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Marion Richardson - July 01, 1935 - April 05, 2024

Departed: 04/05/2024 (RINGLING)

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Ringling - Funeral Services for Mr. Marion Richardson, 88 of Orr are scheduled for 2:00 P.M. Monday, April 8, 2024 at the First Baptist Church in Ringling with Rev. Mike Williams officiating.  Interment will follow to Ringling Memorial Cemetery.  Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Ringling.

Marion was born in Ringling, OK to the late Mr. Albert Renner Richardson and Mrs. Ida Mae (Evans) Richardson.  He departed from this life on Friday, April 5, 2024 in Oklahoma City, OK.

Marion was raised south of Ringling his entire life graduating from Ringling High School in 1954.  He married Delrena Parnell on July 5, 1988 in Gainesville and together made their home in Orr.   Marion had worked for Texaco Station for 10 years, the Pants Factory in Ringling and the Marietta Sportswear for 21 years.  He really enjoyed farming and his cattle, John Deere tractors, and the Texas Rangers.

Preceding him in death were his parents; 2 sisters, Virginia and Mamie; brother, Leon; and 2 grandchildren.

Marion is survived by his wife, Delrena of the home; stepdaughters, Rosie Rotrekl, Kathy Brinkley, Delley Brinkley and husband Ron LeBlanc, Glenda Johnston, and Clarissa Brenan and husband Ron; stepson, George Brinkley, Jr. and wife Kathy, sister, Patsy Ann Gilley; 12 step grandchildren, 20 step great grandchildren, 1 step great great grandchild; numerous nieces, nephews, and a host of other family and friends.

Pallbearers will be Ron LeBlanc, Ron Brenan, Autry Bean, Derek Herrera, Jerret Herrera, Cage Tapia, Justin Goff and Joe Rico.

Memories may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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Mark Allen King - October 04, 1961 - April 04, 2024

Departed: 04/04/2024 (RINGLING)

Obituary Preview: Ringling- Services for Mark Allen King, 62, of Denison, TX, are scheduled for 2:00 P.M., Wednesday, April 10, 2024, at the Alexander Gray funeral Home Chapel in Ringling with Colby Wadley and Michael King officiating. Interment will follow at Cornish Cemetery.

Mark was born on October 4, 1961, at Ringling, to the late Mr. Thurman Dale King and Mrs. Erika Marie (Luppert) King. He departed this life on April 4, 2024, at Denison, TX.

Mark was raised in Ringling where he attended school, graduating with the class of 1979. After graduation, he went to work in the oilfield and also worked building oil well pumps and other supplies. Mark opened his own mechanic shop in the late 1980’s. He married the former Miss Debbie Buchmiller on January 7, 1989, at the Ringling Community Fellowship Church. The couple made their home in Gustine, TX and Mark went to work for his uncle as a ranch hand then later worked for MoorMan’s in Comanche, OK, making cattle cubes, salt blocks, and such. Mark and Debbie moved to Denison, TX and he began working for TLT Construction Company. He had an unfortunate accident at work which resulted in him being electrocuted, but he recovered well from that over time. Marks most recent job was working as the Department Manager for the Automotive Department at Walmart in Sherman, TX where he was employed for over 19 years. He loved to fish and had a large collection of fishing reels and collecting old knives such as Old Timer brands.

Mark is preceded in death by his parents, Thurman and Erika; stepmother, Thirza and great nephew, Hudson King.

Survivors include his wife, Debbie of the home; sons, Leslie King and wife Amber and Patrick King and wife Raegan all of Denison, TX; siblings, Kenneth Paul King and wife Karen Ann of Oklahoma City, Sue Kelly and husband Bill of Burneyville, OK, and Stephanie King of San Antonio, TX; grandchildren, McKenzie Rae King, Zakary King, Carter Swindell, Jackson King, and Kennedy King; many nieces, nephews, other family, and many friends.

Pallbearers will be Leslie King, Patrick King, C.K. Kelley, Chase Kelley, Sam Edwards, Jeremy Cottrell, Michael King, and Joey Boatner.

Honorary bearers are J.D. Kelley, Kabe Kelley, Braxten Kelley, Luke Kelley, Carter Swindell, Jackson King, Zakary King, Finley Boatner, Tucker Edwards, and Landon Cottrell.

Visitation will be held Tuesday evening at the Alexander Gray Funeral Home Chapel in Ringling.

Condolences and memories may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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Betty Jo (Ward) Baker - January 06, 1934 - March 28, 2024

Departed: 03/28/2024 (RINGLING)

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Ringling – Home Going Services for Mrs. Betty Jo (Ward) Baker, 90, of Ringling is scheduled for 2:00 PM Wed. April 3, 2024, at Alexander Gray Funeral Home Chapel with Bro. Joe Taylor officiating. Interment will follow at Ringling Memorial Cemetery.

Mrs. Baker was born Jan. 6, 1934, at Ringling to the late Mr. Willis Vernon Ward and Mrs. Fannie (Martin) Ward. She went to her heavenly home on Thursday March 28, 2024, at Wilson.

Betty was raised in Ringling where she attended school at Mountain Home and then later at Ringling. She married the late Mr. Gerald W. Baker on August 30, 1952, at Gainesville, TX. They made their home south of Ringling in Love County, as caretakers of Bonner Ranch, which is now known as Hoffman Ranch. They were blessed with 3 children and resided on the Ranch for 50 years until their retirement. Then they moved to the town of Ringling and have remained since.

Betty was always busy within her household. She cooked each meal for her family and for all the added cowboys on workdays. She enjoyed for all time having a garden and canned habitually and loved to quilt and was exceptionally capable handpicking pecans. Even though she held her membership at the Ringling Assembly of God Church, Betty would commonly attend the Asphaltum Assembly of God Church north of Ringling.

Preceding her in death are her parents; husband, Gerald, March 18, 2000; grandson, Jared White; son in law, Kenney White; brothers, Forrest, Kenneth and Max Ward and sisters, Vyda Porter, Wanda Copeland, Octavia Wright and Dorothy Cullins.

Survivors include her three beloved children, Donna Kay White of Healdton, Deborah Benson and husband Barry of Ringling and James Baker and wife Denise of Ada; grandchildren, Stuart Baker and wife Vanna, Karra Norris and husband Chad and Kalley Jo Byers and husband Mark; great grandchildren, Gunner, Brynlee, Luke, Mason and Hillary Jo; sister, Otressa Bigelo of Antelope, CA; numerous nieces, nephews and other family.

Casket Bearers are Ronnie Southerland, Willis Southerland, Robert Southerland, Darrin Miller, Grey Shivers and Tony Lyle.

Honorary bearers are Jerry Eubanks and Terry Porter.

Family visitation will be held Tuesday evening from 6 to 8 pm at Alexander Gray Funeral Home of Ringling. Condolences may be sent online at www.alexandergrayfh.com

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Jerry Lee Mears - March 01, 1945 - March 24, 2024

Departed: 03/24/2024 (RINGLING)

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Ringling - Memorial Services for Mr. Jerry Lee Mears, 79 of Ringling are scheduled for 2:00 P.M., Friday, March 29, 2024, at Alexander Gray Funeral Home Chapel in Ringling with John Morrow officiating.

Jerry was born March 1, 1945 in Brownsville, TX to the late Mr. William Floyd Mears and Mrs. Addie Irene (Barbour) Mears.  He departed from this life Sunday, March 24, 2024 at his home in Ringling, OK.

Jerry was raised primarily in Dundee and Healdton, attending school at Dundee.  After his school years, he went to work for Independent Tank Co. before establishing a career on drilling and workover rigs.  Jerry married Phyllis Morrow on May 17, 1963 at Wichita Falls, TX at the First United Methodist Church.  They resided in Healdton and thereafter several places before moving north of Ringling on Countyline Road.  Jerry worked for Sutherland Well Service as a pusher and several other jobs most recently as bus driver for Ringling Public Schools. He was of the Catholic Faith, attending mass at Duncan and loved hunting, fishing, and raising dogs.

