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John Joseph Santos - September 29, 1942 - March 29, 2022

Departed: 03/29/2022 (Big Bear City)

Obituary Preview: It is with deep sadness that we share John Joseph Santos passed away peacefully at his home in Big Bear City surrounded by love Tuesday March 29th, 2022, at the age of 79.5, to the day. John fought a short but fierce battle against pancreatic cancer, an insidious disease.

He is survived by his loving wife of 31.5 years Carol, his former wife Jamie, his children Joe, John, Danny, Diane, and their spouses, his grandchildren, Joe, Alyssa, Benjamin, Jeff, JoJo and Janel, great grandchild, Andrew and his sister Joanne, as well as his sister in laws and many nieces and nephews.

John was preceded in death by his loving mother and father Rose and Joseph Rezende, his bother Albert “Al”, his sisters Adeline “DeeDee”, and Rosemary. John was born September 29, 1942, in New London, Connecticut.

His father was a shrimp boat captain who had hoped his son would follow suit, but that was not to be, John had a different idea and calling. John had a fierce dislike of fishing boats, yep, he got seasick! He would regale many tales with glee about his antics to avoid going out fishing with his father.

The family moved to Fort Meyers, Florida in 1954 where John spent his formative years eating from the many fruit trees on their property, swimming to Sanibel Island and hanging out with his buddies on the white sand beaches. He had a love of cars and motorcycles; he would take his father’s new cars out for a spin while his father was fishing. His mischievous nature found him in hot water many times when his joy rides resulted in accidents.

Upon his graduation, John headed to Southern California to assist his brother who owned a Richfield service and gas station in North Hollywood. He moved on to work in construction, his true calling and love. His first mentor was Frank Ray, who shared all his knowledge and gave John his foundation. They worked together for many years building custom homes and doing all manner of construction projects. He was hired by CW Driver in 1976 where he worked with his second mentor and friend Dana Roberts. He worked for CW Driver for 30 years until his retirement.

John absolutely LOVED working in the construction industry and building things. He said, ‘it never felt like work to me, I just love it’. He would also say ‘I build Cities’. Some of his more notable projects were working on the Los Angeles Times building, Henry Mayo Hospital, White Memorial Hospital, Rocketdyne, and The Redondo Beach Library, to name just a few. Upon his retirement he and Carol moved to Montana. They relocated back to Big Bear California to be close to family in 2018.

He was known by many on the mountain as the Fixologist! He and his Son in Law Ron worked to assist many of the Big Bear residents, friends and neighbors with projects and repairs.

He loved helping people and made friends wherever he went.

When John wasn’t working you could find him tending to his beautiful yard, walking his beloved pups, or on the lake peacefully floating on his Kayak. John was truly a larger-than-life personality, who will be missed by all he knew. Donations can be made in John’s name to the Pancreatic Cancer Action Network - PanCan.org or the American Cancer Society- cancer.org. Let’s stop this insidious disease!

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George Leonard Piccardi - August 15, 1936 - February 12, 2022

Departed: 02/12/2022 (Big Bear City)

Obituary Preview: George Leonard Piccardi passed away on February 12, 2022, at the age of 85. He was born August 15, 1936, in Boston, MA. He was larger than life and loved his church, music, theatre, and his family. He was an active member of St. Paul’s Episcopal Church in Pomona, CA, for over 30 years. He was an instrumental member of the St. Paul’s Player’s Group, directing and producing many critically acclaimed productions including Camelot, Fiddler on the Roof, My Fair Lady, South Pacific, and Sound of Music. He also sang in the St. Paul’s Episcopal Church Choir. In 1994, he and his wife, Sandra, moved to Big Bear, CA, where he became an active member of St. Columba’s Episcopal Church and the Big Bear Kiwanis Club. He brought his love of the theatre to the mountain and was instrumental in the formation of C.A.T.S. (Community Arts Theater Society) in the early 90’s. They put on hundreds of productions at the Big Bear Performing Arts Center. George was always looking for an opportunity to give back and would give you the shirt off his back. He volunteered for many community service projects in the Big Bear Valley, including putting together Thanksgiving food baskets for those in need. He is survived by his wife, Sandra Piccardi, son, George Piccardi Jr., daughter and son-in-law, Shelly and Rob Wishner, and granddaughters, Meghan and Hayley Wishner. We wish him peace on his final journey. Our hearts are sad, but we know he is now directing on the biggest stage of all! We love you dad!

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Debra Lea Bonde - August 23, 1957 - January 26, 2022

Departed: 01/26/2022 (Big Bear City)

Obituary Preview: Debra grew up in Northridge and moved to Big Bear. She went to school for music. Debbie married Paul and had 3 beautiful children Chrystal, Thomas and Tiffani. Her grandchildren Aiden, Destyni, Ian and Ashlynn were her life. She owned her own grooming shop; you would always hear her clients say they would only go to her. Debbie loved singing at the church and playing her guitar. Debra was a very talented opera singer who graduated from Cal State Northridge as a Music Major. She sang beautifully and loved any instrument. She loved the beach and loved animals. She was always on the go and always said everyone loved her. Debbie was such a fun-loving person, she could definitely be feisty, but everyone loved and knew that.

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Terry Alan Tavares - February 13, 1943 - January 18, 2022

Departed: 01/18/2022 (Big Bear City)

Obituary Preview: Terry Alan Tavares, age 78, died at his home in Big Bear, on January 18, 2022. He was born to Freddie & Tamar Tavares, in Hollywood California on February 13, 1943.

Terry is survived by his wife, Linda Guy-Tavares, Son, Gregg Tavares, Daughter, Tami Tavares Nichols and Grandsons, Rick Hurd and Gene Nichols.

Terry and his older brother, Fred, grew up chiefly in Anaheim California where Terry participated in Jazz Band, Marching Band and various athletic programs. After graduating from Anaheim High School in 1960, he earned an Associate’s Degree from Fullerton Junior College in 1962. That degree, lead him to a drafting and engineering career. He and his wife Linda, moved to Everett Washington where he continued his engineering career and interest in music. Upon retirement he spent more time playing his guitar in small venues and senior communities.

Terry had a longtime dream of living in Big Bear and he and his wife decided to make that move in 2020. After moving to Big Bear, he continued his membership with the local Elk’s Club #1787, where the comradery of the lodge was enjoyed.

Terry’s Rosary and Mass was held at St Joseph Catholic Church in Big Bear, and he will be interred at a Family Burial Site, with his parents, in Honolulu Hawaii.

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Phyllis June Byrne - September 19, 1934 - November 17, 2021

Departed: 11/17/2021 (Big Bear City)

Obituary Preview: Phyllis June Byrne, age 87, died surrounded by family on November 17th, 2021 of natural causes. Phyllis was born on March 19th, 1934 to Roy and Eileen Hennager in Langdon, ND. Phyllis graduated from Langdon High School in 1952, she went on to study at Aaker’s Business School, later working as a stenographer and bookkeeper for Herberger’s. She spent most of her time raising her children whom she loved dearly. Phyllis shared ownership of

General Tobacco and Candy, Co. in Grand Forks with her late husband Philip.

