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Harold “Red” Lloyd Start Sr. - December 17, 1939 - March 01, 2024

Departed: 03/01/2024 (Wallingford)

Obituary Preview: CLARENDON- Harold “Red” Lloyd Start, Sr., 84 of Clarendon passed away peacefully surrounded by his family, Friday evening March 1, 2024, at the Rutland Regional Medical Center following a long illness.

He was born on December 17, 1939, in Clarendon the son of Ralph C. and Doris (Symons) Start.

Red grew up in Wallingford and Clarendon, enlisting in the U. S. Navy serving for 11 years until his honorable discharge in 1968 and then the Vermont Army National Guard.

He was a member of the American Legion Post #31 in Rutland.

He had been employed by True Temper for several years then the General Electric Company for 18 years until his retirement in 2004.

Red enjoyed hunting, fishing, playing the spoons, the wildlife visitors to his home, spending hours visiting with friends and family and attending his grandchildren’s and family functions. He was a faithful fan of the Boston Red Sox’s.

Survivors include his son Harold “Buster” Start Jr. and his wife Lee Ann, daughter Tina Doty, 3 stepsons David Allen and his wife Melissa, Brian Allen and his wife Stacey, and Paul Allen and his wife Christine, a brother Sherwin Start, grandchildren Bri, Gavin, Seth, Joshua and Danielle, 5 great grandchildren, and his companion Mary Sendra.

He was predeceased by his wife Bernice “Bonnie” Start on October 14, 2000, and a brother Richard Start on March 24, 2016.

Friends may call from 4pm until 6pm on Wednesday March 6th at the Wallingford-Aldous Funeral Home. Graveside services with military honors will be held on April 26th at 11am in the Greenhill Cemetery, Wallingford.

The family would like to thank the staff at the Pines and RRMC for the great care that was given to Red.

In leu of flowers, donations can be made to the American Legion Post #31 or VT Fish and Wildlife.

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Elouise Hauserman - September 23, 1933 - February 15, 2024

Departed: 02/15/2024 (Wallingford)

Obituary Preview: Elouise “El or Ellie” Anna Smith Hauserman, known for her vibrant spirit, peacefully passed away on February 15th at the Community Hospice House in Merrimack, NH. She was 90 years old and surrounded by loved ones, having quietly progressed through advanced ovarian cancer.

Born on September 23, 1933, in Rutland, Vermont, Elouise was the daughter of Anna Mae Squier Smith and Howard Dana Smith. She spent her formative years in Wallingford and on the family farm in North Clarendon, Vermont, under the watchful eyes of her doting grandparents. After completing her education at Albany Business College, she embarked on a series of adventures that spoke to her adventurous spirit and zest for life.

She traveled cross-country with a classmate, explored the Swiss Alps while skiing in Europe, and frequented weekend getaways with her Ski Club back in Vermont. She cherished her time spent with her sister's children, forming close bonds with her niece and three nephews and their families.

For 35 years, Elouise served as a Secretary and Office Manager in the Philadelphia area, forging enduring connections within the local community. It was through these connections that she married her beloved husband and life partner, Thomas Hauserman, in 1988. Together, they shared a passion for travel, exploring destinations across the United States, Canada, and Europe. They found joy in skiing in Vermont and Colorado, admiring the beauty of Longwood Gardens, and spending time with Thomas's children and their families in Ardmore and West Chester, Pennsylvania.

Following Thomas's passing, Elouise returned to her hometown of Wallingford, where she became an active member of the First Congregational Church. She served as the financial secretary and participated in the Ladies Auxiliary, relishing in the camaraderie of her church community. Known for her independent spirit, love for the outdoors, and refined taste, Elouise cherished moments spent entertaining loved ones and preparing her special lasagna. She was blessed with the kindness of family and neighbors in her later years, who made it possible to live independently before moving in with her niece and nephew in-law, Susan and Tim, during her final twelve months. Elouise frequently recounted the fine care she received at her niece's home.

Elouise was preceded in death by her parents, her sisters Carolyn Smith and Sylvia Squier Smith Samson and Sylvia’s spouse Roger Joseph Samson, and her beloved husband. She is survived by her niece, Susan Hogan, and spouse Tim Hogan; her nephews David Samson and spouse Sonya Samson, Timothy Samson and spouse Diane Samson, and Daniel Samson and spouse Tony Paine; as well as numerous great and great-great nieces and nephews, cousins, and the Hauserman step-children and their families. Her absence will be deeply felt by all who knew her.

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John P Lambert - November 30, 1976 - January 03, 2024

Departed: 01/03/2024 (Wallingford)

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Wallingford- John Lambert Jr, 47 of Wallingford, died on Wednesday January 3, 2024, at his residence.

He was born in Rutland on November 30, 1976, the son of John Sr and Patricia (Monette) Lambert.

He attended Mill River Union High School.

John had many jobs, but one he particularly enjoyed was being a lift operator at Killington.

He is survived by his children, Faith Winchell of Wallingford, Dylan Koehler of Tennessee, and Maylee Lambert of Rutland, his companion Lisa Horne of Rutland, his parents of Wallingford, his siblings Paul (Lisa) of Cuttingsville, Lisa (Neal)Sharrow of Shrewsbury, and Steve Lambert of Wallingford, sister in law Diane Lambert, nieces and nephews Chandler, Anissa, Neal Jr, Kyle, and Larry, along with great nieces and nephew, and several aunts and uncles and his dog Saison.

A memorial service will be held at a later date.

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Eathel G. Holden - October 29, 1940 - December 28, 2023

Departed: 12/28/2023 (Wallingford)

Obituary Preview: WALLINGFORD: Eathel G. Holden, long-time resident of Wallingford and for the past five years at Mountain View Center in Rutland, died peacefully on Thursday, December 28th at Mountain View Center. Eathel was born in Rutland, Vermont on October 29, 1940, the youngest of five children born to Edgar and Thelma (Colby) Sharon of East Wallingford. She joined older sister, Thelma "Joyce" and older brothers, Walter, Robert, and Richard. After her mother died when Eathel was a young girl, she was raised by her aunt, Arlene Belcher, and gained three more siblings, Don, Pat and Sarah Belcher.

Eathel grew up in East Wallingford and attended the East Wallingford Elementary School before graduating from Wallingford High School in 1958. She married Michael Holden on July 19, 1961 and became a Navy wife. Eathel and Mike lived in England where they welcomed two sons, Terry in 1962 and Brian in 1963, before being transferred to Mississippi where they welcomed their daughter, Karen, in 1965.

