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Donald McKee Botts - December 25, 1933 - April 11, 2024

Departed: 04/11/2024 (Ratliff City )

Obituary Preview: Ratliff City- Cremation Services for Mr. Donald McKee Botts, Jr., 90 of Ratliff City are scheduled with Alexander Gray Funeral Home of Ratliff City. An inurnment of his ashes and memorial service will be held at a later date.

Mr. Botts was born at Shelton, WA to the late Mr. Donald McKee Botts, Sr. and Mrs. Hulda Jane (Dull) Botts. He went to his heavenly home on Thursday, April 11, 2024 at a nursing home in Ardmore.

Mr. Botts was raised Shelton, WA moving to California in 1966. Don married the former Verna Earle in 1956 and they shared three daughters together and loved one another very much. Don worked most of his years as a nursing home administrator in Sanger, CA. He was a veteran of the United States Air Force serving honorably as an airplane mechanic for four years. He and Verna moved to Ratliff City, Ok in 2007 to be closer to their daughter, Sally and attended some church services at Living Word Tabernacle. He loved to attend swap meets, garage sales, thrift stores, read and watch the news. He also enjoyed watching his religious programs on television.

Preceding him in death are his parents and sister, Katherine Payte.

Survivors include his wife Verna (Earle) Botts; daughters, Donna Dean and husband Ronald, Susan Ying and husband Robert and Sally Clark and husband Keith; 8 grandchildren and 5 great grandchildren; numerous other family and friends. Condolences may be sent online at www.alexandergrayfh.com

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Linda Gail Iiams - January 28, 1945 - March 31, 2024

Departed: 03/31/2024 (Ratliff City )

Obituary Preview: Ratliff City- Graveside services for Linda Gail Iiams, 79, of Lake City, CO, are scheduled for 2:00 P.M., April 6, 2024, at the New Velma Cemetery with Jared Wilson and Bob Elmore officiating. Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home of Ratliff City.

Linda was born January 28, 1945, to the late Mr. Wilburn Lester "WL" Blevins and Mrs. Gladys Louise (Ogletree) Blevins 3 miles west of Fox, OK. She departed this life March 31, 2024, at Florence, CO.

Linda was raised in Fox where she attended school graduating with the class of 1963. After graduation Linda worked briefly for Southwestern Bell at Oklahoma City. On September 5, 1964, she married the love of her life, Mr. Larry Iiams, at the East Side Church of Christ in Healdton. The couple moved to Bridgeport, TX for a short time then to Gainesville, TX where Linda worked for a Health Food Store. In 1984 they moved to Burr Ridge, IL where Larry was with a paint manufacturing company. When their three children were grown, they retired in 1998 and moved to Lake City, CO. with a second home in Canon City, CO.  She was noted for a green thumb in terms of gardening and landscaping.  Linda loved to go hiking and she was very good at it as she took a lot of pride in living a healthy life. She was very religious and was a lifetime member of the Church of Christ. Through all of her travels, they were always in church every Sunday morning. Linda was a member of the Hinsdale County Historical Society and compiled and edited a book for the local museum called “Memorable Cooks and recipes of Lake City’s Pioneer’s”. Larry and Linda would have been married 60 years this year.

Preceding her in death are her parents, WL and Gladys.

Survivors include her husband, Larry of the home; daughter, Julie Iiams of Dallas, TX; sons, Darren Iiams of Houston, TX and Dan Iiams and wife Jocelyn of Loganville, GA; siblings, Janice Lloyd and husband George of Yukon, OK, Dorice Blevins and husband Bill of Norman, Karen Hutchison and husband Tony of Ardmore, and Jim Blevins and wife Gail of Tulsa; four grandchildren; numerous other family and friends.

Visitation will be held from 6-8 P.M. Friday evening at the Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Ratliff City.

Condolences and memories may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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Herman Dean Downey - February 25, 1930 - March 22, 2024

Departed: 03/22/2024 (Ratliff City )

Obituary Preview: Hennepin- Herman D. Downey, aged 94, went to his heavenly home on March 22, 2024, at Ardmore, OK. He was born on February 25, 1930, in Pernell, OK to Audie and Betty Downey.

Herman was raised in Pernell. He married Naomi Horton on July 31, 1951, and the couple made their home in Ratliff City. They enjoyed taking cruises and traveling the states in their RV with their ­­­grandson, Seger, and hitting every amusement park along the way. We nicknamed him Herman “Go” Downey as he was always up for an adventure. His hobbies included music and collecting various musical instruments. He loved playing guitar. He also enjoyed riding motorcycles and tinkering in his shop. Herman was a founding member of the First United Pentecostal Church in Ratliff City. His faith was the central part of his life. Anyone that knew him, knew he had a sweet spirit. Herman was employed with Quintin Little Oil Company for 30 years as a production supervisor. He served as an Auxiliary Deputy for the Carter County Sheriff’s Department for 21 years.

Preceding him in death were his parents, Grandson, Seger Drew Downey (The Captain), Foster Son Cesar Gonzales, Brothers Alton, Milburn, Erman (Twin Brother), Windle, Dawl Wayne and Sister, Nita Faye Hart.

Herman is survived by his wife, Naomi, of 72 years of the home, Daughter, Sharon Castro and husband Eudaldo (Willie) of Ratliff City and Son, Clifford Downey and wife Barbara (BJ) of Pennsylvania and a host of other family and friends.

Public Viewing will only be held Monday evening from 1:00-8:00 P.M. at Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Ratliff City.  A Private Interment will be held at Hennepin Cemetery.

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Linda "Sue" Evens - November 24, 1943 - January 13, 2024

Departed: 01/13/2024 (Ratliff City )

Obituary Preview: These services have been postponed due to the icy conditions.  They will now be held on Thursday, January 25, 2024.  Sorry for any inconvenience.  Stay safe everyone.

Services for Linda “Sue” Evens, 80, of County Line, are scheduled for 10:00 A.M., Thursday, January 25, 2024, at the First Baptist Church of Ratliff City with Rev. Mike Johnston officiating. Interment will follow at Pooleville cemetery. Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home at Ratliff City.

Sue was born November 24, 1943, at Ardmore, OK to the late Mr. Lyndal Tutter Hill and Mrs. Juanita Marita (Mobley) Robinson. She departed this life January 13, 2024, at her home at County Line.

Sue was raised at Clemscott, attending school at Graham, where she graduated High School. She loved playing basketball and was quite good at it. Sue married the love of her life, Vern Cline Evens, Jr. October 12, 1984, at Cooke County, TX. She began a career in the oilfield, running equipment, brush hogging location sites. She also worked as Vern’s secretary with his welding career. Sue was tough and a very hard worker. She was a caregiver to many, from critters to her grandchildren. Many would say she ran a zoo, rescuing animals of all sorts from squirrels and raccoons to even a mountain lion. She helped in raising her grandchildren and they loved all the adventures with her and all the animals. Among her love for animals, was horses and she especially enjoyed horseback riding. Sue and Vern had a wonderful marriage of almost 40 years.

Preceding her in death are her parents.

Survivors include her husband Vern Evens of the home; children, Shawnie Sager of Comanche, Sonny Evens and wife Gwen of Duncan, Dennis Thacker and wife Brittny of County Line, Chelsie Towler of County Line, Mark Ward and wife Kari of Kingfisher, and Marketia Firestone of County Line; brother, Lance Hill of Lindsay, OK; grandchildren,  Shawnda Westlund and husband Alex, Michael Evens and wife Sara, Kurston Lakey and husband Justin; great grandchildren, Kyle Lou, Berkley Sue, Noah, Aliceson, Paisley, Eli, Olivia, Lincoln, Emma, Keagan, Phoenix, Brogan, and Blazin; numerous other family and friends.

