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Elyett C. Farmer - April 24, 1959 - February 01, 2022

Departed: 02/01/2022 (Sumter)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Elyett C. Farmer.

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Ronnie D Brunson - November 30, 1959 - January 18, 2022

Departed: 01/18/2022 (Sumter)

Obituary Preview: On Tuesday January 18, 2022, Ronnie Brunson, a loving father, brother, uncle, and friend passed away at the age of 62.

Ronnie was born on November 30, 1959 in Sumter, SC to Lottie Mae Ladson and Ive Brunson, Jr. He went into the U.S. Army after high school. After he left the army, he was employed at the RTA and Fort Roofing.

Ronnie was a football fanatic. His favorite team was the Dallas Cowboys. He adored being outside with family and friends. He always made sure to call and visit his loved ones. Ronnie was very loving, caring, outstanding and compassionate with a big heart.

Ronnie was preceded in death by his father, Ive Brunson, Jr and his brother, Tyrone Brunson.

Ronnie leaves to cherish his memories, one daughter, Rhonda Cunningham; one granddaughter, Simaur Clark; brothers, Antonio Hardy, Charles (Andrea) McKnight, Christopher (Kimberly) McKnight , David (Sandra) Hinnant; two sisters, Brenda (Anthony) McKnight-Brunson and Sabrina Mcknight; a host of nieces and nephews; two special nieces, Laquita and Takeiga Brunson; two special cousins, Quionne and Timothy York; two special aunts, Florecne Luster and Velia Ladson; two special uncles, Timothy York, Sr and Roy Williams and a host of relatives and friends.

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Lola Malloy - June 12, 1937 - January 13, 2022

Departed: 01/13/2022 (Sumter)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Lola Malloy.

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Bertha Mae Haughton - April 09, 1950 - November 03, 2021

Departed: 11/03/2021 (Sumter)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Bertha Mae Haughton.

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Sally L. Amos - June 03, 1943 - October 15, 2021

Departed: 10/15/2021 (Sumter)

Obituary Preview: Sally L. Amos, 78 departed this earthly life to be with the Lord on Friday, October 15, 2021 in Sumter, SC. Sally was born June 3, 1943 in Britton, SC to the late Lawrence Lemon and Gussie Lemon.

Sally was educated in Sumter County Public Schools and was a graduate of Eastern High School in 1962. Sally was employed at U.S Textiles as a material handler for many years where she retired from Sumter Laundry & Cleaners.

She was a devoted and faithful member of St. Matthew’s Missionary Baptist Church in Sumter where she served faithfully as an usher, gospel choir member, trustee board, secretary and treasurer of the senior usher board, president of the Pastor’s Aide, missionary department and a member of the kitchen committee.

On February 2, 1964, she was married to her high school sweetheart, Bernie Amos and to this union, they were blessed with two boys and a girl, Eric, Derrick and Michelle.

Sally was a loving mother, grandmother and woman of God. She will be deeply missed by her husband, children, grandchildren family and all who knew her.

She was preceded in death by her parents and her brother, Alonzo Lemmon.

She leaves to cherish her memory; her husband for over 57 years.  Mr. Bernice Amos; her sons, Eric B. (Jerlean) Amos and Bernie D. (Shauna Ray) Amos of Sumter, SC; daughter, Michelle Amos of Sumter, SC; sister-in law, Shirley Williams of Sumter, SC; grandchildren, Dequan Amos, Dominique Rock, Kanoshia D. Rock, Kaniesha D. Rock, Deandrea, Tikea, Hope, Destiny and Trinity; great-grandchildren, Braelen, De’Sean, Kali, Bailey, Chynna and De’lilah; her godson, Julius Adger; a special friend, Wenona Robinson (Winnie) who helped with taking care of Mrs. Sally during her extended illness; and a host of aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins and other relatives who will deeply miss her.

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Matthew Isaac Jr. - August 17, 1951 - October 08, 2021

Departed: 10/08/2021 (Sumter)

Obituary Preview: Matthew “Square” Isaac Jr. was born to the late Matthew Isaac Sr. and Bernice McElveen-Isaac on August 17, 1951, in Sumter, SC. He entered into eternal rest on October 8, 2021, at Prisma Health Tuomey Hospital surrounded by his loved ones.

