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Molly Weiss - December 05, 1923 - April 19, 2024

Departed: 04/19/2024 (Midwest City)

Obituary Preview: Our mother, Molly Grace Weiss, left her earthly bounds on Friday, April 19, 2024. She was surrounded by her four children and several grandchildren and great grandchildren when God called her home. Molly was 100 glorious years old at her passing. She was born on December 5, 1923, in Wilburton, Oklahoma. Molly was the eighth and last child born to George Pleasant and Mary Magdeline Wood. She will be reunited in heaven with her parents, her brother, George and sisters, Lena, Lottie, Nell, Loyce, Mary, Louise, her husband, Frank Anthony Weiss and their daughter, Amy.

Molly was survived by her children, Frank, Sara, George and David, who have been commissioned by the Lord to carry on Mom’s legacy of love and care for others. Her door was always open with a plate of food at the kitchen table and a compassionate ear for the downtrodden and the lonely amongst us. Molly’s sole devotion was her family and, if you weren’t blood, you soon became a member of her clan.

Molly was a homemaker and fulltime mother until her children all left the nest. During WWII, she helped at Tinker Airforce Base repairing planes until someone realized her secretarial skills and moved her into the office. Mom was what she called a “clothes horse.” She loved beautiful clothes and she and her sisters would enjoy dressing to the “nines” and posing for pictures with each other. In her younger years, she and her sisters owned a dress shop named Seven Sister in Wilburton.

Red was Mom’s favorite color and how appropriate that was for she believed in the precious saving blood of Jesus. She loved cardinals because of their bright red plume and the reminder of what her Lord had done on the cross of Calvary. Her home was filled with images of cardinals, on the walls, plates, coffee cups and fuzzy blankets.

Mom lived her final years in the home of our youngest brother, David and his wife, Leslie, who opened their home to the constant stream of visits from friends and family. Our family will always have an overwhelming debt of gratitude for the love and care they showed our mom.

She cherished and was cherished by her sixteen grandchildren, twenty-seven great grandchildren and three great, great grandchildren along with so many nieces and nephews.

During the past four years, Mom was cared for by the loving friends she made with Frontier Hospice Care. Thank you for what you meant to her and the tender love you expressed.

It is easy to say she touched the lives of more than can be counted and was loved by all. Mom left us all with a powerful witness of God’s grace and love and she will never be forgotten.

A celebration of Mom’s life will be held at Barnes Friederich Funeral Home at 1820 S. Douglas Blvd. in Midwest City on Friday, April 26 at 5:00 with a viewing to follow. Her body will be laid to rest at Center Point Baptist Church and Cemetery in Wilburton, 2245 NE 1000th Ave., Wilburton, Oklahoma, on Saturday, April 27 at 1:00.

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Janice "Jan" Zenner - May 24, 1953 - April 18, 2024

Departed: 04/18/2024 (Midwest City)

Obituary Preview: Janice “Jan” Diane Zenner, age 70, of Midwest City, OK passed away peacefully on April 18, 2024 at her home with her family by her side.

Jan was born in St. Louis, Missouri on May 24, 1953 to her parents Robert “Bob” and Audrey “Mud” Sparlin. She graduated from McCluer High School in 1971. She then went on to Oklahoma City University where she attained her Bachelor’s in Music, met her husband of 48 years and love of her life, Art, and later received her Master’s in Music Education.

Jan loved to teach. She taught music to all ages and impacted many lives along the way. Some of the places she formally taught included Jones Public Schools, Mid-Del Schools, her private music school, Music World, and Stanley Hupfeld Academy (formerly Western Village Academy). She also enjoyed teaching private music and swim lessons at her home. Jan loved to perform. A small sample of her honors and accomplishments include performing all over the world with the Surrey Singers and USO Tours and performing in many famous venues and theaters (large and small) throughout the entire state of Oklahoma and all over the country. Most of all, Jan loved to make people laugh. She never met a person that didn’t walk away with a smile on their face.

She learned to be a fan of all sports, mostly out of necessity from being in a house full of boys. She especially enjoyed watching tennis, St. Louis Cardinals baseball, and Oklahoma City Thunder basketball. Later in life, she found joy in going on cruises all over the world with Art, family, and friends. She was also a proud “Grandma” and loved to spend time and facetime with her granddaughters, and make them smile and laugh.

Jan was preceded in death by her father, Bob, mother Audrey (Mud), and her nephew, Matt Smith. She is survived by her loving husband Art of the home; two sons: Rob Zenner and wife Lauren Zenner of Tulsa, OK and Richie Zenner of Midwest City, OK; Grandchildren: Lorelai and Livia Zenner; Sister-in-law: Cathy Main and husband Jerry Main of Uniondale, NY; Sister: Jeanne and husband Rob; Niece: Patty Stein of Easton, MD; Laura McConnell and husband Matthew McConnell of Narberth, PA and Nicole Smith of Aubrey, TX; Nephew: Michael Main of Yonkers, NY and Great Nieces and Nephews: Harry and Maddy Stein; Patrick, Colin, and Maren McConnell and Garrett Smith.

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Gwendolyn "Elaine" Turner - December 30, 1937 - April 18, 2024

Departed: 04/18/2024 (Midwest City)

Obituary Preview: Gwendolyn “Elaine” Turner, 86 of Choctaw, OK, went to meet her Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, the morning of April 18, 2024. Her last days were spent surrounded by family. She was born on December 30, 1937, in Altus, OK to Floyd Leslie & Lena Sue Douglas. She grew up in Headrick, OK. She was one of the last 7 graduates of Headrick High School after she attended Business School in Wichita Falls, Tx. She later met the love of her life, Chester Lee Turner and married him on June 7, 1957, at the First Baptist Church in Headrick. She followed her husband all over the country as he served his county in the United States Air Force. They were married for 51 years before Chet passed away in 2009. During her life she served God in various capacities of each church she attended anywhere from secretary to camp cook for the youth. Her last service was as a Sunday School teacher at CRBC where she was a member since 1992. She loved to quilt and crocheted numerous sleeping mats for the homeless. She was a devoted mother and grandmother. Elaine is preceded in death by her husband Chet Turner, parents Floyd & Lena Sue Douglas, Brother Kenneth Douglas. Survived by son Kevin Turner of Choctaw, daughter Debbie Barr & husband John of OKC, daughter Leslee Clay & husband Craig of Choctaw, grandchildren Brandon Turner & wife Diana, Joseph Turner, Bryan Eastman, Hannah Armstrong & husband Tyler, Sam Shelton & wife Stephanie, Cherity Burke & husband Cody, Carson Clay & Ashlynn, Madison Stearman & husband Cooley along with numerous great and great-great grandchildren.

