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Richard J. Smith - November 09, 1962 - April 16, 2022

Departed: 04/16/2022 (Belford)

Obituary Preview: Richard J. Smith, 59, a lifelong resident of Belford, passed away Saturday, April 16th. Richard was born November 9, 1962, one of eight children born to the late Mary and Claude "Bud" Smith , Sr.  Richie was a commercial fisherman for many years. He loved being on the water. He enjoyed fishing and watching the sun set. Richie will fondly be remembered as an all around good guy.       Richard is survived by a daughter, Amber Smith and son, Devin Smith. He also leaves behind two sisters, Mary Smith; Sharon Smith-Rasoilo and three brothers; Claude "Buddy" Smith, James Smith, and Ronald  Smith along with many nieces and nephews. Richie was predeceased by his brothers Michael and Henry Smith.     A Celebration of Life will be held at a later date.

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Barbara D. Bacmeister - September 19, 1949 - March 18, 2022

Departed: 03/18/2022 (Belford)

Obituary Preview: Barbara D. Bacmeister, 72, of Port Monmouth, passed away Friday, March 18th. Barbara was born in Somerville, NJ on September 19, 1949, a daughter of the late Helen and William C. Bacmeister. She moved to Middletown in the early 1960's with her family. Barbara was a teacher at Bayview Elementary School in Belford, for 39 years retiring in 2011. She was active in the teachers' union. She proudly stood up for their rights and even went to jail during a protest! In her spare time, Barbara enjoyed crafting. She used to attend craft fairs to sell her items. This was something she started doing with her mother and continued for many years. She was an avid collector of things, enjoyed gardening, shopping and had a great love for animals. She had several pet cats that she adored and considered them her children. They were all named after flowers. Barbara was a proud breast cancer survivor!

Barbara is survived by her brother, William B. Bacmeister and his wife Valerie along with a niece Jacquelyn Yelvington and nephew Kurt Yelvington, all of Florida and her dear friend Debby Mrykalo.

A Memorial Mass will be celebrated 10am on Friday, April 8th at St. Mary Mother of God Church in New Monmouth.  The Committal Service will immediately follow at Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Middletown.

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Susan M. Kelemen - July 04, 1939 - February 26, 2022

Departed: 02/26/2022 (Belford)

Obituary Preview: Susan Marie Kelemen (White) 82 years young of Highlands, New Jersey, passed away peacefully on Saturday, February 26, 2022, surrounded by her loving family.  Born in Long Branch to beloved parents, Goldie (Brent) and Joseph S. White Sr. (both deceased).  A graduate of Carteret High School in Carteret, she was employed as a legal secretary until she retired to enjoy life with her beloved husband of 64 years, Frank Joseph Kelemen.  Susan was an exceptional, hard-working role model to her three children.  Susan loved to swim and ski and together with her family built a vacation home in the Poconos.  She enjoyed traveling and after retirement moved from Carteret to live in Little River, South Carolina; Tarpon Springs, Florida, and then back to New Jersey to be close to family.  Susan was a super organized person who stayed current on world events.  She had an active social life and an infectious sense of humor.  She taught her children the values of hard work, commitment, dedication, loyalty, and the importance of staying active.  A devoted Catholic, she belonged to Our Lady of Perpetual Help Church in Highlands where she attended weekly Mass.  She will be missed by all who knew her.

Susan is predeceased by her only brother and sister-in-law, Joseph and Eleanor (Chaillet) White of Colonia. Surviving are her husband, Frank (age 91); three devoted children and their spouses: Debra (Kelemen) and John Muniz of Stuart, Florida, Valerie (Kelemen) and Frank Montecalvo of Highlands, New Jersey, Frank S. and Melissa (Stydinger) Kelemen of Highlands, New Jersey.   Susan was blessed with six grandchildren, Matthew & Marcie (Menichetti) Muniz of Hobe Sound, Florida; Alexander Joseph (AJ) Muniz and his partner, Gary Choy-Shan of Carteret; Nicole (Montecalvo) and Michael Oppelt of Middletown, Frank and Paige (Lacina) Montecalvo of Rumson; Austen Kelemen of Middletown; and Zachary Kelemen of Highlands.  Susan was fortunate to have four great-grandchildren: Maya Avery Muniz, Goldie Maris & Campbell Jean Oppelt and Frank Rhodes Montecalvo; a niece and nephew; Joanne Kull and Joseph White Jr.; great-nieces and nephews, Kayla, Breanne and Emma Kull; Gabrielle, Joseph III and Shawn White.

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Marsha Pratt - May 28, 1937 - January 23, 2022

Departed: 01/23/2022 (Belford)

Obituary Preview: Marsha Pratt, 84, of Freehold passed away Sunday, January 23rd. Marsha was born and raised in Queens, NY, a daughter of the late Mildred and Ernest Stuckler, Jr. After marrying, she settled in Freehold. Marsha was a charter member of Hope Lutheran Church in Freehold, where she was an active member and sang in their choir. She was an executive administrative assistant for the superintendent of the Freehold Regional High School District for over 20 years. She retired in 2002 so that she could babysit her grandchildren. Marsha loved spending time with her family, especially with her grandsons. She was their number one fan at their football games! Marsha enjoyed baking Christmas cookies. She made so many cookies every year and gave them to her friends and family. Marsha will fondly be remembered as a loving and devoted mother, grandmother and friend to many.     Marsha is survived by her daughter and son-in-law, Deanne and Chris Tash, and her son and daughter-in-law, Gerard Pratt, Jr. and Cheryl. She also leaves behind a sister, Martha McPhillips; a brother, Ernest (Kathy) Stuckler along with 5 grandchildren; Desiree (Mike) Neves, Christopher Tash, Jr., Ali Haley, Kyle and Jacob Tash. Marsha was predeceased by her longtime companion, Conrad Whiteside.    A Memorial Service will be celebrated at Hope Lutheran Church, 211 Elton Adelphia Rd., Freehold, on Thursday, Jan. 27th at 4 pm.