Matthew was educated in the public school system in the Sumter School District. From a young age, Matthew was always loving, caring, and eager to help everyone while enjoying watching tv in his free time. Matthew leaves to cherish his memories; his sisters, Gwendolyn Isaac and Carolyn Isaac, a special sister, Larrine Johnson, and a special cousin Runette Williams, along with a host of nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles, and other relatives and friends

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Cleveland Levan Hammond - May 21, 1955 - July 09, 2021

Departed: 07/09/2021 (Sumter)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Cleveland Levan Hammond.

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Marjorie E. Reid - March 13, 1943 - June 11, 2021

Departed: 06/11/2021 (Sumter)

Obituary Preview: Marjorie Evangiline Reid, affectionately known as “Mama”, was born on March 13, 1943, in Ulster Springs Hospital located in the Jamaican Parish of Trelawny. Mama was born to parents Winston Reid and Edoma Foster. Marjorie went home to be with the Lord on June 11, 2021, at Prisma Health Tuomey Hospital in Sumter, SC. Marjorie departed this life surrounded by the love of her family who will miss her dearly.

Marjorie migrated to the United States from Jamaica in 1987. While in Jamaica she spent many years as a bus conductor. Once in the U.S. Mama became and retired as a Nursing Aide.

Mama was a gifted crocheter, using her gifts to create anything from blankets to dresser top decorations. Her needle work was loved and admired by all who saw it. Mama was an avid collector of figurines with Dolphins being her favorite collectables. She was also really great at remembering and make what she knew was your favorite dish.

Mama is survived by her six children listed from oldest to youngest: Orett, Amarelle, Damian, Ingrid, Latrell and Harrianna. She is also survived by her fourteen grandchildren and sixteen great grandchildren. Mama also leaves behind Nieces, nephews, cousins and other relatives and friends who knew and loved her.

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Cindy Marie Kemp - May 11, 1972 - February 19, 2021

Departed: 02/19/2021 (Sumter)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Cindy Marie Kemp.

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Wayne C. Tomlin - September 21, 1966 - January 07, 2021

Departed: 01/07/2021 (Sumter)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Wayne C. Tomlin.

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Ella Mae Dixon Wilson - August 12, 1968 - January 02, 2021

Departed: 01/02/2021 (Sumter)

Obituary Preview: Ella Mae Dixon Wilson, 52 entered eternal rest peacefully on Saturday, January 2, 2021 at the Ashley River Tower of MUSC Charleston, SC. She was born on August 12, 1968 in Lee County. She was the daughter of the late Hannah Mae Dixon-McLeod and Leroy Dixon.

She attended the public schools of Lee County. Before being diagnosed with congestive heart failure, Ella worked as an CNA MedTech at Cottonwood Villas for over 10 years. During her years of survival, she lived glorious life. She was a faithful member of Kingdom Diplomatic Outreach Ministries with prophet David and Rowetta Glenn and also did bible study with Emmanuel Prophetic Ministries, Prophetess LaKeisha McLeod.

She enjoyed riding out with her husband, spending time with family and friend but most importantly, loving on her grandkids. To know Ella was to love her. She was a sassy fashionista.

She was preceded in death by her parents Leroy Dixon and Hannah Mae Dixon McLeod and her son Marcus Dixon.

She leaves to cherish her memories, her husband of 23 years, Phillip Wilson; three daughters, Joanna Dixon, Trameika (Darious) Dixon, Martha Jenkins; three stepchildren, Phillicia (Cedric) June, Lawanda Halley and Shaquille Wilson; four sisters, Maria (Mike) Dixon, Rowetta (David) Glenn, Lisa Dixon, Annie McLeod; two sisters-in law, Barbara Dixon and Carolyn Wilson; six brothers-in law, two special nieces, Latasha(Jasper) Prescott and Jamesia Glenn; eighteen grandchildren; seven nephews; one grandniece; four grandnephews, two adorable friends, Ruthie Jacobs and Sarah Bradley and a  host of aunts, cousins , other relatives  and friends that will miss her dearly.

