Tom retained the juvenile docket – a major passion of his - and served on the Oklahoma Supreme Court Juvenile Justice Oversight Committee. In 2000 he was awarded Oklahoma Press Association’s Right to Know Champion Award after being nominated by the Tulsa World for keeping the public informed. Tom also served many years on the Board of Directors for Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma, Inc.  Tom saw the practice of law as an extremely noble profession and an opportunity to help those in need.

At 13, Tom lost his father to cancer and was raised along with Duncan by their mother, who worked retail many nights and weekends to make ends meet. His life prepared him to relate to others and be humble, and he took his duty to public service to heart.

Tom was most content in complete wilderness with a pair of binoculars. He also enjoyed his time painting, playing music, and on the Baron Fork at Wauhillau Outing Club and Blackacre in Adair County. He was a founding member of the Indian Nations Audubon Society. He also shared time with Muskogee Habitat, Muskogee Parks and Recreation, and Grace Episcopal Church.

Left to cherish him and many wonderful memories are Louisa, Tad and wife Brie and daughter Ana, Martha, extended Duncan and Raber family members, coworkers at the Muskogee County Courthouse and countless friends. Tom no doubt takes comfort in knowing what a long strange trip it’s been, but not nearly long enough for those who knew him.

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Vivian Briggs - December 04, 1959 - July 29, 2020

Departed: 07/29/2020 (Checotah)

Obituary Preview: Vivian Fern Briggs was born to Earl Gene Briggs and Helen Mae (Wells) Briggs on December 4, 1959 in Kansas City, Kansas.

She loved her children and grandchildren to the moon and back.  She would do anything in her power for them.  She also loved helping others.  Her brothers and sisters grew up calling her "Fern" until she was grown and wanted to be called Vivian.

Vivian graduated from Northeastern State University with her bachelors degree in business administration.  She went on to work at Fort Howard (Georgia Pacific).  She also delivered mail for the United States Postal Service.  She found her passion in helping the younger native generation.  She worked with the Cherokee Nation Talking Leaves Job Corps for many years receiving numerous awards.  Vivian was a highly respected person and always classy.  She was raised with the best morals and values and always kept them.  She was the most loyal and trustworthy person.

She was preceded in death by her parents and two brothers, Robert Lee Briggs and Earl Leon Briggs, an uncle and five aunts.

She is survived by her children, Kristen Diane Sheppard, Grayson Banks Ramsey and Madysyn Nicole Pinney; grandchildren, Aliyah Marie Sheppard, Claude Kobe Sheppard (Kobe) and Noah Murai Sheppard, who gave her the name "MeMaw;" brothers Charles Michael Nalley (Mike) and his wife Linda, Jimmy Dale Briggs and his wife Kathleen and Bryan Keith Briggs; sisters, Linda Sue Miller, Carol Lee Denney and spouse Dwain and Margaret Ann Justice, Earlene May Von Fumetti, Velta Rose Edwards, Jeanne Hobson and Linda Gail Webster; many nieces, nephews, cousins and many, many friends throughout the years.

Vivian Fern will be greatly missed by all.

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Clifford Roy Wallen - July 14, 1958 - July 27, 2020

Departed: 07/27/2020 (Checotah)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Clifford Roy Wallen.

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Faye M Newman - March 25, 1929 - July 25, 2020

Departed: 07/25/2020 (Checotah)

Obituary Preview: Faye Marie Newman, age 91, of Broken Arrow, OK, passed into heaven on July 25, 2020.  She was a twin born in Paris, AR on March 25, 1929, to Roy Elmer Hillian and Mattie Mae (Hampton) Hillian.

She was married on March 8, 1951, to Ralph W. Newman.  They were married for 47 years.

She loved God with all her heart.  Faye had a passion for making cards for all occasions and sent them to friends and family.  She was known for her infectious smile, kind and compassionate spirit and spotlessly clean home.

She was preceded in death by her husband, Ralph Newman, parents, Roy and Mae Hillian, brothers, Elvis, Clayton, Roy Jr., Ronald, Donald, Bill, Opal, and her twin sister, Farris.

She is survived by her daughter, Deborah (Newman) Spriggs and husband Johnny of Broken Arrow, OK, granddaughter, Amanda (Spriggs) Sloan and husband Brent of Broken Arrow, OK, two sisters, Edna Lee of Charleston, AR and Pat Davis of Magazine, AR, and many nieces and nephews.

Due to COVID 19, a graveside service will be held at Ellsworth Cemetery in Subiaco, AR.

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Russell "Rusty" McCart - April 23, 1958 - July 18, 2020

Departed: 07/18/2020 (Checotah)

Obituary Preview: Rusty entered this world on April 23, 1958 to Don and Rose (Chisholm) McCart.  He left this earth to begin a new journey on July 18, 2020 at the age of 62.