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Edward Olszewski - July 11, 1934 - January 22, 2022

Departed: 01/22/2022 (Belford)

Obituary Preview: Edward Olszewski, 87, of Fair Haven, passed away at home surrounded by his family on Saturday, January 22nd. Edward was born in Bloomfield, New Jersey on July 11, 1934, a son of the late Edna and Edward Olszewski. He was raised in Bloomfield then lived in Verona before settling in Fair Haven 61 years ago. Edward proudly served as a sergeant in the U.S. Army Air Force during the Korean War.     Edward worked at Bell Telephone in Holmdel for nearly 35 years and retired as a senior tech aid. He was the chairman of their ski club for many years. When he was not working, he loved to tinker with things. He rebuilt many cars over the years and could fix anything in your home. Edward even built his own vacation home in the Poconos! He loved being in the Poconos. Edward had his NJ and PA real estate license and sold (and bought) many homes. He had a strong affection for his dogs. He could often be found with a dog on his lap. Edward will fondly be remembered for his great sense of humor and the way he showed he cared by teasing you.    Edward is survived by his devoted wife of 64 years, Nan Olszewski and their 3 children; Ed, Jr. and his wife Trisha; Donald and his wife Monica and Susan Staubitz and her husband Steve. He also leaves behind 6 grandchildren: Ashley, Kayla, Caitlin, Joey, Jaxon and Zoey along with 7 great grandchildren.    Edward was predeceased by his daughter Nancy Morgan and his sister Eleanor Titus.

A Memorial Service will be held in the Spring, please check back for details.

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Richard W. Meislohn - December 27, 1930 - October 23, 2021

Departed: 10/23/2021 (Belford)

Obituary Preview: Richard W. Meislohn, 90, of Blakeslee, PA. passed away Saturday, October 23rd. Richard was born on December 27, 1930, the only child of Dorothy and Walter Meislohn. He was raised in Keansburg, NJ and lived most of his life in the Bayshore area. He and his wife Marjorie purchased a vacation home in Blakeslee, PA, in 1986 and retired there permanently 20 years ago.

Richard joined the National Guard when he was 17 and went on to serve in the US Army Reserve for twenty years. Richard was a grocery store manager for Safeway, Finast, and Foodtown.

Richard was an avid reader and always had a book in his hand. He was dedicated to liberal ideals and a lifelong democrat. Richard loved swimming. His mother taught him to swim at an early age and it was a passion that he enjoyed all his life; he regularly swam 5 miles in the Sandy Hook Bay and the Atlantic Ocean. Richard was on the water polo team when he attended St. Peter's College and on the swim team at the New York Athletic Club. He was an outdoor enthusiast; he focused on caring for wildlife.

Richard always dreamed of having many children and was very proud of his large family. Richard was predeceased by his wife Marjorie Meislohn in 2020; his son Richard J. Meislohn; his great grandson Jimmel J. King, his son in-law John G. Dale, and his former wife, Agnes Convery Meislohn. He is survived by his children, Christine Meislohn, of Shrewsbury; Georgette King, of Florida; Renee Meislohn, and her husband Patrick of Middletown; Mitchell Meislohn and his wife Diane of Florida; Adrienne Dale, of Highlands; and Lynn Robbins and her husband C. Jay, of Virginia; along with 11 grandchildren, 10 great grandchildren and 3 great-great grandchildren.

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Trevor W. Thomas - July 22, 1941 - August 24, 2021

Departed: 08/24/2021 (Belford)

Obituary Preview: Trevor W. Thomas, 80, a longtime resident of Fair Haven, peacefully passed away Tuesday, August 24th, at his home with his family by his side. Trevor was born in Maidstone, England on July 22, 1941, a son of the late Ellen and Reginald  Thomas. He and his family emigrated to the United States in 1944 and Trevor grew up in the Bronx.  After proudly serving in the US Army during the early 1960's and returning home, Trevor married Helen, the love of his life and they settled and raised their family in Fair Haven.  Trevor was a senior editor at National Underwriters in Hoboken for many years. When he was not working, he enjoyed spending time with his family, watching his favorite baseball team, the NY Yankees, with his boys or quietly gazing at the cosmos and studying astronomy.      Trevor is survived by his devoted wife of 50 years, Helen Thomas and their two sons, Trevor and Steven. He also leaves behind three grandchildren; Tyler, Michelle and Caitlyn.

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Nicholas A. Del Grosso - June 23, 1947 - August 19, 2021

Departed: 08/19/2021 (Belford)

Obituary Preview: Nicholas  Del Grosso, 74, of Middletown, peacefully passed away Thursday, August 19th. Nicholas was born and raised in the Bronx, NY, a son of the late Maryjane and Donato  Del Grosso. He and his family settled in Middletown in 1992. Nick was a tile contractor in the New York metropolitan area for many years.  He served in the Air Force during the Vietnam War. He was proud that he had classified clearance and worked on the SR71, the Black Stealth Fighter Jet.    Nick was a true family man. Everything he did, he did with his family. He enjoyed family vacations, playing pinochle or board games, trips to Atlantic City and fishing with his brother-in-law. Nick was famous for his Dad jokes! He was an avid Yankees fan, but enjoyed watching all sports on tv (except for golf!) Nick loved animals and was a big supporter of the ASPCA. His beloved dog and faithful companion, Sadie will surely miss him.     Nicholas is survived by his devoted wife of 45 years,  Elizabeth Del Grosso along with their two children and their husbands; Nicholas and James Del Grosso of Virginia and Nicole and Bill Connors of Middletown. He also leaves behind a sister, Candy Del Grosso, of Wisconsin and two beloved grandsons, Joey and Chris.

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Gail Gordon - June 09, 1957 - August 19, 2021

Departed: 08/19/2021 (Belford)

Obituary Preview: Gail Gordon, 64, of Middletown, peacefully passed away Thursday, August 19th surrounded by her loving family. Gail was born and raised in Kearny, NJ , a daughter of the late Irene and James Gordon. She moved to the Middletown area as a young woman and called Monmouth County her home. She worked in purchasing for many years at Fort Monmouth and moved onto  banking at 1st Constitution Bank in Asbury Park & Shrewsbury.

Gail was the social butterfly that everyone loved to be around, full  of smiles and that contagious laugh that echoed a room. She loved to entertain and always hosted parties….pool parties were always a favorite!  Her love for tending to her flowers and maintaining her yard was  something she took pleasure & pride in. Gail loved animals and adopted many pets over the years, which she  considered  her “Fur babies.”  She loved to be surrounded by her family and friends and had an especially close bond with her nieces and nephew, they were the Joy of her life! Her heart lit up when our family was blessed with sweet Raya and she beamed with love, even in her last days. She will always be fondly remembered as a loving, kind, nurturing and selfless person, who loved unconditionally & without measure. She is a GEM and will be greatly missed by all who knew her.

