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Eldeen Humphrey - September 01, 1932 - April 17, 2022

Departed: 04/17/2022 (Alamogordo)

Obituary Preview: Eldeen Humphrey, 89, passed away on April 17, 2022 in Alamogordo, New Mexico. She was born on September 1, 1932 in Alma, Missouri to Erwin and Esther (Aversman) Gieselman. Eldeen married her husband, Gene Humphrey, on December 26, 1953.

Survivors include her two sons, Charles Humphrey and wife Kristi of Chaparral, NM and Michael Humphrey of Chandler, AZ; grandson, John Humphrey of Chaparral, NM; sister, Evelyn McConnell of Kansas City, MO. She was preceded in death by her mother, Esther C. Aversman; father, Erwin W. Gieselman; husband, Gene; daughter, Deborah; sons, Allen and Roger; sister, Dolores; brother, Nathan

The memorial service for Eldeen Humphrey will be held at 10:30 am, Saturday, April 23, 2022 at Trinity Lutheran Church on College Avenue.

Should friends desire, contributions may be made to Trinity Lutheran Church of Alamogordo or St. Jude Children's Research Hospital.

The Humphrey family has entrusted their loved one to the care of Alamogordo Funeral Home.

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Dwalena "Dee" M Wilmeth - September 20, 1922 - April 17, 2022

Departed: 04/17/2022 (Alamogordo)

Obituary Preview: Dwalena "Dee" M Wilmeth passed away on April 17, 2022 at her home in Weed, New Mexico. She was born on September 20, 1922 in Larned, Kansas to Vern and Stella (Ruble) Wylie. Dee moved to New Mexico as a young child. She was a longtime resident of Clovis before moving to Weed. She married Herb C Wilmeth on November 8, 1941.

Survivors include her sister, June Brazell; her oldest son, Pat Wilmeth; daughters-in-law, Anita Wilmeth and Vickie Wilmeth; five granddaughters, Starlia Clayton, Kaylia Thomas, Elaine Hicks, LaNora Hammons, Trisha Barber, and their husbands; numerous great grandchildren, great-great grandchildren, nieces, and nephews.

She was preceded in death by her husband; her parents; four brothers and four sisters; son, Eddie Joe Wilmeth; great granddaughter, Trista Barber.

Dee was a loving wife, mother, granny, and friend to everyone that she met. She has been reunited with all of her loved ones in Heaven and will be missed by us all.

A graveside service for Dwalena Wilmeth will be held at 9:00 am, Friday, April 22, 2022 at Lawn Haven Memorial Gardens in Clovis, NM.

The Wilmeth family has entrusted their loved one to the care of Alamogordo Funeral Home to direct the services.

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Adrian Roy McWilliams - August 26, 1935 - April 11, 2022

Departed: 04/11/2022 (Alamogordo)

Obituary Preview: Adrian Roy McWilliams was called home to our Lord on April 11, 2022 in Alamogordo, New Mexico. He was born in Rotan, TX on August 26, 1935 to his parents, W.B. and Gladys McWilliams.

Adrian is survived by his son, Matthew McWilliams; his daughter, Freda Webb; stepson, Clinton Muncy; stepdaughter, Michelle Chisum; 15 grandchildren; 18 great grandchildren; and many other relatives and close friends.

He was preceded in death by his parents; his spouse, Dana McWilliams; granddaughter, Trishalana; and brothers, Gene and Wendell.

The family will greet friends at his Celebration of Life on Saturday, May 21, 2022 at the KC Hall on KC Road in Alamogordo from 10:00 am to 12:00 pm.

The McWilliams family has entrusted their loved one to the care of Alamogordo Funeral Home.

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Henry Elliott - April 11, 1972 - April 11, 2022

Departed: 04/11/2022 (Alamogordo)

Obituary Preview: Henry Elliott, 50, beloved brother, uncle, friend, and fur Dad to Sassy, passed away on April 11, 2022 in Alamogordo, NM.  He was born April 11, 1972 to Monty and Ernestine Elliott in Grants, NM.  Henry graduated from Tularosa High School in 1993.  He enjoyed antiquing, flipping furniture and working on cars and other goods that caught his attention.  He, along with family and friends, ran the Red Door Mini Mall in Alamogordo for six years and just like his Dad, he never met a stranger.  Henry absolutely loved his nieces and he enjoyed taking them on little adventures like 4 wheeling, a day of swimming and “hunting for gold” around the mountains.  He held great Halloween parties and was a wonderful cook where he would serve his “famous” brisket and beans.

Henry is survived by his two sisters, Nena and husband Danny Carrillo; Tina Elliott and her daughter, Andrea Elliott; two other close nieces, Alexandra Elliott and Krista Elliott; and numerous nieces, nephews and longtime friends.

He was preceded in death by his parents, sister Laura, Uncle Kenneth, Aunt Darlene, Uncle Lorenzo, and his maternal and paternal grandparents.

At this time the family has chosen cremation.  A Memorial Celebration of Life/reception will be held at a later date in Alamogordo for family and longtime friends.

The Elliott family has entrusted their loved one to the care of Alamogordo Funeral Home.

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Jimmy Swope - October 25, 1960 - April 10, 2022

Departed: 04/10/2022 (Alamogordo)

Obituary Preview: Jimmy Swope, born October 25, 1960 in Alamogordo, NM to his loving parents David and Lucille Swope whom he is survived by. Jimmy left this world for a far greater home in heaven on April 10, 2022 in Cloudcroft, New Mexico.

Jimmy is survived by his love, Kathy Swope; his three children, Robbi Ceniceros and her children: son, Taylor (Shelby) and their children Keegan and Kendalyn, and daughter, Cyanne (Owen); David Swope (Deborah) and his children: MacKenzie, Gage, and Bennie; Drew Swope and his children: Aubree, Danielle, Cylas, Caleb, and Caden; his brothers, Norman and Dave; many nieces and nephews; and cousins, Bonnie and Ed.

Jimmy was also survived by many students, athletes, and fellow teachers that he held in his heart forever. He gave of himself teaching Math in Weed, Reserve, Cloudcroft, Moriarty, and Estancia schools. He loved knowing when students finally “got” the concepts he taught. He spent countless hours coaching. Some of his fondest memories were those around the basketball and volleyball courts. An athlete himself, Jimmy loved pushing kids to meet their full potential on and off the court. He retired a couple of times, never saying no when a school needed him to step up.

We will all miss this full of life man who loved working in the woods and working on his garden. He was a master in the garden and his vegetables were the best around. Always the jokester, he was always trying to come up with new funny things to tease his friends and family. The words he’d want us all to live by were his mantra to all his athletes "Keep a smile on your face and love in your heart".

