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Peggy Janet (Pletcher) Hacker - June 04, 1950 - April 17, 2024

Departed: 04/17/2024 (Wilson)

Obituary Preview: Rexroat -Services for Peggy Janet (Pletcher) Hacker, 73, of Lone Grove, are scheduled for 2:00 P.M., Tuesday, April 23, 2024, at the Rexroat Baptist Church in Wilson with Rev. Jimmy May and Rev. Monte Dean officiating. Interment will follow at Hewitt Cemetery with Les Hacker officiating. Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Wilson.

Peggy was born June 4, 1950, at Madera, CA, to the late Mr. Orville Gerald “Buck” Pletcher and Mrs. Bertha Mae (Thompson) “Bert” Pletcher. She departed this life Wednesday, April 17, 2024, at her home in Lone Grove.

Peggy was born in California but was raised primarily at Springer, OK, where she graduated High School with the class of 1968. She married the love of her life, Loran Russell Hacker on July 26, 1968, at the Lake Murray Chapel. Peggy and Loran have resided and remained in the Lone Grove area all these years. She worked in the home as a homemaker and housewife until their three children were raised, then she began working as a truckdriver with her husband, traveling all over the United States. Peggy loved her kids and grandkids and attended most of their activities. She loved to quilt, shop, and decorate but most of all she loved spending time with her family. Peggy and Loran were best friends and enjoyed sharing their lives together. She was a member of the Rexroat Baptist Church.

Preceding her in death are her parents, Buck and Bertha, and an infant sister.

Survivors include her husband Loran Hacker of the home; son, Chris Hacker and his children, Johnna Thompson and husband Elliot, Holly Hacker, and Lauren Hacker and their mother, Sheryl McNeely; daughter, Brandy Graham and husband Tillman of Anchorage, AK and their son, Tillman “Tug” Graham. Son, Matthew Hacker and wife Tonya of Lone Grove with their children, Emily and Josh Hacker; Great grandchildren, Eli and Ethan Thompson, who spent countless hours in MeMe and Papa's backyard park; siblings, Robert Pletcher of Ardmore, Sandy Mott of Springer, and Tammie Adams of Springer; numerous other family, and a host of friends.

The family would like to express great thanks to Cross Timbers Hospice, especially Heather Garrett, Brandy Yarbrough, Sarah Goodson and Crystal Wood for the amazing and heartfelt care they have provided Peggy and her family.

Pallbearers will be Josh Hacker, Elliot Thompson, Robert Keith Pletcher, Carlen Fulton, Chad Nance, and Darin Metzer.

Honorary bearers Tillman Graham, Eli Thompson, Ethan Thompson, Vernon Musgrove, Boyd Salsbury, Tug Graham, Chaz Gregg, Steven Hacker and Todd Graves.

Visitation will be held 6-8 P.M., Monday evening at the Alexander Gray Funeral Home Chapel in Wilson.

Condolences and memories may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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Steve Adrian Garrett - November 12, 1953 - April 16, 2024

Departed: 04/16/2024 (Wilson)

Obituary Preview: Steve Adrian “Blue” Garrett, the man who could outwork any ol’ boy out there, passed away at his home on April 16, 2024, at the age of 70. Born in Fresno, CA, in 1953, Steve’s journey was filled with laughter, sorrow, hard work, and more than a little mischief.

After serving two campaigns in Vietnam with the US Navy, Steve set his sights on the horizon while staring out a huge windshield and starting a career in trucking. In a truckstop diner, he met the love of his life, a beautiful hippy named Betty who went by “Sunnie”. In short order, she became his wife. Steve didn’t just drive trucks; he practically made them beg for mercy. Over the years, he and Betty started two trucking companies, a testament to his relentless spirit of adventure and risk. Later, he survived over a decade as a maintenance technician at Michelin where he enjoyed the challenge and gritty work.

Steve was passionate about Harleys (especially his custom ‘58 Panhead), dirt bikes, fishing, camping, and hiking. During retirement he and his Baby, Betty, fulfilled many lifelong dreams. They lived on a lake in Sulphur. They traveled the country in a custom-fit utility trailer to camp off grid in some of this great country’s most beautiful areas, while visiting family from across the US as they went. Most recently, they lived his longest dream of living on his own little slice of heaven, their farm in Madill. He over-fed every animal they had (because when Steve loves, he loves BIG), and ensured that every chore that possibly could be done, was done right by his own rough hands.

Known for breaking into his favorite tune, “The Battle of New Orleans,” at the drop of a hat, Steve's boisterous renditions are etched in the memory of his family, who had no choice but to learn every word. His daughters believe that this contributed to their ability to pass 8th grade history class and are thankful to this day. His belief in hard work and doing things the right way never overshadowed his ability to crack a joke, pull a prank, or give the best damned hugs of encouragement.

Steve leaves behind his wife of 44 years, Betty Banks Garrett and their 3 daughters, Christy Garrett, Tabitha Marjerrison, Michelle Smock (Neal). He is also survived by son, Josh Curell, and daughter Stephanie Eager, and bonus daughter, Jennifer Curell, and 17 unique and beautiful grandchildren that he cherished. His sister Jeannie Mordecai, and brother Lonnie Amerson remain, and he was met in Heaven by his sister, Mary Russell.

The family wishes to thank Alexander Gray Funeral Home, The United States Military, the American Legion, and the Patriot Guard for providing full military honors and an unforgettable tribute to our sailor. A private graveside service will be held to honor Steve's life. The family requests that in lieu of flowers, those wishing to honor his memory do so by sipping a little Maker’s Mark and saying a prayer for our Country, our President (that he can keep his ol’ head straight), and our men and women in uniform, which is what Steve prayed.

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Jerry Dale Kinard - January 09, 1940 - April 12, 2024

Departed: 04/12/2024 (Wilson)

Obituary Preview: Wilson- Services for Jerry Dale Kinard, 84, of Wilson, are scheduled for 10:00 A.M., Wednesday, April 17, 2024, at the First Baptist Church in Wilson with Rev. Mark Fuller officiating. Interment will follow at the Hewitt Cemetery. Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Wilson.

Jerry was born January 9, 1940, at Pauls Valley, OK, to the late Mr. Cumbie Kinard and Mrs. Mary Tennessee (Smith) Kinard. He departed this life Friday, April 12, 2024, at Mercy Hospital in Ardmore.

Jerry was raised in Wynnewood where he attended school graduating with the High School Class of 1958. He then served nearly four years in the United States Marine Corp. Jerry then lived in California where he was employed at Lockheed Martin, and he married the former Miss Tanya Tiexiera. The couple was blessed with three children. After becoming hurt on the job, Jerry decided to move back home to the Wynnewood area in search of work. He found employment on the Diamond D Ranch which brought him to the Wilson area in 1976. In 1981, Jerry married Ms. Loretta Newfield. To this union he was blessed with two more children and together they made their home on the ranch. With two unsuccessful marriages, Jerry married one last time in 1991, to Barbara Sizemore and after 20 years of marriage, they divorced which led to him moving back home where he began working as a Maintenance Man, for the Black Gold Casino and Travel Plaza in Wilson. After six years, Jerry made the decision to retire and spend all of his time with his grandchildren and other family. He liked to visit the casinos and he helped with all of the grandkids, taking them to appointments and driving them wherever they needed to go. Jerry was a patient and kind man with so much love for his family and friends. He attended and supported every family event and showed loved to those around him in a way that you could not distinguish who was blood related and who was not.