She spent time helping with the business, which was sold in 1987. In 1954, Phyllis wed Glen Schneider, and moved permanently to Grand Forks,

ND. In 1969, Phyllis married Philip Byrne, continuing to live in Grand Forks. Phyllis’s favorite place was to be at her lake cabin on Maple Lake, MN, where she opened her door to family and friends. Phyllis was happiest surrounded by the people she loved. Phyllis enjoyed attending her children and grandchildren’s activities, playing cards, tending to her flowers, and traveling. Phyllis was a loyal and caring friend to many and was known for

lighting up a room with her energy. Phyllis was preceded in death by her parents, Roy and Eileen; her husbands’ Philip Byrne and Glen Schneider; her sister Myrtle Kram, and her great grandchildren Sarah Smith and Logan Zacher; and several beloved extended family members.  Phyllis is survived by her 6 children - Mike Byrne (Patricia) of Fargo, ND, Nancy Davis (Ron) of Running Springs, CA, Mitch Byrne (Karen) of Grand Forks, ND, Dave Byrne (Julie) of Ralston, NE, Michele Lange (Jeff) of Brooklyn Park, MN, and Patrick Byrne (Kelly) of Fargo, ND; her 5 brothers - Robert (Maggie), Lyle, David (Ardyce), Keith, and Kenneth (Sandy) Hennager; her 3 sisters - Shirley Fischer, Dolly Mostad, Betty Coyle; her sisters-in-law - Mikell Wood (Donald) and Patricia Lyren; 15 grandchildren and 17 great grandchildren and several nieces and nephews.   She is also survived by many

Schneider Family in-laws, nieces, and nephews. A celebration of life will be held this coming summer in Grand Forks, ND. She

will be interred in Memorial Park Cemetery near her husband Philip Byrne.

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Rodolfo B Tubangui - April 06, 1963 - November 07, 2021

Departed: 11/07/2021 (Big Bear City)

Obituary Preview: It is with a heavy heart I have to announce the passing of Rodolfo Tubangui.

He was born on April 4,1963 and went to be with the Lord on 11/07/2021 after losing a short battle with cancer.

He was born in the Philippines and lived his life in Southern California. From Redondo Beach to the Big Bear mountains.

Often called Rick or Rudy, he was 58 years old and a resident of Big Bear. He was known for his gifted mind, masterful skills and had a superhero heart in everything he did. From putting rockets in space to building race cars on the street, Rick can best be described as a shooting star.

It is an honor to have known him and a blessing to have been loved by him.  He is survived by many who loved him.

Services will be held Saturday, December 4, 2021, 10:00 am at the Community Church in Big Bear Lake, California.

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Deborah "Debi" Ann Johnson - March 24, 1953 - October 21, 2021

Departed: 10/21/2021 (Big Bear City)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Deborah "Debi" Ann Johnson.

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Jose Carmen Negrete - April 04, 1973 - October 01, 2021

Departed: 10/01/2021 (Big Bear City)

Obituary Preview: Jose Carmen “Gordo” Negrete passed away on October 1st, 2021 after being diagnosed with stage four cancer.

Jose Negrete was born in Guanajuato, Mexico on April 4th, 1973. He moved to the United States when he was 14 years old, lived in Texas for two years, and lived in Big Bear for the remainder of his life.

Jose was the loving son of Maria Antonia Silva Magaña and the late Jose Carmen Negrete Morales. He married Nelly Rojas in 2000 and together, they had two beautiful daughters, Laysa in 2001 and Emely in 2006.

Jose is survived by his mother, Antonia, his two daughters, Laysa and Emely, his three brothers, Jorge, Socorro, Antonio and his four sisters Hilda, Lucy, Ana and Adriana.

He is also survived by his twenty four nieces and nephews, many aunts, uncles, cousins and friends.

Carmen was a person of many trades. He worked  many jobs throughout his life but his passion was auto mechanics.

He was the man you would call when you needed an oil change or your transmission checked.

When Carmen wasn’t working on cars, he was visiting family and friends or causing ruckus around town. He was the life of the party wherever he went and his presence was immediately known when he arrived.

Jose was loud and obnoxious but in the most loving way. He loved to joke around with his closest family and friends and had a nickname for almost everyone in his life.

Since his passing, his family has gathered to reminisce on all of the memories he has left behind. His free spirit will be truly missed and most definitely never forgotten.

His family now strives to live every day like Gordo did; he didn’t take life too seriously and lived every day like it was his last.

May we give thanks to our Lord Jesus Christ for every day he allows us to live.

The Negrete Family would like to thank everyone for their love and support during this difficult time. __________________________________

Jose Carmen Negrete “El Gordo” falleció el primero de Octubre del 2021, después de haber sido diagnosticado con Cancer.

Nacío en el estado de Guanajuato, Mexico, el dia cuatro de Abril de 1973, se mudó a los Estados Unidos a la edad de 14 años, vivío en el estado de Texas por dos años y despues en la ciudad de Big Bear Lake, C.A. el resto de su vida.

Jose Carmen fue el hijo amoroso de la Sra. Ma. Antonia Silva Magaña y del Sr. José Carmen Negrete Morales.- Se casó con la Sra. Nelly Rojas, juntos engendraron dos hermosas hijas, Laysa en el 2001 y Emely en el 2006.

Le sobreviven su Sra. madre Ma. Antonia Silva Magaña, sus dos hijas, Laysa y Emely, sus hermanos Jorge, Hilda, Socorro, Ma. De la Luz, Ana, Adriana y Antonio.

Carmen fue una persona de muchos oficios, Trabajó en muchos lugares, pero su pasión fué la mecanica.

El era la persona indicada que tú llamarías para que solucionará un problema de tu coche.

Cuando Carmen no estaba haciendo mecanica, estaba visitando a su familia o amigos y en su momento haciéndo bromas por ahí.

El fue el alma de la fiesta a donde quiera que iba  y su preciencia era reconocida en cuanto llegaba.

Jose fue muy escandaloso y bromista pero siempre lo hacia sin afán de ofender.

Le encantaba bromear con todos sus seres queridos y amigos y casi a todos les puso apodos. Desde su partida, su familia lo ha estado llorando y a la vez recordando cada uno de los momentos que atravez de muchos años se

vivíeron con el.  Su espiritu libre será siempre recordado y  por supuesto nunca olvidado como un ejemplo de vida.

Toda su familia en este momento, se esfuerza para vivir todos los días como lo hizo El Gordito, sin tomar la vida muy en serio pero si viviéndola  al máximo.

Agradezcamos a Dios nuestro señor por todos y cada uno de los dias que nos permita de vida.

La familia Negrete, Agradecemos las muestras de amistad y apoyo que nos brindaron en estos momentos de duelo.

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Arlan Edward Lynch - August 06, 1935 - September 27, 2021

Departed: 09/27/2021 (Big Bear City)

Obituary Preview: Arlan Edward Lynch, 86, a resident of Big Bear City from 1971-2017, passed peacefully on Monday, September 27, 2021, in Tulare, California, at the home of his daughter and son-in-law, Susan and Leonard Houser, who were providing hospice care during his final months. Arlan was born on August 6, 1935, in Brookings, South Dakota, and was raised in Lead, South Dakota. After high school, Arlan enlisted in the U.S. Marine Corps during the Korean conflict, and was honorably discharged as a corporal in 1957.

Arlan married Elizabeth Wendling in 1956 and they moved to Southern California in 1957. He worked as a cement contractor and later co-founded ARCO Construction Contractors before selling his share of the business in 1968 and becoming a Los Angeles County Sheriff Deputy in 1969. In 1970, Arlan helped pioneer the LA County Sheriff Department’s recently established Sky Knight program of the LASD Aero Bureau, where he flew aerial patrol and surveillance operations in support of ground law enforcement operations in Los Angeles County, as well as search and rescue operations, medical evacuation, and transportation missions. Arlan was medically retired from the sheriff department in 1981.

