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Welcome to Alternative Choice
Welcome to Alternative Choice, a place of compassion and support located at 804 N. Dustin in Farmington, NM. We understand that the loss of a loved one is a challenging and emotional experience. Our professional staff is dedicated to helping families honor and celebrate the lives of their loved ones in a way that is meaningful and personal. At Alternative Choice, we strive to provide a comforting environment where families can come together to say their final farewells.
Our Services
At Alternative Choice, we offer a variety of services tailored to meet the unique needs of each family we serve. Understanding that each life is individual, we provide everything from traditional funeral services to more modern celebrations of life. Our facilities are equipped to handle viewings, memorial services, and receptions, and our experienced staff can assist with all the necessary arrangements, ensuring a fitting tribute to your loved one's memory.
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Funeral Obiturary Search
Recent Funeral Home Obituaries
Ernest Coleman Wade - September 20, 1956 - August 22, 2019
Donald Jake Williams - August 04, 1926 - August 10, 2019
Michael Layne Williams - August 27, 1962 - August 03, 2019
Benito Salas Rodriguez - March 21, 1949 - August 01, 2019
Robert Hugh Dungan - February 24, 1930 - August 01, 2019
Michael G Laux - November 10, 1967 - July 27, 2019
Andrea T Lucero - May 09, 1933 - July 27, 2019
Christine M Yeager - March 26, 1956 - July 26, 2019
Joe Manuel Acosta - June 27, 1948 - July 23, 2019
Monalee Joy Shepherd - May 12, 1940 - July 23, 2019
Charles "Lucky" Everett Willis - Unknown - July 23, 2019
Mr. Edward O. Shannon - March 28, 1941 - July 22, 2019
Michael M Lopez - April 04, 1966 - July 19, 2019
Hazel M Boggs - March 21, 1941 - July 15, 2019
Michael C Woods - January 31, 1960 - July 10, 2019
James Lee Dufour - July 03, 1933 - June 21, 2019
Jose Socorro Ortega - July 06, 1979 - June 20, 2019
William R Detrick - October 19, 1942 - June 19, 2019
Paul Pacheco - March 30, 1928 - June 17, 2019
Bryant Emery Stalcup - July 19, 1986 - June 16, 2019
Oscar De La Garza - August 26, 1949 - June 14, 2019
Mary Montano - August 14, 1943 - June 05, 2019
Mary Ellen Kunkel - April 28, 1947 - June 02, 2019
Carl Herman Longstrom - March 20, 1929 - May 29, 2019
Curby L Essary - February 18, 1944 - May 27, 2019
Planning with Compassion
Planning a funeral or memorial service can be overwhelming, especially during a time of grief. Our compassionate team at Alternative Choice is here to guide you through every step. We offer thoughtful advice and can handle all aspects of planning, from selecting the right flowers to choosing a casket, urn, or other memorial items. Our aim is not only to assist with the immediate needs but to provide support and comfort throughout the planning process.
Personalized Memorials
We believe in the value of personalization and its power to capture the essence of an individual's life. Alternative Choice offers various ways to personalize services, including video memorials, custom-printed materials, and unique ceremony ideas that truly reflect the personality and interests of your loved one. Our staff will work closely with you to create a one-of-a-kind tribute that is both meaningful and memorable.
Pre-Planning Services
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More families are recognizing the benefits of pre-planning funeral arrangements. At Alternative Choice, we offer comprehensive pre-planning services to relieve your loved ones from making difficult decisions during an emotional time. By pre-planning, you can express your own wishes while ensuring that the financial burden is not left to your family. Our team is here to discuss your options and help you create a plan that aligns with your wishes and budget.
Aftercare and Ongoing Support
The care we provide does not end with the funeral service. Alternative Choice is committed to supporting families even after the funeral is over. We provide resources and referrals for grief support services to help individuals and families navigate the healing process. Our staff understands the importance of ongoing support and is here to offer guidance in the days, weeks, and months following your loss.
Commitment to our Community
As a locally-owned and operated funeral home, Alternative Choice is deeply committed to the Farmington community. We are neighbors caring for neighbors, and we take pride in our active role within the community. Our team participates in local events, supports charities, and builds positive relationships with other local businesses. When you choose Alternative Choice, you are partnering with a funeral home that truly cares about the well-being of our community members.
Contact Us
At Alternative Choice, we are here to assist you 24/7 with any questions or concerns you may have. Our staff is ready to provide the immediate assistance or information you need at any time. Please do not hesitate to reach out to us. You can find us at 804 N. Dustin Ave., Farmington, NM, or by phone. We are here to offer our support and services to ensure your loved one receives a dignified and respectful tribute. Contact us to learn more about how we can assist you during this difficult time.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is an obituary?