Condolences and memories may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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Hank Eugene Hopkins - September 18, 1969 - January 07, 2024

Departed: 01/07/2024 (Ratliff City )

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Ratliff City - Funeral Services for Hank Eugene Hopkins, 54 of Ratliff City are scheduled for 2:00 P.M., Saturday, January 13, 2024, at Ratliff City Baptist Church with Pastor Lance Smith officiating and Rev. Glynn Baker assisting.  Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Ratliff City.

Hank was born September 18, 1969, in Lawton, OK to Mr. Paul Wayne Hopkins and Mrs. Linda R. Beckwith.  He departed from this life on Sunday, January 7, 2024, at his home in Ratliff City.

Hank was raised in Duncan and Velma graduating from Velma High School in 1987.  He has worked in the oilfield his whole life, working for numerous oil companies including Nub's Well Service, Kleen Oilfield Service, Cavalry Well Service, Basic Oilfield Service, Integrity Tubing, LLC and owned and operated Hopkins Tank Truck Service from 2011 to 2016.  Hank enjoyed being outdoors, flying ultra-light airplanes, playing guitar, fishing, especially noodling, and arrowhead hunting.  He loved spending time with his family and friends, loved his grandchildren and his dogs and just really enjoyed having a cold beer.  Hank had a big personality who never met a stranger and never had anything bad to say about anyone.

Preceding him in death was his father; sister, Paula Harless; and an infant daughter, Reba Paulette Hopkins.

Hank is survived by his children, Colten Hopkins and wife Lyndsey, Tommy Hopkins, Shelby McGee, Tyler Hopkins, and AJ Hopkins; mother and stepfather, Linda and James Beckwith; life partner, Renlyn Kelley; grandchildren, Holden Hopkins and Brooklyn Nash; brothers, Joe Hopkins and wife Tiffany and Cody Hopkins; stepmother, Kathy Hopkins; stepbrothers, Jason Chambless and wife Sina Blaze and James Beckwith and wife Leighann; stepsister, Krysta Beckwith; brother-in-law, Mike Harless; numerous nieces, nephews, other family and friends.

Pallbearers will be Colten Hopkins, Tommy Hopkins, Tyler Hopkins, Joe Hopkins, Cody Hopkins, and Weston Ellis.   Honorary bearer will be Jeff Hopkins.

Visitation will be held Friday evening from 6-8 P.M. at Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Ratliff City.

Condolences and memories may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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Raymond Thomas Gillaspy - April 28, 1964 - December 04, 2023

Departed: 12/04/2023 (Ratliff City )

Obituary Preview: Milo - Funeral Services for Raymond "Ray" Thomas Gillaspy, 59 of Ratliff City are scheduled for 2:00 P.M., Friday at Milo Baptist Church with Rev. Mike Johnston officiating.  Interment will follow Saturday afternoon at Musgrove-Langley Cemetery in Vinita, OK.  Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Ratliff City.

Ray was born April 28, 1964 in Pacolma, CA to the late Mr. Cecil Lawrence Gillaspy and Mrs. Deloris Jean Gillaspy.  He departed from this life on Monday, December 4, 2023 at his home.

Ray was raised in California until 1973 when he moved to Ratliff City.  He graduated from Fox High School in 1982 and then Ray married the love of his life, Carla Henry on August 3, 1984 in Wilson.  He had worked for Gaylon Hunt for 20 years as a pumper and for Oil Bank for 2 years where he was currently employed.  Ray enjoyed shooting pigs and coyotes and riding around on the 4 wheelers.  He and Carla mostly enjoyed hanging out with their best friends, Jeanna and Garlin and he loved being with his family.

Preceding him in death were his parents, Cecil and Deloris; biological father, Rus and Millie Page; brother, Butch Gillaspy; grandparents Cora and Wayts Dobbins and George and Mary Gillaspy; mother in law, Betty Henry; brothers in law, Buzz, Bart, and Ricky Henry and sister in law, Linda Musgrove; and a nephew, Jason Musgrove.

Ray is survived by his wife, Carla; sister, Debbie Wilson; niece Tasha Cisneroz and husband Noel; sisters in law, Kim and Betty Michelle Henry; brothers in law, Terry and Randall Henry and Vernon Musgrove; numerous nieces and nephews; great nieces and nephews; and by a host of other family and friends.

Pallbearers will be Garlin Earnhart, Cary Dale Tivis, Danny Martin, Odell Williams, Keith Morse, and Jim Hoggard.  Honorary bearers will be all his nephews and nieces and great nephews and nieces.

Visitation will be held Thursday evening from 6:00-8:00 P.M. at Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Ratliff City.

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Charlcia Mae Cantrell - June 03, 1927 - October 20, 2023

Departed: 10/20/2023 (Ratliff City )

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Graham - Funeral Services for Mrs. Charlcia Mae Cantrell, 96 are scheduled for 2:00 P.M., Tuesday, October 24, 2023 at the Graham Assembly of God Church with Bro. Dan Stewart officiating. Interment will follow to Mount Olive Cemetery in Healdton.  Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Ratliff City.

Charlcia was born June 3, 1927 in Chatanooga, OK to the late Mr. Charles Calvin Chitwood and Mrs. Ollie Mae (Trigleth) Chitwood.  She departed from this life on Friday, October 20, 2023 in Comanche, OK.

Charlcia married the late Mr. Morris Everett Cantrell on November 16, 1944 in Cotton County.  To this union, they were blessed with two children, Charlene Maurice Cantrell and Muriel Ray Cantrell.  They mostly resided in Burkburnett in the early years of their marriage but made their home in the Graham and Fox areas.  Mrs. Cantrell loved to garden, fish, and go camping.  There was always usually a rose bush or two her grandchildren would ride their bikes into, and Morris would threaten to chop it down, yet they still remained.  Morris preceded her in death in 2004.

Also preceding her in death were her parents; daughter, Charlene Airington; great granddaughter, Makayla Cantrell; and siblings, Calvin, Ocie, Kelley, John, and Mary Chitwood.

Charlcia is survived by her son, Muriel Cantrell of Woodford; son in law, Haskell Airington of Ratliff City; grandchildren, Misty Mathews and husband Chris of Ratliff City, Frankie Cantrell and wife Nancy of Wilson, Aunna Barbatoe and husband Matt of Georgia, Brandon Cantrell of Woodford and Steven Airington and wife Carolyn; great grandchildren, Kaleigh and Cody Mathews, Casey and Brad Cantrell, Jessie, Hailey, and McKenzie Cantrell, Abigail, Thomas, and Michael Barbatoe, Jade and Ana Airington; and numerous great great grandchildren; and by a host of other family and friends.

Pallbearers will be Frankie Cantrell, Bradley Cantrell, Casey Cantrell, Chris Mathews, Mike Mathews, Steven Airington, and Cody Mathews.

Memories may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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Nancy D Marler - August 14, 1944 - September 06, 2023

Departed: 09/06/2023 (Ratliff City )

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Ratliff City - Funeral Services for Mrs. Nancy D. (Hawthorne) Marler, 79 are scheduled for 10:00 A.M., Monday, September 11, 2023 at the Ratliff City Baptist Church with Rev. Mike Johnston officiating.  Interment will follow to Ratliff City Cemetery.  Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home of Ratliff City.

Nancy was born August 14, 1944 in Wilburton, OK to the late Mr. Luther "Tooter" Hawthorne and Mrs. Alta Florence (Lucas) Young.  She departed from this life In Duncan, OK on Wednesday, September 6, 2023.

Nancy was raised in Wilburton, attending school there.  She married the late Mr. Lowell Leon Marler on September 1, 1962 in Wilburton moving to this area in 1966.  Nancy worked for the Healdton Nursing Home for many years, later working for the Countyline Post Office.  She enjoyed going dancing, camping, and going to Native Festivals.

