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Mary F Emberling - February 27, 1959 - April 15, 2024

Departed: 04/15/2024 (Healdton)

Obituary Preview: Funeral Services for Mrs. Mary Frances (Winnett) Emberling, 65 of Healdton are scheduled for 2:00 P.M., Friday, April 19, 2024 at First Baptist Church of Healdton with Rev. Jimmy May officiating. Interment will follow at Mount Olive Cemetery. Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Healdton.

Mary was born February 27, 1959 in Colbert, OK to the late Mr. Willie Calvin Winnett and Mrs. Goldie Raeveron (Chelf) Winnett.  She departed from this life on Monday, April 15, 2024 in Healdton, OK.

Mary was raised in Colbert, graduating from Colbert High School in 1977.  Upon graduation, she attended Southeastern University obtaining her bachelors degree in 1980 and then her masters degree in education thereafter.  Mary married Mike Emberling on August 6, 1983 in Healdton, OK making their home together in Healdton.  Together they were blessed with 4 wonderful daughters, Mika, Michelle, Callie and Maci.  Mary was a schoolteacher who dedicated 40 years of teaching to her community and her students, and she had also served on the Healdton City Council which she loved.  Mary enjoyed gardening and her green house, fishing, and especially her grandchildren, going to all of their sporting events.  She was loved and respected by everyone who knew her for her truthfulness and love.

Preceding her in death were her parents; daughter, Callie; brothers, Ernest and John Winnett; sister, Wanda Johnston; sister in law, Annie Winnett; and her brothers in law, TG Johnston and Benny Kemper.

Mary is survived by her husband, Mike of the home; daughters, Mika Tinline and husband Mike of Ardmore, Michelle Emberling of Healdton, and Maci Tripp and husband Zach of Healdton; grandchildren, Addlyn, Evelyn, Mccray, Jaxi, and Tatum; grand dog, Vada; siblings, Calvin Winnett and wife Joy of Calera, Jerry Winnett and wife Cheryl of Colbert, Melvin Winnett and wife Gloria of Calera, Tommy Winnett and wife Veroncia of Colbert, and Linda Kemper of Sherman, TX; sisters in law, Vera Winnett of Colbert and Carolyn Tiner and husband Gary of Wilson; bonus sister, Pat Martin and husband Gary of Healdton; and by a host of other family and friends.

Pallbearers will be Kevin Martin, Ryan Blakemore, Terry Shaw, Scotty Christian, Larry Munholland, and Corey Tiner.  Honorary bearers will be Gary Martin, Greg Munholland, Gary Tiner and Zach Smith.

Visitation will be held Thursday evening from 5:00-7:00 P.M. at Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Healdton.

Memories may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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Mildred Louise Lakey - March 05, 1932 - April 02, 2024

Departed: 04/02/2024 (Healdton)

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Healdton - Funeral Services for Mrs. Mildred "Louise" (Hensley) Lakey, 92 are scheduled for 2:00 P.M., Friday, April 12, 2024, at Alexander Gray Funeral Home Chapel in Healdton with Jim Duck officiating.  Interment will be 2:00 P.M., Saturday, April 13, 2024, at Grant Cemetery in Grant, OK with Kenny Bailey officiating.   Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Healdton.

Louise was born March 5, 1932, in Denison, TX to the late Mr. Oliver P. Hensley and Mrs. Willie Mae (Tomlinson) Hensley.  She departed from this life on Tuesday, April 2, 2024, at Midwest City, OK.

Louise moved around most of her life but attended Grant High School graduating in 1950.  She married Bennie Bailey and together they were blessed with 4 children.  Bennie preceded her in death in September of 1994.  Louise received her LPN license and began working for the Stratford Nursing Home and shortly after went on to work for the Pauls Valley Hospital where she was employed for nearly 30 years.  After retiring, Louise proudly began working at the Pauls Valley State School for special needs.  She had a great love and passion for that job. Later Louise married Ezzert Parker on January 6, 2001, in Arkansas.  He preceded her in death on March 9, 2011.  A year and a half later, she married Richard Lakey on September 15, 2012, in Ardmore and made their home in Healdton.  He preceded her in death on September 7, 2021.  Louise loved to garden, raise cattle, she loved nursing and helping others.

Preceding her in death were her parents; 3 husbands; 5 sisters; 3 brothers; infant daughter; and a 4-year-old son.

Louise is survived by her daughter, Wanda Florer and husband Ron of Harrah, OK; son, Mark Bailey and wife Ilene of Tuttle, OK; 6 grandchildren, Christopher Florer, Luke Florer and wife Sarah,  Kacie Henson and husband Matt, Jessica Lane and husband Kent, Rebecca Simpson and husband Joey, and Ben Bailey; 5 great grandchildren, Camryn Rollins, Isabel Henson, Cheyenne Lane, Daltyn Lane, and Spencer Simpson; stepchildren, Rick Lakey and wife Chris, Doug Lakey and wife Cindy, Jennifer Wilkinson and husband Kenneth, and James Lakey; 6 step grandchildren; 12 step great grandchildren; numerous other family and many friends.

In Lieu of flowers, please send donations to your favorite charity.

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LaRay (McCarty) Hodges - November 15, 1946 - March 22, 2024

Departed: 03/22/2024 (Healdton)

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Healdton – Funeral Services for Mrs. LaRay (McCarty) Hodges, 77, of Healdton are scheduled for 11:00 am Tuesday, March 26, 2024, at the East Lincoln Church of Christ of Healdton with Scott Renfro and Jared Wilson officiating. Cremation services will follow at the Alexander Gray Crematory.

LaRay was born on Nov. 15, 1946, at Courtney Flatt to the late Mr. Lloyd McCarty and Mrs. Bessie Viola (Welch) McCarty. She departed from this life on Friday, March 22, 2024, at Mercy Hospital in Ardmore.

LaRay was raised at Courtney Flatt attending school at Ringling and then later at Turner where she graduated High School. She married Meril Hodges on Jan. 8, 1966, at Wilson. They primarily resided at Healdton where LaRay was employed as a rural route mail carrier for the Healdton Post office. She retired from the post office in 2010 after 30 years of employment. She loved to crochet and work in her flower beds, but above all, being with her family. She and Meril served as foster parents to many children throughout the years and LaRay has been a loyal member of the East Lincoln Church of Christ of Healdton since 1976.

Preceding her in death are her parents and sisters, Nora Jean Peavler and Louise Harris.

Survivors include her devoted husband Meril W. Hodges, Jr. of the home; daughter, Sandra Hodges of Healdton; son, Lynn Hodges of Elmore City; sister, Pat Martin and husband Gary of Healdton; brother, Dewayne McCarty and wife Wetona of Coutney Flatt; 4 grandchildren, Ashley, Cody Angel and Luke; 4 great grandchildren, Hunter, Emma, Porscha and Ronan.

Pallbearers are Kevin Martin, Doug Farris, Clint Blakemore, Hunter Opsahl, Jim Harris, Dewayne McCarty and Ryan Blakemore.

Honorary bearers are Gary Martin, Cody Hodges, Jerry Parsons, Josh Parsons, Jim Doyal, Daniel Farris and all the Men of the East Lincoln Church of Christ.