Preceding him in death were his parents; sister, Judy Glenn; daughter, Leah Williams; 2 sons in law, Jesse Acosta and Joe Williams.

Jerry is survived by his wife of 59 years, Phyllis Mears; daughter, Jeria Acosta; sister, Joy Henderson and husband Jack; brother in law, Johnny Morrow, sister in law, Susie Morrow;  grandchildren, Stormy Acosta and husband William Leasure, Hailey Bethea and husband Justin, Tristen Acosta and wife Candice, Jayden Acosta and wife Jaycie, Cody Gordon, Jennifer Eubanks, Kirk Gordon and wife Amber, and Joelee Williams and wife Ariane; great grandchildren, Jake and Jacee Gordon, Chevy and Emerie Eubanks, Elana and Bonnie Gordon, Oliver, Leo and Freya Leasure, Jessie Bethea, and those on the way; niece, Madison Morrow, nephews, John and Caleb Morrow, nieces, Laura Courtwright and Sarah Caldwell; nephews, Sam and William Glenn; and by a host of other family and friends.

Honorary Bearers will be all grandchildren.

Condolences may be made online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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Ruby Joyce Ragan - August 28, 1932 - March 22, 2024

Departed: 03/22/2024 (RINGLING)

Obituary Preview: Ringling - Funeral Services for Mrs. Ruby Joyce Ragan, 91 of Ringling are scheduled for 2:00 P.M., Wednesday, March 27, 2024 at Alexander Gray Funeral Home Chapel in Ringling with Rev. Jerry Gunsolus officiating.  Interment will follow to Ringling Memorial Cemetery.

Ruby was born August 28, 1932 in Cranfills Gap, Texas to the late Mr. Harvey Giles Shields and Mrs. Alberta Alice (Sikes) Shields.  She departed from this life on Friday, March 22, 2024 in Ringling, OK.

Ruby grew up in Hico, TX until she married J.B. Ragan on September 1, 1951 in Hamilton, TX.  Together they raised seven children, Theda, Dona Sue, Charlotte, Ronald, Giles, Wanda, and Gary.  Joyce moved with her family to Ringling in 1964 and lived there over 60 years.

Preceding her in death were her parents; husband, J.B. and her daughters, Dana Sue and Wanda.

Ruby is survived by her five children, Ronald Ragan of Ardmore, Giles "Buzz" Ragan of Arlington, TX, Gary Ragan and wife Lisa of Irving, TX, Theda Love and husband Odell of Arlington, TX, and Charlotte Schoonover of Biggs; 13 grandchildren, 26 great grandchildren, 6 great great grandchildren, and by a host of other family and friends.

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Inez Patricia (Halvorson) Sullivan - February 05, 1945 - February 13, 2024

Departed: 02/13/2024 (RINGLING)

Obituary Preview: Ringling- Graveside services for Inez Patricia (Halvorson) Sullivan, 79, of Woodward, are scheduled for 2:00 P.M., Tuesday, February 20, 2024, at Dixie Cemetery in Stephens County with Bro. Bobby Perkins officiating.  Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Ringling.

Inez was born in Silverton, Oregon February 5, 1945, to the late Mr. Harmon Halvorson and Mrs. Barbara Gail (Ball) Halvorson. She went to her Heavenly home on Tuesday, February 13, 2024.

Inez was raised in Portland Oregon where she attended school at David Douglas Public School, graduating with the class of 1963. She went to stay with her grandmother in Silverton where she worked at a cannery, picking strawberries, cherries, beans, and many other things. This is where she met the love of her life, Joseph Wesley Sullivan, and after just 2 weeks of dating the couple were united in marriage on September 16, 1963, at Silverton, Oregon at Joe’s uncle's house. The couple made their home in Portland where they began their family. A few years later, Inez was employed by Stromberg-Carlson Manufacturing Company where she worked in data processing. She was also employed by Texaco Oil Company as a secretary for a few years. Inez and Joe attended Rhema Bible Training Center at Broken Bow together and began a life of ministry all over the United States. Inez went on to further her education at Cameron University where she earned her master's degree in education. The couple made their home in Loco, OK for many years but moved to Woodward to be closer to family in 2021. Inez was an avid reader who enjoyed reading her Bible and a good romance novel. She was a fan of the OU Sooners, Thunder, and sometimes OSU.

Preceding her in death are her parents, Harmon and Barbara Gail Halvorson.

Survivors include her husband, Joe Sullivan of the home; children, Kristin Pryor of Seattle, Washington, Chet Sullivan and wife Lorie of Comanche, Bonnie Parker and husband Brian of Woodward, and Connie Brzoticky and husband Patrick also of Woodward; sisters, Phyllis Halvorson of Oregon, Gail Harris of Portland, Oregon, and Jessica Nguyen of California; grandchildren, Greg Myers, Shea Aleman and husband Gustavo, Colton Sullivan and wife Zoey, Chase Sullivan and fiancé Sarah, Bailey Panell and husband Ethan, Brianna Brzoticky, Britney Brzoticky, Zoe Cheriel and Calder Cheriel; twelve great grandchildren; numerous nieces, nephews, other family, and many friends.

Pallbearers will be Donnie Sullivan, Greg Myers, Colton Sullivan, Rodney Hamilton, Michael Floyd Sullivan, Chase Sullivan, Ryan Sullivan, and Mark Sullivan.

Honorary bearers are Wesley Sullivan, Jessie Sullivan, Larry Sullivan, and Les Sullivan.

Condolences and memories may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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William "Steve" Rapier - April 06, 1955 - February 04, 2024

Departed: 02/04/2024 (RINGLING)

Obituary Preview: Ringling- Services for William “Steve” Rapier, 68, of Ringling, are scheduled for 10:00 AM, Saturday, February 10, 2024, at the First Baptist Church of Ringling with Rev. Mike Williams officiating. Services are under the direction and care of Alexander Gray Funeral Home and Crematory of Ringling.

Steve was born April 6, 1955, to the late Mr. W.S. Rapier Jr., and Mrs. Eunice L (Gardner) Rapier. He departed this life Sunday, February 4, 2024, at his son’s home in Midland, TX.

Steve was raised in Ringling where he attended school, graduating with the class of 1973. He began a career in the oilfield with his brother Danny. Steve married the former Ms. Karen Ellice Webb on December 8, 1978, at the First Baptist Church of Wilson and they made their home in Wilson but soon moved back to Ringling. In the early 1990’s Steve worked as a ranch hand in Montana for a few years. After returning to Ringling, he served as a first responder for around 20 years. When Steve was 40 years of age, he went on to further his education, earning his master’s degree in psychology.   He was then dedicated to serving the wellbeing of the community as a counselor for 20 years.  Steve loved any kind of animal, enjoyed tinkering with anything outdoors, and working with his hands. His wife Karen preceded him in death on July 1, 2014.

Also preceding him in death are his parents, W.S. and Eunice; brothers, Davey, Danny, and Jim Rapier; nephew, Michael Rapier.

Survivors include his daughter, Samantha Rapier of Lewisville, TX; son, Steve Rapier and wife Sarah of Midland, TX; grandchildren, Wren Rapier, Aria Ikwueme, and Robin Rapier; numerous in-laws, nieces, nephews, other family and many friends.

Pallbearers will be Casey Rapier, Tracey Rapier, Randy Stowers, Clint Smith, Bryce Smith, and Kevin Edwards.

Honorary bearers are all of the Ringling First Responders, EMT’s, and Volunteer Fire Department.