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Loretta Kauble - December 17, 1949 - April 18, 2024

Departed: 04/18/2024 (Midwest City)

Obituary Preview: Loretta Kauble, age 74 passed away April 18, 2024. She was preceded in death by her sister Karen Robertson, father Ross Elvis Robertson, mother Oleta Lucy Simmons Robertson and husband Raymond Kauble.

Loretta was born on December 17, 1949, in Olustee, Oklahoma to Ross Elvis Robertson and Oleta Lucy Simmons Robertson. Following her high school graduation in 1968 she got married on July 5, 1968.

Loretta is survived by her sister Glenda Mathis and her four children Christie Hensley, Melissa Charlton, Michael Kauble and Tonya Kauble. 14 grandchildren, 7 great grandchildren and many, many more that she took in who also called her Mema.

Aside from being very dedicated to her family Loretta started caring for many patients in a nursing home for about 10 years. She next brought her joyful smile and contagious personality to Anthony’s and finished her career at Langston’s.

Loretta would always find a way to help anyone in need. Her weakness was saying “no” she knew no such word. She had the biggest heart who always opened her home to those in need.

She will be greatly missed by everyone, the love she gave as a Momma, Mema, sister and friend is irreplaceable.

To know Loretta is to love Loretta.

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Robert "Bob" O'Hern - December 11, 1938 - April 17, 2024

Departed: 04/17/2024 (Midwest City)

Obituary Preview: Robert (Bob) O'Hern, a devoted family man, esteemed Vietnam veteran, and dedicated educator, peacefully passed away at the age of 85. His life was a testament to resilience, service, and unwavering love for his family.

Born to Roy and Irene O'Hern on December 11, 1938, in Caddo, Oklahoma, Bob grew up alongside his two brothers, Roy Jr. and Gary, and his two sisters, Patricia and Beverly. He attended Caddo High School, where he graduated in 1956.

Bob embarked on his professional journey at Bell Helicopter in Fort Worth, Texas, before answering the call to serve his country. From 1957 to 1961, he proudly served in the United States Air Force as an engineer on the C124 Globemaster, stationed in the idyllic landscapes of Hawaii.

Following his military service, He pursued higher education at Southeastern, where he earned a Bachelor of Science in Education. He began his teaching career in Amarillo, Texas, in 1964, leaving an indelible mark on countless young minds with his passion for learning.

In 1965, Bob married Alice Faye Walker, and together they welcomed two sons, Darren and Russell, into the world. Theirs was a love story filled with joy and devotion until Faye's passing in February 1989.

In 1970, Bob relocated his family to Midwest City, Oklahoma, where he continued his career in education with steadfast determination. He pursued further academic achievements, earning a Master's degree in Educational Leadership, which equipped him for his role as Principal.

On June 2, 1990, Bob found love once more when he married Donna Rae, who became his steadfast companion and source of strength. Together, they embraced life's joys and challenges, building a legacy of love and resilience.

Bob's greatest pride and joy were his family. He is survived by his loving wife Donna, his son Rus, five grandchildren – Erin, Faith, Grace, Haiden, and Jaxson – and six great-grandchildren – Morgan, Andrew, Helena, Salem, Opal, and Ruby. He is also survived by his older brother, Roy O'Hern Jr.

Bob O'Hern will be remembered for his unwavering dedication to his country, his passion for education, and, above all, his profound love for his family and friends. He leaves behind a legacy of honor, integrity, and unconditional love that will continue to inspire all who had the privilege of knowing him. Rest in peace, dear Bob. Your memory will forever be cherished in our hearts.

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Charles "Frank" Severns - April 26, 1934 - April 17, 2024

Departed: 04/17/2024 (Midwest City)

Obituary Preview: Charles Franklin "Frank" Severns, Sr. passed away on April 17, 2024, in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma at the age of eighty-nine years.

Frank is survived by his daughter, Julie Henderson (David) of Paoli, OK, and grandchildren, Jeremiah Holland of St. Louis, MO, Tristan Chapell of Oklahoma City, Audrey Linker of Norman, Cole Severns of Midwest City, Ross Severns of Yukon, Casey Severns of Oklahoma City, and Tenley DeLong of Winter Park, FL, dear friend, Yone Murphy, and his beloved great grandchildren. He is preceded in death by his parents, Nye and Pearl Shaw Severns, sisters, Clare Martz, Nora Carson, and Ellen Grimes, wife, Cathy Severns, and son, Charles Franklin Severns, Jr.

Frank was born on April 26, 1934, in El Reno, OK. He graduated from El Reno High School in 1952. He married the mother of his children, Patsy Fuller Barrow, in 1954. He served as staff sergeant in the Air Force. After completing his tour of duty, he went to work at Southwestern Bell where he remained until he retired.

His family remembers him as a kind, supportive, and loving man, who marched to the beat of his own drum. He enjoyed wine-making, going to flea markets, and socializing at the Midwest City Senior Citizens Center.

The funeral is scheduled for 2:00 p.m. Sunday, April 21, at Barnes Friederich Funeral Home in Midwest City. All are welcome to attend and celebrate Frank’s life.

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Andrew "Andy" Lawrence Stephenson - June 08, 1936 - April 17, 2024

Departed: 04/17/2024 (Midwest City)

Obituary Preview: Andrew “Andy” Lawrence Stephenson, 87, of Midwest City, Oklahoma died April 17.

His journey to be with the Lord was peaceful after suffering the stages of Chronic Obstructive Pulmonary Disease (COPD) for many years.