Arlan moved to Big Bear with his eight children in 1971 and became active in the community, particularly with the Big Bear Airport Pilots Association. He was instrumental in developing the Young Eagles youth aviation program, and enjoyed being involved in the annual Big Bear Air Show. He enjoyed being a flight instructor, as well as working as Chief Pilot with the Mountain Air Charter Services from 1982 to 1993. Arlan was also an active supporter of Big Bear High School Football and Cheer Leading organizations during the years his children attended BBHS, from 1974 to 1991.

In 1982, Arlan married the love of his life, Jane Marie (Yurcevich) Baird. They were steadfast, loving partners until her death in 2018.

Arlan was a devout Catholic and an active parishioner at St. Joseph Catholic Church in Big Bear Lake, CA, from 1971 until he relocated to Helendale, CA, in 2017.  He regularly assisted with church fundraising efforts and numerous annual parish events. He was a lifetime member of the Knights of Columbus, and completed the cement work for the 1969 construction of the St. John Vianney Catholic Church in Hacienda Heights, CA, and the 1972 relocation of St. Joseph Catholic Church in Big Bear Lake, CA.

Arlan was a loving, stalwart patriarch to a large, extended family. He was preceded in death by his father, Elmer Edward Lynch; step-father, Carl Burnett Sinjem; mother, (Elsie) Marie Sinjem; first wife, Elizabeth Kathryn Lynch; second wife, Jane Marie Lynch; brother, Dale Lynch; son, Gregory Lynch; step-son, Thomas Baird; and grandson, Daniel DiBenedetto. He is survived by his sisters, Rita (Sinjem) Rose and husband Dennis of Rapid City, SD; Mona (Sinjem) Murphy and husband Brad of Billings, MT; brother, Darrel Lynch of Rapid City, SD; sister-in-law, Barbara (Neumeyer) Lynch; his children: Teresa Lynch of Big Bear City, CA; Tammy (Lynch) Kearn and husband, Kevin, of Huntington Beach, CA; Susan (Lynch) Houser and husband, Leonard, of Tulare, CA; Anthony Lynch and wife, Kristin, of Enterprise, AL; Sean Lynch, of Juneau, AK; Kevin Lynch of Big Bear City, CA; Terrance Lynch of Claremont, CA; and his step-children, Susan (Baird) DiBenedetto of Helendale, CA; and Eddie Baird and wife Monique of Tomball, TX. In addition, he is survived by thirty grandchildren, twenty-one great-grandchildren, numerous nieces and nephews, and countless friends and extended family members.

Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Saturday, October 23 at 8:00 a.m., St Joseph Catholic Church, 42242 North Shore Drive, Big Bear Lake, CA. Relatives and friends invited.

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Spencer E. Taylor - October 24, 1952 - September 22, 2021

Departed: 09/22/2021 (Big Bear City)

Obituary Preview: With heavy hearts, we make known the passing of Spencer E. Taylor. At only 68 years old, and after bravely battling cancer for 4 1/2 years, he succumbed to this dreadful disease. He passed away on September 22nd at home surrounded by his wife and children just as he would have wanted. He will always be our hero. Life as we know it is forever changed without him. His loss is deeply felt by all who loved him.

Spencer was born October 24th, 1952 in Santa Monica, CA to Walter and Helen Taylor of Victoria, Canada. He was their fourth child of six and their first born in the United States. He is preceded in death by his beloved parents and sister, Heather Bloomer, and is survived by his devoted & caring wife of almost 50 years, Teri Taylor and his loving children, Jesse Taylor and Linsey & Bryce Delaney, two adoring granddaughters, Lily & Cora Delaney as well as his supportive siblings; Glynne Taylor (Linda), Janice Sparks, Rick Taylor (Julie) and Renee' Taylor. And many nieces, nephews, extended family and dear friends.

Spencer resided in Southern California all of his life. He graduated from Granada Hills High School in 1970 and met the love of his life shortly after at his 18th birthday party. Three years later, Spencer and Teri married on April 20th,1974 and went on to have a son, Jesse, in 1977 and a daughter, Linsey, in 1981. They lived in Van Nuys, CA as newlyweds and once their children were born they moved to Simi Valley, CA to excitedly purchase their first home and put down roots as a family. Everything he did was for them. He was the hardest worker, the most loyal person and a dedicated family man. He took pride in his work spent mainly as a machinist & sheet metal fabricator and sometimes juggled multiple jobs to provide everything he possibly could for his wife and kids. He supported them well and so humbly, never indulging in things for himself. His strong work ethic was instilled in him at a young age but he still made sure to enjoy time spent with his family whether relaxing at home or on their many camping trips. Spencer was always there when he was needed and was the type of person you could always count on.

In the fall of 2002, as new empty nesters, Spencer and Teri followed their hearts and took a big leap of faith moving from their second Simi Valley home to the majestic mountain town of Big Bear, CA. He still commuted to work in the San Fernando Valley the entire first year they lived there so that their dream could be possible. In 2003, he was able to secure stable work in Big Bear and was relieved to finally reside there full-time while fulfilling his dream with Teri. Their mountain home holds so many wonderful moments and memories of their family. Countless days spent hiking, sledding and enjoying the great outdoors as well as his daughter Linsey's beautiful lakeside wedding in 2006, a lot of fun holidays celebrating with friends and several Taylor family reunions. In 2010 with Teri, both children and his son-in-law all living under one roof for a year, Spencer truly couldn't have been happier. He was most content spending time with them and continually being the provider. They all went on to experience the biggest snow storm Big Bear had seen in over 40 years and it was certainly one to remember. His surprise 60th Birthday party in 2012 will always be a weekend that is looked back on with such fondness for all who were there. He was surrounded by those that loved him the most and truly lived it up to the fullest. He also found out that he was going to be a "Grampy" for the first time that weekend when Linsey announced her pregnancy to him as a birthday gift. The birth of his two granddaughters, Lily in 2013 and Cora in 2017, ("his little monkeys" as he affectionately called them) were two of the happiest days of his life. He adored them both and the feeling was mutual. They love going to visit Grampy & Grammy's "Mountain" and always looked forward to seeing him. He loved us all unconditionally and we feel forever blessed to have had his steadfast love.

Spencer was a man of many talents. Other than being the best Husband, Dad, Grampy, Son, Brother, Uncle and Friend. He was also Mr. Fix "Anything", an excellent golfer, cornhole champion, had an insatiable sweet tooth, was a habitual early bird who often fell asleep in his chair by 8pm, could cut a rug on the dance floor, had a smile and laugh that lit up the room, a true warrior in every sense of the word and an overall determined, authentic and excellent human being. He was his happiest around his family and his dogs as well as with a cold beer in his hand after a hard days work. Such a simple and great man. In the words of his favorite musician, James Taylor, "How sweet it was to be loved by him." He is missed more than words can ever express but is finally at peace which brings us relief and comfort. He was loved and adored by many, especially his family, and we will continue to carry on his legacy as we navigate this enormous loss. To quote how he ended nearly every conversation with his daughter, "Lovin' you." Forever and Always.

As he wished, we have planned a small family gathering in celebration of his life.