Preceding him in death are his parents, Cumbie and Mary; siblings, CB Kinard, JD Kinard, Earl Kinard, and Lorena Kinard; great grand baby, Raynie.

Survivors include his children, Tildy Asbery and husband Rickey, Daniel Kinard and wife Kimberley, and William Kinard and wife Karina all of Wilson, Charles “Jerome” Kinard and wife Jodi of Prosper, TX, and Levi Kinard and husband Colin of Charlotte, NC; bonus daughter, Lauren Duroy and husband Jared of Plainview; siblings, Don Kinard, Lotena Forewood, Loaney Albright and husband Robert all of Wynnewood and Ada “Sis” Lindsey of Aurora, Colorado; grandchildren, Kristen Copley and husband Cody, Joshua Kinard and wife Darshell, Braden Kinard and wife Anna, Ashley Paul and husband Clay, Dylan Asbery and wife Makayla, Austin Kinard and wife Kierstine, Katrina Morris and husband Decoda, Jacob Kinard, James Kinard, Dustyn Asbery and wife Brittney, Jared Kinard, Maci Kinard, Nayeli King, Dawson Kinard, Jackson Kinard, Shane McGilvray, Mika McGilvray; bonus grandkids, Maliq Raymond, Gage Duroy, and Drake Duroy; 14 great grandchildren and one on the way; numerous nieces, nephews, other family and many friends.

Pallbearers will be the grandsons, Joshua, Braden, Dylan, Austin, Jacob, James, Dustyn, Jared, Dawson, and Jackson.

Honorary bearers are all other grandchildren and the great grandchildren.

Visitation will be held from 5-7 P.M., Tuesday evening, at the Alexander Gray Funeral Home Chapel in Wilson.

Condolences and memories may be made online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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Debbie Sue (Denham) King - May 17, 1955 - April 11, 2024

Departed: 04/11/2024 (Wilson)

Obituary Preview: Lone Grove - Debra “Debbie” Sue (Denham) King, 68, of Lone Grove, was born May 17, 1955, at Overbrook, to the late Mr. W.B. Denham and Martha (Dodson) Denham. She departed this life Thursday, April 11, 2024, at her home in Lone Grove.

Debbie was raised primarily at Lone Grove graduating High School with the class of 1973. She married Herman King on November 8, 1980, at Lone Grove. The couple made their home in Lone Grove where they raised their three children. Debbie was primarily a committed homemaker although she did work outside the household doing numerous trades, lastly at Wal-Mart. She enjoyed painting and loved gardening. Debbie adored flowers and foliage of every variety.

Preceding her in death are her parents; niece, Lisa Manning; sister, Linda Kay Ellis and brother, Jerry Denham.

Survivors include her husband Herman King of the home; daughter, Lori Ortiz and husband Jaime of Lone Grove; sons, Michael Paul King and Daniel King both of Lone Grove; sister, Kathy Covert; brothers, James Denney and wife Jane, Roy Denney and wife Betty, Charles Denney and wife Joanie, Wendall Denham, and Randy Denham and wife Lawania; five grandchildren; four great grandchildren; numerous other family and many friends.

Cremation services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home of Wilson.

Condolences and memories may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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Hazel Lou McKee - June 14, 1933 - April 09, 2024

Departed: 04/09/2024 (Wilson)

Obituary Preview: Oil City - Graveside Service for Mrs. Hazel Lou McKee, 90 of Oil City are scheduled for 3:00 P.M., Thursday, April 18, 2024 at Oil Springs Cemetery with Ronald Mefford officiating.  Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Wilson, OK.

Hazel was born June 14, 1933 in Chattanooga, OK to the late Mr. Rex Pender and Mrs. Opal J. (Wylie) Pender.  She departed from this life on Tuesday, April 9, 2024 in Wilson, OK.

Hazel married Kenneth Gene McKee on May 13, 1955 while working for Johnson Drug Store in Healdton.  Together they made their home in Oil City in 1958.  Hazel was a devoted homemaker who enjoyed gardening and garage sales.  She always taught her kids manners and work ethic, making sure family was always important.   She would always say "You gain strength from your family".

Preceding her in death were her parents; husband, Kenneth on August 16, 2018; sister, Maxine; infant brother, Bobby Ray; and brother Roy.

Hazel is survived by her son, Mike McKee and wife Lisa of Oil City; daughter, Brenda Davis of Beaumont, TX; grandsons, Joe McKee of Oil City and Dustin Davis of Vidor, TX; and by a host of other family and friends.

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Evelyn Joyce Kennedy - January 12, 1943 - April 03, 2024

Departed: 04/03/2024 (Wilson)

Obituary Preview: Wilson - Graveside Services for Mrs. Evelyn Joyce (Frizzell) Kennedy, 81 are scheduled for 2:00 P.M., Tuesday, April 9, 2024 at Hewitt Cemetery Pavilion with Bill Baker officiating and Timothy Gonzales assisting.  Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Wilson.

Evelyn was born on January 12, 1943 in Sasakwa, OK to the late Mr. Ernest Orville Frizzell and Mrs. Ruth Augusta (Jones) Frizzell.  She departed from this life on Wednesday, April 3, 2024 in Sherman, OK.

Evelyn was raised in Sasakwa, OK and attended school there.  She married Jim Bob Kennedy on April 13, 1978 at Provence, OK and to this union they were blessed with 1 son, Brian Lynn.  Evelyn was a devoted homemaker who enjoyed puzzles, reading her Bible, watching Full House, and playing with her grandchildren.

Preceding her in death were her parents; husband, Jim Bob on January 28, 2004; son, Jimmy; 1 brother, and 5 sisters.

Evelyn is survived by her son, Brian Lynn Kennedy and his wife Joni of Healdton; sisters, Linda Sue Thomas of Oklahoma City, and Betty Jean of Texas; brother, Jackie Don Frizzell and wife Barbara of Cox City; 5 grandchildren, James Gibbs, Dakota Gibbs and wife Shelby, Stetson Gibbs, Cheyenne Kennedy, and Bobby Tre Kennedy; 7 great grandchildren; children, Ronda Williams of Oklahoma City, Sheila Harmon of Claremore, and Kathryn Broadhead of Kiefer; and by a host of other family and friends.

Viewing hours are Monday from 8:00 A.M. - 5:00 P.M. at Wilson.

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Gary Dale Joy - April 12, 1951 - March 30, 2024

Departed: 03/30/2024 (Wilson)

Obituary Preview: Cheek – Cremation Services for Mr. Gary Dale Joy, 72, of Cheek are scheduled with Alexander Gray Funeral Home of Wilson. He departed this life Saturday, March 30, 2024 at a nursing home in Ardmore.

Gary was born on April 12, 1951 at Ardmore to the late Mr. Emzie Joy and Mrs. Ruth (Richardson) Joy. He was raised at Cheek attending school at Lone Grove. He worked as a truck driver for Overland Construction and most years for Aero Transport out of Tulsa. Gary enjoyed farming and raising cattle and was a member of the Cheek Baptist Church.

Preceding him in death are his parents; brother, Bruce Joy and sister Betty Joy.

Survivors include a nephew, James Gillaspy and wife Leslie of Lone Grove; numerous other family and friends. Condolences may be shared online at www.alexandergaryfh.com

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Faye Etta (Roberts) Bigbie - April 01, 1931 - March 28, 2024

Departed: 03/28/2024 (Wilson)

Obituary Preview: Wilson- Services for Faye Etta (Roberts) Bigbie, 92, of Wilson, are scheduled for 2:00 P.M., Thursday, April 4, 2024, at the Alexander Gray Funeral Home Chapel in Wilson with Rev. Mike Johnston officiating and grandson, Jacky Grissom providing the Eulogy. Interment will follow at Hewitt Cemetery in Wilson.