Rusty was born in Okmulgee, Oklahoma where he graduated from high school.  He loved to hunt and fish with his grandfather, or with his dog, he knew no limits.  He got his pilots license at age 17 and took off from there with a life full of adventure, fun and mischief.  Rusty’s perfect smile, big brown eyes and charm got him both in and out of a lot of trouble (mostly out).

Rusty lived, loved and dreamed BIG.  He will be remembered for his smile, laughter, his muscles, his caring heart and the numerous stories.

He was intensely protective of anyone he loved especially his mom and friend and partner of 13 years, Jennifer Davis.  Rusty was baptized on August 18, 2019.  Rusty will be missed and loved by all who knew him…...until we meet again.

Rusty was preceded in death by his paternal grandfather, Osea McCart of Morris, OK; paternal grandmother, Eldora McCart of Morris, OK; maternal grandfather, Pete “Chisholm of Okmulgee, OK; maternal grandmother, Opal Chisholm of Okmulgee, OK; uncles, Bob McCart of Morris, Wendell McCart of Morris, Bill Chisholm of Henryetta, OK and Tommy “Sunny” Chisholm of Okmulgee.

He is survived by his father, Don McCart of Haskell, OK; mother, Rose Chisholm McCart of Muskogee; son, Rusty McCart of Welling, OK; daughter-in-law, Amanda McCart of Welling, OK; son, Cody McCart of Morris; daughter-in-law, Samantha McCart of Morris; sister, Cheryl McCart of Muskogee; brother, Jeff McCart of Muskogee; sister Dana Freeman-Tackett of Muskogee; brother-in-law, Mike Tackett of Muskogee; longtime friend and partner, Jennifer Davis of Muskogee; grandchildren, Maleah McCart of Welling, Mason McCart of Welling, Paxton McCart of Morris, Legend McCart of Morris; nieces, Megan Ottenbacher and Beth Lewis; nephews, Waylon Lewis, Evan Freeman, and Dakota McCart. Funeral services will be 10:00 a.m. Saturday, August 1, 2020 at Haskell Airport in Haskell, OK

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George "Buddy" Wattenbarger - July 23, 1950 - July 15, 2020

Departed: 07/15/2020 (Checotah)

Obituary Preview: George William “Buddy” Wattenbarger, 69, of Muskogee, died July 15, 2020 at Hillcrest Medical Center in Tulsa.  He was born July 23, 1950 to Jesse (Wattenbarger) Taylor in Muskogee where he attended school and graduated with the class of 1971.

Longtime friends have shared that their hearts are broken at the loss of their friend, classmate and fellow “Rougher”. Buddy’s passion for the football games of Muskogee Highschool was a flame that never burned out and his enthusiasm and smile were contagious.

Many Muskogee natives remember Buddy as the man behind the lawnmower. He was self-employed in the lawn mowing business where he made many friends, and if you had the opportunity to meet him, he never forgot your name or the year you graduated from school.

Buddy was kind, polite and had a touch of mischievousness from time to time. We were all better off for knowing this man who wore his legs out crisscrossing the streets of Muskogee and now he can rest, happy in his reunion with his mother and grandparents.

Buddy was preceded in death by his mother, Jesse Taylor; grandmother, Myrtle Wattenbarger and grandfather, George Wattenbarger.  He is survived by his sister, Gerty Francile Smith of Cross Junction, Virginia; niece, Lynn Kesner; niece Kim Martinez; nephews Ken and Tim Smith and many other nieces, nephews, former classmates, and loving friends from his church and community.

Memorial services will be 2:00 p.m. Wednesday, July 29, 2020 at Boulevard Christian Church with Mr. Steve Moss officiating.  Buddy will be laid to rest near his mother and grandparents in Stigler, Oklahoma.

Buddy’s family would like to share their heartfelt love and thanks to all of Buddy’s classmates and friends for their overwhelming generosity and outpouring of concerns and prayers.

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Alma Bernice Capps - January 08, 1945 - July 15, 2020

Departed: 07/15/2020 (Checotah)

Obituary Preview: Alma Capps, 75, of Warner, Oklahoma passed away Wednesday, July 15, 2020.  She was born January 8, 1945 in Muskogee, Oklahoma to Levi and Seletha (Sells) Capps.

Alma was a devoted Christian that believed in living out her faith for the world to see.  She truly impacted everyone she encountered along the way!  If anyone knew Alma they know she was all about her children and grandchildren making lifelong memories with them, good and not so good.  Because she had to work outside of the home she chose to be a CNA, beautician and a prison guard.  Everyone in the prison called her mam and Judge Judy.  They loved her but she wouldn’t put up with their nonsense.