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Sandra Zimmerman Smith - June 09, 1960 - July 19, 2021

Departed: 07/19/2021 (Big Bear City)

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Timothy Roger Wood - April 13, 1948 - July 12, 2021

Departed: 07/12/2021 (Big Bear City)

Obituary Preview: Timothy (Tim) Roger Wood passed away from complications due to a neurological disease, Progressive Supranuclear Palsy (PSP), on July 12, 2021, at his home in Big Bear Lake. He was surrounded by those he loved the most.  He was 73.

Tim was born April 13th, 1948, in Los Angeles, CA to his parents, Gordon & Margaret (Peggy) Wood.  He had 1 sister and 3 brothers, growing up in the San Fernando Valley.  He married Susan Costello in September of 1971.  They had two sons, Travis & Tyler, and lived in the Chatsworth, CA. Tim graduated from Granada Hills High School in 1966, and attended some business courses at Pierce Junior College. Tim served in Vietnam from 1968-69 as a Navy Seabee, operating heavy machinery.  Upon returning home, he went to work as a journeyman pressman, like his father, at the Long Beach Press Telegram.

Tim moved to Big Bear Lake in 1976 to start his career in real estate.  It proved to be his calling and he remained in Big Bear the rest of his life.  Tim started with Spencer Real Estate, learning the business from the best, John Ricks and Marie Hillard.  In a very short time, he became one of the top real estate agents in the town.  Applying the same work ethic he learned as a pressman, he simply just outworked the competition.  He was the first in the office, and the last to leave for many years.   In 1984 Tim joined his childhood friend, John Brisson, at Mountain Gallery Realtors.  Shortly thereafter, Tim took ownership of the company, and it became Coldwell Banker, Mountain Gallery Realtors. He remained there until his retirement in 2015.

Tim was very successful at real estate and was involved with either the development or the sales of virtually all of the major subdivisions in Big Bear throughout his career.  He gained national notoriety and many sales awards.  He was a natural coach/mentor and became a business and life coach in the early 1990’s.  He was one of the most sought-after coaches in the industry due to his fiery passion and perspective on goal setting.  He loved helping people realize their potential and seeing their growth.  His impact on the lives of many individuals in his community, and those across the country, cannot be overstated.  He changed many people’s lives for the better.

Tim cared very much about the Big Bear community, and he gave back, BIG TIME!  He believed that children were the most precious asset in the community.  In the late 80’s Tim was involved in the creation of Operation Breakthrough, a local agency which provides alcohol and drug prevention and treatment programs.  More recently, he was the creator of The Lighthouse Project, which sponsored several programs in support of his vision to cultivate a “child honoring community” in Big Bear.  Tim was one of the most notorious anonymous donors in the Valley, giving far and wide, from the Man About Town fundraisers, the Catholic Church, Big Bear Discovery Center, the coats for kids (with Simeon Prophet), and many more, he was a true philanthropist.  He would help anyone who asked for it and didn’t want anything in return.

Tim loved gardening, exercising, hiking, and traveling.  He lived on Windy Point along the North Shore for nearly 20 years.  He felt most at peace and comfortable there.  For many of those years, he could be seen outside tending to his expansive yard and Shasta daisies, running along the North Shore of Big Bear and hiking Grey’s Peak or other various trails.  Tim hiked the Inca Trail, summited Mount Kilimanjaro in Tanzania, and walked the 500-mile Camino de Santiago. He enjoyed spending the winter months in the Kaanapali, Maui with his family and friends.  He loved spending time with his 2 sons, daughter in law, and his grandkids more than anything else.  In his final years, nothing gave him more joy that attending his grandson, Dax’s, baseball games.

Tim was Catholic and could be seen at the 8 AM mass almost every day.  He never talked much about his faith, but it was something he leaned on throughout his life.

Tim is survived by his sons, Travis Wood, and Tyler Wood (Ashley); his grandchildren, Daxton, Tristan, and Drienne; his aunt and God-mother Patricia (Trisha) Radis, his sister Terri Rizzo (Nick), his brothers Dan Wood (Cindy), Andy Wood (Teresa), and Kevin Wood; his nieces and nephews Kristen, Tracie, Danny, Mitch, Katie, Michelle, Sara, Peter, Shawn, Alexandra and Seth, and the loving mother of his sons, Susan Costello.

Tyler and Travis extend heartful gratitude and love to Tim’s closest inner circle of friends who cared for him and nurtured him during his years-long battle with PSP.  Tyler and Travis’ mother, Susan (Susie) Costello spent countless hours with Tim giving him consistent and unrelenting companionship and care. Tim’s life-long best friend, John Brisson, visited him nearly daily, bringing him friendship and milkshakes.  Dana and Simeon Prophet were like guardian angels, watching after him, caring for any details they could as the years of Tim’s battle went on.  The family is forever grateful to the courageous hearts who acted as Tim’s caregivers, allowing him to stay in his home-Christina, Brenda, Laura, Amanda, Karen, Leo, and others----thank you, you do the work of Saints.

Tim followed the mantra that we must be the change we want to see in this world.  Change starts with each and every one of us.  His legacy will live on in all who knew him.

Catholic mass will be held 12 PM on July 31, 2021, at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church (42242 North Shore Drive, Big Bear CA 92314) with a celebration of life to be held thereafter at Shay Meadow Ranch and Resort (1368 Shay Road, Big Bear City, CA 92314) from 2 PM - 5 PM.  All are welcome to help celebrate Tim’s life.

Zoom link  to attend virtually. http://bit.ly/timwoodmemorial

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Tylice Catherine Thomas - September 15, 1954 - May 11, 2021

Departed: 05/11/2021 (Big Bear City)

Obituary Preview: On May 11, 2021, Tylice Catherine Thomas, at the age of 66, transitioned from this world to the stars above to be with her parents, little brother and all others that made that journey before her.  After a long fight, Tylice chose to pass in her mountain home that she so loved with the fresh air, beautiful trees, and her loving and devoted husband of many years Allan Thomas at her side fulfilling her last two wishes. Tylice is survived by her three sons, Tyron Cooley, Ptolemy and Tollis Hill, multiple grandchildren, sister Mae Miner and many more nieces and grand nieces and nephews.

She was born Julian Tylice Mathews to Alvin and Jane Mathews on September 15, 1954, in Lynwood CA. The eldest of 3 kids ( Tylice, Mae and Alvin jr) the best way to describe her is a dreamer who adored the idea of space and the stars.  A dreamer who wished to be an astronaut, but whose life was very much terrestrial in deed. She would not give up on dreaming no matter what dreams may come, good or bad. For while some of her dreams were out of reach, she still tried to make others dreams come true if it was in her capacity whether it be through an encouraging word or as a cheerleader on the sideline cheering them on, she was always about the dream.

Graduating from San Fernando High School and attending college, she started working for the City of Los Angeles where she was affectionately known as T.C., and retired after more than 30 years of service with the Department of Water and Power. Her final dream was achieved after retirement with the purchase of her first home in the majestic mountain community of Big Bear, CA. She became a collector of memories from that point on. Traveling, taking pictures, collecting new things, new experiences, new memories. Some crafted by her own hands, and some expressing the unusual flare that was so Tylice.