An obituary is a written announcement of a person's death, often found in newspapers and online publications. It typically includes a brief biography of the deceased, details about their family, information about the funeral or memorial services, and can include a photo. Obituaries serve as a respectful way to inform the community and honor the person who has passed away.
Why is publishing an obituary important?
Publishing an obituary is important for several reasons. It publicly acknowledges the loss of a community member, informs friends and extended family about the death, provides details about the funeral or memorial services, and celebrates the life of the deceased by highlighting their achievements and personality.
Who writes obituaries?
Obituaries can be written by family members, friends, funeral home staff, or journalists. Some people also choose to write their own obituary in advance as a way to ensure their life is captured as they prefer.
What information is typically included in an obituary?
An obituary typically includes the full name of the deceased, their age at death, date of death, a brief summary of their life story, surviving family members, details about funeral or memorial services, and any preferred charities for memorial donations.
How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online platform?
To submit an obituary to a newspaper or online platform, contact the publication directly. Many have specific guidelines and forms for submission, as well as charges for publishing an obituary. Online platforms might offer direct submissions through their websites.
Can an obituary be published both online and in print?
Yes, many newspapers offer the option to have an obituary published in both their print edition and online. This tends to reach a broader audience, including people who prefer digital or physical newspapers.
How long after a death is an obituary typically published?
An obituary is usually published within a few days to a week after death. This timeframe can vary based on when the funeral or memorial service is scheduled, and the publication deadlines of the chosen medium.
Is there a standard length for an obituary?
There is no standard length for an obituary, as it can vary depending on the individual's life story, achievements, and the preferences of the family. However, many newspapers may limit the length due to space constraints and cost considerations.
Can I include a photograph with an obituary?
Yes, most newspapers and online platforms allow photographs to be included with an obituary. Choose a photograph that best represents the person’s life.
What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?
An obituary is a detailed remembrance that highlights the life, personality, and accomplishments of the deceased. A death notice, on the other hand, is a more straightforward, brief announcement of the death that typically includes the bare minimum of personal details and service information, often for formal or legal purposes.
Are there any cultural differences in obituaries?
Yes, cultural differences can influence the content and style of an obituary. Different cultures may emphasize various aspects of the person's life, adhere to specific writing styles, and include traditional or religious elements that are significant to their community.
How can I write a meaningful obituary?
To write a meaningful obituary, start by gathering important facts about the person's life, such as their birth date, major life events, and significant relationships. Reflect on their character, achievements, and the impact they had on others. Use respectful and warm language to create a tribute that captures their essence and celebrates their life.
What should I avoid including in an obituary?
It's advisable to avoid including overly personal or sensitive information, such as the cause of death, if it could cause distress to the family or readers. Also, refrain from providing details that could make the family vulnerable to fraud, such as the deceased's full date of birth or their home address.
Is it necessary to mention the cause of death in an obituary?
Mentioning the cause of death in an obituary is not necessary and is entirely at the discretion of the family. Some families choose to share this information, especially if the deceased was involved in raising awareness about a particular disease or cause.
How can I ensure the obituary is accurate?
To ensure accuracy, double-check all factual information such as dates, names, and places. It's also helpful to have other family members or friends review the obituary before submission to catch any errors and confirm the information aligns with their memories.
Is there a cost to publish an obituary?
Most newspapers and some online platforms charge a fee to publish an obituary, which can vary based on length, whether a photograph is included, and the publication's circulation. Some community newspapers or websites may offer free or lower-cost options.
Can I include a poem or quote in an obituary?
Yes, it's common to include a meaningful poem, quote, or scripture in an obituary. This can add personal significance and can offer comfort to those who are mourning.
Are there any online resources to help write an obituary?
There are many online resources, including templates, examples, and writing guides, to assist in writing an obituary. Funeral homes may also offer support and advice on crafting a heartfelt tribute.
How can friends and acquaintances contribute to an obituary?
Friends and acquaintances can contribute anecdotes, stories, and photographs that can be included in the obituary. They can also provide emotional support and assist in the editing process.
Can an obituary be changed or updated after it's published?
Once an obituary is published, especially in print, it typically cannot be changed. Online obituaries may offer more flexibility for updates. It's important to finalize the content carefully before submission to avoid needing corrections later.
Is it appropriate to share an obituary on social media?
Sharing an obituary on social media can be an effective way to reach a larger audience, particularly those who might not have access to the published notice elsewhere. Always consider the family's wishes and privacy preferences before sharing.