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Juanita Martin - November 02, 1952 - January 01, 2021

Departed: 01/01/2021 (Nowata)

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We'd like to thank everyone for joining us to celebrate Juanita Martin's life.  Juanita was the most loving, caring person you could ever know.  Although very quiet, she was always fun to be around.  She would tell us jokes all the time.  No matter what she was faced with she would always try to make everyone around her smile.  Juanita loved to read books and was competitive when it came to playing games.

Juanita Martin was the youngest child of four born to Lula and Theodore Fikes on November 2, 1952 in West Point, New York.  She graduated from Highland Falls High School in 1970. She went on to join the military and was stationed in Ft Leonardwood, MO where she met the love of her life Gary Martin Sr..  They later married on April 29, 1972. Not too long after she retired her military career and they started a family.  They shared almost 49 years of marriage together.  He stood by her side faithfully until the end.  Juanita was baptized as a Jehovah Witness in 1976 and faithfully served Jehovah until death.  Talking about the Bible was one of her favorite things to do.  She would share her years of Bible knowledge with anyone she came in contact with.  Juanita was a proud mother of five children and a loving wife.  Her whole family felt the warmth of love from her huge, caring heart.

Juanita never let people know about all the things she was going through.  She fought an uphill battle for many years.  Through it all she showed strength and courage; all the while trying to make others happy as she kept on a smile.  On January 1, 2021, Juanita Martin was succumbed by death.  Juanita Martin was deeply loved by family and friends and will be greatly missed by all that had the pleasure of knowing her.

She was preceded in death by her parents and brother Theodore Fikes Jr.  She is survived by her husband Gary Martin Sr.; children Zolton Martin, Marcus Martin, Gary Martin Jr., Datina Chinda and Nina Howard; with 9 grandchildren; and her two sisters Luvone Fikes and Louise Johnson and a host of nieces and nephews.

Arrangements are under the direction of Benjamin Funeral Service in Nowata, Oklahoma.  Condolences can be left at www.honoringmemories.com.

Family will have a private viewing with family.

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Dale Edward Epperson - August 26, 1943 - December 23, 2020

Departed: 12/23/2020 (Nowata)

Obituary Preview: Longtime Nowata County resident Dale Edward "Duke" Epperson passed away unexpectedly in his home December 23, 2020. He was born August 26, 1943 at their home in rural Nowata County at roads 410 & 19, 1/2 mile from where he lived the last 65 years. His parents were Lloyd E. and Edna (Gibson) Epperson. He was a 1961 graduate of Delaware High School.

When Duke was only age 16, he experienced the unforeseen death of his dad. From that point he helped his mother care for the family farm. On June 17, 1966 he married Carol (Foster) Epperson. They raised two sons Eric and Todd and they all 4 worked together on the farm side-by-side. From the experiences of life on the farm together he was able to pass on knowledge of mechanics, ranching and life skills. He also had a wealth of knowledge on history, dates and how things worked from his many years of working on equipment. He passed this knowledge on to his boys as well as many of their friends along the way. Through the years the family farm produced many commodities: crops, beef cattle, pigs, sheep, chickens, some rabbits, ducks and 2 gray mules!

Duke spent many years involved in his community. Some of the boards and committees he served on include: Nowata County Fair Board, Nowata County Spring Livestock Show, Nowata Soil Conservation, Farm Bureau County committee, and board member of Elm Bend Water District. Duke served as County Commissioner for Nowata County District 2 for twelve years.

Duke also enjoyed his community of neighbors and friends. Most evenings if he didn't have a meeting to attend you could find him with family or at a neighbors house helping and visiting. In recent years many of those visits were long phone calls, much of which were every day 'check-ins'.

Duke is survived by his wife, Carol, of the home, son Eric Epperson and wife Angie of Delaware, Ok, Todd Epperson of Nowata, Ok, grandson Greyson E. Epperson and grandson Britten E. Epperson as well as many nieces and nephews.

He was preceded in death by his parents, brother Wayne "Butch" Epperson and sister-in-law Barbara Epperson, sister Ruth Spurgeon and brother-in-law Allan Spurgeon, and sister Erma Jean Ford and brother-in-law Jess Ford. He was also preceded in death by a niece Dawn Epperson.

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Elizabeth "Becky" Ann Price - October 01, 1937 - December 23, 2020

Departed: 12/23/2020 (Nowata)

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Elizabeth Ann “Becky” Price went to her heavenly home at the age of 83 on December 23rd 2020 with her husband of 65 years by her side. Becky was born in Old Alluwe on October 1st, 1937 to William Chester Fink and Vera Dora Dean “Goad” Fink. She graduated from Alluwe High School in 1955 as the class valedictorian. She married William C. “Bill” Price in Nowata on December 22, 1955. They had two children, Brad and Rhonda. She worked for Nowata Chevrolet, the Clinic Hospital, and later worked for the First National Bank (Regent) of Nowata for 29 years. She retired from there as a vice president.

Her hobbies included traveling the country by motorcycle, golfing, playing cards and attending church. Her favorite thing was to be around her family, church family and friends. She was an excellent wife, mother, grandmother and great grandmother. She always lived her life with strength, grace and dignity. She was loved by all who knew her.