After her husband died in 1966, Eathel lived in Wallingford, building her home on Nash Drive where she raised her children and lived for the next 50+ years. She worked as a lunch lady first at Wallingford Elementary school and then at Mill River Union High School until retiring. She was a devoted mother, grandmother and great-grandmother. She loved traveling with Sarah, Pat and Arlene and visited many states. She enjoyed doing cross-word and word search puzzles, picnics and holiday celebrations with family, and seeing Nash Drive lit up on Christmas Eve.

Eathel is survived by her children, Brian Holden and his wife, Karen, of Wallingford; Karen Young and her husband, Hal, of Wallingford; her grandson Andrew Holden and great-grandson, Gage; her sister, Sarah Belcher of East Wallingford; brother Richard Sharon and his wife, Mimmie, of Rutland Town; brother Robert Sharon and his wife, Veda, of Topeka Kansas; and nieces and nephews.

She is predeceased by her parents, her husband, her son, Terry; long-time companion Gordy Stewart; brothers Walter Sharon and Donald Belcher; sister Pat Belcher Stewart and her husband Stearns Stewart; and her sister, Joyce Sharon Harrington.

The family would like to thank the nurses and aides from Mountain View Center and for the last year from Bayada for the care and compassion they showed Eathel and to the friends she made while she was there who were always kind and concerned for her welfare and were able to get her to laugh and smile.

There will be no calling hours. At her request, she will be cremated, and a grave-side service will be held in the spring. Memorial contributions may be made to the Wallingford Rescue, P.O. Box 246, Wallingford Vermont 05773.

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Michael J Reed - May 08, 1946 - November 29, 2023

Departed: 11/29/2023 (Wallingford)

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Wallingford-Michael J. Reed, PhD, peacefully passed away November 29, 2023, at the Jack Byrne Center for Palliative & Hospice Care, Dartmouth Hitchcock Medical Center in Hanover, N.H.

Michael was born May 8, 1946, in Brooklyn, NY to Frances Uhlman & Howard Reed. After graduating high school, Michael entered the Brothers of Holy Cross & served as a brother for 6 years. On September 3, 1972, he married Sandy (Kosciuszko) of Riverhead N.Y. They had 2 children, daughter Becky and son Tim.

Michael started his early career following his passion & desire to help others, by working in the field of Children & Adolescent Services. He later became an Associate Professor in Psychology & Human Services at the College of St. Joseph in Rutland, VT, where he taught for 37 years and was a member of the Alpha Delta Omega & Psi-Chi Society.

A life-long learner, he earned his PhD in Human Development from the Fielding Institute in Santa Barbara, CA in 2007.

He is survived by his loving wife of 51 years, Sandy, daughter Becky, son Tim (wife Juli), 3 grandchildren Coleton, Aubree, & Zane, 3 sisters Patti Mckenna, Joann Bengston, & Cathy Reed all of Brockport, NY, nieces Sarah, Stacey, & Stephanie, 3 great nieces and 5 great nephews.

Michael loved being with family. He enjoyed woodworking, camping, and being in nature. He valued the simple things in life and lived by his motto he referred to as S.L.I.M. Simplicity-Less Is More.

His genuine warmth, humor, & kindness touched many lives. Michael was a brilliant & loving soul who will be remembered by all who knew him for his generous spirit, encouraging, supportive, & positive attitude, and as a true inspiration to his family, friends, colleagues & students.

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Norman Gagne - February 18, 1947 - October 08, 2023

Departed: 10/08/2023 (Wallingford)

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Tinmouth - Norman J Gagne, 76, died Sunday, October 8, 2023 at his residence surrounded by family.

He was born in St, Johnsbury VT on February 18, 1947, the son of Edward and Marie (Pelletier) Gagne.

He grew up with 3 sisters and 2 brothers on a farm in St. Johnsbury VT and moved to New York for a while eventually settling in Tinmouth VT in 1987 with family. In 1989 he built, owned and operated a garage/body shop until his health forced him to retire. After his retirement the garage continued as a meeting place for friends and former customers.

Norman was known around town for the 1964 T-Bird that he drove on a daily basis and his pride and joy a 1958 T-Bird that he was in the process of restoring. If he wasn’t working on cars you could find him hunting, fishing, playing cards, gold panning, and attending car shows in the summer.

He is survived by his daughters Michelle Gagne` of Baltimore MD, Shauna (Charlie) Dotson of Danby, Belinda (Ryan) Staples of Tinmouth, Starlynn Woodsum of Tinmouth, 9 Grandchildren Nevada, Morgan, Skylar, Leah, Robin, Bently, Mason, Briar. Stella 1 Great Grandchild Scarlett. Norman was a friend to all that knew him and will be truly missed. A celebration of life will be held Saturday October 21st in the Tinmouth Community Center at 3pm

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Annette Reynolds - October 16, 1946 - September 23, 2023

Departed: 09/23/2023 (Wallingford)

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Wallingford-On September 23, 2023, Annette Doris Reynolds of Wallingford VT found eternal peace as she was welcomed into the arms of her Savior, Lord Jesus Christ. Annette was born October 16, 1946, to Harry F. Reynolds Jr. and Dora Parker Reynolds, and grew up in a home filled with love and faith. After graduating from Wallingford High School in 1965, Annette furthered her education at Rutland Business College the following year. She spread her wings and ventured to Norfolk, Virginia, where she lived for 17 years. Eventually the call of her beloved Vermont lured her back home, leading her to a fulfilling career at the Sunset Home in Rutland, from which she later retired. In her twilight years Annette found joy and comfort at Wallingford House, making it her sanctuary. She leaves behind her family: sisters Debbie Munson (Dick) and Vickey Keegan (Mike), along with cherished nieces and nephews: Dori, Darci, Crystal, Brenton, Abby and Kelly. To them she was known affectionately as “Aunt Nettie”. We will miss her smile, laughter and sense of humor. For many years Annette played the piano for her church, she enjoyed sewing, making crafts, and playing card games with friends. She made the best chocolate chip cookies and for many years at Christmas we looked forward to them. Annette’s Christian faith was the cornerstone of her life; it was unwavering and profound. She deeply loved her church family. She is preceded in death by her loving parents, her first husband Gene Morris and their treasured son Phillp. A celebration of life will be held on Saturday, October 28, 2023, at 11:00 AM, in the Clarendon Grange Hall, North Clarendon, VT

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Patricia Pickett-Brogren - January 31, 1954 - September 22, 2023

Departed: 09/22/2023 (Wallingford)

Obituary Preview: Patricia Pickett-Brogren, 69, of Rutland, passed away, on September 22nd at the Rutland Regional Medical Center, following a long illness.

