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Ames Monuments & Cremation Center, located in the heart of Ames, Iowa at 717 E. Lincoln Way, 50010, has been serving the community with dedication and compassion. Understanding that the loss of a loved one is an emotionally taxing experience, this center has committed itself to providing services that honor and celebrate the lives of those passed while offering comfort to the families in mourning.

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Diana Stensland - August 27, 1954 - April 09, 2024

Departed: 04/09/2024 (Ames)

Obituary Preview: Diana Stensland, age 69, of Nevada, Iowa, passed away on April 9, 2024, at Mary Greeley Medical Center in Ames.

Family and extended family are invited to attend a private graveside service at 10:30 A.M. on Saturday, April 20, 2024, in the Nevada Municipal Cemetery. The family greatly appreciates your love and respect for Diana in condolences which may be expressed online at amescremation.com.

Born August 27, 1954, in Ames, Iowa, Diana Lynne (Desher) Stensland was the daughter of Donald E. and Shirley M. (Myers) Desher. She grew up in Boone and Nevada, graduating from Nevada High School in 1973. Diana then attended Bernels College of Cosmetology in Ames and graduated in 1974.

On May 24, 1974, she married John George in Nevada. They were blessed with a son, Shane, and twin daughters; Tosha and Tonya. The couple later divorced. Diana married Tom Stensland on July 3, 2010, at the family farm in Cambridge.

Over the years, Diana provided for her family with employment at The Rose in Ames, Kreg Tool Company and Tone’s Spices. Gardening, sewing, crocheting, cooking and baking were favorite activities, but Diana’s family was always her main source of joy and love.

Survivors include three children, Shane (Sarah) George of New Braunfels, TX, Tosha George of Nevada and Tonya (Brad) Becker of Huxley; nine grandchildren, Kenyon, Memphis, Ellesia “Ellie”, Audianna, and Shalee George, Jeremia Jarnagin, and Parker, Dillion, and Kale Becker; brother Douglas Hiatt of Des Moines; sister, Lori Pfantz of Nevada; a sister-in-law, Bobbie Desher of Nevada; and several beloved nieces, nephews and other extended family members.

She was preceded in death by her husband Tom in 2013; her parents Larry and Shirley Hiatt; her biological father, Donald Desher, Sr.; a brother Donald Desher, Jr.; and nephew, Raymond Desher.

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Ramona Stewart - November 10, 1931 - April 09, 2024

Departed: 04/09/2024 (Ames)

Obituary Preview: Ramona June (Dodson) Stewart was born in 1931 in Lowry City, MO to William and Esther (Foster) Dodson. She moved to IA when she was 3.

She married William L. Stewart Nov. 29, 1953 at the Little Brown Church in Nashua, IA. After his discharge from the service they moved to Ames, IA in Aug. 1954. She worked various jobs until she retired in May 1978.

As a hobby, she taught herself the art of calligraphy and created many special cards for family and friends. She also enjoyed crocheting, knitting sweaters, scarves, and afghans. She had a love of cats, caring for seven over a long period. She loved her cats so much that, at the age of 84, she got tattoos of four of her favorites. Her daughters never knew they had such a 'rebel' for a mother.

She is survived by two daughters, Linda (Mike) Fellows of Rochester, NY and Karen (Tom) Sandle of Ames, IA; two granddaughters, Melissa Fellows (Kevin) of Rochester, NY and Jill (Jason) Reifsnyder of Rochester, NY; two great-granddaughters , Delilah Rose and Raina Marie, daughters of Jill and Jason Reifsnyder; niece Sherry Poff and nephew Jamie Craig, and one cousin Janet Compton.

She was preceded in death by her grandparents, parents, sister, and her husband.

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Nathan Means - April 21, 2000 - April 08, 2024

Departed: 04/08/2024 (Ames)

Obituary Preview: Nathan M. Means, 23, of Ames, Iowa, passed away on Monday, April 8, 2023 in Ames.

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Rinda Pattinson - October 11, 1947 - April 06, 2024

Departed: 04/06/2024 (Ames)

Obituary Preview: Rinda Pattinson, 76, passed away peacefully on Saturday, April 6, 2024, at her residence at Maggie's Place, ending a battle with Alzheimer’s disease.

Memorial services will be held at 11 a.m., Wednesday, April 17, 2024, at Bethesda Lutheran Church in Ames. Visitation will be held at the church one hour prior to the service. Interment will be at Plymouth Church Memorial Garden in Des Moines at a private family ceremony.

Rinda Ilene Camrud was born on October 11, 1947, in Mayville, ND, to Ray and Natalie (Thompson) Camrud. She attended school in Grand Forks, ND before moving to Rochester, MN as a teenager. Rinda graduated from John Marshall High School in 1965. She went on to earn her associate degree from Rochester Area Community College and attended the University of Minnesota Duluth.