Alma was preceded in death by her parents; her son, Roy Ashby, Jr., brothers, and sister, Arvie Lee Capps, Ray Capps, Geraldine Shackelford, and Leon Capps.  She is survived by children, James Green and Stacey, Timothy Ashby and Lila, Matthew Ashby and Laura, Robyn Settles and Troy, Stephanie Capps and Mercedes Ashby; daughter-in-law, Michelle Ashby; brothers, Charles Capps, Chester Capps, Jerry Capps and Larry Capps and a multitude of grandchildren and great grandchildren.

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Vera Luella Alexander - January 08, 1930 - July 08, 2020

Departed: 07/08/2020 (Checotah)

Obituary Preview: Vera Luella Alexander was born January 8, 1930 to George and Jessie Daniels (Booten) in Strang, Oklahoma.

She married William Alexander September 20, 1946 in Ada, Oklahoma.  She started working at Brockway Glass on April 15, 1975 and worked there until she retired on July 1, 1994.

Her hobbies included reading Nora Hess novels, doing word search puzzles and watching Price is Right.  She also loved going to Del Rancho for her cheeseburger.

She leaves behind her daughter, Jackie Alexander of the home who was always by her side and cared for her until the end; her daughter, Shirley York of California; her two sons, Mike Alexander of Muskogee, OK and Bill Alexander of Tulsa, OK.  Although she loved all her grandchildren and great grandchildren very much she held a special place in her heart for Clayton Riley Alexander, her grandson who was a part of her everyday life; and her granddaughter, Christi Marie Alexander who was also a close part of her daily life.

She was preceded in death by her husband, William Alexander; her daughter, Valrie Alexander and her son, Jerry Alexander.

She was an amazingly strong woman and was truly loved and will be missed tremendously.

Visitation will be Monday from 5:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m.at Bradley-Foster-Petering Funeral Service. Funeral services will be 11:00 a.m. Tuesday, July 14, 2020 at Greenhill Cemetery

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Lee Roy Reynolds, Sr. - December 22, 1931 - July 05, 2020

Departed: 07/05/2020 (Checotah)

Obituary Preview: Visitation will be Thursday, July 9, 2020 from 5:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. at Bradley-Foster-Petering Funeral Service

Funeral services will be 10:00 a.m. Friday, July 10, 2020 at Reynolds Family Cemetery.

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Irene Fix - December 08, 1929 - July 03, 2020

Departed: 07/03/2020 (Checotah)

Obituary Preview: V Irene Fix, 90, of Tulsa died Thursday, July 3, 2020 at Legends on Mingo in Tulsa, OK. She was born December 8, 1929 in Muskogee, OK to Geneva Bell (Linder) and Leonard Rife Chapman, she was one of eight children. On August 8, 1952 she married the love of her life Tommy Earl Fix where she became a homemaker and loved working in her flower garden, they spent 57 years together before his death in 2009. They raised three children, Deborah Fix Slover (deceased), James Fix and Kathy Fix both of Tulsa.

Irene was preceded in death by her husband, daughter, parents and all but one sibling. She is survived by her son, James Fix and daughter, Kathy Fix and her five grandchildren, Jennifer Fix Preisner, Desiree Lovett Tipps, Nathan Fix, Justin Scott, Robin Slover Boak; her nine great-grandchildren, Taelor Fix, Krisslyn Boak, Logan Fix, Austin Fix, Jaythan Preisner, Kenzeigh Jo Scott, Jaxton Preisner, Bryor Lane Scott and Christian Fix and her only surviving sibling Ida Joe Estes and lots of nieces and nephews.

Funeral services 2:00 p.m. Monday, July 13, 2020 at Greenhill Cemetery.

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Personalized Funeral Services

At Bradley Funeral Home, they believe that every life is unique and deserves to be celebrated in a special way. Their experienced staff will work closely with you to create a personalized funeral service that reflects your loved one's personality, interests, and accomplishments. From selecting music and flowers to choosing a casket or urn, every detail is carefully considered to ensure a meaningful and memorable tribute.

Cremation Options

In addition to traditional funeral services, Bradley Funeral Home also offers cremation options for families who prefer this type of farewell. Their cremation packages are designed to provide a dignified and respectful way to say goodbye, while also offering flexibility and affordability. From direct cremation to memorial services with cremation, their experienced staff will guide you through the process with compassion and understanding.

Facilities and Amenities

The facilities at Bradley Funeral Home are designed to provide a comfortable and peaceful atmosphere for families to gather and pay their respects. Their spacious chapel can accommodate large groups, while their visitation rooms offer an intimate setting for smaller gatherings. Additional amenities include a selection of caskets, urns, and monuments, as well as on-site parking and wheelchair accessibility.