Family visitation will be held Friday evening from 6-8 P.M. at the Alexander Gray Funeral Home Chapel in Ringling.

Online condolences and memories may be shared at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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Douglas Porter Hodges - September 18, 1934 - January 30, 2024

Departed: 01/30/2024 (RINGLING)

Obituary Preview: Ringling - Private family services for Mr. Douglas Porter Hodges, 89, of Ringling are scheduled at Ringling Memorial Cemetery. Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home of Ringling.

Porter was born Sept. 18, 1934 at Searcy, AR to the late Mr. Douglas Miller Hodges and Mrs. Clara Bell (Boise) Hodges. He crossed over on Tuesday evening,  Jan. 30, 2024 at his home in Ringling.

Porter was raised primarily at San Angelo, TX moving back to Searcy his senior year of high school. There he graduated high school and soon found employment as an electrician apprentice at Ford Moto Co. Later in life he moved to Oklahoma City working as the maintenance person of the First National Bank. There he met and soon married the former, Georgia Lou Harris on Aug. 31, 1974 at Nuevo Laredo, Mex.

Eventually they made their home in Ringling, where Porter served the community for many years as the local HVAC, Electrician and Plumber repairman. When he wasn't working for homeowners or businesses, he loved being on his ranch farming and tending to his cattle. He was of the Methodist faith.

Preceding him in death are his parents; wife Georgia, Sept 14, 2023 and a sister- Iris Riddle and her husband Alvin.

Survivors include his daughter, Rusty Hodges of Ringling; son, Glynn Sears and wife Orwan of Lockesburg, AR; grandson, Douglas Levy of Hobbs, NM; special niece, Claudette Cox and husband Mike of Skiatook, OK;  4 nieces of the Texas area. numerous other family and friends.

Casket Bearers are Butch Scifres, Glynn Sears, Charles Lockwood, Cole Lockwood, Judy Porter, Rusty Hodges and Claudette Cox.

Honorary bearers will be Jack Porter, Jim Hood and Reagan Jones.

The family would like to express their grateful thanks for all of his friends for their relationship, kindness and generosity given to Porter during his last days. condolences may be sent online at www.alexandergrayfh.com

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Floyd George Bortz, Sr. - February 12, 1930 - January 25, 2024

Departed: 01/25/2024 (RINGLING)

Obituary Preview: Ringling - Cremation services are scheduled for Mr. Floyd George Bortz, Sr.  93, of Ringling at Alexander Gray Crematory of Ringling. Services will be held at a later date at Cardington, Ohio.

Floyd was born Feb. 12, 1930 at Bechtelsville, PA to the late Mr. Jonathan George Bortz and Mrs Verna R. (Benfield) Bortz. He crossed over on Thursday Jan. 25, 2024 at Ardmore, OK.

Floyd served in the United States Army as a Staff Sgt, also as a military policeman and CID, during the Korean War. He worked within the Uranium Mines at Anaconda, AZ for several years. He moved to Ringling in 1996, be closer to his family. He loved hunting, fishing and woodworking. He was of the Christian faith.

Preceding him in death are his parents; wife, Rosemary (Keen) Bortz and stepson, Tony Bortz.

Survivors include his children, Floyd Bortz, Jr., Yvonne Eastep, Greta Skeems, Jon Bortz and Curtis Bortz; stepchildren, Ramona Johnson and Daniel Wolf; siblings, Chester, Mae, Dorothy, Virginia, Russell, Linda, David, Butch, and Anna; numerous grandchildren, great grandchildren and great great grandchildren. Condolences may be sent online at www.alexandergrayfh.com

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Billy Wayne Griffith - December 13, 1945 - January 24, 2024

Departed: 01/24/2024 (RINGLING)

Obituary Preview: Dixie - Graveside Services for Mr. Billy Wayne Griffith, 78 of Loco are scheduled for 10:00 A.M., Monday, January 29, 2024 at Dixie Cemetery.  Rev. Jerry Gunsolus officiating.  Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Ringling.

Billy was born December 13 1945 in Ringling, OK to the late Mr. Dale and Rosie (Lyle) Griffith.  He departed from this life on Wednesday, January 24, 2024 at his home in Loco.

Billy was raised in the Ringling, Loco, and Pinto area all his life and was a graduate of Fox High School.  He married Penny Burton in January of 1969 and together they were blessed with two children, Paula and Greg.  Later he married Bonnie Gaither on February 2, 2008 in Velma and together they made their home in Loco.  Billy worked in the oilfield and carpentry fields most of his life.  He enjoyed spending time with family having cookouts and he loved to dance.  Billy used to say back in the day, that he was "Wild Bill", now he said he is "Sweet William".

Preceding him in death were his parents; sister, Kathy Cox; and a son, Micky Lee Teeter in 1998.

Billy is survived by his wife, Bonnie; children, Paula Breakfield and husband Dink, Greg Griffith and wife Sherrie, Jammey Howard and husband Chris; Billy Blackstone and wife Chrissa, Catrina Spangler and husband Michael, Ben Teeter and wife Kim, and Kristi Collins; grandchildren, Jason and Brandi Breakfield, Brandon Breakfield, Kayla Chapman, Derrick Chapman, Kallie and Billy Gingery, Mackenzie and Cobey Pruitt, Dylan and Maci Lambert, Ciera Newcomb, Nick and Payton Blackstone, Lacy, Jordon, and Morgan Blackstone, Luther LeeWayne Teeter, Wyatt Teeter, Sarah Haslacker, Katy Haslacker, Desi and Halie Gomez, Kara and Melanie Teetleton, Rigen and Audrey Howard, Ceadon Lowry, Liz Wood, Jadyn Lowry, Kade Stewart, Raleigh Lowry, and Kaleb Chapman; 24 great grandchildren; sister, Karla Dewbre and husband Billy Joe; numerous nieces and nephews; and a host of other family and friends.

Pallbearers will be Mark Keenan, Monty Keenan, Glen Ray Hurst, Joyle Hurst, Jackie Dale Southerland, Jerry Dean Southerland.  Honorary bearers will be James Cross, David Gaynich, Tony Gaynich, Glenn Hurst, Joe Don Southerland, Jackie Southerland, Bobby Southerland, Billy Southerland, Darrin Griffith, Charlie Griffith, Brandon Breakfield, and Dink Breakfield.

A Visitation will be held Sunday evening from 5-7 P.M. at Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Ringling.

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PHYLLIS ANN MARKHAM - May 25, 1955 - January 22, 2024

Departed: 01/22/2024 (RINGLING)

Obituary Preview: Ringling - Cremation services for Mrs. Phyllis Ann Markham, 68, of Ringling are scheduled with Alexander Gray Crematory of Ringling.

Phyllis was born on May 25, 1955 at Pleasington, TX to Harold Billings and Marjie Louise (Hector) Billings. She departed this life on Monday Jan. 22, 2024 at her home in Ringling.

Phyllis was raised as one of 8 children. Her mother passed away at an early age. Soon after her father would remarry Clara, who raised her like her own. Phyllis loved the color sky blue and always enjoyed having dinner with her family and watching movies together.

Preceding her in death is her mother, Marjie and daughter, Robyn Rene Billings.

Survivors include her daughter Mari Farver of Ringling; parents, Harold and Clara Billings; 9 grandchildren; 4 great grandchildren with one more on the way; five brothers and two sisters; numerous other nieces and nephews. condolences may be sent to the family at www.alexandergrayfh.com

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Micky Lynn Morris - June 30, 1952 - January 08, 2024

Departed: 01/08/2024 (RINGLING)

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Services for Micky Morris, 71, of Ringling, will be 10:00 A.M. Saturday, January 13, 2024, at the First Baptist Church in Ringling with Rev. Mike Williams officiating. Interment will follow at the Ringling Memorial Cemetery. Services are under the direction and care of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Ringling.