Rinda married Bill Pattinson in 1970 and together they had two children, Brian and Jill. In 1977 she moved to Ames and worked at the McFarland Clinic Eye Center until her retirement in 2013. Rinda was an active volunteer in the Ames community and involved with her PEO and WWC chapters.

Rinda loved playing cards, reading, cooking, and hosting friends for trashy TV. She was an avid sports fan, often found cheering loudly for the Minnesota Vikings and Iowa Hawkeyes. Rinda had a green thumb and enjoyed tending to her plants and flowers. She loved her Diet Coke and a good glass of wine. Above all, Rinda was a fun and devoted mother, grandmother, sister, and friend.

Survivors include her children, Brian (Janet Petersen) Pattinson of Des Moines, and Jill (Josh) Mortenson of Lakeville, MN; grandchildren, Charlie, Maggie and Buck Pattinson, and Ben and Luke Mortenson; siblings, Neil (Sue) Camrud of Brookfield, WI, Wanda (David) Jensen of Rochester, MN, and Allan (LaDonna) Camrud of Osceola, WI. She was preceded in death by her parents, Ray and Natalie Camrud; and granddaughter, Grace Pattinson.

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Jennifer Johnson - September 29, 1971 - April 05, 2024

Departed: 04/05/2024 (Ames)

Obituary Preview: Jennifer Johnson, 52, passed away Friday, April 5, 2024.

Services are currently pending.

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Ed Behrmann - February 19, 1947 - April 02, 2024

Departed: 04/02/2024 (Ames)

Obituary Preview: Edgar “Ed” Behrmann, 77, peacefully passed away on Tuesday, April 2, 2024, at Story Medical Senior Care.

Private graveside services will occur at Elmwood – St. Joseph Cemetery in Mason City.

Edgar Anthony Behrmann entered the world on February 19, 1947, in Silver Creek, NY, born to Orie and Patricia (Messina) Behrmann. Raised in Silver Creek, he completed his high school education before pursuing a bachelor’s degree in Mechanical Engineering at Michigan State University. Ed embarked on a diverse career journey, starting as an engineer at Chrysler, Bendix, Winnebago, Allied Signal, and Alexander Batteries. He is credited with several patents throughout his career. Subsequently, he transitioned to entrepreneurship, owning and managing Next Day Signs in Mason City, before concluding his professional endeavors as a Benefits Administrator at Principal Financial.

On May 24, 1978, Ed was united in marriage to Cynthia “Cindy” Thrams. The couple made their home in Mason City, Iowa and was active members of the Seventh-day Adventist Church. After the death of his wife, Ed moved to Ames, Iowa to be near his son and family.

Ed had various interests and hobbies, such as cars, particularly race cars, and assembling model cars. In his youth he was very active in the Boy Scouts and earned the rank of Eagle Scout. Additionally, he enjoyed crafting intricate art pieces and constructed an electric guitar, a cherished possession still in his family today.

Ed is survived by his son, Brian (Ann) Squier of Nevada; grandsons, Mason Squier and Owen Squier; and numerous brothers and sisters in law, as well as multiple nieces, nephews, and other extended family members and friends. He was preceded in death by his wife, Cindy in 2014; and his mother, Patricia Behrmann.

Condolences and memories of Ed can be shared with his family on the tributes page.

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John Rasmussen - April 21, 1931 - April 01, 2024

Departed: 04/01/2024 (Ames)

Obituary Preview: John Rasmussen, 92, passed away Monday, April 1, 2024, after a brief illness.

A celebration of John’s life will be held at 11 a.m., Monday, April 15, 2024, at the Ames United Methodist Church with visitation one hour prior to the service. Military honors will follow during a committal service at the Ames Municipal Cemetery.

John Rasmussen was born April 21, 1931, in Ames, Iowa to George and Rose (Nelson) Rasmussen. He grew up in Cambridge where he received his education. Following school, John enlisted in the U.S. Army and proudly served our country for eight years during the Korean War until he was honorably discharged.

On April 25, 1958, John was united in marriage to Barbara Jane Ball. The couple made their home in Ames and were blessed with two children, Becky, and Mike. John was an extremely handy and talented man who made his career as a hardwood floor installer and retired from Sunstrand. The couple were longtime members of the Ames United Methodist Church and the Ames American Legion Post 37.

John loved fishing and could often be found on a lake for hours catching walleye, bass, and all other types of fish. He found much joy teaching his children and grandchildren to fish. John also used his woodworking talents to build log cabins that his family still have today. He also enjoyed planting flower beds at home and took much delight in feeding the birds and all wildlife. John was an avid Chicago Cubs and Iowa State Cyclone fan and enjoyed watching them regularly. Recently as his eyesight faded, he listened to older country music and was the kindest music requester to his Alexa speaker. Most of all, John treasured the time spent with Barbara, his children, grandchildren, and the entire family who all held a special place in his heart.