Gail is  survived by her loving brother, Garry Gordon, of Atlantic Highlands and her beloved nephew and nieces; Justin Gordon of Aspen, Co., Adria Gordon of Red Bank and Rachel Gordon of Denver, Co.

A Memorial Gathering will take place Saturday, September 4th from 9-11 am at Scott & Kedz Home for Funerals.

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Palmira Cruz - July 09, 1960 - July 27, 2021

Departed: 07/27/2021 (Belford)

Obituary Preview: Palmira Cruz, 61, of Atlantic Highlands, peacefully passed away Tuesday, July 27th, at home surrounded by her family. Palmira was born in Bronx, NY on July 9, 1960, a daughter of the late Palmira Vega-Diaz and survived by Pablo Feliciano-Justiniano. She was raised in New York and later moved from Jersey City to Newark before settling in Atlantic Highlands over 21 years ago. Palmira's love of children led her to a career in education. She was a social worker at the Newark Preschool Council for over 30 years.

Palmira was truly young at heart and had a zest for life. She loved music and dancing, especially salsa dancing. She was always dressed to the nines with the perfect outfit and her hair and nails done just right. She loved all things Disney, Winnie the Pooh being her favorite. Palmira often challenged her family to games of dominos and poker and enjoyed trips down to Atlantic City. Palmira could also be found cheering on her favorite baseball team, the NY Yankees. But most of all, her favorite times were spent with the people she loved whether she was cooking for them, playing games or watching baseball on tv and just hanging out. Palmira will always be remembered as a selfless, loving woman who was dedicated to her family.

Palmira is survived by her devoted husband of 45 years, Angel Luis Cruz, Sr. and their 3 beloved sons; Angel L. Cruz, Jr., Ariel (Aisha) Cruz and Israel (Jessica) Cruz. She also leaves behind 3 sisters, Carmen Martinez, Awilda Martinez, Nydia Martinez, 4 brothers, Miguel Martinez, Pablo Feliciano Jr., Jose Feliciano, and Raymond Feliciano along with 6 grandchildren; Angel III, Jonathan, Alyssa, Annalise, Judah and Aubrey. Palmira was predeceased by her 3 brothers; Charlie Martinez, Alberto Martinez and Jaime Feliciano.

A Memorial Mass will be celebrated at St. Agnes RC Church, Atlantic Highlands for immediate family.

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Myrta Suarez - March 28, 1943 - July 10, 2021

Departed: 07/10/2021 (Belford)

Obituary Preview: Myrta Josefa Suárez, 78, of Matawan, passed away Saturday, July 10th, 2021. She was born in Arecibo, Puerto Rico on March 28, 1943, to Carmen Rivera Adorno and Epifanio Suarez Sein. Myrta came to the Brooklyn NY in the late 60’s to be of service to her sister’s family.  During that time, she met and married Carlos A. Rodriguez. Together they had two children, Charlene, and Omar. While residing in Greenpoint, Brooklyn Myrta was a head bank teller at Chase Manhattan Bank and spent her spare time to learning how to knit and crochet.

In 1983 Myrta picked up her children with moved back to Puerto Rico with no support after her marriage failed. She worked hard at Kmart Corporation as a single mother to support her family and resided there until 1998 when she was called back to New York to help her daughter with a difficult pregnancy. In 2001, she moved to Matawan to be closer to her daughter’s family, who meant the world to her. She left her career to help raise her grandsons so that her daughter and son-in-law could continue with theirs.  Myrta was a devoted soccer grandma and her grandsons' biggest fan, she delighted in being a regular at all their sports and activities.

Myrta was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2005 and was a survivor and cancer free since 2007. During her therapy at Riverview Medical Center, a talented knitter, she knitted hats for her fellow cancer patients. She also and made numerous baby blankets, hats and booties for friends and family.

Myrta enjoyed travelling with her family, whether it was trips back home to Puerto Rico, Cleveland OH to visit her sister or road trips to Delaware or even a visit to Canada. In later years she enjoyed spending days at the Matawan Adult Day Center.  In her quiet time, Myrta could be found knitting, embroidery, doing crossword puzzles, word search and listening to Christian music.

Myrta was an active member and past treasurer at the Perth Amboy United Simpson Methodist Church before joining the Matawan United Methodist Church. Myrta will always be fondly remembered as a giving, selfless and loving woman who was devoted to her family and of course to God.

Myrta is survived by her two children; her daughter Charlene, wife of Richard Roberts, Sr., of Cliffwood Beach; and her son, Omar Rodriguez, of Bronx, New York. Myrta also leaves behind her sister, Naida Suarez Anderson, of Ohio; two grandsons; Brandon Castro and Richard Roberts, Jr. along with nephews; Rigoberto Pabon, Ricardo Pabon, Modesto Pabon, Ruben Anderson, and Jonathan Anderson; goddaughter Yitzzajoan Acevedo of Massachusetts; grandnephews Ocean and Yasir Anderson and grandniece Katherine Anderson.

She was predeceased by her parents Carmen Rivera Adorno and Epifanio Suarez Sein and her siblings' Gladys Torres, Epifanio Suarez and Alberto Suarez.

A Commemorative Service will take place during the 9:45 am Sunday Worship on July 18th at Matawan United Methodist Church, 478 Atlantic Avenue, Aberdeen, NJ 07747.

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Joyce M. Brahn - October 02, 1938 - May 30, 2021

Departed: 05/30/2021 (Belford)

Obituary Preview: JOYCE M. BRAHN October 2, 1938-May 30, 2021

Joyce M. Brahn (nee Downer) age 82 and native Staten Islander, joined Our Lord and Savior on May 30, 2021. She was born on October 2, 1938 to the late George Downer and former Julia Downer (nee Burgess). In 1961, she married Kenneth Brahn. Their union, lasting until his death in 2009, saw the birth of their daughter, Leah Mezzacappa (nee Brahn). Mrs. Brahn was a resident of Travis for more than forty-four years until her recent move to New Jersey to reside with her daughter.

Affectionately known as Cookie since her early youth, her gregarious personality enabled her to befriend many people throughout her life. From a pharmacy clerk and deli store manager in her early twenties to an office manager in two auto body repair shops, her multi-faceted career culminated in holding several positions at the West Shore Inn in Travis. Hostess, Server, Bartender, Manager, her 40 year plus service to the restaurant gave her an iconic status. Customers may not have always known who the owners were, but they invariably knew who Cookie was and always looked for her! Her formative years included attendance at Curtis High School.

