Table of Contents
- Welcome to Applegate-Day & Enea Family Funeral Home
- Our Facility at 4309 Acme Rd.
- Personalized Services Tailored to Your Needs
- Experienced and Compassionate Staff
- Pre-Planning Services
- Aftercare and Grief Support
- Community Involvement and Support
- Contacting Applegate-Day & Enea Family Funeral Home
- Frequently Asked Questions
Welcome to Applegate-Day & Enea Family Funeral Home
At Applegate-Day & Enea Family Funeral Home in Ilion, New York, we understand that the loss of a loved one is a profound and difficult time for families and friends. Our compassionate staff is dedicated to helping you through this trying period by providing personalized services that both honor your loved one and start the healing process. We are a full-service funeral home, deeply rooted in our community, and committed to providing a supportive environment from pre-planning to the service and beyond.
Our Facility at 4309 Acme Rd.
Our funeral home, located in the serene surroundings of Ilion, NY, offers an atmosphere of solace and tranquility. The facilities at 4309 Acme Rd., with tastefully decorated interiors and ample parking, provide a comforting environment for families and guests. Our visitation rooms and chapels are designed to accommodate services of all sizes, ensuring a dignified and respectful setting for honoring and celebrating the life of your loved one.
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Funeral Obiturary Search
Recent Funeral Home Obituaries
Edward J. Hassett - April 26, 1934 - June 02, 2023
Christina "Chris" DiNardo Jackson - July 12, 1933 - May 18, 2023
Jennie L. Comes - January 13, 1928 - May 12, 2023
Ronald "Ron" W. Schorer - April 02, 1931 - May 10, 2023
Lawrence W. Brunette, Sr. - October 16, 1941 - May 08, 2023
Mary Jane Smithson - May 01, 1941 - April 17, 2023
Fern L. Helmer - December 21, 1935 - April 12, 2023
Winifred H. Kane - December 26, 1928 - April 08, 2023
Rosemarie (Thibault) Squire - November 17, 1933 - March 24, 2023
Paul A. Kidder - November 18, 1946 - March 24, 2023
Betty J. Miller - August 21, 1924 - March 17, 2023
Virginia Vandawalker - January 15, 1939 - March 03, 2023
Daisy M. Hoover - March 06, 1925 - February 05, 2023
Joan JoAnn C. (McKenna) Joy - February 14, 1934 - February 02, 2023
Judith J. Butler - August 16, 1939 - January 26, 2023
Lillian J. Rose - March 26, 1936 - January 09, 2023
Jane Urtz - March 25, 1934 - January 05, 2023
Glenis Heiland - April 12, 1939 - January 03, 2023
John M. Jennett - April 23, 1965 - January 01, 2023
John Kolkowski - November 28, 1950 - December 30, 2022
John Patrick Stubley, Sr. - November 09, 1962 - December 26, 2022
Carol Price - June 06, 1944 - December 20, 2022
Verna M. Gydesen - September 19, 1933 - May 28, 2022
Jimmy A. Young - May 21, 1943 - January 24, 2022
Catherine L. Latt - December 22, 1935 - January 14, 2022
Personalized Services Tailored to Your Needs
We believe that every life is unique, and a funeral service should reflect that uniqueness. At Applegate-Day & Enea Family Funeral Home, we work closely with you to create personalized services that truly capture the essence of your loved one’s life. From traditional burial services and cremation options to unique memorial ceremonies, our caring staff will guide you through the process of choosing the most fitting tribute.
Experienced and Compassionate Staff
Our experienced professionals are here to provide comfort and guidance during some of the most difficult times of your life. The directors and staff at Applegate-Day & Enea Family Funeral Home are not only qualified in funeral arrangement and care but also bring a level of empathy unparalleled in our field. We are committed to serving you with utmost respect, and we strive to accommodate any specific requests that may help in creating a memorable service.
Pre-Planning Services
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Understanding your needs goes beyond the immediate arrangements following a loss. We offer pre-planning services to relieve your family of the burden of making decisions during a period of grief. By pre-planning your funeral or that of a loved one, you ensure that wishes are honored, and the service is paid for in advance, providing peace of mind for everyone involved. Our pre-planning advisors can guide you through every step, ensuring all your preferences are recorded.
Aftercare and Grief Support
The journey through grief does not end with the funeral service. Applegate-Day & Enea Family Funeral Home extends our commitment to you well past the day of the funeral. We provide aftercare and grief support resources to assist you in coping with your loss. Through counseling services, support groups, and educational materials, we aim to offer comfort and healing during your grieving process.
Community Involvement and Support
Our funeral home is deeply embedded within the Ilion community, understanding the local traditions and values that are important to our clients. We take pride in our involvement and support of various community endeavors and local charities. We believe in giving back to the community that has trusted us for years and forging lasting relationships with the families we serve.