Cremation has taken place. A memorial is scheduled for Monday, April 18, 2022 at 10:00 am at the Alamogordo Funeral home.

A larger memorial will be held at the Cloudcroft High School gym at a later date.

The Swope family has entrusted their loved one to the care of Alamogordo Funeral Home to direct the services.

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Donna Eva Jaglowitz - August 14, 1958 - April 03, 2022

Departed: 04/03/2022 (Alamogordo)

Obituary Preview: Donna Eva Jaglowitz, age 63, went to heaven April 3, 2022 after a long fight with cancer.

Donna was born on August 14, 1958 to Raymond and Dorothy Dunlap Mount at Offutt Air Force Base, Nebraska. She had the opportunity to live in different locations while her father served in the military, finally settling down in Alamogordo, NM. Donna graduated from Alamogordo High School in 1977 and was a proud member of the Kazoo Krew, performing at Alamogordo HS football games. Donna was active in her church and spent most Sundays taking care of children in the nursery. Her humor and deep faith will be missed.   She is preceded in death by her father, Raymond Mount; her mother, Dorothy Mount; and her brother, Wayne Mount.

She is survived by her daughters, Tracey Jaglowitz and Jennifer Lawson; her son, Travis Jaglowitz; her brother, Clark Mount and wife Joyce; her sister, Sheryl Sanguinetti; numerous nieces and nephews; her son-in-law, Henry Bazelewsky; and one very special grandchild, Perry Lawson.

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Carolyn M Casias - March 18, 1934 - April 02, 2022

Departed: 04/02/2022 (Alamogordo)

Obituary Preview: Carolyn M Casias, 88, of Alamogordo, New Mexico passed away peacefully at home surrounded by her family on April 02, 2022. Carolyn was born on March 18, 1934 in Del Norte, Colorado.  Carolyn was the second born of Fidel and Virginia Gonzales.  She grew up on a farm.  Her and her brothers and sisters helped her parents with their family business while still attending school.  Over time, she and her older sister owned and operated a store in the town of Del Norte for a few years.

Carolyn and her husband, Joe, married in the winter of 1965 in Del Norte, Colorado.  They were inseparable.  They traveled, worked and prayed together.  She loved crocheting, making jewelry and rosaries, quilting, and would try many different crafts.  She loved spending time with her grandkids and great grandkids.  She always made sure that they learned their prayers.  Carolyn was an awesome hostess, greeting strangers as well as her friends.  If you needed to talk, she has a lending ear.  She and her husband lived in several places due to the type of work they did together.  In Colorado, they lived in Olathe, Joes, Hotchkiss, Montrose, Crested Butte, Monte Vista, South Fork, and Del Norte.  In Arizona, they lived in Ehrenberg, Aguila, Mesa, and Chandler.  In New Mexico they lived in Gallup and Alamogordo, of which she lived for the past 12 years.

She is survived by her husband Joe, her children, several grandchildren and great grandchildren, one sister, several nieces, and God children.

Carolyn was preceded in death by her parents, 5 brothers, 2 sisters, newborn son Gary and great grandbaby Jonah.

Celebration of Life for Carolyn Casias will be held on April 18, 2022 at Immaculate Conception Catholic Church in Alamogordo. Rosary will be recited at 9:30 am with Mass to be celebrated at 10:00 am. Rite of Committal will follow at Immaculate Conception Catholic Cemetery in Alamogordo, New Mexico.

Mom, you will be terribly missed, as we all loved you so much and had a strong bond with you.  We will always keep you in our thoughts and prayers. We will laugh and cry as each one of us remember you and all the memories that we have created.  Until we meet again at the golden gates of Heaven.  We will miss you, but have to let you go.  We love you mom.

Thank you to Donna at Alamogordo Hospice and our friends Mark and Leanne of Alamogordo Funeral Home.

The Casias family has entrusted their loved one to the care of Alamogordo Funeral Home.

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William L Kemp - November 20, 1938 - April 01, 2022

Departed: 04/01/2022 (Alamogordo)

Obituary Preview: William L. Kemp, age 83, passed away on April 1, 2022 at his daughter's home in Alamogordo, New Mexico. He was under the care of Alamogordo Hospice. Bill was born on November 20, 1938 in Wallace, Idaho to Clifton Harold Kemp and Charlotte Lavella (Erwin) Kemp.

Bill moved to Lewiston, Idaho from Osborne, Idaho when he was 15 after his father got a job with the railroad. His first job was working as a pin setter at Kegler Bowling Alley, which he remembered fondly. After graduating from high school, Bill attended Bible School in Oregon and received an Associate's degree in Ministries. He joined the Army in 1960 and trained in San Francisco as an Operating Room (OR) technician. He was later stationed in Landsthul, Germany and then in Fort Devens, Massachusetts before serving in Vietnam at the 85th Evacuation Hospital in PhuBai.

When he returned home from Vietnam, he attended Lewis and Clark State College in Lewiston, Idaho and received an Associate's degree in nursing. While going to nursing school, he worked as an aide at St. Joseph's and when he passed his boards in 1973, he got a job working as a nurse in the OR. He remained there until he retired in 1995. After retirement, Bill worked as a massage therapist at A touch of Health, a business he founded in Lewiston. He specialized in Reiki and ortho-bionomy, and continued in these disciplines until shortly before his death.

He married Joan Yvonne Tannahill in 1957. He had three children with Joan, before divorcing. He married Constance Rae Bilby in 1978 and they later divorced. He met his third wife, Diane Louise Ropp McCann at work and it was finally the right fit. They married on January 20, 1983 and enjoyed many years of happiness until her death in 2014.

After Diane's death, Bill spent some time with his daughter in Idaho Falls and then some time with his son in Boise. He eventually settled at Affinity Living of Boise. He made many new friends and enjoyed his independence, maintaining a very busy social schedule. Bill fell ill the beginning of 2022 and was unable to live independently. His daughter was moving to Alamogordo, New Mexico and Bill moved with her and her husband.

This new adventure allowed him to get to know his great grandchildren. He loved face timing with his great granddaughter in Oregon and often bragged about how smart she was to anyone who would listen. He had a special relationship with his two grandchildren in Alamogordo and loved eating Oreos with his great grandson. While in Alamogordo, Bill was also able to participate in a Reiki group. He loved going to this group on Sundays and it brought great joy in the last month of his life.

He is survived by his three children, David L. Kemp (Carleen) of Kuna, Idaho, Duane L. Kemp (Corrinne) of Switzerland, Karla D. Patterson (Mike) of Alamogordo, NM; six grandchildren and four great grandchildren. He is preceded in death by his parents, Charlotte Lavella Kemp and Clifton H. Kemp; his brother, Eugene Harold Kemp; his wife, Diane Louise Kemp; and two stepsons, Steven McCann and Robert McCann.