Family visitation will be held from 6 to 8 pm Monday evening at Alexander Gray Funeral Home of Healdton. Condolences may be sent online at www.alexandergrayfh.com

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Gilbert Wayne Phillips - April 18, 1935 - March 01, 2024

Departed: 03/01/2024 (Healdton)

Obituary Preview: Healdton -Gilbert Wayne “Gib” Phillips was born April 18,1935 in Atwood, Oklahoma to Alice and Elmer Phillips. Folks around Atwood knew him as “Sonny”. He departed this life to be with his Lord and Savior on March 1, 2024, in Norman, Oklahoma at the age of 88.

Gib married his high school sweetheart and love of his life Suzanne McInroy on October 25, 1954 at the First United Methodist Church of Ada. They moved to Hobbs, New Mexico where their first two children, James “Chico” and Deonna Alice were born. Their youngest son Daren was born in Pauls Valley, Oklahoma.

Gib worked many years in the oilfield. In New Mexico he initially worked for Carl B. King Drilling and was eventually employed by Dowell. His job at Dowell allowed him and his family to return to Oklahoma, first to Pauls Valley. Then Muskogee, Parsons, KS, and Healdton, where they settled permanently. After retiring from Dowell, he went to work for Oilwell Cementers in Healdton. He and Suzie were longtime active members of the First United Methodist Church of Healdton. There he held a position on the board of Trustees for over 40 years.

Gib was adept at woodworking and a huge fan of OU football. He was a season ticket holder for many years and enjoyed tailgating with his family. It has been said that in his younger years he and his good friend Tom Baehl were the first ones in the stands for many games! His Christmas gift in 1999 was a surprise trip to the 2000 Orange Bowl to watch his Sooners win the National Championship.

Gilbert is survived by his children: Chico and Cindy Phillips of Locust Grove, OK, Deonna and Larry Cumpton of Norman, OK, and Daren and Lisa Phillips of Oklahoma City. His grandchildren: Phillip and Denisha Cumpton of Wilson, OK, Jayme Phillips and John Powell Walker, Jr.  of Oklahoma City, Wilson and Markie Phillips of Locust Grove, OK, and Lauryn Cumpton and Brandon Steffens of Moore, OK. Great grandchildren: Hunter, Leah, and Anthony Cumpton, Taylor Phillips, and Lucile Suzanne Walker. Great-great granddaughter: Everly Parks. He had many nieces and nephews who adored their Uncle Sonny.

Gilbert was preceded in death by his wife of 68 years, Martha Suzanne Phillips, his parents Robert Elmer, and Alice Phillips, 1 sister Wyvonna Saya, and 3 brothers Kenneth Phillips, Alfred Phillips, and Harold Phillips.

Visitation will be Monday, March 4 from 5-7 pm at Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Healdton. A graveside service will be held at 11 am Tuesday, March 5 at Allen Cemetery at Allen, Oklahoma with David Daniel officiating.

Pallbearers are Terry Jacobson, Phillip Cumpton, Anthony Cumpton, Wilson Phillips, Brandon Steffen, and John Powell Walker, Jr. In memory of Gilbert, please send donations to the Healdton First United Methodist Church 668 NW 5th St. Healdton, OK 73438 Condolences may be sent online at www.alexandergrayfh.com

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Wanda Jo (McClain) Jackson - November 16, 1936 - February 25, 2024

Departed: 02/25/2024 (Healdton)

Obituary Preview: Healdton- Services for Wanda (McClain) Jackson, 87, of Healdton are scheduled for 2:00 P.M., Thursday, February 29, 2024, at the Alexander Gray Funeral Home Chapel in Healdton with Bro. Quenton Newton officiating. Interment will follow at Mount Olive Cemetery.

Wanda was born November 16, 1936, at Oil Center, OK to the late Mr. Phoenix Jack McClain and Mrs. Myrtle (Murray) McClain. She departed this life on Sunday, February 25, 2024, at Marlow.

Wanda was raised mostly in the Fox and Velma area, but she and her family moved around often due to her father’s employment in the Oilfield. She graduated from Velma High School with the class of 1955. Wanda married Mr. O.A. Jackson in May of the same year. To this union, they were blessed with three children, Karen Gail, Lisa Jo, and Jeffrey Alan. In 1971, Wanda went on to further her education, attending nursing school, becoming a Licensed Practical Nurse. She began her nursing career in the Hospital at Ardmore but later took a position as a secretary for Nubs Well Service where she was employed for many years. Wanda later returned to her career as a nurse and began working in Home Health. She was such a giving person who had a passion for caring for others. Wanda liked to dance and loved going to church. She was a long-time member of the Healdton Assembly of God Church.

Preceding her in death are her parents, Phoenix and Myrtle; daughter, Karen Gail Davault; sister, Virginia Scott; brother, Wayne McClain; grandson, Johnathan Wilson; great granddaughter, Faith Langley.

Survivors include her daughter, Lisa Jackson of Healdton; son, Jeff Jackson and wife Kristi of Healdton; brother, Gerald McClain of Arkansas; grandchildren, Jordy Langley, Kalen Langley, Haley Jackson Smart, Bradley Burckhalter, Dylan Langley, Trey Jackson, Brayden Charles, and Joshua Jackson; great grandchildren, Meredith, Eli, Miley, Jude, Journi, Bentley, Paislee, Destiney, Landry, Bryson, Lexi, Lauren, Taelyn, Cash, Angelina, Lennon, Jocelyn, Tymber, Landon, Melanie, Addison, Drake, and Hannah; numerous other family and many friends.

Pallbearers will be Jordy Langley, Kalen Langley, Dylan Langley, Brad Burckhalter, Trey Jackson, and Joshua Jackson.

A visitation will be held Wednesday evening from 6-8 P.M. at the Alexander Gray Funeral Home Chapel in Healdton. Condolences and memories may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com

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Mark Edward Hays - December 31, 1954 - February 23, 2024

Departed: 02/23/2024 (Healdton)

Obituary Preview: Not all heroes wear capes—ours wore overalls. Mark Edward Hays was born on December 31, 1954, in South Dakota. Ardmore, Oklahoma, became his hometown and is where he lived a life dedicated to his family until his passing on February 23, 2024, at the age of sixty-nine.

Mark married the love of his life, Pam, on July 26, 1974. Their lives were changed forever on April 14, 1985, when their son, Jeremiah, was born. Mark always had his baby boy with him, strapped on his back in a carrier. Mark took raising a son seriously, so he did what any good dad would do: he showed Jeremiah early on how to drop a quarter into the slot machines in Las Vegas. Making his dad proud, a tiny Jeremiah hit for $100, and picked out a bicycle with his earnings. Under his dad’s wing and guidance, he learned how to ride it.

Mark was more than a wonderful husband and father. He was a master at carpentry and a skilled woodworker. He could build a home from the ground up; no one who knew him dared to build anything without consulting Mark first. He was a dedicated, hard worker, and his family was always proud of his strong work ethic. Mark loved Western films. His favorite show was “Gunsmoke.” He adored his nieces and nephews, and would give anyone who needed it the shirt off his back. Mark cared deeply about people, and always put others first. He never judged another for their mistakes, but saw the best in everyone. Tough times and good ones alike, Mark would love you through them. His full-bodied laugh was contagious, but if his laughter didn’t make you happy, his burgers and steaks would do the trick. Family would flock when Mark grilled what his other boy, Scott, called his “Heavenly burgers.”

Mark loved a lot of people, especially his mother, Shirley Hays. He never outgrew his love for her green chili. He loved his best friends—Nathan Williams and Billy Barbour—and Terrell D. Tucker, who was more like a brother than a friend.

Mark joins many loved ones who undoubtedly embrace his spirit with joy now: his mother, Shirley Hays; father, Frank Hays; brother, Hank Hays; brother-in-law, Steven Shaw; and nephews, Allen Shaw and Chase Tucker.