Andy knew no stranger. The 5-foot-5 Cardin, Oklahoma native was a frank man. To a fault, he was himself, an authenticity many hope to have.

This characteristic only got Andy in trouble occasionally. To his benefit, he had a loving wife who kept him in line when his frankness went a little too far. Andy married Beatrice “Bea” Mildred Coddington of Binger, Oklahoma in 1961. When Bea would say “Andrew,” he would listen. She made him a better man.

Andy, a U.S. Air Force veteran, served his country from April 1956 to April 1960. The airman first-class was forever proud to be an American. In November 1958, Andy was honored with the Air Force’s Outstanding Service Unit Award.

After being discharged, Andy worked as a civilian on Tinker Air Force Base in the commissary. He would later work other civilian roles on base, completing a 34-year career.

Those who knew him, knew Andy could not sit still for long.

He traveled Oklahoma’s roads delivering propane for Lundy’s Propane Gas Co. for more than 10 years. He was a walking Oklahoma map. Andy loved driving and he loved the state of Oklahoma.

But not as much as he loved Hostess Snoballs. Andy loved all things sweet, but Snoballs were on another hierarchy of goodness.

In fact, to Andy, the only thing better than having a Snoball would be spending time with his family. Family was everything. And there was not one thing he wouldn’t do for them.

His favorite thing to tell them was “I love you” – something he hopes they will always remember.

Andy is survived by his wife, Bea, and their three children Dennis Stephenson; Kathy Humphrey; son-in-law Ralph Humphrey; Darren Stephenson and daughter-in-law Mandy Stephenson. He is also survived by his three grandchildren Tayler Humphrey, Haley Jourdan and husband Cameron Jourdan; and Kaeden Stephenson.

Andy is survived by four of his siblings and their spouses: Lillie Peach; Walter and wife, Dixie Stephenson; Jessie and husband Steve Poos; Eva Gardner; sister-in-law Cheryl Stephenson; and sister-in-law Thomye Stephenson.

Andy was preceded in death by his parents, Fred and Ethel Stephenson, six sisters: Norma Raylene Barrow; Rosa Lea Delmar; Beatrice Murphy; Alice Graham; Katherine DuBois and Richard “Richie” Timmer, and three brothers: Franklin Stephenson; Robert J. Stephenson; and Billy Stephenson.

Andy’s funeral will be at 2 p.m. April 22 at Barnes & Friederich Funeral Home, 1820 S Douglas Boulevard in Midwest City. Family and friends are invited to attend to share their respects and celebrate Andy’s life.

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Rev. Fred G. Jones - October 31, 1943 - April 15, 2024

Departed: 04/15/2024 (Midwest City)

Obituary Preview: Fredrick Glenn Jones, age 80, passed away on April 15, 2024.

Fred was born in Grand Rapids, Michigan, on October 31, 1943, to Glenn and Audrey Jones. Fred grew up in Wilcox, Nebraska, and Lincoln, Nebraska. Upon High School graduation, he attended Moody Bible Institute and Grace Bible College. While at Moody, he met his wife, Janelle, and they were married in 1966.

Fred and Janelle felt God’s call to the mission field as missionaries to Austria. During this time, they welcomed their first son, Eric. After German language school, they began their ministry in Telfs, Austria. While in Telfs, another son was born, Mark.

Nine years later, feeling God’s timing to leave the mission field, Fred and Janelle moved to Lincoln, Nebraska, where Fred worked at Back to the Bible Broadcast in the Missions and Marketing departments. In 2001, Fred moved to Atlanta, Georgia, to be close to Eric and his family, where he continued his ministry at First Baptist Atlanta as Pastor for Short Term Missions.

Upon retirement, Fred and Janelle moved to Midwest City, Oklahoma, where Mark and his family live, and enjoyed spending time with family and being involved in their church, Meadowood Baptist. Fred’s ministry continued as he taught Sunday school, until his final call home to be with Jesus.

He is predeceased by his older sister, Shirley, and younger sister, Marilyn. He is survived by his wife, Janelle, sons Eric and Mark, their wives Debra and Beth, and grandchildren Amanda, Regan, Peter, Krista, and Stacie.

Well done, thou good and faithful servant.

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Bobby Shane Brazee - February 23, 1983 - April 12, 2024

Departed: 04/12/2024 (Midwest City)

Obituary Preview: Bobby Shane Brazee passed away at OU Medical Center on April 12, 2024, at the age of 41.

Bobby was born on February 23, 1983, in Tulsa, Oklahoma to Delosse and Judith Brazee. He was raised in Ponca City and attended Ponca City High School. He went on to achieve his Associate’s degree at Northern Oklahoma College. Bobby also proudly served his nation in the United States Army. He enjoyed spending his free time with friends and family, passionately watching OU games, and going camping in the RV.

Bobby was preceded in death by his mother, Judith (Russell) Brazee. He is survived by his father, Delosse Brazee, Jr.; his sister, Andrea; his brothers, Danny and Buddy; and his life-long friends, Nicole, Luke Nesbit, and Brandon Roberts.

Visitation will be held for Bobby at Barnes Friederich Funeral Home on April 15th and 16th, 2024 from 8:00am to 8:00pm.

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Joil M. Goff, Jr. - March 09, 1929 - April 12, 2024

Departed: 04/12/2024 (Midwest City)

Obituary Preview: Joil Maze Goff Jr. was born in Sallisaw, Oklahoma on March 9, 1929 to Joil Maze Goff and Josephine Torbett Goff. He grew up in Sallisaw and graduated from Sallisaw High School in 1947. Joil met Patti Hugill in 1946 and they wed on February 20, 1949 in Sallisaw. Joil and Patti moved to Midwest City in 1953 and bought a house on Loftin Drive, where they spent the remainder of their marriage. They had two sons, Steven born in 1949 and J. Michael born in 1952. Joil worked at Tinker Air Force Base as an electrician for 34 years. During their 66 years of marriage, Joil and Patti were gracious in their giving to their family, community and anyone in need. Joil was an avid supporter of the Carl Albert Titans, for whom is son Michael coached many years. Joil and Patti were faithful members of the United Methodist Church for the entirety of their marriage. Joil loved to serve others, as is exemplified by his weekly delivery of Mobile Meals until age 94. Joil was a wonderful “Pappa” to his two grandchildren, Kyle and Emily, being present for every game and performance and happily spoiling them. Joil passed peacefully in his sleep on April 12, 2024, in Midwest City, Oklahoma. He is preceded in death by his wife Patti Goff of 66 years and his son Steven Goff, as well as his parents Joil and Josephine Goff and brother David Goff. Joil is survived by his son J. Michael Goff and daughter-in-law Denise Goff, grandson Kyle Goff, granddaughter Emily Emerson and grandson-in-law Sam Emerson, and great-granddaughters Molly, Caroline and Ella Emerson.