To those who knew her she was a true friend, loyal, eccentric and whacky.  From her love of all things Hawaiian to NASCAR racing, Tylice was a fun person to be around. A demented little odd ball who loved the unusualness of life and had stories that either made you laugh or blush with the colorful words she frequently used. Tylice would talk you ear off for hours on multiple subjects and along multiple threads, which was truly a gift all to her own. Tylice Thomas will truly be remembered by all those whose lives she has touched and would want everyone to follow the mantra of her favorite Star Trek quote LIVE LONG AND PROSPER

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Deanna Avey Motikeit - March 17, 1962 - April 01, 2021

Departed: 04/01/2021 (Big Bear City)

Obituary Preview: DeAnna Avey-Motikeit, retired San Bernardino County DCFS director, passed away on April 1, 2021 after a brief but strongly fought battle with cancer.  She was under the care of Hospice at her home in Lake Arrowhead, California and was surrounded by family and friends. Born March 17, 1962 in Martinsburg, West Virginia, she was youngest of three sisters born to Earl Emmert (Mike) and Martha (Wanda) Avey.  DeAnna is survived by her sister Vickie A. (Bill) Cave (Martinsburg, WV) and Brenda (Paul) Pearson (Martinsburg, WV).  DeAnna is also survived by her many treasured nieces, nephews, grand-nieces and grand-nephews.  She most enjoyed being a dog mommy to Jasper and loved all of her dogs that she had throughout her life.  She married her late husband Frank on September 10, 2004 and they were together for thirty years when Frank passed in Feb 2019.  DeAnna enjoyed travelling, scuba diving, tennis, spending time with her family in West Virginia, hikes with dog Jasper and spending time with her many many friends.  More recently, DeAnna had been traveling and enjoying life with her adventure partner and boyfriend Jonathon Hall. DeAnna was a giant in the field of Child and Family Policy in the State of California.  After being hired as a San Bernardino County Social Worker in the 1980s, DeAnna quickly rose through the County leadership, culminating in her retirement in 2013 as San Bernardino County DCFS Director.  Prior to retirement, she had touched numerous departments from Deputy Director of Aging Services to the Assistant Director of Department of Behavioral Health.  DeAnna was highly sought out as a consultant throughout the state and continued her Mission of reforming Child and Family Services in California through leadership in the use of CORE practices.  DeAnna believed in “paying it forward” and mentored numerous social workers and child welfare Directors. DeAnna was a regular and generous supporter of our local SPCA/Humane Society.  DeAnna has been described as having a lot of energy and being around her “was like a cup of coffee for the soul”.  She had a great sense of humor and loved to laugh. In Lieu of flowers donations can be given to the Inland Valley Humane Society in San Bernardino. In Lieu of flowers donations can be given to the Berkeley County Humane Society in Martinsburg, WV. At a later date, the family be having a celebration of life in San Simeon, CA and Martinsburg, WV.

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Charles Everett Woodson - June 20, 1947 - March 24, 2021

Departed: 03/24/2021 (Big Bear City)

Obituary Preview: Our devoted father, husband, and friend Charles Everett Woodson (“aka” Chuck) passed away on Wednesday, March 24th, 2021 at his home in Sugarloaf, California. He apparently could not wait to be reunited with his wife of 25 years Gail Anne Woodson, who also recently passed away January 11th, 2021. Chuck leaves behind his children Ethan and Randee Woodson, Gracien Wood, and his “bonus” sons Landon and Deanna Tymochko and Dale Tymochko. Chuck loved his grandchildren Austin and Anya Tymochko, and Roland Downey, deeply. Chuck will also be sorely missed by his many close friends, particularly Michael & Cathy Wadsworth, and Wendell & Lana Houck. He also left behind his beloved dogs Summer and Bella.

Chuck was the adopted son of Dale and Louise Woodson, growing up in the small central valley town of Galt, California and graduated from Galt High in 1965.  After high school, Chuck joined the US Army and served with distinction during the Vietnam War in the 1st Air Calvary Division, where he was involved in combat operations as a CH-35 “Chinook” crew chief.  Upon his return from the war, Chuck spent two years in Pennsylvania where he began his career in steel fabrication.  He returned to Sacramento, California and worked for Perkins Steel & Gerlinger Steel, retiring in 2013.

Chuck and Gail originally met during a trip to Knotts Berry Farm in 1966 where the spent the day enjoying the theme park with friends, and Chuck showing off his ’57 Chevy.  After many years they were once again reunited while volunteering with the Boy Scouts of America in 1993. Soon their love blossomed, and they were married and resided in Elk Grove, California, where they lived together for over 20 years. Most recently Chuck & Gail moved to the southern California mountain community of Big Bear, where they lived for the last five years, thoroughly enjoying their retired mountain life.

All who knew Chuck would agree that he was fiercely patriotic. He proudly wore his various hats affirming his status as a Vietnam Veteran and often participated in local parades or planting flags on Memorial Day or Veterans Day as a member of the VFW or American Legion. Chuck also had a creative streak and loved to build cool stuff out of steel.  He was a man who lived a full life. In his youth he was adventurous, riding broncos in the rodeo, racing cars at the local track, and exploring the mountains in his red 1965 CJ5 rock crawler Jeep.  In his later years, he was Gail’s “cowboy,” a lovingly devoted husband who poured all his love and attention into making their life together a happy one. His loss leaves an enormous hole in our hearts, but we rest in the knowledge that Chuck is once again reunited in peace for eternity with his beloved “cowgirl” Gail.  We love you and miss you Papa.

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Anthony Rivera - January 12, 1955 - February 21, 2021

Departed: 02/21/2021 (Big Bear City)

Obituary Preview: Anthony (Rally) Rivera went to rest on the morning of February 21st, 2021, due to complications from Lymphoma. He passed while with his family, in Big Bear City, CA. He is preceded by his daughter Melinda, mother Delfina, father Paul, and brother Michael. He is survived by two brothers, three sisters, a daughter, a son, seven grandchildren, an aunt, an uncle, and several cousins, nieces, and nephews.

Anthony was born in Albuquerque, New Mexico on January 12th, 1955, and spent his life between there, Florida, Arizona, and largely California. During his adult career, he was a well-known and successful copper telephone splicer, working as a contractor to complete projects for telephone companies across the country. In the latter years of his life, while still living in Reedley, CA, he was very active in his church and the community. His church life and outreach were among the greatest joys in his life, and he undoubtedly touched many more lives than any of us will ever know. Among the common activities he’d speak of, assisting with food drives, and volunteering at his church, seemed to be the most regular.

One of the other great joys of his life were his grandchildren. Whether it was bringing them surprise goody bags of candy, watching sports or cartoons with them, getting makeovers from his grand daughters, or wrestling with his grandsons, he always enjoyed his time with them. He was often heard pretending to complain of them eating or drinking all of his something or another, but was always heard offering it to them repeatedly when he’d first gotten it; a game he loved to play. While spending time with and around his grandchildren, he would also spend a lot of time with his daughter in law, Melissa Rivera. The two became very close over the years, and there is no doubt that he loved her as a daughter, just as she loves him like a father.

While his battle with lymphoma lasted 1.5 years, his time seemed to come abruptly, and much too soon for those of us that knew him. He was a man always willing to help those he loved, no matter the cost to himself, and a true friend to many. He is, and will always be loved and missed, but we mourn for ourselves, as we know that his suffering is past, and his eternal salvation is secure, in our Lord Jesus.

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Dennis Bracken - October 12, 1949 - February 17, 2021

Departed: 02/17/2021 (Big Bear City)

Obituary Preview: Dennis Bracken passed away peacefully on February 17, 2021, with his wife Linda at his side.

