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Mary Anne Steen - November 20, 1937 - April 21, 2024

Departed: 04/21/2024 (Roseville)

Obituary Preview: Mother of 3, Grandmother of 5, Great Grandmother of 2, Aunt, Cousin and friend to many.

Your smile and funny wit can never be replaced or forgotten.

Thank you for all you did for us and loving us unconditionally.

We will miss you terribly and will always love you.

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Antonio D. Alamo - June 13, 1926 - April 08, 2024

Departed: 04/08/2024 (Roseville)

Obituary Preview: Antonio D. Alamo, Sr. passed away quietly at the age of 97 in Roseville, California, on April 8, 2024.

Tony, Tatay Tonying, or Daddy Tony as his friends and family fondly call him, was born on June 13, 1926, in Bayanan, Bacoor, Cavite, Philippines to Crispolo Alamo and Amada Alamo (nee, Dayday). He spent his early years in the island of Luzon, Philippines. He then traveled to Dumaguete City located in the province of Negros Oriental where he completed his Bachelor’s Degree in Civil Engineering in 1965 at Silliman University. It was in Dumaguete City where he met his bride, Cecilia Bartolo. He was a devout Catholic and a Fourth Degree Knight of Columbus.

Tony worked in Negros Oriental’s Department of Public Works for years while Cecilia worked as a public health nurse. Due to their occupations, they resided in several different municipalities in Negros Oriental with their three children before eventually establishing their home in Dumaguete City.

Tony immigrated to the United States to join Cecilia who emigrated from the Philippines at an earlier time. Tony worked as a teacher’s assistant at Stockton Unified School District before he joined Diamond of California where he was in charge of quality control. His greatest joy was taking care of his wife, children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren.

He is survived by his son, Antonio Alamo, Jr. (Violy), and his daughter, Cecille (Sal) and five grandchildren, CJ (Maggie), Wesley (Marie), Andrea (Phil), Camille (Chris), and Christian and wonderful great grandchildren, Samantha, Sofia, Drei, Andre, and Josephine; siblings, Rufina Celestino, and Elena Alamo, and nieces and nephews as well as their offsprings.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Crispolo and Amada Alamo, his wife Cecilia Alamo, his son, Waldemar Alamo, his sisters Genoveva Miranda (Faustino) and Luz Quilao (Mario), brother-in-law, Leonito Celestino, and his best friend and cousin, Apolonia Gener (Juanito).

Tony was a loving husband, father, grandfather, great grandfather, brother, uncle, cousin, and friend. He is greatly loved and will be sorely missed.

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Amelia Grace Cook - November 03, 1942 - March 22, 2024

Departed: 03/22/2024 (Roseville)

Obituary Preview: Amelia Grace Cook, 81, of Auburn, CA, passed away on March 22, 2024.

Services will be held on Monday April 29th, at 1:00pm at the Newcastle Cemetery Pavilion in Newcastle, Ca.

Amelia was born in Carson City, NV to Ben & Evelyn Olenslager on Nov. 3rd, 1942. Her family settled in Sacramento, CA where she met and married Lowell Cook, the love of her life. She worked for the State of California as a senior level analyst in Telecommunications (IT) for 30+ years before retiring. She enjoyed doing the morning crosswords with Lowell and also enjoyed cooking & baking. She was known by all, especially the grandkids, for her Dirt Cake and would teach them how to make it if the opportunity presented itself.

Amelia is preceded in death by Lowell (husband), both her parents and three of her brothers, Jeffery, Stephen, and Kirk.

Amelia is survived by her children Corey, Kendalee, Shannon, Marci (Tony) and her fur baby Sam; two brothers, Mark Randall (Teresa), and Scott, 11 Grandchildren, and 13 Great-Grandchildren, whom she loved very much.

The family of Amelia wishes to extend our sincere thanks to Sutter Care Hospice and Gabby Agosto who helped care for her these last couple of years and grew to love her like a daughter.

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Frances Elizabeth Elrod - October 05, 1948 - March 17, 2024

Departed: 03/17/2024 (Roseville)

Obituary Preview: Frances Elizabeth Elrod age 75 of Elverta, Ca. passed away peacefully on March 17, 2024 in Roseville Ca.with her loving family by her side.

Fran was born on October 5th, 1948 to Clara Caviness and David Fleming in Sacramento, Ca. She attended Grant High School. She worked for SSDC for many years before retiring.

She loved to go to the casinos and enjoyed working in her yard. She loved all kinds of music and loved singing with her family.

She was a devoted mother, sister, grandma, great grandma, aunt, and friend.

She is survived by her children James (Dina) Elrod and Christina (Marty) Richie, her grandchildren Lisa and Kyle, great grandchildren Giana and Ivy Rose, siblings Tonie, Donna, Johnny, Lori and her best friend Lynette.

She was preceeded in death by her parents, stepfather Charles Caviness, and her brother Rocky.

She will be deeply missed and forever in our hearts.

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Lloyd Elgan Dillon - August 19, 1947 - March 06, 2024

Departed: 03/06/2024 (Roseville)

Obituary Preview: Our best friend, husband, dad, and papa passed away on March 6, 2024, just as he lived – surrounded by his loving family. Lloyd Elgan Dillon was the epitome of all the best qualities in life, a sentiment universally acknowledged by anyone lucky enough to get to know him.

Lloyd was known for always putting everyone else’s needs before his own and would do anything and everything he could in his power to help when needed. Whether you needed a tool from his garage, a ride to the airport, the brakes on your car replaced (thanks, dad!), or some shared wisdom… he was always ready and able.

After retiring from state service, of which he devoted 35+ years, he focused his life on making memories with his family. Lloyd and his wife, JoAnn, found joy in spontaneous day trips, discovering hidden breakfast gems, and cruising the California countryside on his Harley Davidson.

A man of family, his heart brimmed with love for his four granddaughters, Sophia (15), Riley (14), Ella (11), and Brady (8), attending every event that marked their journey, leaving an indelible mark on their lives.