Micky was born June 30, 1952, at Gainesville, TX to Mr. Emmitt Travis Morris and Mrs. Patsy Louise (Longest) Morris. He departed this life Monday, January 8, 2024, in Healdton.

Micky was raised in Ringling where he attended school, graduating with the class of 1970. He went on to further his education at Cameron University and then at Southeastern Oklahoma State University. Micky married the former Ms. Vickie Whitsett and the couple made their home in Ringling where they raised their two children, Scotty and Missy. He was employed for Uniroyal/Michelin Tire Plant for a couple of years before beginning his lifelong career as an Independent Welder. Later in life, Micky married Melissa Freeman who preceded him in death in June of 2018. He loved hunting, fishing, and enjoyed shooting pool and target shooting at his house with his family and friends.

Also preceding him in death are his father, Emmitt Morris and his, sister, Marci Morris.

Survivors include his children, Scott Alan Morris and wife Kimberly of Norman and daughter, Missy Thompson and husband Larry of Ringling; mother, Pat Morris of Ringling; brothers, Mark Morris and wife Cindy and Matt Morris and wife Dawn all of Ringling; grandchildren, Brittany Stubblefield, Dylan Morris, Clay Morris, and Cole Morris; great grandchildren, Eli McKay, L.J. Stubblefield, and Dakson Stubblefield; numerous nieces, nephews, cousins, other family and many friends.

Pallbearers will be Dylan Morris, Clay Morris, Cole Morris, Barrett Morris, Dalton Morris, and Chris Morris.

Honorary bearers are his 3 great grandchildren, Eli, L.J, and Dakson, Ryan Morris, Larry Snell, and Bruce Williams.

Family visitation will be held from 6-8 P.M. Friday evening at the Alexander Gray Funeral Home Chapel in Ringling.

Condolences and memories may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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Mary Ann (Collins) Wallace - May 02, 1962 - January 03, 2024

Departed: 01/03/2024 (RINGLING)

Obituary Preview: Graveside services for Mary Ann (Collins) Wallace, 61, of Ringling, are scheduled for 10:00 A.M., Tuesday, January 9, 2024, at Orr Cemetery with Rev. Mike Williams officiating. Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Ringling.

Mary Ann was born May 2, 1962, to the late Mr. Nathaniel Collins, Jr. and Mrs. Lavita (Woods) Collins. She departed this life January 3, 2024 at her home in Ringling.

Mary Ann was raised in Sulphur where she attended school, graduating with the class of 1980. She married Lonnie Ray Wallace, Jr. December 12, 1981, in Sulphur. Mary Ann went on to further her education in Cosmetology and began her career working at the Mane Cut in Ringling. She later opened her own Beauty Shop on Main Street in 1994 called the Snappie Scizzor. Mary Ann loved to cook and had a knack for refurbishing old furniture. She had a great sense of humor and was loved by so many.

Preceding her in death are her parents; brother, John Collins; sisters, Nancy Morgan and Margaret Collins; fathers in law, Lonnie Wallace, Sr. and Boyd Melton; nephew, Justin Duncan.

Survivors include her husband, Lonnie "Alan" Wallace of the home; daughter, Brandy White and husband Derrick; son, Derek Wallace; grandchildren, Noah White, Chaselynn Wallce, and Carsyn Wallace; sisters-in-law, Shawna Duncan and husband Ralph and Betty collins; nieces and nephews, Jared, Taylar, Christopher, Clayton, Nathan, James, and Krysten; numerous other family and many friends.

Condolences and memories may be shared online at www.alexandergray.com.

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Marquieta L (Blankenship) Evans - January 06, 1939 - January 02, 2024

Departed: 01/02/2024 (RINGLING)

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Services for Marquieta Louise (Blankenship) Evans, 84, of Ringling, are scheduled for 2:00 P.M. Monday, January 8, 2024, at the First Baptist Church of Ringling, with Rev. Mike Williams officiating. Interment will follow at Bellview Bourland Cemetery in Love County. Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Ringling.

Marquieta was born January 6, 1939, at Pike to the late Mr. Arthur Blankenship and Mrs. Ramona (Hogue) Blankenship. She departed this life January 2, 2024, at Ardmore, OK.

Marquieta grew up in Courtney attending school and graduating from there. She married Leonard Evans august 2, 1957. To this union they were blessed with 5 children, Tanya, Pam, Len, Angie, and Lisa. Leonard worked in the oilfield which led the couple to many areas of the United States. In 1972 they made their home in Ringling where Marquieta spent most of her years being a homemaker, raising the children. She loved Elvis and was an avid fan of Thunder basketball and Dallas Cowboys football. Marquieta enjoyed playing Bingo and being the best Mema to her grandkids.

Preceding her in death are her parents, daughter, Pam Gandy, brother, Haskell Blankenship, and sister-in-law, Brenda Blankenship.

Survivors include her children, Tanya Zebroski of Gillette, WY, Len Evans of Ringling, Angie Roberts and husband Joe Mac of Healdton, Lisa Spagnolia and husband Robert of New Braunfels, TX; son-in-law, Mike Gandy of Ringling ; 17 grandchildren; 11 great grandchildren; nephew, Brendan Blankenship and niece, Celie Pyle; many cousins, other family, and a host of friends.

Pallbearers will be grandsons, Ethan Adams, Jeremy Weaver, Joshua Weaver, Duane Stevens, Braxton Evans, and Thurston Spagnolia.

Honorary bearers are Sons-in-law, Mike Gandy, Joe Mac Roberts, and Robert Spagnolia; son, Len Evans; cousin, Wayne Light.

Family visitation will be held Sunday evening from 5-7 P.M. at the Alexander Gray Funeral Home Chapel in Ringling.

Condolences and memories may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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Daniel James Patrick, Jr. - November 07, 1926 - December 24, 2023

Departed: 12/24/2023 (RINGLING)

Obituary Preview: Ringling – Going Home services for Mr. Daniel James “Jr” Patrick, Jr. are scheduled for 10:00 AM Friday, Dec. 29, 2023 at the Gospel Tabernacle Church of Jesus Christ with Lafon Glenn officiating and Mike Faulkner providing the Eulogy. Interment will follow at Ringling Memorial Cemetery with military honors. Services are under the care and the direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home of Ringling.

Jr. was born on Nov. 7, 1926, at Robeline, LA to the late Mr. Daniel James Patrick, Sr., and Mrs. Novella (Thomas) Patrick. He departed from this life on Sunday, Christmas Eve, Dec. 24, 2023, at the Veterans Center of Ardmore.

Jr. was initially raised at Ft. Towson, Ok, not moving to Ringling until 1944. He voluntarily joined the efforts in WWII, joining the US Army on Oct. 2, 1946, at Oklahoma City. Jr. served in Japan as a military policeman and received an honorable discharge on Jan. 15, 1948. Returning to Oklahoma, Jr. soon married the best gate opener he knew of, Ms. Ollie Joyce Wade on Dec. 27, 1948 at Valley View, TX.

Jr. was initially employed for Mark Woods Dairy, then for Lonnie Rooney before going into business with his brother, Don Patrick, and brother-in-law Jake Wade, operating “Deep Rock Station” of Ringling for many years. Jr. always farmed and ranched most of his life as well.

Jr. forever had a towering garden and loved to coon hunt with his nephew Calvin Wade. He also loved to coyote hunt with Mike Skinner and would always enjoy a good fishing trip catching sand bass at Lake Texoma. Ollie preceded him in death on April 12, 2020, and since he has longed for the day to see her once again.