She was born on January 31st, 1954, the daughter of William & Sylvia (Kennedy) Pickett, of Wallingford, Vermont. “Patty” attended Wallingford High School and graduated with honors in 1972. She then received her Bachelor Degree in Psychology in 1982 and Masters Degree in History from Johnson State College in 1986.

She married Jerry Brogren at the Wallingford Fire Station in 1978. She worked for the Department of Social Welfare for 28 years and always enjoyed being able to travel throughout the state to meet with and help people in need. She also enjoyed researching her Irish heritage and being a part of the Rutland Historical Society, where she volunteered for many years.

Patty was an avid reader. She loved fast cars, bird-watching and she was always an animal lover. She cared for many stray cats through the years. She always maintained her quick wit, beautiful smile, and amazing laugh. And, she forever had a love for music.

She is survived by her husband, Jerry Brogren; her brother, James Pickett & his life partner Ann Jarrosak of Wallingford; her best friend, Linda Rogers & husband Red, of Wallingford; her sons Nathan Brogren of Rutland, and Brendan Brogren & wife Kelly of Rutland, and her daughters Megan Brogren & fiancé David New of Brandon and Kristin Brogren & husband Ethan Durkee of Rutland. She is also survived by her grandsons Derek Gilman & Trent Brogren of Rutland and her granddaughter, Makayla Brogren of Rutland, whom she adored.

She was predeceased by her parents and brother, William “Billy” Pickett and her sister Jeanne Woolsey.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 1:00PM on Thursday, October 5th at St. Patrick’s Church in Wallingford. Burial will follow at St. Patrick’s Cemetery in Wallingford.

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Raymond Joseph Senecal - August 23, 1941 - August 30, 2023

Departed: 08/30/2023 (Wallingford)

Obituary Preview: Raymond J. Senecal WALLINGFORD – Raymond Joseph Senecal 82 of Wallingford, died Wednesday morning, August 30, 2023

at the Rutland Regional Medical Center. Ray was born on August 23, 1941, in Rutland, the son of Henry A. and Evelyn (Dubeau) Senecal. He

married his best friend Mary Agnes Waters on January 23 rd 1959 in East Dorset. Ray was a man of many talents, and owned and operated many different businesses. His endeavors took him all over the United States and he often teased his children and grandchildren that he had driven millions of miles and never once got a ticket. Ray was also an avid Red Sox fan (much to the chagrin of

his son and daughter who are Yankee fans).

Ray was a beloved husband, father, grandfather and great-grandfather and will be greatly missed. Survivors include his wife, Mary, his two daughters, Susan Senecal and Debra (Jerry) Brown of

Wallingford and his son Steven (Heidi) Senecal of Mendon, his brother Charles “Chick” (Lorraine) of Florida, his five grandchildren Karah Driggers, Kyle Fredette, Jennifer Golden, Lauren Fredette and Trey Senecal, his seven great grandchildren Anna, Noah, Luke, Henry, Emma, Selima and Gloria and several nieces and nephews. Ray lived his life focused on loving his family and it was truly special to see the joy his great grandchildren gave him over the past several years. That joy was always well represented by his

signature warm smile, which became a symbol of Ray that will be remembered by all.

Friends may call on Saturday, September 9, 2023, from 2-4PM at the Wallingford Aldous Funeral Home.

A reception will follow.

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Arthur Skeates Usher - September 01, 1943 - July 24, 2023

Departed: 07/24/2023 (Wallingford)

Obituary Preview: Arthur Skeates Usher, 79, passed away July 24, 2023 at home in Tinmouth, surrounded by his loving family. The family thanks the Rutland Regional Medical Center and Rutland Visiting Nurses Association and Hospice for providing him with excellent care at the end of his life.

Art was born September 1, 1943 to Leroy D. Usher III and Marjorie (Skeates) Usher of Worcester, Massachusetts. One of nine children, some of his fondest memories were of mischief with his brothers, sisters, and cousins—complete with broken bones, minor delinquency, and walking uphill both ways to school. After high school, he served in the US Marine Corps Reserves for eight years, completing his service as a sergeant. In 1966, a Marine buddy took Art on a fishing trip to Florida; there he met his wife of 55 years, Agnes Gene (Allen) Usher on a blind date and began a long-distance courtship. In 1968, the couple moved to Vermont and married. Art graduated from Castleton State College in 1972. He worked for the John A. Russell Corporation for 40 years; as a site superintendent, he oversaw the construction of buildings across the state of Vermont. Notably, he began the restoration of the Paramount Theater in Downtown Rutland and oversaw the construction of the Green Mountain Power building on Rte. 7 North in Rutland.

Art is survived by his wife, Agnes Gene Usher; children Jennifer Usher and her husband Brian Sylvester of Rutland, Andrew Usher and his wife Kristy (Fifield) Usher of Tinmouth, Wesley Usher and his partner Sarah Aines of Tinmouth, and Laura Usher and her husband Sirius Fuller, of Hyattsville, MD; grandchildren Riley Usher, Alison Usher, Gracie Usher, Cole Aines, Samantha Dusablon, Kimberlie Senif, Daniel Usher, Kathleen Usher, and Samuel Fuller; and his siblings Marjorie Powell, Thomas Usher, Susan Bergman, and Elizabeth Chase. He was predeceased by his parents and his brothers Leroy, James, Edward, and Joseph.

Art’s fondest memories were of travels to Alaska, first with his new wife and baby daughter and later with his teenage sons. He loved to tell stories of canoeing down rivers, catching big fish, and the great fire at the McKinley Park hotel in 1972. He also treasured time with his grandchildren and could hold a baby in one arm while reviewing blueprints with the other.

Art loved learning new things about the natural world, and as long it was daylight out, could be found working outside. As a boy, his father raised and raced homing pigeons—a hobby Art adopted and carried through his entire life. At times he had more than 400 pigeons, which he flew in races across the Eastern seaboard as a member of the Champlain Valley Racing Pigeon Club. He also raised chickens, pheasants, peacocks, ducks, geese, and once, a pair of pigs. He grew huge gardens, canned his own jams and vegetables, and was especially proud of his asparagus and raspberries. He loved geology and botany and taught his children the names of every tree and flower they encountered. He loved to read, especially about birds, plants, history, and World War II. He hated television so much, he was known to cut the cord off the TV set, much to the horror of his children.