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Allean Butler - June 25, 1965 - January 01, 2021

Departed: 01/01/2021 (Sumter)

Obituary Preview: On January 1, 2021, God found in His infinite wisdom to call His faithful servant from labor to rest. Sister Allean Butler was born to Evelyn and Harrison, Jr. in Sumter, SC on June 25, 1965.

Allean accepted Christ at an early age and became a member of Bethel AME Church in Wedgefield, SC.  She later became a member of Elizabeth Baptist Church in Bishopville, SC under the leadership of Dr. Gregory J. Jackson Sr. and Leading Lady Debra Jackson. There she served as an integral part of the Youth, Ushers, Pastor’s Support, YWA, and kitchen ministries. Beyond the ministries she served with, you could find Allean putting her hands to work in any manner needed around the ministry.

Allean was a 1983 graduate of Hillcrest High School, Dalzell, SC.  She was employed by Gold Kist and later Murphy USA.

To know Allean was to know a true angel sent from heaven. Allean brought joy, love, fun and laughter to anyone she came in contact with. A selfless being, Allean could be found helping someone regardless of her needs. The memories of Allean’s love for others, sweet spirit, beautiful smile, and giving heart will forever be cherished.

Allean was preceded in death by her brother Tony Butler, Sr.

Allean leaves to cherish her precious memories:  her parents, Evelyn and Harrison Butler, Jr. of the home; her daughter, Mary V. Butler; her son, James (Tara) Butler; three granddaughters, Ciara, E’miya, and Elise; a sister, Deidre Butler; a nephew, Tony Butler, Jr; a sister in love, Angela (David) Rivers; a daughter in love, Harmony (Brian) Gadson-Alston; special nephews and niece, Khamari, Christian, Caleb, and Cayden; a God-daughter, Annaka Jackson; special friends Barbara Washington, Cynthia Finch, Fredd (Teresa) Brisbon-Harris, and Steven Pinkney; her church family and a host of other relatives and friends.

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Shearlyann Hammond Rock - September 16, 1950 - July 31, 2020

Departed: 07/31/2020 (Sumter)

Obituary Preview: Our beloved Mrs. Shearlyann “Shearly” Hammond Rock retired from her life on earth and entered eternal rest on July 31, 2020, in her home.

Shearly was born the fourth of eight children on September 16, 1950, to the late Mr. and Mrs. Lucious and Clara Mae Hammond, Jr. in Sumter, South Carolina. Shearly received her early education in the Sumter Public School system and graduated from Lincoln High School in 1968. Shortly after graduating, she began working for Campbell Soup, Inc where she continued employment through the company’s numerous name changes. While employed, Shearly attended Central Carolina Tech where she received her Nursing Assistant certification. She was also a Certified Floral Designer and created floral arrangements for weddings and other special occasions during her spare time. After forty-two years of service, she retired in 2010.

While attending a gathering at a family friend’s home in late 1968, Shearly met the love of her life, Elanda “Johnny” Rock, son of the late Mr. and Mrs. Abraham and Laura Rock, Sr. They soon began dating and later married on March 15, 1969. This union bore two beautiful gifts that would be named Andre’ and Felicia.

Shearly joined St. Mark United Methodist Church in 1970. Throughout her many years of worship, she was a member of the choir, an Usher, Stewardess, member of the Nomination Committee, Nursing Ministry and Pastor Parish Relations Committee. She also started the children’s choir under the leadership of the Rev. J. C. Lane.

Shearly was truly a woman of quiet dignity and was dedicated to her family. She was a devoted and loving wife, mother, grandmother, aunt, sister and friend. She was a woman of few words that spoke volumes. She had a sweet and gentle spirit and always sought to speak life and encouragement. Shearly’s home was often the place for family gatherings which holds many family memories. She loved cooking large family dinners and reading her Bible. However, to truly know Shearly is to know not to call her Monday- Friday between 1:00-2:00 pm because she would be watching Days of Our Lives and was not going to answer the call.  It is certain that Shearly left an imprint on the heart of everyone whom she had contact. Though she will be deeply missed, we can take these cherished memories of her life to remind us to seek joy in the many circumstances we encounter during our temporary stay here on earth.