She is survived by her husband, Bill Price of Nowata; Her two children, Brad Price and wife Judy, and Rhonda and husband, Dale Ridenhour, both of Nowata; Her grandchildren, Ashley and husband Rocky Boswell of Winganon, Miranda McConnell and husband James of Duncan, Kaylan and husband Ashton Branstetter of Lenapah, Cody Price and wife Courtney of Bartlesville, and 13 great grandchildren; Her siblings, Barbara Smith of Miami, Jerome Fink of Dewey, and Jenny Fink of Lenapah and numerous cousins, nieces and nephews.

She was preceded in death by her parents, brother Chet Fink Jr. and two great grandchildren.

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Carl LeRoy Higeons - July 04, 1918 - December 23, 2020

Departed: 12/23/2020 (Nowata)

Obituary Preview: Carl Leroy Higeons came into this world with a great celebration! Born on the 4th of July 1918 in Talala, Oklahoma, Carl was the first child to bless the home of Clyde Rosville and Lola Claris Bray Higeons and the first grandchild of Dora Bray Paullus. World War I was about to end, horse and buggy was the most common means of transportation, and the best way to communicate was still the written letter. Carl became the leader of nine siblings, worked on the family farm, and attended and graduated from Talala High School.

In 1940, Carl married a sweet young lady, Violet Marie Morris, he met at a 4th of July celebration, and they shared 68 years together. Their family grew with the birth of their three children, Carl Leroy, Jr, Janet Marie, and Jerald Leon. Most of Carl’s working career was spent in the aircraft industry as a machinist but helping his brothers in the hayfield was always a summer priority. He worked for Douglas, Northrop, and Spartan for ten years collectively before hiring into American Airlines, retiring in 1982 after 32 years. He spoke often of the importance of a good, dependable work ethic and always taking time to help others. Carl’s life certainly reflected his own words of wisdom. He lived a life of service – always there when someone needed him, whether family, friend or stranger. Blessed with the ability to master any problem, Carl was known as the neighborhood handyman. Raised on a farm, he learned how to make do from scratch. He could build it, fix it, stretch it or invent it. He loved tinkering in his shop with mechanics and repurposing things. Much of his work was at the master craftsman level in mechanics, woodworking, welding, electrical and metal working. The Centenarians of Oklahoma honored Carl on his birthday this year by inducting him into their Hall of Fame. He lived his last few years at Oxford Glen in Owasso where he made lots of friends among the residents and staff. When the staff asked Carl his secret to a long life, he replied, ‘exercise and surround yourself with good people.’

On Wednesday, December 23, 2020, at the age of 102, Carl passed away at a local hospital. He was preceded in death by his parents, Clyde and Lola Higeons, wife, Violet Higeons, son, Jerald Higeons, granddaughter, Marie Ingmire Barlow, and three brothers, Edgar, Robert and Chester Higeons. Following his granddaughter’s funeral, Carl talked of his love for Marie and how he looked forward to seeing her someday in heaven. He spoke of how he trusted Jesus for his salvation and was certain he would see her again. Carl is survived by his son, Carl Leroy, Jr. and his wife, Marilyn, of Talala, daughter, Janet Marie Higeons Hendricks and her husband, Roy Hendricks, of Owasso, five grandchildren, Dr. Thomas Ingmire and his wife, Kim, of Edmond, Kevin Higeons of Talala, Leisa Yount of Talala, and Jason Higeons of Tulsa, seven great grandchildren and seven great-great grandchildren. Surviving siblings include three sisters, Mary Killion, Clementine Myers, and Helen Peacock, and three brothers, Jim, Bill, and Joe Higeons. A whole wad of nieces and nephews call him, ‘Uncle.’

Carl Higeons - father, grandfather, brother, uncle, and friend - will be greatly missed. Helping hands, creative mind, loving heart.

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Sherry Yvonne Parris - December 21, 1947 - December 19, 2020

Departed: 12/19/2020 (Nowata)

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Sherry Yvonne Parris, 72, of Nowata, passed away at her home Saturday, December 19, 2020. Born in Nowata County December 21, 1947 to Claude Pleasant and Betty Jo (Inman) Wickliffe, Sherry remained a lifelong resident of Nowata, Oklahoma. She was a graduate of Nowata High School and continued her education at Tulsa Technology Center. On June 17, 1967 she married Don Parris at Hillside Christian Church in Nowata, Oklahoma and they have since shared decades worth of memories together. Sherry was a very involved and dedicated member of Hillside Christian Church and further shared her faith by teaching Sunday School. Aside from her devotion to the Church and her Church family, Sherry enjoyed traveling to new places, camping, and riding four wheelers. Most of all, Sherry loved being with her family. She delighted in caring for her husband, children, and grandchildren. Her family held a very special place in her heart and Sherry will undoubtedly be missed by all who knew her.

Sherry is preceded in death by her parents, Claude Wickliffe and Betty (Wickliffe) Briggs; a son, Claude Wayne Parris; and a brother-in-law, Wayne Parris.

She is survived by her husband, Don Parris of the home; son, Kyle and his wife Tara Parris of Lee’s Summit Missouri; daughter Christy Evans of Dewey Oklahoma; grandchildren, Dylan Parris, Avery Parris, Carter Parris, Wyatt Due; siblings, Gaynell Barnes, Wickie Wickliffe, Ann Morrison, Monty Wickliffe; sisters-in-law, Martha Lou Jackson, Rita Parris; many other relatives and a host of friends.