Jr. continuously had a very clever sense of humor, uttering to one of the grandkids about driving in the pasture, “if you don’t stop, you won’t get stuck”. He will be remembered for many things, but most of all for being easy going, quite spoken, willing to help others before himself and constantly enjoying time with family and relishing the country life.

Also preceding him death are his parents; son Dan J. Patrick, daughter, Joyce “Danell” Patrick; sisters, Doris Stanton and Toppy Wade; brother, Don Patrick; son in law, Clyde McCoy and grandson in law, Derrek Snodgrass.

Survivors include his daughter, Judy McCoy of Ringling; daughter in law, Fran Worsham and husband Danny of Ringling; grandchildren, Casey Miller and husband Greg, Erin Edwards and husband Steven Corrie Patrick and Shadoe Stoker, Brook Gandy and husband Brock, Courtney Justus and husband Ben and Allen Patrick and wife Marcela; great grandchildren, Jayce Miller, Jacolbi Perryman, Jaidan Miller, Jenna Miller, Stevanna Warner, Katie Edwards, Kolten Edwards, Morgan Bernal, Briar Bernal, Gentry Thompson, Stratton Stoker, Trey Snodgrass, Stryker Gandy, Carver Justus, Payton Justus, Maxon Patrick, Allie Patrick and one other on the way; 3 great-great grandchildren and one on the way; special son, Mike Faulkner and wife Ernie of Ringling; numerous other family and friends.

The casket bearers are Brock Gandy, Ben Justus, Greg Miller, Steven Edwards, Allen Patrick, and Mike Faulkner.

Honorary bearers are Allen Wade, Calvin Wade, Mike Stanton, Richard Wade, Scott Skinner, Patrick Stewart, Jimmy Morris, Terry McLemore, Bobby Tolliver, Tony Dale Tomberlin, Shadoe Stoker, and Drayden Warner.

Family visitation will be held 6 to 8 pm Thursday evening at Alexander Gray Funeral Home of Ringling. Condolences may be sent online at www.alexandergrayfh.com

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James Dean Thompson - October 02, 1963 - November 27, 2023

Departed: 11/27/2023 (RINGLING)

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Services for James Dean Thompson, 60, of Ringling, are scheduled for 2:00 P.M. Friday, December 1, 2023, at the Alexander Gray Funeral Home Chapel in Ringling with Rev. Mike Johnston officiating. Interment will follow at Hewitt Cemetery in Wilson.

James was born October 2, 1963, at Ringling to the late Mr. J. R. Thompson and Mrs. Lois Dean (Whitaker) Thompson. He departed this life Monday, November 27, 2023, at Denton, TX.

James was raised in the Healdton and Fox area, where he attended school, graduating from Fox High School with the class of 1982. He began his working career with his father in the trucking business but worked most of his life as a ranch hand for local ranches, ending his ranching career working for Jack Grace. James married Melody Kroth and to this union they were blessed with a son, James Dean Thompson,II. He joined the Ratliff City Volunteer Fire Department in October of 1992 retiring in 2016. Melody preceded him in death on May 11, 2011. James enjoyed riding motorcycles, going fishing, and hunting.

Also preceding him in death are his parents; brother, Albert Thompson; baby sister, Janice Thompson.

Survivors include his son, James Dean Thompson,II of Healdton; sisters, Leona Stepp of Stillwater, Wanda Long and husband Danny of Wichita Falls, TX, and Linda Beaird and husband Andy of Healdton; brother, Kenneth Thompson and wife Vanita of Loco; 2 grandchildren, Sparrow and Oliver; numerous nieces, nephews, other family and many friends.

Pallbearers will be Clint Smith, Jack Brown, Paul Brown, Ottis Harris, Eddie Ruth, Bryce Smith.

Family visitation will be held from 5-7 PM, Thursday evening at the Alexander Gray Funeral Home Chapel in Ringling.

Condolences and memories may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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Jimmy "Jim" Monroe Griffith - October 31, 1946 - October 18, 2023

Departed: 10/18/2023 (RINGLING)

Obituary Preview: Dixie - Graveside services for Mr. Jimmy “Jim” Monroe Griffith, 76, formerly of Loco are scheduled for 2:00 PM Monday, Oct. 23, 2023 at Dixie Cemetery with Bro. Jim Grounds officiating. A time of visitation will be held prior to the service beginning at 12:00 PM, prior to service at Alexander Gray funeral home of Ringling.

Jimmy (Jim) Monroe Griffith was born on October 31, 1946 in Ardmore, Okla. to Benjamin Franklin Griffith and Gertrude (Haston) Griffith. He departed this life Tuesday Oct. 18, 2023 at Broken Arrow.

Jim attended school at Fox, Okla and Methodist Church in Loco, OK. He was married to Gladys Pauline Perry on October 14, 1968. They made their home in the Stephens County area. Jim worked in the oilfield. Jim loved his family, friends, and animals. He loved telling stories, hunting, fishing, and raising a garden. Jim loved his granddaughters so very much and enjoyed seeing them visit him at Aspen Nursing home in Broken Arrow. Jim was a great storyteller and could remember so many stories of growing up in Loco and a lot of Griffith family stories. Jim loved to cut and spilt wood. Some used to call him Jimmy the woodpicker! Growing up in Loco some knew him as Grasshopper. Some family and friends also call him Jimbo. He will be greatly missed by his family and friends.

He is preceded in death by his parents, sister Corene Griffith and brothers James Griffith, Harold Griffith, and Elmer Griffith.

He is survived by his wife Gladys Griffith of Ryan, Okla., his children Martha Ann Lindley and husband Thomas of Broken Arrow and Mark Wayne Griffith of Ryan, OK.; grandchildren Elizabeth Diane Lindley, Annabelle Pauline Rose Lindley and Tommy Lindley, brothers Jerry Griffith & wife Kathy Griffith of Okla. City, OK and Robert Griffith & wife Linda of Elk City and several cousins, nieces and nephews.

Pallbearers will be Charles Griffith, Keith Griffith, Kevin Griffith, Michael Griffith, David Perry and Thomas Lindley. Condolences may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com

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Velma Lois McClurg - July 29, 1935 - October 17, 2023

Departed: 10/17/2023 (RINGLING)

Obituary Preview: Ringling - Funeral Services for Mrs. Velma Lois (Hammond) McClurg, 88 formally of Ringling are scheduled for 11:00 A.M., Saturday, October 21, 2023 at Alexander Gray Funeral Home Chapel.  Interment will follow at Dixie Cemetery in Stephens County, OK.

Velma was born July 29, 1935 in Dixie to the late Mr. Carl Brinkley Hammond and Mrs. Vina Gertrude (Martin) Hammond Cluff.  She departed from this life on Tuesday, October 17, 2023 in Denton, TX.

Velma was raised primarily in Oklahoma in her younger years moving to Denton, TX when she was a teenager attending school there.  She moved back to this area in the mid 1970's.  Velma worked in retail in her younger years, worked for Dr. Khanna as a health aid for 6-7 years, but most of all, she was a devoted homemaker.

Preceding her in death were her parents; brothers, Wallace Cluff and Jessie Hammond; and a son, Wayne Hall.

Velma is survived by her son, Jeffery Stout of Denton; daughter, Donna Jones of Tulsa; grandchildren, Melissa Weischedel, Chris Humphrey and wife Tanya, Nicholas Stout, and Shytana Hall; great grandchildren, Trenton Humphrey, Chasen Hall, David, Ethan, Brian Weischedel, Jessica Weischedel, and Matthew Weischedel; great great grandchildren, Daisey. Margaret, and Kooper; and by a host of other family and friends.

Pallbearers will be Chris Humphrey, Trenton Humphrey, Nicholas Stout, Rick Kvaal, David Hammond, Travis Kvaal, and Chasen Hall.  Honorary bearers will be Brian Weischedel and Matthew Weischedel.