Shearly was preceded in death by her husband, Elanda “Johnny” Rock; two brothers, Lucious Albert Hammond and Ricky Hammond; one brother-in-law, Abraham Rock, Jr. and one nephew, Mario Scott.

Left to cherish Shearly’s memories are her loving son, Andre’ Rock of Charlotte, NC; her dedicated daughter, Felicia (Anthony) Tyler of Newport News, VA; one gentle grand-daughter, Anorion Kennedy of Sumter, SC; three caring grandsons, Tyhier Tyler, Tayvon Tyler, and Trace Tyler all of Newport News, VA; two wonderful honorary grandchildren, Michael Kenndy and Jayden Kennedy of Sumter, SC; three sisters, Loretta(Levi) Johnson Sr. of Columbia, SC,  Katherine(Curtis) Robinson of Midway, GA and Denise(Herbert Lee) Heyward of Sumter, SC; two brothers, Dennis(Shirley) Hammond and Cleveland (Jennifer) Hammond both of Sumter, SC; two sisters-in-law, Rosa Lee (Aaron) Daney and Janice Rock of Sumter, SC;  several nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles and a host of relatives and dear friends who are grieved by her passing.

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Steven Lamont Prince - September 21, 1981 - July 10, 2020

Departed: 07/10/2020 (Sumter)

Obituary Preview: Steven Lamont Prince was born on September 21, 1981, in Sumter, SC to Rosa Marie Prince and the late Joseph L. Prince, Sr. He departed his life on Friday, July 10, 2020, at his residence in Sumter.

Steven was educated in Sumter County School System. Steve was known as a people’s person who loved to make people laugh with his jokes and singing. He will truly be miss by many.

Steven was preceded in death by his father, Joseph L. Prince Sr.; brother, Joseph L. Prince, Jr.; sister, Carrie M. Prince; maternal grandparents, Mr. and Mrs. Nathaniel Bell; paternal grandparents, Mr. and Mrs. Simon Prince; aunts, and five uncles.

Steven is survived by his mother, Rosa Marie Prince of the home; three brothers, Larry (Daisy) Prince, Aaron (Racheal) Prince, and Tyrone (Jessica) Prince; one sister, Victoria Prince; a special friend, Grace Isaac; three aunts, Lillian (Eddie) McBride, Thelma Bell, and Mary Walters; two uncles, David Bell and Gus Bell; and a host of nieces, nephews, and cousins.

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Everette Brown - October 13, 1923 - January 22, 2020

Departed: 01/22/2020 (Sumter)

Obituary Preview: The love of education for Everette Camille Roberts Brown incorporated facilitating learning, acquiring knowledge, skills, values, beliefs, and habits into her multifaceted roles as educator, wife, mother, community servant and devoted member of Mount Pisgah African Methodist Episcopal Church.  Everette came into the world as an inquisitive, vivacious, and purposeful soul guided by her loving parents, the late Alonza L. Roberts and M. Capitola Richardson Roberts in Rocky Mount, North Carolina, on October 13, 1923.

In 1931 the family moved to Sumter, South Carolina and was drawn to the progressive, socially conscious, and biblically-based Mount Pisgah African Methodist Episcopal Church.  She and her older sister of two years, the late Florea, grew up in the church and with their parents embraced the church vision of leadership, social development and service to the needy.  Everette’s strong religious foundation enabled her to develop an unshakable faith that enabled her to excel.

She graduated as valedictorian of her class in 1939 and salutatorian of her 1943 class at South Carolina State College. She earned a Bachelor of Science in Secondary Education in English, with a minor in Social Studies and became a member of the Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc.  Intrigued with the pursuit of social, spiritual, and physical development ignited by her church, and fueled by her AKA sisterhood, in the fall of that same year she received a Bachelor of Science in Library Science from Atlanta University.

Two years later she married Huroy Howard Brown on December 30 and together they became parents of four aspiring and conscientious children: Huroy Howard Brown, Jr., Hakiim Ofori Sabur (formerly Alonza Lawrence Brown), Samuel Franklin Thomas Brown, and Evetta Camille Brown Vaughn.  Her devotion to her family mirrored that of her parents as she stretched and encouraged them to reach their highest potential.