Bill's family would like to extend a special thank you to the Alamogordo Hospice Team who cared for him; Kim, Sharon and Donna. Thank you for the wonderful, tender care you provided. Bill never met a stranger and will be greatly missed by those who knew him. He requested no services. Please raise a toast to his memory.

The Kemp family has entrusted their loved one to the care of Alamogordo Funeral Home.

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Josefine Maria Rauls - August 17, 1931 - March 31, 2022

Departed: 03/31/2022 (Alamogordo)

Obituary Preview: Saying goodbye is never easy and the loss of Josefine Maria (Jaeger) Rauls has been difficult for our family.  She passed away March 31, 2022 at the age of 90. She was born in Germany on August 17, 1931 to Anna and Hans Jaeger. Immediate surviving family members include her husband, Bradley Rauls; daughters, Venecia Rauls (Bryn Sahm) and Manuela Heberle; her grandchildren, Erik Heberle (Jennifer) and Tyler Rauls.

Josefine lived her life by values that include honesty, hard work, and kindness and she had a smile that was illuminating. She ran a successful daycare program from her home for many years and was beloved by the children and their families. Josefine was a wonderful mother to her two daughters, who miss her dearly. And even though we had to say goodbye, she will live on in our hearts forever.

The Rauls family has entrusted their loved one to the care of Alamogordo Funeral Home.

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Lorenza (Sister) C Gonzales - October 25, 1931 - March 30, 2022

Departed: 03/30/2022 (Alamogordo)

Obituary Preview: Lorenza (Sister) C. Gonzales, 90, Wife, Mother, Grandmother, Great Grandmother, Great-Great Grandmother went to be in the arms of Our Loving Savior on March 30, 2022.

Lorenza was born on October 25, 1931 in Alamogordo, NM to Jose and Juanita Chavez.  Lorenza met her loving husband, Santiago, in Alamogordo and they were married in 1951.  Lorenza made her home in Alamogordo/La Luz, NM and later moved to Avondale, AZ.

Lorenza loved to cook and bake for her family and friends. She babysat numerous children in their homes and at church. Throughout her life, she loved to volunteer at the Zia thrift shop.  She got her nickname “Sister” from being the oldest of 10 siblings, who she helped care for and raise.

Lorenza is survived by 4 daughters, Gloria, Terri, Carmen (Johnny), Martha (Rudy);3 sons, Santiago (Mona), Richard, Raymond (Joann); 4 sisters, Virginia (Pete), Juanie, Patsy, Lupe (Oscar); numerous grandchildren, great grandchildren, great-great grandchildren; niece, Rachael Baca; and brother-in-law, Tony Gonzales.

She was preceded in death by her husband, son and 2 grandsons.

Cremation will take place and a memorial celebration service will be held on Thursday, April 21, 2022 at Immaculate Conception Catholic Church in Alamogordo, NM. Rosary will be recited at 10:30 am with Mass to follow at 11:00 am. Burial will immediately follow the Mass at Immaculate Conception Catholic cemetery.

Pallbearers include Lorenza’s children.

Honorary Pallbearers are all of her Grandchildren.

The Gonzales family has entrusted their loved one to the care of Alamogordo Funeral Home to direct the funeral service.

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Robert I Jarvis, III - March 08, 1937 - March 29, 2022

Departed: 03/29/2022 (Alamogordo)

Obituary Preview: Robert I. Jarvis III, 85 years young, went peacefully to be with the Lord on March 29, 2022 in Alamogordo, NM. He was born on March 8, 1937 in Santa Monica, California to Robert I. Jarvis II and Mary Louise Bittleston.

Robert was a retired law enforcement officer with 31 years of service. After his retirement, Robert loved working with children with special needs and substituting at both the Alamogordo High School, and the Ruidoso high School. Robert served three years during the Korean War while in the United States Army. Later, he served 4 years in the Vietnam war while in the United States Air Force.

Survivors include his sister, Jenny Graves of NY; his wife, Rita Calixto-Jarvis of Tularosa, NM; his sons, Dokken Jarvis of Kansas and Beau Jarvis of Ruidoso, NM; his daughter, Candi Acevedo of Tucson, AZ; his stepsons, Jeremiah Ryle of Phoenix AZ, Frankie Ryle of Indianapolis, IN and Joshua Ryle of Casper, WY; eleven grandchildren: Drew Zwahlen, Daemiyn Acevedo, Sophie Ryle, Eliora Ryle, Zacharia Acevedo, Ian Ryle, Airalynn Ryle, Alek Ryle, Joshua Ryle, Ezekial Ryle, Luca Jarvis; and his great granddaughter, Eira Lynn Zwahlen.

He was preceded in death by both his parents, Robert I. Jarvis II and Mary Louise Bittleston.

Services for Robert will be held at St. Frances De Paula Catholic Church in Tularosa, NM on Friday, May 27, 2022. Rosary will be recited at 10:30 am with Mass to follow at 11:00 am with Father Patrick Montgomery, Celebrant.

Should friends desire, contributions may be made to Casa Arena Blanca Nursing Home for the elderly who have no family to help supply their basic needs: shampoo, toothpaste, after shave for men, small bottles of perfume, hair needs or nail polish for women. All of these things are small things that let them know they are still cared about. Contributions will be made in the honor of Robert I. Jarvis III.

The Jarvis family has entrusted their loved one to the care of Alamogordo Funeral Home do direct the arrangements.

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Benny O Nosbisch - July 23, 1953 - March 29, 2022

Departed: 03/29/2022 (Alamogordo)

Obituary Preview: Benny O. Nosbisch, 68, passed away March 29, 2022 in Alamogordo, New Mexico. He was born July 23, 1953 at Vance AFB, Oklahoma to Robert J. and Toshiko Nosbisch. Benny and our mother shared the same birthday.

After serving four years in the Air Force, Benny earned a degree in business from New Mexico State University. He worked various jobs until his latest one, a job he loved and cherished, and that was at the Holloman Air Force Base Chapel.

Benny was a diehard Pittsburgh Steelers fan and Oklahoma Sooners fan. He was an avid reader and a huge lover of music. Some of his favorite musicians were Jimi Hendrix, B.B. King, and Johnny Winter.

He was a quiet man with a kind heart and a good soul. He was a cancer survivor who valiantly fought through other health ailments as well. Benny was loved by all.

Benny is survived by his brothers, Bill and wife Lynda of Lebanon, TN and Bob and wife Nellie of Las Cruces, NM; his sister, Mary Fechner of Alamogordo, NM.