His legacy and light live on in his beloved wife, Pam Hays; son Jeremiah (Noel) Hays, and grandchildren, Isabella and Benji Hays; son Scott (Rebekah) Hays, and grandchildren, Myles, Zeppelin, and Romee Hays; siblings Frank Hays, Marcella Polson, Bobby Hays, Janet Miller, and Matt Hays; mother-in-law Sue Hawkins—who thought Mark was the best son-in-law she could ask for—and husband Ron Hawkins. The blessing of Mark’s life also lives on in countless brothers- and sisters-in-law, cousins, and friends.

Honorary Pallbearers, Clint Hays, Mark Hays, Steven Pierce, Dylan Pierce, Benji Hays, Myles Hays.

Internment services for Mark Hays will be held on Thursday, February 29th, at 2:00 PM at Bomar Point Cemetery in Wilson, OK, and will be open to the community. The family invites all who wish to honor Mark’s legacy to join them for a Celebration of Life at 6:00 PM, following the internment service, at Abundant Life Church, 421 L Street, Ardmore, OK. Services will be led by Pastors Michael Caraway and Diana Morris.

Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Healdton.

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James Everett Hooker - May 14, 1965 - February 21, 2024

Departed: 02/21/2024 (Healdton)

Obituary Preview: Healdton - Services for Mr. James Everett Hooker, Jr., 58, of Healdton are scheduled for 2:00 PM Wed. Feb. 28, 2024, at Alexander Gray Funeral Home Chapel of Healdton with Rev. Mike Johnston officiating.

Preceding him in death are his parents and he is survived by his spouse, Rendi Armstrong of Healdton.

Casket bearers are Zain Gossvener, Andrew Jones, J. Brad Johnson, Cody Johnson, Tim Woodruff and Cary Dale Tivis.

Honorary Bearers are Brandon Gossvener, Lester Roberts, Willy Merrick, Dana Gossvener, Larry Ratliff and Sammy Hoggard.

Visitation will be held from 6 to 8 pm Tuesday evening at Alexander Gray Funeral Home of Healdton. Condolences may be sent online at www.alexandergrayfh.com

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Mariana Lee Clark - March 02, 1943 - February 15, 2024

Departed: 02/15/2024 (Healdton)

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Healdton - Funeral Services for Mrs. Mariana Lee (Jennings) Clark, 80 of Healdton are scheduled for 10:00 A.M., Saturday, February 24, 2024 at Alexander Gray Funeral Home Chapel in Healdton with Rev. John Harris officiating.  Interment will follow to Mount Olive Cemetery.

Mariana was born March 2, 1943 in Marietta, OK to the late Mr. Alvin Luther Jennings and Mrs. Eva Oretha (Armour) Jennings.  She departed from this life on Thursday, February 15, 2024 in Ardmore, OK.

Mariana was raised primarily in Elmore City moving to Lubbock, TX at the age of 13.  She continued her education at Lubbock and she married the love of her life, Mr. Louis Riddles Clark on February 14, 1959 at Lubbock, TX.  They made their home in Lubbock moving to California following work, residing mostly at Fresno until moving to Healdton in 1991.  Mariana worked for the Fresno County Clerk's office for several years.  Residing in Healdton, she and Louis owned and operated a custodial business within this area until 2006.  Mariana loved arts and crafting, was very creative, always painting, loved being with family and she had a great sense of humor.

Preceding her in death were her parents; husband, Louis on November 11, 2013, stillborn son, Louis Clark, Jr.; daughter, Ann Lawson; 2 brothers, Joe Travis and Ken "Tex" Jennings.

Mariana is survived by her sons, Mark Clark and wife Lisa of Hanford, CA and Keith Clark and wife Sally of Ratliff City; 5 brothers, Jerry Jennings of Healdton, Abe Jennings of Paris, TX, Dewayne Jennings and wife Marilyn of Healdton, Dell Jennings and wife Sondra of Healdton, and Ronnie Jennings of Healdton; grandchildren, Mark Clark, Jr., Brittany Knotts, Eric Lawson, J.T. Lawson, and Brandon Clark, Curtis Atkinson, and Chyanne Abello; great grandchildren, Donavan Clark, Declan and Brenna Knotts, Reagan Lawson, Derek Lawson, and Jaxson Abello; and by a host of other family and friends.

Pallbearers will be Brandon Clark, Adam Jennings, Brandon Jennings, Joey Jennings, Ryan Jennings, and John Jennings.

Honorary bearers will be Mark Clark, Jr., Eric Lawson, J.T. Lawson, Abe Jennings, Jerry Jennings, Dewayne Jennings, Dell Jennings, and Ronnie Jennings.

Visitation will be held Friday evening from 6-8 P.M. at Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Healdton.

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Winifred Clark Kimmell - November 09, 1932 - February 09, 2024

Departed: 02/09/2024 (Healdton)

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Healdton - Funeral Services for Winifred Clark Kimmell, 91, will be held 10:00 A.M., Thursday, February 15, 2024 at Alexander Gray Funeral Home Chapel in Healdton, officiated by her grandson Joseph Dickinson, pastor of Hillcrest Baptist Church in El Paso, Texas. Interment to follow at Hillcrest Memorial Park in Ardmore, Oklahoma.

Winifred was born November 9, 1932 in Newkirk, Oklahoma to Clyde and Mary (Wise) Bryson. Winifred attended school at Newkirk, Oklahoma graduating in 1950 and marrying her childhood sweetheart, Kenneth Melvin Kimmell on September 2, 1950.

Being a stay-at-home mom while her children were young, she enjoyed a job history as a Telephone Operator with Southwestern Bell, Assembly Line Worker for Stromberg Carlson, Assistant City Clerk for the City of Healdton and Accounts Payable Clerk for Sutherland Well Service where she retired in 1992. Winnie was a member of Healdton Assembly of God Church and enjoyed family vacations with her husband and children. She was a pool shark and loved to challenge anyone with a game and usually won. She was a devoted wife and a very loving mom, grandma and (GG) great grandma. She loved her family dearly. She was a remarkable cook and could make a meal out of almost anything. She was named very early on as "a good cooker."

Some of her hobbies included traveling with her husband, shopping with her granddaughters, cooking, baking and playing board games and dominos. She took pride in her yard and had a beautiful garden in which she enjoyed working. She loved collecting river rocks from places she traveled.

Winifred was preceded in death by her husband of 73 years Kenneth Melvin Kimmell, her parents Clyde and Mary Bryson, infant son Roy Wayne Kimmell, son Rodney Kimmell, sister Joann (Blount) Bravenec and brother Bernard Bryson.

She is survived by her daughters Nancy Percival and Husband Harold of Mustang, Oklahoma, Judy Dickinson and Janice Kimmell both of Ardmore, Oklahoma, Daughter-in-law Carrie Kimmell of Stinnett, Texas, sister Virginia Simmons of Arkansas City, Kansas, 10 grandchildren and 20 great grandchildren. Pallbearers are John Dickinson, Jason Richardson, Wesley Kimmell, Josh Mays, Clay Deering, and Kelly Bryson,

Honorary Pallbearers are Michael Dickinson, Harold Percival, Jeremy Eaves and Derek Fairweather.

The family would like to give thanks to the friends and neighbors who visited her while in the hospital. A special thanks to Dr. Peery, Kathryn and Brandi at Mercy Spine Surgery, the nursing staff on the 3rd and 5th floor of Mercy Memorial Hospital- Ardmore and the nursing staff at Mercy Memorial Hospital-Healdton for their professional and loving caring during this difficult time.