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Patricia Bowers - May 12, 1933 - April 11, 2024

Departed: 04/11/2024 (Midwest City)

Obituary Preview: Patricia Hopkins Bowers passed from this earth on April 11, 2024. She was born on May 12, 1933, in Roosevelt, OK, to Leo A. Hopkins and Mary A. Hopkins. She was the youngest of eleven children.

When her father died in 1945, her mother moved the family to Norman, OK. They started to attend the Central Church of Christ and she was baptized in 1946. She met James Bowers when she moved to Norman. His mother was their Bible Class teacher. She attended one year at Oklahoma University. In 1952, she married James at Central Church of Christ. They have three children Sarah Coley, Peter Bowers and Jane Alexander.

In 1955, the family left Norman and moved to St. Louis, MO. They lived there until 1960 when they moved to Kansas City, MO. In 1980 they moved back to St. Louis and lived there for sixteen months. They moved to Midwest City, OK in 1981 when James started to work at Tinker Air Force Base.

Patricia was a knitter, crocheter, and foremost a beautiful soprano. Pat was always singing. The children all learned to sing Oklahoma when crossing the Oklahoma border. She was a devoted Christian and was always involved in Church activities. After she quit teaching Bible Class, she did the kitchen tasks of VBS. When they first moved to Eastside the couple entertained college and military personnel.

Patricia is preceded in death by her husband of 71 years, James E. Bowers; parents, Leo and Mary Hopkins; four brothers, Varnell, Elwood, Daryl, and Hershel Hopkins: six sisters, Juanita Reneau, Wilma Woods, Pearl Mayfield, Blanche Vincent, Johnnie Keen and Betty Smith; twin grandsons and one son in law.

She is survived by three children: Sarah and husband Stephen Coley of Midwest City, OK, Peter and wife Tammy Bowers of Broken Arrow, OK, Jane and husband Jerry Alexander of Kansas City, MO; eight grandchildren; and her twenty great grandchildren.

Funeral services will be held on Monday, April 15, 2024 at 10 O’clock at the Eastside Church of Christ on 9164 Douglas Blvd. in Midwest City, OK.

Donations may be sent to Church of Christ Disaster Relief fund.

PO Box 111180, Nashville, TN 37222-1180.

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Geneva Butler - January 30, 1939 - April 11, 2024

Departed: 04/11/2024 (Midwest City)

Obituary Preview: Geneva Graham Butler (nickname Jenny) was born on January 30, 1939, to Paul Ollie Graham and Helen Virginia Graham in Iroquois, West Virginia. She went home to be with Jesus on April 11, 2024, at the age of 85.

Geneva is preceded in death by her parents, Paul and Helen Graham, sister Doris Slaughter, Daughter Shirley Sue Butler, Grandson Clifford Ray Butler II, Granddaughter Christie Danielle Harjo, and daughter-in-law Debbie Butler.

She is survived by her husband of 66 years, James Earl Butler, her son Clifford Ray Butler, Daughter Flora June Harjo, son-in-law Tommy Jonas Harjo, Daughter Nancy Ann McCampbell, 11 grandchildren, 23 great grandchildren, 8 great-great grandchildren with 2 on the way and her sister Vernia Mae Roseke.

Geneva is the middle child of two sisters; her father was a coal miner, so she grew up in the coal camps of West Virginia. At the age of 19, she met James Butler; it was love at first sight. Three days after meeting, James and Geneva married. She had her first child at 20 and was fortunate enough to stay home and raise her children most of their lives. She worked in the restaurant business as well as Janitorial with her husband, James. But she mostly loved caring for children so much, she opened a licensed, in-home daycare for several years.

She loved drawing and gardening. Of the hobbies she enjoyed, her most cherished hobby was collecting dolls for her and her family and friends to play with together. She cherished dolls so much, her husband decided to build a life-sized doll house with the help of family and friends out of an old shed. In her last months, Jenny bravely won her race with her husband, children and grandchildren by her side. Jenny cherished every moment she spent with her friends and family.

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Thomas Wilson - April 10, 1941 - April 11, 2024

Departed: 04/11/2024 (Midwest City)

Obituary Preview: Thomas William Wilson passed away Thursday, April 11th at the age of 83 after battling Parkinson’s disease. He was born April 10, 1941 to Beth and Alvis Wilson in Duncan, Oklahoma. He graduated Comanche High School in 1959. He received his doctor of pharmacy degree at the University of Oklahoma in Norman, Oklahoma. He opened Wilson Pharmacy in Midwest City, Oklahoma in 1965 which he ran until his retirement in 2012. He was an active member of First Christian Church of Midwest City and loved hunting, fishing, and telling a good joke.

He is preceded in death by his wife of 51 years, Barbara Sue (Jackson) Wilson, his parents Beth and Alvis Wilson, and his sister Susie Higginbotham.