Dennis dedicated his life to serving and protecting others, his family, friends, community, and country.

The eldest son of William and Inez Bracken, Dennis was born in Brooklyn, New York on October 12th, 1949. A year later, his brother Stuart joined the family. As the son of an Airforce Tech Sergeant, Dennis spent his childhood living on several bases throughout the United States and spent his middle school years at Yokota Air Force Base in Japan. His family eventually settled in Tacoma, Washington where Dennis graduated from Franklin Pierce High School in 1968.

At a time when his country was at war, Dennis courageously joined the Marine Corps and served in Vietnam as a Corporal for the 2nd Battalion 26 Marines 1968/1969. While serving, Dennis earned accommodations for his dedication and bravery, including the Silver Star and the Vietnamese Cross of Gallantry. Although his service represents a short time of his 71 years, this was a defining experience for Dennis, and he was a proud Vietnam Veteran and Marine for the remainder of his life.

Returning home to Washington, Dennis completed his education by earning his Master’s degree in Public Administration from the University of Puget Sound. From a young age, Dennis knew he wanted a career in law enforcement and joined the Long Beach Police Department in 1977. He had a diverse career and served as a Patrol Officer, Field Training Officer, S.W.A.T Officer, and Detective. He earned a Purple Heart for an injury sustained in the line of duty that resulted in his retirement. For the rest of his life, Dennis would continue to be a strong supporter of the men and women in blue.

In Long Beach, Dennis met the love of his life, Linda, and they were married after a short courtship. Visiting Big Bear often on their Harley, and looking for a new adventure, Dennis, Linda, and his son Brian made Big Bear their home. They continued to grow their family, welcoming two daughters, Chelsea and Hayley. Dennis was a devoted family man and often expressed to others the pride and joy his family brought him.

In 1990 Dennis began his second career as a Realtor. In his thirty years of business, he received numerous awards for his achievements, including being nominated Realtor of the Year in 2002. He continued his dedication to the community by serving as President of the Board of Realtors and as a Regional Chairman for California Association of Realtors. Dennis took pleasure in the people that he met and his clients often became friends.

Of all of his community involvement, including Dawnbusters Rotary, Marine League, and the Elks. Dennis was most passionate about the time he spent as a defensive coach for Big Bear High School football. As a coach, he instilled the importance of hard work on and off the field. He not only developed his players’ athletic talents, but he also encouraged them to be their best in all aspects of their lives.

Along with his enthusiasm for football, Dennis had many interests. He had a love of anything with a motor and was always smiling when riding his Harley, boating on the lake, and tinkering with his Corvette.

Dennis was a man with an extraordinary ability to have a significant impact on everyone he met. He was known as someone who would never pass a person in need and would always lend a helping hand or a kind ear. He touched the lives of many and will be greatly missed.

Dennis is survived by his wife, Linda, of 33 years and his three children, Brian, Chelsea, and Hayley (Dagoberto). Also, his mother, Inez, and his brother Stuart (Athena).  Additionally, he leaves behind by many nieces and nephews.

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Betty Marie Heller - December 16, 1931 - February 02, 2021

Departed: 02/02/2021 (Big Bear City)

Obituary Preview: TO KNOW HER WAS TO LOVE HER AND BE LOVED BY HER

Betty M Heller, of Big Bear Lake, passed away on Tuesday, February 2, 2021.

Born Marie Elizabeth Randles in Los Angeles, CA, to the late Clementine Randles and Ernest Randles, on December 16, 1931. She married Paul Heller on December 11, 1948 who preceded her in death, and is survived by their 3 children Steve (Christine)Heller of Whittier, Diana (Michael) Bedwell of Big Bear City and Linda (Thomas) Galich of Huntington Beach.  Also surviving are 6 grand children and 13 great-grandchildren.

Betty was a longtime resident of Big Bear Lake, where she loved to sew and quilt with the Busy Bear Quilt Guild and the Bear Valley Quilt Guild.  Betty was a lifelong member of St. Joseph Catholic Church.

Betty and her husband Paul loved to travel to see the historical sites in all of the 50 States. Both had joined and volunteered for The Historical Society of Big Bear and the Big Bear CHP.

Family and friends were Betty’s passion and delight.  She raised her family very close knit and would frequently travel over the years to see her family far and wide. Betty leaves behind numerous loving relatives and friends.  She will be remembered for her hugs, her smile, and her selfless devotion to her loving husband and her family, Held in our hearts forever.

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Gail Anne Woodson - June 21, 1950 - January 11, 2021

Departed: 01/11/2021 (Big Bear City)

Obituary Preview: Our beloved wife, mother, and friend, Gail Anne Woodson, passed away on Monday, January 11th, 2021 at her home in Sugar Loaf, California.  She leaves behind her husband of 25 years Charles Woodson, and her children, Landon & Deanna Tymochko, Dale Tymochko, and “bonus” son Ethan & Randee Woodson.  She was a fiercely proud grandmother to her grandson Austin Tymochko (10) and Anya Tymochko (5).  Gail will also be deeply missed by her surviving older brother Michael Wadsworth, and his loving family, and Gail’s many loving cousins, nieces, nephews and friends.

The daughter of Wreatha Jo Wadsworth and Joseph Harry Wadsworth, Gail was born in the city of Los Angeles on June 21st, 1950.  She grew up in Southern California surrounded by her close-knit Irish Catholic family.

After leaving home and getting married, Gail resided in Elk Grove, California for almost 50 year where she was a devoted mother and active in her community. Gail was proud of her educational achievements, receiving both a Bachelors of Science and Master of Science degrees from CSU Sacramento.  She retired after a 20-year career with the State of California.

All who knew her would admit that Gail had a big personality. Many will remember her for her creativity, her unique style, and her passion for life.  She had a curious mind, and a kind heart. She was a historian extraordinaire, who had a deep knowledge of a countless number of subjects. She spent many hours on her various art projects of drawing, painting or needlework, usually while watching one of her favorite classic movies.

Always a southern California girl, Gail truly enjoyed traveling and exploring the world, taking cruises and exploring in their travel trailer with Chuck Woodson, the love of her life.

Thank you to all of the friends and family that have expressed their sorrow for Gail’s loss.  We will be planning a full Celebration of Life for Gail to be held sometime later this year. Additional details about the event will be provided as they are developed.

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Pamela Eileen Newman - July 30, 1951 - December 22, 2020

Departed: 12/22/2020 (Big Bear City)

Obituary Preview: Pamela Eileen Newman age 69, passed away on December 22nd, 2020 surrounded by the loves of her life. Pam married Jeff February 10th, 1973 and was blessed with three children, Robert, Michael, and Charlotte. Pam is survived by her husband Jeff, son Michael and daughter-in-law Jess, daughter Charlotte and son-in-law Brian, six beautiful grandchildren, and wonderful siblings Patti and Paul.

Over the course of her 40 year career, she was a Preschool Teacher and Director. Miss Pam always went above and beyond to help her students and care for them like her own. She had the biggest heart and taught her students to be kind and love unconditionally.

When she wasn't teaching she loved singing, reading, and solving great puzzles. Pamela talked constantly of Sci-Fi and Marvel movies, sports, the places she wished to travel, and the beach. She was known for loving sunflowers, spoiling her grandchildren, red kitchen appliances and all of her animals.