He is preceded in death by our father, Robert, who passed away on November 29, 2021 and our mother, Toshiko, who passed away on May 23, 2020.

A memorial service celebrating Benny’s life will be held at 2:00 pm on Thursday, April 21, 2022 at the Holloman Air Force Base Chapel.

The Nosbisch family has entrusted their loved one to the care of Alamogordo Funeral Home.

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Sharon "Sherry" LaVonne Carle - October 17, 1947 - March 28, 2022

Departed: 03/28/2022 (Alamogordo)

Obituary Preview: Sharon LaVonne Carle, 74, a lifetime resident of Alamogordo, NM passed away unexpectedly on March 28, 2022. Sherry, as she was known to her family and friends, was born on October 17, 1947 in Alamogordo, New Mexico to Harry Crandal and June LaVonne (Damewood) Carle who preceded her in death.

Sherry was the manager of the Shuttle Mini Storage facility for many years. As a member of Bethel Baptist Church, Sherry made many wonderful friends who will miss her dearly.

The Funeral Service for Sharon Carle will be held at 11:00 am, Thursday, April 21, 2022 at Bethel Baptist Church.

Graveside will follow the reception at 2:00 pm at Monte Vista Cemetery.

The Carle family has entrusted their loved one to the care of Alamogordo Funeral Home to direct the services.

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Terri Jolene Harper-Blunt - June 21, 1960 - March 27, 2022

Departed: 03/27/2022 (Alamogordo)

Obituary Preview: On March 27, 2022 Terri Jolene Harper-Blunt of Alamogordo, New Mexico gained her wings at the age of 61. She was born on June 21, 1960 in Alamogordo to James Rudy and Luanna (Collums) Harper.  Terri spent her entire life here in Alamogordo, New Mexico raised by her parents, Alonzo and Luanna McLain.

Terri worked in the family business from the age of 16 until it closed in 1996 after the death of her mother.  She embraced her many passions as a bookkeeper, doing paralegal work and volunteering for many organizations.

TJ was a fun-loving, free spirit. She loved being around her friends, enjoyed things like playing on the pool and dart leagues, doing crafts and quilting, reading books, dancing, listening to music, and spending much time outdoors, gardening (she loved plants), going to the lake, water skiing, and sitting on sandy beach taking in the view. Most of all, Terri loved her children, they were the joy that put the spark into her eyes.

Her three children and their spouses, Jami (Scott) Ostler of Mesa Arizona, Tommie Basden-Blunt (Kris) of Albuquerque, New Mexico, and Jennifer (fiancé Tyler) Harper of Portales, New Mexico survives her.

Terri Jo’s pride and joy were her grandchildren, she was an extremely proud Grammy. Her eldest grandchild, who is a Marine, Kaitlyn Rae (fiancé Spence) Ostler stationed at Camp Pendleton San Diego, California, Kayla Ralene Oster of Mesa, Arizona, Brayden Lee Roberts, Austin James McKinley, Brenna Jodel McKinley, and the newest pride, Harper Layne McKinley.        Terri Jo grew up in a close nit family with special bonds with her siblings, Kenny (Joy) McLain, Ivan Harper, Jimmy (Rhonda) Harper, Lori Ann McLain, James Rudy Harper Jr., and Kristi (Todd) McLain-Cullers.

Her Nieces and Nephews, Justin (Janel) Cole, Jamie, Jace McLain, Alonzo McClain, Johnna (Kendale) Morgan, Payson, Wyatt, Colt, Kendalen Hendrix, Tandi, Trinity, Logan Ramirez, JW (Christin) Jade, Stoker Harper, Wesley, Blaze Harper, Tristen Jolene, MalAchai, Jordan Harper, Seth (Starr) Rogers, Dillon Scott, Tammy, Chaylee, Treyson McLain, Christine, Joel, Carmela Estrada, Nicole (Joe) Timmy Smith, Chad, Conner, Makenzie, Abram, Trey, Dakota Cullers.

She was enriched in life with the relationship she had with her best friend/boyfriend, Harold Johnson. Terri loved him with her whole heart; his children, Anna (Jesus), Makenzy, Christiano Perez, Lee (Laura) Holden, Lola, Bodie Johnson, Bobby (Jacquie) Daisy, Theodore Johnson, Amber (Eddie) Chloe, Aubrey Corley, and Melissa Rood. Niece, Cherrie (Daren) Medina held a special place in her heart and she loved them  all like her own.

Terri Jo was proceeded in death by her parents, Alonzo and Luanna McLain and her husband, David R Blunt.

Pallbearers include Keith Walker, Nathan Nowell, David Guilmette, Robert Lambert, Earl (Duke) Ward, and Dan Smelser.

Honorary pallbearers are Arnel Ray Collums, Jason McCraw, David Gonzales, Kevin Cullers, Rick Arone, and Randal Collums.

Please join Terri’s family and friends in celebrating her life on March 30, 2022 at 2:00 pm at the Alamogordo Funeral Home followed burial at Monte Vista Cemetery.

Following the services, the family will receive guests at 1217 Hwy 70 West in Alamogordo, New Mexico.

The family has entrusted their loved one to the care of Alamogordo Funeral Home to direct the arrangements.

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Martzen "Mathilde" Perelas - March 29, 1968 - March 27, 2022

Departed: 03/27/2022 (Alamogordo)

Obituary Preview: Martzen “Mathilde” Perelas, 53, of Alamogordo, NM passed away surrounded by loved ones on March 27th, 2022 after an 8 year battle with colon cancer.

Mathilde was born on March 29th, 1968 to Theo and Janke Sandstra in Beverwijk, Netherlands. After graduating from high school in Leylestadt in 1987, she went on to study occupational therapy at Amersfoort and Arnhem.

In early 1990, Mathilde met John Perelas in Hilversum, Netherlands while John was stationed abroad. They immediately hit it off and married nearly 3 years later in late 1992. In 1993, she moved from the Netherlands to live with John in Newport News, Virginia. After her move to the United States, she found passion in customer service. She worked at JCPenney for a total of 16 years, most of which was spent working as a custom decorator, and had worked as Alamogordo's JCPenney store supervisor for 2 years.

Mathilde and John had their first child, Alexander, in 1995. Their second child, Katherine, was born in 1998. Mathilde was a fiercely dedicated mom and excelled at supporting her children in sports such as gymnastics and taekwondo, in extracurriculars like mathematics clubs, choir, or learning piano, and inspiring both Alexander and Katherine to pursue college education in graphic arts. Family came first and was above all else to Mathilde, a value she instilled in all those around her. The hole left by her absence is impossible to fill.