He is survived by his children: daughter Samantha Wilson of Little Elm, Texas; son Taylor Wilson and spouse Carly Wilson of Midland, Texas; son Grant Wilson and spouse Barry Barbour of Palm Springs, California; son Mark Murphy and spouse Robin Murphy of Choctaw, Oklahoma; grandson T.J. Wilson, granddaughter Ava Wilson, both of Midland, Texas; granddaughter, Morgan Baker and spouse Foster Baker of Edmond, Oklahoma; grandson, Brennan Murphy and spouse Marissa Murphy of Choctaw, Oklahoma; great-grandson Bo Baker of Edmond, Oklahoma; great-grandson Brody Murphy of Choctaw, Oklahoma; brother Tim Wilson of Comanche, Oklahoma; sister-in-law Jennifer Paladino and brother-in-law Skipper Paladino of Austin, Texas; and numerous nephews, nieces, great nephews, great nieces, great-great nephews, great-great nieces and many friends.

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Ernest "Ernie" Wilce Palmer - February 13, 1946 - April 09, 2024

Departed: 04/09/2024 (Midwest City)

Obituary Preview: Ernest (Ernie) Wilce Palmer passed away April 8, 2024 at the Norman VA Center in Norman, Oklahoma.  He was born on February 13,1946 in Modesto, California to Wilce and Clifi Palmer.

Ernie graduated High School in Santa Ana, California. He entered the Army in 1965 serving his country.

Ernie and Carol were married on June 19, 1969. They started Square Dancing in 1988, and danced for over 30 years. They also, held many offices together at District and State levels and were President of the Central District in 2010.

He was a hard working father and loved all of his family and friends.

Ernie was preceded in death by his father and mother, Wilce and Clifi, son Charles Bryan Palmer, brother Robert, sister Lanorah, brother in law Sonny, father in law Charles Clark and wife Beulah, plus many other family and loved ones.

He is survived by his Wife Carol, Sons Ernest and Mark and multiple friends and family.

He is now dancing in Heaven.

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Harriett J. Allen - June 05, 1931 - April 07, 2024

Departed: 04/07/2024 (Midwest City)

Obituary Preview: Harriett J. Allen passed away peacefully on April 7, 2024, at the age of 92.

A memorial service will be held at 10:00 a.m. on April 19, 2024, at the Mausoleum Chapel at Arlington Memory Gardens, 4300 N. Midwest Blvd, Oklahoma City, Oklahoma.

Harriett was born on June 5, 1931, in Choctaw, Oklahoma to Alvah and June (Hughes) Sinclair, the youngest of 5 children.

Harriett was a proud member of the Mid-Del Singers and loved to sing old gospel hymns like The Old Rugged Cross, Amazing Grace, and many more while she played the guitar or the piano. She also loved to sing children’s songs like The Little Red Schoolhouse and The Chocolate Ice Cream Cone. Harriett was a gifted artist and enjoyed drawing, painting, and calligraphy. She was an excellent writer who often wrote articles for the local newspaper.

Harriett was a competitor and a social butterfly. She loved playing dominos and spending time with the bridge club at the Midwest City Senior Center. Harriett was a trailblazer and played basketball at Midwest City High School. With a passion for girls' sports, Harriett assisted in getting several programs started in the Mid-Del area in the 1970’s. Harriett was full of spunk and continued to stay active playing with her great-grandchildren even as she entered her 90’s.

Harriett was preceded in death by her daughter, Vicki Tubby Thompson, her parents, and her four older siblings.

Harriett is survived by her son, Fred Mark Allen and wife Concha of DeWitt, Michigan; daughter, Christi Murphy and husband Bob of Oklahoma City, Oklahoma; grandchildren, Jillian and Parker Allen, Courtney White, Staci Ramsey, Deanna Tubby, and Steven Thompson; several great-grandchildren, great-great- grandchildren, along with many nieces and nephews.

The family is grateful to South Park East for the care they gave her over the last four years, especially Chernella Wright, for loving their mother the way she did. They also appreciate Legacy Hospice for the care they gave during her the last few months of her life. Memorial donations may be made to The LifeShare Foundation at lifeshareokfoundation.org

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Helen L Mills - February 24, 1933 - April 06, 2024

Departed: 04/06/2024 (Midwest City)

Obituary Preview: Helen L. Wolf Mills was a loving, affectionate, thoughtful woman throughout her entire life. Her caring personality brought warmth and joy to everyone she encountered. She was always ready to offer a helping hand and words of comfort to whomever she felt needed it. She loved to talk and made conversation with everyone she came in contact with. She was ready for Heaven, and let her family know that every day, but her passing has touched the family deeply and she will be forever loved and deeply missed.

Helen was born on February 24, 1933, in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, to parents Horace Melvin Garrison and Edna Russell Garrison. As a child, she attended Van Buren Elementary and then Capitol Hill High School in Oklahoma City. She fell in love with Bonnell Clifton Wolf, and they began to grow their beautiful family. But times were hard, and it became clear to Helen that more money was needed for the family to survive and began to devise a plan to create income. But understanding that she needed even more help raising her Children and being the mother she wanted to be, she sought that help from a higher power, God. It was at that time she became a dedicated Christian, studying the Bible, worshipping, and witnessing about her love for the Lord. Helen was very devoted to her faith and took her 5 Children in tow to Church as much as possible, even taking her sister’s daughters with her many times as she could manage. Helen, being a strong, take-charge person, decided to become a nurse to generate income her large family needed, even though the time required to study and obtain her license would sacrifice precious time away from her children. She graduated from Mercy Hospital’s School of Nursing in 1962 and began a 40+ year career with many of those years spent as a nurse specialist in the Intensive Care Unit. After Bonnell was tragically killed in an auto accident, the family of 7 now became 6. But Helen, even though working as a nurse full time, managed to not only be the breadwinner, she was somehow able to maintain all the obligations and duties of a loving Mother, raising her 5 children successfully. In 1976, Helen met and married Homer Mills, and lived happily for many years. Helen moved to Florida after Homers Death to live with her daughter and son-in-law, Charlotte and Mike. Her intention was to live there until her death, however illness took over, and as she required more help, she moved back to Oklahoma and Harrah Nursing Center, where she passed away on Saturday, April 6, 2024.