Art could build anything. In 1976, he built a log cabin in Tinmouth and lived there for the rest of his life. In retirement, he took up woodworking—making cutting boards, furniture and canoe paddles, which he sold by mail order to buyers across the country. Art had many talents—driving anywhere in Vermont without a map, listening patiently no matter how long the story—but he was best known for his character. He lived a life of honest hard work, neighborliness, and love of family.

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John "J. B." Blanchard - June 07, 1940 - July 05, 2023

Departed: 07/05/2023 (Wallingford)

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WALLINGFORD-John Henry Blanchard Sr , 83 of Wallingford died Wednesday evening July 5, 2023 at his residence following a brief illness. He was born on June 7, 1940 in Wallingford the son of Guy Henry and Iris Lucy (Johnson) Blanchard

Mr. Blanchard grew up in Ludlow and has been a longtime resident of Wallingford.

He established Blanchard Construction, an excavating business that he operated for 20 years in the area, also he established JB Concessions that he ran for over 30 years and he also operated a metal scrap yard for many years until his retirement.

J.B. enjoyed working and also buying and selling antiques.

Survivors include 5 children John H. Blanchard, Jr., of East Wallingford, Deborah Blanchard of Rutland, Raymond Blanchard of Middletown Springs, Daniel Blanchard of North Clarendon, Lindy Tedesco, of Rutland, a sister Sylvia Williams, of Rutland, 12 Grandchildren, 8 great grandchildren, many nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by Sisters Rita Graves, Thelma Blanchard, Verna Rabtoy, and Irma Hulett and brothers William Blanchard, Fordyce Blanchard, Marvin Blanchard, and Walter Blanchard

Friends may call on Monday July 10, 2023 from 4pm until 6pm at the Wallingford Aldous Funeral Home.

Graveside services will be held 10AM Tuesday July 11, 2023 in the Green Hill Cemetery in Wallingford. Memorial contributions may be made to the Rutland County Humane Society, 765 Stevens Road, Pittsford, VT 05763

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Eric Williams - April 26, 1952 - July 01, 2023

Departed: 07/01/2023 (Wallingford)

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Wallingford-Eric M Williams, 71, died July 1, 2023, at home in Wallingford from Creutzfeldt-Jakob disease. Born on April 26, 1952, in Syracuse, NY to Anthony and Simone Williams, he grew up with brother Ron, sister Pat and a host of cousins active outside- basketball, biking, swimming, ice-hockey, skiing, fishing, tennis, and golf. He learned alongside his father innumerable skills in mechanical, electrical, plumbing as well as building engines. After graduation from Christian Brothers Academy, he enrolled at Syracuse University graduating with a degree in Industrial Design. He excelled in all aspects of design, tools and computers. He was able to turn stone, marble, wood, steel and iron into functions of fireplace mantels, ornate doors and more, making careful design decisions with projects large and small equally. He had an inquisitive mind that reveled in finding efficient and elegant solutions for complex problems. He was an accomplished athlete in running, cycling, swimming and triathlons with ocean swims. It was on a long-distance cycling trip that he met his love Adrian Eisler on Mt Pisgah in North Carolina, serenading her into the night on the guitar. They were married in 2002 in Jacksonville Beach, Florida. Relocating to Vermont in 2006 he designed and built a new home with the help of a small and mighty crew. He went on to work and create custom design for Quest Tec, Command, JK Adams, and RK Miles. He enjoyed every aspect of living in Vermont - from barn building, blacksmithing, maple syruping and restoring a classic VW Bug. He split wood with purpose and stacked a cord for breakfast. Eric embraced the possibilities of each day while working from sun-up to sun-down at a vigorous pace. He is survived by his wife Adrian and their German Shorthaired Pointer Nettie, brother Ron, sister Pat (Kenny), nephew Andre, niece Kimmy, stepdaughters Guenevere and Melissa (Blake), grandchildren Jasper, Hazel and Sidney, and extended cousins. Eric always lived his life choosing to do the right thing.

A memorial service will be held at 1 PM on Friday July 28, 2023, at the Wallingford First Congregational Church. A private burial will follow.

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Marjorie F. Eddy - January 14, 1931 - June 06, 2023

Departed: 06/06/2023 (Wallingford)

Obituary Preview: WALLINGFORD – Marjorie F. Eddy, 92 of Wallingford died Monday June 6, 2023, at the Rutland Regional medical Center.

She was born on January 14, 1931, in Mount Holly, the daughter of Carl and Nellie (Blodgett) Fish.

Mrs. Eddy was a member of the First Congregational Church of Wallingford and the Order of the Eastern Star, Gilman Chapter No.88.

Survivors include 2 daughters, Denise Eddy and Dawn Eddy and husband Eduardo, grandchildren Gaby, Rebecca and husband Greg and Ryan and fiancé Emily, a great grandson Parker and several nieces and nephews.

She was predeceased by her husband, Donald R. Eddy on April 5, 1991; 3 sisters Joyce Ingalls, Marion Blodgett and Evelyn Leino Brown; and four brothers: Kenneth Fish, Arthur Fish, Sherwin Fish and Winston Fish and son-in-law Michael McMahon.

Arrangements are by the Aldous Funeral Home.

A celebration of life will be held at a later date.

Memorial contributions may be made to the Wallingford Rescue Squad or charity of one’s choice.

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Geraldine Weeks - September 04, 1930 - May 02, 2023

Departed: 05/02/2023 (Wallingford)

Obituary Preview: From Gerry’s children:

It is with very profound sadness, and extremely heavy hearts, we inform you that Geraldine Weeks took her last breath on May 2, 2023. She passed in the presence of adoring children after succumbing to a struggle to recover her natural vitality and vibrancy.

On September 4, 1930, Gerry arrived as the second child of Arthur Byron and Nina Pearl Backensto (nee Lichtenwalner) in Troy, NY. She shared her childhood, and early life, with her older brother Arthur (Art) Backensto, Jr.

She attended public schools in Troy, NY and graduated from Russell Sage College, with honors, in 1952.

On June 8, 1952, Gerry married the love of her life Ensign Robert Hart Weeks (Bob). Bob and Gerry soon after began to develop their family; Mark (1952), Rick (1954), Carol (1955), Dean (1958), and David (1960).

