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Introduction to Bekkering Ellis Funeral Home Inc.

Bekkering Ellis Funeral Home Inc., located at 1 Mohawk Ave, Scotia, NY, 12302, has been a pillar of the community for many years, providing compassionate and professional funeral services to families in their time of need. With a long history of serving the local area, this funeral home has established itself as a trusted and respected institution, dedicated to helping families say goodbye to their loved ones with dignity and respect.

A Brief History of Bekkering Ellis Funeral Home Inc.

The story of Bekkering Ellis Funeral Home Inc. began many years ago, when a group of dedicated individuals came together to provide a vital service to their community. Over the years, the funeral home has grown and evolved, but its core values of compassion, empathy, and professionalism have remained unchanged. Today, Bekkering Ellis Funeral Home Inc. is a beloved institution in Scotia, NY, known for its commitment to excellence and its ability to provide personalized funeral services that meet the unique needs of each family it serves.

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Elizabeth Parsons - Unknown - March 07, 2022

Departed: 03/07/2022 (Scotia)

Obituary Preview: Entered into eternal rest on Monday, March 7, 2022, Elizabeth Martinec Parsons passed away in her home in South Carolina, surrounded by her beloved family. Liz learned responsibility early in life, working in the family business from the time she started grade school. Work ethic, the value of customer service and community kindness were principles that would guide her through her lifetime. Liz would lead an adventurous life, starting with her childhood, spending much time outdoors, in nature and in the Adirondacks with her father. Liz graduated Scotia Glenville High School in 1971 and went to SUNY Morrisville. While at college, she took an elective in ornithology. Becoming an avid birder, this would influence her for the rest of her life. Liz has always been a dynamic force, often surprising everyone by joyfully accomplishing the unexpected. Her career took her to Arizona where she started working for the IRS. Transferring to Albany, she applied for a position with the U.S. State Department. She was hired, moved to Washington D.C. and was stationed for two years in the West African country of Ghana. She loved the foreign experience, and worked closely with Ambassador Shirley Temple Black, developing a warm relationship. Liz returned to Washington and was assigned another 6 months in Nigeria. After serving in Africa, she returned to the U.S. and lived in San Francisco for several years. She left the employ of the government and moved to Ithaca, New York. While working, she returned to school and earned her B.A. in Industrial and Labor Relations from Cornell University and then an M.B.A. After graduating from Cornell, she moved to South Carolina, working for National Cash Register for many years in their Human Resource Department. It is here that she met her future husband, Donald Parsons. Her upbringing in the family business and customer service, along with her genuine warmth and concern for others, enabled her to immediately understand and support her employees. After a merger with a large international company, Liz turned her interests to becoming a massage therapist, once again being a forerunner of something that, in the future, would become a trend. She left her position in HR and focused on providing care to those who were injured or stressed and would benefit from the gift of touch and healing massage. Her massage work led her to health care where she met a hospital senior administrator who offered her the position of Director of Human Resources at Easley Baptist Hospital where she worked for more than 15 years until her retirement in 2018. When Liz turned 60, she gifted herself the opportunity to learn to play the banjo. This would be another life-changing epiphany, opening up an entirely new direction for her to explore. She met fellow musicians and reveled in the simplistic and sincere beauty of Appalachian mountain music, participating in a weekly amateur jam session at the Pickens Senior Center. A woman with many personal goals, she attained the privilege and level of honor to play her banjo along with the highly regarded and celebrated Jockey Lot Pickers. Her favorite song to play and sing was, "I'll Fly Away."

Her lessons, held at the Pickens Senior Center, enabled her to become involved with other people and activities, learning clogging, line dancing and enjoyed drawing and painting. In 2019, through these new friends, she studied and became a Master Naturalist, through the Clemson University Extension Program. As part of her volunteer work as a Master Naturalist, she and her husband installed and monitored bluebird nest boxes and bird feeders at Hagood Mill, a historical site in Pickens, SC. Liz and Don lovingly worked together to build beautiful gardens and paths at their home in the foothills of the Blue Ridge Mountains, celebrating native plants, wildflowers and of course, birds. It was a great pleasure and honor for Liz to be able to perform the marriage ceremony of her son and daughter-in-law in this serene setting. Liz touched so many with her gentle kindness, shy smile, sweet laugh and the warmest of friendship. Liz had unbridled enthusiasm that was contagious to all those who were fortunate to be around her. Liz is survived by her loving husband, Donald H. Parsons, her devoted son, Zebulon (Leora), and two grandchildren who call her Birdie. She is also survived by her mother, Anne Martinec, sisters Patricia Dalessandro and Christine Martinec Vlahides, and her nieces and nephews. Services will be held Monday, March 14, 2022 at Bekkering Funeral Home, 1 Mohawk Avenue, Scotia, New York at 9:30 a.m., with burial immediately following at Most Holy Redeemer Cemetery in Niskayuna.

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Jan Warner - June 06, 1942 - January 15, 2022

Departed: 01/15/2022 (Scotia)

Obituary Preview: Jan Warner, 79, of Scotia, New York, passed away peacefully on January 15, 2022 after a courageous battle with cancer.  He is survived by his beloved wife of 26 years, Marjorie.  He also leaves behind his daughters Jackie and Nancy, stepdaughters Daniele, Christa and Kim and his brother Richard.  He was blessed with five grandchildren.

After attending Burnt Hills Ballston Lake High School he began his 46 year career at Roland J Down Inc.  He also dedicated many years of service as a volunteer at East Glenville Fire Department and Mohawk Ambulance Service.  He was a member of the Scotia-Glenville Elks Lodge 2759 since 2008.

Jan and Marge, along with their rescue miniature pinschers, enjoyed trips to Florida every winter in their motorhome.  Summers at their camp on Ballston Lake with family and friends were near and dear to his heart.  His sense of humor kept those closest to him laughing in good times and bad.  He especially enjoyed demolishing and rebuilding houses and his ingenious mind could create or fix just about anything.

In remembrance of Jan’s life his family asks that all charitable donations be made to Animal Protective Foundation, 53 Maple Avenue, Glenville, NY 12302.

A memorial to celebrate his life is planned for this summer on Ballston Lake.

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Lynne Marie Ainsworth - December 18, 1951 - January 11, 2022

Departed: 01/11/2022 (Scotia)

Obituary Preview: Lynne Marie Ainsworth passed away on Tuesday, January 11, 2022. Lynne was born in Amsterdam, NY on December 18, 1951.