Helen’s favorite past-times were to study the King James, quote scriptures, crocheting, work crossword puzzles, and drink diet-coke. Helen is survived by 5 children and spouses, Loretta Louise Batten, William Simon Wolf and wife Deborah, Michael Wolf and wife Brenda, Charlotte Ann Haddox and husband Michael, and Guymond Wolf. She is survived by 5 grandchildren and 10 great-grandchildren. She is also survived by two nieces and their husbands, Glenda Jean Mansell, husband Leon, and Virginia Wright, and husband Cecil. Also leaving loving memories behind for many other relatives who are important to her but are too many to name.

Helen did not want sadness at her passing, and in her own handwriting, let us be assured she is in Heaven with her Heavenly Father and all those loved ones who have passed before her.

Viewing is scheduled for Wednesday 12:00 noon to 8:00 pm. Services will be April 11, 2024, at 2:00 pm at Barnes Friederich Funeral Home, Midwest City, Oklahoma. Interment at Sunnylane Cemetery, Del City, Oklahoma.

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Imogene Florence Ann Terrell - October 22, 1926 - April 05, 2024

Departed: 04/05/2024 (Midwest City)

Obituary Preview: Imogene Florence Ann Terrell, 97, went to her heavenly home on Friday, April 5, 2024 in Midwest City, Oklahoma.

Imogene was born on October 22, 1926 in Bethany, Oklahoma to Murray Lee Terrill and Ethel Mae (Vawter) Terrill.

Imogene worked at various jobs throughout her career and in later years was a homemaker. She had several dogs and other critters in her lifetime that she loved so much.

Imogene was a loving, kind, and caring mother. She cherished having her family by her side, especially during the holidays and other special occasions. She was a wonderful cook and was famous for her Lemon Meringue Pie and Iced Tea.

Imogene leaves behind 5 children; Sons Robert White and Herb White, daughters Vonda Lusk Dye, Nancy Baker and Sandy Vigil; along with many grandchildren, great grandchildren, nieces, and nephews.

She was preceded in death by her parents, Murray and Ethel, her husband Ben Terrell, 2 sisters, Altha Lee Murray and Vivian Seaman, and grandson Joshua White.

Imogene will be missed so much.

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Mervin Dwight Clements Jr. - January 12, 1938 - April 04, 2024

Departed: 04/04/2024 (Midwest City)

Obituary Preview: Mervin (Merv) Dwight Clements, Jr. 86, Passed away April 4, 2024, peacefully at home. Merv is survived by his wife Mary Ellen Clements, his Aunt Janice Dodd, his sister Barbara Jean (Bobbie) Bond. Merv was born January 12, 1938, in Clarksdale, MS. Merv attended the University of Oklahoma and earned a Masters in Industrial Engineering and a BS in Industrial Management Engineering and was a HUGE OU Sooners Fan.

Merv was a Major in the United States Airforce and retired after 30 years of service and is a Vietnam Veteran. He retired from Civil Service working as an Meteorologist at Tinker Airforce Base, Midwest City, OK.

As a young man, Merv worked as a paperboy, was a Cub Scout, Boy Scout, a member of the Jr. Chamber of Commerce, a member of his high school football team, and was a softball team manager. Merv was a fraternity officer while attending OU and was a ROTC member. He also was a YMCA board member and President of his Lions Club. Merv was an Usher and Department Director at First Southern Baptist Church where he has been a long-time member. Merv was a devoted and loving husband, a Soldier Proud to Serve His Country, a son, a brother, an uncle and friend.

Services will be held Friday, April 12, 2024, at 1pm at; Barnes Friedrich Funeral Home, 1820 South Douglas Blvd. Midwest City, OK 73130 with burial to follow at Kolb Cemetery with Full Military Honors.

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Travis Allen Ahboah, Sr. - December 20, 1973 - April 01, 2024

Departed: 04/01/2024 (Midwest City)

Obituary Preview: Travis Allen Ahboah, Sr., was born on December 20, 1973, in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma to Theresa Ann Ahboah.

Travis was a family man and to Travis, all his friends were family. When Travis set his mind to something, that’s what he did. Travis loved his family, his animals, fishing, hosting cook outs and even thought he was a comedian. As a kid, Travis loved wrestling and he made a career out of it, and he became the Oklahoma Hardcore Legend, Kareem Sadat. Travis was a proud member of the Kiowa Tribe.

Travis is preceded in death by his mother, Theresa; sister, Anna; brother, Charles; nephew, Darryl; and son, Warrior.

He is survived by his children, Mandi and husband, Jose, Christina, Kasandra, Travis, Jr., Shyan and husband, Levi, Elijah, Taitum, Kiowa and Tayen; his grandchildren, Kerina, McKayla, Cameron, Isabella, Selena, Nevaeh, Maria, Jose, Victoria, Carl, Oaklee and Aubrey; his great grandchildren, Lian and Azarias; his sister, Kimberly; and the mothers of his children, Tammy, Tori, Megan and Corttni.

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Eleanor "Joan" Henry - January 01, 1941 - April 01, 2024

Departed: 04/01/2024 (Midwest City)

Obituary Preview: On Monday, April 1, 2024, Eleanor “Joan” Henry, loving mother, grandmother, and great grandmother, went to be with her Lord and Savior. She was 83 years old.

Joan was born on January 1, 1941, in Konawa, Oklahoma, to James and Clemmie (Griffis) Tatum. She attended Konawa High School.

Joan had a long and successful career as a Civil Servant, working at Tinker Air Force Base. She worked in the field of IT, with programming during its infancy. She met and married the love of her life, John Henry, in 1983. They spent many years together gardening, baking, enjoying grandkids, and traveling. She was an amazing gardener; she always had the most beautiful gardens!

Joan is survived by her son, Bret White; granddaughters, Breanna White and Makenzie White; great grandchildren, Zane, Cash, Owen, Heather, and Adam; daughter-in-law, Angie Wiggy (Scott); sister, Arlene Benedict (Henry); brothers, Keith Tatum (Barbara), Michael Tatum (Elaine); and many nieces and nephews.

She was preceded in death by her husband, John Henry; her parents, James and Clemmie Tatum; daughter-in-law, Karen White; brothers, Sherman, Stanley, and William Tatum; sisters, Lucille Deaner, Selma Califana, Celeste Bogert, Vera Sillings, Anna Lee Singleton and Shirley Avery.