Preceding her in death were her parents; stepfather, Jack E. Young; husband, Lowell Leon Marler on September 27, 2008; spouse, Monk Firestone; and a sister, Jean McAnally.

Nancy is survived by her son, Lowell Michael Marler and wife Shannon of Oklahoma City; bonus daughters, Ginger and Belinda; bonus son, Marty; sister, Dorothy Hayes and husband Willie of Ada; grandchildren, Lowell Dustin Marler of Countyline, Tiffany Rachelle Tidwell and Ryan Seessengood of Colorado, AdaLynn Nicole Marler, Allie Lynn Ramming, Hannah, John and Julie Lute; great grandchildren, Brylan Marler, Bryson Tidwell, Cayson Tidwell, Lanson Tidwell, Jaxson Lute, and Serenity; and by a host of other family and friends.

Pallbearers will be Bryson Tidwell, Cayson Tidwell, Brylan Marler, Charles Carr, Allen Firestone, and Lanson Tidwell.

Visitation will be held Sunday evening from 2-4 P.M. at Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Ratliff City.

Memories may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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Betty Joyce (Brown) Botts - February 03, 1933 - August 26, 2023

Departed: 08/26/2023 (Ratliff City )

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Services for Betty Joyce (Brown) Botts, 90, are scheduled for 10:00 A.M., Wednesday, August 30, 2023, at the Living Word Tabernacle Church in Ratliff City with Eugene Christian officiating. Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home of Ratliff City.

Betty was born February 3, 1933, at El Reno, OK, to the late Mr. Hugh Isaac Brown and Mrs. Alice Wheatley (Wood) Brown. She departed this life Saturday, August 26, 2023, at Oklahoma City.

Betty was raised in El Reno, OK, attending school there. At just 9 years of age, she worked in a tomato factory while living with her aunt in Arkansas. Betty was married to Mr. Doyle Nail when she was 15 and to this union, they were blessed with 4 children, Thelma, Jimmy, Donnie, and Shelia. She later married Mr. Benjamin Botts and gained 3 more children, Tammy, Cindy, and Jeff. Betty worked most of her years of employment as a waitress and a cook. She was very crafty in making plastic canvas art and loved going to the lake, camping, and most of all she loved to fish. Betty was a fighter, tough, and very strong willed.

Preceding her in death are her parents, Hugh and Alice; children, Thelma Jackson and Donnie Nail; stepdaughter, Cindy Evans; siblings, Elizabeth Brandt, Hugh Isaac Brown, Jr., Leatrice Vargas, Alice Phillips, Harry Brown, Tommy Brown, and Gary Brown.

Survivors include her children, Jimmy Nail of El Reno, OK and Shelia Porter of Hobart, OK; stepchildren, Tammy Christian and husband Eugene of Ratliff City and Jeff Botts and his wife, Olga of Porter, TX; siblings, Thelma Grace of Van Buren, MO, Mary McComber of Duncan, OK, and Loretta Posey of Enid, OK; 24 grandchildren, and numerous great grandchildren, other family, and many friends.

Condolences and memories may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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William Michael Kirkpatrick - June 29, 1948 - August 24, 2023

Departed: 08/24/2023 (Ratliff City )

Obituary Preview: Milo – Home Going Services for Mr. William Michael “Mike” Kirkpatrick, 75 of Fox are scheduled for 1:00 P.M., Tuesday, August 29, 2023 at Milo Baptist Church with Rev. Mike Johnston and Rev. Dan Stewart officiating. Interment will follow to Dixie Cemetery. Arrangements are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Ratliff City.

Mike was born June 29, 1948, in Durant, OK to Mr. Raymon William Kirkpatrick and Mrs. Retha Fern (Stepp) Kirkpatrick. He departed from this life on Thursday, August 24, 2023, at his home in Fox with his family at his side.

Mike graduated from Fox High School in 1966 and attended college at Oklahoma State University, where he graduated with way more than just a degree. During his time in Stillwater, he made many lifelong friends. Mike married Donna Knight on October 30, 1972, and to this union, they were blessed with two amazing boys, William Brian and Jimmy Dale.

Mike followed the footsteps of his father, Raymon, as an AG teacher for 42 years. 28 of those years was at Fox, where he helped all the kids in Carter County. He retired from teaching in 2020 but never quit teaching and always showed his love for agriculture and animals. He was a man of many Riches, not of the material things in life, but the kind that consisted of great relationships and a lot of mentoring. He enjoyed watching and being with all his grandchildren and great grandchildren. Everyone knows that he loved showing pigs and going to the judging contest. His favorite swine breed of course was the Blue Cross, favorite colors were blue and gold, but anytime you mentioned blue and gold sausage, he would be frustrated. Mike loved having cattle, going fishing and golfing and of course any kind of kid.

Preceding him in death were his maternal and paternal grandparents; father, Raymon “Teach” Kirkpatrick and granddaughter, Ashlee Perry.

Mike is survived by sons, William “Willie” Kirkpatrick and wife Jackie of Thackerville and Jimmy “Hoot” Kirkpatrick and wife Jamy of Fox; mother, Fern Kirkpatrick of Fox; grandchildren, Hunter Shelby and Will, Jaycee Kay and Jensen Kate Kirkpatrick; great grandchildren, Alliee, Bexley, and Aidenn McGill; sisters Pat Whipple and husband Jim of Mustang and Carla Stewart and husband Dan of Healdton; and by a host of other family and friends.

Casket bearers will be Alan Potter, Jam Boyd, Ricky Wilkerson, Dwayne Heffington, Jackie Whittington, and Weston Ellis. Honorary bearers will be all of his former students, Michael Stuckey, Doc Tripp, Arron, Larry, and Michael Pulis, and Brent Perkins.

A visitation will be held Monday evening from 6-8 P.M., at the Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Ratliff City.

The family would like to personally thank Duncan Cancer Center and Good Shepherd Hospice for all their heartfelt care they provided.

In Lieu of flowers, the family requested that donations be made to Mike Kirkpatrick Memorial Scholarship Fund at PO BOX 33, Fox, OK 73435 or any 1NB First National Bank location.

A potluck reception will follow the service at the HatTop Ranch just North of Velma.

Memories may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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Jimmie Ray Griffin - April 06, 1955 - June 04, 2023

Departed: 06/04/2023 (Ratliff City )

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Fox – Home going services for Mr. Jimmie “Jim” Ray Griffin, 68, of Alpers, are scheduled for 2:00 PM Thursday, June 8, 2023, at Milo Baptist Church with Rev. Mike Johnston officiating. Interment will follow at the Pooleville Cemetery. Services are under the direction and care of Alexander Gray Funeral Home of Ratliff City.

Jim was born April 6, 1955, at Ardmore to the late Mr. Charles Edwin Griffin and Mrs. Pansy LaRue (Dillon) Griffin. He went to his heavenly home Sunday morning June 4, 2023, at his residence in Alpers.

Jim was raised at Fox where he graduated from High School in 1973. Then he immediately began working the oilfield, operating heavy equipment and driving trucks. He married the former Ms. Sherry McCarty on Jan. 2, 1987, at the Elmore City Church of Christ.

Jim and Sherry have always made their home in Alpers, near Hennepin, where Jim would state that he served the community as being the local street sweeper. He was employed by Jimmy Rex Chatham for over 30 years running equipment and had also farmed and ranched all of his life. He enjoyed team roping and was a member of the Milo Baptist Church, where he most recently was baptized.

He is preceded in death by his parents and two brothers, Gary and Brent. .

Survivors include his loving wife, Sherry Renee Griffin of the home; daughter, Tiffany Summer Griffin of Duncan; grandchildren, Cydney, Madison and JaKoby; two great grandchildren; sister, Carol Harris and husband Travis of Ardmore; brother, Jon Griffin and wife Sandy of Pooleville. Numerous nieces, nephews and other family.