She was affectionately known for being The Queen Mother to her daughter Charlotte, The Queen Grammy to granddaughter Brooklynn, Miss Pam and The Baby Whisperer to the community. She will be greatly missed by her friends, family, and her home of Big Bear. She is now at peace resting with her son Robert and her Savior Jesus.

Funeral services will be announced in the coming weeks. The family thanks everyone for their kind words.

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Diane Lucille Seguine - July 31, 1943 - December 07, 2020

Departed: 12/07/2020 (Big Bear City)

Obituary Preview: On Monday, December 7, 2020, Diane Lucille Seguine, loving wife, mother, and grandmother, passed away at the age of 77, at home in Huntington Beach, CA. Diane was born in 1943 in Los Angeles, California to Ezekiel Regalado and Jamille Nader Regalado. Diane received a Bachelor’s degree from the University of California, Los Angeles in 1975, and a Masters’ degree from University of La Verne in the early eighties. She was a Home Economics teacher, teaching cooking and sewing in LA Unified School District for 30+ years. She taught high schoolers how to cook, how to sew, and how to become responsible adults. She is survived by her husband, Robert Heffner and her daughters, Collette Seguine Sustayta and Camille Seguine-Osburn, grandchildren, Catherine Osburn, Michelle Sustayta, Anais Sustayta, and Alexander Osburn, sister Lorene Belisama and brother Aaron Regalado. Diane was a devoted Christian and loved Jesus with all of her heart. She instilled faith in her children, grandchildren, students and everyone she met. She was a member of many churches throughout her life, and led many people to God. She was a very giving woman, teaching anyone who wanted to learn how to sew, cook, or crochet. Diane will be greatly missed by so many who loved her. Viewing will be held from 10am-12pm on December 19th at Big Bear Mortuary, 321 W Big Bear Blvd Big Bear City, CA. Graveside Service will be held at Big Bear Cemetery at 12:30pm 370 Maple Lane Big Bear, CA.

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Robert Ryan Doyle - June 13, 1977 - November 11, 2020

Departed: 11/11/2020 (Big Bear City)

Obituary Preview: Robert “Ryan” Doyle

Ryan Doyle passed away unexpectedly on 11-11-2020 in Fullerton CA, he was 43.

Born on 6-13-77 in Fontana CA he is the loving son of mother, Laurie Holman and father Robert Doyle.  He is survived by his parents/step-mom Michelle Doyle; daughters Ava and Norah Doyle; sisters Renee Gruwell (Mark) and Jamie Carone (Nick); step brother Chris Sanchez (Kellci) step sister Allie Morris (Trent); nephews Tanner & Jaxon Carone and Jameson Morris; nieces Riley Carone; Reagan and Scarlet Gruwell; and Waelyn Morris.

Ryan was a hotshot wildland firefighter/first responder for 22 years for both the US Forest Service and CAL Fire.  He had tremendous respect for both agencies and his coworkers.

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Ryan's time off was spent with his daughters, hanging out with family and friends surfing at his mom’s place in Baja, and along our local beaches. He lived in our local mountains and taught Ava and Norah how to snowboard.  Ryan is smart, handsome, and funny.  He loved deeply, and is warm and kind.  He has always genuinely cared about people and our country.  He is conscientious, adventurous, and talented.  He loved strumming the guitar, learning the piano, writing, and working on various forms of artwork.

Ryan has been called home by our Lord and we know that he is watching a sunset with his grandparents Tom and Shirley, Rich and Sandy, and his uncles Tommy and Lonny.  He is deeply loved and will live in our hearts forever.

Services were postponed due to the restrictions.  Information will be given as it becomes available.

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David - Cooper - March 17, 1941 - October 02, 2020

Departed: 10/02/2020 (Big Bear City)

Obituary Preview: David Cooper, age 79, passed away peacefully on October 2nd, 2020, due to complications of a stroke. He was in the comfort of his home in Big Bear Lake, in the loving presence of his daughter and son-in-law. David was born in Manhattan, New York on March 17th, 1941, the 4th son of the late Irving and Kate Kupetsky. He is preceded in death by his high school sweetheart, Bonnie, who passed away in their home in Riverside, CA in 1998 and his brother, Robert, in 2020. David is survived by three brothers, Phil, Sam and Paul, his son, Marc, his daughter and son-in-law, Nicole and Robert Carson, and 4 grandchildren - Danielle, Jacob, Brian & Mark, as well as cousins, nephews and nieces.

David grew up in New York, where he attended Seward Park high school. From August 8th, 1959 to February 7th, 1960 he served with the distinction of Marksman for the Army National Guard in Fort Sill, Oklahoma. In college, he majored in advertising and marketing at NYC Community College in Brooklyn and the School of Visual Arts in New York City. He married Bonnie in 1962 and in 1972 they relocated to New Jersey, to enjoy the rural life with their two children, while pursuing the independence of Amway and Melaleuca. He began his successful career in advertising with the Colonial News/Transcript in Freehold, NJ, which led to the commute to New York and his position as advertising director of the Columbia Daily Spectator, where he received national recognition for achieving the largest volume increase of ad pages in the 100 year history of the independent newspaper. He then became the general manager of advertising for the New York Torch, where he accomplished a major increase in the advertising by directing the expansion of the newspaper from free weekly to a paid twice weekly circulation in New York City. Before moving his wife and family to California in the summer of 1985, he continued to work in New York City as display advertising manager for the Chelsea Clinton News and The Westsider, serving the west side of Manhattan. His successful advertising career continued to grow and evolve in Riverside, CA, with advertising sales supervisor for the Lake Elsinore Valley Sun Tribune. After living in Riverside for two years, David and his family moved to Big Bear, CA in 1988, where he took the position of ad manager for the Grizzly newspaper and was a Rotarian. Over the coming years he returned to Riverside, CA, and continued in advertising sales as an account executive for Charter Media and from 2007 to 2012, he sold insurance as an associate for Aflac. In 2012 he moved to Lake Havasu City, AZ, until moving back to Big Bear to live with his family in 2013. He always had a love and passion for his work and took great pride in persevering and providing for his family, no matter the opportunity or obstacle, with an unstoppable and attainable focus.

He was a beloved father, grandfather, husband, brother, cousin and friend. He was the type of man who always said “yes!” In his younger years he enjoyed motorcycles, gliders archery, water and snow skiing with his brothers. He would spend spare time sketching his family and the world around him. He loved cooking, reading, drawing, playing the piano, harmonica and banjo, museums, beaches, good food, and traveling and camping with his loved ones. David was beloved by everyone he met and was a dedicated Jewish man who found great joy in sharing the faith with his family. He was a wonderful role model for his children and grandchildren, and instilled in them a profoundly positive attitude and approach to life that they will carry with them always. He will be incredibly missed by his family, who have been loved and honored by such a beautiful presence.

He will be laid to rest with his soulmate at a memorial service in Riverside, CA on a future date.

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Jennifer Leigh Golsarry - October 15, 1980 - September 18, 2020

Departed: 09/18/2020 (Big Bear City)

Obituary Preview: “For it is by Grace you have been saved, through Faith...and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God” Ephesians 2:7-8

Jennifer was born in Pocatello, Idaho on October 15, 1980 during the biggest snow storm there had been in years.

She grew up spending time in, Idaho, Oregon, North Carolina, Florida and California.

Her kind heart and beautiful smile; her creative and infectious enthusiasm that would light up every room she walked into, tragically ended on September 18, 2020. We are forever heart broken and miss her terribly.