If you didn't catch her at the restaurant during the 4th of July parade, she was bound to be cheering on parade participants in front of her award-winning front house/yard displays featured in The Staten Island Advance. She was legend for expressing her holiday spirit with various eye-catching decorative displays from Easter through Christmas. She had a special creative touch with her arts and crafts no matter the project. The West Shore Inn benefitted from her special skills when it came to decorating for each of the holidays.

If you needed a helping hand, Cookie was your go-to person. She was Always there for her family and friends. Whether her favorite Uncles Cliff and Walter or sister Emma needed extra attention, Cookie embraced their special needs and took them under her wing. She was devoted to her daughter whom she considered her best friend, and her grandson who held a very special place in her heart. She and her sister Lee held a unique bond all their lives even though separated by many miles and states for the last 29 years. She will be sorely missed by her family, friends, co-workers and customers for she brought a warm and happy feeling to all those whose lives she touched.

Cookie is survived by her daughter Leah Mezzacappa (partner TJ Meagher), grandson Vincenzo Mezzacappa, Sister Lee Ambrosino (partner Ray Schmidt), former son-in-law Vinnie Mezzacappa and sister-in-law Barbara Manzella (Joseph). She is also survived by several nieces, nephews and cousins of whom she held a special affection. Her endearing cat Calie was her close companion for many years.

She is preceded in death by her husband Kenneth Brahn, parents George Downer, Julia Ambrosino, step-father William Ambrosino, brothers George Downer (Marilyn), Roger Downer (Clair, Betty), and sister Emma Stalter. Cookie is also predeceased by her paternal and maternal grandparents as well as all of her paternal and maternal aunts and uncles. My Hero...My World... My Strength...My Best Friend...My Love...My Everything...My MOM

A Funeral Mass will be held at St. Anthony of Padua Roman Catholic Church (4055 Victory Blvd. S.I.) on July 17th at Noon. Burial of the cremated ashes will take place at a later date. Memorial donations may be given to www.ascpa.org, www.stjude.org, www.stateni slandhopeanimalrescue.org or your favorite charity. Thank you!

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Ruth W. Dell - September 23, 1933 - May 28, 2021

Departed: 05/28/2021 (Belford)

Obituary Preview: Ruth Dell, 87. Of Middletown, NJ passed away Friday, May 28th, 2021 at home surrounded by family.  She was predeceased by her parents, the Weidemanns (Grandma and Grandpa blue car) and her in-laws, the Dells (Grandma and Grandpa green car), her husband William, her son Kenneth, her sister Mary (Mitzi), her brother Robert and sisters-in-law Kathleen (Nina) and Ruth.

Ruth is survived by her sons Christopher, Tracey, Scott, and their wives, her nieces RuthAnn, Lisa and their families, her step-grandson Boyon and her beloved Granddaughter Christiana.  She also had many nephews and extended family members living in various states in the U.S.  Her long-time friend and companion Louise Jones also recently passed.

She lived in Holmdel, NJ for 50 years until moving in with her youngest son Scott and daughter-in-law Annie in Middletown.  Scott and Annie opened their hearts and home to her in the last years.  She designed and decorated her addition space with enthusiasm.  She was able to rely on them to keep her comfortable, safe and cared for.  The family cannot begin to express their gratitude for this blessing.

Mom used to speak about how many of life philosophies can be gleaned from the movie Forrest Gump. “Life is like a box of chocolates. You never know what you are gonna get.” (Forrest) I think we all know how much Mom loved chocolates!

Mom’s Life Chocolate Box was filled aplenty.  She married and raised 4 sons on Chestnut Ridge Road.  She worked for many years at the Monmouth County Welfare Board and subsequently Cap Gemini where she developed lifelong friendships.  Mom cared tirelessly for Dad with his illness and until his death.  Mom had the joy of a granddaughter whom she loved with all of her heart.  She suffered the death of her beloved son with grace and pragmatism. The long list of pets that she had over the years were dear to her. “My Mama said you’ve got to put the past behind you before you can move on.” (Forrest)

Mom crafted, painted, designed, decorated  (Christmas!  Could she wrap a present or what?).  She loved going to lunch, dinner, or any outing with her gal pals.  Mom threw parties, weddings and all sorts of celebrations on the hill in her backyard.  She enjoyed reading and watching her shows (The West Wing? You won’t beat her count!). Mom loved to be around her family and friends. Oh the fun visits with the Jones family!  She was always close and caring with the neighbors who brought much joy into her life. And by God, Mom cooked legendary recipes.  Her sauerbraten, shrimp salad, and mini Cheesecakes were a staple at every gathering. The special occasion cakes will never be matched.

Mom loved to laugh and make others laugh.  Everyone enjoyed being in her presence. “Why you dying Mama?” (Forrest) “It’s my time.  It’s just my time” (Mrs. Gump)

We will miss Mom, Mother, Mama Dell, MIL (Mother-in-law), TT Mommy and Grandma.  Our hearts are broken.  However, we will heal.  Because that is what she would want us to do. “Mama always said , Dying was a part of life.  I sure wish it wasn’t” (Forrest)

A Memorial Celebration of life will be held on a future date.

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Michael J. Heinlein, II - September 21, 1938 - April 16, 2021

Departed: 04/16/2021 (Belford)

Obituary Preview: Michael Joseph Heinlein, II, 82, of Fair Haven, passed away Friday, April 16th. Michael was born in Long Branch,  on September 21, 1938, a son of the late Dorthea and Michael Heinlein. He was raised in Atlantic Highlands then moved to Fair Haven in 1976.  Michael attended Monmouth University and then graduated from the Monmouth County Police Academy. He was a police officer in Atlantic Highlands for many years. He also started his own construction company, Heinlein and Sons Building Contractors. Michael proudly served his country in the U.S. Army during the Cuban Missile Crisis.

Michael was proud of his heritage and was a member of the Sons of Norway. He enjoyed gardening and over the years raised many animals, farm animals along with domestic pets. He loved all kinds of animals! In his quiet time, he could be found reading a book, tending to his train collection, or cooking something fabulous in the kitchen for his family. Michael will fondly be remembered as a man with a heart of gold, a man of faith and a loving and devoted husband and father.