Casket bearers are Jimmy Rex Chatham, Cody “Wahoo” Norman, Greg Dollar, John Sparks, Matt Harris and Lance Wheelock.

Honorary bearers are David Warren, Terry Hale, Kevin Warren and Doak Landers.

Family visitations will be from 5 to 7pm Wednesday evening at Alexander Gray Funeral Home of Ratliff City. Condolences may be sent online at www.alexandergrayfh.com

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Garland Thomas Doake - July 30, 1945 - April 04, 2023

Departed: 04/04/2023 (Ratliff City )

Obituary Preview: Pernell - Graveside Services for Mr. Garland "Tommy" Thomas Doake, 77 of Ratliff City is scheduled for 2:00 P.M., Friday, April 7, 2023 at the Sandy Bear Cemetery with Chase Meads officiating.  Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Ratliff City.

Tommy was born July 30, 1945 in Walters, OK to the late Mr. George Thomas Doake and Mrs. Nettie Faye (Griffin) Doake.  He departed from this life on Tuesday, April 4, 2023 in Norman, OK.

Tommy was raised in Southwestern Oklahoma graduating from Cache High School.  He worked on a pig farm in his earlier years when he married the love of his life, Ms. Connie Pearl Martin on October 9, 1964 in Walters, OK and together they were blessed with 5 children. They made their home at Meers until moving to DeRidder, LA in 1968. They moved back to Meers and then returned to Louisiana again before making their home at Walters in 1978. In 1982 they began moving around with the Oklahoma oilfield but eventually settled in the Ratliff City area where they have called home since 1986.  Tommy had also worked within in the carpentry industry, and the couple had owned several grocery store locations.  He enjoyed water skiing, fishing and fly fishing, and camping and spending time with his wife.

Preceding him in death were his parents; wife, Connie on January 9, 2019; brother, Barry Doake, and a great grandson, Wyatt Widmer.

Tommy is survived by his children, Guy Thomas and Teresa Doake of Duncan, David Scott and Gretchen Doake of Edenton, NC, Jessie Keith and Lisa Doake of Lindsay, Connie Gaylene and Lee Keck of Lindsay, and Charlotte Anne and Lonnie Patrick of Ratliff City; 17 grandchildren, Thomas, Allison, CheyAnne, Katy Brooke, Christian, Keith, Sarah, Samantha, Matthew, Julie, Catherine, Kimberly, Amy, Philip, Jordan, Tommy, and Josh; numerous great grandchildren; sisters, Helen and Tom Pittman of Arizona, Anita Thompson of Cache, and Carol Goeringer of Lawton; and by a host of other family and friends.

Visitation will be held Thursday evening, April 6, 2023 from 5-7 P.M. at the Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Ratliff City.

Memories may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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Deborah Kay Smith - October 26, 1951 - March 27, 2023

Departed: 03/27/2023 (Ratliff City )

Obituary Preview: Ratliff City – Funeral services for Mrs. Deborah Kay “Debbie” (Smith) Smith, 71, of Ninnekah are scheduled for 11:00 AM Saturday, April 1, 2023, at Ratliff City First Baptist Church with Rev. Glynn Baker officiating and grandson, Casey Smith assisting. Interment will follow at the Ratliff City cemetery. Services are under the direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home of Ratliff City.

Debbie was born Oct. 26, 1951, at Wilson to the late Mr. Billy Paul” B.P” Smith and Mrs. Rosa Nell (England) Smith. She departed this life Monday evening March 27, 2023, at her home in Ninnekah.

Debbie was a native of this area, being raised at Pruitt City and attending school at Fox. She graduated from Fox High School in 1969 and married Mr. Donnie Ray Smith on July 30, 1971, at the Ratliff City First Baptist Church. She and Donnie spent many years in this area raising their three boys.

Debbie loved children with all of her heart and spent an immense part of her life as a dedicated educator. Initially she taught middle school classes and later became a Special Education administrator for several school districts throughout the state of Oklahoma. She served as the area Psychometrist for the rest of her tenure and always had a special place in her heart for every student.

She and Donnie travelled a lot within their RV visiting most all the US at least once and some twice. They shared many wonderful memories together while doing this. Debbie leaves many students to cherish her memory whom she loved and cherished as her own. She was a member of the Ninnekah Baptist Church where she and Donnie has resided for several years.

Her parents, B.P. and Nell Smith preceded her in death along with a brother-in-law, Tony Wilkins and a nephew, Braden Bush.

She is survived by her husband, Donnie Smith of the home; her boys, Derik Smith and wife Sharon of Ratliff City, Todd Smith and wife Kristy of Tuttle and Blair Smith and wife Megan of Newcastle; sister, Connie Wilkins and brother Dennis Smith and his wife Pam all of Ratliff City; grandchildren, Tristan Smith, Nathan Loyd, Conner Smith, Clarissa Jackson, Casey Smith and wife Carrie, Kyler Smith, Lawton Loyd and wife Amber, Taylor Williams and husband Emerson and Mason Smith; numerous nieces, nephews, students and other relatives and friends.

Serving as casket bearers will be Tristan Smith, Nathan Loyd, Lawton Loyd, Conner Smith, Kyler Smith and Casey Smith.

Honorary bearer is Mason Smith.

Family visitation will be held from 6 to 8pm Friday evening at Alexander Gray Funeral Home of Ratliff City. Condolences may be sent online at www.alexandergrayfh.com

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Larry Barton Fore - January 25, 1932 - February 06, 2023

Departed: 02/06/2023 (Ratliff City )

Obituary Preview: Ratliff City- Services for Larry Barton Fore, 91, of Fox are scheduled for 2PM Thursday, February 9, 2023, at Milo Baptist Church with Rev. Mike Johnston officiating. Interment will follow at Hillcrest Cemetery in Ardmore. Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home of Ratliff City.

Larry Fore was born January 25, 1932 at Fox, OK to the late Mr. Howell Green Fore and Mrs. Flossie (Depew) Fore. He departed this life Monday, February 6, 2023 at his home in Fox.

Larry was born and raised in Fox at the Comanche “Y”. He was employed by Signal Oil and Gas which later changed to Phillips Petroleum where he retired. Larry married the love of his life, Joyce (Shirley) Fore, June 15, 1951, in Texas and they were married 67 wonderful years until Joyce preceded him in death. To this union they were blessed with three sons, Larry Gene, Jacky, and Joey. Larry served as President of the Western Carter Co. Water Association for 32 years. He loved to garden and his grandkids all assisted him in the garden each year. Larry liked camping, fishing and building critter huts out of wood. For 62 years he was a member of the Fox Baptist Church but most recently became a member of the Milo Baptist Church.

Preceding him in death are his parents; his wife, Joyce on September 11, 2018; son, Jacky Dave Fore; three sisters, Anice Robinson, Marion Ann Robbins, and Marie Bailey and brother, Harry Fore.

Survivors include sons, Larry Gene Fore and wife Judy and Joey Fore and wife Stephanie all of Fox; brother, Howell Gene Fore of Fox; brother-in-law, Kenneth Gordon and wife Rita of Healdton; sister-in-law, Jaquita Moore and husband Larry of Purcell; grandchildren, Lori Bartling and husband Josh, Corby Fore, Jacob fore and wife Jordan, Shanda Fore, Daelyn Lair, Jaclyn Hunter and husband Tracy, Toni Taylor and husband Zac, Corey Fore; great grandchildren, Kelcey Wright, Jakobi Bartling, Tori Fore, Keegan Leffelholz, Judson Fore, Brenton Fore, Jaxtyn Hunter, Zoe Taylor, Brandie Holloway, London Taylor; numerous nieces, nephews, other family and friends.