John will be deeply missed by his wife of 65 years, Barbara; children, Becky Rasmussen, and Mike Rasmussen; grandchildren, Jennifer (Jake) Sisson, Teresa Rasmussen, and Andrew (Brenna) Rasmussen; great-grandchildren, Cooper Sisson, and Molly Sisson; sisters, Georgia (Cap) Capellen, and Agnes Lawson; and many nieces, nephews, and other extended family.

He was preceded in death by his parents, George and Rose Rasmussen, and siblings, Pete Rasmussen, Jim Rasmussen, Mildred Archer, Florence Jump and Mary Smith.

Condolences and memories of John may be shared with his family on this tributes page.

As we conclude John’s obituary it’s only fitting to end with his famous words of wisdom, “Think Ahead”.

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Mildred Johannes - April 22, 1927 - March 28, 2024

Departed: 03/28/2024 (Ames)

Obituary Preview: Mildred Johannes, 96, passed away Thursday, March 28, 2024.

Private family burial will take place at Rose Hill Cemetery in Luther, Iowa.

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Jerry Brodie - November 11, 1958 - March 28, 2024

Departed: 03/28/2024 (Ames)

Obituary Preview: Jerry Brodie, 65, of Ames passed away Thursday, March 28, 2024, at Mary Greeley Medical Center.

Services are pending.

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Todd DeGroote - June 01, 1965 - March 26, 2024

Departed: 03/26/2024 (Ames)

Obituary Preview: Todd Jake DeGroote, 58, of Maxwell, passed away Tuesday, March 26, 2024, at home with his loving family by his side. Todd fought a valiant fight with cancer and was a great man of courage.

A celebration of Life for Todd DeGroote will be held at 2:00pm on Thursday, April 4th at the Christmas Tree Farm (33459 663rd Avenue, Maxwell, Iowa).

Todd DeGroote was the son of Jake and Donna (Dralle) DeGroote and was born June 1, 1965, in Charles City, Iowa. He attended Allison–Bristow Schools and graduated in 1983. He then attended Hamilton Business College and graduated in 1985.

Todd was united in marriage to Mitzi (Gower) DeGroote on May 7, 1994, at the Little Brown Church in Nashua, Iowa. Together they raised their two sons.

Todd spent most of his working career at Redneck Trailor Supplies (now Dexter Distribution) as a manager in Hampton, Iowa and at Dexter Axle for the Elkhart, Indiana location as a Senior Sales Engineer for the Midwest states and Canada. Todd enjoyed taking numerous trips with Mitzi and friends. Todd truly enjoyed spending time at home in Maxwell with his family. He also enjoyed mowing the acreage, raising lambs and chickens, driving his tractor, and planting a garden.

The last two years, after his cancer diagnosis, Todd especially enjoyed spending time with his cousins, Brian and Susie Jacobs. He loved riding on their combine and always looked forward to their daily long talks on the phone. He also shared a special closeness with his twin sister, Tammy and always enjoyed their talks.

Todd is survived by his wife Mitzi, son Tim Gower and his special friend Kristy Tibor, son Ozzy DeGroote and his special friend Angelica Despenas; mother- in law Nina Gower; brother Joe (Theresa) Lown, sister Cindy (Gary) Dean, sister Sally Tapp, sister Diane (Ross) Zimmerman, sister Susan (Rick) Riebkes, twin sister Tammy (Jeff) Cuvelier, and sister Stacey (Chad) Reichert; brother-in-law, Doug Gower. Other Surviving members include Aunt Dottye DeGroote, Uncle James Jacobs, Uncle Frank Vance and many beloved nieces and nephews and special friends.

Todd was preceded in death by his father Jake DeGroote, Mother Donna (Dralle) DeGroote, Father-in-law John Robert Gower, Brother-in-law Bobby Gower, along with his maternal and paternal grandparents.

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Ernani Araujo - February 14, 1932 - March 22, 2024

Departed: 03/22/2024 (Ames)

Obituary Preview: Ernani Araujo, 92, passed away on Friday, March 22, 2024, at the Israel Family Hospice House in Ames after a brief illness, entering the gates of Heaven.

Funeral services will be held at 1 p.m., Wednesday, March 27, 2024, at Christ Community Church in Ames with visitation one hour prior to the service.  Burial will take place at the Evergreen Cemetery in Jewell, IA.

Ernani Araujo was born on February 14, 1932, in São Domingos do Prata, in the state of Minas Gerais, Brazil, to Carlos de Araujo and Maria das Mercês Perdigão. He was the first born of a total of 14 siblings. He spent his formative years in Minas Gerais, Brazil, before moving to Rio de Janeiro. There he embarked on a career in the hospitality sector, at Luxor Hotels, where he worked for 47 years until he retired. Ernani loved life and was an avid jokester.