She was the daughter of the late Richard and Reava (Jones) Morris. In addition to her parents Lynne was pre-deceased by her daughter Wendy Liegh Ainsworth and her brother Wayne Morris.

Lynne worked as a secretary for AARP in Scotia, NY before retiring. Lynne us survived by her two sons Scott and Brian Ainsworth, her grandchildren Kevin, Kyle, Taylor, Brandyn, William and Finneagan Ainsworth, her great grandchild Aubree Ainsworth, her nephew Heath Morris, step grandchildren Beth and Rob. Also survived by a lifelong boyfriend Robert Clink.

A memorial funeral service to which relatives and friends are invited will be held on Sunday, January 16, 2022 at 4:00pm, at the Bekkering-Ellis Funeral Home, Inc., 1 Mohawk Avenue, Scotia, NY.

The funeral home will be open from 2:00pm to 4:00pm prior to the services for those who wish to call. Masks will be required to attend.

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Colleen Gibbons Ruzza - November 14, 1950 - January 08, 2022

Departed: 01/08/2022 (Scotia)

Obituary Preview: Colleen Gibbons Ruzza of Scotia, NY died January 8, 2022 at Ellis Hospital, Schenectady, NY. Colleen was born on November 14, 1950 and was a graduate of the Scotia-Glenville High School.

Colleen was predeceased by her parents Kenneth T. Gibbons and Jane Compton Gibbons and her sister Shelly J. Wunning.

Colleen is survived by her son, Shane T. Willsey, of Schenectady; Richard J. Ruzza; stepmother, Susan A. Giobbons of Guilderland; brother, Patrick M. (Mary) Gibbons of Scotia; sisters, Kim J. (Rob) Mihuta of Vermont, Cheryl A. (Robert) Walsh of South Jamesport and Michele E. Woods of Guilderland. She is also survived by several nieces, nephews, aunts and cousins.

Memorial contributions may be made in Colleen’s name to the Animal Protective Foundation, 53 Maple Avenue, Scotia, NY 12302.

A private service will be held at a later date.

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Kenneth James Hughes - August 21, 1944 - December 11, 2021

Departed: 12/11/2021 (Scotia)

Obituary Preview: Kenneth James Hughes of Spring Hill, Florida passed away on December 11, 2021, at the age of 77 years.

He was born on August 21, 1944, in Amsterdam, New York to the late Kenneth D and Maybeth A (Patterson) Hughes.

Ken was a graduate of Scotia Glenville High School in 1962. He attended Bentley College in Massachusetts with a BS in Finance to become a CPA. He travelled internationally in his early career. He worked for several companies before opening his own business in the late 80s, Hughes Real Estate and Accounting Offices in Scotia, New York, upon retiring he moved to Spring Hill, Florida.

He played basketball and baseball throughout High School. He enjoyed bowling, golfing, horseshoes, bocce ball. In his later years Ken enjoyed playing dominoes, left right center, and going to the Casino to play blackjack.. He was a dedicated and loving father who was seen at his children’s sporting events: football, cheerleading, wrestling, and hockey. He also coached his son’s baseball and soccer teams. He had a Lake House on Algonquin Lake in Wells, New York, that his children, grandchildren, and family spent many years enjoying fishing, swimming, waterskiing, boating, and hiking in the Adirondacks.

He enjoyed watching sports and rooting for the Tampa Bay Buccaneers and Rays. He was an active member of the Rotary Club in Scotia and received the distinction of the Paul Harris Award. He was a member of the Moose Club 521 in Spring Hill and has a passion for video bowling there with friends. He enjoyed socializing with his Florida family. He was also a member of Brookville Elks Lodge 2582 for many years.

Ken was predeceased by a sister, Carolyn J Hart.

He is survived by his life partner Lucille Hopeck of Spring Hill, Florida, daughter Julie (Cyrus) Hoagland of Little Falls, sons Kenneth A. Hughes of Glenville, and Marc Hughes of Gloversville, and ex wife Joan Nous to whom he was married for 23 years. Also survived by a granddaughter Taylor (David) Jones, and grandsons Kenneth VA Hughes, Nicholas Degraff. He also has an extended family of several children: son Michael (Aileen) Unieski, daughters Diana (John) Hulett and Lisa Unieski, grandchildren, and great grandchildren.

Calling Hours will be on Tuesday, December 21, 2021, from 6pm to 8pm at the Bekkering-Ellis Funeral Home, Inc, 1 Mohawk Avenue, Scotia, NY. Masks are recommended. A memorial service will be held at 8pm.

A second memorial service will be held the Moose lodge 521 is Spring Hill, Florida, at a later date.

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Anita H Dunlavey - January 08, 1936 - December 06, 2021

Departed: 12/06/2021 (Scotia)

Obituary Preview: With great sadness the family of Anita H, Dunlavey, announces her passing into the hands of our Lord on December 6, 2021.

Formerly of Clifton Park, Anita lived at the Ingersoll Place Assisted Living in Niskayuna for the past seven years. She was the oldest child of Walter and Elizabeth Hroncich (both deceased) of Amsterdam born January 8, 1936.

She was the proud and loving mother of 5 children, Brian (Roberta) Dunlavey, Robert Dunlavey, Edward (Debra) Dunlavey, Dawn (Harold) Wittner, John (Emily) Dunlavey, eight grandchildren and one great-grandchild. Anita’s siblings are Walter Hroncich (deceased), Marie (David) Riker, Arthur (Claudia) Hroncich, Frances "Skippie" (Robert)Daley, Roseann (Frank (deceased)) Czwakiel, Joseph (Patricia) Hroncich, Anthony (Nancy)Hroncich, John (Robin) Hroncich and countless nieces and nephews.

After more than 30 years Anita retired from General Electric as the executive secretary to the Operations Manager for the KAPL. She enjoyed cooking, entertaining, camping in the Adirondacks and visiting with family, friends and spending time with the grandchildren. Anita was a resident of Clifton Park (Denim Dr.) community for fifty years before moving to Ingersoll. Once moving to Ingersoll she continued to remain active by serving on many social committees.

Our sincere gratitude and loving affection goes out to those at Ingersoll and her friends who assisted Anita during her care.

Respects can be paid on Sunday December 12th from 2:00 p.m - 4:00 p.m. at Bekkering-Ellis Funeral Home at 1 Mohawk Ave, Scotia, NY, 12302.