Faye was born April 1, 1931, at Orr, OK to the late Mr. William Preston “Honey” Roberts and Mrs. Winnie Odessa (Goldsmith) Roberts. She departed this life Thursday, March 28, 2024, at Ardmore, OK.

Faye was raised at Orr moving to Wilson as a teenager. Her mother passed away at an early age and Faye became a mother to her brother, Sonny. She married Bane Bigbie in 1987, making their home in Ringling. Faye initially worked as a supervisor for Stromberg Carlson and owned and operated “The Outpost” at the Healdton/Wilson Y for many years. She was the most proud of getting to work with children as a Teacher Assistant in Early Childhood Development with Ardmore Public Schools and Sunshine Industries. Faye was a member of the Oklahoma Teachers Association, Wolf Hunters Association, and a Worthy Matron of the Eastern Star, being initiated in 1968.

Preceding her in death are her parents; grandparents, who helped raise her, Flavious Joe and Gussie Ellen Roberts; husband, Bane Bigbie who passed on November 17, 2011; brother, William H “Sonny Boy” Roberts; sister, Barbara Cochran and son-in-law, Sonny Grissom.

Survivors include her daughter, Sue Grissom of Wilson; grandchildren, Lori Gordon and husband Joe of Wilson and Jacky Grissom and Kelly of Georgia; great grandchildren, Sunny Bulla, J.W. Grissom, Makenzie Grissom, and Kourtney Lytle; great great grandchildren, Vesper, Jaxon, Ronin, Scarlette, Memphis, and Mason; stepchildren, Bane Bigbie and wife Melanie, Kathi Trent and husband Randall, Rocky Bigbie and wife Laurie, Stacy Woodruff and husband Jon along with their children and grandchildren; numerous nieces, nephews, other family, and friends.

Pallbearers will be J.W. Grissom, Brandon Bulla, Jimmy Taylor, Paul Roberts, Larry Roberts, and Donnie Gaines.

Honorary bearers are Audie Roberts, Charlie Steele, Kerry Roberts, Danny Steele, Mike Steele, Earl J. Roberts, Kris Roberts, Bane Bigbie, and Rocky Bigbie.

Visitation will be held from 6-8 P.M., Wednesday evening at the Alexander Gray Funeral Home Chapel in Wilson. Condolences and memories may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com

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Rufus Clark, Jr. - July 04, 1936 - March 24, 2024

Departed: 03/24/2024 (Wilson)

Obituary Preview: Services for Rufus Clark, Jr., will be held on Thursday, March 28, 2024, at 2:00 pm at the Alexander-Gray Funeral Home Chapel in Wilson, Oklahoma, with Pastor Casey Fain officiating. Interment will follow at Bomer-Point Cemetery.

Rufus Clark, Jr. was born July 4, 1936, in Okmulgee, Oklahoma to Rufus William and Retta Melissa (Dipboye) Clark. He passed from this life on March 24, 2024, in Grand Prairie, Texas at the age of 87 years, 8 months, and 20 days.

Rufus spent his early childhood years in St. Louis, Oklahoma and then moved to Pauls Valley, Oklahoma in 1951. He married his high school sweetheart, Peggy Jo Cudd, in November 1955. Rufus attended Oklahoma State Technical school in Okmulgee where he earned an associate degree in diesel mechanics. Rufus and Peggy were blessed with two children, James Dee and Susan Kelly Clark. He worked for Detroit Diesel in Oklahoma City until 1965 when the family moved to Woodward, Oklahoma. He operated a hot oil unit business in Woodward until his retirement in 1994. Peggy and Rufus moved to Gainesville, Texas in 1998 where they spent many years enjoying their children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. Rufus had many happy retirement years traveling, golfing, and fishing. He enjoyed working in his yard and tinkering in his workshop. Rufus was the one his family and friends depended on to fix whatever was broken. He came to accept Jesus Christ as his savior as a young teenager and did his best to serve the Lord and be an example for others.

Rufus is preceded in death by his parents, his brothers Jim, Dale, Donald, and Bobby Clark, and his sisters, Audrey Dudley and Wilma Clark.

He is survived by his loving wife of 68 years, Peggy. His son, Dr. James Clark and wife Zoia of Lincoln, Nebraska. His daughter, Dr. Susan Chrostowski and her husband Mike of Grand Prairie, Texas. His grandchildren: Mara Clark English and husband Mike, Yasha Clark, Katy Burdett Crisafi, and Jenny Burdett Fain and husband Casey. His great-grandchildren: Knox, Fritz, Theo, Othniel, & Veran Fain and Clark & Rex Crisafi.

Pallbearers will be Yasha Clark, Mike English, Mike Chrostowski, Craig Crisafi, James Clark, and Casey Fain.

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Donald Lee Ward - November 05, 1955 - March 24, 2024

Departed: 03/24/2024 (Wilson)

Obituary Preview: Donald Lee Ward was born November 5, 1955, at Wilson, OK to the late Mr. LA Ward and Mrs. Doris Joy Ward. He departed this life March 24, 2024, in Ardmore at the age of 68 years, 4 months, and 19 days.

Donald was raised in Ardmore where he attended school through the 12th grade. He married the former Ms. Sharon (Hobson) Segler on May 16, 1974, at the 2nd Baptist Church in Millington, TN. Donald also had enlisted in the U.S. Navy and went to boot camp in San Diego, California on January 28, 1974, then was stationed in Millington, TN. The couple began their life together at Bermuda Island for three years where he was stationed later moving to Jacksonville, FL where he was aboard the USS Forrestal. They moved to Pensacola, FL then finally made their home in Ardmore, OK in 1982. Donald worked in the oilfield, in refineries and attended school to be a Computer Technician. He was employed by Ardmore Public Schools as a Computer Technician for 20 years. Donald enjoyed riding his motorcycle with Sharon, making many memories with her and their two children, Kimberly and Donald Jr.

Preceding him in death are his parents; brother, Dana Andrew Ward; grandson, Tristan.

Survivors include his wife, Sharon Ward of the home; daughter, Kimberly Ford and husband Todd of Bonham, TX; son, Donald Ward, Jr. and wife Janet of Ardmore; brother, Verlin Ward and wife Kathy of Lone Grove; nephews, Matthew Ward and Cory Ward; seven grandchildren and one great grandchild; numerous other family and friends.

Donald’s family will be having a Memorial Service at the Trinity Baptist Church in Ardmore on April 6, 2024, with Jimmy May officiating.

Cremation Services will be under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Crematory.

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Charlene L Chatham - July 24, 1935 - March 20, 2024

Departed: 03/20/2024 (Wilson)

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Oil City – Home Going Services for Charlene L. (Thompson) Chatham, 88, of Oil City are scheduled for 2:00 PM Saturday, March 23, 2024 at Milo Baptist Church with Rev. Mike Johnston and Taco Sanchez officiating. Interment will follow at the Chatham Family Cemetery in Oil City. Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home of Wilson.

Charlene was born on July 24, 1935 at the Provence Community to the late Mr. Dick Thompson and Mrs. Velma (Sosbee) Thompson. She went to her heavenly home on Wed. Morning March 20, 2024 at Ardmore.