On February 13, 1973, Ernani was united in marriage with his soulmate, Zelia Maria de Paiva. The couple’s ceremony was held at the Governor’s Palace in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil. During their 51 years of marriage, they were blessed with three daughters, Tatiana, Roberta, and Mariana.

Ernani cherished his family above all else, delighting in moments shared with his wife, daughters, and grandchildren. Whether fishing, cracking a joke, playing cards, shooting pool, or gathering around for a meal prepared by him, likely on the grill at his ranch, they created lasting memories together. It was the time spent in each other's company that brought Ernani the greatest joy, and his absence will be deeply felt by his family.

After visiting his daughter and grandsons in the U.S. several times, Ernani and Zelia, decided to move to Ames, IA in 2018 to be closer to them. They were proud to call the U.S. their adopted home and to have been given the chance to become Permanent Residents of the United States.

Ernani is survived by his wife of 51 years, Zelia Araujo; daughters, Tatiana (Travis) Twedt of Jewell, IA, and Mariana Araujo of Rio de Janeiro, Brazil; grandchildren, Triston (Rebecca) Twedt of Cottontown, TN, Treyton (Miriam) Twedt of Williams, IA, Julia Zottolo of Rio de Janeiro, Brazil, Tiago Twedt of Jewell, IA, Tanner Twedt of Jewell, IA, and Rafael Zottolo of Rio de Janeiro, Brazil. He is also survived by numerous brothers, sisters, nieces, nephews, and cousins.

Preceding him in death is his daughter, Roberta Araujo; parents, Carlos de Araujo and Maria das Mercês Perdigão; both his paternal and maternal grandparents, his mother-in-law, brothers and sister-in-law, and several brothers and sisters.

Expressions of sympathy and recollections of Ernani can be shared with his family through the tribute section of his memorial page or mailed the funeral home to be passed on to Ernani's family.

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Norman "Tom" Willard - September 17, 1947 - March 14, 2024

Departed: 03/14/2024 (Ames)

Obituary Preview: Norman “Tom” Willard, 76, of Ames, passed away peacefully surrounded by his loving family on Thursday, March 14, 2024 at Israel Family Hospice House in Ames. Family and friends are invited to attend the visitation to celebrate Tom’s life on Saturday, March 23, 2024 from 2:00-4:00 PM at the Central Iowa Expo, 1827 217th Road, Boone, IA 50036.

Norman Thomas Willard was born on September 17, 1947 in Toledo, Ohio to Ronald and Shirley Willard. He attended school in the area and graduated high school in Pemberville, Ohio in 1965. He was drafted into the United States Army shortly after, where he served in the Vietnam War and received a Purple Heart. He later attended The Oklahoma State University School of Technical Training where he was awarded the Directors Honor Roll certificate for maintaining a 3.5 GPA throughout his entire enrollment and received his diploma in Printing - Lithography in 1973. He married the love of his life; Joycelyn (Joy) Ross on April 19, 2002 in Atlanta, Georgia. They lived in Oklahoma, Texas, Louisiana, and Georgia before making Ames, IA their home in 2004 due to Tom's career in the printing field. He retired from BASF in 2011.

In his spare time he loved to travel with Joy, playing bingo and watching the baseball World Series. He really loved watching football and had a special place in his heart for Ohio State. Tom was a proud member of the NRA and the American Legion.

Tom is survived by his wife Joy Willard of Ames; daughter, Tammy Willard of Oklahoma City, OK; son, Tommy (Mandy) Willard of Alpine, Texas; stepdaughter, Kiwanna Ross of Des Moines, IA; stepson, Patrick (Kim) Ross of Oklahoma City, OK; stepson Marlon (Shirelle) Ross and stepdaughter Quitasha Ross both of Baton Rouge, LA.; a sister, Carol Dennis of Perrysburg, OH; seventeen grandchildren, twelve great grandchildren and a host of nieces, nephews, cousins, relatives and friends. He was preceded in death by his father Ronald R. Willard, mother, Shirley D. Willard and nephew, Tim Dennis. He will be greatly missed by all who knew and loved him.

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Robert Martin - November 29, 1933 - February 14, 2024

Departed: 02/14/2024 (Ames)

Obituary Preview: Robert Brantzel Martin, 90, formerly of Davenport, Iowa died February 14, 2024 at Northcrest Retirement Community in Ames, Iowa, where he had resided since 2021.

Robert Brantzel Martin was born November 29, 1933 in Davenport to William E. and Carmela (Brantzel) Martin. He married Mona Kadel of Taylor Ridge, Illinois on April 7, 1956. He is survived by his wife Mona, two children, Beth (Peter) Martin of Ames and Charles (Heather) Martin of Davenport, three grandchildren and five great grandchildren.