Ten years later in 1955, Everette received a Masters of Science in Education from South Carolina State University. Her drive to improve her environment resulted in securing two scholarships to update her library skills. In 1963 Mrs. Brown received an eight-week scholarship to study at the State University of New York at Albany.  The following year she secured a position as an itinerate librarian for Sumter School District 17.  The first year she was home based at Winn School and divided her responsibilities between Moore School and Saltertown.  The second year Mrs. Brown was home-based at Moore School with afternoon duties at Saltertown.  The third-year she was assigned as librarian at Moore.  Everette received a second scholarship to the University of Missouri at Columbia to continue her skill development to continue to improve the library systems and infrastructures of school libraries.  However, the phasing out of black schools resulted in a transfer in 1972 to Lemira.  Following retirement in 1985, Everette volunteered as a reader to first grades at Alice Drive and Lemira.

Mrs. Brown re-activated with the AKA Sorority and joined Eta Zeta Omega Chapter in 1964 and served as Basileus twice and as Cluster Coordinator of 7.  She gave the chapter 40 years of active service before she decided to maintain her life membership only.  She has received numerous awards and plaques recognizing her 78 years of outstanding service with the AKAs.

She also returned to Mount Pisgah this same year and has been a Sunday School teacher, Brownie Girl Scout Leader for 15 years, Quarterly Conference Secretary, Steward President of Booster Club 1989-2004, Class Leader, Sanctuary Choir, Mass Choir, Stewardess Board No. 3 and Lay Organization Secretary.

Mrs. Brown holds a life membership in NEA-R and SCEA-R, and has served as president of the local chapter and as District Director 7.  In 1985, Sumter School District No, 17 acknowledged Mrs. Browns’ 38 years of service to the youth of the community and her lasting influence on the lives of many boys and girls who came under her guidance.  In 2006, Lemira initiated School Districts 2 and 17 to recognize Mrs. Brown’s contributions through a Sumter County Council Proclamation declaring November 16, 2006, as Everette Brown Literacy Day.

On September 15, 2016, her companion, Huroy H. Brown of 70 years died quietly at home just two months after she had been honored in the 2016 Boule in Atlanta for being a Diamond Soror.

Mrs. Brown thoroughly enjoyed poetry and developed a diverse repertoire of value-based childrens’ poems which she recited often to her children and all youth with whom she interfaced. She loved to travel, entertain, cook and explore new ideas.  She persevered with a champion's heart from days of segregation through early periods of integration and did her part as a stellar role model to help usher in the era of equal opportunity for all.

She is preceded in death by her parents, her sister Florea Geneva Roberts McCullough and her daughter Evetta B. Vaugh.  She leaves to cherish her memory 23 great-grandchildren, and 2 great, great-grandchildren.  Her 13 grandchildren include Maryam Dorcely, daughter of Huroy Jr.; Jamila, Khalid, Faruq, Aleema, and Nasiim, children of Hakiim; Capitola, Marion, and Kadijah, children of Evetta; and Jason, Elizabeth, Thomas, and Timothy, children of Sammy.  Daughters-in-law are Shakura, wife of Hakiim and Joyce, wife of Sammy.

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John F. Ball - November 08, 1954 - January 18, 2020

Departed: 01/18/2020 (Sumter)

Obituary Preview: John F. Ball was born to the late Mae Emma and Charlie Clarence Ball on November 8, 1954, in Tampa, Florida. The Lord called him home Saturday, January 18, 2020.

At an early age, John joined St. John Progressive Missionary Baptist Church. After graduating from high school, he joined the United States Air Force from which he retired after 23 years and 10 months. He also worked for the United States Postal Service until he retired.

In his spare time, he loved to cook and trying out new recipes and foods. He would barbeque any time of the year and would say “I don’t need a season, just a reason.” He touched so many lives and made a difference to so many people. John will definitely be missed.

He was preceded in death by his parents Charlie and Mae Emma Ball and sister, Aria Nunn.