While Bob pursued his career in the US Navy submarine service, Gerry focused on applying her acquired secretarial and business administration skills. One of her most memorable, and unique, experiences was in the mid-1960’s as the personal secretary and archivist for Admiral Husband Kimmel (US Navy) as he prepared his defense for command failures during the surprise attack on Pearl Harbor in 1941. Gerry took great pride in supporting Admiral Kimmel’s effort.

As her husband’s naval career progressed, Gerry was very often confronted with having to relocate her children, moving the family into their new homes, getting each of the children into new schools, and seeking new career opportunities for herself. Between 1952 and 1976, this effort spanned locations such as: Connecticut (four occasions), Virginia (two occasions), Hawaii, Washington DC, and Stuttgart, Germany.

Among the most memorable locations Gerry resided in were Hawaii from 1962-63, Connecticut 1965-71, and southern Germany 1971-74.

Hawaii was her paradise, but she never relinquished her family obligations and personal pursuits. She, with her family, enjoyed what Hawaii had to offer (including the jellyfish and tsunamis).

In Connecticut, Gerry and Bob engaged a local contractor to build a custom home that ideally suited a large, young family. The family moved into the partially finished home in late 1965, and it served as the family homestead for the next five years. It was a remarkable playground for the children, and a phenomenal location for Gerry and Bob to entertain their frequent guests. Gerry lamented having to part with this homestead.

In 1971, Bob’s assignment to support the US Navy’s strategic nuclear objectives with the North Atlantic Treaty Organization (NATO) relocated the Weeks family to Stuttgart. This location provided tremendous opportunities for the family to travel extensively throughout Europe. The family learned downhill skiing in Germany, Austria, and Switzerland; and trips throughout Italy, Spain, Britain, and France. In 1973, the family travelled to Berlin, Germany and experienced the misfortunes of a divided city within a divided nation. Gerry found this profoundly unsettling. As she expressed then, “People need bonds, not walls”.

Embedded in many of her family relocations was managing them while Bob was deployed on at sea. The typical Navy submariner’s duty cycle was 3 months at sea, then 3 months home-based for training, repeat....

While Bob was deployed, Gerry focused all available attention on her children. This was an extraordinary effort on her part as she also continued pursuing her own career aspirations. During the 60’s and 70’s these were not unusual circumstances for the wife of a “military family”; …Go where your husband must go, raise the children, and then address personal aspirations.

Gerry admirably managed all the obligations of being married to a career military officer. When Bob and his crew were deployed, Gerry very capably, in addition to family and career obligations, accepted the added role of being a focal point providing social and emotional support to the wives and families of Bob’s shipmates. She was regarded by so many as a “great lady” for her efforts in helping others. This is a sentiment that many have expressed and continue to do so to this day.

Despite her husband’s career advancement, with a small dose of her personal mirth, Gerry would periodically remind family and friends that during her time in Stuttgart, Germany, her secretarial position with the US Army afforded her a higher security clearance than that of her husband, who had been the commander of a nuclear-powered ballistic missile submarine.

Upon his retirement from the Navy in 1976, Bob and Gerry purchased what they would affectionately call the family homestead in Wallingford, VT. By this point most of their children were independently pursuing their own callings. This afforded Gerry the opportunity to more ardently pursue her calling. Over the course of the ensuing years, she engaged with a local dental practitioner to help him establish his practice in Wallingford; volunteered at the town’s public library; and also assisted local, county, and state political organizations to promote efforts for the benefit of area constituents.

In October 2008, her beloved husband passed, but Gerry steadfastly committed to remain a resident and contributor to the Wallingford community. In this regard, her commitment persisted to her last day.

Gerry is predeceased by both her parents and her brother. Sadly, she is also predeceased by the love of her life... Captain Robert Hart Weeks (US Navy)… Bob.

Lamenting her passing are her survivors: Mark and wife Martine (Linkebeek, Belgium), Rick and wife Laura (Orleans, MA), Carol and husband Dan Murphy (Pawcatuck, CT), Dean and wife Sherry (Olive Branch, MS), and David and wife Leeanne (Proctor, VT); their children and their grandchildren. At the time of her passing, Gerry had been blessed with five children, nine grandchildren, and four great-grandchildren.

Gerry was a loving, caring wife, an exemplary mother, and an excellent grandmother and great-grandmother. For many, she was so much more than a great lady.

She is already greatly missed.

For all who were a part of her life, thank you for being so.

Memorial services for Gerry will be held at the Wallingford First Congregational Church, 189 South Main St, Wallingford, VT at 11:00 AM on Tuesday, May 9th. Immediately following the memorial service Gerry will be reunited with Bob at the Green Hill Cemetery, 322 South Main St, Wallingford, VT.

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Marjorie June Fuller - September 24, 1932 - April 11, 2023

Departed: 04/11/2023 (Wallingford)

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Danby – Marjorie “Marge” Fuller, 90, of Danby, died Tuesday, April 11, 2023, at the Rutland Health and Rehabilitation Center in Rutland.

She was born in Danby on September 24, 1932, the daughter of Ernest and Mildred (Parker) Winship.

Marjorie married Edward Fuller on November 28, 1949.

Marge was greatly involved in community affairs, being a member of the PTA, the community health service, and the mother’s club. She was instrumental in starting a preschool at the elementary school. She did wallpapering throughout Danby, Dorset and Manchester and was employed for many years in the lunchroom at Currier Memorial Elementary In Danby.

Marge is survived by her children Diane Audy of Wallingford, Pamela Clough of Arlington, Terry Fuller of Manchester Center, Randy Fuller of Rutland and Jody Fuller of Danby, and several grandchildren, great- grandchildren and great-great grandchildren.

She was predeceased by her husband Edward Fuller, her sisters Frances House and Marcia Harrington and her brothers Richard and Ernest Winship.

Services will be private.

Arrangements are with the Aldous Funeral Home in Wallingford.

Memorial contributions may be made to the Rutland County Humane Society, 765 Stevens Road, Pittsford, VT 05763.

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Mary Angelia Powers - May 31, 1943 - March 28, 2023

Departed: 03/28/2023 (Wallingford)

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Danby- Mary Angelia Tifft Powers, 79, of Danby, died Tuesday, March 28, 2023, at the Rutland Regional Medical Center.

She was born in Rupert on May 31, 1943, the daughter of Edgar and Beatrice (Prouty) Tifft.