The Dillon family, built on strength, loyalty, resilience, generosity, and a well-timed joke, reflects Lloyd’s enduring legacy. With a 55-year marriage to JoAnn as a testament to his devotion, Lloyd leaves behind a family who will carry his values forward with pride. Survived by his loving wife, children Renae and Daniel, son-in-law Michael, daughter-in-law Sarah, and his cherished granddaughters, Lloyd’s spirit will forever linger in the hearts of those he touched.

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Donald William Mathews - September 06, 1930 - February 29, 2024

Departed: 02/29/2024 (Roseville)

Obituary Preview: Donald Mathews passed peacefully at age 93 with family by his side. He will be profoundly missed.

Don graduated from UC Berkeley in 1953 and was commissioned into the US Navy. That same year he married musician Lou Young from Hollister, CA. Married 65 years, they raised 3 daughters, Robin, Carol, and Jennifer.

A career Naval Aviator, Don flew long-range patrol planes, attended the Naval Postgraduate School and Stanford University for graduate degrees in aeronautical engineering, and served on the USS Yorktown during the Vietnam War. He joined the Postgraduate School administration, and retired as a Captain in 1975, with commendations. He and Lou began traveling the world together, visiting over a dozen countries as well as spending many vacations camping with their extended family.

Don went back to school to study fine arts at Monterey Peninsula College and San Jose State University, where he earned his BA and MA. He taught at Monterey and Hartnell Colleges and was actively involved in Monterey Peninsula art communities. His interest and experience in psychology, creativity and spirituality led him to establish “The Creative Edge: The Way Of The Arts,” a CA non-profit that continues today. He hosted many programs by creative professionals from around the world. As a workshop leader, he facilitated both visual art and dreamwork programs.

He expressed his own creativity through painting, photography, ceramics, sculpture, writing and poetry. His sculptures won CA State Fair prizes, and several are in permanent museum collections. In addition, he was instrumental in building a public labyrinth and he published a book of poetry in 2011. After moving to Forest Hill Senior Living, he became editor of their newsletter and served on the Board.

He is best remembered by his family and friends as someone who loved to dive deep into conversations with thought-provoking encouragement, always intensely listening and sharing. He was a lover of good food, and especially appreciated Lou’s skill as a chef.

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Gerald Louis DeNardo - August 24, 1932 - February 11, 2024

Departed: 02/11/2024 (Roseville)

Obituary Preview: A well-loved husband, father, brother, colleague and friend, Gerald DeNardo passed away peacefully at his home in Lincoln, California on February 11, 2024, from a progressive neurological disease (PSP). He will always be remembered as someone who enthusiastically committed himself to his family and his profession in science and medicine.

Gerry was born in Charleroi, Pennsylvania, first son of Louis and Josephine DeNardo. When he was twelve years old his family moved to California where he graduated from Bellarmine College Preparatory, attended Santa Clara University as a pre-medical student, and received a Doctor of Medicine from UCSF School of Medicine.

He served in the Army as a Physician from 1957-1965 and retired as a Major to join the faculty of Stanford University School of Medicine. In 1970 he became Professor of Radiology, Internal Medicine and Pathology at the new UC Davis School of Medicine and was the Founding Chair of Nuclear Medicine.

Gerry led an internationally recognized research team developing targeted therapies for oncology patients for which he and his wife, Sally, received the Benedict Cassen Prize in 2000, considered the “Nobel Prize of Nuclear Medicine”.

He is preceded in death by his parents Louis and Josephine DeNardo, his son Michael, his nephew Matthew Coffelt and his son-in-law Larry Mahoney.

Gerry is survived by his loving wife of fifty two years, Sally, his children: Daniel DeNardo (Rebecca), Patti DeNardo Jensen (Tom Barrera), Diane Mahoney, Joan Menees (Jim), James DeNardo (Gina), Peter DeNardo (Evelyn), Susan DeNardo (Norman Gonzales), and David DeNardo (Julie), fourteen grandchildren and five great grandchildren. He is also survived by his siblings Marlene DeNardo, Gene DeNardo (Lynn Hamers), and Mary Lou Coffelt (Bob).

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Mary Lou Cortez - October 13, 1950 - February 04, 2024

Departed: 02/04/2024 (Roseville)

Obituary Preview: We regretfully announce the passing of Mary Lou (Tapia) Cortez, who passed away surrounded by her loved ones on February 4, 2024. Mary (Lucha) had a difficult battle with throat cancer, and is finally at peace.

Mary (Lucha) was predeceased by her parents, Jose and Eva Tapia, her brother Joseph (Bobby Joe), and sisters, Patricia and Elizabeth (Villa). She is survived by her two brothers, Max and Dr. Richard Tapia, her ex-husband Ernest, her children, Crista, Mike, and Andrea, her three grandchildren, Mercedes, Eric, and Arturo–Jose (A-J), along with nieces, nephews, cousins, aunts and uncles who loved and cherished her as well. Services to be held February 16th at St. Rose of Lima Catholic Church 615 Vine Avenue, Roseville, CA 95678

9:00 AM Viewing, 9:30 AM Rosary with 10 AM Mass to follow. Luncheon will be immediately after.

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L. Nery Rodriguez - November 08, 1948 - January 31, 2024

Departed: 01/31/2024 (Roseville)

Obituary Preview: Beloved father, grandpa, husband, brother, uncle and friend, Lazaro “Nery” Rodriguez passed away in Rocklin, CA on January 31, 2024.

He was born to parents Maria Marta and Lazaro Nery Rodriguez on November 8, 1948 in Guatemala. Nery was the fourth of five children. Younger brother to Estelita, Tony and Roberto. Older brother to Jorge.

He was a wonderful and dedicated father to his 3 children, Amy (George), Jack, and Matthew. He was the very proud grandfather of Adam, Olivia, Chloe, Jack Jr., Grace, Nicholas and others.

Nery is survived by his wife of 39 years, Sue.

Nery was predeceased by his son Jack, his parents, brothers (Tony & Roberto), and so many other friends and family.

We will forever cherish you, the laughter and love you brought to all of our lives. Long live the love that comes down, through and onto all of us.

A funeral mass will be held in Nery's honor on Friday, March 15, 2024 at 10 AM at Saint Rose of Lima Catholic Church located at 615 Vine Avenue Roseville, CA 95678. There will be a luncheon to follow after the service.