Services are pending.

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Douglas Hilton - October 31, 1954 - February 13, 2024

Departed: 02/13/2024 (Ames)

Obituary Preview: Douglas Hilton – Age 69 of Ames, Iowa passed away suddenly on Tuesday, February 13th,  2024 at the University of Iowa hospital.

Memorial services will be held at 2 p.m., Friday, March 22, 2024, at Lutheran Church of Hope, 925 Jordan Creek Parkway in West Des Moines.

Douglas was born October 31,1954 in Emmetsburg, Iowa. He was the third son of Harry and Seiri (Johnson) Hilton. He lived in Laurens, Iowa, attended grade school, and was confirmed in the Lutheran Church. At the age of 12, after the death of his parents, he was welcomed to the home of his uncle, Harold Johnson, and lived in Boone, Iowa. He graduated from Boone High School and lived in the Boone and Ames area all his life.

Doug was a quiet and private individual with an amazing talent for woodworking. He was very meticulous and took pride in his work as well as his home. He was slow to anger and got along well with all who knew him.

Doug contributed to medical science by allowing his body to be used for research. He was the first in the nation used in a special gene study intended to help repair organs in a living body.

Survivors include his siblings Steven of California Judy Curry of West Des Moines, Iowa; Roger Hilton of Boone, Iowa and Michael of Columbus, Ohio, his special uncle Harold Johnson of Boone, Iowa, as well as several cousins. Doug was preceded in death by his parents, a brother Kenton and brother-in-law Marvin Curry.

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Alexander Henkin - January 27, 1930 - February 12, 2024

Departed: 02/12/2024 (Ames)

Obituary Preview: Alexander Henkin, 94, passed away Monday, February 12, 2024.

A full obituary will be posted soon.

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Karleen Cohen - November 28, 1964 - January 25, 2024

Departed: 01/25/2024 (Ames)

Obituary Preview: Karleen Cohen, 59, passed away peacefully on January 25, 2024. Arrangements are pending at this time.

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Joseph Lovell - December 19, 1940 - January 18, 2024

Departed: 01/18/2024 (Ames)

Obituary Preview: Joseph “Joe” Lovell, 83, passed away on Thursday, January 18, 2024, at MercyOne Medical Center in Des Moines.

Joe’s family is planning to celebrate his life in a private setting.

Joseph Bernard Lovell was born December 19, 1940, in Des Moines to Bernard and Retta (McIntyre) Lovell. He grew up in Des Moines and graduated from Dowling High School. Following graduation, Joe enlisted in the United States Air Force ROTC program. He also continued his education earning a Bachelor of Science Degree from Drake University in 1963 and Master of Business Administration from Creighton University in 1966.

Joe proudly served in the United State Air Force for over 20 years until he was honorably discharged at the rank of Lt. Colonel. During his enlistment he became a Certified Internal Auditor.

Joe enjoyed traveling the world while in the Air Force, but also post retirement. He also found joy in listening to various genres of music, such as country, classical, blues and folk music. His hobbies consisted of building scale model cars and trains, and cheering on the Drake Bulldogs. Most of all, Joe loved being around people and cherished memories with Gretchen, his children and entire family.

Joe will be deeply missed by his wife, Gretchen; children, Tom (Lisa) Lovell and Teresa (Jeff) Greenbaum and their mother, Penny Lovell; grandchildren, Eva Lovell, Owen Lovell, Michelle Greenbaum and Dan Greenbaum; and four stepsons and their families. Joe was preceded in death by his parents; and sister, Evelyn.

Condolences and memories of Joe may be shared with his family on this tributes page.

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Terry C Olson - August 30, 1949 - January 16, 2024

Departed: 01/16/2024 (Ames)

Obituary Preview: Terry C. Olson, 74, passed away Tuesday, January 16, 2024, at Mary Greeley Medical Center.

Terry's wishes were to have no services planned.

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Al Peckham - April 17, 1956 - January 12, 2024

Departed: 01/12/2024 (Ames)

Obituary Preview: Al Peckham, 67, of Story City, passed away peacefully at home surrounded by his loving family on Friday, January 12, 2024.

There will be no services at this time. Ames Monument & Cremation Center (515-233-3449) is caring for Al and his family.

Robert Allen “Al” Peckham was born on April 17, 1956 on a U.S. Naval Base in San Juan, Puerto Rico to Leonard and Phyllis (Cate) Peckham. They later moved to Story County and he graduated from Roland-Story High School. After he graduated he went down to Silver Dollar City, Missouri, where he worked as a baker. During his time in Missouri he met the love of his life: Karlena Lynn Kleffner. They were united in marriage on September 13, 1982 in Kimberling City, Missouri. Al and Karlena were blessed with two children; Olivia Paige and Abby. They moved up to Story City, where Al lived the rest of his life. He was a talented plumber for Watson Plumbing. In his spare time he enjoyed woodworking and making things for his family and friends. He also enjoyed playing the piano.