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William Lee Waltrip - January 19, 1946 - December 14, 2020

Departed: 12/14/2020 (Nowata)

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Eugene "Gene" Myers - July 21, 1930 - December 10, 2020

Departed: 12/10/2020 (Nowata)

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Eugene “Gene” Myers, 90 of Nowata passed away in Fayetteville, Arkansas on December 10, 2020. He was born in Nowata, Oklahoma, July 21, 1930, to Albert Leroy and Ada (Elliott) Myers. Gene worked several jobs in the Nowata area and worked for John Deere until his retirement. In 1950 Gene married the love of his life Shirley Darlene Reeves in Bartlesville. Gene loved the outdoors, fishing and hunting. He enjoyed fixing things. He was very talented and could fix anything. Gene was a very kind person and would help anyone in need. He loved people, especially his wife, children, and grandchildren. Gene had many friends and will be missed by all who knew him.

Preceding Gene Myers in death are his parents Roy and Ada Myers; wife, Shirley Darlene Myers; a son, Michael Leroy Myers; and three siblings, Lois Mauk, Elvin Myers, Billy Joe Myers.

Survivors include his daughter Susan Rahn and husband Mark, of Siloam Springs, Arkansas; grandchildren Shawn Rahn, Matthew Rahn and wife Tara; great grandchildren Michael Rahn, and Audry Rahn; many other relatives and a host of friends.

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Sherman Earl Shanklin - August 07, 1952 - December 06, 2020

Departed: 12/06/2020 (Nowata)

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Real estate tycoon and retired fireman Sherman Earl Shanklin also known as Baron von Shanklin, 68, passed away on Sunday, December 6, 2020.  He was born in Brockville, Ontario, Canada on August 7, 1952 to John A. and Mavis Shanklin.  In 1956, they moved to Watova, Oklahoma to start their first farm.  Sherman was quite the journeyman already by the young age of four.  In 1962, Sherman and his family settled into the pink brick house that many know so well on Hickory Street in Nowata, Oklahoma.

In high school, Sherman was very active in FFA which was the catalyst for his passion in agriculture.  He would go on to obtain his Bachelor of Science in Agriculture from Oklahoma State University.  Sherman’s first job right out of college was with the Hampshire Association.  From there, he went to work on the Rutter’s farm in Shelbina, Missouri where he oversaw the swine division.  Next on his career path, he was involved in his father’s dairy, beef and grain operation in Delaware, Oklahoma.  During that time, he was also a consultant for Richard Wood Investment Company out of Pittsburg, Kansas, where he advised in farm management and ag real estate sales.  In 1983, his first daughter Carly Louise [the Princess of Wolf Creek] was born.  He pestered his parents to deed him a plot of land on the dairy ranch and in 1985, his dreams came true when he finally had the land and started his registered show hog production facility. He was also blessed with his first son, Trevor John [the Duke of Delaware] in that same year.  Due to his hard work and experience, he was runner-up for Pork All American in 1986 and in the following year, he won the title of Pork All American.  He had his third and final child, Corbin Harold [the Duke of Yorkshire] in 1988. He heeded the call for public service as a professional firefighter for Bartlesville Local 200 in 1989.  After the dairy and pig farm were sold in 1994, Sherman started his own real estate company, Shanklin Farm & Ranch Realty in the basement of the Nowata Post Office.  His children remember often helping him out with open houses, going on rides to many closings, and learning the true definition of “Sherman Time.”

In 2003, Sherm married his Viking Princess, Brenda, and lovingly embraced his two stepdaughters, Lindsey and Taylor.

After making a name for himself, he became the broker/owner of RE/MAX of Green Country specializing in farm and ranches.  In 2009, he was inducted into the RE/MAX Hall of Fame.  With the help of his wife Brenda and his daughter Lindsey, in 2014, he won the prestigious title of Broker of the Year.  Through his continued drive and development of knowledge, Sherm attained the coveted designation of Accredited Land Consultant.

Sherm’s passion for real estate was second only to his passion for his family and getting to spend time with his grandchildren.

Those who will be carrying on his legacy are his mother, Mavis, his wife Brenda, his daughter Carly, of Dallas, Texas, his sons Trevor and his wife Leslie, of Noxie Farms, Corbin and wife Chelsea of Mounds, his stepdaughters Lindsey Coe and husband Brett and Taylor Thompson, all of Bartlesville, his sister Debby Driggers and husband John of Mt. Dora, Florida, and seven grandchildren, Tyler, Bryleigh, Breckynn, Addison, Berlynne, Brooks Sherman, and Brooks Wesley.

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Frank Edward DeMoss Jr. - February 03, 1943 - December 02, 2020

Departed: 12/02/2020 (Nowata)

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Frank Edward DeMoss, Jr. (Born: Nowata, OK on Feb. 3, 1943 – Passed: Nowata, OK on Dec. 2, 2020)

Frank DeMoss, aka: Big Frank, Big Red, Chief, Frankie, Rockhead, Uncle Frank, Pops & Dad, was born in Nowata to Frank Sr. & Hazel back in “the good ol’ days.” He had a talent for making friends wherever he went with his ability to tell a good story, his generosity and big heart, and of course, his Okie charm. He joined the Navy when he was 17 and served for 22 years. After retiring from the Navy, he tried to settle down to a civilian job, but said “tuh heck with this!” and joined up with MSC (Military Sealift Command) for several years. When he retired from MSC, he spent the rest of his time on this planet making the great “Frankie” migration every year; a circle inside the U.S. where he spent time with family and friends he made that settled all across this great nation, making more friends each year he travelled. If you were hungry, he’d barbecue for you. If something was broke, he’d help you fix it. If you were short on cash, he’d get you some dollars. If you needed to talk, he’d listen. He was a source of great advice and Okie wisdom. He only wanted those he loved “to be happy and not worry ‘bout nuthin!” All we can do now is enjoy the memories we have of him and try our best to follow his advice. He’s free now to sail through the universe and spread the good Okie word to parts beyond! May the seas lie smooth before you. May a gentle breeze forever fill your sails. May sunshine warm your face, and kindness warm your soul.