Pallbearers will be Larry Gene Fore, Joey Fore, Corby Fore, Jacob Fore, Josh Bartling, and Tracy Hunter.

Honorary bearers are Larry Moore and Devin Moore.

Visitation will be held from 6-8PM, Wednesday evening at the Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Ratliff City. Online condolences and memories may be shared at www.alexandergrayfh.com

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Terri Dawn Smart - January 03, 1966 - December 24, 2022

Departed: 12/24/2022 (Ratliff City )

Obituary Preview: Ratliff City - Funeral Services for Mrs. Terri Dawn Smart, 56 of Ratliff City are scheduled for 2:00 P.M., Thursday, December 29, 2022 at the Ratliff City Baptist Church with Rev. Mike Johnston officiating and Larry Smart assisting.  Interment will follow to Ratliff City Cemetery.  Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Ratliff City.

Terri was born to the late Mr. James Ray Smart and Mrs. Jimmie Faye (Pierce) Smart on January 3, 1966 in Ardmore, OK.  She departed from this life on Saturday, December 24, 2022 in Fox, OK.

Terri grew up and lived in the Fox area her entire life.  She attended Fox Public Schools and graduated with the Class of 1984 and went to Murray State College with an Associate's Degree.   Terri was the proudest mother to her only son, Kyle whom she followed for many miles and years throughout his many sporting and livestock events.  The love and support continued for her grandchildren over the last few years. Terri was the best mother and Mimi anyone could ask for.  She was very caring and would go to the ends of the earth for those she loved and cared about.  Terri was also an amazing cook and would often cook for all the football and basketball teams that Kyle was a part of.  She was a hard-working woman, sometimes having 2 to 3 jobs at a time and was employed over 20 years for the Oklahoma DOC.  Terri also enjoyed getting together for bunco and painting parties.

Preceded her in death was her father, James Ray Smart and a sister, Dana Denise (Smart) Hoggard.

Terri is survived by her son, Kyle Smart and wife Baylee of Ratliff City; mother, Jimmie Faye Smart of the home; brother, Ray Smart of Fox; nephews, Justin Smart and wife Haley, Kent Smart and wife Stacy, and Brent Smart; nieces, Avery Hoggard and Bethani Ross; grandchildren, Bowen, Oakley, Lucca, and Taytum; and by a host of other family and friends.

Pallbearers will be Kent Smart, Justin Smart, John Hankins, Nubbin McClennanhan, Cary Dale Tivis, and Sammy Hoggard.  Honorary bearers will be Rickey Stewart, Ray Smart, Brent Smart, Brandon Perkins, Jace Jenkins, Bradley Johnson, the Fox Class of 2007 and all former Co-workers of DOC.

Visitation will be held Wednesday evening from 6-8 P.M. at the Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Ratliff City.

Memories may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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Jimmy Ray Underwood - April 15, 1961 - December 02, 2022

Departed: 12/02/2022 (Ratliff City )

Obituary Preview: Memorial Services for Jimmy Ray Underwood, 61, of Davis are scheduled for 2:00 P.M., Saturday, December 10, 2022, at the Immanuel Baptist Church in Davis, OK with Rev. Mike Johnston officiating. Services are under the care of Alexander Gray Crematory in Ringling.

Jimmy was born April 15, 1961, in Fresno, CA., to Mr. James Ray Underwood and Mrs. Virginia (McGee) Underwood Housden. He departed this life Friday, December 2, 2022, at his home in Davis.

Jimmy lived in California as a young boy but later moved to Norman, OK where he completed his High School education. He could do anything, from mechanic work to welding and much more. All of which he was self-taught. Jimmy was a workaholic. He loved to work, and he always put his all into every job he worked. Jimmy was employed by Martin Marietta Rock Quarry in Davis for many years. He loved NASCAR, Earnhardt Jr. was his favorite driver of course, old cars, going to car shows, and taking long drives with Kristie each season to see the leaves on the trees color change.

Preceding him in death are his grandparents, Henry and Irene McGee and Orvill and Mary Underwood and his father, James Underwood.

Survivors include his longtime girlfriend and companion, Kristie Camp-Watkins of Ratliff City; mother, Virginia Housden and husband Bill of Luther, OK; children, Katy Underwood of Austin, TX, Timmy Underwood of Norman, and Tony Underwood of Norman; brothers, Terry Underwood of Oklahoma City, Randy Underwood also of Oklahoma City, and Henry Underwood and wife Amie of Hitchita, OK; numerous other nieces, nephews, other family and friends.

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Shirley Eileene Jenkins - January 21, 1953 - December 01, 2022

Departed: 12/01/2022 (Ratliff City )

Obituary Preview: Ratliff City - Mrs. Shirley "Eileene" (Pearson) Jenkins, 69 of Pernell departed from this life on Thursday, December 1, 2022 at her home in Elmore City.  She was born to the late Mr. Fredrick Sheehan and Mrs. Bernedette Mary (Gerode) Sheehan in Glendale, California.  Shirley was raised in California, attending school to be a nurse.  She was the 4th of 7 children and as a single mother, she raised 3 daughters.  Shirley moved to Oklahoma, living at Harrah and then to the Ratliff City area.  She worked a CNA and LPN professionally and then later in life at the convenient stores as an attendant.  Watching television was her favorite, especially Soap Operas.  Shirley's prize procession was her grandchildren.  Nothing made her smile more than them.

Preceding her in death were her parents; 5 siblings, Bob Barton, Donna Barton, Doreene Pearson, Kathy Sheehan, and WM Frederick Sheehan.

Shirley is survived by her daughters, Stephanie Orta and husband Miguel of Pernell, Angela Olson Parish and husband Shanyn of Visalia, CA, and Tina Olson and Kenneth Lawson of Loco; 9 grandchildren, Baylee Smart and husband Kyle, Adrianna Johnson and husband Bradley, Miguel Orta, Brannon Parish, Emily, Stephanie, Kali, Christian and Mollie; 5 great grandchildren, Bowen, Oakley, Lucca, Taytum, and Breck; sister, Bonnie Sheehan; and by a host of other family and friends.

Memorial services will be announced at a later date.

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Dolores E Perkins - January 19, 1936 - November 16, 2022

Departed: 11/16/2022 (Ratliff City )

Obituary Preview: Ratliff City - Funeral Services for Mrs. Dolores E. (Thomason) Perkins, 86 are scheduled for 10:00 A.M., Saturday, November 19, 2022 at Ratliff City Baptist Church with Rev. Glynn Baker officiating with Ricky Williams assisting.  Interment will follow to Ratliff City Cemetery.  Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home Ratliff City.

Dolores was born January 19, 1936 in Alma, OK to the late Mr. Earl Wayne Thomason and Mrs. Evelyn (Niles) Thomason.  She departed from this life on Wednesday, November 16, 2022 in Duncan, OK.

Dolores married Mr. Bobby Ray Perkins on June 4, 1955 at Wichita Falls, TX and resided together in Elmore City before moving to Ratliff City in 1967.  She was a devoted homemaker who enjoyed cooking and baking.  Dolores helped at the Senior Citizens Center and helped organize pie auctions at the fire department.  She even brought in $1500 for one of her famous homemade pies.  Dolores was a woman of perfection making sure to get her hair and nails done every week and always made sure to take week long trips with Bob.  She was a member of the Ratliff City Baptist Church.

Preceding her in death were her parents; husband, Bobby on October 15, 2014; and her sisters, Diana and Barbara.

Dolores is survived by her sons, Mike Perkins and wife Rusty, Kent Perkins and wife Kathy, and Brent Perkins and wife Darla; brother, Earl "Butch" Thomason, Jr. and wife Donna; sister, Cecila Ramsey and husband Gary; 8 grandchildren, Chris, Steven, Jonah and husband Jeff, Britnee, Brandon and wife Danielle, Jeffery and wife Christy, Bryan and wife Liz, and Courtney and husband Steven, 17 great grandchildren; 3 great great grandchildren; and by a host of other family and friends.