Memories may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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HELEN MARIE (WOODS) WYNN - February 21, 1946 - October 11, 2023

Departed: 10/11/2023 (RINGLING)

Obituary Preview: Ringling- Services for Mrs. Helen Marie Woods Wynn, 77, of Ringling, are scheduled for 10:00 A.M., Monday, October 16, 2023, at the Church of God Fellowship in Ringling, with Bro. John Rudick and Ellen Abshire officiating. Interment service will be held at 2:30 P.M. at the Callisburg Cemetery in Callisburg, TX. Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Ringling.

Helen was born February 21, 1946, at East Prairie, MS, to the late Mr. A.D. Woods and Mrs. Johnnie Lou (Frye) Woods. She departed this life Wednesday, October 11, 2023, at her home in Ringling.

Helen grew up in East Prairie, MS where she attended school. At a young age she was married and blessed with 2 daughters, Toni and Paula. Later Helen resided in Southern Illinois, and it was there that she met the love of her life, Mr. Thomas Dean Wynn. The couple married on March 14, 1974, at Charleston, MS, but they made their home in Southern Illinois. Helen and Tom were blessed with a daughter, Annette and they later became the adopted parents to a granddaughter, Heather Wynn. They sold their home and relocated to the Dallas, TX area where they lived for over 30 years. In 2021, Helen and Tom made Ringling, OK their home where they attended church at the Church of God Fellowship. Helen had a love for wearing a cowgirl hat and cowgirl boots. In fact, the kids that rode her school bus knew her for wearing such. She had a passion for music as she was very talented in playing the Mandolin and the Guitar. Helen loved traveling, camping, and spending time with her family.

Preceding her in death are her parents, brothers, Garry, Larry, and J.D.; her grandmother that raised her; aunt, Robbie; cousin, Paulene; great grandchild, Lafayette.

Survivors include husband, Thomas Dean Wynn of the home; daughters, Toni Romine of Gainesville, TX, Paula Hembree and significant other, Brad Coleman of Whitesboro, TX, Annette Gray and husband Jarrod of Callisburg, TX, and Heather Wynn of Callisburg, TX; brothers, Jim Woods and Kenny Woods of East Prairie, MS; grandchildren, Christopher Romine, Jennifer Romine, Gary Poe, Venetta Poe, Quinten Jones, Stormy Barnett, Cameron Murphy, and Nathan Wooten; Great grandchildren, Naviya, Andrea, Dezmon, Malaki, D’Metrious, Andre, Dominic, Crislyn, Christopher, Kevin, Karma, Jerry III, Ryot, Gatlen, Daisy, Iris, and Journey; numerous other family and a host of friends.

Pallbearers will be Gary Poe, Quinten Jones, Cameron Murphy, Nathan Wooten, Dezmon Poe, Chris Romine, and Jarrod Gray.

Family visitation will be held Sunday afternoon from 3-5 P.M., at the Alexander Gray Funeral Home Chapel in Ringling.

Condolences and memories may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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Georgia Lou (Harris) Hodges - February 04, 1941 - September 14, 2023

Departed: 09/14/2023 (RINGLING)

Obituary Preview: Ringling- Burial services for Georgia Lou (Harris) Hodges, 82, of Ringing, are under the direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home of Ringling at the Ringling Memorial Cemetery.

Georgia was born February 4, 1941, at Ringling, to the late Mr. Claude Layton Harris and Mrs. Anna Virginia (Downey) Harris. She departed this life Thursday, September 14, 2023 at her home in Ringling.

Georgia was raised in Ringling, attending school and graduating from Mountain Home High School. She married Douglas “Porter” Hodges on August 31, 1974, at Laredo, TX. She worked many years as a book keeper for Fowler Tax Service. In her younger years, Georgia enjoyed bowling with family and friends. She loved being on the ranch with the cows and the pecan bottoms, but also enjoyed going to the casino. Georgia was raised under the Baptist faith but later held membership at the Methodist church.

Preceding her in death are her parents; brothers, Claude Layton Harris, Jr., Roy Wayne Harris, and Donald Keith Harris; nephews, Gregory Keith Harris and Keith Harris.

Survivors include her husband Porter Hodges of the home; step daughter, Rusty Hodges of Ringling; Step grandson, Douglas Levy of Hobbs, NM; sister, Barbara Burcham of Oklahoma City; niece, Claudette Cox and husband Mike of Skiatook, OK; sister-in-law, Martha Joe Harris of Oklahoma City; numerous nieces, nephews, other family, and many friends.

Condolences and memories may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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Tony Brent Smith - December 15, 1959 - September 14, 2023

Departed: 09/14/2023 (RINGLING)

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Tony Brent Smith, age 63, of Ringling, Oklahoma passed away on September 14 after a valiant fight with cancer. A celebration of life will be held at 11:00 AM, Monday, September 18, 2023, at the First Baptist Church in Ringling, Oklahoma with the Rev. Les Bussell officiating and Tony Apala delivering the eulogy. Family visitation will be Sunday, September 17 from 5-7 PM at the Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Ringling. Interment will follow in the Ringling Memorial Cemetery. Services are under the direction and care of Alexander Gray Funeral Home of Ringling.

Brent was born on December 15, 1959, to Bill and Betty (Lester) Smith of Ringling, Oklahoma. Brent graduated from Ringling High School with the class of 1978. He was a lifelong resident of the Ringling area and a member of the First Baptist church there.

He is preceded in death by his father, Bill Smith; brother, Rodney Smith; brother-in-law Keith Adams; and sister-in-law Lana Adams.

He is survived by his wife, Debbie of the home; son, Daniel Robinson of Ringling, OK; son, Clay Smith and wife Jessica of Ardmore, OK; daughter Andrea Liddell and husband Bobby of Ardmore, OK; mother, Betty Smith of Ringling, OK; brother, Ricky Smith and wife Janet of Healdton, OK; brother, Tracy Smith and wife Gina of Ringling, OK; grandchildren, Berkeley Smith, Carter Smith, and Kaston Liddell; brother in law, Butch Adams and wife Donna of Wilson, OK; sister in laws, Cathy Pelton and husband Dennis of Wilson, OK; Shellie Gentry and husband Darren of Wilson, OK; Melissia Overby and husband Trevor of Wilson, OK; mother in law Leta Wheeler of Wilson, OK and a host of nieces, nephews, extended family, and friends.

Brent began his work career at an early age by tagging along with his dad as he worked on bulldozers. He became knowledgeable in timber clearing, pond building, dirt work, and all aspects of the dozer business. He even worked in Kentucky with his dad strip mining coal one summer. All this before he could legally drive! After graduation from high school, he worked in the oil industry briefly in Wyoming and later at Uniroyal for several years and locally as a pumper for Arco. He finally found his niche as he began Smith Services, his own company which he has operated for the past 37 years. He definitely had a talent for mechanical work and knowledge of equipment. He also loved operating his farm and ranch.

Brent married Debbie in October 1983. He enjoyed working, raising his family, and family vacations. He also loved riding dirt bikes and Harleys. He especially enjoyed trips to Colorado, Wyoming, and South Dakota to ride.

Brent was a generous and caring person. He loved family and for many years hosted holiday meals at his home for family and friends. He also opened his home to several foreign exchange students whom he has kept in touch with over the years. Throughout his journey, Brent had also taught youth bible classes, worked as a sponsor at Falls Creek, and hosted Wednesday evening youth bible studies.

If you knew Brent, you knew he had a unique sense of humor. He could crack a joke without a smile, but he would make you smile. He will be missed.

Pallbearers will be Ricky Smith, Tracy Smith, Daniel Robinson, Clay Smith, Bobby Liddell, and Carter Smith.