He is survived by his son Foy, his daughters Marion and Lena, and his wife Beth; his grandchildren Booker, Maya, Riley, & Mycah; Julia, his sister-in-law and his nieces & nephews Brian, Clint, Retha and all their children; his sisters Beverly and Sherry & his brother Steve; and of course, countless friends he held as family.

Do to all that is going on in the world right now, we as a family have decided to postpone the gathering at this time.  Hopefully next summer we will be able to have a memorial then.

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Catherine Virginia Lynch - August 14, 1926 - November 23, 2020

Departed: 11/23/2020 (Nowata)

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Oh, my! If angels speak, these were undoubtedly the words of Catherine Virginia (Kate) O’Neil Lynch when she got her first glimpse of Heaven.

Kate was born the eighth of nine children on August 14, 1926, to Charles A. and Edna Vogus O’Neil in Okmulgee, OK, and passed into her Savior’s arms on Monday, November 23, 2020. She graduated from Holdenville (OK) High School in 1944 and attended Oklahoma City University. On July 21, 1946, she married the love of her life, Howard Dayle Lynch. They had one son, Howard Dayle Lynch, Jr.

Kate was the Business Manager of the Nowata (OK) public schools and served as the school district treasurer for 16 years. She and Dayle were accomplished golfers, and she served on the board of the Nowata Country Club. Kate was a lifelong member of the United Methodist Church, and she sang in the choir for many years while a member of her church in Nowata.

Although Kate retired from her professional life in 1983, she was never idle. She treasured her years with Dayle until his passing in February of 2004. Kate was an avid bird watcher and lover of books. She devoured four to five novels every week until the last few days of her life.

In addition to her husband Dayle, Kate was predeceased by her son Howard and her faithful dachshund Annie. She was also preceded in death by her parents, her brothers Joseph A. O’Neil, Donald C. O’Neil, Herbert C. O’Neil, Forrest V. O’Neil, Arnold E. O’Neil, and Lawrence M. (Pat) O’Neil, and her sisters Louise O’Neil Ward and Marguerite (Peggy) O’Neil Austin. Surviving Kate are her loving grandson Adam Lynch of Tulsa, OK, her great-granddaughter Peyton Kaia Ruddell-Lynch of Orlando, FL., her sister-in-law Judy O’Neil of Edmond, OK, and numerous nieces and nephews.

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Cheryl Lynn Paige - December 19, 1953 - November 21, 2020

Departed: 11/21/2020 (Nowata)

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Cheryl Lynn Paige, born December 19,1953 in Nowata, Oklahoma and passed from this life on Saturday, November 21, 2020 at her home in Sapulpa, Oklahoma.

Cheryl attended Nowata Schools and graduated from NHS with the Class of 1972. She played the flute and was Drum Major in the NHS Marching Band. After high school she attended Central State College in Edmond.

Cheryl had a long and successful career in the Oil and Gas Industry, working for several companies in Oklahoma and Texas. She retired from Cimarex Energy Company in Tulsa in 2018. Cheryl loved to travel and had been many places in and out of the United States, but her favorite place to vacation was Montana. She loved the mountains, the village of Whitefish, and Wild Horse Island. But the place she loved the most was Grand Lake. She was a gracious host and was very generous with her Lake Home. She took many friends and relatives on boat trips around the lake and could back a boat in better than anyone! Cheryl was a very loving owner of her dogs, Gracie and Montana. One of her hobbies while living in Dallas was singing with the Sweet Adeline Chorus “The Richtones.” While singing with “The Richtones,” they won first Place at the Sweet Adelines International Competition in Baltimore. Cheryl fought a brave and courageous battle with Cancer, always taking the high road and keeping a smile on her face. She was loved her family and friends and was fiercely loyal to them.

She is survived by Best Friend, Glenn Myers, Sister and Brother-in-law, Karen and John McCracken of Sapulpa, several nieces and nephews and two great nieces.

Cheryl was preceded in death by her parents Bob and Jewel Fern Paige and grandparents Roy and Cora Plecker and Chester and Ruby Paige.

The family would like to thank Griswold Home Health and Grace Hospice for the wonderful care they provided.

Cheryl’s family would like to request that any remembrances be made to Wild Heart Ranch, P.O. Box 170, Foyil, OK 74017 or use PayPal.me/wildheart (non-profit #05-0541861) or any Animal Shelter of your choice.

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Neil Pollard - October 05, 1957 - November 20, 2020

Departed: 11/20/2020 (Nowata)

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Neil Pollard, a K9 trainer and 7-year resident of Nowata, OK passed away at his home with his family at his side on November 20, 2020 at the age of 63.