Pallbearers will be Chris Perkins, Steven Perkins, Brandon Perkins, Bryan Perkins, Jeffery Allen, and Steven Wallace.  Honorary bearers will be Connor Armstrong, Caden Armstrong, Jeff Cue, Jake Perkins, Bryson Perkins, and Baylon Perkins.

Visitation will be held Friday evening from 6-8 P.M. at Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Ratliff City.

Memories may be shared online at www.aleandergrayfh.com.

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John Julius Taylor, Jr. - September 21, 1953 - November 16, 2022

Departed: 11/16/2022 (Ratliff City )

Obituary Preview: Countyline - Memorial Services for Mr. John "Mississippi" Julius Taylor, Jr., 69 of Countyline are scheduled for 2:00 P.M., Tuesday, November 22, 2022 at Countyline Baptist Church with Rev. Mike Johnston officiating.  Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Ratliff City.

John was born September 21, 1953 in Charlestown, MS to the late Mr. John Julius Taylor, Sr., and Mrs. Dorothy Lee (Tucker) Taylor.  He departed from this life on Wednesday, November 16, 2022 at his home in Countyline.

John was raised in Mississippi moving to this area after he graduated high school.  He had worked in the oilfield in his early years before laying carpet the majority of his life.  John was an avid hunter and fisherman living off the land as much as possible.  John enjoyed college and NFL football especially Old MISS and Green Bay Packers.

Preceding him in death were his parents; and a brother, Don Taylor.

John is survived by his son, Zac Taylor and wife Toni of Oklahoma City; daughter, Sondra Fox and husband Dusty of Moore; sister, Debbie Loftis and husband Jeff of Longview, TX; grandchildren, Eljah Herbert, Ethan Herbert, Angel Fox, Zoe Taylor and London Taylor; and by a host of other family and friends.

Memories may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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Neta W Jones - August 11, 1927 - November 14, 2022

Departed: 11/14/2022 (Ratliff City )

Obituary Preview: Ratliff City - Services for Mrs. Neta W. (Thomas) Jones, 95 are scheduled for 1:00 P.M., Thursday, November 17, 2022 at the Ratliff City First Baptist Church with Rev. Glynn Baker officiating and Dub Bohannon assisting. Interment will follow to Hillcrest Memorial Park in Ardmore. Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Ratliff City.

Neta was born August 11, 1927 in Cox City, OK to the late Mr. James Ernest Thomas and Mrs. Wilie Lee (Wright) Thomas. She departed from this life on Monday, November 14, 2022 in Shawnee. Neta was the last surviving Thomas of her family.

Neta was raised in the Southern Oklahoma area attending Cox City Elementary School. She met Alfred for the 1st time at his sister Mary's house and they were united in marriage on August 6, 1945. They were married over 50 years. She was a member of the First Baptist Church in Ratliff City. Neta was a devoted homemaker and wonderful Godly Mother. She was a terrific cook and was in the Carter County Home Demonstration cookbook with several recipes. At church she loved children in Sunday school class, helping them learn verses and hymns about Jesus.

Neta was a faithful wife as well, marrying at the age of 17 until Alfred’s death 50 years later, on March 16, 1996. They resided on family property in Ratliff City from 1956 until 2016 when she moved to assisted living. Her faith in God was always strong and she held fast to her trust in Him all the rest of her life. Some of her favorite interests were preparing meals for her family, sewing dresses for her granddaughters, music, watching America’s Got Talent TV show and when she attended the Ratliff City Senior Citizens Center.

In addition to her husband Alfred Lee, also preceding her in death were her parents; 3 sisters, Leona, Virginia and Nora Lee; and 4 brothers, H.P, Marvin, Gene and James.

Neta is survived by her daughter, Ramona Murray and husband Gary of Shawnee; sons, Kenny Jones and wife Paula of Edmond, Lesley A. Jones and wife Rebecca of Ratliff City, and David E. Jones and wife Tammy of San Antonio, TX; grandchildren and great grandchildren, Keith Murray and wife Julie, Brenda Murray and her daughter Michela; Amanda Little and husband David and their children Morgan and Peyton; Michelle Jones and her children Cale, Camryn, Callen, Michael Jones, Jeremy Jones, and wife Tracy and their children Parker, Mabry and Malorree; Jonathan Jones and wife Kimber and their children Jackson, Jacoby and Jerick; Megan Jones, Caitlin Ryznar and husband Grant and their children Kadence, Payton, Grey and Baker; Lindsey Daniels and husband Kevin and their children Brenham and Sunny; and Hunter Jones and numerous other family and friends. Casket bearers are Grandsons

Honorary bearer is Lonnie Carter.

Visitation will be held Wednesday evening from 6:00 - 8:00 P.M. at Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Ratliff City.

Memories may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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Bobbie Mae Morgan - June 21, 1939 - November 12, 2022

Departed: 11/12/2022 (Ratliff City )

Obituary Preview: Ratliff City - Funeral Services for Mrs. Bobbie Mae (Deal) Morgan, 83 of Fox are scheduled for 2:00 P.M., Friday, November 18, 2022, at the Fox Baptist Church with Rev. Carl Taylor officiating.  Interment will follow to Ratliff City Cemetery.  Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Ratliff City.

Bobbie was born June 21, 1939, in Healdton, OK to Mr. Robert Leon Deal, Sr. and Mrs. Erma Pauline Fondren Deal.  She departed from this life on Saturday, November 12, 2022, at her residence in Fox.

Bobbie was raised between Marlow and Healdton attending school there.  She married Bige Emerson "Happy" Morgan on April 2, 1955, at Countyline and primarily resided there as well.  Bobbie worked outside her home doing mainly cafe work, working for Millie's Cafe at Countyline for a number of years and had also worked at the Healdton Nursing Home as a cook.  Her favorite hobby was quilting, making them for everybody.  Bobbie and Cleo Lavalley made several baby quilts to give away and donated several to cancer victims, fire department, and many organizations for charity.  She was a member of the Bethel Baptist Church in Healdton and had attended the Countyline Freewill Baptist Church.

Preceding her in death was her husband, Bige "Happy" Morgan on December 12, 1994.  Also preceding her were her parents; infant son, Earl; grandson, Darrell Morgan; and sisters, Billye Sweetman and Jayne Irwin.

Bobbie is survived by daughters, Clista McCarty of Healdton, Vicki Poor of Fox; Ronda Perkins and husband Lucas of Healdton; and Laura Pickelsimer and husband Mitchell of Fox; son, Richard Morgan of Fox; sisters, Vera Beck and husband James of Duncan and Betty Sweetman of Chickasha; brothers, Robert "Butch" Deal of Healdton and Buddy Deal of Healdton; 7 grandchildren, Joe Bill and wife Regina, Derek and wife Angela, Stephanie, Carla, Michael and wife Coralie, Brittany, and Ashley and husband Billy; 14 great grandchildren, and 2 great great grandchildren.

Pallbearers will be Derek Shrader, Stephen Carroll, Michael Pickelsimer, Billy Rucker, Daniel Dunigan, and Ray Smart.

Honorary bearers will be Richard Morgan, Hunter Carroll, Steve Ramming, Joe Bill Dunigan, Lucas Rucker and Jude Burton.

Visitation will be held Thursday evening from 6-8 P.M. at Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Ratliff City.

Memories may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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Linda Lea Tivis - March 21, 1945 - September 11, 2022

Departed: 09/11/2022 (Ratliff City )

Obituary Preview: Ratliff City - Home Going services for Mrs. Linda Lea (Fuller) Tivis, 77, of Ratliff City are scheduled for 10:00 AM, Thursday Sept. 15, 2022 at the Milo Baptist Church with son in law,  Rev. Mike Johnston and Rev. Roger Sims officiating. Interment will follow at the Ratliff City Cemetery. Services are under the direction and care of Alexander Gray Funeral Home of Ratliff City.