Mathilde was passionate about sewing, crotchet, and all things hands-on artistic. When she wasn’t filling her home with warmth and kindness, she could be found sewing clothing and bags to gift friends and family. We will miss her greatly.

Mathilde was preceded in death by her father, Theo Sandstra. She is survived by her husband John Perelas, her children Alexander and Katherine Perelas, her mother Janke Sandstra, her brother Jaccob Sandstra, and Jacob's children Maike, Wouter, Tine, and Nanne Sandstra.

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Antonio "Tony" Garcia - March 20, 1967 - March 27, 2022

Departed: 03/27/2022 (Alamogordo)

Obituary Preview: Antonio "Tony" Garcia of Alamogordo, Age 55, born on March 20, 1967 went to join the Lord March 27, 2022. Tony was a great man, a loving son, a supportive brother, amazing uncle, and a true friend. If you knew him, you loved him. He was funny, kind, and had a very Godly spirit.

Tony was survived by his mother, Romana Chavez (whom he loved dearly); his 4 siblings, Lulu Hernandez, Annette Gonzales, Bernadette Martinez, and Ray Chavez. Tony had about 18 nieces and nephews he loved dearly as if they were his own and MANY great nieces and nephews he loved just as much, if not more.

He was proceeded in death by his father, Junie Garcia; stepfather, Mark Guilez; sister, Yvonne Telles; nephew, Adolph Chavez Jr.; and great nephew, Dakota Bullock. This man will be missed daily... May you fly high and forever watch over us all!!

The Garcia family has entrusted their loved one to the care of Alamogordo Funeral Home.

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Orlando Armijo - November 12, 1938 - March 25, 2022

Departed: 03/25/2022 (Alamogordo)

Obituary Preview: Orlando Armijo, 83, passed away on March 25, 2022 in Alamogordo, New Mexico. He was born on November 12, 1938 in Bosquecito, New Mexico to Frank and Izadora (Gonzales) Armijo.

Survivors include his wife, Lourdes Armijo; his two daughters, Judy Ford of Alamogordo, NM and Joann Moore of Ofallon, IL; his son, Orlando Armijo, Jr. of Albuquerque, NM.

He was preceded in death by his mother, Izadora Armijo and  father, Frank Armijo; his three sons, Richard Armijo, Paul Armijo and David Armijo.The family will greet friends from 9:30 am to 10:30 am on April 7, 2022 at Immaculate Conception Catholic Church.

The Vigil with Rosary for Orlando Armijo will be recited at 10:30 am, Thursday, April 7, 2022 at Immaculate Conception Catholic Church. Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 11:00 am, Thursday, April 7, 2022 at Immaculate Conception Catholic Church with Father Emmanuel Stephen, Celebrant.

Burial will take place at 1:30 pm on Wednesday, April 13, 2022 at Fort Bliss National Cemetery.

Pallbearers include Michael Moore, Orlando Armijo, Jr., Orlando Armijo III, Abran Sarate, Brandon Goetsch, Patrick Ford, and Timothy Ford.

The Armijo family has entrusted their loved one to the care of Alamogordo Funeral Home to direct the funeral services.

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Sharon Jane Pomrenke - Unknown - March 25, 2022

Departed: 03/25/2022 (Alamogordo)

Obituary Preview: Sharon Jane Pomrenke, passed away on Friday, March 25th, 2022 at her home in Alamogordo, NM.

Sharon is survived by her son, Michael Spencer and his wife Jennifer; grandchildren, Alexis and Andrew; and brother, Walter White. She is also survived by an extended family which includes: Aunt Beatrice (Mom) and Uncle Jack (Dad), Aunt Estella and Uncle Steve, Aunt Magdalena, and cousins Becky, Mandy, and Jay.

Sharon was preceded in death by her husband, Keith R Pomrenke and her mother, Georgia (Hernandez) White.

Sharon served many years in the Army. She was a NASCAR enthusiast, a great fan of the Chicago Cubs, and had a fondness for her many dogs. Sharon will be deeply missed by all who loved her.

Interment will be a private family service.

The Spencer family has entrusted their loved one to the care of Alamogordo Funeral Home to direct the arrangements.

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Helen M Lueras - September 27, 1941 - March 23, 2022

Departed: 03/23/2022 (Alamogordo)

Obituary Preview: Helen M. Lueres, 80, passed away peacefully on March 23, 2022 in Alamogordo, New Mexico. She was born on September 27, 1941 in Carrizozo, New Mexico to Benny and Virginia Swan Moya.

Helen married the love of her life, David Aragon Lueras, in June 1960 in Carrozozo, NM.  Helen was a homemaker and a wonderful wife, mother and grandmother. She was a great caretaker and cook, always cooking for anyone who came to visit.  Helen loved her family very much.  She will be missed dearly.

Helen is survived by one daughter, Elizabeth Porras and husband Tony; two sons, Rudy Lueras and wife Ana and Christopher Lueras all of Alamogordo, NM. She is survived by grandchildren, Sarah, Monica, Regina, DeAna, Anthony David, Bella, Selena, Amanda, Callentano, Cathy, Leticia, and Felicity; great grandchildren, Angel, Amalia, Miniya, Sanai, Helena, Avion, A'maris, Rudy, Nevaeh, Elijah, Lilliana, Olivia, Josiah, Angel Ray, Julian, Nadine, Jacob, Marissa, Alberto Jr., Santos, Corona, Gabriela, and Fabian; great-great grandchildren, Jose, Ezallaya, Zaileanna, Joseph, Tru, and one due in September.  Helen is also survived by one sister, MaryLee Zamora of Carrizozo, NM; one brother, Ray Moya of Albuquerque, NM; and many nieces, nephews and cousins.

She was preceded in death by her husband, David Lueras; one daughter, Veronica Lueras; father, Benny Moya; mother, Virginia Jaurequi; and stepfather, Speedy Jaurequi.

Pallbearers include Arthur Myrick, Robert Dickerson, Jaime Moreno, Jose Barrientos, Odie Stogden, and Carlos Chavez.

Honorary Pallbearers are Benny Zamora and Adam Clair.

The family will greet friends from 9:30 am to 10:30 am on Friday, April 1, 2022, at Immaculate Conception Catholic Church.

The Vigil with Rosary for Helen Lueras will be recited at 10:30 am, Friday, April 1, 2022 at Immaculate Conception Catholic Church. Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 11:00 am, Friday, April 1, 2022 at Immaculate Conception Catholic Church with Father Martin Cornejo, Celebrant.

Burial will follow at Immaculate Conception Catholic Cemetery.