Michael is survived by his wife of 55 years, Kathryn Heinlein along with their four children; Michael Heinlein III, of Fair Haven; Heidi Heinlein of Fair Haven; Erik Heinlein, of West Long Branch; and Stephan Heinlein, of Fair Haven. He also leaves behind two sisters, Kathi Micalizzi, of SC; Madeline Bennett, of Belford and many nieces and nephews. Michael was predeceased by his son, Daniel Heinlein in 2000 and his sister Anne Heinlein, last year.

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Robert Stetz - November 15, 1928 - April 09, 2021

Departed: 04/09/2021 (Belford)

Obituary Preview: Robert Matthew Raymond Stetz, 92, beloved husband, father, grandfather and great grandfather, passed away April 9, 2021 in Hazlet, NJ. Born in Newark, NJ, Robert spent most of his childhood moving around from Newark, NJ, to Detroit, Michigan, to Wilkes Barre, PA, and back to Newark, NJ. At the tail end of World War II, 1945, he shipped out as a 17 year old in the US Merchant marine. In 1950, while aboard US flag ships making Europe to Scandinavia runs for Moore McCormack shipping lines, he met a young Norwegian woman, Randi Hoff, at a summer rowing regatta in Oslo, Norway. On April 25, 1951, they were married in Oslo. Subsequently, Randi left her family in Norway and set sail for the US, arriving in New York on October 30, 1951. In 1952 they purchased a home in North Arlington, NJ and then in September of 1956 moved into a new home in Hazlet, NJ where their 3 children were raised. Robert continued working aboard ships with the National Maritime Union. He retired from the NMU in 1966 and began working in the construction business around Hazlet. In 1974 He landed a job with the Navy Department. He shipped out as a civilian seaman aboard a Navy ship in the Military Sealift Command. The MSC provided fleet support for the US Navy. From 1974 until 1983 he served with pride aboard a number of MSC ships, taking him on a series of seafaring adventures. At times his family didn’t know where he was because the work he was involved with was classified. On October 8 1981, Robert crewed on a brand new, state of the art, Naval support vessel the USNS Apache. Being part of the crew at the launching of a new vessel was an honor for him that he was proud of. The ship is still in service today and his name is on a plaque mounted aboard the Apache. The Navy refers to any original crew of a ship as a “Plank Owner” of the ship. In April of 1983, he retired from crewing MSC ships and went to work at an MSC fire fighting school in Freehold, NJ. He fully retired in 1996. In 1967 Robert became a member of the Sons of Norway, Lodge 466. He and Randi were life members and were always very involved. Robert served as lodge president 5 times. He was also an avid bowler for many years. During his retirement years Robert always kept busy with the Sons of Norway and enjoyed his grand kids as they grew up, regularly attending soccer games, baseball games, football games, band performances, tennis matches and eventually college graduations and weddings. Robert is predeceased by his father Mathew, his mother Charlotte, his sister Rita Ann and his son Raymond. He is survived by his wife Randi, of Hazlet, NJ, his son Ken Stetz and his wife Diane of Collegeville, PA, his daughter Jo-Ann Johnson and her husband Chris of Brick, NJ, daughter-in-law Lisa Stetz of Beverly Hills, Florida, along with two nieces, Laura and Barbara, 3 grand children, Rebecca, Evan and Kyle and 3 great grandchildren, Remy, Leo and Sandy.

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Eva Gorzkowski - October 10, 1932 - March 27, 2021

Departed: 03/27/2021 (Belford)

Obituary Preview: Eva Gorzkowski, 88, died peacefully on Saturday, March 27, 2021, surrounded by her only son George and daughter-in-law Barbara. Eva was born in Poland in 1932. She met her husband Mirek while studying to be a nutritionist. They immigrated to the United States in the early 70s; originally moving to Brooklyn, NY and later lived in Wall, NJ. Finally she lived out most of her life in their home in Boca Raton, FL. Eva had lots of hobbies including knitting, crocheting, sewing, and cooking, but the thing that brought her most joy was walking on the beach with her husband. After he passed away in 2003, she became an avid volunteer regularly walking dogs at the animal shelter and feeding the homeless in her Boca Raton community. Her chrusciki and butter cookies were legendary and always sold-out at Our Lady of Lourdes Christmas Bazaar. Towards the end of her life, Eva returned to New Jersey to live with her son and his family. She got to spend more time with her three granddaughters. Her loved ones, who celebrate the fact that she is at peace with her creator, dearly miss her. Her loving husband, Mirek Gorzkowski and her parents Wladyslaw and Waleria Polakowski predeceased Eva. She is survived by her son George Gorzkowski and his wife Barbara of Holmdel, as well as her granddaughters: Loren Gorzkowski, Megan Gorzkowski and her husband Salvatore Corcione, Julia Gorzkowski and her husband Daniel Baumlin. Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Thursday, April 8, 2021 at 9:15 a.m. at St. Catherine’s Church 108 Middletown Rd., Holmdel, NJ 07733. Internment will be in the Cemetery of Our Lady of Chestochowa, Doylestown, PA.

Eva’s final wish was to have a private burial.

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Regina A. Lerolland - December 20, 1965 - March 20, 2021

Departed: 03/20/2021 (Belford)

Obituary Preview: Regina A. Lerolland, 55, of Cliffwood Beach, passed away Saturday, March 20th, after suffering a stroke.  Regina was born in Perth Amboy, on December 20, 1965, a daughter of the late Anna and Phillip  O'Connor. Regina was raised in Perth Amboy. After marrying, she and husband Dion, settled in Cliffwood Beach. Regina worked as a mail sorter for the United States Postal Service in Princeton for several years. Regina loved life and all that it entailed. She enjoyed spending time with her family and pets. She will always be remembered fondly as a loving and devoted wife, mother and friend.       Regina is survived by her husband and companion of 37 years,  Dion Lerolland and their daughter Regina.  She also leaves behind two sisters, Eileen O'Connor and Beth O'Connor. Regina was predeceased by her brother, Phillip O'Connor     It was Regina's wishes that her service be private.