And special friends at Cross Timbers Hospice Matt, Dorothy, Sarah, Rachel, Leta and Jimmie.

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Patricia Ann Jubb - January 09, 1941 - February 07, 2024

Departed: 02/07/2024 (Healdton)

Obituary Preview: Healdton - Mrs. Patricia Ann (Briscoe) Jubb, 83 of Healdton was born January 9, 1941 in Graham, OK to the late Mr. William Jasper Briscoe, Sr. and Mrs. Frances Marie (Hope) Briscoe.  She departed from this life on Wednesday, February 7, 2024 in Ardmore, OK.  Per Patricia's wishes, no services are scheduled.  Cremation Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Healdton.

Patricia was raised in the Dundee, Wirt, Fox, Graham, Healdton and Wilson areas.  She was a devoted homemaker who dearly loved her family and friends.  Patricia enjoyed being outside, flowers and her dogs.

Preceding her in death were her parents; brother, Junior Briscoe and Sammy Briscoe; son, Tommy Kirkland; daughter, Cynthia Kirkland; grandson, Allen Bailey and nephew, James Jones.

Patricia is survived by her children, Frances "Fran" Allison and Robert Kirkland; brother, Jimmy Briscoe; sister, Nancy Simpkins; 9 grandchildren, Bobby Thomas, Jessica Kirkland, Angela Kirkland Stoddard, Gary Morris, Nathan Morris, Lacey Hobson, Robbie Kirkland, Jr. and wife Erin, Shawn Kirkland and wife Shane'a, and Christopher Kirkland; 16 great grandchildren, Makayla, Maddison, Brianna, Braden, Braylee, Ember, Crew, Ever Kate, Gracie, Dylan, Christopher, Austin, Destany, Dalton, Skyla and Makala.; 1 great great grandson, Landon; niece, Angela Briscoe, nephews, Wesley Jones, Gary Jones, Michael Briscoe, and Sammy Lynn Briscoe; companion, Steve Blazier; a canine baby, Bella; and by a host of other family and friends.

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Charles Ray Strebeck - September 19, 1956 - February 06, 2024

Departed: 02/06/2024 (Healdton)

Obituary Preview: Healdton - Graveside Services with Military honors for Mr. Charles Ray Strebeck, 67 of Healdton are scheduled for 2:00 P.M., Monday, February 12, 2024 at McAlester Cemetery with Rev. Doug Hickman officiating.  Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Healdton.

Charles was born September 19, 1956 in Ardmore, OK to the late Mr. Ishmer D. Strebeck and Mrs. Lillian Bernice Strebeck.  He departed from this life on February 6, 2024 at his home in Healdton.

Charles was raised in Ardmore, attending and graduating from Ardmore High School.  He worked for Oklahoma Natural Gas as a welder and was passionate musician.  Charles had played in several bands, writing his own songs.  He married the former Angel Sorrels on August 14, 2000 at Gainesville, TX and together they made their home in Lone Grove moving to Healdton five years ago.  Charles enjoyed music, fishing, his dogs, and spending time with his family.   He was a simple man with a pure heart.

Preceding him in death were his parents; son, Charles in 2005; grandson, Brandon Brown in 2018; and a sister Ruby Riner.

Charles is survived by his wife, Angel of the home; children, Coy Agan of MO, Chanlyn Haggard and husband Don of Ardmore, Jeremy Strebeck and wife Alisha of Wilson, Andriea Moss and husband Allen of Wilson, and Elizabeth Pearson of Ardmore; sister, Bernice Alverz of TX; 9 grandchildren, Jacob VanBuskirk, Blake Brown, Jillian Fitzgerald and husband Dacoda, Abby Jenkins, AJ Moss, Aaron Moss, Lajaden Pearson, Latraven Pearson, and Lamarcus Pearson; 1 great grandson, Waylon Fitzgerald; and by a host of other family and friends.

Visitation will be held Sunday evening from 5-7 P.M. at Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Healdton.

Condolences may be made at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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Ruth Frances (Montgomery) Gilbert - August 08, 1933 - January 28, 2024

Departed: 01/28/2024 (Healdton)

Obituary Preview: Memorial Services for Ruth (Montgomery) Gilbert, 90, of Healdton, are scheduled for 11:00 A.M. Friday, February 2, 2024, at the Zaneis Baptist Church with Bro. Doug Henson officiating. Services are under the direction and care of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Healdton.

Ruth was born August 8, 1933, at Lindsay, OK to the late Mr. Carl Everett Montgomery and Mrs. Grace (Elmore) Montgomery. She departed this life Sunday, January 28, 2024, in Ardmore.

Ruth was raised in Lindsay where she attended school, graduating with the class of 1952. She married the love of her life, H.L. Gilbert, on November 29, 1953. The couple resided all over the country for a long period of time due to her husband’s job in the oilfield. In 1968 they were ready to settle down and begin a family, so they made their home in Healdton. Ruth cherished her husband, two children, and two grandchildren, more than anything in life. She was a wonderful seamstress. Ruth also loved gardening, turning their backyard from nothing into a huge production of flowers and plants. After 66 wonderful years of marriage, H. L. passed away on January 15, 2020. Ruth was a member of the Zaneis Baptist Church and on August 5, 2022, she rededicated her life to Christ, and this was a very special day to her.

Also preceding her in death are her parents, Carl Everett and Grace Montgomery; brother, Carl Montgomery; sisters, Connie Currens and Jan Ducas.

Survivors include her son, Lawrence Gilbert of Healdton; daughter, Ann Owen and husband Greg of The Woodlands, TX; granddaughter, Maddie Owen of Fort Worth, TX; grandson, Evan Owen of Austin, TX; nephew, Monte Montgomery; special cousin who was like a sister to “Ruthie”, Terry Cosby; her feline companion, Morris; numerous other family and friends.

The family would like to express a special thank you to Lourdes Bueno for the wonderful care she provided to Ruth.

Online condolences and memories may be shared at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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Ralph Junior Needham - January 16, 1939 - January 24, 2024

Departed: 01/24/2024 (Healdton)

Obituary Preview: Services for Ralph Junior Needham, 85, of Healdton, are scheduled for 2:00 P.M. Saturday, January 27, 2024, at the Milo Baptist Church with Rev. Mike Johnston and Caleb Holbrook officiating. Interment will follow at Dixie Cemetery. Services are under the direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home of Healdton.

Ralph was born January 16, 1939, at Pooleville, to the late Mr. Elmer Needham and Mrs. Eula (Kennedy) Needham. He departed this life Wednesday, January 24, 2024, at his home in Healdton.

Ralph was raised at Pooleville, attending school there and later graduated from Graham High School. He began employment with Uniroyal/ Michelin where he worked for a few years and then went to work in the oilfield. He worked on pulling units and numerous other positions while in the oilfield. Ralph was also employed for the Carter County District #2 for several years, driving a rock truck. He and Kathey were married on December 28, 1982, in Gainesville, TX. and they made their home in the Fox area. Together they began a Hay Baling operation, baling hay for all who allowed it. He loved baling hay. Ralph also loved going to church and was a long-time member of the Milo Baptist church. He and Kathey loved driving the backroads and eating at all the restaurants in the area. Ralph loved his family and was quite the jokester.