John Leaves to cherish his memories his loving wife, Lessie Ball; children, John Ball, Jr. (Cicely), Bryon Ball (Gina), Laquita Ball, Niesha Ball, and Rodney Ball; stepson, Willie J. Gilmore, Jr.; brother, Charlie Ball, Jr. (Patricia); sisters, Barbara Ball-Bell, Doris Jones (Reverend Arthur Jones), and Christine Poole (James); a host of grandchildren, one great-grandchild, and nieces, nephews, and other sorrowing relatives and friends.

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Debra Ann Wright - July 28, 1960 - October 17, 2019

Departed: 10/17/2019 (Sumter)

Obituary Preview: Ms. Debra Ann Wright, affectionately known as “Do Right”, was born the eldest of three children on Tuesday, July 28, 1959 in Brooklyn, New York to Ms. Ann Wright. On Thursday, October 17, 2019, God in His infinite wisdom summoned an Angel of Death to claim the soul of our beloved to her eternal reward at Prisma Heath Tuomey Hospital in Sumter, South Carolina.

Debra received her formal education in the public schools of Sumter, South Carolina and graduated from Lincoln High School in 1977. She was employed as a secretary for Neilson & Storage of Sumter for many years.

Ms. “Do-Right” was the life of the party that was very outgoing, kind-hearted, and intelligent. She never halted when it came to speaking her mind.

Ms. Wright was a faithful member that served dutifully until her health began to fail at the Second Presbyterian Church in Sumter, South Carolina. Debra never failed to exercise her beliefs into her daily life. When times got rough, she knew to lean on God’s unchanging hands and place all her worries in His care.

She was preceded in death by a son, Adrian S. Wright and her lifelong companion, David Jones.

She leaves to cherish her loving memory: a daughter, Jacqueline Ayesha Wright of Sumter, South Carolina; a granddaughter, Adrian Wright of Sumter, South Carolina; a grandson, Elijah Jordan of Columbia, South Carolina; a loving mother, Ms. Ann Wright of Brooklyn, New York; two sisters, Tina and Brenda Wright, both of Brooklyn, New York; a daughter-in-law, Lareitha Santiago of Columbia, South Carolina; four very special friends, Patricia Lewis, Jaqueline Kinard, Cassandra Blair and Lois Reynolds, all of Sumter, South Carolina; and a host of aunts, uncles, nephews, nieces, other relatives and friends.

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Tramaine Brown - January 31, 1977 - August 02, 2019

Departed: 08/02/2019 (Sumter)

Obituary Preview: Tramaine Brown was born on January 31, 1977 to Gale Laverne Brown (Cookie) and the late Marion Brown, Sr. in Bronx, NY. Tramaine passed away peacefully on Friday, August 2, 2019.

Tramaine was born and raised in Bronx, NY where he attended Morris High School. After high school, Tramaine moved with his parents to his father’s hometown, Sumter, SC. Tramaine was affectionately known in Sumter as “New York.” He worked in maintenance at Bosch Breaking System and held various positions throughout his career. Tramaine like playing basketball and bike riding, and enjoyed attending car shows. Tramaine was very kind-hearted and loved making people laugh.

Tramaine was preceded in death by his father, Marion Brown, Sr.; and two brothers, Marion “Champ” Brown, Jr., and Edward “Eddie” Brown.

Tramaine leaves to cherish his memories: his mother, Gale Laverne Brown; his sister, Karen Denise Brown; his brothers, Herbert Lee Jones, Jr., Travis Jamal Brown and Troy Glen Brown; two of his closet nieces, Christina Green and Ashley Brown; and a host of aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins (whom he loved dearly), friends, Cassandra Lowry and family and Joyce Ray Wilson, whom he affectionately called “Godmother.” Tramaine will truly be missed by all those whom he knew and loved and who loved him.

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Melvin Lee Reid - March 08, 1947 - June 30, 2019

Departed: 06/30/2019 (Sumter)

Obituary Preview: Our beloved Melvin Lee Reid, 72, entered into eternal peace on Saturday, June 30, 2019 at his home in Pinewood, SC.

Mel was born on March 8, 1947 in Wayne County, North Carolina to the late Mary M. and Matthew D. Reid. He received his education in Wayne County, NC and Warwick County, VA public schools.