Pre-Planning Services

Bradley Funeral Home understands that planning ahead can be a wise decision for individuals and families alike. Their pre-planning services allow you to make informed decisions about your final arrangements, reducing the burden on your loved ones during a difficult time. By pre-planning, you can also lock in costs at today's prices, ensuring that your wishes are respected without financial strain on your family.

Community Involvement

Bradley Funeral Home is deeply committed to the Checotah community, actively participating in local events and supporting charitable organizations. Their staff is dedicated to giving back to the community that has supported them over the years, demonstrating their genuine care for the people they serve.

Contact Information

If you're looking for a trusted partner in your time of need, look no further than Bradley Funeral Home. You can reach out to them by phone or email, or simply stop by their location at 211 W. Okmulgee, Checotah, OK 74426. Their compassionate staff is always available to answer questions, offer guidance, or simply provide a listening ear.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It's usually published in a newspaper, online obituary website, or funeral home website to inform friends, family, and community members of the person's passing.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to honor and celebrate the life of the deceased, while also providing important information to those who knew them. They help to notify others of the passing, allowing them to pay their respects, attend funeral services, and offer condolences to the family.

Who typically writes an obituary?

The responsibility of writing an obituary often falls on the family members or close friends of the deceased. However, funeral homes and obituary writers may also assist with writing and publishing the obituary.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also include information about funeral services, memorial donations, and other relevant details.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication and personal preferences. Generally, it's recommended to keep it concise and focused on the most important information, ideally between 100-500 words.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many online obituary platforms and newspapers allow you to include one or more photos of the deceased. This can be a meaningful way to personalize the obituary and celebrate their life.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Contact the newspaper's obituary department directly to inquire about their submission process and any specific requirements they may have. Be prepared to provide the necessary information and payment for publication.

Can I publish an obituary online?

Yes, there are many online platforms and websites that allow you to publish an obituary, such as Legacy.com, Obituary.com, or FuneralHome.com. These sites often offer additional features like guestbooks, condolence messages, and photo sharing.

Is there a cost associated with publishing an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the newspaper or online platform. Some may charge by the word or line, while others offer package deals or flat fees. Be sure to ask about pricing when submitting your obituary.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The publication timeline can vary depending on the newspaper's schedule and deadlines. Online obituaries are usually published immediately after submission and payment. For print newspapers, it may take several days or even weeks for publication.

Can I make changes to an obituary after it's been published?

If you need to make corrections or updates to an already-published obituary, contact the newspaper or online platform directly. They may have specific procedures for making changes or corrections.

What if I want to keep the obituary private?

If you prefer not to share the obituary publicly, you can opt for a private or limited-access publication. Some online platforms offer password-protected or invitation-only access to ensure only authorized individuals can view the obituary.

Can I include quotes or poems in an obituary?

Absolutely! Including meaningful quotes, poems, or lyrics can add a personal touch to the obituary and help celebrate the person's life.

How do I notify social media platforms about a death?

You can report a death to social media platforms like Facebook or Twitter through their respective reporting tools. This will help prevent further notifications or posts from being sent from the deceased person's account.

What is a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of someone's passing, typically including only basic information like name, age, and date of death. It's often used in conjunction with a full obituary or as a separate notification.

What is the difference between an obituary and a eulogy?

An obituary is a written notice announcing a person's death and providing biographical information. A eulogy is a speech or written tribute delivered at a funeral or memorial service to celebrate and honor the person's life.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes! Writing your own obituary can be a therapeutic exercise in reflection and self-expression. You can choose to share it with loved ones or keep it private until after your passing.

How do I find old obituaries?

You can search online archives of newspapers or visit local libraries that maintain historical records. Websites like Ancestry.com or Newspapers.com also offer access to archived newspapers and obituaries.

Can I republish an old obituary?

If you have permission from the original publisher or copyright holder, you can republish an old obituary. Be sure to respect any copyright laws and regulations when sharing historical content.

What if I need help writing an obituary?

If you're struggling to write an obituary, consider seeking assistance from a professional writer, funeral home staff, or online resources that offer templates and guidance.

Can I include charitable donations in an obituary?

Yes! Many families choose to include information about charitable donations in lieu of flowers in the obituary as a way to honor their loved one's memory.

How do I handle condolences and sympathy messages?

You can respond personally to each message or use online condolence books and guestbooks to manage responses. Be sure to express gratitude for the support during this difficult time.

What if I'm overwhelmed by condolences and messages?

DON'T hesitate to ask for help from friends, family, or support groups if you're feeling overwhelmed by condolences and messages. Remember that it's okay to prioritize your own emotional well-being during this challenging time.