Honorary bearer is Kaston Liddell.

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Mika Lee Wilson - May 16, 1996 - August 23, 2023

Departed: 08/23/2023 (RINGLING)

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Ringling- Funeral Services for Mika Lee Wilson, 27, of Loco, Oklahoma are scheduled for 2:00 P.M., Wednesday, August 30, 2023 at Alexander Gray Funeral Home Chapel in Ringling with Sister Ellen Abshire officiating.  Interment will follow to Loco Cemetery.

Mika was born May 16, 1996 in Duncan, the son of Steven Wilson and Angela Harris.  He departed unexpectedly from this life Wednesday, August 23, 2023 in Loco.

He graduated from Velma-Alma High School and attended Red River Technology Center with a CNA. Mika worked at Gregston’s Nursing and Rehab Center. With his genuine, kind personality, he was a joy. He enjoyed spending his days with family and friends or lounging around reading a good book. His pride and joy was his cats, Cashmere being his favorite. He was a loving son, grandson, and nephew.

Mika was preceded in death by his grandparents, Charles and Nina Love; great grandparents: Lee Wilson and Sherry Wilson, Claude and Ina Shahan.

Survivors include his father, Steven Wilson of Loco, Oklahoma; mother Angela Harris of Ardmore, Oklahoma; grandparents Steve and Beverly Wilson of Loco, Oklahoma; aunts, Lori Mitchell and husband Matt of Duncan, Joanie Wilson of Loco and Jinny Melton of Loco; 11 nieces and nephews; and by a host of other family and friends.

Pallbearers will be Gabe Bench, Matt Mitchell, Lucas Melton, Jackson Mitchell, Evan Melton, and Mickey Moore.

In Memory of Mika, donations may be made to the tribute fund and memories may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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Martha Ruth (Reid) Skinner - May 19, 1936 - August 19, 2023

Departed: 08/19/2023 (RINGLING)

Obituary Preview: Services for Martha Ruth (Reid) Skinner, are scheduled for 10:00 A.M., August 22, 2023, at the Gospel Tabernacle of Jesus Christ in Ringling with Lafon Glenn officiating and Jimmy Morris assisting. Interment will follow at the Ringling Memorial Cemetery. Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Ringling.

Longtime Jefferson County resident, Martha Ruth Reid (Hobbs, McHale, Skinner), was born to Elbert and Lorene Reid at Grady, OK and passed from this life at her home In Ringling, OK on August 19, 2023, at the age of 87.

Martha started school in Ringling and graduated from ER Snyder High School in San Diego, California where her husband Edward Hobbs was serving in the US Navy. After returning to Ringling, Martha started employment in 1960 with the Department of Human Services where she retired in 2013, after 53 years. During this time Edward passed away. And, after a little match-making, Martha and Glen McHale married and made their home in Waurika for many years until Glen passed away. Martha eventually made her way back to Ringling, where she and an old friend Charlie Skinner married and lived until he passed. She always said she married 3 really great men, and we can all attest to that.

A few of her favorite things to do were to cook, shop, and travel with her good friend Melva. They traveled to Australia, New Zealand, and many other places. And also, a fun trip she made was with her daughter in laws and granddaughters to New York. Her love of cooking will be missed by all that had the pleasure of tasting, because she was definitely one of the best.

Matha answered many family members that are scattered all over Oklahoma and Texas by the name of Granny Martha and Aunt Martha. The Reid/ Hobbs family, the Gaines/McHale family, and the Skinner family all loved her dearly.

Preceding her in death were her parents; an infant brother, Donald Elbert Reid, and husbands, Edward Hobbs, Glen McHale, and Charlie Skinner.

Survivors include her children, Pat and Kristie Gaines, Mike and Jana Gaines, Pam Gaines, Karen Ryan, Debbie and Doug Williams, and Terry and Susan McHale; Martha had many grandchildren and great grandchildren along with other family and a host of friends.

Pallbearers will be Zac Gaines, Booner Beck, Michael McHale, Scott Skinner, and Kyle Skinner.

Family visitation will be held from 6-8 P.M., Monday evening at the Alexander Gray Funeral Home Chapel in Ringling.

The family requests donations to be made to Faith Missions, the Waurika and Ringling Sr. Citizens Centers, and Cross Timbers Hospice in memory of Martha’s generous spirit.

Condolences and memories may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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Wilburn Odell Carroll - November 16, 1965 - August 06, 2023

Departed: 08/06/2023 (RINGLING)

Obituary Preview: Ringling -Home Going services for Mr. Wilburn Odell Carroll, 57, of Ringling are scheduled for 3:00 PM Wed. August 9, 2023, at the Community Fellowship of Ringling with Bro. Joe Taylor officiating. Interment will follow at the Ringling Memorial Cemetery. Services are under the direction and care of Alexander Gray Funeral Home of Ringling.

Odell was born Nov. 16, 1965, at Oklahoma City to the late Wilburn Odell Carroll, Sr. and Patsy D. Huggins. He went to his heavenly home on Sunday morning, August 6, 2023, while residing at Ringling.

Odell was raised in Ringling attending school there as a member of the class of 1984. Primarily most of his working years were doing yard maintenance for many residents and businesses throughout the Ringling community and working cattle for many ranchers.  He was a "#1 Blue Devil" fan and a proud Trump Supporter without any denial. Odell was well known by everyone and volunteered for the Ringling Fire Dept. for many years, testing the siren every Friday at noon.

Odell loved WWE wrestling, just recently watching the Summer Slam. He also loved to watch the television series, Swamp People. His favorite thing to do was to aggravate anyone he could. Two weeks before his passing, Odell rededicated his life to Jesus and was baptized at his home. He spent many years attending church at the Community Fellowship and also enjoyed attending the Church on The Rock.

Preceding him in death were his parents; infant twin sister; adopted mother, Linda Copeland; Uncles, Tony Huggins and Troy Huggins and a very close cousin, Pam Ferguson.

Survivors include his girlfriend, Lori Whittaker of the home; adopted sisters, Cindy Stewart and husband Patrick of Ringling, Christy Cox and husband Roy of Courtney and Tammy Lewis and husband Bart of Reck; aunt and uncles, JoAnn Huggins of Ringling, John Maudie Huggins and Harry Dean Huggins both of Davis; other very special family, Buster Copenberger, Jennifer Roberts, Mike Huggins, Kacie Barron, Kylie Gandy and Jack Ferguson; canine companion, Cowgirl and numerous other family and close friends throughout the community.

Pallbearers will be Baler Stewart, Terry "Scooter" Morris, Jr., Eric Ramon, Tracey Rapier, Caleb Stewart and Ian Cox.

Honorary bearers are the members of the Ringling High School Class of 1984.

Family visitation will be from 6 to 7pm Tuesday evening at the funeral home in Ringling. Condolences may be sent online at www.alexandergrayfh.com

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Brian Ringor Stanley - September 06, 1972 - July 29, 2023

Departed: 07/29/2023 (RINGLING)

Obituary Preview: Brian Ringor Stanley was born September 6, 1972 at Modesto, California, to Eddie Wayne Stanley and Bettie (Meyer) Smith. He departed this life July 29, 2023,in Ringling at the age of 50 years, 10 months and 23 days.

Brian attended school at Grace M. Davis High School home of the Spartans in Modesto, CA., then came to Oklahoma when he was 20 years old. He then worked at Michelin for the past 2 years as a tugger. He also worked at East Jordan for 10 years as a crane operator. Brian enjoyed golfing, fishing, baseball, football, and dart tournaments. He also enjoyed his dogs and never met a stranger. Brian married Tammy Nell in Waurika, OK at the Park on December 20, 2015.