At the age of 18 he ventured out on his own and became a professional long-distance truck driver. He continued this work for 52 years. He engaged in every possible transport available in the continental United States, Canada and also South America. He hauled moving and storage, freight, cargo, livestock, fuel, construction equipment, and logging. He also was driving instructor, teaching others to do the same. In 2008 he gave up the “big riggs” and settled in South Carolina as a farmer. Mel continued to do odd jobs such as a driving school buses, and acting as a handy man. He was able to repair almost anything and became a blessing to his community, especially the sick and shut in and everyone else who needed his skills.

Above all, Mel was a family man who loved his family more than life itself. He gave his all every opportunity he could without question.

Mel was preceded in death by his parents; sisters, Glennie May Carter, Betty Jean Watts, and Evelyn Watford; brothers, Matthew David, William Edward, and James Thedric; and his son, Melvin Lee Reid, Jr.

Mel leaves his loving memories to be cherished by his wife, Yvonne Denise Anthony Reid; daughters, Anita Watts, Judy Reid, Melissa Roberts, Valorie Graham, and Claudia Williams; sister, Christine Reid; brothers, George Wayne, Donald Ray and Charles Linwood Reid; brothers-in-law, Marcel Anthony and Basher Anthony; nieces, Roshe and Iyonna Anthony; and a host of over 150 nieces and nephews, cousins and friends who will all miss him dearly.

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Thelma McCray - February 21, 1925 - April 05, 2019

Departed: 04/05/2019 (Sumter)

Obituary Preview: Mrs. Thelma Thomas McCray was born on February 21, 1925, and departed this life on Friday, April 5, 2019, surrounded by her loving family.

Thelma was the daughter of the late Reverend Lennie and Lillian Belton Thomas. She received her education in the public schools of Lee County, South Carolina. She was baptized at an early age at the Elizabeth Baptist Church where she remained a faithful member until her death. Thelma loved the Lord and her church family. Thelma was a member of the Usher Board and Senior Choir. She was also the founder of the Community Singers. Thelma was a member of the Cantey Chapter O.E.S #178 for over fifty years.

Thelma was united in Holy Matrimony to the late Mr. Caleb McCray in 1945.

Thelma was also faithful to her community, she was a loving mother, grandmother, friend, and caregiver throughout the community.

Thelma was preceded in death by two sisters, Sadie Thomas, and Annie Mae Woodham; one nephew, Robert McCain; two children, Caleb McCray, Jr. and Annie McCray Porter; two sons-in-law, Willie Porter, and Simon Jackson Sr.; and two grandchildren, Richard Porter and Brenda Jackson.

Surviving to maintain Thelma’s Legacy are three daughters, Minnie Jackson of Cassatt SC, Mary (Jene) Jackson of Neptune, NJ, Jessie (James) Williams of Bishopville, SC; four sons, Lennie (Ann) McCray of Staten Island, NY, Earl (Betty) McCray, Delaware, PA, Thomas (Brenda) McCray of Bishopville SC, John T (Henrietta) McCray of Bishopville SC; 63 Grandchildren,  119 Great Grandchildren , 60 Great-Great  Grandchildren, a special cousin whom she took as a sister Mable  Smith, and a host of other relatives and friends.

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Luella Hilton McCray - February 10, 1934 - March 07, 2019

Departed: 03/07/2019 (Sumter)

Obituary Preview: And her children arise and call her blessed

Luella Hilton McCray was known as Mom, Grandma, sister, Aunt Luella, “Mother McCray” or “Missionary McCray but most of all she was known to be blessed.

Blessed to see 85 years of life, Mother McCray went from labor to reward early Thursday morning March 7, 2019 surrounded by her loving children and grandchildren. Luella Hilton McCray, was born to Henry L. Hilton and Beulah Thames Hilton on February 14, 1934 in Clarendon County. She received her High School Diploma from the Scott’s Branch High School, Summerton, SC.  She was also employed for many years for AirCap Industries. At an early age she accepted Christ and attended St. John Baptist Church and Mt. Zero Baptist Church.