He was born October 5, 1957, in Redruth, England, son of Clive Edwin and Beryl Wendy (Penwarden) Pollard.

Neil devoted his life to learning teaching and pulling pranks. (Where’s my tape?) He started out training in the engineering service before taking up a position in the prison service where he found his love for K9s. He was a gifted K9 handler and trainer. He even trained one of his K9s to find bootleg liquor being made in the prisons. His highly trained K9s have been responsible for taking millions of dollars in drugs and contraband off the streets.

Neil was a well-respected member of the Nowata community and will be missed by many. Except those he put in prison.

He is Proceeded in death by his parents Clive and Beryl Pollard and his wife Karen Pollard.

Neil is survived by his children: Steven Pollard (Samantha), Amelia Jones (Michael), grandchildren: Zachary, Oakley and Melody Pollard, his sister Gail Anthony (Richard) and his fiancée Sheri Barnes and her children Cougar Mader (Magan), Lexi Mader and grandchild Winter Mader.

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Angela Dawn Space - January 17, 1978 - November 18, 2020

Departed: 11/18/2020 (Nowata)

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Angela Dawn (Graham) Space of Nowata, OK, was 42 years young leaving the world on Nov 18,2020.

She was born on January 17, 1978 full of laughter and joy. She will always be remembered for her love of Jesus and her children. She was a beloved follower of Jesus Christ, loving wife, caring mother, daughter, sister, aunt and friend. She enjoyed camping and anytime she would spend with her family and friends.

She is survived by her husband Gary Space of Nowata, OK; children:  Mason Sixkiller, Patience Mock, Tyson Riley, Raven Cain; her mother: Sharon Sixkiller of Langely, OK; her father: Jeff Graham of Berena, OK; her siblings: Shane Michael of Wichita, KS, Misty Reed and husband Timothy of Chelsea, OK, Markest Sixkiller of Langely; her best friend Kenny Sagel of Nowata, OK, many nieces, nephews family and friends.

She is preceded in death by her grandpa Sixkiller, and grandpa and grandma Graham.

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John Wilbur Dick - January 30, 1949 - November 16, 2020

Departed: 11/16/2020 (Nowata)

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John Wilbur Dick 71, of Bartlesville, passed away November 16, 2020 at the Jack C. Montgomery Veterans Hospital in Muskogee, Oklahoma.  He was born January 30, 1949 in Nowata, Oklahoma to Leon Campbell and Nettie Frances (Lemmons) Dick.  John attended Nowata Schools and on August 19, 1968 he entered the Unites States Army. He served in Vietnam and was wounded in the battle of Hamburger Hill.  John was discharged on August 18, 1971.  John worked for many years as a diesel mechanic working on Bison Electric's vehicles.  He also traveled with Bison to maintain their vehicles during hurricane relief.  John married Rebecca Reed on September 2, 2010.  They both are ordained ministers with the Paradise Full Gospel Church.  Over the years John Built five different churches in Oklahoma.  He had a heart of gold and would help anyone in need.  He always put others first. John loved his wife, children, grandchildren and family very much.  He had a special place in his heart for each and every one of them.  They will have a lifetime of memories of John.

Preceding John Dick in death are his parents, Leon and Nettie Dick, and siblings, Charles Dick, Donald Dick, Paul Dick, Leona Dick, Margaret Smith, Nadine Dick, Ruth Hill, and Velma Harvey.

Survivors include, his wife Rebecca of the home; children Johnah Fine and husband Mike of Chicago, John Dick and wife April of Georgia, Crystal Tucker of Tulsa, Donald Joe Spray and wife Melva of Indiana, Francis Sue Hester of Midway, Oklahoma, Clint Bates and wife Stephanie, of Bartlesville, Robbie Bates of Bartlesville, Sherry Bates of Bartlesville; several grandchildren; siblings Lillian Crisp of Nowata, Joe Dick of South Coffeyville, many other relatives and host of friends.

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Jimmy Phil Roy - November 27, 1962 - November 13, 2020

Departed: 11/13/2020 (Nowata)

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Jimmy Phil Roy 57 passed away November 13, 2020, in Nowata, Oklahoma. He was born November 27, 1962, in Bartlesville, Oklahoma, the son of James (Jay) Roy and Betty Louise (Gregory) Farris.

Jimmy attended Nowata Public Schools where he received his education. He was a very knowledgeable auto mechanic for many years. He was not afraid of getting his hands dirty and tackling any project that was in front of him. In his free time, he enjoyed being outdoors, which led to many hobbies such as fishing, camping, and hunting. Jimmy enjoyed spending time with his family and loved them unconditionally. He will be missed by all who knew him.

Jimmy was preceded in death by his father, James Roy Jr.

He is survived by his mother, Betty Farris; three children: Jay Roy of Tulsa, OK, Jimmy Roy Jr. of Kansas, Justin Roy of Tulsa, OK; two siblings: Jana Morrison of Nowata, OK and Patty Hartung of California.

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Daniel Ernest Frye - June 28, 1991 - November 12, 2020

Departed: 11/12/2020 (Nowata)

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Daniel Ernest Frye 29, went to be with his Lord and Savior Jesus Christ on November 12, 2020. He was born June 28, 1991, in Bartlesville, Oklahoma, the son of Dale Frye and Cindy Moss.