Should friends desire, contributions may be made to the Alamogordo Funeral Home. The Lueras family has entrusted their loved one to the care of Alamogordo Funeral Home to direct the funeral

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Dean Anders Chambers - August 09, 1932 - March 23, 2022

Departed: 03/23/2022 (Alamogordo)

Obituary Preview: Dean Anders Chambers was born August 9, 1932 in Minneapolis, MN to Dean Adam Chambers and Myrtle Berne Chambers.

Dean is survived by his wife Gay; his three children, Darell Chambers (Stella), Lisa Chambers and Cheryl Chambers Waugh (Brian); his two grandsons, Derek (Erin) and Dylan; and one great granddaughter, Emeri.   Dean served in the United States Air Force in Korea, Vietnam and during the Cold War with it's Cuban Missile Crisis retiring in 1967.

Dean was hired by TWA in 1965 during this time he served as Captain on the Lockheed Constellation, 707, 727, 747, and L1011 retiring in 1987.  He moved to The Bahamas in the mid 60’s making Freeport and Abaco his home.  He met and married his wife of 45 years Gay in 1978 on an airplane. Dean was active in Bahamas Air Sea Rescue and Volunteer Fire Department in Hope Town, Abaco and was also very active in the volunteer fire service in the canyon he called home.

In 1995 he and Gay hit the road and traveled all over the U.S. and Canada in their RV, enjoying life to the fullest.  When the time came to put down roots again, they made their home in the mountains near Cloudcroft, NM.

Dean was a Master Mason and Shriner, believing fully in the work they do for others. He was initiated into the Order of the Eastern Star at Tularosa Basin #72, Tularosa, NM in February of 2008.  He served his chapter as Worthy Patron 5 times 3 of those with his wife Gay as Worthy Matron.

Dean was preceded in death by his parents and infant son, Dean.

Dean passed peacefully from this life on March 23, 2022.

A Memorial Service for Dean will be held at 11:00 am, Wednesday, March 30, 2022 at the Masonic Lodge.

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Gordon James Booth - June 28, 1947 - March 19, 2022

Departed: 03/19/2022 (Alamogordo)

Obituary Preview: Gordon James Booth, 74, of Alamogordo passed away on Saturday, March 19, 2022 at his home. He was born on June 28, 1947 in Washington, D.C. to Gordon Oliver and Evelyn Virginia (Stansbury) Booth.

Gordon was an Army "brat" and lived in many different places, including France, as a child. He moved to Ft. Meade, Maryland with his family where he met and married his wife, Joanne Bird Fowler, of Annapolis in 1972. They moved to New Mexico in September 1973 living in Three Rivers, Dog Canyon and eventually, Alamogordo.

Gordon worked many years for the City of Alamogordo with the Street Department. He medically retired following several strokes which restricted greatly the things he loved doing. He was an outdoorsman; hunting, shooting, hiking, and camping were his favorite hobbies.

Gordon is survived by his wife, Joanne of the family home; his children, Amy Ragan, Kristin Butson, Melanie Gilmore (Clint), James Booth, and Jennifer Hougon (Joel) all of Alamogordo. He leaves behind 14 grandchildren and 7 great grandchildren. Gordon is also survived by two sisters, Carolyn Olds and Irene Gulikers both of Phoenix Arizona; his former sister-in-law, Nancy Wahler of El Paso, Texas; and former son-in-law, Sam Butson of Alamogordo.

He was preceded in death by his parents; his stepmother, Ethel Bird Booth; and his brother, Thomas Wahler.

Following cremation, a celebration of life will be held at 2:00 pm, Friday, Aprit 1, 2022 at Alamogordo Funeral Home on First Street with Pastor Leroy Copeland officiating. Family will receive friends from 1:00 pm to 2:00 pm at Alamogordo Funeral Home.

Should friends desire, memorial contributions may be made to the Resource Closet at Kids, Inc. Child Advocacy Center, 1108 Cuba Avenue, Alamogordo, NM 88310.

The Booth family has entrusted their loved one to the care of Alamogordo Funeral Home to direct the services.

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Louis Chavez - October 06, 1974 - March 19, 2022

Departed: 03/19/2022 (Alamogordo)

Obituary Preview: Louis Chavez, age 47, passed away in his family home on Saturday, March 19, 2022. Louie was born on October 6, 1974 to his mother, Minerva Aragon and father, Louie Chavez; his upbringing included the help of his Aunt Angie Aragon, Minerva Aragon and his stepfather, Charlie Hurlbut. He is preceded in death by his father, Louie Chavez; grandparents, Patricio and Gavina Aragon, Louis C Chavez and Leonila L Chavez; many aunts, uncles, and cousins. He always surrounded himself with his family and friends which he loved and felt most comfortable with.

He is survived by his son, Abraham Chavez and daughter, Eliana Chavez; his mother, Minerva Aragon and stepfather, Charlie Hurlbut; brothers, Ricky Velastegui (Veronica) and Louis Chavez III; sisters, Bridget (Tifany) Aragon, Charlie Angel (Chachi) Hurlbut, Corine Donalson (Brad), nephews Jason, Bradley, Anthony, Logan, Romello, Nalu, and Koa; nieces, Taylor, Izabel, Shaylee, Ariel, Noelani, and Bella; and a great niece, Melanie Mona; stepmother, Ramona Lewis; stepbrother, Alfred Lewis; stepsister, Grace Lewis-Nagamine. He also had lots of aunts, uncles, and cousins. We know that God is happy to have one of His generous and kind angels back in his arms. He will be missed by all his family and friends.

Louie was a family man who loved his family above everything. He loved life and lived it to the fullest. He made friends with people everywhere he went and always left an impression. Louie was a hard worker and cared for everyone around him. He loved making people around him laugh. He loved WOMEN, bike rally’s, fishing, the beach, skulls, music, drinking, walking, his Cadillac, motorcycle, movies, sweets, tattoos, traveling, video games, building and fixing things, and WOMEN. What a legacy, what a life. I invite each of you to keep Louie alive in your hearts. We were each touched by his presence and we are better because of that. Thank you for being here and for making Louie’s life so meaningful. Everyone here is lucky to have known Louie. I know Louie is with us today and smiling at the beautiful memories we’ve shared. On behalf of Louie and his family, thank you. If anyone would like to share some memories, please come forward at this time. Help us to celebrate the life of Louie Chavez, Saturday, March 26, 2022, 2 pm-3 pm Memorial Service with Pastor Anthony Torres at the Alamogordo Funeral Home, 2301 First Street, Alamogordo NM 88310

Reception to follow service at 4:45 pm at Johnny Carino’s, 260 Panorama Blvd, Alamogordo NM 88310.

The Chavez family has entrusted their loved one to the care of Alamogordo Funeral Home to direct the services.