Linda was born March 21, 1945 at Everett, WA to the late Mr. Bunice Lee Fuller and Mrs. Altina Geraldine (Whittington) Fuller. She departed from this life on Sunday morning, Sept. 11, 2022 at her residence in Ratliff City.

Linda was raised at several communities settling in this area during her high school years. She met and soon married Mr. Glen "Dale" Tivis on Oct. 26, 1962 at Healdton. They shared many wonderful memories together during their 56 years of marriage. Together they built a thriving oilfield trucking company called "Dale's Tank Service" of Pruitt City. During the initial beginning, Dale drove the trucks and Linda took care of the office. Linda enjoyed working everyday alongside her husband Dale.

Linda was a profound cook, always preparing extensive meals at her home and looked forward to serving family and friends, who were visiting. The family get togethers were always very important to her, accommodating everyone and anyone with food and activities when they visited. Her grandchildren were the light in her eyes, and she loved attending their events throughout the years. Also of importance was her yard and her flowers in which she truly loved keeping very elegant and neat, even meaning burning  off her yard off seasonally if needed. During Linda's pastime, you would often find her doing word puzzles or running around town with Judy and Janet with whom she cherished as close friends immensely. Linda was a member of the Milo Baptist Church.

Preceding her in death were her parents; husband Dale, Jan. 3, 2019 and a granddaughter, Shytana (Johnston) Bray, Aug. 2, 2016.

Survivors include her beloved children, Cary Dale Tivis and wife Sonja and Shelly Johnston and husband Mike, all of Ratliff City; sisters, Ann Woodward and husband David of Oklahoma City, Phyllis Arrington of Hugoton, KS and Brenda Aldridge and husband David of Springer; brothers, Butch Fuller, Danny Fuller and wife Teri, all of Medicine Park and Gerald Fuller and wife Betenia of Mannford; sister in law, Barbara Tivis of Ratliff City and Derrel Tivis of Tussy; grandchildren, Chad Jones and wife Allyson, Tanya Stark and husband John, Rusty Jones and wife Dani and Hillary Tivis; grandson in law, Steven Bray; great grandchildren, Braden Stark, Brecken Stark, Jase Jones, Kolby Jones, Cooper Bray, Crew Jones and Cash Jones; numerous other family, close friends and devoted employees.

Casket bearers will be John Stark, Braden Stark, Steven Bray, Chad Jones, Rusty Jones and Rodney Hammond.

Honorary bearers are all the employees of Dale's  Tank Service.

The family would like to express their sincere appreciation to Cassandra and Tammy Boyd, Shelly Gidcumb and Cross Timbers Hospice of Ardmore for their delicate and kind care given to Linda within her illness.

Family visitation will be held from 5 to 7pm Wednesday evening at Alexander Gray Funeral Home of Ratliff City. Condolences and messages may be sent online at www.alexandergrayfh.com

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Deloris Jean Gillaspy - October 05, 1938 - August 26, 2022

Departed: 08/26/2022 (Ratliff City )

Obituary Preview: Ratliff City - Graveside Services for Mrs. Deloris Jean (Dobbins) Gillaspy, 83 are scheduled for 11:00 A.M., Tuesday, August 30, 2022 at the Alma Cemetery with Pastor Mike King officiating. Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Ratliff City.

Deloris was born October 5, 1938 in Morgantown, WV to the late Mr. Wayts Dobbins and Mrs. Cora (Hardman) Dobbins. She departed from this life on Friday, August 26, 2022 in Duncan, OK.

Deloris was raised in West Virginia attending school there and where she graduated high school. She had lived in Ohio, California before making her home in Oklahoma in 1973. She married Mr. Cecil Gillaspy and together they raised their three children, Debbie, Ray, and Butch. He preceded her in death on February 26, 1990. Deloris worked at the pants factory in Ringling for a short while in the 1980's and had also worked for several local restaurants, lastly working for the Velma Public School as a cook. She enjoyed going out to eat especially with the girls on each one of their birthdays every year and then going to the casinos. Deloris really enjoyed and loved being with her grandchildren.

Preceded her in death were her parents; husband, Cecil; and a son, Butch Gillaspy in August of 1998.

Deloris is survived by her daughter, Debbie Wilson of Duncan; son, Ray Gillaspy and wife Carla of Ratliff City; granddaughter, Tasha Cisneroz and husband Noel of Comanche; great grandchildren, Kaidence, Thomas, Jax, and Ellie Cisneroz; special friends, Linda Wright, Laverne Dulworth and Burneze Mullins; and by a host of other family and friends.

Pallbearers will be Cary Tivis, Kevin Mullins, Noel Cisneroz, Rounder Henry, Nolan Henry, and Jim Hoggard.

Honorary pallbearers will be Kaidence, Thomas, Jax, and Ellie.

Visitation will be held Monday evening from 6-8 P.M. at Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Ratliff City.

Memories may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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Randell Joe Butler - December 09, 1955 - August 20, 2022

Departed: 08/20/2022 (Ratliff City )

Obituary Preview: Ratliff City- Home Going services for Mr. Randell "Randy" Joe Butler, 66, of Fox are scheduled for 2:00 PM Thursday, Aug. 25, 2022, at the First Baptist Church of Ratliff City with Rev. John Harris officiating. Interment will follow at Ratliff City Cemetery. Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home of Ratliff City. Randy was born on Dec. 9, 1955, at Duncan to the late Mr. Clarence Palmer "Pal" Butler and Mrs. JoAnn (Briscoe) Butler. He was called home Saturday August 20, 2022, at Oklahoma City. Randy was raised in Ratliff city, Oklahoma. He attended Fox Public Schools, graduating in 1974. He and the former Ms. Myra Bea Bailey were united in marriage on Dec. 17, 1976, in Henrietta, TX. They resided in Fox, Oklahoma, where they raised two wonderful children. Randy was employed in the Oilfield, most of his working years, retiring in 2019, from National Oilwell Varco, where he was the Area Sales Manager for the Mid-Continent Region. Randy was known for having an infectious smile, and contagious laugh. He had a great love for his Lord & Savior, witnessing to all he came in contact with. He never met a stranger, was a friend to anyone he met, and a source of strength for all who knew him. Family was “his everything” He loved to spend time with his best friend, and devoted wife, Bea. He also loved to attend his grandchildren’s sporting events, gardening, and lake time with family. Randy’s tender heart provided care for various family members, and friends, in their time of need. Randy was a faithful member of the New Life Assembly of God Church, witnessing his love for God up until his last days. Preceding him in death are his parents, brothers, Ronnie Butler and Robert Butler.Survivors include his loving wife of 46 years, Bea Butler of the home; daughter, Sarah Shoemaker of Edmond; son, Colby Butler and wife Kristy of Duncan; grandchildren, whom he adored, Braylen and Bowen Butler; brothers, Richard Butler and wife Kay of Ratliff City and Roger Butler and wife Sissy of Ringling; brother-in-law, Billy Bob Bailey and wife Carole of Duncan; numerous other family, church family and friends. Casket bearers are Colby Butler, Braylen Butler, Bowen Butler, Chad Bailey, Chad Butler, Ryan Bailey and Rayne Austin. Family visitation will be held 5pm to 7 pm Wednesday evening at the funeral home in Ratliff City. Condolences may be shared online at www.alexanderfuneralhome.org

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Sharon Gayle Bivings - March 15, 1984 - August 07, 2022

Departed: 08/07/2022 (Ratliff City )