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Gary VanDivort Wilson - March 14, 1957 - January 03, 2024

Departed: 01/03/2024 (Roseville)

Obituary Preview: Gary VanDivort Wilson, beloved brother, father, uncle, and friend, passed away January 3, 2024. He was born on St. Patrick’s Day March 17, 1957, in Oroville, CA, to Rex and Nancy (Wegs) Endicott. However, due to divorce, he was put in foster care. He was lovingly adopted at two years of age by Jim and Gayle Wilson and grew up with his sisters, Marcia Wilson Russell and Janice Wilson Dean. Gary is survived by his two adult children, Zachary and Alyssa of Roseville. He dearly loved time spent with his nephews: Troy Wilson, Michael Wilson and wife Monica, and Jonathan Wilson and wife Magnolia, and Jeremy Dean. He is also survived by his full sibling Melody Peters and brother-in-law Ernie and their children: Jennifer, Jared, and Nathan. Gary also has a half-brother Blake Bowser with whom he connected in recent years as well as nieces Casey and Crysta Mitchell, who were fortunate to see him at a mini-family reunion of the Endicott clan in Medford, OR, in June. His half-sisters Keri and Leslie Wegs will also dearly miss him. The special times he spent with family are cherished by all.

Throughout his life Gary discovered great happiness in serving and helping others. He retained friendships with childhood friends and made many friends through work over the years. He will be deeply missed by all who had the privilege of knowing him. His presence in our minds and hearts will continue to inspire and uplift us. If you knew Gary, you loved him. Our forever memories of this amazing man are filled with laughter, love, and joy, which are some of the many blessings left by his presence on earth. He loved music, and there are many songs that will remind us of Gary and keep him close in our hearts.

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Miguel Andres Matuska - March 22, 1960 - December 16, 2023

Departed: 12/16/2023 (Roseville)

Obituary Preview: In loving memory of Miguel Andres Matuska, whose journey began on March 23, 1960, in the vibrant city of Caracas, Venezuela, and peacefully came to a close on December 16, 2023. Miguel's life was a tapestry of love, laughter, and unwavering dedication, leaving an indelible mark on all who were fortunate enough to know him.

Son of Olga and Imre Matuska, Miguel was a cherished son, a devoted brother, a loving husband, and a doting father who embraced each role with profound love and commitment. His presence was a source of joy and comfort to his family and friends, and his absence is deeply felt by all whose lives he touched.

Miguel found happiness in life's simple pleasures, often reveling in the warmth of his family's embrace. He delighted in working on projects at home, where his creative spirit thrived, leaving behind a legacy of craftsmanship and care. His love for travel was evident in his fascination with videos showcasing the world's beauty, and his passion for culture and politics reflected his inquisitive mind and broad interests.

Professionally, Miguel was a skilled locksmith, renowned for his diligence and dedication to his craft. His work was a testament to his strong work ethic and his willingness to embrace new challenges. Known for his kindness and generosity, Miguel was always ready to lend a helping hand, endearing himself to all who crossed his path.

Throughout his life, Miguel regaled those around him with stories and jokes from his cherished memories of childhood and adolescence, bringing smiles and laughter wherever he went. His warmth and compassion knew no bounds, leaving behind a legacy of love and kindness that will endure through the ages.

Miguel's presence will be deeply missed by his family, friends, and all who had the privilege of knowing him. Though he may have left this world, his spirit lives on in the hearts of those who loved him. May he rest in peace, surrounded by the love that he so freely gave, knowing that he will be cherished forevermore.

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John W. Brewer - August 28, 1949 - December 08, 2023

Departed: 12/08/2023 (Roseville)

Obituary Preview: John W. Brewer, age 74, passed away quietly on December 8, 2023, in Roseville, California from Lewy Body Dementia.

He was born August 8, 1949, in Hazel Green, Wisconsin to Harol J. Brewer and Loretta J. Brewer (nee. Meloy). His early years were spent in Benton, Wisconsin, then later in Flagstaff and Yuma, Arizona. He moved in 1966 to Anaheim, California with his parents and five siblings. John attended Western Hills High School in Anaheim, CA, where he met his wife of 53 years, Carol Johnson. After graduation from Cal State Fullerton, the couple moved to San Diego where John obtained his Juris Doctorate at University of San Diego Law School. He practiced law for 38 years in the San Diego area, specializing in wills and trusts. John retired in 2013. John and Carol lived in Santee, California for 47 years where they raised their son, Brian.

John enjoyed baseball and followed his San Diego Padres closely. His greatest joy was playing catch with his son and watching him play baseball throughout Little League and high school. His other passion was golf and playing with his regular Sunday morning rounds with his golfing buddies. In the early 1980's, John and his wife started a small horse business and at one time owned 7 horses. John learned to ride and competed in a few horse shows with his horse, Coco. In later years, he obtained his pilot's license and enjoyed taking a Cessna up and around on mini trips. He loved the many cars he had over the years, especially his new 1967 Burgundy GTO, 1968 Jaguar XKE and his 1999 BMW 328is which he kept until 2023. His "baby" was left in good hands with his son, Brian.

John is survived by his wife of 53 years, Carol and his son, Brian; daughter in law, Stephanie and two wonderful grandchildren, Austin and Brianna; as well as his brothers Robert Brewer (Priscilla), James Brewer, Thomas Brewer, and 11 nieces and nephews as well as their offspring. He was preceded in death by his parents, Harold and Loretta Brewer, sister Kathi Hlavac and brother William (Scott) Brewer.

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Evelyn Olivia (Bishop) Coupe - May 19, 1943 - December 05, 2023

Departed: 12/05/2023 (Roseville)

Obituary Preview: Livvy slipped away from us on Dec 5, 2023. The moment passed, but the memories hold. She is up there on the bank of the river, reading with her night light, waiting patiently for her husband to return from fishing. They will stop on the way home for chowder and chardonnay at the Allenbury Inn on the Yellow Breeches and warm themselves by the fire. She is with her children going to school, swim meets, and summer jobs. She is taking care of soldiers and their families at military installations worldwide. She is laughing with book and bridge groups and welcoming new neighbors. She is setting an example of honesty and compassion in all her actions. Throughout her life, Livvy brought immense joy and love to family, countless friends and all who knew her. Our present sadness is diminished by the joy she brought us and numerous others. Livvy had a remarkable life. She was born on May 19th in Oakland, CA, on the same day of the month as her mother, Evelyn, with whom she shared a special bond. Her father, Paul, was a POW in Stalag 17 during WWII. She cherished her early childhood in Portland, Oregon, especially trips to the beach for digging clams, picking blackberries, and camping in the mountains. She often said, “You can take the girl out of Oregon, but you can’t take Oregon out of the girl.”