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Judy Virginia Mooney Vann - March 12, 1949 - March 18, 2022

Departed: 03/18/2022 (Alamogordo)

Obituary Preview: Judy Virginia Mooney Vann, 73, passed away on March 18, 2022 in Alamogordo, New Mexico. She was born on March 12, 1949 in Helena, Arkansas to Vera Allen Mooney and Harvey Wallace Mooney. Judy was a loving grandma to her grandchildren and she adored her husband and her daughter. Judy was a fighter for her husband and she is now peacefully by his side. He said “Daughter, your faith has healed you. Go in peace and be freed from your suffering.” - Mark 5:34

Judy was sent to a special training school for her high school years. There she met Lelan Vann who was there for rehab after a car accident. Later when Lee returned to High Rolls, NM, Judy's mother accompanied her to NM to marry Lee. That marriage lasted over fifty years.

Judy was a very good many things which were the result of her strong will and determination to be independent. She was a Baptist and a born again Christian. She was humble, loving and generous person. One of her favorite phrases was, "you got that right".   Judy is preceded in death by her mother, Vera Lou Mooney; father, Bill Mooney, husband, Lelain Ivan Vann; brother and sister-in-law, Jimmie W and Sue Mooney; stepfather, William C Moore; grandparents, E.V. and Winnie Manning Allen, and Thomas Sylvester and Loretta Wooten Mooney.    Survivors include her daughter, Tracy Ann Northern; grandchildren, Danielle Lee Ann Robledo, David Cates and Brendan Lee Northern; great grandchildren, Audrey Northern, Rio Lee Northern and Khaosity Northern; son-in-law, Terry Cross; three sisters, Linda Mooney Little (Jim) of Memphis, TN, Betty Mooney Burns of Warren, AR, Alice Mooney Hochdorf (Norman) of Fort Worth, TX, and Catherine Mooney Wilson (Douglas) of El Dardo, AR; as well as numerous nieces, nephews and cousins.   The family will greet friends from 11:00 am to 12:00 pm on Wednesday, April 6, 2022 at the Alamogordo Funeral Home.

The funeral service for Judy Vann will be held at 12:00 pm, Wednesday, April 6, 2022 at the Alamogordo Funeral Home with Pastor Steven Fambrough officiating.

Burial will follow at Monte Vista Cemetery.   Pallbearers include David Cates, Brendan Northern, Rio Northern, David Vann, Bernard Millhouse, and Carrol Vann    The Vann family has entrusted their loved one to the care of Alamogordo Funeral Home to direct the funeral services.

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Heather Fanning - May 31, 1975 - March 17, 2022

Departed: 03/17/2022 (Alamogordo)

Obituary Preview: Heather Fanning, 46, of Alamogordo went to be with our Lord on March 17, 2022.   Heather was born on May 31, 1975 in Cleveland, OH to Elizabeth Timm and Will Fanning. She was a fun and mischievous child who enjoyed spending time with her 3 siblings - Bryan, Stuart, and Maureen. As a teenager, she moved in with her aunt and uncle, Monica (Timm) and Tony Hunter, and cousins Dawn (Hunter) D'Amico and Anthony Hunter, Jr. in New Mexico, and spent the rest of her life in Otero County. Heather loved her Aunt Monica so much that she named her first born daughter after her, who quickly became known as Lil Monica. Heather also had a son, Eugene, who definitely had his mother's mischievous spirit as a child, and was named after our Grandpa Timm.   Heather did many things in her life, and one of those was being a caregiver. This makes perfect sense to those who knew her - she was the epitome of kindness, caring, and selflessness. She was also fiercely loyal and would do anything for the people she cared about. You could always count on Heather to get a Christmas gift for you, even if she could barely afford it. If you were visiting from out of town, she would go out of her way to come by and say hi. Heather would never say no when asked for a favor. Heather also supported her daughter, Monica, and son-in-law, Cesar Martinez, in running their business, Ceezy F Tacos. She adored her grandchildren, Antavious and Maria. As she said “They are my life.”    Heather was preceded in death by her mother, Elizabeth (Alan) Kuchinsky; her uncle, Tony Hunter; and her beloved sister and friend, Maureen Adams.  She is survived by her brothers, Bryan (Jennifer) Fanning and Stuart (Rachel) Fanning; children, Monica (Cesar) Martinez, Eugene (Kristy) Fanning; grandchildren, Antavious and Maria Martinez; her aunt, Monica Hunter; and a whole army of nieces, nephews, cousins, aunts, and uncles who will miss her beyond words. The world is a worse place for losing someone like Heather.   Join Heather's family and friends in celebrating her life with Rosary at 10:30 am followed by Funeral Ceremony at 11:00 am on Saturday, March 26, 2022 at The Scenic chapel 1334 N Scenic Dr in Alamogordo.

Following services, the family will receive guests at Ceezy F Tacos, 200 Cuba Ave.

The Fanning family has entrusted their loved one to the care of Alamogordo Funeral Home to direct the funeral services.

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David William Dodgen - May 27, 1933 - March 17, 2022

Departed: 03/17/2022 (Alamogordo)

Obituary Preview: David William Dodgen, a 30 year resident of Oak Knoll Ranch near Cloudcroft, New Mexico passed away on March 17, 2022 at the family home. He was born May 27 1933, in Amarillo, Texas. He is the son of David Louis and Eleanor Anna Lange Dodgen. His childhood was spent on a wheat farm near Groom, Texas. He later moved to a Navajo reservation for two years and then to Salida, Colorado where he attended Salida High School. Dave attended the University of Colorada, Boulder campus where he received a B.S. in Engineering Physics. His first job was as a solar observer in Climax Colorado.

Dave married Mary Hartzell in Taos, New Mexico and they went on to have seven children. He later married Judith Burger at the Chapel of the Holy Dove near Flagstaff. Arizona with whom he spent the last 40 years.

Dave was a man of many talents and loved adventure. He built the family home in Flagstaff and continued building projects throughout his life. He taught his love of hiking and backpacking to his children. He and Judy had many adventures in the wilderness areas of the southwest.

Dave was a pioneer in the field of optics. While at Perkin Elmer in the early 1960's, he was the chief optician on the largest telescope in the world at the time. It is still in service. He helped train the Apollo astronauts for the moon landings while at USGS in Flagstaff. He later ran his own optics company. The last 30 years of his life were spent with Judy at the ranch where he was a gentleman farmer and rancher.

Dave is preceded in death by his parents, several siblings and a grandson, Nathan.

He is survived by his wife and his seven children, Betsy (Dan), David (Sue), Rodney (Mindy) Andrew (Mary), Devon (Imelda), Patrick (Susan), and Dr. Daniel. He is also survived by 24 grandchildren, 37 great grandchildren, and one great-great grandchild.