A Christian burial will be celebrated on Monday December 13th at 10:00 a.m., at St Edwards the Confessor, 569 Clifton Park Center Rd, Clifton Park, NY, 12065. Internment to immediately follow at Memory Gardens Cemetery, 983 Watervliet Shaker Rd, Colonie, NY, 12205.

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Elizabeth "Betty" J Wilson - May 17, 1929 - November 20, 2021

Departed: 11/20/2021 (Scotia)

Obituary Preview: Elizabeth J. Wilson, 92, of Ballston Spa, NY passed away peacefully at home on November 20, 2021 surrounded by her loving family.

Elizabeth – known as Betty to family and friends – was born on May 17, 1929 in Schenectady, NY the daughter of the late Ludwick and Jean (Przekop) Sokolowski.

After graduating from Mont Pleasant High School in 1947, Betty began a fulfilling career in Human Resources with General Electric, retiring after 31 years of service. Betty continued her dedicated service to the GE organization through her role as an officer and board member of the GE Athletic Association (GEAA), the GE Women’s Club (GEWC), and the GE Retired Employees Association (GEREA). She was a LORE and strong supporter of the Rotterdam Elks Club special projects dinners. She will be remembered for her fun loving, warm hearted energy and enthusiasm for life, passion for family, and a love for travel and adventure.

Betty was predeceased by her life time love and husband John M. Wilson of 62 years. Together they enjoyed the birth of two, beautiful daughters, Carolyn Yager and Kathleen Plantz ( Joseph), four grandchildren, Eric Yager (Brenda), Amy Loucks (Dan), Jason Yager (April), Bryan Yager (Dana), and step grandson Joseph Plantz Jr, and four great-grandchildren, Nate and Noah Loucks, Dahlia and Theodore Yager, and step great grandson Joey Plantz. Betty is also survived by her brother John Sokolowski (Kathy) and several nieces and nephews she dearly loved.

In addition to her parents and her husband, she was predeceased by her brother, Lewis Sokolowski (Madeline) and her sister, Connie Gallup (Robert).

A memorial service will be held on Wednesday, November 24th at Saint Joseph’s Church, 231 2nd St, Scotia, NY, 12302 (masks required). Respects and condolences to the family can be made starting at 10 a.m. A mass will follow at 11 a.m.

The burial will be held at Park Cemetery Sacandaga Rd, Scotia, NY immediately following mass.

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William F Hagadorn - March 03, 1938 - November 19, 2021

Departed: 11/19/2021 (Scotia)

Obituary Preview: William F. Hagadorn, age 83, passed away at home on Friday, November 19, 2021.

He was born on March 3, 1938, to the late Jack and Helen Hagadorn. In addition to his parents, he was predeceased by his wife Audrey (Bolt) Hagadorn.

“Bill” grew up and graduated from Scotia Glenville High School and began his 30 year career at General Electric. He was a fierce fisherman and avid hunter. He loved the outdoors and being surrounded by nature. Bill retired early to his mountain retreat in Wells where he could be spotted sitting out front of the garage, waving at all who drove by or on the front porch in his favorite chair gazing onto the lake. He cherished his outings with his best friend and brother by association, Robert Bielowhouski, whom we are grateful for.

Bill is survived by his three children, Ben Hagadorn wife Renee, Ryan Hagadorn, Soulmate Brandee, and Sara (Hagadorn) Roberts husband Ben, 8 grandchildren and 2 great grandchildren. Sister Evelyn (Hagadorn) Rudesheim husband Bill along with several nieces and nephews. Calling hours will be held Saturday, November 27, 11:00 a.m. at Bekkering-Ellis Funeral Home, 1 Mohawk Ave, Scotia with service to follow at 12:30 p.m. and procession to Park Cemetery, Scotia

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Bruce Warren Bellamy - November 04, 1944 - November 12, 2021

Departed: 11/12/2021 (Scotia)

Obituary Preview: Bruce Warren Bellamy born November 4, 1944 was the son of Donald and Louise Bellamy.

A graduate of Scotia Glenville High School and Sheet Metal Union #83 Apprenticeship program. Bruce worked as a sheet metal journeyman for 12 years before he started his remodeling business in 1975. Bruce took great pride in his work and enjoyed working for hundreds of people in the Capital District. Bruce always said "Without your employees, you are nothing". He employed hundreds of young people many of which went on to establish their own successful remodeling businesses. Bruce gave them the foundation to build on for their future successes.

Bruce married his high school sweetheart, Sharon in 1966. They had 55 years of happiness together and worked together in their business, in the fire department and in Rotary.

Bruce loved his family and enjoyed being a grandpa to his five grandchildren. We loved giving them life lessons that he learned during his lifetime. Bruce's favorite hobby was beekeeping and he took his grandchildren into the bee yard to learn about the fascinating lives of honey bees. After retirement he took up golf and had many happy times playing in two leagues and other times with friends and his wife, Sharon.

Bruce loved their property and lovingly took care of the trails, gardens and lawn. He was always busy with tasks from his never ending lists.

Glenville Hill Fire Department was an important part of the Bellamy family. Bruce served in most positions as a firefighters and chief and as Chairman of the Board of Fire Commissioners. He received many citations when he retired from service after 55 years. Bruce's service to others continued in his involvement with Scotia Rotary. Rotary also became an opportunity for more travel throughout the world when they attended International Rotary Conventions.

Bruce and Sharon's love of exploring led them to many parts of the world. The last trip was in 2018 when they spent a month in Europe and they enjoyed this last trip immensely.

Bruce is survived by his wife, Sharon Levanway Bellamy, his son Gregory (Katie), son Brian (Tanya), grandchildren Ryon, Kelsey, Karri, Maya and Zachery. His sister, Donna Bellamy Rhodes. Brother-in-law Mark Levanway (Sharon). Also survived by many nieces, nephews and many cousins.

There will be a celebration of life at the Centre Glenville United Methodist Church on Tuesday, November 16, 2021 at 1:00 p.m. Please consider wearing colorful clothes. Bruce loved color and he worn pink and purple.

There will be a reception following at the Turf Tavern on Mohawk Avenue in Scotia from 2:00 p.m. to 5 p.m.