Preceding him in death are his parents; wife Kathey on July 27, 2023; son-in-law, Gary Mitchell; brother, Glenn Needham and his wife Teresa; stepsons, Bud Walker and Jimmy Walker.

Survivors include his children, Paula Hall and husband Darrell of Oklahoma City, OK, Sherri Mitchell and significant other, Kerry Edingfield of Moore, OK, and Gena Wise and husband Chris of Fox, OK; step-children, Brenda Priddy and husband Kent and John Walker and significant other, D.K.; grandchildren, Bryan Perkins and wife Liz, Courtney Wallace and husband Steven, Forrest Mitchell, Ashley Branch and husband TJ, Dakota Mitchell and wife Jessi, Dalton Wise and wife Lacey, Devin Wise and wife Jessi, and Chance Wise; step-grandchildren, Edith Summy and husband Vince, Carrie Taylor and husband Zach, Candice Stewart and husband Walter, Melissa Sistos and husband Jose, Stormie Palmer and husband Brian, Jason Bivings and wife Tasha, Amanda Holbrook and husband Caleb, J.J. Cook and husband Sam, and Janie Walker; brother, Bill Needham and wife Tinky; 27 great grandchildren; numerous great great grandchildren; numerous other family and many friends.

Pallbearers will be Klay Vernon, Kaden Reynolds, Austin Story, Ricky Palmer, Braxton Palmer, and Jacob McDonald.

Family visitation is scheduled for Friday evening from 6-8 P.M. at Alexander Gray Funeral Home Chapel in Healdton. Condolences and memories may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com

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Kathryn "Kelly" (Conger) Priddy - February 01, 1960 - January 20, 2024

Departed: 01/20/2024 (Healdton)

Obituary Preview: Memorial services for Kathryn “Kelly” (Conger) Priddy, 63, of Healdton, are scheduled for 2:00 P.M. Saturday, January 27, 2024, at the Alexander Gray Funeral Home Chapel in Healdton. Services are under the direction and care of Alexander Gray Crematory.

Kelly was born February 1, 1960, to the late Mr. Withel “Leroy” Conger and Mrs. Betty Jo (Chandler) Conger. She departed this life Saturday, January 20, 2024, at her home in Healdton.

Kelly was raised in Blackwell, OK where she attended school participating as the baton twirler. She and her future husband, Jeffrey Priddy, were selected to be Homecoming King and Queen and together they graduated with the class of 1981. The couple made their home in Davis and to this union they were blessed with three children, Shanna, Chelsea, and Jason. Kelly worked as a cook for numerous restaurants in that area before making her home in Healdton. She then became employed as a cook for the Healdton nursing home until her health no longer allowed that. Kelly loved to gamble, making her way to Las Vegas many times to gamble and visit her sister. She loved being a cook and loved cooking for anyone and everyone all the time.

Preceding her in death are her parents; daughter, Chelsea Priddy; brother, Melvin Conger.

Kelly is survived by her daughter, Shanna Priddy of Healdton; son Jason Priddy and wife Jeanine also of Healdton; sister, Elizabeth Jo Robinson; grandchildren, Drake Wright, Emily Baker, and Jayden Jackson; numerous other family and friends.

Condolences and memories may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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Mark Hinton - May 04, 1965 - January 17, 2024

Departed: 01/17/2024 (Healdton)

Obituary Preview: Healdton - Memorial Services for Mark Hinton via Zoom provided by Kingdom Hall of Jehovah Witnesses are scheduled for Sunday, February 4, 2024 at 3:30 P.M.   Cremation services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Healdton.

Mark was born May 4, 1965 in Los Angeles, California to the late Mr. Joseph Maben Hinton and Mrs. Patricia Ann (McCartney) Hinton.  He departed from this life on Wednesday, January 17, 2024 at his home in Healdton.

Mark was raised initially in L.A. moving to Kansas in 1976.  He resided in Hutchinson, KS and had drove a truck for many years.

Preceding him in death were his parents; and a sister, Roberta Elstun.

Mark is survived by his daughter, Amanda of Wichita, KS, brother, Bill Hinton and spouse Mark of South Hutchinson, KS; sisters, Joann Schoenecker and spouse Shannon of Arlington, KS and Jean Beach of Topeka, KS; a dear friend, Charles Jewell of Healdton; and by a host of other family and friends.

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Linda Kay Beaird - November 05, 1959 - January 01, 2024

Departed: 01/01/2024 (Healdton)

Obituary Preview: Milo - Funeral Services for Mrs. Linda Kay (Thompson) Beaird, 64 of Healdton, are scheduled for 2:00 P.M., Saturday, January 6, 2024 at Milo Baptist Church with Rev. Mike Johnston officiating and Jim Gentry assisting.  Interment will follow to Hewitt Cemetery.  Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Healdton.

Linda was born November 5, 1959 in Ringling, OK to the late Mr. J.R. Thompson and Mrs. Lois Dean (Whitaker) Thompson.  She departed from this life on January 1, 2024 in Ardmore, OK.

Linda was raised in the Healdton and Fox areas graduating from Healdton High School in 1978.  She married the love of her life, Andy Norvil Beaird on September 3, 1994 at Healdton.  Together they made their home in Healdton where they currently resided.  Linda enjoyed painting, computers, and games especially wordle.

Preceding her in death were her parents; brothers, Al Thompson and James Thompson; a baby sister, Janice Thompson; a beloved brother in law, Jerry Stepp and great nephew, Dilan Stepp.

Linda is survived by her husband, Andy of the home; sisters, Leona Stepp of Stillwater, and Wanda Long and husband Danny of Wichita Falls, TX; brother, Kenneth Thompson and wife Vinita of Loco; uncle, Jerry Henderson of Fox; nieces and nephews, Larry Stepp and wife April, Rene' Cargile and husband Kevin, Michael Thompson and wife April, Kimberly Long, Brandon Thompson and wife Kelli, Casey Thompson, and James Thompson, II; great nieces and nephews, Rusty Stepp and wife Rebecca, Dean Stepp and wife Codee, Audra Stepp, Josh and Riley Cargile, Tomi and Abby Thompson, Cheyenne, Cherokee, and James R. Thompson, Sparrow and Oliver Thompson; great great niece and nephews, Benjamin, Logan and Allister Stepp, Timber and Weston Stepp; and by a host of other family and friends.

Pallbearers will be Jimmy Thompson, Larry Stepp, Kevin Cargile, Dean Stepp, Josh Cargile, and Rusty Stepp.  Honorary bearers will be Larry Bohannan, Casey Thompson, Brandon Thompson, Jerry Keith Henderson, and Kerry Henderson.

Visitation will be held Friday evening from 5-7 P.M. at Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Healdton.

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John Glendon Everitt - March 08, 1967 - December 30, 2023

Departed: 12/30/2023 (Healdton)

Obituary Preview: Healdton - Funeral Services for Mr. John Glendon Everitt, 56 of Lone Grove are scheduled for 2:00 P.M., Friday, January 5, 2024 at Alexander Gray Funeral Home Chapel with Rev. Dan Stewart officiating.  Interment will follow to Dixie Cemetery.

John was born March 8, 1967 to Mr. George Robert Everitt and Mrs. Sandra Ann (Goetz) Everitt.  He departed from this life on December 30, 2023 in Claude, TX.

John was raised between South Texas and Louisiana.  He worked in the oilfields after high school then went into long haul truck driving for 42 years.  He married the former Leslie Marie Brooks on November 8, 2008 in Lone Grove.  John enjoyed working on equipment and being a mechanic.  He also enjoyed riding motorcycles, fishing and water skiing in his younger years.