Daniel graduated Nowata High School with the class of 2010. In his free time, he enjoyed being outdoors, which led to many hobbies such as, hunting, camping, and fishing, listening to music, playing cards, and being there for others in a time of need. Daniel had a great sense of humor and enjoyed making people laugh. One of his biggest impacts in life was spreading the word of Jesus and leading people to the lord. Daniel enjoyed spending time with his friends and family. He held a special place in his heart for his family and friends, which were a high priority to Daniel. He will be missed by all who knew him.

He is proceeded in death by his paternal grandparents, Raymond and Rosemary Frye, aunt Tami Hindman and uncles Donnie Frye and Mark Lee Frye.

Daniel is survived by his parents, Cindy and Robert Moss of Nowata, Dale Frye of White Oak, twin brother Jacob Frye of Nowata, brother Tony Moss of Alluwe, his maternal grandparents Ernie and Wanda Kirby of Nowata, grandmother Betty Moss of Chelsea, one niece, two nephews, and numerous aunts, uncles, cousins, friends, and his dog, Shadow.

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John Franklin Voris Jr. - November 01, 1945 - November 08, 2020

Departed: 11/08/2020 (Nowata)

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The Journey Home at 900 Washington Blvd.  Bartlesville, Oklahoma 74006 or call at (918)876-4184.

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Pamela June Palone - January 30, 1956 - November 02, 2020

Departed: 11/02/2020 (Nowata)

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Pamela June Palone, age 64, passed away peacefully November 2, 2020 after a short illness with glioblastoma. She was born January 30, 1956 in Lindsay, Oklahoma to Raymond and Bobbie Wilson.

Pam grew up in Delaware, Oklahoma and was a 1974 graduate of Delaware High School.  She married Nick Palone on June 13, 1975 and they made their home in South Coffeyville.  On January 14, 1990 they welcomed their daughter, Kate into their family.

Pam worked at a few pharmacies in Coffeyville before spending 20 years employed at South Coffeyville school as an elementary tutor and Indian Coordinator.  She made many dear friends through the school.  She was a member of First Baptist Church in Delaware, Oklahoma.  She loved her church family and loved her Lord.  She served many positions in the church over the years.

Pam was very talented and loved to share her talents with others.  She played piano and organ at church and gave lessons at times.  She was an avid painter and loved her art friends.  Pam has always had a soft spot for animals and has adopted many over the years.

Pam was preceded in death by her father, Raymond Wilson, and brother, John Wilson.  She is survived by her husband, Nick, of the home; daughter, Kate, of Portland, Oregon; mother, Bobbie Wilson, of Nowata; brother, Jim Jones, of Spokane, Washington; sister, Sarah Thornburgh, of Fort Towson, Oklahoma; sister, Karen Palone, of South Coffeyville and a host of other relatives and friends.

There will be a private family service at a later date. In lieu of plants or flowers, donations can be made in Pam’s memory to her outstanding hospice facility: The Journey Home 900 NE Washington Boulevard Bartlesville, Oklahoma 74006

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Clarence Elwane Gilbert - June 25, 1930 - October 31, 2020

Departed: 10/31/2020 (Nowata)

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Clarence Elwane Gilbert, 90, went to be with his Lord and Savior on October 31, 2020, in Bartlesville, OK.

He was born June 25, 1930, in Claremore, OK to Clarence Lawrence and Ada Alice (Poyner) Gilbert. Elwane attended Claremore Public Schools. After graduating he moved to Nowata at the age of 18 to manage the Nowata Shoe Shop and Shoe Store. Elwane attended First Baptist Church of Nowata. That is where he met the love of his life, Merle Dean Brown. He loved to sing and led the music for the church while she played the piano and organ. They also started a church plant together in a neighboring town. Elwane and Deanie were married on November 19, 1950. In 1951, he decided to proudly serve his country in the United States Army. While in the military, he completed shoe repair school graduating as outstanding basic trainee. At the end of his two-year term in the military, they returned to Nowata. They purchased the original shop Elwane had worked in previously and re-opened the store as Gilbert Shoes and Shoe Rebuilders. Elwane was a master leather craftsman and even hand-built cowboy boots for his father in law. They owned and operated the store for over 24 years. He enjoyed serving the Nowata community, and when closing the store in 1977 they held a one-day sale with people lined up around the corner to thank them for their store and to buy one last pair of shoes from them. He was a devoted member and deacon of the First Baptist Church of Nowata. He loved to sing in quartets, was an assistant choir director for a time, and member of the golden notes senior choir. He also loved to teach the Bible as a junior high Sunday school teacher and a senior men’s Sunday school teacher. Elwane was an avid golfer, hunter, fisherman, artist and expert peanut brittle maker. Elwane was a loving and dedicated husband, brother, uncle and friend. He will be missed by all that knew him.

He is preceded in death by his parents, Clarence and Ada Gilbert; four siblings, Calvin Gilbert, Philistine Evans, Velma Lee West and Lloyd Gilbert.

Survivors include his wife Merle Dean Gilbert of the home; two siblings, Vaughn Gilbert and Caroline Testerman; and nieces, nephews and their families.

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Stephen Thomas Mosher - October 19, 1963 - October 31, 2020

Departed: 10/31/2020 (Nowata)

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Stephen Thomas Mosher passed away October 31, 2020, in Anadarko, Oklahoma. He was born October 19, 1963, in Bartlesville, Oklahoma, the son of Delmar Thomas Mosher Jr. and Linda Carol (Jordan) Mosher.