Charlene was raised at Lone Grove with her mother, passing when Charlene was only seven years old. She was the oldest child of four and thereafter became a nurturing mother to her siblings. She attended school at Lone Grove and married Mr. John L. Chatham on August 13, 1951. They made their home in Oil City where Charlene devoted her life to being the best homemaker to her family and community volunteer anyone could ever ask for.

Charlene often loved gardening throughout the years canning all kinds of produce she raised. She was always cooking for everyone and loved spending time and being very involved with her grandchildren. She was known to give daily bible lessons to those who visited her and loved supporting her church by teaching Sunday school at the Oil City Union Baptist Church for many years and lastly at Milo Baptist. Charlene was a very Godly woman, who let her life represent her faith in Christ. She loved and adored all of her children, grandchildren and family immensely and was a member of the Milo Baptist Church.

Preceding her in death were her parents; husband, John Logan Chatham-Jan. 5, 2007; sons, Charles Wayne and Donnie Chatham; Son in law, Randy Stephenson; brother, Dan “Sonny” and David Thompson and grandson in law, Brent Shepard.

Survivors include her daughters, Janet Chatham and Karan Godwin and husband Chris , both of Ardmore; daughter in law, Vickie Chatham of Oil City; sister in law, Donna Thompson of Lubbock, TX; grandchildren, Sean Chatham and wife Laura, Zack Chatham and wife DeeAnn, Jason Chatham and wife Heather, Misty McKinnon and husband Todd, Lindsay Stephenson, Lacey Morrow and husband Rick, Lesley Wright and husband Keith, Lauran Shepard, Lexus Stephenson, Lauren Kilcrease and husband Dakota, Ashley McIntosh and husband Isaiah; 18 great grandchildren and 20 great great grandchildren; numerous other nieces, nephews, other family, church family and friends.

Casket bearers are Zack Chatham, Sean Chatham, Jason Chatham, Chris Godwin, Jimmy Rex Chatham and Buck Chatham.

Honorary bearers are Duane “Danny” Thompson, Roger Thompson, Troy Thompson, Jimmy Leon Chatham, Billy Ray Chatham and Mike Puckett.

Family visitation 6 to 8 pm Friday evening at Alexander Gray Funeral Home of Wilson.

Condolences may be sent online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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Harry Lee Morris - September 23, 1950 - March 18, 2024

Departed: 03/18/2024 (Wilson)

Obituary Preview: Cornish - Harry Lee Morris, 73 passed away peacefully on March 18, 2024.  Graveside Inurnment Services are scheduled for 2:00 P.M., Saturday, April 6, 2024 at the Cornish Cemetery with Les Bussell officiating.  Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Wilson.

Harry was born September 23, 1950 in Ardmore, OK to the late H.L. and June Morris.  He attended Ardmore High School and the University of Arkansas where he was a member of the Kappa Sigma Fraternity.  Harry loved the outdoors, OU football, Dallas Cowboys, hunting, and his faith.

Harry is survived by his brother, Mark Morris and sister-in-law Julie Morris of Oklahoma City; sister, Michelle Brown and brother-in-law Lee Brown of Highland Park, TX; niece and nephew, Madeline Brown and Bennett Brown; and by a host of other family and friends.

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Mamie Ethel (Brecheen) LaRoche - December 09, 1943 - March 15, 2024

Departed: 03/15/2024 (Wilson)

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Wilson- Funeral Service for Mamie Ethel (Brecheen) LaRoche, 80, of Wilson, is scheduled for 2:00 P.M., Thursday, March 21, 2024, at the Alexander Gray Funeral Home Chapel in Wilson with Rev. Mike Johnston officiating and Zane Gray assisting. Interment will follow at Hewitt Cemetery.

Mamie was born December 9, 1943, at Huntsville, TX, to the late Mr. Wilson Evan Brecheen and Mrs. Mamie Ethel (Penny) Brecheen. She departed this life Friday, March 15, 2024, at her home in Wilson.

Mamie was raised at Hankamer, TX and Anahuac, TX, where she attended school but moved to Comanche her sophomore year where she graduated High School with the class of 1962. She began her working years at the Comanche Hospital as a Licensed Practical Nurse, where she was employed for around two years. In 1964, Mamie became the wife to Mr. David Michael LaRoche, a soldier at Fort Sill, and the couple made their home in Duncan. They were blessed with three children, Tammy Lynn, Deborah Jean, and David, Jr. Mamie was later employed as a dispatcher for the Healdton Police Department for many years.  David, Sr. preceded her in death on September 1, 1993. After his passing, she spent her time taking care of her grandbaby, Kimberly, which helped her cope with the passing of her husband. Mamie remarried in 1995, to Mr. Billy Don Stinson who also preceded her in death on December 17, 2010. She loved sewing and quilting but most of all spending time with her grandkids and great grandkids as they were the highlight of her life.

Also preceding her in death are her parents and 3 brothers, Wilson, Jr., Robert, and John Brecheen.

Survivors include her daughters, Tammy Dixon of Wayne and Debbie Jackson of Gene Autry; 5 sisters, Janice Hammett of Ardmore, Linda Keck and husband Gary of Healdton, Loyce Freeman and husband Randy of Healdton, Joyce Skelton of Healdton, and Theresa Barton and husband Randy of El Reno; grandchildren, Kimberly Allen and husband Jeremy, Rebekkah Radford and husband Darren, Tara Williams, Brian LaRoche, and Desiree LaRoche; 14 great grandchildren; numerous other family and friends.

Pallbearers will be Charles Freeman, James Keck, Jason Freeman, Willy Skelton, Tommy Skelton, and Tommy Jackson.

Honorary bearers are Timothy Keck, Phillip Keck, Darren Radford, Jeremy Allen, Chris Keck, and Chance Roberts.

Visitation will be held from 6-8 P.M., Wednesday evening, at the Alexander Gray Funeral Home Chapel in Wilson.

Condolences and memories may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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Eldon Lynn Davis - July 09, 1951 - March 04, 2024

Departed: 03/04/2024 (Wilson)

Obituary Preview: Wilson- Home Going Services for Lynn Davis, 72, of Simon, are scheduled for 2:00 P.M., Thursday, March 7, 2024, at the First Baptist Church in Wilson with Rev. Lawrence Anderson and Rev. Mark Fuller officiating. Interment will follow at Simon Cemetery south of Wilson. Services are under the direction and care of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Wilson.

Eldon Lynn Davis was born July 9, 1951, at Gainesville, TX to Mr. Eldon Bud Davis and Mrs. Oma Ruth (Morton) Davis. He crossed over Monday, March 4, 2024, at his home South of Wilson.

Lynn was a native of Love County residing there all his life. After graduating high school at Turner in 1970, he was employed with the Love County Maintenance Barn, driving a truck.  On Feb. 2, 1971, due to a truck malfunction, Lynn suffered the loss of his right leg. Since that time, he has persevered with determination and true grit and never considered himself disabled.  Lynn welded for Emmitt Morris, drove a Bull Wagon, water skied, ran equipment for Harold Lester and went endless miles trapping hogs with his cousin and dear friend, Mike Morton. He never slowed down, retiring from the Oklahoma Department of Transportation after 25 years of employment as a mechanic.

Lynn married the former Sue Ann Tucker on July 19, 2002, at the Saint Andrew Methodist Church in Plano, TX. They have resided happily south of Wilson, where you would often find Lynn working in the shop. Lynn was a member of the Eastman Baptist Church and had been attending worship services at the First Methodist Church of Wilson.

Preceding him in death is his father, Bud Davis, 1991; grandparents, Edgar, and Sis Morton; stepfather, Wayne Alexander and stepsister, Aletra Stuart.