Preceding him in death are his father, Eddie Wayne Stanley; mother, Betty Meyer Smith; Grandparents, Mike and Gracie Mae Stanley, Orvil & Sybil Smith; and sister, Tammy Grace Stanley.

Brian is survived by his wife, Tammy Stanley of the home; special aunt, Carmalita Stanley Barnett; Uncle Mikie Stanley, Aunt Sue Anderson, Aunt Carol Smith; nieces, Heather & Lacy; nephews, Bobby, Scotty & Michael. Special nieces, Ashley, Wylie, Jade, Charlie, Becca, and Elly; Special nephews; Ronnie, Mike, Jarred, Q, Ryder, Luke, Case, Dylan, and Jacob; special Brother, Shane Weeks. Numerous other cousins, family and friends. Condolences and memories may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com

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The team of professionals at Alexander Gray Funeral Home is led by individuals who are not only experienced in the funeral industry but also deeply empathetic and community-driven. They are available 24/7 to provide guidance, support, and assistance, ensuring that families receive the care they need during these overwhelming times. The staff is dedicated to handling all arrangements with dignity, respect, and personal attention.

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Alexander Gray Funeral Home believes in the importance of pre-planning and offers comprehensive services to assist in this process. By discussing and recording your wishes, you can provide your family with clear instructions and the comfort of knowing they are honoring your preferences. The funeral home’s pre-planning experts are available to guide you through every step of this important decision-making process.

Community Involvement

The funeral home does more than provide end-of-life services; it is an integral part of the Ringling community. Through involvement with local organizations, charities, and events, Alexander Gray Funeral Home helps strengthen the cultural and social fabric of the area. Its commitment to the town and its people goes beyond business—it's about building lasting relationships and being a pillar of support in times of need.

Grief Support Resources

Understanding that the journey through grief does not end with the funeral service, Alexander Gray Funeral Home offers a wealth of resources to help individuals navigate their bereavement. From support groups to helpful literature and referrals to counseling services, the funeral home is committed to providing ongoing assistance to those in mourning.

Transparency and Affordability

In alignment with their principles of service and empathy, Alexander Gray Funeral Home ensures transparency in all their dealings. This equals no hidden costs or unexpected fees—just clear, upfront explanations of all service options and costs involved. Recognizing that families have different financial situations, the funeral home provides an array of packages to fit various budgets while still providing dignified and respectful services.

Ongoing Commitment to Excellence

Above all, Alexander Gray Funeral Home of Ringling is consistently devoted to excellence in every aspect of their service. Whether it's the meticulous care of the grounds, the dignified handling of the memorial services, or the courteous treatment of each person who walks through their doors, this funeral home sets the bar for quality and care in the community.

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The true measure of a funeral home's impact can often be found in the words of the families it serves. Alexander Gray Funeral Home provides testimonials of those who felt supported and understood during their difficult times. This feedback reflects the heartfelt service and individualized care the funeral home provides.

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To find out more about the services offered or to speak with one of their compassionate professionals, families can contact Alexander Gray Funeral Home directly at the listed Ringling address or through their various communication channels. With staff available round the clock, families can rest assured that they will receive the support they need, exactly when they need it.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written announcement of a person's death, typically published in newspapers and online platforms. It highlights the person’s life, achievements, and information about the planned funeral or memorial services. Obituaries often include a brief biography and details about the family members the deceased has left behind.

How does an obituary differ from a death notice?

A death notice is a brief, paid announcement in a newspaper that simply states the fact of someone's death, often with the time and location of the funeral or memorial service. An obituary is generally more detailed and includes a more comprehensive account of the person's life and legacy, and is sometimes written by the newspaper staff or the family at no cost.

Who usually writes an obituary?

Obituaries are typically written by family members, friends, or by the newspaper’s editorial staff. Funeral homes often assist families in crafting obituaries as well.

What key details should be included in an obituary?

An obituary should include the full name of the deceased, their age, place of birth, date of death, and a summary of their life's story, including significant personal and professional milestones. Details pertaining to family members, funeral or memorial service arrangements, and any preferred charities for memorial donations should also be included.

How long after a death is an obituary published?

An obituary is typically published within a week after the person's death, in order to inform the community in a timely manner about the service arrangements and allow friends and acquaintances to pay their respects.

Is it mandatory to publish an obituary when someone dies?

No, it is not legally mandatory to publish an obituary; it is a personal choice made by the family based on their desire to publicly acknowledge the death and celebrate the life of the deceased.

Can an obituary be published online?

Yes, obituaries are commonly published online on websites dedicated to memorial services, social media, funeral homes' websites, and online versions of local and national newspapers.

What should I do if I find an error in an obituary I’ve published?

You should contact the newspaper or website where the obituary was published as soon as possible to correct any errors. Most publications are very understanding and will swiftly correct factual mistakes.

Are there different types of obituaries?

Yes, there are generally two types: traditional obituaries that focus on providing pertinent life details and notifying the community of the death and services, and life tributes which may be more personal, evocative, and less formal in recounting the individual's story and impact.

How do you write a compelling obituary?

To write a compelling obituary, focus on the highlights of the person’s life, significant life events, unique personal qualities, enduring relationships, and their impact on others. Use respectful and warm language that honors the deceased while providing essential information to the community.

What is typically the tone of an obituary?

The tone of an obituary is usually formal and respectful, with an emphasis on celebrating the person’s life and acknowledging their passing. However, the tone can be personalized to reflect the spirit and personality of the deceased.

Can an obituary serve as a legal document?

An obituary is not a legal document but can serve as a public notice of death, often required to proceed with other legal steps such as settling estates.

How can I ensure privacy while still publishing an obituary?

You can protect privacy by limiting the amount of personal detail shared, such as omitting the deceased’s home address, and providing information on funeral services selectively. Additionally, you may choose a private funeral service and clearly indicate that preference in the obituary.

Is there a word limit for obituaries?

Many newspapers have a word limit for obituaries, and costs can be based on length, especially for longer memorials. Online platforms usually offer more flexibility in length. It’s best to consult with the specific publication regarding their policies.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or website?

Submissions can typically be made either online, via email, or by telephone. It is important to follow the specific guidelines provided by the newspaper or website, which include deadlines, word limits, and any fees that may be associated with the publication.

What are some common phrases or words used in obituaries?

Common phrases include terms like "passed away," "survived by," "preceded in death by," "in lieu of flowers," and "will be dearly missed." These phrases help to respectfully communicate necessary details and wishes of the family.

Should I include a photo with an obituary?

It's a personal choice, but including a photo can be a meaningful way for the community to recognize and remember the deceased. When choosing a photo, it's best to select one that is recent and represents the personality of your loved one.

How does one decide between a private and public obituary?

A private obituary is usually chosen for reasons of discretion and privacy, particularly when the family wishes to mourn without public attention. A public obituary is selected to inform a wider community about the loss and celebration of life. The decision rests on the family’s comfort and the deceased's wishes.

What if the family cannot afford an obituary?

If cost is a concern, consider shorter death notices which are usually less expensive, free community publications, social media, or online memorial sites. Some newspapers may also offer free or sliding-scale fees for those in financial need.

Can an obituary be too personal?

While personal details can make an obituary more meaningful, it is important to balance privacy with sharing a life’s story. Always consider the wishes of the deceased and the comfort level of the family when deciding on what personal information to include.

Is it necessary to include the cause of death in an obituary?

Including the cause of death is not necessary and is entirely up to the family’s discretion. Some families choose to include this information, especially if it relates to a cause for which they are advocating or raising awareness, but many opt for privacy.

How can friends and acquaintances contribute to an obituary?

Friends and acquaintances can contribute memories, photos, and anecdotes for the obituary, which can be especially helpful to the family during their time of grief. However, to be included in the final obituary, any contributions should be welcomed and approved by the family.