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Chrissy McCloud - August 08, 1962 - March 09, 2021

Departed: 03/09/2021 (Belford)

Obituary Preview: Virginia Christine McCloud "Chrissy", 58, of Middletown, passed away Tuesday, March 9th, after a valiant battle with cancer. Chrissy was born in Perth Amboy, on August 8, 1962, a daughter of the late Virginia and Gerard V. McCloud. She was raised in Morganville and settled in Middletown 20 years ago. Chrissy was the quintessential mom. She loved being with her family! She enjoyed entertaining her friends and family and was known for her great cooking and baking. She was always eager to give cooking advice or just have some good old "girltalk" with her daughters. She enjoyed spending time at the beach during the summer. Chrissy was also an animal lover, especially her beloved cats. Chrissy will be fondly remembered as a loving and devoted companion, and mother, but her favorite title may have been Grandma!         Chrissy is survived by her fiancé and companion of 33 years, David Giblock and their two daughters; Shannon Cuccurullo and her husband Joseph and Brianna Giblock. She also leaves behind her sister, Gerilyn Yanvary and her cherished granddaughter, Aria Sophia Cuccurullo.  Chrissy is now reunited with her son, Kyle David Giblock, who passed away in 1995.     It was Chrissy's wishes that no services be held. Please feel free to leave your condolences and share your memories of her, here on this page.

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Kathleen C. Honig - December 27, 1947 - February 24, 2021

Departed: 02/24/2021 (Belford)

Obituary Preview: Kathleen C. Honig, 73, of Hamburg, NJ passed away Wednesday, February 24th. Kathleen was born in Philadelphia, Pa on December 27, 1947, before spending most of her childhood in Allentown, Pa with her family where she was one of three daughters of the late Rita and Frank Concannon.  In 1968, she married Richard Honig, where they enjoyed living in Washington, DC while Rick finished law school before ultimately moving and raising their family in Franklin, NJ.

Kathleen was predeceased by her husband Richard Honig in 2009.  She is survived by their two children;  daughter and son-in-law, Cara and Lucas Dorazio, of Belford; and son and daughter-in-law Joshua and Stacy Honig, of Manalapan. Kathleen also leaves behind two sisters, Ellen Happ and Marie Concannon along with 4 grandchildren; Lauren and Zachary Dorazio and Sadie and Josie Honig.

My grandmother went by many names; Kathy, Mom, friend, sister, daughter and to me she was Mimi.  My Mimi was a very special person; not just to her family, but to everyone around her.  She made lasting impacts with everyone she knew.  She loved talking to anyone and everyone; Mimi could strike a meaningful and fun conversation with anyone she talked to.  There was no chance she could go shopping without meeting someone new.  She was intelligent and well read.  If given the opportunity, she could have been put in front of the world’s smartest person and have known exactly what to say.   She often helped us with our homework; Mimi could pick up on any crazy and modern math techniques she saw.  She enjoyed playing golf with her friends and collecting golf balls that made their way to her driveway.  While the green was fun, she could always call the beach her home.  Mimi enjoyed our family vacations to Cape May in the summer, and she never missed an opportunity to watch us participate in beach activities.  She also went to every cross country meet, track meet, and soccer game she could; cheering loudly from the sidelines. She was there for every Easter and Christmas, where she started the traditions of getting her granddaughters a snow globe and her grandson a Hess truck. She loved to sew and do the occasional knitting.  Much of her family’s houses are filled with her quilts and tapestries.  My Mimi was a lively person who stars in many of my childhood memories.  These memories will pass on through the family as time goes on because she might be gone, but she will certainly never be forgotten. Love you always, -Lauren

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Marie T. Reynolds - March 28, 1929 - February 22, 2021

Departed: 02/22/2021 (Belford)

Obituary Preview: Marie Reynolds of Atlantic Highlands left us of natural causes on February 22, 2021. She was 91 years young. She resided in Atlantic Highlands for more than 31 years. Marie was born at Englewood Hospital in Bergan County and spent her childhood enjoying life on Meadowbrook Farms in Norwood, NJ. She loved being outdoors and playing with her many pets including a female sheep named baby.

Marie was a graduate of Adelphi College for women where she received a Bachelor of Arts degree in teaching. She was a primary school teacher in Norwood, NJ for several years when she met her husband Joe Reynolds. Marie and Joe were married for 55 years and raised two children. The family enjoyed spending time along the shore in Long Beach Island or hiking in the mountains of New York State.

Marie loved nature. She was an avid birdwatcher, gardener and walker among the birds, butterflies and flowers. Marie was the best mother a child could have. She was always full of love. She was devoted to the care and wellness of her family, and always had a smile on her face. She is survived by her two children Jane and Joe, and by the many people who were touched by her kindness and generosity.

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John Rivera - June 10, 1967 - February 19, 2021

Departed: 02/19/2021 (Belford)

Obituary Preview: John Rivera, 53, of Keyport, passed away Friday, February 19th. John was born in Brooklyn, New York on June 10, 1967, a son of the late Ananilsa and Juan  Rivera. He was raised in New York City then moved to Tampa, Florida for 10 years before returning to New York. He was a building manager for St. Paul - St. Andrew Parish in New York City, where he met his future wife, Maryanne. After marrying, they settled in Keyport 3 1/2 years ago. John loved to volunteer and help people. He received several awards from New York Cares for the work he did to help rebuild the Rockaways after Superstorm Sandy. John's love for animals led him to volunteer at local animal shelters where he would walk the dogs. John enjoyed the outdoors and was always up for an adventure. When he was at home, he could be found snuggling with his dog or two cats, watching the Yankees or Giants on the television or just relaxing while listening to some country music. John will be remembered as a proud and loving father, devoted husband and dear friend to many.

John is  survived by his wife, Maryanne Nigro. He also leaves behind two sons Bryan Rivera, of PA; Jaydan Rivera, of Puerto Rico; his sister, Elizabeth Rivera along with a grandson Kaydier, and several half brothers and sisters. It was John's wishes that no services be held. If you would like to make a Memorial Donation in his memory, please do so to New York Cares at https://www.nycares.org

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John Zalarick - February 26, 1942 - February 10, 2021

Departed: 02/10/2021 (Belford)

Obituary Preview: John was a positive, ambitious, hard working and caring husband, father, friend and leader who had a true zest for life. He was a proud man with a great sense of humor and a tremendous amount of integrity. He was well respected by all those that had the opportunity to know him both personally and professionally. He was a self-made man with a strong belief in hard work and a positive mindset. His favorite saying was “do the best with what you have.” A motto he not only lived by but inspired in others who were lucky enough to know him.

John was born in Passaic, NJ on February 26, 1942, a son of the late Marie and John Zalarick. He was the third youngest of 8 brothers and sisters. His father passed away at an early age leaving his mom to raise the family. His mom moved the family to East Rutherford, NJ, where she worked three jobs to support their family. John would share stories about how his dad would take him along to fish off the Jersey shore and hunt small game in the marshes of the meadowlands, which later became home to MetLife Stadium.