After her family moved to California, Livvy graduated Los Gatos High School and attended UOP and San Jose State University, where she met her husband, Dennis, in a French lit class. During the Vietnam draft, her husband was commissioned as a regular Army Infantry (Airborne) lieutenant. Their first duty station was at Fort Hood, TX, where Livvy raised their newborn son, David, before her husband was sent to Vietnam to join the 25th Infantry Division (Tropic Lightning). Livvy returned to her parents home in Los Gatos, awaiting the birth of daughter Jenny. After Vietnam, the family moved to Fort Story in Virginia Beach, where Dennis was a company commander and Livvy made lifelong friends, as she did wherever her family settled. About to be sent back to Vietnam, Dennis was selected by the Army to attend law school at UC Hastings Law School (now UC Law San Francisco), with a commitment for further Army service as a JAGC officer. During law school, the family lived in Marin County, where Livvy worked as a dental assistant while continuing to raise the children and attend college classes. Next for Livvy was Schofield Barracks, HI, where Dennis was an Army prosecutor. The family was fortunate to find a beachfront home on the north shore of Oahu, near Mokuleia, owned by a Korean American who only rented it to American soldiers for their paltry housing allowance, because “You guys saved my family during the Korean War!”

After Hawaii, Livvy was looking forward to civilian life back in the Bay Area, but Dennis was involuntarily extended for an additional year due to the “national emergency” in Vietnam. She reluctantly agreed with Dennis to decline his law firm offer in San Jose and commit to a year of LLM study at the Army JAGC law school in Charlottesville,VA, where Dennis later joined the faculty. For the next five years in Virginia, Livvy worked as a substitute elementary teacher and dental assistant, while also actively supporting Army social events and sponsoring foreign students. After a year in Kansas at Command and General Staff College, the family spent three years in Germany, where Dennis was the Staff Judge Advocate for 2d Armored Div (FWD) and Norddeutschland, while Livvy taught GED classes to soldiers and served as president of the German-American Club. Then came four years in the Pentagon, where Dennis was Chief of the Army Criminal Law Division and Livvy worked in the Town Clerk’s office in Vienna, VA, continuing to make many more enduring friendships.

With their two children off to college, Livvy and Dennis were next assigned to Carlisle Barracks, PA, where Livvy worked as a librarian at Dickinson College and the Boswell Library, and Dennis attended the Army War College before joining faculty there for the next four years. While in Carlisle, Livvy earned many commendations for hosting senior national and foreign leaders visiting or attending the College. She was not enthusiastic about leaving for South Korea, where Dennis was next assigned as Judge Advocate for US Forces Korea, the UN Command and Eighth Army. Ever the good trooper, off she went on another adventure, working with soldiers and their families at USO Seoul. Their final Army assignment was to the Presidio of San Francisco, where Livvy was President of the Spouses and the Soldier of the Month Clubs and enjoyed quarters that overlooked the Golden Gate Bridge and the entire SF Bay.

After the Army, Livvy and Dennis remained in the Bay Area. Dennis first took a chief counsel position with the City of Berkeley, then became the first in house Trial Counsel for the CA Commission on Judicial Performance in San Francisco. Three years later, Dennis was appointed US Immigration Judge, first in Long Beach, then in San Francisco. After their second retirement, Livvy and Dennis moved to Grass Valley for two years before settling in Granite Bay. Throughout her travels, Livvy was a beacon of affection for all people of good will. She was as loving a mother as ever existed. She had a special bond with her own mother, her children and grandchildren, William and Lindsay Coupe, along with many life-long friends. Wherever she lived, Livvy always found time to help others. Even after a series of illnesses, she chaired social and newcomers committees in her Los Lagos community. What better legacy than to bring so much happiness to so many?

Livvy always had a loving interest in people, no matter their station, but she had little tolerance for insincerity or pretension. She was also known for her feistiness and speaking her mind, as well as her delight in sharing friendships. She loved spending time in the mountains and at the beach with family and close friends. She enjoyed reading biographies, histories, and well written fiction, usually finishing two or three books per week, and always anxious for recommendations from her friends at Granite Bay Library (but no bodice rippers, please). She belonged to several book, social and dinner groups. She loved southern cooking and conversation over a glass of good wine.

During her life, Livvy got to meet and chat with many world leaders, including George HW and Barbara Bush, Colin and Alma Powell, Mikhail and Raisa Gorbachev, and Ambassador Don Gregg. On several occasions while in Korea, she insisted on accompanying her husband to male dominated Korean social gatherings, and quickly won over the guests.

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Danny Ray Shaffer - April 15, 1943 - December 05, 2023

Departed: 12/05/2023 (Roseville)

Obituary Preview: Danny Ray Shaffer passed away on December 5, 2023, at the age of 80. Born on April 15, 1943, Danny lived a life marked by passion, humor, and a commitment to his craft.

Danny, son of Keith and Elsie, and brother to Donna, was loved by many.

Born in Newton, Iowa, he was raised in Newton and attended Newton High School until the family picked up and set roots in Southern California. Danny graduated from San Fernando High School in 1961. While working as a custom car painter and a member of a local car club, he attended a car show at Bob’s Big Boy where he met the love of his life, a waitress named Diana Sue Levy. The two married and started a family in Sylmar, California. In 1973, Danny and Diana decided to move their four boys, Keith, Daniel, Eric, and Brett to Arvada, Colorado.

Danny and Diana began their successful real estate careers and built a large home in Arvada, where Danny continued his love for cars by building and restoring a few for his boys. He was a devoted father and coach for youth football and baseball. In 1989, due to the struggling real estate market, Danny and Diana moved their family back to California, this time settling in the Northern town of Fair Oaks, where they combined forces and created a very successful real estate team.