A celebration of life will be scheduled at a later date.

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David Roy Grizzle, Sr. - May 09, 1955 - March 31, 2024

Departed: 03/31/2024 (Midwest City)

Obituary Preview: David Roy Grizzle was a 68 year old Navy Veteran and he lived in Midwest City, Oklahoma. He leaves behind his son, David Roy Low Grizzle, his daughter-in-law, Christina Grizzle, and his two grandsons, Sean, and Grayson Grizzle. He mostly kept to himself, but he strongly loved his family and strongly loved his pets. He spent his life with many different job titles and many different addresses, but his heart was always truly focused on one thing, his son. Funeral services will be held on Saturday, April 6th, at 2:00PM, at St. Luke's Methodist Church. 222 NW 15th Street, OKC 73103

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Dennis Newton Birlew - June 30, 1940 - March 29, 2024

Departed: 03/29/2024 (Midwest City)

Obituary Preview: Dennis Newton Birlew, 83, peacefully passed away on March 29, 2024, surrounded by his loving family. He was born on June 30, 1940 to Hazel Estelle (Newton) Birlew in Pennsylvania.

Visitation will be held at Barnes Friederich Funeral Home in Midwest City, Oklahoma on Thursday, April 4 and Friday, April 5 from 8am to 8pm. A Funeral Service will be held at Barnes Friederich Funeral Home on Saturday, April 6 at 2pm.

A full obituary will be available at a later time.

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Betty Jean Shelby - September 16, 1934 - March 28, 2024

Departed: 03/28/2024 (Midwest City)

Obituary Preview: Betty Jean Shelby was born in Allen, Oklahoma on September 16th, 1934 to Ted and Ruth Prince. The Lord took her peacefully home on March 28, 2024.

She was an active church member most of her life marrying her high school sweetheart at First Baptist Nicoma Park in 1953 and serving there for 35 years before becoming a member of First Baptist Church of Choctaw. She was preceded in death by her husband of 66 years Ted Shelby, brother Ted Prince and sister-in-law Vonnie Prince. Betty is survived by son Lance Gordon “Chip” Shelby, daughter Paige and husband Brian Boone, grandchildren Nathan and Natalie Boone, and nephews Ted, Brian, and Mike Prince and their families.

A service will be held to honor Betty’s life on April 3, 2024 at Barnes Friederich Funeral Home in Midwest City, Oklahoma with private burial at Elmwood Cemetery. A dedicated and loving wife, mother, grandmother, and friend, she will be dearly missed.

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Michael Stephen Adair - October 13, 1979 - March 24, 2024

Departed: 03/24/2024 (Midwest City)

Obituary Preview: Michael Stephen Adair, Jr. 44, was born in Pontiac, MI on October 13, 1979 and passed away in Oklahoma City on March 24, 2024 surrounded by family and friends.

He was preceded in death by his mother, Linda Veronica (Jensen) Adair; brother, Matthew Stephen Adair; grandparents Dorothy Jane (Daniels) Adair, Charles Joseph Adair, Sr, Norma Irene (Frecker) Jensen and Charles James Jensen; uncles, Charles Joseph Adair, Jr. and Billy Turnbull; Aunt Suzanne Marie Price; cousins, Alicia Turnbull, James Price, Alan Price, and Anthony Price.

He is survived by his father, Michael Stephen Adair, Sr.; sister, Mary Adair(Kenny Kline); nieces, Abigail and Caitlyn Kline; loving and loyal girlfriend, Cassie Dodd; and children, Carson James Adair and Lilly Diane Adair; plus many cousins, aunts, uncles, and loyal friends and neighbors.

Loving father, son, friend, neighbor, HOA member, boyfriend, and defender of our country for 25 years, Michael was loved by many. Often calling someone up just to say "Tell me something positive that has happened to you, today?" Wanting to spread happiness, love, and laughter everywhere he went. Often trying to feed everyone, as he was a "foodie" and wanted others to enjoy food as he did. Not afraid of spicy food, or the toll it took on the body.

There will be an informal gathering at the neighborhood park where he lives for neighbors and coworkers on Saturday 4.6.24 at 2pm.

There will be a formal funeral service held for friends, family, and military brothers in Michigan.

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William "Ronnie" Ronald Dawkins - March 13, 1939 - March 23, 2024

Departed: 03/23/2024 (Midwest City)

Obituary Preview: William Ronald Dawkins, also known as Ronnie or Bill, was born on March 13, 1939. He was 85 years old when he was taken to the Lord on March 23, 2024.

He was married to Ruby Williams on August 17, 1962. They were married for 59 years.

Ronnie was a father, a grandfather and an uncle. He was loved by everyone. He had a fun filled life going camping, playing the guitar, and playing dominos with family. Ronnie worked in sheet metal, tinkered on cars, and told stories to his grandkids.

He was in many clubs and organizations in his life but the most impactful was being with the Mason’s and the Oddfellows.

Ronnie was preceded in death by his mother, Vera (also known as Zenie) O’Conner and two fathers, John Wesley Dawkins, and Grady O’Conner; his wife Ruby; brother, Homer; and sisters, Jane, Mary Joe, and Sharon.

Ronnie’s legacy is survived by his daughters, Susan and Vera, along with many nieces, nephews, grand grandchildren and great grandchildren.

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Services We Provide

Understanding that the needs and preferences of families are varied, Barnes Friederich Funeral Home offers a comprehensive range of services. This includes traditional funerals, memorial services, cremations, and life celebrations. Their team works closely with you to ensure each aspect of the service, from the visitation to the final disposition, aligns with both your wishes and cultural practices.

Personalized Planning and Support

The support provided by the staff at Barnes Friederich Funeral Home extends beyond mere logistical arrangements. They offer personalized planning, assisting families in decision-making regarding caskets, urns, monuments, and floral arrangements. Moreover, they take pride in offering grief support resources, ensuring that families receive comfort and guidance even after the services are concluded.