Survivors include his mother, Oma Ruth Davis of Wilson; loving wife, Sue of the home; daughters, Christi Hallum and husband Lee of Enville, Kim Richardson and husband Eric of Ardmore and Staci McKinney and husband Clay of Marietta; stepdaughter, Kristin Nicholson and husband Jase of Oswalt; sister, Lynda Tynes and husband Jimmy Gale of Rubottom; stepbrother, Terry Alexander and wife Ellen of Grand Prairie, TX; grandchildren, Dylan, Jade, Kelsi, Hailey, Alice, Paisley, Waylon, Zack and Ryan; 6 great grandchildren; numerous other family and friends.

Casket bearers will be Lee Hallum, Clay McKinney, T.J. Tucker, Dylan Davis, Waylon McKinney, and Jase Nicholson.

Honorary bearers are Chance Tynes, Jimmy Gale Tynes, Mike Morton, Jerry Cain, Steve Tucker, and Bobby Tucker.

Family visitation will be from 5 to 7 pm Wednesday evening at Alexander Gray Funeral Home of Wilson.

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Randy Keith Smith - May 22, 1961 - February 28, 2024

Departed: 02/28/2024 (Wilson)

Obituary Preview: Wilson- Services for Randy Keith Smith, 62, of Wilson, are scheduled for 2:00 P.M. Wednesday, March 6, 2024, at the River of Life Church in Wilson with Bro. Jim Duck officiating. A private interment will be scheduled at a later date. Services are under the direction and care of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Wilson.

Randy was born May 22, 1961, at Dallas, TX. to the late Mr. Walter Eugene Smith and Mrs. Goldie J. (Mann) Wyrick. He departed this life Wednesday, February 28, 2024, at Healdton.

Randy grew up in Haltom City, TX where he attended school at Carter Riverside School. He began his working years in his family's café business. Randy later was employed by Sweeny Lumber Yard which led him to get his CDL’s and begin truck driving. He worked for DSI for over 10 years until he bought his own truck. Randy ran his own truck for around 33 years, hauling for many companies such as Dolese, Day Concrete, and Parson’s Trucking. He married the former Miss Laura Ritchie on November 11, 1998, at the Living Word Church in Newark, TX. Randy enjoyed camping, supervising, and entertaining the grandkids. He was a member of the River of Life Church in Wilson.

Preceding him in death are his parents and brother, Terry Alan Smith.

Survivors include his wife Laura of the home; children, Amanda Smith of Fort Worth, TX, Christopher Smith and wife Kelsi of Fort Worth, TX, Leslie Gicker of Georgia, Shawn Oshaw of Omaha, Nebraska, Brandon Smith of Wilson, and Mekayla Smith of Edmond, OK; brothers, Richard Smith and wife Essie of Fort Worth, TX and Eddie Smith and wife Lesta of Pooleville, TX; step-brother, Chas Hooper and wife Jyse of Jacksboro, TX; 11 grandchildren and one more on the way; numerous other family and friends.

Visitation will be held from 6-8 P.M. Tuesday evening at the Alexander Gray Funeral Home Chapel in Wilson.

Condolences and memories may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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Peggy Sue Henry - March 25, 1938 - February 26, 2024

Departed: 02/26/2024 (Wilson)

Obituary Preview: Wilson - Funeral Services for Mrs. Peggy Sue (Tynes) Henry, 85 of Ardmore are scheduled for 10:00 A.M., Saturday, March 2, 2024 at Southwest Baptist Church in Ardmore with Dr. Bruce Kirby officiating.  Interment will follow to Hewitt Cemetery.  Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Wilson.

Peggy was born on March 25, 1938 in Orr, Oklahoma to the late Earl Tynes and Artie Letha Kimbrell of Springer. She departed from this life on February 26, 2024 in Oklahoma City.

Peggy lived most of her childhood around the Ardmore area. She attended Plainview schools from first through eleventh grade and graduated from Springer High School in 1956. She worked as a Cosmetologist Instructor in Texas, then sold Real Estate in Baton Rouge, Louisiana. She moved with her family back to Ardmore in 1978 and worked for DHS as a clerical and administrative assistant, where she retired after 23 years of service in 2003. Peggy and Claudie Henry married on October 29, 1992 at Gainesville, Texas.

Peggy had a green thumb and enjoyed bringing clippings from her plants to grow in each new home; some of the plants even belonged to her late mother. She enjoyed fishing, camping and especially singing and making music. One way that Peggy served the Lord was by singing and teaching Bible study on Sunday mornings at Southbrook nursing home in Ardmore. She was a member of the Southwest Baptist Church.

She is preceded in death by her parents; husband Claudie Ray Henry; daughter Elizabeth Patten; brothers Hershel, Frank, John, Jimmy, Eugene, Ed, Robert and James; sisters Nettie, Lela, May, Martha, Joyce, Mary, Cleona, Leona, Ada and Dorothy.

Peggy is survived by her daughters Susan Conway and husband Danny of Lone Grove, Patricia Swanzy of Dallas and Sharla Brown and husband John of Oklahoma City; son Claude E. Henry and wife Alisha of Ardmore; fourteen grandchildren; twelve great-grandchildren and numerous other family and friends.

Pallbearers will be Robert Shlemon, William Shlemon, Claude E. Henry, Danny Conway, John Brown, and Rabun Williams.

Visitation will be held Friday evening from 5-7 P.M. at Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Wilson.

Memorial donations may be made to the Hewitt Cemetery Association at PO BOX 360, Wilson, OK 73463.

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Jennifer Michele Mays - November 17, 1982 - February 26, 2024

Departed: 02/26/2024 (Wilson)

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Wilson - Funeral Services for Jennifer Michele Mays, 41 of Ardmore are scheduled for 11:00 A.M., Monday, March 4, 2024 at the Alexander Gray Funeral Home Chapel in Wilson with Pastor Jason Dirks officiating.    Interment will follow to Mannsville Cemetery.

Jennifer was born November 17th, 1982, in Ardmore Oklahoma to Janice Kimmell. Jennifer attended Plainview Schools, graduating in 2001. She then married the love of her life, Josh Mays on August 11th, 2012.

Jennifer began her work career at KFC at the age of 16, followed by a flower consultant at 1800 flowers while attending high school. She was then accepted to the University of Oklahoma, graduating in 2007 with a bachelor’s degree in information and library studies. While attending OU she worked at the Athletic Health Medical Center.

After graduating, Jennifer worked at the Ardmore Medical Arts building as a claims specialist before moving to Arbuckle Medical Equipment as a consultant. She ended her work career working for the City of Ardmore before she got pregnant and retired to become a stay-at-home mother and wife. She gave birth to Lily Anne Mays on June 28th, 2017. She was an amazing mother to Lily and a very loving wife to Josh.

Jennifer was diagnosed with stage 2 breast cancer in 2019. Undergoing extensive surgery, chemotherapy and radiation. Jennifer was announced cancer free on October 25th, 2019, and was still cancer free until her passing on February 26, 2024 in Ardmore, OK.

Jennifer enjoyed anything that involved family, ranging from as simple as weekend night board games to shopping with her husband, black Friday shopping with her mom and sister to road trips with her family. She loved being outdoors, fishing, swimming and laying in her hammock. Jennifer loved animals, especially her goat, Lucy, and her dog, Jake.