She graduated with honors from Wallingford High School in 1961. On December 15, 1962, she married Henry “Pete” Powers. She then graduated from Mary Hitchcock Memorial Hospital School of Nursing in 1964.

Mary worked as a nurse from 1964-1973, then as the Danby Town Clerk from 1973-1980 and returned to nursing until retiring in 1995.

Together with Pete, they owned and operated Crimson Maple Enterprises from 1988-2015. Mary also helped to organize and operate the Bluegrass Festival for 13 years for the Green Mountain Climbers Snowmobile Club.

Mary loved hunting, fishing, playing cards, snowmobiling and her grandchildren.

She is survived by her husband Pete, sons Mike (Tonya) and David (Cher-Allyn), all of Danby, grandchildren Angelia, Ryan, Sawyer, Logan, Lucas and Sydney, sisters Beverly Howarth of Mount Tabor and Donna Benedict of Colorado. She was predeceased by a brother Charles Tifft.

Friends may call from noon until 2PM on Saturday, April 15, 2023, at the Wallingford Aldous Funeral Home. A memorial service will be held at 2PM, followed by burial in the Danby Scottsville Cemetery. A reception will follow.

Memorial contributions may be made to Walk to End Alzheimer’s Vermont Chapter, 75 Talcott Road, Suite 40, Williston, Vermont 05495.

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Richard Henry Frederick - August 17, 1936 - January 19, 2023

Departed: 01/19/2023 (Wallingford)

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Tinmouth- Richard Henry Frederick, 86, of Tinmouth and formerly of South Wallingford and Rutland Town, passed away peacefully on Thursday January 19, 2023, at his home surrounded by family members.

Richard was born in South Wallingford on August 17, 1936, the son of Louis and Goldie (Corey) Frederick.

He attended local schools and went to work at an early age.

He married Rosemary Taylor in Dorset on July 1, 1961.

Richard worked as a logger and ran a firewood business, used his carpentry skills to build several houses and worked as a mechanic for Seward’s Dairy for 7 years, before working as a machine operator at General Electric in Rutland, from which he retired after 15 years.

Richard was a quiet man with a great sense of humor who loved working outdoors, logging and cutting firewood, but also enjoyed snowmobiling, hunting, watching football and NASCAR races, and travelling. Richard also loved animals, especially his beagle Muggs, and his ginger tabby cat Dusty.

After living in the South Wallingford area, and later in Rutland Town, Richard and his wife relocated to their daughter’s home in Tinmouth in recent years.

He is survived by his wife Rosemary and daughter Darcie Marshall (Brian) of Tinmouth, his son Todd Frederick (Michelle Greene) of Shrewsbury, stepson Steve Taylor (Allie) of Fair Haven, grandson Corey Clifford (Crista), granddaughters Alicia Perez – Skeris (Carl) and Taylor Frederick, step granddaughter Ava Marshall, step grandson Stephen Taylor, great grandchildren Caden Clifford and Rose Skeris, brothers Herb, Walt, Brad, and Mark Frederick, sisters Goldie Nemeth and Janice Patch, all of Wallingford, and sister Donna Showers of Pennsylvania, and many nieces and nephews.

He was predeceased by brothers Roy, Louis, Percy, Gordon, Bruce and Rodney and sister Judy Frederick.

Friends and family may call from 3-5PM on Friday January 27 at the Aldous Funeral Home in Rutland. A memorial service will be held following the calling hours at 5PM.

Burial will be held in the spring at the Danby Scottsville Cemetery.

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Suzanne Marie Ackert - June 02, 1962 - December 10, 2022

Departed: 12/10/2022 (Wallingford)

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Danby- Suzanne Marie Ackert, 60, of Danby, died unexpectedly Saturday December 10, at her residence.

She was born in Bridgeport Connecticut on June 2, 1962, the daughter of Henry and Maryann (Welch) Tierney. She attended schools in Connecticut before moving to Vermont where she completed her education.

She had been employed by the satellite office for the Rutland Regional Medical Center in East Dorset.

Suzanne was kindhearted and liked helping people which made her a perfect fit for working in registration for the hospital.

She enjoyed riding motorcycle and camping.

She married Ben Ackert on July 28, 1984.

Suzanne is survived by her husband Allen (Ben) Ackert of Danby, sons David (Ashley Santwire) of Rutland and Peter of Danby, sisters Maureen (Kelley) Staples, Colleen (Byron) Battease, and Teresa Tierney, all of Danby and Henry Tierney of Addison, 3 grandchildren Jake, Jack and Jett, and several nieces and nephews.

Friends may call from 4 to 6 PM on Friday, December 16, at the Wallingford Aldous Funeral Home. A brief service will be held at the conclusion of calling hours.

A celebration of life will be held at a later date.

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Joan Catherine (O’Brien) Kelley - June 01, 1933 - December 04, 2022

Departed: 12/04/2022 (Wallingford)

Obituary Preview: Wallingford – Joan Catherine (O’Brien) Kelley passed peacefully surrounded by her family on Sunday, December 4, 2022 at Rutland Regional Medical Center after a period of failing health. Joan was married to her husband David for sixty years, and was mother to five children: Barbara, James, Kathleen, Sharon and Christopher.

Joan was born in Lynn, MA to Thomas and Mary (Clancy) O’Brien. Joan graduated from St. Mary’s Catholic High School in Lynn, MA and worked as a secretary at General Electric, where she met David. David was convinced from the get-go that he was going to marry Joan; it took Joan a little bit longer to accept that as fact.

Joan and David moved to Wallingford in 1967 where they raised their five children. They moved to Boxford, MA in 1979, and then moved back to Wallingford in 2004 when David retired. Joan and David lived all over the country and made lifelong friends wherever they went, but called Vermont their home. They also enjoyed spending time at their Florida vacation home where they socialized with other retired couples who also became lifelong friends.

Joan was a devout Catholic whose faith sustained her and gave her strength every day of her life. She volunteered selflessly for her church on many committees and events. Joan was always at the ready to purchase and donate clothing and shoes to the poor. Joan highly respected Mother Theresa, Jackie Kennedy Onassis, and Princess Diana of Wales for their devotion to charitable causes.

As the daughter of Irish immigrants, Joan was immensely proud of her Irish heritage and loved to visit her relatives in Ireland as often as she could. One of her happiest family moments was when she, David and their five children traveled to Ireland in 1983 to meet her extended Irish relations and tour the homesteads of her ancestors.