Al is survived by his loving wife, Karlena of Story City; daughters, Olivia Paige (Kelsea) of Osceola and Abby (Mark) Schmitz of Roland; Granddaughters, Zoey and Maya Schmitz; sisters, Joyce (Tom) Zaugg of Los Almos, New Mexico and Lois (Sheila) Peckham of Fort Collins, CO and nephew and niece; Brian and Irene Zaugg. He was preceded in death by his parents and sister Jackie Peckham.

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Robert Kuebler - June 30, 1962 - December 19, 2023

Departed: 12/19/2023 (Ames)

Obituary Preview: Robert Kuebler, 61, went to be with the Lord on Tuesday, December 19, 2023, following a courageous battle with pancreatic cancer.

Per Rob’s wishes a private celebration of his life with his family will occur at the Iowa Veteran’s Cemetery.

Robert P. Kuebler was born June 30, 1962, in Fort Dodge, Iowa to Dean and Delores (Eifler) Kuebler. He grew up in the Eagle Grove, Iowa where he received his education. Following high school graduation, Rob attended welding school before enlisting and proudly started serving in the United States Air Force from September of 1980 until he was honorably discharged in June of 1986. During his service he was a Fire Protection Specialist and received multiple honors including, an Air Force Good Conduct Medal, Air Force Longevity Service Award Ribbon, Air Force Oversees Service Long Tour Ribbon, and Air Force Training Ribbon.

On January 18, 1997, Robert was united in marriage to Cynthia Lee Miller at the Church of God in Fort Dodge. The couple and their family lived in the Fort Dodge area before moving to Boone and later Ames and Story City. Robert made a 25-year career at Barilla in Ames as a Maintenance Level 2 Technician. Robert was a dedicated hard worker and enjoyed those he worked with at Barilla.

Robert was blessed with a dry personality and found bits of joy being a prankster and jokester from time to time. He liked to play card games and loved to go dancing with Cindy. He also adored his two cats, Remey and Meo. Most of all, Robert placed high value on family and cherished the time spent with his wife, Cindy, and daughters, Rachel, and Christina. He also treasured playing and teasing his grandchildren whom he deeply loved.

Robert will be deeply missed by his wife, Cindy; daughter, Rachel Kuebler; step-daughter, Christina (Aaron) King; son, Mike Lohn; step-grandchildren, Adrienne, London, Norianna, and Leon; and siblings, Barb Holding and Carl (Joanne) Kuebler. Robert was preceded in death by his parents; and a brother, Tom Kuebler.

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Richard Ohge - June 23, 1950 - December 09, 2023

Departed: 12/09/2023 (Ames)

Obituary Preview: Richard Ohge, 73, of Belmond, IA, passed away peacefully on Saturday, December 9, 2023 in Ames. Services are pending at this time.

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Sally Kling - August 26, 1947 - December 09, 2023

Departed: 12/09/2023 (Ames)

Obituary Preview: Sally Kling, 76, of Ames, IA, passed away on Saturday, December 9, 2023 at Rolling Green Village in Nevada. Services are pending at this time.

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Francis Roland Mariner - February 20, 1952 - December 07, 2023

Departed: 12/07/2023 (Ames)

Obituary Preview: Francis (Frank) Roland Mariner Born: Feb. 20, 1952 Died: Dec. 7, 2023 Age: 71

Frank Mariner of Ames, died in Des Moines on December 7. He was a longtime professor in the French Language Department at Iowa State University. He was enjoying his recent retirement with trips to musical concerts throughout Iowa and the Twin Cities, practicing meditation, yoga and frequenting the Rinzai Zen Budhhist temple in Portland, and collecting stamps with his friends. He could frequently be found in one of Ames' many coffee shops and cafes, enjoying a snack and a good cup of coffee.

No memorial service is planned. He asked that his many friends, scattered around the world, rememberhim on February 20, his birthday, with a toast, attending a concert or listening to your favorite music, or a stroll through an art museum with your friends. Donations can be made in his name to: norankzendo.org – RinzaiZen Buddhist Temple of Portland, OR stamps.org – American Philatelic Research Library

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Bernadette Parsonage - January 07, 1946 - December 06, 2023

Departed: 12/06/2023 (Ames)

Obituary Preview: It’s with heavy hearts that we announce the sudden passing of Bernadette Congio Parsonage, 77, of Ames on Wednesday, December 6, 2023.

Bernie, as she was known to many, was born in Honolulu Hawaii on January 7, 1946, to Estanislao and Valentina Daos. Bernie grew up in Hawaii where she attended Farrington High School and Leeward Community College. Later in life she and her husband John moved to Kennewick, Washington before making her final move to Ames, Iowa where she worked at Hy-Vee before retiring.