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Ron Osterlitz - April 18, 1942 - November 02, 2021

Departed: 11/02/2021 (Scotia)

Obituary Preview: Ron Osterlitz 79, passed away peacefully at home with loving family at his side on Tuesday, November 2, 2021.

Ron was born April 18, 1942 to the late George and Gertrude (neé Lucier) Osterlitz, and raised in Rotterdam.

He was proud to be in the first graduating class (1960) of Mohonasen High School. He served in the Army from 1964-1966 and married Angela Damiano in 1969, who predeceased him in 1991. Together they raised their beloved daughter Michelle.

Ron worked for Niagara Mohawk, starting in the gas department and ending his career as a serviceman in the Mont Pleasant neighborhood. He knew every house and was loved by the residents. After retirement he worked summers for his friend Mark Lansing at Jumpin' Jacks, then as a teacher's aide in the gym at Northeast Parent's Grout Park School. He could beat all the kids at basketball.

Ron loved people, his family and being home. He could start a conversation with a stranger and always find a connection or mutual friend. He never raised his voice or argued and often said, if you have your health, nothing else matters. He enjoyed visits to the casino with his friend Doug and niece Reneé; his teams, the Cleveland Indians, Cleveland Browns, and Golden State Warriors; summer vacations at Glen Lake; and events at the Clifton Park Elks, where he was a member.

Ron was predeceased by his parents, first wife Angie and his beloved brother George. He is survived by his wife Audrey; his daughter Michelle (JT) Pollard; granddaughters Hayden, Charley, Avery and Sawyer; son Thomas (Sandy) Thorne and grandchildren Tommy and Milan Thorne; Bryan Horn, Shelby Horn, and Logan Peek; daughter Lisa Thorne and grandson Jordan Damore; first great granddaughter Nola Rena Thorne; and niece Reneé Osterlitz. He will be missed by a large family of dear friends – his buddy through thick and thin, Doug Griset; high school friend Paul Meier; NiMo friends Dave Fuller, Mike Green, Earl Groat, Jack Keller, Jimmy Persons and Frankie Tommell.

Ron and Audrey wish to express their thanks to Dr. Peter Rienzi, and their deepest gratitude to Dr. Gerstenbluth, who provided excellent care and was a good friend.

A memorial service will be held at Bekkering-Ellis Funeral Home in Scotia at 9:15 am on Monday, November 8, and thence to Saratoga National Cemetery for military service at 11:00 a.m.

Calling hours are Sunday, November 7 from 3 to 5 pm at the funeral home.

Memorial contributions in Ron's memory may be made to the Clifton Park Elks Veterans Fund.

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Thomas J Relyea Jr. - May 11, 1983 - October 31, 2021

Departed: 10/31/2021 (Scotia)

Obituary Preview: Thomas J. Relyea Jr., lifelong resident of Glenville, NY, passed away suddenly on October 31, 2021 at the age of 38.

He loved his family beyond description and will be deeply missed in return.

Tommy is survived by his loving parents, Thomas and Joyce Relyea (Stupplebeen); his cherished brother, Craig (Lisa) Relyea; his beloved nephews, Samuel and Arthur; his cat, Scrambles; and many loving aunts, uncles, and cousins.

He is predeceased by his grandparents, Gerald and Dolores Relyea, and Leverett and Christine Stupplebeen.

He was born on May 11, 1983. He graduated from Scotia-Glenville High School in 2001.

An avid racing enthusiast and Mets fan, he loved attending and watching sporting events with his friends and family. Tommy enjoyed online racing with his cousin, Scott, and commentating on the races and games in real time. He enjoyed listening to his brother's music and is remembered by him for the many concerts, parties, and races over the years. Tommy's first car was a red 1972 Volkswagen Beetle, and he would pile in his friends on the way to school and galivanting around Scotia. His 1997 red Ford Mustang was a passion of his and never lost a race – sorry cops. Before medical complications that surfaced in recent years, he was a proud Teamster at UPS in Latham. His dry wit and sense of humor will be greatly missed.

Calling hours will be held from 5 p.m. to 8 p.m. on Thursday, November 4th at Bekkering-Ellis Funeral Home in Scotia.

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Stanley Borden - May 28, 2021 - October 29, 2021

Departed: 10/29/2021 (Scotia)

Obituary Preview: Stanley Borden, 74 died Friday, October 29, 2021, at the Capstone Center for Rehabilitation and Nursing, in Amsterdam, NY.  He was born in Cohoes, NY on May 28, 1947.

He was the son of the late Raymond and Rose (Beauchamp) Borden. He graduated from the Shenendehowa High School in 1965.

A lifetime area resident he worked as an engineer for the Water Department in Saratoga Springs, N.Y.

Stanley was a member of the Knights of Columbus in Clifton Park, NY.

He was predeceased by his parents along with his sister Joan.

Stanley is survived by his wife Lela (Pink) Borden, a daughter Rosanna M. Borden, a son Shaun R. Borden, a stepson Thomas Moran (Michelle), and a brother Leonard Borden (Nancy).

The Bekkering-Ellis Funeral Home at 1 Mohawk Avenue, Scotia, NY, will be open at 2:00 p.m. on Wednesday, November 3, 2021, for those who wish to call.

A Funeral Service will be held at 3:00 p.m.

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Bruce Malcolm Weidman - Unknown - October 17, 2021

Departed: 10/17/2021 (Scotia)

Obituary Preview: Bruce Malcolm Weidman, 80, of the Scotia-Glenville,  NY area and Ormond Beach, FL, passed away early Sunday morning October 17th at the Kingsway Arms Nursing and Rehabilitation Center after some months.

Born and raised in Scotia, Bruce was a graduate of Scotia-Glenville High School and SUNY Morrisville.

In 1967, he married his wife Sandra Crowley and they had a son, James (Jim).

A former Staff Sargent of the 109th Airlift Wing Air National Guard Unit in Schenectady, Bruce served during the Vietnam Conflict as a load master on the C-97 Stratofreighter.  He worked for the Schenectady Highway Department before becoming an automotive teacher at Albany BOCES where he worked for over 30 years before retiring.

Bruce was an avid outdoorsman and his love and knowledge of skiing, canoeing, fishing, hunting and golf were all passed along. Bruce spent most of his childhood and adult summers in the Blue Mountain area of the Adirondacks, where he had many close friends.

Bruce was a loving husband, father, grandfather, and friend.  He did not always say a lot, however his actions spoke louder than words and many would say he had a good sense of humor and some sarcasm all the way to the end.