Preceding him in death was his mother, Sandra; son, Taylor James Everitt; and a sister, Kimberly Renea Ray.

John is survived by his wife Leslie of the home; father, George Robert "Pete" Everitt; father and mother in law, Joe and Jackie Brooks; sons, John David Everitt and wife Krystal of Yorktown, Christopher Allen Everitt of Victoria, TX, and Jordan Shey Everitt of Kansas City, MO; daughters, Misty Nichole Everitt of Tallahassee, FL, Autumn Cheyenne Coffman of Ardmore, OK, Sierra Danielle Montgomery and husband Jacob of Ardmore, OK, Makali Shanea Everitt of Ada, OK;  brothers, Daniel Wayne Drebert of Oklahoma, Michael Joseph Drebert and wife Kelly of Houston, TX, and Kevin Howard Drebert D'Vil and wife April of Houston, TX;  grandchildren, Brett, Faith, Payton, Hope, Grayson, Easton, Avery, Khloe, Rylan, and Aspen; many nieces, nephews and by a host of other family and friends.

Pallbearers will be Kevin D'Vil, J.D. Everitt, Wes Warrington, Shane Newcomb, Jacob Montgomery, and Chris Everitt.

Honorary bearers will be Joe Brooks and Pete Everitt.

Visitation will be held Thursday evening from 5-7 P.M. at Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Healdton.

In Lieu of Flowers, donations may be made to the funeral home in honor of John.

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Oretha Wadkins - October 02, 1939 - December 29, 2023

Departed: 12/29/2023 (Healdton)

Obituary Preview: Countyline - Funeral Services for Mrs. Oretha (Cole) Wadkins, 84 of Healdton are scheduled for 2:00 P.M. Wednesday, January 3, 2024 at the Countyline Baptist Church with Rev. Jamie Griffin officiating.  Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Healdton.

Oretha was born October 2, 1939 in Ada, OK to the late Mr. Thomas Jefferson Cole and Mrs. Gertie (Isenburg) Cole.  She departed from this life on December 29, 2023 in Ardmore, OK.

Oretha resided in Countyline, OK and Kingston, OK most of her life.  She married the late Mr. Ronald Wadkins in March of 1966 at Carlsbad, NM sharing 51 years of marriage together before his passing on August 11, 2017.  Oretha enjoyed canning, quilting, arrowhead hunting, fishing, and hunting.  She was a devoted homemaker and the glue of the family.  Oretha had a nickname, "Charlie Girl and even had her very own fishing hole named "Charlie Girl Point" after her.  Most of all, she really enjoyed just being a Nannie to her grandchildren who she had a big hand in raising.

Preceding her in death were her parents; husband, Ronnie in 2017; siblings, Howard Cross, Treeta Blanton, Larrey Cole, Leah Kay Kile, Romonia Floweree, Gus Cole, Betty McKenna, and Eunice Beal; son in law, Benjamin Franklin "B.F." Elkins; grandson, Ronald Young; granddaughter, Jenna Sharee; and 3 great grandsons.

Oretha is survived by her children, Lucas Perkins and wife Ronda of Healdton, Deleta Young of Duncan, Delesa Elkins of Kingston, and Leslie Perkins of Helena; siblings, Gerald Cole and wife Sherri of Kansas and Meredith Steen Cole and wife Donna of Kansas; grandchildren, Shawnda, Marla, Chrissy, Roy, Paul, Raelynn, Angela, Ashley, Carla, and Joe Bill; 23 great grandchildren, numerous great great grandchildren; and by a host of other family and friends.

Pallbearers will be her great grandchildren, Rocco Robertson, Jayden Robertson, Ronald "RJ" Young, Little Felipe Munoz, Jesse Pittman, and Little Lucas Rucker.

Visitation will be held Tuesday evening from 6-8 P.M. at Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Healdton.

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Emily Ann Carroll Griffith - January 27, 1940 - December 27, 2023

Departed: 12/27/2023 (Healdton)

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Healdton - A Home Going Celebration will be held for Emily Ann Carroll Griffith on Saturday, December 30, 2023 at 2:00 P.M., at the Asphaltum Worship Center north of Ringling with Bro Doug Hickman and Bro John Harris officiating.  Interment will follow to Dixie Cemetery.  Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Healdton.

Mrs. Griffith was born in Marietta, OK on January 27, 1940 to Obie Ashel Bright and Rena Milliken Bright.  She stepped into glory on December 27, 2023 at her home in Healdton.

Emily married Jack Carroll on March 11, 1961 in Marietta and were married 29 years at the time of his death in 1990.  This union produced 3 sons.  A few years after Jack's death, Emily met Luther Griffith Jr. and with her son's blessings they were wed on February 14, 1994 and had 26 1/2 wonderful years together until his death in 2020.

Emily held various jobs over the years, including at Brady's and JD Lewis.  The job she loved and cherished the most was being a homemaker, being there for her family.  Each Sunday, she had Sunday dinner for her family. Emily was also an active member of Asphaltum Worship Center where she was one of the original members of the church and loved her church family very much.  In her younger years, Emily could be found playing the piano or leading praise and worship at church.

Preceding her in death are her parents; 2 brothers, Obie David "O.D." Bright and Guy Jefferson Bright; sister, Ada Mae Bright Plant and her husbands, Jack Carroll and Luther "Curly" Giffith, Jr.

Emily is survived by her 3 sons, Harlan Carroll and wife Brenda of Healdton, Tim Carroll and wife Donna of Camargo and Jackie "Bud" Carroll and wife Sherry of Healdton, 10 grandchildren, 21 great grandchildren; sister in law, Julia Bright of Duncan, numerous nieces and nephews; and by a host of other family and friends.

Pallbearers will be Stephen Carroll, Jesse Brown, Jeremy Carlton, Obie Webb, Scotty Baird, and Jeff Webb.  Honorary bearer will be Bobby Perkins.

Viewing and visitation will be held at the home of Emily at 5034 Airport Road, Healdton, OK.

Online Condolences may be held at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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Kenneth Melvin Kimmell - June 28, 1931 - December 27, 2023

Departed: 12/27/2023 (Healdton)

Obituary Preview: Healdton – Funeral Services for Kenneth Melvin Kimmell, 92, will be held on January 4, 2024 @ 11:00AM at Alexander Gray Funeral Home Chapel in Healdton, officiated by his grandson Pastor Joseph Dickinson, pastor of Hillcrest Baptist Church in El Paso, Texas. Interment to follow at Hillcrest Memorial Park in Ardmore, Oklahoma.

Kenneth was born June 28, 1931 in Arkansas City, Kansas to Lennie and Gertie Alvord Kimmell. Kenneth attended school at Hoisington, Kansas and Newkirk, Oklahoma graduating in 1949 and marring his childhood sweetheart, Winifred Clark Bryson on September 2, 1950.

With a job history at Coca-cola, Boeing Aircraft and Santa Fe Railroad, he eventually began a lifelong career in the oilfield industry. He started as a roustabout on a drilling rig, he then landed a pumper position with JM Huber Corporation where he retired after 42 years of service as District Area Foreman. Ken's long tenure there was enhanced by his invention in 1964 of the Valve Coupler, patented and promoted by Huber Oil Division.

A man dedicated to faith and family, Ken was member of Healdton Assembly of God Church and enjoyed family vacations camping in Colorado and Wyoming. After retirement, Ken and Winnie enjoyed traveling in their RV visiting 49 states. As a grandfather of 10 grandchildren, he was proud to say all 10 are college graduates and all have come to a saving knowledge of the Lord Jesus Christ. Ken remains a wonderful example of the strength and influence a Godly man has in his family as his 20 great grandchildren follow his footsteps.