Contacting Applegate-Day & Enea Family Funeral Home
Should you require our services or have any questions regarding funeral arrangements, pre-planning, or memorial options, the staff at Applegate-Day & Enea Family Funeral Home is available to assist you 24/7. You can contact us by phone, email, or visit our facility at 4309 Acme Rd., Ilion, NY, 13357. Trust us to be there for you and your family when you need us the most, ensuring every aspect of your service is managed with dignity and respect.
In every service we provide, at Applegate-Day & Enea Family Funeral Home, we aim to celebrate life, honor memories, and begin the journey to healing. We are here to serve you and turn a challenging time into a memorable tribute to your loved one. Count on us to be your compassionate companion through every step of this pivotal life event.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is an obituary?
An obituary is a written notice of a person's death, typically published in newspapers and online platforms. It serves as a formal announcement and often includes a brief account of the deceased’s life, family, and information about the funeral or memorial services.
Where are obituaries usually published?
Obituaries are traditionally published in local or national newspapers. Nowadays, they can also be found on various online memorial sites, social media, and the websites of funeral homes.
Who can write an obituary?
An obituary can be written by a family member, friend, associate, or sometimes a professional writer or journalist, particularly for prominent individuals.
Is there a standard structure for an obituary?
While there's no one-size-fits-all structure, most obituaries follow a general format that includes the announcement of death, a brief biography, loved ones' names, funeral or memorial service details, and optionally, a special message or anecdote.
What information is traditionally included in an obituary?
Traditional obituaries usually include the full name of the deceased, age, date and place of death, causes of death if desired, a brief summary of the person's life, information about surviving family members, and details concerning the funeral or memorial service.
Can I add a photo to an obituary?
Yes, many obituaries include a photograph of the deceased. This helps readers to identify who the obituary is about and adds a personal touch to the announcement.
Is it necessary to mention the cause of death in an obituary?
No, mentioning the cause of death is optional and based on the preferences of the deceased's family. In some cases, families may choose to keep this information private.
How soon after death should an obituary be published?
An obituary is typically published within a few days after death to inform friends and extended family in time for them to make arrangements to attend the funeral or memorial service. However, the timing can vary depending on the circumstances and the publication schedules of newspapers.
How long should an obituary be?
There is no strict length requirement for an obituary; it can be as brief or as detailed as the family or writer wishes. Some newspapers may have word limit policies, so it's important to inquire about specific guidelines if one is being published in print.
What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?
A death notice is a simple, to-the-point notice that informs the public of someone's passing with minimal detail, while an obituary is typically a more detailed account of the person's life and legacy.
Can I include charitable donation information in an obituary?
Yes, it is common to include a request for charitable donations in lieu of flowers. This enables people to honor the deceased by contributing to a cause that was important to them.
What should I do if I spot an error in an obituary?
If you discover an error in an obituary, contact the newspaper or website where it is published as soon as possible to request a correction. Most publications will be understanding and expedite the correction.
Is there a respectful way to mention a deceased family member predeceased by?
Yes, it is respectful and common to mention predeceased family members. This is often done in a sentence like "She is preceded in death by her beloved husband, John."
Are there any cultural considerations to keep in mind when writing an obituary?
Yes, cultural and religious practices often influence how an obituary is written. It’s important to carefully consider and respect these customs, and consult with family or community leaders if necessary.
What tone is appropriate for an obituary?
The tone of an obituary should be respectful and reflect the spirit of the deceased. This can range from solemn and formal to warm and celebratory, depending on the life and personality of the person being honored.
Can an obituary include details about the person's academic and professional life?
Yes, an obituary often includes significant academic and professional achievements, as a way to honor the deceased's accomplishments and share aspects of their life that were important to them.
How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or website?
To submit an obituary, contact the publication or website for their submission guidelines and pricing information. They will usually require the obituary text, any photos you wish to include, and verification of death.
Is it possible to write one's own obituary?
Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary as part of their end-of-life planning. This can ensure that their life is commemorated in a way that reflects their wishes and provides a personal touch.
How can I ensure an obituary honors the person’s life effectively?
To honor a person's life effectively, focus on the elements that truly highlight who they were as an individual, including their passions, achievements, the impact they had on others, and fond memories shared with loved ones.
Is it acceptable to include humor in an obituary?
Humor can be included in an obituary if it fits the personality of the deceased and is done respectfully. It is a way to celebrate their unique character and can provide a sense of comfort to those grieving.
What if I can't afford to publish an obituary in a newspaper?
If cost is an issue, consider publishing an obituary on social media, a personal website, or a free online memorial site. Many funeral homes also include obituaries on their websites at no extra charge.
Can an obituary be updated or changed after it’s been published?
Once an obituary is printed in a newspaper, it cannot be changed. However, online obituaries can often be edited or updated as needed. Check with the hosting site for their specific policy on obituary updates.