Obituary Preview: Pooleville- Graveside Services for Sharon Gayle (Weaver) Bivings, 38, of Pooleville are scheduled for 11:00 AM Sat. Aug. 13, 2022 at Pooleville Cemetery with Brian McGahey officiating. Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home of Ratliff City. Sharon was born on March 15, 1984 to the late Bradley Guy Weaver and Christine Larue (Hickman) Cox. She departed this life on Sunday August 7, 2022 at Elmore City. Sharon was raised at Pooleville attending school at Fox marrying Jason Bivings as a young lady. To this union they had three beautiful children, Jimmy, J.T. and Abigayle. Sharon has resided within the Pooleville area all of her life. During her school years, Sharon performed as a Varsity Twirler. She always enjoyed cooking, fishing, camping and going to the lake. Sharon had enjoyed attending church at the Ringling Church Christ. Preceding her in death are her parents and cousin, Natasha Harmon, whom she was very close to. Survivors include her children, Jimmy Bivings, J.T. Bivings, and Abigayle Bivings; brother, Guy Russell Weaver; grandmothers, Linda Baylis and Sandra Seay; aunts and uncles, Rebecca Reed, Cindy Croissant, Michelle Hickman and Johnny Hickman, Jr.; numerous other family and friends. Casket bearers are Jimmy Bivings, J.T. Bivings, Dakota Martin, Jason Bivings, Ricky Palmer and Braxton Palmer. Honorary Bearers are Shytanna McDonald, Erik Harmon, Scott Reed, Guy Russell and Stormie and Brian Palmer. Family visitation will be held Friday evening from 6 to 8 pm at the funeral home in Ratliff City.Condolences may be sent online at www.alexanderfuneralhome.org

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The Importance of a Supportive Environment

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The staff at Alexander Gray is the funeral home’s most invaluable asset. Each team member brings a depth of experience coupled with a genuine sense of empathy. They are attuned to the emotional challenges families face and are dedicated to providing guidance through every decision-making process. The care that the staff offers extends beyond mere arrangements; they support the bereaved with a compassionate presence throughout the entirety of the funeral journey.

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Recognizing the importance of honoring a life lived, Alexander Gray Funeral Home specializes in creating personalized tributes that resonate with the deceased’s personality and spirit. They encourage families to share stories, photographs, and mementos that will be meaningfully incorporated into the service. Their expertise lies in their ability to craft an individualized memorial, ensuring that each life is celebrated in a manner most fitting to the person it honors.

Pre-Planning Services for Peace of Mind

For those looking to ease the burden on their loved ones, Alexander Gray offers pre-planning services. This proactive measure allows individuals to express their wishes for their own funeral service, alleviating the decision-making stress on family members during a time of grief. The funeral home’s advisors are adept at walking through all options and ensuring that every detail is accounted for and communicated.

A Continuing Tradition of Respect and Integrity

With a longstanding presence in Ratliff City, Alexander Gray Funeral Home embodies a tradition of respect and integrity. Their reputation within the community is one of trust and professionalism. Their commitment to maintaining the highest standards in funeral service is reflected in the consistent quality of care they deliver. The community knows Alexander Gray as a place where families can rely on respectful handling of their loved ones' final arrangements.

Navigating Grief with Resources and Support

The passing of a loved one is never easy, and the journey of grief is a complex one. Alexander Gray Funeral Home extends its services beyond the funeral or memorial service by offering resources and guidance on grief support. They understand that the need for comfort and understanding does not end with the service, and they remain an available and supportive resource for as long as needed.

Connecting with Alexander Gray Funeral Home

Laying to rest a loved one with dignity and care requires a service provider that is committed to excellence in all they do. Alexander Gray Funeral Home invites anyone in the Ratliff City area needing their services to reach out. Located at 57 NUBS Way, Ratliff City, OK, 73481, they are a pillar of the community willing to offer assistance and guidance through some of life's most difficult moments. For more information, or to schedule a consultation, the caring staff are available to address any questions or concerns and to offer a guiding hand through the entire process.

Frequently Asked Questions

What exactly is an obituary?

An obituary is a public announcement of someone's death, often including a brief biography, details about the funeral or memorial services, and personal messages about the deceased. It's a way to honor the person’s life and inform the community of their passing.

Where are obituaries usually published?

Obituaries are commonly published in newspapers, both in print and online editions. They are also found on funeral home websites, social media platforms, and dedicated obituary websites.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

An obituary is often a more detailed account of a person’s life, achievements, and the family they leave behind, while a death notice is a shorter, more formal announcement of a person's death, typically including just basic information such as the name, date of death, and details about the funeral services.

Who typically writes an obituary?

Obituaries are often written by close family members, friends, or funeral directors. Sometimes the person who passed away may have written their own obituary as part of their end-of-life planning.

Is it mandatory to publish an obituary?

No, publishing an obituary is not a legal requirement. It is a personal choice made by the family or the executor of the deceased's estate.

What details are usually included in an obituary?

An obituary typically includes the deceased’s full name, age, place of residence, date of birth and death, a brief biography, information about their family, details of the funeral or memorial service, and sometimes a special message or a thank you to those who provided care or support.

How soon after death should an obituary be published?

This depends on the family’s wishes and the schedule of the funeral services. Typically, an obituary is published several days to a week after the death to allow time to inform the community and to make arrangements for people to attend the services.

Can an obituary be published after the funeral?

Yes, an obituary can be published after the funeral, especially if it's meant to reach a wider audience who may not have been able to attend the service or to serve as a lasting tribute to the deceased.

How can one personalize an obituary?

An obituary can be personalized by including anecdotes, personal stories, accomplishments, hobbies, passions, and messages from loved ones. Sharing what made the person unique can help create a heartfelt tribute.

What is the appropriate length for an obituary?

Obituaries can vary in length, but they are generally between 200 and 600 words. The length may be dictated by space available in a newspaper or cost considerations for paid obituaries.

Are there templates available for writing obituaries?

Yes, many funeral homes and online resources provide templates that can help with the structure and content of an obituary, ensuring that all necessary information is included while giving space for personal touches.

Is it okay to include the cause of death in an obituary?

It is a personal choice whether to include the cause of death. Some families prefer to keep this private, while others may share it, especially if the deceased was involved in raising awareness for a certain illness or cause.

How should survivors be listed in an obituary?

Survivors are typically listed in order of their relationship to the deceased—spouses, children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, siblings, and so on. It's considered respectful to follow a consistent and clear format.

Are photographs included in obituaries?

Yes, photographs can be included in obituaries and help to make the tribute more personal. Usually, a recent photograph is used, but some obituaries may include older photos that are significant to the deceased's life.

Can friends contribute to writing an obituary?

Absolutely, friends can contribute to an obituary by providing memories, stories, and insights that may reflect different aspects of the deceased's life.

Should the obituary mention charitable donations?

Many obituaries include a request for charitable donations in lieu of flowers. This can be to a charity that was important to the deceased or one related to their cause of death, if disclosed.

How necessary is it to include funeral service details in an obituary?

Including the details of the funeral service is important if the family wishes to invite the community or if it is an open service. It helps people plan to attend and offer their support.

How can I ensure the accuracy of an obituary?

To ensure accuracy, double-check all facts, dates, and spellings, especially of names. It may be helpful to have multiple family members review the obituary before it is published.

What should be avoided in writing an obituary?

It's usually recommended to avoid overly personal or sensitive information that the family or the deceased would not have wanted to be public. Additionally, be cautious about including details that may lead to identity theft, such as complete birthdates or addresses.

Is it acceptable to include humor in an obituary?

If it reflects the personality of the deceased and the family is comfortable with it, humor can be a fitting tribute. However, it should be used respectfully and appropriately.

When and how are obituaries updated?

Typically, obituaries are not updated once published. However, if there was a significant error, the family can request a correction from the publication. Online obituaries can often be edited more easily than printed ones.