Bernie touched the lives of so many. She was well known as the feisty Hawaiian that always made people laugh and loved to put smiles on the faces of everyone she met with her heartfelt hugs and humorous conversations. Anyone going places with Bernie could always count on a long day as she continually ran into people she knew.

Bernie enjoyed spending time with her family and friends; she found comfort in cooking and sharing her Hawaiian food as well as taking care of those around her. She also enjoyed watching her son Bryce’s sporting events. You always knew when Bernie was in the stands because her shouts could be heard for miles.

Bernie will be missed by her young son Bryce; other children, Cassy Potthoff, Joseph Tomaszycki Jr, Robert (Rae) Tomaszycki, Steven Tomaszycki, and Chanelle Parsonage; grandchildren Shayna (Kai) Bryson, Andrea (Abor), Benjamin (Aisy), Po’okela, Jasmine (Donny), Desarea, Chastity, Heaven, and 10 great-grandchildren; siblings, Junior (Suzanne) Daos, Bernard (Kathy) Daos and Lawrence (April) Daos, as well as extended family and many friends. She was preceded in death by her husband John Parsonage, parents, and her sister, Virginia Silva. Please join us in celebrating the life of this feisty Hawaiian from 5:30 p.m to 7:30 p.m., December 18, 2023 at St. Cecilia Catholic Church at 2900

Hoover Ave, Ames IA 50010.

Condolences and memories of Bernie may be shared with her family on her tributes page at www.amesmonument.com, and donations may be made to the family.

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Brian Martin - December 02, 1968 - December 03, 2023

Departed: 12/03/2023 (Ames)

Obituary Preview: Brian Spencer Martin, 55 was born December 2, 1968 in Des Moines. Brian passed away December 3, 2023 due to injuries sustained in a fall. Brian passed away a day after his 55th birthday at Israel Hospice House in Ames.

Brian is preceded in death by his parents Charley Martin & Sue Ann Martin and younger brother, Joshua. He survived by his older brother, Kyle(Amy)Martin of Grinnell, Iowa. His nieces Peyton Martin of Brighton, Co; Abigail Martin of Grinnell, Iowa and Grace Martin of Marshalltown, Iowa

He is also survived by his long time companion Maggie Newton. Brian loved dogs, beer, fishing and the Denver Broncos(not necessarily in that order)

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Our Facilities

The center's facilities provide a serene and respectful environment for families to gather and remember. The visitation areas, chapel, and reception spaces are designed to bring solace and comfort during difficult times. The accessibility of the funeral home ensures that all guests, including those with disabilities, can participate in services and memorials without concern.

Compassionate Staff

The directors and staff at Ames Monuments & Cremation Center are experienced professionals, but more importantly, they are individuals who understand grief and the importance of a supportive shoulder during such times. Each family is approached with empathy, and the staff prides themselves on listening and delivering services that respect the wishes of the deceased and their loved ones.

Pre-Planning Services

For those interested in planning ahead, the Ames Monuments & Cremation Center offers comprehensive pre-planning services. This can include selecting the type of service, the specifics of the funeral or memorial, and the manner of interment. Pre-planning provides peace of mind for individuals and families, ensuring that one's final wishes are understood and will be honored.

Cremation Services

Cremation services are carried out with the highest standards of dignity and respect at Ames Monuments & Cremation Center. They offer a variety of cremation options such as traditional services followed by cremation, direct cremation, or the possibility to hold a memorial service at a time that suits the family's needs. They also provide a wide selection of urns and keepsakes to help remember and honor your loved one.

Monument & Memorial Selection

Recognizing the importance of memorials as a lasting tribute, Ames Monuments & Cremation Center specializes in creating custom monuments that endure as a symbol of a life lived. The dedicated staff will guide you through the selection process, ensuring that the monument beautifully represents the unique spirit and character of your loved one.

Aftercare and Support

The care provided does not end with the funeral or cremation services. Ames Monuments & Cremation Center offers ongoing support in the form of aftercare programs. Understanding that grief is a journey, the center provides resources and referrals to counseling services, support groups, and other community services to assist families during their time of healing.

Community Engagement

As a staple of the Ames community, the funeral home not only provides services to families in need but also actively engages in community events. This involvement helps build strong relationships and offers the staff a deeper understanding of the local customs and traditions, which is invaluable in serving the diverse needs of Ames' residents.

Technology and Convenience

Embracing modern technology, Ames Monuments & Cremation Center keeps you connected through digital means. Their website offers the convenience of online obituaries and the ability to send condolences or order flowers directly to the service or the family's home. Recognizing the changing dynamics of family and friends who may be spread across the globe, technology brings everyone closer to celebrate, grieve, and remember.