He worked with his brother, Russell who he was very close with and helped John land a job during and after high school loading trucks where he earn money for college. He was the first in his family to be attend college. He was accepted into New York University to pursue a degree in accounting and later transferred to Pace University where he graduated with a Bachelor of Science Degree in Marketing Communications. He would later be appointed to Pace University’s Honorary Alumni Board - a designation he was extremely proud of.

During the Vietnam war, he served as a medic in the national guard helping wounded soldiers returning from battle.

He grew up playing baseball and was a standout short stop for his hometown team. During one season his team made it to the quarter finals of the Little League Championship. He later went on to play division II baseball for Pace University.

He met his future wife at Manasquan Beach, NJ where they later met up at the Osprey. It was love at first sight. A few years later, they got married on July 20, 1969, the day man landed and walked on the moon. Sure to always be a most memorable day! They moved to Upper Montclair, NJ where they raised their two sons, John and Jason and remained happily married for 51 years.

After graduating college, John served as the spokesperson and PR Director for Hackensack Hospital before joining Garden State National Bank where he quickly rose up the ranks to SVP, Marketing. As one of the youngest SVPs of marketing for a banking institution at the time, he worked under the direction of Charles Agemian, former Executive Vice President of Operations at Chase Manhattan Bank. Mr Agemian was a major influence in his life who he regarded as a second father. He later went on to serve as the head of Marketing for The Record Newspaper, leading their twenty person in-house marketing department, which was accredited for the development of the newspaper’s popular ad campaign “We Cover Your World, All of it.”

After leaving The Record Newspaper, John founded a PR and marketing firm which he named after his wife Youngworth Communications Inc. His son, John later joined the company where they worked together for a number of years until his retirement. Their clients included Kearny Bank, Paragon Federal Credit Union and New England Financial.

During his free time, he loved playing tennis, and swimming at Bradford Bath & Tennis Club, traveling the world, vacationing in St. Martin, watching old James Bond movies and Villanova basketball games with his two sons who both graduated from Villanova Business School.  His fondness for a good glass of wine led him to taking a sommelier class. He was an active member of the New Jersey Press Club. John also had a real love for real estate and would spend his free time seeking and managing investment properties.

He enjoyed being near the water and a beach. He loved nature and watching the sunrise at a condo they acquired as an investment property overlooking Sea Bright, NJ and later took over as a their home.

John, 78, passed away on Feb 10, 2021 from complications due to late stage ALZ. He was comforted by his loving family and friends.

He will be remembered as a devoted husband, father and grandfather.

John is survived by his wife of 51 years, Gale  and their two sons and daughters-in-law; Jack and his wife, Jennifer of Long Island, NY and Jason and his wife Marisa of Whitehouse Station, NJ. He also leaves behind two sisters, Patricia, Evelyn and two brothers, Edward and Robert as well as 4 grandsons; Danny, Liam, Jason Philip and Ryder. John was predeceased by his sisters Sophie and Dorothy and his brother, Russell.

A Celebration of Life will be held sometime during the summer.

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Colleen M. Doherty - June 11, 1957 - February 03, 2021

Departed: 02/03/2021 (Belford)

Obituary Preview: Colleen Mary Doherty, 63, of New Egypt, passed away Wednesday, February 3rd. Colleen was born in New York City on June 11, 1957, a daughter of the late Elizabeth and Cornelius  Doherty. She was raised in the Inwood section of the city and moved to Jackson, NJ in the mid 1980's. She later moved to New Egypt to be with her daughter and family in 2017. Colleen's love in life was her family. Everything she did centered around them. She loved to host family gatherings! She enjoyed all the preparations of cooking, baking and planning the perfect gathering. There was always music playing in her home and she could often be found dancing and even cleaning to the beat of her favorite songs.  She had a special bond with each member of her family. Colleen will always be remembered as a loving and doting, mother, grandmother, sister, aunt and friend.      Colleen is survived by two children; her daughter , Maryellen Gordon and  companion Dinver McClure, of New Egypt; and her son and daughter-in-law, Raymond and Amy Ringen of Berlin, MD; and their father, Ray Ringen. Colleen also leaves behind  her brother, Paul, husband of  Netty Doherty, and her sister-in-law, Barbara Doherty, widow of Neil Doherty, along with 3 grandchildren; Bailey Rose, Dylan and Addison; her Goddaughter and niece, Liz Kelly: niece, Jill (Randy)Farrington; nephews; Paul (Angie) Doherty, Timmy (Mary) Doherty, Peter (Joelle) Doherty, Adam (Jenn) Breen; niece, Jennifer (Jason) Gonzalez and many great nieces and nephews.  Colleen was predeceased by her sister and brother-in-law, Maryellen and James Dalton.

A Celebration of Life will be held at a later date once the Pandemic restriction are lifted.

If you would like to make a Memorial Donation in Colleen's memory, her favorite charities were St. Jude's Children's Hospital at http://www.stjude.org and the ASPCA  at http://www.aspca.org/donate.

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Richard E. Kelly - November 21, 1956 - January 27, 2021

Departed: 01/27/2021 (Belford)

Obituary Preview: Richard E. Kelly, 64, of Brick, passed away surrounded by his family on Wednesday, January 27th, after a valiant battle with cancer. Richard was born and raised in Staten Island, NY. He was a son of  the late Robert H. Kelly and Margaret Kelly. Richard went into the family business, Roselli Paving Company in Staten Island, where he was a paving contractor for many years and retired as the owner/ operator after his father passed away. He and his family moved to Middletown in 1993 and then to Freehold before he and his wife built their dream home on the water in Brick.  Richard was passionate about working and providing for his family. When he was not working, you could probably find him outside. He loved being out in nature. Growing up, his family had many pets, including horses in their back yard, he even competed in bull riding and rodeos. Later in life, his love of nature developed into the quieter sport of fishing, which compelled him to buy a boat so he and his family could spend time on the water. Richard will always be remembered as a giving person who was always willing to lend a helping hand.

Richard is survived by his wife, and love of his life since 1984, Donna Kelly, and their two daughters;  Katelin and her fiancé, Ray Jones, of Hazlet;  and Emily, of Red Bank. He also leaves behind his mother Margaret Kelly of Freehold; sister, Margaret Ann Marten, of Staten Island and brother, James Kelly, of Farmingdale, along with many extended family members and dear friends.