Stephen attended Bartlesville Public Schools where he received his education. In his free time, he enjoyed being outdoors, which led to many hobbies such as fishing, camping, boating, riding motorcycles and listening to music. He held a special place in his heart for his family and friends which were a high priority to Stephen, and he loved spending time with them. Stephen always had a great sense of humor and a smile on his face. He will be missed by all who knew him.

He was preceded in death by his mother Linda Carol Jordan.

Stephen is survived by his father Delmar Mosher Jr., one brother: Brent Mosher and a Cousin Jim Jimison.

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Lila Louise Foster - January 24, 1934 - October 26, 2020

Departed: 10/26/2020 (Nowata)

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Gladys Marie Nichols - September 18, 1927 - October 26, 2020

Departed: 10/26/2020 (Nowata)

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Gladys Marie (Taylor) Nichols 93, Nowata, resident left this earth to be with her Lord and Savior on Monday, October 26, 2020 in Nowata, Oklahoma.  Gladys was born on Sept. 18, 1927 in Oglesby, OK, to Jess and Lova (Gougler) Taylor.  She attended Pleasant Valley School through the 8th grade and then graduated valedictorian from Ramona High School in 1945.  In 2015, she was honored as the oldest alumni at the annual alumni reunion.  The honor was well deserved because she was part of planning and forming the alumni association. Gladys went to work for Phillips Petroleum Company in 1945 and worked for the company until retiring in 1985. She moved to Nowata in 1975 and made her home. Throughout her life she was active in church serving as secretary, teaching Sunday School classes and participating in church activities. Gladys was always there for the family through good times and difficult times. She was well known among family and friends as a wonderful cook. She always had a love for the outdoors, garden fresh produce, and flowers. She will be missed by all who knew and loved her.

Gladys is proceeded in death by her parents Jess and Lova Taylor, eight siblings; Beulah Taylor, Emmabelle Pierce, Opal Hutton, Vernon Taylor, Bob Taylor, Tommy Taylor, Lester Taylor, David Taylor.

She is survived by three siblings; Mavis Cederberg, Paul Taylor (Gerri), Nancy Melendez (John) and many other families, friends and loved ones.

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Carrie Lee Hyman - May 30, 1942 - October 20, 2020

Departed: 10/20/2020 (Nowata)

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Carrie Lee (Weaver) Hyman, 78, passed away Monday, October 20, 2020, in Tulsa, OK. She was born in Borger, Texas on May 30, 1942, to Henry Weaver and Billie Jean Love. She attended and graduated from Diamond Point School. Carrie was united in marriage to Jerry Stone until going their separate ways. She later married David Hyman where they cherished their life together until his passing.

Carrie was a woman of many talents from painting houses to managing hotels. She did not hesitate to jump in to lend a helping hand when needed. She was known for cooking beans over an open flame fire and going on trial drives with her ponies Jigger and Nuggett. In her spare time, she tended to her hobbies of fishing, hunting, camping, playing pool, turkey shoots, and taking long drives. The most important thing to her was spending time with her family, friends, and spoiling the grandchildren. She loved her family unconditionally and will be missed by all who knew her.

Carrie is preceded in death by her parents, Henry Weaver and Billie Love, Jim and Mildred Weaver, her husband, David Hyman, two children, Russell Stone, John Stone, three siblings, James Weaver, Clara Weaver and Mildred Weaver..

Survivors include a daughter Beverly Maggard of Nowata, OK; siblings: Bobby Weaver of Vera, OK, Marvin Weaver of Bartlesville, OK, Theola Smith of Bartlesville, OK, Jim Weaver; four grandchildren: Melissa Martin and Jackie, Wayde Marshall, Luke Maggard and Margarita Brown, Cherokee Stone; four great-grandchildren; Jacob Martin and Nichole, Johnathan Martin, Samia Maggard, Nicko Maggard, one great-great grandchild: Easton James Martin (River),  six fur babies: Tucker, Spooky, Bobo, Tiny Inky, Momo, Muckers, one grand puppy: Mickey with and a host of friends.

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Maymie Lee Di Muzio - May 28, 1929 - October 20, 2020

Departed: 10/20/2020 (Nowata)

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Maymie L. (Wallace) Di Muzio 91-year-old resident of Hominy, Oklahoma, passed away October 20, 2020 in Bartlesville, Oklahoma.

She was born May 28, 1929 in Talala, Oklahoma the daughter of Clarence and Goldie Bell (Green) Wallace. Maymie went to school and graduated from Oklahoma City High School. She married the love of her life Carmen Di Muzio on September 19, 1949 in Waco, TX. Maymie had the privilege of traveling all over the world with her husband on his job with Mobile Oil. She attended the First Christian Church for many years until her health would not allow it. Her hobbies included crocheting, sewing, cooking, baking and taking pictures. Maymie liked getting all dressed up for special occasion with jewelry on and in a costume. Her greatest accomplishment was her family, whom she loved unconditionally and always made sure their needs were met. She enjoyed spending time with her family and friends. She will be missed by all who knew her. Maymie is preceded in death by her parents; Clarence and Goldie Wallace, her husband; Carmen Di Muzio, and one daughter Sandra Di Muzio Meyer

Survivors include a daughter Patricia Markland, grandchildren Stacy Montgomery, Brian Wollet, and four great grandchildren; Briar Wollet Sydney Stidham, Kruz Montgomery, Kennedy Montgomery, along with and a host of friends.