Joan was predeceased by her daughter Barbara in 2014, her son James in 2009, her sister Maureen in 2011, and her brother Philip in 2021. She is survived by her husband of sixty years, David; daughter Kathleen and her life partner James Cooke of Lee, NH; daughter Shar and her partner Rick Bliss of Boston, MA; and her son Christopher and his wife Amy of Switzerland. Joan adored her five grandchildren Liam, Sophia, Lauren, Nathan and Luca, who brought her great joy.

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James Perron - May 10, 1966 - November 24, 2022

Departed: 11/24/2022 (Wallingford)

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TINMOUTH- James Duncan Perron, 56 of Tinmouth died November 24, 2022, at the Rutland Regional Medical Center. He was born on May 10, 1966, in Boston, MA the son of Vernon Richard and Kathryn (King) Perron

Mr. Perron relocated to Tinmouth in 1978 and graduated from Mill River Union High School.

Jim had a huge heart. He loved his family, cooking, animals, and enjoyed building and completing projects. Those that truly knew him understood he cared deeply for his close friends and family. He always wanted to help others. He enjoyed the time he spent with his son, nieces and nephews and they all adored him. Over recent months he enjoyed the special time he spent with his brother. He developed a special bond with his mother-in-law who became a second mother, as well as his steadfast friends Shawn and C.J.

He was a member of the Tinmouth Community Church.

Survivors include his wife of 16 years Louise (Freed) Perron of Tinmouth, a son Jimmy Johnson Perron of Fl, 4 brothers Michael Perron and wife Tracy, of Warwick, RI, David Perron and wife Tonya, of Wallingford, Robert Perron, of FL, and V. Richard Perron, of Oxford, MA, a sister, Kathryn Perron, of Danby: Mother-in-law Iris Freed of Clarendon, longtime friends Shawn and C. J. Abatiell , nieces and nephews.

he was predeceased by his parents.

A celebration of Life will be held at a later date. Memorial contributions may be made to the Foley Cancer Center

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Nelson J. Tift - May 13, 1949 - October 17, 2022

Departed: 10/17/2022 (Wallingford)

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Wallingford- Nelson Tift, 73, of Wallingford, died Monday October 17, at his residence.

He was born in Rutland on May 13, 1949, the son of Jeral and Reiva (Jordan) Tift.

He graduated from Walling ford High School in 1967.He later graduated from Vermont Technical College.

Nelson was very involved in law enforcement for the past 30 years. He had been an officer in Mendon and a constable in Wallingford and Mount Tabor.

He was a member of the Wallingford selectboard, most recently serving as board chair.

He enjoyed trips to Maine and was a volunteer at the Rutland County Humane Society.

Nelson is survived by his sons Jerry Tift of Wallingford and Ryan Tift of Rutland.

He was predeceased by his wife Joan in 2018.

Friends may call from 4 to 6PM on Monday October 24,2022 at the Wallingford Aldous Funeral Home.

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Harry Ralph Sr - December 09, 1924 - September 01, 2022

Departed: 09/01/2022 (Wallingford)

Obituary Preview: Danby- Harry Ralph Sr, 97, of Danby, died Thursday, September 1, 2022, at the Rutland Regional Medical Center.

He was born in Greig, NY, on December 9, 1924, the son of Harry W. and Florence (Bradish) Ralph. On March 22, 1943, Harry married Elsie Wells and together they enjoyed almost 75 years of marriage until Elsie’s passing in 2018. Together they built a wonderful life together and in June of 1943, they welcomed their only child, Harry “Butch” Ralph, Jr.

Starting out as a young family, one tradition that continues passed his death is music. Harry, born to a mother who played piano and his father who played the fiddle, was a proud fiddle player, having played many of his years with Les Parker, the “Ralph Family Band”, “Family and Friends” band as well as making appearances at many celebrations for friend’s events in and around Danby. Thursday nights were always his favorite time, going to the Otter Creek Campground spending hours playing music. He was a member of Adirondack Fiddlers and Champlain Valley Fiddlers.

He’s talent for music has been passed down in generations and his legacy of music will live on with them.

Harry was employed by the Vermont State Highway Department for many years prior to his retirement.

He is survived by a son Harry R. Ralph, Jr. and his wife Margaret of Danby; a grandson Harry Ralph III and his wife Lindsay of Danby, a granddaughter Judy Troy and husband Stephen of Avon, CT, 5 great grandchildren, Tyler and Jeremy Ralph, Karen, Keenen and Zach, 3 great great grandchildren, a brother Leo Wells of Mt. Tabor, several nieces and nephews.

He was predeceased by his wife in 2018, brother Eugene Ralph, a sister Marion Snow and a daughter in law Linda Ralph in 2008. Graveside services will be held at 11:00 am on Thursday September 8 in the Danby Scottsville Cemetery

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Veronica Wood - August 24, 1945 - July 22, 2022

Departed: 07/22/2022 (Wallingford)

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Veronica “Vickie” Louise Wood, 76 of Danby died Friday July 22, 2022 at the Gill Home in Ludlow.

She was born on August 24, 1945 in Danby the daughter of Joseph and Mildred (Woodard) Reynolds.

Ms Wood graduated from the Rutland High School in 1963.

She had been employed as a store cashier for several area stores including Kmart for many years. She enjoyed word puzzles, watching tv and and family visits were most important to her.

She is survived by her daughters Barbara (Wood) Holst, Emily Cynthia Mae Wood, and Karen (Wood) Paero.13 Grandchildren, 17 great grandchildren, nieces and nephews.

She was predeceased by her parents and a sister Eleanor Delpha in 2015.

Burial will be in the Danby Scottsville Cemetery.

Arrangements are by the Aldous Funeral Home.

Donations in her memory may be made to a charity of choice.

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Pamela Morris - October 19, 1969 - June 07, 2022

Departed: 06/07/2022 (Wallingford)

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Wallingford- Pamela Morris, 52 of Wallingford, died Tuesday evening June 7, 2022, at her residence.

She was born on October 19, 1969, in Saratoga, NY, the daughter of Leonard and Rose (Ricketts) Morris.

She graduated from Mill River Union High School in 1987.

Ms. Morris had been employed by Price Chopper for over 25 years.