She was joined in Holy Matrimony to the late Deacon Lee McCray. From this union they were blessed with seven children. After marriage she joined the Church of God By Faith in Davis Station, SC and served faithfully for over 65 years. She then moved to Irmo, SC with her daughter, Lubertha Williams, and began attending Shekinah Glory, Church of God by Faith.

Mother McCray was an ardent worker for the Lord. She loved her church and would do anything for the up building of the kingdom.  She held many offices in the church such as Mother of the Church on the Local level as well the District Level, Local Choir President, and Local Missionary President.  Two things she was most compassionate about was the District Missionary Department in which she served as President for many years and the District Mass Choir in which served as President and sang on the choir until she was 75 years old. She was the oldest member on the choir.   Mother McCray loved to travel to different churches throughout the community singing. She loved taking care of her Pastors, always opening up her home on Sundays to make sure their families had a meal. She also took time to visit the sick and shut in, the local Nursing Homes and always found an opportunity to tell others about Christ no matter who they were. When her Mother, mother in law, brother and sister could not care for themselves, she opened up her home and became their CNA.

Three sons preceded her in death; Lee Jr, John Allen, and Bobbie Gean.  Three grandchildren proceeded her in death; Patricia McCray, Jennifer Sheriod, and Brice Christian Livingston.

She leaves to cherish her memories, daughters Lubertha (Mark) Williams, Irmo, SC , Burnette (Johnny) McFadden, Manning, SC Catherine (Anthony) Blocker of Irmo SC, the granddaughter she raised as a daughter from birth, Sharon (Tonie) Mellette and one son Stanley McCray, both of Manning, SC. A niece in which she raised in her home, Carrie (James) Doughty Manning, SC. Catrecha (Darren) Skinner, (granddaughter) and James Edward Hilton, nephew both raised in her home. Another son, Elder Caleb Gordon of Baltimore Maryland.  Daughter-in-law Theresa (Robert) Gaiters, Ft. Lauderdale, FL. Twenty- one grandchildren and thirty-three great grandchildren . One sister, Lizzie H. Prince of Sumter, SC.  Two Sister-in-laws Bertie Lee (Floyd) Briggs, Columbia, SC and Minnie Bellinger, Miami, FL.Two Brother-in-laws, Willie (Towanda) McCray, Miami, FL and Jack (Geneva) McCray of Salisbury, MD. A host of nieces and nephews.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and other biographical information. It may also include details about their life, achievements, and surviving family members.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a lasting tribute to the deceased, preserving their memory and legacy.

What information is typically included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the deceased person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also include funeral or memorial service details and charitable donation information.

Who writes an obituary?

Obituaries are often written by family members or close friends of the deceased, with the assistance of funeral home staff or professional writers. In some cases, the deceased person may have written their own obituary in advance.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or online platform. Typically, it ranges from a few sentences to several paragraphs. A longer obituary may be more suitable for a private online memorial or a self-published tribute.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a meaningful way to personalize the tribute and help readers remember the deceased.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online platform?

Check the submission guidelines for the specific publication or platform you're using. Some may require email or online submissions, while others may accept phone calls or in-person visits. Be prepared to provide necessary information and payment (if applicable).

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies widely depending on the publication, location, and length of the obituary. Some online platforms offer free or low-cost options, while traditional newspapers may charge by the word or line.

Can I edit an obituary after it's been published?

In most cases, edits can be made to an online obituary, but changes to print publications may be limited or impossible once they've gone to press. Check with the publication or platform for their policies on corrections and updates.

What if I need to make corrections to an obituary?

If you need to correct errors in an obituary, contact the publication or platform as soon as possible. They will guide you through their correction process and make any necessary changes.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The timeframe for publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication's schedule and deadlines. Online platforms may publish immediately, while print newspapers may take several days or weeks.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, many people choose to write their own obituaries in advance as a way to control their legacy and ensure accuracy. This can also be a therapeutic exercise in reflecting on one's life and accomplishments.

What if I'm not comfortable writing an obituary myself?

If you're struggling to write an obituary for a loved one or yourself, consider enlisting the help of a friend, family member, or professional writer. Funeral homes and bereavement counselors may also offer guidance and support.

Are there any specific rules or guidelines for writing an obituary?