She enjoyed creating t-shirt logos and other apparel. Highly intelligent, she was able to help her family with business problem solving. Extremely organized, she was the “guru” everyone went to for important financial information. Uncommonly inventive, she was always the one that created amazing celebrations for family birthdays and other events. An abundant sense of humor, Jennifer was always able to find the humor in the worst situation and was always successful in making even the most stoic person laugh during troubled times. Un-yielding strength, Jennifer faced adversity with health problems from her teenage years until her passing and always faced adversity with humor and optimism. Tremendous toughness, Jennifer was a fighter, she never backed down from any confrontation. She always protected those that she loved. She had no reservations about handling these situations by any means necessary. She protected those that could not protect themselves whether that be her brother during middle school, her mother as an adult, or her family until her last days. Also included her younger cousin at a high school football game. Jennifer never lost a fight a day in her life.

Jennifer was proceeded in death by her grandfather Kenneth Melvin Kimmell, Her grandmother, Winifred Clark Kimmell, and Uncle Roy Wayne Kimmell and Uncle Rodney Dewayne Kimmell.

She is survived by her daughter Lily Mays, and Husband Josh Mays of Mannsville Oklahoma, Mother Janice Kimmell of Ardmore Oklahoma, Brother Dr. Jason Richardson and Wife Sheacotah Richardson of Ardmore Oklahoma, and Niece McKenna Richardson.

Pallbearers will be Johnny Mays, Devan Vinson, Vince Vinson, Ralph Beck, Cory Scruggs, and Ernie Mays.  Honorary bearers will be Lonnie Mays, Ricky Crowell, Kelly Bryson, John Dickinson, Wesley Kimmell, Joe Dickinson, and Mike Dickinson.

Visitation will be held Sunday evening from 2-4 P.M. at Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Wilson.

Memories and stories may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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Vera Mae Williams - June 25, 1944 - February 25, 2024

Departed: 02/25/2024 (Wilson)

Obituary Preview: Wilson - Graveside Services for Mrs. Vera Mae (Hacker) Williams, 79 of Wilson are scheduled for 2:00 P.M., Saturday, March 2, 2024 at Hewitt Cemetery with Leslie Don Hacker officiating.  Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Wilson.

Vera was born to Geroge William Hacker and Lillie Ellen (Stafford) Hacker on June 25, 1944 in Oklahoma City, OK.  She departed from this life on Sunday, February 25, 2024 at the local nursing home in Wilson, OK. She joined three brothers, Gilbert James, Billy Bob and Kenneth Doyle.  The family moved from the city when Vera was 2 years old when her father quit McDonald Douglas because he was about to go in the service.  McDonald Douglas is now known as Tinker Airforce Base.  The armistice was signed, and he was inducted, so the family moved to the country between Wilson, and Lone Grove.  They moved there to be close to family and friends.  They moved down south of town.  Her father worked in the oilfields, and together as a family worked as farmers and ranchers.  At this point, another brother Loran Russell joined the family in 1949.

The children started and finished school at Lone Grove.  Vera and Loran did anyway.  The older boys started their earlier years in the city but finished at Lone Grove.  Their mother worked hard raising gardens, canning, sewing their clothes, and making quilts for the family and others.  She made hundreds of very beautiful quilts.  Vera's mother went to work cooking in the cafes when her father got down in bad health when Vera was twelve.

Vera met Bobby Gene Williams when she was sixteen in Wilson.  They began dating, got engaged, and married in 1961 between her junior and senior year.  She graduated from Lone Grove in 1962 with honors.  They moved to Wilson, and had two daughters, Pamela Darlene, and Shelia Denise.  Pam was born December 1, 1964 and Shelia was born January 3, 1966.  They both went to school in Wilson and were very active in school and both married, had children and now have grandchildren.  Her family was her pride and joy.

Vera grew up in the church and was saved when she was nine years old at Rosehill Baptist Church, and followed in Baptism when she was thirteen at Rexroat Baptist Church.  She had attended there until she got down in her health.

Preceding her in death were her parents; and a brother, Billy Bob Hacker.

Vera is survived by her husband, Bobby; daughters, Pam Digby and Shelia Clayburn; 6 grandchildren, 9 great grandchildren; brothers, Gil Hacker and wife Becky, Kenneth Hacker of Ardmore, and Loran Hacker and wife Peggy of Lone Grove; best friend for life, Wanda York Phillips; and by a host of other family and friends.

Viewing and Visitation will be held at 12-2 P.M. before the service on Saturday at Alexander Gray Funeral Home.

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Tommy Wayne DeBord, Sr. - June 20, 1949 - February 24, 2024

Departed: 02/24/2024 (Wilson)

Obituary Preview: Wilson - Funeral Services for Mr. Tommy Wayne DeBord, Sr, 74 of Wilson are scheduled for 10:00 A.M., Thursday, February 29, 2024 at Alexander Gray Funeral Home Chapel in Wilson.

Tommy was born June 20, 1949 in Healdton, OK to the late Mr. Emmitt Terrell DeBord and Mrs. Violet Fulcher (Gilbert) DeBord.  He departed from this life on Saturday, February 24, 2024 in Wilson at the local nursing home.

Tommy married Mrs. Debra Hester on June 20, 1972 in Ardmore, OK and together they were blessed with 3 children, TJ, Billy and Keri.  She preceded him in death on July 18, 2012.  He was employed for many many years for Hudson Tire Center and was an Excellent mechanic.  Tommy enjoyed fishing, working on cars, piddling around the house, shooting pool, playing at the casino with Debra, and love car racing.

Preceding him in were his parents; and his wife, Debra.

Tommy is survived by his children, T.J. DeBord and wife Michelle of Hunnington, TX, Billy Debord and wife Laura of Healdton, and Keri Honea and husband Jason of Wilson.  sister, Linda DeBord-Bach of New Mexico; 8 grandchildren, Chloe, Jasmine, Alex, Hope, Matt, Gracie, Paul, and Mykayla; 8 great grandchildren, Kyleigh, Maycie, Austin, Hudson, Raylan, Easton, Rylen, and Astoria; and by a host of other family and friends. Visitation will be held Wednesday evening from 6-7 P.M. at Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Wilson

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Michael David Brearley - January 19, 1978 - February 18, 2024

Departed: 02/18/2024 (Wilson)

Obituary Preview: Michael David Brearley, 46, of Burneyville, OK was born January 19, 1978, at Stephenville, TX, to Mr. David Eugene Brearley and Mrs. Jan Carol (Mollen) Brearley. He departed this life Sunday, February 18, 2024, at Burneyville.

Michael was raised in Denton, TX where he attended school, graduating with the class of 1997. He married the former Ms. Katie Gander on February 9, 2001, and to this union the couple was blessed with 2 sons, Blake David and Dane Michael. Michael was employed as the project manager and estimator at Custom Cast Stone Company for around sixteen years. He has worked in mechanics all his life and in the recent years has worked in ATV repair independently. Michael had friends from all walks of life. He had love and dedication for his work, his friends, and most importantly his boys. Michael was a proud and passionate conservative republican. He even named all his dogs after republican presidents.

Preceding him in death are his great grandparents; grandmother, Jane Mollen and grandfather, Gaylord Watermolen.

Survivors include his sons, Blake David Brearley and significant other, Alicia and Dane Michael Brearley all of Ponder, TX; parents, David and Jan Brearley of Burneyville, OK; mother of his children, Katie Miller of Ponder, TX; brother, Taylor Brearley of Denton, TX; niece, Kimberly Brearley of Denton, TX; grandparents, Donald and Joyce Brearley of Denton, TX; Canine companion, Reagan; numerous other family and many friends.

Services are under the direction and care of Alexander Gray Crematory.