She is survived by her son Josh Ford, his wife Ashley and their daughter Aubrey of Clarendon, her father of Tinmouth, brothers David and Paul Morris of Tinmouth, sisters Patti Tamborini of Wallingford and Diane Weeden of Pawlet, four nephews, three nieces, three great nephews and six great nieces that she loved dearly.

She was predeceased by her mother and a brother-in-law George Tamborini.

Calling hours will be held from 4-6 PM on Monday June 13, 2022, at the Wallingford Aldous Funeral Home.

A graveside service will be held at 2:30 on Wednesday June 15 in the Tinmouth Cemetery.

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Phyllis Seitler - March 22, 1930 - May 27, 2022

Departed: 05/27/2022 (Wallingford)

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Phyllis Seitler, 92 of Wallingford died Friday May 27, 2022 at the Rutland Regional Medical Center.

Wife to Richard Seitler, a sister to Eileen, Marty and Shirley. Son, Calvin, remains and 4 grand children and great-grandchildren. Loved to care and support family, traveling many miles and living in Germany, New England and Colorado. Passions included a green thumb, cooking and sharing recipes on Carl & Iva's dairy, syrup, potato and corn farm in Schoharie.

Trained to be a nurse at Wilson Memorial and listened to the gospel quartets. Practiced as a nurse, and her passion to work with babies propelled to working as charge nurse in maternity and pediatrics. Phyllis remembered where each family lived, and brightened the workspace with poems for the nurses & doctors. Retired from the hospital and returned to service as a nurse and caregiver during her retirement. Maintained strong faith in God, played the pump organ at Hubbardton & Danby Four Corners and sang hymns through all her days.

A memorial service will be held 10 AM Saturday June 4, 2022 at the First Baptist Church of Wallingford . Burial will follow in the East Clarendon Cemetery.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice of a person's death, typically published in newspapers or online platforms. It includes a brief biography of the deceased, information about the funeral or memorial services, and details about surviving family members. The tone is usually respectful and commemorates the life of the person who has passed away.

What is the purpose of an obituary?

The purpose of an obituary is to formally announce the death of an individual, celebrate their life, inform the community of their passing, and provide details about any planned memorial services. It also serves as a historical record for future generations.

Who writes an obituary?

Obituaries can be written by a family member, a close friend, or sometimes by staff members at the funeral home. In certain cases, individuals write their own obituaries in advance as a way to reflect their wishes and life's highlights.

How long after a death is an obituary published?

Obituaries are usually published within a few days following a person's death, allowing enough time for the relevant family or designated writers to gather necessary information and for print or digital platforms to schedule the obituary's release.

What information is typically included in an obituary?

An obituary typically includes the deceased's full name, age, place of residence, date of death, and cause of death if the family wishes to disclose that information. It also often contains a brief account of their life, career, passions, and notable accomplishments, as well as information about the surviving family members and details about the funeral or memorial services.

Is it mandatory to publish an obituary?

No, publishing an obituary is not a legal requirement. It is a personal choice made by the family or the deceased (if they made preparations prior to their death), often used to ensure that friends and colleagues are informed of the death.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

An obituary is a more detailed account of someone's life and is often written in a compassionate and celebratory tone. A death notice, on the other hand, is a shorter, more formal announcement of a person's death, typically including only the essential details such as name, age, date of death, and information about the funeral service.

Can obituaries be published online?

Yes, obituaries can be published online on various platforms, including newspaper websites, dedicated obituary websites, social media, and memorial websites. Online obituaries may reach a wider audience and can be easily shared among family and friends.

What should you do if you see a factual error in an obituary?

If you notice a factual error in an obituary, it's important to contact the newspaper or website's editorial staff or the family of the deceased as soon as possible. Corrections can usually be made quickly to ensure the obituary accurately honors the person's life and legacy.

How do you begin writing an obituary?

To begin writing an obituary, start by gathering facts about the deceased's life, including their full name, age, and significant life events. Decide on a respectful and honest tone that represents the person accurately and then write in a way that honors their life and contributions.

Is there a standard length for an obituary?

There is no standard length for obituaries, as they can vary from a few sentences to a lengthy narrative. The length often depends on the amount of information the family wishes to include and any potential restrictions from the publishing platform, such as newspaper column space.

How should the deceased's name appear in an obituary?

The deceased's name should be presented as they were commonly known, including any nicknames or formal titles if appropriate. It is also customary to include the person's maiden name, full first name, middle name or initial, and last name.

Should survivors be listed in an obituary?

It is customary to include a list of survivors in an obituary, particularly close family members such as spouses, children, grandchildren, siblings, and sometimes close friends or other relatives. This acknowledges their relationship to the deceased and can provide a sense of legacy and family history.

Can you mention pets in an obituary?

Yes, it is becoming more common to mention pets in obituaries, particularly if the deceased had a very close bond with their pets, as they are often considered part of the family too. This personal detail can provide a fuller picture of the deceased's life and affections.

What is an appropriate way to express condolences?

Condolences can be expressed in a variety of ways, such as sending a sympathy card, making a phone call, attending the funeral or memorial service, donating to a charity in the name of the deceased, or simply offering a kind and supportive message to the bereaved family.

Are there cultural differences in obituaries?

Yes, cultural differences can affect the content and style of obituaries. Different communities and religions have their own customs and traditions that may influence the way obituaries are written and what information is included or omitted. It's important to be respectful and mindful of these differences when writing or reading an obituary.

How do you handle sensitive information in an obituary, like a cause of death?

Handling sensitive information such as the cause of death in an obituary should be done with care and discretion. It's ultimately up to the family to decide whether to include this information. If mentioned, it should be done tactfully, and respectful language should be used.

Can you include photographs with an obituary?

Yes, it is common to include a photograph with an obituary. This usually is a recent and clear portrait of the deceased, which can help readers to connect with the memory of the person and serves as a visual tribute to their life.

What if the deceased didn't want an obituary published?

If the deceased expressed wishes not to have an obituary published, it is important to respect those wishes. Alternatives to public obituaries can include private acknowledgments among family and friends or personal tributes shared in smaller, more intimate settings.

How can you make an obituary more personal?

To make an obituary more personal, include anecdotes, personal stories, or favorite sayings of the deceased. Share their unique qualities, hobbies, and passions. This turns the obituary into a celebration of the individual, rather than a mere list of facts.

Is there a protocol for updating an obituary?

If an update is necessary for an obituary, such as a change in the details of the memorial service or additional information about the deceased, the family should contact the publication or website to request an amendment. It is usually at the discretion of the publication to accommodate updates.