Bruce was predeceased by his parents, Edward M. (Bud) and Elsie M. (Van Zandt) Weidman.

He is survived by his wife Sandra (Crowley) Weidman, son James M. Weidman and his wife, Kasey, grandchildren Sarah and Benjamin Weidman, as well as a niece and nephew, cousins, and many close friends.

Visiting hours will be held 6-8 pm on Wednesday, October 20th, and a funeral service will be Thursday, October 21st at 10 am at Bekkering-Ellis Funeral Home in Scotia, NY.

Interment will follow at Maple Shade Cemetery, Scotia, NY.

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Shirley Pooler Sebis - April 21, 1928 - October 11, 2021

Departed: 10/11/2021 (Scotia)

Obituary Preview: Shirley Pooler Sebis

Shirley, passed away peacefully on October 11, 2021, at the Ellis Nursing and Rehabilitation.

Born to Harold and Bertha Waugh on April 21, 1928, in Watertown, NY.

Shirley was predeceased by her husbands, Roswell L. Pooler in 1988 and Kenneth Sebis in 2017 and also a daughter-in-law, Barbara Binger Pooler in 2019.

She is survived by three children, Grace (Robert) Mead, Leon (late Barbara) Pooler and Timothy (Kathleen) Pooler, daughter-in-law Mary Pooler, six grandchildren and eight great grandchildren.

A special thank you for the staff at Ellis Nursing and Rehabilitation (Stockade), the staff at Kingsway Assisted Living and to the staff of Community Hospice.

A graveside service will be held at the Park Cemetery, Sacandaga Road in Scotia on Friday, October 22, 2021 at 2:00pm.

Memorial contributions may be made to the Community Hospice, 445 New Karner Road, Albany, NY 12205.

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Elizabeth "Betty" J Lange - April 12, 1933 - September 20, 2021

Departed: 09/20/2021 (Scotia)

Obituary Preview: Elizabeth (Betty) J Lange passed away September 20, 2021 peacefully at home after a lengthy battle with Parkinson's Disease.

She was born on April 12, 1933 in Cobleskill NY to Frank and Eleanor Mattice.

Betty graduated from Cobleskill High Class of 1951. She worked at GE where she met her loving husband, Robert.

She loved cats, dogs, chipmunks and birds. She had a great love of reading.

She is survived by her husband of 62 years, Robert W Lange, her three children, Karen J Smith, David R Lange and Susan J Hutton (Dan), her four grandchildren, Rachel Mau (Alex), Julianna Smith, Cheyenne Lange and Schallai Lange and her great grandson, Grayson Mau.

Calling hours will be at Bekkering Funeral Home, Scotia, NY on September 23, 2021 from 10 to 11 with a service and burial to follow at 11 am.

Donations in Betty's name can be made to the Animal Protective Foundation, Scotia, NY.

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Vncent J Pascarella Sr. - Unknown - September 20, 2021

Departed: 09/20/2021 (Scotia)

Obituary Preview: It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of our beloved Vincent J. Pascarella, Sr., 84, on Monday September 20, 2021 at the Saratoga Hospital after a brief illness.

Vince was born and raised in the Schenectady area. He was a proud Air Force veteran, and throughout his life pursued meaningful occupations: G.E. Lathe Operator, EMT, Real Estate Agent, and Memorial Stone Sales Representative.

He was passionate about golf, cooking, playing his guitar and singing with his wife (both at home and in church), woodworking, and an avid NY Giants fan. He was a gentle soul who never met a stranger and was loved by all who knew him.

Vince is predeceased by his parents, Michele Pascarella and Concetta (Jenny) Santarcangelo-Pascarella. Also predeceased are his daughter Lisa, and brothers Michael and Fred Pascarella.

Vince is survived by his loving wife of 41 years, Joyce (Tino) Pascarella, son Vincent Pascarella, Jr., and (step) children Joseph Moran, Jr (wife Pam), Annie Moran, and Jacquelynn Skaarup (husband Patrick). He is also survived by many grandchildren, great-grandchildren, and great great-grandchildren.

A private viewing was held on Tuesday, September 28, 2021 at the Bekkering-Ellis Funeral Home in Scotia, NY., with a Military Honors burial service on Wednesday, September 29, 2021 in the Park Cemetery, Scotia, NY.

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Walter F Causey Jr. - July 09, 1929 - September 04, 2021

Departed: 09/04/2021 (Scotia)

Obituary Preview: Walter F. Causey Jr., 92 died Saturday Sept 4, 2021. Born in Jersey City, NJ on July 9, 1929.

He was the son of the late Walter and Mae (Spahr) Causey and raised in Mt. Kisco, NY.

He graduated from Cardinal Hayes High School and Union College where he was an outstanding lacrosse player. He worked as a principal Economist for the former N.Y.S. Commerce Dept. He was a member of the Immaculate Conception Church.

Walter served in the U.S.A. Navy aboard the USS Charles Ware from 1950 to 1954.

He was predeceased by his brothers Richard (Coach) Causey, Arthur Causey, and nephew Arthur Causey.

Walter’s favorite sport was on the ski slopes as a downhill racer, winning many medals. He was an avid fan of Union College hockey team.

He is survived by his wife June Simmons Causey, daughter Catherine Di Gioia, and granddaughters Stephanie and Cassandra, brother-in-law Harvey D. Simmons, sisters in law Linda Bullard, Marilyn Causey, nephews Chris Causey, Matthew Causey, Rick Causey, Robert Causey, David (Suzi) Simmons, nieces Elizabeth Causey, Nancy Fountain, Judith Deems, several cousins, grandnephews, and grandnieces.

Interment was at the Gerald B. H. Solomon Saratoga National Cemetery with military honors.

Remembrances may be made to the Springfield Shriners Hospital for Children, 516 Carew St., Springfield, MA 0114.

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Norman A Petricca - Unknown - September 02, 2021

Departed: 09/02/2021 (Scotia)

Obituary Preview: Norman A. Petricca, 83, passed away at Ellis Hospital on Thursday, September 2, 2021, after a brief illness, surrounded by his loving children.

After graduating from Scotia High School in 1956, Norm served in the U.S Army at Fort Dix.

In 1962 he married the love of his life Charlene Eckerson with whom he shared 55 years of marriage. Together they raised their three children and hosted many memorable gatherings at their home with family and friends.