Her early years in California formed lasting friendships and encompassed an adventurous youth filled with road trips and off beat adventures in her “hippie bus” and Chevy Nova.

These last 20 years were spent living a self-proclaimed gypsy life style...working at the Renaissance Faires, the Christmas Dickens Faire, the Pirate Festivals and camping & working at the Sweets Mill Music Festival.

She became a mother to Lynnaya Leigh Winters in 2003. Her most cherished accomplishment. She loved the journey of pregnancy and adored her beautiful child. She was a gracious & merciful Mom.

She loved all things in nature, especially the tall trees of Big Sur.

She had a caring and compassionate outlook, often to the point of sadness for others as if she felt the weight of the world. Often restless, she questioned everything in life... she was extremely talented, self taught with versatile capabilities... including the art of belly dancing, singing, playing guitar and recently cooking.

She was a beloved, loving daughter of Susan Golsarry and her Dad, Tony Golsarry.

Her family and friends will forever miss her bright shining light, her beauty and her keen sense of humor... all extinguished way to soon.

Most of her “Faire” family knew her as “Mercy Leigh”, her gypsy name. All of us felt graced to have her in our lives, wishing it would have been much longer. She lived life her way in a world that often didn't fit her. It is said “Life is not measured by the breaths we take... but by the moments that take our breath away”

Jennifer “Mercy” Leigh you certainly took our breath away. “The Lord bless you and keep you; the Lord make his face shine upon you and be gracious to you; the Lord turn his face toward you and give you peace” Numbers 6:24-26

Jennifer is survived by her Mom, Susan Golsarry, her Dad, Tony Golsarry (Rhea), a sister Kelli Ribera (Husband) Robert Ribera and four nephews, Zachary, Jonathan, Alex and Ryan Ribera. Also her precious child Lynnaya (“Arsen”) Leigh Winters and her many friends who where her “Faire Family”... and her childhood friends Rhiannon, Chris, Cazzie and many more.

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Pedro Luis Llanes - October 10, 1963 - September 09, 2020

Departed: 09/09/2020 (Big Bear City)

Obituary Preview: Pete was born in Cuba and moved to the US as a young boy. He attended school and eventually graduated from Harbor College. He was drafted in the first round to play professional baseball in the minor leagues. After baseball he was hired onto the Los Angeles Police Department where he served honorably for 26 years. He was a loving husband to Heidi and a great father to Pete Jr, Ashley, Gabriel and a grandfather to Lila Rose. He went above and beyond with his kids and career! Pete will be greatly missed, but never forgotten! In loving memory of Pete - God saw you getting tired and a cure was not to be. So he put his arms around you and whispered, “ come to me”. With tearful eyes we watched you and saw you pass away. Although we loved you dearly , we could not make you stay. A golden heart stopped beating, hard working hands at rest . God broke our hearts to prove to us , He only takes the best ! “I love you so much “ Heidi

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Big Bear Mortuary & Big Bear Cemetery is deeply committed to giving back to the local community. The funeral home participates in various charity events, supports local organizations, and provides educational resources on grief support and funeral planning. Their dedication to community involvement reflects their commitment to serving families beyond their immediate needs.

The Benefits of Working with a Family-Owned Funeral Home

As a family-owned funeral home, Big Bear Mortuary & Big Bear Cemetery understands the importance of personal attention and compassionate care. Unlike larger corporate-owned funeral homes, they are able to provide a more intimate and personalized experience for families. Their staff takes pride in building relationships with each family they serve, ensuring that every detail is carefully considered and every need is met.

Contact Information and Location

If you're seeking compassionate and professional funeral care in Big Bear City, CA, look no further than Big Bear Mortuary & Big Bear Cemetery. Located at 321 W. Big Bear Blvd., PO Box 1599, Big Bear City, CA 92314, the funeral home is easily accessible and convenient for families in the surrounding area. To learn more about their services or schedule a consultation, please don't hesitate to contact them.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including biographical information, details about their life, and information about funeral or memorial services. It's a way to share the news of a loved one's passing with family, friends, and community.

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A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, cause of death (optional), survivors (family members and loved ones), and details about funeral or memorial services. It may also include biographical information, such as occupation, hobbies, achievements, and notable accomplishments.

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Contact the newspaper's obituary department directly to inquire about their submission process and any specific requirements they may have. You can usually find this information on their website or by calling their office.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, it's possible to write your own obituary in advance. This can be a therapeutic exercise that allows you to reflect on your life and legacy. Keep in mind that it's essential to store the document safely and ensure that your loved ones know where to find it.

What if I'm not comfortable writing an obituary?

If you're struggling to write an obituary, consider enlisting the help of a trusted friend or family member. You can also reach out to a professional writer or a funeral home for guidance and support.

How do I handle sensitive information in an obituary?

When sharing sensitive information in an obituary, such as the cause of death or personal struggles, be respectful and considerate of the deceased's privacy and their loved ones' feelings.

Can I include charitable donations or memorial funds in an obituary?

Yes, many families choose to include information about charitable donations or memorial funds in an obituary as a way to honor their loved one's memory and continue their legacy.

How long after a person's passing should an obituary be published?

The timing of publishing an obituary varies depending on cultural traditions and personal preferences. Typically, it's published within a few days to a week after the person's passing.

Can I update or correct an obituary after it's been published?

If you need to make changes to an obituary after it's been published, contact the publication directly to request corrections or updates. Be prepared to provide documentation or verification for any changes.

What if I want to keep the obituary private?

If you prefer to keep the obituary private, you can opt for a private or family-only notice. This can be especially important for individuals who value their privacy or have complex family dynamics.

Can I republish an old obituary for a anniversary or special occasion?

Yes, you can republish an old obituary on significant dates like anniversaries or birthdays as a way to remember and honor your loved one.

How do I preserve an original copy of an obituary?

You can preserve an original copy of an obituary by saving it digitally or printing it on acid-free paper. Consider creating a scrapbook or memory box with other mementos and keepsakes.

Can I use social media to share an obituary?

Yes, social media platforms like Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram can be effective ways to share an obituary with a wider audience. Be sure to respect your loved one's privacy settings and preferences when sharing online.

What if I'm unsure about what to say in an obituary?

If you're struggling to find the right words for an obituary, take your time and gather your thoughts. Reflect on your loved one's life story, personality traits, and accomplishments. You can also seek inspiration from online resources or consult with a professional writer.

Can I include humor or lighthearted moments in an obituary?

Absolutely! Including humor or lighthearted moments in an obituary can help capture your loved one's personality and spirit. Just be sure to balance these elements with respect and sensitivity.

How do I handle multiple marriages or complicated family relationships in an obituary?

In situations involving multiple marriages or complicated family relationships, prioritize accuracy and sensitivity when listing survivors and family members. Be respectful of all parties involved and avoid causing unnecessary distress.

What if I want to create a unique or unconventional obituary?

If you want to create a unique or unconventional obituary that truly reflects your loved one's personality and spirit, don't be afraid to think outside the box! Consider working with a professional writer or using online resources for inspiration.

Can I use technology to create a digital archive of an obituary?

Yes, there are various digital tools and platforms that allow you to create a permanent archive of an obituary. This can be especially useful for future generations who may want to access this information.

How do I ensure that an online obituary remains accessible over time?

To ensure that an online obituary remains accessible over time, consider creating a permanent archive through reputable online platforms or websites that specialize in preserving digital legacies.