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David J. Sigman - August 08, 1973 - January 21, 2021

Departed: 01/21/2021 (Belford)

Obituary Preview: David J. Sigman, 47, of Old Bridge, passed away Thursday, January 21st, at Bayshore Community Hospital. David was loving, thoughtful, kind and everyone was drawn to him. Every time he was in a store someone would start a conversation with him. He was born in Brooklyn, New York on August 8, 1973, a son of Iris and Mark Sigman. David's family moved to New Jersey when he was a child and David was raised in Spotswood. After marrying, David and Heather lived in Wenonah and the South Jersey area for about 9 years before settling in Old Bridge 6 years ago. David attended St. John's University and went on to work in the mattress industry managing stores, managing districts and then moving on to lead the charge with launching the 1-800 mattress franchising arm.  When they moved to Old Bridge he selflessly became a stay at home dad to take care of his three children. He loved watching all sports and all through school he was a soccer goalie who had the opportunity to play in London. He was a Jets fan, rooted for the Mets and enjoyed watching St. John's University Basketball games, but his favorite sport was soccer. He was an avid Manchester United fan and probably the biggest and proudest fan of his daughters', Hailey and Brooklynn who play soccer. David looked forward to their games and helping them practice.  When David was not with his family, he could often be found smoking cigars and shooting the breeze with his friends. David enjoyed collecting cigar memorabilia and even started a Cigar page on Instagram the_real_cigar_lovers_of_ig. David had a deep love for his family and friends with a zest for life. David was a creative artist who more recently began drawing charactures of famous people. He also enjoyed collecting sports memoriabla and many famous peoples' autographs. The last selfless act he could do was donate his kidneys, so that he could save two other people's lives.

David is survived by his wife of 14 years, Heather Sigman and their three children; Bryana, Brooklynn, and Hailey, all of Old Bridge. He also leaves behind his parents, Iris and Mark Sigman, and two brothers Eric Sigman of VA and Shaun Sigman of Old Bridge along with many extended family members and truly dear friends.

Friends and family may pay their respects at a Memorial Drive-by on Saturday, January 23rd from 11- 1pm or 3-5pm. Due to Covid restrictions please remain in your car. Cars can gather at the Lake Ridge Community Pool parking lot, 57 Lakeridge Dr., Matawan. We will have a few memory jars for family and friends to share a memory or two of Dave. Please write it down on paper and bring it with you. Also, as some friends and family are not close by or may have health conditions to think about during Covid please know that this summer the family will have a celebration of life gathering (pending Covid restrictions at the time).

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and other biographical information. It may also include details about their life, accomplishments, and surviving family members.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a lasting tribute to the deceased, preserving their memory and legacy for generations to come.

Who typically writes an obituary?

The responsibility of writing an obituary often falls on the family members or close friends of the deceased. In some cases, funeral homes or mortuaries may offer assistance with writing and publishing the obituary.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service (if applicable), hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also mention any notable accomplishments, awards, or charitable work.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication and the family's preferences. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from a few sentences to a few paragraphs.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a meaningful way to personalize the tribute and help readers remember the deceased.

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Check the publication's website or contact their obituary department directly to learn about their submission guidelines and deadlines. Be prepared to provide the necessary information and payment (if required).

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The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication, word count, and additional features such as photos or online links. Expect to pay anywhere from $50 to several hundred dollars.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, it's becoming increasingly popular for people to write their own obituaries in advance. This can be a therapeutic exercise and ensure that your life story is told in your own words.

What is the difference between an obituary and a eulogy?

An obituary is a written notice announcing a person's death, while a eulogy is a speech or written tribute delivered at a funeral or memorial service. A eulogy is often more personal and emotional than an obituary.

Can I include humor in an obituary?

Absolutely! Humor can be a wonderful way to celebrate the deceased's personality and spirit. Just be sure to keep it respectful and tasteful.

How do I handle sensitive information in an obituary?

If the deceased had a sensitive or complicated past, it's essential to approach the situation with empathy and discretion. Consider consulting with family members or close friends to determine what information should be shared publicly.

Can I include charitable donations in lieu of flowers in an obituary?

Yes! Many families prefer donations to a favorite charity or cause instead of traditional flower arrangements. Be sure to specify the charity's name and contact information in the obituary.

What if I need to make corrections to an already published obituary?

Contact the publication immediately if you notice any errors or inaccuracies. They will usually work with you to correct the mistake and republish the revised obituary.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The timeframe for publication varies depending on the publication's schedule and deadlines. Online obituaries may be published within hours or days, while print publications may take longer – sometimes up to a week or more.

Can I reprint an obituary from another publication?

You may need permission from the original publication or author to reprint an obituary. Be sure to check copyright laws and obtain necessary permissions before sharing or republishing someone else's work.

What is the purpose of an online obituary guestbook?

An online guestbook allows friends and family to leave messages of condolence, share memories, and pay tribute to the deceased. It provides a digital space for people to connect and support one another during a difficult time.

How long are online obituaries typically available?

The duration of online obituaries varies depending on the publication or platform. Some may remain available indefinitely, while others may be archived after a certain period (e.g., 30 days).

Can I create my own online memorial or tribute page?

Absolutely! You can create a personalized online memorial using social media platforms, dedicated memorial websites, or blogging tools. This can be a meaningful way to celebrate the deceased's life and share memories with others.

What is the role of an obituary in the grieving process?

An obituary serves as a catalyst for the grieving process by providing a sense of closure, allowing friends and family to acknowledge their loss, and offering a chance for them to come together and support one another.

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An obituary can be a valuable starting point for writing other types of tributes, such as eulogies, memorial services programs, or even biographical essays. Use it as a springboard to explore different writing styles and formats.

Are there any specific guidelines for writing an obituary for someone who was young or died unexpectedly?

Yes. When writing an obituary for someone who died young or unexpectedly, it's essential to approach the situation with sensitivity and compassion. Focus on celebrating their life, rather than dwelling on the circumstances of their passing.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Absolutely! Quotes, lyrics, or poems can add depth and meaning to an obituary. Choose something that resonates with the deceased's personality or reflects their values and beliefs.

How do I handle multiple marriages or relationships in an obituary?

If the deceased had multiple marriages or significant relationships, it's essential to approach this section with tact and respect. Consider listing all spouses/partners separately or acknowledging them collectively as loving partners.

What if I'm unsure about what information to include in an obituary?

If you're struggling with what information to include or how to phrase certain details, don't hesitate to reach out to family members, friends, or even a professional writer for guidance and support.