In the seventies, Norm managed Glenville Beverage and owned The Corner Store on Eagle Street in Scotia. After a long career at Scotia-Glenville Schools, Norm retired in 2000.

Joining in 1968, Norm was an Honorary Life member of Thomas Corners Fire Department serving in multiple positions including President and Chief. Norm served on the Board of Fire Commissioners and was Chairman of the Board for almost forty years. He served as a Director of Region 1 of the Association of Fire Districts of the State of New York and was a 2-time Past President of the Association of Fire Districts Capital Region. The volunteer fire service was truly his lifelong passion.

He was a Charter Member of the Scotia-Glenville Elks Lodge 2759 and a Life member of the Guan-Ho-Ha Fish and Game Club. Norm was a fan of the NY Yankees and the Buffalo Bills. He and his lifelong friend Dick Giannelli were amateur handicappers who bet the chalk at the NYRA circuit. They won their last bet together in the 2021 Alabama Stakes.

He was predeceased by his beloved wife, Charlene Petricca, parents Anthony and Frances Petricca, and brother David Petricca.

Norm is survived by his children Gregg (Teresa) Petricca, Robin (Paul) Farmer and Denise (Steven) Chotkowski, sister Marcia Morrow; grandchildren Chris Chotkowski, Anthony Chotkowski and Amy (Eric) Fogg; and great granddaughter Makenzy Fogg; and several nieces and nephews.

Norm will be greatly missed by his family and friends who have shared many special moments with him that will never be forgotten. Relatives and friends are invited to calling hours on Thursday, September 9 from 6 p.m. to 8 p.m. at Bekkering- Ellis Funeral Home, 1 Mohawk Avenue, Scotia.

A Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated 10 a.m. on Friday, September 10 at St. Joseph's Church, 231 Second Street, Scotia.

Burial will be private.

Norm's children would like to thank the staff at Ellis Hospital ICU E2 and A4 floors for their incredible compassion and professionalism displayed during his stay.

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Christina A Burchhardt - December 05, 1930 - September 01, 2021

Departed: 09/01/2021 (Scotia)

Obituary Preview: Christina A. Burchhardt 90, passed away peacefully on September 1, 2021 surrounded by the love of her family.

Christina was born in Amsterdam, the daughter of the late Joseph and Rose Greco.

She was a graduate of Wilbur Lynch High School in Amsterdam.

Christina was a loving mother, grandmother and great-grandmother. Christina loved her family and was devoted to making large family dinners.

Christina was predeceased by her loving husband of 58 years George Burchhardt on May 8, 2015.

She is survived by her daughter, Christina (John) Spellman, two sons, Otto Burchhardt and Bruce (Shelly) Burchhardt. Six grandchildren, Jason Flanigan, Emily Spellman, Mark Burchhardt, Matthew Burchhardt, Evan Burchhardt and Morgan Burchhardt. Five Great-grand daughters, Amelia, Norah and Hailey Flanigan, Olivia and Madeline Burchhardt.

Calling hours will be Monday September 6, 2021 at the Bekkering-Ellis Funeral Home, Inc., 1 Mohawk Avenue, Scotia, NY from 6-7:30pm. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Tuesday, September 7, 2021 at 10am at the Immaculate Conception Church, 400 Saratoga Road, Glenville, NY. Burial will take place in the West Charlton Cemetery.

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Anthony (Tony) W Ferraro - January 25, 1932 - August 21, 2021

Departed: 08/21/2021 (Scotia)

Obituary Preview: Anthony (Tony) Ferraro Sr., 89, passed away on August 21, 2021, at Ellis Hospital after a short illness.

Tony was born on January 25, 1932, in Schenectady, N.Y., He was the son of the late Frank and Catherine (Colacicco) Ferraro.

Tony was the former owner of Scotia and V.V. Lanes. Before that he was a technician for the A.M.F. Corporation.

He graduated from the Nott Terrace High School in 1950. He was a member of the football and bowling teams.

He served 4 years in the Navy Reserve, and also served as a volunteer fireman for 4 years in Schenectady. He also was a former member of the Eagles, Moose and Elks lodges.

He was married to his lovely wife of 70 years the former Barbara Cholewa. They were joined in marriage on May 26, 1951, in Schenectady, N.Y. He is survived by his wife Barbara and his four children, Anthony Jr (Donna), Donato, Patricia (Shawn) Forney, and Michael (Cheryl). Also surviving are his five grandchildren, Anthony (Vanessa) Ferraro, Lisa (Tynan) Flanagan, Michael (Irene) Ferraro, Joe (Sarha) Ferraro, Michele (Keith) Mannors, and five great grandchildren, Georgina, Marchesa and Remy Ferraro, Vincent and Thomas Flanagan.

Burial was at the St. Anthony’s Cemetery and was private with just Family.

Arrangements were made by the Bekkering-Ellis Funeral Home, Scotia N.Y.

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Marlyn Joy Mangano - July 29, 1933 - August 19, 2021

Departed: 08/19/2021 (Scotia)

Obituary Preview: With great sadness the family of Marlyn Joy (Willey) Mangano, 88, announces her passing into the hands of our Lord on August 19, 2021 after a short illness.

Formerly of Rotterdam, Marlyn lived at the Holiday at the Atrium senior living facility for the past 7+ years. She was the oldest daughter of three born of James Willey and Dorothy (Lachtrupp) Willey Neary Anderson born July 29, 1933.

Marlyn married her Nott Terrace High School sweetheart, class of 1951, and the love of her life Joseph Anthony Mangano on August 9th, 1951 until his passing in October 2013 spanning 62 years.

She was the proud and loving mother of three children, Joseph (Lori) Guy Mangano, Michael (Jan) Jay Mangano and Lynn Marie (Dave) (Mangano) Bertrand. She is survived by her sister Sandra (Willey) Capogna and her brother Wayne (Jane) Willey, her children as well as nine grandsons, two great-grandchildren and countless nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her two step-brothers Howard Neary and Richard Neary.

In her younger years Marlyn worked as an operator at General Electric and then later at Alfred's Fabrics in Rotterdam. Marlyn's true passion was being a mom and taking care of the family she loved so much. She enjoyed home-making, cooking, sewing, camping in the Adirondacks and visiting with family and friends. Later in years she and her husband would travel the US. She loved dining out and phoning her family and friends in the evenings. In her twilight years at the Atrium she enjoyed listening to music, bingo, shopping and getting her hair done every Thursday with her loving companion and care aid Amina Sukhraj.