His hobbies included remodeling, woodworking, traveling, fly-fishing, camping, and inventing fun things to do. According to his girls, there wasn't anything he couldn't fix.

Ken was an unpublished artist, creating several beautiful wood sculptures of Oklahoma Native American Culture. He also produced a few bronze sculptures depicting the western cowboy.

Ken was preceded in death by his parents, infant son Roy Wayne Kimmell, and son Rodney Kimmell. He is survived by his wife of 73 years Winifred Clark Kimmell of the home, Daughters Nancy Percival and husband Harold of Mustang, Oklahoma, Judy Dickinson, and Janice Kimmell both of Ardmore, Oklahoma and Daughter-in-law Carrie Kimmell of Stinnett, Texas, 10 grandchildren and 20 great grandchildren, brother Grover Kimmell of Odessa, Texas, Sister Barbara Smith of Rockwall, Texas.

Pallbearers are Jason Richardson, John Dickinson, Michael Dickinson, Wesley Kimmell, Josh Mays, and Clay Deering.

Honorary Pallbearers are Harold Percival, Jeremy Eaves, Derek Fairweather and Kelly Bryson.

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Joe Ralph Pierce - December 03, 1957 - December 18, 2023

Departed: 12/18/2023 (Healdton)

Obituary Preview: Healdton - Joe Ralph Pierce, 66 of Healdton departed from this life on December 18, 2023 at his home in Healdton.  He was born December 3, 1957 to the late Mr. Billy Joe Pierce and Mrs. Norma Christine (Meek) Pierce.  Cremation Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Healdton.

Joe is preceded in death by his parents; and his wife, Deloris Pierce.

He is survived by his 2 daughters, Wendy Rushing and her husband Brady of Paradise, TX and Melissa Thrasher and her husband Bryan of Fort Worth, TX; 8 grandchildren; 2 great grandchildren; 2 sisters; 1 brother; and by a host of other family and friends.

The family would also like to thank Angel Care Hospice our of Duncan and close friends, Sharon Warren and John Shafer for their love and support to Joe.

No services are scheduled at this time.

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Robert Franklin Barbour - June 29, 1930 - December 16, 2023

Departed: 12/16/2023 (Healdton)

Obituary Preview: Robert Franklin Barbour was born to Caroline and Frank Barbour on June 29, 1930 in McMann, Okla. He was greeted in heaven on December 16, 2023. Bob attended Healdton High School and then Oklahoma A&M where he graduated with a Bachelor of Science degree in Accounting. In 1955 Bob married Dolores Dawson Barbour. They were married 55 years before her death in 2005.

Bob served his country in the Army, and following his marriage to Dolores, they lived in Stillwater, Duncan, Perry, and Lucein, Okla., and for seven years in Maracaibo, Venezuela where Bob worked for Haliburton Industries. They later made Harrison, Ark. their permanent home. Bob opened his own accounting firm, maintained a farm in the Harrison area, and was a member of First Baptist Church. They also maintained a home in Tulsa, Okla. where Bob worked for American Airlines. In 2011, Bob relocated to the Kansas City, Mo. area to be near family.

Aviation was one of Bob’s lifelong interests. He maintained a private pilot’s license for many years. He also enjoyed genealogy, history and ballroom dancing as hobbies.

Bob will be remembered for his practical knowledge, loyalty to friends and family, gifted intelligence, sense of humor, and commitment to Christ.

Survivors include two sisters, Jo Ann Butler (Pete) and Phyllis Brown, nieces Cindy Decker (Bill) and Donna Butler Douglas (Gary), one nephew, D.J. Brown (Karen), numerous great nieces and nephews, and one great, great nephew.

A private burial will be held.  Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Healdton.

Memorial donations may be made to Arkansas Baptist Ranch, 5742 Boys Ranch Dr., Harrison, AR 72601-7568.

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Bobbye Jean (England) Pender - September 25, 1936 - December 15, 2023

Departed: 12/15/2023 (Healdton)

Obituary Preview: Immediate Burial services for Bobbye Jean (England) Pender, 87, of Healdton, are scheduled for 10:00 A.M. Saturday, December 16, 2023, at the Mount Olive Cemetery in Healdton. Services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home at Healdton.

Bobbye was born September 25, 1936, at Seminole, OK, to the late Mr. James John England and Mrs. Mattie Lee (Bull) England. She departed from this life Friday, December 15, 2023, at her home, in Healdton.

Bobbye and her family moved to the Healdton area when she was a young girl, where she attended Fox and Healdton Schools. She was the third born of Jim and Pat’s four daughters. Bobbye married the love of her life, Roy Pender, on July 2, 1954, at the Presbyterian Church in Ardmore. The couple made their home in Healdton where they raised their children. Bobbye loved raising her kids and helping raise the grandkids. She was known for having the stereo and the scanner going, warning her family of any news, or bad weather reports that were to be expected in their area. Bobbye was always concerned and looking out for her family.

Preceding her in death are her parents, Jim and Pat; husband, Roy Pender; 3 sisters, Nell Smith, Billie Bolles, and Patsy England; son, Steve Pender; daughter, Alisa Pender; Special family friend, Scott “Will” Hunsaker.

Survivors include her sons, Ricky Pender and wife Jayne of Healdton, Roy Neil Pender of Healdton, and Kegan Pender and wife Darcie of Ardmore; daughter, JeeAnna Polzien and husband Laine of Healdton; grandchildren, Jason, Cooter, Corbin, Cason, Cadence, Grayson, Roselyn, and Kaiden; numerous other family and friends.

Condolences and memories may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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Michael Lynn Simon - March 09, 1969 - December 10, 2023

Departed: 12/10/2023 (Healdton)

Obituary Preview: Healdton - Michael "Mike" Lynn Simon, 54 of Healdton departed from this life on December 10, 2023 in Oklahoma City, OK.  He was born to the late Mr. Danny Leon Simon and Mrs. Ruby Charleane (Capehart) Simon on March 9, 1969 in Woodward, OK.  Cremation services are under the care and direction of Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Healdton.

Mike was raised in Healdton attending and graduating from Healdton High School in 1987.  He then worked for WW Welders and J&I Manufacturing as a welder, as a crane operator for DCD in Durant and lastly as a security guard and patrol for the Chickasaw Nation.  Mike married Kathie Rae Snooks on June 29, 1996 at Ringling, OK and together they made their home in Healdton.  He enjoyed fishing, hunting, gambling, and he loved his dogs.

Preceding him in death were his parents; and a brother, Dusty Simon.

Mike is survived by his wife, Kathie of the home; sons, Phillip Snooks and wife Anna of Wilson and Jesse Henry of Gerogia; brother, Danny "Chop" Simon and wife Mindy of Lexington; sister, Sandy Spellman and husband Don of Healdton; grandchildren, Zoe Madison, Ryit, Ruby, Lucas, Landon and Hailyn; nieces, Bella Spellman and Katie Simon; nephews, Don Spellman, II and Matt Simon; great nephews, Conrad and Eli Simon; and by a host of other family and friends.