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The Alamogordo Funeral Home facility is designed to offer comfort in a serene setting. From spacious visitation rooms and chapels to more intimate spaces for quieter reflection, every corner of the funeral home is maintained to provide solace. Understanding that different families have different needs, the funeral home also offers amenities such as a reception room for gatherings after the service, ample parking, and accessibility features to ensure all guests are accommodated.

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Alamogordo Funeral Home's dedication is not limited to the boundaries of their establishment. As an integral part of the Alamogordo, NM, community, they extend beyond the services of a traditional funeral home. Engagement in community events, support for local causes, and partnerships with other service providers ensure a supportive network that reinforces their commitment to serving the families of Alamogordo and the surrounding areas in a comprehensive manner.

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The staff at Alamogordo Funeral Home are trained to handle all aspects of the funeral arrangements meticulously. The journey begins from the moment of first contact, through the coordination of services, to final follow-ups after the conclusion of the funeral. They help navigate the complexities of paperwork, legal requirements, and logistical arrangements, reducing the burden on grieving families. Their expertise provides peace of mind that every detail has been addressed with due attention and care.

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Understanding that grief continues beyond the day of the funeral service, Alamogordo Funeral Home provides ongoing support and resources for bereavement. This may include referrals to support groups, providing literature on coping with loss, and being available for counsel. Their commitment to families extends into the weeks and months following a service, ensuring that no one feels alone during their journey of grief.

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More individuals are recognizing the value in planning their own funeral arrangements in advance. Pre-planning with Alamogordo Funeral Home provides an opportunity to make personal wishes known, relieve future emotional burden on loved ones, and address financial components in a manageable way. Their staff are adept at discussing these options and can help individuals and families establish plans that suit their wishes and alleviate future stress.

At Alamogordo Funeral Home, the convergence of compassion, tradition, and innovation offers a framework for honoring loved ones in the most respectful and memorable way. They welcome those who are in immediate need and those who are considering pre-planning to reach out and discover how their services can provide comfort, assurance, and a dignified farewell to those who have passed. With each act of service, Alamogordo Funeral Home reaffirms their commitment to being a trusted companion to the Alamogordo community in the realm of funeral services.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an Obituary?

An obituary is a written notice of someone's death, commonly published in a newspaper or online. It serves to inform the public and celebrate the life of the deceased, often including a brief biography, details about the family, funeral or memorial service arrangements, and special messages from loved ones.

How does an obituary differ from a death notice?

A death notice is typically a shorter announcement focusing on the bare facts of the death, such as the name of the deceased, date of death, and time of the funeral or memorial service. An obituary is more detailed and includes a biography, achievements, and personal anecdotes.

Who writes an obituary?

Obituaries are often written by family members or close friends of the deceased. Sometimes, if pre-planned by the person who has passed away, they might write their own obituary. Occasionally, newspaper staff or professional obituary writers are commissioned to write an obituary.

What should be included in an obituary?

An obituary should generally include the full name of the deceased, their age at death, date and place of birth, date and cause of death (if the family wishes to include it), a brief account of their life, career, passions, and achievements, names of surviving family members, details of the funeral or memorial service, any preferred charities for donations, and possibly a photograph.

Should an obituary include the cause of death?

Including the cause of death in an obituary is at the discretion of the family. While some may choose to share this detail to provide closure or inform about a public health concern, others may prefer to keep it private. There is no obligation to disclose the cause of death.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary widely. It can be a brief notice or a lengthy account of the deceased's life. This is often influenced by the space limitations of the publication it will appear in and the costs associated with longer obituaries.

Where is an obituary published?

Obituaries are traditionally published in local newspapers, but can also be found on various online platforms, including social media, dedicated memorial sites, and the websites of funeral homes.

Are there different types of obituaries?

Yes, there are typically two types of obituaries: traditional obituaries that are more formal and fact-based, and life story obituaries that are narrative and share personal stories and memories of the deceased.

Can I include a picture in an obituary?

Yes, you can include a picture in an obituary. Most publications allow for a photograph to accompany the text, which helps readers to visually connect with the person being remembered.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary can vary widely depending on the publication, length, and inclusion of a photograph. Some are free, while others might charge a fee based on the number of words or amount of space the obituary occupies.

What is the importance of an obituary?

An obituary serves as an important way to publicly acknowledge the loss of a loved one, to celebrate their life, legacy, and the impact they made on others. It also helps to inform friends, acquaintances, and the community about the details of the funeral or memorial services.

Can an obituary be published after the funeral?

Yes, an obituary can be published after the funeral services. While it is common to publish an obituary before the services to notify potential attendees, some families choose to publish a post-funeral notice as a tribute or to reach those who may not have been informed before the event.

Should children and relatives be listed in an obituary?

It is customary to list immediate family members such as spouses, children, siblings, and parents in an obituary, as well as mention significant relatives. However, it is ultimately up to the family to decide which names to include.

Are there templates available for writing an obituary?

Many funeral homes, websites, and publications offer templates or guidelines for writing an obituary. These can serve as helpful starting points, especially for someone unfamiliar with the process.

Can an obituary be updated after it is published?

In some cases, particularly online obituaries, updates can be made post-publication. Physical newspapers may not offer this flexibility, and instead, a follow-up or correction notice may need to be published if significant errors are spotted or changes are required.

What happens to online obituaries over time?

Online obituaries can remain on the internet indefinitely, especially those on dedicated memorial websites or social media tributes. They serve as lasting memorials where people can revisit and even continue to post messages and share memories years after someone has passed away.

Can an obituary be written for someone who passed away a long time ago?

Yes, families or friends can choose to write and publish an obituary for someone who passed away a long time ago. This could be a way to honor them on an anniversary of their death or to belatedly inform a wider community of their passing.

How can one personalize an obituary?

To personalize an obituary, include anecdotes, specific achievements, personal interests, and elements of the deceased’s personality. Quotes or poetry that were meaningful to the person, or stories that reflect their spirit and character, also add a personal touch.

Is it acceptable to ask for charitable donations in an obituary?

Yes, it is quite common to request that, in lieu of flowers, donations be made to a specific charity that was significant to the deceased. This can be a meaningful way to honor their memory and support a cause they were passionate about.

Can friends write an obituary if the family is unable to?

Certainly, friends can write an obituary if the family is unable or unwilling to do so. It's important that the obituary be written and published with respect and sensitivity to the feelings and wishes of the family.

What is the process for submitting an obituary to a newspaper or website?

To submit an obituary, contact the publication or website for their submission guidelines, which may require the obituary to be sent via email or a submission form. There is often a deadline, and they may require proof of death, such as a death certificate or the funeral home’s contact information. Proofread the obituary carefully before submitting it.