Danny Ray Shaffer's legacy is one of resilience, achievement, and compassion. He will be deeply missed by his family, friends, and the community he served so faithfully. Danny is predeceased by his father Keith, his mother Elsie, his sister Donna, his wife Diana, and his sons Adam and Keith. Danny is survived by his sons Daniel Shaffer, Eric Shaffer, and Brett Shaffer; daughters-in-law Carole Shaffer, Jennifer Shaffer, and Jill Terrell; grandchildren Taylor Shaffer, Cassidy Womack (m. Adam Womack), Halee Lancaster (m. Tucker Lancaster), Zachary Shaffer, Mason Shaffer, Brayden Shaffer, Cienna Shaffer, Caysin Shaffer, and Chandler Terrell; great-grandchildren Nash Heagney, Aaliyah Howe, Francesca Womack, Ben Womack, and Cooper Lancaster; and many cousins, nieces, nephews, grand-nieces, and grand-nephews.

Services for Danny will be held at Old St. Mary’s Chapel, 5251 Front Street, Rocklin, California, on Friday, February 9th, at Noon, with a reception to follow afterward at a location to be determined.

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Basil Silva - October 01, 1960 - November 30, 2023

Departed: 11/30/2023 (Roseville)

Obituary Preview: Known to family and friends as Junior. He was preceded in death by his dear mother Isabel N. Silva. He was son to Basil Silva Sr. and big brother to Renee’ and Raymond Silva. He was originally from the East Bay but in his later years he followed his children to Modesto and then Sacramento. He was father to Joe II, Anjulica, Andrea, Basil III, Felipe, Jesse, and Julian. His beloved daughter Alicia Celina tragically preceded him in death in 2008. He was proud of his children and would tell anyone who would listen.

Junior was married a few times, including Hope Angel. Despite being on hospice, Junior would still sneak off to the casinos with Angel, whom he affectionately called his oldest and bestest friend.

He loved his many tias, tios, aunts, and uncles. He would frequently express his appreciation for their love as they held a special place in his heart.

He passed on his mother’s dimples to almost all of his numerous grandchildren. Many of whom can share stories about a man who attempted to entertain them with silly games and terrible jokes, even if they were purposefully at his own expense. He was the kind of grandpa that drew up passing routes on the back of a football and shot a little hoop. He beckoned his grandchildren to help with all things electronic such as his cell phone, his smart TV, and ordering an Uber.

Junior loved listening to oldies. He enjoyed fishing in the Bay. He liked kung fu movies and felt that Bruce Lee was the best to ever do it. He enjoyed comic books even when he had to use bifocals to read them. He was a 49er Faithful and spent quite a few Sundays watching games with his family.

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Patrick Farrell Norton - July 02, 1956 - November 12, 2023

Departed: 11/12/2023 (Roseville)

Obituary Preview: Patrick Farrell Norton, born July 2, 1956, in Sacramento, California passed away November 12, 2023, surrounded by his family. He is survived by his son Kenneth Norton (Niki), daughter Tiffanie Norton, six grandchildren, two great grandchildren, six brothers and sisters, eleven stepbrothers and sisters, and many nieces and nephews. Pat is preceded in death by his parents Carl Norton and Helen Rose, and sisters Debbie Norton and Brenda Westbrook. Pat grew up in Sacramento, California and attended Sylvan Middle School and Mira Loma High School where he was an Allstar cross country track runner who won several medals. After graduating high school in 1974, Pat went into the construction and carpentry field where he worked for 20 years before retiring. In his spare time, Pat enjoyed playing softball with his friends and family. Pat was an avid pool shark, playing in many tournaments. He also loved watching Nascar and Football. Everyone who knew Pat knew he was a lifelong, die-hard Steelers fan. Pat will be greatly missed by his family, and we will cherish the memories forever.

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Ronald Zenon Henderson - April 14, 1942 - November 10, 2023

Departed: 11/10/2023 (Roseville)

Obituary Preview: Ronald (Ron) Zenon Henderson, 81, died on November 10, 2023. He passed away at his home in Roseville, CA, surrounded by family.

Ronald was born on April 14, 1942 in Wahiawa, Hawaii. He had an adventurous and memorable childhood growing up in Hawaii with his beloved parents, Frederick Mustermann and Madeline Montalbo Mustermann, and many siblings, cousins, aunts, and uncles. Ron also lived on Wake Island as a young teenager before moving to Roseville in 1957.

Ronald, also known by friends as “Charlie,” was a longtime Roseville local. Upon arriving to Roseville from Wake Island at age 15, he attended Roseville High School where he graduated in 1961. Ron made several lifelong friends in high school, and he enjoyed playing sports including football, basketball, and baseball. He worked several jobs during and after high school. In 1962, Ron apprenticed then began his long career as an electrician for the Southern Pacific Railroad. Ron worked hard, including a graveyard shift for decades, to help support and provide a great life for his family. After 40 years of employment, Ron retired from the Union Pacific Railroad in 2002.

Ron was known and loved for his friendliness, respect for others, sense of humor, and generosity. He would do anything he could to support and help his family and friends, and expressed his love warmly and often. Ron was a loyal, trusted friend and easy to have a real conversation with. Those close to Ron also knew his sharp wit and cleverness, fun pranks, and laidback attitude.

Ron loved camping at Lake Tahoe with his family; but his favorite place was Hawaii, where he was born and raised. Ron returned to Hawaii every chance he could; and when he was not enjoying time on the islands, looking forward to his next trip there brought him joy.

Preceding Ronald in death are his parents; sister, Hilda Wells; and brothers, David Idigpio and Marcelino Idigpio, Jr.; and several aunts and uncles.

Ronald is survived by his wife, Carol Henderson; his sons, Ronald A. Henderson of Rocklin, CA and Steven (Julie) Henderson of South Lake Tahoe, CA; his three grandchildren, Presley (Austen) Mundell of New Paris, OH, and Blake Henderson and Brennen Henderson of Rocklin, CA; his great granddaughter Emerald Mundell of New Paris, OH; his sister Florentina McCarthy of Philadelphia, PA; and several cousins, nieces, nephews, and friends.