Facilities Designed for Comfort

The funeral home's facilities are thoughtfully designed to create a welcoming atmosphere that accommodates a variety of service types and guest needs. The viewing rooms, chapel, and reception areas are maintained with the utmost care to ensure a comfortable environment for families and their guests to gather and remember their loved ones.

Advanced Planning Services

For those looking ahead, Barnes Friederich Funeral Home offers advanced planning services. Pre-arranging your own funeral is a considerate way to relieve your family of the burden of making decisions during a period of grief. It provides peace of mind knowing that your final wishes will be carried out just as you intended. Their advisors are equipped to guide you through this planning process with kindness and professionalism.

Community Involvement and Outreach

The commitment of Barnes Friederich Funeral Home extends beyond their doors. They are an active part of the Midwest City community, involving themselves in local events and partnering with charitable organizations. They believe that fostering strong community ties strengthens the support network essential for those coping with loss.

Online Tributes and Memorials

In the modern age, staying connected is more vital than ever, and Barnes Friederich Funeral Home embraces this by offering online tributes and memorials. Through their website, families can share obituaries, photographs, and videos, as well as receive messages of condolence from friends and relatives who may not be able to attend the services in person.

Contact Information and Accessibility

In recognition that questions and needs can arise at any hour, Barnes Friederich Funeral Home ensures accessibility to their compassionate staff. They can be reached at any time, day or night, to provide support, answer questions, or begin making arrangements. Their location in Midwest City is easily accessible with ample parking, ADA compliant facilities, and they always ensure that visits are as stress-free as possible for all guests.

A Final Resting Place

Barnes Friederich Funeral Home takes great honor in being entrusted with the care of your loved ones. They understand the weight of the responsibility and approach every aspect of their work with the highest level of care and consideration. If you are in the Midwest City area and in need of funeral services, consider Barnes Friederich Funeral Home—a place where honor, respect, and the celebration of life stand at the forefront of everything they do.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a notice, typically published in a newspaper or online, that announces a person's death and offers a brief account of their life, achievements, and information regarding the pending funeral or memorial services.

How does an obituary differ from a death notice?

An obituary usually contains a detailed biography and is written by a journalist or family member, while a death notice is a brief announcement of the death, often placed in newspapers by the family and is more straightforward and factual.

What are the key elements to include in an obituary?

An obituary should include the full name of the deceased, age, date of birth and death, a brief overview of their personal life, career, and accomplishments, survivors and predeceased family members' names, and service details such as the time and location of the funeral.

Is it necessary to state the cause of death in an obituary?

It is not mandatory to state the cause of death. The decision to include this information is a personal one and may be influenced by the family’s wishes, cultural norms, or the individual's prominence.

Who typically writes an obituary?

Obituaries can be written by family members, friends, funeral home staff, or journalists. It often depends on the medium through which the obituary will be published and the family's preferences.

Are obituaries free to publish?

Obituaries often incur a cost, especially when published in traditional newspapers, and the price can vary depending on length and the specific publication. Online memorials and certain community papers may offer free or more affordable options.

Can you include photographs with an obituary?

Yes, photographs are commonly included with obituaries, and they can help readers to connect more personally with the deceased. Newspapers and online platforms may have specific guidelines for photos.

What tone is appropriate for an obituary?

The tone of an obituary should be professional and empathetic. It’s meant to honor the deceased while providing essential details to the public in a respectful manner.

How long after a death is an obituary published?

An obituary is usually published within a few days after death to inform the community of the passing and the details of any services. Timeliness is important, especially for informing those who may wish to attend memorial services.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or website?

To submit an obituary, contact the newspaper or website to find out their process, which can usually be done by phone, email, or through their online submission form. Be prepared to provide the text of the obituary and any photographs, as well as payment if required.

Can an obituary be edited after publication?

Once published, editing an obituary can be difficult, especially in print. Some online platforms may allow for edits. It is best to ensure the obituary is accurate before submission to avoid the need for corrections.

Is it appropriate to mention a charity for donations in lieu of flowers?

Yes, it is common to suggest a charity for donations in the obituary. This can be a meaningful way to honor the deceased’s memory and support causes they cared about.

Can a family choose not to publish an obituary?

Yes, publishing an obituary is a personal choice and not a legal requirement. Some families may prefer to keep the matter private or share the news through other means.

How can you ensure an obituary honors a person's memory effectively?

To honor a person's memory effectively in an obituary, focus on accurately and thoughtfully recounting their life's significant aspects, personality, and the impact they had on others, using anecdotes and heartfelt sentiment where appropriate.

What if the deceased had a complicated or difficult life, how should it be addressed in the obituary?

If the deceased had a complex life, it is up to the family to decide what to include. Emphasizing positive aspects, such as overcoming challenges or personal growth, can be a respectful approach. It’s important to maintain a tone of dignity and respect.

How do online obituaries differ from print?

Online obituaries can be longer, may include more photos or videos, and are easily shared on social media. They also have the potential to reach a wider audience and can be a place for friends and family to share memories through interactive features like comment sections.

What cultural considerations should be taken into account when writing an obituary?

Cultural considerations may influence how an obituary is written, including the detail around family relations, achievements, and service information. Respecting religious or cultural customs and using appropriate language for the audience is essential.

How can someone without writing experience craft a good obituary?

Someone without writing experience can craft a good obituary by using templates or guides, focusing on clarity and simplicity, and potentially seeking the help of friends, family, or professionals for editing and feedback.

What should I do if I find a mistake in an obituary after publication?

If a mistake is found post-publication, contact the newspaper or website immediately to inquire about their correction policy. Corrections are more feasible with online publications.

Can obituaries be pre-written?

Yes, many people choose to pre-write their obituaries, or have them pre-written by a family member, to ensure their life is captured according to their wishes, and to alleviate the burden on loved ones during a difficult time.

Is there a standard length for an obituary?

There is no standard length for an obituary; it should be long enough to appropriately honor the individual and include necessary information but concise enough to be accessible to readers and fit publication constraints.

How do privacy concerns affect the writing and publication of an obituary?

Privacy concerns can impact the information shared in an obituary. Sensitivity should be used when discussing details of the deceased's life, and it is important to consider the feelings and privacy of surviving family members.