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Sandra Vernell Reid - October 16, 1948 - December 04, 2023

Departed: 12/04/2023 (Healdton)

Obituary Preview: HEALDTON — Services for Sandra V. (Burkett) Reid, 75, of Healdton/Ardmore, will be at 10 a.m. on Saturday, December 9th, at the Alexander Gray Funeral Home, 65 Golf Course Rd. Healdton, OK, with her sons Darryl Worsham and Rev. Rodney Worsham officiating. Interment will follow at Mount Olive Cemetery in Healdton.

Sandra was born October 16, 1948, to Bill and Wanda Burkett. She passed away peacefully on December 4th, 2023, at her home in Ardmore with her family by her side.

Sandra was a lifelong resident of Healdton, graduating from Healdton High School in 1966. She married Danny Worsham in Healdton and together raised their three children, Darryl, Tonya and Rodney. She later married Joe B. Reid in 1988. Sandra and Joe were married for thirty-two years until his death in January 2020.

Through her children, she was blessed with eleven grandchildren and five great-grandchildren.

Sandra was raised in the Healdton Assembly of God Church where she gave her life to Christ at the age of five. Sandra loved to sing at church and was a lifelong faithful member. If the church doors were open, she and her kids were in attendance. Sandra was an outstanding, loving mother to her children with the highest importance of providing them with an understanding of what it meant to be a follower of Jesus Christ.

Sandra was a worker. She worked at Brady Welding and Machine shop in the front office for over 25 years. Some of Sandra’s favorite hobbies included baking cakes for people while loving them right where they were, watching Wheel of Fortune and Dateline and rooting for her favorite sports teams: the Dallas Cowboys and Kansas City Chiefs. Sandra loved her family fiercely, and she loved hosting family for wonderful holiday gatherings. She had a way of making everyone feel special. Sandra loved the good Lord, her family, friends and the community of Healdton. She showed kindness to strangers, babies and animals.

Sandra was preceded in death by her husband, Joe Reid; parents, Bill and Wanda Burkett; brothers Randy Burkett and Mark Burkett; sister-in-law Denise Burkett; niece Ashley Sanford and great-granddaughter, Raynie Suzanne Paul.

Sandra is survived by her children Darryl Worsham and his wife Rhonda, Austin, TX, Tonya Hendershott and her husband Randy, Ardmore, OK, Rodney Worsham and his wife Kandace, Medicine Lodge, KS, Joey Reid and his wife Marie, Dallas, TX; her sister, Marcia Burkett, Ardmore, OK, and lovingly known as “Memaw”, Sandra’s grandchildren, Liz Shoemake and her husband Will, Hannah Worsham-Ehrle and her husband Jack, Isabella Worsham, Erika Paul, Clayton Paul and his wife Ashley, Cody Paul, Caleb Worsham, and Olivia Worsham, Logan Williams and her husband Cale, Rikki Reid, and Jaden Reid; great-grandchildren include Kylie, Allie, Rylie and Cole Paul, and Jax Williams, Aunt Etoy Palmer of AZ and many nieces, nephews, cousins, friends and her beloved dog and companion, Gracie Boo.

A family and friends visitation will be held on Friday, December 8th, from 6-8 p.m. at the Alexander Gray Funeral Home, 65 Golf Course Rd. Healdton, OK.

Expressions of sympathy in her memory may be made to Canoe Brook Assisted Living, Ardmore, OK.

A heartfelt thank you goes out to her timeless and loving caregivers at Canoe Brook Assisted Living and Cross Timbers Hospice.

Condolences and memories may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written announcement that provides information about the life and death of an individual. It typically includes the deceased's name, age, a brief account of their life, significant achievements, family members, as well as details about the funeral or memorial services.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as important historical records and are a way for families and communities to acknowledge the loss of a loved one. They also inform friends and acquaintances of the death so they may offer support or pay their respects.

Who writes obituaries?

Obituaries are often written by family members, close friends, or the funeral home handling the arrangements. Sometimes journalists at local papers will write obituaries for prominent community members.

How do you write an obituary?

To write an obituary, gather key facts about the deceased’s life, draft a brief biography including their accomplishments and relationships, decide on the tone, and include information about funeral arrangements. End with a personal touch, such as a poem or quote, if appropriate.

What should be included in an obituary?

An obituary should include the deceased's full name, dates of birth and death, a brief account of their life, education, career, passions, and information about the surviving family members. In addition, you should mention the time and location of any services and memorial contributions, if any.

How long should an obituary be?

Length may vary. However, most obituaries are between 200 and 500 words. It should be long enough to cover key aspects of the individual's life but concise enough to retain the reader’s attention.

Where should an obituary be published?

Obituaries are traditionally published in local newspapers and are increasingly being shared on online memorial sites and social media platforms. You might also consider industry publications or newsletters if the deceased was well-known in a particular field.

Is it necessary to include a photo in an obituary?

Including a photo is optional but recommended, as it helps readers recognize the deceased. A recent, clear picture is often used, although some families choose a photo from an earlier time in the person's life.

Can an obituary be published before the funeral is held?

Yes, obituaries are commonly published prior to the funeral or memorial service to inform people of the date, time, and location so they may attend. If the service is private, this information may be omitted.

Are death notices and obituaries the same?

No, death notices are shorter, factual statements about a person's death, which often include the funeral service details, but lack the biographical details and personal touch found in an obituary.

How soon after death should an obituary be published?

Typically, obituaries are published within a week after death. Timing can be important in order to notify acquaintances and allow them to make arrangements to attend services or offer condolences.

What is a eulogy and how does it differ from an obituary?

A eulogy is a speech given during a funeral or memorial service that celebrates and honors the life of the deceased. An obituary is a written notice of someone’s death, which often precedes services and acts as a public announcement.

Should an obituary mention the cause of death?

Mentioning the cause of death is a personal choice. Some families may wish to share this information, especially if the deceased was a public figure or if the cause was related to a larger issue (like a disease awareness). Others may choose to keep that information private.

How much does it typically cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary can vary widely from free to several hundred dollars, depending on the publication, length of the obituary, and whether a photo is included. Online platforms may offer lower-cost or free options.

Can an obituary be updated after it has been published?

It may be possible to update an obituary after initial publication, particularly on online platforms. In print, however, it may require republishing as a new notice, which can incurr additional costs.

Is it customary to send thank you notes to those who responded to an obituary?

While not required, it is considerate to acknowledge those who have offered condolences, sent flowers, or made donations. A thank you note is a personal way to express gratitude for their support during a difficult time.

What cultural variations may affect the content of an obituary?

Cultural traditions may influence the detailing of family relations, the mention of cause of death, or expressions about the afterlife. It is important to be sensitive to the customs and beliefs of the deceased and their family.

Can an obituary include requests for charitable donations instead of flowers?

Yes, it's common to include a line in an obituary asking for donations to a specific charity in lieu of flowers, especially if there was a cause that was important to the deceased.

Is it possible to keep funeral services private and still publish an obituary?

Yes, families can choose to mention in the obituary that funeral services will be private. This informs the community of the death while indicating that the family wishes to mourn in private.

What are the best practices for protecting against fraud when publishing an obituary?

Best practices include limiting the amount of personal information disclosed in the obituary, such as home addresses, birth dates, or mother’s maiden names, and avoiding the explicit mention of assets or inheritance details.

Can an obituary serve as an official death notice for legal purposes?

An obituary itself is not a legal document and cannot serve as a formal death notice for estate or other legal purposes. Official death notices typically come from governmental entities or legal representatives.

Can friends and extended family submit additional information or anecdotes for an obituary?

Yes, it is often encouraged to gather information and anecdotes from friends and extended family to create a more complete and personal recounting of the deceased's life.