Our sincere gratitude and loving affection goes out to Amina and her friends who assisted Marlyn during her care.

Calling hours with be held Wednesday August 25th from 4:00 p.m.-7:00 p.m. at Bekkering-Ellis Funeral Home at 1 Mohawk Ave Scotia, NY 12302.

A burial service will take place at Saratoga National Cemetery on Monday August 30th at 11:30 a.m.

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Tyler E Grygas-Nuzback - Unknown - July 21, 2021

Departed: 07/21/2021 (Scotia)

Obituary Preview: It is with heavy hearts, we announce the passing of our much beloved brother, son, uncle, friend: Tyler E. Grygas (Nuzback) on July 21, 2021.

Tyler accomplished many things during his short time on earth. Tyler's most notable accomplishment was his nine years of devoted service to the United States Navy.

Tyler created different friendships, bonds, and relationships with many people during his time on earth. Every relationship, unique in its own right as Tyler was his own person, and did things on his own volition. To say Tyler will be missed by family and friends is an understatement.

Tyler was a very passionate and charismatic young man. Tyler loved his family, Boston sports teams, Tom Brady, and God. However, there was nothing Tyler loved more than to sing his favorite country songs. We take solace in knowing Tyler (along with his Dad) will be in eternal life, singing all favorites country classics.

Tyler is predeceased by his father: Thomas P. Nuzback, and paternal grandparents.

Tyler is survived by his wife: Ambar Grygas, his mother: Vicki L. Grygas (Thomas) Nardini, his maternal grandparents: Edward and Joan Geier, his siblings: Destiny Nuzback, Matthew Grygas, Justin Grygas, Henry Grygas, and Charlie Grygas, his godchildren: Jayce Grygas, Jacob Torales, and Aberlee Esquilin, his nieces: Sadie and Amelia Grygas, his godfather: John A. Rysedorph, as well as many other aunts, uncles, and cousins.

All are welcome for visitation at Bekkering-Ellis Funeral Home, located at 1 Mohawk Ave, Scotia, NY 12302, on Monday August 16th from 3 to 6 p.m.

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Jeanne M Plemenik - August 02, 1942 - July 21, 2021

Departed: 07/21/2021 (Scotia)

Obituary Preview: Jeanne M Plemenik of Scotia, NY Wed. July 21, 2021, Passed away peacefully at her home surrounded by loved ones at the age of 78 years. Jeanne was born on August 2, 1942 in Schenectady NY.

Jeanne was the secretary/treasurer of Frank and Sons Body Works of Scotia for 40 years. She was a loving and caring person, devoted wife, mother, grandmother and friend to many. She was the rock that kept her family together and was always the voice of reason. She enjoyed traveling, spending time with family, laughing and always wearing a smile on her face. " To know her was to love her."

Jeanne will be lovingly remembered by her husband of 57 years, Frank Plemenik, children Todd (Linda) Plemenik Grand kids Sierra, Skylar, Sage and Scott Plemenik grand children Ashley, Gianni, Sydney, (Leigh Anne), grandchildren: Noah Hannah, Lilah , Sisters Anne Rowe, Kathleen Moss, Lea Covell, Shirley Bonicoro, as well as numerous other relatives and friends.

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Walter V. Zielinski - January 23, 1929 - July 06, 2021

Departed: 07/06/2021 (Scotia)

Obituary Preview: Walter V. Zielinski, 92, passed away on the evening of July 6, 2021 at Ellis Hospital.

Born January 23, 1929 in Schenectady, and resided most of his life in Rotterdam Junction, NY.

He was the son of the late Stanley and Bernice (Kapuscinski) Zielinski. Walter was a graduate of Scotia High School, class of 1947.

He was employed over 35 years at General Electric Company, retiring in 1989 as a large machine operator from the Steam-Turbine Department. He was a member of the GE Quarter Century Club. He was past chief and Fire Commissioner for many years of the Rotterdam Junction Volunteer Fire Department #1 and an active firefighter for 50 years and a social member since 1999. He was past president and member of the former town of Rotterdam Volunteer Firefighters Association, past member of the New York State Fire Chiefs Association and life member of Hudson-Mohawk Volunteer Firefighters Association.

Walter enjoyed traveling to Poland, Italy, Germany, Hawaii, Alaska and many other countries, including cruises. His spare time consisted of gardening, deer hunting with Cliff Pawlowski and Paul Sefcik. He was an avid New York Yankees fan and a member of AARP.

Mr. Zielinski is survived by his loving wife and companion, Jane, who were married on September 28, 1952 at St. Mary's church in Amsterdam, NY. He will always be remembered as a wonderful husband, father, grandfather and great grandfather.

He is also survived by his daughter, Sandra Wilson, of Hudson, Florida; son-in-law, Paul Jablonski of Amsterdam, NY; grandchildren Joann Jablonski, Amsterdam, NY; Dan (Hillary) Jablonski, Ballston Spa, NY; Sheryl (Mike) Regan, Amsterdam, NY; Patty (Todd) Deshane, Fort Hunter, NY; Becky Jablonski (Steve Giardino), Albany, NY; great grandchildren Juliana and Ryan Regan, Sunny and Mya Jablonski, Toby and Chelsea Deshane, and Fiona Giardino. Many nieces and nephews also survived. Predeceased by his daughter Diane Jablonski; brothers, Alex (Marie), Louis (Katie) and Stanley (Madeline) Zielinski; sisters Jean (Jerry) Ohlidal, Helen (Ed) Kaczor, Felicia (Samuel) Sefcik and Irene (Bill) Dobies.

Family and friends are invited to call at the Bekkering-Ellis Funeral Home at 1 Mohawk Avenue, Scotia, NY on Sunday, July 11 from 7 to 9 pm.

Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated on Monday, July 12 at 10 am, at St. Margaret of Cortona Church in Rotterdam Junction.

Immediately following mass to St. Anthony's Cemetery in Glenville, NY.

Memorial contributions may be made to the Rotterdam Junction Volunteer Fire Department.

The family would like to express their heartfelt gratitude to Sharon & Bill Wojcicki, the Malozzi family, Cliff Pawlowski, and Ernie Latus.