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Barbara Lou Krouse - September 22, 1931 - October 18, 2020

Departed: 10/18/2020 (Nowata)

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Barbara Lou Krouse 89, passed away Sunday, October 18, 2020. She was born in Alluwe, Oklahoma on September 22, 1931 to Glenwood and Oda Ray (Eagleson) McKay. She graduated for Alluwe High School with the class of 1949. On May 1, 1953 she married John B. Krouse Jr., in Alluwe, Oklahoma. They spent the next two year moving to different locations while John fulfilled his obligations to the U.S. Army. After the service they made their home in Nowata and were married for 65 years until his passing in 2018.

In addition to being a wife and mother Barbara held numerous positions in the business community. She completed her career by managing the Home Savings and Loan (Nowata Branch) until her retirement. She volunteered on the local election board, the historical society and participated in other civic events in her community and church. Barbara was raised in and attended the Church of God. Over the years she taught Sunday School and Vacation Bible School. She was a sweet and loving person who had a beautiful smile and an unending love for her family.

Barbara is preceded in death by her parents, her husband and a son James Krouse.   She is survived by her sons Bradley Jordan and wife Beverly of Rogers, Arkansas and Johnny Krouse and wife Kelly of Nowata, Oklahoma, five grandchildren; Susan Jordan,  Bailey Krouse, Kayse Krouse, Joshua Krouse, Colby Krouse, two great grandchildren, two sisters; Glenna Maddux of Bartlesville, Jane McKay of Rogers, Arkansas; two nephews;  Richard and Douglas Maddux of Nowata.

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Benjamin Funeral Service understands the importance of planning ahead and offers pre-planning arrangements for families who wish to make their final wishes known. By pre-planning, families can ensure that their loved ones are spared from making difficult decisions during a time of grief. The funeral home's experienced staff will guide families through the pre-planning process, helping them to make informed decisions about their final arrangements.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and other biographical information. It may also include details about their life, accomplishments, and surviving family members.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a permanent record of a person's life and can be a valuable resource for genealogical research and historical preservation.

Who writes an obituary?

Obituaries are typically written by family members or close friends of the deceased, although they may also be written by funeral home staff or professional obituary writers. In some cases, the deceased person may have written their own obituary in advance.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also include information about memorial services, charitable donations, and other relevant details.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication and the individual's life. Typically, they range from a few sentences to several paragraphs. Online obituaries may be longer and more detailed than those published in print.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, usually including only the most basic information such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary, on the other hand, provides more detailed information about the person's life and accomplishments.

Where are obituaries published?

Obituaries are typically published in local newspapers, online obituary platforms, funeral home websites, and social media. They may also be printed in other publications such as community newsletters or alumni magazines.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication and the length of the obituary. Some online platforms offer free or low-cost options, while print publications may charge by the word or line.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, many people choose to write their own obituaries in advance. This can be a therapeutic exercise that allows you to reflect on your life and accomplishments. It can also ensure that your loved ones are not burdened with writing an obituary during a difficult time.

What is an online obituary?

An online obituary is a digital version of a traditional print obituary. It is typically published on a website or social media platform and can include additional features such as photos, videos, and guestbooks for condolences.

How long do online obituaries remain available?

The duration that an online obituary remains available varies depending on the platform. Some websites may keep them available indefinitely, while others may remove them after a certain period of time.

Can I edit an online obituary?

Yes, many online platforms allow you to edit an obituary after it has been published. This can be useful if you need to make corrections or add additional information.

What is a memorial page?

A memorial page is a dedicated webpage that honors the life of a deceased person. It may include their obituary, photos, videos, and other memories shared by friends and family.

How do I find an old obituary?

You can search for old obituaries through online archives such as Newspapers.com or GenealogyBank.com. You can also contact local libraries or genealogical societies for assistance.

Can I use an obituary as a eulogy?

A well-written obituary can serve as a good starting point for a eulogy. However, you may want to expand on the information provided and add personal anecdotes to make it more engaging.

What is the purpose of an obituary photo?

An obituary photo serves as a visual representation of the deceased person and can help readers connect with them on a personal level. It is often a recent photo that captures their likeness and personality.

Can I include humor in an obituary?

Yes, many people choose to include humorous anecdotes or quotes in an obituary to reflect the deceased person's personality and spirit.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

You can submit an obituary to a newspaper by contacting their editorial department directly or using their online submission form. Be sure to follow their guidelines for length and content.

Can I include links in an online obituary?

Yes, many online platforms allow you to include links to charitable organizations, memorial pages, or other relevant websites in an online obituary.

What is the difference between a tribute and an obituary?

A tribute is a personalized message or story about the deceased person that is often written by friends or family members. An obituary is a more formal announcement of a person's passing that includes biographical information.

Can I create an online memorial fund in lieu of flowers?

Yes, many online platforms allow you to create a memorial fund in lieu of flowers. This can be a meaningful way to honor the deceased person's memory and support a cause they cared about.

How do I request corrections to an online obituary?

If you need to request corrections to an online obituary, contact the platform's customer support team directly. They will guide you through the process of making changes.

Can I share an online obituary on social media?

Yes, most online platforms allow you to share an online obituary on social media sites such as Facebook and Twitter. This can help spread the word about the person's passing and encourage others to pay their respects.

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