Aloha, Ronald. We will always love and be grateful for you, and cherish the many good times together.

The family is planning a private celebration of life for Ronald in the spring of 2024. If desired, memorials can be made in Ronald’s honor to the donor’s choice.

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Darren Lee Trisel - March 05, 1959 - November 04, 2023

Departed: 11/04/2023 (Roseville)

Obituary Preview: Darren Lee Trisel, 64, passed on November 4, 2023 in his home due to Creutzfeldt-Jakob Disease. He was born March 5, 1959, in Dayton, Ohio. Son of Mary and Richard Trisel.

Darren joined the military in 1983, while in the Air Force he attended and graduated from Central Michigan University where he received his master’s degree in health care administration.

Darren was predeceased by his parents Richard and Mary Trisel. Darren leaves behind his wife Angela of almost 30 years.

Surviving in addition to his wife Angela Trisel, are his children/step children, Nicholas (Marie) Trisel, Ryan (Ann) Trisel, Tyler (Elissa) Trisel, Donald (Brandee) Martinez, Viselda Martinez (Amber Greule), one brother Gary Trisel, sisters Madilyn Remare, Marilyn Whitt, fifteen grandchildren, a few nieces and nephews. A memorial service will be held on December 9, 2023, 2:00 pm at Old St. Mary’s Chapel, 5251 Front St., Rocklin, CA. 95677 Zoom streaming of service can be access by login to Join Zoom Meeting https://us04web.zoom.us/j/76184405348?pwd=dXz9RRhTN29q5B8ZxEXPtS0K8iulhi.1 Meeting ID: 761 8440 5348 Passcode: 7NuwG8

A Military Honor Service will be held in Santa Fe National Cemetery, 501 North Guadalupe, Santa Fe, New Mexico at 2:00 pm on March 25, 2024.

All guest are invited to a gathering following the service at 7305 Blue Moon Lane NE, Albuquerque, New Mexico 87113.

All expressions of sympathy including flowers are welcome.

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Julie Marie Shanahan - April 06, 1969 - October 24, 2023

Departed: 10/24/2023 (Roseville)

Obituary Preview: Julie Marie Shanahan entered this life on April 6, 1969, to parents Michael and Cathy Shanahan in Burlingame, California. She was raised in San Bruno and Pacifica, California. She spent her adult years living in San Bruno before moving to Roseville, CA, where she spent the remainder of her years. At the age of 54, she exited this life on October 24, 2023.

She was blessed with three children, Brianna Beebee, Savanna Beebee, and Chanelle Beebee, and two grandchildren, Cali Spalding and Kaiden Skelton. She found true love and spent over 20 years with her soul mate, Amit Shankar. She reunites with her cherished loved ones, including her father, Michael Shanahan. Julie loved life, loved her family and friends, enjoyed music, the Lakers and the Raiders, was a phenomenal cook, and she loved animals (her favorite animal was a cow). She will be remembered for her infectious smile, warmth, and kindness, her ability to connect with anyone, and her ability to unite people. Please see this Zoom link for a livestream of services if unable to attend in person: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/89252012131

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Rachel Sue Burke - February 12, 1944 - October 21, 2023

Departed: 10/21/2023 (Roseville)

Obituary Preview: Rachel Sue Burke passed away October 21st, 2023, surrounded by her family at the age of 79. She was a dear friend, wife, mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, niece, and cousin.

Rachel was born on February 12th, 1944, in Auburn, CA to Francis and Marion Evers. She is the 5th of 11 siblings. Rachel attended Placer High School and is in the graduating class of 1962. She then attended and graduated Sierra College in 1964. After she graduated college, she began her life-long career in commercial insurance and retired at the age of 70.

Rachel married the love of her life, Bernard Conrad Burke, on October 24th, 1970, in Reno, Nevada. They began their married life in Citrus Heights, California. Bernie brought four children into their family: James, Debra, John, and David. Soon after, their daughter Laura was born.

Rachel and Burnie were avid bowlers and competed in leagues and tournaments. She enjoyed gambling, loved to read, play games, go on walks, and spend time with her family. Rachel loved to watch Wheel of Fortune and Jeopardy. Rachel also enjoyed traveling.

Rachel leaves behind a legacy of love, compassion, and resilience. She was preceded in death by her husband, Bernard Conrad Burke, her stepchildren, James Patrick, Debra Jean, and John Joesph, her parents Francis and Marion Evers, her siblings Wynona Virgil, Barbara Evers-Parfitt, Eric Evers, Grace E. Evers, Ron Pinegar, and Lloyd Forster. She is survived by her children Laura Geoia (Paul) and David Burke (Illene), her granddaughters Cassandra Quintana (Claudio daughters Aurelia and Luana),Megan Burke, Katilin Burke (Ian Spurr), Gabriella Newman (DeMario), Isabella Davenport (Deric), and Arianna Geoia, and her siblings Linda Fain (Les), Bea Forster, Cathy Zick (Jim), Cindy Evers, April Pinegar, Marty Evers (Mary), as well as many close nieces and nephews.

Services will be held on November 7th, at 11am at The Pointe Church, 8144 Watt Ave, Antelope, CA. A private interment will be held at a later date at Sacramento Valley National Cemetery in Dixon, CA.

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Michael Anthony Ringo - June 02, 1970 - September 23, 2023

Departed: 09/23/2023 (Roseville)

Obituary Preview: Michael Anthony Ringo entered this life on June 2, 1970 to parents Frankie Leanner Ringo & Mark Anthony Ringo in Berkeley, California. He was raised as a child in southern California and then moved to Sacramento, California where he spent the remainder of his years. At age 53, he exited this life on September 23, 2023 at home peacefully after a long battle with cancer.

He was blessed with 3 children, Andre Christopher Frank, Donovan Isiah Ringo & Avery Nathaniel Ringo and 2 grandchildren Trevor Alexander Frank & Adelaide Aiko Ringo. He reunites with his cherished loved ones, including his parents and grandparents. Michael loved life, loved his family and friends and enjoyed music, writing and sports. He will be remembered for his huge heart and a great sense of humor with an infectious smile and lots of charm.