Condolences and memories may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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Alice Faye (Risenhoover) Hartman - August 03, 1947 - February 11, 2024

Departed: 02/11/2024 (Wilson)

Obituary Preview: Wilson- Services for Alice Faye (Risenhoover) Hartman are scheduled for 2:00 P.M., Wednesday, February 14, 2024, at the Alexander Gray Funeral Home Chapel in Wilson. Interment will follow at Hewitt Cemetery in Wilson.

Alice was born August 3, 1947, at Snyder, OK to the late Mr. William “Bill” Risenhoover and Mrs. Mildred (Calvary) Walker. She departed this life Sunday, February 11, 2024, at her home in Ardmore.

Alice was raised in Fox where she attended school, graduating with the class of 1965. After graduating she began her work career as a nurse working for the Wilson Nursing Home for almost 16 years continuing her work at Lakeland Manor in Ardmore. Alice spent her life caring for others, first in the nursing homes and then privately. She cared for Michelle and Bud Harmons’ mother, Elsie, Irene Kerps, and later for Emmitt Hutchens wife, Charolette. Alice was a nurse for around nine years to each of these families. She loved to garden and spend time with her grandchildren. She also enjoyed working puzzles, playing cards, and playing dominos.

Preceding her in death are her parents; Husband, Calvin Lee on July 9, 2017; son, Punk Hartman; sister, Hester Thompson; granddaughter, Autumn Trusty.

Alice is survived by her daughter, Paula Sears and husband John of Healdton; daughter, Lieasch Lee of Lone Grove; brothers, Billy Risenhoover and wife Karen of Ada and Charles Foster and wife Vonnie of Moore; grandchildren, Becky Williams and husband Jordan, Patrick Ray Harris and wife Ashley, Morgan Hartman, Rachael Cox and husband Preston, Hailey Hartman, Foster Trusty, Hunter Trusty, Tristen Trusty, and Eric Miller; great grandchildren, Poet Phillips, Daxton Cox, Kayden Cox, Wylie Porter, Mazikeen Cox, Hadley Trusty, Chevelle Cobb, Wyatt Tibbs, and Willow Tibbs; special cousins, Evalee Russell and Terrel Jean Stephenson; Close friends Alice considered family, Rosie Skelton, Karen Ausbrooks, Liz and Mark Caudle, Michelle and Bud Harmon; numerous nieces, nephews, cousins, other family and many friends.

Pallbearers will be Patrick Harris, Hunter Trusty, Becky Williams, Kevin Trusty, Tristen Trusty, and Foster Trusty.

Honorary bearers are Karen Ausbrooks, Rosie Skelton, Donald Allen and the entire Fox Class of 1965.

Family visitation will be held from 6 – 8 P.M. Tuesday evening at the Alexander Gray Funeral Home Chapel in Wilson.

The family would like to express their great thanks to Jr Simpson and Michelle with Good Shepherd Hospice of Ardmore for their exceptional care for Alice.

Condolences and memories may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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Deloris Jean Taliaferro - September 07, 1930 - February 10, 2024

Departed: 02/10/2024 (Wilson)

Obituary Preview: Lone Grove – Private Family Graveside Services for Mrs. Deloris Jean (Blassingame) Taliaferro, 93 were held Monday evening at the Family Taliaferro Rest Cemetery in Lone Grove with Rev. Bill Black officiating. Services were under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Wilson.

Deloris was born September 7, 1930 in DeLeon, TX to the late Mr. Tom Ross Blassingame and Mrs. Doris Louise Miller. She departed from this life on Saturday, February 10, 2024 in Ardmore, OK.

Deloris was raised at Reck graduating from Zaneis in 1948. She then attended Southeastern College where she obtained her teaching degree. Deloris married Mr. Fred Richard Taliaferro on April 10, 1948 at Gainesville, TX and shared 63 years of marriage before his passing in 2011. She had taught school at Plainview and Lincoln Schools before she followed her true passion which was owning and operating The Bee Hive, a custom framing and gift shop for 30 years. Deloris enjoyed painting, gardening, cooking and she loved to read and travel.

Preceding her in death were her parents; and her husband, Fred on August 2, 2011.

Deloris is survived by her daughter, Joan Taliaferro; sons, Errol Taliaferro and wife Charlotte, Steve Taliaferro, and Jimmy Taliaferro and wife Wilda all of Lone Grove; sister, Carol Allen and husband Al; 9 grandchildren, Ty, Eric, Leah, Tessa, Cody, Rachel, Tara, Adam, and Natalie; 17 great grandchildren, 3 great great grandchildren, and by a host of other family and friends.

The family would like to express their deepest gratitude and heartfelt thanks to the Cross Timbers Hospice, Ashley and Sonja of Cross Timbers; and all the employees of the Village Lodge of Ardmore.

In Lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Cross Timbers Hospice or The Village Lodge.

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Christine Arnold - September 08, 1932 - February 09, 2024

Departed: 02/09/2024 (Wilson)

Obituary Preview: Wilson - Funeral Services for Mrs. Lily "Christine" Arnold, 91 are scheduled for 2:00 P.M., Thursday, February 15, 2024 at Alexander Gray Funeral Home Chapel with her grandson, Andy Arnold officiating.  Interment will follow at Keller Cemetery.

Christine was born September 8, 1932 in Carter County, OK to the late Mr. Henry Little Deatherage and Mrs. Delphia Rho (Thompson) Deatherage.  She departed from this life on Friday, February 9, 2024 in Shawnee, OK.

Christine was raised in Springer, OK and attended school there.  She married the love of her life, Mr. Donald Hugh Arnold and together they were blessed with 2 children, Leslie and Donna.  Don preceded her on November 25, 1992.  Christine had worked for many retail businesses, some including Sears, CR Anthoneys, Wards, Kib Warrens all while Don followed his dreams in Education after serving honorably in the Army.  She enjoyed sewing, boating, and going on family trips to Texas.

Preceding her in death were her parents; husband, Don; granddaughter, Lenora; sisters, Carolyn Sampley and May Royal; brothers, Jamie Deatherage and Dewey Labeth.

Christine is survived by her son, Leslie Arnold and wife Genell of Shawnee; daughter, Donna McPherson and husband George of Oklahoma City; sister, Clara Fry of Springer; 4 grandchildren, Andy Arnold and wife Heather, Mindy Watson and husband Joe, Tracy Robertson and wife Julie, and Lori Zwermann and husband Rick; 17 great grandchildren, and by a host of other family and friends.

Pallbearers will be Geroge McPherson, Tracy Robertson, Braden Robertson, Rick Zwermann, Les Arnold, and Andy Arnold.

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Edith Wonita Roberts - July 14, 1929 - February 04, 2024

Departed: 02/04/2024 (Wilson)

Obituary Preview: Ardmore - Graveside Services for Mrs. Edith Wonita Roberts, 94 of Lone Grove are scheduled for 2:00 P.M., Wednesday, February 7, 2024 at Hillcrest Memorial Park with Rev. Royce McClendon officiating and Rev. David Gardner assisting.  Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Wilson.

Edith was born July 14, 1929 in Elk City, OK to the late Mr. Floyd Joseph Gothard and Mrs. Mamie Elizabeth (English) Gothard.  She departed from this life on Sunday, February 2, 2024 in Ardmore, OK.