Contacting Ames Monuments & Cremation Center

Reaching out to Ames Monuments & Cremation Center is stress-free. Whether you're in need of immediate services or interested in discussing future plans, their doors and phone lines are open. Compassion and professionalism are just a call or visit away, ensuring that when you're ready to begin the planning process, or if you need their services sooner, Ames Monuments & Cremation Center is ready to assist you every step of the way.

Ames Monuments & Cremation Center takes pride in being a compassionate and trustworthy provider of funeral services and monuments in Ames, IA. The center is deeply committed to honoring the deceased and serving families with respect, excellence, and dedicated care. In the wake of loss, the team at Ames Monuments & Cremation Center stands as a pillar of support, ready to assist you in paying tribute to a precious life lived and ensuring a legacy that endures through generations.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a notice of someone's death, typically published in a newspaper or online. It usually includes a brief biography of the deceased, information about the upcoming funeral or memorial service, and details about the surviving family members.

What is the purpose of an obituary?

The purpose of an obituary is to formally announce a person's death, celebrate their life, and inform the community of service arrangements. It also serves as a historical record for future generations.

Who writes obituaries?

Obituaries are often written by family members, friends, or funeral home staff. Some individuals may even choose to write their own obituary before they pass away.

What should be included in an obituary?

An obituary typically includes the deceased's full name, age, birth and death dates, a summary of their life's achievements, family members, details about the funeral or memorial service, and sometimes a cause of death if the family wishes to include it.

How long after a death is an obituary published?

The timeline for publishing an obituary can vary, but it is usually within a few days after a person's death to allow for community notifications before the funeral or memorial service.

Where are obituaries usually published?

Obituaries can be published in local newspapers, on online obituary databases, social media platforms, funeral home websites, and sometimes in professional journals or newsletters.

Is there a standard obituary format?

While there is no one-size-fits-all format for obituaries, most include the deceased's name, life accomplishments, family member information, and service details, often written in a compassionate and respectful tone.

Can an obituary be published for someone without their family's consent?

Publishing an obituary without the family's consent is not standard practice and is generally considered disrespectful. Most publications require verification from the family or the funeral home before publication.

Are obituaries free to publish?

Most newspapers and online platforms charge a fee to publish an obituary, which can vary widely depending on the publication's reach and the length of the obituary.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

An obituary is a detailed announcement of someone's passing that includes personal and professional life details, while a death notice is a more straightforward announcement of the death and service information without including a biography.

How can someone submit an obituary to be published?

Obituaries can typically be submitted either through the newspaper's obituaries department or through the funeral home handling the arrangements. Many newspapers also offer online submission options.

Can I include a photo in the obituary?

Yes, photos are often included in obituaries to help readers identify and remember the deceased. However, there may be an additional fee to include a photo.

What if the deceased didn't want an obituary published?

If the deceased person explicitly requested no obituary, it is important to respect their wishes. Instead, family members can choose to inform friends and community through private communications.

How can I make an obituary special or unique?

To make an obituary special or unique, you can include anecdotes, personal stories, favorite quotes, or messages that reflect the individual's personality and spirit. Sharing their successes and contributions to the community can also make the obituary more memorable.

Is it necessary to mention the cause of death?

No, mentioning the cause of death is not necessary and is entirely up to the discretion of the family. Some families choose to include this information, especially if the deceased was involved in raising awareness for a particular condition or cause.

Can obituaries be edited after they are published?

Once an obituary has been published in a print medium, it cannot be edited. However, online obituaries often offer the possibility for edits. It's important to proofread and verify all information before submission to prevent errors.

What is the approximate cost of publishing an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication, the length of the obituary, and the inclusion of a photograph. Prices can range from under a hundred to several hundred dollars.

Can friends and colleagues contribute to writing an obituary?

Yes, contributions from friends, colleagues, and other acquaintances are commonly included in obituaries to provide a fuller picture of the deceased's life and impact.

Is it okay to be humorous in an obituary?

While the tone of most obituaries is sincere and respectful, infusing humor is acceptable if it aligns with the personality of the deceased and is done in good taste. Loved ones often appreciate a light-hearted anecdote that celebrates the person's character.

How do cultural differences impact the writing of an obituary?

Cultural differences can greatly impact the writing of an obituary, as various traditions and customs influence how death is acknowledged and discussed. It is important to be sensitive to these practices and to honor the deceased in a manner that aligns with their culture and beliefs.

Why are some obituaries more detailed than others?

The level of detail in an obituary can depend on several factors, including the preferences of the family, the deceased's prominence within the community, the cost of publication, and the amount of information the family wishes to publicly share.

How can individuals keep a record of an obituary for posterity?

Individuals can keep a record of obituaries by saving newspaper clippings, printing online versions, or requesting copies from the publication. Many families also create memorial websites or include the obituary in family documents or genealogy records for future generations.