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Donna Rademacher Hollabaugh - April 05, 1961 - September 17, 2023

Departed: 09/17/2023 (Roseville)

Obituary Preview: Donna Hollabaugh, a resident of Rocklin, California, passed away on September 17, 2023, leaving behind cherished memories and a profound impact on those who knew her. She was born on April 5, 1961, to her beloved parents, Jack, and Jesse Rademacher, who provided her with a nurturing and loving upbringing.

Donna's life blossomed when she met the love of her life, Stephen Hollabaugh. They exchanged vows and were united in holy matrimony during their 38 years, and together they built a beautiful family that brought immense joy to their lives.

Devoted and caring, Donna was a loving mother to her two children, Wesley Hollabaugh and Cameron Hollabaugh. She cherished every moment spent with them and guided them with endless love and support as they grew into wonderful individuals.

Donna's educational journey began at the Harris School kindergarten, and she then attended St. Francis School, where she continued to cultivate her knowledge and skills. Upon reaching high school, Donna excelled academically at Bakersfield High School and graduated with distinction in 1979.

Driven by a thirst for knowledge, Donna pursued higher education at the University of Idaho, where she further honed her intellect and passion for learning. Continuing her academic pursuits, she attended Bakersfield College and California Polytechnic State University, where she achieved a Bachelor of Science degree in Dietetics/Nutrition.

A woman of many talents, Donna embarked on a fulfilling professional journey. She explored her deep passion for music and songwriting, expressing her creativity and emotions through the melodies she crafted. Additionally, she found success as a small business owner, leaving her mark on the entrepreneurial landscape.

Donna's radiant spirit, unwavering dedication, and genuine kindness made her an inspiration to all who had the privilege of knowing her. Her zest for life was infectious and left an indelible impact on everyone who crossed her path.

On September 17, 2023, Donna peacefully passed away, surrounded by the love of her family. She lived an exceptional and wonderful life, filled with remarkable experiences and treasured moments. Her parents, Jack, and Jesse, were instrumental in shaping the person she became, instilling in her the values of hard work, stability, integrity, and sacrifice.

Donna forever cherished her beautiful family and the love they shared. Her legacy will live on through her children, Wesley and Cameron, who will carry on her spirit of love, kindness, and resilience.

Donna Hollabaugh will be deeply missed by her family, friends, and all those who had the privilege of knowing her. Her memory will remain etched in our hearts, a reminder of the extraordinary impact one person can make in the lives of others. May her soul rest in eternal peace.

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Basil Anthony Molony - June 14, 1934 - September 09, 2023

Departed: 09/09/2023 (Roseville)

Obituary Preview: Basil Anthony Molony, M.D., age 89, passed away on September 9th, 2023 in Gold River, California. Basil was born in Thomastown in County Kilkenny, Ireland on June 14, 1934, to Joseph and Alice Molony. After earning a Doctor of Medicine (MD) degree, Basil emigrated to the United States where he met the love of his life, Barbara Jean Bartnick, in Grand Rapids, Michigan. They married on May 9, 1959.

Shortly after receiving his United States citizenship, Basil was drafted into the U.S. Army to serve in the Vietnam War. Major Basil Molony was honorably discharged after his two-year service. Basil’s real passion was internal medicine. For most of Basil’s career, he worked as a research physician for pharmaceutical companies developing drugs for myocardial infarction, stroke, and diabetes.

Basil and Barbara built their retirement home in Camino, California. They lived there until 2006, when they moved to Lincoln, California.

Basil is survived by his wife, Barbara, and their six children: Brian (Amy Wright) Molony, David Molony, Anne Marie (Cliff) Smith, Michael (Joy) Molony, James (Dana) Molony, and Maureen O’Toole. Basil is also survived by eight grandchildren: Nicole, Brendan, Meghan, Shamus, Declan, Ryan, Kaitlin, and Lauren and by his brothers Joseph Molony and Vincent (Nuala) Molony. Basil was preceded in death by his parents and siblings, John, Marcus, Raymond, and Philomena.

A funeral Mass and interment ceremony will take place at Calvary Catholic Cemetery on October 21, 2023 at 11 a.m.

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Harlean Kay Ellis - September 07, 1937 - September 03, 2023

Departed: 09/03/2023 (Roseville)

Obituary Preview: Harlean Kay Ellis passed away peacefully in her sleep on September 3rd, 2023, in Lincoln, California, just shy of her 86th birthday.

Harlean Kay Leffew was born September 7th, 1937, in Lompoc, California. Harlean was a long-time resident of Visalia, where she supported her husband, Lloyd M. Ellis, running a successful insurance company that merged into Buckman Mitchell of Visalia. Harlean then retired with her husband Lloyd and moved to Sun City Lincoln Hills for over twenty years until Lloyd preceded her in death on July 29, 2022.

Harlean grew up in Pixley, California, and graduated from Delano High School. After marrying the love of her life, Lloyd M. Ellis, on August 19, 1972, they united as a family with their four children, that they nurtured and grew to include 7 grandchildren & 13 great-grandchildren. Lloyd and Harlean would have celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary on August 19th, 2022, just days after Lloyd preceded her in death. Harlean dedicated her life to supporting her husband in his insurance business and was a committed member of First Baptist Church (now Gateway) of Visalia. While supporting her husband, Harlean provided a nurturing traditional home life that was safe, secure, and loving for all her family members. Harlean made every holiday, such as Easter, Thanksgiving, and Christmas, the most memorable and special experience for all parties included and made each feel special seeing to every detail and tradition of the occasion. Throughout Harlean’s life, she became a real estate agent, obtained her pilot’s license, was committed to her church and bible studies within her community, and spent many hours washing and setting hair for local retirement home residents that were unable to attend appointments.

Harlean was preceded in death by her husband Lloyd M Ellis, and by her sister Janette Burton. She is survived by daughter Deborah Lynn Murphy (Visalia, CA), son Kevin Michael Triplett (Lincoln, CA), daughter Kimberly Rae Ellis (Fresno, CA), daughter Kelly Anne Forney (Moscow, ID), grandchildren Michael Murphy (Jonelle, Visalia, CA), Macaela Laura Harlean Adams (Anthony, Visalia, CA), Bryce Triplett (Dylan and Cyrus, Galt, CA), and Blake Triplett (Galt, CA), Dustin Forney (Sara, Antelope, CA), Jenna Sarr (Matt, Moscow, ID), Davis Forney (Nashville, TN), and great-grandchildren Colton and Kade Murphy, Laura Adams, Elaine Sierra, Rowan Harlean Triplett, Carter and Caden Forney, Paige, Jude, Quinn, and Jack Sarr, and Jasey Rae Forney.