Edith was raised all over moving along with her family from Orr, Ryan, Lone Grove, Oklahoma City, and Ardmore areas, but she was primarily raised in the Lone Grove and Ardmore area attending high school in Oklahoma City.  Edith married Mr. Maxie Woodrow Roberts on September 20, 1946 in Ardmore where together they raised 6 children.  He preceded her in death on August 24, 1992.  Edith was a devoted homemaker before she worked for Joe K Carrol shipping leather, Montogomery Ward, the lake, and she cleaned houses.  Edith enjoyed politics, volunteered for the Lone Grove Senior Citizens giving 273 hours of service to them and she loved that she received 2 awards from the Govenor frequently telling others about the honors she received.  But mainly, Edith was very devoted to her children, helping nurse two of them back to health.

Preceding her in death was her parents; husband, Maxie; a son, Freddie Roberts and 4 sisters.

Edith is survived by her children, Maxine Trimble of Ardmore, Galene Southerland and husband Ron of Ardmore, Ron Roberts and wife Freida of Lone Grove, Renae Gillespie and husband David of Ardmore, and Jody Roberts and wife Sandy of Ardmore; 11 grandchildren, Diane Foster, Darlene Stinson, Shannon Mayer and Ronnie Castle, Michelle Crane, Monica DeFries and husband Mark, Angela Roberts, Shaine Roberts and wife Desirea, and Michael Roberts and wife Summer; 26 great grandchildren, 24 great great grandchildren, and by a host of other family and friends.

Visitation will be held Tuesday evening from 6-8 PM at Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Wilson.

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John Leroy DeLano - August 10, 1946 - February 01, 2024

Departed: 02/01/2024 (Wilson)

Obituary Preview: Lone Grove - Services for Mr. John Leroy DeLano, 77, of Lone Grove are scheduled for 2:00 PM Monday, Feb. 5, 2024 at the Church of Christ on Merrick Drive in Ardmore with Jeff Jones officiating. Interment will follow at the Mount Olive Cemetery of Healdton. Family visitation will be held at the Lone Grove Church of Christ 6:00 pm to 8:00 pm Sunday, Feb. 4, 2024. Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home of Wilson.

John was born on August 10, 1946 in Healdton, Oklahoma, to the late Olin and Myrtle (Gober) DeLano. John (“Johnny”) was born in the house that he and his four siblings grew up in. He shed his earthly tent on February 1, 2024 at the home he shared with the love of his life, his Blue Angel, Carolyn. He crossed into the presence of the Lord in the way he always wanted: listening to his family singing hymns.

Johnny grew up on his parents' farm in Healdton. He made many happy memories there as a child, and later as Daddy and Poppy. Johnny decided to make Carolyn Murray his wife the first time he saw her. She was in the sixth grade, and he was in the eighth. They were married December 17, 1965, in Wirt, OK. They made their first home in Tishomingo, where they both continued their education. John went on to graduate from the University of Oklahoma School of Pharmacy in 1969. They returned to the Ardmore area following his graduation and started their family. Over the years John worked as a pharmacist, while Carolyn devoted herself to being a loving wife and Momma to their two daughters. Together they opened Lone Grove Drug in July of 1979, working side by side for many years. They both coached softball, and the store sponsored community teams. John was a strong supporter of the school and community.

Johnny was a creative and talented man and enjoyed many hobbies and perfected many crafts over the years: macramé, drawing/painting, gardening, wood turning, wood carving and wood burning. He was so proud of his family and talked about them to anyone who would listen. John was a loving and attentive father who spent many hours helping with school projects. He was a member of the Lone Grove Church of Christ.

Preceding him in death are his parents, Olin and Myrtle DeLano, and his brother, Bill DeLano.

Survivors include his loving wife, Carolyn; daughters Misti McAlister and husband Jonathan of Lone Grove, and Carrie DeLano of McAlester; brother Gale and wife Ginny of Irvington, Kentucky; sisters Loretta Way of Healdton and Janie Simon and husband Guy of Healdton; grandchildren Kennedy LaMascus and husband Parker, Trent McAlister, Makadyn DeLano, Brodie DeLano and Landon DeLano; numerous nieces and nephews and many dear friends.

Casket Bearers are Trent McAlister, Brodie DeLano, Landon DeLano, Parker LaMascus, Todd Graves and Lyle Graves.

Honorary bearers are Jonathan McAlister, Kennedy LaMascus and Makadyn DeLano. Condolences may be sent online to the DeLano family at www.alexandergrayfh.com

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What is the purpose of an obituary?

An obituary serves to announce someone's death, often in a local newspaper or online. It summarizes the person's life, including significant accomplishments or contributions and information about the funeral or memorial services. It is both a way to inform the community and a way to honor and celebrate the life of the deceased.

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Typically, a close family member of the deceased works on the obituary. However, friends, extended family, or even professional writers can contribute to or write the obituary with the family's consent and input.

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An obituary usually includes the full name of the deceased, their age, date of passing, a brief overview of their life such as their career, interests, and achievements, names of surviving relatives, and details of the funeral or memorial service. Personal anecdotes and messages of remembrance can also be incorporated to personalize the obituary.

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Including details of the cause of death is a personal choice and is not required. Some families choose to include this information to prevent speculation, support a cause related to the death, or raise awareness of certain health issues. Others may prefer to keep this information private.

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The length of an obituary can vary considerably. A traditional newspaper obituary is usually concise, about 200-500 words due to space constraints and cost. However, an online obituary can be longer, giving you the opportunity to include more details and personal stories.

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Obituaries are brief announcements of someone's death and summaries of their life published in newspapers or online. Eulogies, on the other hand, are spoken tributes presented at funeral services, often more personal and detailed, sharing memories and honoring the deceased's life. Eulogies can be the basis for a more elaborate obituary.

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To find if someone has an obituary, you can search online databases, check local newspaper archives, or visit the website of the funeral home handling the arrangements. Social media can also be a source of information as family and friends may share obituary links there.

Is it necessary to hire a professional to write an obituary?

It is not necessary to hire a professional to write an obituary. Many people who are comfortable with writing take on this task personally. However, if you feel unsure or overwhelmed, some funeral homes offer this service, or you can hire a professional writer for assistance.

Can you update an obituary after it has been published?

In print, once an obituary is published, it cannot be revised. However, online obituaries can often be updated or edited. If you notice an error in a printed obituary, you can publish a corrected version, though this may incur additional costs.

What can you do if the newspaper made a mistake in the obituary?

If the newspaper made a mistake, contact them immediately to correct the error. They may publish a correction or allow you to republish the obituary at a reduced rate or for free, depending on their policies and the nature of the error.

Are there alternatives to traditional obituaries?

Apart from traditional obituaries, other options include online memorials, video tributes, and living obituaries where individuals share their life stories prior to their passing. These alternatives can provide a more modern, interactive, and personalized tribute to the deceased.

How soon after death should an obituary be published?

Usually, an obituary is published several days after death, allowing time for the family to notify friends and relatives and to finalize details of the funeral or memorial service. Ideally, it should be published before the services to ensure attendance by those who wish to pay their respects.

Can I include charitable donations in an obituary?

Yes, it is common to include a request for charitable donations in lieu of flowers. You can specify a favorite charity of the deceased or a cause relevant to them. This information is typically placed at the end of the obituary.

How can friends and acquaintances be informed about an obituary?

Friends and acquaintances can be informed about an obituary by sharing the link if it is published online, emailing or messaging a copy, or passing along information regarding its publication in a local newspaper. Social media also serves as a platform to circulate the obituary notice widely.

Is it possible for an obituary to be contested or disputed?

While rare, it is possible for an obituary to be contested or disputed, typically by members of the family who disagree with the content. To prevent this, it's best to involve close family members in the drafting process and to try to reach a consensus before publication.