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Shirley Ann Talbot - January 23, 1933 - July 01, 2021

Departed: 07/01/2021 (Scotia)

Obituary Preview: Shirley Ann Talbot, 88, of Schenectady NY, passed over to be with the Lord on Thursday, July 1, 2021.

Shirley was born in Schenectady, NY on January 23, 1933. She graduated from Pleasant High School in 1950.

Shirley was married to the love of her life William (Bill) C. Talbot on September 1, 1951. Shirley and Bill lived in Charleston, SC, Schenectady, NY, and Leesburg, FL. Together they raised four children and celebrated their 66th wedding anniversary in 2016 prior to Bill's passing in 2017. Shirley was a gentle soul who loved God. She was a loving and caring wife, mother, and grandmother who always found time for her children and grandchildren.

Shirley worked for the Woolworth Company, Domestic Finance Corp., Starfire Distributors, Bounty Sales, U.S, Census, Blue Ribbon Market Research, and the Schenectady Medical Society.

Throughout her life, Shirley touched many lives as a steward to the community. As a member of Bellevue Reformed Church, she volunteered at church in the women's guild, was a Sunday school teacher and superintendent and enjoyed singing in the church choir. She supported her children in all their activities to include being a Boy Scout troop den mother, and leader of the 4-H group. Shirley was on the Fulton Elem. School PTO Board for several years were she played a key role in the school addition, also a member of the Van Corlear PTO, volunteered for the American Red Cross, and the American Cancer Society.

In her early years, Shirley enjoyed writing poetry, sewing, crafts, basket weaving, square dancing, and later in life found her love for art and completed many lovely paintings throughout the years. Shirley was the family historian and documented family events with pictures, and boy did she love to take pictures of her family and friends! Shirley loved rhymes and would end her goodbyes with one.

Shirley is survived by her son David Talbot (Jean Curlee) of Pleasant Valley NY, son Kenneth Talbot (Barbara) of Scotia NY, daughter Cathleen LaJeunesse (George) of Esperance NY, daughter Linda Pahl (Bob) of Cleveland GA, and grandchildren Kalyn Gribben (Jerad), Meghan Waggoner (Brian), Matthew Talbot, Chris Palumbo (Desire), Katie Palumbo (Lloyd), Caroline Greenfield (Jacob), Kathryn Cresswell (Eliot), great-grandchildren Lilyana, Amaiya, Isabella, Celia, and Mabel, and niece Christine Hotaling. Shirley is preceded in death by her husband William (Bill) Talbot, her mother, Lulu Hotaling, her father Ford Hotaling, her brother Burton Hotaling, her grandson Jeremy LaJeunesse, and her nephew Charles Hotaling

Visitation will be held on Saturday, July 10, 2021 at 9:00 a.m. and a celebration of Shirley's life will begin at 10:00 a.m., both at Bekkering-Ellis Funeral Home, Scotia.

Burial will take place at Schenectady Memorial Park immediately following the service.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It is often published in a newspaper, online obituary platform, or funeral home website to inform friends, family, and community members of the person's passing.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to honor and celebrate the life of the deceased, while also providing important information to those who knew them. They help to notify others of the person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences to the family.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, the family of the deceased or a close friend writes the obituary. In some cases, a funeral home or mortuary may assist with writing the obituary, but it is usually written by someone who was close to the person who has passed away.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also include information about funeral services, memorial donations, and other details.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary, but it is generally recommended to keep it concise and to the point. A good rule of thumb is to aim for 1-2 paragraphs at most.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many online obituary platforms and funeral homes allow you to include photos of the deceased in the obituary. This can be a meaningful way to personalize the tribute and help others remember the person.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

The process for submitting an obituary to a newspaper varies depending on the publication. You can usually find submission guidelines on the newspaper's website or by contacting their obituary department directly.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies widely depending on the publication, word count, and other factors. Some newspapers charge by the line or word, while others offer package deals or discounts for online publication.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, it is possible to write your own obituary in advance. This can be a therapeutic exercise and can help ensure that your legacy is preserved in the way you want it to be remembered.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, usually including only basic information such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary is a longer, more detailed tribute that provides additional information about the person's life.

Can I include humor or anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! Obituaries are meant to be a celebration of life, so feel free to include humorous stories or anecdotes that capture the person's personality and spirit.

How do I handle sensitive or difficult information in an obituary?

If there are sensitive or difficult aspects of the person's life that you're unsure how to address in the obituary, it's best to err on the side of discretion and focus on their positive qualities and achievements.

Can I include quotes or poems in an obituary?

Yes, quotes or poems can be a beautiful way to add depth and meaning to an obituary. Choose something that resonates with the person's values or personality.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The timeframe for publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication and their deadlines. Online obituaries are usually published immediately, while print publications may take several days or even weeks.

Can I make changes to an obituary after it's been published?

In some cases, yes. If you need to make corrections or updates to an already-published obituary, contact the publication or funeral home directly to see if they can assist you.

What if I'm not comfortable writing an obituary myself?

If you're struggling to write an obituary or need guidance, consider reaching out to a funeral home or professional writer for assistance. They can help you craft a meaningful tribute that honors your loved one.

Can I include charitable donations or memorial funds in an obituary?

Yes! Including information about charitable donations or memorial funds in an obituary can be a meaningful way to continue the person's legacy and support causes they cared about.

How do I share an online obituary with others?

You can share online obituaries through social media platforms like Facebook and Twitter, via email, or by copying and pasting the link into messaging apps or text messages.

Will an online obituary remain available forever?

This depends on the online platform or funeral home hosting the obituary. Some websites may archive or remove older obituaries over time, while others may leave them up indefinitely.

Can I create a digital archive of my loved one's life story?

Yes! There are many online platforms and tools available that allow you to create a digital archive of your loved one's life story, including photos, videos, stories, and more.

How do I cope with grief after writing an obituary?

Writing an obituary can be a therapeutic experience, but it's also okay to acknowledge your grief. Reach out to friends, family, or support groups for comfort and guidance during this difficult time.

Are there any specific guidelines for writing military or veteran obituaries?

Yes! When writing an obituary for a military veteran or service member, be sure to include relevant details about their service history, awards, and accomplishments. You may also want to consult with veterans' organizations or military protocol experts for guidance.

Can I use social media to announce someone's passing?

Yes! Social media can be a convenient way to share news of someone's passing with friends and acquaintances. Just be sure to respect privacy boundaries and avoid sharing sensitive information prematurely.