A Celebration of Life will be held at Harlean’s son’s home located at 1572 Summerhill Lane, Lincoln, Californa on Sunday, September 24, 2023 from 10:00 am until 1:00 pm.

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Erlinda Espinosa - June 27, 1942 - August 12, 2023

Departed: 08/12/2023 (Roseville)

Obituary Preview: Erlinda Espinosa, also known by many as Lin, passed away peacefully at her home with her family in Roseville, CA at the age of 81 on August 12th, 2023. A native of Salinas, Lin moved with her husband, George, to Roseville, CA in July 2009.

Family was especially important to Lin. She spent many years at her children and grandchildren’s games and extra-curricular events. She traveled and attended many concerts. Lin was known for her smile, creativity, kind heart, friendliness, compassion, and considerate nature. People would often say she was the sweetest person they had ever met. She would also make everyone feel at home. Lin will be deeply missed and forever in our hearts.

Lin graduated Salinas High School in 1960 and dental nursing school in San Francisco in 1962. She married her high school sweetheart the same year. She worked as a dental nurse until she had her girls, Cherie and Michelle. She had a successful business baking cakes for many families in Salinas, and later started LinGeo, a ski accessories company. She expanded her business and designed her patented QuickTripper travel bag which was featured on QVC. While in Roseville, she joined Roseville Area Newcomers & Neighbors (RANN). She chaired a monthly breakfast and was a community service board member.

She is preceded in death by her parents Albert and Cecelia Sanchez, brother Danny, and in-laws Adolph and Elvira “Vera” Espinosa. Lin is survived by her husband, of 61 years George Espinosa, daughter Cherie (Ceasar) Perez Rocamora, Michelle (Chris) Keim, brother Albert (Virginia) Sanchez, and sister-in-law Judy (Romald) Nunes. Her nine grandchildren are Regina (Gerry), Ryan (Ramina), Trisha, Steven (Emily), Dominque, Courtney, Chase, Carsen, and Caitlin. Her five great-grandchildren Alyssa, Jayden, Jeremiah, Analisa, and Emiliano.

A funeral service and reception will be held on Friday, September 22nd at 1pm at Madonna Del Sasso Catholic Church, 320 E Laurel Drive, Salinas, CA 93906. A Celebration of Life will be held on Sunday, September 24th at Timber Creek Ballroom at Sun City Roseville, 7050 Del Webb Blvd. Roseville, CA 95747

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and other biographical information. It may also include details about their life, accomplishments, and surviving family members.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to share the news of a loved one's passing with friends, family, and community members. They also provide a permanent record of the person's life and can be a meaningful way to honor their memory.

Who typically writes an obituary?

The task of writing an obituary usually falls to a family member or close friend of the deceased. Funeral homes and online obituary platforms may also offer assistance with writing and publishing obituaries.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, and surviving family members. You may also want to include a brief biography, achievements, and any notable accomplishments.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or platform it will be published on. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from a few sentences to a few paragraphs.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can help make the tribute more personal and memorable.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online platform?

Contact the newspaper or online platform directly to find out their submission guidelines and deadlines. Be prepared to provide the necessary information and payment for publication.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies widely depending on the publication or platform. Some newspapers charge by the word or line, while others offer package deals. Online platforms may offer free or low-cost options.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary in advance as a way to ensure their story is told accurately and in their own words. This can also be a therapeutic exercise in reflecting on one's life.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of someone's passing, usually including only basic information such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary is a longer, more detailed tribute that celebrates the person's life.

Can I include humor or anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! Including humorous stories or anecdotes can help make the obituary more engaging and reflective of the person's personality.

How do I handle sensitive or difficult information in an obituary?

If there are sensitive or difficult aspects of the person's life, it's best to approach them with tact and respect. You may choose to omit certain details or focus on the positive aspects of their life.

Can I include charitable donations or memorial information in an obituary?

Yes, many people choose to include information about charitable donations or memorial funds in lieu of flowers. This can be a meaningful way to honor the person's legacy.

How long after someone passes away should an obituary be published?

The timing of publishing an obituary can vary depending on cultural or personal preferences. Typically, it's published within a few days to a week after the person's passing.

Can I edit or update an obituary after it's been published?

This may depend on the publication or platform. Some may allow edits or updates, while others may not. Be sure to check their policies beforehand.

What if I need to correct an error in an already-published obituary?

Contact the publication or platform immediately to report the error. They may be able to correct it online or issue a correction in a future print edition.

Can I republish an obituary at a later date?

Yes, you may choose to republish an obituary on significant dates such as birthdays or anniversaries of the person's passing. This can be a meaningful way to continue honoring their memory.

How do I preserve an online obituary for future generations?

You can save a copy of the online obituary as a PDF or print it out for safekeeping. Some platforms also offer archiving services or digital legacy management tools.

What is the role of social media in sharing obituaries?

Social media has become a common way to share news of someone's passing and connect with others who are grieving. You can share links to online obituaries or create your own tribute posts.

Can I use social media to crowdsource memories and stories for an obituary?

Yes, social media can be a great way to gather memories and stories from friends and acquaintances. You can create a post asking people to share their favorite memories or anecdotes about the person.

How do I handle condolences and messages from strangers online?

If you're sharing news of someone's passing online, be prepared for condolences from strangers. You can respond graciously or simply acknowledge their kind words without feeling obligated to engage further.

What are some alternative ways to celebrate someone's life beyond traditional obituaries?

In addition to traditional obituaries, you might consider creating a memorial website, holding a celebration of life event, or making a video tribute. These can be meaningful ways to honor someone's memory beyond just a written notice.

How do I find inspiration for writing an exceptional obituary?

You can find inspiration by reading other exceptional obituaries, talking to people who knew the person well, and reflecting on your own memories and experiences with them.